1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, works, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,799 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVFM and click 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: We could be reading your letter live on the air. 6 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: Just like we're going to read this one right here, 7 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: right now, and you never know, it could be yours. 8 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Bugle up and hold on time. 9 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew. Subject trying to get. 11 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: Through the holidays. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in love with 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: another man, and I just need to make it through 13 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: the holidays with my current boyfriend so I can dump 14 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: him and get with the new guy. But I need 15 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: your advice before I let a sure thing go and 16 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: move on to a fairy tale lover. I don't want 17 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: to leave my current boyfriend just yet, because he is 18 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 1: getting my brakes fixed on my car and he's getting 19 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: me a bracelet that I want for Christmas. I already 20 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: saw it hiding in his drawer, so I'm doing all 21 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: I can to stay faithful until the new ye. My 22 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: new man is in a similar situation, but he's married. 23 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: He advised me to stay put while he lets his 24 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: marriage fizzle on out. He and his wife don't have 25 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: any children, so he can make a clean break. We've 26 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: been looking at apartments together, but I told him we 27 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: might be moving too soon by choosing to move in together. 28 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: I agree that I will put the apartment and all 29 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: of the utilities in my name until his divorce is finalized. 30 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 1: I told my sister about my excitement over the new guy, 31 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: and she wanted to meet him, but he said it's 32 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: best to not invite family into our messed up situation until. 33 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 2: He's out of his marriage. 34 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: My sister took that as a bad sign that he's 35 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: going to have me staying in an apartment all by myself, 36 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: and he's going to come over and have sex with 37 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: me and go right back to his wife. I don't 38 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: think that's the case, because this guy is the one 39 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: that initiated everything. He pursued me and told me I 40 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: deserve to be treated like a queen. Meanwhile, my boyfriend 41 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: is not take me out anymore, and he never wants 42 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: to have sex. All he does is ask me to 43 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: be patient with him because he's working on a master 44 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: plan for us. It's been three years and he's not 45 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: even ready to live together. Do I start with my 46 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: prince or stay with this bump? 47 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 2: All right? 48 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 1: I know we've said this before about a lot of 49 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: strawberry letters, but I think this is one of the 50 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: truly dumbest letters we've had. 51 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 2: And I hope the men that. 52 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: Are listening don't think all women are like this, because 53 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: we are not. It's wrong what you're doing to your 54 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: current boyfriend, who doesn't take you out anymore, who doesn't 55 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: want to have sex with you. Maybe he knows about 56 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: the man that you have, this married man. I just say, 57 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: if you don't want your boyfriend, let him go. You 58 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: ask for advice about leaving your current boyfriend before you 59 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: let a sure thing go. 60 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 2: And here it is. 61 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: I mean, he said he's just waiting for his marriage 62 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: to fizzle out. 63 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 2: I mean, do you hear how stupid that sounds. 64 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: There's no end date, no nothing, no papers in the works, nothing. 65 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: Then you volunteer to put the apartment and all of 66 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,399 Speaker 1: the utilities in your name. Now, why would you do that? 67 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: Why would you do that for a man who's married. 68 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: You said he pursued you and said you should be 69 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 1: treated like a queen. Well, yes you should, we all should, 70 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: but this is not queen treatment. A queen wouldn't accept 71 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: any of this mess. There are way too many red 72 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: flags here. Your sister saw them right away when he 73 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: said he didn't want to meet her until he got 74 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: out of his marriage. That sounded like a cop out 75 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: to her, but not to you. You are still making 76 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: excuses for him. Listen, this married man is gonna do 77 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: just what your sister said. If he's that into you, 78 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: then then why not get out of his marriage? Then 79 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: get with you, and you should back off until he 80 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: gets out of his marriage. You're talking about making all 81 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: these moves and he's not available. Okay, he is not 82 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: available for you to do this right now, so don't 83 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: do it. 84 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 3: Steve. 