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Speaker 3: Come on, you think I sure? Well, good morning everybody.

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Speaker 6: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 6: one and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. You

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Speaker 6: know this week, I just been on it, So today

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Speaker 6: is no different. I'm telling you, I've just reinvigorated myself.

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Speaker 6: I'm more determined to share the principles of success. I'm

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Speaker 6: more determined to help and guide and teach as many

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Speaker 6: people as I can the things that I've learned. And

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Speaker 6: I mean, man, I've been through it. I have really

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Speaker 6: been through it. I kid you not.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 6: I used to say, Okay, God, you know, why is

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Speaker 6: all this happening to me? But as I've gotten older,

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Speaker 6: I understand that was the ingredients. I needed the ingredients

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Speaker 6: to be this cake. I needed all those ingredients stirred up.

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Speaker 6: I need all of that different flavors, the stuff that

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Speaker 6: I didn't think tastes so good. All that stuff had

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Speaker 6: did not like the taste of the ingredients.

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Speaker 3: Little did I know God was making this cake, not me.

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Speaker 6: But what he did was and you've heard the old

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Speaker 6: saying God could turn lemons into lemonade, Well that's what

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Speaker 6: he was doing now. At the time, it all had

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Speaker 6: a little funky lemonade lemony flavor to it, with some

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Speaker 6: other stuff in it too.

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Speaker 3: I didn't care for it.

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Speaker 6: But little did I know that I needed everything that

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Speaker 6: order that it happened, and the exact array of things

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Speaker 6: the experience, the attitude, so I could turn around and

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Speaker 6: share that information. Okay, got that out the way. This

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Speaker 6: is what I want to give to you today. I

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Speaker 6: want you to understand something that discipline determines your destiny,

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Speaker 6: not your desire. Discipline determines your destiny, not your desire.

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Speaker 6: You've heard me say this how many times on the show. Okay,

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Speaker 6: here we go again, Steve, I got it. Faith without

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Speaker 6: works is dead. But let me tell you something. To

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Speaker 6: be a hard worker, you got to be disciplined. That's

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Speaker 6: one of the hardest lessons I'm trying to get through

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Speaker 6: to my sons. You're gonna throw yourself down a cliff

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Speaker 6: if you're not a young man or a man that

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Speaker 6: possesses discipline. Because they got something for undisciplined people. They

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Speaker 6: some federal laws and state laws for undisciplined people. So

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Speaker 6: that's why them signs is outside on the freeway, We're

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Speaker 6: gonna let you go fast, but seventy is the limit.

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Speaker 6: Really, if you're disciplined enough of a person to leave

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Speaker 6: seventy miles per hour is absolutely enough. But if you're

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Speaker 6: an undisciplined person, if you don't have the wherewithal to

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Speaker 6: where you wanna go, see the desires where you wanna go,

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Speaker 3: You understand, you can wanna go to see your family.

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Speaker 6: In California all you want, but the flight leaves at

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Speaker 6: if you ain't got the discipline to get to the

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Speaker 3: Your desire to go see.

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Speaker 6: Your family in la is going to be thwarted because

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Speaker 6: determines your destiny, not your desire. You can write down

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Speaker 6: a list of stuff you wanna do all day, but

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Speaker 3: Huh? Okay?

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Speaker 6: I wanna be rich, Okay, I wanna make four hundred

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Speaker 6: that's shooting jumpers when everybody gone home. That's the guy

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Speaker 6: guy that's gonna make it, not the guy that's talking crack,

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Speaker 6: All American. That's just what you're saying. But discipline determines

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Speaker 6: your destiny, not your desire. So now let's talk about

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Speaker 6: this discipline. What is that, really, Steve. That's your work ethic,

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Speaker 6: that's your hunger, that's your wheel. Discipline is how hard

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Speaker 6: you're willing to demonstrate the attributes and the traits to

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Speaker 3: Did you hear me?

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Speaker 6: It is your willingness to conduct yourself in a manner

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Speaker 6: that is above and beyond what they say is necessary.

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Speaker 3: Now, this is a good example right here. Now.

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Speaker 6: You can wanna be in the NFL all you want,

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Speaker 6: But they got this thing called the NFL Combines where

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Speaker 6: they bring in some of the top players at every

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Speaker 3: Drills, running drills, cutting drills.

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Speaker 6: They can determine if a lineback of God stiff hips

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Speaker 3: How does he turn his body?

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Speaker 6: Now you can say you can tell everybody at your

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Speaker 6: wee you wanna play pro football. But they got tests

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Speaker 6: for you though. It's called the combines. Now you get

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Speaker 6: out here and you have a bad combine day, ain't

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Speaker 6: excuses don't work with people when they just trying to

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Speaker 3: The fact that you had a bad day.

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Speaker 6: At the combine and you don't run your best forties

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Speaker 6: that's one of your bad days. We paying you to

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Speaker 6: play on Sundays. But because you keep having these bad days,

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Speaker 6: at any time now you at to combine with some

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Speaker 6: is show day now in the NFL, Sunday is show day.

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Speaker 6: What they can't run the risk of is paying you

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Speaker 3: Didn't cut your check.

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, We looking for people who limit them

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Speaker 6: bad days, who got the discipline to work hard, to

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Speaker 6: to your folks, Please understand this. Discipline determines your destiny,

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Speaker 6: not your desire.

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Speaker 3: If you can want it all you want, But if

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Speaker 3: if you ain't sweating real bad, if you always somewhere,

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Speaker 3: got to chill, you got to have a cold one,

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Speaker 6: Can I tell you something you ain't gonna make it?

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Speaker 6: Discipline determines your destiny, not your desire.

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Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, anybody whatever you call yourself.

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Speaker 3: This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 6: This is a show that starts the day every morning

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Speaker 6: by just simply reminding you how good God.

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Speaker 3: Is, man, what a blessing it is to be alive today.

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Speaker 6: You know, it is a really different I got a

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Speaker 6: phone call early this morning before I started, and it

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Speaker 6: because a person lives far away from here who I

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Speaker 6: thought was just against me, not saying an enemy, but

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Speaker 6: am today because I've learned. You know, Oh so you

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Speaker 6: was wrong about me? Oh yeah, okay, so now you know? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 6: I told you the whole time. No, I didn't go

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Speaker 6: I am at an age now, man, Well, I ain't

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Speaker 6: I let that stuff go right there. So that's how

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Speaker 6: moving stuff around. I had no idea he was moving, man,

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Speaker 6: Thank you God. I just wanted to share that with

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Speaker 6: you all this morning. Shirty Strawberry, Colin Farrell, Mississippi Monica

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Speaker 6: Junior or the Comeback Kid and the legend of Nephew

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Speaker 6: Temmy come Back. What's on your mind today?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: You know you forgive now, that's who you is now. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: what was you like when you wasn't as forgive? You know,

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Speaker 9: when you didn't forgive as much?

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Speaker 3: What was that Steve like?

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Speaker 1: How hard was he?

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Speaker 6: You know, Junior, I'm really surprised that you bring him up.

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Speaker 1: I hear all that other stuff.

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Speaker 3: When what year?

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Speaker 1: What year did you turn?

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Speaker 3: There?

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Speaker 1: You go yesterday last birthday?

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Speaker 6: Well let me tell you what, man, I arted the

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Speaker 6: conversion about twenty one years ago. Oh wow, I tried

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Speaker 6: it thirty years ago and just failed at it. But

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Speaker 6: about twenty one years ago I started learning, and over

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Speaker 6: the years I got better and better.

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Speaker 3: This year though, I crossed over.

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Speaker 6: You know, it's just a process, man, I've been growing

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Speaker 6: up this whole time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but Junior, don't.

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Speaker 1: Press me though, Okay, don't poke right, ain't tell me up.

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Speaker 7: Thirty two minutes after, we'll hear from the nephew as

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Speaker 7: he runs that prank bag. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: Rocket and red Finn found that most of us want

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Speaker 9: stronger connections in our neighborhoods. What about a quarter of

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Speaker 9: us worried we're bothering someone if how to start a conversation.

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Speaker 7: Nephew, tell me is here to run that prank bag?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I've been getting it in and I appreciate it

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Speaker 8: You do know the rules are that you're not supposed

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm straight. I'm straight. I ain't been

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Speaker 11: Even been going nowhere talking about surveillance cameras. I don't

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Speaker 8: Well know, the strenuous work that you're doing is actually.

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Speaker 11: At home, at home, I'll be inside. I don't I

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Speaker 11: don't do nothing outside. I don't wait, I don't even bobecue. Man,

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Speaker 11: what you know what you're talking about? Strings work?

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Speaker 8: Okay? Have you vincent? Have you have you been having

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Speaker 3: We're coming?

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Speaker 11: Let me talk to the supervisors.

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Speaker 8: Now you know your I'm with human resources.

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Speaker 11: I don't man, excuse me, dog, but I don't mean

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Speaker 8: Man, have you been having kind of are you connive?

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Speaker 8: Are you having sex at home?

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Speaker 11: What kind of man? Let me talk? Who is your supervisor?

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Speaker 8: Man, sir, I'm the supervisor here in human resources? What

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Speaker 8: the way you can?

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Speaker 11: I know better? Not be no in my house. I

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Speaker 8: You're not supposed to be having sex if your fact

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Speaker 11: You've been you better not have no camera? Am I

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Speaker 10: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 11: Have you been pervading from me? Having said that's a

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Speaker 11: lie shirt? What's your name? What?

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Speaker 12: What?

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Speaker 11: What's your name?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 11: And who ed? Because I'm look, I'm trying to be nice,

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Speaker 8: And he sir, sir, here it is and you can

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Speaker 8: find out. I'm gonna I'm giving you a warning.

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Speaker 11: No I don't need no, I'm giving you your warning.

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Speaker 11: You let me find the camera my house telling me

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Speaker 11: I can't have no text and all that I have sex.

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Speaker 11: If you're that is strenuous work and you're putting it

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Speaker 11: You're gonna call my pH tell me talking about you

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Speaker 11: got from Dat's camera and my pund that's ed.

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Speaker 8: Okay, Well, sir, sir Vincent, let me say this to you.

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Speaker 11: You want you don't need. You don't need to say

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Speaker 11: nothing to me, but but your last name and then

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Speaker 8: Is ed okay, and you don't need to worry with

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Speaker 11: Look, you're gonna have me to crush up out and

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Speaker 11: hang up on your man. I don't have time for this, man,

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Speaker 11: because y'all that's what y'all do, because y'all doing for people.

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Speaker 11: Y'all think y'all can. He'll do illegal to talk to people,

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Speaker 11: crazy man when y'all coping. Tom, I don't appreciate that

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Speaker 11: at all. Man, this is I don't know who y'all think, y'all.

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Speaker 11: He is down there, y'all do something for the y'all

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 11: I don't like that, and I ain't trying to be disrespectful,

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Speaker 11: but you got me heated right now, man, But then

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Speaker 11: there's better not be no cameras in my house. Do

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Speaker 11: you understand that.

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Speaker 8: I'm gonna tell you once and one time only, no

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Speaker 1: What you do.

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Speaker 11: Put you talking about? I'm sorry, man, because I'll tell

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Speaker 11: Now I'm gonna see y'all if I catch the camera

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Speaker 11: gonna have to never pay U pay me no more.

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Speaker 11: You're gonna pay me one big check that I'm sure

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Speaker 8: I understand I need I need you to understand one

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Speaker 11: Man? You go ahead, Man, I'm y'all got me heat man,

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Speaker 11: and then don't even call me no more? Can't you

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Speaker 8: Okay? Are you familiar with Leonard?

