1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:02,559 Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace. 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 2: A bloody Valentine. A husband murders his wife because she 3 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: quote just didn't give a shit about his Paris themed date, 4 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 2: and Nancy Grace, this is crime Stories. 5 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 3: Thank you for being with us. A Valentine's Day dinner 6 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 3: turns deadly and Indiana mother of three young kids is 7 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 3: murdered during a romantic dinner. 8 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 2: Does it sound that romantic to me? He goes to 9 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: Kroger to the Fine Wine aisle, brings home a bottle 10 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 2: of wine and plays their favorite song along with the 11 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 2: kids drawing of the Eiffel Tower? What is she not 12 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 2: supposed to remember the affair he had? Now let me 13 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: understand this is this real? A husband accused of bludgeoning 14 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 2: and stabbing his wife forty times his words, not mine, 15 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: because she didn't give a shot about his Paris themed 16 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 2: night date. 17 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: I think I've got that right, but maybe I'm wrong. Listen. 18 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 4: Jeffersonville, Indiana police get a call about a possible domestic disturbance. 19 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 4: May respond to the upscale sixty six hundred block of 20 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,559 Speaker 4: Westwood Drive, but cannot get into the home. Officers knock 21 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 4: on the front door, but did I hear a response? 22 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 4: And decide force is necessary and breach the door. 23 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get straight to the facts, but first I'm 24 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 1: going to go to doctor. 25 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 2: Bethany Marshall RENOUNCEDSYCHO and was joining us out of the LA. 26 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: Jurisdiction, author of deal Breaker. 27 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 2: You can find her at doctor Bethany MARSHALLMD dot com. Wait, 28 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: that's doctor Bethany Marshall dot com and you can see 29 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 2: her now on Peacock. Doctor Bethany, thank you for being 30 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: with us. Let me understand something. Hobby puts on a 31 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: sad little song, what does he pull it up on 32 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 2: his iPhone of what used to be their favorite song? 33 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 2: Buys a sad little bottle of wine at Kroger and 34 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 2: has his child draw a picture of the Eiffel Tower, 35 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 2: and he's angry that she quote his words, doesn't give 36 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 2: a about his Paris theme night date, so he murders her. 37 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: What is she was? 38 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 2: She supposed to forget about the affair he had and 39 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 2: be just bowled over by a glass of red wine. 40 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 5: If we look at this from a domestic violence perspective, 41 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 5: this husband probably wanted power and control over her, because 42 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 5: that's the m O with DV, and so probably him 43 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,959 Speaker 5: having an affair in the past, making her feel bad 44 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 5: about herself. Probably giving her very little in the marriage 45 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 5: was probably getting her to a point where she wanted 46 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 5: some independence, and the fact that she wanted some independence 47 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 5: destabilized him. So he steps up, does this little Valentine's 48 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 5: Day dinner so he can try to get control over 49 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 5: him again. He's not trying to seduce her, give a 50 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 5: gift or do something nice for her. He wants her 51 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:07,799 Speaker 5: back in the fold. But when she leaves for twenty minutes, 52 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 5: he becomes paranoid, thinks she's out with the boyfriend, and 53 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 5: then he decompensates, and that's when the ragefulness and you know, 54 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 5: he takes the power over her to a whole new level. 55 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 5: When you kill somebody, that's the ultimate power. 56 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 1: Correct. 57 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 2: Let me understand something, doctor Bethany, What does it mean 58 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 2: having not only prosecuted violent felonies for a decade in 59 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 2: intercity Atlanta, but volunteered for nine of those years at 60 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: the Better Women Center on the hotline? How does it 61 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 2: escalate or is that even the right word? To get 62 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 2: that angry because she didn't like your iPhone playing the 63 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: night we met or whatever it was, and giving me 64 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 2: a glass of wine how does that escalate into murder? 65 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 2: Because in my world, bethany years of training makes me 66 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 2: look at the world a different way, such as is 67 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 2: their premeditation? Was this planned? When did he hatch the plot? 68 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 2: What can I prove to a Jerry? What is probative 69 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 2: to me? So the term you use escalate, I don't 70 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 2: know that I agree with that, because that somehow means 71 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: that the situation got out of control and whoops, she's dead. 72 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 2: That's not what happened. 73 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: He had to go get the bottle that he used 74 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: to bludgeon her, stab her. 75 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 2: That took time and a forethought, a technical term we 76 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:39,559 Speaker 2: use in the law. 77 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: It didn't just escalate and whoops, it happened. 78 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 5: Right right, He didn't. In other words, he didn't snap 79 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 5: because people love that word. So I see where you're 80 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 5: going with this, and you're correct. Probably what happened is 81 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 5: at the beginning of the marriage he had tight control 82 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 5: over her, and she wanted to have autonomy over her 83 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 5: whole life, her own life. Maybe she took a college course, 84 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,119 Speaker 5: or started getting friends, or went out and got a job. 85 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:11,799 Speaker 5: And as she became more and more independent, the escalation 86 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 5: was that he became more and more paranoid, insecure. Remember, 87 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 5: he sat on her back and was scrolling through her phone. 88 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 5: He was trying to spy on her through her watch. 89 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 5: So when it escalated in that moment, it wasn't just 90 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 5: like a snap or a sudden escalation. It had been 91 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 5: escalating over years. But the fact is, when she said, Okay, 92 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 5: what are you going to do? 93 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 1: Kill me? 94 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 5: That was one act of independence. When she left and 95 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:42,280 Speaker 5: got in her car and drove away, that was another 96 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 5: act of independence. So I would think that homicide that 97 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 5: was contemplated at an unconscious level, or hatefulness that was 98 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 5: contemplated for months or years, finally finally finally spilled over 99 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 5: when she became her own person. 