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Speaker 1: into another episode of Poor Mind, whereas drunk Mind speaks

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Speaker 1: sober with us. Okay, so I'm not gonna lie. I

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Speaker 1: Really why Because I don't know, I just feel like,

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Speaker 1: today that's just us. Yeah, but especially because you always

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Speaker 1: up this past week? Any updates was going on in

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Speaker 1: your life? Oh? My god, I had the worst fucking

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Speaker 1: hangover of my fucking life one Sunday. So I decided

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Speaker 1: that's fair. But Thanksgiving next week, I'm just my body

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Speaker 1: needs a break. I started back working out. We'll see

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Speaker 1: I see the vision. I fuck with the vision. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and then yeah, and then I have a project that

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Speaker 2: Okay, child, I can't even make this ship up, bro,

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Speaker 2: Like my love life, Like if I really sat down

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So, so I think we discussed I said in

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Speaker 1: That's always gonna be my friend. That's my dog to

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Speaker 1: him still, Like but it's not nothing, but like it's old. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why did this man shop? Why did this man take

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Speaker 1: my god, when I tell you, I got But you

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Speaker 1: That's what he was saying. He was like, you twisted

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Speaker 1: Like people have their situation and people go through things,

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Speaker 1: So I was like, hold on, nigga, and you got

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. He got the jokes and

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Speaker 1: Okay? But yeah, I don't know. So that's just my

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Speaker 1: That ship, why is he? It's just crazy because people

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Speaker 1: you feel like that's appropriate when a nigga go to

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Speaker 1: But that's the reason why you wanted to fuck with me. Initially,

424
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 1: you wanted to talk to me because I was cute

425
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:26,879
Speaker 1: and I was popping on Instagram. Let's keep it one honey.

426
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,360
Speaker 1: But now that we're actually really fucking with each other,

427
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 1: me posting pictures in my swimsuits and me posting little

428
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,399
Speaker 1: videos and ship that I will post on my social

429
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 1: media was a fucking issue, right, And I think, and

430
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:42,879
Speaker 1: it's for me. I was dating somebody who everything was

431
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 1: funny them, everything that I did was funny, and then

432
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 1: once we started dating, it was You're never gonna This

433
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 1: is before we started the podcast, it was you're never

434
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,679
Speaker 1: gonna make it with this personality. You know that, right, Like,

435
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. You're never gonna make it

436
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,479
Speaker 1: with this personality. Nobody wants to hear you talk. You're

437
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 1: never gonna be on the radio if you're saying things

438
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: like that everything he said that, But that's what I'm saying.

439
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 1: I need to date somebody who understands that. At this point,

440
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:15,399
Speaker 1: Lexbie is a fucking character. Yeah, Like I'm playing a role.

441
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,119
Speaker 1: And don't get me wrong, of course, some of me

442
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,679
Speaker 1: is in there and see with me, I feel like

443
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 1: it's kind of similar but opposite it at the same time,

444
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 1: because like, I had a meeting yesterday with this photographer

445
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,439
Speaker 1: or whatever, and he was like, oh my god, he

446
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 1: takes my friend because my friend is actually the one

447
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 1: who told me about him, So he takes my friend,

448
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 1: and he was like, man, I was just so shocked

449
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 1: to see that somebody so beautiful was really cool as fuck,

450
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,239
Speaker 1: Like I thought she was gonna be stuck up, and

451
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, why do people look at my social media

452
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: and automatically assume that I'm gonna be stuck up. I'm

453
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: not a stuck up as beach in person. If you

454
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: have a conversation with me and see it down and

455
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 1: talk to me, I'm coolest fun I think that's not

456
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: down to earth. I think that's an assumption of a

457
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 1: lot of like quote unque Yeah, but I guess, but

458
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 1: I guess the fact that it's not really an assumption

459
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: though I guess some of them. Yeah, yeah, but don't

460
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 1: put me in that with a fucking vibe. Yeah, that's

461
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: why I said too. I feel like a lot of

462
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 1: times people assume that you know, I'm one way, and

463
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 1: they like damn, like, yeah, you really cool as fucking person. Yeah,

464
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 1: that ship is really crazy. But I don't know. I

465
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 1: feel like people need to stop taking social media so deeply.

466
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 1: I don't take social media seriously at this point. If

467
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: I could leave Twitter and Instagram on, god, I would,

468
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 1: But at what we what we're doing with our careers,

469
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,120
Speaker 1: we need it. Yeah, but I honestly hate it. Sometimes

470
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: I feel like I've created this character online that's gotten

471
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: out of control. How like Tyler Perry is with media,

472
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 1: Lexp is fucking Medina, She's out of media, she's out

473
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 1: of control. LEXP is out knocking bro Lexp is out

474
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 1: of control. So since you since you know, we always

475
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: trying to get off topics sometimes, but I just want

476
00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,719
Speaker 1: to touch on these briefly. So since you said that

477
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: you kind of sometimes a week that you didn't have

478
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 1: to be on social media other than you know, our

479
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: profession or whatever. How do you feel about Instagram taking

480
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: the likes? Love it? Why do you love it? Fucking

481
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: love it? Because let me tell you something, and this

482
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 1: is for me too. I'm not just speaking assuming I

483
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: know me. Sometimes when I post a picture and they

484
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: don't get a lot of likes, I'll be like, damn, yeah,

485
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: well when I post something and I'd be like, I

486
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 1: don't Sometimes I don't post things because I'm like in

487
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 1: fear of people not liking the content that I'm posting,

488
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: because I have always wanted to be like, I want

489
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: to post more videos and me talking about topics, but

490
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: if people don't interact with that, I'll feel kind of stupid,

491
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I think that them

492
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: taking away the lights will put people to be in

493
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: more creative spaces to post what the fuck they want.

