1 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: Hey, what up. Welcome in from Paradise. This is All Ball. 2 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 2: I'm Doug Gottlieb, and today's All Ball is going to 3 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 2: focus part one of Vermel Pathea and Ramel is a 4 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: young man who I think you've probably all heard about, 5 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 2: or read about, or wondered about. He's twenty nine years old. 6 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 2: He's a sophomore, and you'll hear his story before we 7 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: get to that. Just a quick update. We released the 8 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 2: All Ball, the last All Ball with Nico Medvet, head 9 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 2: coach of Minnesota, and then we played them to overtime. 10 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 2: Really proud of my group in that the things that 11 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 2: we have been emphasizing and things that we've needed to 12 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 2: get from them, we thought, by and large we got. 13 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 2: You know, I played my returners and I have four 14 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: returners and one who red shirted, actually two red shirted, 15 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 2: ones a walk on, but one was a walk on. 16 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 2: We gave a scholarship to in Kate Wilkins, and what 17 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 2: we think as everybody in college basketball to connectivity at 18 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 2: this time of year is just gigantic. We played the 19 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 2: most connecting guys, the guys who are the most physical. 20 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 2: We had to match the physicality of Minnesota, who look 21 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: they're they're not where they want to be just yet, 22 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 2: but they are extremely physical, very good rebounding team, and 23 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: we took them in overtime. We competed with them, got 24 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 2: to make three throws, got to get a couple more stops. 25 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 2: But we're also able to change defenses and maintain our 26 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 2: our aggressiveness. 27 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,199 Speaker 1: Se Yeah, that's like the big. 28 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 2: Fear when my staff was like, hey, coach, we need 29 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 2: to put in the zone. Absolutely, I agree, but we 30 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: need to put in the zone that we can rebound 31 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 2: out of. We need to put in the zone that 32 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: we can come out of and still play high quality 33 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 2: man a man defense, and we need to put in 34 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: a zone that works for our personnel. 35 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: I think that's a big thing. 36 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: But I also want to share with you two quick 37 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 2: It goes one from the game. So coaching at Minnesota, 38 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 2: you're up kind of on that stage, right, and every 39 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: player who walks in there, and we've gotten this from 40 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,959 Speaker 2: fans like wow, that makes me think somebody's going to 41 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 2: fall off the ledge. 42 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: And you know the. 43 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 2: Point I've made is I've done this with houses, right, 44 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 2: Like when we bought a house in Oklahoma City, our 45 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: first home, I remember saying, well, this house has been 46 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 2: here since nineteen thirty seven, No tornado's knocked it down. 47 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: Seems like a pretty good place to buy. You use 48 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 2: that with the Minnesota. Hey, when you're playing at the barn, 49 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 2: that gim has been open for ninety seven years. If 50 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 2: they've maintained this elevated court and no one sued and won, 51 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 2: it means it's got to be safe enough for you. 52 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 2: Other anecdote I will I will share with you is 53 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 2: how something's going to be when it's very, very different. 54 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 2: And when you're coaching at Minnesota, the players and your 55 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: assistant coaches are actually below you, so you kind of 56 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 2: think you won't be able to hear them or have 57 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 2: a connection with them, as you do feel like it's 58 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 2: just you and ten players, kind of like the Final 59 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 2: Four right where you had the two coaches and the 60 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: ten players out there and nobody else. 61 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: But because Minnesota. 62 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 2: Has the benches so close to the court, that guys 63 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 2: are up, you know, basically laying on the court, smacking 64 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 2: the table, smacking the wood, and they actually provide a 65 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 2: lot of. 66 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: Energy for your team. 67 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 2: Additionally, the acoustics or such where I actually could hear 68 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 2: every one of my assistants and had to tell the 69 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 2: players to make sure that they said something say it 70 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 2: in unison, because otherwise you can hear every different little 71 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: individual voice. Last thing is this, And I do think 72 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 2: we're in this group of like two hundred schools where 73 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: you know, we're playing competition that technically is above us, 74 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: financially in many places is above us, and so we're 75 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: trying to compete, but we're also trying to figure. 76 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: Out our team for conference playing. 77 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 2: And you see a lot of kind of wonky results 78 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 2: where you know, I've obviously Scott Crosses a hell. 79 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: Of a coach. He's a tremendous coach, going back to 80 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: his days at Darlington. 81 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: And you look at Troy beat in San Diego State 82 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 2: nearly beating USC and kind of what they're doing there, 83 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: and you end up, without knowing any of their players, 84 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 2: cheering for those guys because they, like you, are a 85 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 2: lower mid major. 86 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: Collecting checks and just trying to collect wins. 87 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 2: And we felt that even playing against Minnesota, how many 88 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 2: texts or tweets you get from people going like, hey, 89 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: we're out here cheering for you. We don't know you, 90 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: but everybody's cheering for the little guy we play Yale tonight. 91 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,679 Speaker 2: James Jones is an unbelievable coach. Obviously, once he started 92 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 2: to build it, he knew. You know, it takes you 93 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 2: a while to figure out what you need how to 94 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: recruit at your program. But I'll share with you this story. 95 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 2: Sky Yettan, who's now at UC San Diego, is a 96 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 2: dear friend of mine. Of course, he's the defensive coordinator 97 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 2: going BA a couple of years ago at Princeton. So 98 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: I called him and I said, hey, man, what's your 99 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: advice on playing Yale? 100 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: His advice was, don't. 101 00:04:58,480 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 3: I love that? 102 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 1: Don't They're awesome? Thousands amazing. We agree. 