Speaker 1: Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds with.
Speaker 2: Dean Aungler, Kaylen Miller Keys, and Jared Haven, an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 3: What's going on? Everyone? Welcome to an all new episode
Speaker 3: of Help I Suck At Dating? As usual the name
Speaker 3: help I Suck It, Help We Suck At Being newly
Speaker 3: My god, it's just I've done it so many times,
Speaker 3: so so many times, and it's just a mental habit
Speaker 3: I have to break. So let me start this over.
Speaker 3: Welcome everybody to an all new episode of Help We
Speaker 3: Suck At Being Newlyweds? There we go, as always. I
Speaker 3: am joined by the lovely Kaylin Miller Keys soon to
Speaker 3: be Kaylen Bell, and of course joined from his father
Speaker 3: in law's study with blackout curtains, it appears, Jared Haven,
Speaker 3: how are you guys?
Speaker 1: You struggling us today? I got no videoing on here.
Speaker 1: You can't see my I don't know what the hell
Speaker 1: I'm doing. I'm on my father in law's computer right
Speaker 1: now in his office because of course Ashley had to
Speaker 1: use the micro computer because she has a podcast at
Speaker 1: the same time as us, and obviously she takes precedent
Speaker 1: because you know, she sucks, and so.
Speaker 3: Here I am, I'll tell you what. You've never looked better.
Speaker 1: Thanks, buddy, appreciate it.
Speaker 3: You have never looked better. We are so honored to
Speaker 3: have you listeners listening to this podcast. This week, We've
Speaker 3: got a great episode in store. I want to talk
Speaker 3: about my low testoster on levels. I know everyone's been
Speaker 3: hitching to hear about that.
Speaker 1: Just dying honestly, So you took your test?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, Well I was gonna say, what did
Speaker 3: you want to talk about today? Acually brought something up.
Speaker 3: I couldn't remember what it is, though.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about your low testosteron.
Speaker 3: Oh.
Speaker 1: But also there is a story that I have to tell.
Speaker 1: So at Audrey's on Sunday Easter, I worked and we
Speaker 1: closed early and we closed at noon. But a guy
Speaker 1: came in dude, and he he was so it was him,
Speaker 1: his wife and his two kids, two boys. He was
Speaker 1: the biggest Bachelor fan I think I've ever met.
Speaker 3: Dude.
Speaker 1: He knew everything and he said he listens to this podcast.
Speaker 1: So thank you so much. You guys are awesome for
Speaker 1: coming to Audres and listening to this podcast. U U
Speaker 1: U suck, We suck at Wes. We gotta figure out
Speaker 1: a new chance. I think suck still works. Suck still works,
Speaker 1: but it was help. I suck at dating. I suck
Speaker 1: at dating, so we got to come up with something
Speaker 1: different there. But this guy, dude, he was so excited
Speaker 1: at the prospect of you two flying in uh because
Speaker 1: I said, I, you know I would. He said, would
Speaker 1: you ever do a live podcast at Audreys? And I said,
Speaker 1: I'd love to, you know, but obviously Dean and Kalen
Speaker 1: are planning the wedding. Dean, you know, they're traveling on time.
Speaker 1: It's kind of tough for them to fly across country.
Speaker 1: And he was like, honestly, I will pay for their
Speaker 1: flight if I have the opportunity to come and hang
Speaker 1: out with them. And I was like, well, you don't
Speaker 1: have to do that, but I'm definitely telling Dean and
Speaker 1: Calm that you offered. He came into Audrey's and the
Speaker 1: two kids they were awesome, and he was like, he
Speaker 1: was like, I'm not joking, I will pay for their
Speaker 1: flights please. I would be honored to. Yeah, Like, don't
Speaker 1: worry about.
Speaker 3: It, but thank you so much, very generous of you, sir,
Speaker 3: thank you very much for offering that. I can never
Speaker 3: accept that offer and Jared, sounds like you could never
Speaker 3: do the same thing either. I think we could do
Speaker 3: it one of these days, but it has to happen
Speaker 3: when we're already on that side of the country. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna fly to Rhode Island just for a
Speaker 3: day and then fly back to the West.
Speaker 2: Coast, like when we're in New York or coming back
Speaker 2: from Europe or in DC. Oh yeah, and we're seeing
Speaker 2: my family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but it's tough. Like I want you guys here, obviously.
Speaker 1: I would love to have you guys at Audrey's. We'm
Speaker 1: not here because I'm not around, But point being is,
Speaker 1: obviously you guys are also planning a wedding. You travel
Speaker 1: all the time. First of all, Dean, you're away from
Speaker 1: camm like months at a time. I think the last
Speaker 1: thing that you guys want to do when you get
Speaker 1: together is like, all right, let's hop on a flight
Speaker 1: and travel three thousand miles and it would be cool.
Speaker 1: I have no doubt that you'd have fun and you
Speaker 1: would enjoy especially Rhode Island in summer. But yeah, if
Speaker 1: we can figure out the time, you guys are already
Speaker 1: in the West Coast and you do like a Rhode Island
Speaker 1: trip for like two or three days where you guys
Speaker 1: can travel and see some stuff that would be awesome.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think think we can find a way to
Speaker 3: make it work when we're already in that area, because
Speaker 3: I do still stand with my offer of I want
Speaker 3: to bartend for a couple hours one day at all.
Speaker 1: You want to bartender? Do you want to be a barista? Oh?
Speaker 3: I guess I thought they were the same thing, but
Speaker 3: I definitely see the difference. I would be a barista,
Speaker 3: but I would secretly be sneaking drink like alcoholic drinks
Speaker 3: into everyone's coffee.
Speaker 1: Well, you'd immediately be fired.
Speaker 3: Hey it's a good run. Hasn't even happened yet, but
Speaker 3: it was a good run. But that's funny. So how's
Speaker 3: everything on Oudie's going good? It's business is good. Are
Speaker 3: you guys crushing it still or what?
Speaker 1: Yeah? We do well, I mean we're busy knock on wood.
