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We'll go in 11 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: the City's my last Dame retiring. 12 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 2: Hey, you don't stop that boy? 13 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 3: Lock to God. Yeah, honestly I've. 14 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: Had enough Sabrina Carpenter with that single espresso. But Kiki, 15 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: you got what express The spread show is having an 16 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: in depth conversation. This a minute ago. I got all 17 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: kinds of stuff we get today, but this was just 18 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: an out of the porch. 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 3: You know. 20 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: You got a big table outside the studio where we 21 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: hold all of our writer's room meetings. All the writers 22 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: come out and pitch their ideas to us. We've been 23 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: waiting for that for the last fourteen years and no 24 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 1: one shows up. But we're talking about AI somehow very 25 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: in depth conversation Calen, and we're also out there talking 26 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: about that, the golf of America and U and world 27 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 1: politics and what's going on with her portfolio? Yeah, you know, 28 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: she tells me, she gives me a update each day 29 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: on what's going on with her you know, financial portfolio, 30 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: her real estate. Today today we heard about the real 31 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: estate holdings. 32 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 33 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: So yeah, you're saying, like, I don't even know what 34 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: any of that means. 35 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 3: You just don't know what. 36 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: You don't know what a financial portfolio is, girl, I'm 37 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: not good at finances, Okay, we no, I mean it 38 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 1: would it would just be a collection of whatever it 39 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: is you own and in this case, zero thing. So 40 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: there you gory portfolio. You don't have to worry about it. 41 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: But like, can somebody smarter than me, which is probably 42 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: most of you eight five five five three five, maybe 43 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: Kiki can explain this to me? Can you explain to 44 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: me what I'm supposed to be doing with AI? Like 45 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: and reason being because I was telling Kaylen I saw 46 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: some TikTok to other day and it was like I 47 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: don't know someone in his or her twenties or thirties, 48 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: asking the questions how much are you paying for AI 49 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: subscriptions versus cables or you know, versus streaming subscriptions, as 50 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: if that was like a very normal thing to have 51 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: AI subscriptions. Wow, right, because I'm like, well, of course 52 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: I haven't. I have a Netflix, I have a Disney fluzz. 53 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: I mean then you got to crack the code on, 54 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 1: like who you know? Does my phone service pay for this? 55 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: Can I get this for free? Can I have my 56 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: mom's password for this? 57 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: You know? 58 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: Whatever? What am I supposed to be doing with AI? 59 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 2: Everything? 60 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: What subscription am I supposed to be by? Now? 61 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 5: You know me, I don't believe in paying for subscriptions. 62 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 5: I'd rather use your log in. So once you get 63 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 5: your want to do that, you need to get all 64 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 5: of them. So actually, Paulina is our AI specialist. 65 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: Wait really? 66 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: Yes? 67 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 2: She has put me on Oh no AI? 68 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: What does that say about our team? Paulina is the 69 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: AI our captions. 70 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 6: With AI, and I can tell because it'll be like 71 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 6: the warmest to Amy. 72 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:05,119 Speaker 3: With a right and salute. 73 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 1: We are learning something? Yes, I was like, where did 74 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: probably get the touch on the captions? 75 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 5: It's I'm walking around here stressed using my brain, Like really, 76 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 5: kay as he should be pacing the floor talking to 77 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 5: myself trying to come up with some clever and probably 78 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 5: gonna be like, hey, chatgy BT tell me what to say, 79 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 5: and it'll literally tell her what to say. So I 80 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 5: am on board. Now use AI for everything that you can. 81 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 5: So all of the subscriptions sign up and then give 82 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 5: me your passwords. 83 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 3: Thank you. 84 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: Well, I don't even know which ones to buy. 85 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, you need the you need the math, the banking AI. 86 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: What I need that for. 87 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 7: This is gonna help you move your money around. You know, 88 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 7: I don't have much money to move around. What do 89 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 7: you think I'm ryan? I needn't No, please don't take it. 90 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 7: It goes away every month, and I'm sad. 91 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: There's a grocery I'm rich for one day every month. 92 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 5: Grocery AI tell you what you need to get from 93 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 5: the grocery store. So when you're not you're walking a 94 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 5: store and you for you totally know that what you 95 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 5: came for your aid, you know, because he knows, he 96 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,559 Speaker 5: knows everything, right, Okay, she knows. 97 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: I would feel much. 98 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 8: You know. 99 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: I'm really not trying to sound stupid here. I'm actually 100 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: not a total more on like I'm an idiot, but 101 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 1: I'm not like a total more. I really don't know, 102 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 1: and I don't want to become that that old guy. 103 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 1: You know, and I'm not old, but I don't want 104 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: to become that old guy. Didn't know what the hell 105 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: is going on, and so I was hoping somebody could 106 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: educate me. I was just don't use I. If someone 107 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: just texted, don't use AI for anything, it was me. 108 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: The impact on the environment is tremendously negative. The amount 109 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: of water it takes to do one search on AI 110 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: is astronomical. Is that that's true? 111 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 112 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 6: If that's true, I'm even more pissed. But we're gonna 113 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 6: our brains throughout our evolution are just going to evaporate. 114 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 6: Like we need to be doing something like people are 115 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 6: writing cards to their loved ones with a We need 116 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 6: to like know how to tell our loved ones that 117 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 6: we love them. 118 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: What is the important of writing a romantic card to 119 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: someone or a loving card to someone? If you don't write. 120 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 6: People are good with words, It's like, I don't care 121 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 6: if you're not good with words. You should be able 122 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 6: to tell me, like what I mean to you without 123 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 6: a computer, and I'm very scared and I'm upset. 124 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 5: I can't find the words sometimes, Caitlyn, when I think 125 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 5: about you. 126 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 1: It is hard for me. 127 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 3: It's overwhelmed. 128 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 5: Guys, we gotta just know it's it's it's I was 129 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 5: on you know, I was on your side with this 130 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 5: for a long time. But it's like, basically, the people 131 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 5: that use AI, they're driving and the rest of us 132 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 5: are walking uphill. You know what I'm saying, Fighting for 133 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 5: our lives is our brains and they just have it. 134 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 2: They don't do math anymore. It's crazy. Well I never 135 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 2: did math. 136 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 137 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: I'm just it's too much. 138 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: But then it's like you can get you can get 139 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: AI to respond to emails for you. Okay, Well then 140 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what I said? What did I agree to? 141 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 9: Ray? 142 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 2: What are we talking about? 143 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: Like, okay, so they'll write my emails back? All right? 144 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: Well then what but like, what did I say I 145 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: would do? Where am I supposed to be? 146 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 5: You just tell them, like, you know AI, how do 147 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 5: how do I professionally say? 148 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 2: This could have been an email? 149 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 10: Right? 150 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 3: The biggest stories of the day, Jameson, I know you're 151 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 3: all over this, but. 152 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: Game seven of the American League Championship Series occurred last night. 153 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 1: And you know who won, right, the winner going to 154 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 1: the World Series and take on the Dodgers. 155 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 11: Is yes, the Dolphins. 156 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: Yes, it's just that exciting. The Miami Dolphins out of 157 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 1: the NFL are going to take on the Los Angeles Dodgers. 158 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: That's crazy. It's never before happened, Jason, where a football 159 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: team has taken on a baseball team in the World Series. 160 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 11: Right, you know it's twenty twenty five, you know, equal 161 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 11: opportunity for everyone in the World Series. 162 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: That's what it is. That's exactly that's what it is, 163 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:45,799 Speaker 1: exactly right. Actually, shockingly, it turns out that the Toronto 164 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: Blue Jays are going to take on the Los Angeles Dodgers. Yeah, 165 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: it's in fact not the Miami Dolphins, which is sad 166 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: for the Dolphins. No, it was just sad. And it's 167 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: a similar place. I don't know if you've been in Toronto, 168 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: and it's hard to confuse it too, like when you're 169 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: in Toronto and Miami, like sometimes you like which one 170 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 1: in Miamia? Yeah, I can see that. Yeah. The World 171 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: Series between the Blue Jays and the Dodgers begins on 172 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 1: Friday night, and that Game seven took place last night. 173 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: A guy was arrested in the Atlanta airport after he 174 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: threatened to shoot it up. Now, this is Kiki's second home. 175 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,679 Speaker 1: As you know, when she goes to Atlanta, she doesn't 176 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: actually stay in a hotel. She just goes to Atlanta 177 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: and then sleeps in the airport until her spirit flight arrives, 178 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: which could be on time, it could also be the 179 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: next day exactly. 180 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 2: And this is the type of people that I ran 181 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 2: into in that airport. 182 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 12: M hm. 183 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: So what remind everyone at the time when you actually 184 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: did do this, Because you did do this early on 185 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: in the show, like you went and then you said 186 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: forget about it, like I'll just go back to the 187 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: airport and sleep in a chair for eight hours instead 188 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 1: of getting a hotel room. 189 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 5: Yes, I was going for the iHeart Like Podcast festival 190 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 5: with Charlemagne, and I said, okay, I'll get a little 191 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 5: flight there. 192 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: I don't really need to say the entire weekend. 193 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 5: I'm gonna go to the from the airport to the festival, 194 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 5: and then from the festival back to the airport. But 195 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 5: my flight was red eyed the next day, so I 196 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 5: said I'll just stay in the airport. And that was 197 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 5: a bit a big mistake, big, big, big mistake. 198 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: I mean, if you've got six hours, you got to 199 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: get a hotel room, like six hours hotel room. I 200 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: know they're expensive, but like if you if you know, now, 201 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: it's one thing, if you go to the airport and 202 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: they cancel your flight and then you know you're sitting 203 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: there like what am I gonna do? I don't know, 204 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: or you know, I'm not sure when the next flight 205 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: is or if it's delayed. That's one thing if you 206 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: wind up having to sleep on the floor because of 207 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: unanticipated delays. But when you just know that you're gonna 208 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: you know, it's eleven o'clock and now you fly to 209 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: eight in the morning, Like, no, you don't just go 210 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: to the airport. 211 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 5: No wile this thing I've ever done, and I do 212 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 5: not recommend at all. And they had those like crazy people, 213 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 5: they had those. 214 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: Cod things like you could I don't I don't know 215 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: if that would work for you, but they got those 216 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: things you can, like I don't know about Atlanta, but 217 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: some of these airports, how you can like rent a 218 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: little a little pod for a while. 219 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm scared about that. 220 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 5: I don't know what's happening in the pods pod. 221 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: Or how often are we cleaning up? Well, I don't 222 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: think it's an orgy pod. I mean, I think that's 223 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: a I think it's a different kind of pod in Atlantic, 224 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: and I think they clean them. But I think they 225 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: have little spaces that you can rent for this exact thing. 226 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: I mean, Caitlin, haven't you got like a full Haven't 227 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: you got like a wax and everything at the airport before? 228 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 6: Oh I didn't go that far, but yeah, you and 229 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 6: I were flying together and I had some time to kill. 230 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 2: I got a foot massage last time I was there. 231 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: That's what it was. Yeh, A wax. 232 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 6: No, I didn't get a wax there, But I don't 233 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 6: know if I'm above it. You know, you're just waiting 234 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 6: at the airport with nothing to do but drink. 235 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: Right exactly, So you're at the airport and you're like, man, 236 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: I forgot to get a wax, and who knows this 237 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: trip to Carbondale might be lit. You just never know, like, 238 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 1: I better go, And then you go and you ask 239 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: them and they can do it, and then they give 240 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 1: you a manicure and a pedicure and a wax. 241 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 2: You gotta stay ready, you know, you gotta stay. 242 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 1: Ready at the Atlanta Airport. But this dude, a forty 243 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: nine year old man named Billy. He was arrested at 244 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 1: the Hartsfield Jackson Atlanta International Airport in Georgia after his 245 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: family alerted police that he was live streaming threats to 246 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 1: shoot up the airport. Police then found an ar fifteen 247 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: rifle and twenty seven rounds of ammunition in his vehicle 248 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: parked outside of the terminal. He also had a felony 249 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: arrest record and was not legally allowed to possess the firearm. 250 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: It's very scary. The only political story that you'll hear, 251 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: at least today, TMZ. And that's a source I go 252 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: to for all my news, all my breaking news. Some 253 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: people might trust other sources, not me, TMZ. They're reporting 254 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 1: that President Trump is considering commuting hip hop mogul Sean 255 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 1: Diddy Combs his roughly fifty month prison sentence as early 256 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: as this week, but the White House has denied that 257 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: report did. He was convicted in July of twenty twenty 258 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: five on two counts of transportation for the purposes of 259 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: prostitution under the Man Act. And in October was sentenced 260 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: to four years and two months in prison plus a 261 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: five hundred thousand dollars five excuse me, A Colorado corner's 262 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: office has canceled its planned family friendly Halloween party after 263 00:10:56,280 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: public outreache. So the actual coroner's office where you would 264 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: go if you die or a crime is committed against 265 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: you when you die. The actual corner's office was trying 266 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: to have a family friendly Halloween party and people are 267 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: upset about him. It just so happens. This is the 268 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: same building where twenty four decomposing bodies were recently found 269 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: hidden behind a door. They forgot about him. The event, 270 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: meant to be a safe and sweet community celebration, was 271 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: called off after residence said that it was deeply inappropriate 272 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: giving a grizzly discovery. The bodies, dating back to fifteen 273 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: years old, like they've been there for fifteen years they 274 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: forgot about him, were found in the former mortuary run 275 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: by the ex corner, who resigned in September following the scandal. 276 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: Newly appointed corner, a gout named Greg greg had hoped 277 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: that the event would help rebuild trust with locals, but 278 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:48,079 Speaker 1: after backlast the office released a statement saying that it's 279 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: become clear that the event was not well received by 280 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 1: some members of the community and decided to cancel. Would 281 00:11:53,640 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 1: you attend a family friendly sweet Halloween party at the corner? 