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Speaker 11: Man? Familiar with what Leonard?

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Speaker 8: Do you know Leonard? You're coworker Leonard? Yeah?

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Speaker 11: What about him? Leonard?

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Speaker 8: Got me the prank phone?

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Speaker 11: Call you.

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Speaker 8: This is nephew Tilly from the Stave Offrey more than

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Speaker 8: Joe Filston. Buddy, you've been praying.

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Speaker 11: Man out of here. Man, y'all about to have me

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Speaker 11: the ooh lord talking about my check and man and man,

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Speaker 3: Y'all?

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Speaker 11: Have me going off? Man, y'all have me heeded? But

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Speaker 11: I'm I'm kicking gotta be calling that he on the phone.

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Speaker 8: Now he ain't on the phone.

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Speaker 11: Man, I'm sweating like a Oh so I'm still so

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Speaker 11: I'm still getting my check there, that's what that means.

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Speaker 11: Y'all have me heated? Boy, I thought y'all gonna take

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 11: Nice to hear from y'all. Man, y'all got me, though, Man,

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Speaker 11: y'all got me.

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Speaker 8: I got one more question, man, What is the baddest

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Speaker 11: always will be. Especially y'all don't got me like this

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Speaker 3: You have it.

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Speaker 10: I would be back in another hour with the same

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Speaker 7: Okay, all right, coming up next and ask the COLO.

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Speaker 7: Our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is in the building

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Speaker 7: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: Rocket and Redfinn found that most of us want stronger

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Speaker 9: connections in our neighborhoods. What about a quarter of us

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Speaker 9: worry we're bothering someone if we try to start a conversation.

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Speaker 9: The thing is, real connection doesn't come from big gestures.

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Speaker 1: So don't overthink it.

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Speaker 9: Wait, smile, say hi, because it's the small things that

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Speaker 7: Coming up at the top of the hour. In entertainment news,

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Speaker 7: former President Barack Obama has reacted to that viral video

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Speaker 7: depicting he and Missus Obama as apes. The debate continues

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Speaker 7: This is from Marie and Edison. Marie writes, my mother

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Speaker 7: in law talks to my husband like he's a child,

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Speaker 7: and I nicely asked her to stop doing it. My

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Speaker 8: Uh?

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Speaker 3: She been talking to him like that his entire life. Yes,

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Speaker 6: Mama Tigue, I just need your favor. However you talk

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Speaker 6: me to speak to him that way. And I can't

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Speaker 6: get in a way of what y'all got. But just

443
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Speaker 6: when I'm in his presence, could you just not speak

444
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Speaker 6: to him that way? I would really appreciate.

445
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Speaker 7: You know, Mama Te is not trying to hear any

446
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Speaker 7: of that.

447
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Speaker 3: Well, Mama te gon mess mound get cussed out. No,

448
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Speaker 3: you know, Mamma Te.

449
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Speaker 7: You know, Mamma Te. All right, we're gonna move on.

450
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Speaker 7: But all right, this is from d and Memphis. D writes,

451
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Speaker 7: I'm not surprised, but my husband didn't get me anything

452
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Speaker 7: for Valentine's Day. We ran Aaron's on Valentine Valentine's Day

453
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Speaker 7: and picked up Mexican food all day. I waited for

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Speaker 7: a surprise gift. Should I start overlooking sex like he

455
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Speaker 7: overlooked Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 3: Well you went't got that?

457
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Speaker 7: Fish's the Mexican food.

458
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Speaker 6: Oh you ain't. Won't listen, I don't. I can't tell

459
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Speaker 6: you what to do. And you know, listen, Fellas, it

460
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Speaker 6: is just the way it is, man. It's not balanced.

461
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 6: It's not a balanced thing that we're involved in. When

462
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Speaker 6: we involved with a woman, it's not balanced. It's not

463
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Speaker 6: fifty to fifty. They require more. They got Christmas. Your

464
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 6: Christmas gift ain't ever equal today Christmas gilt.

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Speaker 1: Get used to it.

466
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Speaker 6: Then here come Valentine's Day, that is strictly for them.

467
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Speaker 6: It is a man showing a woman affection on it.

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Speaker 6: And we don't get nothing on Valentine's Day. Then here

469
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Speaker 6: come the anniversary. The anniversary is you got to make

470
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Speaker 6: a big deal out the anniversary for her again, Fellas,

471
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Speaker 6: Then you got her birthday, you got to make a

472
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Speaker 6: big deal out of that, Then you got Mother's Day.

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Speaker 3: It's just always sunk.

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Speaker 7: You just seem like just we just want attention, that's all.

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Speaker 3: That's all it is.

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Speaker 6: And you're gonna have to accept that, because the whole

477
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Speaker 6: year is set up for you to pay them attention.

478
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Speaker 6: Mostly becalled a lot of us ain't paid them no attention.

479
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Speaker 6: The rest of the sole other go there to create

480
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Speaker 6: all the legal holidays and reasons.

481
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Speaker 3: Why you have to.

482
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Speaker 7: We're gonna get our attention.

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Speaker 6: Okay, it's five times a year where you have to Christmas,

484
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Speaker 6: Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, her birthday, and anniversary. It's probably

485
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Speaker 6: one more in here, sweetest Day, sweetest day, ain't nothing.

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Speaker 1: We don't need that.

487
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Speaker 7: Ain't better get something?

488
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Speaker 3: You can throw any holiday you won't.

489
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Speaker 6: Monday Juneteenth, you better go on my get here saying

490
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Speaker 6: this Negro national anthem?

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Speaker 3: All right?

492
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Speaker 7: Moving on, Moving on to Dell in Louisville. Dell writes,

493
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Speaker 7: my side chick took a selfie of us while I

494
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Speaker 7: wasn't paying attention. I told her to delete the photo

495
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Speaker 7: and she cried. I had no idea she was so sensitive.

496
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 7: I'm afraid she's catching feelings and it scares me. We've

497
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Speaker 7: gone too far to turn back.

498
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Speaker 1: Now what do I do?

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Speaker 3: I don't know you you turn back? You got to

500
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Speaker 3: get that phone?

501
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Speaker 7: Wait?

502
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Speaker 3: What feel or what?

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Speaker 6: You got to get that phone? The next time she

504
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Speaker 6: laid that phone down. You think she cried when you

505
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 6: asked her to delete that photo? She really gonna cry

506
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 6: when she can't find her phone. That phone when we

507
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 6: drowned this phone?

508
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Speaker 7: Ye, steal her phone, that's sure, advice, got to get

509
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Speaker 7: that phone.

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

511
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Speaker 1: What did he say when she started crying?

512
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Speaker 3: What'd you crying for? Who the hell got a sensitive

513
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Speaker 3: side piece?

514
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Speaker 4: We do that?

515
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Speaker 3: Oh they?

516
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Speaker 1: Oh?

517
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Speaker 8: Yeah?

518
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 7: Well yeah, all right? Last one, Steve, Last one. This

519
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 7: is from Aramis and Richardson. Aramis writes, I met a

520
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 7: woman online and she invited me over to watch a movie.

521
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 7: Her living room was filthy, and the blanket she put

522
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Speaker 7: over us smelled like her twenty eight pound dog. I

523
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 7: was so uncomfortable that I left. Here's his question? Is

524
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Speaker 7: this fixable? Or is a nasty house always a deal breaker?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 3: I'm out, dog. I did it. I did it? You did?

527
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Speaker 5: What?

528
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Speaker 6: Ford?

529
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Speaker 3: Motor Company?

530
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Speaker 8: Man?

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Speaker 3: I dated this beautiful girl?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she was beautiful, beautiful, her house, her house?

533
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Speaker 6: Man?

534
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Speaker 3: Was sheal madness?

535
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Speaker 7: What does that mean?

536
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Speaker 6: I never let me tell you something. I've never been

537
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Speaker 6: over a woman house. That trifle really really plates with

538
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 6: old food on it, dishes in the sink. She ain't

539
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Speaker 6: do no dishes. Man, this woman's house was ripe.

540
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Speaker 3: How you that fine and all that come out of

541
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Speaker 3: that beautiful? I don't know, dog, I don't know. I

542
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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 7: Did you make it to the bedroom?

544
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Speaker 8: Yeah?

545
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Speaker 3: Oh you went for it. Yes, I just quit. I

546
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Speaker 3: just quit looking at all.

547
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 7: I didn't see nothing.

548
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Speaker 3: This ain't none of my business.

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Speaker 1: How old were you, Steve twenty? Oh?

550
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I had to get up, saying, man, I was

551
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Speaker 6: I was in that working when I got in that bedroom.

552
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Speaker 6: I don't mean in activity. I'm talking about helping get

553
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Speaker 6: stuff off the bed. I was in course, it's too

554
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Speaker 6: much labor. Oh it was not sexy at all, he was.

555
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Speaker 3: No, No, I was just in that. I was in

556
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Speaker 3: that work. One time. I was over there and said,

557
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Speaker 3: because I went back several times. She was definite.

558
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: I went back or what I said, Oh, she was beautiful.

559
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Speaker 6: If you if you would clean up a little bit,

560
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 6: you got a nice house if you would just clean up,

561
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Speaker 6: she said, would you help me, help.

562
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Speaker 3: Help washing dishes?

563
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 7: We gotta go see a little thing coming up there.

564
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Speaker 3: Dog, that's a deal breaker.

565
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Speaker 1: Run entertained. Right after this.

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Speaker 3: You did some an ass.

567
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Speaker 7: This you're listening Hardy Morning Show. In a recent podcast interview,

568
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Speaker 7: former President Barack Obama finally addressed the AI generated video

569
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Speaker 7: that Donald Trump shared on his true social account. It's

570
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Speaker 7: a video that depicted the former president and former First

571
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Speaker 7: Lady Michelle as apes. President Obama said that the shame

572
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Speaker 7: and decor that once guide in public officials has been

573
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Speaker 7: lost and is no more than a clown show on

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Speaker 7: social media and TV now. He noted that the majority

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Speaker 7: of Americans find the behavior deeply troubling, and he emphasized

576
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Speaker 7: that most people still believe in decency, courtesy, and kindness.

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Speaker 7: Obama said the bad behavior is ultimately a distraction from

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Speaker 7: more pressing issues. Basically true.

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Speaker 6: I mean, he's just a special guy. He's just a

580
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Speaker 6: special guy. They just know how to handle stuff. Reason

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Speaker 6: number one. I can't be president because I don't know

582
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Speaker 6: how to handle your wife. You ain't gonna believe, is it?

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Speaker 6: Oh hell yeah? Oh hell yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: But He's right. Most Americans find this troubling, don't like it.

586
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 7: We do still believe in decency and courtesy and kindness.

587
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 7: We do.

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Speaker 6: You know, even at family few, when I'm talking to

589
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Speaker 6: the audience on commercial breaks, I know it's a lot

590
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Speaker 6: of Trump supporters in there, you know, not necessarily Maga.

591
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 6: Maga is different from the Trump supporters, two different fan base.

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Speaker 6: Even they laugh at it because I say, hey, man, how.

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Speaker 3: Many Trump supporters in here? And you know the strongers

594
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Speaker 3: raise their hands. Listen.

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Speaker 6: I have no problem with you. I have no problem

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Speaker 6: with who you voted for, you being conservative anything, I say.

