Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub a dub dumb.
Speaker 2: How's it going great? How are you doing Stage Coach Vibes? Outfit?
Speaker 3: So I just really like ease in my life. That's
Speaker 3: what I realized, and so outfits that have one piece
Speaker 3: to them have become my new one piece. It's just
Speaker 3: one piece.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: Yeah. It's a skirt and a shirt together.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: Some may call it a dress. Yeah, I'm gonna.
Speaker 1: Say, would we classify that in the dress category?
Speaker 2: Top and a skirt sewed together? I love that.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 1: It's giving post stage Coach Vibes, which Easton and I
Speaker 1: both attended.
Speaker 2: One of us went for one day.
Speaker 3: Oh god, I would have gone to Stagecoach if I
Speaker 3: was invited.
Speaker 2: Oh, but you didn't get invited. I didn't get in,
Speaker 2: so it'd be like that sometimes.
Speaker 3: So I'm just wearing this today Stage Coach maybe twenty
Speaker 3: twenty five. Oh wow, Yeah, she's.
Speaker 2: Going for it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I went for one day because Tart did invite me
Speaker 1: for the weekend, and then I was like, I just
Speaker 1: don't think my body can do a full weekend. And
Speaker 1: they approved me going for a day, which was just
Speaker 1: amazing of them, And so we went up yesterday and
Speaker 1: it was a tart trip, which they were like just
Speaker 1: known for being extravagant.
Speaker 2: The house was beautiful.
Speaker 1: All the girls were like getting their hair and makeup
Speaker 1: done every single day. They gave us the biggest goodie
Speaker 1: bag of makeup, like they were like, here, let me
Speaker 1: get you a gift bag when we were leaving, and
Speaker 1: it was this like massive bag of like all their stuff,
Speaker 1: and so he stopped by. It was kind of one
Speaker 1: of those things that we're like, you know where you've been,
Speaker 1: You've had a weekend with people, and then new people
Speaker 1: come in and it's like that TikTok sounds.
Speaker 2: Like hey, how y'all doing?
Speaker 1: Yeah, like what are you doing here? I'm like tired
Speaker 1: and hungover, and we're like, hi.
Speaker 2: Like just drove up.
Speaker 3: Was it the same girls the whole weekend?
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So Hannah Gee and Dylan were there, Lindsay and Riley
Speaker 1: Arnold from Dan to the Stars they were there. Jasmine
Speaker 1: from The Bachelor she was on pilot Pete season and
Speaker 1: her sister were there, so I got to talk to
Speaker 1: them a little bit. But everyone's kind of getting getting
Speaker 1: ready when we got there.
Speaker 2: So you know, they were in.
Speaker 1: Glam getting glammed, and so we just stopped by.
Speaker 3: The same person glam everybody in the house.
Speaker 1: No, they had like they had different They had like
Speaker 1: three glam stations with like a full set up in
Speaker 1: light like a vanity, and then they had hair and
Speaker 1: makeup people.
Speaker 2: I think there were four of them.
Speaker 3: That's so nice.
Speaker 2: Four hair people and people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Tart really does a big and they did. It
Speaker 1: was a collab with Nudes the you know, like they're
Speaker 1: really good body suits and t shirts nuts.
Speaker 3: But do I need some? I do?
Speaker 1: So. Yeah, I went for one day and I feel
Speaker 1: absolutely wrecked today, just a.
Speaker 2: Drinking my feet or her. I got home at two.
Speaker 1: I think I'm just I told you I could only
Speaker 1: do one day, and this is why.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't understand how people do three full days.
Speaker 3: Even when I was younger, I couldn't do three full days.
Speaker 1: Here we have a three day right here amongst us.
Speaker 4: Somehow.
Speaker 5: This is the first like real festival I've done. Like
Speaker 5: I went to Warp Tour when I was in high school,
Speaker 5: but like that's one day, you know, this is the
Speaker 5: first multi day thing I think I've ever done. I
Speaker 5: was really scared, but your boy made it.
Speaker 3: Even if I were sober, I don't think I could
Speaker 3: do three full days.
Speaker 4: It's so hot, yeah out there.
Speaker 3: And you're exerting a lot of energy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the only reason I can do it
Speaker 1: is because of the alcohol. So I'm like mesmerized that
Speaker 1: you did three days sober.
Speaker 5: And my lovely wife is very fair and she burns
Speaker 5: so easily, so that was a major concern of ours,
Speaker 5: is to keep her out of the sun. But also
Speaker 5: I got I gotta watch Guy Fieri cook those sausages.
Speaker 5: You know, I got to see my guys out there.
Speaker 5: He was out there, he was cooking. So something we're
Speaker 5: really excited about, and something I want to ask you, Beca,
Speaker 5: is that Lana del Rey showed up on the first day. Yeah,
Speaker 5: she surprised everyone with Charlie Coffin I think his name is.
Speaker 5: We did not watch him because we didn't know who
Speaker 5: he was, but kind she popped up on say. She
Speaker 5: was there the whole weekend. She was hanging out and
Speaker 5: posing for pictures with all these Bachelor people.
Speaker 2: So many Bachelor people.
Speaker 5: I found out she's a huge Bachelor fan. You've met her, right, Yeah,
Speaker 5: I met Yeah.
Speaker 2: It was the craziest thing ever when I met her.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Was she a fan of your season?
Speaker 4: Do you know?
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So my youngest sister, Hink is like at the time,
Speaker 1: I think this was twenty sixteen, she was like, you
Speaker 1: know those fans that know specific things about the artist
Speaker 1: and you're like, how did you find that out? And
Speaker 1: they're like in fan groups. My sister was like at
Speaker 1: that level, she was obsessed. So she visited from Louisiana
Speaker 1: and I had gotten invited to this It was like
Speaker 1: a small festival down in Kasta Meser or something, and
Speaker 1: I had two VIP tickets and so I had Caroline
Speaker 1: my other sister Anne Hank with me, and I was like,
Speaker 1: we'll figure out how to get another ticket once we
Speaker 1: get down there, like, let's just go. So we get in,
Speaker 1: We somehow finagle a general ad mission wristband for Caroline
Speaker 1: and we sneak her into the VIP with this. So
Speaker 1: then this guy comes up and he's like hey, and
Speaker 1: he starts putting a wristband on my hand and he's like, uh,
Speaker 1: you're Becca right from the Bachelor. And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, and he's like these are backstage passes. I
Speaker 1: was told to come give these to you. How many
Speaker 1: people do you have? And I was like, oh, just
Speaker 1: us three. So in my mind, I'm like this is cool.
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like the cool older sister because I just
Speaker 1: somehow wrangled. As we got Caroline smuggled her into VIP.