100 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: Okay, doctor Bethany, and I accept everything that you just said. 101 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: For those of you just joining us, a husband who 102 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 2: is presumed innocent is suspected of bludgeoning and stabbing his 103 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 2: wife dead when she quote his words, not mine when 104 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 2: she quote didn't give a share about his Paris theme party, 105 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 2: so he murders her. On Valentine's Greg Morris Joining Me Guys, 106 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 2: Greg Morse joining us out of Palm Beach, Florida is 107 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 2: a veteran trial lawyer. He's a partner at King Morse. 108 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: Your name should be first, by the way, former West 109 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 2: Palm Beach Public Defender's Office and author of the Untested 110 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 2: on Amazon. Greg, you know what of the many things 111 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 2: that I hate is when people say. 112 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: I snapped, or she snapped, or he snapped. There is 113 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:53,239 Speaker 1: no snap defense under the law. 114 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 2: Okay, So given that, and don't try to convince me otherwise, 115 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: because that's a lie. He would have to in order 116 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 2: to murder her in this manner bludgeoning the Hey, Christina Raya, 117 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 2: I'm coming to you. But how many children. 118 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: Did they have? Two? Or three? 119 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 6: Three children, all under the age of. 120 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: Five, Greg Morse. 121 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 2: The children are at home, by the way, asleep, he 122 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 2: had to think. Under the law, premeditation does not require 123 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: a long period of time, such as I'm going to 124 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 2: poison Greg Morris over the period of the next month, 125 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: where the little r say, every day in his coffee 126 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 2: till he is dead, not required. In fact, the time 127 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 2: required under the law, whether we like it or not, 128 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 2: can be in an instant, the twinkling of the moment, 129 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 2: the blink of an eye, the time it takes me 130 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: to raise this gun and pull the trigger. That is 131 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 2: enough time. Under the law for premeditation. In other words, 132 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 2: murder one malice, murder, murder, A forethought this guy, if 133 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: the allegations are true, husband, how to go and get 134 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 2: the wine bottle, grasp it, raise it over his head 135 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 2: and bludget her over and over and over with the 136 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 2: thick glass of a wine bottle, and then stab her. 137 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 2: The knife to just materialize in his hand. Had to 138 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: get a knife and use it. So long story short, 139 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 2: that is time to form intent. 140 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: You're right. 141 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 7: Intent can come up in the moment. You're one hundred 142 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 7: percent right under the law. But in these type of cases, 143 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 7: when you talk about the phrase snapped, and I've represented 144 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 7: people accused of violent felonies for twenty five years, and 145 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 7: one thing is when the act to commit the violence, 146 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 7: most people don't understand that moment in time and the 147 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 7: consequence and wish they can take. 148 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 6: It all back. 149 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 7: But what we can't do is look at an insanity. 150 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 7: We can't look at the crime. It's violent, it's horrible, 151 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 7: So therefore the person must be insane. That crime is 152 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 7: the outgrowth of insanity. And what I think we have here, 153 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 7: and I've dealt with this before in cases, you probably 154 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 7: have a timeline of this person the husband you know 155 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 7: of getting frustrated, getting more warped than his understanding of 156 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 7: his wife's relationship. People think mental illness is someone in 157 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 7: a white coat in a room, but mental illness can 158 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:18,079 Speaker 7: develop subtly, and it can develop over time. These folks 159 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 7: were looking for help that I guess an appointment with 160 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 7: a marriage counselor three days later. Unfortunately, that makes you. 161 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 2: You are actually plunging a dagger into my heart. 162 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 1: Your misstatement of the. 163 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 2: Law is shameless mental illness. He had no prior mental 164 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: illness at all. He got mad because his wife, and 165 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 2: he said this, she just didn't give us about my parents' 166 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 2: them mine. 167 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 1: He said that that is that is anger. Yes, no, 168 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: it's anger defense. 169 00:09:58,800 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 5: This was a regional law. 170 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 7: Yes, no, rageful killing, one hundred percent rageful killing that 171 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 7: amount of. 172 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: Under the law. Can you answer that with a straight face, Mors. 173 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 7: But if I'm living in reality where that is the 174 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 7: appropriate response to her reaction, then yes it is again, Nancy, 175 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 7: the crime. 176 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:29,679 Speaker 2: Is he you say, is anger the appropriate response to her. 177 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: Reaction for his date nine? Okay, First of all, control. 178 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: Mike cut his mind right now, Shannon Henry, Right, there 179 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 2: is the problem crime stories with Nancy Grace. 180 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 1: Shannon Henry is joining me. 181 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 2: She's the president and founder of sas sass Go. It 182 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: is surviving assault, standing strong on a mission to eradicate 183 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 2: abuse and violence against women and girls. 184 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 1: Shannon, did you hear what he just said? 185 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 8: I did, and I'm so glad you cut him off 186 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 8: so that the people listening don't believe that crap. This 187 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 8: was not just about power and control. This was about ownership. 188 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,319 Speaker 8: He didn't have any anymore, and so he stole it. 189 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 8: It was not about rage. It wasn't a crime of passion. 