1 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Jay dot m a production of I Heart Radio. Hello, everybody, 2 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: welcome back to Jay dot IL the podcast. Yeah, we're 3 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:18,439 Speaker 1: already in this thing and we're back, and already we're 4 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: talking about the amount of vaginas and amount of penis 5 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: is that we're seeing on the DV And I, for one, 6 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: am happy to see more penis. That's just me, you know, 7 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: that's just me. You're happy for penis. I'm happy for 8 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: that's a hashtag. Seymour penis pene seymore. Shout out euphoria 9 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: because I mean, thank you there, Okay, young woman executive, Yes, 10 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: several girls, all of the flowers. And when I say yes, 11 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: can I just personally can just appreciate the fact of 12 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: the just the range of this baby and just she's 13 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: and she's just beginning like she's a baby to me. 14 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: But really what she's doing, Stormy is the baby, like 15 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 1: the young girl that she chose to pick her sister. 16 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: That's like to come up, Like I feel like that's 17 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: like the baby and now is in dead's like the 18 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: woman running this show. It's so ill. I don't know, right, 19 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: So she's a she's definitely like a grown ass woman. 20 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: So let's let's let's not you know, you know, but 21 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: when I say the baby, I just mean like, I 22 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: feel like she's got so many more years in the 23 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: business that we're just seeing the beginning of the type 24 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: of boss ship she's about to do. And I'm just 25 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: loving it from the from the talent. Yeah, listen to 26 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: the fact that you ain't seen us barely a belly 27 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: you know, maybe you have seen a belly butt all 28 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: the people on that cast hunt it. You ain't saying 29 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: nothing of the day because she's she's she was brilliant 30 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: enough to take on a role where she doesn't have 31 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: to put on a whole bunch of makeup, She didn't 32 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: have to wear the sexy outfits she she came to Okay, 33 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: not a c T. I said, home, Ack, that looks harder, Jill. 34 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if I feel like, yeah, 35 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, what she's doing looks so like you go 36 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 1: home every day and you gotta screen because it's traumatic 37 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: and dinner with all of the storylines that go along 38 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: with this this show. Jack showed it to me and 39 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, snap, wait a minute, that is 40 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: watching Ehoria. All the babies are watching Euphoria. Girl listen. 41 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 1: If your child, no, I'm telling you, if your child 42 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: tells you they're not watching you for they line out 43 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: they got damn teeth because all of the children are 44 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: watching it. What I will say is this, I watched 45 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: the first I've watched the first season, and I'm ashamed 46 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 1: to say I'm the only person on the planet that 47 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: hasn't gotten all the way into the second season yet, 48 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 1: not because I don't want to, but because life is 49 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: just life, and but I love I just I just 50 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: love the work. And look anyway, period, just all of 51 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: the good, yummy black ass stuff that beyond on the 52 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: TV even is not black, it's but black people in it. 53 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: But Zendaya. I mean, and I'm going to claim it, 54 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: we chip in it, but well we'll take it. What 55 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: I'm saying is that I'm just really appreciating the amount 56 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: of guts and and when Jet showed me the show, 57 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: because we sat down and watch it together and he's like, 58 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: have you seen you for your My mom was like 59 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: I think I saw. He was like, you need to 60 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: watch this. When I talk about the issues of being 61 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: that age and all of the issues in your face, 62 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, you really you know 63 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: don't have as many questions as I thought, you know, 64 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: because he's coming to him like, you know, got any 65 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: questions about this? The way the body I want to 66 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: talk about it, you know what I mean, let's let's 67 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: talk about it. And he means well informed. And I 68 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: think that anybody who watches this show is going to 69 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: end up well inform. The conversations that we had about drugs. Okay, baby, 70 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: it's about drugs, baby. And I wasn't mad. I wasn't 71 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: a mother of a teenager. No shade to y'all, but 72 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all brave warriors in this battle. I was like, yo, 73 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: this is I said, if this is what the teenagers 74 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: are doing now, what they're gonna be doing in ten years. 