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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Hi everyone, welcome to the Almost Famous

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Speaker 1: podcast Today. I have just to Sutner with me. We're

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Speaker 1: live from Tahoe by the way, so we're doing podcast

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Speaker 1: together in person in the same room for the first

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Speaker 1: time in a long time, and we're going to be recording,

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Speaker 1: recording l L recapping this episode UM four of The

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Speaker 1: Bachelorette together. I'm so excited to do it with you, Trista.

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Speaker 1: I always love your fadeback. You and I we get screeners,

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Speaker 1: you know, and you had watched the day before me,

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Speaker 1: and we were kind of talking about the episode, and

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Speaker 1: like you said, like what to expect and stuff in

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Speaker 1: our car ride yesterday from the airport to the hotel,

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Speaker 1: and You're like, there's like something I'm not sure I

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Speaker 1: really want to dive deep into, but like I'm definitely

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Speaker 1: feeling it. And then I watched the episode and I

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Speaker 1: felt the exact same way. What we're talking about here

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Speaker 1: is I think what we'll concentrate on in this episode

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Speaker 1: and that is just the fact that there's a lot

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Speaker 1: of Rachel feeling defeated and that I understand. But it

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Speaker 1: was a little overboard. We'll dive into that when we

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Speaker 1: get there, but we do like to go in chronological

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Speaker 1: order here, so let's start with the morning after last

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Speaker 1: rows ceremony. There's only one thing to say. What you

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Speaker 1: got to read read my mind here, so remind me

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Speaker 1: morning after is Hayden and meet. Oh well, meat Ball,

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Speaker 1: that's it? Oh my? What blaring? Like my question? I

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Speaker 1: was just like, okay, meat Boss here, meat Boss here,

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Speaker 1: Meatballs here, we're not addressing meat is here, right, And

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Speaker 1: he just addresses it and says she gave him a

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Speaker 1: second chance. Totally. They left us on a cliffhanger a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Okay. They showed their conversation and she was like,

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Speaker 1: dude of mine, you basically and now you're saying we

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Speaker 1: need hard time together. It would have been hilarious conversation

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Speaker 1: to see, like how she actually dealt with it? Right?

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Speaker 1: How do they not show it? I don't know. Release

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Speaker 1: the video online, guys, put it on. There has to

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Speaker 1: be dot com. We need this bonus footage. It shouldn't

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Speaker 1: have been bonus footage, no, which should have been included.

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Speaker 1: That was kind of a big deal deal. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: know he denied her Rose I do, I do give

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Speaker 1: him credit that afterwards, it's kind of like a Jason

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Speaker 1: Mesnick thing. Didn't seem like a joke when he was

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Speaker 1: the whole to the music, right, it's like, oh, this

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Speaker 1: is like a funny thing that's supposed to be in

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Speaker 1: the credit bay right, totally, you're right, You're right, But

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Speaker 1: but I do What I want to say is it

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Speaker 1: was kind of like a Mesnic thing realizing after he

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Speaker 1: gave Melissa the rose that he wanted to be with

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Speaker 1: Molly and meat Ball, realizing that he denied her rose,

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Speaker 1: and then he was regretting it. Just stick around, he did. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: I know, I think you're not getting Gabby's rose. You're

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Speaker 1: obviously coming back because you want to stick around yourself, right,

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Speaker 1: And I think as we see later, which you know

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Speaker 1: will go in chronological order, But I do think that

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Speaker 1: there's a role for him. It's probably not with Rachel

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Speaker 1: in the end, but there's a role for him probably.