103 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 2: The last thing is this. You know, you tell kids 104 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 2: they're all on their own journey. They're all on their 105 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 2: own path. And I want you to listen to Ramelbathea 106 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 2: because you know, when you're twenty nine and you decide 107 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 2: to play for me, so people are paying attention to you, 108 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 2: when if you're at any other school at our level, 109 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 2: no one's paying attention to box scores or how much 110 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: you're playing, on what you're doing. And I probably did 111 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 2: him a disservice starting him against Kansas. My thought was 112 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 2: that if I didn't start him, he might be deflated 113 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 2: by the idea of hey, I've tried all this, I've 114 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 2: tried for this long and I just, you know, you 115 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: want to see a little bit. 116 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: Of payback for it, you know. And he didn't play well. 117 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 1: He was a little overwhelmed. He played against and he'll. 118 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 2: Talk about it Flory Padunga, who is a younger, slightly 119 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 2: more athletic, but a more experience as a basketball player 120 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 2: version of Ramel And I could tell just watching him 121 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 2: play and watching him on tape that there was times 122 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 2: that was in that game in which he got deflated 123 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 2: and defeated and didn't understand why things weren't easier. And 124 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 2: we had told him how hard it was going to be. 125 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: And I barely played against Minnesota. He played a little 126 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 2: bit against Saint Thomas. But I do think that as 127 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: the season comes back to kind of our level, we developed, 128 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,119 Speaker 2: develop and right he'll still be a weapon for us. 129 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: He just needs experience. 130 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 2: And the hard part about gaining experience is we're trying 131 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 2: to compete to win. This is not that we want 132 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 2: to develop. You can't necessarily develop at that's this level 133 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 2: of games, if that makes any sense to you. But 134 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: I want you to listen to his story. He wanted 135 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 2: to come on the pot. We're gonna have all my 136 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 2: players on the pod this year. It's all part of 137 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 2: the player. But Ramel said, hey, you know everybody tells 138 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: my story. Nobody tells him right. So I said, well, 139 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 2: if you want to tell it right, you tell me 140 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: how you want to do it. He said, I want 141 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 2: to come on your podcast. But the part that I 142 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 2: knew but has been kind of reinstalled in my brain 143 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 2: is at the end of the day, they're just kids. 144 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 2: And I know you're saying he's twenty nine years old, 145 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: he's an adult, but if you listen to his life story, 146 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: he hasn't experienced any of this. It's a little bit 147 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 2: like you guys remember in Sin No Man. You've seen 148 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 2: in Sino Man, Where isn't it was? It was like 149 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 2: frozen because of uh, he's like frozen in time. He's 150 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 2: like a Neanderthal man who's frozen in time and everything 151 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 2: is new to him, like literally everything, or he's in 152 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 2: a like he was in a cocoon, or he's in 153 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 2: a colma and now, all of a sudden, because he's 154 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 2: twenty nine years old, our expectations of him are to 155 00:07:56,520 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 2: be this mature, ex military adult when he's just as 156 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 2: curious as any freshman. 157 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: This is all as new to him as is any freshman, 158 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: and just like freshmen, it takes time. They're going to 159 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: have ups and downs. 160 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 2: They're just gonna be the missing of home, the missing 161 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 2: of easier times, the missing of easier basketball, and the 162 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 2: questioning of what am I actually doing. 163 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: I went through it. 164 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 2: He played college basketball, played any college sport. Actually, even 165 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 2: as a college student. I think most people go through. 166 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: Right, there's the initial you're away from home. 167 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 2: It's fun, you know, no parents, no guidelines, Let's just 168 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 2: go out have a good time. 169 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: In this case, you're playing basketball. Life is good. 170 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 2: But then when it gets real to you, everybody gets 171 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 2: homesick on some level. 172 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 1: So take a list through mel Story Part one and 173 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: tell what you think. 174 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 2: In the meantime, check us out tonight today one thirty 175 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 2: Island time that we take on the Yale Bulldogs and 176 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 2: we'll see just how much we've grown up from a 177 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 2: really disappointing performance against Saint Thomas. But of course that 178 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: was mired by the loss of Donchell Hewlett, who was 179 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:06,319 Speaker 2: trending towards being a starting caliber point guard. But we 180 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 2: showed up and played with great toughness and intensity against Minnesota. 181 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 1: And Yale's probably a little bit better than Minnesota. 182 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 2: They're a top one hundred, top seventy five team picked 183 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 2: to win the IVY League would be. 184 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 1: A great challenge. 185 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 2: So we're gonna drop one of these today and try 186 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 2: drop part two tomorrow as we'll recap the game and 187 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: look forward to whomever we play. But in the meantime, 188 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 2: here's Ramel bethea sophomore. He's a veteran at a lum 189 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 2: of Mira Costa Junior College in California, and he's our 190 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 2: sophomore center at Green Bad. 191 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 4: Fox Sports Radio has the best sports talk lineup in 192 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 4: the nation. Catch all of our shows at foxsports Radio 193 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 4: dot com and within the iHeartRadio app search FSR to 194 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 4: listen live. 195 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 2: I haven't want to do this pod with you for 196 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 2: a long time, but it was more kind of you 197 00:09:58,840 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 2: volunteering it up right. 198 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 3: Don't want to force you to do it. Yeah, tell 199 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 3: a little nutter, shorty. 200 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 5: So you grew up where I grew up in for Washington, Maryland. 201 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 5: That's a nice little area in Maryland right outside of DC. 202 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 5: Never quiet kid, I was shy playing video games. That 203 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 5: was like my liking coming up, but neighborhood kids, so 204 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,719 Speaker 5: basketball was a thing that we did. You know, basketball, 205 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 5: backyard football? 