85 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 2: I'm so ciious. 86 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 4: I'm tired, I'm tied. I'm gonna just tell y'all right now, 87 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 4: after I do this strawberry letter, I'm gonna go in 88 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 4: there and lay down. You know, I'm because I'm tired. 89 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:21,799 Speaker 4: I don't I don't know what to keep telling y'all. 90 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 4: I don't know why y'all keep trying me. But today today, 91 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 4: though today ain't today, I ain't the one fault today 92 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 4: let's just get into it. I'm telling you nothing but 93 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 4: raw raw truth, ain w truth. I'm in love with 94 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 4: another man, Okay. I just need to make it through 95 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 4: the holidays with my current boyfriend so I can dump 96 00:04:55,360 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 4: him and get with the new guy. This letter got 97 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 4: stupid rode on it so far, because right now we're 98 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 4: just talking about a boyfriend. This ain't even a marriage, 99 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 4: and I can dump him to get the new guy. 100 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 4: But I need your advice and hear where I come 101 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 4: here at before I let a sure thing go and 102 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 4: move on to a fairy tale level. So we gonna 103 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 4: let go of the sure thing to go to the 104 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 4: fairy tale level. But let's find out a little bit 105 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 4: about this show thing in this fairy tale level. I 106 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 4: don't want to leave. Listen to this reason right here. 107 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 4: I don't want to leave my carent boyfriend just yet 108 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 4: because he's getting my breaks fixed on my car and 109 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 4: he give me a bracelet I want for Christmas. I'll 110 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 4: be damn. Your damn whole life is hanging on some 111 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 4: breaks and a bracelet. You done put your life on 112 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 4: hold so you can get some breaks and a bracelet. 113 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you right now, you ain't worth a damn. 114 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 4: I'm just gonna tell you that you're not. You are 115 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 4: so cheap. You were a set of breaks and a bracelet. 116 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 3: Girl. 117 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 4: I already saw it hiding in this drawer. So I'm 118 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 4: doing all I can to be stay faithful until the 119 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 4: new year. 120 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 2: You're gonna ride it out. 121 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 4: You're gonna stay faithful for the embraceleting breaks. That's all 122 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 4: it take to be and b breaking bracelet boyfriend, break. 123 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: Through the bees. 124 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 125 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the subject of today's strawberry letter, 126 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: trying to get through the holidays. 127 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 2: We'll get back into this right after this. 128 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 3: The Salvation Army Love gives beyond situation and season. While 129 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: lights are sparkling and temperatures are dropping, you can be 130 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 3: the different friends for a family in need right in 131 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 3: your local community. 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By donating twenty 134 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 3: five dollars a month at Salvation ARMYUSA dot org, help 135 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 3: a neighbor in need through the holidays and beyond. 136 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 137 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: The subject is trying to get through the holidays. 138 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 4: This ignorant strawberry letter is about a woman is trying 139 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 4: to get through the straw trying to get through the 140 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 4: holidays because she in love with another man, but she 141 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 4: don't want to leave her boyfriend yet because she can't 142 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 4: dump him just yet, because she need advice. But now 143 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 4: she say, before I let a sure thing go and 144 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 4: move on to a fairy tale level here why she 145 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 4: don't want to leave her current boyfriend ready? Cause he 146 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 4: getting my breaks fixed on my car and he gonna 147 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 4: get me a bracelet I want for Christmas. That is Hey, 148 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 4: y'all out there, that's got realized, how many y'all willing 149 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 4: to hold your life for a break job in a bracelet? 150 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 4: How many of y'all in they delay your happiness and 151 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 4: what you really want over some breaks. Probably just need 152 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:18,239 Speaker 4: some new pants at a bracelet. Already saw it hiding 153 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 4: in this drawer, So I'm doing all I can to 154 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 4: stay faithful until the new year. It was just laying 155 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 4: in the drawer. It wasn't in a box or nothing. 