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Speaker 1: He's actually quite fun to watch. He's pretty endearing. The

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Speaker 1: other big thing that comes out with the Next Morning

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Speaker 1: is that Hayden is saying pretty crappy things he's saying

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Speaker 1: on film, like, does he even freaking realize he's part

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Speaker 1: of a television show, I know. So he says things

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Speaker 1: like I don't see how any of these guys can

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Speaker 1: see themselves marrying one of them. And then he's apparently

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Speaker 1: says something about boobies and how his ex girlfriend has

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Speaker 1: a better rack than these girls. Well and also and

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Speaker 1: I first of all, these girls got nice bities. I mean,

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Speaker 1: come on, Brian. Literally, we were watching the episode, and

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Speaker 1: Ryan rarely watches, but he was watching with me, and

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Speaker 1: he was like, I don't know how that guy is

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Speaker 1: actually like looking her in the eye. Yes, talk about boobies,

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Speaker 1: but I will say that, Um, Hayden did say something

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Speaker 1: about my ex like neither of these I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it was bitches compared to the bitches and compared

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Speaker 1: to I don't know what. We're not like formulating the

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Speaker 1: sentences properly, but those are the phrases, let's see. Frustrating.

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Speaker 1: He also said something like Gabby used the word rough

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Speaker 1: It's a little It's kind of like, um, when girls

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Speaker 1: call each other bitches. Oh, exactly like if we said,

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Speaker 1: if we said these bitches. It's like an endearing thing

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Speaker 1: bitches all the time and references right right, Yes, we

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Speaker 1: can call each other bitches. You cannot this bitch no,

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Speaker 1: not okay. When a boyfriend, a potential love match calls

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Speaker 1: So now we see that Jason and Tino get picked

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Speaker 1: day it's in Paris. What I'm assuming happens here because

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Speaker 1: are staying back, you know how Usually they say and

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Speaker 1: go pack your backs because an hour you're hitting there

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Speaker 1: planning going to friends. That never happens, as we always

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Speaker 1: plan right, So these guys are going to hang back,

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Speaker 1: and I'm assuming that Jason and Tino gets to fly solo,

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Speaker 1: which is probably really nice and relaxing for them, although

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Speaker 1: I did kind of have a little thought I wonder

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Speaker 1: if they're missing like the hangout the guys because it

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Speaker 1: is fun. The travel days are fun. The travel days

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Speaker 1: are fun. They'll experience it, apparently on a cruise ship.

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Speaker 1: I know that. I'm a huge cruiser. You are teen cruises. Yes,

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Speaker 1: they're all royal. They're all Royal Crube except one princess

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Speaker 1: that I went on seventh grade. We did not like

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Speaker 1: Princess Princess, will never sponsor because princess. We are actually

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Speaker 1: godparents to the Ruby Princess. Oh my gosh, so horrible

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Speaker 1: of me to say. Listen, it was. It was two

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Speaker 1: Royal crubeyan and then we tried our princess and we're like, not,

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Speaker 1: you know what, you could try it again, because they

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Speaker 1: do have beautiful cruise ships and we actually got to

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Speaker 1: christen the cruise ships were godparents and cruiship so cool.

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Speaker 1: So do you have a plaque like a little picture

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Speaker 1: in the lobby? We do. We are job that is

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Speaker 1: And we get like notifications when it's there. The Ruby

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Speaker 1: Princess's birthday, All right, attention Ruby Princess let's do a

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Speaker 1: bachelor cruise and try to win me over from my

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Speaker 1: seventh grade, my seventh grade. Uh, what's the word, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my seventh grade boggle. I was a ridiculous You wonder

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Speaker 1: it wasn't grand enough in comparison to the Royal Caribbean

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Speaker 1: upon the high seas. Okay, I love grandios high romance.

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Speaker 1: This cruise ship thing is so up my alley, and

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Speaker 1: if it's not up yours, then you gotta go cruise more.

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Speaker 1: Jared doesn't like cruises, Okay, I can go on. We could,

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Speaker 1: we could go on. But yes, Jason and Tina are

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Speaker 1: super excited that these two were selected. They were great

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Speaker 1: next breakdown with Rachel is that she has such a

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Speaker 1: great sill the hell out the whole episode. Tina is sexy.

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Speaker 1: He's your guy. Like, don't the connection right, Like you

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Speaker 1: guys are amazing together. I know. I'm the same thing

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Speaker 1: with Jason and Gabby. I just cute, so cute, and

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Speaker 1: reminds me of Ryan. You know, Ryan's very reserved and introverted,

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Speaker 1: I love that he actually opened up about therapy and

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Speaker 1: It was great. They were such a good foundation. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I love that. And I didn't even know his name

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Speaker 1: I do love him. The one thing with Tino is

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Speaker 1: I like, there's there's great romance there. But I don't

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Speaker 1: his personality? No, I I want to know more about him.