Speaker 1: So it's just stuid. Everything is so expensive, so it's
Speaker 1: really hard to make any money right now. So I'm
Speaker 1: cutting back on costs, trying to on a lot of
Speaker 1: different fronts and seeing if we can make a little
Speaker 1: bit of profit. Because truth be told, I mean as
Speaker 1: a business owner, a lot of people can understand. I
Speaker 1: haven't made money off augers yet, so you know it's
Speaker 1: going to be a little while longer. But honestly, like
Speaker 1: once again, knock on wood, it's busy, I really as
Speaker 1: I'm as much as it's time consuming and Ashley, you know,
Speaker 1: it honestly causes the stress between Ashley and I. And
Speaker 1: because I'm there all the time and then when I'm
Speaker 1: not there, you know, I want to spend time. I
Speaker 1: want to try to balance spending as much time as
Speaker 1: I can with Ashley and Dawson, but also you know,
Speaker 1: doing things that I enjoy, whether it be going to
Speaker 1: the gym or trying to golf or even just you know,
Speaker 1: having some me time, which is impossible now. So it's
Speaker 1: it's caused friction, but not in a terrible way. You know,
Speaker 1: Ashley and I are great communicators.
Speaker 3: Let's do this. Let's whenever we come out to visit
Speaker 3: you guys at in Rhode Island at Audrey's, let's let's
Speaker 3: carve away some golf time.
Speaker 2: Dude, Dean has his golf app opened. He's looking for
Speaker 2: golf courses in Rhode Island right now.
Speaker 1: Caylen if you could change one thing about Dean and
Speaker 1: it wouldn't sacrifice his happiness, would not sacrifice happiness at all,
Speaker 1: Like he would just forget it even exists, and he'd
Speaker 1: find happening to some other place. What would be that
Speaker 1: one thing? Would it be his golf obsession?
Speaker 2: You know, I feel like previously it would be I'm
Speaker 2: coming around to the idea slowly of it. Like sitting
Speaker 2: in the cart with them helped, Playing golf myself helped.
Speaker 2: I guess. I just try to make sure that we're
Speaker 2: prioritizing time for us, and he always makes a point
Speaker 2: to let me know. We spend every single waking second together.
Speaker 2: But when he's gone for so long and like spending
Speaker 2: all these hours at golf, sometimes I'm like, hey, remember me.
Speaker 3: Of course I remember you, but you know you could
Speaker 3: find other things to be doing instead of just waiting
Speaker 3: for me to come back.
Speaker 2: But sometimes to.
Speaker 1: Tell Ashley all the time, yeah, I'm like, because I
Speaker 1: love you so much, Ashley, and I want to spend
Speaker 1: time with you more time, but we do spend so
Speaker 1: much time together. Her argument is that we spend so
Speaker 1: much time together, but it's the classic tales the oldest
Speaker 1: time we don't spend enough quality time together, and it's like,
Speaker 1: I understand that, but I also don't spend enough quality
Speaker 1: time with other people I love, like my friends, and
Speaker 1: so you know, I don't know what the hell to do.
Speaker 1: It's just impossible. So I get the argument, But also
Speaker 1: at the same time, it's like, how can we with
Speaker 1: all the time that we spend together, how can we
Speaker 1: make sure that we're spending it is enough quality time
Speaker 1: together without like planning it. It's impossible.
Speaker 3: I was also listening to a podcast just recently and
Speaker 3: the host was talking about how important male friendships are
Speaker 3: and how he had a psychologist come on the podcast,
Speaker 3: and he said, you know, I don't know the numbers,
Speaker 3: but like X out of y people that are depressed,
Speaker 3: men that are depressed in old age don't have very
Speaker 3: many male friendships. And so that's what I'm doing when
Speaker 3: I play golf, is I'm fostering my male friendships because
Speaker 3: I want to be happy into the late latter years
Speaker 3: of my life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want us to be like Paul Rudd
Speaker 1: from I Love You Man.
Speaker 2: No, he brings up that maybe quite a bit, actually
Speaker 2: do I. Yeah, he said that you've mentioned it a
Speaker 2: few times, especially with the wedding coming up.
Speaker 3: Do I yeah, like, what.
Speaker 2: My bridal shower? You're like, I'm not going to be
Speaker 2: like I love you man and show up to your
Speaker 2: bridle shower.
Speaker 3: Okay, there's one I'd like here a second, I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 3: Kaylen's bridle shower is here in a couple of weeks,
Speaker 3: and she's like, oh, are you gonna stick going? Well,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna be here, I guess, so I
Speaker 3: might just pop my head in for a minute or two.
Speaker 1: You have to pop your head And that's like the
Speaker 1: whole point is like that. So you the girls have
Speaker 1: their day and then Kaylen gets gifts and it's so,
Speaker 1: you know, glorious, and then she just gloats about you
Speaker 1: the entire time. And then all of a sudden, with
Speaker 1: ten minutes to go, here comes Dean, just like you
Speaker 1: walk down the stairs in Paradise. Here comes her man
Speaker 1: to help like carry the gifts into the car. And
Speaker 1: then all the girls are.
Speaker 3: Like, it's like forty minutes away from our house.
Speaker 2: There's no way I'm gonna go twenty minutes away. And
Speaker 2: that's what Wells did. Wells showed up ten minutes before
Speaker 2: the bridle showers ending with flowers, beautiful bouquet.
Speaker 3: I'll do that. I didn't know that that was my responsibility.
Speaker 3: I'm happy to here.
Speaker 1: Here's a tim so for Ashley's bridal shower. Jade went, so,
Speaker 1: what this is before Dawson. So then I had time
Speaker 1: in my hands. So what happened was Hanner and I
Speaker 1: went golfing at a golf course near the bridle shower
Speaker 1: and timed it up so we would be done like
Speaker 1: an hour before hers was done. So then we could,
Speaker 1: you know, just in case it went longer or we
Speaker 1: wanted to play thirty six holes. But so then Tanner
Speaker 1: and I both went to the bridle shower and then
Speaker 1: like you know, walked in and it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: cher here.
Speaker 3: I didn't realize that was respect like expected of the groom,
Speaker 3: but I'll do it. I just thought it was like
Speaker 3: a girl's only thing. But that's kind of more bachelor
Speaker 3: are at. This is a separate like lesser.
Speaker 2: Typically people play like the newlywed game. So you show
Speaker 2: up and that's yeah, again what happened at the last
Speaker 2: bridle showers at And then you do like how did
Speaker 2: we first meet? Where was our first kiss. Where was this?
Speaker 3: Okay, which we.
Speaker 2: Don't have to do.
Speaker 3: I do want to go back real quick because we
Speaker 3: were talking about does Dean do anything because of the
Speaker 3: golf that he plays? And I just want to say
Speaker 3: one thing in order for me to play golf on
Speaker 3: Easter Sunday. And I asked been. I was like, so Killin,
Speaker 3: can I please play golf at this course tomorrow? And
Speaker 3: she's known for a long time that I've always wanted
Speaker 3: to play this course. And she was like, you know,
Speaker 3: we really should get on the road. You really got
Speaker 3: to get back home.