494
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:51,640
Speaker 1: Because a lot of times, I'm not gonna lie. I'll

495
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: go to somebody page, I'll be like, damn, you got

496
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: two hundred thousand followers, but you only get five hundred

497
00:24:56,080 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: likes like yeah or eighty Yeah. I've definitely seen that before.

498
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: So I feel like maybe it'll help us. Now, I

499
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: feel like it's gonna hurt a lot of brands now

500
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: I don't think no. But let me tell you why.

501
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:13,160
Speaker 1: Because people are buying followers and they don't have the interactions. Okay,

502
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: so you have to realize a lot of people have

503
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 1: bought followers and they're getting no interactions. So brands are

504
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: not gonna be able to look at her page to

505
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I'm going to pay her

506
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: five thousand dollars supposs because yes, she has sixty thousand followers,

507
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 1: but she's getting fifteen thousand likes per picture. But you

508
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: don't feel like I feel like even though, like say

509
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 1: you're coming to my page and you're looking at my

510
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: Instagram profile, maybe you won't be able to see who

511
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 1: liked my pictures. But I feel like, as far as

512
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: it goes with working with brands, you probably will still

513
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: be able to see certain things in your insights right

514
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: to be able to send to those companies can show them,

515
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: you know, what kind of attention you're getting still getting

516
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 1: on social media. So yeah, I do agree with that.

517
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: I feel like it'll be I'll say this, I feel

518
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: like it's harder for brands now because now they actually

519
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: have to have a conversation with you versus them be

520
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: able to just look and see your interactions and kind

521
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: of base a price on that. You know, it's just

522
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: gonna take more like it's gonna happen. But honestly, lately,

523
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 1: in like the past year or so, I can speak

524
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 1: especially for myself, like a lot of companies be wanting

525
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 1: you to send your interactions now, Like yeah, they see

526
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,439
Speaker 1: the likes that you're getting and stuff, but they be

527
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: wanting to see your impis and that stuff weekly. But

528
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,959
Speaker 1: I personally think it's a good idea too. But I

529
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: think it's more of a good idea just from a

530
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:30,880
Speaker 1: mental standpoint, because it really is unfortunate all of the

531
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: debts and suicides that has been going on with people

532
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 1: killing themselves because of not getting likes and on social media.

533
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: And I mean, to some people, they might think that

534
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: they're stupid, but you gotta understand like a lot of

535
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: people be really weak minded, and stuff like that really

536
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: do effects a lot of people in ways that you

537
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: really don't understand, because I technically kind of really don't

538
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: understand it either, because, like you said, sometimes I think

539
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: we all post pictures and you'd be like, damn right,

540
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: I thought these features. I thought this pitcher was fired.

541
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: I gonna get way more like and I one thing

542
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: I don't. I think it's crazy about mental health and

543
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: you know, and depression and things like that. We as

544
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: a people, we can't judge what people get sad over. Yeah, Like,

545
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: I know we're getting off topic again, but just like

546
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 1: Ari Lennox today was saying how she was in depression

547
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: because of the industry and she was very upset that

548
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: she didn't win the Soul Training Award, and people were like, girl,

549
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: it's a Soul Train Award. It's not like it's a

550
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: Grammy and blah blah blah. And it just makes me

551
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: sick because we as black people like to be like,

552
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: you know what, black people, we need to start speaking

553
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: out about mental illness and about depression. But as soon

554
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: as we start speaking out about it, people like, oh, well,

555
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: this is not a valid reason to be depressed, but

556
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 1: I feel like the same. But I feel the same

557
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 1: way about how people be treating Summer Walker with her anxiety. Yeah,

558
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: I feel like we can't. It's like people be picking

559
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 1: on trying to say I think she playing or I

560
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: think she's just carrying this on because she's already put

561
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: it out there that she's like these y'all don't know

562
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 1: how these girls. And then it's like, you can't pick

563
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 1: and choose what people can be upset over. All go

564
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 1: to work and be upset that you didn't get a promotion.

565
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: Why can't she be upset that she didn't win an award.

566
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: She feel like she worked hard, and she feel like

567
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: she worked hard on something. Everybody wants to get recognized

568
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,640
Speaker 1: for their hard work. So I think it's stupid that, like, yeah,

569
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,919
Speaker 1: I don't understand somebody committing suicide over the Instagram likes,

570
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna be but it happened, So who

571
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 1: am I to be like, Oh, that's not worth you

572
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: committing suicide. I don't think anything is worth committing suicide over.

573
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna sit up here and be like, oh,

574
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 1: that's stupid to be depressed over, because you can't you're

575
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: not in that person's shoes, you know what I'm saying.

576
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 1: So from that point of view, I definitely do agree

577
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: with you on that because people, man, I'm telling you,

578
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all see so much value in social media.

579
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: Then move into Atlanta, and I say this all the time,

580
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: Like when I moved here, it was so many girls

581
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: I worked in the club with that literally they just

582
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: wanted to be popping on Instagram, like they will literally

583
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: asks me and my friend at the time, who I

584
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: moved here with, like, how y'all get followers on Instagram?