Speaker 1: Now we're going backstage, and my sister goes. As soon
Speaker 1: as we got backstage, she goes there she is and
Speaker 1: I was like who, and she was like Lana. And
Speaker 1: at the time I did I really didn't know much
Speaker 1: about want to tell ray at all. So I was
Speaker 1: like which one?
Speaker 2: And she's like her. So I think because.
Speaker 1: I wasn't a huge you know when you're not a
Speaker 1: huge fan of someone, like it wasn't my Jennifer Aniston.
Speaker 1: So I was like I went into big sister mode,
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna go facilitate this introduction.
Speaker 2: So I just went up to her.
Speaker 1: She was talking to some people and I was like hey,
Speaker 1: I was like hi, and she turns and she goes
Speaker 1: Becca and I.
Speaker 6: Go yeah, and my sister goes, you watch the Bachelor,
Speaker 6: and she goes, yeah, I watched my sister or something,
Speaker 6: and so they like chatted I got a photo with
Speaker 6: them together.
Speaker 3: It was like the cool it's easier to do it
Speaker 3: when you don't really know who they are and you
Speaker 3: just treat them like a normal human being instead of
Speaker 3: like hyping it up and stressing yourself out.
Speaker 1: Well as it's like the rejection doesn't hurt bad, Like
Speaker 1: if she want have rejected me, I would have been like,
Speaker 1: oh whatever, Yeah, she shouldn't be her fan anymore, right right?
Speaker 5: Yeah, Allison loves her, And when we found out she
Speaker 5: was popping around, of course we were just like, Alana,
Speaker 5: watch the whole time. A picture surface of Lana del
Speaker 5: Rey and Mike Love from the Beach Boys and Guy
Speaker 5: Fieri and I staring at this photo for the last
Speaker 5: twenty four hours. It's my favorite image.
Speaker 3: Did either of you see Beyonce?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: No, this feels she was definitely there.
Speaker 3: She was in the VIP section at some point on
Speaker 3: Sunday morning.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: I had boots on the ground at Stage Coach Sunday
Speaker 3: morning and they're like, Beyonce's in VIP.
Speaker 1: Yeah, boots on the ground said she was. They think
Speaker 1: she was checking things out for potential next year. Oh,
Speaker 1: just like Stay with the Bible is she had.
Speaker 3: The truck there, the Cowboy corner truck. She had this
Speaker 3: thing fly over the state multiple times. Yeah, so I
Speaker 3: was like, why if she's not gonna partake.
Speaker 2: Could potentially headline.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we were watching doesn't the promo exactly? We're watching
Speaker 5: posts malone like everyone was.
Speaker 4: It was. It was funny.
Speaker 5: The audience was like general stage coach people. There's a
Speaker 5: good amount of Swifties. I could tell that we're expecting
Speaker 5: Taylor to come out with postpone, and then there's a
Speaker 5: lot of Beyonce people just watching every move every time
Speaker 5: he took a pause, like is this the moment? And
Speaker 5: it never happened, and everyone was so crestfallen when it ended.
Speaker 5: But I liked it because his set was supposed to
Speaker 5: be like a celebration of like older of country music,
Speaker 5: and you know, he brought out like Dwight Yoakam and
Speaker 5: stuff like that, and I thought that was fun And
Speaker 5: if he had brought up Beyonce would have completely changed
Speaker 5: the vibe. Yeah, everyone was very sad though, Like I felt,
Speaker 5: Miranda Lambert's about to go on stages with all these
Speaker 5: like sad people, like you're staggering out of the main stag.
Speaker 3: I feel bad.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but he was great. He was so good. We
Speaker 5: had we had such a fun time watching him. And
Speaker 5: again I'm walking around trying to spread the rumors. I'm like,
Speaker 5: the Beach Boys are going to bring up Beyonce. It's
Speaker 5: gonna happen in the Beach Boys.
Speaker 3: And they didn't either.
Speaker 4: They did not.
Speaker 5: They brought up Mark McGrath from Sugar Ray. Not quite
Speaker 5: the same but uh vibe, different vibe. So no Beyonce.
Speaker 2: Siding I was spreading your rumor too, thank you's gonna o.
Speaker 2: My friend says he's gonna gonna come out with the Beach.
Speaker 5: I was like, I have a friend who works at
Speaker 5: Stage Coach. He said that Beyonce's gonna come up with
Speaker 5: the Beach Boys. I was trying to get this go and.
Speaker 3: I was convinced she was coming out with somebody.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it really felt that way.
Speaker 1: Well, so then we're we're back in like where all
Speaker 1: the trailers are, and Ali is like obsessed with post Malone,
Speaker 1: like from for forever, she's been obsessed with him, and
Speaker 1: she's like.
Speaker 2: There he is, there he is. I'm like, oh, and
Speaker 2: she's like Posty Posty. She walks over.
Speaker 1: Mind, do we've had a few drinks at this point,
Speaker 1: and she's like, get a video with just him in
Speaker 1: the background. So she's like holding her drink and his
Speaker 1: security guard's like walking into space.
Speaker 2: So I couldn't get the video.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 2: She got so.
Speaker 1: Mad at me, and I was like, why didn't you
Speaker 1: want me to.
Speaker 2: Do like tackle security?
Speaker 1: What was security doing where I couldn't get posty space
Speaker 1: in the video.
Speaker 2: But he was like taking photos and stuff with people,
Speaker 2: So I don't.
Speaker 3: Know why here.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then Sewn Mendes was right nice to se
Speaker 1: and he was talking to Ryan Beatty.
Speaker 2: Ryan Beatty.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Ryan Beatty, And I go up because I love
Speaker 1: Ryan's music. You don't know Ryan Beatty's music.
Speaker 4: I do not?
Speaker 5: Oh oh my gosh, wait, I think I do. Hang on,
Speaker 5: does he have a song called like what.
Speaker 2: The bruises thee.
Speaker 4: What keep singing?
Speaker 1: Okay, anyways, they're talking, So I go up to Ryan
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I just want to say I love
Speaker 1: your music, like you're amazing.
Speaker 4: White teeth that song, Teeth, that song.
Speaker 1: And so I turned to look at Sean and he goes,
Speaker 1: I knew him from before he was doing mag Con days,
Speaker 1: like before Sean blew up. He was in this like
Speaker 1: traveling mean and Greek.
Speaker 3: We felt like Vine days.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I worked for the guy who started.
Speaker 1: I was his assistant, so I knew Sean from them,
Speaker 1: but I haven't seen him in forever.
Speaker 2: And he turns and he's like, hi, Angel, how are
Speaker 2: you like the biggest hug?