Speaker 2: Because because let's prepose we had a ten hour drive
Speaker 2: ahead of us.
Speaker 3: Sure, yeah, ten hour drive a long drive. I'm driving
Speaker 3: the whole time, So it's just that's an unnecessary bit
Speaker 3: of information that you guys need. And I was like, please, please, please,
Speaker 3: and she was like slowly coming around, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I'll buy you dinner tonight and she was like, okay, fine,
Speaker 3: if you buy me dinner tonight, I'll let you play
Speaker 3: golf tomorrow.
Speaker 2: And so we go to this excess and said no
Speaker 2: complaining and did I complain?
Speaker 3: No, you did it. But I was doing my best
Speaker 3: to make it not to give you nothing to complain about.
Speaker 3: So we got to this expensive she restaurant asked been
Speaker 3: three hundred dollars for this meal. So I essentially had
Speaker 3: to pay three hundred dollars to go golf, to get
Speaker 3: Kalle's permission to let me go golf.
Speaker 1: It's worth every time.
Speaker 3: I mean, I agree. It was a delicious meal, a
Speaker 3: great night out. I had to pay for everything, which is,
Speaker 3: you know, it's not that bad. But when you get
Speaker 3: the bill and it's three hundred dollars, you're like, oh
Speaker 3: my gosh.
Speaker 1: This You separate your finances, are you because you're you're
Speaker 1: on so many you're on a phone plan together. Don't
Speaker 1: you have a bank account together too?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what. Like our mortgage and everything is under
Speaker 2: our joint bank account, and then we have our own
Speaker 2: separate as well.
Speaker 1: Do you know how much is in each other's bank accounts?
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, yeah, you know how much is in my
Speaker 3: bank account?
Speaker 2: Well, you know how much is in mine?
Speaker 3: My number is a lot smaller, so it's a lot
Speaker 3: easier to keep track of my number for her than
Speaker 3: is her numbers. I don't even think I can count
Speaker 3: that high. I've got a general idea, you know, but
Speaker 3: you do know, Yeah, I've got a pretty general idea.
Speaker 1: Because there are couples out there who separate finances and
Speaker 1: don't know what the other person's making. Like I know
Speaker 1: people within Bachelor that I have examples of that happening.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, No, every deal I bring in I tell them.
Speaker 3: Yeah. And last year when we applied for our apartment,
Speaker 3: we had to compile our finances to like see what
Speaker 3: our network joint net worth was, and it was an
Speaker 3: interesting I mean again, you know, there's a lot more
Speaker 3: addition on her part than it was on my part.
Speaker 3: It was it was a pretty illuminating experience to be like, oh,
Speaker 3: we have this much, we have these much in assets,
Speaker 3: these these much we have these money assets. So that
Speaker 3: was an interesting experience. But yeah, we've got a joint account,
Speaker 3: and then we've got a joint credit card Southwest credit
Speaker 3: Card that whenever we go out to eat together, we
Speaker 3: just use that because then that gets pulled from our
Speaker 3: joint account, which means we're splitting the dinner. But we
Speaker 3: only have to put on one credit.
Speaker 2: Card, which is a great credit card because now we
Speaker 2: have what is it, companion pass, so he flies for
Speaker 2: free whenever I fly and we're on a list as well.
Speaker 2: But I told Gene this one time he was flying
Speaker 2: and I was going to go to Montiana and I
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I'm not going to go
Speaker 2: the day before and I was like, I need to
Speaker 2: cancel the flight and he's like, no, no, just keep
Speaker 2: the flight. And then he gets on the flight boards
Speaker 2: it and they like let him on, and then a
Speaker 2: flight attendant comes and pulls them off the flight and
Speaker 2: she's like, you can't be here without your companion.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. It was like, I don't want to
Speaker 3: say it was embarrassing, because it wasn't really embarrassing, but
Speaker 3: it was.
Speaker 1: It's a little evasculating.
Speaker 3: I was like a six because she has a LES
Speaker 3: priority and since she wasn't with me, I'm the companion
Speaker 3: on her companion pass, so like she's like the main
Speaker 3: account holder.
Speaker 1: She's Batman, you're Robin.
Speaker 3: I'm exactly. I'm literally sitting front row on the window
Speaker 3: and everyone's loaded. They're like about to pull off, like
Speaker 3: you can hear the engines warring, and a flight attendant
Speaker 3: comes on and she's like, who's Dean Alert? Where's Dean Unglert?
Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm Denungler and she's like, you
Speaker 3: got to get off this plane right now. And I
Speaker 3: was like what what, Like I don't know what I
Speaker 3: might have done? And I asked her. I was like,
Speaker 3: what did I do? Like why am I getting off
Speaker 3: this airplane? And she got so mad at me. She's like,
Speaker 3: don't ask questions. You're getting off this plane. Yeah. She
Speaker 3: was like no, bull crap. She's like, you're you're coming
Speaker 3: off this airplane right now. Don't ask questions. And then
Speaker 3: we're walking down the runway or not the runway, but
Speaker 3: like the jetway or whatever the jet breadg yeah, and
Speaker 3: I was like, so, like, what's what's going on? And
Speaker 3: then she like got nice and kind, but like in
Speaker 3: front of all of the entire plane, she was like
Speaker 3: a stern person that was like no, yeah, And I
Speaker 3: guess I get it, like they probably deal with like
Speaker 3: unruly passengers all the time, and she just like didn't
Speaker 3: want to have to deal with any of that nonsense.
Speaker 3: But then once I was on the jet bridge, she
Speaker 3: was like finally explaining it to me, and I was like, well,
Speaker 3: can I just book a ticket on that plane right now?
Speaker 3: Like I'm already here, and she's like, no, you can't
Speaker 3: do that. There's another plane leaving in four hours, you
Speaker 3: can get on that. I was like, I'm not waiting
Speaker 3: here for four hours, and so I stormed out of
Speaker 3: there and I just got a flight the next day
Speaker 3: on a different airline, just out of principle.
Speaker 1: Probably saw your name. I wonder if she recognized there
Speaker 1: was like, oh Jesus, this is the reality TV guy.
Speaker 3: Guys think they can get away with anything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's gonna be such a dick. All right, I
Speaker 1: gotta get ready for this air get pumped up.
