1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: Hey, this is any and Samantha. I'm welcome to stuff 2 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 1: I never told your production of iHeart Radio. And yes, 3 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: welcome to another edition of Women Around the World. I 4 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: have to say, it's probably one of my favorite things 5 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: to do is to research all these amazing women. But 6 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: I do want to put a trigger warning. Nothing big 7 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: or significant. But the woman were about to talk about 8 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: did experience some physical abuse as a child. And so 9 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 1: we are mentioning a couple of things here that might 10 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 1: be hard to hear, but it's not too detailed. There's 11 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: not too many things, and her story is fascinating, but 12 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 1: just to go ahead and put that up there if 13 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: you don't already know who she is. But before we 14 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: jump into that, Annie, did you have any aspirations and 15 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: being in the medical field. I did, I absolutely did. 16 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: I will tell me about this. Yeah, um, I know 17 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: I told the story before, like in third grade where 18 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: we had that like career day where you would come 19 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: in and give a presentation of what career you wanted. 20 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: I remember people did like tornado chaser or dancer and 21 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: I come up and I had a picture of a 22 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: bowl and I was like, I want to hear this 23 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: one day. That's amazing seeing you dress up as a 24 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: BOWLA you're right as a missed opportunity. Um, And I 25 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: kept that pictured In fact, like when I graduated high school, 26 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 1: in the front of my like binder, I had the 27 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: picture of e bowl as a reminder. And then when 28 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: I was in high school, I took that health track. 29 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 1: So I worked at a local retirement home and I 30 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: worked briefly at a hospital. I really really wanted to 31 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: to help people, but then sexism, Samantha. I got in 32 00:01:56,520 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: my head that like doctors, women couldn't do maths very well. 33 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: So I dropped out of calculus. I just got really 34 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: insecure that I wasn't good enough to do it. And 35 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: then I was like, can I could kill someone if 36 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: I make a mistake, So I backed I backed out 37 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: of it, unfortunately. And I was also told I think 38 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: i've I've said this on the podcast before because I 39 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: wanted to be a surgeon for a minute, and I 40 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: like mentor did a whole mentor thing with the surgeon News. 41 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: He said I had too many shakes, I couldn't do it. Yeah, 42 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: I know that's the big thing. Yeah you're a little shaky, 43 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: but so am I. So I don't think I would 44 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: have been good at it either. But I did have 45 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: aspirations of being the medical missionary way back when that 46 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: I would go around and I really wanted to physically help, 47 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: to travel around the world and you know, help different organizations. 48 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: I really thought I would do that. And this is 49 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: when I was at thinking early high school. And then 50 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: I realized very quickly how little I liked chemistry. Like 51 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: I like biology. I liked anatomy. That was all fine, 52 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: and then chemistry happened. I was like, this is this 53 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: is the worst? Who's doing this to me? So I 54 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: decided to back down. But we are talking about a 55 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: woman who knew also early on that she wanted to 56 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: be in the medical field and she has become pretty 57 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: iconic in the nursing world. And we are talking about 58 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: Dame Elizabeth anyan Wu, who has been featured on the 59 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: BBC Women List, and she is a groundbreaking nurse from 60 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: the UK who has made a huge impact in the 61 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: medical field. Dame A nyon Wu was the first specialist 62 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: in sickle cell and dallasmia. Her life story has been 63 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: and continues to be in an inspiration to so many 64 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: and to say the least, she is a woman of 65 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: strength and tenacity. Dame ann was born in in Birmingham, UK, 66 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: to mother Mary furlong Um, who came from a strict, 67 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: devout Irish Catholic family. And though their grandparents thought that 68 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: they could take in Dame onion Wu and try to 69 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: pretend she was their daughter, it was said that because 70 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: ann You was biracial that changed their plans and she 71 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: was placed in the care of a children's home. Her 72 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: mother did visit her and stayed in her life that 73 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: she went on to finish her studies at Cambridge, leaving 74 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: onion Wu in the home. Her father was a student 75 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: in Cambridge and had left Nigeria to study law at 76 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 1: the time he met onion Wus mother Mary ann Wu 77 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: would not meet him until later. A Nyon who was 78 