1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: My dad is dating my best friend. He promised to 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: end it, but now has something to tell me. The 3 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: ass is just too dank. Ass is too good. I 4 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:09,159 Speaker 1: can't I can't hit a rate. 5 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 2: Choice and friends, specifically friends, butts do you have any more? 6 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? 7 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: I choose all of my friends by their bodacious booties. 8 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: Yike, Hey, daddy, you know I'm friends with John? Now? 9 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 2: Hey, yeah, I should I say? If he stood up, 10 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 2: this would not be a podcast. This would be a tease. 11 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: Caked. Let's get into it. Put donations in the chat 12 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 1: if you want to see John's but oh yeah, let's 13 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: let's definitely start out. Yeah, I twenty one female, am 14 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: attending college about six hours away from my hometown. Unfortunately, 15 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 1: my mom passed away at a young age, and my dad, 16 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: forty eight male, has been a single father to me 17 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: for the past eight years. 18 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 2: Okay, that is tough. Daddy needs a break, he does, 19 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 2: he needs Daddy needs to relieve. He's looking for love. 20 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 2: He's looking for love. You know your mother has been 21 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 2: in the ground a can't for years. That is as 22 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 2: good as she used to. 23 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: She kind of doesn't. That is that is factually accurate. 24 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 1: My dad hasn't dated anyone seriously throughout the years, as 25 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: he seemed to consistently indicate that all he wanted to 26 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: focus on was being there for me. Yeah, you and 27 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: your friend group, Yeah, all your friends. I've always encouraged 28 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: him to put himself back out there, and when I 29 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: left for school, I encouraged this even more as he 30 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: would be an empty nester. Yeah. That's really like when 31 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: your kid's an adult, when they're leaving the house. That's 32 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 1: really when it's like, hey, you know, get out there, somebody, 33 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: someone be with somebody age bracket, yeah, preferably or or not, 34 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: you know, twenty years younger. 35 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, perfect, Why not get that youthful zest that 36 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: you missed out? 37 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: Oh you know, just let's run it back. You know. 38 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: I'd be like a little vampire of something. I was 39 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: going to say virgins, but the self censored ladies and gentlemen. 40 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: Then I didn't, But then he didn't. Don't. Don't vampires 41 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: suck the blood of virgins? Right? 42 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 2: I always Riley, look up, do vampires suck the blood 43 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: of virgins? 44 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: I always thought maybe now it's just like anyone blanket, 45 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: Like now that's like a deep cut, or like the vampires? Uh, 46 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: Twilight a virgin. No, because they had the baby. 47 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 2: Well no, but like like like before they had the 48 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 2: baby I'm talking about. 49 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: Didn't he bit her after? He bit her during childbirth? 50 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: But wasn't he the guy that did it? Oh? He 51 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:37,519 Speaker 1: did something like like like he he he was she Oh, 52 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: she was giving birth, so they had to have done 53 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: it before he because she would have died. 54 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So basically he didn't suck her dry almost 55 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: before he entered. Yeah, that's right. He entered first, and 56 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 2: he entered then sucked That's right. All right, Riley, what's 57 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: what's the sich common theme? And liars sucked the blood 58 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 2: of virgins? 59 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: Let's go. Let's call it to him. Guys, good knows 60 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: about freaking Dracula? And what's your name? 61 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: What's the name of the lady that wrote it in 62 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 2: the nineteen early nineteen hundreds? 63 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: Fuck, I don't remember, right, Okay, we can keep up 64 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 1: Shelby frank something. Yeah, yeah, that's I think that's Frankenstein. 65 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 2: But oh, you're totally probably right. Yeah, no, I was 66 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 2: thinking you shlby to Shelby mcancers. That's not her name, 67 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 2: but it is now. Anyways, since my freshman year of 68 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: high school. 69 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: I have had a really close friend now twenty one 70 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,519 Speaker 1: female that has always been there for me and that 71 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: I've spent a lot of time with. Yikes, put I 72 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: see you in the comments. Put I see you in 73 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: the comment. Put it in there. You see where this 74 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: Dracula daddy is going to. Oh god, vamp daddy. Daddy 75 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: is not that vamp life. She attends a more local 76 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: college that's only twenty minutes away from my hometown. Perfect dang, 77 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: less than an episode of Netflix Baby. This all started 78 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: this past spring break in March, when I went home 79 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: and noticed that my dad was texting someone fairly regularly. 80 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 2: And she's probably like, oh my god, my dad's getting 81 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 2: out there finally someone you know, like probably on like 82 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: Christian singles like The Golden Bachelor, you know wherever people 83 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: find love. Yeah, apparently in The Golden Bachelor, that dude 84 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 2: was like a rizzing up a storm. Like if you 85 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 2: want a riz if Riley, if you actually want riz 86 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 2: rizz Lord training, you should watch The Golden Bachelor. 87 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: I mean, he's had all the years of practice, he's 88 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: had years, he's a master game. So what's the other 89 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 1: wife died? Or what the Golden Bachelor yeah, I have 90 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: no idea. Maybe a vampire attacked her. True. Yeah, now 91 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: she's undead and it's not about it, not about it, it's 92 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: trying to find something. I also saw the name that 93 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: was texting him once and I didn't recognize it, but 94 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: it was a woman's name. This is not common for him, 95 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 1: so I figured he might be finally sparking up his 96 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: love life after all these years. Daddy, Oh god. I 97 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: did not say anything about it because I didn't want 98 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,679 Speaker 1: to make him feel weir, weird or uncomfortable about getting 99 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: back out there. So she's letting them cook, Yeah, let 100 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: them cook. Where where is he cooking? Now that? What's 101 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 1: on the grill cooking? And where is he throwing all 102 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: those ingredients into? 103 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 2: He's flipping a patty that was right next to his 104 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 2: daughter's patty sugar. 105 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: Stice and everything nice? Going in, going in, going in, 106 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: getting those college educated women. Yeah almost almost almost. They 107 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: will be down on the way on the way in process. Yeah, yeah, 108 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:35,679 Speaker 1: we'll help. I'll helpe. There's them study, Yeah, study, buddy. 