Speaker 3: It was like, wow, Angel, did you chat with Shawn Mendo?
Speaker 1: No, because they were chatting and I just I interrupted
Speaker 1: them to like say something to Ryan, and then Sean
Speaker 1: hugged me. So I didn't want to like pop myself
Speaker 1: that you're.
Speaker 3: In No, no, no, I felt.
Speaker 1: Like a good moment, felt cool and like oh for
Speaker 1: Czezy Breezy. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I'm not good with social cues.
Speaker 1: But everyone said there was like Bachelor people everywhere, and
Speaker 1: I don't think I saw anybody.
Speaker 3: I feel like that just as an onlooker, I feel
Speaker 3: like I just saw so many Bachelor people on social media.
Speaker 3: There two only bachelor people.
Speaker 5: We were just watching Instagram in between vans that I
Speaker 5: saw Jason Tarctic was I was like, Jartic's here.
Speaker 4: Then the next one, Jason Tark got a picture of
Speaker 4: Lana del Rey. We're so jealous.
Speaker 3: I know. There was a lot of Bachelor, a lot
Speaker 3: of crossover and Tyler Cameron was there.
Speaker 2: Tyler Cameron was there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was there.
Speaker 1: It was like it was a big group of them.
Speaker 1: But I did not see them in my day one one.
Speaker 1: There it was in my feed. Oh yeah, a lot
Speaker 1: of my feet at the feed.
Speaker 2: How are your feet feeling?
Speaker 5: So the first day I wore my Croc cowboy boots
Speaker 5: for the first time, and let me tell.
Speaker 3: You makes cowboy boots?
Speaker 4: They did? They did.
Speaker 5: They made a very select pair, yes, and I wore them.
Speaker 5: They were such a big hit. I got stopped for
Speaker 5: photos so many times. I felt like a celebrity and
Speaker 5: my feet were loving it. Yeah, it felt so good.
Speaker 3: Honestly, you can't compete with that.
Speaker 4: It was so great. I had spurs. It was awesome.
Speaker 4: And then the second day I wore real cowboy boots
Speaker 4: and that hurt real bad.
Speaker 5: Yeah I'm feeling good today, but yeah, but day two
Speaker 5: was bad that that My feet were really killing me.
Speaker 5: It's just the standing around though. I think that's like
Speaker 5: any shoe that would hurt, you know, an is shoe an.
Speaker 3: Shoe, every shoe.
Speaker 1: But I do feel if I had had Hokahs on,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be in pain like I am today.
Speaker 3: Well honestly had crocs cowboy boots. Like if I could
Speaker 3: wear my crocs, I could walk from here to New
Speaker 3: York and my cross Welcome Out?
Speaker 2: Is that a song to walk them out the.
Speaker 4: Hotel?
Speaker 5: We were saying it was funny because it was like
Speaker 5: ninety percent stage coach people and then Hoka was having
Speaker 5: a conference there, so fun It was funny seeing all
Speaker 5: these like stage coach people in their boots, like just
Speaker 5: like dying and then the hook of people that's cool
Speaker 5: to cucumber.
Speaker 4: Like walking around it's so funny. Yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I will be honest, I didn't see a
Speaker 1: lot of music. I was just bebopping around at the
Speaker 1: bar and backstage and uh that's.
Speaker 3: The best part.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But then finally I was like, should we go listen
Speaker 1: to me or just see some music?
Speaker 2: So we stayed till the middle of Morgan Wallen and
Speaker 2: then we left and that walk back to the car.
Speaker 1: We later found out our driver had bought a parking
Speaker 1: pass right by the section we were in Wow, but
Speaker 1: we didn't know where it was and there's no map
Speaker 1: of parking, so we walked all the way across to
Speaker 1: where you get like the petty cab and stuff. Oh man,
Speaker 1: and they were like, here's your The guys like drops
Speaker 1: us off on the bike and he's like, here's your
Speaker 1: parking lot. And we go ask the guy and he's like,
Speaker 1: you're on the complete other.
Speaker 2: Side of them.
Speaker 3: I can't even tell you. I've been to those park
Speaker 3: grounds parking grounds so many years, and yet I can
Speaker 3: still never find my way out ever never.
Speaker 4: It's so confusing.
Speaker 5: We took the shuttle, so but I was like, looking
Speaker 5: at well, there's so many parking lots too.
Speaker 4: I'm like, if you park here, how are you supposed
Speaker 4: to get back? It's so confusing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was saying. I mean, we wouldn't.
Speaker 1: We didn't stand a chance, but we ali and I
Speaker 1: did get into a quarrel because we went over to
Speaker 1: the ferris wheel once, like I think it was Morgan
Speaker 1: came on, her Hearty came on, and so we were like,
Speaker 1: let's go over to the ferris wheel and take photos
Speaker 1: because no one's going to be there right now because
Speaker 1: everyone's watching the show. And I put in so much
Speaker 1: effort trying to get a good photo for her, and
Speaker 1: I just got nothing in return.
Speaker 2: And I was like, do you know.
Speaker 1: Annoying it is to always be the person who can
Speaker 1: take a good photo of people and no one can
Speaker 1: do it for me.
Speaker 2: I was drunk, but I was like, I was so mad.
Speaker 3: I'm sure she got something good. No, at least one
Speaker 3: good photo. How many did she take? Five hundred?
Speaker 2: No, we didn't really. I had my camera so it
Speaker 2: wasn't like just clicking, you know. But she was like, well,
Speaker 2: let's go by.
Speaker 1: I could take it, and I'm like, I'm over it.
Speaker 1: So it was definitely one of those moments where I
Speaker 1: was like, I get so upset because I put in
Speaker 1: so much work for everyone, no one knows how to
Speaker 1: take a photo.
Speaker 3: I feel like I've been learning and I've been doing
Speaker 3: very well. Thank you very much. At Dean and Kiln's wedding,
Speaker 3: you were teaching me specific techniques, and I feel like
Speaker 3: I actually was like a student and I was picking
Speaker 3: up on those things.
Speaker 1: Well, I haven't seen your work since then, so I
Speaker 1: can't confirm it to not.
Speaker 3: Well, if you brought me to stagecoach, maybe you would
Speaker 3: have seen my work in action.
Speaker 1: You don't like country music, why would I I've been
Speaker 1: listening to the Cowboy corner for like a month straight to.
Speaker 2: Your rad I cannot be the argument.
Speaker 3: I'm wearing Denham on Denham on Denham.
Speaker 1: You're wearing a denim skirt and top zone together aka address.
Speaker 3: I like post Malone, he was there.
Speaker 2: I didn't go see post Malone. Well, who did you
Speaker 2: like from this? The night that I went?