597
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 6: I have some conservative viewpoints from my own I say.

598
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Speaker 6: But I'm very liberal too, I say, so whatever, there,

599
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Speaker 6: I said, But you have got to admit you have

600
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Speaker 6: got to be how many times have you been at

601
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Speaker 6: your house watching TV, eating and looked over that TV

602
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Speaker 6: and said, what the hell did he say? Or they

603
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 6: bust out laughing because they know, man, he's just not

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Speaker 6: a He's not presidential at all.

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Speaker 3: I go a little bit deeper than that, but you know, yeah,

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Speaker 3: all right.

607
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Speaker 7: Moving on, the debate continues over whether hip hop, whether

608
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Speaker 7: or not hip hop belongs in the rock and Roll

609
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Speaker 7: Hall of Fame. Famous bass guitarist Gene Simmons of Kiss

610
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Speaker 7: has had a long standing opinion that hip hop has

611
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Speaker 7: nothing to do with rock and roll. Recently, in an interview,

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Speaker 7: Simmons reignited the debate by stating that rap is a

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Speaker 7: quote spoken word art rather than rock. Simmons says that

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Speaker 7: he respects artists like Ice Cube, but maintains rappers should

615
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Speaker 7: have their own hall of Fame. TMZ caught up with

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Speaker 7: Chuck D from Public Enemy, and Chuck D said the

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Speaker 7: gene Simmons should be reminded that soul, reggae, and rap

618
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Speaker 7: are natural evolutions of the genre. He noted that rock

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Speaker 7: itself owes its roots to black music.

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Speaker 6: What do you think, Steve, I mean, that's absolutely true. Yes,

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Speaker 6: it doesn't really make a difference to me. I mean,

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Speaker 6: you know, in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame

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Speaker 6: as Aretha Franklin. You know, it's a Chaka Khan. You know,

624
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Speaker 6: it's uh, you know, stuff like that.

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Speaker 7: Rock artists, is what you're saying.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, but if you you can't put none

627
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Speaker 6: of them in there, you know, Richard, uh little Richard, Yes,

628
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Speaker 6: all of that, all of them, all of it, Man

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Speaker 6: and brou It's just been a travesy the way we've

630
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Speaker 6: had to go through. I think hip hop should get

631
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Speaker 6: you know, they own stuff started too. But then at

632
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Speaker 6: the same time, I would have no problem none if

633
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Speaker 6: they put a Public Enemy in the rock and roll

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Speaker 6: Hall of Fame if they put up because this dude.

635
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Speaker 3: Richard what's his name.

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Speaker 1: In charge of it, Richard Simmons, you know he did nothing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I mean there are hip hop artists in

638
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Speaker 5: the rock and Roll Hall of Fame, as it should be.

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Speaker 5: You know, this is a genre of music and a lifestyle.

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Speaker 3: One hip hop artist is in the rock and roll home.

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Speaker 1: Grand Master Flash.

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Speaker 6: I think, yeah, well here and quit complaining because we're

643
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Speaker 6: in there. Next Well, well they in there. I'm not really,

644
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Speaker 6: but it's in Cleveland though, so you have somewhat of

645
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Speaker 6: a connection.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So we do what we want to do up there.

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Speaker 4: The bill.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Gene, you keep running your mouth, You're gonna be out.

649
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Speaker 1: Your tongue back in your mouth to take that bakeup off.

650
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Speaker 3: Some of it. All right.

651
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Speaker 7: Finally, Sex Global, Okay, Carlo, we need to hold hands.

652
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Speaker 1: On this one. Yes, on my hand when you're doing

653
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Speaker 1: the story.

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Speaker 7: I know that's what I just said. We need to

655
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Speaker 7: hold hands.

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Speaker 8: Yes.

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Speaker 7: Sex Global, parent company of Saxsmith Avenue stores and Neeman

658
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Speaker 7: Marcus stores, have announced the closure of eight Sacks with

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Speaker 7: Fifth Avenue locations and one Neeman Marcus store as part

660
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Speaker 7: of a Chapter eleven bankruptcy restructuring. Okay, yeah, yeah. The

661
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Speaker 7: closures represent the initial initial phades of settling to close

662
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Speaker 7: five billion dollars in total debt from the twenty twenty

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Speaker 7: four merger of the two retailers. SAX stores in Birmingham, Alabama, Columbus, Ohio,

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Speaker 7: East Rutherford, New Jersey, New Orleans, Louisiana, Philly, Phoenix. Yeah

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Speaker 7: yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Hotels yeah.

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Speaker 7: In there many times. Yes, yeah, they're closing soon a Richmond, Virginia,

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Speaker 7: and Tulsa, Oklahoma, they're all closing soon. But Boston's NeiMa

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Speaker 7: Marcus is the only name in Marcus store schedule to

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Speaker 7: close at this time.

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Speaker 1: You know, I would have passed out time.

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Speaker 7: That coming up at twenty minutes after today, guys is

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Speaker 7: ash Wednesday. We want to know what you're giving up

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Speaker 7: for lent. We'll talk about it right after this. You're

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Speaker 7: listening Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: Rocket and Redfinn found that most of us want stronger

677
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Speaker 9: connections in our neighborhoods. What about a quarter of us

678
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Speaker 9: worry we're bothering someone if we try to start a conversation.

679
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 9: The thing is, real connection doesn't come from big gestures.

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00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 9: It comes from everyday moments small stuff like grabbing a

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Speaker 9: package for your neighbor or holding the door. So don't

682
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Speaker 9: overthink it, wait, smile, say hi, because it's the small

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Speaker 9: things that end up adding up to something much bigger.

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Speaker 9: Find a neighborhood you'll love at redfinn dot com.

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Speaker 7: Today's ash Wednesday, guys, and the official start of Lent.

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Speaker 7: Lent is forty days of prayer, fasting, and repentance leading

687
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:10,240
Speaker 7: up to Easter, which this year is on Sunday, April fifth.

688
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 7: Every year for Lent, people give up distractions or something

689
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 7: bad like profanity, steve like lyings like sugar, caffeine, alcohol,

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00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 7: or they give up social media.

691
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 6: So stuff you need to give up? Give up sugar, cussing, lying, haah,

692
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 6: so it's.

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00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 7: It's it's cussing, lying, sugar, caffeine, alcohol, or social media.

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Speaker 7: Those are some of the things people are giving.

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00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 3: What about B?

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00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 8: No?

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00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 3: What about it? What about it? Always?

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00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:57,839
Speaker 7: B Do you guys plan on giving up anything for Lent?

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00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 3: I am what are you gonna give up? I think

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00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 3: I'm gonna give up my kids for lyn in the world?

701
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 3: What how many days? How many days?

702
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 1: Called forty?

703
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 3: Yes, I would love to do that. I'm gonna give

704
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:14,360
Speaker 3: up What does that look like?

705
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: What does that mean?

706
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 3: That's on nim? What it looked like? That's all how

707
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 3: they work it up.

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00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 1: They have the power.

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00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 3: You got the power to be something or just just

710
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 3: to have a hard forty days. It's on you how

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Speaker 3: you work it out.

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00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: That sounds so crazy growing past.

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00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 3: It's easy for me.

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00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm giving up sex. Huh wow. I mean I already

715
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: went thirty days with Idy.

716
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 9: Did thirty.

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00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 1: I can do ten more.

718
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,919
Speaker 7: It would be all right, you live.

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00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 9: Yes, I've tried, I've done outfits.

720
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 3: I've done everything.

721
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: Nothing you've done, outfit?

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00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 3: What you gotta do like I do? You gotta do

723
00:39:58,520 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 3: like I do. You got making a.

724
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: Appointment, making up like a date night. You missed that appointment.

725
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 3: You gotta schedule make an appointment now.

726
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 4: Now.

727
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 3: I normally fall asleep on my appointment. I think they know.

728
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 10: That's that's how I missed my appointment. I fall asleep

729
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,320
Speaker 10: on But that's impointment.

730
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Speaker 7: So, Junior, you said you buy an outfit? What do

731
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 7: you mean you for yourself?

732
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 3: I stripped down, she.

733
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 1: Be on the board.

734
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 3: Stop going away with this. What are you buying? What

735
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:32,439
Speaker 3: kind of house is you buying?

736
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: Get it, forget it, just for death. This boy coming here.

737
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,240
Speaker 1: See I'm on the phone like I ain't in portant,

738
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Speaker 1: So but don't move off with me going to unk?

739
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 9: I'm good.

740
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,280
Speaker 3: What is a junior sexy outfit?

741
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,760
Speaker 1: What is that? To get to Steve?

742
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 3: You don't worry about me, You don't have no based

743
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 3: on your list, giving up, lying, cussing.

744
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna be able to give up nothing for

745
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 6: I could do forty minutes. We're not going to do

746
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 6: this for days.

747
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Speaker 9: All right?

748
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Speaker 7: Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour. There

749
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Speaker 7: is a new trend called sleep divorce and couples are

750
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Speaker 7: loving it. We'll talk about it right after this. You're

751
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 7: listening Hardy Morning Show. This has been trending on social media, guys,

752
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 7: and it's really a thing now. It's called sleep divorce.

753
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 7: Sleep divorce is when couples choose to sleep in separate

754
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 7: beds or bedrooms to improve sleep quality. They want to

755
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 7: reduce conflicts and improve their overall relationships, so they get

756
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 7: in what's called sleep divorce. Sleep divorce is often driven

757
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 7: by snoring. If you have a snoring partner, differing schedules

758
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 7: or temperature preferences. You know, some women like it cold,

759
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 7: Some men like it hot, you know. Reddick users noted

760
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 7: that they enjoy physical intimacy, they enjoy cuddling, all of that,

761
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Speaker 7: and then they separate for sleeping.

762
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 7: Some comments viewed sleep divorce as a sign of a

764
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Speaker 7: failing relationship, while others say it is the best thing

765
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Speaker 7: they have done to save their relationship. What do you

766
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Speaker 7: guys think? Would you try it?

767
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 8: What?

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00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 3: I'm not leaving out the room. I gotta have my wife.

769
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what I did. I fell asleep

770
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 3: in the other room watching TV. One time. She came

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00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 3: in in the middle of the night and said, oh,

772
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 3: so this is what we're doing. M h exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I hate been back in this sense, so I'm not

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00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 3: gonna do that.

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00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 7: Got ituddle? Yeah, But you know, some couples do complain

776
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 7: about their their spouses snoring too loud. They can't stand

777
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 7: the snoring all of that.

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Speaker 8: You know.

779
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 7: Some men say it's too cold in the face.

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00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:55,879
Speaker 3: My wife got a freezer. It's free yeah an arctic yes,

781
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 3: antarctic time. I just found it. I got menopause too.

782
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 3: I didn't know it. What Yeah, I got it too.

783
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: When she had I'm hot. When she called it on

784
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 1: board get on board with this third. I ain't got

785
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: no control of the THRM set.

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00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 7: I bed not touch it.

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00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 10: I bought a space heater, Jordan, that's what it's on

788
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 10: my My side of the bridge, My side of the

789
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 10: bed looked like summer. Hustle looked like winter. I mean,

790
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 10: it's it's two different world.

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00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 7: What about the snoring that doesn't bother you? What about you, Steve?

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00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 3: No, I don't snore no more. I got sleep aptery,

793
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 3: so I don't snore no more.

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00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, I got Yeah.

795
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 3: Thank God for that. Because I had severe sleep avenue.

