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Speaker 1: Second date, up date when your date plans change at

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Speaker 1: the very last second, not by your choice, but because

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Speaker 1: That doesn't happen. What's your mood?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: How do you respond? You could instantly give up right

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Speaker 1: there and say no, I'm not doing this. I'll FaceTime

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Speaker 1: you from my bubble bath, but I don't pivot on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, be flexible, Jeb, spontaneous.

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Speaker 1: That is the other option. Shake it up, do something new.

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Speaker 1: And apparently that's what one of our listeners, Sierra, had

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Speaker 1: to do recently on her date, and I'm curious what

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Speaker 1: that looked like. So Sierra, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 2: You sound like go with a flow type of person.

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Speaker 1: Sound like a lady. That's good. Sorry to hear that

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Speaker 1: your date plans crash, but tell us what happened.

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Speaker 4: So I met this guy, Ashwyn on a dating app.

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Speaker 2: Oh, he sounds fancy and rich. His name is Ashwyn.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to spell that.

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Speaker 4: Yes, not gonna lie. The name intrigued me. But what

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Speaker 4: I really liked the most was he was funny, which

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Speaker 4: was kind of saucy, but not disrespectful, you know what

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Speaker 1: A little bit but like totally joking. Yes, like talking

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Speaker 2: Yes, Oh, it's like he's not an old man.

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Speaker 1: He's flirty. His name is Ashwyn.

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Speaker 2: He sounds like, Okay, you got us there, Jeff, but

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Speaker 2: the rest lost us.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well we all have different images of what Ashwyn is.

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Speaker 1: But what was the plan for the date?

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, I'm happy to say that wasn't my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a rooftop bar. That's like not cool.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why, you know, like you put him

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, so you sound like you're excited to get

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 4: I was so excited. I love this kind of thing.

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Speaker 4: And he seemed exactly like his profile. He was super cute,

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Speaker 4: for like some kind of a cryptocurrency event.

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Speaker 1: God crypto thing, Yeah, I know people who could afford

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Speaker 2: I just picture a bunch of dudes with receding hairlines.

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Speaker 1: you're turning a Lexus on to Oh no, but that's

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Speaker 1: what a bummer. Your whole playing for the night just

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it was really disappointing, and I could

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Speaker 4: So I just said, screw it, let's take a walk.

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Speaker 4: But that's what makes the price taste so good.

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Speaker 2: It was that awesome. That's such a good sign for anyone.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and after our plans fell through, you know, like

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Speaker 4: Well? Okay, so one thing led to another. He kissed

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Speaker 1: Really post chili cheese fries. You guys went.

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Speaker 3: Hey.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you, I felt very comfortable with him, and

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Speaker 2: But what did he say? Was he there when you

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Speaker 4: Yeah? No, he was just his sweet, playful selfie give

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Speaker 2: Okay, so it wasn't even awkward the next morning, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It makes me wonder if it was like one of

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Speaker 2: He doesn't sound like a guy that is like that, though, Jeff,

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Speaker 2: this sounds like they never charger until It sounds like

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Speaker 2: If he just wanted to get in her pants and

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Speaker 1: It sounds exactly like what they did.

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Speaker 2: Oh, they would do a die. They talked for hours,

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Speaker 1: Maybe he knew that crypto event was happening and this

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Speaker 1: Let's go back to my class.

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Speaker 2: You are so cynical against men right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just telling you this. I've heard guys do

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Speaker 2: I know, I still want to thank for the best, Jeff,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, you can be naive if you want,

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Speaker 1: to say. With your second date update right after this

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Speaker 1: up by a pod of crypto bros. Every single week

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Speaker 1: we deal with this because our listener Sierra was supposed

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Speaker 1: whatever they like to talk about. Look at these candlesticks popping.

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Speaker 1: I've done a little training. You don't even know what

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Speaker 2: No wonder, I don't enjoy any of it.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Sierra and Ashwin didn't let that kill

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Speaker 2: Sounds so sweet, it did.

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Speaker 1: Until Ashwyn is suddenly not calling her back.

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Speaker 2: Dude, he kissed her on the nose for goodness sake, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: Is there another way to read that?

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Speaker 2: See? Yeah, it's so sweet. And you've reached out to him,

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Speaker 4: This was what was so weird. We texted a little

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Speaker 1: Even through texts. Yeah, yeah, I feel ery shift for sure.

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Speaker 2: I hope it's one of those where he's just scared

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Speaker 1: It's not stupid, but sometimes, like you had said, I

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Speaker 1: Be in that space. I don't know. We'll see which

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're praying for a Disney ending, getting.

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Speaker 2: Her another nose kiss, jeff.

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Speaker 1: What a promise. So here we go. Hello, Hey is

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Speaker 1: this Ashwin?

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Speaker 1: Hey, man, thanks for answering. You're on a radio show

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Speaker 1: right now. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning, Welcome to the show. Ashwin. Hi, it

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Speaker 1: I hope you have a second to talk to us,

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Speaker 3: Sure this is weird, Okay, yeah.

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Speaker 1: You give him a lot of credit. So the reason

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you mean.

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Speaker 1: He lost a nice So here's the thing, Sierra. We

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Speaker 1: It sounded pretty good. Despite all the obstacles that came up.

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Speaker 1: Would you agree with that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, we we did. It was probably one of

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Speaker 1: What heck bro where we're here waiting to find like

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Speaker 3: It's just kind of embarrassing for you or for Sierra.

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Speaker 3: For me.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, if it's too much to share.

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Speaker 1: You should do it anyway, because I don't want to

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Speaker 3: We have this amazing, amazing night. And she told me

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Speaker 1: Weird question.

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Speaker 2: A joke, Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was not a joke because I asked her to clarify.

