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Speaker 1: Here's Stephen Shirley. I am a wife and a mother

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Speaker 1: My husband has made it clear that he does not

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Speaker 1: I've already beat his behind? Should I beat hers? Too?

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Speaker 1: if you do beat her behind, Since you beat his behind,

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Speaker 1: She's throwing her affair with your man up in your face. Uh.

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Speaker 1: You have forgiven your husband and taken him back. Uh.

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Speaker 1: So what is he doing to stop all of this?

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Speaker 1: He just reaping the benefits that, you know, he slid

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Speaker 1: that you know now that you've taken him in, he's

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Speaker 1: you missed a piece of information here, Darling. She said

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Speaker 1: contacting him, so he don't even know about all this. Well,

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Speaker 1: he knew he slept with her, he knew he had anywhere.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get into that, admit which it makes you

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Speaker 1: to hold him responsible for all this, So nothing he

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Speaker 1: Your scripture was to forgive people the way that Christ

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Speaker 1: because you're getting in jail. The group just saying, now,

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Speaker 1: because it's easy. It's easy. It's easy to have a church, sister. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: in there, sister, Bernice Ferguson is a cheetah. A home

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Speaker 1: social media, she'll stop. She can't stop all in post,

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Speaker 1: see going on her face, find all her friends. Now

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Speaker 1: you're sending everything to her friends. God, have this happened

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm on tabloids. I'm on the grocery store.

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Speaker 1: You ain't got it. You go get email. You go

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Speaker 1: Just want a candy by mine? Seen your face? You

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Speaker 1: got open up your damn Facebook. Just he just off

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Speaker 1: the huck. Anybody did that to me on social media?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna stump that hell of what I see it, sista, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm not mad if she does that. You ain't group?

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Speaker 1: I read it back to you. If you don't want

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