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00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:44,720
Speaker 6: I was sleeping on the uh seatpacked machinem Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I bothered. Did that bother your wife when you had

798
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: the machine?

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Speaker 6: It bothered her when I didn't have the machine because

800
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 6: I was snowing and then quick breathing, And she said, Steve,

801
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 6: do you know at night you stopped breathing. I stopped, man.

802
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 6: I went to the hospital and did that sleep after

803
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 6: your test? Spent tonight in the hospital. They said, sir,

804
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 6: you're a twenty nine. Thirty is severe. You're twenty nine.

805
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 6: So I started sleeping on a seapack machine. You sleep better.

806
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,839
Speaker 6: But I could not stand that so I wanted off

807
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 6: of it. So you can get off of sea pack machines.

808
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 6: There are things you can do. The holistic methods you

809
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,359
Speaker 6: can do to get off seat take about seventy days,

810
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 6: but you can get on of it.

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Speaker 7: How do you feel about if it were in reverse,

812
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 7: if your wife was the heavy snore?

813
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:37,959
Speaker 3: I can't My wife can't be that. But I can't

814
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 3: because I just feel like you're laying up that next

815
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 3: to a man. That's what woman? Yeah, well it was like,

816
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 3: was you over there? But you snowing hard though it's

817
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 3: too deep?

818
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,240
Speaker 7: Who you're supposed to be sleep anyway?

819
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 3: Well?

820
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 7: How can I?

821
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 8: So?

822
00:44:58,280 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 10: Wow?

823
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 3: Time see all.

824
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 7: These double double standards.

825
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 3: See, we don't have a TV in the bedroom. Never, Yes,

826
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,720
Speaker 3: my wife allows me to allow Marjorie TV.

827
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 7: Brother things my husband has in the bed with me

828
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 7: because it's so cold.

829
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, because see tosh ball hit it. I can't tell you.

830
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 3: I can't tell you how many times I don't slip

831
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 3: in a hoodie hmmm.

832
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 6: Yeah.

833
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: We got the air and the fan on, don't touch nothing.

834
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 3: I got the weighted blanket on my side.

835
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, good for you. Wow, Yeah, there you go.

836
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 7: What have we learned from this story?

837
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: You don't like married to Steve. You can't snore.

838
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 3: I mean you.

839
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 7: Cannot snore because you're sounding like a man and you're.

840
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 3: Not going to do that. I'm not finn to play

841
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 3: this game.

842
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,320
Speaker 1: Tommy needs multiple blankets in the bedroom.

843
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 7: It's summer on the inside of and he has a

844
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Speaker 7: space heater.

845
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, and some that waited blanket and.

846
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 6: A house in Arizona. Squad of God. I don't know

847
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 6: why you're in Atlanta. That said more, you can tell me.

848
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: All right, guys, thank you.

849
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,919
Speaker 7: Coming up next, it is the Nephew and Today's Prank

850
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 7: Phone Call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve

851
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:28,479
Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after

852
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 7: the hour. It's my Strawberry letter for today, and the

853
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 7: subject is did he really figure it out?

854
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll get.

855
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 7: Into that, find out what that's all about. It's coming

856
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,280
Speaker 7: up because right now it is time for the Nephew

857
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 7: and Today's prank phone Call. Nephew, what you.

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Speaker 3: Got for us?

859
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 8: Now?

860
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:49,240
Speaker 10: I figured it out. I figured it out this past weekend.

861
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:54,320
Speaker 10: I figured out I am certified. Stupid. I realized that

862
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 10: I realized that I am certified.

863
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Speaker 1: This past weekend.

864
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 10: It just gave me more clarity than my stupid you know,

865
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 10: it just gave me more confirmation.

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Speaker 3: You know that I'm certified.

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Speaker 10: You know a lot of people ain't certified, you know,

868
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 10: to get your I should really have papers, uh on stupidity,

869
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 10: you know documentation?

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00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, wow do you think papers? But we

871
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 3: got a lot of footage.

872
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 7: Though, evidence audio.

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00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:42,359
Speaker 3: Yes, come on, all right, here we go. This right

874
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:43,959
Speaker 3: here is your check.

875
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 10: Bounce your check, bounce. We're not taking you bounce a

876
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 10: check on You're not saying you wrote a check. You're

877
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 10: still right check Back in the day, you would you

878
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 10: was bouncing.

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00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 3: Them back in the day though, what hell yeah, though,

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00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 3: just driven in that's hey, dog, that was I had

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Speaker 3: a plan.

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00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: I had a check.

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00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, I wrote the check knowing because you know, you

884
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 6: used to could check, used to could cast a fifty

885
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 6: dollars check at a grocery store in Texas. I'd write,

886
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 6: go write two checks that I knew I didn't have

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Speaker 6: the money for. That would give me one hundred dollars

888
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 6: so I could go out on the road. And I

889
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 6: take the hundred dollars and get ready to go get

890
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 6: some gas so I could go to my gig. Then

891
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 6: I come back the check and bounce. So now that

892
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 6: fifty dollars got a twenty five dollars on top of that.

893
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,879
Speaker 6: So I got a hundred, but I had to pay

894
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,240
Speaker 6: a hundred and fifty. It was like a loan shark

895
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 6: to me.

896
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 1: Remember check was that as Yeah?

897
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 3: I remember Tello check. They used to it on you.

898
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 1: It was trouble.

899
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 3: I bounced check to the church. Oh yeah, that's bad.

900
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 3: Let's go catch down.

901
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: Here we go.

902
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 3: This right here is your check bounce.

903
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 10: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Monica, Sister Monica, please,

904
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 10: who's calling? This is Brother Deshaun. I'm calling. Actually, I'm

905
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 10: a member Greater Missionary Baptist Church.

906
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 12: How can I help you?

907
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 3: Calling you? Actually? About the offering?

908
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 9: Now?

909
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 3: Did you?

910
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 12: I know you paid your ties, my ties every Sunday?

911
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 3: Okay, Now you paid a love offering as well?

912
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 8: Right?

913
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 7: Yes, I do?

914
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:31,360
Speaker 3: Okay, Now this past Sunday, I'm looking at a check that.

915
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 12: You left us with the bank, right right, I sure did.

916
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 12: I wrote a check Sunday.

917
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 3: Okay. Now the check, ma'am was two hundred and fifty dollars.

918
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 3: Am I correct?

919
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 6: Right?

920
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 3: Right?

921
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,399
Speaker 12: I wrote two checks for my ties and the love offering, right,

922
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 12: I wrote one for two fifty for the love offer. Okay,

923
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 12: now what is this called regarding why are you calling me?

924
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 10: Well, what I wanted to tell you is that I

925
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 10: hate to be a bear of bad news, but your

926
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 10: your check that you wrote for two point fifty actually

927
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 10: has bounced.

928
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 12: And wait a minute, you said my check bounce for

929
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:05,280
Speaker 12: two hundred and fifty dollars.

930
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 3: Your check bound.

931
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 10: So what I'm doing is calling you about recouping the

932
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 10: two fifty as well as you know you you cost

933
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,839
Speaker 10: us thirty dollars UH in bank fees back.

934
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:18,959
Speaker 12: Wait a minute, now, I wrote two checks. I wrote

935
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 12: a check for one hundred dollars. Did that one bounce?

936
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 10: I don't see to it that that that one bounce.

937
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 10: All I know is the one that the love offering

938
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 10: has bounced.

939
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 12: What did you put them in at the same time?

940
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 12: Because I wrote them at the same time.

941
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 10: They all go in on Monday, ma'am. Now I didn't

942
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 10: put them in at the same time. I've been putting

943
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 10: them in for the last two three years. The problem

944
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 10: is why would people write there, what is your name?

945
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 10: Brother Deshaun?

946
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:41,360
Speaker 12: And you was at his Sunday?

947
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 9: I was.

948
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 10: I don't think it matters when I was there, ma'am.

949
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 10: The problem is is that I didn't put these checks in.

950
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 10: And I don't understand why y'all write these checks.

951
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,359
Speaker 12: To the check knowing that they're gonna bom these checks.

952
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 12: There's a lot of people, right, no, good, Well not

953
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 12: write bad check? One clear? Why the other one didn't clear?

954
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,399
Speaker 3: Maybe you didn't have enough money for both of them clear.

955
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 1: What did you just say?

956
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 10: Maybe you didn't have enough money in the bank for

957
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 10: both of them to clear. And I don't understand why.

958
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 12: People write these plenty money in the bank and all

959
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 12: my checks clear. I don't write no rubber checks.

960
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 10: Well, you wrote one on Sunday, and that's the problem.

961
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 10: How you gonna try to give a look?

962
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 12: Use wait a minute, I think you got me be

963
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,800
Speaker 12: confused with somebody else. I don't write no bad checks.

964
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 3: You done wrote that to.

965
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 7: Be nice to you.

966
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 3: I'm trying to be nice to you. Win up. Can

967
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,840
Speaker 3: we expect the two fifty plus the thirty dollars?

968
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 12: So we wait thirty dollars.

969
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 3: That's the bank fees, ma'am for the dog on check bouncing.

970
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 12: My check don't bounced. I'm gonna check my bank and

971
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 12: if my check clear. You're gonna pay me thirty dollars

972
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 12: for calling me harassing me about a two hundred and

973
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 12: fifty dollar check bounce.

974
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 3: I don't write no, why would you write check?

975
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 10: You want to sit up in the church and write

976
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 10: these big number checks when you know you ain't.

977
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 3: Got it in the bank.

978
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 12: What did you say?

979
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 10: I said, why would you write these checks when the

980
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 10: money ain't in Now.

981
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 12: Let me tell you one thing. I don't write no

982
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 12: bad checks. And you got a lot call calling me

983
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:01,720
Speaker 12: telling me my check bounce.

984
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 3: Your check is the one that has bounced.

985
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 12: And you tell you what you do since my check bounce,

986
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 12: you paid them, since you got all the money, And

987
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 12: don't call me with this again.

988
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 10: Hello, don't you hang up on me no more? When

989
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 10: are we gonna get this two fifty and this thirty dollars?

990
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 12: Somebody from the church, to my eye, rolle a bad check?

991
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 12: I'll write no, you didn't write a bad check. I

992
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 12: didn't write no bad Yes a minute, why are you

993
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,479
Speaker 12: calling me? Why the treasure? Don't call me at church?

994
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:33,240
Speaker 3: The treasure is a business.

995
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 12: I ain't ever know the deacon call nobody, but no

996
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 12: bad check? Yo is full of thank you you got

997
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 12: the money I ain't got.

998
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 3: Who is that in the background?

999
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 10: Who is that half of mine?

1000
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 8: Who it is?

1001
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 12: We both go to the same church, and you're gonna

1002
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 12: call me to my eye rode a bad check? You

1003
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 12: don't you call me no more? And if the check bad,

1004
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 12: you paid?

1005
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 3: Okay? You talking like this?

1006
00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 12: You pastor know you calling me?

1007
00:52:58,680 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 2: Can you answer that?

1008
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 3: Look?

1009
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 10: When are we gonna get this? Two hundred and eighty

1010
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 10: dollars is what we're looking for from you?

1011
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 12: I wrote a check for two fifty and way not

1012
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 12: get too eighty. You put the thirty dollars with it.

1013
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 3: You put two fifty in there. It bounced.

1014
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 10: Thirty dollars cost us on bank fees. That's two eighty.

1015
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:17,720
Speaker 10: Where can the church expect they money?