Speaker 3: It sucked. My brother was like ready to pick me
Speaker 3: up at the airport. He like already got a permission
Speaker 3: to leave work early. And then I had to call
Speaker 3: and be like, hey, I just got kicked off the airplane.
Speaker 3: It's just such a funny thing to say.
Speaker 1: Did you make up a story at least or did
Speaker 1: you tell the truth?
Speaker 3: And just.
Speaker 1: With me? And he picked me off the plane.
Speaker 3: I had a machete in my luggage and for some
Speaker 3: reason they didn't think that was allowable on the airplane.
Speaker 3: So yeah, anyways, all that to say, yeah, I do
Speaker 3: have to do a lot to like kill and to
Speaker 3: let me play golf. But full circle, Yeah, this week
Speaker 3: and I got my club championship, so I've been prepping
Speaker 3: a little bit for that. I'm a little nervous. You know,
Speaker 3: I didn't We got fourth place last year, which isn't
Speaker 3: so bad, but this year I'm going for first.
Speaker 1: So how many people play?
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's the well, I don't really want to answer that.
Speaker 1: There's four people that played.
Speaker 3: Yeah, wait, there's like sixty.
Speaker 2: But but it's different branches, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's like tiers, so there's like three fourth places.
Speaker 1: Is like your jam.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he was in the worst tier.
Speaker 3: I was not in the worst here, I was in
Speaker 3: the second. I was in the middle tier. I wasn't
Speaker 3: the best. I wasn't the worst. I was in the
Speaker 3: middle you want to be. And there's like twenty people
Speaker 3: in that tier. So out of those twenty, I got fourth,
Speaker 3: which you know, it's not great. It's nothing to brag about.
Speaker 3: But next week on this podcast, sorry, we're getting like
Speaker 3: a phone call or something over here. Maybe that's what
Speaker 3: it is. Next week on the podcast, I'll be gloating
Speaker 3: about having gotten first place at this year's club championship.
Speaker 2: I can't wait for more golf talk.
Speaker 1: Right now. What I want to do is talk about
Speaker 1: another manly aspect of your body, which is your low TESTOSGY.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Thanks. I I did put in the notes that I
Speaker 3: was willing to talk about this. It's a sensitive subject
Speaker 3: for a lot of people. I think, you know, it's.
Speaker 1: Your own fault for letting us talk about it on
Speaker 1: this podcast.
Speaker 3: Specifically, I'm obviously pretty transparent with everything going on in
Speaker 3: my life.
Speaker 2: I feel like it makes you more relatable, Like, I'm
Speaker 2: sure there are other men out there struggling with this, yeah,
Speaker 2: that maybe are listening or maybe listening, and it's it's
Speaker 2: just nice to know that you're not alone.
Speaker 3: Well sure, and that's kind of why I like And
Speaker 3: the thing at the end of the day is like,
Speaker 3: it's just it's it's real and it's not a lie.
Speaker 3: And so I don't see any point in not discussing
Speaker 3: it because it's just life, you know, and some people
Speaker 3: have it. Some people are lucky enough not to have it,
Speaker 3: and luck kiy enough. So this is what I did.
Speaker 3: I did a saliva test with this brand that I
Speaker 3: ordered the kit like two years ago, and then removing
Speaker 3: out of our apartment, I like saw it and I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I never submitted my saliva test. So
Speaker 3: I did the saliva test, sent it in, and I
Speaker 3: think we talked about this a little bit last week.
Speaker 3: It's it's not low, it's not technically low, but it's
Speaker 3: like five points away from being low, so it's very
Speaker 3: close to being low. And it's interesting because I remember
Speaker 3: being in college and one of my best friends and
Speaker 3: I were driving around and we were like getting lunch
Speaker 3: or something. We pulled into this like strip mall area
Speaker 3: and there was a testosterone clinic and I was like, TJ,
Speaker 3: you know, I've always wanted to get my testosterone checked.
Speaker 3: I've always thought I had low testosterone. And I was
Speaker 3: nineteen or twenty years old at the time working out.
Speaker 3: I was never been more jack than I was at
Speaker 3: the time. I didn't sure I was drinking a lot
Speaker 3: because I was in college, which I think that dampens
Speaker 3: it a little bit. But it's weird to think that,
Speaker 3: you know, even when I was a late teen, early
Speaker 3: twenty year old, I was still having questions about whether
Speaker 3: my testosterone was low or not. And yet here and
Speaker 3: now here I am confirming that it is a little
Speaker 3: on the low side. But now I so I actually
Speaker 3: just got a message on Instagram before we started this
Speaker 3: and they were saying about last week, how I mentioned
Speaker 3: I had low testosterone, and they were giving me advice
Speaker 3: and they were saying, like, do weight training three times
Speaker 3: a week, drink less alcohol, get more vitamin D.
Speaker 2: And I sent you all of this as well.
Speaker 3: Of course, and I know these are things to do
Speaker 3: to combat low testosterone. Oh and she also said in
Speaker 3: the message, she was like, oh, low testosterone can be
Speaker 3: can lead to lack of focus or lack of memory.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's.
Speaker 3: Right up my alley. Because all of those things are
Speaker 3: not my strong suit. I gotta get my testosterone. Maybe
Speaker 3: I start taking some supplementers up there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you could do all of those things.
Speaker 2: And then Dak Shepherd, we were listening to his podcast
Speaker 2: and he was talking that he takes testosterone and it's
Speaker 2: like changed his life.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he takes it for different reason. He was
Speaker 3: taking Propecia, which blocks certain testosterone in your body, and
Speaker 3: so he's taking it to supplement all of the blockage
Speaker 3: that he experienced for like twenty years with the Propecia.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure that's what he was saying. But regardless,
Speaker 3: I do think even if he wasn't on the testosterone supplements,
Speaker 3: it would have even doubt eventually on its own, So
Speaker 3: I think he is taking it to supplement his testosterone.
Speaker 1: Anyways, I'm confused, Yeah, because I don't. I mean, obviously
Speaker 1: I know of testosterone. Why do we need a lot
Speaker 1: of it? Like, what's the downfall of you having low testosterone?
Speaker 3: Well, lack of focus, lack of memory, muscle mass I
Speaker 3: think is kind of is linked pretty close to it.
Speaker 1: Kaylin, you don't have testosterone, and you I'm sure you're
Speaker 1: very focused.