206 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 3: So I would you play backyard football? 207 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 2: Did you play quarter because like there's all time quarterback 208 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: was a wide receiver. 209 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 5: We would I would go like wide receiver a little bit. 210 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 5: I was catching the ball and falling to the ground 211 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 5: because I was always like real small, but I can catch, 212 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 5: so I want to get. 213 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 3: So you were small as a kid. So wait, mom 214 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 3: and dad together in your homework? 215 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, both parents? 216 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 3: What did what did your dad do for a living? 217 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 5: My dad he drove trucks, so he was like a 218 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 5: truck driver at barber so he was he did like 219 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 5: the state line truck driving, so he would he'll be 220 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 5: gone a lot. But he also would like get us 221 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 5: involved and stuff like that. But he was always there. 222 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 5: My mom was like a receptionist, so she worked best 223 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 5: jobs and just a working family. 224 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 3: Okay, so how big how tall is your mom? I 225 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 3: told your dad? 226 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 6: My mom is five eight five nine and my dad 227 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 6: is six four. 228 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 3: Okay she your dad's taller. 229 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 2: But you were always a little growing up, right, Yeah, 230 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 2: gir also young too. 231 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 3: Didn't you graduate in high school seventeen. 232 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 6: So I graduate. Yeah, I graduated at seventeen. 233 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So did you play organized sports as a 234 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:38,959 Speaker 2: little kid. 235 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 5: So when I growing up, my dad like young we 236 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 5: played like I played like a year of football, two 237 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 5: years of football Boys and Girls Club, and then I 238 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 5: played a year of basketball boys and Girls Club, probably 239 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 5: around the age of like probably like eleven or twelve, 240 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 5: did that. After that, my dad he was big into boxing. 241 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 5: So growing up I used to be like a little 242 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 5: boxer for long. 243 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 3: Whoa whoa, whoa whoa. 244 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 2: We had no idea that. So somebody throws hands, we 245 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 2: should get behind me. You have the reach on dudes. Yeah, 246 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 2: and you would be in a super low weight class too. 247 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 5: Yeah, And that's so okay. So that's why I actually stopped. 248 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 5: So I actually boxed for about like six years and 249 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 5: after certainly I want to say my sophomore year at 250 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 5: high school, I was like six two, but I'm like 251 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 5: one hundred and thirty pounds at six two, and then 252 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 5: it was like, no one's in my weight class, So 253 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 5: I started getting exhibition fights, wasn't going to my record, 254 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 5: So it was kind of getting to the point where 255 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 5: it was like I couldn't get any fights. So I 256 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 5: kind of after that it was just like I was 257 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 5: done with sports, like in general, like, but boxing was 258 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 5: the main one out of everything I did. 259 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 6: So what high school is this from the high school 260 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 6: and for Washington, Maryland. 261 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 2: So nobody was like, hey man, you played a little 262 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 2: bit growing up. You're kind of kind of tallish. I mean, 263 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 2: I know you may think you're a small in personal now, 264 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 2: but like small in high school. It's like, hey, bro, 265 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 2: you should play some hood. 266 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 6: So actually we did. So I was in gym class 267 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 6: and stuff. 268 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 5: I'm I always kind of been like athletic, so I'm 269 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 5: in the gym Duncan and like our basketball culture was 270 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 5: like our one of my teachers was like an English 271 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 5: teacher and he taught me. He was like, well, you 272 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 5: should try ol for the basketball team and stuff like that. 273 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 5: So it was during training camp I went and uh, 274 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 5: in school, I kind of had bad grades. So what 275 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:29,839 Speaker 5: kind of messed me up was he called everyone that 276 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 5: had bad grades down during training camp for basketball to 277 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,319 Speaker 5: get ready for tryouts to the football field and we 278 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 5: had a duck walk the whole football field and then 279 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 5: I couldn't do I was just like, nah, I'm not 280 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 5: doing this. And that kind of killed it. Like I 281 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 5: wish I would have stuck through it in person. But 282 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 5: I didn't come from like a sport family, like like 283 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 5: I said, my family worked and stuff like that, so 284 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 5: I didn't really have no one to push me. So 285 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 5: once he had us out there, it was actually barre 286 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:55,199 Speaker 5: crawl in the football field. 287 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 6: I never came back. 288 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 2: And then that just it's funny because now you love 289 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 2: You're like you're like the first one. Okay, So so 290 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 2: you go through high school and what was the plan? 291 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 2: Like you're in high school, like I always want to 292 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 2: go to college. I want to go to work. There's 293 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 2: something you always want to do. Did you want to 294 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 2: get back into boxing? 295 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 3: Like what was what was the plan? 296 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 5: So at the high school, like I said, come forwar, 297 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 5: working family, I didn't care what I want to do. 298 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 5: I just didn't want to rush back into school. So 299 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 5: I didn't want to go to college. Like straight out 300 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 5: of high school, I wanted to work for some reason. 301 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 5: I wanted to have my own money, work and stuff 302 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 5: like that. So I graduated high school in twenty fourteen. 303 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 5: Everyone keeps thinkings twenty thirteen. I graduated in twenty fourteen, 304 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 5: and I moved out of my parents'. 305 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 6: House to live with my auntie. 306 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 5: And basically like at that time period, I was working, 307 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 5: like at the high school. I took like a two 308 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 5: a two year break and just working from little jobs 309 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 5: from like Target Harris. 