282 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, absolutely not. 283 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: I know you guys believe in in like spirits and 284 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: ghosts and stuff like that. 285 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 3: And I don't. 286 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: I don't not. I just I think for me, it's 287 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: I don't believe that they're necessarily like floating around messing 288 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 1: with us. Maybe some are, but like I guess, by 289 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: and large, you know, if I die in in uh, 290 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 1: and I'm giving the opportunity to go to heaven or 291 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: wherever you go. And I'm you know, you can do 292 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: all the things that you're supposed to be able to do, 293 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: Like I really don't have time to like move your 294 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: water glass in the middle of the night. Like I'm busy, 295 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm I'm I'm booked and blessed. You know, 296 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 1: I got I got excess to see. I gotta go 297 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 1: see my mana. I gotta go, you know, get with 298 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: all the people I never got with. And and you know, 299 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 1: I gotta hang out with my my dogs and my 300 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: cats that passed away. 301 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 6: But I'm too busy with all the people I haven't 302 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 6: got with, right and no, but that's. 303 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: What that's what I'm doing. No, that's I think that's 304 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: what happens in heaven. It's a total free for all. 305 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 1: That's what I think happens. And all the people that 306 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: you love to who passed away, they're all there waiting 307 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: for you. And then here, you know, here people were 308 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: talking about all the Congress Hotel. They're floating around and 309 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: moving my bathrobe. I don't have time for all that. 310 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, hopefully you don't have the kind of death that 311 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 6: people had there. 312 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 2: It's it's very different. 313 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,079 Speaker 6: The people, the spirits that are hanging around places, they 314 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 6: didn't die peacefully. 315 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: But I would like to believe that that no matter 316 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: how you how you died, that if you lived a 317 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: good life, that you get to go and then and 318 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: do all the things I just talked about, and that 319 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: you're not inclined to hang around the Congress Hotel or 320 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: wherever in wherever, whatever haunted place you can think of 321 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: where you live and mess with people like I guess 322 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 1: I don't know that about that, but like, do you 323 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: believe that the people that were at the corner are 324 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: still hanging around the corner, just floating around looking to 325 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: mess with the kids to come trick or treating at 326 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: the corner's office. 327 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 6: You guys, would they forgot me in a wall, I 328 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 6: would be so pissed. 329 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 2: I would never leave that spot. 330 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 3: Fifteen of us. 331 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'd get up out of there. I'd be gone, 332 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: you know, like I'm not hanging around like I'm free. 333 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 2: Where you're going. 334 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: I mean to Heaven, like I'm not hanging out of 335 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: the place anymore. But I don't know. 336 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 6: I guess I believe whatever you need to that makes 337 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 6: you feel better, but it's real. 338 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: So I don't know that I believe that they hang 339 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 1: around there. But at the same time, I will admit 340 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: like I don't I wouldn't buy a house where someone died. 341 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: I'm not going to go hang out of the coroner's 342 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: office for a sweet Halloween party. Like I don't have 343 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: any interest in being where dead bodies were. I mean, 344 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: I don't like going to hospitals because unfortunately, I know 345 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: people die there. Like I don't know. It's not because 346 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: I think they're floating around. It's just like, ooh, I 347 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't like it. 348 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 2: That oh feeling is a sense that you can't see 349 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 2: you feel that feeling because. 350 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 6: There's bad energy in certain places. 351 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: Or because I convince myself a bit it's weird. 352 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well. 353 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 1: Caitlyn, you were allowed to believe what you wanted. I 354 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: can believe what I want. We can have two different beliefs. 355 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 10: I know. 356 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: Well, you're like, oh my god, you idiot, Oh god, 357 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: you're crazy. 358 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 13: That's not. 359 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 1: It for that's a fact. No, you just called me 360 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 1: an idiot. Okay, I don't appreciate that because I don't 361 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: think people are floating around because I think they got 362 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: better stuff to do. 363 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 2: You clearly don't have a whole harem of psychics in 364 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 2: your phone. 365 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's true, that is true. I only have 366 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: one or two maybe two. I think I have one 367 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: for pets and one for people. And finally, this is 368 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: a sweet story, but a stranger answered a Facebook post 369 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: and donated a kidney to a guy in Saint Louis 370 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 1: then he'd never met, giving him a second chance at life. 371 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 1: See this is why I check Facebook occasionally, because he 372 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: gives it. It's not all just people who you didn't 373 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: realize that they're terrible people when you look at what 374 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: they're posting on Facebook. That's what I thought. That's what 375 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: Facebook has become. Is like I'll go on there to 376 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: see if it's somebody's birthday or whatever. I don't know 377 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: why it's part of my scroll, and I'll go on 378 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: there and I'll be like, oh, I didn't know that 379 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 1: person felt that way about that, Like what a shame. 380 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: And I don't know why that Facebook is the place 381 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: to post those sorts of things, but it is, it 382 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: really is. But the donor, named Joe, says his decision 383 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 1: was driven by faith, second chance like Jesus gave me. 384 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 1: He said. The recipient is a guy named Tim, and 385 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: he had been publicly searching for a kidney donor. The 386 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: guy responded after seeing the plea, the two complete strangers 387 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: now share a deep connection, and the transplant offers one 388 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: of them, of course, hope for a healthier future. So 389 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: good things do happen on Facebook, guys. It's Back to 390 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 1: the Future Day, It's National Pharmacy Technician Day, and it's 391 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 1: National Reptile Awareness Day. 392 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 3: Cawn's entertainment report is on The Fresh Show. 393 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 6: All right, well, you may not agree with what he 394 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 6: is saying, and no one can argue that John Stamos 395 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 6: is very clearly a good friend after going. 396 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 14: Hard to support his Full House co star Louri Laughlin 397 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 14: during a recent podcast appearance, and he says that her 398 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 14: a strange husband is actually the one to blame for 399 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 14: the whole college admission scandal. 400 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 3: There's somebody for years I've known her, and. 401 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 15: You know, you can see through people after a few 402 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 15: years that this woman's a saying like she has never 403 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 15: you know, it's just hard to see her going his 404 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 15: heart looking for her right now. I've really tried to 405 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 15: be there for her during this time and also with 406 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 15: the with the college again. I mean, I'm not going 407 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 15: to debate whether she had much to do with it 408 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 15: or not. I know she didn't. I mean he dragged 409 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 15: her through that maybe she saw something I don't know. 410 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 15: And then and then I think right around that time 411 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 15: they busted and got Mossam out of their guns and stuff. 412 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 3: She prayed for this guy. 413 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 15: I pray that he gets a hold of his whatever 414 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 15: hole that he's trying to fill, however he's trying to 415 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 15: fill it. I pray that he realizes that what he 416 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 15: had was was everything that anyone could ever hope for, 417 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 15: and that he gets some help. 418 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 1: I think this guy needs help. 419 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 15: Whatever negativity or hard hardships that you've been through your life, 420 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 15: it's connected to this guy, you know. 421 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 2: Like I mean, and this guy, he's supposedly not a 422 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 2: very good guy. 423 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 3: Like I think he cheated on her. 424 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 15: You know, I'm taking a fifth on that. Whatever he 425 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 15: did to her, it busted her up to the core. Yea, 426 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 15: and she put up with a lot over the years 427 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 15: of this guy. He's a look, he's he's a very 428 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:08,680 Speaker 15: successful dude. You know, I will never talk to him again. 429 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 15: He had He's a terrible narcissist and I don't think 430 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,959 Speaker 15: you ever get out of that. 431 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 1: So John Samuels loves this guy. John Samuels is like 432 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:22,400 Speaker 1: their boys. Like what I hear is pickle ball this weekend. 433 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, he really loves him. I don't know. I mean, 434 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 2: say what you will. 435 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 6: I think everybody's afraid to have an opinion and these days, 436 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 6: and I don't know, I just he really went hard 437 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 6: for her. 438 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,639 Speaker 2: Obviously. Massimo, I don't know if you guys remember his 439 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 2: line at Target. Yeah, that's what I know him for. 440 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 1: But twenty eight years the Massimo, like the Masmo from 441 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:43,360 Speaker 1: the nineties, Like, is that the same guy? 442 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 2: Maimo Giannui. 443 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 6: I thought, so, yeah, let me hold on, let me 444 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,120 Speaker 6: make double check before I get everybody. 445 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: You guys, but there was a time when Massimo, like 446 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 1: in the nineties was was was that girl like you? 447 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 6: Yep, I'm assuming that's him yet because he's a fashion 448 00:18:57,480 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 6: designer and I don't. 449 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean it's interesting. 450 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know how much you can say 451 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 6: you don't know if your spouse is doing something under 452 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:07,880 Speaker 6: your nose. 453 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: But I just thought it was an interesting take. And uh, they. 454 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 6: Always didn't they have a little rumored like didn't they 455 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,400 Speaker 6: date John Stamos and Laurie Oh back in. 456 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 2: The day or wasn't there like a well day won't 457 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 2: they moment? 458 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 6: Ever, No, I thought you talked about how I thought 459 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 6: he's spoken about how like they both wanted to at 460 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,120 Speaker 6: one point, but they kept missing each other. 461 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 2: Am I making this up? Their chemistry was insane though. 462 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:31,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, hold on on full House for the acting. Was 463 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:35,120 Speaker 1: the acting on that show doesn't get enough appreciation, honestly. 464 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 10: Like, honestly, they were the they Weren'tmerica's IT couple in my opinion, Like, yeah, 465 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 10: they were really hot. 466 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: I mean they were hot, like you know he was 467 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:45,640 Speaker 1: good looking, she was hot. Apparently they did. 468 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,159 Speaker 3: Not know this, says Are here. 469 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 6: They dated in their late teens, but the timing was 470 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 6: off for a long term relationship and they never had 471 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 6: a serious romance. 472 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 1: Oh it just says John sam Wis set the record 473 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 1: straight on his friendship that he would never leave his 474 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: wife for her. Oh well, no, when he got married though, 475 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 1: well I don't know when he got married, so. 476 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 2: Anyway married for a minute. 477 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 6: Moving on to Eric Dane, who is set to star 478 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 6: in an episode of NBC's Brilliant Minds as an ALS 479 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 6: patient while he is battling the disease himself. Eric you 480 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 6: probably know him from Grey's Anatomy or Euphoria. He opened 481 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,880 Speaker 6: up back in April about being diagnosed with ALS, which 482 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 6: is a neuro degenerative disease that affects nerve cells in 483 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,359 Speaker 6: the brain and spinal cord and causes the loss of 484 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 6: muscle control. And you can see that it is affecting him. 485 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 6: It's really really sad and currently there is no cure. 486 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 6: But on this show he plays the role of Matthew, 487 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:40,159 Speaker 6: a firefighter who's actually struggling to tell his family about 488 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 6: his ALS diagnosis, turning to doctor Oliver Wolfe, who's Zachary 489 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 6: Quinto on the show. He's the series lead, and he 490 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 6: turns to him for guidance. It will air November twenty fourth, 491 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 6: and I cannot imagine there will be a dry eye 492 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 6: from anyone watching that. Lastly, my girl Paris Hilton, who 493 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 6: actually taught me a lot about eighty AH and all 494 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 6: of the things. She's launching a new web series called 495 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 6: Inclusive by Design where she designs her own new home 496 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:12,160 Speaker 6: with her ADHD diagnosis in mind. So it explores how 497 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 6: someone with ADHD can create living spaces that work for them, 498 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 6: combining design and lifestyle and wellness. She shared her struggles 499 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 6: and done a lot of research on it. She's actually 500 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 6: like very interesting. She watched this documentary and then has 501 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,959 Speaker 6: done a lot of like advocacy and talks about how 502 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 6: it affects her because it's it's more of like it's 503 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 6: I think it's more than a learning issue, and I 504 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 6: don't think people realize that. But if she can design 505 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,199 Speaker 6: a home where I stop leaving like spatulas in my 506 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 6: shower and you know, my underwear in the fridge, then 507 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 6: that would be helpful. So I'm going to watch that 508 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,919 Speaker 6: show and if you want to watch or catch up 509 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:48,919 Speaker 6: on our little show type the French Show on demand 510 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 6: on the free iHeartRadio app so. 511 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,959 Speaker 1: A Korean Newsweek and I Trust Newsweek as it pertains 512 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 1: to Lori Laughlin and John Stamos, but they had a 513 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 1: They played a couple of course on Full House, but 514 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: despite their on screen chemistry, they did not date in 515 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 1: real life as Laughlin was married and so was John 516 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: at the time, so he was with Rebecca Romaine she 517 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 1: was married. He has since expressed it he wouldn't have 518 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 1: left his wife at the time for her, emphasizing their 519 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 1: strong friendship rather than any romantic connection. 520 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if this AI says they went to 521 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:21,440 Speaker 2: Disneyland on their date. 522 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 6: They both have cited unfortunate timing as the reason they 523 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:26,399 Speaker 6: never pursued a relationship. 524 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 2: So I don't know. Your girl Chad might be wrong? 525 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 1: Then what is she doing with? 526 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:33,919 Speaker 2: What's his nuts? From Samba? 527 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 1: Jerry o'connall right, always. 528 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 6: On watch What Happens Live. He's another one like Jimmy Fallon. 529 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 5: He is a lot he wants to talk well, he's 530 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 5: a home He was on with the Women of the 531 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,400 Speaker 5: He tried to auditioned to replace Wendy Williams. He set 532 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 5: in for her a couple of times. 533 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 2: He's been on the View. 534 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:56,640 Speaker 1: I want to see an obvious fit Wendy Williams Jerry O'Connell. 535 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 1: I can totally see how people would the same audience 536 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: would like them both. And then what else do you do? 537 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 5: Kiki oh I said he was on like those panel 538 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 5: shows with the View and the Talk. 539 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 11: And really she's taking the rounds trying to get a 540 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 11: slot some somewhere. 541 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, and that's funny. I would watch him. 542 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 3: He's funny. 543 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, well yeah, but he's also isn't a staple on 544 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: the Hallmark channel. I thought that was like his thing. Well, 545 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,919 Speaker 1: I know she is, so I don't know if Yeah, 546 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,360 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. But I love the people on TikTok 547 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 1: who do like the parodies of the Hallmark movies because 548 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: they're all they're all kind of the same general plot. 549 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean like they change the season, like you know, 550 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 1: sometimes it's fall, sometimes it's winter, sometimes it's summer. But 551 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 1: no matter what, it's big city marketing girl or big 552 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: city business girl coming back to her small town because 553 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 1: me Mau just died and they had to get the family, 554 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 1: you know, affairs in order, and small town high school 555 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 1: boyfriend who's now running the orchard that's nearly out of 556 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: business needs to be saved by big city marketing girl, 557 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 1: you know, and then she offers to help keep the 558 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: business alive. Then they fall back in love, and then 559 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 1: big city marketing girl winds up, you know, leaving New 560 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 1: York to move back to you know, Paducah or whatever 561 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: to be with small town guy and live a simple life. 562 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: Like that's bag. I just basically told you every Hallmark 563 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: movie that's ever been made. 564 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 3: So yeah, like it doesn't change, right. 