Speaker 3: I think women still do have testos.
Speaker 2: We have estrogen, and we do have some testosterone. Someone
Speaker 2: I fall on Instagram said her testosterone levels were insanely
Speaker 2: high so she had to work to lower them. So
Speaker 2: I think we do have them. But we're supposed to
Speaker 2: have small amount.
Speaker 3: Right women have. Women have higher estrogen, lower testosterone. Men
Speaker 3: have higher testoster and lower estrogen. I think men still
Speaker 3: have estrogen. I could be wrong.
Speaker 2: I feel kind of dumb though, Yeah, well I always.
Speaker 3: And welcome to the club.
Speaker 1: This is very relatable to everybody, hope, unless on our
Speaker 1: entire listening audience is like, you don't mess yeah.
Speaker 3: But I do. Also, I also haven't been like skydiving
Speaker 3: in a long time. I haven't been climbing in a
Speaker 3: long time. I haven't been doing these things that excite
Speaker 3: me and get my blood pressure up, So I think
Speaker 3: that might be lending itself to that as well.
Speaker 2: This disosterone works with fat distribution.
Speaker 3: Exactly, Like if you have low testosteron, you probably are
Speaker 3: more prone to accumulating like fatty areas on your body.
Speaker 3: I would assume, you know, like if you have higher
Speaker 3: testoster and you're you're more muscular.
Speaker 2: Oh, and it production of red blood cells and sperm,
Speaker 2: so you might have a low sperm count as well.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be surprised. I got low everything.
Speaker 1: Don't you are you guys taking a fertility What are
Speaker 1: you talking about? Taking a fertility test?
Speaker 2: I did modern fertility. Dean checked his sperm like I
Speaker 2: don't know, ten plus years ago, like eight years ago,
Speaker 2: eight years ago, and it's it was good.
Speaker 3: Then, well, yeah it was it was okay. They said,
Speaker 3: I told you the story. I thought I did it.
Speaker 3: I got my sperm tested and I gave a sperm samp.
Speaker 3: I like knew I was going to do it, So
Speaker 3: I didn't relieve myself, if you will, for like a
Speaker 3: month leading up to it, which is a long time.
Speaker 3: And so I gave a sperm sample. There was a
Speaker 3: long time, very long. How old I was like, twenty three,
Speaker 3: twenty four.
Speaker 1: Just moved you held out for a month, just moved
Speaker 1: to La.
Speaker 3: To lived in LA for a month without any relief.
Speaker 1: I'm not even talking about with a partner, just like
Speaker 1: you know, a casual Tuesday.
Speaker 3: Hey, when your test off serones this low, you can
Speaker 3: do anything, trust me. So yeah, so I did the
Speaker 3: test and I did you know, I did the deed
Speaker 3: and I put it in the cup and I gave
Speaker 3: it back to them and they're like, great, now we
Speaker 3: need a sperm sample in two days from now to
Speaker 3: make sure your consistency is there. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: there's no way this is going to be consistent. That's
Speaker 3: one that's thirty days of build up and now you're
Speaker 3: asking just for two. And so I go back two
Speaker 3: days later give them another sample, and they were like, yeah,
Speaker 3: everything's fine with your sperm count, but your consistency is
Speaker 3: like off the charts. And I was like, oh, I
Speaker 3: know exactly why that is. And then ever since then,
Speaker 3: I haven't got any check up or any more information
Speaker 3: about it. But I should I guess I could. I
Speaker 3: wouldn't be surprised. I've always thought. I've always thought I'm sterile.
Speaker 2: Like they confirmed that you're not.
Speaker 3: They did, but in like a weird way that's not
Speaker 3: totally confirming.
Speaker 2: But like, if you're sterile, you're sterile, period.
Speaker 3: Right, like you I would assume. So yeah, so I
Speaker 3: still have a little inkling inside of me that thinks
Speaker 3: I am.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 2: The good news is we want to adopt if you
Speaker 2: are sterile.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I always thought about too, like what I
Speaker 3: could do if I was sterile and we wanted to
Speaker 3: have kids. And this is even pc pre klin. I
Speaker 3: was thinking I could take and this is kind of
Speaker 3: weird to say now that it's attached to a person.
Speaker 3: I could we could take like one of my brothers.
Speaker 2: I knew you were going to say that. I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't want to say it because it's weird, but
Speaker 2: not which brother?
Speaker 3: And then you guys could just like go into the
Speaker 3: room for thirty minutes and you know.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you would say, I know, wait, which brother?
Speaker 2: Which Brother's a.
Speaker 3: Question that you would have to answer.
Speaker 2: I think not sex with them?
Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously, I feel like an artificial insemination thing.
Speaker 2: Yes, which brother I don't know. But if you've got
Speaker 2: sperm samples from both and just mix.
Speaker 1: Raise them against each other, I think they're both perfect.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it would be funny, like you four samples from
Speaker 3: each of them or however many, and then you put
Speaker 3: the eight vials down and you just mix them up,
Speaker 3: not mix, not like mix them up in the same via,
Speaker 3: but like you know, like like plucking randomly from whichever one.
Speaker 3: You might get a little bit of ross, you might
Speaker 3: get a little Brad, a bit of Brad who knows. Okay,
Speaker 3: but that's always been my like, oh, if I'm sterile, yeah,
Speaker 3: if the plan be so, if I'm sterile, that's what
Speaker 3: I've always imagined myself doing. Because their DNA is close
Speaker 3: enough to mine.
Speaker 1: I guess my thing would be if I had a brother,
Speaker 1: I would be like, oh, well that's I guess that's
Speaker 1: his dad. I'm not his dad. I mean I am
Speaker 1: his dad because I'm raising him biologically, that's his dad. Well,
Speaker 1: so would that make you feel weird?
Speaker 3: No, I would.
Speaker 1: I think having like someone not involved.
Speaker 3: I think it would be it would be maybe challenging
Speaker 3: at moments. I'm not denying that, but I think that
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, it's as close as
Speaker 3: I could get, and so I think I'd be happy
Speaker 3: with that. But again, it's not even like, you know,
Speaker 3: I haven't even considered asking not asking you, but like
Speaker 3: but talking about the concept with you. Because whenever I
Speaker 3: thought about it as a kid or as a younger person,
Speaker 3: it was always just person whoever I end up with,
Speaker 3: and it was never attached to anyone. So now that
Speaker 3: I'm talking to Klein about it, just feel a little funny.
