Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect back and just like that, we're
Speaker 1: back on the air. Welcome back to yet another carefully
Speaker 1: Reckless episode with your girl just hilarious. So I know
Speaker 1: that y'all just saw the ship that happened at the Oscars, Will,
Speaker 1: Jada and Chris Rock. I'm just gonna jump straight into
Speaker 1: it because I have a few things to say about
Speaker 1: it and a few different perspectives to expose, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean to put out there, So y'all can
Speaker 1: kind of look at it from different ways now all
Speaker 1: day me. I'm team Will. Now. I love Chris Rock
Speaker 1: as well. He's not my favorite comedian, but he is
Speaker 1: a damn good businessman and a great actor to me.
Speaker 1: If you don't know what happened, Okay, so I don't
Speaker 1: know if Chris Rock was the host. I was really
Speaker 1: not interested enough this year to watch the Oscars to
Speaker 1: even find that out. M I do want to highlight
Speaker 1: the females in comedy that they highlighted and the show
Speaker 1: as well. But Chris Rock had made a comment about
Speaker 1: Jada's head. He called her g I Jane basically, are
Speaker 1: we are we getting ready? For a g I Jane too,
Speaker 1: you know, referencing her bald head. Now listen. Sometime ago
Speaker 1: last year, I think she did a Red Table talk,
Speaker 1: but she's also talked about it in other interviews as well.
Speaker 1: She has a condition that makes her hair come out,
Speaker 1: and that's also why Willow cut her hair as well
Speaker 1: for her mom. But there is something medical going on.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna put any sickness on her. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna because I don't know exactly what it is. I
Speaker 1: don't remember her even saying exactly what it is. But
Speaker 1: she has a condition that makes her hair fall out.
Speaker 1: She literally has been balding for years, and she was
Speaker 1: open about it and it went viral, so I know
Speaker 1: everybody had to see it, or at least everyone in
Speaker 1: our culture. I mean, I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 1: who didn't know this ship, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And there is a lot of ship that I don't know.
Speaker 1: There's so much shit I don't know. But what I
Speaker 1: do know is that because I put her in just
Speaker 1: with the mess one time for losing her hair. It
Speaker 1: was a certain way that she talked about and I
Speaker 1: thought it was funny. And this was before she had
Speaker 1: said something about her condition, so I didn't talk about
Speaker 1: it anymore. I mean, which I don't beat a dead horse.
Speaker 1: So if I talk about something once, I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: talking about it. Yeah. So she had shortly after that
Speaker 1: came out and admitted to hair loss due to a
Speaker 1: certain condition, a medical condition that she's struggling with. So
Speaker 1: Chris Rock, I guess not knowing that I don't know,
Speaker 1: or him just still being a comedian because as comedians
Speaker 1: were very dark. Sometimes we don't care who is the
Speaker 1: butt of the joke. We just have to make it.
Speaker 1: And that's okay at times, but it's very cringe e
Speaker 1: when it's on national TV and it's your own people.
Speaker 1: And I'm not even trying to be that person trying
Speaker 1: to destroy him for what he said, trying to just
Speaker 1: jump on the bandwagon of oh teen will. And that's
Speaker 1: fucked up that he said that, because comedy is very limitless.
Speaker 1: But while it's very limitless, you can't make jokes like
Speaker 1: that about people in their face when they have already
Speaker 1: said what their issue was, their medical issue was. Like
Speaker 1: that took me back to when I had made fun
Speaker 1: of Chadwick Boseman, which still bothers me to this fucking day,
Speaker 1: which is why I only do just with the mess sometimes.
Speaker 1: And I'm only doing it because y'all keep asking for it,
Speaker 1: because I honestly been trying to give up on that
Speaker 1: ship after Chadwick Boseman died. Now listen, it had nothing
Speaker 1: to do with everybody else telling me, oh, you funked up,
Speaker 1: you did it, and I got canceled after that. But
Speaker 1: it wasn't even the fact that people had thought that
Speaker 1: they canceled me. It was the fact that I really
Speaker 1: did not know that he was suffering with cancer. And
Speaker 1: I made that joke about his weight loss and how
Speaker 1: skinny his face got and how dark his skin, you know,
Speaker 1: his complexion was getting. I'm just thinking that this this
Speaker 1: man was out in the sun and and had to
Speaker 1: lose weight for a movie or a role, because you know,
Speaker 1: actors do that, They lose weight, they make all types
Speaker 1: of alterations to their bodies when they're doing certain roles.