310 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 3: Hold on, hold what Target? What did you do? 311 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 5: I was just we called it hard line, So I 312 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 5: was just filling shelves and stuff like that. 313 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 3: Okay, how many days a week? 314 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 5: Oh man, I was doing like I want to say, 315 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 5: just I was right under full time. 316 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 6: So I was doing like thirty hours a week. 317 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 3: What do you what did you make an hour? 318 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 5: I think like nine seventy five At that time period, 319 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 5: like minimum wage everywhere was just nine dollars. 320 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 2: So okay, so you're making nine an hour, you're working thirties. 321 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 2: What do you do with the rest of your time? 322 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 6: Video games? 323 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 3: What's your what's your gaming system of choice? 324 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 5: Eights box? And I played at that time. I was 325 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 5: addicted to two K. Like my mom used to hate it. 326 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 3: Every parent hates it. 327 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: Okay, So, but you do know you look like one 328 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 2: of the created characters, right, yeah? Yeah, So did you 329 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 2: play with a guy who looked like you look or 330 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 2: did you play with a certain team or guy, like 331 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 2: what was your jam. 332 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 5: I always went for like the skinny link linky tall dude. 333 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 3: So yeah, like Kevin d that's your guy. Yeah, he's 334 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 3: the Maryland guy that I'll make. 335 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, so that's that's the kind of style. 336 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 3: So, like, how good are you, like, like right. 337 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 2: Now when you playing the guys on the team in 338 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 2: two K? Do you just dominate? 339 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 5: I think I'm like so at that. I was so 340 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 5: good at two K, but I haven't played it in 341 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 5: a long time. I switched over to Call of Duty now, 342 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 5: but I just feel like I made my name in 343 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 5: the two K world when I was playing two K. 344 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 5: I even think that like my delusion. So I don't 345 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 5: think these guys to mess with me. 346 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 6: To this day. You know, I don't play it right now. 347 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 6: I think I can hop on and just beat all 348 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 6: of them. 349 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 3: So were you ranked? 350 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 6: I used to play like it's. 351 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 5: A game old called like stage and stuff like that, 352 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 5: but I was so we don't It wasn't like ranking system. 353 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 5: It was if you were known in the community. So 354 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 5: I was pretty known in the in the two K 355 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 5: community at that time. 356 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 2: So known two K community guy that comes with a 357 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 2: lot of perks, I'm sure. Yeah, Okay, So, so you're 358 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 2: stocking shelves at Target. 359 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 3: What was the next job? 360 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 6: I went to Dunkin Donuts? 361 00:16:59,080 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 3: Would you do with duncan? 362 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 6: Oh? My god, I was cooking. 363 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 5: I was making wake up raps, making coffee at like 364 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,679 Speaker 5: and I'm six' five just standing behind the. 365 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 6: Counter LIKE i, said all these HEIGHTS i don't think 366 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 6: are tall at the. 367 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:13,159 Speaker 5: Time so like WHEN i say sixty three and six 368 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 5: 'y five and stuff like, That i'm just Thinking i'm. 369 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 6: Regular i'm normal. 370 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,639 Speaker 5: Height but people are coming up to me, Like, yo 371 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 5: do you play. Basketball i'm, like, No i'm, working you 372 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 5: know WHAT i mean. That it never was like basketball 373 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 5: was not like that's my dad played, basketball SO i 374 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 5: used to watch him play, basketball like at the at 375 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 5: the men's leagues and stuff like. That SO i kind 376 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 5: of always was like around, basketball BUT i just it 377 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 5: wasn't my. Thing but just working and playing video games 378 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 5: for like those two two and a half. 379 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: Years that's a. Grinder you're grinding if you're making wake up. 380 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 2: Raps wakeup wraps are, bombed, dude really. Good you gotta 381 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 2: have the maple who? Bacon oh, man that's. Amazing that's 382 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 2: like the second greatest practice. Shot you have the greatest, 383 00:17:54,920 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 2: practice shoot is, forever, Right Nick Griddle griddle IS i 384 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 2: ain't gonna. 385 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 3: Fine you can work a dunk you can Own Duncan. 386 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 3: Dnuts you'd Like, yeah mc girdles really. Good it's, really 387 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 3: really really. Good. 388 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:10,679 Speaker 2: Okay so so you're working At Duncan tina get. 389 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:11,880 Speaker 3: Dunkin then what it's. 390 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 6: Called it's Called Harris. 391 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 5: Theater it's like a it's like a you, know like 392 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 5: different areas have different main food, stores like grocery stores 393 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 5: and stuff like. That For virginia they have like place Called. 394 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 5: Harris it's like wholes. Food it's like Whole. Foods. OKAY 395 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 5: i was working there and that's actually WHERE i met 396 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 5: the recruiter. 397 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 6: To like kind of like jump start my. 398 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:38,880 Speaker 3: Life, okay so what were you doing At Harris. 399 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 6: Theater shelves same? Thing so is that? Overnight, NO i 400 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 6: was doing it during the day. 401 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 5: Time so my main thing WAS i was working in, 402 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 5: produce so putting up, fruits vegetables and stuff like, that 403 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 5: making sure they, fresh rotating them, out and then just 404 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 5: helping out any in all the other. Departments, okay what 405 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:00,919 Speaker 5: year is? This Twenty THIS i gotta be like. TWENTY 406 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 5: i want to say twenty, seventeen twenty. 