Speaker 2: But wait, you should go get your sperm check, make
Speaker 2: sure you're not sterile before we have this conversation. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean maybe I am fingers crossed, but no, you
Speaker 2: really should, and then we'll reveal the results on the podcast.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll just I'll do if I hurt. Radio pays
Speaker 3: for this test. And so you've gotten your fertility checked
Speaker 3: and you're good.
Speaker 2: Well, so you prick your finger and based on your blood,
Speaker 2: like I could actually go and get to the we
Speaker 2: I really don't know a lot about this, but I
Speaker 2: need to know like more information.
Speaker 3: So you don't know for certain that your eggs are.
Speaker 2: It said, like it's probably normal. I got it, probably,
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 3: So that's kind of exactly what I got. Yeah, so
Speaker 3: both of us are like in this weird gray area
Speaker 3: where we're not totally certain.
Speaker 2: But yeah, but my mom I recently found out at
Speaker 2: our engagement party, my mom apparently got pregnant. She has
Speaker 2: five kids, four of her own, so four kids, and
Speaker 2: she was on birth control the whole time. I don't
Speaker 2: know if she was. I don't think she was joking.
Speaker 2: So she's very, very fertile.
Speaker 3: But maybe birth control has come a long way in
Speaker 3: the last twenty seven years.
Speaker 2: That's true, but who knows.
Speaker 3: I guess seventeen years however long. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I think we could get tested.
Speaker 2: Why not, but yeah, both of us should. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: I know fertility testing is a lot.
Speaker 1: Those are the type of hard stories When I was single,
Speaker 1: I would just cry like, oh, yeah, my mom was
Speaker 1: on birth control, I had four kids, never got off.
Speaker 1: Just I don't know what happened, Like, oh that's good,
Speaker 1: that's comforting, Thank you so much for me know that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously I'm swimming, you know, Dawson's living proof
Speaker 1: of that, but I don't know if I have low testosterone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, can you get checked for us please? I will.
Speaker 1: I'm curious now judging by my passions in life, which
Speaker 1: includes things like Rob Thomas and fan boying over Brady,
Speaker 1: I feel like my testosterone is low. But who knows, really,
Speaker 1: maybe it could be opposite.
Speaker 3: I gotta say, though, just because your interests are those
Speaker 3: which aren't bad interest I'm not saying those are bad
Speaker 3: interests at all.
Speaker 1: They're fantastic.
Speaker 3: I do think that you have enough focus and drive
Speaker 3: towards those interests that would prove otherwise, you know, like
Speaker 3: I think, I think it's more it's less the interest
Speaker 3: and more of the passion for it. And you've got
Speaker 3: no shortage of passion.
Speaker 1: Oh that's very sweet of you.
Speaker 2: Do.
Speaker 1: I feel so lethargic these days. God, But anyway, no one,
Speaker 1: you don't have to hear about my lethargic lifestyle before
Speaker 1: I know, we have to wrap up this podcast in
Speaker 1: the next like ten to fifteen minutes. But I did
Speaker 1: want to talk about the big news of the week
Speaker 1: in terms of dating, because it hasn't happened in six years.
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift is back on the market. Kaylin, did you
Speaker 1: have like a little pet in your stomach thinking no,
Speaker 1: she could go after Dean.
Speaker 3: Caitlyn has been cranky lately, and I think it's because
Speaker 3: she wants to dump me to pursue Taylor.
Speaker 2: Oh, to pursue Taylor.
Speaker 3: I want to pursue.
Speaker 1: Taylor Oh okay, because Ashley called me and it was like,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't day Taylor Swift?
Speaker 3: Would you?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, Ashley, we're married with a kid, and
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift wants nothing to do with me. I think
Speaker 1: you have no worries.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just I didn't care that much about the breakup.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Like, I like her music, but I'm
Speaker 2: not a Swiftie.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I can't obviously speak for you, but that
Speaker 3: just seems like that's.
Speaker 2: Not true because Swifties are so like invested, so invested,
Speaker 2: and they like find all of the Easter eggs in
Speaker 2: her songs. They figure out who every song is about. Like,
Speaker 2: I like her music, but I'm not invested. And I
Speaker 2: didn't even know the guy that she's dating.
Speaker 3: I don't really care, but you do, Like if she
Speaker 3: drops an album, you do turn it on right away
Speaker 3: and listen to it and repeat for the next couple
Speaker 3: of days.
Speaker 2: Because I like her music, but I'm not invested in
Speaker 2: anything outside of it.
Speaker 3: Right and so you think a SWIFTI is defined by
Speaker 3: they're like passionate fans.
Speaker 2: Passion yes, yes, like very very passionate.
Speaker 3: Okay, I respect that.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie I kind of. I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I like tail Swifts. I'm in the same way where
Speaker 1: like I like your music. I listened to it. But
Speaker 1: Swifties are just another Damn Breed I tell you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Holy moly, like Selena Goes Mary's fans and Harry Styles.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm confused. Are these like all the same fans
Speaker 1: or is it there is Selena?
Speaker 2: They are like dedicated people to each person, like really
Speaker 2: die hard.
Speaker 3: I wish I had some Denies.
Speaker 2: You've got some Deanies. You have a kid named after you.
Speaker 3: That's true. That's pretty cool. That's pretty cool. That's right.
Speaker 3: I forgot about it.
Speaker 1: How pissed off is that kid gonna be like, hey,
Speaker 1: how did I get the Well, let me tell you.
Speaker 2: Watch the video.
Speaker 3: I'm sure the parents will twist it in a way
Speaker 3: that makes it way more meaningful than just saying, oh,
Speaker 3: I want to like this guy in Bashan Paradise. Yeah,
Speaker 3: there is another topic we want to talk about. So
Speaker 3: last week we had a guest Lindsay Hubbard on the
Speaker 3: podcast from Summerhouse. It's a great episode. If you haven't
Speaker 3: listened yet, be sure to go back and listen to it.
Speaker 3: But very fitting and tying into that is one of
Speaker 3: our own Taysha Adams lover great friend of the podcast.
Speaker 3: She was seen holding hands. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, well, I don't think you read the whole thing,
Speaker 2: but Lindsay posted a photo. Lindsay from last week posted
Speaker 2: a photo of her Carl, Taysha, and Luke and maybe
Speaker 2: there were other people's and other people in there, and
Speaker 2: then she quickly took it down because she accidentally spoiled
Speaker 2: like a soft one of their relationship or a hard launch.