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Speaker 1: He's definitely like that dashing He's just that guy from

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Speaker 1: he stand out. Yeah, he did, and and he still does. Yes. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so Yeabby jokes that she's like in love, which is

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it should have been from the

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Speaker 1: That's something that they would never do. Have the girls

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Speaker 1: really stepped up. I like stealing this illusion from one

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00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor Instagram accounts, but like, is he not

425
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: somebody from a Disney Channel original movie? He totally he

426
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 1: looks like a little Disney star. He does. But I

427
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 1: like him and I love that he is all in

428
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: for Rachel and it seems like he's ready, like when

429
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: you over with the words segment when he had to

430
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 1: declare like love but not even that. It was before

431
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: that when he was and this might not have been

432
00:24:54,119 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: to Rachel, but when he was um telling everyone that

433
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 1: he wanted to be with Rachel, like Rachel was his

434
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 1: chosen one not Gabby like that. I think he just

435
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: he knows what he wants and I think that's attractive.

436
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 1: So she chooses him for the one on one day.

437
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,439
Speaker 1: He talks about a past relationship where he bought a

438
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: house for them and the girl was like, I can't

439
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 1: be with you anymore. And he says that the unconditional

440
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 1: love that he felt then when they were together was

441
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: the best feeling and he wants to give that to

442
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,919
Speaker 1: the right person. Yeah, And it's just like it was

443
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 1: like all very sweet and he did zoom to the

444
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: top of the list for me. He is one of

445
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: the more memorable guys for Rachel. And then they kiss

446
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: and it seems like she's like into it. It does

447
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: that they have a great connection in chemistry, so I

448
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: really liked them together. Uh. And then Jesse and Logan

449
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 1: are talking and then this is when the whole Logan

450
00:25:51,240 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: drama comes in and I'm like, Logan, now, I'm sorry,

451
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: but it's like, you're not a front runner in either

452
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 1: of these in the unit of these groups. Yeah, and

453
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 1: it is just like messing with for no reason. Well,

454
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 1: you know, they're trying to throw in drama. They're trying

455
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: to throw it in you know that he mentioned it,

456
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 1: and the producers like, build that up. Wait a second,

457
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: feelings Gabby And it's like, well, how do you feel?

458
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 1: And Gabby walks into your room, right, yeah, you got

459
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: to explore this. Let's put those little seeds. I think that, Um,

460
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: I don't think that Logan will last that long. I

461
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: don't think he'll be the end guy. Yeah. Um, I

462
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:44,120
Speaker 1: do give him credit for being honest with himself. If

463
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:49,199
Speaker 1: he truly is feeling that he likes Gabby more than Rachel,

464
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: I think that he should explore that and not give Rachel, um,

465
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: you know, lead her leader on exactly. Um. So, I

466
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: don't know, we'll see how that all transpires. But of

467
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 1: course that was going to happen. You knew this was

468
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: going to happen. It gave the audience such major anxiety

469
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,639
Speaker 1: because here she is crying over these guys who aren't

470
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: like pulling her aside during boxing, and little does she

471
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 1: know that one of the guys is considering going to

472
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: the Gabby side exactly, like, come on, let's add to

473
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: the pile now, and then well, well let's let's wait

474
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: until the end. Overall, though, I am more interested in

475
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: Gabby story in Rachel's storyline than gabby story. Do you what? Um,

476
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess because the connections that I'm

477
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 1: feeling between her and Tino and Zach and last week,

478
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 1: I just feel it. I just feeling this more and

479
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: I don't feel like this grand connection with Gabby. I

480
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 1: do say that Jason, I'm now interested in Jason. I

481
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 1: think that it fluctuates for me. Really. Yeah, Like each

482
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 1: episode it's different or even different parts of the episode.

483
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: That's what keeps you interested. And that's why I think

484
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 1: the season is nice, because there's it's constantly interesting. You're right,

485
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: and and that's why that's why they did what they

486
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: did to get people talking. Yeah, you know, and that's

487
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: okay because the show has been on for how long

488
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: and we need to keep people interested, right yep. Um.