190 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 8: I don't want to hear that either. This was a 191 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 8: sadistic killing where he enjoyed watching her suffer from the 192 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 8: dress he made her put on, to the dance he 193 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 8: made her due to the end where she begged for 194 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 8: her life and the lives of her children. It was 195 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 8: the grand finale of their marriage, from start to finish, 196 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 8: and he enjoyed it all. And I guarantee you this 197 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 8: wasn't the first time she felt like her life was 198 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 8: being threatened, but it was the last. 199 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: Would you describe Shannon Henry? 200 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 2: And I'm going to go out to the national news 201 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 2: anchor at Salem News Channel, Christine Ohio. But Shannon Henry 202 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 2: joining us from surviving assault standing strong mission eradicate violence 203 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 2: on women. 204 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: You said from the dress he made her wear to 205 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 1: the dance he made her do. What are you talking about? 206 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 8: I'm talking about him setting up a stage where every 207 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 8: gift quote unquote was a threat and she knew it. 208 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 8: You don't go from zero to murder this fast. And 209 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 8: if she could clarify it for us all today, she 210 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 8: would beg us to listen to her final words of 211 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 8: help and what are you going to do? Murder me 212 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,840 Speaker 8: and leave our children without parents? She was not confused 213 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 8: about him. There is a gap that we have in 214 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 8: the story between her working hard as a twelve hour 215 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 8: shift nurse to him being promiscuous and lazy up to 216 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 8: the date of February fourteenth, twenty twenty five where he 217 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 8: murdered her. But I guarantee you some of her friends 218 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 8: and co workers and family could fill in this gap 219 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 8: for us. But the red flags are there. This was 220 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 8: about ownership. He didn't have it anymore, so he stole 221 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 8: it and bragg to everyone who he could about taking it. 222 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 3: You details emerge after an Indiana doting husband and father 223 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 3: allegedly confesses to murder after feeling unappreciated, were warning signs missed? 224 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 1: Warning signs unappreciated? 225 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:40,719 Speaker 2: That is not justification for murder and joining me who 226 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 2: I've got a lot of problems with him? 227 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: Greg Morris, a veteran trial lawyer. 228 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 2: He's the partner at a big law firm, King Morse, 229 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:51,319 Speaker 2: He's apparently the king of the courtroom down in Palm 230 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: Beach County, Florida. 231 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: But to Shannon Henry. 232 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 2: Joining us, you can look at Morse, but keep his 233 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 2: MinC cut for just a moment, Shannon, he joining me 234 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 2: from sas surviving assault standing strong. We got off topic 235 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 2: because what you were saying was so interesting, But I 236 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 2: want to go back to what Morse said. He responded 237 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 2: and got angry to her because of her reaction to 238 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 2: his Paris theme night, which was basically a Bible cheat 239 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 2: red wine and playing a song on his iPhone that 240 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 2: was the theme night, and then getting some sexy dress 241 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 2: and making her wear it and dance with him. 242 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 1: That was the theme night. 243 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: Okay, right there, Shannon Henry, I can't tell you how 244 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 2: many times I heard. 245 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: I did it because she fill in the blank. 246 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 2: Here is my seminal example, Shannon, This is a real example. 247 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 2: This happened on the hotline at the Batter Women's Center. 248 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 1: The man beats the wife so badly she has to 249 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: go to the. 250 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 2: Hospital because he was bringing people from work home and 251 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 2: he told her to make a Mexican dinner, so she 252 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 2: makes a Mexican dinner. He comes in and finds out, 253 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 2: I don't remember which one she made, tacos not Enchilada's. 254 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 2: And he beat her to a pulp. So he actually said, well, 255 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 2: it's because she. 256 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: Made the wrong thing. 257 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 2: Here, you hear Greg Morrise defend and I know what 258 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 2: he's doing. 259 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: He's defending the husband here. That's his job. He is saying. 260 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 2: He just had this response because of her reaction. She 261 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 2: reacted badly, and he responded, it's always the woman's fault, Shannon. 262 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 8: It's always theman's fault. And what's so sad is to 263 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 8: look at the stack of red flags that are against him. 264 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 8: He had no remorse. He bragged about how big the 265 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 8: knife was. He sent the pictures. He made her do 266 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 8: a song and dance in front of him and act 267 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 8: like she enjoyed it, and when she didn't seem to 268 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 8: appreciate it, he murdered her. And he is the only 269 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 8: one responsible for that. 270 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 2: We also learned that he was convinced his wife was 271 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 2: dating a coworker. 272 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: Answer. 273 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 2: Barry Hutchinson, former law enforcement twenty six years veteran detective, 274 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 2: now owner chief operator of Barry in Associates Investigative Services, 275 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 2: and you can find him on his new website, p 276 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 2: I Pride Investigator Barry b A r R. 277 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: Wife Barry, thank you for being with us. 278 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 2: Oh what a tangled web results from imagining your mate 279 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 2: having an affair with a co worker. Lucky for me, 280 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 2: my husband he knew I would never have an affair 281 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 2: with a defense attorney or all the other eligible men 282 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 2: that were in the courtroom, mostly convicted felons in leg 283 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 2: irons and shackles. 