Speaker 3: Was there? Like the Beach Boys?
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, I didn't watch the Beach Boys.
Speaker 3: I like Hattie or whatever. You said.
Speaker 5: Okay, here you would not Here we go start whooping
Speaker 5: and holler. And if you hear someone you like, Britney Spencer,
Speaker 5: Willie Jones, old people on the Beyonce album By the Way,
Speaker 5: Ashley Cook, the War Entreaty.
Speaker 3: Cook, my friend.
Speaker 2: I'm guessing friend, my friend.
Speaker 5: Maybe Nate Smith, Pam Tillis, Megan Brony, She's so good,
Speaker 5: Clint Black, the beach Boy around. Bailey Zimmerman was on
Speaker 5: a song with the Brothers.
Speaker 2: Yeah what about her own stuff?
Speaker 3: Fine?
Speaker 4: Bringing it's a Bailey's a man. Oh that's not miss
Speaker 4: gender Bailey Zimmerman. I love her.
Speaker 2: No, I feel more validated than ever.
Speaker 3: Bailey is a tricky name.
Speaker 4: Morgan walland you know that, yes, yes man?
Speaker 3: He sings I know this. I got two two kids
Speaker 3: to know what's the big song that he sings?
Speaker 1: And talk?
Speaker 3: I can't remember everything.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't know anything, So there you go.
Speaker 3: There's three right there.
Speaker 4: Wow, Well you would have had the best time. Like
Speaker 4: mendes Wi last.
Speaker 2: Night's Wizzy didn't stay for that. We left a way
Speaker 2: before Whizzy, I think because he performed before.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was. He was at like midnight or something.
Speaker 3: I was trying to do the w and I did
Speaker 3: it whatever I think you did.
Speaker 1: But I did.
Speaker 2: Happy to plan a stagecoach for you next year.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I like the one day that you did.
Speaker 2: Oh you like that?
Speaker 3: Yes? I think me and the three days anybody.
Speaker 1: I think I do next year is get get a
Speaker 1: house with like a pool, and then we alternate wristbands,
Speaker 1: and whoever wants to go for that day can go,
Speaker 1: and then everyone's beause.
Speaker 3: I enjoy Palm Springs exactly, love the vibe, the energy,
Speaker 3: and I like the vibe and the energy of those festivals,
Speaker 3: just not three full days of it.
Speaker 2: Same.
Speaker 1: Okay, well we can we can talk more about that.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you are not considered. I'll be more
Speaker 1: aware of how much you love country music it's less.
Speaker 3: About loving the country music and loving you.
Speaker 2: Oh well, let's.
Speaker 1: Do something we both enjoy if we want to spend
Speaker 1: time together, okay, without our feet hurting and me feeling
Speaker 1: like absolute death.
Speaker 2: The next day.
Speaker 3: I'll tell you this.
Speaker 1: Uh, it wasn't windy yesterday. So yesterday, I guess was
Speaker 1: the least windy.
Speaker 4: Was brutal?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because.
Speaker 1: They said it was really bad and we we had
Speaker 1: like it was really hot in the sun, but the
Speaker 1: weather was decent.
Speaker 3: Yes, it was like one hundred and ten.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I will say the difference in our demeanors
Speaker 1: today and how it seems that we're both feeling is
Speaker 1: talking just because of what happened. Is I drank a
Speaker 1: lot and Easton did it, and.
Speaker 5: After the bar to get water and we're like and
Speaker 5: they're like, hey, you have to your have wristband. I'm like,
Speaker 5: I'm not drinking and they're like, oh, like I need
Speaker 5: one for I'm not drinking at all, and they're like, really, okay,
Speaker 5: Like one person gave me a fist bump.
Speaker 4: But I was like, I don't know how people can
Speaker 4: do that.
Speaker 3: Do you understand that drinking is literally like we're just
Speaker 3: toxining our body. It's a literal poison, yes, and we
Speaker 3: just do it happily. I wasn't gonna drink until my wedding,
Speaker 3: and then here I am again this weekend throwing them back.
Speaker 1: Well, what maybe once you have your date set, you
Speaker 1: can go, Okay, I'm not going to drink this many
Speaker 1: months before. You know what I'm saying, not gonna happen.
Speaker 3: Oh but I feel it though, Like I'm like when
Speaker 3: I drink. After I drink, I hate the feeling. So
Speaker 3: I'm like, why am I choosing this?
Speaker 5: I've never had any interest, but this weekend I was like,
Speaker 5: oh man, I really am really not in it now.
Speaker 4: But uh, what was your rule?
Speaker 5: You didn't want to have a car, you were going
Speaker 5: to have wine in or something before you're you had
Speaker 5: set up.
Speaker 3: I think I said no hard liquor until my wedding day,
Speaker 3: and that's out the window, out the window. I lasted
Speaker 3: like maybe a month.
Speaker 2: That's longer than miss.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't like the way it makes me feel,
Speaker 3: So why do I keep doing it? So this really
Speaker 3: weird thing, like I'm having like an existential crisis.
Speaker 1: Well, I did feel like I made a mistake because
Speaker 1: my plan was to just garden.
Speaker 2: A little bit while I was there.
Speaker 3: Garden, remember, gardening.
Speaker 1: Edible so so that I wasn't like miserable the next day,
Speaker 1: right right?
Speaker 3: And I forgot that was so skippy ohigherism me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it literally was.
Speaker 1: But I didn't do that. So and then I drink vodka.
Speaker 1: I don't even drink vodka.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Why that's because, yeah, tequila probably would have set me
Speaker 1: up for success.
Speaker 2: Don't worry. I had a bagel with cream cheese this
Speaker 2: morning and it's from Saved Me.
Speaker 1: Noah's not. But I don't put your place on my
Speaker 1: door dash or whatever.
Speaker 3: Yeah it's fine.
Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, what a weekend. So would you go back?
Speaker 4: You know? I don't. It has to be an insane
Speaker 4: line up.
Speaker 2: Well with the lineup need to be for you.
Speaker 4: I don't say this year.
Speaker 5: I've always wanted I've loved country music now for a
Speaker 5: long time, and I've always wanted to go. But what
Speaker 5: pushed me over the edge was the Beach Boys. When
Speaker 5: I saw them get announced, I'm like, okay, we're going.
Speaker 5: And I've always wanted to see Hardy. I love Megan Maroney.
Speaker 5: There's a singer named Lauren Watkins. That was the first
Speaker 5: person on Friday and I have loved her for a
Speaker 5: very long time. And if you guys out there love
Speaker 5: country music, you should listen to Lauren Walkins.
Speaker 4: She's so good. So like this lineup, I was like,
Speaker 4: I cannot deny this. We have to go.
