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Speaker 2: Whatever.

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Speaker 3: We went to jail after all, and it is talk

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Speaker 3: a lot, but hold on tight, we gotta fight here.

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Speaker 2: It is Strawberry letter, all right.

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Speaker 1: Nevvi you thank you subject my ex paigde for my

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Speaker 1: grandma's funeral. Here Stephen Shirley, I am engaged to a

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Speaker 1: man that I work with. We both teach elementary school

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Speaker 1: and when he transferred to my school, it was love

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Speaker 1: at first sight for me at a time I had

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Speaker 1: only been divorced a few months and my ex husband

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Speaker 1: was still pursuing me and trying to work things out.

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Speaker 1: He cheated on me more than a few times, and

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Speaker 1: when we were married, so I divorced him. He didn't

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Speaker 1: contest anything, and I got whatever I asked for because

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Speaker 1: he is still in love with me. I have our

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Speaker 1: family home sitting on three acres, and he let me

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Speaker 1: have both our dogs. I lost respect for him every

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Speaker 1: time I heard a rumor of him cheating, and I'm

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Speaker 1: much happier divorced.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to when I met my fiance and we

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Speaker 1: became inseparable in no time. My ex husband was overbearing

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Speaker 1: and used his money to try to lure me back in.

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Speaker 1: He bought me a range Rover last year for my birthday,

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Speaker 1: and I could not tell my fiance this, so the

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Speaker 1: car is still at my ex's house. When we first

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Speaker 1: got engaged, I was honest with my fiance about my

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Speaker 1: ex's extravagant gifts so he wouldn't find out later and

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Speaker 1: be upset. He told me that I do not set

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Speaker 1: boundaries with my ex. Because I liked the attention. I

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Speaker 1: told him I would do better. Then, my grandma died.

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Speaker 1: She and my ex husband were very close, so I

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Speaker 1: knew he'd be at the funeral. Fiance and my fiance

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Speaker 1: and I went to her funeral, and as soon as

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Speaker 1: a service came to an end, my grandfather stood up

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Speaker 1: and thanked my ex husband for paying for everything. My

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Speaker 1: fiance was furious, so we skipped the repast. I tried

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Speaker 1: him to stop coming around my family. My fiance told

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Speaker 1: me that we're going to pay my ex husband back

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Speaker 1: for the funeral. Is my fiance crazy?

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Speaker 2: Why does it matter who paid for it?

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Speaker 1: Well, you know what, I kind of think this is

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Speaker 1: a problem that doesn't have to be. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: have two men who are fighting over you and fighting

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Speaker 1: for your attention. Really, but your ex if you're divorced,

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Speaker 1: I mean, he needs to let go. If he was

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Speaker 1: married to you and had you and then he started cheating,

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Speaker 1: you know that's on him. You clearly have moved on

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Speaker 1: and he should too. It's too late for him now.

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Speaker 1: When he was married to you, Like I said, he

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Speaker 1: with reality. He's in denial. I think right now he

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Speaker 1: created this problem. I do think your fiance was out

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Speaker 1: of line making you miss your grandmother's repast. He was

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Speaker 1: in his feelings looking at this situation to me all

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Speaker 1: the way wrong. I'm with you on this one. What

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Speaker 1: difference does it make who pays for the funeral. You

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Speaker 1: can't control what your ex does. And you said that

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Speaker 1: he and your grandmother were very close, and apparently your

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Speaker 1: grandfather appreciated it. I think it's stupid to spend money

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Speaker 1: to pay your ex back. That's just stupid to me.

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Speaker 1: Your fiance shouldn't be trying to prove anything, not to you,

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Speaker 1: not to him. He's saying he's going to pay your

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Speaker 1: ex back. I think that's just his ego getting in

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Speaker 1: a way. Funerals are not cheap, okay, So you know

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Speaker 1: you could spend that money on something else. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: have to flex your new fiance. He's already got the

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Speaker 1: just let us stay where it is and your ex's garage.

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Speaker 1: And I say, go on and live your life with

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Speaker 2: Steve, surely, Yes, it's a man problem right here.

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Speaker 3: Go.

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Speaker 1: I know, I don't worry about it.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of man law in here.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of codes in here, a lot of

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Speaker 3: egos in here, a lot of flexing in here. There's

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Speaker 3: to stand up and do some pushback. It's all of this,

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Speaker 3: but all this is man problem because the woman in

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Speaker 3: this letter is one hundred percent correct and perfect. I

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Speaker 3: see no flaw in this woman right here. I really don't.