Speaker 1: And he was a fucking actor. He did eleven movies
Speaker 1: from the time he was told he was diagnosed. He
Speaker 1: did eleven movies and like two years bro he went
Speaker 1: hard as ship because he knew his time was limited.
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm thinking, not even knowing that he
Speaker 1: had cancer, not even thinking to even research that ship.
Speaker 1: You know, as comedians before they make Joe, some research,
Speaker 1: some don't. That's just one of the disadvantages of comedy.
Speaker 1: But when Chris Rock made that comment about Jada doing
Speaker 1: g I Jane too because of her hair cut, at
Speaker 1: first Will was laughing. Now we can all see that
Speaker 1: he was laughing. It was Jada who did not find
Speaker 1: that ship funny. She didn't find it funny. You can
Speaker 1: tell she's really really tired of being the butt of
Speaker 1: the fucking joke her and her husband. You can tell.
Speaker 1: You can actually see the pain in Will's eyes. Let's
Speaker 1: hint on another thing before we get to the slab. Now,
Speaker 1: we have seen Will emotional in movies. We've seen him
Speaker 1: emotional and shows. We've seen him act like a motherfucker.
Speaker 1: This man can cry on cue, but we have only
Speaker 1: seen him cry and get emotional personally without a camera
Speaker 1: in his fucking face, without it being action. For the
Speaker 1: past few years now, we've seen this ship much more
Speaker 1: after the entanglement thing with august Elsina and Jada. But
Speaker 1: he's been very open with his emotions. Men do cry.
Speaker 1: Men do feel feelings just like we do. I hate
Speaker 1: that there were comments trying to emasculate him, like what
Speaker 1: then are you gonna smack a nigga fo and cry?
Speaker 1: And why the funk you crying? Like that's really what
Speaker 1: the funk He's also talking about as well in his speech,
Speaker 1: he was saying, yo to be able to do this
Speaker 1: ship be a celebrity or being a public eye. And
Speaker 1: if whether you're an influencer or reality show starring actor,
Speaker 1: a fucking rapper, a singer, a motivational speaker, a public figure, whatever,
Speaker 1: if you have a platform and you are big enough
Speaker 1: to where people following you, a mass group of people
Speaker 1: following me, which is you know your fans or supporters,
Speaker 1: you have to deal with them flip flopping on You
Speaker 1: gotta deal with people talking ship on you like they
Speaker 1: know you and you can only show them a little
Speaker 1: piece of your fucking life. But they're gonna make up
Speaker 1: other parts to it, the parts that they don't know,
Speaker 1: the parts that you didn't show them. They speculate and
Speaker 1: they make up their own ship. They talk ship. People
Speaker 1: get disrespectful, and then other celebrities get disrespectful. You gotta
Speaker 1: sit and take that ship. Like you said, you gotta
Speaker 1: smile through that ship all the time, I felt exactly
Speaker 1: what he was saying, and I'm just with the mess. Now.
Speaker 1: I don't think he's talking about people like me because
Speaker 1: I'm never disrespectful. I'll make fun of some ship whatever,
Speaker 1: I'll make light of some ship whatever. But ever since
Speaker 1: that ship happened with Chadwick, I haven't made fun of
Speaker 1: anybody's fucking appearance. Like if it looks like they're losing weight,
Speaker 1: or if it looks like something that's going on with
Speaker 1: or whatever, I stay away from that ship. You never
Speaker 1: know what people are fucking going through. And you can
Speaker 1: literally see the pain in Will's eyes after he smacked
Speaker 1: them and after he gave the speech. Now back to it.
Speaker 1: He was laughing. But when he looked though, and he's
Speaker 1: seen his wife's reaction, He's seen how uncomfortable she was.
Speaker 1: He's seen no, no, no, no no no, this nigga making
Speaker 1: fun of her and she's uncomfortable and she's not laughing.
Speaker 1: So I have to make this right. He then got
Speaker 1: up went up to the stage. Now, listen, you can
Speaker 1: tell Chris Rock his reaction of it. He didn't know
Speaker 1: what the funk Will was gonna do. Honestly, I really,
Speaker 1: honestly and truly feel that he may have thought Will
Speaker 1: was gonna snatch the mike and say something back on
Speaker 1: the mike, make another joke, I'm a crack back on
Speaker 1: you or whatever. Nah, he smacked the ship out that nigger.
