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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my pregnant fiance

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Speaker 2: You're only only pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Come on, geez, you're trying to grow a life or

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Speaker 1: something exactly.

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Speaker 2: Get a life. Oh man.

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Speaker 1: I got a dog two years ago, a corky, and

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Speaker 1: she is very much so my sweet little sidekick. I've

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Speaker 1: been with my fiance for about five years. My fiance

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Speaker 1: does like the dog, but she's currently pregnant and experiencing

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Speaker 1: massive migraines and has been snapping at everything. So every

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Speaker 1: morning when I get up, I find my fiance already

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Speaker 1: waken at the table, relaxing. As soon as I get

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Speaker 1: out of bed, my dog goes nuts. It's like super energy,

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Speaker 1: where she's running sideways, barking up a storm, jumping on

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Speaker 1: the bed to the floor a million times, causing the apartment.

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Speaker 2: To shake because it's old as fuck. Corky, get a new.

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Speaker 1: Apartment apartment because a dog is jumping around, maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: a human gorgy and I will just sit there and

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Speaker 1: sing made up songs to her and just fuck around

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Speaker 2: Hello, little corky, little sog, I wish you were a

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Speaker 2: little frog, jumping all day, barking all night, now you're

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Speaker 2: going to make my fiance and I.

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Speaker 1: Like, Wow, that was beautiful. I feel like it's exactly

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Speaker 1: the song that he says. He's like, how did you know?

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Speaker 2: Now? It can be pretty noisy and I can be loud?

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Speaker 2: Yeah I can.

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Speaker 1: It's just my way of interacting with my pet. I

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Speaker 1: also have ADHD, so I'm fully aware I can be

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Speaker 1: ridiculously loud sometimes and I simply forget to tone it down. Okay,

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Speaker 1: my fiance has complained about it a few times, and

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Speaker 1: I will absolutely try to tone it down for a while,

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Speaker 1: But as fucked up as it sounds, the second she

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Speaker 1: stops complaining and is out of sight, out of mind.

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Speaker 2: I start doing it again.

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Speaker 1: I just want to be loud and proud of my Corky,

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Speaker 1: my little sidekick. Oh yeah, if I catch myself, I

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Speaker 1: apologize immediately. But sometimes I don't even catch myself doing it.

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Speaker 1: You don't quote unquote catch yourself, or you just are

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Speaker 2: Sounds like op is being like not super considerate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so she has been getting up earlier than normal

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Speaker 1: because she says she needs peace and quiet away from

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Speaker 1: you and the dog, but because she can't hear herself.

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Speaker 1: Think when we get up, and then she starts getting

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Speaker 1: migraines and being overall pissed off. But now she is

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Speaker 1: complaining because I can sense her not in the bed anymore,

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Speaker 1: probably after twenty minutes of her being gone and her

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Speaker 1: warmth put no longer there. And then I'm wide awake

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Speaker 1: with the dog. And then I'm wide awake and the

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Speaker 1: dog senses it, so you know, I guess they get

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Speaker 1: they get up.

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Speaker 2: Basically, it doesn't matter how early she gets up.

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Speaker 1: It seems like a little bit after she's gone, they

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Speaker 1: start stirring back because ope can't deal with the absence

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Speaker 2: Literally, It's like, which.

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Speaker 1: Is kind of cute, I guess, but it would be

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Speaker 1: cute if it wasn't destructive.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, if it wasn't destructive.

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Speaker 1: She's now getting pissed because she thinks I'm purposely not

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Speaker 1: letting her have space and purposely annoying her with my behaviors. Okay,

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Speaker 1: sounds like it, but we'll keep Well, this.

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Speaker 2: Is all these assholes in the story.

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Speaker 1: Oh I found. I found that we get so many

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Speaker 1: where they're actually not the AO. I wanted a couple

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Speaker 1: tight assholes. I'm not truly, but it seems like, I guess, okay, you.

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Speaker 2: Come on, brother, you're an asshole.

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Speaker 1: I've tried just laying in bed for a while so

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Speaker 2: And I also don't feel like.

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Speaker 1: I should have to stay in bed so she can

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Speaker 1: be alone when I live here too.

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Speaker 2: But she flipped this morning.

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Speaker 1: I felt her sneaking out of bed at five am

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Speaker 1: The dog saw me awake and immediately goes ballistic, jumping

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Speaker 1: and says, well, you guys, calm down so I can

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Speaker 2: Myself for once.

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Speaker 1: I just side eyed her because I'm getting pissed at

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Speaker 2: Oh you want to relaxing moment with out dog barking?

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, no, sir.

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Speaker 1: Rito, that's all right, she says, Well, I tell her

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, just because she's pregnant, does it mean

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Speaker 3: I have to change who I am, or change how

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Speaker 2: This guy is terrible. Oh, just stay in bed.

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Speaker 1: That's all she's asking, like, get up, get up at

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Speaker 1: the time that you usually get up.

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Speaker 2: That is literally all.

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Speaker 1: She immediately left after telling me to go fuck myself

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Speaker 1: and won't answer my calls. She's been gone six hours.

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Speaker 2: Yo. Oh, he's a huge a hole. You're just a gaping,

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Speaker 2: gaping sphincter.