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Speaker 3: I'm engaged to a man that I work with. We

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Speaker 2: At the time, I had only been divorced a few months.

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Speaker 3: What happens is when people get divorced, they don't know

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Speaker 3: where love gonna come along. So anybody walk through the

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Speaker 3: door and looked like Lord right away. This happens to be.

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Speaker 2: The real go He cheated on me.

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Speaker 3: Excuse me, only been divorced a few months and the

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Speaker 3: ex husband was still pursuing me. This is important information

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Speaker 3: trying to work things out.

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Speaker 2: He cheated on me more.

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Speaker 3: Than a few times when we were married, so I

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Speaker 3: divorced him. He didn't contest anything, and I got whatever

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Speaker 3: I asked for because he's still in love with me.

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Speaker 2: This is a love story gone bad, y'all. This is

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Speaker 2: a man.

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Speaker 3: Who has lost the best thing ever happened to him,

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Speaker 3: and he wanted back.

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Speaker 2: I ain't mad at him.

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Speaker 3: Now we have a problem because he gave you your

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Speaker 3: have both our dogs. I lost respect for him every

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Speaker 3: time I heard a room of him cheating, and I'm

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Speaker 3: much happier divorced. Well, you sound like it, and you

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Speaker 3: need to keep that in mind. Fast forward through when

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Speaker 3: I met my fiance. We became in super Bowl in

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Speaker 3: no time. Now. My ex husband was overbearing and you

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Speaker 3: his money to try to lure me back in.

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Speaker 2: That's what's fault.

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Speaker 3: Uh uh, that's what men become powerful to use a power.

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Speaker 2: What good power?

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Speaker 3: If you don't wield it, you gotta wield it. He

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Speaker 3: and I could not tell my fiance this, so the

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Speaker 3: car is still at my ex his house. You a

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Speaker 3: good woman. You are a good woman. I told you,

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Speaker 3: I can't find no fault in this lady. Right here,

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Speaker 3: you left that range row. He ain't many women gonna

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Speaker 3: lead that range rover, that driveway, got that right, But

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Speaker 3: you did it to keep the peace, and I admire you.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll have part two of your response coming

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Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the our subject of

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter my ex paid for my grandma's funeral.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject my ex paid for

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Speaker 1: my grandma's.

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Speaker 3: We ain't got to that part yet, but we're dealing

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Speaker 3: with some man stuff here. This is man, law man,

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Speaker 3: cold man, flexing, power, struggles, all this here, self esteem,

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Speaker 3: This is all this in this letter. Now, Shirley couldn't

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Speaker 3: tell you that because she don't know all these man rubers. Now,

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Speaker 3: what Shirley said was fine, But Shirley, like this woman

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Speaker 3: in this letter. I can't find no flaw with this

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Speaker 3: woman in this left because this woman is absolutely doing.

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Speaker 2: The right thing.

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Speaker 3: She's been divorced. Her husband cheated on him, he ruined it.

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Speaker 3: She's happy of being divorced without him. She met a

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Speaker 3: new man at a job. They both elementary school teachers.

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Speaker 3: This is gonna gonna come into play. He's told the

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Speaker 3: extravagant gifts.

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Speaker 2: Doing the divorce.

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Speaker 3: The man gave her everything, the house on three acres,

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Speaker 3: both the dogs, everything.

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Speaker 2: Because he still loved the woman. He messed up. He

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Speaker 2: trying to get her back.

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Speaker 3: She says her ex husband was overbearing and he used

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Speaker 3: his money to try to lure me back in, as

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Speaker 3: he should, because that's what is for me. What is

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Speaker 3: power unless you wielded. I ain't mad at the the

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Speaker 3: ex husband. So he bought your arrange over last year

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Speaker 3: from a birthday and you couldn't tell your fiance this.

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Speaker 3: So the car is still at my ex's house. You're

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Speaker 3: a smart lady. You're a smart lady. When we first

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Speaker 3: got engaged at here's a part, I was honest with

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Speaker 3: my fiancee, who is the school teacher, about my ex

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Speaker 3: husband's extravagant gifts, so he wouldn't find out later and

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Speaker 3: be upset. He told me that I do not sound

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Speaker 3: I told him I do better. Well, you know, it's

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Speaker 3: amazing when people say that you should set boundaries with

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Speaker 3: another person. You really can't make another person do nothing.