284 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: And I have. 285 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 2: Never even considered that he would run around with a 286 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 2: client or a co worker. I just, in fact, one 287 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 2: time I read his emails one time. One time they 288 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 2: were so boring. He's a banker, My eyes bled. I 289 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:38,120 Speaker 2: just it was awful if I had to check up 290 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 2: on a man to figure out if he's. 291 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 1: Cheating, why do I need him? 292 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 6: Bye bye? 293 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 2: But here this guy was convinced she's having an affair, 294 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 2: and it justified murder. 295 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 9: Well, there's no justification in murder, regardless of what the 296 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 9: circumstances are. I mean, so you know that as well 297 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 9: as I do. I think what we have here is 298 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:01,640 Speaker 9: a classic case of when motive meets opperunity. I think 299 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 9: it was a long based talkic relationship that this young 300 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 9: lady unfortunately, should have been out of long before this 301 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 9: ever happened. The only saving grace in this whole scenario 302 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 9: that I can even come up with in my mind 303 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 9: is that I'm just thankful that it didn't turn out 304 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 9: to be a swat call where the kids were endangered, 305 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 9: where he actually executed the children too, as the ultimate 306 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 9: showing of I'm going to hurt them in front of you, 307 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 9: just to show you what I think of you. We've 308 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 9: seen that happen on swat calls many many, many times, 309 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 9: and we're fortunate if that didn't take place. 310 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 2: You mean, and what they call now Barry a family annihilator. 311 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 2: So what I'm asking you, and it was in a 312 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 2: very roundabout way, and I apologize for. 313 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 1: That, Barry. I know that as a PI you get 314 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 1: a lot of calls. 315 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:54,160 Speaker 2: About I think my girlfriend, boyfriend, ex wife blah blah 316 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 2: is cheating. Isn't it true that very often people get 317 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,120 Speaker 2: this in their head and it's absolutely not true at all. 318 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 9: That's very true, very true. In fact, the biggest thing 319 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 9: that we do, and we tell all of our clients 320 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 9: SYS up front, is that our mission is to vet 321 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 9: your spouse that they are not cheating, and if it 322 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:15,679 Speaker 9: turns out that they are, then we'll address it at 323 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 9: that point. But our mission is to vet them that 324 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 9: they are not doing. 325 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 1: So, guys, listen to what happened. 326 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:24,479 Speaker 4: Deborah's friend receives a photo texted from Deborah's phone. It 327 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 4: shows Deborah Meyer motionless and bloody on the floor of 328 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 4: her home with the caption your fault. Nine one one 329 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 4: Dispatch gets a call from the coworker of Deborah Meyer. 330 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 4: When they arrive, Taylor Meyer is refusing to come to 331 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 4: the door. 332 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 1: Almost as soon. 333 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 4: As police arrive, so does Deborah Meyer's coworkers. 334 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 2: Okay, I've got so much premeditation. It's out the ying 335 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 2: yang technical legal term. Here to Kristin Awayo joining me, 336 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 2: national news anchor Salem News, explain to me that sequence 337 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 2: of events, the. 338 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 1: Co worker. 339 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 2: Finds out that there's a quote domestic situation, which is, 340 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 2: you know, a euphemism for somebody's. 341 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: Getting their rear in beat, all right, that's what that means. 342 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 2: Coworker calls nine to one one and coworker says, Deborah 343 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 2: Meyer is being attacked right now, go to this address. 344 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 2: Cops get there, and then the coworker gets a text 345 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 2: describe that sequence of events for me, so I understand 346 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 2: exactly what happened. 347 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 1: That's the wildest part about all of this, right. 348 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 6: So, Deborah Meyer's husband, Taylor actually calls a contact in 349 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 6: the phone who he thinks is the boyfriend, which is 350 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 6: actually the co worker while he's sitting on Deborah Meyer's back, 351 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 6: and she's screaming in the background, help me, help me, 352 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,880 Speaker 6: help me. So her coworker hears this while her husband 353 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 6: is telling the coworker this is all your fault. So 354 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 6: of course the coworker calls the cops and says she's 355 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 6: in danger. I can hear her screaming. He hops in 356 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 6: his car high tails it over to her house, as 357 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 6: do the cops, and they're meeting in the front yard. 358 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 6: The cops are trying to get into the front door. 359 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 6: Of course, Taylor Myers not answering the door because he's 360 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 6: abusing his wife, possibly killing her. At that very moment, 361 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 6: because it was while the coworker was standing in the 362 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 6: front yard of the home, he gets the text message 363 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 6: of the picture of Deborah Meyer on the floor of 364 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 6: her own home dead. So that's when police officers decide 365 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 6: to bust down the door. They said that Taylor Meyer 366 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 6: was aggressive, resisted arrest, and they finally arrested him. But 367 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 6: it's almost safe to presume that he could have been 368 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 6: in the act of killing her while the police officers 369 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,880 Speaker 6: and the coworker we're out on the front lawn trying 370 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,399 Speaker 6: to get into the house. I mean, it was that 371 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 6: tight of a timeline. 372 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 10: Accusing her husband of cheating on her and ignoring their 373 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 10: children via email, Deborah tries explaining her feelings by saying, 374 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 10: I'm supposed to be your wife, your partner, raising children 375 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 10: with you, co parenting. I get that you have hobbies 376 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 10: and want some time to yourself, but I also feel 377 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 10: like that should be limited to certain times of the 378 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,880 Speaker 10: day and not just immediately get home, shower and go 379 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 10: play games and ignore your family that has missed you 380 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 10: all day. 381 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 2: That is an email that she, the murder victim, sent 382 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:16,719 Speaker 2: to her husband prior to her murder. Christina Owyo joining 383 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 2: me national news anchor, Salem News. So she is asking 384 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 2: him to help her raise the children. I quote, get 385 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 2: you have hobbies and want time to yourself, but I 386 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 2: also feel like you should spend time with the children, 387 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 2: not just get home, shower and go play games. I 388 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: would do a backflip after I work all day long 389 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 2: and make dinner. And if my husband came home and 390 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 2: immediately went to the back and got on video games. 