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Speaker 1: Yoji Kat and siss it here on Elle's number one

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Speaker 1: at music stations one of two point seven Kiss FM, right.

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Speaker 2: In Seacrest and siciny with you.

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Speaker 1: I got freak gas coming up in a second, and

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Speaker 1: I think there's a birthday being planned.

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Speaker 2: Correct.

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Speaker 3: Oh, yes, a little belated birthday because it was technically

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Speaker 3: on the seventeenth, so we had to wait until this weekend,

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Speaker 3: which I'm glad we did because of tropical Storm Hillary.

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Speaker 1: Right, all worked out, didn't it all worked out? This

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Speaker 1: is for a second birthday.

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Speaker 3: Yes, savea's second birthday.

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Speaker 1: All right, So we'll get into birthday planning. If you

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Speaker 1: know how to plan a second birthday, please reach out

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Speaker 1: to us.

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Speaker 2: Seven Tanya, It's all you.

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Speaker 4: Jennifer Ansten did a new magazine cover story and she

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Speaker 4: got pretty candid in this. She talked about how her parents'

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Speaker 4: relationship dynamic really impacted her, not in a great way.

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Speaker 4: She said, watching my family's relationship didn't it make me

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Speaker 4: kind of go oh, I can't wait to do that.

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Speaker 4: But this is what really struck me the most when

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Speaker 4: she said this, it's just about not being afraid to

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Speaker 4: say what you need and what you want. And it's

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Speaker 4: still a challenge for me in a relationship. I'm really

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Speaker 4: good at every other job I have, and that's sort

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Speaker 4: of the one area that's a little ever. Anyways, I

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Speaker 4: laugh because I feel like, for me, it's the flip side.

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Speaker 4: I'm really good in my relationship of saying what I

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Speaker 4: need and what I want being communicative in my relationship,

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Speaker 4: and I'm horrible at doing it in my job. And

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Speaker 4: Jennifer Anison is the vice versa, and I'm like, I

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Speaker 4: wonder if people can be good at that in both

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Speaker 4: areas of their lives. And so I was interested if

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Speaker 4: you guys feel the same way.

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Speaker 2: Is siciny?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think it just depends on the person.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like for me, I feel like I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm mid. I feel like I could probably speak up

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Speaker 3: a little bit more in both, but I'm content that

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Speaker 3: makes sense, and I feel like I have pushed in

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Speaker 3: both areas. So whenever I was feeling.

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Speaker 2: Complacency, because you can do it, I.

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Speaker 3: Guess whenever I'm feeling place and I feel like this

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Speaker 3: doesn't feel right, I deserve this or I need to

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Speaker 3: push for that, then I do.

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Speaker 2: So. Yeah, I can only do one. I cannot do

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Speaker 2: the other isn't that interesting. I can do. Which one

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Speaker 2: work better than relationship? I can't do. I'm not good

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Speaker 2: at the relationship part.

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Speaker 3: If I had to pick one, it's probably work because

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Speaker 3: when it comes to relationship, Michael's always the one that's like,

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Speaker 3: let's talk it out, and I'm more like, who cares,

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Speaker 3: let's just not talk about it.

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Speaker 2: That sound that sounds like me. Yeah, it's very fascinating

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Speaker 2: to sit back.

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Speaker 1: And go, okay, so you can really deliberately think of

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Speaker 1: one and focus on one and actually be productive doing

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Speaker 1: that moving forward with me at work. But then if

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Speaker 1: I were to in my relationship or relationships in the past,

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Speaker 1: I find it. I just I don't know. I get

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Speaker 1: I'm not trained. Well right, right, I'm not trained.

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Speaker 3: Well, don't you pick up a little bit from all

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Speaker 3: previous relationships? Like that worked? That did, so let's not

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Speaker 3: repeat that in the next one.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I think patients and compromise and like all the.

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Speaker 2: Subcategories of those things. Yes, and understanding. It definitely gets better,

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Speaker 2: But I still, you know, could do better.

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Speaker 4: Work in progress. It was therapy for me. I would

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Speaker 4: I also thought like my significant other could read my mind,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, I need to speak and

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Speaker 4: say what I need and what I want.

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Speaker 2: They could, What would they be reading right now?

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Speaker 3: That's an interest.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think he knows what he'd be reading.

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Speaker 2: Actually, all right, I got free gas coming up next

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Speaker 2: for you. Hang on, this is kiss