Speaker 5: I think next, if we're gonna go again, it has
Speaker 5: to be like Blink two, The Beach Boys, Chris Evans
Speaker 5: and character as Captain America.
Speaker 4: You know, it's got to be stuff like that, like
Speaker 4: going back. I don't think so.
Speaker 3: I feel like I like more country than that. List
Speaker 3: let on, Like I like Dan and Shay Yeah, no
Speaker 3: Flats oh yeah, Jelly Roll Roll, Chris Stapleton.
Speaker 2: Or Rascal flats Head.
Speaker 4: I mean that'd be great.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like some country we wouldn't say I like,
Speaker 3: am knowledgeable in country.
Speaker 2: We peaked the year with Shanaya and Garth Brooks.
Speaker 3: I know that Twain another legend, legend amongst legends, amongst
Speaker 3: our countries.
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's.
Speaker 4: Interesting, Yeah, it was.
Speaker 5: It's just a lot, you know, it's a it's a
Speaker 5: lot of time in the sun. I can't handle the sun.
Speaker 5: I love the sun, but it's it is like miserable
Speaker 5: Allison was. She really made it happen for me, and
Speaker 5: I'm very grateful because I was really excited about a
Speaker 5: lot of these guys. Uh, we're talking about like we've
Speaker 5: done it, marked off the list. It would have to
Speaker 5: be insane lant up to go back. Maybe we just
Speaker 5: do one day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I recommend it'll still take you down.
Speaker 2: But okay, I want.
Speaker 1: To talk about Tonya's world tour down to celebrate twenty
Speaker 1: years of Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: Twenty years of on air with oh yeah, years of Ryan.
Speaker 3: It's his twentieth birthday.
Speaker 1: Anyways, I felt like you raged, and I'm want to
Speaker 1: talk about not recovered from that.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about what love.
Speaker 1: Shoot, that was almost a smooth what I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it when we come back, but my
Speaker 1: words all jumble together.
Speaker 2: We'll talk about it when we come back.
Speaker 1: Tongue is still listing out the country artist she likes.
Speaker 2: They're coming in spurts.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Luke Bryant, there's.
Speaker 2: Some old he's not naming any reason.
Speaker 4: Chris Lane, Chris Laine. Interesting, that's right.
Speaker 2: Interesting.
Speaker 3: Nich Man, Yeah, I love the song he wrote about Lauren. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I can't remember what it's called though, so like.
Speaker 1: Once these one songs are overall, that's right, Okay. So
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest on Air with Ryan celebrated twenty years.
Speaker 3: Twenty years of the show. So Honor with Ryan Seacrest
Speaker 3: has been on the air for twenty years. And what's
Speaker 3: so crazy is that I've been a part of it
Speaker 3: for thirteen of those twenty years. That's so wild, so wild,
Speaker 3: Like I'm like, that's more than fifty percent of it. Yea, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's like seventy almost seventy percent.
Speaker 2: I don't think any of us.
Speaker 3: Are mathematicians anyways, but that's like so crazy. I'm like,
Speaker 3: the fact that I've been anywhere for thirteen years is
Speaker 3: so weird. Definitely feeling elderly these days. But we did
Speaker 3: a tour, so we stopped. We basically went from like
Speaker 3: Orange County up to LA So if you if you're
Speaker 3: not familiar with the area, would basically spanned like I
Speaker 3: don't know how mean miles that is.
Speaker 2: Probably like sixty sixties sixty is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So we went from Orange County to Anaheim to
Speaker 3: Los Alamados to Long Beach to Compton to Culver City
Speaker 3: to downtown LA to Alhambra to Burbank and I'm missing
Speaker 3: one other, oh two stops in Long Beach.
Speaker 2: I think we were the significance of the stop. What was
Speaker 2: the significance?
Speaker 3: So they're like hometown hust A lot of them are hometown.
Speaker 3: So Chalk was like it was the first place because
Speaker 3: we have a Bryan Secret has this foundation there the
Speaker 3: hospital Orange County, and then we went to Las Amel's
Speaker 3: High School, which is where Sisty and I went to
Speaker 3: high school. And then all the other ones were like
Speaker 3: hometown hustlers are people that we've had on the show
Speaker 3: to promote their business that are like people who have
Speaker 3: quit their jobs and started their own business. So we've
Speaker 3: all we've had all these people on the show, okay,
Speaker 3: And it was so wild. It was like a full
Speaker 3: on day. We were all like in a bus in
Speaker 3: a sprinter van loading up getting now. It was like
Speaker 3: total mayhem in the best.
Speaker 1: Way, and like you had to keep your energy just
Speaker 1: like at a level hundred the whole.
Speaker 3: Day, Yeah, one hundred because everybody people were coming to
Speaker 3: I was so so many people came to every single
Speaker 3: stop and so we would see people. Some people brought
Speaker 3: the Sunshine Mine book for me, to sign, which was
Speaker 3: like so cute, and so I wanted to like keep
Speaker 3: the vibes high in the bus when we were traveling
Speaker 3: to and fro because I was like, I can't to me,
Speaker 3: I can't like take cat nap and then go and
Speaker 3: like be on. So I kept trying to like play
Speaker 3: games in the bus, and nobody would play with me,
Speaker 3: which was kind of sad.
Speaker 5: I was wondering how those forty minute drives in between each.
Speaker 3: Software and nobody wanted to play with me. And eating
Speaker 3: was a challenge, so I ate. There was this bakery
Speaker 3: that made fresh bread. It came out of the oven
Speaker 3: and Ryan took a bite of it and you could
Speaker 3: see like the steam coming out, and I was so hungry.
Speaker 3: I was like, give it to me. I literally ate
Speaker 3: the entire loaf. Oh my god, like no meat in there,
Speaker 3: no sandwich, just a plane of white bread.
Speaker 2: Honestly, what's better than that?
Speaker 3: It was so good. It was so hot, it was
Speaker 3: like the inside was asulted. Oh my god, it was
Speaker 3: so good. I know, but I was then after like
Speaker 3: our third or four stop, I was hungry again. Robbie
Speaker 3: came and met us up at the downtown La Taco stop.
Speaker 3: That we had. That was really cute because he like
Speaker 3: bought a couple of beers and some shots. So that
Speaker 3: like really perked me up because then I was like
Speaker 3: dancing at the next since the alcohol just makes me
Speaker 3: like goosey.
Speaker 2: You didn't drink until the downtown Ya.