Speaker 2: Even who's this you're saying? Lindsay took the photo down
Speaker 2: and then she reposted but cropped them out.
Speaker 1: Okay, she cropped Luke and Tasa and Tasia.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so they were holding hands in the photo. They
Speaker 2: were all spinning Easter together. And then she quickly took
Speaker 2: that down.
Speaker 3: And I think I remember Luke. I've watched a couple
Speaker 3: of seasons of Summer House.
Speaker 2: Luke is also from Summer House.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Luke seems it's funny. I've gone back and forth
Speaker 3: with Luke, like he seems a little problematic when it
Speaker 3: comes to relationships, and I think we can all recognize that.
Speaker 3: But then he does cool things like he rides motorcycles,
Speaker 3: he plays golf. He I remember like he was doing
Speaker 3: some things and I was like, Oh, this guy's actually
Speaker 3: kind of cool. But he just the way he treats
Speaker 3: women isn't very nice.
Speaker 2: Sometimes. Yeah, I don't know if maybe I'm forgetting, but
Speaker 2: I don't know if Luke's ever had a good season,
Speaker 2: Like he always kind of has rocky seasons, and now
Speaker 2: he's not on it anymore. He kind of had like
Speaker 2: a big blowout with Kyle, and I don't know. He's
Speaker 2: just had a lot of issues, especially with women. He
Speaker 2: was dating Hannah Berner, love Hannah, but then brought Sierra.
Speaker 2: Also loved Sierra, and there was like weirdness there. And
Speaker 2: last season Winterhouse, he was trying to date a girl
Speaker 2: but was making her uncomfortable and then he got upset.
Speaker 2: He's like, I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: I remember that. I remember that.
Speaker 2: So I don't know if he's ever had like a
Speaker 2: good season, but he seems nice. He just hasn't found
Speaker 2: his person and maybe Tasha's his person.
Speaker 1: Wait, it was Hannah Burner on Summer House. Am I
Speaker 1: an idiot?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Do you know Hannah Burner the comedian median?
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was Oh my god. No, Yeah, she's great.
Speaker 1: I just love her comedy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's hilarious.
Speaker 1: She was on Summer House.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she also had a rocky season. But I love
Speaker 2: Hannah so much. I think she's wonderful. I think she's
Speaker 2: a great person.
Speaker 3: We went on a tennis trip. Caitlyn went with Wilson
Speaker 3: to the US Open I think it was, and they
Speaker 3: invited like tennis influencers and Hannah played collegiate tennis I
Speaker 3: think it was. And we saw her there at first,
Speaker 3: and I was like, Oh, this freaking person from reality
Speaker 3: Summer House is going to be here with us.
Speaker 2: Which is probably what people think of us.
Speaker 3: True. And then we met her and I was like,
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, she's amazing and she's hilarious and she's
Speaker 3: so nice. Podcast she has been on this pot right. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then I saw her last year at the US
Speaker 2: Open as well, and we played tennis together and I
Speaker 2: got so embarrassed. She's so good. I was like, I
Speaker 2: can't I cannot play with you for one more second.
Speaker 2: My ego can't handle it.
Speaker 3: Well, she's like played in college.
Speaker 1: I know you play tennis.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty good at it. Yeah, I don't focus on
Speaker 3: it too much.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. What he's great at pickaball and not
Speaker 2: the best at tennis.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I can you smoke Dean and tennis?
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yes.
Speaker 3: Let's say for let's say for a second that I've
Speaker 3: ever even actually tried to beat you, because.
Speaker 2: Okay, he always shows up in foot flops, so and
Speaker 2: he doesn't try, and he doesn't like my plate.
Speaker 3: My plate, yeah, my plate. I don't have full mobility
Speaker 3: these days. I'm an old man with a bionic leg.
Speaker 1: Your plate.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've got a big plate in my leg, and
Speaker 3: so I use that as an excuse whenever something goes wrong,
Speaker 3: for everything, for everything, it still hurts. I was just
Speaker 3: that we were dining last night with Kaitlyn's grandparents and
Speaker 3: we were talking about it. Like slaps my butt every
Speaker 3: once in a while, and it tenses all of the
Speaker 3: muscles in my leg up and like the tendons and
Speaker 3: ligaments move along the plate in my leg and it
Speaker 3: doesn't hurt, but it feels very uncomfortable. Even now just
Speaker 3: doing it, like flexing my quad. It's an uncomfortable feeling.
Speaker 2: It's just this reaction is so funny every time he's like,
Speaker 2: my plate.
Speaker 3: My plate. I do need to do my I need
Speaker 3: to get back into like rebuilding the muscle in my
Speaker 3: leg and maybe that will also give me more testosterone. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but I do want to Let's close the loop on
Speaker 3: this whole Tashaw Luke thing. So what's the update there?
Speaker 3: I guess because neither of them have publicly posted about.
Speaker 2: It, it sounds like, yeah, I just I think Lindsay
Speaker 2: accidentally spoiled it. But people have been speculating for a
Speaker 2: while that they've been dating. I think they keep being spotted,
Speaker 2: like at dinner and Demo said something about them, So yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure they're dating.
Speaker 1: Spoiled. Does that mean that Tasa's going to be on
Speaker 1: Summer House?
Speaker 2: You know, she could be on Winterhouse, but I doubt
Speaker 2: it because I don't Luke's not on it anymore, well,
Speaker 2: at least he's not it this season. He could go back.
Speaker 1: Interesting because it's spoiled, like, unless they don't want to
Speaker 1: out in the public yet.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's just soon and they're not ready to talk
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe that is curious because Taysha obviously coming from
Speaker 1: Bachelor stardom where she was on the franchise, then became
Speaker 1: bachelorette and then what was her fiance's name, Eric, I
Speaker 1: think his name was Zach, Zach, thank you so much
Speaker 1: for letters. I was close, but she broke up. They
Speaker 1: broke up. They broke up. It seemed very non climactic.
Speaker 1: You know. I feel like with a lot of these
Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise bachelor couples that break up, or even couples
Speaker 1: just in the public eye, there's always things that come out.
Speaker 1: I feel like I didn't hear anything. It was just like, yep,
Speaker 1: they broke up and then it just ended.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good point. I don't know if they ever,
Speaker 3: like if Taysha ever released a statement.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like those joint statements, Come on.
Speaker 3: Why are we expected to release statement? Like I'm proud.