585
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: What did y'all do? Oh? My god? Like, and it

586
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: was like obsessed with you should always be asking for

587
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: shout outs, just all type of weird shit, Like it's

588
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: really people out here who really just want to be

589
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: popping on Instagram and not necessarily to make money or

590
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: nothing like that. They don't want to be popping. That

591
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: shit is crazy as fuck to me. I mean, I

592
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 1: definitely have people that be like, oh, can you shout

593
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: me out? Or I don't really get that no more,

594
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: because I feel like shouting people out ain't really a thing.

595
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: It's no more on especially it's not on any platform though.

596
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: And I always tell people this, the best way you're

597
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 1: gonna get followers is just to post content. Whatever you're

598
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 1: trying to do, you have to be good at it.

599
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I said I found my way, Like on Twitter,

600
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: I post pictures and I post crazy shit all the time.

601
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: I mean, in honestly, these platforms have Like That's why

602
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 1: even now when sometimes when people be asking me stuff

603
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: like that, it'd be like, I really don't be knowing

604
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: what to tell people now, because honestly, when I had

605
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 1: started getting a lot of followers and stuff, Instagram was

606
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: really it was easier to get followers, it was easier

607
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: to maneuver, and it was also little tips and tricks

608
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: you could do to help yourself like that. You know,

609
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: you could work with people and they it help you

610
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: get more followers quickly, and stuff like that, like for example,

611
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: what's his name factied Huddan, like people like that be

612
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: knowing little tricks to help girls get followers quicker. Now,

613
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: a lot of that shit don't work no more. These

614
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 1: platforms are making it hard for you to work the seystem,

615
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you really gotta organically work

616
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: for that. Yeah, absolutely, I feel like really that she's

617
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: like that the most time I get followers is if

618
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: one of those little pages post me. Well, that's how

619
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: I initially gained most of my followers, some pages posting

620
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: me ending up on the Explore page all the time

621
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. And then I used to do

622
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: shout out for shout out a lot and stuff too.

623
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: But but yeah, but back to what workmore. By our

624
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: initial topic at hand, I feel like one thing about

625
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: me is my social media right now is a job.

626
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: So I feel like for anybody dating me, I will

627
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: say this, when you're dating me, you're dating Tierra, You're

628
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 1: not dating XP. So it's very important for people that

629
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 1: I date to understand that you have to be able

630
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 1: to say you don't need to be you don't need

631
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: to be. I just don't want nobody that i'm cool

632
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: with or nobody i'm fucking with to be looking too

633
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: much into my social media because I've been posting some

634
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: crazy means sometimes and I feel like people be really

635
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: taking a shit. Seriously, Nobody i'm cool with had actually

636
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: told me I think you should start posting certain stuff

637
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 1: on your close friends only, and I'm like, really, because

638
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,479
Speaker 1: I don't even be thinking nothing of it, Like if

639
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: shit is funny to me. It just be funny to me,

640
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: and I just posted and I'll really be laughing at

641
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: the shit a lot of the time. But she was like, no,

642
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: I think you should start posting certain stuff on your

643
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: close friends because you are people just crazy as hell

644
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: and might look at it and think a certain way,

645
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: and it's just like, why do why are people like it?

646
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: I don't always just weird to me? So what are

647
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 1: we doing next? Oh? The bab a bab Okay, So

648
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: what we got for the bed topic today? Okay? So

649
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: for the bed topic, I wanted to talk about this

650
00:31:55,400 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: post that my friend cast. He made a post on

651
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: his page a few weeks ago, and he basically has

652
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: said the best head like KEDI coming from somebody you

653
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: didn't even want head from. So I thought that that

654
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: shit was funny as hell, because you know, we done

655
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: have a few conversations about these. I don't know if

656
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: we've ever had a conversation about it on air, but

657
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: I know we've had conversations about it off air numerous times.

658
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: And I have personally gotten head from people a few

659
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: times and didn't give them no possy right and really

660
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: didn't want head from them. Initially, but the head was fined,

661
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,719
Speaker 1: but the head was fired, But I still ain't give

662
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: no whoosy. I'll say this, when somebody is eating your

663
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: pussy and you told them that you don't want to fuck,

664
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, just let me eat it because they

665
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: feel like they gonna eat your pussy so good, an

666
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: eventually you're gonna fuck. But what they're trying, that's what

667
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying. They're true. They're they're trying extra hard to

668
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: eat that pussy extra good to make you want to fuck. Yeah.

669
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: So I feel like that's why head from a person

670
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: that you really even didn't want head from is good

671
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: because they're they trying to show the fuck out For me,

672
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: I'm I'll let you unless we fucking because I want

673
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: I want that dick at all times. That's the same

674
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: thing my best friend Jess and I said, like talking

675
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: the other day. She was like, bitch, I'm not about

676
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: to live. No nigga eat my pissy if we're not

677
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: about to FuG period because I most of the time

678
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: I can count on my hands and niggas that's made

679
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: me come from head. Yeah, so if you but if

680
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: you eat my pussy, I'm turned on and I want

681
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: to fuck. I mean see with me the time most

682
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: of the time, the times that it happened, it wasn't

683
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: like like I said, It wasn't like, oh, I was

684
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 1: planning for this to happen, and niggas would just be

685
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: like a nigga would just beig and it would just

686
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 1: like be being really forceful and start doing it. And

687
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: then I'll be like, well, all right, But then niggas

688
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: be thinking were about to fuck and it's like, no,

689
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: you still not about to get no pissy for me

690
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: cause I didn't want to fuck you. Then I still

691
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: don't want to fuck you down. But I do understand

692
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: there are a lot of women out there who after

693
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: they get head, they can't say no move So if

694
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: I don't. But if I don't want to fuck you,

695
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: that means I'm not attracted to you or I don't

696
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: vibe but you like that. See I don't feel that way. No,

697
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,959
Speaker 1: I'm just saying for me personally, if I don't want

698
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 1: to fuck you, that means I'm not attracted to you

699
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: or we don't vibe like that. So I don't even

700
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,879
Speaker 1: want you touching me like that. So I'm not letting

701
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: you eat my pussy. If I if I let you

702
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: eat my pussy, if you're good enough to eat my pussy,

703
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 1: you're good enough to fuck me for me personally. So

704
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: if you if you're licking my pussy, you're gonna fuck me.