391 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, fur would fly. Let me just tell you that. 392 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,239 Speaker 1: And she's writing in this nice email about it. 393 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 6: And this was back in twenty twenty three, and this 394 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,880 Speaker 6: is the same email where she accused him of cheating. 395 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 6: So the story of Infhtae is going back to the 396 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,639 Speaker 6: beginning part of their marriage. She said that he was 397 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 6: in the email accused him of having a relationship with 398 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 6: another woman which he kept in contact constant context with, 399 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 6: And she even accused him of seeing that woman who 400 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 6: she thought she was dating, directly before the family went 401 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:22,199 Speaker 6: and took family Christmas pictures. So she already thought he 402 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 6: was cheating. He may have been cheating, he was ignoring 403 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 6: the family, she was reaching out, and she in that 404 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 6: email actually threatened to leave him, which she didn't want 405 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 6: to do because it was going to be hard to 406 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 6: take care. 407 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 8: Of the three kids. 408 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 2: But she was going to Yes, what did nude photos 409 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,160 Speaker 2: and somebody's phone mean to you? 410 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: Cheatings? 411 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 2: For me? That means divorcee and doctor Bethany Marshall listened 412 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 2: to this. 413 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,879 Speaker 4: Frustrated and feeling like a single mom, Deborah writes an 414 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 4: email to her husband accusing him of cheating, claiming he 415 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 4: met up with his girlfriend minutes before they took their 416 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 4: family Christmas photo together at the mall. In the explosive email, 417 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 4: Debraa said she doesn't want him sending and receiving nude 418 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 4: photos from people he was with before they were together 419 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 4: as a couple. Nebra also accuses her husband of ignoring 420 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,719 Speaker 4: her and the couple's three children to play video games. 421 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 4: She concludes the email with quote, raising three kids is exhausting, 422 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 4: but if I have to, I'm going to do it alone. 423 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 4: Just let me know and I'll figure something else out. 424 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: Raising three children on her own. That's how she felt 425 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,679 Speaker 1: nude photos he's exchanging. 426 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 2: With old girlfriends, according to her, ducking out to see 427 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 2: the girlfriend before the Christmas photo together. First of all, 428 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 2: Bethany Marshall, do you agree with me? That sending nude 429 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 2: photos is cheating. 430 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:41,159 Speaker 5: I agree with you. 431 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 2: I'm really surprised you said, I thought you were going 432 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 2: to take the other tech. 433 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: But explain to me. I mean, I would be I 434 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 1: think so. 435 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 2: Hurt to find out my husband's exchanging nude photos. First 436 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 2: of all, I wouldn't believe it. I think somebody is 437 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 2: stolen his phone and was doing it. 438 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,959 Speaker 1: But that said, it's cheating, Okay, Nancy. 439 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 5: Not only is this cheating, but Taylor entered this relationship, 440 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 5: this marriage with Deborah thinking he could do whatever he 441 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 5: wants to do, and Deborah was in a double mind. 442 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 5: She's sent out to work, she's a nurse, she supports 443 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 5: the family, and all the time that she's out there working, 444 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 5: he's just brewing up a fantasy that she's cheating on him, 445 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 5: when in fact it's a projection because he's cheating on her. 446 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 5: I love what Shannon said about this is not just 447 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 5: about power. This is about ownership. He owns her and 448 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,199 Speaker 5: he can do whatever he wants. Send her out like 449 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 5: a dog to work, the minute she gets home, go out, 450 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 5: have his own affair, or do whatever he wants to do. 451 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 5: He's highly manipulative and he's been grooming her for years, 452 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 5: that she is just an object to be used. I 453 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 5: also think, Nancy, that he is so vindictive. This is 454 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 5: a part of his personality and it comes out when 455 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 5: he's talking to the police. It's almost like he's. 456 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 1: Bragging about the knife. 457 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,239 Speaker 5: And I think one underlying component that we all need 458 00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 5: to recognize about DV is that perpetrators everything hurts their feelings, 459 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:07,360 Speaker 5: Everything makes them feel insulted, like they've been insulted by 460 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 5: the other person. So your story about the man who 461 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 5: beat his wife to a pault because she made tacos 462 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,360 Speaker 5: rather than enchiladas, he probably. 463 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 1: Took that as a. 464 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 5: Personal affront, felt insulted, then felt diminished, then deflated, and 465 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 5: then went on the attack, because that is the classic pattern. 466 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 2: I want to go straight back out to Greg Morse 467 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 2: joining us please uncut his mic partner at King Morris, 468 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 2: veteran trial lawyer. I hope you've had time to think 469 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:40,239 Speaker 2: about what you said, that he killed her because of 470 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 2: the way she reacted. 471 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 1: Would you like to clarify your opinion? 472 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 7: And with this premeditation stuff on these facts, everyone has 473 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,680 Speaker 7: to make a lot of leaps of faith, and frankly, 474 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:57,360 Speaker 7: it's just it's not there and what we know so far. 475 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 7: What I was saying is that when people have mental illness, 476 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 7: and this is a hard case. You know, you were 477 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 7: a prosecutor temporary insanity illness. 