565 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 1: Pauly, just watching ticket this time, Big city marketing girl's 566 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 1: going back. What my book is He's going back and 567 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,919 Speaker 1: she's never is she gonna say, small town boy, I 568 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 1: know why I left you. I'm out of here then 569 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: and then but that would just ruin the Hallmark channel 570 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 1: if that's what happened. Sure, So I don't think we 571 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 1: can do it, guys. I want to. I want to 572 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,679 Speaker 1: teach you some eticutt this morning, because as you know, 573 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: I am, I am, I am at the pulse of etiquette, 574 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 1: and right I am. A lot of people have been 575 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: asking me if I would consult them on you know 576 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 1: how to act and obviously, but I want to know 577 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 1: what you think about this one. This is the thing 578 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,439 Speaker 1: now that we're never supposed to do kiki. And for 579 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 1: the people who are getting tired of the kiki wedding content, well, 580 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 1: hang on tight. She's not getting married till at least 581 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: twenty seven, which means we're gonna milk this for everything 582 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,439 Speaker 1: it's worth. We're getting at least two years out of this. 583 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 1: Not to mention the fact that I could meet someone 584 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: and get married before Keikey's gonna book her a venue, 585 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,479 Speaker 1: but it doesn't matter. Etiquine experts say that you should 586 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:18,919 Speaker 1: never congratulate a woman on her engagement what because the 587 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: wording congratulations implies that the woman's value is now confirmed 588 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:28,399 Speaker 1: only by being married. A better response is to wish 589 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 1: her well or express support without framing the milestone as 590 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: an achievement that needs congratulating. Medican experts say the word 591 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 1: congratulations may inadvertently reinforce gendered expectations around marriage, rather than 592 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 1: recognizing a personal decision or relationship commitment. The experts claim 593 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 1: that it's time to rethink common social responses and consider 594 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: more thoughtful, neutral language. When someone gets engaged. I want 595 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 1: to talk to you guys, but eight five five five 596 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 1: nine one three five you can call in Texas, same number. 597 00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: Be nice to Belaham. I can't say congratulations anymore that 598 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 1: you are are are engaged to be married. And I 599 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,640 Speaker 1: feel like for me, where I would be coming from 600 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: and where I have come from in congratulating somebody for 601 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 1: getting married, is it's like anything else that's a big 602 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,880 Speaker 1: accomplishment or not even accomplishment, that's probably the wrong word. 603 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: Big big event, right, I mean, you know, it's I 604 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 1: think it's a big deal for whether it lasts or 605 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 1: doesn't last, for two people to be together and decide 606 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 1: that they want to, you know, join in some sort 607 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 1: of formal union or whatever. And most people when they 608 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,120 Speaker 1: get engaged or excited, and I think they would see 609 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 1: it as a celebration. And I typically associate the word 610 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 1: congratulations with some form of celebratory thing. So are we offended? Now? 611 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: Am I devaluing Kiki by saying congratulations for being engaged? 612 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: I guess if you want to be a pessimist, you 613 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 1: could spin it and say, oh, good, congratulations, he finally 614 00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 1: did it. But like no one, that's what bigs it well, 615 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 1: but that was funny. I was kidding. I wasn't I 616 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 1: wasn't mean serious. I don't think anyone really means that either. 617 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 1: If they say it. 618 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 5: It doesn't mean this is a case of taking stuff 619 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,959 Speaker 5: too far. We take stuff too far, like you know, 620 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 5: you know when you are purposely trying to offend someone, 621 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 5: you know, when you're trying to be shady. So if 622 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 5: my friend tells me congratulations on my engagement, what kind 623 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 5: of weirdo would I be if I took that statement 624 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 5: and said, oh, you're trying to mean you're trying to 625 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 5: devalue me because you said congratulations, Like, come on, we 626 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,119 Speaker 5: just take stuff way too far as a society, and 627 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 5: I am tired of it. 628 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,479 Speaker 6: Well, I got you a sympathy card because you know, 629 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 6: the streets are losing a good one. 630 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 2: Thank you, and you know one you know what, for 631 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,159 Speaker 2: the rest of your life. Yeah, but would you be 632 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 2: offended by this? No, I'm big funny. 633 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 6: No, I literally don't care about anything, and I'm so 634 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 6: sick of people caring about everything. 635 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 1: Because some exhausted it's possible to inadvertently offend someone. I mean, like, 636 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 1: if you are there are lots of ways you could 637 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 1: do it. Right, There are lots of ways that you 638 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: could say something that you mean to be benign. And 639 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: but like now, conventionally we're not allowed to congratulate someone 640 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,959 Speaker 1: for getting engaged because we may make it because someone 641 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 1: could interpret it as that that they're lucky that the 642 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: guy did it, or that somehow they're I don't if 643 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 1: anything doesn't. Wouldn't it be fair to say that your 644 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: value in that relationship was just leveled up, you know, 645 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 1: because the person and again, and that doesn't mean you 646 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: were leveled up, but it means like, wow, we're taking, 647 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: regardless of this terms, we're taking this relationship to another level. 648 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 1: I want to be with this person for the rest 649 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: of my life, whether it's the guy proposing to the 650 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: guy or the girl or whatever, and then the girl 651 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 1: saying yes. In this case male female dynamic, everyone here 652 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: is consenting. Everyone here is you know what I mean. 653 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: It's not like it's all He finally asked that I 654 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: was forced to say yes. I mean I just about 655 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 1: this yesterday. 656 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 5: Like sometimes we just have to make peace with people 657 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 5: putting their own filter on things. Like I said congratulations 658 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 5: to you right now. If you took that and you 659 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 5: put your filter on it, and said key, key, saying 660 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 5: I'm nothing without a man. That's your problem, Like, that's 661 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 5: not on me. I cannot I can't worry about how 662 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 5: you took that. I know my intention. I know I 663 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 5: didn't come you know, with any type of undercutting. It 664 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 5: was just a simple congratulations. 665 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 6: We all, I should say, put our own filter on things. 666 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 6: But everyone has to do the work on themselves to 667 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 6: say what is my filter and what is real? Exactly sure, 668 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 6: because you know we all grew up different. But yeah, no, 669 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 6: I agree. I say that all the time, like we're 670 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 6: all just interpreting things the way that we have experienced 671 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:45,120 Speaker 6: other things. 672 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a very real thing, Kalin, because that's another 673 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 1: thing I think is like more societal. But like, at 674 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 1: what point am I not responsible for you interpreting something 675 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 1: entirely differently than I intended it? Like you know, if 676 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 1: I say to you, say thing, and then you you 677 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: like if I say you congratulations for getting engaged, Kiki, 678 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 1: and and and and you decide what that means is, Oh, 679 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 1: you know, I had no value until this man proposed 680 00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 1: to me. And that's why you're congratulating me, because now 681 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: you see that someone someone like wanted me enough to 682 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 1: whatever if you go down that road and then you 683 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 1: get mad, like that's that's one hundred percent on you 684 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,960 Speaker 1: all right, Like that's like ninety nine percent of people 685 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 1: who say that don't I don't even know if one 686 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: hundred percent of people don't mean that, Like I, well, 687 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 1: we don't have that. 688 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 5: You know, there's there's that in the family who you 689 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 5: come to dinner thanks Giving dinner and they're like single again, 690 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 5: huh or you know, oh no, Ma, that's no. 691 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 3: That's very different. 692 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: That's not that's not even that's not even cryptic. 693 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 5: But I'm saying so when she says congratulations on land 694 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 5: and a man I pick up all the shape, right. 695 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 10: Yeah, you don't have shame because he wants to throw 696 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 10: it in there little Yeah. 697 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 1: But there's context, right, because that's a person who you know, 698 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: has said these things in the past. Like if someone's 699 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: not been mean to you at the time, and then 700 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 1: they say something that that could be spun either way, 701 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 1: isn't it kind of our responsibility? Shit, isn't like a 702 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: nice thing to do to just go ahead and take 703 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 1: the positive spin on it as opposed to just because 704 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 1: if you're walking around just waiting to be offended, by everybody, 705 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 1: or have your feelings hurt by everybody, then people are 706 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 1: gonna stop talking to you exactly. 707 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 2: That's the truth. Yeah, is the truth. 708 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 6: I think it's our moral responsibility to do the work 709 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 6: on ourselves to like understand how we're processing things. I mean, unfortunately, 710 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 6: not everyone does that, which is why we have issues. Also, hey, 711 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 6: if something hit you the wrong way, it's not what 712 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 6: you say, it's how you say it. 713 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 2: You can be like, hey, you know, what do you 714 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 2: mean by that or what not? 715 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 6: Like we you can have a conversation like we're just 716 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 6: yelling at everyone all the time. 717 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, if I say to Kiki, if I go, man, congratulations, 718 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 1: finally you're worth something, right, you know, like okay, well, 719 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 1: then that's exactly what I meant apparently. But if I 720 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: say congratulations for you know whatever, I don't know where 721 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 1: you came up with. Oh, finally somebody sees valueing me 722 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 1: and finally you ignore that is just crazy. 723 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 2: That's your own insecurities. 724 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 1: Just and like you got to own that. I'm sorry 725 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: you do. Like I can't feel bad for that because 726 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 1: because you know, unless unless I'm known to be terrible 727 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 1: to you, and then maybe you could spin it that way, 728 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 1: and it would be on me. I suppokes, because I 729 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 1: haven't been nice to you, but Rebecca, good morning, and 730 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: this Rebecca remains stamos, hey did did did you? 731 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 16: Or not? 732 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: Rebecca? On a second, where's Rebecca? Why can't I hear Rebecca? 733 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 2: Rebecca hello? 734 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: Maybe she can't hear me. I don't know. 735 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 12: I sure that I was rewatching Gilmore Girls in a 736 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 12: few weeks ago, when Richard. 737 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 3: And Emily renewed their vows. 738 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 12: Luke says congratulations to Emily and she goes, oh, no, 739 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,280 Speaker 12: you never say congratulations to bride you okay, best wishes? 740 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 12: You only congratulate the group. 741 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 6: Oh is that where this is all coming up from? 742 00:32:58,200 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 12: I have no idea, but as soon as you started 743 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 12: to talking about this, I was like, wait a minute, 744 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,160 Speaker 12: I had never heard that before when I was watching 745 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 12: the episode. 746 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 3: I've been doing it. 747 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 13: All wrong all my life. 748 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. Thank you, Rebecca. I don't know. I 749 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 1: feel like I don't know what I'm allowed to say anymore. 750 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: When I'm not. 751 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 11: It almost looks worse for me to be like Kiki, 752 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 11: I wish you well sounds like. 753 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 2: Well, that's like good luck girl, right, you're going on? 754 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 3: I don't say that now? 755 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 6: What if you say, why did I have to find 756 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 6: out on Instagram? 757 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 2: Now via message? What if you say that to a bride? 758 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I've been that a thousand. 759 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 2: Times, you know. 760 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I said in the same room with you 761 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 1: for twenty four hours, but the czareo wasn't ready yet, 762 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 1: so I couldn't know. What about that? What about? Oh? 763 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 1: But congratulation? 764 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 3: This is the Fred Show. 765 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 1: Each time celebrate the holiday season with Mariah Carey's Christmas 766 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: Time in Las Vegas. It's November twenty eight through December thirteenth, 767 00:33:56,680 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 1: Adobe Live at the Park MGM, and you be going 768 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 1: a trip or two to the December twelfth show at 769 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: two Night's Day at Park MGM December twelfth through to 770 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 1: fourteenth and round trip airfare. Text Touch to five seven, seven, 771 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 1: three nine right now for a chance to win. A 772 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 1: confirmation text will be sent standard message and data rates 773 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 1: may apply. It's all thanks to Live Nation. 774 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 3: Well in the city. 775 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 1: How does your urban Dictionary name go again? How is 776 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 1: Kaylin one of the most attractive people of all time? 777 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,359 Speaker 1: And ohays, high standers, I'm one of the hottest people 778 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 1: of all time. That wasn't it? Yeah, That's what Urban 779 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 1: Dictionary says about Fred. Fred's show is on idiots Tuesday, 780 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 1: Good morning, the Fred Show is not hig Kalen. 781 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 7: Hello, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina, Hey, Hi, Kiki, Good morning. 782 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 1: Shelby. Shelley is here six hundred bucks in the show 783 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 1: down in about twenty minutes. You can win if you 784 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,120 Speaker 1: can beat her in five pop Culture questioned Bellahmin's here 785 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: on the phone and the text eight five five five 786 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,880 Speaker 1: nine one three five, stay ago well, debate in relationship drama, 787 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,560 Speaker 1: got the entertainment of for and blogs all this hour 788 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 1: and we're commercial free. What are you working on? 789 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 2: K Jason? 790 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 6: I'm sorry, but someone lived your dream and got a 791 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:10,879 Speaker 6: drunk phone call from Lindsey Brittany and Paris. And if 792 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,280 Speaker 6: you don't know who I'm talking about first name basis, 793 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 6: you're about to learn. 794 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 1: Wow, I'm locked in. 795 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 3: Are you selling it? 796 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: I can tell your focus. 797 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:25,799 Speaker 3: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show? 798 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: Jason, Ah, yeah, I guess I'll be in for that. 799 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 1: I suppose I'll stick around, like writing in our diaries, 800 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 1: except we say them aloud. We call them blogs. Kiki's 801 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 1: got one. 802 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 2: Go yes, dear blog. 803 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 5: So I am trying to be a good sport, a 804 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 5: good friend in all the things, and support Kaylin in 805 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 5: her Halloween efforts. 806 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 16: Okay. 807 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 5: She has expressed that she plans to celebrate Halloween and 808 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:52,839 Speaker 5: she would like for us to do it as a team, 809 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 5: and so I'm like, okay, I'm going to get on board. 810 00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 5: Now I'm running into an issue though, because why are 811 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:03,799 Speaker 5: all of the adult Halloween costumes sexy? Like? 812 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:04,759 Speaker 3: Can't we like? Who? 813 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 2: What is wrong with the world? 814 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 5: Because I just want to be a regular scarecrow or something. 815 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:15,279 Speaker 5: Looking up scarecrow costumes, she got on U three. Uh 816 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 5: what is his knee hat boot? 817 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 17: Yeah? 818 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 5: She got on fish net stockings. Like what scarecrow is 819 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 5: this that? I'm okay, maybe I can be poison ivy. 820 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 5: She has on an evening gown with a V deep 821 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 5: deep V cut. 822 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,160 Speaker 3: I'm like, what the yes? 823 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 2: Are all these costumes so sexy? 824 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:33,359 Speaker 18: Bro? 825 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 2: Can I just be a nurse? Like I just want 826 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 2: to be a nurse? 827 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,239 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, you can't know. You certainly can't be 828 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,359 Speaker 1: a nurse. No, that that one's not No, it has 829 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 1: to be sexy. Everyone knows that every one of. 830 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:48,919 Speaker 5: These costumes is sexy. I'm talking about Super Mario. You know, Batwoman, 831 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 5: Daphne from Scooby Doo, you know everybody is sexy, and 832 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 5: can I just be Tinkerbell? I'm I'm over this, Like 833 00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 5: can we? I don't want to be sexy on Halloween. 