Speaker 3: What time was that four? Yeah? It was like hot
Speaker 3: hour and then yeah. So then our next stop was
Speaker 3: this grocery store and I was just dancing and it
Speaker 3: was so funny. I was like having the time of
Speaker 3: my life. And they DMed me on Instagram. They were like,
Speaker 3: thank you for having so much fun. All of our
Speaker 3: customers said that they loved seeing you dancing. I was like,
Speaker 3: oh my god. And then we ended up at a
Speaker 3: gas station which is on the cross streets of Ryan's
Speaker 3: first like apartment apartment in La Okay, and so that's
Speaker 3: where we ended in. There was so many people there
Speaker 3: and it was just like so fun. It was such
Speaker 3: a crazy, once in a lifetime experience. And it was
Speaker 3: like it was so cute because Robbie was like, I
Speaker 3: want to come to one of the stops. It's like
Speaker 3: it's okay, like we can meet for dinner after and
Speaker 3: he was like no, like when are you ever going
Speaker 3: to do this again? You know, He's like, you're never
Speaker 3: going to do this again. I want to see it,
Speaker 3: and like it was like.
Speaker 1: Really really cool, that's so fun. Yeah, it looked really fun.
Speaker 1: It was actually really fun and it looks like a
Speaker 1: long day. Like I was like, that's a.
Speaker 3: Lot, I know. And I was gonna wear Heal booties
Speaker 3: because I was like I want to look kind of,
Speaker 3: you know, kind of cute. And then I realized like
Speaker 3: how much walking, and I was so glad I wore sneakers.
Speaker 2: The sneakers never fail, No, you never regret it.
Speaker 3: I'm in this phase of life where I want comfort
Speaker 3: over cuteness.
Speaker 2: I feel like you've been in that real long time.
Speaker 3: Basically in my whole life. I want comfort over kere.
Speaker 1: I feel like lately, more than ever, you're you're dressing
Speaker 1: up more than your really yeah, because like for a
Speaker 1: minute it was like sweats you were in your sweats era. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm still in it, I know, but like tell very
Speaker 1: much so I don't I feel like you've actually gone
Speaker 1: into more cue over comfort.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah really.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like denam skirt and top someone together doesn't look
Speaker 1: more comfortable than a sweatsuit. It's not bad, no, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying you can't.
Speaker 3: Beat a sweatsuit. If I could live in a sweatsuit,
Speaker 3: if I could walk down the aisle in a sweatsuit.
Speaker 2: You can. My god, you can do anything you want.
Speaker 3: I know, but I'm not going to do that. I'm
Speaker 3: just saying, but if it's a long enough dress, it
Speaker 3: might something might go under. I'm just gonna tell you
Speaker 3: that much for sure.
Speaker 1: Speaking of road tripping, and know what, I'm playing games
Speaker 1: with you, someone in the scrubbing in group on a
Speaker 1: Facebook posted I just saw Tanya's stories that she was
Speaker 1: going to pick out road trip snacks for Ryan's bus store.
Speaker 1: I love her to death, but she is the last
Speaker 1: person I went on picking out snacks for a road trip.
Speaker 1: I need Becka to be picked out my road trip snacks.
Speaker 3: So first of all, I'd like to tell you what
Speaker 3: I packed.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd let the people know.
Speaker 3: Dried mangoes, delicious love mango, Okay, thank you. My almond
Speaker 3: flour crackers their cheese and they taste like cheese. It's
Speaker 3: you had them, and they're delicious.
Speaker 2: Literally maybe the grossest thing.
Speaker 3: Of every I didn't make them. I didn't make them.
Speaker 3: I bought them at the store. No, no, you've eaten
Speaker 3: them delicious.
Speaker 2: Their stuff is good, good enough, yes, much better than
Speaker 2: what you made me.
Speaker 3: I got Justin's almond butter, peanut butter cups, dark chocolate. Okay,
Speaker 3: I got some peanut butter and almond butter. Like the
Speaker 3: slurpy things that you just like slurp out of the
Speaker 3: you know, they put them in like little packets, a
Speaker 3: little individual pack I got a ton of those. Great
Speaker 3: in case you want some protein on the go. And
Speaker 3: uh and some popcorn, some lesser evil popcorn.
Speaker 4: It's not as bad as I would have thought.
Speaker 1: Very healthy stuff now, and I think when I'm on
Speaker 1: a road trip, I'm just like I want Dorito's.
Speaker 2: I want nerds clusters.
Speaker 3: Well, so, okay, nerds cluster is one thing, but Doritos
Speaker 3: get your hands really dirty. We didn't have a bathroom
Speaker 3: on the bus. We needed to keep it tight. Sticks chopsticks.
Speaker 1: People eat like fire hot cheetos with like chopsticks so
Speaker 1: that their fingers don't get there.
Speaker 3: This woman brought us Nicks burritos. She like, came to
Speaker 3: one of the stops and brought these like breed breakfast briders.
Speaker 3: That are amazing from our hometown. She went and bought
Speaker 3: them and brought with this giant back. I know, so sweet.
Speaker 3: I gone by it to a Sparks game.
Speaker 2: Wow, the rules, I know exciting.
Speaker 3: I know, it was quite the trip.
Speaker 1: A lot of people, though, said that they would actually
Speaker 1: choose Easton to pick their snacks. Wow. That is because
Speaker 1: they feel like you choose some like fun and interesting things. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I like to think I would, you know, you.
Speaker 1: Would choose like like you would try if you were
Speaker 1: in the middle of Hexas and they had like some
Speaker 1: weird jerky.
Speaker 2: I feel like you try and that stresses me out.
Speaker 5: They got squirrel jerky here, let's try this, or like
Speaker 5: those lollipops with the worm in them, like that kind
Speaker 5: of thing.
Speaker 3: You can't go wrong with me jerky. Honestly, I'm bummed
Speaker 3: I didn't grab some chomps.
Speaker 2: I do love a chomp, Yeah, I do love.
Speaker 1: I will say I had what I would consider one
Speaker 1: of the best chicken tenders and barbecue sauce in my
Speaker 1: life last night. Now, I was, yeah, and I was
Speaker 1: at a level I would say eight. How many drinks
Speaker 1: did you have a lot?
Speaker 2: I like, how many many?
Speaker 3: Four or five?
Speaker 2: Yeah? The last one was a double so like six yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: and it was just back to back. It was brutal.
Speaker 1: So by the time Morgan Walling came on, I was
Speaker 1: sober and like, get me to a car where I
Speaker 1: am like heading to my bed.
Speaker 3: I think I have like a window of two hours
Speaker 3: where the alcohol gets me fun and then it's just down,
Speaker 3: just down.
Speaker 2: After that, Yeah, we didn't. We didn't.
Speaker 4: Paste was this chicken?
Speaker 5: This is something you got at the festival. I didn't
Speaker 5: eat any food there.