489
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 1: So now Logan in the cocktail party, he's thinking it's

490
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 1: time to come forward with the honest truth and we're like,

491
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 1: oh god, not now, right, not now. But I actually

492
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: he ends up accepting Rachel's rose, and I know it's

493
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 1: going to backfire for him, but honestly, in the moment,

494
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,919
Speaker 1: I was like, thank you, dude, Yeah, thank you, because

495
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: she couldn't handle it. Right now. You're right. Actually, I

496
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: haven't thought about it like that. I thought, I mean,

497
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: he's in a he's in a hard place because he

498
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: does not have the opportunity or he did not have

499
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: the opportunity to say anything because they canceled because there

500
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: which we will get too sorry about going out of order. Yes,

501
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: so I I do think he didn't have the opportunity

502
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 1: or it would have been a big like it would

503
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: have blown up, you know, and it would have taken

504
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: time away from everybody, blah blah blah. But um, the

505
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: fact that he's there for Gabby when he's in Rachel's

506
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: pool is a little it makes me feel a little icky,

507
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: I know. And you know that now that she's down

508
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 1: to five, she's like I could have given time to

509
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: was that was my thought. That was my thought, is

510
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: that why did you do that? Because then he could

511
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: have stick stuck around that That is But what we

512
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: really need to think about and what I want the

513
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: girls to have a reality check about. It's just like

514
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: you probably weren't going to take Logan or George, you know,

515
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: like those were your bottom too. That's what I hope, Yeah,

516
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: that's what I hope. It wasn't going to be right.

517
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: But then Rachel even acknowledges this. She goes, even if

518
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: I'm getting rejected by guys that I don't really see

519
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: a future in, it's still getting rejected and that always hurts.

520
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's a big bruise to your ego. So

521
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: it's not and it's sometimes and I think I've said

522
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 1: this on the podcast in the past couple of weeks,

523
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,959
Speaker 1: but sometimes it hurts even more to be rejected by

524
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 1: somebody that you're not really into, because you're like, not

525
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: even you want me. You're right, I agree. Okay, so

526
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: let's take a quick break because I really want to

527
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: dive into this crazy man Hayden and the cocktail party,

528
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: and we're back. Hayden approaches. I have to side Hayden,

529
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: who already sucks approaches um Rachel with like the moment

530
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: that he really thinks he's going to open up, and

531
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,479
Speaker 1: that is the fact that his dog has cancer. And now,

532
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: what I don't like about this whole scene is that

533
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: it's like belittling the relationship that people have with their

534
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: dogs and that their dogs aren't a part of the

535
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: fair like it makes it seem like dogs shouldn't be

536
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: regarded as part of the family. Yeah, and that like

537
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: we shouldn't be like super sad for this guy that

538
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:21,239
Speaker 1: like his loyal companion, his cancer, Like I feel a

539
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: lot for him, and it's totally belittled here. Like even

540
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: when he leaves, it's like, yeah, I'm ready to go

541
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: see him again. I want to find unconditional love. Like

542
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's supposed to be silly, but

543
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: like also let's know what you know what I mean

544
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: totally our dogs are part of our family. I would

545
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: be heart broken if I were him, So lots of

546
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: love his way, and I hope his dog is okay,

547
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: but but but but but but at the same time

548
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 1: time it is all ridiculous. He you know, comes with

549
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 1: the photo album of his dog and tells what he's

550
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: going through, and it's starts to get a little bit

551
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: m when he says just letting me know, like my

552
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: dog is sick at home and I'm here for you.