407 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 2: Eighteen, so, uh tell me about when the marine recruiter 408 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 2: first came. 409 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 5: In, well, basically she was doing her job AND i 410 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 5: was doing my, job BUT. 411 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:15,879 Speaker 6: I thought she was on. 412 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 5: Break so she's seeing me and not even like just 413 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 5: how my height and everything that. Didn't she's just trying 414 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 5: to just get someone to get. In so she got. 415 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 5: Me she basically got me in the doors of. 416 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 2: Like hold, on hold, on, hold what were you'res? Like 417 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 2: skipping a whole bunch? Here first of, all answered the big, 418 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 2: question was she? Hot is that is that? 419 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 6: Part? Yeah that's what that's that's that's. 420 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 3: What did is, right that's very. 421 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 2: Smart started a, conversation, right, Right so, so so what 422 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 2: what was your riz like at the? 423 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 5: TIME i ain'd no. RISK i didn't at. ALL i 424 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 5: didn't have no. Risks LIKE i, SAID i was in 425 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 5: the house gamer skinny out of. 426 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 3: It you, like, hey you want to come over and 427 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 3: play TWO? K. 428 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 6: Yeah that's not how it. 429 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 5: Worked that WAS i, mean she got a whole, career 430 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 5: she got a whole career that wasn't gonna. 431 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 3: Work so and then she was in was she in full? 432 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 6: Uniform she was in full? Uniform, Yeah. 433 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 2: Okay so you go over to kind of holler, her 434 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 2: and she starts, like, hey you ever thought about joining? 435 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 3: Her how did the? 436 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:17,719 Speaker 6: Gown she, so, yeah she we. 437 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,439 Speaker 5: Were it might have been a conversation started with my 438 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:22,879 Speaker 5: height at the, time six. Files she probably seen my 439 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 5: height and then probably asked me, that and then one 440 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 5: thing led to. ANOTHER i probably asked her about her, 441 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 5: job and she basically gave me like the rundown of 442 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 5: the military and basically starting starting a, career you know 443 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 5: WHAT i. 444 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 3: Mean get her phone? Number that's the big. Question did 445 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 3: you get? 446 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,119 Speaker 5: HER i didn't get her phone, number but she kept it. 447 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 5: Professional she kept it extremely. Professional and, yeah. 448 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 6: AND i caught the. Signs SO i called the. SIGNS 449 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 6: i was, like, okay. 450 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 5: Cool but then in the midst of all the conversation 451 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 5: where she was saying did seem like it did seem, Like, 452 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 5: okay that might be a decent opportunity for me to 453 00:20:58,119 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 5: go out with her. 454 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 3: Or to go and join the. Marine you want a marine? 455 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 2: AGAIN i just want to make sure you're, like wait a. 456 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 2: Second she might be into, me like, now, now, Okay 457 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 2: so you go home and you're, like, HEY i cain't 458 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 2: THINK i might want to join The. Marines, yeah what are 459 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:14,120 Speaker 2: your what your parents? 460 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 6: Say they actually was, like, no you ain't joining the. 461 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,919 Speaker 5: Marine it's like because they thought The marines are like 462 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 5: the Bad i'm. 463 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 3: Bad as you're like the nicest guy. 464 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 5: Ever, yeah so they're, LIKE i like the military for, 465 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 5: YOU i mean just step In stone and stuff like, 466 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 5: that BUT i don't think you should do the. Marine 467 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 5: So i'm, Like i'm gonna just keep doing. Marine but 468 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 5: then one thing like to, another the marine, LADY i 469 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 5: had tattoos on my arms and she might have even 470 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 5: seen it when she was talking to, me BUT i 471 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 5: had tattoos on my lower, arm on both my lower. 472 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 5: Arms so ONCE i told her, that then she was, like, 473 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 5: yeah well we at that time they. Weren't they're probably 474 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 5: more lenient on it now BECAUSE i think the numbers 475 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 5: are also there accepting more, stuff but at that time 476 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 5: they were like that that was just a no. No 477 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 5: so she led me to the navys and they just 478 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,159 Speaker 5: like it was times where like you go through the 479 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 5: process and they check up on, you make sure you're do. 480 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,360 Speaker 5: Anythings but if you don't check up on, them they 481 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 5: kind of kind of forced themselves on, you like, yo 482 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 5: like what's going on so AND i think they get 483 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 5: like some type of not, compensation but like, yeah awards or. 484 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 5: Something so they were like. That it was times WHERE 485 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 5: i WAS i don't know IF i want to do, 486 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 5: it but they kept talking to me to it until 487 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 5: the point where it's Like i'm gonna do. It then 488 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 5: ONCE i finally got to do, It LIKE i, SAID 489 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 5: i was. SKINNY i was like at this, Time i'm 490 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,719 Speaker 5: sixty five one hundred and like thirty five pounds When 491 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 5: i'm talking to, them and like people always think about 492 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 5: like overweight is a reason why people can't go to the. 493 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 5: MILITARY i was underweight AND i couldn't get in BECAUSE 494 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,919 Speaker 5: i was too, tall too. SKINNY i had TO i 495 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 5: had to be minimums one hundred and fifty five pounds 496 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 5: for my. Height so that process of me joined the 497 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 5: military took extremely, Long like it was like a whole 498 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 5: year process of me trying to gain. Weight AND i 499 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 5: finally got to one hundred and fifty five on the, 500 00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 5: DOT i went up. 501 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 6: There and how old? 502 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 3: Wait, wait, wait how old Are you're six? Six and 503 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 3: held the one hundred fifty. 504 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:07,199 Speaker 6: Fine at that, TIME i was two year, process SO 505 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 6: i was, Nineteen. 506 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 3: No but you were out of that was two years 507 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 3: out of high. 508 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 5: SCHOOL i was SO i didn't HIT i didn't hit six. 509 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 5: SET i joined the military at sixty. Six, ACTUALLY, ok 510 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:18,360 Speaker 5: so what? 511 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 3: Year what year is this? 512 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 6: TWENTY i want to say twenty, sixteen twenty, seventeen. 513 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 3: Twenty seventeen, meters twenty, nineteen you, joined you? 514 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 4: Join? 515 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah the process was a Long it was a long. 516 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 6: Process LIKE i. 517 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 2: Said, also so four years after high, School so you're 518 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 2: twenty one years. Old, yeah you're six six and you're 519 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 2: one hundred and fifty. 520 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 5: Pounds, yeah one hundred and fifty. Five yeah Minimum, wait 521 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 5: the minimum weight was one hundred and fifty five for sixty. 522 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 3: Six is your pop super? 