1016
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 12: Never not no two eighty. You will never get to eighty.

1017
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 8: You're gonna make me come by your and my check.

1018
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 10: Then I'm gonna do what You're gonna make me, come

1019
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 10: by your house and get this money.

1020
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 12: Bring it on, bring it, bring it?

1021
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:32,799
Speaker 3: What is the address on this check?

1022
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 6: Check?

1023
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,320
Speaker 12: I got it off the check your I bet you

1024
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 12: you'll be limping.

1025
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 10: Back and I'm watching you. You better not be spending

1026
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 10: no money nowhere. You better not spend nothing until I

1027
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 10: get this two fifty.

1028
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 12: Plus thirty whatever I want to know. You know what

1029
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 12: I am, and you don't call me no more with

1030
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 12: this because my check did not bounce. I don't see

1031
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:54,720
Speaker 12: how one check went through and the other bounce.

1032
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 3: Let me say this to you. We cannot accept you

1033
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 3: back into the House of the Lord no more.

1034
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:01,360
Speaker 6: You are not.

1035
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 3: Don't you come in Sunday until weekends coming up?

1036
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 12: And there Sunday, and I'm gonna make sure I find

1037
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 12: your because you the person I want to see you.

1038
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 12: And you know what, I'm gonna call the pastor right

1039
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 12: now and ask him because I don't believe my check bounce.

1040
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 3: You fuller, Let me say this before you call pastor.

1041
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 12: I got no, I'm a call pastor. No, you should

1042
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 12: have talked with pastor before you call me with this information.

1043
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 12: I got one more thing I need to say that

1044
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:26,919
Speaker 12: You ain't got nothing to say to me. You donna

1045
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 12: upset me with this talking about I bounced a check.

1046
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 12: You should have went to pastor before you called me

1047
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 12: with it.

1048
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 10: I talk Pastor one I get, but I got one

1049
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 10: more thing to say before I.

1050
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 3: Leave, and you listening?

1051
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 12: What what do you have to say?

1052
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 8: To me.

1053
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 12: What do you have to say now that you're gonna

1054
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 12: pay the check?

1055
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 10: This is Nephew Timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1056
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 10: You just got prayed by your girlfriend?

1057
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 12: What did you say?

1058
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: Baby?

1059
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 4: This is.

1060
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 12: What did you say?

1061
00:54:58,239 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 3: I say?

1062
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 10: This is Nephew Time Baby from the Steve Harvey Morning

1063
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 10: Till your girlfriend has pranked you?

1064
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 12: He just left here flying.

1065
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 3: She didn't let me ask you one more thing though, baby?

1066
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 3: What is the baddest radio show in the land.

1067
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 12: The Steve Harvey Morning.

1068
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 3: That boy is stupid? Yes, you play too much?

1069
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 7: Go ahead, nephew, thank you. Strawberry letter coming up subject?

1070
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 7: Did he really figure it out? We'll get into it

1071
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 7: right after this.

1072
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 9: Rocket and Red Finn found that most of us want

1073
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 9: stronger connections in our neighborhoods. What about a quarter of us? Word,

1074
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 9: we're bothering someone if we try to start a conversation.

1075
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 9: The thing is, real connection doesn't come from big gestures.

1076
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 9: It comes from everyday moment, small stuff like grabbing a

1077
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:05,279
Speaker 9: package for your neighbor or holding the door. So don't

1078
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 9: overthink it, wait, smile, say hi, because it's the small

1079
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,720
Speaker 9: things that end up adding up to something much bigger.

1080
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 1: Find a neighborhood you'll.

1081
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 3: Love at redfin dot com.

1082
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 7: You're listening Steve Harvey Warning Show. It is time now

1083
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 7: for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,

1084
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,000
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1085
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 7: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

1086
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 7: reading your letter live on the air right now, just

1087
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 7: like we're gonna read this. One could be yours. Never yeah,

1088
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:44,360
Speaker 7: it could be yours.

1089
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 3: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

1090
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 3: you here. It is strawberry lot.

1091
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 7: Of thanking that for you. Subject? Did he really figure

1092
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 7: it out? You're Stephen Shirley. I've been married for almost

1093
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 7: three years and my husband keeps me on my toes

1094
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 7: because he's a cheater. We're not speaking right now, and

1095
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 7: he's threatening to divorce me. What I did was wrong,

1096
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 7: but he flipped it on me. What I did was

1097
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 7: I had one of my prettiest coworkers slide into my

1098
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:15,319
Speaker 7: husband's DMS. The first thing she did was ask if

1099
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 7: he was married. He said he was in a long

1100
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 7: time relationship, but things aren't going good. He said he

1101
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 7: needed a new friend. They texted back and forth for

1102
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 7: a few days before he went right in and asked

1103
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:30,439
Speaker 7: her to send a picture of her chest. I sent

1104
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 7: her a picture I found online, and she sent it

1105
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 7: to him. She asked him to send a picture of

1106
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 7: his chest, and he said he'd send something a lot

1107
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 7: better than his chest. When she got the photo, I

1108
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 7: confirmed that it was definitely my husband. He wanted to

1109
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 7: meet up with her, but she kept giving him excuses.

1110
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 7: He got bored with texting her and he asked if

1111
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 7: he could come by her job. She agreed to meet

1112
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 7: him at the restaurant across from our job. We were

1113
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 7: both waiting for him, and he was busted. He looked

1114
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 7: shocked when he saw both of us there, and then

1115
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 7: he started laughing really hard. I was cursing at him

1116
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 7: and making a scene, and he told me to calm

1117
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 7: down because I was the one that was busted. He

1118
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 7: said he figured it out right away. He said he

1119
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 7: knew I had set him up, and he went along

1120
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 7: with it. I didn't buy it at all, because he

1121
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 7: sent her a picture of his manhood. He said, that

1122
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 7: is the risk I took by trying to set him up.

1123
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 7: Now he's mad and he won't speak to me. I

1124
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 7: don't know if he really really figured it out or

1125
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 7: if he quickly outsmart at me. How can he be

1126
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 7: mad at me for something he did? Okay, honestly, I'm

1127
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 7: a little confused. Was your husband cheating before you decided

1128
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 7: to trap him in this little game with your coworker.

1129
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 7: I'm just not clear on that, or were you trying

1130
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 7: to find out if he was a cheater, Because either way,

1131
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 7: it backfired on you. That's the bottom line. This backfired

1132
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 7: on you, and you said at it. He flipped it

1133
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 7: on you, simple as that. Now he's got you doubting

1134
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 7: yourself and questioning whether.

1135
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 3: You saw what you saw.

1136
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 7: You said you saw a picture of his manhood that

1137
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 7: he sent to your partner in crime co worker. Anyway,

1138
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 7: how and why does she have time for any of

1139
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 7: this with you? You know it was your husband, and

1140
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 7: you confirmed it now because he was able to think

1141
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 7: fast and come up with a quick lie that sounded

1142
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 7: good when he walked in on you. Guys, you're not

1143
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 7: so sure anymore. He has you wondering, and he's all

1144
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 7: in with the story. He's giving you the silent treatment

1145
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 7: and everything. That silent treatment when you flip it on

1146
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 7: somebody like that, that's the ultimate flip move, and he didn't. Well,

1147
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 7: didn't you say that he's threatening to divorce you. Listen

1148
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:54,919
Speaker 7: if he's a cheater. If he's a cheater, like you say,

1149
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 7: you don't want that, right, you don't want that. So

1150
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 7: in this instance, divorce may be the best option for you.

1151
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 7: I don't know. I just think this is all crazy.

1152
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 7: What you did with the friend. It's just really crazy,

1153
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 7: this whole letter.

1154
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 1: Steve all Right.

1155
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:12,120
Speaker 3: I normally.

1156
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:18,880
Speaker 6: Try to play the role of maybe he did this,

1157
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 6: maybe not, brother, but I don't feel like that today.

1158
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna tell you the truth. Lady. Listen to me.

1159
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 3: You've been played, got played. This ain't none of.

1160
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 6: This the way it worked, I can tell you exactly

1161
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 6: how this happened. Now, I appreciate your brother now, oh

1162
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 6: nice try line. And it worked because my brother told

1163
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 6: me one time when I made a mistake with these

1164
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 6: two girls. I was about eighteen years old. He said,

1165
01:00:54,240 --> 01:01:00,040
Speaker 6: little bro, the best defense is a good offense, and

1166
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 6: that's how you got her. And my brother taught me

1167
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 6: a lot that day. But that only works for a

1168
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 6: short time. It just buys you time. Because women are

1169
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 6: too smart, and this lady in this letter needs to

1170
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 6: get to the part where she's smart, because right now

1171
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,959
Speaker 6: I don't know what's wrong with you. You've been married

1172
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 6: three years, your husband keep you on your toes because

1173
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:25,760
Speaker 6: he's a cheater, and he's not talking to you right

1174
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 6: now and threatening to divorce you.

1175
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 3: Okay, So if your husband, if you got to stay.

1176
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 6: On your toes because your husband is a cheater, but

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01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 6: he ain't talking to you right now threatening to divorce.

1178
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 3: You, or why not take him up on it?

1179
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 7: Why not?

1180
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 3: So now you say what I did was wrong, but

1181
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 3: he flipped it on me.

1182
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 6: You had one of your little fine coworkers to go

1183
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 6: to your husband's DM. The first thing she did ask

1184
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 6: if he was married, and he told her he was

1185
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 6: in a term relationship, but things ain't going good, which

1186
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 6: is true. Which is true. He said he needed a

1187
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 6: new friend. They text back and for a few days

1188
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 6: before he write in and asked her to send a

1189
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 6: picture of her chest. So you went on line and

1190
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 6: found a picture of a chest, gave it to girl.

1191
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,840
Speaker 6: She sent it to him. She asked him to send

1192
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 6: a picture his chest. He said he's seending something a

1193
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:28,440
Speaker 6: lot better than his chest. When she got the photo,

1194
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 6: I confirmed it was definitely my husband. He wanted to

1195
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 6: meet up with her, but she kept giving him excuses.

1196
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 6: Then he got bored with the Texas and all that said,

1197
01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 6: he wanted to come by her job. She agreed to

1198
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 6: meet him at the restaurant across from my job. We

1199
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 6: were both there waiting on him, and he was busted.

1200
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 6: He looked shocked when he saw the both of us,

1201
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 6: and then he started laughing really hard.

1202
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 3: Steve Thank, I'll tell you what have right after.

1203
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 7: We'll have part two of your response coming up stem

1204
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,920
Speaker 7: at twenty three minutes after the hour today Strawberry letter

1205
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:13,439
Speaker 7: subject did he really figure it out? We'll get back

1206
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:17,040
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Speaker 7: come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject

1217
01:03:57,560 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 7: is did he really figure it out?

1218
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:06,320
Speaker 6: Well, lady danswers, No, he didn't figure it out. You've

1219
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 6: been playing. You've been married for three years with this guy.

1220
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:12,440
Speaker 6: He keeps you on his toes because he's a cheater,

1221
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:15,600
Speaker 6: and you know this. So you decided, you say, one

1222
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 6: day I did something I know I was wrong, but

1223
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 6: he flipped it on. So you had one of your

1224
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 6: fine coworkers slide into his DM start up a conversation.

1225
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 6: First thing, she asked him what he married. He said, nah,

1226
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 6: but I'm in a long term relationship and it ain't

1227
01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 6: going good. That's a true statement. Your husband, who is

1228
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 6: a cheater, is in a long term relationship. That's your massage,

1229
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 6: and it ain't going good because he cheating.