705
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: So I don't ever get myself. I'm not ever in

706
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 1: that situation though, I feel like with me, it's not

707
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 1: necessarily that you not good enough to fuck me for me.

708
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 1: The timing is just not right sometimes, Yeah, you know

709
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,439
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, Okay, I probably think you cool,

710
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 1: but I'm not ready to fuck you yet, right, you

711
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 1: know what I mean? And you probably was gonna get

712
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: some pussy later, but you over here forcing the she

713
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:46,919
Speaker 1: any and now that you done gave me some head

714
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: me and now you and your feelings because I don't

715
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: want you, you know, pussy, But then nobody asks you

716
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: to give me no heir right, And that's why I said,

717
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: so now they have to cut your ass off after

718
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: you ate my pussy, when you probably was gonna get

719
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: some three or four weeks later, right, And that's how

720
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just a anyway conversation hal because

721
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: guess what, he eating that pussy, he's gonna start trying

722
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:08,919
Speaker 1: to take his little pants off or something. Yeah, trying

723
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: to slide. Yeah, I'm trying to sneak that little slide,

724
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: that little dicky. And I'm horny. I'm always horny. Matter

725
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: of fact, let me shoot this tea. I'm fucking dead.

726
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 1: I know I'm not getting no dick tonight too. Lord

727
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: have mercy. I keep thinking to see I keep thinking

728
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 1: about throwback bab fucking my wig off. That's intense, intense, Okay, anyway,

729
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: So let us know. How do y'all feel about getting

730
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 1: here from somebody that you really didn't want heir from. Yeah.

731
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 1: Now that I'm getting older, I really don't be down

732
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: with it like that no more. But when I was younger,

733
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: give me. Don't forget about ball ball Man shut up

734
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 1: on my wife seeing him the other day, and I

735
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:55,720
Speaker 1: was hiding the ball man him and I was hiding

736
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: when I was then, I was telling Jasmine, I said,

737
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: oh my god, be so we I don't know if

738
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: we ever told y'all a ball man gave her head

739
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 1: and you didn't want it. I didn't long story. I

740
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 1: didn't want it. I did not want to, but it

741
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: was good. Did you say it was good? It was cool?

742
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: Damn ball Man put it down. It was cool. It

743
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: was cool, but yes, like I did not want hit

744
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 1: from him, and then he got mad because I didn't

745
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: want to give him. It was so weird. Bro oh

746
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 1: my god, feeling. This is a strange, strange little fellow. Okay,

747
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into the bop of the week.

748
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 1: Do you have a bop or you want me to

749
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: go first? Okay. So I just got to put onto

750
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: this song yesterday and it's so fire. I just I

751
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: love to be in my feelings. And so Alena Burras

752
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: has a song out called to Me, and it's just

753
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 1: very It's just the lyrics are very very Alena Barras Barras.

754
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: I don't know how to say it, but she's a

755
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 1: dope artist. Like I said, the song is called to Me.

756
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: If you've ever been in love with somebody and it

757
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: was just a bad, toxic situation, this is the song

758
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 1: for you, sis. He's light some candles, sent some wine

759
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: and put this ship on. I'm telling you, it's such

760
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: a good emotional song. It will definitely have you fucking triggered. Okay.

761
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 1: So that's my bop of the week. Okay. Myp of

762
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 1: the week is the Janiko song featuring Big Shunk. I

763
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: hate that song. I like it, but you know, honestly,

764
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm not really being like a bandwagon person like I've

765
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: always you have, I've always really fuck with I think

766
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: I like you. I like the song though, and I

767
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: think his verse was just I think the verse that

768
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: he had was kind of what really had everybody like

769
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: this week, like niggas do that. I'm saying, that's what

770
00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:01,320
Speaker 1: he said. She was sitting over here, like I was

771
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: thinking about. I was thinking about throwback Baby having me

772
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: buss not nine times in a day. I think if

773
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: we fucked the first time we fucked, I was I

774
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: busted about four, four or five? Okay, Well, and that's

775
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: just a nice that's a lot. And for our first

776
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: time having sex. Thro usually I don't have an orgasm

777
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 1: until like maybe the fourth or fifth time because we've

778
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: learned each other body. Yeah, So for a nigga to

779
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 1: make me bust, I never nigga have never made me

780
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: come four or five times in a day. Oh yeah,

781
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,879
Speaker 1: Ever max is like twice. Yeah, I think my max

782
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 1: is usually like two to three. Now, the four or

783
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 1: five has happened before, but it's rare. But I would

784
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: say this back to the Bapa the week because I'm

785
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I was talking about six I sposed to

786
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: be telling you all about these bobs. Jannai Ekos, she

787
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:56,800
Speaker 1: gets on my nerves a little sometimes because she's like

788
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: and she's just what she sings and be like, see,

789
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: I love her voice. That's my favorite thing about her.