834 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 5: I just want to be scared or like a little 835 00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 5: ugly costume. Why are all of these costumes so sexy? 836 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:07,840 Speaker 1: Well, I think that's that's what Halloween has become. I 837 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 1: feel like it's become like take whatever you want to 838 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 1: do and then make it sexy and then that's Halloween. 839 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 5: I don't want this. Can I like even the referee 840 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,920 Speaker 5: for it? Wonder Woman a baseball player? Why she got 841 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 5: on a two piece? I'm looking at super Woman's clappers. 842 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 3: I don't want to see this. 843 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 2: It's so annoying. 844 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,719 Speaker 5: And you know, I'm a fluffy, a fine woman, so 845 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,759 Speaker 5: I need some coverage. You want to be out here 846 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 5: trigger treating with the kids and my thighs out and 847 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 5: it's just so much and I over it, like I'm 848 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 5: about I don't even know. Maybe I need to look 849 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 5: up the men costumes. Yeah, like why does Scooby Doo have. 850 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 2: On like a like them? The chap things that it's like. 851 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 1: It's like a police officer costume, except you're wearing that 852 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: Kim Gardashian thong. 853 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:59,280 Speaker 6: Yes, why like why, oh my goodness, sexy oscar the grousee. 854 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 2: We would make anything, sexy thing. You did say you 855 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 2: wanted to be a man of some sort. 856 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 5: Yes, I cannot just be a man because at this 857 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 5: point these costumes is it's just not giving what it's 858 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 5: supposed to give. I don't know where you're wearing these 859 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,640 Speaker 5: costumes too, especially if you have children. It's insane. 860 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 2: Sexy skunk. 861 00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 11: Wow, I need to look this up. 862 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 1: I need to what it's like a black neglige with 863 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: a tail or something. 864 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 6: Like what She's got a black tube dress on with 865 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,840 Speaker 6: some fur and then she has like arm things. 866 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 2: But it's a tiny. 867 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 6: Dress and uh yeah, she's a sexy skunk. 868 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:39,840 Speaker 5: They've made the FedEx worker costume sexy like this is 869 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,720 Speaker 5: getting out of hambro I can't be a construction worker. 870 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 5: I can't be a strawberry, you know, arsenal Arsen, look 871 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,960 Speaker 5: at butt pants. I don't know while we're doing this. 872 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 6: So am I going to show up in a costume 873 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 6: on Friday at our live show and it's gonna just 874 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 6: be me. 875 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 2: I'm trying to work with you. 876 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 5: But at this point I might just dress up and 877 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 5: spree it because any other options unless I want to 878 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 5: be half naked. 879 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 2: It's cold down here. 880 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, well I guess we know what Calin's gonna be. 881 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 1: Sexy skunk. I mean she laser focused on that one. 882 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, well. 883 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:16,880 Speaker 2: I'm just wow, I do I will be Michael Myers 884 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 2: this year. 885 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 5: Okay, I face mask, Oh, I got it. 886 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 10: Yeah, I got the face mask, and I got the 887 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 10: what is it? 888 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 2: It's like a garage guy the jumpsuit. Yeah, like a 889 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 2: mechanic a mechanic shop. Yeah, so you want to borrow that? 890 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 2: I got you, guys. I also have chunky. I got 891 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:32,320 Speaker 2: it all. 892 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,719 Speaker 1: And it's either sexy or it's like wildly inappropriate. I 893 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:41,400 Speaker 1: feel like, for example, you can get a breathalyzer costume, 894 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 1: but it has the breathalyzer thing like for a guy 895 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 1: like down there, see and like you do walk around 896 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,600 Speaker 1: with that like why like it's not necessary? 897 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 17: And I mean. 898 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:55,720 Speaker 2: Sexy corn on the cob, Chason, look at this corn. 899 00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:58,600 Speaker 10: I want things for like the bedroom because I'm the 900 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:02,800 Speaker 10: link sexy corn. We've been maybe for two years, you know, 901 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 10: we got. 902 00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, let me tell you when I see it when 903 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:07,799 Speaker 1: I see a corn on the cob, That's what I know. 904 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,279 Speaker 1: It's time. It's it's definitely time. 905 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 16: Wow. 906 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 2: Uh none, costume, wait till I see you a picture 907 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:15,480 Speaker 2: of this? 908 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 11: Not a sexy Yeah, isn't that an oxymoron? 909 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: Sexy? None? 910 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:26,960 Speaker 3: It's stay or go all right? 911 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: Uh? Julianne, Julian, how are you doing? Good morning? 912 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:32,120 Speaker 16: Hi? 913 00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:33,000 Speaker 2: Good morning. 914 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,719 Speaker 1: So this is Stairgo and people hit us up on 915 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,399 Speaker 1: all the various social platforms Fresher Radio, fretschuerradio dot com. 916 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 1: You can just send us a d M. Let us 917 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,280 Speaker 1: know what you think. Every every day on every Tuesday, 918 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 1: I should say, we we have folks on and then 919 00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 1: we we hear your you're, your situation, your scenario, and 920 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:53,359 Speaker 1: then we talk about you behind your back. That's that's 921 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 1: basically what this segment is. So what's going on with 922 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,359 Speaker 1: this guy? This is a guy that you recently were 923 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 1: asked out and you're excited about it. But there's a problem, 924 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 1: so he explained. 925 00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 19: Yeah, so recently I've been talking to this guy that 926 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:10,440 Speaker 19: I'm really really interested. 927 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 3: He's so cool, very sweet, very down. 928 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,279 Speaker 2: To earth, my kind of guy. 929 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,120 Speaker 19: He's like the male version of me, which I think 930 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:22,000 Speaker 19: is really really great. 931 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:26,319 Speaker 1: He's great, if I do say, which is why I 932 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: like him so much. Okay, all right, fine, Yeah, so. 933 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 19: We've been talking, we've been flirting. I'm so into it. 934 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:38,160 Speaker 19: But the second he asked me out, I kind of panicked. 935 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 19: And the reason I panicked is because about sometime last year, 936 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,160 Speaker 19: for about three months, I was casually hooking up with 937 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:50,240 Speaker 19: his friend. 938 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:52,319 Speaker 3: It was just hooking up. 939 00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:58,239 Speaker 19: I never dated his friend. It was, you know, every 940 00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,359 Speaker 19: time we wanted to do something, we would just it 941 00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:02,400 Speaker 19: and then that was it. 942 00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,160 Speaker 3: It was more like friends with benefits. 943 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 19: That's the best way I could describe that as friends 944 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 19: with benefits. 945 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:12,399 Speaker 20: And the guy that I'm currently about to go out 946 00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 20: with doesn't know that, and I don't know if I 947 00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:19,360 Speaker 20: should you know, tell him before we go out, which 948 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:23,080 Speaker 20: could possibly ruin everything, or if I should just keep 949 00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 20: it to myself and govor but the friend tells him, 950 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,279 Speaker 20: and then the guy that I'm seeing might say to me, well, 951 00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 20: why didn't you tell me that earlier? 952 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 2: I had to hear it. 953 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,240 Speaker 19: From him, so that puts me in an awkward position. 954 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 19: Or should I just abort the whole mission before it 955 00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,239 Speaker 19: even starts and just. 956 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 2: You know, be like whatever, No, I have a few questions. 957 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:44,799 Speaker 2: That's not my happiness, you know. 958 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,000 Speaker 1: Right, But I have a few questions. So this was 959 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:51,760 Speaker 1: simply hooking up. There was there was no you didn't 960 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 1: you weren't in love, you weren't dating, There was no 961 00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,239 Speaker 1: really death to it. It was just it was what 962 00:42:56,280 --> 00:43:00,440 Speaker 1: it was. It was surface correct. Yeah? Okay? And then 963 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:01,600 Speaker 1: how close are these guys? 964 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 19: They're best friend since childhood, they met in elementary school. 965 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 1: Oh great, and I think he know, he probably knows. 966 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 1: How do you know for a fact he doesn't know? 967 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,120 Speaker 1: I mean because like I don't know. I know who 968 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,240 Speaker 1: my best friends are getting with for the most parts. 969 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 1: And I can tell you that if my best friend 970 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 1: pops up with a girl that I hooked up with, uh, 971 00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,799 Speaker 1: you know, more than once or twice even maybe, then 972 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 1: I probably would say something to them because I don't 973 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,240 Speaker 1: want them to feel like they don't have the information 974 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 1: from me. So but okay, So what makes you think 975 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 1: he doesn't know? 976 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 19: I maybe he's never brought it up to me. 977 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 1: He's meaning, is that something you're like, Hey, you know, 978 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,200 Speaker 1: I love that you slept with my friend for three months, 979 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 1: Like I love that about you, you know. I mean, 980 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 1: I don't know it would be a strange thing to 981 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:54,919 Speaker 1: bring up, but like I guess, if if I saw 982 00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 1: something going where somewhere with someone more serious and I 983 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:01,840 Speaker 1: knew about this, I might I might let them know 984 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,280 Speaker 1: that I knew and didn't mind, because I would imagine 985 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,960 Speaker 1: that if roles were reversed, that I would be focused 986 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:09,560 Speaker 1: on this and I would be worried about it. 987 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,359 Speaker 19: That's a fair point, but that is a fair point. 988 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 19: But I feel like if it were me and another 989 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,439 Speaker 19: woman and maybe she was going out with somebody else 990 00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 19: and we were best friends. 991 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,880 Speaker 2: I feel like she would say something like that to me. 992 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 19: Maybe it's just because her guys, but I mean, I 993 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,560 Speaker 19: don't know, like I would bring it up to her, 994 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,839 Speaker 19: like if she was going to date a guy that 995 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 19: I was messing with, and maybe she didn't know, but 996 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 19: maybe she would know. 997 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:38,799 Speaker 2: I don't know. 998 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,200 Speaker 1: I think the more important part here is that you 999 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,719 Speaker 1: want to date this guy. You like him more than 1000 00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:46,640 Speaker 1: you liked other people. You like him more than you 1001 00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,080 Speaker 1: like the guy that you were hooking up with. It 1002 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,399 Speaker 1: was a year ago you said something like that. Last 1003 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:53,640 Speaker 1: year is what you said. So I think ultimately the 1004 00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:57,799 Speaker 1: question that we should all be focused on is how 1005 00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 1: do you make it work with this guy without him 1006 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 1: feeling blindsided? And wouldn't you guys agree? Maybe you don't, 1007 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,040 Speaker 1: but eight five five five nine one three five, I 1008 00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: would love to know what people have to say. You 1009 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: can call him, text the same number, but it's almost like, 1010 00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 1: maybe you do. You get this on the table now, 1011 00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:12,839 Speaker 1: you know, and you'd be like, hey, his head's up, 1012 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:14,840 Speaker 1: like I like you. I'd like to, you know, like 1013 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 1: to see where this goes. I just want to be 1014 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,279 Speaker 1: fully transparent, you know, because it's this other person's a 1015 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:20,560 Speaker 1: part of your life, and I know we're going to 1016 00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 1: come into contact with him probably and hang out with 1017 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,640 Speaker 1: him or whatever. I did hook up with him last 1018 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,960 Speaker 1: year and it didn't mean anything. It was it was 1019 00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 1: what it was. I didn't know you, And I just 1020 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,719 Speaker 1: want to be transparent because that sort of removes the 1021 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,720 Speaker 1: taboo from this. And if the guy freaks out, then 1022 00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 1: that may say something about how this was going to 1023 00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:42,359 Speaker 1: go down the road anyway, or maybe he's like, yeah, 1024 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,360 Speaker 1: I don't love it, but you know, I like you. 1025 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 1: I'd like to see where this goes. You didn't know me, 1026 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:47,759 Speaker 1: so I mean that would be kind of the fair 1027 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:49,719 Speaker 1: thing to do, would be to be like, Hey, I 1028 00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,800 Speaker 1: don't I don't have to like this, but I also 1029 00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:57,320 Speaker 1: we didn't know each other then, so so be it. Yeah, 1030 00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:58,879 Speaker 1: I think I like that idea a lot. 1031 00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,919 Speaker 19: Just lay it out from see what he says, see 1032 00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,279 Speaker 19: how it takes it. I think it's better to be 1033 00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 19: transparent and before starting a relationship with anybody, whether it's 1034 00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:11,280 Speaker 19: a friendship or a relationship a partnership. 1035 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,480 Speaker 1: So I like that because if you don't say anything 1036 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:19,319 Speaker 1: and then he finds out down the road, I guess, well, well, 1037 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,600 Speaker 1: it's still not fair for him to judge you based on, 1038 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 1: you know, what you guys share together, based on what 1039 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 1: you've done in the past before you knew him. I 1040 00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,840 Speaker 1: guess I could make the argument like why didn't you 1041 00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,760 Speaker 1: tell me? Like? What is what is there not to know? Kiki? 1042 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:32,399 Speaker 1: That's what you think? 1043 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 5: Oh for sure? Like, and I would also be mad 1044 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 5: at my friend. Yeah, if he knows that I'm hooking 1045 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 5: up with this new girl and you and him have 1046 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,319 Speaker 5: this secret behind my back, I don't care how long 1047 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,840 Speaker 5: how long ago it was. I feel like somebody in 1048 00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:46,480 Speaker 5: this situation should be honest with him. 1049 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,400 Speaker 2: Is it more on the friend? That's a good question, 1050 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 2: you know, or is it on her? I wonder, well. 1051 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 1: They're the ones who are going to be dating. So 1052 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 1: I suppose you could establish you know, the air of 1053 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,879 Speaker 1: or not the error that the you're being transparent right, 1054 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,960 Speaker 1: and again, you like this guy, you haven't known him 1055 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,680 Speaker 1: that long and hasn't progressed that far. I think now 1056 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,960 Speaker 1: would be the time to say this to him. And 1057 00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,640 Speaker 1: again if he's like, man, I don't love that, but 1058 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,600 Speaker 1: that's okay, let's see where this goes. Or that's cool. 1059 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 1: I get it. You know that's been fine. But if 1060 00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:20,920 Speaker 1: he freaks out on you, I can't believe this. I 1061 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:22,800 Speaker 1: could never be with you whatever. Imagine what's going to 1062 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,080 Speaker 1: happen if in three or four months or six months, 1063 00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,319 Speaker 1: when there are emotions involved and feelings, then everyone's going 1064 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:33,720 Speaker 1: to be really hurt by this. It's going to be catastrophic. Yeah, 1065 00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 1: but let me take some phone calls on this, Hie, 1066 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 1: Let's see what other people I have to say. 1067 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,879 Speaker 2: Polena, what you're doing over there? You guys love giving 1068 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,240 Speaker 2: your power away and it really kills me. I hate 1069 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:43,759 Speaker 2: to see you. 1070 00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:45,439 Speaker 10: You guys know how I feel when there's a fight 1071 00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:46,920 Speaker 10: or something happens. 1072 00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 3: Because like he might screw up. 1073 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 2: You need that Ammo in your pocket. I've st. 1074 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:57,080 Speaker 1: Helena know this is so unhealthy. So it is so 1075 00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 1: unhealthy poety to hang onto these nuggets you can deeply 1076 00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 1: cut someone when you feel like it. It's so selfish 1077 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,480 Speaker 1: and so wrong. I love you so much. That is 1078 00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 1: such an awful thing to do. Harbor, harbor incriminating information, 1079 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 1: things that you know will cut deep so that you 1080 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 1: can just win the argument in the moment, because you 1081 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,439 Speaker 1: do realize one of these times, and I don't wish 1082 00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,839 Speaker 1: this upon you, Paulina, but one of these times, you're 1083 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,560 Speaker 1: gonna bust out with this horrible thing and it's gonna 1084 00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,200 Speaker 1: do irreparable damage. 