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 1: experienced within the children's home was a difficult one, being 79 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 1: the only childhood color there, she experienced a lot of 80 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: bullying and isolation Um and in one interview she spoke 81 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: about how she would be teased by the other children 82 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 1: and she stated at one point she tried to score 83 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 1: up her face and arms over and over again with 84 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: carbolic soap so she could lighten her skin, which caused 85 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 1: her to exacerbate her exzema um, which would cause many 86 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 1: issues later on. In fact, she also spoke of how 87 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: the nurses at a children's home didn't really help her 88 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: ease her pain when it came to her exema, but 89 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: how they often would be careless and just ripped the 90 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: bandages off during treatment, causing her skin to ripped off 91 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: with the bandages. Also, it was during this time that 92 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: she met a nursing nun, and she described how she 93 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: for the first time saw a nun dressed all in white, 94 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: and when she was being treated, this nurse would often 95 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: show compassion and caring and would try to distract her 96 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: so that onion we wouldn't notice the pain as much. 97 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: And it was through this nurse who showed so much 98 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 1: compassion and love and just caring, that she realized that 99 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: nursing was said that she would be interested in later 100 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: on in her life. Yes, but her time as a 101 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 1: young girl was hard. She talked about her experiences and 102 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: being shamed for bed wedding and the overall harshness and 103 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: how she was disciplined by the nuns. She would later 104 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: be able to return home with her mom and her stepfather, 105 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 1: but would endure physical abuse from her stepfather and later 106 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 1: went on to live with her grandparents until she was sixteen. 107 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 1: At seventeen, onion Wu applied to different London teaching hospitals 108 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: and was rejected many times, which was do a lot 109 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 1: to the level of racism and biased towards her. However, 110 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: she was eventually accepted to Paddington in General as a 111 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: student nurse, and with her overall experience of continued discrimination 112 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: and her strength as a survivor, she was not one 113 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: to sit silently by when she saw something that she 114 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 1: believed to be unjust in the treatment of people around her. 115 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 1: She talked of how as a student, she would see 116 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 1: families labeled as New Commonwealth and when she asked what 117 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 1: that meant, she was told everything from people with foreign 118 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: names or people like you, dear, and those are quotes. 119 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: And with that realizing that funding had been given to 120 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: treat many people who were migrants from Africa, Asia and 121 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: other countries for services specific to these communities, except there 122 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: were no actual services available. When she raised these issues, 123 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: challenging her supervisors about the treatment of the marginalized community, 124 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: they failed her, like you know, passing grade to not 125 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: passing grade um, but she was able to appeal due 126 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: to others who supported her right and though she experienced 127 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 1: a lot of discrimination in her life and in her 128 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: career in schooling, she didn't really have a strong understanding 129 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: of the depth of the racial tensions and overall racism 130 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: occurring as she did not have a deep connection to 131 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: her father's side of the community and wasn't until she 132 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: connected with her father that she started realizing it. And 133 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: I've been there. I felt the same way growing up, 134 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: not understanding, oh, this is not normal for everyone because 135 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,559 Speaker 1: I'm brown. Got it. And at the age of twenty 136 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: four she learned his name Lawrence and nien Wu, and 137 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: didn't meet him for another three months after she actually 138 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: made contact through an acquaintance, John Roberts, who was a 139 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: barrasser from Sierra Leone and the first black QC for England. 140 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: When she did meet her father, he greeted her with 141 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,559 Speaker 1: a huge hug When she talked about how it helped 142 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: her feel accepted. She fostered a really close relationship with 143 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: her father and even traveled with him to Nigeria and 144 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: met her family, and in the nineteen seventy six, she 145 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: decided to change her surname, which she was named after 146 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: her mother to a nion Wu in connection to the 147 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: father um and she stated, quote it it was something 148 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: I needed to do to my identity whole, and I 149 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: haven't looked back since. Her Nigerian family had an immense 150 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: impact in her life, including her cousin who was diagnosed 151 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: with sickle cell nemia, and after attending a seminar with 152 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: heematologist Dr Misha Bresovic, who asked Anjanmu if she would 153 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: be interested in working with her, she and Brasvik set 154 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: up the Brent Sickle Cell and thala Semia Information Screening 155 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: and Counseling Center in nineteen seventy nine, which would become 156 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: the model for thirty other centers and for six years, 157 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: she was the one and only sickle cell nurse specialist 158 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: in Britain during this time, and even now the disease 159 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: is not getting the funding or the representation to help 160 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: with treatment. She said, quote people in the NHS didn't 161 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: see sickle cell as a significant public health issue and 162 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: I was told numerous times, oh, well, it only affects minorities, right. 163 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: And she continued breaking barriers and taking all leadership roles 164 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: in her life, including becoming a senior lecturer at the 165 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 1: Institute of Child's Health in University College of London. She 166 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 1: was later appointed as the Dean of the School of 167 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: Adult Nursing Studies and a Professor of Nursing at University 168 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: of West London and it was here she created the 169 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: Mary Siegel Center for Nursing Practices at the University of 170 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: London in nine uh and she stated she created this 171 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 1: as a way to quote challenge the predominantly white Eurocentric 172 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: focus of nursing recruitment, education and research. And though she 173 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: retired officially in two thousand and seven, she's not stopped 174 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: working or advocating for others, including focusing on bringing awareness 175 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,839 Speaker 1: and sharing the accomplishments of Mary Siegel to light. And 176 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 1: if you want to know more about Mary Siegel, who 177 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: has made history as a nurse and a healer during 178 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: the Crimean War, you should go take a listen to 179 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: our episode with Ease on our Feminist first series, because 180 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: she brought us some great information and a good a 181 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: lot of the controversy that happened based on racism against 182 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: her and why she wasn't highlighted but Florence Nightingale was, 183 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 1: So you should definitely go check that out and en 184 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: Wu became the vice chair of the Mary Siegel Memorial 185 00:09:57,200 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: Statue Appeal after it was denied, and eventually, after years 186 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: after working, she was able to help unveil the statue 187 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: in June sixteen and after that she was appointed as 188 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: life Patron of the Mary C. Cult Trust. To say 189 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: she has made a huge impact in the UK seems 190 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 1: like an understatement, and her awards and honors reflect the 191 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: impact that she had and though she was, as she said, 192 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: embarrassed of the attention she was getting for her work, 193 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: she was appointed at Dame Commander of the Order of 194 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 1: the British Empire and of course so many other accolades, 195 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 1: including the Pride of Britain, Lifetime achieve an Award being 196 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: inducted to the Nursing Times at Nursing Hall of Fame, 197 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: Honorary doctorates from the University of St Andrew's and Birmingham 198 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: City University BBCs one Women in so many more. On 199 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: top of that, she is a critically acclaimed author. Um 200 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: has published many articles and papers and books, including her 201 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 1: memoirs Mixed bless Things from Cambridge Union. Right. She has 202 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: done a lot and of course, again people who in 203 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: this industry and probably people in the UK know who 204 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 1: she is and know how hard she fights, and as 205 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: in fact, when she was actually appointed as Dame Commander, 206 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: apparently she was. There are several versions of this and 207 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: I had to look this up, which she was originally 208 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: appointed in as CBE, which is just the commander of 209 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: the British Empire, but she didn't want to originally take 210 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: it just because of the implications of the World Empire. 211 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 1: And we've talked about that before and about a lot 212 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: of the colonials empirical ideas and what that means for 213 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: those who are of color, especially the black community. So 214 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: there was a lot of things that she talked about 215 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 1: as a feeling like whether or not this is something 216 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: she wanted to be a part of. But she definitely 217 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: deserves any and all the accolades for sure, and especially 218 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: being someone who pushed forward in all of the harshness 219 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 1: and all of the things that she survived and being 220 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 1: who she is and being an advocate for herself and 221 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: for others around her. So definitely a beautiful thing to see. 222 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: And may she sounds intimidating, yes she does, but in 223 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: the best way. 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