790
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 1: John Jeanne, I'm gonna ripe some sage. That's how I

791
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: love a good sage. Bernie, she always doesn't. She goes,

792
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: I'm not about to slender the queen. She does. I

793
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 1: can't get on my nerves. It's just a little too

794
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 1: much because she's like, your aura came over me and

795
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:38,919
Speaker 1: my pussy got wept. Oh, your Aora turned my Giina blue.

796
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: That's when I do It's like, what are you talking about?

797
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: She's like she always talks about spirituals. She's always talking

798
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: about and hers. But I'm saying, that's what. But that's

799
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 1: how she he is. In that song, she's like talking

800
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 1: about like how Big Sean had her going through this

801
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 1: and that and how she was struggling and she hadn't

802
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: climb out. And he's like, I made you nut Ben

803
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 1: one day, don't you don't you nerves get on my nerves.

804
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 1: But yeah, shout out to Jamie very weird both pisces

805
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: and you know we know a little. So okay, so

806
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into the question the questions. Yes, So

807
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 1: as always, if you want your question answered on the show,

808
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 1: make sure to email us at ask Poor Minds at

809
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. A s k p Oh, you are

810
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 1: in my n d s at gmail dot com, and

811
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: mind you.

812
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 2: I don't.

813
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 1: I love it when y'all send us questions, but please

814
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: make sure y'all email us and don't send it to

815
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: the d MS y'all because it'd be hard for us

816
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: to remember. Like we just literally pull up the emails

817
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 1: while we're recording and read them while we're here. So yes,

818
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,879
Speaker 1: if you want your question answered, make sure you email us. Okay,

819
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: so I'll go first. Oh what you did not sell

820
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: me to this? It's okay? All right? Oh lord? Okay,

821
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: so it says don't say my name, got you sis?

822
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,800
Speaker 1: This guy is one of my best friends, and we

823
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 1: realized we have feelings for each other. Bitch, I let

824
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: this man take my virginity. He's truly a dope ass

825
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: friend and I love being with him. I started feeling

826
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 1: him more so, I asked him what were his intentions.

827
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: He said he didn't want a relationship right now because

828
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 1: he's working on himself. Even after he said that, we

829
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:37,439
Speaker 1: were still holding hands, kissing, sleeping in the same bed

830
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 1: every night, and fucking consistently. He always calls me talking

831
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,320
Speaker 1: about how he misses me and that other bullshit. This

832
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: man said, if I saw you with someone else, I

833
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: feel some type of way. Then I found out he

834
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 1: was trying to fuck with my coworker while I was

835
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: out of town. He doesn't know that I know, and

836
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 1: he has yet to tell me. On top of that,

837
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: he's five to six. I'm about ready to say fuck

838
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 1: this little midget ass nigga. I did, but that's my

839
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: best friend. I want him to stay in my life,

840
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: just not romantically anymore. Every time I'm done, he rells

841
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: me back in with those smooth ass words. I want

842
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: to move on, but I'm still attached. How do I

843
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: draw the line and tell him that I don't want

844
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: him like that anymore. I've collected too many red flags,

845
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: and he's really crossed the line trying to fuck with

846
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 1: my coworker. I'm manifesting my six y five king and

847
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 1: midget man's blocking my blessings. I know that's right, Queen,

848
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 1: let me advice. Okay, Well, this is how I feel

849
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 1: when a man tells you what his intentions are, and

850
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: if you want a relationship and he doesn't listen to

851
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: his words, I don't care. A nigga can lay up

852
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,479
Speaker 1: with you and fuck you and tell you he missed

853
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: you and kiss you and this and that, but you're

854
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: not demanding more so, he's not gonna give you more

855
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: so for your you want more so, it's gonna be

856
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: very easy for you to draw that line. You want

857
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,760
Speaker 1: to draw that line, and really the line has already

858
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: been drawn. You have to realize that words mean nothing

859
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 1: and action mean everything. Anybody can tell you, bitch, I

860
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 1: can tell you right now, I got five hundred thousand

861
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: dollars in my bank account. That don't mean nothing because

862
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: the shit ain't in there, you know what I'm saying. Like,

863
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: you have to stop said no because I'm because the

864
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: words don't mean anything. It's all about what's really there

865
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 1: and the action. So you want to let this go,

866
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 1: you know what you want to You really just answered

867
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 1: your own question, honestly. Yeah, I mean I can kind

868
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: of relate a little bit because I've been in a

869
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 1: similar situation like but honestly a really long time ago.

870
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: But I used to day one of my really really

871
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 1: close friends and we got in a relationship and we

872
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: were together for like a year, and you know, we

873
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 1: ended up breaking up and we still remained friends, and

874
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:42,800
Speaker 1: he would always tell me he wanted to be with

875
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: me and stuff. But I knew he was full of sheet.

876
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: Like sees when and it is full of sheet, you

877
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: know that they follishit. And when a nigga want to

878
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: be with you, he gonna be with you. Yeah, that's true.

879
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 1: But in my well, I will say that's what I'm saying.

880
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: I feel like the ball is always in your court though,

881
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: when he be coming to situations like these for the

882
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: most because I feel like, as long as you want

883
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 1: to keep sucking with that nigga and fucking him or

884
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: whatever like type of situation y'all got going on, he

885
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: gonna be cool with it because niggas love to have

886
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 1: their cake and eat it too, and niggas love to

887
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: be in no strings attached type of situations. So I

888
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: feel like you're definitely gonna have to be the one

889
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: to cut the shit off and draw the line because

890
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: he's gonna keep fucking you and he gonna keep fucking

891
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: with your head as long as you allow him to.