478 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 5: No, no, no, but I would. 479 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 2: Use the show, Nancy, all of your experts just made 480 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 2: my case for me. 481 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 7: I'd hire them in my case. Talking about how he 482 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,439 Speaker 7: wants to control an act that would that would let 483 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 7: us believe that he made know. What I'm saying is 484 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:27,639 Speaker 7: that this guy there's no domestic violence before. So if 485 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 7: he wants to control every aspect of our life, and 486 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 7: he's contrived and intentional, we're going to see police reports. 487 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 7: Generally we see this act out well before the murder. 488 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 10: In these cases, what we. 489 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,199 Speaker 7: Have is mental illness doesn't just come with people in 490 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 7: white coats and screaming about aliens. It's very subtle. And 491 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 7: if this guy believed at the time that his wife's 492 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,679 Speaker 7: reaction he was living in this alternate reality to him 493 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 7: that caused him to do this, well, you know, then 494 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 7: you have he wasn't thinking right and wrong in that situation. 495 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 7: There's no evidence whatsoever that this I was planning this. 496 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 7: Did he plan to buy the wine bottle before the 497 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 7: show and do I mean before the dinner so he 498 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 7: can hit her over the head with it. No, none 499 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 7: of that is there. 500 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: Did he planted under the law once again, you are 501 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 2: contorting the law to suit your purposes. 502 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 1: Again, that degree a premeditation is not required. 503 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 2: The only degree a premeditation can be formed in seconds, 504 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 2: by the time it takes him to walk in the 505 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 2: kitchen and get the wine bottle and come back. 506 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 1: That's the last time. 507 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 2: Plus he stabbed her forty times? 508 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,479 Speaker 1: Do I have to say, Jody Arias, do I have 509 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 1: to raise up that specter? 510 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: Jody Arias standing traumas Alexander twenty nine times then shot 511 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 2: him in the head, leaving him to decompose in the 512 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 2: shower's tall Just because you attacked someone multiple times does 513 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 2: not insanity make it makes you a killer, a cold 514 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 2: bloody killer. 515 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 7: That's what I started out with, that the act doesn't 516 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 7: make someone insane at all. The act is the outgrowth 517 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 7: of insanity. Sometimes when we have that killing someone, people 518 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 7: shooting up a school, that seems insane to all of 519 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 7: us because we wouldn't do it. But you know, under 520 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 7: the law, just because you did that doesn't mean you're insane. 521 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 7: You knew, right from wrong. You shouldn't have done it. 522 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 7: What my point is, Jodyarius didn't take pictures and send it. 523 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 7: Jodyarius didn't act like this was no case, and she 524 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 7: got caught. She yes, she took pictures and she. 525 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 1: Busted. She did take pictures. 526 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 7: No, I understand that. I completely understand that she did. 527 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 7: Look how this guy acted in this case with the police. 528 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 7: That's not how someone that intends to commit murder acts. 529 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 7: They just don't. 530 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,640 Speaker 1: They don't do that fighting. 531 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 2: The police come in by knowing enough to barrickade the door. 532 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 1: More more evidence of guilt. 533 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 2: You know what, let me jog your memory as to 534 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 2: the real facts, not the facts in Greg Morrese's world, 535 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 2: but the actual facts from the police reports. 536 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 4: Meyer decides to try and turn things around in his 537 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 4: marriage by preparing a Valentine's Day dinner with a theme 538 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 4: bring Paris to You. Pulling out all the stops, Meyer 539 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 4: has their children draw pictures of the Eiffel Tower to 540 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 4: decorate the table, buys Deborah a beautiful new dress, and 541 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 4: orders food from their favorite Japanese steakhouse. After a lovely dinner, 542 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 4: he gives his wife a Valentine's Day card with a 543 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 4: personal message and they dance to their wedding song. 544 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 3: When the song ends and the dance is finished, Deborah 545 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 3: Meyer doesn't give her husband the reaction he wants, and 546 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 3: they begin to argue. 547 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 1: Crime stores with Nancy Grace. 548 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 4: After hitting his wife in the head with a glass 549 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:56,040 Speaker 4: wine bottle several times, Taylor Meyer says Deborah was unconscious, 550 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 4: but he wasn't sure if she was dead, so. 551 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,040 Speaker 1: He went into the kitchen and got a quote. 552 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 4: Big knife, a long one, and came back to her 553 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 4: while she is laid out on the floor and stabs 554 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 4: her over and over again in the chest. All told, 555 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 4: the thirty six year old mother of three, Deborah Meyer 556 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 4: is stabbed forty times after being beaten in the head 557 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 4: with a wine bottle. 558 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 1: It is her. 559 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 2: Trial lawyer at a palm beach describing how the husband 560 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 2: in this scenario, now murder defendant. Taylor Meyer says to police, 561 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 2: I wasn't sure if she was totally dead, so after 562 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 2: I beat her in the head with the wine bottle, 563 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 2: I went in the kitchen and got a quote his words, 564 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 2: not mine, big knife, a long one, and while she 565 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 2: laid on the floor, stabbed her over and over again 566 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 2: in the chest. 567 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 1: Joining me now is. 568 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 2: Renowned chief medical examiner from Terrance County. 569 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 1: That's fort Worth. 570 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 2: Esteemed lecturer at the Burnett School of Medicine at TCU, 571 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 2: Doctor Kendall Crowns. He's about to launch a hit podcast 572 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 2: called DOA Did on arrival April seven, Doctor Kendall Crowns, 573 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 2: could you describe what the victim endured after the first 574 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 2: blow with the thick end of a wine bottle? 