1230
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 3: They started talking in all this here. A few days

1231
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 3: he asked for a picture of her chest.

1232
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 6: You went online, found a picture of some breasts and

1233
01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 6: sent it to the girl to send your husband. She said,

1234
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 6: can I see a picture your chest? He said, I

1235
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 6: send you something better than that. He sent his private

1236
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 6: Citi lady lady showed the lady. She said, that is

1237
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 6: definitely my husband. So he got tired all the Texans

1238
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 6: and said could he come to her job. She played

1239
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 6: him off, and then he asked her could they meet,

1240
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:15,760
Speaker 6: So she said, let's meet at this restaurant.

1241
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 3: But the restaurant was across the street from his wife's job.

1242
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 6: He didn't care, so he walked in the restaurant and

1243
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 6: now you and your friend is sitting there. He looked

1244
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 6: shocked when he saw both of y'all, but then he

1245
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 6: started laughing really hard. But let me tell you something,

1246
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 6: if you had listened to that laugh real careful, you'd

1247
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:42,000
Speaker 6: heard the crying in it.

1248
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 3: That's how it was.

1249
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 6: So you was cussing at him and making a scene,

1250
01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:00,040
Speaker 6: and he told you to calm down because you you

1251
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 6: the one that's busted. He said he figured it out

1252
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:05,600
Speaker 6: right away. He said he knew you had set him up,

1253
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 6: and he went along with him.

1254
01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 3: I didn't buy that all because he sent a picture

1255
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 3: of his man who he said, that's the risk you

1256
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 3: take by trying to set him up. Wow, my man,

1257
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 3: I gotta tell you some point. I'm proud to tell you.

1258
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 3: It was some fast thing. Boy, that laughing. And then

1259
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 3: but you sent a picture of your package. Yeah, but

1260
01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 3: that's the risk you take for trying to set me up. Boy,

1261
01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 3: you better be strong.

1262
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 1: That was strong.

1263
01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 6: Now in words of my brother who told me at eighteen,

1264
01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 6: the best defense with a woman is a good offense.

1265
01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:42,919
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1266
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 6: But he also told me on that day, he said, son,

1267
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:48,720
Speaker 6: and let me tell you something. This offense only gonna

1268
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:51,200
Speaker 6: buy you some time because women too smart for that.

1269
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 6: So this lady needs to get smart. He said, that's

1270
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 6: the risk you took by trying to set him up.

1271
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:03,880
Speaker 6: Now he's mad and won't speak to me. I don't

1272
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 6: even know if he really figured it out off He

1273
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 6: quickly outsmarted me. How can he be mad at me

1274
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 6: for something he did? And you allowing this, lady, I

1275
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 6: don't even see how you sitting in this house talking

1276
01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:21,520
Speaker 6: about he ain't speaking to me because he mad. He mad,

1277
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:27,560
Speaker 6: He mad because he got busted. He mad because you

1278
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 6: tricked him. Now he trying to reverse it on you

1279
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 6: and talking about I want a divorce. Okay, let's get one,

1280
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 6: but let me explain something to you. What you're gonna be.

1281
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:38,640
Speaker 3: Paying for me?

1282
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 6: Because all these dms we have screenshot at them screenshots.

1283
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,440
Speaker 6: But listen to this though. Do you know I was

1284
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:51,919
Speaker 6: talking to an attorney one time. He said, seventy five

1285
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 6: percent of all divorces today have a social media element

1286
01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:56,520
Speaker 6: to it.

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01:07:58,200 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 3: So he busted.

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01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 7: Yeah.

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01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 6: The crazy part is how you let him flip it

1290
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:06,360
Speaker 6: on you though, and you know that's what he did.

1291
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 6: But you're sitting up here talking about he mad at me?

1292
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:11,360
Speaker 6: How can he be mad at me for something he did?

1293
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 6: Bishop Barna, I keep that this is one of my

1294
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:19,280
Speaker 6: favorite because this really this helped me out. Bishop Bronner

1295
01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 6: passed in Atlanta. He said, be careful of people who

1296
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 6: are victims of circumstance they created. He created these circumstances.

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01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 1: Now he's a victim, but he's a good actor.

1298
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 6: Oh that boy right there. I'm actually proud of him.

1299
01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:46,600
Speaker 6: But now the part of it is, though, is the

1300
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:51,960
Speaker 6: fact that but you're still allowing it. And that's the

1301
01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:58,599
Speaker 6: crazy part because you're letting it go on too long. See,

1302
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 6: when you get something flipped you, all you gotta do

1303
01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 6: is flip it back. Because one thing about women that

1304
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:13,960
Speaker 6: I know you cannot out mad a woman. Boy, let

1305
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 6: me tell you something. When Nate put on that I'm

1306
01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 6: mad at you whatever you mad about it, it's finished something.

1307
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 1: Forget all that, flip it back on him.

1308
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:29,280
Speaker 3: And get yourself in the upper hand where you need

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01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:29,560
Speaker 3: to be.

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01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 6: And the only reason you set him up with your

1311
01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 6: friend and work is because you already knew he was

1312
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:37,400
Speaker 6: a cheatering you. Was just trying to get confirmation. Then

1313
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 6: when you get confirmation, he tried to cheat you out

1314
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 6: of that. Yeah, So lady, just got to tell you

1315
01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 6: the truth. You're getting played, but you got to get

1316
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 6: yourself value up, you know. Listen, Judge told her said

1317
01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:57,600
Speaker 6: this on my show. Don't let a man have to

1318
01:09:57,680 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 6: tell you twice he don't want you.

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01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,400
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01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:05,600
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Speaker 7: a sports update.

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Speaker 1: Right after this.

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Speaker 7: radio dot com. It is time now for junior and

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Speaker 7: sports talk.

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Speaker 1: Junior. What you get?

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Speaker 9: Well, let me first of all say thank you to Greenville,

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01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:01,120
Speaker 9: South Carolina over the weekend coming out to see the

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Speaker 9: Leggers have Leaftter Comedy Tour. We really enjoyed y'all. Thank

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Speaker 9: y'all so much for the support. Okay, let's talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Canada music dog.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is the Olympic Report, the story of the

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Speaker 6: Olympics so far as the curling team of Canada has

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01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 6: been accused of cheating. I've never seen a fight breakout

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01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 6: ever at the Curling Championships, but we need a kind.

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01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 6: It's one of the most gentile sports ever played. Oh

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01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:35,400
Speaker 6: White folks is mad at each other. Now there is

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Speaker 6: a player on the Canadian team. The rule in curling

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01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 6: is your hand can never touch the stone. The only

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Speaker 6: part of the stone depart that they throw down the

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01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 6: ice and turn it is the handle.

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Speaker 3: The Canadian player.

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01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 1: Had his hand.

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Speaker 6: He was a sweeper and then he was trying to

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01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:59,040
Speaker 6: guide the stone, but he pushed it with his finger.

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01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:00,439
Speaker 3: That's against the rules.

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01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:04,280
Speaker 6: Only problem is in Curland there is no instant replay

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01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 6: and they cannot go to the films.

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Speaker 3: So the sweden boy accused him of cheating. He told

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Speaker 3: him to go fall. He's never been seen in Curlon.

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Speaker 3: He told him to go fall.

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Speaker 6: The Swedish dude took it just like a Swedish dude

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01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 6: should and said it's okay. I'll show you the film

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01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:27,439
Speaker 6: after the match is over. Black Mude would have returned

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01:12:27,560 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 6: his f off with his own f off. Difference between

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Speaker 6: us and then all right, So that now that's a

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Speaker 6: big thing right there.

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Speaker 3: Nobody want to play junior.

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Speaker 9: What I'm just saying, I didn't know that you can

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Speaker 9: touch the stone no more.

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Speaker 3: That's what he can't touch the stone them the rules

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Speaker 3: checking me bout. So what did you come in and fulk?

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01:12:56,320 --> 01:12:57,640
Speaker 3: So we got to get on up in here.

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Speaker 6: Congratulations to the US ladies Bob's slid team. The white

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01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:06,920
Speaker 6: lady won that's married to the black dude and got

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Speaker 6: the two black kids.

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Speaker 3: She from Duglasville, Georgia. Who the hell? Even though they

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01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 3: had a bob slid out there, she won her first

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Speaker 3: gold medal, and so the American women have won gold

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Speaker 3: and bronze.

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Speaker 6: At this year's Olympics. That's been the first. Also, congratulation

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Speaker 6: of Mexico. Mexico was the first time ever having a

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Speaker 6: participant in cross country skill.

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Speaker 3: We ain't know they had snow in Mexico.

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01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:41,680
Speaker 6: Mexico and Haiti that somehow found somebody to know how

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Speaker 6: to ski in their country.

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Speaker 3: So congratulations of boath y'all.

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Speaker 6: I have more of this, Americans doing good in the

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Speaker 6: medal count the black dude and in Canada fail.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't believe. Get your tallet up and.

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Speaker 7: Be back, Junior and Steve coming up at the top

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Speaker 7: of the Hour of Men, it's Valentine's Day to teach

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01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:04,840
Speaker 7: his wife a lesson. He needs advice. We'll get into

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01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 7: that right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 7: Morning Show. All right, this is from Cleveland in Naples.

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01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 7: Cleveland says, I usually give my wife money for Valentine's

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01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 7: Day and she buys whatever she wants. Last year, she

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01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 7: planned a girl's weekend in Miami with the money. She

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01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:28,240
Speaker 7: and three of her girlfriends stayed in a suite that

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01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,280
Speaker 7: she paid for. She also paid for the food and

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01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 7: the uber rides and did not ask for their money.

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01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:37,559
Speaker 7: She tried to impress her broke girlfriends with my hard

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01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:41,240
Speaker 7: earned money. So this year I gave her roses and

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Speaker 7: a pair of boots. She kept asking for her money,

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01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,519
Speaker 7: and she's been mad all weekend. I hope she learned

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Speaker 7: a lesson. Did I do the right thing?

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01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 3: Not bright, You didn't do the right thing. See, here's

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01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:53,559
Speaker 3: what you can't do. Man.

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01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:58,840
Speaker 6: You give your girl the gift of money. But she

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01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 6: did what she wanted to do. She spent it on

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01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 6: the trip, took her girlfriends, paid for the food, the room,

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01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 6: and all the ubers to impress her girlfriends. Maybe it

1413
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:12,640
Speaker 6: was to say, hey, look what my husband did for me.

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01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:15,559
Speaker 6: Now you're gonna teach her a lesson because you don't

1415
01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:18,439
Speaker 6: want her girlfriends benefiting from it. So now you to

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01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 6: boss up some little ugly boots she ain't want, and

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01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 6: some little flowers just.

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01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 3: Already died, you know, the boots ugly dog dog, he

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01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 3: don't know how bad.

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Speaker 6: That's why he's been giving her money because see what

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01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 6: had happened in the past, was he gave us stuff

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01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 6: she ain't like, so he said, man, let me just

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01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,880
Speaker 6: give her money. She been happy now she was waiting

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01:15:41,920 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 6: on the money so she could get to what she

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01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:45,840
Speaker 6: wanted to do what she wants. Why would you try

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01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:46,800
Speaker 6: to teach her a lesson?

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01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:48,759
Speaker 3: What lesson? What's the lesson?