Speaker 1: Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship getting good.
Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple of seconds of a
Speaker 1: commercial with you love Me. You'll listen. Now, let's get
Speaker 1: into the smack, because I couldn't help but to find
Speaker 1: a funny moment in the way he smacked him. He
Speaker 1: smacked him like like that was like a movie smack,
Speaker 1: Like I swear to God, like if you go in
Speaker 1: YouTube making of movies, like the makings of movies, and
Speaker 1: you do stunt double and look up like all types
Speaker 1: of stunt and fighting and ship martial arts and all
Speaker 1: that ship, and you will see that Will was taught
Speaker 1: this ship. I guess he did it a lot in
Speaker 1: Gemini Man and in Handcock and Ship. But this nick
Speaker 1: good movie smacked the shift out of him. That wasn't
Speaker 1: a Philly smack. No, no, that that wasn't no hood smack.
Speaker 1: It was just some hood ship to smack Chris Rock
Speaker 1: on National TV for coming for your wife. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean. But Nigga, that wasn't a hood smack.
Speaker 1: I just want to put that out there for everybody
Speaker 1: in Philly because I know that they was kind of
Speaker 1: thinking too, like nigga, um, that's not a West Philly smack.
Speaker 1: But we're gonna take it because he was out of
Speaker 1: line boom right. So he smacked him and he walked
Speaker 1: the funk off, and Chris Rock in that moment, was
Speaker 1: still a comedian and still kept the show going. He
Speaker 1: could have fought back. He could have pressed charges, which
Speaker 1: he didn't. By the way, that was confirmed. He could
Speaker 1: have done anything. He could have stood there, went told
Speaker 1: and told, well, blah blah blah whatever. He didn't. He
Speaker 1: turned it into a joke. His occupation. What the funk
Speaker 1: he does so his career. He said, Okay, Will Smith
Speaker 1: just smacked the shift out of me. Everybody laughed. It
Speaker 1: was comic relief. I know that ship burned. I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. Even though it was a movie smack.
Speaker 1: We've seen how hard his little head jerked. I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna lie. He had a little strong neck though he
Speaker 1: ain't slap him silly. If he would have hit a
Speaker 1: circle like Tyler Perry actors be doing when they'd be
Speaker 1: doing too much, I would have been like, okay, this
Speaker 1: ship has scripted. This nigger did not turn around like that,
Speaker 1: But I felt like it was real, right. And then
Speaker 1: he went back and he sat down and he said, Yo,
Speaker 1: it was just a joke. It was. He said, keep
Speaker 1: my wife's name out of your fucking mouth. He said, Yo,
Speaker 1: it was a g I Jane joke. He said, I
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. Keep my fucking wife's name out
Speaker 1: of your mouth. He said, okay, I'm going to and
Speaker 1: then on with the show. We went, all right. Now,
Speaker 1: imagine in that moment how Jada felt as she sees
Speaker 1: her husband comes to her fucking rescue. After I noticed
Speaker 1: she noticed that he laughed as well. I don't even
Speaker 1: think that he thought it was funny. I just think
Speaker 1: Will was being a good sport. I didn't think that
Speaker 1: he even knew that Jada wou react that way because
Speaker 1: they already take so much off of fucking people about
Speaker 1: their marriage and ship. Now they put it out there
Speaker 1: all willingly and freely, but still people have to learn
Speaker 1: how to still respect them as a couple because at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, they still standing together, They're
Speaker 1: still a union, they're still husband and wife. Even previously
Speaker 1: a few weeks back, Laverne Cox had them on a
Speaker 1: red carpet and she said something to them. She congratulated
Speaker 1: red table Talk, She congratulated will on King Richard and
Speaker 1: you know, all of their success together and individually. And
Speaker 1: then at the end she kind of went sour with
Speaker 1: it and was like, and Jada, we ain't gonna be
Speaker 1: expecting no more entanglements, right, And even in Jada's little smirk,
Speaker 1: she was like, all right, now, bitch, respect me. Stop
Speaker 1: sucking playing with me. Y'all can say whatever y'all want
Speaker 1: behind my back and on Twitter and behind that keyboard online,
Speaker 1: but do not disrespect me in my fucking face. I
Speaker 1: don't like that ship. You can literally see those words
Speaker 1: spewing out of her ears, coming off the wrinkles in
Speaker 1: the forehead. Well, she ain't got no damn wrinkles. Listen,
Speaker 1: skin just as tight as rappers pants. I know that
Speaker 1: she was feeling some type of way about that. And
Speaker 1: Vivica Fox said something about that. Lisa Ray said something
Speaker 1: about that, it's fucking tacky bitch. Why would you say that? Now?