553
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: That's when you're like, Okay, well you're not really what

554
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 1: did you just say about me? Yeah, it's just it's

555
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: starting to feel And then he takes out the dog's

556
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: radiation stuffy and that makes me feel really awkward because

557
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: like my dog. Also my dog. I had one dog

558
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: who had cancer and she had like her little thingies

559
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:35,479
Speaker 1: and m he just don't bring it on you just

560
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: don't bring it on the date and the fact that

561
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: I know it's the fact that you put it in

562
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: the suitcase. He was like, I'm going to put this

563
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: in my suitcase and show one of the bachelorettes this

564
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: and tell them the story. That is so cringe e,

565
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: so cringe e. And what I was thinking also is

566
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: wait a second. You took the dog's toy away. That's

567
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: like a comfortable dog stop it. And the dog is

568
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: that is supposedly going to be passing away soon, and

569
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 1: you took away a comfort for the dog. Stop that's

570
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: so that's cruel. See then he's not there. This is

571
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 1: all a farce. I mean, we know it's we know

572
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: it's all silly, like it's it's silly, and it's not silly.

573
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,959
Speaker 1: You know. I keep saying I hate him, and yet

574
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: I understand dogs sadness, the sadness, but don't use that

575
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: he's using. Okay, thank you for saying that. That's exactly

576
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: what it is. He's using his dog sickness as like

577
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: some poor pity me types I felt that way. Um,

578
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: I I feel sorry for the loss that he will

579
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 1: be experiencing, but I don't think it's appropriate to bring

580
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: it in at this point in the relationship. Now I

581
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: don't know, No, absolutely not. That was just my thought.

582
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: It's just like he's like, I don't have a sad

583
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: story about my family. I'm gonna use my dog sickness

584
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: as my pity story. And then people are gonna feel

585
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: for me. Then she's gonna feel for me anyway. And

586
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: then we get interrupted by Tino, which I'm sure she's like,

587
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: thank the Lord, all nutty, and and now hating goes.

588
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 1: I can't believe how rude it was that she that

589
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: she accepted Tino um when I was in the middle

590
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: of such a conversation, Like, if it were me, I

591
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: would have been like, excuse me, I need a few minutes.

592
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. But no, I did not

593
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: think she was disrespectful. No, she wasn't. I didn't think

594
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: so at all. I didn't think Tina was disrespectful in

595
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: that situation. I think he just said they probably were

596
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 1: in there for a while. Tina was like, I want

597
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 1: to talk to her, and asked very nicely if he

598
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: could interrupt, and then Rachel said are you okay with that?

599
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: She didn't say okay, well we're done here, you know,

600
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: she said are you okay with that? He could have

601
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: said can we have a couple more minutes or something,

602
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: and then he held it against her later, I know, no,

603
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: it was not cool. And then um, Meatball comes in

604
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 1: and I'm liking Meatball in this moment. There's a different

605
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: is roll. Everybody has a purpose, guys. So he comes

606
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: in and he tells her exactly what he's been saying

607
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,720
Speaker 1: that we were mentioning earlier in the show, and she's

608
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: fired up. She goes and pulls him aside, and she's like,

609
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:15,240
Speaker 1: you know what I'm going to talk to you about?

610
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: And I love this about it and she's like, what

611
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: am I going to talk to you about? And he's

612
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 1: like Rambo And then she's like, are you kidding me

613
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: right now? And he's like, I would have thought that

614
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 1: you were pulling me aside to continue the Rambo conversation,

615
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: apologize for my time away, and then she repeats all

616
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: the things that he said. Um, and she says, can

617
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: I walk you out? And then he gets walked out well,

618
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: and he denied everything that. He was like, what are

619
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: you talking about? I never said that. I'm like, um,

620
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: play the tape. It's untape, dude. Wow. You are like

621
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: really don't know how to play this game. Like you

622
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 1: think you're knowing how to play this game. You're really

623
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 1: bad at it. You are on a television show. Everything

624
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: almost everything is recorded, so you don't think that that

625
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: was recorded. I don't understand. I I literally said to Ryan,

626
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: you know when when I knew we were going to

627
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 1: do this, I didn't know if this was the type

628
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: of episode where you would bring someone from the show on,

629
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: And I was like, I wonder if we're going to

630
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: have to talk to Hayden. Oh god, we're not there yet.

631
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: I would I would be really cold. I was like,

632
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,959
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can talk to him anyway. Yeah,

633
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:29,879
Speaker 1: I I just he's like just bad vibes, guys, bad

634
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: bad vibes. I am not okay with someone who says

635
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,439
Speaker 1: something really rude and disrespectful like that and doesn't own

636
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: up to it. No. He sounds like the kind of

637
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: guy that like flirts with girls, thinks that he's entitled

638
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 1: to their affection, then goes and talks about them behind

639
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 1: their back exactly. Yes, he's gross not a fan. Okay. Uh.

