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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Tyler is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named

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Speaker 2: Jessa who he went on a date with. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see chat tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first let's find out what happened on the date. Tyler,

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Speaker 2: what's up man? How long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Jessa?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's been about a week and have not

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Speaker 3: heard anything from her at all?

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Speaker 4: Have you tried? How many times have you reached out

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Speaker 4: to her?

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Speaker 3: Not too much? You don't want to be like aggressively late.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I agree. I just was checking to see

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Speaker 4: where you did.

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Speaker 3: A double text is all I did, you know? Okay,

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Speaker 3: texted a the night after and then I text a

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Speaker 3: couple of days later.

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Speaker 1: That's really all I've done.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I don't want I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Pus. Sure, it was fun. We had a great time,

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Speaker 3: went out to dinner at and then ended up going

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Speaker 3: to a second location, which is always a good you know,

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Speaker 3: good sign you go to a second location that's a drinks.

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Speaker 3: I went really well. We just wad a lot of

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Speaker 3: great conversation. I was, you know, I paid for everything.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to make sure she never had didn't have

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Speaker 3: to worry about it. But I also made clear there

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Speaker 3: was no obligations. I was just there enjoying my time

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Speaker 3: was just really happy with the whole day. Like she

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Speaker 3: was fantastic.

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Speaker 4: So what do you think happened?

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Speaker 3: Then?

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Speaker 4: Why do you think she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I don't I honestly, I honestly don't know. The conversation

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Speaker 3: never lagged. It never she never felt like it never

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Speaker 3: seemed to me like there's any issue I was. I

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Speaker 3: was a little sweaty, I dressed up and we went

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Speaker 3: out somewhere nice. Maybe I don't know, if I don't

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Speaker 3: feel like hope it wasn't that that seems kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: I did pay for everything. It was expensive, so it

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Speaker 3: was like super pricey, So maybe that was too much.

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Speaker 3: I am worried that I put on like too much

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Speaker 3: of an effort, but I really liked her, and I

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Speaker 3: I wanted to make the effort because she seemed worth it.

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Speaker 4: That's sweet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really not sure. I like, I know that

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Speaker 3: sometimes if you put too much money into it the

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Speaker 3: first day, like, it can turn somebody off. So I

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Speaker 3: am a little worried that might be it. But it's

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Speaker 3: it's so hard to tell because I really and in

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Speaker 3: the night, you know, it went really well. Like I said,

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Speaker 3: we had some drinks and then afterwards we just walked

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Speaker 3: her uber and they was really nice out and she

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Speaker 3: looked really beautiful and I asked her if I could

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Speaker 3: give her a kiss and she said yes. So it

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Speaker 3: was just a very nice, you know, nice kiss, right

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Speaker 3: and you know, nothing like aggressive. And then she d

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Speaker 3: in her car and I text her and you know,

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Speaker 3: and said I had a great time, and then have

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Speaker 4: So did you guys kiss on the lips?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I was just a little one though, Like what

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Speaker 3: do you call a church kiss? Like a church weddy kiss?

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Speaker 4: Ye, I was trying to be.

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Speaker 3: Very respectful, you know, and I you know, it's a

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Speaker 3: grandma kiss.

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Speaker 5: Well did it seem like she was really into you? Like,

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Speaker 5: did you guys talk about seeing each other again at the.

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Speaker 3: End, Well, we did, and she seemed amenable to it,

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Speaker 3: and like we talked back and forth, Like I mean,

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Speaker 3: I always didn't want to talk about myself much, so

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Speaker 3: I asked her a lot of questions about herself, and

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Speaker 3: she was very engaging, and like we we told some

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Speaker 3: this is why if it was a bad day, I

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Speaker 3: can see the ghost I mean, you understand, it happens.

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Speaker 3: But this was a really good one and I was

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Speaker 3: kind of really invested. Like I said, I'm really busy

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Speaker 3: who knows when the next person might be around that's

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Speaker 3: worth my time. So it's really kind of sad that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, did she say anything about wanting another date with you?

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Speaker 3: She seemed to like I said we should do this again,

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Speaker 3: and she seemed yes, of course, let's do the day.

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Speaker 3: There was not any she didn't shut down, and I

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Speaker 3: mean we didn't make actual plans, but you know, she

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Speaker 3: seemed to be like, Okay, yeah, that sounds great.

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Speaker 4: Tyler. When you said earlier that you were sweaty, Like

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Speaker 4: how sweaty?

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Speaker 3: We're not talking like you know, buckets, but I mean

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Speaker 3: it was, it was kind of sweaty. It just you know,

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Speaker 3: I think I overdressed a little bit from the weather,

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Speaker 3: and the restaurant had a keat on. So yeah, just

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Speaker 3: a little bit of you know, forehead sweat. But I'm

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Speaker 3: I was probably more subconscious than anyone.

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Speaker 2: All Right, Well, we'll play a song come back, and

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Speaker 2: then call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting you and maybe get to another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that'd be fantastic, all right, Plus I'll come.