Speaker 1: I love Laverne Cox, but bitch have some class and
Speaker 1: some cool. And she never apologized, but she responded with
Speaker 1: some bullshit. Anyway, that's another story for another day. Now
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look at it on the flip side. Here's
Speaker 1: another point of view. So needless to say, all celebrities
Speaker 1: and all influencers will mostly agree with Will. Oh, you
Speaker 1: did what you're supposed to do and I did too,
Speaker 1: shout I'm one of them Team Will on this one.
Speaker 1: You know. However, Mario felt a different way. The singer
Speaker 1: he's also from Baltimore too, Don't I like Yellow Ma
Speaker 1: Mari y'ello yame? So he says, I ain't buying it,
Speaker 1: y'all believe in that slap is the reason we spent
Speaker 1: two years in lockdowns. I get it now. He goes
Speaker 1: on to say, America is the biggest circus show. It's
Speaker 1: crazy at this point, why did they have to use
Speaker 1: the grades for a viral moment? Shaking my head? They
Speaker 1: cast it this well, now, listen, that's a whole different perspectives.
Speaker 1: Before y'all get all mad at Mario and and and
Speaker 1: cancel him for saying what he's saying. Y'all got to
Speaker 1: really think about it though. Now, like I said, I
Speaker 1: really don't agree, but I'm open to what he's saying.
Speaker 1: So y'all remember a couple of weeks back, a lot
Speaker 1: of big gass celebrities, big names, had all teamed up
Speaker 1: and said that they would boycott the fucking Oscars. Right.
Speaker 1: They also said that ship about the Grammys, but they
Speaker 1: all said that. Now these are big names, big stars.
Speaker 1: It was so much controversy surrounding the Oscars previous to
Speaker 1: it airing this year because it's not black enough. So listen,
Speaker 1: what if that ship was staged and scripted to increased views?
Speaker 1: Do you get what I'm saying? And the only way
Speaker 1: that it could work is if they use two of
Speaker 1: the biggest fucking names that's in the building of the
Speaker 1: Oscars that night. You got Will Smith, you got Chris Rock,
Speaker 1: and then the butt of the joke was Jada Pinkett Smith.
Speaker 1: Now you have to be open enough to even see
Speaker 1: it like this. If you're clothes minded, you're gonna turn
Speaker 1: the podcast off. Now I need you to listen to it.
Speaker 1: When Will got up and went up there to smack Chris,
Speaker 1: no security jumped out, nobody walked up, nobody ran up.
Speaker 1: Usually on these sets, security right there, I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: I've been to the Emmy's, I've been to b ET Awards,
Speaker 1: like they have security every couple of fucking feet waiting
Speaker 1: for some ship to pop off. Because this is a broadcast.
Speaker 1: This is not just a fucking event. This is on
Speaker 1: national TV. This is live as well, so they gotta
Speaker 1: be ready, right, nobody ran up. We saw no security.
Speaker 1: And you know another thing about the Oscars is you
Speaker 1: cannot curse on National TV. You cannot curse at the Oscars.
Speaker 1: You can't curse. But this is also a live show,
Speaker 1: so they might slip, but for the most part they
Speaker 1: catch it. They had Will on camera, high definition, screaming
Speaker 1: to the top of his lungs, keep my fucking wife's
Speaker 1: name out your mouth, not one, but twice, and he
Speaker 1: dropped the f bomb three times in total. They didn't
Speaker 1: bleep that ship, they didn't hurry up and cut to commercial.