1085 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,880 Speaker 10: Yes, I'm working on it. I am in therapy. My 1086 00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 10: up it to twice a week at this point because 1087 00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:32,359 Speaker 10: that's where I'm at. 1088 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 2: But I only say that because people like to. 1089 00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:36,560 Speaker 10: I don't know how to say it, Like people want 1090 00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:38,279 Speaker 10: to always like come with it right, like oh I 1091 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:39,799 Speaker 10: got you, But it's like, no, I got you. 1092 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying. You have to like be. 1093 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,960 Speaker 1: Get each other, like we have to gauge the level 1094 00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 1: of arguments that we're getting. Not every argument is a war, 1095 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,560 Speaker 1: not every time you disagree do you need to be 1096 00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:57,320 Speaker 1: armed with a nuclear weapon. I mean it's like sometimes 1097 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,839 Speaker 1: sometimes people just you can disagree and like you move 1098 00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,319 Speaker 1: past it. But what you're never gonna move past is 1099 00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:06,279 Speaker 1: when it's like you never wash the dishes, Paulina. Yeah, 1100 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,360 Speaker 1: you know what, and I bang your best friend? You 1101 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,880 Speaker 1: know what, You're right, that's how it would go. Yeah, 1102 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:15,440 Speaker 1: you use it for the big stuff. They don't want 1103 00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:18,680 Speaker 1: to use it for anything, because the objective shouldn't be 1104 00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 1: to just absolutely destroy the person that you're arguing with 1105 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 1: if you love them. I mean maybe if you have 1106 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,920 Speaker 1: no intention of reconciliation. But this is I don't know. 1107 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,520 Speaker 1: Let me take some phone cast, Julianne, have a good day. Yeah, 1108 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:34,279 Speaker 1: you gotta hurt me. Oh, No, one needs to hurt you. 1109 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,040 Speaker 1: You don't need to hurt the people. You don't need 1110 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,279 Speaker 1: to be hanging on this. I hate the fact that 1111 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,400 Speaker 1: you harbor this time because I think, unfortunately, Paulina, that 1112 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,840 Speaker 1: this could really backfire in a way that is is 1113 00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,160 Speaker 1: going to hurt you worse. And I don't want that 1114 00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:47,920 Speaker 1: to happen to you. 1115 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:51,080 Speaker 10: And I'm not like trying to hurt people, but I'm saying, 1116 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 10: like he's you know, my boyfriend whatever in this situation, 1117 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,240 Speaker 10: cheats on me or something like I'm talking like crazy, 1118 00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,120 Speaker 10: I'm not talking about the dishes, rough the laundry, like 1119 00:49:59,160 --> 00:49:59,840 Speaker 10: something big. 1120 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,040 Speaker 2: Then I think it's always good to have that ANMO. 1121 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,840 Speaker 2: You have to be ahead of people in this world. 1122 00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 2: Why are you assuming he's going to she? What if 1123 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:06,760 Speaker 2: he doesn't? 1124 00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:06,880 Speaker 18: She? 1125 00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 2: I hope he doesn't. 1126 00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:11,280 Speaker 6: He probably won't like just like a liar holding something 1127 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:12,800 Speaker 6: in that you weren't like open about. 1128 00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,400 Speaker 2: Well, if it's like something I would use later, you 1129 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:15,920 Speaker 2: know what I mean? 1130 00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:20,840 Speaker 1: Why Why are you holding onto things too? Why I 1131 00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:22,919 Speaker 1: don't I don't like How about the FA If someone 1132 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:27,120 Speaker 1: hurts you, that's awful. You don't have to you don't 1133 00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 1: have to cut decapitate them back. I don't. And then 1134 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 1: again like, I don't like it. I don't like it 1135 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,640 Speaker 1: at all. It's so toxic. It's so toxic. I know 1136 00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,480 Speaker 1: I don't like it. Pete, don't do it. And I 1137 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:43,839 Speaker 1: say this only from the perspective of my care for you, 1138 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,000 Speaker 1: because I do think you'll find you want to cut 1139 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:47,759 Speaker 1: people and you want that, you want to blow them up. 1140 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,600 Speaker 1: That's fine, that's your right. I only really care about 1141 00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:51,879 Speaker 1: you in this scenario. But I'm telling you, I feel 1142 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,840 Speaker 1: like this is the kind of thing that backfires or 1143 00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 1: if someone does it to you, you'd be devastated. And 1144 00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,759 Speaker 1: yet this is your practice. I don't like it. Hey, Tay, 1145 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:03,879 Speaker 1: you're right, Hey, Hi, good morning. What do you think 1146 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:05,760 Speaker 1: I think? 1147 00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:10,960 Speaker 17: Person off, Paulina, You're hilarious, But I do agree with Freddy. 1148 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 17: But with that girl, I'm sure the friend, the guy 1149 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,839 Speaker 17: already knows that you've been sleeping with his friend, and. 1150 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:22,400 Speaker 12: Like I said earlier, you should just tell him and. 1151 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,280 Speaker 17: We're adults, like it happens whatever. 1152 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,640 Speaker 2: But it also might be that he already knows that you. 1153 00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 17: Were sleeping with his friend, and his friend is like, hey, 1154 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 17: go try that out. Like I'm telling you, she's she's 1155 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:40,200 Speaker 17: doing some work over there. And then now you're like 1156 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,160 Speaker 17: you're trying not to hurt him, and like Paulina, he's 1157 00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,400 Speaker 17: gonna pull out the bag, like, hey, I already. 1158 00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:49,799 Speaker 1: Knew, you know, just for me if a guy said that, 1159 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:51,640 Speaker 1: if one of my buddies said that to me, like 1160 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:54,600 Speaker 1: when I first met someone, like, dude, you need to 1161 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,839 Speaker 1: go there because like that lad lady does she does 1162 00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 1: this one thing, you know what I mean, Like that's funny, 1163 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,840 Speaker 1: but that's it's funny, or maybe that's okay when I 1164 00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,839 Speaker 1: first meet the person, But then what if I wind 1165 00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,520 Speaker 1: up marrying that person and then that dude standing next 1166 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:08,399 Speaker 1: to me at my wedding and that's the same guy 1167 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,040 Speaker 1: that two years ago told me about the thing she 1168 00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,600 Speaker 1: does with her left hand, And it's like no, like, 1169 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,719 Speaker 1: I don't need to know that. You know that that's 1170 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,040 Speaker 1: not good information for me to have long term. 1171 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,360 Speaker 17: Well, then that's when you meet Paul Liner's method of 1172 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:23,520 Speaker 17: you gotta have them to pull out on him, like hey, no, no, 1173 00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:26,080 Speaker 17: I try to do a thing, but your mom do 1174 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:26,440 Speaker 17: a thing. 1175 00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,680 Speaker 3: You keep my. 1176 00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 1: Mom's name out of your mouth. I have a good 1177 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:36,840 Speaker 1: day day. I'm so scared God, people, you guys are ruthless, 1178 00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,880 Speaker 1: Like when did I? I am not the most sensitive 1179 00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 1: human being, but like, come on, like that is not 1180 00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:47,399 Speaker 1: a good way to operate, Julie, Yes, hey for good 1181 00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,879 Speaker 1: morning there goo. So this woman she called us because 1182 00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:52,440 Speaker 1: she met a guy she likes, but last year she 1183 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 1: had a just sort of a casual sexual relationship with 1184 00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:58,640 Speaker 1: his best friend. And for her it's like, well, I 1185 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:00,480 Speaker 1: like the new guy, but I don't know how much 1186 00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 1: I should disclose because I don't know if he knows 1187 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,880 Speaker 1: or doesn't know, or how it could impact the future 1188 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:07,920 Speaker 1: and how things progress. What do you think. 1189 00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,200 Speaker 8: I would ask the friend with benefits if he said anything, 1190 00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:16,480 Speaker 8: depending on what her relationship is with him now, I 1191 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:19,279 Speaker 8: would reach out and just ask him out right, hey, 1192 00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,040 Speaker 8: did you tell him? Because I want to date him 1193 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 8: and I don't know if he knows. 1194 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:23,680 Speaker 1: That's interesting. 1195 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:23,799 Speaker 16: Now. 1196 00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,000 Speaker 1: I don't know how i'd feel about that further communication 1197 00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:29,600 Speaker 1: if if there was nothing there or nothing to hide, like, 1198 00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:31,239 Speaker 1: I almost feel like I'd rather you just tell me 1199 00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: and not involve him. But I suppose why not just 1200 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:38,920 Speaker 1: have the conversation between the two, because then it. 1201 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:41,160 Speaker 8: Really puts him on the spot. So if he does 1202 00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:44,400 Speaker 8: know and it doesn't bother him, now it's awkward because 1203 00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,880 Speaker 8: I don't know. It depends on how much he and 1204 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,360 Speaker 8: how long was she with the guy the friends with Benefits? 1205 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 8: Was this like a one off or was. 1206 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 12: This a round? 1207 00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:55,439 Speaker 1: I said a few months to a couple of months, 1208 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,120 Speaker 1: I think, is what she said. Yeah, so it was, 1209 00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,880 Speaker 1: but she says that there was nothing more so. 1210 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 8: Right, but they had to have had some level of 1211 00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,560 Speaker 8: friendship if they were hooking up. On a regular basis 1212 00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 8: for several months, so I think i'd still reach out 1213 00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,239 Speaker 8: and see where things you're at with him? Is he 1214 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,240 Speaker 8: dating somebody now? Has he said anything? 1215 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:14,759 Speaker 3: I don't know? 1216 00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:16,279 Speaker 8: I would I would want to know. 1217 00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:21,640 Speaker 1: Before fair enough, Thank you, Julie, No problem. H I 1218 00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,800 Speaker 1: hate to say this would bother me, but it would, 1219 00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,200 Speaker 1: and that's not mature of me, because everybody has a past, 1220 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 1: including me. But I wouldn't love it, and it I 1221 00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:32,560 Speaker 1: want to believe that it wouldn't stand in the way 1222 00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:34,840 Speaker 1: of the person that I'm supposed to be with, But 1223 00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't love it. I would not love the fact 1224 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,560 Speaker 1: that my best friend knows what I know and that 1225 00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,279 Speaker 1: this could be the person that I'm with forever that 1226 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:46,280 Speaker 1: I cherish the most and I share that with him. 1227 00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:50,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I wouldn't love it. Yeah, that's honest 1228 00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:50,560 Speaker 2: for sure. 1229 00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,320 Speaker 1: But I think I think that's a little bit immature 1230 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,640 Speaker 1: because again, like you could go through my inventory and 1231 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,400 Speaker 1: find things you don't like either if you chose to, 1232 00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 1: but I didn't know you then, so hey, uh, Kylie. 1233 00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:03,120 Speaker 2: Hi, good morning, Hi Kylie. 1234 00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:03,960 Speaker 1: What do you think there? 1235 00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:04,080 Speaker 12: Go? 1236 00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,600 Speaker 21: She should say, but she really needs to communicate that 1237 00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:12,320 Speaker 21: with you know, the student too hopefully soon to be boyfriend. 1238 00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:15,840 Speaker 21: I actually met my boyfriend on the dating app, and 1239 00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:17,759 Speaker 21: on our first date, he kind of let me know 1240 00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:19,960 Speaker 21: that he was still close with a lot of friends 1241 00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:23,040 Speaker 21: he actually met on the apps that just they didn't 1242 00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:25,279 Speaker 21: work out, but you know, they were still talking and 1243 00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,640 Speaker 21: hanging out and we've been together for four years and 1244 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,440 Speaker 21: we're still you know, a part of that friend group. 1245 00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,480 Speaker 2: So I think that the communication is just really key. 1246 00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:37,040 Speaker 21: She just needs to tell him and if he really 1247 00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,759 Speaker 21: likes her, I mean he'll choose d you know, be 1248 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:41,000 Speaker 21: in a relationship with her. 1249 00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,560 Speaker 1: Yeah sure, yeah, yeah, fair enough, good advice. Thank you, 1250 00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:45,279 Speaker 1: have a good day. 1251 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:46,840 Speaker 2: Thank you, guys. 1252 00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:50,200 Speaker 1: All Right, I don't know final say k tell him, 1253 00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 1: don't tell him. 1254 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:54,480 Speaker 2: Man, I'm thinking about what Paulina said. We might need 1255 00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:55,840 Speaker 2: to have some ammos. 1256 00:55:59,600 --> 00:55:59,920 Speaker 3: One. 1257 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,480 Speaker 1: Well, you guys, I started to sound like, came in 1258 00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:07,080 Speaker 1: Now now you guys, knock it off. Yeah, now, you guys, 1259 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 1: that is the wrong thing to do. I got a 1260 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,560 Speaker 1: text heright when I started talking. It made me laugh, 1261 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,040 Speaker 1: like I need to put my phone away when we're 1262 00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,719 Speaker 1: doing this program. It's too distracting from me, Like I'm 1263 00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,919 Speaker 1: getting real time commentary. I got people texting me now going, 1264 00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:26,400 Speaker 1: since when did you become the moral police. I'm like, 1265 00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:28,840 Speaker 1: I'm not the moral police. I just say it. I 1266 00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:30,879 Speaker 1: don't you know what it is. It's that my mom, 1267 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,960 Speaker 1: my mom, who I love more than anything, she fights 1268 00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:37,040 Speaker 1: that way where she waits, she holds onto the bomb, 1269 00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,320 Speaker 1: and then she'll she'll drop the bomb when she's losing 1270 00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,839 Speaker 1: the argument and wants it to be over, and then 1271 00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,319 Speaker 1: she'll say the thing, you know, and you're like ah, 1272 00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,680 Speaker 1: and then you're you know, you're paralyzed. You can't do anything. 1273 00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:49,359 Speaker 1: And it's like this tastes a terrible way to fight 1274 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:52,040 Speaker 1: because then you have to undo the thing that you 1275 00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,040 Speaker 1: said before you get back to the issue, which is 1276 00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:55,959 Speaker 1: why I don't like to get like in knockdown drag 1277 00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:59,879 Speaker 1: as with people. And people call that in the fight 1278 00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,879 Speaker 1: flight argument. They call that the flight but I they 1279 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,080 Speaker 1: do yeah, well, but I mean people are like, well, 1280 00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:07,960 Speaker 1: you're you're a guy. You run from arguments, you don't 1281 00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,080 Speaker 1: like conflicts, Like, no, I'll do the conflict. But but I'm 1282 00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:12,480 Speaker 1: really mad. I don't understand what we have to just 1283 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,240 Speaker 1: scream at each other because and just say whatever comes 1284 00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:18,800 Speaker 1: to mind, because then it's like, Okay. Then when we 1285 00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:22,000 Speaker 1: finally you're reconvene, then we got to talk about all 1286 00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:23,400 Speaker 1: the stuff that we said that had nothing to do 1287 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 1: with the fight and get past that and then address 1288 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,040 Speaker 1: the fight, which was probably about a fork in the 1289 00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:30,280 Speaker 1: sink or something, you know. And then it's like, yeah, 1290 00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:31,920 Speaker 1: but you remember when you slept with so much and 1291 00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,480 Speaker 1: it's like oh, and then you got to undo that, 1292 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,480 Speaker 1: you know. And maybe the point is that you're never 1293 00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,480 Speaker 1: gonna undo it, depending on what you say, but maybe 1294 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,000 Speaker 1: you want to be able to undo it, but you can't. 1295 00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,560 Speaker 6: You gotta fight fair, is what I always try and say. 1296 00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 6: It's not easy, but it's certainly a good tool to have. 1297 00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:51,600 Speaker 1: That's what Calen always says. She's always said, I do 1298 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:55,280 Speaker 1: like you go when you go to her house, she's 1299 00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,040 Speaker 1: got one of those in this house things we fight fair. 1300 00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:01,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, incursive yeah no, yeah, it's got from epsy 1301 00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, right next to that one. I want to 1302 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:10,480 Speaker 1: welcome a very famous special guest. Her name is Caitlin. 1303 00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:16,200 Speaker 1: Good morning, Caitlin, Good morning. Now Caitlin. People might know 1304 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:20,680 Speaker 1: you because you have gone wildly viral in the last 1305 00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,120 Speaker 1: I don't know how what has it been forty eight 1306 00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,000 Speaker 1: seventy two hours. It's just a few days since you 1307 00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:29,160 Speaker 1: became since and people don't necessarily know what I'm talking 1308 00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:30,800 Speaker 1: about yet, but I mean, this has been what less 1309 00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 1: than a week, right, Yeah, it's. 1310 00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:35,640 Speaker 12: Been since Friday, so just a few days. 1311 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:40,360 Speaker 1: So Caitlyn is Lila's mom, and Lilah is two years old. 1312 00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:43,440 Speaker 1: And you've probably heard of this of this duo because 1313 00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:48,240 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift donated one hundred thousand dollars to your GoFundMe 1314 00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 1: for your daughter who is battling a rare form of 1315 00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:55,360 Speaker 1: brain cancer stage four. But this, this is the the 1316 00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,400 Speaker 1: mom and daughter duo that you've been hearing about that's 1317 00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:00,840 Speaker 1: gone viral. So first of all, we're wishing the best Tolilah. 1318 00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,840 Speaker 1: And I understand she had surgery and now she's going 1319 00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:06,600 Speaker 1: through some treatment. But what what's the most importantly, what 1320 00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:08,560 Speaker 1: is the prognosis, Like, what's the outlook? 1321 00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,360 Speaker 12: Oh no, well, thank you for praying for us and 1322 00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:17,160 Speaker 12: thinking about us. The prognosis isn't the greatest our doctors 1323 00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,720 Speaker 12: don't really like to talk about it too much because 1324 00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:22,840 Speaker 12: it's you know, it brings us down. But she has 1325 00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:28,000 Speaker 12: about a forty percent survival of the next five years. 1326 00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:32,560 Speaker 12: Over the next two years is when her chances of 1327 00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,800 Speaker 12: death are like way higher. The most deaths occur in 1328 00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:39,280 Speaker 12: the first two years of diagnosis, so the odds are 1329 00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,040 Speaker 12: not in our favor at this moment. 1330 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,520 Speaker 1: But it's why you know, you having the resources that 1331 00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,400 Speaker 1: you need to get the best care for Lilah are 1332 00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:48,919 Speaker 1: so important, which I'm sure is where the GoFundMe came from. 1333 00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:52,120 Speaker 1: And so Taylor saw the video of your little girl 1334 00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 1: singing along to a song and saying that that was 1335 00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,960 Speaker 1: her friend. That's how this all started, right. 1336 00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:02,160 Speaker 12: Yeah, I'll started with Lila. She's just amazing. 