892
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 1: But I feel like if it's a good friendship, like

893
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 1: you mentioned earlier, you know, sometimes when you try to

894
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: date people that it don't work out, it don't be

895
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: worth completely dissolving the relationship or the friendship, especially if

896
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: y'all were so cool first. So I just feel like

897
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: y'all just need to have a talk. You need to

898
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:39,439
Speaker 1: let him know like I don't want to fuck around

899
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: with you like that no more. I want us to

900
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: remain friends and see where it goes. And if you

901
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: have an issue with that, then maybe y'all friendship wasn't

902
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 1: as strong as you thought it would. And stept one,

903
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 1: stop fucking him. Yeah, stop giving him that good good girl,

904
00:44:55,920 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 1: don't give him that j We haven't sung that for

905
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: the girls today. You did, okay, So moving on, moving on.

906
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 1: You can sing it after I read the next one,

907
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: because it's my longe. You close the show out with

908
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: a song. Okay, I'm gonna close the song. Okay. Advice

909
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: long overdue ass whooping hello queens. Sorry in advance of

910
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: this is long will at least you know this, and

911
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna beat long

912
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: overdue ass. But what about the whoop your ass? So

913
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,959
Speaker 1: she said, sorry in advance if this is long. Here's

914
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: the situation. About a decade ago, I was in a

915
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: situationship with the fuck boy I meant through my male

916
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 1: best friend, we'll call him Jeff. Jeff and my best

917
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: friend would hang out with me and my close female

918
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: friends all the time. One of those friends will call

919
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 1: her Sarah. Literally everyone hated, but everyone loved me, so

920
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: they tolerated. Over time, Sarah would pop up at my

921
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 1: place when she knew it was just me and him there.

922
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: I paid that thus because young, naive me feel everyone

923
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: knew I was crazy and loved to fight, so I

924
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: never thought anyone was dumb enough to cross me, especially

925
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: not my friends. She started calling him her best friend.

926
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,280
Speaker 1: That shit was odd, but again, it's not that I'm bothering.

927
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: Two years into just being a fuck boy. He gave

928
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,320
Speaker 1: me an STD. Of course, I confided in my friend,

929
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,280
Speaker 1: Swear to God. Before I even can hang up the phone,

930
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: Jeff was blowing up my line. I literally told her, girl,

931
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 1: it's this nigga now, I'll call you back, y'all. This

932
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,919
Speaker 1: bitch told him about the STD before I could raise

933
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: hell about it, and had the nerves to throw some

934
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: lies and how I probably actually got it in there too.

935
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 1: I was living. Why would my friend run and tell

936
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: somebody my business and have the nerves to lie on

937
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: my name. I cursed that bitch out and let her

938
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 1: know that it was on site. She got low, but

939
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: eventually she understood when I said on site, I meant

940
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: on fucking site. I tried to kill that beach. In

941
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 1: twenty thirteen, I became a super calm, peaceful person and

942
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: a mutual friend. Took it as an opportunity to have

943
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: Sarah and I sit down and hash it out. She apologized.

944
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: I passed on. I was pasted this so whatever offered

945
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 1: it no forgiveness, oh wait, offered no forgiveness, just no

946
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: longer had any interest in beating her ass every time

947
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: I saw her. We weren't friends, we ain't hangout. Just

948
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 1: wasn't no beat got it. Four years passed and she

949
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,760
Speaker 1: randomly hit me asking me to attend her baby shower.

950
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: The week before I stopped by and dropped off gifts.

951
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: That was the end in my mind, but no. Shortly

952
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 1: after she made this heartfelt request that I beat her

953
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 1: child's godmother again. We haven't been friends in years. Shit

954
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: was wild eyed. I know she has no friends, so

955
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: I believe this came from a place of desperation. But

956
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 1: like I said, but still like what never agreed? But

957
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 1: she started telling everyone I was that's a lot of

958
00:47:55,840 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 1: responsibility to be somebody's godmother without like actually accepting. Okay,

959
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: so she said she never agreed. Here's where it gets tricky.

960
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,439
Speaker 1: My best friend and I lost touch for about two years,

961
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 1: but recently reconnected. We have been reminiscing about our younger days.

962
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 1: He spilled the beans that all those years ago, Sarah

963
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 1: was fucking Jeff Well. Actually, Sarah would regularly stop by

964
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 1: to give Jeff weed money, letting him use her car, etc.

965
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: In exchange for sucking his deck when I bought it

966
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: to his attention. I never knew this shit. His response was,

967
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 1: what I thought, that's why you fought her. I swear

968
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,280
Speaker 1: on everything I never knew. I fought her because don't

969
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 1: call yourself my friend and run and tell my private

970
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 1: personal business to nobody, and damn sure, don't lie on

971
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: my name. I'm a tourist. Loyalty is everything to me

972
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 1: now you know. See I'm a tourist too, so I

973
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is a good story. It is.

974
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 1: It's like a decade later, but that info was all

975
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: I needed for it to click. That the reason she

976
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,319
Speaker 1: went to tell him was because she was fucking him too.

977
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 1: He probably got it from her and now she needs

978
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: her ass. Bean said to my best friend, says it's

979
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,879
Speaker 1: in the past. We already made up, and she calling

980
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: me her child godmother just charged it to the game.

981
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:10,720
Speaker 1: Other friends saying, just block her and move on. But sisters,

982
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: I want to drag this beach. Yes, it was a

983
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 1: decade ago, and know neither one of us is with

984
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: that nigga, but it's the principal thoughts, sincerely, a bitch

985
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: who wants to bring these hands out of retireing. Okay,

986
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: let me go first, because I'm a toris so number one.