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Speaker 1: But my guy, but you know what else you should

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Speaker 2: Saying what your stories are? Slashed?

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Speaker 1: Okayopa, show please submit them so we can read them. Yes, baby,

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Speaker 1: am I the a hole for ending my sister's pregnancy

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Speaker 1: and possibly her marriage?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know what one one might think, but

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Speaker 1: you know, don't don't judge a title by its cover.

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Speaker 1: We gotta we gotta take it.

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Speaker 2: We got a sleuth, we got a slog. We got

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Speaker 2: a sleuth more than.

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Speaker 1: Adam Levie trying to find a way to recover his career.

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Speaker 2: We go.

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Speaker 1: I male thirty two, have two older brothers, male thirty

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Speaker 1: eight and male forty, and his sister, female thirty four. No,

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Speaker 1: the age differences, so him and his sister are younger.

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Speaker 1: The two brothers are, you know, quite a few years old.

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Speaker 1: Our family was relatively modest when my brothers grew up,

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Speaker 1: so they were cared for a lot by my parents' families,

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Speaker 1: who were very conservative. By the time that me and

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Speaker 2: Me and my sister have master's degrees, while our.

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Speaker 1: Brothers didn't go to college despite the funds and chances,

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Speaker 2: Like subtle drag. Yeah, subtle drag.

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Speaker 1: Like not so subtle subtle drag there on the brothers

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Speaker 1: little elitists. Brothers are a bunch of birds, bunch of

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Speaker 1: contact with everyone in my family except my sister. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I was very close with my dad and there was

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Speaker 1: Which I feel like Opie is just talking themselves up right.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure my brothers were more educated. The dad liked desibore.

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Speaker 1: Like making money in China and SF that's such as

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Speaker 1: a total bru moment. But you know what's better than

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Speaker 1: saying bruh, buy and bra buy our merch.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: So at this point, my mom and oldest brother now

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Speaker 1: She then married the man that my mom said her

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Speaker 2: Really, so here's this, like, you know, master's.

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Speaker 1: and then she becomes a farmer's wife and gives a

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Speaker 2: Girl, keep your money, keep keep your money. Get that

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Speaker 2: preyed up now.

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Speaker 1: Later in twenty twenty, my sister straight out of the

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Speaker 1: me that my sister was pregnant. I immediately asked my

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Speaker 1: the husband has been very abusive, she's broke, and my

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Speaker 2: In laws having helped.

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Speaker 1: Wow, can you imagine, like, oh my god, terrible situation,

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Speaker 2: She's they pressured her into the marriage.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like who's who's your kid? The farmer or your

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Speaker 1: freaking kid? Yeah, she's My oldest brother yelled at her

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Speaker 2: Did you just admit to abusing your wife? To do seriously,

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Speaker 1: Being the first time she called me, he had kicked

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Speaker 1: and that this was fairly common. This is where I

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Speaker 1: might be the a hole. I basically yelled at her too.

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Speaker 1: I told her that she had a career which she

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Speaker 1: can go back to, and I can help her move

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Speaker 1: back to NYC where she worked and studied before. It's

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Speaker 1: nice of the brother, but the thing is he's like

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Speaker 1: why don't you go back to New York? What are

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Speaker 1: it could have been a handle better, but the sentiment

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Speaker 1: back to here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, the sentiment was nice.

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Speaker 1: And he finished off by saying that the pregnancy wasn't

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Speaker 1: The next day, she asked me for five thousand dollars,

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Speaker 1: which I sent to her without asking anything. I didn't

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Speaker 1: just a total mind f to me. A month later,

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Speaker 1: my sister told me that she had gotten a new

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Speaker 1: job in NYC and filed for divorce.

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Speaker 2: Wow, okay, God, so we go.

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Speaker 1: You know, she she's moving back in a good direction,

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Speaker 1: and also the pregnancy is no longer on the table now.

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Speaker 1: My family has been blowing up on social media, calling

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Speaker 1: me in all sorts of bs. I've in general clapped

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Speaker 1: back at them, and it looks like the home might

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Speaker 2: Oh things are not so great right.

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Speaker 1: Now, zam, But I'm happy that my sister is better.

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Speaker 1: So the question is, am I the A hole? I mean,

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Speaker 1: you could have maybe been a little bit nicer, but

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Speaker 1: I'd say, overall, you're trying to help your sisters, so

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Speaker 1: I'd say not the a hole.

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Speaker 2: And I would actually disagree a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I think that the fact, like, dude, she's she's been

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Speaker 1: beaten by this guy, beat her, stole her money. You know,

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Speaker 1: she has a baby with the guy, which she doesn't want,

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Speaker 1: you know, anything to do with, and now another person

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Speaker 1: is yelling at her, Like I could just see even

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Speaker 1: though it's like the right message, like yeah, like the

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Speaker 1: tough love is maybe not what this person needs right now.

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Speaker 1: Honesty without empathy is cruelty, yeah, And I feel like

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Speaker 1: the brother.

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Speaker 2: Might be being a little cruel yeah.

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Speaker 1: But at least like the advice he gave her is

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Speaker 1: what she followed, which seems to like she'll get her

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Speaker 1: own money back, yeah, you know, hopefully rebuild her life.

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Speaker 2: She's