109 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: He seemed happy, and I was happy on the inside 110 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: as well for him. I said my goodbyes and I 111 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 1: went back to school. A few weeks later, I just 112 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: so happened to be looking at Find my Friends when 113 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: I noticed that my friend was at my house. Oh no, 114 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: at the house. Dam got caught by fine my friends? 115 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 1: What a classic, a classic way to go down. 116 00:05:56,880 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, if she's at the house, like right, 117 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 2: she's getting help on her homework, right, yeah, one on 118 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 2: one tutoring, she was doing her laundry. 119 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: It got stuck in the washing machine. She can't get 120 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: it out. Dude. 121 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 2: Do you know how bad washing machines are on college campuses? 122 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: Dude? They break all the time. 123 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 2: The dryers barely dry the clothes. You got to go 124 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 2: home for that ship. 125 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: You have got to go home. He's a proper dryer. 126 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: Her family's not doing it, No second family, Dad, your 127 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: head to go and try this shit? Oh man, I 128 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 2: was so deep into the dryer I got stuck. 129 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: What can I do now here? I am daddy, Daddy, 130 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: help me. All my clothes are in the dryer. I 131 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: have nothing. What am I to do? Find love? I 132 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: thought this was strange since she doesn't necessarily live close by. 133 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: It will sound naive at this point, but I honestly 134 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: did not think that much of it. About a week 135 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: went by, and I decided to come home one day 136 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 1: early for Easter in April because I just had a 137 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: feeling that something was strange, and I tried to catch 138 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 1: my dad off guard a bit. 139 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 2: Oh we're prize second coming. Oh gosh for all those 140 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 2: for our Catholic Christian people. 141 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: Brother, that's a joke for you guys. Yeah, big inside joke. 142 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, big inside joke, just like you know, a little people, 143 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 2: a billion people. 144 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was a little teeny tiny group. Yeah. Everything 145 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: was normal, and he was very happy to see me. 146 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: I was planning on seeing my friend the next day 147 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: for lunch. My dad and I spent the day together 148 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: and then we started watching a movie. And then it happened. 149 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: What what happened? I saw an incoming text on my 150 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: dad's phone and it was from my friend. Oh god, 151 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: this was all I needed to see to place the 152 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:56,679 Speaker 1: last piece of the puzzle together. Oh man, my dad 153 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: was going out with my friend, so our She like 154 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: immediately like you, I mean you have to be yeah, 155 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: I mean you're in you're twenty one years old, you're 156 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: in college. Your your middle aged father, who has known 157 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: your friend since freshman year of high school is now 158 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: datings her is now getting with her. Yeah, dude, that's 159 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: a little that's a little weird. But hey, we don't 160 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: have We saw the name of a notification. We saw 161 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: the conclusion is all we know. Hey, he was doing laundry. 162 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 1: She was doing laundry, and now she's like, hey, is 163 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: my laundry done? She thought the inside was dirty, so 164 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 1: she was scrubbing the inside the maketures clean for him 165 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: when he wanted to go with him. So awful. I 166 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: was feeling pretty sick the next day, a little bit 167 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 1: of faking it to avoid the situation, and I also 168 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: just felt a bit uneasy about it all. It felt 169 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: like a layer of trust was broken, and the other 170 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: external details, such as their age gap and the already 171 00:08:56,240 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: existing dynamic made me cringe up a bit as well. Yeah, 172 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: after two days at home, I took the next train 173 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: back to school. I told my dad that I really 174 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 1: had to ace and exam coming up, so I had 175 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: to get back. I needed to leave the situation and think, well, 176 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: I mean, what is there to think about? What do 177 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:12,839 Speaker 1: you do? 178 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 2: I mean, probably talk to your friend and your dad 179 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 2: you catch them in the act, But if they're both 180 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 2: consenting adults, you know, like There's not much you. 181 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: Can do except capture your dad and create a PowerPoint presentation. 182 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 2: Of why you should not hook up with my friends. Yes, 183 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 2: and just be like hey, just like like be like Nirvana. 184 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 2: She's never heard of it. Yep, Wakman never heard of it. 185 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: You guys. 186 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 2: Don't just start making me realize you guys have nothing 187 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 2: in common. That's right, your presentation on how little of 188 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: a Venn diagram overlap that you guys have. 189 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: Here's what she likes twitch streamers. Have you heard of it? 190 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: TikTok TikTok? Yeah, you have you heard of it? Oh 191 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 1: you haven't. 192 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 2: That's a body hydro flaskshi is Yeah, I'm. 193 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 1: Pulling back on the twenty nineteen references. I was, I 194 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: was warning. I was like, what eagle activities are there? Yeah? 195 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 2: John, John doesn't have many many reference points. He goes 196 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: back to twenty nineteen real quig I had to Flaska 197 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 2: is the last what are the kids into these days? 198 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 1: Asks? Back in BC age and Fishco girls were hydrating 199 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 1: with the two fish. I actually went to the TikTok 200 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: headquarters in twenty nineteen and they had a TikTok trends quiz, 201 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: and those are the things on it. Oh really, and 202 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: I passed. I passed the quiz. Wow, I'm so proud 203 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: of you. I was so. I was so. I was 204 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: Riley's age, I was. 205 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 2: Age, I was a young buck back what in twenty nineteen? 206 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: I was like why Anyways? Well, after thinking, I came 207 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 1: to the conclusion that I am not okay with this relationship. Yeah, 208 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: which understandable, kind of fair kind. But the question will 209 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: keep going. But the question is to consenting adults to 210 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: stop it. To consenting adults, you can't stop it. But 211 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: I feel like the dad should feel weird about it, right, Yeah, 212 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 1: there's got to be something. There's got to be I 213 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know a conversation. 214 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 2: My mom started dating one of my friends secretly, I 215 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: would feel pretty weird. 216 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: About my best friend. 217 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, my mom started dating Christian, I would feel weird 218 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 2: about it. 219 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: I would feel super weird about it so much contact. 220 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: Just imagine one of your parents dating your friends. Yeah, 221 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: I would, and especially at it. I would Actually I 222 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 1: would be pissed. 223 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 2: I would be pissed at my friend for being like, bro, 224 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 2: why are you fucking my mom? And I would be 225 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 2: pissed at my mom for fucking my friend. 226 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: It's not good. And I get it, like Christian's a 227 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 1: haughty but dude, come on, yeah, at least over thirty. Yeah, 228 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: I would be pissed. 229 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 2: I would be I would I would make them both 230 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 2: aware that that was not cool, right, it would be different. 231 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: It would be like this is this is even worse 232 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:05,839 Speaker 1: because they're twenty one years old? Yeah in college. Yeah, 233 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 1: that's like so much worse. That's way worse. 234 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 2: It's not even like they're like in the workforce. Yeah, 235 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 2: you know, they're fucking learning how to do long division. 236 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: I did not want my individual relationships that I had 237 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: with each blended into one. I thought it was a 238 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 1: bit gross. Get blending? Girl? Can will it blend? Question? 239 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: And the fact that above all they knew they had 240 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 1: to be sneaky validates Yeah. Yeah, that's how. That's how 241 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: you know they knew it was wrong. Yeah, which probably 242 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: made it so hot. Oh, they're probably. 243 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 2: So into it, dude, How do you feel op being 244 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 2: the thing that made it like three times hotter? Really, 245 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:51,439 Speaker 2: if you think about it, not only is it your 246 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 2: dad and your friend, but you're in it because you're 247 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 2: like the meat in the middle that makes it like 248 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 2: so much sweeter to close the gap. 249 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 1: Wow, you just have to have away with words. Wow, 250 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: that makes it. I didn't think. I didn't think it 251 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: could get worse. But I know that description, Bro, I 252 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: brought me to a whole new level. You're welcome. I'm welcome. Damn. 253 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: Two soggy pieces of wonderbread. Oh yeah, brought together. Yeah, 254 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: they had to be sneaky, and that validated my feelings 255 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: that they should know better. Yep. I waited until finals 256 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: were finally over a few weeks ago and finally called 257 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: my dad and told him that I know and what 258 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: my real thoughts are. He sounded very upset on the phone, sad, 259 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: not at all angry, and told me that he understood 260 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: and wanted to talk about it the next day so 261 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: he could think. I have no clue. I have no 262 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: clue what he was telling my friend, but I did 263 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: not have any contact with her about this throughout these 264 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: initial calls. The next day, my dad called and I talked. 265 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: He was very apologetic and very understanding of why I 266 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: was upset, but eventually came down and said that he 267 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: would not stop seeing my friend. They're in love. They're 268 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:06,319 Speaker 1: in love. They're in love, sweetie, Meet your new mommy. 269 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 2: Oh man, imagine, bro, and there aren'tagin They're already like 270 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 2: best friends though, so like you know, the stepmom relationship. 271 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,839 Speaker 1: It's so great, right, It's so perfect. They get to 272 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: hang out. Bro, I'm in the same class as my 273 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: step moms. I go to the same parties as my stepmom, 274 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: my stepmom and best friend. Oh god, that would be 275 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: so bad. Imagine imagine how much she'd get clowned if 276 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: like her friend group found out in college. Who would op? 277 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: Do you think that your stepmom merciless? Merciless? It would 278 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: be brutal, brutal. He said that they had been seeing 279 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: each other since the end of last summer and have 280 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 1: been attached to one another, and he was not ready 281 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: to forfeit. It was his first real connection that he 282 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: had felt in so so many years. But like, really, 283 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 1: his first real connection. Are you so real? Are you trying? 284 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: It's so it sounds like you just grabbed the first 285 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 2: stick that was close and enough, like the touch. 286 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 1: And and and it was so real. You know, the 287 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: booty was real. 288 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: You don't you don't You don't share any life experiences. 289 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: Uh, yeah they do in college. I like ass, you 290 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 1: have an ass that's t boom. 291 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 2: That's that's universal language, dude. 292 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: It's truly forget music. Forget music, universal language. The ass 293 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: is the is is like it is it like. It 294 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 1: transcends culture, transcends country, transcends language, transcend site, transcends species. Bro, species, 295 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: you're you're you're telling me bad boons aren't looking at 296 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: each other's They literally develop hairless asses, so we could 297 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: look at their asses. More. Evolution designed a bright red 298 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: alert to say, hey, look at it right now. It's 299 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: the juicy creature pants of nature. Oh dude, yes, that's 300 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: what it is. I want to see a bab boon 301 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: in some juicy riley. Can you have chat cheap et 302 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: create a bab boon with the juicy what are they 303 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: called juicy? The juicy pants with juicy juicy creature creature. 304 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, pants, sweatpants and then well we'll look at that 305 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 2: picture later later in the episode. 306 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: Let's keep it an end of episode surprise. I'm excited 307 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 1: to Seet. I held my ground and told him that 308 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: I will not be seeing him or hanging out with 309 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 1: him when I returned home for summer break until he 310 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: ends this. It's a pretty big ultimatum. It has been 311 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: two weeks at home with basically no interaction with him 312 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: or my friend, aside from a text for my friend 313 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: every other day requesting to talk in person or on 314 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 1: the phone about it. I mean, I feel like she 315 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: should fuck No, it's tough. I mean I don't know 316 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 1: that she talked to both of them. I would. 317 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 2: I doesn't owe it, but I would. I would want 318 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 2: to talk to I would way like like, what is good? 319 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 2: Did this happen? 320 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: Why are you doing this to me? Where's your mom? 321 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: Eye for an eye bit? There we go. It's a 322 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: genius idea. Wow, that was give me your father. I 323 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: didn't respond to her texts or calls. Tonight it came 324 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: to a head. I returned home from dinner with a 325 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 1: friend to find my dad and my friend awaiting me 326 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: in my house. This was the most unpleasant experience I 327 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:32,360 Speaker 1: have ever had with my father. That is so weird. 328 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 2: It's an intervention, but like reverse Yeah, people who are 329 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 2: fucking drinking and doing a heroine are like, exactly, come on, 330 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 2: you don't let us do this. 331 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: Put down the pen and pick up the bottle. It 332 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: ended with him crying and him saying that I should 333 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 1: understand because I know how hard it has been for him. 334 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: He also pointed out that I have been deeply encouraging 335 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: him to put himself back out there, so I have 336 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: to have some sort of sympathy for him. Bro. 337 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 2: When she said put yourself out there, not and put 338 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 2: yourself with my friend, dude, that's not what she meant. 339 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 2: That's not what she meant at all. 340 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 1: After about fifteen minutes of yelling, tears, and overall awkwardness, 341 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 1: I stormed out and drove to another friend's house to 342 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 1: stay for the night. I am too embarrassed to tell 343 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: the friend I'm staying with the details and talk about 344 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: why I left home or this relationship. I mean, like, 345 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: how do you even begin to tell a friend that 346 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: one hundred percent? So I sat there for the past 347 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: few hours and wrestled in my mind with whether I 348 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,400 Speaker 1: am being too hard on them or if I am 349 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 1: in the right. Am I the a hole here for 350 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: not supporting this relationship or even tolerating it? And just 351 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:43,640 Speaker 1: a note, I have talked about zero details yet with 352 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 1: my friend or dad about why they started going out, 353 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: et cetera. I just know that it's been happening. I'm 354 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: sorry for how long this is, but I'm very confused 355 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,679 Speaker 1: and I don't know what to think or feel. We 356 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 1: have some listener comments, we have some updates. Thank god. 357 00:18:58,280 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 1: We have to pause right here. 358 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 2: Wait, this is an OKOP original. This is not an 359 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 2: okay original. But what should OPI do? Everyone watching right now? 360 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: What does OP do? Bro? I would be fucking pissed. 361 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 2: I would framing it from it was Christian and my mom, yeah, 362 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:16,399 Speaker 2: or Christian and my dad for that matter, Christian and 363 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 2: either of my parents. I would be absolutely pissed. Yeah, 364 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 2: absolutely I would. I would be so pissed at both parties. 365 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 2: It would complete and it would completely change my view 366 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 2: of both of them. That's true, because I would be like, if. 367 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:37,400 Speaker 1: You could sneaky, sneak around and completely change the dynamic 368 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: of like both of our individual relationships, one of which 369 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 1: like the you know, the father son mother uh daughter whatever, 370 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:47,159 Speaker 1: father daughter relationship. 371 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, like a sacred bond and you're gonna fuck that up. 372 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 1: I would be pissed. Hypothetical they came to you first 373 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 1: and they're like, we have feelings for each other, but 374 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: we care about you so much, we will end it 375 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 1: right here and right now. 376 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 2: That would be better. If you're uncomfortable, that would be better. 377 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 2: That would be It would still be fucking weird, but 378 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 2: that would be better. And honestly, I would probably feel 379 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:16,159 Speaker 2: guilty enough of stopping true love right that would be like, 380 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:21,919 Speaker 2: I guess I gave you my bless fuck Christian, You're. 381 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: Gonna come home and like question, like what it's it's 382 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 1: the It's the same. It's like it's women having a 383 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: dream of the guy cheating. It's giving that energyize right now. 384 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, But we have some comments to read. 385 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: What I just remembered something. Yeah, I have a story. 386 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 1: I have a story for the end of the story. 387 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: I have a story for the end of the story. Wow, 388 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 1: this is the story at the end of the story. 389 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: I forgot about this. 390 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,679 Speaker 2: We can't call him because he's in Aposta retreat, but 391 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 2: I know him. But I'll tell a little bit about it. 392 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: Okay, hon some comments, So the original comment was deleted, 393 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 1: but Opie had a good response that we want to 394 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,959 Speaker 1: read to you. OPI thank you. I truly understand what 395 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: you're saying, and I agree with most of it. But 396 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: he is my only support system, slash family, I really 397 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: keep in touch with. I can't really slash. I'm not 398 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: ready to just cut him off like that. I just 399 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 1: don't know how to move forward or what to do. 400 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: I know this might sound stupid given the situation, but 401 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,359 Speaker 1: he really has been a perfect dad up until now. 402 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: He's made so many sacrifices for me and I love him. 403 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: This is so uncharacteristic and it really hurts. I totally 404 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: get it, Like he's really not only is your only family, 405 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,919 Speaker 1: but he's probably been her rocks through this time of 406 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 1: losing her mom. Yeah. Yeah, age would be. 407 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 2: So hard to just just say hey, I'm not going 408 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 2: to talk to you anymore, like like it would impossible. 409 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 2: I don't think going no contact is possible. 410 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really don't. I really cannot blame her, I 411 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: really can't. Sheez, this is christ Jed watching you. Well, 412 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 1: let's get into the updates. Before going into it, I 413 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 1: want to address something I want to reiterate, and I 414 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: said this in one of the comments, that my friend 415 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: and my dad did not have any sort of relationship 416 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 1: slash contact beyond waving high and by while I was 417 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: in high school. So that's at least right, so there 418 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:17,160 Speaker 1: was no grooming. Yes, yes, again, I appreciate that people 419 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,439 Speaker 1: are looking out for me and encourage me to consider 420 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 1: that there was maybe something going on then, but I 421 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,439 Speaker 1: know that this was not the case. This was definitely 422 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,919 Speaker 1: not a grooming situation, which hopefully is a relief to 423 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: many of you that were concerned about that. The conversation 424 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: I had with my dad this morning confirmed that as well. 425 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: So after reading a few of the comments this morning 426 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: and cooling down a bit, I decided to just go 427 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 1: home and visit my dad to try and have a 428 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: conversation about it all. We have way too good of 429 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 1: relationship to not just hear each other's perspectives. I walked 430 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,119 Speaker 1: in at eight, when he's always drinking his coffee and 431 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 1: watching the morning news. As soon as I opened the door, 432 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 1: he looked at me and he looked like he had 433 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: not slept. About ten seconds after I walked in with silence, 434 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 1: he started crying pretty intensely. My dad is not usually emotional, 435 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 1: and throughout the last twenty four hours, I've seen him 436 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 1: cry more than I'm basically the rest of my life. 437 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: Oh even after your mom died and after her mom died. 438 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: That's he basically stopped me from saying anything and just 439 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 1: said that he wanted to explain himself and the situation, 440 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: right Dot good. Last summer, my dad was at the 441 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: gym when he ran into my friend. They wave tied 442 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: to each other, and he approached her because he wanted 443 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 1: to ask if I had told her anything about my internship. 444 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: I had another city for the summer. Dude, meeting in 445 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 1: the gym. That's so bad. That's so bad, dad, Dude, 446 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: he's he's he's a buff frickin' daddy. For you know, 447 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:36,880 Speaker 1: she's out there getting her getting her glues. 448 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 2: That's I was at the gym today this morning. Yep, 449 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 2: there he is and great place to meet people. 450 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 1: To put it lightly, they talked briefly, and then a 451 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 1: month later they saw each other again at the gym. 452 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: This time she asked him if he'd want to grab 453 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 1: a coffee, and he agreed because he knew that we 454 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 1: as an open and her were good friends. 455 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 2: So she's kind of escalating things. She seems to be 456 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,679 Speaker 2: the one gear and wow. Also, to be clear, I 457 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 2: wasn't talking about like flirting with girls. I met a 458 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 2: lawyer at the gym and he gave me his business card. 459 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 2: He's going to come on the show, and. 460 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 1: He's a real he's a real piece of work. On Yeah. Yeah, Oh, 461 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: let me tell you, Brad, you can sign my tracks 462 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 1: with your Beverly Hills Brad the divorce attorneys Damn firename, 463 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 1: though fire name. He swears that he had zero romantic 464 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: attention going into this. Basically, he said that they just 465 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 1: hit it off and had a really good time. It 466 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: did not become mutually romantic until about a month later, 467 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 1: when they decided to get dinner. Once all this happened, 468 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: my dad told her that he needed to tell me 469 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: about it before moving forward, but my friend did not 470 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 1: want to tell me yet because she was not sure 471 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: how serious they would eventually be, and there was no 472 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: point in making me feel uncomfortable for nothing. I mean, 473 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 1: I see what she's saying, see what she's Yeah, but 474 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: it no, I think you gotta tell Yeah, yeah, yeah, 475 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 1: you gotta. 476 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 2: I mean it's like if you like, even if it 477 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 2: was a casual thing, like like, if it's a casual thing, 478 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 2: I think it's it's just damaging for no reason. 479 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, if it's a casual thing that you 480 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: guys shouldn't do it. Yeah, one hundred percent. Yeah, yeah, 481 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: fair point. Unfortunately, this way of thinking just continually progressed 482 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:22,919 Speaker 1: until it reached the point of now nearly nine months later, 483 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: and you know what happened nine months ago? She's pregnant. 484 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: We would know, we would know. Well, actually, maybe she 485 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 1: could be one month pregnant. She could be one week pregnant. WHOA, Okay, 486 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: dang that that's a conspiracy theory. I can't help but 487 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 1: think about, Oh god, wait, what would that be? Yeah? Sister, yeah, 488 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: I mean just sister sister. I was like, is this 489 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: gonna be like sister my sister? Yeah. He repeatedly said 490 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,360 Speaker 1: that he wanted to and should have told me from 491 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 1: the second they even met up for coffee. Now for 492 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: the awkward part, I will admit the part that was 493 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 1: actually making me feel most uncomfortable was thinking about their 494 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 1: sexual relationship, and it was deep, so I knew I 495 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,119 Speaker 1: had to be straightforward. I asked him how long they 496 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: had been intimate. Shockingly, he responded that he has not 497 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 1: done anything intimate with her yet. They've been hanging out 498 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: for nine months in his house and they haven't done 499 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: anything intimate. Yeah, you know, they're just antal, just doing it, 500 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,360 Speaker 1: just making you know, yeah, just molding that cloth, dude. 501 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 2: Pottery talk is the most sexual area of TikTok I've 502 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:37,159 Speaker 2: ever seen crazy, dude, They're absolutely insane, just working that 503 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 2: show too much. 504 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 1: He said that they had done other stuff, and I 505 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 1: stopped him from going into detail about it. Your guess 506 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 1: is the cottas below? What was other stuff? Meaning? Where 507 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,439 Speaker 1: is there no sex? Sign? Yeah? For real, what have 508 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 1: you been slacking? Letting us get away way too much 509 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 1: murder because we did not need to share that stuff 510 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: with each other. When I asked him why he has 511 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: not been intimate with her, he revealed that he has 512 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 1: not been intimate since he became a widow a ka, 513 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 1: since Opie's mom passed away. What's other stuff? Then? Maybe 514 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: making out maybe like a little first base god, Riley 515 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: got to give a sign to her that was the 516 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: most That was the most sexual thing ever. My god, 517 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:48,439 Speaker 1: Oh they have all that no sex TALKA is just 518 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 1: pent up over all this time, dude, we have just 519 00:27:51,600 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: all this pends up energy over here. Okay, Oh jeez, 520 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: oh goodness. I also saw ore we go what what 521 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: that with? John? Wait? Wait wait till the end, Wait 522 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,360 Speaker 1: until you wait un till the end, wait until you end. 523 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 1: We have we have? Sorry, God, I'm ready for it. 524 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:34,640 Speaker 1: Oh goodness of okay, I'm I'm excited now he will 525 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: not do it until he knows that I would approve 526 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: of the person that he is with. He then revealed 527 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: that he had gone on a few dates without me 528 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: knowing for the past eight years, but did not think 529 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: any of them were special enough to bring around. Not 530 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: hooking up with uh. Not having hooked up with my 531 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: friend even caused them to have a break last fall 532 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: because my friend was upset that he wouldn't do it 533 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: with her, but she eventually came around to accepting it. 534 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: Hearing this really saved the image I have of my 535 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 1: dad as a polite, respectful, mild mannered man, which, like, honestly, 536 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 1: I will say, they puts a lot of points in 537 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: his corner. Yeah, he's not just like grabbing a piece 538 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: of college ass over here. That is true. That is true. 539 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 2: Like it actually, you know, we were making a lot 540 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 2: of jokes earlier, but it does seem like it is 541 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 2: the fact that they weren't like physical, It seems like 542 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 2: the intimacy is like a few layers deeper. Yeah, Like 543 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 2: there's like this emotional intimacy that they have that's like 544 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 2: seems strong, hard to fight love. 545 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 1: I said in a few comments on the last post 546 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: that this was all very uncharacteristic of him, and this 547 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 1: information calmed a few of my nerves about the whole situation. 548 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: Then the apologies began. He said he was nervous and 549 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: panicked when I brought it up that I knew about it, 550 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: and he lashed out. He said he was trying to 551 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: convince himself that he was not in the wrong and 552 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 1: was glamorizing the relationship a bit to make it seem 553 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 1: like I should be more understanding. Then he started crying 554 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: again and hugged me and said that he wants to 555 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 1: start over with my friend, with all of us on 556 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 1: the same page, because he really does actually like being 557 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 1: with her. He just wants to take it slow and 558 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 1: dial back to seriousness a bit right now. I said 559 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 1: that I would be open to that and that we 560 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: could move forward from there with no secrets. 561 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 2: Wow, she's in Yeah, so every time they're about to fuck, he's. 562 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 1: Like, oh, be about to plow your friend. Want to 563 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: make sure we're totally good. Total transparency, total transparency. 564 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 2: If you can tune into the life camp right now, 565 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 2: I subscribe to our only get updates. 566 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 1: I just want to be honest. She doesn't want to 567 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 1: be honest and transparent. I also apologized for how reactive 568 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: I was to it all at the moment. Oh, you 569 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 1: don't need to apologize with that. While I still might 570 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 1: not fully agree with the relationship, I am more open 571 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 1: to seeing it play out slash being tolerant now that 572 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: I know more details. It felt like the father that 573 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 1: I knew had returned is so sweet. That's really nice. 574 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 1: I am meeting alone with my friend to hopefully there 575 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 1: will be another update since she will verify everything that 576 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 1: he said and on the same page as my dad 577 00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 1: and I with how we move forward. I will also 578 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 1: say that I do not blame my dad for going 579 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,960 Speaker 1: out with someone my age. Yes, there is a weird 580 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: dynamic to her being my age and your best friend 581 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 1: Loki heike, But I think we are all kidding ourselves 582 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,239 Speaker 1: if we say that he cannot be excited as a 583 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 1: man his age to get attention from a younger woman. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 584 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:32,280 Speaker 1: yeah yeah. There are so many older men, especially celebrities, 585 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 1: that are attracted to younger women that I will not 586 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 1: entirely hold that against him. That's a pretty fair and 587 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 1: empathetic view from Opius. 588 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, there was this, there's this like onion article it's 589 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 2: like shocking news. Uh Leon leond On, a DiCaprio international 590 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 2: celebrity enjoys plowing young models breaking news. 591 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: Thank you for all your help and insight. This may 592 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: have not gone nearly as well as I would have 593 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 1: liked if I had not been able to have read 594 00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: some of your insights. I'm feeling surprisingly hopeful about the 595 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: situation going forward. And there's an edit. There are many 596 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 1: people convinced that I know every intricacy of the situation, 597 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 1: and they for sure know what was true and false. 598 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 1: But this is the moment where I realized that help 599 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 1: from the internet does have its limits, that it does 600 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: take it from two people giving help. I still want 601 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 1: to thank everyone that is simply just trying to look 602 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 1: out for me, but respectfully, I know that these people 603 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 1: in certain histories slash personality traits better than anyone else. 604 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 1: None of this is ideal, obviously, and I'm not entirely 605 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: okay or approve of everything, but I can tell you 606 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: that I feel like I've made progress with the situation today. 607 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,480 Speaker 1: I probably won't be returning to this because now it 608 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: seems like it's just being hashed out in outrage circles. 609 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: Still many of The things said on both this post 610 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 1: and the last were very helpful, So I thank you guys. 611 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,959 Speaker 1: I will be okay and keep my wits onward and upward. 612 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: And there's comments and an updates another update. 613 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 2: Quick question for the audience, like, do you find it 614 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 2: weird when like a fifty year old datea twenty year 615 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,640 Speaker 2: old like like the Leonardo DiCaprio situation, Like, is that 616 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 2: is that weird to you? It's a little weird to 617 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 2: me just because I I look at like college like girls. 618 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know if I could emotionally connect 619 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 2: with those people. Yeah, so like being in like a 620 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 2: relationship feels like weird. 621 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 1: I feel like twenty five is that crossing point where 622 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 1: like you have experienced more life and are like getting closer. 623 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,720 Speaker 1: That's what Leo cuts him off. And that's when he 624 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 1: cuts them off too, So it's like what's he doing? 625 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't, I don't personally doesn't make sense to me, 626 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 2: but I love to know, like what everyone's opinions are 627 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 2: on like twenty year old girls with fifty year old. 628 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 1: Dudes and vice versa. Yep, oh no, the advice versa and. 629 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 2: The vice versa. You don't see it as much. I 630 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 2: guess Madonna, Madonna, Riley, Riley, you know, yeah, hooking up 631 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 2: with MILFs. Yeah, these all these kind are raising up 632 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 2: a thirty two year old, you know recently. 633 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 1: He's they it's hard for them to resist his young 634 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 1: voyage charm. Dude, Yep, he's got it. He's got it, 635 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 1: He's got it. Here's a comment from B Gummy. Oh, 636 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: I hate to say it, since there is a hopeful update, 637 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: but that twenty seven year age gap is not going 638 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: to play out well for my friend. I would encourage 639 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,799 Speaker 1: her to date someone her own age in her own 640 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,320 Speaker 1: life experiences, and certainly not my father. For my father, 641 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,520 Speaker 1: I would encourage him to date people's own age in 642 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,760 Speaker 1: his own life experiences, and certainly not anyone my age. 643 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 1: Who is my friend? 644 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 2: Hey, yeah, I mean that's that's my I think, like 645 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 2: you don't share a life experience, so like it doesn't tough. 646 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 1: Will it work out long term? Even if they were strangers? 647 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 1: Play this age gap out? What happens when your friend 648 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 1: wants to have kids? Your dad is going to be 649 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 1: fifty plus year old, new dad? Play it out even longer? 650 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: That age gap puts the odds heavily in favor of 651 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 1: your friend becoming a young widow herself eventually. Whatever the 652 00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: infatuation is. Unless your friend is nor Alfalfa who has 653 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,879 Speaker 1: a thing for much older men, this just isn't going 654 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 1: to end well if they continue, OPI replies, if it 655 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 1: doesn't play out well, then it doesn't. My biggest issue 656 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,839 Speaker 1: was breaking trust and keeping it a secret. I can't 657 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,400 Speaker 1: control what either of them do, which is true. I 658 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: can control how I would like to be treated by 659 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 1: them and how I will respond if the trust is broken. Again, 660 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 1: pretty pretty mature like thoughts over there, respond from op. 661 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 1: Another comment from gold All of eighteen eighty three. Okay, 662 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 1: with more details. I think your dad needs to be 663 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,439 Speaker 1: discouraged from dating your friend, not because of the age 664 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 1: gap necessarily, or even the weird dynamic, but because I 665 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,280 Speaker 1: don't think she is able to be a good partner 666 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 1: to him. Ultimately, it's his call, but for real, he 667 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 1: shouldn't stick around to deal with whatever toxicity your friend 668 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: will bring to the table. He will be hurt. He 669 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 1: should find someone that is a better partner. Maybe your 670 00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,280 Speaker 1: friend will be a good partner for someone in twenty years. Damn, 671 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,959 Speaker 1: that's a little calls. I don't know if I agree 672 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: with that. 673 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 2: I guess what they're saying is like, based on the 674 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 2: decision to keep this from ope, that shows like an 675 00:35:58,719 --> 00:35:59,960 Speaker 2: immaturity character. 676 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,200 Speaker 1: Right right. And maybe the twenty years thing is like 677 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 1: if your friend was like twenty years older, yeah, and 678 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: your dad was your dad right now, then it could work. 679 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,880 Speaker 1: But she's definitely not there right now. Op. Yep. I 680 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,319 Speaker 1: have warned him. I didn't just drop that I felt 681 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,920 Speaker 1: weird about their age difference. Rather, I told him why 682 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: it probably won't work anyway. It is his choice. He 683 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 1: will see the consequences good or bad. Yeah, I mean 684 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 1: it just I mean like like, dude, also like he's 685 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 1: going to be taking care of or she's going to 686 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 1: be taking care of him and diapers, dude, basically the 687 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 1: baby and diapers and him and diapers. Yep, yeah, dude. 688 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:38,200 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe there's that dude that it was like ninety 689 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:42,000 Speaker 2: and married the twenty six year old model who died 690 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:42,919 Speaker 2: like six months later. 691 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 1: Oh well, there was one person on who's like an 692 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: oil baron. It might have been Dubai Bling. I don't 693 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,240 Speaker 1: know if you're thinking it was like some like old 694 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 1: like white dude. Yeah, it was. It was a very 695 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: similar situation on Dubai. Blank literally died like years a 696 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 1: few years after they got married. And should she get 697 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:05,319 Speaker 1: a bag, crazy bag, crazy bag, crazy bag. She might 698 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 1: be a billionaire or something. Damn. 699 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:09,800 Speaker 2: I mean he doesn't carries that big come up and 700 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 2: they have a kid. Yeah, so he has an air. 701 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 2: He has an air, Yeah, has an air. We have 702 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 2: the final update, but real quick predictions. What do we 703 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,759 Speaker 2: think Op's friend is going to say when they meet. 704 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 2: I have a feeling that the friend is going to 705 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 2: be a little toxic because there's no one. There's no 706 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 2: friend that goes and fucks your dad and isn't a 707 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:34,439 Speaker 2: little bit toxic, right, Yeah, even though like the dad 708 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 2: might be like a sweet guy. 709 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 1: I think honestly, because she initiated it. 710 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:41,719 Speaker 2: You know what, If anything, I think the friend is 711 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 2: taking advantage of the dad. 712 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,719 Speaker 1: Hot take, hot take, I see I see you, hot take, 713 00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 1: I see you. I mean, emotionally vulnerable hasn't found someone. Yeah, 714 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,879 Speaker 1: wife died, here's someone who my daughter. He cares about 715 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,879 Speaker 1: his daughter so much. Here's someone my daughter loves already. Yep. 716 00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 2: Wow, I think I think we're gonn to get some 717 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:01,919 Speaker 2: chaos from the front. 718 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,719 Speaker 1: There's only one way to find out. That's what I think. 719 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,400 Speaker 1: Final update, So after my last post on here, everything 720 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 1: seemed to go to a full stop. My friend and 721 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 1: my dad decided to take a week away from each other, 722 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 1: and my dad really made an effort to hang out 723 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 1: with me. At the end of the week, the three 724 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,480 Speaker 1: of us had to sit down. It was mostly just 725 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,480 Speaker 1: for everyone apologizing to each other how everything played out, 726 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 1: and at the end things just started to feel a 727 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 1: bit more normal again. They agreed that they would take 728 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 1: things very slow, and I agreed that I would not 729 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,280 Speaker 1: try and infringe on it. The biggest thing I noticed 730 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: was that it actually seemed like they liked each other. 