640
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 1: Then we basically to the real road ceremony, which we've

641
00:36:55,960 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: touched on already. Um. Gabby gives her first rose to Nate.

642
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: Nate really seems like the front runner right now with

643
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 1: him with her with her. Yeah, Rachel to even really

644
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: like even he's another person in the group that like

645
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: we need to see more of because he's like, Okay,

646
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: there's there's Tino, then there's Zack, and then there's I

647
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 1: really liked team. I really like to even get Rachel. Um.

648
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 1: Then Gabby gives a rose to Eric, which we could

649
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 1: talk about that, but we don't have enough time right now.

650
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: I think that I like Eric, but listen, she's like

651
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: remember last week and she's like, um, if only I

652
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 1: could be with a man like Eric, And I was like, girl, yeah,

653
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: we are you serious? Many times have I said girl

654
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: in this podcast? I'm like, no, no, no, you you

655
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 1: should be like Eric needs you know, like, let's see

656
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: if this guy deserves me not. Yes, I agree. Rachel

657
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: gives a rose to meet Ball. I love it. I

658
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 1: love to see it. There's no love here, but you know,

659
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: he's fun to talk to. Yeah, Gabby gives her rose

660
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 1: to Johnny, which we've seen nothing from Johnny, nothing, nothing,

661
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: He's been a mute. You know what though, is that

662
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 1: indicative of the fact that he's going to Yes, because

663
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,479
Speaker 1: I feel like in my during my season, we didn't

664
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: see Ryan for a while either. All right, Yeah, I

665
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 1: think that happens often. Usually one Rachel gives her roses

666
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 1: Zack and a surprise there. Gabby gives her a rose

667
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: to Michael. Uh, Michael, right, Yes, he's kind of someone

668
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: that I don't know that well, I don't know. Rachel

669
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: gives her rose to Ethan, who I also really don't know. Yeah,

670
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 1: he's the guy who crawled on the cringeing date. Okay

671
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: remember that? Yeah, all then we go to the final roses.

672
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 1: Gabby gives her rose to Mario. Interesting how Mario was

673
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: a first impression rose, then somebody the two of them

674
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: showed interested and now we're just not seeing anything and

675
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 1: he got the last rose last week. Yeah, so on

676
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: the cost. And then Rachel gives her last rose to

677
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: the controversial Logan. Logan says yes, and Rachel says, with intention,

678
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry we didn't have time to speak. We'll

679
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 1: be able to speak this week. Yes, I know that's

680
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: a little heartbreaking. It's a little heartbreak. That was heartbreaking.

681
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 1: The guys that go home, Gabby sends Quincy and kirkhomb

682
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: and Rachel sends Jordan's home, and next up they are

683
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 1: going to Belgium? Yes, I think? Is it Belgium? Um? Anyway,

684
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: any final things to say that you don't think we covered?

685
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 1: I think we covered all of it. I mean, I

686
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:39,280
Speaker 1: I am always a fan. I watched every single season.

687
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: I've watched every single episode of every single spinoff, blah

688
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,280
Speaker 1: blah blah. But this this season, I don't know. I'm

689
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to continue to watch. I just I just

690
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 1: hope that because they have defined the groups now that

691
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: it won't be as messy. Well, we know it's gonna

692
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: be a messy next week. Well true, you're right, So

693
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: we gotta get Pastgan. That's okay, And that's okay, that's

694
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: kind of that was expected messiness. Do you know I

695
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: had to switch to some guy, had we wouldn't have

696
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 1: a you know, or some kind of confusion you know

697
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 1: about who he wanted to be with. Do you foresee

698
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,320
Speaker 1: each of girls bringing home four guys? Because I don't

699
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,840
Speaker 1: that's eight hometowns, and I don't think they're enjoy a hometown,

700
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 1: especially because they're with five right now. They're not gonna

701
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: They're not going to get there, definitely not right now.