523 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 6: Skinny? No actually he's like six four to two he 524 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 6: was like two thirty two. 525 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: Forty your mom's super. 526 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 5: Skinny she's like five nine one one, forty has four, 527 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:06,679 Speaker 5: females so she's. NOT i, mean it's she's. Skinny but, yeah. 528 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 3: What what's so is this has always? Been is? It 529 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 3: you don't like to? Eat you just eat? Junk what's 530 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 3: the what's the? Story? 531 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 5: Uh it's crazy too Because i'm, like low key the 532 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 5: skinniest one in my family from the inner household to 533 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 5: like my, cousins like they're all, pretty like we're all, 534 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 5: slim But i'm like noticeably like. Skinny like my. BROTHER 535 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,199 Speaker 5: i have a younger. Brother he's six seven six six six, 536 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 5: seven but he's like two. 537 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 2: Thirty so you're you're slender up, top but you're built 538 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:33,640 Speaker 2: your legs an. 539 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,159 Speaker 3: Ass you have no app, right that's really where you. 540 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 2: Have like if you had a normal if you had my, 541 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 2: ass you would weigh two. Thirty, Right that's that's what 542 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 2: it comes down. To, yeah, okay so it takes two 543 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 2: years and finally it's. Time, yeah, okay what's that? Time 544 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,199 Speaker 2: like when you're getting ready to go and leave your, 545 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 2: home leave all your jobs and go join the. Navy 546 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 2: what's what's what's those last couple of? Weeks, like, Man 547 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 2: so those last week it was. 548 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 5: SAD i was kind of scared for the most part 549 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 5: because you just hear the word boot camp and you 550 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 5: just think, like, Oh i'm about to go through. 551 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:15,360 Speaker 6: Torture so the countdown dates was it was very. Race 552 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 6: it was kind of it was. 553 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 5: SCARY i DIDN'T i didn't know where my life was 554 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 5: going to go because you know WHAT i, mean once 555 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 5: you join the, military they could take you away from your. 556 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 5: Family you could be across the world from your. Family 557 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 5: SO i didn't know WHERE i was gonna be. At 558 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 5: it was just like a lot of things running through my. 559 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 5: Mom BUT i was just, Like i'm gonna do. 560 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 6: It so that's what. 561 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 3: Happened, Okay so they send it To chicago outside Of, chicago. 562 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 5: Yep outside Of chicago for boot. CAMP i was there 563 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 5: for eight weeks and then at. 564 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 2: That, way hold on, Wait i'm like this all this 565 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 2: ship is interesting because we don't know anything about. 566 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 3: It for, you it's your. Life for, me it's like 567 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 3: this is. Fascinated, Okay so how do you get From 568 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 3: maryland To? Chicago they you take a. 569 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 6: Bush we flew. In they flew us To. Chicago we 570 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 6: flew In. Chicago. 571 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 2: Okay so when you're, flying are you with guys that 572 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,120 Speaker 2: are in your. Company they're gonna be in your in your, Bunk. 573 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 6: They're going to be there with, you but they might 574 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:09,199 Speaker 6: not be in your your just your. Squadron they might 575 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 6: be with you. 576 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 2: Indivision this is gonna sound super, childish but you had. 577 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 2: To everybody makes a friend on something like, this like 578 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 2: your first like, friend my First navy. Friend who is 579 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 2: your first navy. 580 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 5: Friend my First navy. Friend, yeah, maybe and boot camp 581 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 5: was this one. Dude he was from Actually. Baltimore his 582 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 5: name Was. Pew that's the Last, pew like. Pu, yeah 583 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 5: he's From, Baltimore So i'm from D c From. Baltimore 584 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 5: were not, alike but we you, know. 585 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 6: Black. Dude but he likes skin, though so mm. 586 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 3: Hmm so he's, soft you know what you're, saying did 587 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 3: you just go? 588 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:51,880 Speaker 5: White that's What he's a, hard light skin. 589 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 6: Dude, actually he's like a feisty little pitbull light skin. 590 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 3: Dude all, right well you're you're the nice, boxer so 591 00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 3: who Is i'd be? Remembered, okay so. Tats you have 592 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:04,880 Speaker 3: a lot of. Tats what was your first? 593 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 5: Tat my first tat was my mom name on my 594 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 5: arm and it's like a small tattoo THAT i paid 595 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,120 Speaker 5: probably the most for it because they ripped. 596 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 6: Me THEY i was a. 597 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,640 Speaker 3: Rookie how much did it cost? 598 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 6: You four hundred and fifty? Dollars? Wow for thirty minute 599 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,239 Speaker 6: tattoo that had? 600 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 3: Hurt? Yeah that? 601 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:23,399 Speaker 6: Hurt? 602 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 3: Yeah and your mom was mad. It she was, like, 603 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 3: wait it's a tattoo of, Me So i'm not that. 604 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:29,400 Speaker 6: Mad, yeah, yeah. Yeah. 605 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 3: Yeah was that the thinking or was it did you 606 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 3: get did you? 607 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 6: Meet that was me getting in the door BECAUSE i 608 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 6: KNEW i wanted? 609 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 3: More was you that was your gateway? Drug? 610 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,440 Speaker 6: Yeah that WAS i. WAS i KNEW i was want 611 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 6: to get more on my, own BUT i had to 612 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 6: ease into it with. 613 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 3: That, okay so uh and then when did it become 614 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 3: kind of your? Thing? 615 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:50,880 Speaker 6: Immediately LIKE i got? 616 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,159 Speaker 5: IT i was scared, obviously and then ONCE i did, 617 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,360 Speaker 5: THAT i had half asleep BEFORE i joined the, military 618 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,119 Speaker 5: and then ONCE i got in the, MILITARY i STARTED 619 00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 5: i just started getting my. 620 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 6: Hands and my legs on the side of my necks 621 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 6: how to have the Front BUT i like to sall, 622 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 6: right stuff like. 623 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,680 Speaker 3: That which one hurts the? Most what hurts the? 624 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 5: Most wing on my legs because there ain't no meat 625 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 5: on the. Bones my legs hurt. 626 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 3: Them not a meeting your neck, either your neck feels 627 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 3: like it would hurt. 628 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 5: Too that was like the easiest. ONE i actually feel 629 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 5: asleep on my neck the front part. 630 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,639 Speaker 3: Really, yeah was there was there every thought of like 631 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 3: he is, THIS i might not like this at Fifty, yeah. 632 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 5: Well, yeah it was, that but it was just Like 633 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 5: i'm gonna JUST i don't. 634 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 6: KNOW i JUST i just keep getting. 