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Speaker 3: I said, what do you mean? And she said, well,

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you've been with X amount of people.

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Speaker 2: Kind of a rude assumption, an assumption person, but you

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Speaker 2: know what, or it's a testament to your experience that yeah,

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Speaker 2: you could take it as a compliment.

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Speaker 1: What did you mean? Did you actually rank her?

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Speaker 5: God?

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Speaker 3: No, Well, I told her that I'm not sure how

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Speaker 3: to answer that. It's good, and eventually I said top

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Speaker 3: three for sure.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's cute. That's answer.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what am I take? Top three? That's great?

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Speaker 1: And you don't want to say number one because then

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Speaker 2: It if you say number one.

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Speaker 3: But then I told her, since I answered this for you,

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Speaker 1: Why would you do that?

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Speaker 3: You about that?

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Speaker 1: She asked it to him? Oh god, what did she say?

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Speaker 3: She said, you're definitely in my top five.

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Speaker 1: Okay, not that she a little bit lower than what you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it gets worse. I asked her out of how many? No,

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Speaker 3: and she said maybe five.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, so you're in the top one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: That changed everything for you soon, because it just changed

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Speaker 1: What did you assume?

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Speaker 3: It just kind of felt it felt a little humiliating.

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Speaker 2: Did you tell did you laugh? Or did you say? Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's rude.

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Speaker 3: I didn't really know what to say because I already

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Speaker 3: felt so vulnerable. You know, we're in my bed, naked

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Speaker 3: and we've been together.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's like getting a participation trophy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, you know, maybe maybe there was some sort

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Speaker 1: And I'll give her a chance to explain herself right here,

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Speaker 1: because I need to let you know. Sierra is on

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Speaker 1: the other line of this call listening, wanting to talk

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Speaker 1: to you.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, she's the one that should be embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: Hi, please tell us. Five is like the number one ring,

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Speaker 1: like it's the best.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you were going backwards.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, She's like, I can't trying to say you.

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Speaker 4: I feel so bad. First of all, Ashwin, I'm so

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Speaker 4: so sorry. I can't believe I made you feel that way,

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Speaker 4: and you've been feeling that way this whole time.

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Speaker 1: Does that feel good as knowledge she did something wrong? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, thank you?

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Speaker 4: I mean you're still top five, Okay, if I if

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Speaker 4: I explain.

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Speaker 1: A little bit, yes, go into details about what.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you know what men that can take constructive.

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Speaker 1: Through four half one thing he could do better. Let's

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Speaker 3: And for some reason I didn't do enough fourth place stuff.

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Speaker 3: I am I'm open to.

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Speaker 1: Do.

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Speaker 2: Not interrupt that statement, Jeffrey, not enough men make it.

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Speaker 2: You should assume you didn't.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, you know, actually, maybe we shouldn't be asking

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Speaker 1: what he could change. Maybe it's better to ask you, Sierra,

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Speaker 1: why you said that to him?

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Speaker 4: Yes, when I said, oh, you're definitely in the top

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Speaker 4: five of five, I was trying to be playful. I

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Speaker 4: was trying to make a joke. I was trying to

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Speaker 4: be kind of saer ding. Yes, I was kidding enough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a joke.

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Speaker 2: Good after sound button or something we could have hit there.

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Speaker 4: He definitely top four for sure.

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Speaker 2: I think it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: It's better. Ye, you have to do anything that was great?

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Speaker 3: Can we can we please stop talking about one number

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Speaker 3: i'm ranking.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm so sorry. I'm just so embarrassed. I was

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Speaker 4: trying to make a joke.

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Speaker 5: You definitely have said your apology I think gets the

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Speaker 5: idea that you didn't mean it, but we mean this

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Speaker 5: when we say we'd like to send you out on

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Speaker 5: another date, the two of you, Ashwyn, if you're willing

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Speaker 5: to give her one more chance, we would don't let your.

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Speaker 2: Pride stand in the way of this one Ashwin.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. No, her explanation definitely definitely makes me feel better

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Speaker 3: and embarrassed that I can't take jokes about bedtime. But yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: I definitely would be interested in another date.

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Speaker 1: All right, so congratulate relations. That means Sierra, you got

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Speaker 1: what you came for another date.

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Speaker 4: With Thank you so so, so so much.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel like we just had two

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Speaker 2: listeners who own their own mistakes, which was just wild

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Speaker 2: on this show. Yeah, it never happens to be really

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. Can we all agree? Where do

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Speaker 1: I rank? Is a question that should not come up

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Speaker 1: until at least date number three.

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Speaker 2: Let them tell you you just don't ever you never.

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Speaker 1: You've never had that conversation with your husband.

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Speaker 2: God no, why would you have that conversation?

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Speaker 3: You just let someone tell you that was the best,

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Speaker 3: that was great, or you just.

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Speaker 1: Don't bring it up.

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Speaker 2: Conversations have it's a funny joke was actually really good.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she really was joking, but it

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Speaker 1: was the right thing to say in that moment.

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Speaker 2: Well, finally, finally, the right thing to say exactly.

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Speaker 1: And I fully expect to hear from both of them

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Speaker 1: when we do an update day. I think, yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: hopefully by then he's climbed the rankings into her top three.

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Speaker 1: But what she hasn't added like ten.

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Speaker 2: More n we know what type of relationship they're going

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Speaker 2: to be, right, That's also true.

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Speaker 1: I can't say we are open to our listeners ranking

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Speaker 1: us on our podcast. I hope we're in the top five,

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Speaker 1: top ten, we'll take top thirty. Even as long as

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Speaker 1: we're ahead of JLD, than we are a big win

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Speaker 1: in our books. You just lie and say we don't

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Speaker 1: even have a list Yeah, we're this before go and

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Speaker 1: find us wherever you get your podcast. We're up Abro

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey