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Speaker 2: of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, making too much body, I mean, but your body

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Speaker 2: I know them shoes expensed if I can take because

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Speaker 2: I ain't never seen them before.

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Speaker 1: The jeans are free and they were good American. I

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Speaker 1: love six talk shop. Not clothes, but like everything else

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Speaker 2: So back to the podcast, though, Do y'all feel like

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Speaker 2: Like sometimes you like, oh I need a break, I

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Speaker 3: We're not working.

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Speaker 1: We don't see each other that much. Really, Damn, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I just think you have to be.

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Speaker 3: Know have conversations with y'all friends? Are you joking?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, they hate each other, they're

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Speaker 1: It's like, really, we just having a bad off.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So I think that'll probably be something that

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Speaker 2: y'all will have to do with that's gonna get on

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Speaker 3: Like what I think for me, I don't read anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like y'all read the comments. I don't look at it.

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Speaker 1: at me? You know what I'm saying. So I had

438
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,000
Speaker 1: to I had to build that skin up because otherwise

439
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,919
Speaker 1: I would have went crazy. But now I don't know

440
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 1: if it went too far because I really be like

441
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 1: to it the time. We read the comments all the time,

442
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: and I think I'm more like partial to like how

443
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,359
Speaker 1: both of y'all feel like we talked about this when

444
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 1: we came on y'all show. I don't know that I

445
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: ever really like I wanted to be famous. I always

446
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,479
Speaker 1: just wanted to like get a lot of money. And

447
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 1: then I feel like, obviously with what we do is

448
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 1: taking on a whole life of its own, and it's

449
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 1: become like this big thing. I hate that people be

450
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: worried about what I be doing.

451
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 3: Don't worry about me.

452
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe they're worried, but I don't pay it any

453
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 1: one to feel like I'm also a little mysterious y'all. Yeah,

454
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 1: so like you're not really gonna find me, Like you

455
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 1: really gotta look.

456
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, because people be like.

457
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: Oh, y'all, never go nowhere. I be like, that's a lot,

458
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 1: but it just be very meticulous, yeah, like calculated, like

459
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 1: you know, I don't catch us. You're gonna catch us

460
00:22:50,680 --> 00:23:00,680
Speaker 1: on a booth, but this in the dark dark Yeah, because.

461
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 2: You know that signature blonde hair, that blonde. I can

462
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 2: always tell it Savannah, it's.

463
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 3: A certain blonde.

464
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 2: Though nobody else got that blonde. Everybody's like, oh I

465
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 2: got that Savannah blonde.

466
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 3: No, you don't be it's not that she got that.

467
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 3: I was getting my hair done.

468
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 2: At the salon the other day and I was like,

469
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 2: I was like, I just I love a jet black moment, like.

470
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 3: When you especially when you have like colored hair, you

471
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 3: go back to jet black. I love it.

472
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,679
Speaker 2: And I was like, but there's certain people who can

473
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 2: just pull off the colors. And we're like, yes, Meanie Leaks,

474
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 2: Mary j. Bliche and Savanna James are natural blonde, y'all.

475
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 3: Beyonce, y'all are natural blondes. But it's all different tones

476
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 3: of blondes.

477
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 2: Like I can tell like if it was like the

478
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 2: back of Savannah's head or the back of Mary J Bliche.

479
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh that's Mary, that Savannah, that's Niny, that's

480
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,719
Speaker 2: beyond Yeah. Like I can just tell you even got

481
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,120
Speaker 2: to show the head. You can just show a little peaks.

482
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: That's so funny.

483
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: So scared of blonde really brought too much attention. It's

484
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: it like blond, like I was always so scared, but

485
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: all look like it's so good.

486
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 3: It's it's like a signature.

487
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: I ain't imagine you any other Yeah, at this point,

488
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: I don't think I could either, which is crazy.

489
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 3: When was the last time you had like dark black?

490
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah? Twenty twenty two? Really, yeah, just started. I went

491
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 1: started wearing my blond wigs and twenty but I never

492
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 1: went back the here be tea on point every time.

493
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: So I do want to touch back on business a

494
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: little bit because y'all just announced your new holding company.

495
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: So let's talk about that and what the inspiration behind

496
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 1: starting that was, and you know, how did y'all come

497
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: up with it? I mean, I think really it came

498
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: down the efficiency because we have two businesses together. Everybody's

499
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: crazy and let it break. Can you talk about what

500
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,640
Speaker 1: Let It Breaks. Yeah, so everybody's crazy. Obviously, you guys

501
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,120
Speaker 1: know it's the podcast, but we say it's the humor

502
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: of us, and Let It Break is like the heart,

503
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,959
Speaker 1: you know. I think Let It Break is a women's

504
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: organization based in New York and LA. It's membership and

505
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:19,719
Speaker 1: subscription model, and it's all about personal development and becoming

506
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: the best version of yourself. And I think both me

507
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: and Savannah have gone on like a healing journey to

508
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: refine who we are, how we deal with things, and

509
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 1: we felt like it was hard, and through that journey

510
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:35,959
Speaker 1: we were like, we need to figure out how to

511
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 1: give this the more people quicker, Like I think a

512
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 1: lot of times it's a pivotal point, whether it's death

513
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 1: or a heartbreak or something that makes you kind of

514
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 1: re evaluate where you are. And I think we were like,

515
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,439
Speaker 1: if we could give a cheat code to women, this

516
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: would be great. So we kind of bottled up everything

517
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: we research did amongst us and we built this organization.

518
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: There's about four hundred women that are a part of

519
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 1: it now. We're accepting additional members that will be accepted

520
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: in September. So we have those two businesses and then

521
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: it just efficiencies we were sitting in a bunch of meetings.

522
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 1: She has a refrain, I have a crowd and Conquer.

523
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 1: I mean it's four businesses amongst the two of us,

524
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: you know, Like I'll be honest when you hear comments

525
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: like we're sitting on the sofa.

526
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 2: Chat, don't get me started because I get to the

527
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 2: comments and I starts to argue.

528
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I like to argue, no one is sitting

529
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 1: on nobody's so right, yeah, like never have never did

530
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 1: take breaks? Right, she takes breaks. But to black girl

531
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: doing a product line based out of Korea, product in Korea,

532
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: going back and researching, stepping out of your comfort zone.

533
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 1: I just think for me, it's so interesting the perception

534
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:58,959
Speaker 1: and then what it really is. The holding company is big.

535
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: I think most people start with a holding company at

536
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: the top and then they venture out and build other businesses.

537
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: We took three very established businesses. Crown and Conquer has

538
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 1: been around ten years. Is a real business, you know,

539
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: and we've raised a lot of money. We don't even

540
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 1: talk about it, like people don't even and it's not

541
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 1: from Lebron James, as much as we love him. It's

542
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: a huge supporter of everything we do. We didn't take

543
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: money from him. We went out and did it on

544
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 1: our own. We were uncomfortable and getting for it, asking

545
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: for money for people to support us, but we did it.

546
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 1: And so the holding company kind of brings the three

547
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: businesses together for efficiency and just evolution, Like you know

548
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: what you know and what you don't, you better hire

549
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: somebody to know it for you. And I think a

550
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 1: lot of times I've gotten to where I've gotten on

551
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 1: Crown and Conquer and I'm good. There's just some things

552
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: I should not be doing at this point in my life,

553
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: and that's that's hard to come to that realization as

554
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 1: a founder. And then there's certain things Savannah's learning. I

555
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 1: don't know nothing about No Beauty. I work off of

556
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: common sense, like somebody just started lying, putting it in

557
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: like select locations, doing what she's doing. Like I just

558
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 1: think some people don't realize starting a podcast. We don't

559
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: know nothing about no podcasts.

560
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

561
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: I produce events out of set up, getting a trap phone,

562
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: setting up a camera, doing whatever, like let it break,

563
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 1: going on a personal healing journey and saying we want

564
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: to bring it to other women. I think everything we've

565
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: done has been rare, and I think for once, we

566
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: really want to build something that has sustainability and legacy

567
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: and that's like what's important to us.

568
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 2: Well, that's amazing, congratulations on that, because I feel like

569
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 2: a lot of people in this space too, they.

570
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 3: Don't want to share their knowledge.

571
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: I don't know why that's the thing to just like, oh,

572
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: you learn something and you keep it to yourself. The

573
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 2: fact that y'all have been like out here helping them

574
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 2: because y'all did a trip or something.

575
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: Let it break trip just on healing. We're doing retreats.

576
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:13,959
Speaker 1: Like I think we are mysterious, but not intentionally. I

577
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: think we're mysterious because if you know, when you're curious,

578
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: you'll find us. But we're not in your face.

579
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 3: And we don't need to be.

580
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: Because I think if you're going on a personal development journey,

581
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: it's for you, you have to be ready, Like I shouldn't

582
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: be like, hey, come on, let's do this and then

583
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: you're like, oh hell, like family trauma, like you know,

584
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: like that is an intense journey. Or if you're going

585
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: and calling in and wanting to get advice, you have

586
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: to seek to call us on everybody's crazy. People seek

587
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: poor minds because they want to hear perspective. They want

588
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: to laugh, they want humor. Like, so you find your

589
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: tribe and we're not forcing where we are, you'll find us.

590
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: I love that because being mysterious, that's okay. Like I

591
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: think sometimes people need to work to get to know

592
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: more about you. You don't got to give everything, and

593
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: I think that that is important. But I feel like

594
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: that is not the world we live in.

595
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, do y'all feel like y'all have to like prove that,

596
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 2: Like y'all feel like y'all are trying to prove y'all

597
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,239
Speaker 2: selves with y'all's businesses and being like, oh, we have

598
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: other things going on, and you're just like, you know

599
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 2: what we're doing what we do.

600
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: I never felt the need to prove anything to anybody.

601
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: Only person that I'm trying to make proud with myself. Yeah,

602
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,959
Speaker 1: and my kids and my husband they come. But at

603
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's about you and how

604
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: you feel about what you have going on. I never

605
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: felt the need to prove anything. I won't see. But

606
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: I will say, y'all gonna respect us.

607
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 3: Okay, Now I'm with that. I am.

608
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: I'm one thousand percent with that cause I think just

609
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 2: like I said, being a black woman already, they want

610
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 2: to count us out. So it's like as soon as

611
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 2: we say something or have an opinion about anything or

612
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 2: started business, it's just like, oh, how'd you get that?

613
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 2: Oh you must have did that, or you only got

614
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 2: this because of that. So I do think it's just

615
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 2: kind of like, but we're gonna be here and you're

616
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 2: gonna see us, you see it.

617
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: And you're gonna respect it, And I think that is

618
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: something to say for that. Like I think when we

619
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: even talk about poor minds from twenty eighteen to now

620
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: y'all out on a tour, like I respect that, thank you,

621
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: thank you, Like I respect that there is something to

622
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 1: say for that. Like you know, even sometimes when we're

623
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: looking at the people around us, like LJ or somebody

624
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: like that, and when you come to sports and like

625
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: you may not like it, but you should respect it.

626
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 1: And I think it's so much bashing of like well

627
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: how and what's happening and oh, you ain't do that,

628
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: or like we on a trip and I'm in business

629
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: and she in first, Oh you ain't paid for the ticket.

630
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: Just respect that we going out the country to go

631
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 1: see the world and you at.

632
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 3: Home, yes, home, you're not about to be here.

633
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 2: I got there, I got this got theory is it

634
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 2: got to be?

635
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: I would have still been there.

636
00:31:58,280 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 3: Okay, I've been at thirty six.

637
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: I meant happened, but we got there.

638
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 3: Yes, are we turning up or not?

639
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 2: Or not?

640
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: So I do want to ask you, Savanna, like, do

641
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: you consider yourself to be a fashion icon? Because that's

642
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: what the girls be saying they do, they'll be putting

643
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: that ship on. It's so funny because I don't even

644
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: like the shop really. I like to get things that

645
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: are nice and pretty and whatever, But to go in

646
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: a store and walk around and try to figure it out, no, Okay, No,

647
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: So I have an amazing stylist. It helps. Yes, it's

648
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: very much a collaborative effort. But yeah, you didn't not

649
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: take that.

650
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna take that.

651
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: Thank y'all. The girls be saying you a fashion icon,

652
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: and that's what I was gonna ask you, like, is

653
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 1: it more of an intentional thing? Because I feel like

654
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: you'll be stepping out a little bit more these days

655
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: than you used to, for sure, and you'll be putting

656
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: that ship on. So I'm like, it's my girl, Like, Okay,

657
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: we shout to all what the fuck I got?

658
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

659
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: No, I mean I think it's me showing up as

660
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: I am like, I know you like notice, but I

661
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: like can step out and get dressed or whatever. But

662
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: I am most comfortable in sweats.

663
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

664
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: Like, so I think it's a balance for me. But

665
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: when I go outside, I want to represent myself in

666
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: a type of ways, happy to be recognized as a

667
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: fashion take that baby.

668
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

669
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 2: And I think too with finding a solace though, like

670
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: it's like finding a man. Yeah, you gotta find somebody

671
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,479
Speaker 2: that really is your style.

672
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, gets it right.

673
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 1: But he also pushes me out of my comfort zone

674
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: to some of the things and some of the ways

675
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: that I've shown up. It's been like a fight just

676
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: because I'd be like, no, yeah you like and it works. Yeah,

677
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: you're looking good. I'm laughing because in my head, because

678
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about that video of you from New York,

679
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: it was very much like the fuck is the car.

680
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 3: All black? Yah?

681
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: Where was car is supposed to be here? I didn't understand.

682
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 1: I was trying to figure this. My girl was ready

683
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,479
Speaker 1: to go about we in New York City. Somebody's gonna

684
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 1: snatch me.

685
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 3: Watch your bad. He ain't just anybody.

686
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:20,919
Speaker 1: Got that ship came the next day. I'm like, oh

687
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: my god, oh my god.

688
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 2: I do want to ask April a question because I

689
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 2: think me and Dre have this conversation a lot too,

690
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 2: because like being like a business owner and being so

691
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: like I feel like you have the kind of personality

692
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 2: like Dre, like you're very stern and so times a

693
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: lot of times that me and.

694
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 3: Her both deal with that, Like people be like, oh

695
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 3: my gosh, she's rude, she's not nice.

696
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 2: But it's like if a man does it, he's he's assertive,

697
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: he's the boss, and he's this and that. So how

698
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,919
Speaker 2: do you deal with that, like being assertive and being

699
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,439
Speaker 2: a boss and hand on the business, but not trying

700
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: to come off as like bitchy.

701
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: Yeah I come off Oh so you just like I

702
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 1: don't give it out. Yeah, I think that's just who I.

703
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,280
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not that i'm intentionally, but I operate

704
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: from a high level of common sense. So slow and

705
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 1: me don't get along, okay, Like slow and meaning ass pace,

706
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 1: like moving like that. It's very hard for me and

707
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: I am very resourceful, which are two really great traits,

708
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: but I think really hard to work with too, So

709
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: because I'm moving constantly and I'm like, Okay, let's move this,

710
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: let's do that, And I just think that's how life works,

711
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: you know. So it's not that I intentionally mean to

712
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: come off like that, but I don't really like chit chat.

713
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,919
Speaker 1: I don't like chit chat and texts mood. I don't

714
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: like chit chat. I mean, even today, it was like, damn,

715
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: you had to say it like that. I was like,

716
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so sorry, y'all didn't mean to

717
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: say it like that.

718
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 2: Put some sugar on it. Last night because she'd be

719
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 2: like a friend respectfully. I said, you're not being respectful.

720
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 3: Stop saying that.

721
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 1: He told me that. Yes, if I'm like respectfully, and

722
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,919
Speaker 1: I was telling her about himself, she was like, it's

723
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: not respectable.

724
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 3: You up.

725
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 1: Tear you up.

726
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 3: Stop. I said, please stop saying that. Bro, it's not soft.

727
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 3: It's like, I love her respectfully.

728
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,399
Speaker 1: I feel like it depends on where I'm at. I've

729
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: learned to curve, Okay, my leadership. Okay, so I've had

730
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,320
Speaker 1: an executive coach. Sometimes if I'm not talking, you probably

731
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: don't want that either. I think either which way I

732
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: am is always.

733
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 3: Going to be a problem.

734
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 1: So if I don't say nothing, it's like, oh, here

735
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,359
Speaker 1: we go, she definitely got something to say. So if

736
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,359
Speaker 1: I'm quiet, and then if I'm saying something, it's like, oh, well,

737
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: it's not really formulated in the way we want to

738
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: receive it. And I mean, I think that's the nice

739
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 1: thing about only your own ship.

740
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 3: Though, yeah, I got to answer to nobody.

741
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 1: They got to answer you like, so like I don't

742
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 1: be the flex but like I learned. But I feel like,

743
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 1: let's pop our ship though, like pop shit.

744
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 2: Everybody deserves it if you y'all be working hard. And

745
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 2: I think they always want us to be humble and

746
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 2: shut up now, you know.

747
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: So I feel like that is the power of having ownership,

748
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: is that you can stand and whatever your truth is

749
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: and you can give it feedback or you hire somebody

750
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:23,280
Speaker 1: else to give the feedback.

751
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 3: Is the way you give it.

752
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,760
Speaker 1: Is not right. I mean, I've learned a lot about

753
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: myself and the hard ways too, you know what I mean,

754
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: Like being a business owner, it's not for the faint

755
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 1: and heart. It's difficult, and I think the people is

756
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 1: the hardest part to business. It's not what you're doing,

757
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: is the people. You know what I mean, like even

758
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: when you guys came on our show and we were

759
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 1: and you know, in the back end, you know, I

760
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: got night job, so I'm back in emailing shit.

761
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 3: And it's just nice.

762
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: It's nice. It was nice to work with somebody who

763
00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:02,280
Speaker 1: gets it, who understands, who is timely, who is resourceful.

764
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 5: Your budget.

765
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: Which we cannot compete. She just kept saying, we need

766
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: a shack, because so we need. But there's something to

767
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: say for that.

768
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 3: I think.

769
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: Also, when you find good people, what does that mean? Like,

770
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 1: how do you keep them? How do you keep them around?

771
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: How do you elevate them? You know, like Savannah has

772
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: the right hand that I love working with, has been

773
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: around forever. Like and also to see young women evolve

774
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: into more of a leadership role to me, it's also

775
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: been nice. I've had a lot of young women work

776
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: for me and going on to do great things, you know,

777
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: as much as they like, Oh and she wished I

778
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 1: work there. I'm like, I am happy you went.

779
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 3: I'm proud of you.

780
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: Like, but you think I'm so cold that I don't,

781
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 1: but I do, Like, I think it's nice to see

782
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: a seed that you may have watered a bit go

783
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: on to do something bigger than you, Like that's the

784
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: point of this whole exercise.

785
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: Tory.

786
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: So like, and I think I think Earth signs in

787
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 1: general because you have urgo, we have like very stoic

788
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 1: energy like people. I don't think people can read us

789
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: very well. No, but I think also I am very

790
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 1: I've come to terms what I am a because of

791
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 1: my friend labeled me as a sensitive fuck. Okay, so

792
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 1: I be really crying inside when y'all leave me. Yeah,

793
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, okay, then all right, yeah, go ahead, Okay, No,

794
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: I'll be like, all right.

795
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 2: That's I will kick somebody at our house and close

796
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 2: the door and.

797
00:39:54,320 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: Be like, I'll I'm so shocked. She's like, what's your

798
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: shocked for? Like, I'm shocking three days later I forgot

799
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: her about for three days.

800
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, I can't get on.

801
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 1: She's like, it's gonna be okay, talk about I left

802
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: it right there, I said, okay, later, link's doing this

803
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:23,320
Speaker 1: to me. So she be like, I mean, but you

804
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,919
Speaker 1: was being the beach so White's sliding down the wall.

805
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 3: I wasn't being a bitch. I'm just yeah, she was,

806
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 3: I can't speak to you.

807
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 2: In her situation, she'd be like, well, why did it

808
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 2: end up? Did you read the same message already that person?

809
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: Are we reading the same thing?

810
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 3: You?

811
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:43,840
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm a very nice person, but I'm direct,

812
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell you're the same person we are, treacher.

813
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,800
Speaker 3: Like, very nice but direct.

814
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna let you know how I feel. And

815
00:40:55,880 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: I can't always. I don't have I don't have the capacity.

816
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 1: But I also you know you're gonna react how you're

817
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: gonna react. But I'm being honest, and I have to

818
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: the thing about me, it's my mind. Got to get

819
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:10,919
Speaker 1: it off my cheek.

820
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:12,360
Speaker 3: Stop.

821
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: She's more like I.

822
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,760
Speaker 3: Don't want to.

823
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. Lake is a little more passive and like she's

824
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:27,879
Speaker 1: not confrontational at all. No, she don't like confrontations. It's

825
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: going to be it's going to be yeah. Yeah, But

826
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: like if I would like to know, as your friend,

827
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: if I hurt your feelings, yeah, you should tell me.

828
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 2: Okay, then I'm gonna tell you're gonna hurt him again

829
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 2: because you you're I needs to be softened.

830
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 3: But I didn't know.

831
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 2: She doesn't mean like she's work on it. My sister

832
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 2: is a tourist.

833
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 1: My whole life.

834
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 2: You're gonna apologize for her. She hurt my feelings this morning.

835
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 2: Shut up, stop being mean.

836
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 3: But we're gonna talk tomorrow. You're gonna hurt them again.

837
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 2: I know you don't mean to, it's just how you talk.

838
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,879
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna talk to you about it eighty times.

839
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: We're friend, We have to talk, have to have a talk.

840
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 2: Did we already talked about it.

841
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:06,760
Speaker 3: With my journal? Listen?

842
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 2: Journal and my journal have discussed it already. I just

843
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 2: don't feel like I'm not like a person that likes

844
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 2: to have conversation.

845
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, angry, Yeah, I think we can work on it.

846
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't want to talk about it.

847
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: I just I want to I want to be accommodating

848
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: because I love you.

849
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,320
Speaker 3: Yes, and I get that, And that's what I'm saying.

850
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 2: I'm not upset or mad when like we want because

851
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 2: we need to have conversations.

852
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like sometimes I got to be.

853
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 2: In the mind frame to have a conversation too, Dre,

854
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 2: don't give a funk. We'll be in the club, friend, God,

855
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,720
Speaker 2: we don't hush and take this shot because we're gonna

856
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 2: take the shot anyway.

857
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 3: Earlier, that's what she loved, Like I was saying crazy. No,

858
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 3: we are, and you know what.

859
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: Else is crazy? Lex's mom had our birthday too.

860
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 3: April twenty second. Yes, I'm used to this.

861
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, in a house full of tourses, it was just

862
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 2: me and my Leo self.

863
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: Oh, y'all, this has been really, really fun. We have

864
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: not gotten into the first topic.

865
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 2: Oh, we're not gonna hold y'all be four hours.

866
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 3: I probably make the top.

867
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 1: We don't make the topic. What's the topic? So topic

868
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:39,959
Speaker 1: number one? Do y'all think men using profanity around women

869
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: is disrespectful?

870
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 3: So it was this creator.

871
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: She said that her father taught her that if a

872
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: man uses aggressive profanity around you constantly are talking to

873
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 1: you in the same way he would his friends, he

874
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 1: doesn't have any respect for you. So what do y'all

875
00:43:54,320 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: think about that? I don't have the cleanest mouth, right me.

876
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's a fine line face on

877
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: what you're saying and how the delivery is. But I like,

878
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 1: I'm shoot you a couple. I love the like what

879
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 1: the guy. I feel like that, And as long as

880
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 1: you're not referring to women in a certain way. I

881
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,399
Speaker 1: was just about to say, I don't want to hear it. Yeah,

882
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: Like I remember one time I heard this guy be

883
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,879
Speaker 1: like yeah, because them bitches over there, and I was like, oh,

884
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Yeah, Like I think that is.

885
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: But I do think men put a class system on women. Yeah,

886
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: Like so you could be out like guys will be

887
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 1: out with us or like people like friends that we're

888
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: friends with, yeah, and then they be like yeah, but

889
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: y'all not like them. And I like that because why

890
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: are you trying to separate? Yeah, But I think that

891
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:55,439
Speaker 1: happens a lot.

892
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:56,320
Speaker 3: It definitely.

893
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 2: I mean we've talked about this before because I was like,

894
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 2: when the show like first started, we were open about

895
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 2: like our dating life and things and going on people like, oh,

896
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 2: them the Hose. But it's like, we're not the Hose.

897
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 2: We just are talking about our dating lives, you know

898
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But now it's like that we've grown

899
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 2: and we matured and oh, we have the spaces that

900
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 2: we're in there like, oh, not y'all. Not y'all, just

901
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 2: like we're all women dating, figuring out life and having fun.

902
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: So I do think how you carry yourself is a

903
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: reflection of how people see you. I agree, because I

904
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 1: don't feel like nobody ever looked at me like I was.

905
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:28,919
Speaker 3: A whole no.

906
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 2: But they did though, because we was on them T

907
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 2: shirts with them them asses out.

908
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 3: We were trying to sell.

909
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 6: Them shirts rap T like it like.

910
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 3: It was Cisco was.

911
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: But what I was gonna say, y'all do that now? No,

912
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:13,839
Speaker 1: So so that's what I mean. I feel like if

913
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: you put a certain energy out there. That's why I

914
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: am particular about what I wear. And that's fair like.

915
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 1: But see, I think it's a difference between like you said, okay,

916
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: people do right, like did look at us? I think

917
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: people who don't know me, people who know me in

918
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 1: real life, like they know what like yeah, yeah, it's

919
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: not giving that. But I think people judge on what

920
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: they say they do. And I feel like young women,

921
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: not all, but some young women really be putting the

922
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 1: body on the on the forefront. Like sometimes I be

923
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: out and be like whoa yeah, but we went to

924
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: this club and this is these these women had on

925
00:46:54,640 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: skips like like lingerie. I said. We just was at skimstore.

926
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: We literally just.

927
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 3: Saw she left from the dressing room went to the club.

928
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: Yes, okay. I just was like, Wow, it's just really

929
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:11,280
Speaker 1: no standard. I feel like getting dressed. We pride ourselves

930
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 1: on doing that, and it can be sensual when it

931
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: can look a certain type of way, but some of

932
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: the things be calling like I'm fucking yeah. Some of

933
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,439
Speaker 1: my mom always said was leave something to the imagination. Yeah,

934
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: so yes, it's certain shit that should only be for

935
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: your for your men. Sinceee, I think we've realized that

936
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 1: is we've got all this T shirt, you know.

937
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta show the T shirt on so they

938
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 3: can see the.

939
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 2: Their reaction to that, because I do feel like I'm

940
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 2: kind of a little bit on the opposite end though,

941
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 2: because I feel like sometimes as a curveer woman, like

942
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 2: no matter what I wear, people are always gonna like

943
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 2: say what they have to say about me. Now do

944
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 2: I cover up more so now? Because what I'm comfortable in,

945
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 2: you know, like I'm about to be thirty seven, and

946
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 2: like I don't want to dress like a twenty one

947
00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 2: to twenty two year old legs, you know what I mean.

948
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 2: So so for me, I feel like, no matter what

949
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,359
Speaker 2: I have on, people are gonna assume and say what

950
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 2: they want about me. So it's not because I'm so

951
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 2: used to people categorizing me. So I feel like, no

952
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,959
Speaker 2: matter what I have on, they gonna say they.

953
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, say that if you got

954
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 1: a certain outfit on this for all of us, Okay,

955
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 1: if you have a certain outfit on it and it's scandalous,

956
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,720
Speaker 1: how can you be offended that it gets you certain

957
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: type of disrespectful attention? But you know it's crazy.

958
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 3: I don't get it.

959
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 2: I'm not a person that gets offended though. So for me,

960
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. I've never cared about how people

961
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 2: categorize me because I learned that at a young age.

962
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 2: I remember when I'm fifteen, I was top heavy. We

963
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 2: all matching outfits, me and all my friends matching outfits.

964
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 2: I get sent to the office and they're like, when

965
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 2: you got this on? Your shirt is too tight? We

966
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 2: all got tight shirts on. I just got titties. Yeah,

967
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 2: I got a little ass, you know. So I'm used

968
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 2: to being categorized by that. So me changing my style

969
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 2: wasn't necessarily to fit in a particular class. It was

970
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 2: more so like, girl, where what makes you comfortable? If

971
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 2: I want to wear my ass all tonight, I just

972
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 2: might little ass.

973
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: But if a guy addresses you in a certain type

974
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: of way because your body is out right, like, oh,

975
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,399
Speaker 1: what's up? You? Gonna do that anyway though, saying that,

976
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 1: saying that, yes they.

977
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 3: Do beside in the boom in the middle of there.

978
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: Are you all though we are women now, I think

979
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: y'all are forgetting. Like we used to work in the clubes,

980
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 1: be bartenders and waitresses at the strip club. So like,

981
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: first of all, the outfit itself is like skin sily class,

982
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 1: like you don't your ass is out, you go don

983
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: some fishnet leggings. You got on like a little throng

984
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: body food.

985
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 3: Oh I would be stressed.

986
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:53,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, so me automatically, Yeah, I mean it was fun.

987
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,280
Speaker 3: Would have been in that bitch in the corner.

988
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: I'm counting cash, y'all want me out there with your dog.

989
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fight the niggas. I'm gonna get the security.

990
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:13,320
Speaker 1: I'm a chunt the cash. You didn't shake, no tips,

991
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 1: No you tapping my ass and hed No. We used

992
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 1: to be thronging up April. We was, we was going throng. Yeah,

993
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: my god, when you're.

994
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,360
Speaker 3: Inside, I would have been making the drinks with me.

995
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, let me collect the test money counting.

996
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,919
Speaker 3: She got funning credit cards.

997
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy, But when in those spaces.

998
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:48,879
Speaker 1: I think men look at you all the same, so

999
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,919
Speaker 1: like they think we own with the strippers on, even

1000
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: though we're not dancing. Yeah, I guess, but if I'm

1001
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 1: a nigga, I would think that's what look you're trying to.

1002
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 3: But this is this is how men are us.

1003
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 2: Four could be behind the bar, right and you're say

1004
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 2: you the money counter, dre and the throne.

1005
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,320
Speaker 3: So being in the throne, I'm in the throne, it's.

1006
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: Gonna be one horny ass nigga be like I want

1007
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: her in the tuxedo. I it don't matter.

1008
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 3: I know you are free because you got I'm telling you.

1009
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:31,280
Speaker 2: So that's they're gonna do it anyway.

1010
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 3: And that's so that's why I.

1011
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 2: Said, I've always kind of like dressed for myself or

1012
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 2: whatever I'm feeling in the moment, you know what I'm saying,

1013
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 2: because I don't care if.

1014
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 3: I am class. I don't really want men talking to

1015
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:40,840
Speaker 3: me anyway.

1016
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a person like I have a very low

1017
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 2: tolerance for me in a lot of the time, I.

1018
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 3: Really do.

1019
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 2: But I think it's because again, I worked in the

1020
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 2: strip club for so long, so it's like a lot

1021
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 2: of the conversations of them like Vince and I'm.

1022
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 3: Like, you're really stupid.

1023
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:00,640
Speaker 2: You'll meet the most rich this this man with a

1024
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 2: fire business and they're so smart. But when it comes

1025
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 2: to just common communication, regular conversations, it's like, oh my god.

1026
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 2: And my tolerance now as a thirty six year old woman,

1027
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,359
Speaker 2: is at zero. So it's like, I don't even care

1028
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 2: what you say to me. You know how many comments

1029
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 2: we get, it'll be a billion comments of positivity.

1030
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:22,840
Speaker 3: It'll be like one nigga to just say something stupid,

1031
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,319
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, you're blocked, like so now, because so

1032
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 3: we don't even matter.

1033
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 2: Like I said, we were looking classy and beautiful at

1034
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 2: the BT Awards yesterday and it's still comments of men

1035
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 2: just being disrespectful and weird.

1036
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: So that is so it.

1037
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 3: Don't matter girl for me.

1038
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,239
Speaker 2: So the way I carry myself is more so if

1039
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,959
Speaker 2: I do dress for people's opinions, it's more so because

1040
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 2: I have young girls looking at poor minds and watching.

1041
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, this is possible. You can still be sexy, classy,

1042
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 2: and I want to carry myself different, you know, because

1043
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 2: men gonna do what men do well.

1044
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: I definitely think for young girls is important too. Yeah,

1045
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people have. I was very

1046
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: surprised a few years ago I did event at Clark

1047
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 1: University and like I felt like it must have been

1048
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: seventy percent of the females there.

1049
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 3: Had on wigs.

1050
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: Okay, And I was like that is I think it's fine,

1051
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 1: but like they're so young. Like braids, your natural hair,

1052
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 1: a glue, wind, a sewing, wiggs is personally maybe you

1053
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 1: could learn how to put it on, but wiggs is

1054
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: for somebody that has the resources.

1055
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 3: Okay.

1056
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: Oh, Like I was like, girls, I think it's the times.

1057
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: They just following the time. Why why they can? But

1058
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,839
Speaker 1: they the trend that they decided to follows to where

1059
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: we are. Oh, he feels like us as a generation

1060
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: we a little jelly. We gotta like gone hand in

1061
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 1: that meeting. We a little jelly because we because we

1062
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,799
Speaker 1: was in the trenches with.

1063
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 2: Wet we couldn't bring it off. And also in our

1064
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 2: generation too, if you wore a wig, you was an auntie.

1065
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 2: Your auntie wore wigs. I mean we connect wigs to

1066
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 2: being like an older being. But like that's what the

1067
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 2: girls do. They get their wigs installed and they be

1068
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 2: doing it every three four days.

1069
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 3: Yes, they're gonna get that wigs.

1070
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 1: We wasn't doing that. We had their home the yes,

1071
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,839
Speaker 1: she was the quality, okay, like it was just it

1072
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:26,800
Speaker 1: was looking auntie.

1073
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's like it's dorm room weeks.

1074
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, nobody in the door

1075
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 2: room charging y'all fitty dollars.

1076
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, this ship is all wrong.

1077
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 2: Like I will say, some of the styles now, it's

1078
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 2: like these like a dorm room wigs.

1079
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: I would that I can't do it. I was upset.

1080
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: I was like, guys, we should do a tutorial like

1081
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: I would.

1082
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 3: I would teach them. And I don't even know about

1083
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 3: it wig tutorial.

1084
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 2: But I do feel like the trends now, like there

1085
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 2: wasn't really like makeup trends and hair trends when I

1086
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 2: was younger, but now the trends is like, so somebody

1087
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 2: like a Savannah or Andrea or April, they're doing their

1088
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 2: makeup like this, but y'all are in y'all thirties. So

1089
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 2: now that a twenty year old is doing her makeup

1090
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 2: like women in our thirties, So sometimes the trade ages them,

1091
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

1092
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 3: So because everybody's kind of doing the same.

1093
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 1: Looks like we are not doing all of that, Like

1094
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: the four of us are not doing full beat every

1095
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: day that. Yes, I was at Clark, like, oh, y'all

1096
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,280
Speaker 1: doing full beat, full wig for everything.

1097
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 3: This is given. They're trying to get them one listen.

1098
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:32,279
Speaker 3: I was just so surprising to put the girls all there.

1099
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: They said, we're are the boys. Yes, the girls be

1100
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: pulling up to camp with Chanel bags. And she when

1101
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 1: I was in college, we were wearing spurry.

1102
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 3: Yes.

1103
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 1: Oh I have loved me some spurs. I had the

1104
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: calls and everything ferries spirit.

1105
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 3: Now you know she don't know what a damn spury is.

1106
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 1: What's the spirit.

1107
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 2: It's like they were like boat shoes.

1108
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 1: Talk about Yeah, and the Ralph Lauren was.

1109
00:55:57,880 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 3: We was up.

1110
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: You know, we were wearing Polo sweatsuits and now we

1111
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 1: was wearing Speary's in my school. But you know I'm Southern,

1112
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: from the South.

1113
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:11,439
Speaker 2: We would have sweatsuits and Air Force ones.

1114
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we were.

1115
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 1: We were They say we a little So I was

1116
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 1: in the South, not specifically, but like southern women.

1117
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:20,879
Speaker 3: With what jean.

1118
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: I would wear my liket and I used to be

1119
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 1: because y'all remember the time in the club, not y'all

1120
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: was in the club business, casual. Why not about to.

1121
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:31,959
Speaker 3: Play with classic.

1122
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:33,800
Speaker 1: Classes.

1123
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:36,720
Speaker 3: I love it, y'all.

1124
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:43,280
Speaker 1: With a body, cond dress, love everybody.

1125
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 3: God, we didn't have her.

1126
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:52,280
Speaker 2: This is what has to see us every time, No, ma'am,

1127
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 2: this is what has dollar dresses, and that started doing

1128
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:56,880
Speaker 2: the dresses.

1129
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 3: Had to knock off of her.

1130
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 1: But was three hundreds, like, yeah, I was in the trench.

1131
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: She's trying to Oh.

1132
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 3: Let me know the picture, all the picture that's on

1133
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 3: the shirt. An stop, so but look at the ear.

1134
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I need to stop.

1135
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 1: She's green.

1136
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Savannah Savannah books.

1137
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 1: But then the shirts was selling like.

1138
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 2: Hot, Oh my god. But look it's so crazy.

1139
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 3: I can't look at it.

1140
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: Very cry.

1141
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 3: Oh it's so crazy. This was twenty twenty coming.

1142
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 2: The same house because I have this, I'm like, oh,

1143
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 2: I want my t shirt.

1144
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 3: We definitely got one. I'm enticed. We hear what we

1145
00:57:57,040 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 3: had to do with what we had, is that giving

1146
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 3: at all.

1147
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: This the shirt we had to I.

1148
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 3: Wasn't expected that. We told yall were swim suits. Weren't

1149
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 3: those swim suits?

1150
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 1: It was j making over for the nine to nine

1151
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: into two thousand.

1152
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Yeah, a little charca. Oh my god,

1153
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 3: save for rich or for poor.

1154
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: That was the name of our tour, the first that is.

1155
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: But you know what shout out to grow.

1156
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, we had to get out of that stage.

1157
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:36,479
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1158
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 2: Some times it was.

1159
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 1: Hard.

1160
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:47,080
Speaker 3: Guess what I had my brazy I didn't have. I

1161
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 3: didn't have a wing on.

1162
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: I had my braid and I had to eat them to.

1163
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 3: That's right.

1164
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: Look, and I had three dollars I couldn't pay. Okay,

1165
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about this too real quick because

1166
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:05,200
Speaker 2: I want to hear yalls opinion on kitten Yes, but

1167
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,920
Speaker 2: I think a kitten during the day is cute. I

1168
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 2: feel like, why are you in platforms at brunch? You

1169
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 2: doing somewhere And I'm a platform girly, like I have

1170
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 2: all the platforms, But I feel like a kitten hill

1171
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 2: is a daytime heel. But I also saw a video

1172
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 2: that said the reason the girls are wearing kitten hills

1173
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 2: at night is because men are not being chivalrous at

1174
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 2: the club. So we got to be prepared to stand

1175
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 2: up for a few hours, you know. So how do

1176
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 2: y'all feel about a kitten hill?

1177
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 1: I like a kitten hill like a day time. It's

1178
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 1: definitely a day daytime, only it does not translates into

1179
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: the nighttime. Right, But I like a kitten here it

1180
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 1: elevates to look a little bit wh having to be

1181
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 1: in pain or do too much.

1182
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 3: Yes, she don't, don't.

1183
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm a tall girly so on the fence. I feel

1184
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:55,959
Speaker 1: like certain kitten hills. I do like it's all about

1185
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 1: the cut. Okay, some of the kitten hills, and then

1186
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:00,120
Speaker 1: you have big feet.

1187
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 7: Said trying to say not you this man.

1188
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: Besides, you need to raise that hill. So I just

1189
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 1: think sometimes it looks a little messy because I think

1190
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 1: kitten hills can be a little flimsy. Okay, you gotta

1191
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: have a starting sleek kitt nail.

1192
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 3: Then I'm with it.

1193
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 1: I love the like the big figure. At least get

1194
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:27,479
Speaker 1: word it's given.

1195
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 3: Clicking. I'm known, lie, I do be clicking and clacking, y'all.

1196
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all when you said that, y'all, let

1197
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 2: me tell y'all what happened to me.

1198
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 3: I was in New York at the Raising Canean premiere.

1199
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 2: So when I do like red carpets, a lot of

1200
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 2: times I'll try to wear like a long pants so

1201
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 2: I can get away with my kidneels, so I can be.

1202
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 1: Comfortable, y'all.

1203
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 3: So they had started the show I'm walking in. Everybody

1204
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 3: turned around because.

1205
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 8: Like here's oh, I was clicking at looking at clack,

1206
01:00:58,360 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 8: don't look back.

1207
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 2: Yes, watching the TV, I was, Oh, it was so

1208
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 2: loud I heard it was.

1209
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: Like dang, yeah, I feel like it's a clicking he

1210
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: clack sometimes.

1211
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do be clicking class and you ain't have

1212
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 2: enough support.

1213
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 3: It is nothing to support. It ain't nothing.

1214
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 2: Down there classic a little bit everything be clapping my cheese,

1215
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 2: didn't want my don't really get tired and start sliding,

1216
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 2: clicking and sliding.

1217
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 3: Don't lift your foot up, not too much.

1218
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 1: But we gotta keep it cute. We can be the

1219
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 1: girl from the Big Feet, gonna go on. It's alright,

1220
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 1: that'd be all right, the big don't take it personal. Yeah,

1221
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 1: what's that? You were a savannah?

1222
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 3: That's not no.

1223
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 1: Arrow forty two because it cuts.

1224
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 2: Off, Yes, squeezing a forty two? Now I be in

1225
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 2: the forty two?

1226
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 3: Yeah? What is typically? But for like the shoe size?

1227
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 3: What is yeah?

1228
01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 1: You shay because you know that what.

1229
01:01:58,800 --> 01:01:59,439
Speaker 3: I'm talking about?

1230
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: What does it translate to that bad. It is a bitch,

1231
01:02:05,560 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 1: but it's a euro.

1232
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:11,960
Speaker 3: It's not the same. Yeah, the euro's size really like

1233
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 3: it's head.

1234
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, guys, little that's.

1235
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 3: Kind of what nothing because I ain't seen I ain't

1236
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 3: seen no forty three.

1237
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:25,960
Speaker 2: I've never I think forty three. Yeah, forty three is

1238
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 2: I've never seen it.

1239
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 3: Forty two. They said, enough bitches, you need you need

1240
01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 3: to go to Steve Madden. Yeah, it's like for you

1241
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 3: in the lake.

1242
01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, now we know the Kidden Hills is not

1243
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 2: April's things.

1244
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:42,919
Speaker 3: Maybe I said it's amaze. Okay, it's a cut.

1245
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 1: Okay, you were kidding. Hills sometimes though she got a

1246
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:46,919
Speaker 1: little kitten.

1247
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 3: I've tried it a few times. But again it's the cut. Yeah,

1248
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 3: kid Hills.

1249
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:54,800
Speaker 1: But it's not a slide. Okay, that's a little sling back,

1250
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 1: a little, a little.

1251
01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 2: Pump, a little you know, Okay, a little elevata. Okay,

1252
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 2: we're gonna move on.

1253
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 1: So now it's sign into the bed.

1254
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 2: Wow wow wow wow wow wow. So our bed topic

1255
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 2: is like our sixth topic of the week. You know,

1256
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 2: it's not too it's nothing too crazy because one thing

1257
01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 2: that we do love to do is educate the girlies.

1258
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 2: So we're not being too freaking. We're not gonna get

1259
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 2: in yall's bedroom. We wanted to educate the girls today. Okay, okay,

1260
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 2: So did y'all know that you can be allergic to

1261
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 2: a man's seamen?

1262
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 1: Yes, you knew that.

1263
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 3: You got pink before. How you know that's supposed to

1264
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:46,600
Speaker 3: be educating you? She said, yes, I didn't know that. Okay.

1265
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 1: I always thought you got pink I from farting on

1266
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 1: the pillow.

1267
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 3: Bro, we're not going through the c I thought it.

1268
01:03:52,800 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 1: Was from, yes, from matter, yeah, matter from vs. From

1269
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: I don't think that's where you get from.

1270
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 3: No.

1271
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 2: I think it's more of like a bacteria thing though, right,

1272
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 2: So like if the semen has a bacteria that you

1273
01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 2: could possibly get pink.

1274
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: Okay, so you can be allergic to semen.

1275
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 3: You can be allergic to semen.

1276
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 2: So it's real and it's rare, but some people can

1277
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 2: have an allergic reaction, a condition called human seminole plasma hypersensitivity.

1278
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 2: Symptoms can include itching, burning, redness, swelling, or hives.

1279
01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 3: Shortly after exposure. If that happens to me, I'm gonna think.

1280
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: That, Yeah, I would think you package.

1281
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 2: It's something that you can't get rid of that package

1282
01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 2: stays in that house.

1283
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: What is that? Okay, all right to say it's a.

1284
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 3: Lot of packages that you cannot get rid of.

1285
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 2: But if that happened, I wouldn't think that I'm allergic

1286
01:04:54,240 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 2: to you, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's a

1287
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 2: crazy imagine if you're like dating a guy you really

1288
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 2: like him, and you alerted to that not but no,

1289
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 2: I mean, I like to take a little risk.

1290
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 3: I'm not supposed to eat peanut butter, but I'm having.

1291
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 1: A little sandwich. Stress stressful, especially if I like you.

1292
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 3: I mean, that's hard.

1293
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 1: So what do you do though, in an instance like that,

1294
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 1: like you really like this nigga and y'all having sex

1295
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: and then y'all coochies willow, what.

1296
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 3: Will you do?

1297
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:33,840
Speaker 1: I have my doctor on bee okay, okay, so I'm

1298
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 1: calling her in the morning. My vagina's swollen.

1299
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 3: Up.

1300
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:41,720
Speaker 1: Look at my vagina immediately immediately. Firstly in the morning,

1301
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 1: she's gonna say, Okay, when you an encounter, I'm gonna say, we're.

1302
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,000
Speaker 3: Coming to doctor. Jobs will be there not yeah, you

1303
01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 3: got right. Then we're just gonna.

1304
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 1: Investigate and we'll get hopefully something that happened with something.

1305
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 1: So then what if she say, huh, you got to

1306
01:05:59,160 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 1: put it in the world.

1307
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 3: I like the way you think me too.

1308
01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 1: Put it on the side of that sex. You have

1309
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 1: to put it somewhere else, Like she don't know you

1310
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 1: you have an energy what I'm saying, No, but I

1311
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: feel like a little bit comes out like a little

1312
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: pre nuts. Yeah, yeah, in general, it would be allergic.

1313
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 3: In general. Yeah, I think that there's like unless you

1314
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 3: got some penicillin and sitting on your dresser like you,

1315
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 3: y'all can't be together.

1316
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 1: But then it's like, okay, cool, so you go to

1317
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 1: the doctor. You find out that it's because you alerted

1318
01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 1: to the name, but you really like these nigga are

1319
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 1: we like it's all right, I'm going baking. It's got

1320
01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 1: to take a beniture.

1321
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, going back in.

1322
01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm going because I feel like your body this is

1323
01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: the problem.

1324
01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:55,480
Speaker 3: With I don't care. I don't care. Like once it's

1325
01:06:55,480 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 3: not Idris the actor. His wife was like, I got

1326
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 3: over till you got sick. That's me. We both want

1327
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 3: to get sick together.

1328
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:06,800
Speaker 2: But I do feel like this is in your body,

1329
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 2: Like you know, if you get a cold and then you.

1330
01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 3: Get it again it comes resistent, resist that nut. So

1331
01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 3: it's gonna be good. We're gonna be safe. Four more times.

1332
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:24,280
Speaker 3: Build up my system, right job, need more? Next time?

1333
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:25,439
Speaker 2: It up?

1334
01:07:30,120 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 1: It up.

1335
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying that build this up because

1336
01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 2: I'm not leaving you by I'm not leaving I'm.

1337
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 3: Telling you kick your But that's how bad the dating

1338
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:42,720
Speaker 3: pool is.

1339
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:45,880
Speaker 2: Like I talk about like in my relationship, like when

1340
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 2: we broke up and we went through.

1341
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:48,840
Speaker 3: Something like the dating pool is so bad they will

1342
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:51,360
Speaker 3: send you running back to your man. You know, you'd

1343
01:07:51,400 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 3: be like, you know.

1344
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 2: What, never mind, it's nothing outside. So LOUI seman ain't

1345
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 2: gonna stop me. This is not stopping me.

1346
01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. You wake up your coochie swall how you

1347
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 3: know it's already fat.

1348
01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 1: Already I can't sell.

1349
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, move on.

1350
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 1: It's funny.