Speaker 1: I was so basic that, like I think I was
Speaker 1: just so starving and they were so hot and fresh.
Speaker 1: And I'm so weird about biting into chicken because you
Speaker 1: just don't know, like if you're gonna get a freaky piece.
Speaker 1: And I was just biting into no fear and it
Speaker 1: wow safe. I got no weird pieces. So it took
Speaker 1: drunk courage. Okay. Taylor Swift has had her album out
Speaker 1: for a week now, over a week. Yes, I have
Speaker 1: listened to it multiple times and I I had a
Speaker 1: new appreciation for it when I put my air pods in.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you mean different thing?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just like enjoyed it so much with it
Speaker 1: in my head, in my.
Speaker 2: Ears like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think when I was listening to it
Speaker 1: just out on a general ice speaker, I'd be like, oh, I,
Speaker 1: I didn't really hear the lyrics, but when it's in
Speaker 1: your head noise canceling, I really heard it.
Speaker 3: I know. I need to get some of those. I
Speaker 3: think I've realized, and I and to get a pair
Speaker 3: of those I love but Daddy, I love him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, but it's it was like up on
Speaker 2: my list, but I love it.
Speaker 3: It's my top three.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And the Prophecy, what's.
Speaker 3: The one that's starting to do it for me that
Speaker 3: I did not pick originally? Oh Down bad Oh I
Speaker 3: loved That wasn't in my That wasn't in my early favorites.
Speaker 3: And the Tortured Poets Apartment, the title track of the album,
Speaker 3: it's up there for me, And I think, what's it
Speaker 3: called going down? Who's afraid of little old Me?
Speaker 4: Really?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Just moving down? It's fine, it's not gone, it's
Speaker 3: just moving down down the chart.
Speaker 1: I still feel like the first half of the album
Speaker 1: is my favorite.
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I still don't
Speaker 3: like any of the ones with the names Cassandra, Peter Robin,
Speaker 3: is it that a Chloe or Sam or Sophia or
Speaker 3: Mark or what is it.
Speaker 2: I've enjoyed Clara bow More.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I like Clara bow too.
Speaker 1: I was like, I said, it was a skip, and
Speaker 1: I'm I might skip it, but I might not.
Speaker 2: That's where I'm at now.
Speaker 3: Not to derail the Taylor Swift combo. Because Nick byal
Speaker 3: got married this weekend.
Speaker 2: He did to Natalie Joy.
Speaker 3: Whom we love. I was surprised some people that I
Speaker 3: didn't see there. Oh, like Jason Tartik. Isn't he friends
Speaker 3: with Jason Tartik and Tyler Cameron and they were at Stagecoach.
Speaker 1: I do feel like he's close with Tyler Cameron, So
Speaker 1: I was surprised by that too.
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know how. I don't know how
Speaker 2: close all these people are.
Speaker 1: I just know they're close because if they did Special
Speaker 1: Forces together, I fel like a bond.
Speaker 2: Yeah maybe Tyler.
Speaker 1: I feel like Tyler did work stuff at Stagecoach though,
Speaker 1: so maybe he had already agreed to that.
Speaker 3: I mean, you give people a pretty large heads up.
Speaker 1: The wedding day, have their wedding stuff after they got
Speaker 1: pregnant or did they just keep the same day, and I'm.
Speaker 3: Pretty sure they kept it. And I know somebody that
Speaker 3: was there that has known for a very long time
Speaker 3: boots on the ground, but had boots on the ground
Speaker 3: at the wedding. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: You have boots on the ground.
Speaker 3: Yeah you better watch out, duma. I'm comment for you.
Speaker 3: But I did, like I loved the ascetic of their wedding,
Speaker 3: and like Rob and I were talking about how beautiful
Speaker 3: the I don't know if you don't call it a hoopah,
Speaker 3: what's the thing that goes around the couple as they
Speaker 3: get married, the arch. Yeah, it's just called an arch.
Speaker 4: I would just call it an arch.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just called it a hoopah. But it's so
Speaker 3: beautiful and it was like has a greenery. And I'm
Speaker 3: starting to learn and pick up on these things I
Speaker 3: never really realized or thought about before.
Speaker 1: Well, they got married on her family's three hundred acre
Speaker 1: farm in Georgia, and it looked like a very country
Speaker 1: westerns so cute. Really, we love a mountain cheek.
Speaker 3: Well, I love a mountain cheek country moment, that's for sure.
Speaker 1: I did see she posted today that you know she's
Speaker 1: breastfeeding still, so her boobs are like huge, huge, and
Speaker 1: people were making comments like the wedding's beautiful, but why
Speaker 1: would you be in a dress where your boobs look
Speaker 1: that like huge? And she's like, just so y'all know,
Speaker 1: like I'm breastfeeding. So by the end of the night,
Speaker 1: like my boobs were like literally so big.
Speaker 3: So also, I buy things to make so like, get
Speaker 3: off me.
Speaker 2: I'm buying an outfit trying to look like that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you best believe. I mean, I don't know, but
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get a dress where my boobs are smushed
Speaker 3: and up you're not watch out you don't think so
Speaker 3: little sweetheart top.
Speaker 1: Yeah maybe I could see you doing that for a moment. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not excited to see what you choose for yours.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I was like laughing because I kept thinking.
Speaker 1: I was like, well, she looks amazing, and then it's weird,
Speaker 1: like what.
Speaker 2: What you see when you look at a photo?
Speaker 1: And then she posted that and I'm like, people are
Speaker 1: so many wedding that yeah, who just scroll?
Speaker 3: But also like some people like obviously whatever she's breastfeeding,
Speaker 3: she wasn't. She didn't want them to be out like that.
Speaker 3: But I'm like, even if she did that's her brogative.
Speaker 5: I'll never understand that, like seeing something like that and
Speaker 5: being like, I need, I need to weigh in here,
Speaker 5: I need to say this horrible thing that I do
Speaker 5: not understand that.
Speaker 2: It's a weird.
Speaker 1: If you think about having the mindset to scroll on
Speaker 1: Instagram knowing you're gonna leave me in comments is such
Speaker 1: a weird, weird thing.
Speaker 3: I also have been NonStop looking at Alex Cooper's photos
Speaker 3: from her wedding. Gosh, and she really threw a wrench
Speaker 3: in my planets because now I'm looking into Mexico.
Speaker 2: It was just everything because this.
Speaker 3: Whole time, my biggest fear of LA is the weather.
Speaker 3: Like I keep getting nervous about the weather.
Speaker 2: So funny we have like the most like no think
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 3: It was eighty degrees the other week, and then the
Speaker 3: weekend it was just like a downpour.