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01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:51,920
Speaker 7: And when you give someone a gift, isn't it their

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01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 7: gift so they can do with it whatever?

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01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:57,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what do you want her to do with

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01:15:57,080 --> 01:15:58,919
Speaker 3: the money? Buy some boots and some flowers?

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01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:09,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's upset. All right, we have time for another one.

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Speaker 7: This is from Samaya and Stanford. Samaya says, I overheard

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Speaker 7: my husband telling our twelve year old daughter that boys

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01:16:16,479 --> 01:16:19,280
Speaker 7: only want one thing from her. I think it's a

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01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 7: harsh conversation for a twelve year old. She had a

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01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 7: crush on a boy at school, and my husband has

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01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:28,560
Speaker 7: ruined it for her. Her older cousin just had a

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01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:32,680
Speaker 7: baby at age seventeen, so now she's scared it will

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01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:36,559
Speaker 7: happen to her. My husband says it's his job as

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01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:39,280
Speaker 7: a dad to say things like that to her. Was

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01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:40,439
Speaker 7: he wrong or not?

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01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:43,600
Speaker 3: He did the exact thing he's supposed.

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01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:47,799
Speaker 7: To do as a dad. Absolutely, so now she's scared.

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01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, o father, and I want my daughter to be scared,

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01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 6: because if you're not scared, what lit seventeen year old

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01:16:55,520 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 6: girl does having a baby in high school?

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01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:01,960
Speaker 3: That could be you see, I don't just see all

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01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 3: this open parenting. Just let them go and do what

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01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 3: they want to do. Have a bunch of people, have

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01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:10,920
Speaker 3: a bunch of people in your house.

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01:17:11,640 --> 01:17:15,800
Speaker 1: I have a bunch of people, and that's the father's job.

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01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:18,800
Speaker 6: That's what men do me and want their daughters me

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01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 6: and tell them because that is what they want.

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01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:27,240
Speaker 7: As a former young boy, you should.

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01:17:28,200 --> 01:17:30,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I wanted. Didn't know what to do

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01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:31,519
Speaker 3: if I had it, but do.

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01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 7: So. The mom should get on board with her husband and.

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01:17:37,520 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 6: Stop stop stopping these men from bringing to the table

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01:17:43,320 --> 01:17:48,760
Speaker 6: the value that men can bring because we know something

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01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:51,680
Speaker 6: about them. Boys you don't, and I'm gonna tell you

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01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:54,840
Speaker 6: to get out the way at some point. So you're saying,

1463
01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:57,240
Speaker 6: you know, we want it both ways.

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01:17:57,640 --> 01:18:00,160
Speaker 5: You want the man to be there to be the

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01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:04,000
Speaker 5: father and then when he's there doing fatherly advice.

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01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, why didn't you want your daughter to be so

1467
01:18:07,760 --> 01:18:10,479
Speaker 3: accommodating of this. Twelve year old boy.

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01:18:14,320 --> 01:18:19,360
Speaker 7: Says she thought the conversation was harsh. She she, you know,

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01:18:19,840 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 7: maybe it was too harsh, but you know what too rough.

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01:18:23,160 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 6: Take The harsh conversation is when you had to take

1471
01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:28,800
Speaker 6: your daughter to the doctor and doctor say your your

1472
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:29,599
Speaker 6: daughter pregnant?

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01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:36,680
Speaker 7: Exactly. Yeah, So let the let the husband handle it

1474
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:40,160
Speaker 7: how he sees it in this particular situation. If it's harsh,

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01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:45,679
Speaker 7: it's harsh, yes, harsh time. Yeah, hell, and the daughter

1476
01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:49,560
Speaker 7: got it because she's scared. Now, Yeah, all right, thank you.

1477
01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:51,800
Speaker 7: Coming up at twenty minutes after we will have more

1478
01:18:51,880 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 7: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're

1479
01:18:54,880 --> 01:19:02,400
Speaker 7: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. A Slovakian hockey

1480
01:19:02,520 --> 01:19:05,879
Speaker 7: fan traveled to Milan for the Olympics and was captured

1481
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:11,519
Speaker 7: after living sixteen years as a fugitive. Back in twenty ten,

1482
01:19:11,680 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 7: he was wanted for a string of burglaries, and he

1483
01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:17,720
Speaker 7: managed to elude authorities until recently. Forty four year old

1484
01:19:17,760 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 7: man's luck ran out. After he checked into a guesthouse

1485
01:19:21,080 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 7: on the outskirts of Milan, officers quickly tracked him down

1486
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 7: and took him straight to prison. The fugitive reportedly said

1487
01:19:29,240 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 7: he was excited to watch his country's opening match against

1488
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:36,200
Speaker 7: Finland in the Olympics, but he missed it. He did

1489
01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:41,800
Speaker 7: not expect to be arrested after sixteen years, but he

1490
01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 7: was a fugitive though.

1491
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:48,040
Speaker 9: There had all that Slovakian outfit on, had his whole

1492
01:19:48,120 --> 01:19:48,640
Speaker 9: gear read it.

1493
01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:49,560
Speaker 3: It didn't make it.

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01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:54,560
Speaker 1: Got your whole country home. Yeah, he was represented.

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01:19:55,280 --> 01:20:00,719
Speaker 6: He was togive, all in here for this hockey game. Yeah, god,

1496
01:20:01,000 --> 01:20:04,880
Speaker 6: damn all high dude, stay home watch on TV.

1497
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:08,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my goodness, he was.

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01:20:08,760 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 7: They took him straight to prison.

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01:20:10,920 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he had the skull cap on and scall

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01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:17,360
Speaker 3: flag sweater.

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01:20:20,360 --> 01:20:23,639
Speaker 1: Tickets, he said, sweater.

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01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:27,240
Speaker 3: Yeah all that old boy, you knew who he was for?

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01:20:28,920 --> 01:20:31,880
Speaker 7: Was him like after all the Yeah, they just they

1504
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:35,639
Speaker 7: tracked him down. Yeah, all right, coming up, we'll play

1505
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:41,320
Speaker 7: around of Woodie rather right after the domes. Stay home, Junior.

1506
01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: Rocket and Red Finn found that most of us want

1508
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Speaker 9: stronger connections in our neighborhoods. What about a quarter of

1509
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Speaker 9: us worry we're bothering someone if we try to start

1510
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Speaker 9: a conversation.

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Speaker 3: The thing is real.

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Speaker 9: Connection doesn't come from big gestures. It comes from everyday moments,

1513
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Speaker 9: small stuff like grabbing a package for your neighbor or

1514
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Speaker 9: holding the door. So don't overthink it, Wait, smile, say hi,

1515
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Speaker 9: because it's the small things that end up adding up

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Speaker 9: to something much bigger. Find a neighborhood you'll love at

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Speaker 9: redfin dot com.

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Speaker 7: It's time for a round it. Would you rather, guys?

1519
01:21:22,600 --> 01:21:25,640
Speaker 7: Would you rather sex in the car or sex in

1520
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:26,160
Speaker 7: the shower?

1521
01:21:26,880 --> 01:21:27,120
Speaker 3: Move?

1522
01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:28,360
Speaker 8: Hello?

1523
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:32,880
Speaker 3: Yeah? Wherever she started at? That's why?

1524
01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:37,120
Speaker 7: Kitchen that nice kitchen?

1525
01:21:38,200 --> 01:21:40,439
Speaker 3: You laundry room that don't work?

1526
01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 10: No more?

1527
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:43,280
Speaker 3: I pulled too many muscles.

1528
01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:47,040
Speaker 6: Now he crams what happened? I pulled too many muscles

1529
01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:50,040
Speaker 6: right now, crambs everything I've been. I'll be in that car,

1530
01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:50,680
Speaker 6: balled up.

1531
01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:55,839
Speaker 1: I'm not infected, even in the sprinter.

1532
01:21:56,520 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 3: No, I'm not.

1533
01:21:57,080 --> 01:21:58,640
Speaker 6: We're not gonna do this here. Let's just go on

1534
01:21:59,040 --> 01:22:03,280
Speaker 6: parp down in here, take this show, go to the house,

1535
01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 6: all right?

1536
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:11,280
Speaker 7: Would you rather chocolate and peanut butter or chocolate and caramel?

1537
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 1: Both? Yu the best? All right?

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Speaker 10: All right?

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01:22:24,600 --> 01:22:28,519
Speaker 7: Would you rather hop like a bunny or wattle like

1540
01:22:28,640 --> 01:22:30,439
Speaker 7: a duck? What are we doing?

1541
01:22:30,720 --> 01:22:33,400
Speaker 10: Hopping or that duck ain't moving that fair, he ain't

1542
01:22:33,439 --> 01:22:34,679
Speaker 10: getting that much distance.

1543
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:41,760
Speaker 3: So both y'all picked the bunny hop? How far y'all

1544
01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:46,160
Speaker 3: think you we're gonna get past this duck.

1545
01:22:49,640 --> 01:22:50,799
Speaker 1: Just waddling along?

1546
01:22:53,200 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 3: All right?

1547
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:56,439
Speaker 7: Would you rather have floppy bunny ears or would you

1548
01:22:56,520 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 7: have to have a big droopy butt like a bunny?

1549
01:23:02,160 --> 01:23:03,320
Speaker 7: The ears or the butt?

1550
01:23:03,400 --> 01:23:03,840
Speaker 1: Which one?

1551
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:04,439
Speaker 8: What?

1552
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:07,040
Speaker 3: What bunny? You've seen with a droopy butt?

1553
01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:07,200
Speaker 4: What?

1554
01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:08,760
Speaker 7: What is that?

1555
01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:11,160
Speaker 3: The tail? Fella? What are you talking about?

1556
01:23:11,200 --> 01:23:11,240
Speaker 7: So?

1557
01:23:12,400 --> 01:23:15,800
Speaker 1: Look, they but bunny, But I'm going ahead and take

1558
01:23:15,840 --> 01:23:16,479
Speaker 1: the bunny foot.

1559
01:23:16,520 --> 01:23:20,719
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be so fine that bunny.

1560
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:25,759
Speaker 7: Which one ears or bunny? Answer?

1561
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:26,640
Speaker 1: The question.

1562
01:23:28,400 --> 01:23:29,320
Speaker 4: Is is.

1563
01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:36,160
Speaker 3: Really, bb We're not going to do that, b b bunny,

1564
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:37,280
Speaker 3: give me the ear?

1565
01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:43,200
Speaker 7: Would you rather wear a bunny costume until Easter? Would

1566
01:23:43,200 --> 01:23:46,160
Speaker 7: you were rather buy an X and Easter basket?

1567
01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:50,120
Speaker 3: Hey? Hey, what happened? Here we we? What's up with

1568
01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:53,400
Speaker 3: this Easter on Easter thing with bunny wrapping?

1569
01:23:53,479 --> 01:23:58,439
Speaker 1: And what's today? Lash Wednesday?

1570
01:23:58,600 --> 01:24:02,200
Speaker 7: The start of what's the Yeah, it doesn't matter if

1571
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:05,559
Speaker 7: the question is do you want to wear a funny

1572
01:24:05,640 --> 01:24:07,920
Speaker 7: costume until Easter? Or do you want to buy an

1573
01:24:08,200 --> 01:24:09,400
Speaker 7: X and Easter basket.

1574
01:24:09,600 --> 01:24:11,720
Speaker 10: I'm not buying my ex nut. I'n'na put bound fit

1575
01:24:11,800 --> 01:24:13,840
Speaker 10: on the go all around town, do shows in it

1576
01:24:13,920 --> 01:24:14,360
Speaker 10: and everything.