1351
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 3: I was trying to educate the mass and.

1352
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 1: So they know, but I don't know that. To be honest,

1353
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 1: we came up with this topic.

1354
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:27,840
Speaker 3: I didn't you know, I didn't know that. Have you

1355
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 3: ever had an answer where you were allergic to someone? No?

1356
01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: But I definitely am very curious about vaginas and I'm

1357
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 1: very particular, like you know, I think sex is a

1358
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:40,920
Speaker 1: very intimate thing. A lot be happening.

1359
01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:44,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, I need to know all the things. I agree,

1360
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 3: so you know, you got to do your research.

1361
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:49,759
Speaker 1: So I think people it's interesting. I was just talking

1362
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 1: to somebody recently where they were saying, when we came up,

1363
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 1: HIV and AIDS was considered a disease. Yeah, it's not

1364
01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:08,960
Speaker 1: because cosidered a disease anymore STD like, but I feel like,

1365
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,760
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you can get in other ways though, Yeah,

1366
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:14,320
Speaker 1: you can get it from like when we were coming

1367
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 1: up Magic Johnson, the whole scenario was out in the

1368
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: world like you're gonna die, Like we were not playing

1369
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:25,680
Speaker 1: around with Like the other day someone said, yeah, you

1370
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 1: just take pep press. I said, what in the fuck?

1371
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 1: But they have people now, But then they also have

1372
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:36,800
Speaker 1: like the people who have it, they also have medication

1373
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 1: that they take to where it becomes undetectable.

1374
01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 3: That is crazy.

1375
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 1: But did y'all know this is what I'm talking about,

1376
01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:48,000
Speaker 1: that AIDS. HIV and AIDS is at an all time

1377
01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:48,639
Speaker 1: high right now.

1378
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:50,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely knew that.

1379
01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: It's very It's I mean I want market.

1380
01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:58,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very and then but a lot like I

1381
01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:02,800
Speaker 2: learned about prep. People have a latex. They're allergic to latext,

1382
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 2: so a lot of times they want to be sexually

1383
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,240
Speaker 2: active and you know comment.

1384
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 3: But I mean it's for some people.

1385
01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: Some people do take prep when out here talking about Yeah,

1386
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:14,559
Speaker 1: you take a PREP or a PEP or whatever before

1387
01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: you go somewhere.

1388
01:10:15,360 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 3: What noll are y'all doing? Gotta safely? Sorry, put it

1389
01:10:18,520 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 3: in a drink?

1390
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:21,640
Speaker 1: What a roofe.

1391
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 8: I'll take a PREP and apart, let's get here. I'm

1392
01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 8: trying to have a good.

1393
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 3: Time, sorry, he says. For prep. I like that it's

1394
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:45,679
Speaker 3: time the party. April. We are in twenty twenty six.

1395
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:51,960
Speaker 1: I don't want no prep prepping apart.

1396
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 2: But I like the fact though that people are open

1397
01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:57,960
Speaker 2: to talking about because I don't think that prep is

1398
01:10:57,960 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 2: a bad I think it's a great thing.

1399
01:10:59,320 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 3: I think I need to be.

1400
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:04,360
Speaker 1: Having the condoms people are allergic today, but.

1401
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 3: People that's not the norm.

1402
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:09,479
Speaker 1: You're not allergic to it. So people want to be

1403
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 1: out here having unprotected since they do.

1404
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 2: And sometimes Connor's pop and.

1405
01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 3: It's a lot going on April. You got to get

1406
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 3: with the time. The girls got a wigs. They're aware

1407
01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 3: the wigs. We got our throne. We got here, Acro.

1408
01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 3: You need to understand what's going on.

1409
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:36,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying to educate you, my girl, but outside for maybe.

1410
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:43,320
Speaker 3: Shock, I'll be reading my research though.

1411
01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:47,599
Speaker 1: Good April, like.

1412
01:11:50,520 --> 01:11:51,439
Speaker 3: What's going on?

1413
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:54,520
Speaker 1: It's all right, April. Were gonna always keep you abreast.

1414
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 3: Be arrested.

1415
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:01,879
Speaker 1: We got our industry, make sure we keep you educated.

1416
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Savannah, we're gonna let y'all know going on

1417
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:10,680
Speaker 2: in the streets, knowing up ody. Savannah gets me like

1418
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:13,160
Speaker 2: she's scrolling TikTok late at night and she got a

1419
01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:13,679
Speaker 2: fact acount.

1420
01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:15,680
Speaker 3: She was like, this ship funniest. You don't know that

1421
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:20,920
Speaker 3: you're talking to Savannah James, bitch, Oh my god, you

1422
01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 3: late night scroller?

1423
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:26,759
Speaker 2: On't you hello, Savannah to burn pace.

1424
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:33,240
Speaker 3: Like that ship trash? Promise that.

1425
01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:37,719
Speaker 1: Your cover.

1426
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 3: Okay, we're gonna get into the next topic.

1427
01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 2: Now it's time take it into the about about and

1428
01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 2: that's move on. We're gonna talk about We're gonna talk

1429
01:12:58,000 --> 01:12:58,880
Speaker 2: about music now.

1430
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:01,760
Speaker 3: Music. This is it. This is very easy for.

1431
01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 1: Look, you know, y'all, let us be in control this

1432
01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 1: a little while.

1433
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 3: You know, we gotta do what we gotta do.

1434
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 2: Okay, So what you been listening to licks. I have

1435
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:23,559
Speaker 2: been listening to a lot of music, y'all know. I

1436
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:24,439
Speaker 2: have a different music take.

1437
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:26,160
Speaker 3: So our bop of the week is like whatever music

1438
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 3: that we've been jamming this week.

1439
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 2: And this is actually an older song that Wheezy shout

1440
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:30,880
Speaker 2: out to my girl. Weezy have put me on a

1441
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 2: long long long time ago, and I heard it. We

1442
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:35,599
Speaker 2: were somewhere the other night and we were at Boa

1443
01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:36,360
Speaker 2: the Steakhouse.

1444
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 3: It was my first time there. Very nice to good.

1445
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 2: And there's a song called Wildfires by Saul. So if

1446
01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 2: you're like a zen girl and you just kind of

1447
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:48,120
Speaker 2: want to be in your room with the candles lit

1448
01:13:48,200 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 2: like and kind of dancing around your room and your

1449
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:52,559
Speaker 2: panties and things like that, that's the song for that.

1450
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 2: So Wildfires by Saul that's my bop of the.

1451
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:59,000
Speaker 3: Week for the Zen girlies. But you've been listening to

1452
01:13:59,040 --> 01:14:03,000
Speaker 3: Dred oh gosh, So.

1453
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:08,719
Speaker 1: This is my fucking song. I really love this. I

1454
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 1: really love this song. He ate that up. Billy. Have

1455
01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:15,240
Speaker 1: y'all heard of Billy Gang Christians. He's from Atlanta, That

1456
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:20,519
Speaker 1: that light skinned man beer. Yes, yes, yes he is,

1457
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:28,160
Speaker 1: and he's mixed. Yes, he's a big lot of he's

1458
01:14:28,200 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 1: a big lott of yes okay.

1459
01:14:33,640 --> 01:14:33,960
Speaker 3: Music.

1460
01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:37,080
Speaker 1: He's mixed yeah music. So you need to listen to

1461
01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 1: this song. It's called what the Fuck Going?

1462
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, But the funny thing is, I feel like you're

1463
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:50,680
Speaker 4: gonna get in the car and you're gonna be like,

1464
01:14:50,800 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 4: I like this, So.

1465
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 3: I really don't like this.

1466
01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:59,120
Speaker 1: Like. So it's called what the Fuck Going? Featuring twenty

1467
01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 1: one Savage, and I feel like it's giving like old Atlantic.

1468
01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:09,320
Speaker 1: I it is like two thousand and two when I

1469
01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:10,720
Speaker 1: wasn't able to be outside.

1470
01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:14,240
Speaker 3: It's like would have been on Yeah, that's what it gives.

1471
01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:19,479
Speaker 1: Yes, And I feel like Gez like, but I feel

1472
01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 1: like he should have had twenty one Savage verse was

1473
01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:25,719
Speaker 1: really really good, like he ate, But I do think

1474
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,560
Speaker 1: too if he would have had like a g Z

1475
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,519
Speaker 1: or a t I or a Gucci Maine somebody like that.

1476
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 3: Only he's busy. He's been letting everybody know he is

1477
01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 3: so but would have been a good one.

1478
01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:41,840
Speaker 1: But that's my song. Y'all all love that song. It's okay,

1479
01:15:41,840 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna listen to it, y'all.

1480
01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:45,320
Speaker 3: En listening to.

1481
01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 1: I have a playlist that I listened to over and over.

1482
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:53,600
Speaker 1: It's kind of Bad. I don't have to find like

1483
01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 1: super new music. But if I had to pick something

1484
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 1: that I've been listening to that is more recent, Front

1485
01:15:59,520 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 1: to Back Octane by Don Tolliver, Oh My Skips, and

1486
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:07,720
Speaker 1: I like that vibe. It's like it's turn up but

1487
01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:11,519
Speaker 1: it's still like chill. Yeah, So I like that. That's

1488
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:12,600
Speaker 1: my like go to.

1489
01:16:15,520 --> 01:16:18,360
Speaker 2: That album is so good, I said, if he doesn't

1490
01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 2: win a Grammy for that album, I know something is up.

1491
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 3: It's such a good it's really.

1492
01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:25,760
Speaker 1: Good released into it all the time. So yeah, the

1493
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 1: whole thing.

1494
01:16:28,600 --> 01:16:29,280
Speaker 3: So I did.

1495
01:16:29,479 --> 01:16:36,719
Speaker 1: Like recently, I've been listening to Jesse Yes, Oh I

1496
01:16:35,479 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 1: love and She's Bad.

1497
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:41,040
Speaker 3: The album is really good. Okay, I'm gonna listen to it.