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Speaker 3: If you could make him do right, he wouldn't. You

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Speaker 3: wouldn't have that, he wouldn't have been cheating on you

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Speaker 3: and it's a little bit unfair of mister school teacher,

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Speaker 2: You don't set no boundaries. She got boundaries.

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Speaker 3: She don't take the gifts, but she can't stop everything

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Speaker 3: because he flexing on you. Dog, you know what this

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Speaker 3: is now. Then my grandma died. She and my ex

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Speaker 3: husband were very close, so I knew he'd be at

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Speaker 3: the funeral. My fiance fiance and I went to her funeral,

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Speaker 3: and as soon as the service came to an end,

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Speaker 2: Husband for paying for everything. Okay, that's honorable.

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Speaker 3: He thanked another man for stepping up burying his wife,

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Speaker 3: because that's what me and Douke I think. It was

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Speaker 3: really admirable of your ex husband. But he's always showing

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Speaker 3: that he's dead. But he paid for that funeral, so

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Speaker 2: Because he tried to get you back, so he does.

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Speaker 3: Now you don't want the range roller, I'm gonna pay

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Speaker 3: for your dear grandmother's shooting everything. The grandfather he don't

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Speaker 3: know what's going on behind the story with y'all, so

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Speaker 3: he stands up and he thinks the man at the

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Speaker 3: do this. Now he ain't even date my granddaughter no more.

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Speaker 3: And that's true. My fiance was furious, so we skipped

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Speaker 3: the repass.

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Speaker 2: He probably won't go over there because that repass.

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Speaker 3: I probably that repast was nice because he paid for

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Speaker 3: the funeral. Oh, they got steaking locks over there. They

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Speaker 3: got a chef at the repass. Oh it's finna be

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Speaker 3: balled love. He finish set the repass out. The repass

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Speaker 3: gonna look like a damn wagon reception. And your boyfriend

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Speaker 3: knew we cannot go to this repass because hene clowned

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Speaker 2: I be damn who got this big ass take up

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Speaker 2: in here? Repay?

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Speaker 3: Who in the hell got a chocolate fountain after repays?

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Speaker 2: Her ex hul her ex husband flex it.

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Speaker 3: Now we got an ego problem because he then told

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Speaker 3: you don't say boundary.

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Speaker 2: He then told you he ain't going to the repass.

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Speaker 3: Then you, being a decent lady, you try to control

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Speaker 3: the situation by calling your ex and telling him to

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Speaker 3: stop coming around your family. You've done everything you can,

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Speaker 3: but you ain't gonna stop this grown man because he

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Speaker 3: trying to get you back. My fiance told me that

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Speaker 3: we are going to pay my ex husband back for

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Speaker 3: the funeral? Is my fiance crazy? What doesn't matter who

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Speaker 3: paid for it? It really shouldn't matter who paid for it.

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Speaker 3: But see he got your ex making him look bad

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Speaker 3: as all he thinking.

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Speaker 2: Because he a school teacher.

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Speaker 3: He couldn't come up with the money for the funeral,

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Speaker 3: because school teachers are the most underserved, underpaid people and

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Speaker 3: our community.

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Speaker 2: And a great man is he? I bet you he is.

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Speaker 3: But that school teacher Saturday got some things going on

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Speaker 3: that's limiting him to flex.

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Speaker 2: It ain't no range rovers, range rover and a funeral.

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Speaker 3: Now unless we're gonna put Grandma in the back of

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Speaker 3: the range rover.

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Speaker 2: We got some double some of this up. You know

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Speaker 2: what stopped the school teacher.

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Speaker 3: Now, we don't have to put grandmama in the range

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Speaker 3: that's gonna be where the funeral at. In the back

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Speaker 3: of the range rover. That's gonna be to double up

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Speaker 3: as a casket. And we're gonna have to drive off

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Speaker 3: into just into the ocean, and just your mama have

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Speaker 3: an ass c burrier.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's really what she wants to say.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what I wanted to say, really.

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Speaker 3: Because there's nothing this school teacher can do with this

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Speaker 3: man's money. He gonna have to grow up and get

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Speaker 3: past it. And no, he can't forward to pay this back.

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Speaker 3: If you pay this back, y'all ain't gonna be able

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Speaker 3: to get that house or nothing else y'all want.

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