731 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 1: I had built up in my head that it wasn't 732 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,959 Speaker 1: an actual relationship and that would and that they would 733 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: be doomed anyway. But I feel like I may have 734 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 1: been wrong somehow. It has already been four months since 735 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 1: this all happened. Time went way too fast. As this 736 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,880 Speaker 1: summer went slowly, they slowly started to get more serious 737 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: and were publicly out and about by the time I 738 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: was getting ready to go back to school. Her parents 739 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 1: have now met my dad and apparently that went really well, 740 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 1: and her dad loves my dad. I mean they have 741 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 1: one thing in common their age. Yeah, their daughters are 742 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,840 Speaker 1: the same age. You know that's crazy. As a parent, 743 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 1: I don't know if I tough, I don't know if 744 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,840 Speaker 1: I would be down. Yeah. This makes me think of 745 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 1: ninety Day Fiance, where they like go to the rural 746 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 1: village that the person they're dating is in and they're like, please, 747 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: do you have my blessing? And they're like absolutely not, 748 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,800 Speaker 1: Like there's no way I would give you my blessing. 749 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 1: Does that happen? 750 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, we really need to watch a ninety day Fiance. 751 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 2: So we are we watching the dating show today? 752 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 1: Yes? We are, we are. We are aiming to get 753 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 1: the dating today. Yeah. So fun, Yeah, dode ninety day Fiance, 754 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,240 Speaker 1: it's top jacking out live. I went back to school 755 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,759 Speaker 1: and they are fully dating now. They came up for 756 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: a football game at my school a few weeks ago 757 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,360 Speaker 1: and we had a lot of fun. They seem really happy. 758 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 1: I get it. The age gap is weird, and I 759 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 1: obviously had my reservations, but it's the happiest I've seen 760 00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,160 Speaker 1: my dad in a long time. Wow. We also have 761 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 1: a really good time whenever I visited home this semester. 762 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 1: The dynamic with my friend is a little different. We 763 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 1: don't talk as frequently as we used to, understandable, but 764 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,359 Speaker 1: we still FaceTime every once in a while and check 765 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 1: in with each other. Nothing has really changed for my dad. 766 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 1: He still shows full devotion and interest in me and 767 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,719 Speaker 1: is there whenever I need it. Also, I still get 768 00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,080 Speaker 1: one on one time with them, which I think has 769 00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,840 Speaker 1: been really important. It's not always the three of us together. 770 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,399 Speaker 1: I can still hold my own relationship with both of them. 771 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 1: At this point, I or really anyone else would look 772 00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 1: pretty stupid acting like their relationship shouldn't exist. I will 773 00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 1: probably always be adjusting to this new normal and getting 774 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 1: used to their age difference. But I think we're all 775 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:41,280 Speaker 1: in a really good place and I trust them again. Wow, 776 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 1: I was hoping for more drama. I was hoping for 777 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 1: more drama. But again I am glad that there wasn't. 778 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 1: I'm glad there wasn't. You know. I think like given 779 00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:54,800 Speaker 1: this situation, like they clearly is something going on between 780 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,440 Speaker 1: the two of them, like they this something is growing 781 00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:01,239 Speaker 1: and burgeoning in their relationship. The best thing you can do, 782 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 1: I think, is probably this like yeah, and you know, like. 783 00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 2: This situation happens you know, just somewhat frequently. Yeah, Like, 784 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 2: I have a friend who was they were doing a 785 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 2: little road trip and on the way, like on the 786 00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:22,719 Speaker 2: way to like Yosemite, their friend's mom lives there, and 787 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 2: so it was like him, his friend and like two 788 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 2: other friends that were staying at this divorced mom's place. 789 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,920 Speaker 2: And the divorced mom was having a little party with 790 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,359 Speaker 2: like a family party with like her and a few 791 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:40,439 Speaker 2: of her cousins. And so my friend like like made 792 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:43,600 Speaker 2: out with one of the cousins and then oh no, 793 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,520 Speaker 2: my friend's friend not the not the like the the 794 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 2: guy that's mom. It was, But my friend's friend went 795 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,359 Speaker 2: into a room with the mom. And then the other 796 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,400 Speaker 2: friend was like, hey, like, does anyone see my mom? 797 00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 2: And like Jimmy, You're like, I don't know. And they 798 00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,680 Speaker 2: had fully hooked up, and Jamie was like, oh. 799 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:10,480 Speaker 1: Mom like kind of like a mom not again. Wow, 800 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 1: I'll have to have my friend when he's out of 801 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 1: his pasta just to call it. 802 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, after he's out of his vapastana meditation, we'll have 803 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:19,600 Speaker 2: to call him. 804 00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 1: Wow. But yeah, dude, like that fucking happened. I'm like, oh, 805 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:27,879 Speaker 1: bro banging moms and and and doing silent meditations. Dude, 806 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 1: this guy is and disguise of. 807 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,560 Speaker 2: He contains multitudes. He's not the one that banged the 808 00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 2: mom to be clear, Oh he's the one who he 809 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,120 Speaker 2: is the cousin. 810 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:42,440 Speaker 1: Bang the bomb, right right right? Wow that's crazy. But yeah, 811 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,759 Speaker 1: how do we real quick on this story? How do 812 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,440 Speaker 1: we feel about? I feel good about how it ended up. 813 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,359 Speaker 1: Not ideal, but I feel good how it ended up. 814 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would love to know how everyone else feels, like, 815 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 2: do you feel resolved or do you feel like ikey? 816 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 1: Still speaking of feeling things, I think there was a picture. 817 00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:00,279 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, so we we wanted that. We 818 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,840 Speaker 2: were talking about butts and we wanted to look up baboon. 819 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:15,799 Speaker 3: Juicy yoga yep, Riley, alright, Wow, oh my gosh, that 820 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:19,040 Speaker 3: is juicy, so well done on all of the bad 821 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:19,720 Speaker 3: boon butts. 822 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,719 Speaker 1: Dude, And those are there, they're bro. The cheeks are 823 00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 1: cheek and I can't look to their waists are a 824 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:32,799 Speaker 1: little snatched, you know. Damn. Wow. John's like, I'm gonna 825 00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:36,800 Speaker 1: use that later in a second. Wait, is that was 826 00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:42,120 Speaker 1: that the final one? Yeah? Wow, dude, nice nice. This 827 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,640 Speaker 1: is why we pay Riley the big bucks. Baby. Speaking 828 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,480 Speaker 1: of big Bucks, I think producer Riley pulled up another 829 00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:53,320 Speaker 1: story for it. Oh look at that dude. That's crazy. 830 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:57,880 Speaker 1: That's pretty nuts, that's fucking crazy. Yeah. Should we get 831 00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,319 Speaker 1: into this next story? Let's do it.