1337 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:06,200 Speaker 1: Okay, So you listened to Taylor while you were pregnant 1338 01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:08,800 Speaker 1: with her, and so you're saying, I've read that she 1339 01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:11,120 Speaker 1: is a Swiftie from birth. But how did the video 1340 01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:13,800 Speaker 1: come about? What did she say? And then when did 1341 01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 1: you find out that Taylor had donated? 1342 01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:18,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, so the video. 1343 01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:20,600 Speaker 12: Started because I was just listening to Taylor's new album 1344 01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:23,160 Speaker 12: and Lylah heard it and she saies, that's Taylor Swift. Mom. 1345 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,320 Speaker 12: I was like, oh see it is, and she's like, 1346 01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,360 Speaker 12: I really want to listen to it. So I set 1347 01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,800 Speaker 12: up the iPad for her on the new music video 1348 01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:33,240 Speaker 12: for her, and I just heard filming, because I filmed 1349 01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:36,680 Speaker 12: everything she does, and she's just dancing along and out 1350 01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:39,040 Speaker 12: of nowhere, she looks at the video of Taylor and 1351 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:42,000 Speaker 12: she goes, that's my friend, and it kind of took 1352 01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:44,920 Speaker 12: me by surprise. I didn't realize what she said. I'm like, 1353 01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:48,480 Speaker 12: did you just say she's your friend? And she's like yeah, 1354 01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:53,240 Speaker 12: and it just went viral from there. Everyone started tagging Taylor. 1355 01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:56,320 Speaker 12: I didn't expect anything to come of it. I just 1356 01:00:56,320 --> 01:01:00,120 Speaker 12: wanted to, you know, show Lila. And on Friday, my 1357 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 12: husband called me up and he's like, Taylor Swift just 1358 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 12: gave us one hundred thousand dollars. Like that's just how 1359 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:05,680 Speaker 12: he opened the conversation. 1360 01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:11,920 Speaker 1: Wow, that is amazing. So she must have seen the 1361 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,520 Speaker 1: video then, and it is the cutest video. Leila is 1362 01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 1: a beautiful little girl, and and so that was I 1363 01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:21,240 Speaker 1: think it was, what it's sixty thousand of one hundred thousand, 1364 01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:23,120 Speaker 1: that was your goal, I believe if I have that right. 1365 01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:25,760 Speaker 1: And then she donated one hundred thousand dollars and then 1366 01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:28,120 Speaker 1: since then, Swift Tisa started to donate and as of 1367 01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:29,800 Speaker 1: this morning, he was like at three hundred and thirty 1368 01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:32,640 Speaker 1: thousand dollars, right, correct. 1369 01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:34,920 Speaker 12: Yeah, So our goal I think was a right around 1370 01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:37,800 Speaker 12: sixty thousand, and we had a little bit over fifty 1371 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 12: rays before Taylor donated. Once she donated, like, we were 1372 01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 12: just blown away. I didn't think anything more would come 1373 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,800 Speaker 12: of it. And then the Swifties have almost doubled her 1374 01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:50,320 Speaker 12: donation now in less than forty eight hours, and it 1375 01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:51,520 Speaker 12: has been insane. 1376 01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:52,960 Speaker 4: That is amazing. 1377 01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:55,840 Speaker 1: I did see you online yesterday and I hate that 1378 01:01:55,960 --> 01:02:01,880 Speaker 1: you even have to address this, but I I you 1379 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:05,920 Speaker 1: gotta love the internet, and I say that fantastically. Everyone's 1380 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,240 Speaker 1: got to have an opinion, and so you obviously have 1381 01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:11,800 Speaker 1: blown past your goal by a lot, and there's been 1382 01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:13,520 Speaker 1: a lot of generosity out there, and this has all 1383 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:15,640 Speaker 1: happened so quickly. But I saw that you made a 1384 01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:17,320 Speaker 1: video and I hate that you even had to make 1385 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,960 Speaker 1: it addressing the people who are saying, well, are you 1386 01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:22,600 Speaker 1: going to give this money to other people? First of all, 1387 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,800 Speaker 1: I think you should be able to process this. Second 1388 01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:28,600 Speaker 1: of all, and you made this point and our show 1389 01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:31,080 Speaker 1: we in the Chicagoland area, we work with a lot 1390 01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:34,640 Speaker 1: of different organizations who deal with children with pediatric cancer, 1391 01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:38,480 Speaker 1: and you have no idea the resources that you will need. 1392 01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:40,800 Speaker 1: And you were given this blessing of over three hundred 1393 01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:42,640 Speaker 1: thousand dollars and I'm sure that you'll find a way 1394 01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:48,800 Speaker 1: to pay it forward, but you might need that. 1395 01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:50,320 Speaker 12: Right And the thing is is that we don't know 1396 01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,360 Speaker 12: how much treatment's going to cost at the end of 1397 01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:54,120 Speaker 12: all of this, and we don't know what treatment she's 1398 01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:57,200 Speaker 12: going to need surpass what we're doing already. I know 1399 01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,720 Speaker 12: that our insurance has been built at least a million 1400 01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:02,959 Speaker 12: dollars for only one round us one of sure five 1401 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,920 Speaker 12: that she has gone through, So I know that it 1402 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:09,200 Speaker 12: costs a lot, and I don't know how much is covered. 1403 01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:11,680 Speaker 12: We don't have a bill at the beginning, right, it 1404 01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:15,160 Speaker 12: takes months for insurance to process things. So when we 1405 01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:18,400 Speaker 12: started our GoFundMe, we don't like asking for things. We're 1406 01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:21,080 Speaker 12: very you know, prideful people. We didn't want to ask 1407 01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:23,920 Speaker 12: for help. So we actually originally started our go funding 1408 01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:26,600 Speaker 12: with achul of five thousand dollars because you're like, well, 1409 01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,000 Speaker 12: we don't know what we need that will probably help 1410 01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:31,120 Speaker 12: us just with' see like fit and groceries while we're 1411 01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:34,360 Speaker 12: going through this, and while our community rallied behind us, 1412 01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:37,520 Speaker 12: and supported us, and we realized how many more expenses 1413 01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:39,720 Speaker 12: it was going to be. We slowly started raising it 1414 01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,080 Speaker 12: and we just kind of capted at sixty. But it 1415 01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:44,400 Speaker 12: wasn't because that's how much we needed. That was just 1416 01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:48,200 Speaker 12: what we were comfortable, you know, like asking for we 1417 01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,360 Speaker 12: don't we don't want to be trying to ask for 1418 01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:52,520 Speaker 12: too much. We don't want to take advantage of anyone, 1419 01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:55,840 Speaker 12: but treatment in itself, Like we don't know how much 1420 01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:56,560 Speaker 12: the cost is. 1421 01:03:57,640 --> 01:04:01,840 Speaker 1: Right, So you have far surpassed your goal, and Taylor 1422 01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,000 Speaker 1: helped you do it, and the swiftiest helps you do it. 1423 01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:05,640 Speaker 1: But I mean the idea that you don't have to 1424 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:08,919 Speaker 1: justify to anybody what you do with this money or 1425 01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:10,960 Speaker 1: how much you I don't think people have any idea 1426 01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:13,640 Speaker 1: to your point, how much it costs to fight this, 1427 01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:17,200 Speaker 1: and you know, the travel that you may incur, or 1428 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,440 Speaker 1: the specialists that you may visit, or who knows, maybe 1429 01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:24,120 Speaker 1: somewhere across the world they have a better solution for Lilah, 1430 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:26,960 Speaker 1: your daughter, and if and now you have the resources 1431 01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:28,640 Speaker 1: to be able to do that. And I'm certain that 1432 01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:31,840 Speaker 1: not only are you raising awareness right now, but I 1433 01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:33,760 Speaker 1: think also I'm sure you'll find a way to pay 1434 01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:36,240 Speaker 1: it forward. But I saw you yesterday having to justify this, 1435 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:38,760 Speaker 1: and I hated to see it because I don't think 1436 01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:39,840 Speaker 1: you should have to worry about that. 1437 01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:44,760 Speaker 12: Yeah, thank you. It's we are eventually going to do something. 1438 01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:46,960 Speaker 12: We have tons of like, even if it's not a 1439 01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,160 Speaker 12: monetary thing, we are going to pay it forward in 1440 01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:51,160 Speaker 12: some way once we are in that position to do. 1441 01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,480 Speaker 6: So, you take your blessing, just focus on that little 1442 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:55,840 Speaker 6: one and get through this. 1443 01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course. And this is this is Caitlin and 1444 01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:00,760 Speaker 1: her daughter, Lilah is the two year in the viral 1445 01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:03,280 Speaker 1: video that you've probably seen, Taylor Swift donating one hundred 1446 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,720 Speaker 1: thousand dollars to the campaign. Now, I don't know if 1447 01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:07,280 Speaker 1: I've read this or not, but have you heard from 1448 01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,400 Speaker 1: Taylor directly in any way since all of this, I'll 1449 01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:12,360 Speaker 1: be aside from one hundred thousand dollars. 1450 01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:16,600 Speaker 12: No, we haven't heard anything from Taylor, Nor do I 1451 01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:19,080 Speaker 12: expect to a lot of people keep saying, oh my gosh, 1452 01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:21,640 Speaker 12: you're totally going to meet her. I have no expectation 1453 01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 12: for her to ever say anything. She has blessed our family. 1454 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,400 Speaker 12: She has done more than enough and more than I 1455 01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:27,840 Speaker 12: could ever even imagine. 1456 01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:31,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, look, we all we wish you the best. 1457 01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,800 Speaker 1: We wish Lyah the best. Such a beautiful little girl 1458 01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:36,920 Speaker 1: and an amazing story. And you know, people going to 1459 01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:39,160 Speaker 1: say what they want about Taylor and about the Swifties, 1460 01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:41,120 Speaker 1: but she is generous and she is thoughtful, and she 1461 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:43,480 Speaker 1: does step up, and so does her fan base. I'm 1462 01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:46,800 Speaker 1: surprised they have any money left, by the way, after 1463 01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:51,760 Speaker 1: buying all the stuff, you know. Yeah, but we hope 1464 01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:53,560 Speaker 1: to keep in touch of anything that we can do 1465 01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:56,840 Speaker 1: here to help you. Please let us know. And obviously 1466 01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:58,520 Speaker 1: wishing you and your family the very best, and thanks 1467 01:05:58,520 --> 01:05:59,720 Speaker 1: for taking the time to talk to us. 1468 01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,360 Speaker 12: Thank you so much for sharing your story. I really 1469 01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:04,120 Speaker 12: appreciate it. 1470 01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:06,720 Speaker 1: Of course, all the best to you. Yeah, be strong, 1471 01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:08,680 Speaker 1: have a great morning, and we will post the uh, 1472 01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:11,360 Speaker 1: we'll post that video if we haven't already, and then 1473 01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:14,160 Speaker 1: let's post the GoFundMe too if anybody wants to help 1474 01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:17,280 Speaker 1: out in any way there as well. And I mean, 1475 01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:21,880 Speaker 1: what an amazing story and the strength of that mom, 1476 01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:23,400 Speaker 1: you know, to be able to tell the story over 1477 01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:25,760 Speaker 1: and over again. And of course the internet has got 1478 01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,040 Speaker 1: an internet. Stop it, guys, stop interneting. 1479 01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:31,040 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, I mean, that's if that doesn't show where 1480 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:33,439 Speaker 6: we're at in our world, I don't know what does. 1481 01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:36,200 Speaker 6: She does not need to defend or explain her blessing. 1482 01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:38,960 Speaker 6: She's going through probably the worst thing that a family 1483 01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:41,720 Speaker 6: or a person can go through, So knock it off. 1484 01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:42,840 Speaker 2: Where does Yeah? 1485 01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:46,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? And you know, in Chicagoland we work with Cal's Angels. 1486 01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:50,080 Speaker 1: We've worked with which is an organization that is in 1487 01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:53,240 Speaker 1: place to help families who are battling pediatric cancer. And 1488 01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:55,400 Speaker 1: over the years, I've learned so much about how little 1489 01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:58,000 Speaker 1: research and how little treatment there is, and how little 1490 01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:02,000 Speaker 1: attention pediatric cancer gets and how expensive. Ronald McDonald House 1491 01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:04,960 Speaker 1: another organization that we work with that's providing, you know, 1492 01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:08,040 Speaker 1: a place for people to live while they're seeking treatment. 1493 01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:09,680 Speaker 1: Across the country and across the world. I mean, these 1494 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:11,440 Speaker 1: are there's just so many aspects of this that people 1495 01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:13,919 Speaker 1: don't think about. How much is the treatment, how much 1496 01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,760 Speaker 1: will insurance cover? How much of that battle are you 1497 01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:18,960 Speaker 1: going to win? If you've ever tried to fight the 1498 01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:21,880 Speaker 1: insurance company, you know, do you have access to experimental 1499 01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:23,800 Speaker 1: treatment to save your kid's life, how much is that 1500 01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:24,320 Speaker 1: going to cost? 1501 01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:26,000 Speaker 2: You have a queer job, you know, to be with 1502 01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:27,000 Speaker 2: the kid, you know. 1503 01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:30,520 Speaker 1: Right where is this treatment taking place? Is it down 1504 01:07:30,520 --> 01:07:31,960 Speaker 1: the street, is it in a different city, is it 1505 01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:33,280 Speaker 1: a different part of the country. How much is it 1506 01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:35,480 Speaker 1: going to cost to get there? You know? Is it 1507 01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:39,280 Speaker 1: in a different part of the world. So unfortunately she 1508 01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:42,720 Speaker 1: she will probably need all of that money. And obviously 1509 01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:45,360 Speaker 1: we're wishing them the very best showbiz showing a little 1510 01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:47,280 Speaker 1: bit late, we'll do that next six hundred bucks in 1511 01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:50,160 Speaker 1: the showdown, Waiting at the phone, Why did Somebody Get ghosted? 1512 01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:51,920 Speaker 1: And more? And we're commercial free next as well. 1513 01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:58,200 Speaker 3: Stay more thread show Next, This is the Fread Show. 1514 01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 1: Each time Celebrate the Holidays easy with Mariah Carey's Christmas 1515 01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:05,560 Speaker 1: Time in Las Vegas. 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It's all thanks to the Live Nation 1523 01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:32,240 Speaker 1: Weekend WEEKWN Morning Morning. 1524 01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:34,719 Speaker 2: The inside of my booty cheeks probably you know they're used. 1525 01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:36,920 Speaker 1: To it, chase the inside of your booty cheeks. 1526 01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:39,759 Speaker 2: Well, you know how your hand like callous in vacation. 1527 01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:43,320 Speaker 1: So every round subiatist is Jack Harlow on Kaitlin. 1528 01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:43,559 Speaker 3: In the morning. 1529 01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:46,880 Speaker 1: Morning, everybody it it's Kaylen in the morning. Hi, Kalen. 1530 01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:48,000 Speaker 17: Wow. 1531 01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:49,880 Speaker 2: Where else can you get both of those things? The 1532 01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:51,679 Speaker 2: thing we just did and then that good morning? 1533 01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:57,240 Speaker 1: No, no, nowhere, there's no other place. The heartfelt, the 1534 01:08:57,240 --> 01:09:02,839 Speaker 1: heartfelt message help a young girl with cancer and Kaylen's 1535 01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:05,240 Speaker 1: booty cheeks all in the same place. No, it's all possible. 1536 01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:07,160 Speaker 1: We got to go fund me. We're posting that all 1537 01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:08,600 Speaker 1: over the place and all the different socials if you 1538 01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:11,000 Speaker 1: want to help out. Good morning. It is Tuesday, October 1539 01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:16,040 Speaker 1: twenty First, the French Show is on. Kaitlyn is here, Hi, Jason, Hi, Hi, Paulina, Hi, Kiki, 1540 01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:18,400 Speaker 1: Good morning show Biz, Shelley. A little bit late, but 1541 01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,240 Speaker 1: let's play the showdown next. Six hundred bucks is the 1542 01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:23,599 Speaker 1: price eight five, five, five nine one one oh three 1543 01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:25,439 Speaker 1: five call now if you want to play, and we'll 1544 01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:28,200 Speaker 1: do it in about three minutes. Waiting by the phone. 1545 01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:31,920 Speaker 1: After that, why did somebody get ghosted and the Entertainment 1546 01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,080 Speaker 1: Report headlines fun fact all coming up? What are you 1547 01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:34,479 Speaker 1: working on? 1548 01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:38,720 Speaker 6: K Kristen Bell getting some major backlash over her anniversary 1549 01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:40,600 Speaker 6: post to her husband. 1550 01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:45,120 Speaker 1: Right, which was don't get me going on this one either. 1551 01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:49,720 Speaker 1: I'm so gised. Yeah, we don't need to feedback on everything, right, 1552 01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:52,439 Speaker 1: You don't have to be mad about everything either. That's 1553 01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:54,800 Speaker 1: another thing. But you know what do I know? Call 1554 01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:56,960 Speaker 1: now if you want to take on showbiz Shelley, do 1555 01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,360 Speaker 1: you have what it takes to battle show biz? 1556 01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,520 Speaker 3: Shelley? The Showbiz showdown? 1557 01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:02,639 Speaker 1: Better late than. 1558 01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:04,160 Speaker 3: Never show please? 1559 01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:07,320 Speaker 1: I mean, look, you got. 1560 01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:09,599 Speaker 2: Bumped for oh please yeah right. 1561 01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:13,280 Speaker 1: An important, yeah, very important exclusive interview. 1562 01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:15,400 Speaker 2: Okay, yes, no, that was very sweet. 1563 01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:18,800 Speaker 6: I had my eyes were leaking, So I know a 1564 01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:20,880 Speaker 6: lot of people were like, thanks for making us, making 1565 01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:21,400 Speaker 6: us cry. 1566 01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:25,040 Speaker 1: But Caitlin tracked down that family and it's great that 1567 01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:26,320 Speaker 1: we were able to get them on the air and 1568 01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:29,479 Speaker 1: donate if you, if you have the ability, then donate 1569 01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:32,519 Speaker 1: more because uh, one, I know they're going to need 1570 01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:36,280 Speaker 1: your help, and two, I also think that they will 1571 01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:38,519 Speaker 1: pay it forward if given the opportunity. I do believe 1572 01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:41,120 Speaker 1: that that that family will do that. So six hundred 1573 01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:44,240 Speaker 1: bucks is surprise one tho. Seventy three wins, seventy four losses. 1574 01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,519 Speaker 1: That's it, very impressive. Nine straight wins, and Nelly is 1575 01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:52,080 Speaker 1: your challenger today. Hi Nelly, Hey, how you doing? 1576 01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:52,400 Speaker 3: Fun? 1577 01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:53,439 Speaker 1: Fact about you would be what? 1578 01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:58,040 Speaker 12: This is my second time playing showbiz Shelley. 1579 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:01,719 Speaker 2: On the Well you remember because they're like Nelly Shelley. 