Speaker 1: They kept that ship going. Why it still happened live,
Speaker 1: So everybody who was doing absolutely nothing or absolutely something
Speaker 1: saw this ship escalate. It went viral, and that directed
Speaker 1: everybody's attention to the fucking Oscars because everybody was hyped
Speaker 1: over that moment. But you better believe everybody wanted to
Speaker 1: still see how the rest of the show played out,
Speaker 1: how everybody else was affected. Was everybody still thinking about
Speaker 1: it when they accepted their awards and when they performed
Speaker 1: and ship and all of that, Like, yo, you gotta
Speaker 1: think about it like that too. Now we got a
Speaker 1: commercial and if you click off of this podcast, I
Speaker 1: swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen. Maybe it was planned.
Speaker 1: You have to also think about that, be open to
Speaker 1: it now. Like I said, again, I don't think so,
Speaker 1: but I'm definitely open to believing that they would do
Speaker 1: something like that. Now. I don't know what the fun
Speaker 1: Chris Rock would do for some money, but I inc
Speaker 1: Will and Jada have been open enough with us for
Speaker 1: us to know or for us to think that they
Speaker 1: wouldn't do no ship like that for no money or
Speaker 1: just period like like not not the Smiths. I don't
Speaker 1: know about Chris Rock, but not not the Smiths. But again,
Speaker 1: we don't personally know these fucking people. We know what
Speaker 1: they show us. But if the whole ship was staged,
Speaker 1: one thing that is real Will's pain that Nigga has
Speaker 1: been hurting for a few years now, ship, and I
Speaker 1: think he's more emotional now than he's ever been. Well
Speaker 1: that that he's showing us, but he's also showing us
Speaker 1: that men do have feelings, and men do cry, and
Speaker 1: they do feel they do get sad. When you strip
Speaker 1: all the toughness away and all the masculinity, strip all
Speaker 1: that that pride and that ego ship away, you still
Speaker 1: have a human being who has feelings and who has
Speaker 1: a heart, and hearts they do break, and they can
Speaker 1: be broken. They can be repaired, but it's nothing like
Speaker 1: when it breaks, and it's nothing like have to wake
Speaker 1: up and not even wanting to go online because you know,
Speaker 1: it's all negativity. It's it's a bunch of bullshit that's
Speaker 1: being said about you, and it's a bunch of ridicule
Speaker 1: you have to face. And you really may well be
Speaker 1: a great person, but these people, they make you not
Speaker 1: want to be so great, they make you not feel
Speaker 1: so great. You know, that's just the impact that one
Speaker 1: can have on another these days and not even know you,
Speaker 1: and you don't even know them. That ship is hurtful,
Speaker 1: and so I definitely wanna give a shout out to
Speaker 1: Will for not only smacking Chris, but defending his wife
Speaker 1: when he's seeing that she wasn't okay with something she
Speaker 1: felt uncomfortable. He defended his wife. That's what a husband does.
Speaker 1: That's what a protector does. That's what your partner does
Speaker 1: for you. No matter what's going on, no matter where
Speaker 1: we're at, they're strong as a couple. They're strong and
Speaker 1: ship y'all. And honestly, remember everybody used to say, oh yo,
Speaker 1: they goes, they goes, and then we kind of retracted
Speaker 1: that statement when we found out about the entanglements and
Speaker 1: all of that ship. But when you really think about
Speaker 1: how they ride for each other and how they can
Speaker 1: put everything all they bullshit out on the table and
Speaker 1: still be together and still be happy and and still
Speaker 1: make TikTok's and really have fun together. Like you know,
Speaker 1: they're best friends, and that ship and itself is goals,
Speaker 1: because you gotta think about it, they didn't get here
Speaker 1: by being the perfect couple. They got here having to
Speaker 1: go through ship. Ship that they've been was going through.
Speaker 1: We just became privy to this ship. You got so
Speaker 1: many allegations on Will, so many allegations on Jada, all
Speaker 1: of that ship they're staying together. They have a beautiful family,
Speaker 1: they're successful, but even they face the heat. You get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, and they're strong enough not to let
Speaker 1: him melt them, not to let this ship pull them away.
Speaker 1: That's real goals. Also, before I get out of here,
Speaker 1: I wanna give quest Love a big shout out. He
Speaker 1: wanna fucking Oscar, he wanna fun And if you don't
Speaker 1: know who the fun quest Love is, nigga, you're tripping
Speaker 1: because I ain't gonna tell you. You got to go
Speaker 1: find that ship out for yourself, nigger, study your roots. Boom.
Speaker 1: We come to the end to yet another Carefully Reckless episode,
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