575 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 11: Certainly so basically a bottle. When you're struck in the head, 576 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 11: the harder edge of the bottle will hit into your head, 577 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 11: causing contusions or bruises, tearing at the skin. Usually bottles 578 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 11: aren't heavy enough to break the skull, but they can 579 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 11: cause you to go unconscious or cause you to collapse. 580 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 11: You're going to have pain associated with that, headaches. But 581 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 11: if they beat you into unconsciousness, he's probably looking at 582 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 11: her still seeing she's breathing. I've seen that before where 583 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 11: they can't kill him with the wine bottle, so they 584 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 11: go switch up and find something else. He walked into 585 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,640 Speaker 11: the kitchen, came back and then started stabbing where with 586 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 11: a knife. The fact that he stabbed her in the 587 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 11: chest over forty times, clustered all together is what we 588 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 11: call overkill. So she's obviously unconscious or subdued at that point, 589 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 11: and he just keeps stabbing her until she stops breathing. 590 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 2: Doctor Kendall Crowns, after the first blow to the head 591 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 2: with a wine bottle, we have no evidence that the 592 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 2: wine bottle was broken, so that corroborates your theory as 593 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 2: to the nature of the first blow. 594 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: I believe, based on the fact the wine bottle. 595 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 2: Was still intact, that she was conscious and saw him 596 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 2: coming at her with a knife, lying there immobilized with 597 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 2: her children above her, asleep in bed, she sees her 598 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 2: husband approach her with a knife and the stabbing begins. 599 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 2: Is that scenario feasible, Doctor Kendall Crowns. 600 00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 11: Yes, that is a possibility that she could still have 601 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 11: been conscious. She could have been trying to fake that 602 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 11: she was conscious. There's also a possibility that when he 603 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 11: beats her to the ground with the wine bottle, that 604 00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 11: he could have jumped on her back, breaking her spinal column. 605 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 11: If the many possibilities, and that could leave her paralyzed. 606 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,560 Speaker 11: And so she could still be conscious and see him 607 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 11: approaching with the knife and not be able to do 608 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 11: anything about it. 609 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 2: She was stabbed forty times for zero with a quote 610 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:36,240 Speaker 2: big kitchen knife, quote eight long one. Obviously she died 611 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 2: from bleeding out. So explain to me if she was 612 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 2: not killed in the initial stabs, what would she have endured. 613 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:50,399 Speaker 2: As she was stabbed repeatedly in the chest, So it's 614 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 2: going to. 615 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 11: Take her a few minutes to bleed out from the 616 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 11: stab wounds. So each stab wound that he is able 617 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 11: to deliver is going to cause pain from the cutting 618 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 11: of the skin and the sing of the organs with 619 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 11: the knife. And then the fact that she's being stabbed 620 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 11: in the chest and could collapse lungs making it difficult 621 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 11: for her to breathe. She could also be coughing blood 622 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,720 Speaker 11: up and then swallowing the blood, so she's getting blood 623 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,399 Speaker 11: in her mouth and hailing the blood, gagging while she's 624 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 11: being stabbed over and over, feeling the pain until she 625 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 11: finally bleeds out after a few minutes. Granted forty stab wounds, 626 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 11: he could probably deliver those in that entire timeframe that 627 00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:28,439 Speaker 11: it takes her to bleed out. 628 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,839 Speaker 4: Officers are shocked to learn that husband Taylor Meyer took 629 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 4: pictures of his wife's lifeless body and sent it to 630 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 4: Deborah's friend and coworker, who called nine one one. Meyer 631 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 4: also texted his wife's family and friends, saying I killed 632 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 4: Debbie because she's a cheating, lying bitch. Meyer says wife 633 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 4: just didn't give a shit about the Paris themed date 634 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:47,840 Speaker 4: he planned. 635 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 3: And Indiana man sent photos to an alleged lover after 636 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 3: a Balentine's Day dinner went sour. What's next for the 637 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 3: father of three? 638 00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 2: Let me understand what I'm hearing that he actually tells 639 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:03,800 Speaker 2: police that. 640 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 1: He murdered his wife because she quote just didn't. 641 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 2: Give it about his Paris theme dinner, and Christina Ohio 642 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:19,840 Speaker 2: joining a Salem news channel. He wrote the relatives, sent 643 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 2: her relatives a picture of her bludgeoned, stamped body and 644 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 2: said I killed Debbie because. 645 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,399 Speaker 1: She is a cheating line. Is that right? 646 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:29,760 Speaker 6: Yes, that is correct. 647 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 3: He did that. 648 00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 6: He sent it to the coworker saying it's your fault. 649 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 6: And what's interesting is while he was speaking to police, 650 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 6: all of it just revealed in the abba. 651 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,799 Speaker 1: David, he was almost trying. 652 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 6: To get them on his side, like explaining, you understand right, 653 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 6: she did this to me. This was the hardest I've 654 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 6: ever tried, he said. And if The hardest you've ever 655 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 6: tried is buying address taking your wife out to dinner. 656 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 6: It's pretty indicative of how much effort you put into 657 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,400 Speaker 6: the relationship over the last four years. 658 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 1: But he was. 659 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,920 Speaker 6: Literally explaining to the cops like they were boys, like 660 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 6: they were friends. This is why I did it. Can't 661 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 6: you understand she did this to me? 662 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:04,279 Speaker 1: She didn't care. 663 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 6: I worked so hard on the celebration and she just 664 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 6: didn't care. 665 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 2: Correct me if I'm wrong, Christina, But I understood he 666 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 2: did not take her out to dinner that they ordered 667 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 2: delivery Japanese delivery. 