1580 01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:03,240 Speaker 2: I don't know what I thought. I remembered that, but 1581 01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:05,000 Speaker 2: I thought, well, we only have thirteen listeners. 1582 01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:07,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's not surprising that people would call, you know, 1583 01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:09,080 Speaker 1: and play more than once, as long as it wasn't 1584 01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:10,320 Speaker 1: it was like yesterday, was it? 1585 01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:11,479 Speaker 4: No? 1586 01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:14,599 Speaker 1: No? No? Okay? Good damn that's good? All right? Well, six 1587 01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:17,000 Speaker 1: hundred bucks is the prize. Nine straight good luck? Five questions? 1588 01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 1: Good luck? 1589 01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:18,280 Speaker 2: All right, good luck? 1590 01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:22,360 Speaker 1: Okay. I joke about having thirteen listeners. I think we 1591 01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:25,000 Speaker 1: have thirteen listeners. I think I know all of your names. So, 1592 01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:28,080 Speaker 1: and Nelly, how could I ever forget you? Question number one, 1593 01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:31,360 Speaker 1: which singer left the stage mid show during her co 1594 01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:34,200 Speaker 1: headlining The Boy is Mine Two were stopped in Chicago. 1595 01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:39,519 Speaker 1: Brandy John Stamos defended Lori Laughlin during a recent podcast appearance, 1596 01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:42,160 Speaker 1: saying her estrange husband was at fault for the college 1597 01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:46,320 Speaker 1: admission scandal. Which iconic show did he and Lorii star 1598 01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:46,960 Speaker 1: in together? 1599 01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:48,320 Speaker 17: Full House? 1600 01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:52,600 Speaker 1: When asked if she feels competitive with other beauty brands, 1601 01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:56,080 Speaker 1: Hayley Bieber said she doesn't feel competition with people she's 1602 01:11:56,120 --> 01:12:00,200 Speaker 1: not inspired by. What is the name of her brand? 1603 01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:04,160 Speaker 1: Kristen Bell is facing backlash over an anniversary post where 1604 01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:06,320 Speaker 1: she joked that her husband promised that he would never 1605 01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:08,160 Speaker 1: kill her. Who is her husband? 1606 01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:10,680 Speaker 8: I don't know, Oh, I don't know. 1607 01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:13,880 Speaker 1: Forget about himy that man? And which paint the town red? 1608 01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:16,599 Speaker 1: Singer and rapper celebrates her thirtieth birthday today. 1609 01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:22,559 Speaker 2: Ooh three two, I don't know. 1610 01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:24,639 Speaker 1: You're on a roll. But she got a three, which 1611 01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:26,799 Speaker 1: is not a bad score. That is a respectable score. 1612 01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:31,800 Speaker 1: Will bring Shelley back. Three is the score of bead 1613 01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:33,880 Speaker 1: And she was like, boom, boom, boom, and then it 1614 01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:36,559 Speaker 1: slowed down. So let's see how you do question number one, 1615 01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,880 Speaker 1: which singer left the stage mid show during her co 1616 01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:44,479 Speaker 1: headlining The Boy's Mind Tour stop in Chicago. Brandy John 1617 01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:47,479 Speaker 1: Samuels defended Lori Laughlin during a recent podcast appearance, saying 1618 01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:51,240 Speaker 1: her estranged husband was at fault for the college admission scandal. 1619 01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:53,800 Speaker 1: Which iconic show did he and Lori starring together? 1620 01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:57,200 Speaker 3: Full How? When asked if she feels. 1621 01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:00,280 Speaker 1: Competitive with other beauty brands, Hayley Bieber says she doesn't 1622 01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:03,600 Speaker 1: feel competition with people she's not inspired by. What is 1623 01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:04,120 Speaker 1: the name of. 1624 01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:07,240 Speaker 2: Her brand, Road Beauty? 1625 01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:12,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Kristen Bell is facing backlash over an anniversary post 1626 01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:14,679 Speaker 1: where she joked that her husband promised that he would 1627 01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:17,920 Speaker 1: never kill her? Which is nice? Who is her husband? 1628 01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:19,360 Speaker 2: Jack Shephard? 1629 01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:22,759 Speaker 1: And which paint the town red? Singer and rapper celebrates 1630 01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:24,200 Speaker 1: her thirtieth birthday today. 1631 01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:26,439 Speaker 3: There's a cat that's a five. 1632 01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:30,360 Speaker 1: That is a win. Nellie. You should know by now 1633 01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:33,000 Speaker 1: because you've already played once before. But you're gonna have 1634 01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:34,519 Speaker 1: to say it. My name is Nellie. I got showed 1635 01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:35,840 Speaker 1: up on the Showdown. You know the rest. 1636 01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:39,200 Speaker 12: My name is Nellie and I got shot up on 1637 01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:41,080 Speaker 12: the Showdown. And I can't hang. 1638 01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:42,520 Speaker 3: With the gorilla. 1639 01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:51,439 Speaker 1: Okay, that was good. You Nellie can't hang with like arilla. 1640 01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:09,759 Speaker 16: Cat shut out Shelley, Okay. 1641 01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:12,479 Speaker 1: Good, I'm back guy. It goes, it goes a little gray. 1642 01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:14,400 Speaker 1: I lose a little bit of the colors and then 1643 01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:17,280 Speaker 1: and then hang on, Nelly, have a good day. Thanks 1644 01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:20,679 Speaker 1: so much for playing all right, thanks and for listening, 1645 01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,320 Speaker 1: and I'm sure we'll talk to you tomorrow to play 1646 01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:26,639 Speaker 1: on six fifty tomorrow, one thousand and seventy four wins 1647 01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:28,599 Speaker 1: and ten straight Shelley, good. 1648 01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:31,000 Speaker 2: Job, Okay, thank you, Okay, I have. 1649 01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:32,000 Speaker 1: A good day. We'll see you tomorrow. 1650 01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:32,799 Speaker 2: All right, you doo. 1651 01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:37,760 Speaker 3: Ever been left waiting by the phone. 1652 01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:41,879 Speaker 1: It's the Frend Show, Adam, Good morning, welcome to the program. 1653 01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:44,760 Speaker 1: How are you all right? How are you doing? 1654 01:14:44,800 --> 01:14:45,360 Speaker 3: Man doing? 1655 01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:48,240 Speaker 1: Okay? What's going on with this woman Kristin? I gotta 1656 01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:50,320 Speaker 1: know how you met, about any dates that you've been 1657 01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:52,479 Speaker 1: on and where things are now? In waiting by the 1658 01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:54,879 Speaker 1: phone because you feel like maybe she's ghosting you, right. 1659 01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:58,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean so me and Kristin I met by 1660 01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:00,479 Speaker 4: the pool at our gym one weekend, and I mean 1661 01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:02,640 Speaker 4: we were both just kind of hanging out with friends 1662 01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:05,360 Speaker 4: and so like both we were both in the pool 1663 01:15:05,400 --> 01:15:08,160 Speaker 4: and we just kind of started talking, and so like 1664 01:15:08,439 --> 01:15:10,200 Speaker 4: I was like, I really want. 1665 01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:11,360 Speaker 1: This conversation to keep going. 1666 01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:14,200 Speaker 4: So I asked her out and she said yes, So 1667 01:15:14,400 --> 01:15:17,320 Speaker 4: she gave me your number, and so like, we texted 1668 01:15:17,360 --> 01:15:19,800 Speaker 4: for a little bit and then we decided that we 1669 01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:21,600 Speaker 4: wanted to take it further, so we met up for 1670 01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:25,000 Speaker 4: drinks and then like drinks that week ended up doing 1671 01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:28,200 Speaker 4: really really well, and so like even before the date, 1672 01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:30,760 Speaker 4: like our artechts were getting super super party and I 1673 01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:33,759 Speaker 4: mean even even a little spicy to a certain point, 1674 01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:38,200 Speaker 4: and so like, and then when we met, we had 1675 01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:41,640 Speaker 4: like just this in person chemistry that didn't disappoint and 1676 01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:44,840 Speaker 4: it was going really really good. Like I mean I 1677 01:15:44,920 --> 01:15:47,040 Speaker 4: was even late to work the next day because like 1678 01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:49,120 Speaker 4: we had ended up having so much late night fun. 1679 01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:51,679 Speaker 1: But but I mean. 1680 01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:54,880 Speaker 4: Ever since that date, like I just haven't heard from her, 1681 01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:57,000 Speaker 4: and I don't know what's going on. Things were going well. 1682 01:15:57,080 --> 01:15:59,599 Speaker 4: She agreed that things were going well, and I mean, 1683 01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:01,719 Speaker 4: I don't know what happened. 1684 01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:03,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's always kind of crazy when this happens, because 1685 01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:06,000 Speaker 1: it's like everything was going so well. I mean, the 1686 01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:08,600 Speaker 1: way you describe it, all this chemistry and all this 1687 01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:12,080 Speaker 1: sort of you know, fun stuff going on at night, 1688 01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:14,439 Speaker 1: you're late to work, I mean, this is all this 1689 01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:18,240 Speaker 1: all sounds great, except for whatever reason, something must have happened. 1690 01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:21,479 Speaker 1: And now I assume you've texted, You've called Christen, you've 1691 01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:24,320 Speaker 1: you know, carried your pigeons and smoke signals and everything. 1692 01:16:24,400 --> 01:16:27,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I didn't like send her an over abundant, 1693 01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,320 Speaker 4: like desperate amount of text but like I did a 1694 01:16:29,360 --> 01:16:31,439 Speaker 4: couple of check in texts. They even tried to call 1695 01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:34,479 Speaker 4: her one night and on like one of the nights 1696 01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:36,680 Speaker 4: we had like at a new spree because that was 1697 01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:39,080 Speaker 4: the night that she had a preset schedule with work, 1698 01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:42,040 Speaker 4: and so like those were usually the nights we would 1699 01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:44,599 Speaker 4: like talk over the phone, and so like I tried 1700 01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:46,920 Speaker 4: to call her one night and she just didn't pick up. 1701 01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:49,560 Speaker 4: And so I don't want to be like a stalker 1702 01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:52,360 Speaker 4: and keep texting and yeah, we don't know what, but 1703 01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:54,320 Speaker 4: I just kind of want to know what's going on. 1704 01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:57,559 Speaker 4: Like we're going really really well and then nothing. Yeah, 1705 01:16:57,560 --> 01:16:59,120 Speaker 4: it makes sense. So we're going to play a song. 1706 01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:01,280 Speaker 4: Come back in a couple minute. We'll call Kristen. You'll 1707 01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:03,160 Speaker 4: be on the phone, Adam. We're gonna ask these questions 1708 01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:05,360 Speaker 4: for you. And the hope is that maybe she's been 1709 01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:07,200 Speaker 4: busy or who knows what's going on. 1710 01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:10,960 Speaker 1: Hey, Adam, all right, let's call Christen. You guys, you 1711 01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:13,479 Speaker 1: met at the gym, right, You met at the gym, 1712 01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:19,040 Speaker 1: and you're at the pool right with with your friends, 1713 01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:21,559 Speaker 1: and you hit it off and we're chatting and everything 1714 01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:24,400 Speaker 1: went well, exchange numbers, texted, you know, things kind of 1715 01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:27,599 Speaker 1: got there was a lot of flirtation going on. They 1716 01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:30,200 Speaker 1: got a little spicy, kiky, they got a little spicy 1717 01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:32,560 Speaker 1: by his uh, by his description. And you guys have 1718 01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:34,599 Speaker 1: gone out and had a great time, and then all 1719 01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:37,720 Speaker 1: of a sudden radio silence, Kristin is not responding to 1720 01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:40,360 Speaker 1: you like she normally would. It appears that you're being ghosted. 1721 01:17:40,400 --> 01:17:44,519 Speaker 1: You want to know why. Okay, let's call Kristin now. 1722 01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:52,840 Speaker 1: Good luck Adam. I appreciate it, but thinks HI is 1723 01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:57,519 Speaker 1: this Kristen? Hey Kristin, good morning. My name is Fredam 1724 01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:59,760 Speaker 1: calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show, and 1725 01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:00,800 Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the 1726 01:18:00,880 --> 01:18:03,160 Speaker 1: radio right now and I do need your permission to 1727 01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:04,720 Speaker 1: continue with the call. It said, okay, if we have 1728 01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:05,640 Speaker 1: for a second. 1729 01:18:06,320 --> 01:18:08,240 Speaker 13: I guess I guess, I guess that's yes. 1730 01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:10,400 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you. We're calling out behalf of a 1731 01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:12,439 Speaker 1: guy named Adam. I guess you met him at the 1732 01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:14,759 Speaker 1: at the pool and you hung out a couple of times, 1733 01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:18,160 Speaker 1: and uh, I guess you guys went on some dates 1734 01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:19,559 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. Do you remember meeting this guy 1735 01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:20,559 Speaker 1: and going out with him? 1736 01:18:21,439 --> 01:18:21,639 Speaker 13: Yep? 1737 01:18:22,479 --> 01:18:26,240 Speaker 1: Sure? Okay, so he describes to us a minute ago 1738 01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:28,719 Speaker 1: what he thought was, you know, this this great story 1739 01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:31,200 Speaker 1: about meeting and all the chemistry you guys had, the 1740 01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:32,960 Speaker 1: dates you've been on. But he says he can't get 1741 01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:34,800 Speaker 1: a hold of you. Now, So what's going on with that? 1742 01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:36,200 Speaker 1: Why are we ignoring Adam? 1743 01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:39,439 Speaker 13: Okay, listen, Adam is awesome? 1744 01:18:39,760 --> 01:18:46,200 Speaker 9: Okay, he's attractive, he's charming, his confident, his great energy. 1745 01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:50,800 Speaker 1: Okay, what's the butt? Where's the problem? I want to 1746 01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:53,400 Speaker 1: go out with it? So we did. 1747 01:18:53,600 --> 01:18:57,439 Speaker 13: We did go out. Okay, this sex was amazing. 1748 01:18:58,040 --> 01:19:01,960 Speaker 1: But okay, okay, all right. 1749 01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:03,880 Speaker 12: Just wait for it. 1750 01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:07,479 Speaker 9: He's leaving my place and you know, he's talking about, 1751 01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:11,080 Speaker 9: you know, meeting up again, and he just casually slips. 1752 01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:13,200 Speaker 13: In now you know, Oh, he just has to work it. 1753 01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:15,840 Speaker 9: Around, you know, like his kids swim schedule, which okay, 1754 01:19:15,920 --> 01:19:20,880 Speaker 9: yeah cool, he's got kids fine, and his wife's work schedule. 1755 01:19:21,400 --> 01:19:25,520 Speaker 2: Oh how do you think I felt. 1756 01:19:26,120 --> 01:19:29,559 Speaker 13: Having just had this amazing night with this man and 1757 01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:29,880 Speaker 13: all of a. 1758 01:19:29,880 --> 01:19:32,080 Speaker 2: Sudden learning that he has a wife. 1759 01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:35,280 Speaker 1: Okay, so hold on, So you guys, you met, you talked, 1760 01:19:35,400 --> 01:19:38,439 Speaker 1: you hooked up, you went on dates. You didn't way 1761 01:19:38,800 --> 01:19:41,200 Speaker 1: he never mentioned that he was married. And then like 1762 01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:43,759 Speaker 1: in passing, he's like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe tomorrow. 1763 01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:45,240 Speaker 1: But if my wife can pick up the kids, how 1764 01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:47,639 Speaker 1: is it out there? Like it's nothing and you didn't 1765 01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:49,360 Speaker 1: know anything about this. You didn't know there was a wife. 1766 01:19:49,400 --> 01:19:51,760 Speaker 13: I knew nothing about it. I would have never gone 1767 01:19:51,760 --> 01:19:52,240 Speaker 13: out with him. 1768 01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:53,479 Speaker 1: That's a detail. 1769 01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:54,960 Speaker 13: I had known that he had a wife. 1770 01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:57,240 Speaker 1: Be helpful to know. Let me bring Adam, and I 1771 01:19:57,240 --> 01:20:00,920 Speaker 1: forgot to mention kristin the Adam is here. I'm very forgetful. Also, 1772 01:20:00,920 --> 01:20:03,960 Speaker 1: you're married, Adam, and that that's just not important to know. 1773 01:20:04,520 --> 01:20:07,840 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I mean, did I forget to mention that? 1774 01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:11,679 Speaker 13: I mean, yeah, yeah, you forgot to mention that. 1775 01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:16,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I'm non monogamous and my wife has 1776 01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:19,559 Speaker 4: agreed to everything to an open relationship. She doesn't want 1777 01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:23,320 Speaker 4: to live that life, and so she says that I'm 1778 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:26,920 Speaker 4: I'm available to do whatever I would like because she 1779 01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:28,760 Speaker 4: would like me to be happy in that respect, but 1780 01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:30,360 Speaker 4: she just doesn't want to know about. 1781 01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:33,200 Speaker 3: It, so she doesn't want to know about it. 1782 01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:35,120 Speaker 1: Like really, and that would be interesting is to see 1783 01:20:35,120 --> 01:20:38,000 Speaker 1: because I mean, honestly, madam, what you're describing is not. 1784 01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:38,800 Speaker 8: I don't believe that. 1785 01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't believe that what are you describing. I have 1786 01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:44,519 Speaker 1: heard of existing before where. 1787 01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:47,640 Speaker 9: I have to But the wife actually like agrees and 1788 01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:51,480 Speaker 9: like she's available to like talk to, you know, potential partners. 1789 01:20:51,560 --> 01:20:53,240 Speaker 8: It's like they don't believe. 1790 01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:57,439 Speaker 3: Quite a few, she says, she's wanting to doing it. 1791 01:20:57,520 --> 01:20:59,960 Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's Adam, you've got to 1792 01:21:00,000 --> 01:21:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm trying to rupt you, but you got to disclose 1793 01:21:02,439 --> 01:21:04,840 Speaker 1: that the other person involved in this needs to have 1794 01:21:04,880 --> 01:21:08,200 Speaker 1: all the information because maybe like in this case, Kristin 1795 01:21:08,400 --> 01:21:12,120 Speaker 1: is not comfortable with this arrangement even if it's above 1796 01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:14,559 Speaker 1: board in your house exactly, and I. 1797 01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:15,759 Speaker 3: Mean it's about board. 1798 01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:18,320 Speaker 13: Why can't I talk to her? I have trying to, 1799 01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:19,000 Speaker 13: you know, with. 1800 01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:21,600 Speaker 9: This kind of a lifestyle, and they're always allowed to 1801 01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:24,040 Speaker 9: talk to the south and get it verified. 1802 01:21:24,160 --> 01:21:25,759 Speaker 13: That's all I'm asking for, Like, if. 1803 01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:28,000 Speaker 9: This is above board, the only way I could participate 1804 01:21:28,040 --> 01:21:29,720 Speaker 9: in this is if I got to talk to your 1805 01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:32,479 Speaker 9: wife and she said, yay, verily she can do this. 1806 01:21:32,680 --> 01:21:36,880 Speaker 18: Okay, that's the only way this, Adam, I can about 1807 01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:39,280 Speaker 18: like a verification thing, like, that's not problem. I'm not 1808 01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:42,120 Speaker 18: trying to hide anything. Like she just was very like, 1809 01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:44,080 Speaker 18: she just very much said she doesn't want to know 1810 01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:46,519 Speaker 18: about it if I'm being involved with another person. 1811 01:21:46,600 --> 01:21:49,280 Speaker 1: But I mean, that's just let's say that Adam's telling 1812 01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:50,880 Speaker 1: the truth. I'm just going to give him the benefit 1813 01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:53,320 Speaker 1: of the mount and he is telling the truth. You're 1814 01:21:53,360 --> 01:21:56,719 Speaker 1: saying that if you could talk to her and verify, 1815 01:21:56,800 --> 01:21:59,360 Speaker 1: you might be interested. But my question to Adam answer you, 1816 01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:03,240 Speaker 1: Kristin is are you not upset or concerned about how 1817 01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:07,439 Speaker 1: this might define the relationship. Because even if it's okay, Adam, 1818 01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:10,240 Speaker 1: what's the likelihood you leave your wife? What's the likelihood 1819 01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:13,519 Speaker 1: you wind up committed to Kristin in a relationship like without? 1820 01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:15,920 Speaker 1: I mean, Kristin, do you want to be a third 1821 01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:20,280 Speaker 1: member of a dynamically sign up for that? When you 1822 01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:22,599 Speaker 1: meet a guy or you wi you guys start talking 1823 01:22:22,600 --> 01:22:25,720 Speaker 1: and no one just closes this sort of open relationship thing. 