Speaker 1: You can't predict the weather days, timing year for sure,
Speaker 1: but I think in other times of the year you
Speaker 1: may to September.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but even we had a hurricane in August last year.
Speaker 2: Okay, hardly it was.
Speaker 3: It was raining for two days.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it did rain.
Speaker 3: So what I'm saying is like the weather's unpredictable, and
Speaker 3: so I've been like really stressed about it. And then
Speaker 3: I saw her photos from Mexico and I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: do you know where the weather is perfect all year round?
Speaker 3: It rains in Mexico, not in the wintertime. They have
Speaker 3: like November to April is like their best months.
Speaker 1: I think there's still potential that it could rain or
Speaker 1: get a hurricane.
Speaker 3: You think so, yes, not according to my searches.
Speaker 1: Okay, well let's use searches then. But her wedding looked incredible.
Speaker 1: And it's also like the photos in her style, like
Speaker 1: everything about it just felt so vogue.
Speaker 3: Yea, it belonged in Vogue. It really did. But I
Speaker 3: was just like, ugh, what a treat that no one
Speaker 3: has to worry about the weather.
Speaker 1: I think everyone has to worry. Ally's worried about the
Speaker 1: weather like she is. Yeah, it's like rainy in Amsterdam.
Speaker 3: It is Oh, that would send me, That would really
Speaker 3: send me. Are they doing it indoors? No outdoors?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: See that's the thing. Like Robbie goes, Okay, He's like, babe,
Speaker 3: we have to narrow this down here, what is your vision?
Speaker 3: And I go my only vision that I've ever had
Speaker 3: is outdoors. Every like Pinterest, every like photo that I
Speaker 3: see and I send to anybody. It's a venue that's outdoors.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, obviously I don't want to be in
Speaker 3: a ballroom, right, But my also, my biggest concern is
Speaker 3: the weather.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Riddle yeah, riddle me, riddle me that you.
Speaker 2: Have a tent outside. Maybe you go outdoor with a tent.
Speaker 3: I guess you could have a tent backup, but it's
Speaker 3: like your best bet.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, Sophia Bush came out, Yes she did, and she
Speaker 1: wrote an essay for Glamour magazine. And it's interesting because
Speaker 1: in the essay she says that she right before her wedding,
Speaker 1: she almost called it off. And she was like, I guess,
Speaker 1: you know you, I mean, you don't want to disappoint people.
Speaker 1: You don't want to you know, you worked so hard
Speaker 1: to play in a wedding. You don't want to have
Speaker 1: to like call it off. And I thought that was
Speaker 1: such a good maybe something for people to hear where
Speaker 1: it's like it ended anyway, you know. And she had
Speaker 1: to go through the public of like getting another divorce
Speaker 1: and she had to do that all again because she
Speaker 1: was scared of disappointing people, where if she had just
Speaker 1: listened to her gut.
Speaker 3: It's so it's so wild how that happened. But I
Speaker 3: think it happens all the time, but not even just
Speaker 3: in weddings. In life, you just do things because you
Speaker 3: don't want to disappoint. You don't want disappoint people when
Speaker 3: you're disappointing yourself. Isn't that so weird?
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, we're way more We're way more comfortable disappointing
Speaker 2: ourselves than disappointing other people.
Speaker 3: It's so crazy.
Speaker 1: But they had their first red carpet appearance and.
Speaker 3: They were matching, not matching, coordinating.
Speaker 2: She said, you know, she felt like she took off.
Speaker 1: She said she felt like coming out or she felt
Speaker 1: like coming to terms with her sexuality was like taking
Speaker 1: off a weighted vest. And I felt that not so
Speaker 1: much with my sexuality, I guess. But when I when
Speaker 1: Kaylee and I went public, I felt a literal way
Speaker 1: being lifted off of me. So I really when she
Speaker 1: said that, I was like, I know, I know that feeling.
Speaker 1: That's so crazy, or like when you meet someone and
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, this is what you know, this is
Speaker 1: what I was hoping it would feel like.
Speaker 3: That.
Speaker 5: Hearing that always makes me so emotional because I think
Speaker 5: about so many people that can't that, that will never
Speaker 5: feel that, or for a very long time.
Speaker 3: That still just are in this lie because they don't
Speaker 3: want to disappoint people in their lives, and.
Speaker 5: I just can't imagine what it would be like to
Speaker 5: not be who you are. Yeah, that's it breaks my heart.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so it's you hope that there.
Speaker 1: I do feel like there is progress, Like even though
Speaker 1: sometimes in the news and what you hear, it feels like, wow,
Speaker 1: have we made any progress in this area? But then
Speaker 1: I see kids like going to prom together with their
Speaker 1: girlfriend or boyfriend, and I'm like, I see the comments
Speaker 1: of people being like I would have given anything to
Speaker 1: go to prom with a boy or to go to
Speaker 1: prom with a girl, and I'm so like, it's healing
Speaker 1: me my younger self like seeing this so I know that,
Speaker 1: Like there are moments.
Speaker 2: Where I go, are we having progress in this?
Speaker 1: But then you see those and you're like that would
Speaker 1: that couldn't happen. Even when I was in high school,
Speaker 1: I don't think anyone in my school would have gone
Speaker 1: to prom or a dance with the same sex company.
Speaker 3: I think I had a couple in my high school,
Speaker 3: but not many.
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely not. I mean I went to like a
Speaker 1: Baptist school, so definitely not. But yeah, it is it's
Speaker 1: like you root for people to experience that once you've like,
Speaker 1: now that I've experienced it, it's like it feels so
Speaker 1: much heavier of thinking how people live their whole life.
Speaker 1: And you see these older people or an elderly people
Speaker 1: who didn't get to live their truth and they're finally
Speaker 1: getting to do it. But there's it's like it's obviously
Speaker 1: better late than ever, but you go, wow, they lived
Speaker 1: a whole life not loving who they wanted to love.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really sad.
Speaker 1: So I'm happy for I'm really happy for her that
Speaker 1: she has experienced that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love you, Sophia Bush. You want to scrubbing
Speaker 3: and oh our door is wide open. And with that
Speaker 3: what we do.
Speaker 1: Speaking of this topic, we have a guest on Thursday.
Speaker 1: We have Shannon Beverage. She is an og YouTuber. She
Speaker 1: is a very popular lesbian if you are familiar with
Speaker 1: that world.
Speaker 2: And I'm so excited to talk to her.
Speaker 1: Because I've been wanting to have her on the podcast
Speaker 1: and We're going to have a really good conversation this Thursday,
Speaker 1: so tune in for that.
Speaker 2: We love you so much, Love you so much.
Speaker 3: Talk to Thursday, My