1498
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:49,439
Speaker 1: It was very interesting dating and relationships and like all

1499
01:16:49,479 --> 01:16:49,880
Speaker 1: the things.

1500
01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:50,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1501
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:51,760
Speaker 2: I like it when you can tell the artists like

1502
01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,160
Speaker 2: they went and they lived life and they can talk

1503
01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:55,080
Speaker 2: about it on their album.

1504
01:16:55,120 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 1: I liked a lotose new albums I did.

1505
01:16:57,479 --> 01:16:57,760
Speaker 3: I was.

1506
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:01,080
Speaker 2: Because she was like, yeah, I know, like this baby

1507
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:02,800
Speaker 2: ain't gonna start nothing.

1508
01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:03,320
Speaker 3: I liked it.

1509
01:17:03,360 --> 01:17:05,760
Speaker 1: I thought it was good. I don't oh, I think

1510
01:17:05,800 --> 01:17:09,639
Speaker 1: some of the female rap is a little harsh. So

1511
01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:12,679
Speaker 1: we know that you clutches them pearls.

1512
01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 3: You need to keep it. You need to listen to

1513
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:15,960
Speaker 3: clean version.

1514
01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to see no explicit on your playlist,

1515
01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:21,680
Speaker 2: April because you listen to template me.

1516
01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:27,639
Speaker 4: Yeah that is church music.

1517
01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 1: But yeah, I thought a lot of was good.

1518
01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 3: Okay.

1519
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 1: I just like the way she presented her look and

1520
01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:42,640
Speaker 1: feel being a mom, Like it just.

1521
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:45,080
Speaker 3: It was sweet. It's a vibe. Shout out to you

1522
01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:46,639
Speaker 3: a lot of So speaking of.

1523
01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:49,640
Speaker 1: Being a mom, this is like off topic, but I

1524
01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:51,920
Speaker 1: don't want eventually, I do want to have a kid,

1525
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:54,760
Speaker 1: So I feel I wanted to ask y'all how do

1526
01:17:54,840 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: y'all balance like motherhood and then just still being women

1527
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:03,959
Speaker 1: in like living your life but setting a good example

1528
01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:07,800
Speaker 1: for your children but not letting it define you at

1529
01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:09,719
Speaker 1: the same time and still like me like, okay, mama

1530
01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 1: got to have a life, so yeah, I had to

1531
01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:15,000
Speaker 1: learn that. Yeah, I put all my energy into my

1532
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:16,760
Speaker 1: kids when I first. I had my first when I

1533
01:18:16,800 --> 01:18:19,200
Speaker 1: was eighteen, and I had my second when I was twenty.

1534
01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:22,439
Speaker 1: So I was just being a mom like that's all

1535
01:18:22,479 --> 01:18:25,080
Speaker 1: I That's just that's all I thought I could do

1536
01:18:25,200 --> 01:18:28,560
Speaker 1: at that time. And then I just you know, you

1537
01:18:28,640 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 1: get to a point where you're like, Okay, I got

1538
01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:32,759
Speaker 1: this downpack, the kids are good. I have a tribe,

1539
01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:34,759
Speaker 1: so it's not like I'm by myself. I got people

1540
01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 1: helping me. So now what do I want to do. Yeah,

1541
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:40,080
Speaker 1: so I decided to start traveling, like getting away a

1542
01:18:40,080 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 1: little bit. I had a little bit of mom guilt,

1543
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:43,880
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm like, I have to do this.

1544
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,840
Speaker 1: I have to do this for me. When I had

1545
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:50,120
Speaker 1: that girl, I'm like, oh, I got to show up different.

1546
01:18:50,400 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 1: But this is not this is not it, especially when

1547
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:56,800
Speaker 1: she was like watching me. I knew she was watching me,

1548
01:18:56,880 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 1: and like telling me that she was watching me. I'm like, oh, yeah,

1549
01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:01,960
Speaker 1: I got I got to do something different. So I

1550
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:03,720
Speaker 1: think that it takes a little bit of time because

1551
01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 1: you want to give yourself a minute to get your bearings,

1552
01:19:06,040 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 1: because it's a lot, Like having a baby is a lot,

1553
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 1: it's a lot on your body, it's a lot on

1554
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 1: your mental and you got to like give yourself a beat,

1555
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:16,120
Speaker 1: but be able to pour into yourself so that you

1556
01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:18,760
Speaker 1: can pour into your baby and you believe like it's

1557
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:20,960
Speaker 1: just as important. So I think you just got to

1558
01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:24,040
Speaker 1: give yourself some time. Okay, So it just come with time.

1559
01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:25,959
Speaker 1: It comes with time, but you have to be intentional

1560
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 1: with the time, because you can definitely like dive all

1561
01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:31,120
Speaker 1: the way in and not be able to come up

1562
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 1: for air. Okay, that's what I think. I think being

1563
01:19:34,280 --> 01:19:37,519
Speaker 1: a mom is hard, but I love it. But I

1564
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:40,800
Speaker 1: think it's the balance of both. I think there is

1565
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,479
Speaker 1: what I've learned and being a mom is there's all

1566
01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:46,800
Speaker 1: kinds of moms and you just have to like be

1567
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:49,559
Speaker 1: okay with that because if you start judging yourself against

1568
01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:53,040
Speaker 1: other moms, it becomes a dynamic you can never get

1569
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:59,839
Speaker 1: out of. I think the more resources i e. Money

1570
01:20:00,240 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 1: and access you have, the different shit gets, you know,

1571
01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:10,880
Speaker 1: the the private schools, the nannies, this that even the

1572
01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:13,280
Speaker 1: things that you talk about no one was talking about

1573
01:20:13,560 --> 01:20:15,919
Speaker 1: with me and my thirties of our freezing my eggs,

1574
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 1: like or just like how womanhood has evolved into a

1575
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:24,880
Speaker 1: place that we have different types of choices, you know,

1576
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:29,519
Speaker 1: like being at school and somebody is a by choice mom,

1577
01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:31,960
Speaker 1: right is that you're doing it on your own, you know,

1578
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:34,519
Speaker 1: Like we just didn't have that coming up. So I

1579
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:37,920
Speaker 1: just feel like it's been very insightful. I stay in

1580
01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:41,400
Speaker 1: my lane. I do what works for me and what

1581
01:20:41,439 --> 01:20:43,760
Speaker 1: works for me is.

1582
01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 3: Unique to me.

1583
01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 1: Yes, So, like I had a baby nurse as soon

1584
01:20:48,080 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 1: as I came home, Like I never wanted to stay

1585
01:20:50,360 --> 01:20:53,320
Speaker 1: at home, Like it just wasn't my vibe. And we

1586
01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 1: talk about it a lot on our show, like the

1587
01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:59,519
Speaker 1: difference and what that looks like. But I also think

1588
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:03,519
Speaker 1: that a child is very much so a reflection of you,

1589
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:07,960
Speaker 1: and that is why I am sensitive about how I dress.

1590
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:14,040
Speaker 1: I have two boys, like, and I just think I

1591
01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:16,240
Speaker 1: never want them to be like I saw your mom

1592
01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:18,839
Speaker 1: out like you know what I mean. Like one time recently,

1593
01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:21,600
Speaker 1: I was somewhere with some friends.

1594
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:26,559
Speaker 3: And Brownie walked in. I got to go see me.

1595
01:21:26,920 --> 01:21:29,479
Speaker 1: But it's just like, let them have their space, let

1596
01:21:29,560 --> 01:21:32,200
Speaker 1: them have their moment. We are in an interesting phase

1597
01:21:32,240 --> 01:21:34,840
Speaker 1: of like we can hang together, you know what I mean,

1598
01:21:35,000 --> 01:21:38,200
Speaker 1: or we can also we've done it already, you know

1599
01:21:38,240 --> 01:21:41,040
Speaker 1: what I mean. And I just also think I'm a

1600
01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 1: reflection of my kids, how I carry myself, how I move,

1601
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:47,559
Speaker 1: And I think Savannah has been the epitome of that.

1602
01:21:47,800 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 1: Like in a lot of ways that people have their

1603
01:21:50,960 --> 01:21:55,120
Speaker 1: misconceptions on stay at home mom and the judgment in it,

1604
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:58,720
Speaker 1: but then people be having kids that can't get it

1605
01:21:58,760 --> 01:22:02,280
Speaker 1: together right. It comes from how you show up as

1606
01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:05,080
Speaker 1: a parent. You do have responsibility in that, you know

1607
01:22:05,120 --> 01:22:08,240
Speaker 1: what I mean. So I think for me it is

1608
01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 1: a little bit more serious because I feel like my

1609
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:12,040
Speaker 1: youngest one watches my every movie.

1610
01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:14,760
Speaker 3: Yes, he was like, where are you going? Like if

1611
01:22:14,800 --> 01:22:15,719
Speaker 3: I'm in a mini skirt?

1612
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:18,799
Speaker 1: Like, so I think it is you are a reflection

1613
01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 1: of like what you breed and what you make. And

1614
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 1: I think when you have a daughter is I think

1615
01:22:24,200 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 1: even more pressure. Like I would never want Zori to

1616
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:29,760
Speaker 1: see me and be like I saw an April out

1617
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:32,040
Speaker 1: and this was crazy, Like you know what I mean,

1618
01:22:32,240 --> 01:22:34,200
Speaker 1: she's in a thought. I'd be like, oh my god,

1619
01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:36,840
Speaker 1: you saw that, like you know. So I think there

1620
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:39,720
Speaker 1: is something to say for like the responsibility that comes

1621
01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 1: with parenthood that I feel like, you know, mom, you

1622
01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:45,120
Speaker 1: can still be a mom, but it goes to show

1623
01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:48,640
Speaker 1: you not everybody is really ready and your life is

1624
01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:52,000
Speaker 1: supposed to change a little bit. Like some people like

1625
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:55,719
Speaker 1: oh I'm doing the same shit. I'm like, how how

1626
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,400
Speaker 1: you're responsible for somebody like how are you doing the

1627
01:22:58,400 --> 01:23:01,799
Speaker 1: same shit? And even when with me being the only

1628
01:23:02,040 --> 01:23:06,479
Speaker 1: like living parent and I arrange my life so that

1629
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:10,599
Speaker 1: my kids are consistently supported, whether it's my parents, my nanny.