Speaker 3: I think that's a boss move is to not release
Speaker 3: a statement, like just be like, yeah, just be like,
Speaker 3: I'm living my life. I don't need to give you
Speaker 3: guys an update on the relationship.
Speaker 2: Like I hate those statements more than anything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like ridic Yeah, for sure, there's so ridiculous.
Speaker 2: D it?
Speaker 1: Well, hold on, did you have to release a statement
Speaker 1: or did you release the statement with you and.
Speaker 2: Leslie?
Speaker 1: Why do I remember this?
Speaker 3: Well? It was an awkward situation. I man, I hate
Speaker 3: even talking about this just.
Speaker 1: We don't talk about it, but I just thought it.
Speaker 3: I love talking about it. I was just kidding a man.
Speaker 3: I guess I'll talk about it. What happened was I
Speaker 3: have a friend who works for E News, and I
Speaker 3: like told my closest friends that I was going to
Speaker 3: break up with Leslie, and I guess one of my
Speaker 3: close friends like passed the information onto this person, and
Speaker 3: so the news person calls me one morning and she's like, hey,
Speaker 3: I'm going to run this story. And I was like, well,
Speaker 3: why would you run the story? I haven't like nothing,
Speaker 3: we're still together because I hadn't broken up with her yet.
Speaker 3: And so then EUS publishes an article at ten am,
Speaker 3: and then I look like the apple because it looks
Speaker 3: like I ran to E News to tell them that
Speaker 3: I was breaking up with this person before I even
Speaker 3: break up with them. And then so then I, you know,
Speaker 3: we we break up less than I break up, and
Speaker 3: there's already these stories out there. And then from I'm
Speaker 3: sure from Leslie's perspective, She's like, why did Dean go
Speaker 3: to the news outlets and like share this information?
Speaker 2: Not a great look for you. Is that the same
Speaker 2: e news reporter that?
Speaker 3: Yes? Oh yeah, it is the same news reporter that
Speaker 3: when Kaylen and I first started dating. She was like, Hey,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna run this article about how you and Kaylan
Speaker 3: are on the rocks. And I was like, I'm sitting
Speaker 3: right next to her, We're happier than we've ever been.
Speaker 3: And she was like, well, do you want to make
Speaker 3: a statement before?
Speaker 2: I don't care, I'm going to run it anyway.
Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, do you want to, like, do you
Speaker 3: want to interview real quick? And I was like no,
Speaker 3: and she's like, I'm running this article then, and so ridiculous. Yeah,
Speaker 3: It's just it just goes to show you how credible
Speaker 3: these news sources can be.
Speaker 1: Oh that's crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So that's that's my experience with giving up statements.
Speaker 1: They're not so are you guys still in the rocks
Speaker 1: or how's how's things going? Yeah, look how far we're.
Speaker 3: Sitting right now? Of course we're on the rocks.
Speaker 2: Four years of rockiness.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh man. But yeah, so the joint statements if
Speaker 3: anyone's in the future, in the future is in the
Speaker 3: position to give a joint statement, I just don't. I
Speaker 3: think it's a boss move to not give a statement.
Speaker 1: I agree, and I'm curre. The reason I brought that
Speaker 1: up is because I wonder if it's not a spoiler
Speaker 1: quote unquote, if she's not on Summer or Winter House,
Speaker 1: so it doesn't even matter. But like you said, maybe Tasha.
Speaker 1: I can totally see Tasha saying, Hey, I'm not ready
Speaker 1: to be in a public relationship yet. You and I
Speaker 1: just started dating, she seems I mean, we've met Tasha
Speaker 1: with friends of Tasa. Tasha is a little bit of
Speaker 1: a boss lady, so I could totally see her being like,
Speaker 1: I don't want this to go public yet, And so
Speaker 1: you know, Lindsey having you know, Tasha being like, take
Speaker 1: that down right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, And the challenge for someone in her position
Speaker 3: too and his and ours, I guess is when you're
Speaker 3: dating casually and you're you're you post a picture with someone,
Speaker 3: you get linked with that person, and so even if
Speaker 3: it's not super serious, you just then become linked with
Speaker 3: them for whatever reason. You know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you just become linked. It's like it's you're
Speaker 1: in a relationship at that point the public eye just.
Speaker 3: Because you are seen in a picture together holding hands.
Speaker 1: You're not guilty in front of the jury, but you're
Speaker 1: guilty in front of the public eye. You're not actually
Speaker 1: in a relationship, but you're in a relationship in the
Speaker 1: public eye.
Speaker 3: Right right, right, Well, I guess at the end of
Speaker 3: the day, I'm sure I can speak for all of
Speaker 3: us and say I hope the best for both of them,
Speaker 3: whether it's a casual thing or serious or nothing at all.
Speaker 1: My goal for one of these podcasts is that we
Speaker 1: end it and we say, you know what, we actually
Speaker 1: don't wish the best for this person because we think
Speaker 1: this person's pretty terrible.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but Tasha's one of the PA But Tasha's great.
Speaker 3: I think that we all can. We all respect and
Speaker 3: like Taysha a lot. So when I say it, when
Speaker 3: I say I wish the best petation, I actually mean it.
Speaker 3: I'll say that all the time, but not actually mean it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, one hundred percent, I wish the best pectation too,
Speaker 1: Which is why we need a hot topic here in
Speaker 1: the next couple of weeks where it's somebody that we're
Speaker 1: just like, this person's terrible.
Speaker 2: I'm sure they're out there.
Speaker 3: I've said it on this podcast multiple times. I've got
Speaker 3: in trouble for saying people are terrible in this podcast. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but it's just the curse you live with when you
Speaker 3: put your foot in your mouth on a regular basis.
Speaker 3: And I'll tell you what don't ever change foot is
Speaker 3: low and testosterone. So that's why I'm so low because
Speaker 3: my feet have no testosterone in them and I keep
Speaker 3: eating my feet. That's it's a foot in the mouth joke.
Speaker 3: That's gonna do it for this week's episode. You guys,
Speaker 3: we nailed it right on the nine to fifty five mark.
Speaker 3: Per Hanna's request, thank you so much for listening to
Speaker 3: help we suck at being newlyweds. Like I said, if
Speaker 3: you haven't listened last week's episode of Lindsay Hubbard, please
Speaker 3: go back and do so. It is quite a fun listen.
Speaker 3: Is there anything else you want to say before we
Speaker 3: say goodbye?
Speaker 1: Jared, No, I'm good. You can't even still see my face.
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