702
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,919
Speaker 1: I say that each girl brings their final to home,

703
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: I bet you're right, or they bring the family out

704
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: to Europe or whatever. Well, and oh so they wait,

705
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,320
Speaker 1: how are we going to do this? Maybe both families

706
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: come at the same time, like the girls family and

707
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 1: the guys family. They're all going to have like a

708
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,879
Speaker 1: pow wow. Do they do they stay on the cruise ship.

709
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think they say the cruise ship

710
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: for like two weeks of filming times that's but not

711
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: the whole time, like they end up somewhere at the end.

712
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: The finale is not going to be like when Jack

713
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: and Rose doing Now, holy sh it, don't tease me

714
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: with a good time, because that would be my ultimate

715
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: Bachelor proposed. Don't want that. I would be extremely jealous,

716
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 1: extremely and be like, Jared, why didn't you do that?

717
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:14,919
Speaker 1: And then Leonardo DiCaprio shows up to find to hand

718
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: out the final rose. This is your final rose. Amazing, amazing.

719
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: All right, let's go through some quick Bachelor headlines. Uh.

720
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 1: First up, Tyler Cameron sheds light on why he clashes

721
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: with Matt James girlfriend Rachel who knew this? I mean

722
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: nobody until now I know. So I don't know why

723
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: he's addressing it shedding light. I don't either. So what

724
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: watch What Happens Live? He was on Watch What Happens Live? Um, well,

725
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 1: definitely been on Watch what happens Like, Oh yeah, look

726
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 1: at that, he says. Oh yeah, he said, watch what

727
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 1: Happens Live. Um, that there was a love hate relationship.

728
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: And now he's clarifying, Okay, what this means. He says,

729
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: I think people I think that Matt and I aren't

730
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 1: friends because we're not in each other's everyday lives the

731
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: way we used to be. Um, that's true, but like

732
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 1: you know, you grow up and you're getting relationships. The

733
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: two of them used to hang out as single bros.

734
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 1: He says, I think it's part of growing up and

735
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 1: entering a relationship. So exactly what I said. Um, And

736
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: then he said, we all have those friends that you

737
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: grow up, they start dating somebody, they get married, they

738
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 1: do your thing and you see him when you see him. Yeah,

739
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:26,879
Speaker 1: it's called again growing up. Being an adult. Um. And

740
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: then as far as the Rachel thing, he says, what

741
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: does he say that? He says, I definitely I was

742
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,919
Speaker 1: going through my own ship. We just have our own

743
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 1: ways of clashing. I don't like listening to people sometimes.

744
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: And she's strong and has a really good musically. This

745
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 1: isn't yeah. I thought this was like a joke, like,

746
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: oh yeah, we kind of actually do um. But you

747
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: know what, sometimes you just don't have like the greatest

748
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: relationship with your friends significant others. That sucks. It does

749
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 1: for for everyone involved because then the friends can't hang

750
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: out and I mean hopefully they can be adults and

751
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,399
Speaker 1: and be civil and hang out when they are all

752
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: together as a group. And it doesn't affect Tyler and

753
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: Maths relationship that much. But I also don't want it

754
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: to affect Matt and Rachel's relationship. I don't think it

755
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: will affect Matt Racil's relationship. They've gone through it all,

756
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 1: they've survived it all. Let's just read this quote verbatim

757
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 1: because it is quite juicy. I don't like listening to

758
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 1: people sometimes, um, Tyler says. And she's strong and she

759
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: has really good opinions on a lot of things, and

760
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: sometimes I don't want to hear it um. He also

761
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: says that he knows that Rachel always means well and

762
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: is a really good person who's a really good match

763
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: for Matt. There's tension and I want to know more.

764
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: Let's see. Oh, Katie Thurston joins, Riah. I'm like, I

765
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: don't even how to pronounced Ria. Riah. It's the dating

766
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 1: app for like celebrities and influencers and like Hollywood creatives.