1630
01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:14,439
Speaker 1: However I build my life, my life has changed, and

1631
01:23:14,479 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 1: I think sometimes people don't understand that responsibility when it

1632
01:23:19,200 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 1: comes to kids and take it a little bit like, Oh,

1633
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:23,760
Speaker 1: it's not that big of a deal. I'm gonna just

1634
01:23:23,880 --> 01:23:25,559
Speaker 1: keep doing it, and i'ma be outside and I'm like,

1635
01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:27,160
Speaker 1: what's happening.

1636
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:28,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's crazy.

1637
01:23:28,360 --> 01:23:30,360
Speaker 2: That you said that, because you were just like, because

1638
01:23:30,360 --> 01:23:32,080
Speaker 2: of course we were talking about the dress.

1639
01:23:32,320 --> 01:23:34,040
Speaker 3: Kids don't even cross my mind because.

1640
01:23:33,800 --> 01:23:36,759
Speaker 2: I don't have any, So you saying that, You're like, okay,

1641
01:23:36,800 --> 01:23:38,840
Speaker 2: and I'm like, damn, you do have two boys. So

1642
01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:41,040
Speaker 2: it's just like I even think about how I show

1643
01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 2: up around my nephews. Yes, oh I'm one piece swimsuit,

1644
01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:47,760
Speaker 2: yeah cover, So yes, I do see your point of.

1645
01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:49,479
Speaker 1: View you have because I have a twenty three year

1646
01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:52,160
Speaker 1: old to sixteen year old, like friends looking at me

1647
01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:54,800
Speaker 1: in a certain type of way, I think that there

1648
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:56,960
Speaker 1: is something to say for that. There is a level

1649
01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:59,760
Speaker 1: of responsibility that comes with parenthood, and not just on

1650
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 1: the mother. It is on both ends, and how you

1651
01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:06,920
Speaker 1: show up shapes the child you have, and when you

1652
01:24:06,960 --> 01:24:10,920
Speaker 1: when people go to do healing work, you start realizing

1653
01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:14,880
Speaker 1: how you were raised and what has made you the

1654
01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:18,960
Speaker 1: way you are comes from how you were raised. Like

1655
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:21,479
Speaker 1: so if you have an opportunity to fix that for

1656
01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:23,519
Speaker 1: your younger self, then you should.

1657
01:24:23,880 --> 01:24:26,160
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, that's true.

1658
01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:36,800
Speaker 7: What you ate that up for me?

1659
01:24:42,400 --> 01:24:45,439
Speaker 1: But man jumped out, I'm swubbed the internet before you'll

1660
01:24:45,439 --> 01:24:47,480
Speaker 1: have kids.

1661
01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:51,280
Speaker 3: Internet. We're gonna get y'all fight out of gift car

1662
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:53,000
Speaker 3: you got.

1663
01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:56,240
Speaker 1: So we used to be going for like we was

1664
01:24:56,360 --> 01:24:58,600
Speaker 1: really coulding up. I don't know what. We didn't need

1665
01:24:58,680 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 1: to be doing anything. We always say that about ourselves,

1666
01:25:01,280 --> 01:25:04,080
Speaker 1: Like when we were younger, we really just needed to

1667
01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:10,840
Speaker 1: be doing I think too, I just was mysterious.

1668
01:25:11,439 --> 01:25:15,200
Speaker 3: You wasn't on the internet like we was that forever.

1669
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:18,639
Speaker 1: But I feel like that's the difference in age. Yeah,

1670
01:25:19,160 --> 01:25:21,080
Speaker 1: we didn't have that, Like it wasn't like you could

1671
01:25:21,120 --> 01:25:23,920
Speaker 1: capture everything in real time. I think that's the thing

1672
01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:28,280
Speaker 1: for you, not that much older girl.

1673
01:25:28,280 --> 01:25:29,280
Speaker 3: I got something on you.

1674
01:25:30,200 --> 01:25:33,200
Speaker 2: It ain't like it's not like a big, a big

1675
01:25:33,280 --> 01:25:35,759
Speaker 2: but we can't get no uber.

1676
01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:41,880
Speaker 1: From a BlackBerry? But why had a BlackBerry pearl?

1677
01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 2: But technology when we were coming up, like advanced so quickly. Yes,

1678
01:25:50,760 --> 01:25:55,040
Speaker 2: so a five year difference between two people is totally different, different,

1679
01:25:55,479 --> 01:25:55,880
Speaker 2: And I.

1680
01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:59,120
Speaker 1: Think everything you do is now captured. And that's what

1681
01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:02,000
Speaker 1: young folks don't realize is like they're gonna capture it

1682
01:26:02,040 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 1: and they're gonna drag you.

1683
01:26:03,120 --> 01:26:03,639
Speaker 3: In the hole.

1684
01:26:04,320 --> 01:26:05,880
Speaker 1: You gotta go to your mama's house in the Nike

1685
01:26:05,960 --> 01:26:10,920
Speaker 1: shoe box. Yes, the physical pictures. His mom was doing something.

1686
01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:12,800
Speaker 1: She's going through all these pictures of me, like, oh

1687
01:26:12,840 --> 01:26:14,720
Speaker 1: my god, look at these pictures of making me all

1688
01:26:14,840 --> 01:26:21,240
Speaker 1: kinds of crazy. Picture for real, but like, yeah, photos,

1689
01:26:22,479 --> 01:26:24,640
Speaker 1: real life photos. You can't even scan it.

1690
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:27,719
Speaker 3: Bolaroids. I love a little boroid.

1691
01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:32,560
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let everybody know where they can find y'all's podcast,

1692
01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:34,400
Speaker 2: other things that y'all got coming up and all that

1693
01:26:34,400 --> 01:26:35,000
Speaker 2: good stuff.

1694
01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:39,639
Speaker 1: So we have this every single time, and we're never prepared.

1695
01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:45,000
Speaker 1: So we think you can go to We think you

1696
01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:49,120
Speaker 1: would go to YouTube for sure for everybody's crazy and

1697
01:26:49,280 --> 01:26:53,120
Speaker 1: check us out doing our new season season eight straight

1698
01:26:53,200 --> 01:26:56,479
Speaker 1: through the episodes, we think about doing a girlfriend in edition,

1699
01:26:56,640 --> 01:27:00,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, y'all need to come back. Hi, Yes, we

1700
01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:04,479
Speaker 1: need we need a Girlfriend's Edition. So I'm excited. We're

1701
01:27:04,520 --> 01:27:07,360
Speaker 1: gonna be committed. Y'all will see more of us, maybe

1702
01:27:07,400 --> 01:27:10,479
Speaker 1: catch us. We still got to do a little something,

1703
01:27:10,560 --> 01:27:14,120
Speaker 1: a little trip. We have to we wait on patre

1704
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:15,160
Speaker 1: after tour.

1705
01:27:15,880 --> 01:27:19,000
Speaker 3: We should do it on Patreoch. That would be fun.

1706
01:27:21,040 --> 01:27:23,160
Speaker 1: We need to be mysterious, We need we need to pay.

1707
01:27:23,240 --> 01:27:25,400
Speaker 3: We need to pay. You got dollars.

1708
01:27:30,720 --> 01:27:33,400
Speaker 1: Because you want to see this episode is ninety nine dollars.

1709
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:35,680
Speaker 1: But this ain't no until the lex might pop the

1710
01:27:35,840 --> 01:27:39,720
Speaker 1: pripp in their per mad bro.

1711
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:41,920
Speaker 3: We gotta make it Patre.

1712
01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:46,240
Speaker 2: I gotta be between the know right now. But you

1713
01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:48,200
Speaker 2: know what, after tours over, like, we can definitely play

1714
01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:51,000
Speaker 2: a little one two. We're staying in Europe for two weeks,

1715
01:27:51,040 --> 01:27:56,799
Speaker 2: for two weeks if you'll want, on August twenty second,

1716
01:27:57,320 --> 01:27:59,719
Speaker 2: so that is our official last day of the tour.

1717
01:28:00,240 --> 01:28:02,080
Speaker 3: So after that we're gonna stay in Europe for like

1718
01:28:02,120 --> 01:28:03,120
Speaker 3: a week or two and just.

1719
01:28:05,520 --> 01:28:07,880
Speaker 2: But after London, what is the please thinking about doing

1720
01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:09,600
Speaker 2: a little Italy, a little Greece.

1721
01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:12,880
Speaker 3: That yeah, we don't know a little one too.

1722
01:28:18,160 --> 01:28:20,360
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, but what day is your birthday? The

1723
01:28:20,400 --> 01:28:23,920
Speaker 1: twenty seven? Okay, so y'all that after my dad's birthday

1724
01:28:24,640 --> 01:28:26,680
Speaker 1: y'all gotta go to Peri. That's what I love it.

1725
01:28:28,040 --> 01:28:30,720
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it's always a talent Sannah. I need

1726
01:28:30,800 --> 01:28:31,439
Speaker 3: to go back.

1727
01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:33,439
Speaker 1: Yes, I love Paris so much.

1728
01:28:34,400 --> 01:28:36,720
Speaker 3: We don't. We're gonna figure out. We're gonna a girls trip.

1729
01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:43,000
Speaker 3: We gotta make that happen in Paris. We ready. Thank

1730
01:28:43,040 --> 01:28:46,000
Speaker 3: y'all so much doing us. Every time you do this,

1731
01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:46,800
Speaker 3: it would be a good time.

1732
01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:50,080
Speaker 1: We love it, y'all. We love y'all. Thank you so much.

1733
01:28:50,120 --> 01:28:52,400
Speaker 2: And y'all, make sure y'all go to Poor Mines dot com.

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