1577
01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:19,080
Speaker 7: I don't care, Okay, enthusiastically.

1578
01:24:18,640 --> 01:24:20,920
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it happily. I'm just not going I'm

1579
01:24:20,960 --> 01:24:23,599
Speaker 3: not buying. No, I'm not bad bunny.

1580
01:24:30,880 --> 01:24:34,000
Speaker 7: Guys, that's today's rounded. Would you rather even though you

1581
01:24:34,080 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 7: guys judged it harshly? Coming up? It is our last

1582
01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:39,559
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01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:42,240
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1595
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:29,960
Speaker 7: listens to us every faithfully every morning. We appreciate you

1596
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:32,600
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Speaker 1: All right?

1599
01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:36,240
Speaker 7: See anything you Junior?

1600
01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:36,840
Speaker 1: You got a question?

1601
01:25:36,920 --> 01:25:39,200
Speaker 9: Yeah, you know unk you stopped to show this morning?

1602
01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:41,360
Speaker 9: Tom you got a great phone call from a guy

1603
01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:44,040
Speaker 9: who said that up. He want to apologize to you,

1604
01:25:45,120 --> 01:25:45,639
Speaker 9: and you say.

1605
01:25:45,560 --> 01:25:47,720
Speaker 1: It was just accepted. You just accepted it, you know.

1606
01:25:48,680 --> 01:25:51,519
Speaker 9: And what's the great part about the forgiveness part? You

1607
01:25:51,600 --> 01:25:54,280
Speaker 9: had no bitterness about the forgiveness of nothing. You just said,

1608
01:25:54,320 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 9: it's all good.

1609
01:25:55,720 --> 01:25:59,320
Speaker 3: Well, Junior, I have a couple questions for you. You know,

1610
01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:01,320
Speaker 3: I've just signed it to flip the script.

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01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:06,480
Speaker 1: Answer to that question, oh, Junior gonna do closing remarks.

1612
01:26:10,600 --> 01:26:13,639
Speaker 3: That he ain't got to do a three minute response.

1613
01:26:16,080 --> 01:26:19,280
Speaker 6: Let me ask you a question, Judy, what has been

1614
01:26:20,560 --> 01:26:24,920
Speaker 6: one of the most valuable lessons you've learned as an adult?

1615
01:26:25,760 --> 01:26:26,200
Speaker 3: Just one?

1616
01:26:27,080 --> 01:26:27,240
Speaker 1: Oh?

1617
01:26:27,439 --> 01:26:28,360
Speaker 3: Not not to quit?

1618
01:26:29,600 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 1: Not the quit.

1619
01:26:31,160 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 9: This most important thing I've learned is not to quit.

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01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:36,479
Speaker 9: You know, considering everything that I've been through and I'm

1621
01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:38,400
Speaker 9: still here, I just learned not to quit.

1622
01:26:39,120 --> 01:26:44,639
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, what's the most important thing you've learned about

1623
01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:46,880
Speaker 6: women since you've been married?

1624
01:26:47,920 --> 01:26:50,519
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, oh, just give her what she wants so

1625
01:26:50,680 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 1: she be quiet.

1626
01:26:53,880 --> 01:26:54,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1627
01:26:57,600 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 1: Ye, remember I tried to and you told me you're

1628
01:27:01,360 --> 01:27:02,160
Speaker 1: doing it the wrong way.

1629
01:27:03,520 --> 01:27:05,960
Speaker 3: You're gonna lose that. It's not a.

1630
01:27:07,439 --> 01:27:11,880
Speaker 6: Have you have you figured out, uh, the percentage that

1631
01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:15,559
Speaker 6: you that your wife and your relationship is operating under.

1632
01:27:16,360 --> 01:27:22,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, ninety five to five. I'm assuming you got the five.

1633
01:27:22,760 --> 01:27:25,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got I got something.

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01:27:26,400 --> 01:27:30,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, go ahead, man, you can ask me

1635
01:27:30,120 --> 01:27:30,800
Speaker 3: a question now.

1636
01:27:31,520 --> 01:27:35,799
Speaker 7: Yeah, he did ask you a question.

1637
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:40,320
Speaker 3: Well, I forgot what it was, sir, I was saying, answer.

1638
01:27:41,280 --> 01:27:42,280
Speaker 3: Let me just ask you again.

1639
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:45,120
Speaker 9: You got the phone call this morning from somebody who

1640
01:27:45,160 --> 01:27:47,479
Speaker 9: says they want your forgiveness, and you just said you

1641
01:27:47,600 --> 01:27:51,000
Speaker 9: forgave them, we can start fresh, and you had no

1642
01:27:51,120 --> 01:27:53,760
Speaker 9: bitiness about it. But what what was the important of

1643
01:27:53,800 --> 01:27:56,479
Speaker 9: forgiving him after all things he did to you, after

1644
01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:57,160
Speaker 9: everything he's done.

1645
01:27:57,360 --> 01:28:00,720
Speaker 6: Well, But you know what I discovered though, If you

1646
01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 6: don't forgive, if you hang on to it, show me

1647
01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 6: the benefit for you to hang on to something. Show

1648
01:28:10,479 --> 01:28:14,599
Speaker 6: me how if you continue to hold that against this person.

1649
01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:20,799
Speaker 6: If you don't forgive them if you keep belaboring the point,

1650
01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:24,640
Speaker 6: if you keep allowing what he did to be a

1651
01:28:24,800 --> 01:28:28,120
Speaker 6: part of your day whenever his name is brought up,

1652
01:28:28,880 --> 01:28:32,880
Speaker 6: Just tell me the one benefit it is to you.

1653
01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:37,200
Speaker 6: Just show me just any benefit. Does it make you

1654
01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:40,160
Speaker 6: feel better? Do you have a sense of power?

1655
01:28:41,240 --> 01:28:42,960
Speaker 4: Is it?

1656
01:28:43,280 --> 01:28:47,600
Speaker 3: Is it enlightening? Do you feel a sense of control?

1657
01:28:47,880 --> 01:28:48,320
Speaker 2: What is it?

1658
01:28:49,640 --> 01:28:54,240
Speaker 6: Because when I don't forgive a person all I feel

1659
01:28:54,680 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 6: every time their name comes up, every time this subject

1660
01:28:58,479 --> 01:29:03,560
Speaker 6: comes up, it just hundreds a sickening feeling in me.

1661
01:29:04,640 --> 01:29:08,000
Speaker 6: It brings back all the reasons I don't like them.

1662
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:12,920
Speaker 6: But when it does that, I had to finally ask

1663
01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:15,080
Speaker 6: myself what is the benefit?

1664
01:29:16,200 --> 01:29:16,400
Speaker 3: See?

1665
01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:20,120
Speaker 6: I stopped holding grudges a long time ago because I

1666
01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:23,360
Speaker 6: found out, Man, there's just no benefit in it to me.

1667
01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:28,759
Speaker 6: Can I tell you something. The person that you hate,

1668
01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:33,880
Speaker 6: that you don't forgive that doundone you wrong? They don't

1669
01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:37,320
Speaker 6: hardly think about it, man, They just in their life,

1670
01:29:37,400 --> 01:29:40,760
Speaker 6: living their life. However they gonna live it. You over

1671
01:29:40,800 --> 01:29:43,080
Speaker 6: here with all these deep concerns and all this here

1672
01:29:43,439 --> 01:29:46,439
Speaker 6: getting mad every time they name come over, rehashing it,

1673
01:29:46,600 --> 01:29:52,400
Speaker 6: retelling it, reliving it. Man, and them people sometimes have

1674
01:29:52,600 --> 01:29:55,120
Speaker 6: moved on. Don't even remember what they did to you.

1675
01:29:56,160 --> 01:29:58,719
Speaker 6: They probably have moved on doing something to somebody else.

1676
01:30:00,040 --> 01:30:02,200
Speaker 6: And after the end of the day, man, it's just

1677
01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:07,920
Speaker 6: you as the non forgiver. It has no benefit to you. Now,

1678
01:30:07,920 --> 01:30:10,679
Speaker 6: I'll tell you what. When you do forgive him, guess

1679
01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:11,280
Speaker 6: what it does.

1680
01:30:12,400 --> 01:30:13,200
Speaker 3: It frees you.

1681
01:30:14,360 --> 01:30:18,040
Speaker 6: It allows you no longer when they name is bought up,

1682
01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:21,280
Speaker 6: that you have to conjure up the incident again, that

1683
01:30:21,400 --> 01:30:23,840
Speaker 6: you have to relive the moment, that you have to

1684
01:30:23,960 --> 01:30:29,639
Speaker 6: rehash the feeling. You actually free yourself. So for me, man,

1685
01:30:30,880 --> 01:30:32,639
Speaker 6: I don't even care. I'm gonna tell you somebody else

1686
01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:36,439
Speaker 6: recently called me and asked me for something.

1687
01:30:37,520 --> 01:30:39,320
Speaker 3: And the thing of it is is.

1688
01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:43,800
Speaker 6: This guy has gotten into several situations and called me

1689
01:30:44,840 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 6: and I've always assisted him. But this time I just said, hey, man,

1690
01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:51,840
Speaker 6: I'm gonna play this fool right now. Man, I'm going

1691
01:30:51,880 --> 01:30:54,880
Speaker 6: through a lot of stuff. And he went into the Oh,

1692
01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:57,760
Speaker 6: so you remember what I did for you? Oh, never

1693
01:30:57,880 --> 01:31:01,479
Speaker 6: no money, just a favor he did for me when

1694
01:31:01,600 --> 01:31:04,800
Speaker 6: I was forty. This guy did a favor for me

1695
01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:09,040
Speaker 6: when I was forty. Do you know he still brings

1696
01:31:09,120 --> 01:31:13,400
Speaker 6: that favor up every time he wants something, he brings

1697
01:31:13,520 --> 01:31:18,599
Speaker 6: that favor up. He did for me twenty nine years ago.

1698
01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:23,000
Speaker 6: And I used to feel guilty in sending him a

1699
01:31:23,000 --> 01:31:25,800
Speaker 6: little something. And the other day I just didn't want to.

1700
01:31:25,920 --> 01:31:27,600
Speaker 6: I say, hey man, I'm full. I'm going through some

1701
01:31:27,720 --> 01:31:31,200
Speaker 6: things right now. Also when I was there for you, brother, heymen,

1702
01:31:31,280 --> 01:31:34,640
Speaker 6: do me a favor. Stop reminding me of that. You know,

1703
01:31:34,760 --> 01:31:37,840
Speaker 6: it's just people. And but but you know what, I

1704
01:31:37,960 --> 01:31:40,920
Speaker 6: even let him go. I just said, okay, he said,

1705
01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:42,240
Speaker 6: so I'm gonna delete your number.

1706
01:31:43,520 --> 01:31:45,639
Speaker 3: Man, do you promt?

1707
01:31:45,720 --> 01:31:45,920
Speaker 4: Bye?

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01:31:47,120 --> 01:31:55,240
Speaker 6: Bye, Hey, y'all have my birthday today. I'm sorry from

1709
01:31:55,320 --> 01:31:57,800
Speaker 6: what I said to y'all. Talk to God. He loved

1710
01:31:57,800 --> 01:31:58,360
Speaker 6: you her brother.

1711
01:31:59,439 --> 01:31:59,639
Speaker 3: Bye.

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