1824 01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:28,120 Speaker 1: I mean, in your mind, it's it's not make it 1825 01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:30,519 Speaker 1: for me, right? So Adam, do you if you fall 1826 01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:32,000 Speaker 1: in love with Kristin. Well, are you going to leave 1827 01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:34,599 Speaker 1: your wife? I mean that's pretty unlikely. 1828 01:22:34,640 --> 01:22:37,879 Speaker 4: But I mean also Kristen said that she didn't want kids, 1829 01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:39,720 Speaker 4: So I mean, I don't know what's to stop us 1830 01:22:39,720 --> 01:22:41,320 Speaker 4: from just this. 1831 01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:42,000 Speaker 21: Like. 1832 01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:46,080 Speaker 13: It'll make me feel like I'm a cheater. I'm a 1833 01:22:46,479 --> 01:22:49,400 Speaker 13: cheater for the entire like length of our relationship. 1834 01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:51,240 Speaker 3: How do I introduce you to people? Well? 1835 01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:55,120 Speaker 1: Then, but like I just want to try to figure 1836 01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:57,439 Speaker 1: out is okay? So so let's say it's all on 1837 01:22:57,479 --> 01:22:58,880 Speaker 1: the up and up? I mean, is that just so 1838 01:22:58,920 --> 01:23:00,840 Speaker 1: that you know you haven't been and then you're gonna 1839 01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:03,439 Speaker 1: dump this guy? Or like if she says, yeah, it's true, 1840 01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:05,160 Speaker 1: I let him do it, then are you okay with 1841 01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:07,599 Speaker 1: those terms? Because he just said he's not leaving his wife. 1842 01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:10,040 Speaker 1: So basically, now you can accept that you're going to 1843 01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:11,040 Speaker 1: be if. 1844 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:13,439 Speaker 9: There's no chance of him leaving his wife. And I'm 1845 01:23:13,479 --> 01:23:16,040 Speaker 9: just like some weird little secret. Yeah, I'm probably not 1846 01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:19,680 Speaker 9: interested honestly, Like, I just I don't think I. 1847 01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:20,120 Speaker 1: Can live with that. 1848 01:23:20,920 --> 01:23:23,760 Speaker 5: I can't live that way on your head, Kiki, what 1849 01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:27,439 Speaker 5: because this is like he's insane, This is insane, Like 1850 01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:30,080 Speaker 5: you if your wife gave you the green light to 1851 01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:31,599 Speaker 5: do whatever you want to do. Do it, But why 1852 01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:34,880 Speaker 5: bring in people unknowingly, like hey, my wife have a wife? 1853 01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:37,200 Speaker 2: You don't tell somebody after the fact. 1854 01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:39,559 Speaker 1: I think you gotta lay that out for me. I think, Adam, 1855 01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:41,559 Speaker 1: you know that a lot of people are gonna say 1856 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:44,200 Speaker 1: no to this situation, and you didn't want Christin to 1857 01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:46,400 Speaker 1: say no, so you just didn't tell her. That's what I. 1858 01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:50,759 Speaker 13: Really lied, lied, And I can accept that, right. 1859 01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:56,320 Speaker 1: Okay, do we have an accountable person on that? It's impossible. 1860 01:23:56,560 --> 01:23:59,679 Speaker 1: I do think you gotta you gotta lead with it, Adam, 1861 01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:01,160 Speaker 1: Like you got to tell people, hey, I'm in an 1862 01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:03,320 Speaker 1: open relationship, like I got a wife and kids, and 1863 01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:06,799 Speaker 1: that's not going to change because everything changes now for Kristen. 1864 01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:09,080 Speaker 1: Because maybe she didn't want to be an accessory. Maybe 1865 01:24:09,160 --> 01:24:11,160 Speaker 1: she didn't want to be just you know the side thing. 1866 01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:13,479 Speaker 1: Maybe she wants you to all to herself and she 1867 01:24:13,520 --> 01:24:15,320 Speaker 1: has every right to make that decision. But if she 1868 01:24:15,400 --> 01:24:18,120 Speaker 1: doesn't know, then look here we are. 1869 01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:21,040 Speaker 9: It's just really disrespectful, is really what it comes down to. 1870 01:24:21,439 --> 01:24:24,160 Speaker 9: It's incredibly disrespectful, and it puts the other person in 1871 01:24:24,200 --> 01:24:28,519 Speaker 9: a place where they feel dirty and she's, yeah, have you. 1872 01:24:28,520 --> 01:24:30,479 Speaker 1: Ever had this problem before, Adam, I mean, I assume 1873 01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:31,880 Speaker 1: you've been doing this for a little while. Like, if 1874 01:24:31,880 --> 01:24:34,320 Speaker 1: you had this issue, where would you normally lead with it? 1875 01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:36,800 Speaker 1: You normally tell people a friend or no, I mean 1876 01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:40,639 Speaker 1: usually to kind of gauge how things go first. It's 1877 01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:42,080 Speaker 1: not going to work out. Kristin, Hey, thank you for 1878 01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:44,320 Speaker 1: your time, and I'm sorry that you know this happened 1879 01:24:44,360 --> 01:24:46,200 Speaker 1: to you, and I wish you the best in Adam, 1880 01:24:46,320 --> 01:24:47,519 Speaker 1: good luck out there to you as well. 1881 01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:47,920 Speaker 2: Thank you. 1882 01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:51,160 Speaker 3: The one's Entertainment reports on The Fresh. 1883 01:24:50,840 --> 01:24:52,719 Speaker 2: Show this time for one quickie. 1884 01:24:52,840 --> 01:24:55,559 Speaker 6: Kristen Bell is getting some backlash over a post that 1885 01:24:55,600 --> 01:24:59,000 Speaker 6: she threw up on Instagram in honor of her anniversary. 1886 01:24:59,080 --> 01:25:02,559 Speaker 6: So she posted a really cute photo where her tiny 1887 01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:05,599 Speaker 6: little self is bear hugging her husband Dax Shepherd. 1888 01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:07,480 Speaker 2: There's a big size difference. 1889 01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:10,120 Speaker 6: There, and she wrote, happy twelfth wedding anniversary to the 1890 01:25:10,160 --> 01:25:12,240 Speaker 6: man who once said to me, I would never kill you. 1891 01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:14,080 Speaker 6: A lot of men have killed their wives at a 1892 01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:17,240 Speaker 6: certain point, even though I'm heavily incentivized to kill you, 1893 01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:20,639 Speaker 6: I never would And of course she meant it in jest, 1894 01:25:20,720 --> 01:25:23,240 Speaker 6: but lots of people called the post tone deaf, citing 1895 01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:27,519 Speaker 6: that October is domestic violence Awareness Month. One person wrote, 1896 01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:30,839 Speaker 6: that's a wildly sad and insensitive thing to say, considering 1897 01:25:31,000 --> 01:25:34,320 Speaker 6: it's domestic violence Awareness month and thousands of women have 1898 01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:37,080 Speaker 6: died at the hands of the man they trusted. Another 1899 01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:39,799 Speaker 6: pointed out, please keep in mind that this is something 1900 01:25:39,840 --> 01:25:42,759 Speaker 6: real that lots of people suffer from on a daily basis, 1901 01:25:43,040 --> 01:25:46,759 Speaker 6: and the text could be triggering for victims. People said 1902 01:25:46,920 --> 01:25:49,040 Speaker 6: also that they could not believe she stayed with a 1903 01:25:49,080 --> 01:25:50,400 Speaker 6: man who would joke like that. 1904 01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:51,800 Speaker 3: Some did. 1905 01:25:51,880 --> 01:25:56,040 Speaker 1: Okay, sure, guys. First of all, she did not google 1906 01:25:56,320 --> 01:25:59,559 Speaker 1: what is happening in the month of October before she 1907 01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:03,559 Speaker 1: wrote a tongue in cheek post that I think many 1908 01:26:03,600 --> 01:26:06,439 Speaker 1: people can relate to. I mean, how many times in 1909 01:26:06,479 --> 01:26:09,080 Speaker 1: the course of a relationship have you said her, even 1910 01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:11,200 Speaker 1: in a friendship or I could I could kill you 1911 01:26:11,240 --> 01:26:13,400 Speaker 1: for that. I could kill this person. Ah, you know 1912 01:26:13,680 --> 01:26:17,439 Speaker 1: Italian she No one's talking about actually killing anyone, right, yeah, 1913 01:26:17,560 --> 01:26:20,240 Speaker 1: or hurting anyone. It's a figure of speech, and I 1914 01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:24,000 Speaker 1: can promise you she had no idea what month it was. Guys, 1915 01:26:24,200 --> 01:26:27,680 Speaker 1: Why are we always looking for the angle to complain 1916 01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:32,439 Speaker 1: like I promised you. She didn't really mean to offend 1917 01:26:32,520 --> 01:26:34,680 Speaker 1: domestic abuse victims. 1918 01:26:34,720 --> 01:26:37,400 Speaker 6: For sure, for sure, And if if you are a 1919 01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:40,479 Speaker 6: victim of that and that triggers you, just try and 1920 01:26:40,560 --> 01:26:43,000 Speaker 6: understand that that was not her intention. I understand, like 1921 01:26:43,160 --> 01:26:47,600 Speaker 6: maybe she will think now before she posts, but I 1922 01:26:47,680 --> 01:26:50,040 Speaker 6: will also say the hotline though, if you do need 1923 01:26:50,080 --> 01:26:53,559 Speaker 6: to call the domestic violence hotline, you can eight hundred 1924 01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:56,320 Speaker 6: seven nine nine seven two three three or TEX eight 1925 01:26:56,360 --> 01:26:59,200 Speaker 6: eight seven eight eight. But let's you know, of course, 1926 01:26:59,200 --> 01:27:00,680 Speaker 6: it's going to be more to her for someone who 1927 01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:03,000 Speaker 6: has been through that, who is going through that, I 1928 01:27:03,080 --> 01:27:05,120 Speaker 6: don't think that she's a horrific person, like a lot 1929 01:27:05,160 --> 01:27:07,240 Speaker 6: of people are saying, she did not know. 1930 01:27:07,360 --> 01:27:10,639 Speaker 1: She was not targeting anybody with that. It was in jest, 1931 01:27:10,800 --> 01:27:13,680 Speaker 1: and I used to yeah, sorry, if you've been yeah, 1932 01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:16,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry you've been through that. But I just guys 1933 01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:21,360 Speaker 1: that it's mistargeted first, but so many things are. 1934 01:27:21,720 --> 01:27:23,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, if you've ever been in a long term though, 1935 01:27:23,479 --> 01:27:25,800 Speaker 6: you you can relate to the conversation that they had 1936 01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:29,599 Speaker 6: ingest Pauline. If people had a bug in your house, 1937 01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:31,840 Speaker 6: they would probably you know, if they were listening to 1938 01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:33,240 Speaker 6: some of the fights you and have you get into 1939 01:27:33,479 --> 01:27:34,719 Speaker 6: Do you think that they would be. 1940 01:27:34,720 --> 01:27:36,680 Speaker 10: Like that bug would try to escape so quick just 1941 01:27:36,680 --> 01:27:40,040 Speaker 10: because there's so the fights are over everything at this point. 1942 01:27:40,160 --> 01:27:41,960 Speaker 2: But it's like a love you know, I know, I 1943 01:27:42,000 --> 01:27:43,040 Speaker 2: know what was last week? 1944 01:27:43,040 --> 01:27:45,719 Speaker 10: We were fighting over something about oh about not putting 1945 01:27:45,720 --> 01:27:47,120 Speaker 10: something in the oven at the right temperature. 1946 01:27:47,360 --> 01:27:48,200 Speaker 2: Like that's where we're at. 1947 01:27:48,240 --> 01:27:49,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, and you guys take it to the floor, We 1948 01:27:49,760 --> 01:27:52,280 Speaker 6: take it to the whatever works for you. 1949 01:27:52,080 --> 01:27:56,000 Speaker 1: But Paulina, it's oven mid appreciation month. I mean, how 1950 01:27:56,120 --> 01:27:58,120 Speaker 1: good could I? God, what are you doing? 1951 01:27:58,240 --> 01:27:59,200 Speaker 2: I do this every year. 1952 01:27:59,280 --> 01:28:00,960 Speaker 6: I also love that I met like if your house 1953 01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:02,479 Speaker 6: was bugged like in the Mafia, and you were like 1954 01:28:02,479 --> 01:28:03,280 Speaker 6: if there was a bug in. 1955 01:28:03,280 --> 01:28:06,520 Speaker 1: My house at a real bug flying away. 1956 01:28:07,360 --> 01:28:09,040 Speaker 6: We got to end it on that type the thread 1957 01:28:09,040 --> 01:28:10,920 Speaker 6: shown the man on the free iHeart if. 1958 01:28:10,880 --> 01:28:12,600 Speaker 2: You want to catch up, we're all, you know what. 1959 01:28:12,680 --> 01:28:15,360 Speaker 6: It's a day today and Paulina is pressing buttons and 1960 01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:18,360 Speaker 6: she's crushing it and lots of stress, crying. 1961 01:28:18,360 --> 01:28:20,760 Speaker 2: I'm pushing button right, I'm throwing up. We've gone through 1962 01:28:20,800 --> 01:28:22,439 Speaker 2: the full gamut of emotions today. 1963 01:28:22,880 --> 01:28:24,360 Speaker 1: We have Are you pregnant? 1964 01:28:25,200 --> 01:28:26,519 Speaker 2: No me? 1965 01:28:27,240 --> 01:28:29,680 Speaker 1: She said, She said she's crying and throwing up. So no, 1966 01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:31,880 Speaker 1: I was talking about the person throwing up. I just 1967 01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:32,880 Speaker 1: I'm just making sure. 1968 01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:35,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's giving, it's giving that right now, what's. 1969 01:28:35,360 --> 01:28:37,080 Speaker 1: This nausea about everything? Okay? 1970 01:28:37,200 --> 01:28:39,280 Speaker 2: Oh, we are one and done. Nope, don't you try it. 1971 01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:41,679 Speaker 2: We're one and done. He's trying it again. 1972 01:28:44,479 --> 01:28:48,160 Speaker 1: Let's do the Fun Fact. It's about snails and I 1973 01:28:48,760 --> 01:28:51,800 Speaker 1: wish today and I were snail, and I'll tell you why. 1974 01:28:52,040 --> 01:28:56,200 Speaker 3: More Fred Show next right here, The Fread Show is 1975 01:28:56,240 --> 01:28:58,560 Speaker 3: on Fred's Fun Fact. 1976 01:28:58,880 --> 01:29:08,599 Speaker 2: Fred Fun. 1977 01:29:06,360 --> 01:29:08,080 Speaker 3: Okay, let's learn so much. 1978 01:29:09,200 --> 01:29:13,720 Speaker 1: Guys. Did you know that some snails can sleep for 1979 01:29:13,920 --> 01:29:15,280 Speaker 1: three straight years? 1980 01:29:16,479 --> 01:29:17,839 Speaker 2: Huh? I'm jealous. 1981 01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:21,519 Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind. There are days when I think a 1982 01:29:21,640 --> 01:29:24,519 Speaker 1: nice three year nap wouldn't be so bad, But they 1983 01:29:24,640 --> 01:29:29,240 Speaker 1: hibernate during dry seasons to conserve moisture, and they literally 1984 01:29:29,320 --> 01:29:34,240 Speaker 1: seal themselves off and wait out bad conditions. So sometimes 1985 01:29:34,280 --> 01:29:39,959 Speaker 1: I can last for up to three a three year nap. Wow, yeah, 1986 01:29:40,000 --> 01:29:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm down, Like let me know, like maybe now, and 1987 01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:44,120 Speaker 1: then let me know when twenty twenty eight comes around 1988 01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:46,280 Speaker 1: and like, you's see what's up, then you know, maybe 1989 01:29:46,280 --> 01:29:48,840 Speaker 1: things are better? 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Standard message 2000 01:30:19,800 --> 01:30:22,960 Speaker 1: and data rates may apply. It's all thanks to Live Nation. 2001 01:30:23,960 --> 01:30:25,880 Speaker 1: It's like we're writing in our diaries, except we said 2002 01:30:25,920 --> 01:30:28,040 Speaker 1: them aloud. We call them blogs. Colleen's got one go. 2003 01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:31,080 Speaker 2: Thank you so much, dear blog. So over the. 2004 01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:33,479 Speaker 10: Weekend I had a little like I don't even know 2005 01:30:33,520 --> 01:30:33,920 Speaker 10: what it's called. 2006 01:30:34,000 --> 01:30:36,559 Speaker 2: I guess Halloween party. Well, I'm for you know, creative 2007 01:30:36,560 --> 01:30:37,559 Speaker 2: crafty moment over here. 2008 01:30:38,360 --> 01:30:40,599 Speaker 10: I had a party for it. My daughter and her 2009 01:30:40,600 --> 01:30:42,840 Speaker 10: birthday is nowhere near Halloween. She is an April baby, 2010 01:30:43,240 --> 01:30:45,680 Speaker 10: but I'm really into Halloween and I want her to 2011 01:30:45,680 --> 01:30:47,880 Speaker 10: be too, So I had like a little Halloween thing 2012 01:30:47,880 --> 01:30:50,280 Speaker 10: at a play place. It was really cute. We had 2013 01:30:50,280 --> 01:30:52,920 Speaker 10: like a little cousin's calm. We had her her little 2014 01:30:52,920 --> 01:30:55,679 Speaker 10: friends com I guess are technically my friends and their kids. Yeah, 2015 01:30:55,680 --> 01:30:57,840 Speaker 10: they're her friends now too, little friends, her little friends, 2016 01:30:57,840 --> 01:30:58,679 Speaker 10: all your little friends. 2017 01:30:58,680 --> 01:30:59,439 Speaker 3: And it was so. 2018 01:30:59,600 --> 01:31:01,560 Speaker 10: Cute and the kids were dressed up and it was 2019 01:31:01,560 --> 01:31:06,400 Speaker 10: a really great time. Except my daughter's costume some people, 2020 01:31:06,439 --> 01:31:08,920 Speaker 10: I guess, And I wonder if this happens often on Halloween. 2021 01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:10,759 Speaker 10: I know Keik was talking about the sexy costumes. 2022 01:31:10,800 --> 01:31:11,720 Speaker 2: There's no confusion there. 2023 01:31:11,880 --> 01:31:15,360 Speaker 10: Okay, sexy a sexy, yes, But my daughter was dressed. 2024 01:31:15,400 --> 01:31:19,240 Speaker 1: Did you get the sexy nun costume? You know that 2025 01:31:19,040 --> 01:31:21,880 Speaker 1: that wasn't that wasn't intended for her. Okay, that was 2026 01:31:21,920 --> 01:31:24,600 Speaker 1: a fourteen and over costume? All right, come on, got it? 2027 01:31:24,720 --> 01:31:24,880 Speaker 16: Yeah? 2028 01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:25,760 Speaker 2: No, not this year. 2029 01:31:26,720 --> 01:31:29,080 Speaker 10: This this one was a Megan Guesn't know who. 2030 01:31:29,160 --> 01:31:31,880 Speaker 2: Meghan is a little scary. 2031 01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:36,599 Speaker 10: Kay, she is far from scary, but like she's supposed 2032 01:31:36,640 --> 01:31:38,479 Speaker 10: to be scary. But the movie was awful and I 2033 01:31:38,600 --> 01:31:40,800 Speaker 10: think it's so funny, and I found it like a 2034 01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:43,160 Speaker 10: spirit or something in the spirit of the costume store, 2035 01:31:43,160 --> 01:31:44,120 Speaker 10: and I was like, I'm gonna make. 2036 01:31:44,000 --> 01:31:48,640 Speaker 2: Her Megan, and somebody asked if she was Hillary Clinton. 2037 01:31:50,360 --> 01:31:55,639 Speaker 1: Like Ary. First of all, I didn't realize that there 2038 01:31:55,720 --> 01:32:01,320 Speaker 1: was a big, big rush for Hillary Clinton toddler costumes, 2039 01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:03,200 Speaker 1: first of all. Second of all, I didn't realize there 2040 01:32:03,240 --> 01:32:06,559 Speaker 1: was any good commonality between those two those well, a 2041 01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:07,240 Speaker 1: character in a. 2042 01:32:07,200 --> 01:32:11,360 Speaker 10: Person, right, I don't see the similarity. And like, yes, 2043 01:32:11,400 --> 01:32:13,840 Speaker 10: like the Megan costume came with a wig. She took 2044 01:32:13,840 --> 01:32:15,639 Speaker 10: the way off because she's not even two, so she's 2045 01:32:15,640 --> 01:32:17,280 Speaker 10: not gonna wear it. I have a video over wearing 2046 01:32:17,320 --> 01:32:19,519 Speaker 10: it was funny for five seconds, but it was off. 2047 01:32:19,720 --> 01:32:21,200 Speaker 2: But without the wigs, she looks like. 2048 01:32:21,240 --> 01:32:25,559 Speaker 3: A colonial woman, looked like Hillary Clinton. 2049 01:32:25,560 --> 01:32:25,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. 2050 01:32:25,840 --> 01:32:26,720 Speaker 2: It was just so funny to me. 2051 01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:29,320 Speaker 10: And then I remember at Havy and i are engagement 2052 01:32:29,360 --> 01:32:30,759 Speaker 10: party when I made you guys. 2053 01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:31,200 Speaker 2: All dress up. 2054 01:32:31,360 --> 01:32:34,880 Speaker 10: Yes, my friend was pregnant Lucy. She came as I 2055 01:32:34,880 --> 01:32:36,519 Speaker 10: guess Thoor or fat Thoor. 2056 01:32:36,640 --> 01:32:38,280 Speaker 3: I thought she was Jesus. 2057 01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:40,000 Speaker 1: Jesus. 2058 01:32:40,080 --> 01:32:41,960 Speaker 6: I didn't know what she was, and I didn't know 2059 01:32:42,040 --> 01:32:46,200 Speaker 6: Jonathan's costume either. He was that he wore a cowboy 2060 01:32:46,240 --> 01:32:49,720 Speaker 6: hat with like fringe on the front. He was so 2061 01:32:49,840 --> 01:32:52,800 Speaker 6: country singer. I think I thought he was Zoro And 2062 01:32:52,800 --> 01:32:53,800 Speaker 6: that's gonna be the worst. 2063 01:32:53,800 --> 01:32:54,439 Speaker 2: You put all this. 2064 01:32:54,439 --> 01:32:57,040 Speaker 6: Thought into a costume and people like all night, you 2065 01:32:57,040 --> 01:32:58,160 Speaker 6: have to explainville. 2066 01:32:58,880 --> 01:33:00,360 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I wouldn't. 2067 01:33:00,080 --> 01:33:00,680 Speaker 3: Who that is? 2068 01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:00,960 Speaker 1: Right? 2069 01:33:01,280 --> 01:33:03,439 Speaker 2: I still don't, right, Like, we don't know what that is. 2070 01:33:03,520 --> 01:33:05,760 Speaker 2: That's hysterical. And she was not in a pantsuit. 2071 01:33:05,840 --> 01:33:10,920 Speaker 5: She was in a dressed The photos I need the photos. 2072 01:33:10,560 --> 01:33:11,040 Speaker 2: I'll post. 2073 01:33:12,439 --> 01:33:16,280 Speaker 1: But I was just I just typed in inappropriate kids 2074 01:33:16,320 --> 01:33:19,000 Speaker 1: costumes because earlier we were just talking about inappropriate costumes. 2075 01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:22,160 Speaker 1: And as I type in inappropriate kids costumes, like Google, 2076 01:33:22,240 --> 01:33:23,760 Speaker 1: you know, it like starts to fill it in for you. 2077 01:33:24,080 --> 01:33:28,320 Speaker 1: It says inappropriate children's underwear. Oh no, And I'm like, okay, 2078 01:33:28,360 --> 01:33:29,800 Speaker 1: first of all, I didn't even know that was there 2079 01:33:29,840 --> 01:33:32,519 Speaker 1: was a category of that's right, and then then now 2080 01:33:32,600 --> 01:33:34,680 Speaker 1: that I didn't click on it, but I'm just like, 2081 01:33:34,960 --> 01:33:39,479 Speaker 1: who type that in at some point? Anyway? So Woman's 2082 01:33:39,560 --> 01:33:43,520 Speaker 1: day dot Com has a list of the most inappropriate 2083 01:33:43,520 --> 01:33:46,400 Speaker 1: that this is their perspective on the most inappropriate kids costumes. 2084 01:33:46,439 --> 01:33:48,320 Speaker 1: I just want to inform you on what it says. Okay, 2085 01:33:48,760 --> 01:33:54,519 Speaker 1: number two on the list, and I don't know anything 2086 01:33:54,600 --> 01:33:59,599 Speaker 1: involving blackface, thank you, well, thank you. No, that's that's good, 2087 01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:03,920 Speaker 1: thank you, and what right? I really appreciate that someone 2088 01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:06,760 Speaker 1: there at Women'sday dot Com thought it was important. Maybe 2089 01:34:06,760 --> 01:34:09,040 Speaker 1: it is, I mean, glorid with the world that we 2090 01:34:09,080 --> 01:34:14,720 Speaker 1: live in. Cultural stereotypes. Apparently there is a homeless person costume. 2091 01:34:15,880 --> 01:34:17,120 Speaker 1: You shouldn't do that. 2092 01:34:17,120 --> 01:34:18,200 Speaker 2: That was a thing. 2093 01:34:18,400 --> 01:34:19,800 Speaker 6: Like I feel like a lot of kids used to 2094 01:34:19,920 --> 01:34:22,320 Speaker 6: dress up they would say hobo, which obviously is not 2095 01:34:22,360 --> 01:34:22,920 Speaker 6: a good word. 2096 01:34:22,960 --> 01:34:25,360 Speaker 2: But I don't know why that was a trend. 2097 01:34:25,800 --> 01:34:29,680 Speaker 1: Like this is an insane list, problematic historical figure costumes 2098 01:34:29,720 --> 01:34:35,160 Speaker 1: for children like Adolf Hitler, Like what apparently Day of 2099 01:34:35,200 --> 01:34:38,920 Speaker 1: the Dead costumes that would be inappropriate according to this list? 2100 01:34:38,960 --> 01:34:39,479 Speaker 1: Is that true? 2101 01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:42,600 Speaker 10: I mean, it can be, but it's supposed to be 2102 01:34:42,720 --> 01:34:45,360 Speaker 10: a celebration of anything, like to paint your face. You're 2103 01:34:45,360 --> 01:34:48,439 Speaker 10: basically a skeleton with colors, you know, like pretty colors. 2104 01:34:48,840 --> 01:34:52,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. But it doesn't have anything 2105 01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:54,760 Speaker 1: to do with Halloween. I think was the point that 2106 01:34:54,760 --> 01:34:57,080 Speaker 1: that why people I guess were offended by that a 2107 01:34:57,080 --> 01:35:03,040 Speaker 1: prisoner costume, a religious costume, gangster or pamp costumes for 2108 01:35:03,080 --> 01:35:13,080 Speaker 1: a child very funny, and then sexual costumes that would 2109 01:35:13,120 --> 01:35:15,719 Speaker 1: be inappropriate for a child. So just in case. I'm 2110 01:35:15,760 --> 01:35:17,160 Speaker 1: just here to help, you know, I'm just here to 2111 01:35:17,160 --> 01:35:20,679 Speaker 1: be a resource for you all. What where do we live? 2112 01:35:20,840 --> 01:35:24,000 Speaker 1: What on Earth? Yeah? 2113 01:35:24,080 --> 01:35:27,800 Speaker 22: Bring back like the strawberries or whatever. Yeah, Moses, what 2114 01:35:27,880 --> 01:35:30,280 Speaker 22: happened to right? What happened to a cowboy? You know, 2115 01:35:30,439 --> 01:35:34,640 Speaker 22: like I don't know what happened. What happened is to 2116 01:35:34,800 --> 01:35:37,880 Speaker 22: just a basic Hillary Clinton costume? You know, what happened 2117 01:35:37,920 --> 01:35:38,759 Speaker 22: to a pants suit? 2118 01:35:38,880 --> 01:35:41,639 Speaker 2: You know, it's so random if that was her costume. 2119 01:35:42,960 --> 01:35:46,080 Speaker 1: What happened to the Secretary of State costume? Man, Like 2120 01:35:46,120 --> 01:35:47,439 Speaker 1: everybody used to wear that one.