987
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:31,280
Speaker 1: I understand completely how you feel because we fucking hauled grudges.

988
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 1: Well it's not that we haul grudges. We seek revenge

989
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 1: and that's not necessarily always a good thing. But I see,

990
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 1: but I feel that's fine. But I mean, at the

991
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: end of the day, you got certain things about it. No,

992
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm just saying revenge is never a good shit. It's not.

993
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying that's how Taurisies are. Anybody that

994
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: knows tauruses knows we all are like that. It's like

995
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: somebody can do some shit to you, and you await

996
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 1: and plot for the perfect time to get back at them,

997
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: And so I just feel like it was a decade ago,

998
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: but I can understand why you still feel how you

999
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: feel about the sheet. But I don't think that you

1000
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 1: should whoop the girl ass. I do think that you

1001
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 1: should let by guns be by guns. She done moved on,

1002
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: she done had a baby with a new nigga. She

1003
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 1: not with Jeff no more. You not with Jeff no more.

1004
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: I just feel like, just cut the bit, child, don't

1005
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 1: fuck with her. I don't even think y'all should be

1006
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: friends anymore, because it's like, if she already did some

1007
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 1: house sheet in the past, what makes you think that

1008
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 1: she wouldn't do some house sheet to you again in

1009
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: the future. But beating her ass for some sheet that

1010
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 1: happened ten years ago because you think that she allegedly

1011
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: might be the person who gave him the STD and

1012
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: he gave it to you. I think that's some child

1013
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: did she? You just need to let that go and

1014
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: remove that beach oshyall life, you wanner. She shouldn't have

1015
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 1: never let her back in your life after I don't

1016
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 1: even know why you dropped the gifts off. Girl. Yeah,

1017
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: I don't know why you came. I'll say this. I

1018
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 1: know that was very big of you to drop off

1019
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: the gifts and go to her, you know, baby shower.

1020
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: That was very sweet of you. But I agree with Dreya.

1021
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: It just seems like she's a toxic, bad person and

1022
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 1: he always has motives. I don't like people who have

1023
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 1: motives and I don't trust them. So her coming over

1024
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: to your house all the time was just probably just

1025
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 1: to see what you was doing and to listen in

1026
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 1: on you and Jeff conversations because she wants because she

1027
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 1: or she was fucking him. Well how after they started

1028
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: fucking with they started fucking it don't matter. She was

1029
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: over there getting some tea and getting some information that

1030
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: she needed. That's why she was over at your house.

1031
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: So I feel like, yeah, it was ten years ago,

1032
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,439
Speaker 1: it definitely needs to be let go. You're a better

1033
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:33,359
Speaker 1: person now. Think about who you are ten years ago,

1034
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 1: and I hope you're not that same person, because I

1035
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: know I'm not the same person I want I was

1036
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 1: ten years ago. I feel like life is always about

1037
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: progression and becoming a better person. So I think you

1038
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: just need to cut all the situation off and let

1039
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: it go. Don't let it be heavy on your heart,

1040
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:50,320
Speaker 1: like it's not good to dwell on things and to

1041
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 1: seek revenge all on that because that she can take

1042
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 1: over you. It really can, and it can consume you.

1043
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,280
Speaker 1: So it's like stuff like that I really believe should

1044
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: just be left in the past. Like I get it.

1045
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: I can understand your frustration and you being mad, but

1046
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 1: it's very important that you just don't let that stuff

1047
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 1: harbor in you because that's when people that are not

1048
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: good people have control over you. The worst thing you

1049
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: can do is give somebody the power to control your emotions,

1050
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 1: because guess what if you don't let this shit go.

1051
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: Every time you see Jeff or Sarah, they have the

1052
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: control over you to make you upset. Yeh. If you're

1053
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 1: out in the club having a good time, them motherfuckers

1054
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,839
Speaker 1: can walk in and ruin your whole fucking night. Don't

1055
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: give anybody that power over you. So let that shit

1056
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 1: go and heal and just move on with your life, sister.

1057
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 1: But I do understand. Yeah that's easy. I mean, I understand,

1058
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: but like I said, it's easier said than done. But

1059
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 1: the best thing for you to do is, like I said,

1060
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: let that go, because when somebody has control over your emotions,

1061
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 1: they have control over you. And you don't want to

1062
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: do nothing stupid or you know people, if you fight

1063
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: somebody and somebody press the charges, bitch, you can go

1064
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 1: to jail. We're adults now, we got ship to lose,

1065
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: we have ship to live for. So ten years ago,

1066
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: when we were younger, you know, shit was a little easier.

1067
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 1: But now we're all adults, and you know, you have

1068
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: to think about yourself and your future, and you know,

1069
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 1: I just feel like you probably have better things you

1070
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: could be doing with your time than fighting a whack

1071
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: ass bitch that's not even on your level. Because obviously

1072
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:19,919
Speaker 1: you listen to the show, so you a bad bitch,

1073
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 1: because all the listeners are bad bitches, and they some

1074
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 1: poor girls. So I know you a bad bitch living

1075
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: your life out here. So I know you just have

1076
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 1: better things that you could be doing with your time

1077
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,959
Speaker 1: that worried about some people that's not even on your level. Yeah,

1078
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 1: I agree with your best friend. I think you should

1079
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 1: just let it go and cut that whole off, like

1080
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: not know not your other friends talking about all. Just

1081
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: move on from me because you're all been cool Like,

1082
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: no fluck that beach, don't be cool with. Just cut

1083
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: that whole out because you should have stopped being friendshood

1084
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 1: the first time, should have never got been cool with.