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Speaker 2: Back get your first day follow up next if you're

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Speaker 2: just joining us for today's first Day follow up. Tyler

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Speaker 2: is on the phone, and Tyler is getting ghosted by Jessa.

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Speaker 2: It's been about a week now and he hasn't heard

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Speaker 2: from her. So in a few minutes we're gonna call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: and maybe get him another date. But first, Tyler, why

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Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your situation with Jessa.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Jess and I went out on our first day

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Speaker 3: to uh. It was a really nice, nice time, really

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Speaker 3: kind of expensive restaurant. They went off for drinks afterwards.

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Speaker 3: I paid for everything, and then we really got along. Well,

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Speaker 3: I kissed you goodbye and haven't heard from her since.

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of worried. Maybe because I paid so much

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Speaker 4: All right, well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 4: All right, here we go. Hello, I may I speak

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Speaker 4: to Jessa? Please?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jessa, how are you? My name is Jewbell, and

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Speaker 2: I host a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Jessa,

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Speaker 2: I'm mean also on the show, Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, a lot of you.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what's up? How are you doing today?

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Speaker 1: I'm okay, what what's going on?

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Speaker 4: We do a segment on the show it's called the

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Speaker 4: first Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: somebody and then you ghost them, that person can ask

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, I mean I am on a dating app, so.

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Speaker 4: This could be going a couple of times. All right, Okay,

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Speaker 4: wait to put yourself out there.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you who it is. Okay, Okay, his

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Speaker 2: name is Tyler.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's a recent one. Okay, because this thing

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Speaker 1: does happen to me where somebody will ghost me for

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Speaker 1: like months. I just had a guy reach out to me,

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Speaker 1: went on one date ten months ago. He stopped talking

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Speaker 1: to me and then was like, you're gonna so okay, no,

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Speaker 1: this is very recent. Okay, I'm with you, Tyler.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been a week since he talked to him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah is that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean honestly, like the date, like there was nothing

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Speaker 1: It kind of feels like maybe our our lives aren't

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Speaker 1: going to match up like he did seem really tired

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Speaker 1: on the date, and I think he's just like super busy.

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Speaker 1: He might be like a workaholic, and I just didn't

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Speaker 1: I just kind of was like, we'll just cut it loosen.

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Speaker 1: One date, so like, you know, it's easier to ghost

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Speaker 1: people than to like be like your life isn't you

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Speaker 1: just it just didn't feel like it was gonna work out.

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Speaker 1: He works like all the time, Like I feel like

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Speaker 1: even going on this date with me, it was like

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's really it.

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Speaker 1: Like it's nothing crazy like it was. Wasn't like oh god,

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Speaker 1: he you know didn't tip or you know that's a

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Speaker 2: But like, okay, well, it just it just like didn't.

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Speaker 1: Feel like it was going to work out, like I

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Speaker 1: really I want, like I'm looking for that like fairytale romance,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I did post him.

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Speaker 4: What's that? Like? What's that saying?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 5: People will always make time for what it is that

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It just kind of feels like maybe it was a

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Speaker 5: to just slow down, like he needs to slow down.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like he needs to slow down

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Speaker 1: to me, and I get it, like I work a

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Speaker 1: lot too, But yeah, I don't know. I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: really it, Like maybe that's not a good enough reason

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Speaker 1: to go somebody. But like when you're on the ass,

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Speaker 1: it's such a like I don't know if we can curse.

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Speaker 3: But it's such like a show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta sometimes just get in and out and

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Speaker 1: move on, because you know, you wait ten months and

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Speaker 1: he might hit you up again anyway.

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Speaker 5: I mean, who are we to tell you why you

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Speaker 5: should or shouldn't got people?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean he didn't even wait ten months. He

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Speaker 4: waited a week. He waited a week.

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Speaker 3: We're still in the statute of limitations.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for being honest with us, appreciate that. Yeah, sure,

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Speaker 2: I should let you know that he's actually on the

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Speaker 2: phone too. Tyler is on the phone listening and wants.

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Speaker 4: To talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Oh am, I in trouble now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, no, you know what Okay, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 4: oh hey Tyler.

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Speaker 3: So how's it going. Well? You know, I think you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a little awkward now.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm sorry about that. But you know, I do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you think you're going to be able to

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Speaker 3: Maybe a little bit somebody who's willing to be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I didn't know that. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I answered the phone this time.

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Speaker 3: Me too, Me too. And so you have all the

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Speaker 1: You know what, actually this is, this is going well,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you'll go on another date with Tyler. We'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, even better?

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Speaker 4: Sure so Tyler doesn't have a problem spending money.

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Speaker 1: But I love Congratulations Tyler, you got another date.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much. I'm glad.

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Speaker 4: Okay, great, well, I'm so excited, just so.

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Speaker 3: Thank you man. I probab this next time I will

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Speaker 3: be like so sweaty?

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Speaker 4: What so sweaty?

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Speaker 3: What did I miss them?

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, okay, I'll let it go.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about it.

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Speaker 4: First date follow up