767
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: She said, I can't even make a friend. She said,

768
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: have you guys heard of the dating app Riah? It's

769
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: supposed to be like an elite dating app that you

770
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 1: have to be like applied to get on and get

771
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: approved of. Blah blah blah. She goes, I was like,

772
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 1: I'll ply now and then six and from six months

773
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 1: from now, I started dating. Well, they approved me right

774
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 1: away right away. I wasn't ready to be approved, but

775
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 1: that's fine. And then she goes, but then I matched

776
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 1: with someone and we're talking and then I get unmatched.

777
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: That means she goes just for friends. What does that mean?

778
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: That means she got How do you got unmatched? Does

779
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 1: that mean they can like? That's funny? Okay, So she

780
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 1: ended up deciding to use the app for finding friends instead,

781
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: So even though she was talking to someone, she ended

782
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: up being like, oh, hey, we matched, but guess what,

783
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: I'm just here friends? Oh got it? Okay, But now

784
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: she says, it's is having a hard time finding friends

785
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 1: on the app. Yeah, no, don't. You don't have to go, Katie.

786
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 1: I think that you don't have to rush. I don't

787
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: think you no rush. But also I feel like you

788
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: have good friends. I don't know if you have to

789
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: go on a dating app for friends for difference, I

790
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: don't know. And she's thirty one. I think there's there's

791
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 1: no rush. She's fine. She's hopefully she's fine, do you

792
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Um, hopefully she can make a

793
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 1: friend in real life and not just on Riya Riya

794
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: whatever it's called. Alright. Final headline Rachel Lindsay defends keeping

795
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 1: Brian's her marriage with Brian private post Bachelorette. So she's

796
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 1: on Instagram and she's always like people are always asking

797
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: her where's Brian. And so she got on Instagram and

798
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 1: she said that, like they're just trying to keep their

799
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: relationship private. Um. Dim the spotlight a little bit on that.

800
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 1: She said that she talks about when they're going to

801
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 1: have babies or the timeline on that on her blog

802
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 1: honestly rage. But now she wants to talk about the question,

803
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: whereas Brian's she gets it all the time, and she says,

804
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: let me be frank, Brian is none of your business.

805
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: I am joking, well half joking. However, she understands that

806
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: there's a curiosity between, you know, the relationships, since it

807
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 1: did start on reality TV. She goes, in reality television,

808
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,760
Speaker 1: in that world, it's designed for your relationship to fail.

809
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: We survived and we came out on top. So quite naturally,

810
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: the audience wants to know what we're doing, if we're okay,

811
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: and what the what's next for our future. They want

812
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,839
Speaker 1: the love story to still play out um for their

813
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: public perception. But our contractual public story ended on August seven,

814
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: seven team. At that point we decided we want to

815
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: We wanted to control the future of our relationship. Up

816
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: until that point, the confines of our relationship were determined

817
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: for us. Now we're free and we do We decided

818
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: to pull away from the public eye to build a strong,

819
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 1: solid foundation, and we successfully did that. So it is

820
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: interesting to me that people want to define the success

821
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,920
Speaker 1: and happiness of our relationship by the number of social

822
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: media post comments, likes, and stories that we post. I mean,

823
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: I will say Ryan and I from kind of the

824
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:25,439
Speaker 1: get go where we didn't have social media at least

825
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: clarify that. So there wasn't the um the pressure to

826
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 1: post anything about your relationship. I know that this happened

827
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: to I feel like this happened to Caitlin a little

828
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: bit ago, where she was kind of defending why she

829
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 1: hasn't posted anything with Jason lately or whenever it was.

830
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 1: You know, it comes up and people because people just

831
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,919
Speaker 1: want to know. People are curious, Like she said, um,

832
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: and she did say social media is not a reflection

833
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 1: of reality. I agree with that. I don't post that much,

834
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 1: you know I do, but I but I don't configurate

835
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 1: it not having to like prove to everyone that you're happy. Agreed. Agreed.

836
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: I I feel like there's a little bit of defensives

837
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: in there, so I hope that they're not in a

838
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: bad place. I think they're fine. I think Rachel just

839
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: doesn't want to I don't think she wants to be

840
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: part of the franchise at all anymore. And I think

841
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 1: that she's probably saying, like in my relationship was founded

842
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 1: on the franchise, so therefore I don't even want to

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