156 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 4: Your bracelet hot, that's a hot bracelet if your drawers 157 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 4: just laying in the drawers. You don't see it in 158 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 4: no velvet box or nothing. Your bracelet hot. He just 159 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 4: got that out the pawn shopping. When they find it, 160 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 4: they gonna take your bracelet from. My new man is 161 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 4: in a similar situation, but he married. Thister got done, 162 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 4: Wow breaks bracelets break up and boyfrid and the folk bees. 163 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 4: Here we go. My new man is in a similar situation, 164 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 4: but he married. He advised me to stay put while 165 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 4: he lets his marriage fizzle own out. What what do 166 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 4: that mean? 167 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: What does that mean? 168 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 4: I'm gonna let my marriage fizzle on out? Girl? This 169 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 4: ain't a birthday coundle. You can't just wait till your 170 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 4: marriage fizzle out. This ain't one of them sparkles we 171 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 4: used to have when we was kids. You know you lighting, 172 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 4: you waving around till it fizzle out. 173 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 2: This is marriage. This ain't no damn fire cracker. 174 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 4: This is marriage. He can't just let it fizzle out. 175 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 4: He got to go to court and they got something 176 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 4: for your little fizzle out ass playing. I can tell 177 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 4: you that right now, I've been dying. Now talk about 178 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 4: you gonna let it fizzle out. They finna help your 179 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 4: ass out, is what they Finn, do this fit the cost? 180 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 4: This ain't you don't let marriage fizzle out. He and 181 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 4: his wife don't have any children, so he can make 182 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 4: a clean break. 183 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 2: What what did. 184 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 4: You say you think? Because ain't no kids involved, you 185 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 4: can make a clean break. 186 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 3: Girl. Bye. 187 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 4: We've been looking at apartments together, but I told him 188 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,680 Speaker 4: we might be moving too soon by choosing to move 189 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 4: in together. He not moving in with you. All y'all 190 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 4: been doing is looking at apartments. He can't move in 191 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 4: with you because the marriage ain't fizzled. Our check, it's 192 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:38,839 Speaker 4: still sparkling. Show dumb self. I agreed that I will 193 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 4: put the apartment in all the utilities in my name 194 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 4: until his divorce is finalized. They're gonna stay in your 195 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 4: name even if he do get a divorce. 196 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 2: Who who switched? 197 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 4: Who? Switched names on apartments and electric bills and all that? Girl, 198 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 4: I can't believe you this signat I told my sister 199 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 4: about my excitement over the new guy, and she wanted 200 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 4: to meet me. But he said it's best not to 201 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 4: invite family into our messed up situation. That's a true 202 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 4: statement until he's out of his marriage. My sister took 203 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 4: that as a bad sign. Your sister stupid too. She 204 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,719 Speaker 4: took the fact that he didn't want to meet her 205 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 4: as a bad sign. You don't think the bad sign 206 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 4: is he married. That ain't a bad sign. Also, y'all, 207 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 4: y'all think the bad sign is he didn't want to 208 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 4: meet you. The bad sign is he married, and he 209 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 4: told you he waiting on his marriage to fizzle out. 210 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 4: They ain't got no kids yet, so they're gonna make 211 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 4: a clean break. Let me show you how this marriage 212 00:11:55,600 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 4: fit insh fizzle, she fit to get pregnant because the 213 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 4: wife don't know nothing about this. This is him telling 214 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 4: you that the marriage is fizzling out. I promise you 215 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 4: that the wife's sitting over there thinking everything is honky doing. 216 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 4: I promise you that. I promise you that all men 217 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 4: that's married that's trying to have an affair with a 218 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 4: woman gonna tell him something wrong at the house. That's 219 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 4: the opening line because we play on the fact that 220 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 4: you all are nurturers by nature and y'all always want 221 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 4: to fix something. 222 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 2: Let me hear him get through with this. 223 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 4: I don't think that's the case, because this guy is 224 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 4: one that initiated everything. Wait a minute, you don't think 225 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:43,599 Speaker 4: that's the case because he initiated everything girl used to. 226 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 4: He pursued me and told me that I deserve to 227 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 4: be treated like a queen. Well, you're not getting treated 228 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 4: like a queen, though you don't see that. Meanwhile, my 229 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 4: boyfriend does not take me out anymore, and he never 230 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 4: wants to have sex. That's because having sex somewhere else. 231 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 4: Y'all been together three years. All you getting is your 232 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 4: breaks fixed and a bracelet. You ain't getting no wed 233 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 4: and read because you're having sex with somebody else. Let 234 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 4: me tell you how stupid this is. You're in the 235 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 4: movie Dumb and Dumble. Your boyfriend is dumb, your married 236 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 4: boyfriend is dumble, and you the sign. 237 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 238 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 239 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded 240 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: So Good downloaded. Today you're listening to the Steve Harvey 241 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: Morning Show