668 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 6: Well, according to the what I read in the AffA David, 669 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 6: it wasn't clear on if they went out or ordered in. 670 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 6: It was that he got her a dinner from their 671 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,719 Speaker 6: favorite Japanese steakhouse. 672 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:29,400 Speaker 2: To go with their Paris theme night. Okay, uh, Doctor 673 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:34,800 Speaker 2: Bethany Marshall, help me out here. I killed Debbie because 674 00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:36,400 Speaker 2: she is a cheating line. 675 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,439 Speaker 1: You know what? 676 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 2: He might as well fill that in with I killed 677 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,600 Speaker 2: Debbie because she made tacos, not enchiladas. There's always a 678 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 2: reason why the woman deserves to be murdered. Have you 679 00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 2: noticed that talks to agree with him? She's such a hoe, 680 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 2: she's a liar, she's a cheater. She goes on and on, 681 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 2: she did this, she did that, I had. 682 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 1: To kill her. 683 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,280 Speaker 2: Well, they're going to agree, and even Father of the Year. 684 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 5: You know, Nancy. Probably what was happening leading up to 685 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 5: this too, was that he was calling coworkers and family 686 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 5: members and trying to recruit everybody to be on his side. 687 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 5: Because this just spills over when he starts to talk 688 00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,799 Speaker 5: to the police. He probably feels very beleaguered by her, 689 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 5: and it's very common for these types of men to 690 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 5: invest very little into the relationship but expect everything back 691 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 5: from the house, from the spouse. So he just orders 692 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 5: up a steak dinner, he doesn't cook. Perhaps he doesn't 693 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 5: even take her to the restaurant, buys her probably a 694 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 5: horror stress, makes her dance to the music. But he 695 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 5: expects all these accolades and all this praise from her. 696 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 5: So it's almost like when you ask your child to 697 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,200 Speaker 5: set the table for dinner and they just do something 698 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,879 Speaker 5: really small like set a plate down, they think they 699 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 5: deserve so much a praise because that's where they are developmentally. Well, 700 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 5: these domestic abusers are caught developmentally at that same phase 701 00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 5: of life where they just invest the tiniest, teensiest little 702 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,399 Speaker 5: bit and when they don't get all the praise they 703 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 5: want all help breaks lose. 704 00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 2: To Greg Morse, believe it or not, I'm giving you 705 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:10,880 Speaker 2: the final argument. 706 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 1: Hit me, well, it is. 707 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 7: This is not all of these factors and inferences you're 708 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 7: making to show premeditation. He's controlling, he's a domestic abuser. 709 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 7: So let's suppose there is no murder and we hear 710 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 7: this guy does this. It's just a story. A Paris 711 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,919 Speaker 7: theme night. What a romantic thing he tried to bring 712 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 7: his wife Paris. How nice. So my point is he's 713 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 7: not acting like someone who planned this. If he was 714 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 7: aggressive in an abuser the whole night, when she leaves 715 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 7: for twenty minutes, why does she come back? You would 716 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:44,239 Speaker 7: have seen signs of that. My point is, insanity can 717 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,800 Speaker 7: come up below the surface and it can be there. 718 00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 7: And having the appointment in three days lends me to 719 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 7: believe that this was not planned. This was something unless 720 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 7: you believe he planned the appointment to show that he 721 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 7: really loved his wife and was trying and tried to 722 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,240 Speaker 7: set up an insanity the defense. But it's a horrible outcome. 723 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,960 Speaker 7: It's a difficult case to defend. Don't get me wrong, 724 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 7: it is very challenging. But I think mental illness is 725 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 7: a lot more prevalent in relationships. And I've talked about 726 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,839 Speaker 7: this on TV and cases I've had before, and this 727 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 7: is the outgrowth of it, and it does create This 728 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 7: guy was living in his own reality, you know. 729 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 2: Shannon Henry joining me present, founder of SAS Surviving Assault 730 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:26,839 Speaker 2: Standing Strong. If what he just said was true, they 731 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:30,280 Speaker 2: would empty out every jail in the country because everybody 732 00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 2: would say I had a mental illness. 733 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,319 Speaker 1: I was angry, that's right. 734 00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 8: And she came back because she had kids there and 735 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:40,800 Speaker 8: she's a good mom. His last attempt to get help 736 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,240 Speaker 8: was to kill her. Hers was to go to therapy. 737 00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,960 Speaker 8: And I do want to say she was a nurse 738 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,759 Speaker 8: to Greg. She was a nurse. She knew exactly what 739 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 8: was happening to her body when it was happening, and 740 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 8: he knew that she would understand that experience too. So 741 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:59,520 Speaker 8: while he may not have physically hit her before this day, 742 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,600 Speaker 8: and there may not be police reports, he abused her 743 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,800 Speaker 8: for years by doing his best to break her down 744 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 8: with infidelity and isolation and insecurity, and by the way. 745 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,160 Speaker 8: You can be depressed, you can be a psychopath, you 746 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:17,680 Speaker 8: can be a narcissist without being an abuser. And I 747 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:21,120 Speaker 8: want you to know I would never you would never 748 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,920 Speaker 8: be able to hire me, and if I did come, 749 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:28,280 Speaker 8: I would be honored to clarify that the abused women 750 00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:33,960 Speaker 8: endure at the hands of unprincipled lawyers like you is awful, 751 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,319 Speaker 8: just awful, And shame on you for trying to make 752 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:41,799 Speaker 8: it clear that this person is insane when he's clearly not. 753 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 8: He knew what he was doing from start to finish, 754 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,840 Speaker 8: from the dress to the stabbing, and then he bragged 755 00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:47,279 Speaker 8: about it. 756 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,839 Speaker 1: Nancy Grace signing off, goodbye friend,