635 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:36,680 Speaker 3: THEM i don't. 636 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 5: KNOW i don't know what's those thoughts are, there BUT 637 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 5: i Don't i'm just living day by day AND i, 638 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 5: know Like i'm gonna be. 639 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 2: Straight that's why you're. NOT i want to not spend 640 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 2: your money. Anymore tattoos save, money to save your money 641 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 2: when you save your. Money so, okay so what's? What 642 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 2: what's wo can't really? Like like everybody pictures full metal. 643 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 2: Jacket uh, right they, picture they, picture they picture metal. Bunks, 644 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 2: yeah picture drill, sergeant know your, names you, know dot, 645 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 2: schucker motherfucker everything? 646 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 1: Right? 647 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 6: Yeap and and yes or. 648 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 3: No you're up early in. 649 00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 2: The morning running doing ship climbing ropes and. Ladders what's 650 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 2: it really? 651 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 5: Like so it's like that five mornings every, morning five 652 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 5: am for it's eight, weeks so five am everywhere every. 653 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 5: Morning it's no naps throughout the. Day you go to 654 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 5: bed at ten o'clock at night every day for eight. 655 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 5: Weeks so you're on a schedule and just everything is 656 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 5: pretty planned out from day one to the last. Day 657 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 5: just imagine a day of like no breaks is literally it's. 658 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 5: Eating you're drill, drilling your marching your you're learning, history military, 659 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 5: History you're learning military, lingo how they talk like water 660 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 5: fowls are called like scuttle, butts just. 661 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 6: Like learning the, Galley Like i'm calling it to the. 662 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 6: Galley to these, guys they're, like what is the galley 663 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 6: with the. 664 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 5: Cafeteria So i'm just learning military, talk learning military. History 665 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 5: you're doing that from five am to ten, pm and that. 666 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 2: Alone it's just it's just how many how many times 667 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 2: did you call your mom and SAY i want to come? 668 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 3: Home oh my? 669 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 5: God the first time you, Don't so you don't get 670 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 5: your first phone call WHEN i went until LIKE i, 671 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 5: THINK i want to, say like four three weeks, in 672 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 5: so you're there for three weeks without nothing like they 673 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,479 Speaker 5: might they want to, that they'll go out their way 674 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 5: to mail you like. That but you don't talk to 675 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,800 Speaker 5: your people for three weeks or. SOMETHING i want to, 676 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 5: say three or four, weeks you don't get that phone. 677 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 5: Call that first phone. CALL i went in the middle 678 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 5: of the, winter that first phone call we. Had we 679 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 5: had to march all the way to the phone call. 680 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 5: Place it was raining in Like Jane. February it was so, 681 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 5: cold it was. RAINING i just was over, it like over. 682 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 5: IT i hadn't talked to my, family So i'm about, 683 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 5: to but the emotions are building up to make that phone. 684 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 6: Call WHEN i thought my, PEOPLE i. 685 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 5: CRIED i was, LIKE i don't know IF i could 686 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 5: DO i DON'T i KNEW i could do, it but 687 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 5: at that, time we're just us marching all way in 688 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 5: the cold weather the. 689 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,080 Speaker 6: RAIN i was just, LIKE i don't know IF i 690 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 6: could do. 691 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 5: It and they were just telling, me like they're proud of, 692 00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 5: me and they HAVE i been getting their letters and 693 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 5: stuff like that and just encourage. 694 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 1: It BUT i. 695 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 6: CRIED i was real. 696 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 3: Emotional they to get done with boot. Camp mm. 697 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 6: Hmm then what? Happens BASICALLY i go to my school 698 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 6: to teach me my. JOB i learned my job in the. 699 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 6: Military but how did you. 700 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 3: Know what your job was going to? Be like you 701 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 3: get a letter in the? Mail did they call you? 702 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 3: In like how does it all? 703 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 5: Work so for The, navy you know before you go 704 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 5: to boot. Camp SO i knew what my job, was 705 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 5: but they tried to put me on a. Submarine SO 706 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 5: i changed my job actually my firstmarine. Exactly so my 707 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 5: first original orders WAS i supposed to do only four 708 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 5: years in the. 709 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 6: Military and be a logistics specialist on a. 710 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 5: Submarine and then in the middle of boot camp they 711 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 5: asked everyone for who was a submarine. Rate we're giving 712 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 5: you opportunity to tell as if you actually want to, 713 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:05,840 Speaker 5: go AND i told them, no and why they asked. 714 00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 6: That that's exactly why they asked me that. Question that's 715 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 6: a good. 716 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 3: QUESTION i don't. Know you don't know. THIS i love. 717 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 3: You oh you Said i'm too. TALL i just don't 718 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 3: feel claustrophobic or. 719 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 6: Somebody that's exactly WHAT i. TOLD i feel. 720 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 5: Claustrophobe become too, tall AND i don't think that's the 721 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 5: right thing for. Me they, didn't they didn't question. 722 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 6: It they gave me a new. Job they only gave 723 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 6: me like three. Options SO i have a, desk. 724 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,479 Speaker 3: Du hure three. 725 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 5: OPTIONS i was, like they all were in the same. 726 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 5: Category so a fireman in the, military which is A. 727 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 6: Dc even. 728 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 5: Machine is, made which is an, engineer and ALSO i 729 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 5: want to, say like AN O s or something like, 730 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 5: that which is operation. Specialist but it SEEMED i WISH 731 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 5: i want chose that, rate but it just seemed it. 732 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 5: Didn't it didn't sound appealing to. Me SO i chose 733 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 5: the engineer. Rate, okay machine is. 734 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 3: Made so you're a. 735 00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 2: Mechanic, yeah, yeah, Yeah and the way you describe it 736 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 2: to me IS i Don't i'm not really. Mechanic and 737 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 2: just you tell me to turn and wren shall turn 738 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 2: the rent she tell. 739 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 6: Me literally literally was taking. 740 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 2: It. 741 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 3: Okay so so you you get down and they teach 742 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 3: sending your. School where's? 743 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,040 Speaker 6: School uh so for. 744 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 5: That engineering, mechanic the school is also In. Chicago SO 745 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 5: i stayed and usually they have different basis for your. 746 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 5: School Uh Cali Virginia mons was In. Chicago SO i 747 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 5: did boot camp In chicago AND i did my school In. Chicago, 748 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 5: okay so you. 749 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 3: Go To chicago and what was your plan at the? 750 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 3: Time how long did you want to do this for? 751 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 6: IT i wanted. IT i was saying. TWENTY i was, 752 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 6: Like i'm gonna just do it through twenty, years retire 753 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,000 Speaker 6: from it through twenty. 754 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 3: Years, Okay so what's Your how long is the training 755 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 3: of how to do, it how do? 756 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,720 Speaker 6: EVERYTHING i was there for it's like Three it's like 757 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 6: roughly like three, months But mons was like. 758 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 3: Five and then what is like what's your day? 759 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 2: Like is it's still to you, know eight in the 760 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 2: morning OR i mean five in the morning or what 761 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 2: time are you getting. 762 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 5: Up so once you completely boot, camp you're technically like 763 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 5: like part of your in so it gets way more. 764 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 5: Easier now you're living like an actual like person but 765 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 5: kind of like a. Student so it gave like a college. 766 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 5: Environment so you're in, dorms but you have free, time 767 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 5: so you have your classes to certain days and stuff like. 768 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 5: That if you don't have, class then you're basically like 769 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 5: cleaning and stuff throughout the day UNTIL i, say like 770 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,920 Speaker 5: two o'clock and then basically you're free for the rest 771 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 5: of the. 772 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,759 Speaker 6: Day so it basically turned into like a college on 773 00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 6: campus type. 774 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 3: Thing and none of this time you're playing. 775 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:38,520 Speaker 5: Basketball, nope not playing basketball at, all but are you 776 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,919 Speaker 5: working at? What i'm not even working, Out i'm not doing. 777 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 5: Nothing i'm Not i'm playing a game the first that's 778 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 5: the first. Thing i've set up my game and my 779 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,560 Speaker 5: roommate at the time he had a game, too so 780 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:48,839 Speaker 5: we both playing a game beside each. 781 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,439 Speaker 3: Other so, wait, way so you're you have like a dorm, 782 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 3: room like like college dorm. 783 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 6: Room, yeah and you're. 784 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 3: Still in two k this. Time are you're in? 785 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 6: College now you're in The Navy i'm still on hall 786 00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 6: of TWO. K still on TWO k? 787 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,800 Speaker 3: Two CAN i? Sire? Yeah when did you make the 788 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 3: switch to call of? 789 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 6: DUTY i want to say more. 790 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 3: Recently you get out of the military and now you 791 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:11,320 Speaker 3: want to be. Military. 792 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah. 793 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 3: How good are you with a? Gun BECAUSE i know 794 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 3: within basic you do, guns. 795 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 6: So they HAVE i was like a regular, marksman so 796 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 6: you get ribbons and stuff like. That SO i had a. 797 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:23,919 Speaker 5: Ribbon some people don't get, ribbons SO i take pride 798 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 5: in THAT i was in an expert and nothing does? 799 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,400 Speaker 3: Everybody does everybody get a ribbon or? 800 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,880 Speaker 2: Everyone so, okay give me give me a sense of 801 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 2: like how far away you can shoot something and and 802 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 2: and and and do well with? 803 00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,840 Speaker 5: It in basketball, terms If i'm on one baseline the 804 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,759 Speaker 5: other baseline for, SHOOT i THINK i feel like if 805 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,439 Speaker 5: you're standing, still even if you if you're standing, Still 806 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 5: i'll definitely could. 807 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 6: Hit you a couple of. Times, Okay so that's that's 808 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 6: a good that's a. 809 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 3: Deming do you know how far it is? Baseline the 810 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 3: baseline is that ninety four? 811 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:54,239 Speaker 5: Feet? 812 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 3: CORRECT i just like. 813 00:35:55,640 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 2: That there you, go ninety four Fifty see we're we're 814 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:00,919 Speaker 2: getting ground. 815 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 3: There, Okay so when when do you go to your? 816 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 3: Job when three months then you go right to your. 817 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 5: Job, yeah so they basically like after three months they 818 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:11,560 Speaker 5: tell you like where you're, going so you don't know 819 00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 5: where you're. Going SO i finally found out That i'm 820 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 5: going To, Norfolk, virginia which is only like three hours 821 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 5: away from. 822 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 6: My, house like WHERE i grew up. 823 00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 3: At great were you? HAPPY i? 824 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: Was? 825 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 6: AH i really kind. OF i wanted to go To. 826 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 6: Cali why did you want to go To? 827 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 3: Cali even? Then have you ever been at that? 828 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,359 Speaker 5: Point i've never been To, cali BUT i just KNEW 829 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,799 Speaker 5: i wanted. To at this, POINT i did boot, Camp 830 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 5: i've been away from. 831 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 3: FAMILY i. 832 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,200 Speaker 5: DIDN'T i got used to being away from, them SO i. 833 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 5: DIDN'T i just wanted to go for just to enjoy 834 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,840 Speaker 5: The West. COAST i Never my first time on the 835 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 5: airplane was to go To. Chicago so at this, POINT 836 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 5: i just want To NOW i want to see the, 837 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 5: world SO i want to just travel at this. 838 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:49,880 Speaker 6: Point so. 839 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,360 Speaker 1: All, right that's it for part one. 840 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,840 Speaker 2: This interview With ramelbtha wish just. Luck thanks so much for. 841 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 2: Listening I'm Doug. Gottlieb this Is. 842 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 3: Elbow yeh