1085
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:56,879
Speaker 1: I agree with her already when she told that nigga

1086
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: yr business before you got the chance to tell us.

1087
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: And then obviously she's a lame bitch, Like who begs

1088
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 1: the bitch to be their god their child's godmother, y'all

1089
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 1: not even friends, she's obviously lame as fuck. So yes,

1090
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: she's not on your level. Sincerely, the bitch that wants

1091
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 1: to bring the hands out of retirement, so keep them

1092
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: hands in retire. You got no, no, don't look, don't

1093
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: call Drea, and definitely don't call broke ast Legs cause

1094
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: I ain't got ship for your queen. Okay. So, and

1095
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 1: so we're gonna go back to the old way of

1096
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: doing item of the week. So if anybody out there

1097
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: has brands or something that you want us to try

1098
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: or advertise on the show, make sure to email us

1099
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,840
Speaker 1: at Drea and Let's Show at gmail dot com. So

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00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 1: my item of this week is the Disney Plus app.

1101
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 1: Disney Plus is the app basically they have all the

1102
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 1: Pixar movies on there, all the Marvel movies on there.

1103
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 1: And honestly, I will really give the app. I'm a

1104
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: Netflix girl, so Netflix is like nine out of ten

1105
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 1: for me. I will give Disney Plus like a six seven.

1106
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:11,799
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a good app to have if

1107
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 1: you have kids. For the adult meme, it really doesn't

1108
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: satisfy my needs, but I know we have a lot

1109
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 1: of listeners that have kids, so if you have kids,

1110
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,800
Speaker 1: Disney Plus is definitely for you. Now, I do like

1111
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 1: animated movies, so it has all the Aladdins, the Beauty

1112
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 1: and the Beast, the Cocos you know. Now you know

1113
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 1: I love Coco. But Netflix got Coco, so I'm not

1114
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: really tripping. But I went to look for a Lificent

1115
00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: and I love because I love when they bring the

1116
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: movies to real life, like Alis in Wonderland, Like I

1117
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 1: love those movies, and they didn't even have Malificent on there.

1118
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 1: Guess when they said it was gonna be available October one,

1119
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 1: twenty twenty. Why would y'all even like that's that's a

1120
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: long time, that's a year. I want to see my

1121
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:56,319
Speaker 1: listener my lificent right now, so like to download. Yeah, girl,

1122
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 1: I went to my ghetto site and I watched it.

1123
00:55:57,920 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 1: You know, I got my little ghetto site. I'll be

1124
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:00,839
Speaker 1: watching my shit. You don't have to see me your

1125
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 1: password because I ain't paying for this for Disney Plus.

1126
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: I got you, girl, I got you. So Yeah, I

1127
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: like Disney Plus. Like I said, it's a lot of

1128
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: I watched Sleeping Beauty the other day. Yeah, because, like

1129
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 1: I said, people, if you know me, y'all know I

1130
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 1: love watching animated movies. Like that's just my shit. So

1131
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: I feel like if you have kids, or you're just

1132
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 1: a person that likes to visit in the nostalgic world

1133
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 1: every now and then, yes, you can definitely down on

1134
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 1: Disney Plus. Somebody had posted a movie the other day

1135
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,879
Speaker 1: that they was watching on their fuck and I can't

1136
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:31,919
Speaker 1: remember what it was called, but it was that movie

1137
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 1: about that little boy and he was like on the

1138
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:38,440
Speaker 1: ring who It was like a Disney movie with this

1139
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 1: little boy and he was like on the room. He

1140
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 1: was a badass little boy. He was rich, the dame

1141
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 1: of the movie the person post. I was like, oh

1142
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:50,799
Speaker 1: my god, this movie was so good. I forgot all

1143
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: about this. It was a cartoon girl, a real life movie.

1144
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,800
Speaker 1: Oh I don't remember. Okay, So shout out to Disney,

1145
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 1: plus shout out to all of the listeners. Oh, I said,

1146
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 1: I was in the closer with song, just something real quick.

1147
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: Oh oh, I think I better let it go, Let

1148
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:12,840
Speaker 1: it go. It's the football bay. He was like another world,

1149
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: another LOLd t k oh oh I did, I'm hurting

1150
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: you know why because that was a sound of tears

1151
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 1: looking out. Oh lord, was he a change me that

1152
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 1: I tried and try I tried whoa oh man, Oh

1153
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: my god. I wish I had some leakuor to pour

1154
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: out for football band. Damn football bab. I think gonna

1155
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: need to let it go. Let you see dragon, I'm

1156
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 1: trying to be your back cross. He was like another

1157
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 1: jig oh oh oh, thank y'all so much. And next

1158
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: week and next week, I want to talk about a

1159
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 1: topic next week that has just been It's just been

1160
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: going on my timeline a lot, and I feel like

1161
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:14,880
Speaker 1: we need to address it. The poor girls and the

1162
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 1: poor boys and the poor mind girls. We need to

1163
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:19,920
Speaker 1: talk about it, so I want to. Yeah, so I'm here.

1164
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: So next week, make sure y'all tune in because we're

1165
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: gonna be talking about fat phobia and you know how

1166
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 1: people are, how people treat fat people and bigger people

1167
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 1: like that coming from you know, I was never a fat,

1168
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 1: fat girl, but I was a big, big girl, you know,

1169
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: at one point. So I definitely want to touch on

1170
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 1: this topic next week, So make sure y'all tune in

1171
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: next week for that. Thank you for tuning in today,

1172
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: and we'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all, Bye,