75 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, they said the same things, 76 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna tell you we were WoT we was. 77 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: We was we was, and and we were the tame 78 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 1: wout okay, because you know there was another level, the 79 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: next level wout to the teenagers of our of our era. 80 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: So just listen to the music, amen. I mean, music 81 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: is telling a lot. The music, definitely. But my children 82 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: have called me out there like ma'am um. These songs 83 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: that you used to listen to when you were thirteen. No, 84 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: I want you to never say another word to me 85 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: about anything because this this is with credit cards. Okay, 86 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: I got what you saying. Misogynist, this is violent. They're 87 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,679 Speaker 1: like this, this is bad. That's why I'm so pumped 88 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: out about the evolutionist see and all these private parts 89 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: on TV. I'm like, well, this is natural evolution, and 90 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: I ain't mad at it. We ain't pretty in this 91 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 1: ship no more. It's like real life. I love it, yes, 92 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: because the coucie needs its respect. The bottom line is 93 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: that I'm tired. We need to get beyond the coucie 94 00:05:55,520 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: image that was on the porn that said no COUCHI yeah, 95 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: I'm just not seeing the flower. You know, we're seeing 96 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: the outskirts. You know they see you know, we're talking. 97 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: We're seeing the reality of having a vagina. We're talking 98 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: about vaginas in you know, in the sexual and in 99 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 1: the and in the not sexual and the just real life. 100 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 1: Because it's like an elbow right see I'm hanging up. 101 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 1: I thought it was like when you close your fists 102 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: and you look at that part right there. Oh no, 103 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: it's like take looks like the top lip and into 104 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: your bottom. Lite. See this conversation right here is ebold. 105 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because you know, ten twenty 106 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 1: years ago, three women would not be sitting here feeling 107 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 1: comfortable talking about vaginas in this way. And I'm just saying, 108 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: now we have commercials where women are skating out of 109 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: like real life reginas. Now we are rid up fluid. 110 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 1: We are seeing blood on the back of girls booties 111 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 1: on commercials. I'm I am and and on and on shows. 112 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful in the city lies, it's been lies. 113 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: Do you like remember it Lose the Ball. You couldn't 114 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: even be pregnant on the show, Like that was like 115 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: a pregnant woman on the show. I used to have people. 116 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: I remember they used to high people. Remember, like Folia 117 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: were shot. They used to just put stuff in front 118 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: of her and stuff like that, and it was like, 119 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 1: come on, oh they still do that. They still do that. 120 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: But that's because it hasn't been written in the storyline. 121 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: If it's not written in the store line, you know, 122 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: somebody toiled over those words and those scenes and all 123 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: of that stuff. Yeah, night that, yeah, but you know what, 124 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: even the products you mentioned the whole thing about periods 125 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: and stuff. When you talk about the products that that 126 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: they have. Now, it's just like everything we're learning so much. 127 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: Y'all remember this thing. It was like a I don't 128 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: want to say it was an infomercial, but it was 129 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: like a thing circulating on the internet where men were 130 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: selling like natural pads. Do you remember? This is like 131 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: a multi level marketing. It was like a multi level 132 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: marketing thing where they were like selling and they were 133 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: like the pitch was that they had to know all 134 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: of this information about how the cycle worked and why 135 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: women shouldn't have certain chemicals in their pads and all 136 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 1: this other stuff. And it was really deep because at 137 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: first I was just like, no, I don't want to 138 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: dude talk to me about my period. But then I 139 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:32,719 Speaker 1: was a little bit impressed because I was like, oh, well, 140 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: he had to learn this information and this is stuff 141 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: that men just don't even know. So, I mean, we've 142 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: gotten to the point where not only are we having 143 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: better conversation around our vaginal health and stuff like periods 144 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: and everything else, but now the men are starting to 145 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: understand it's a lot better and and and get less 146 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: squeamish about it because they know it's directly tied to 147 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: our health. So that's a really cool thing too. It's 148 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: just like, you know, it is some conversations with my 149 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: boyfriend about pH I would have not done it probably 150 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: like ten years ago, because well, yeah, because the man 151 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 1: ain't gonna tell you. Because because men they're they're not 152 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: so squeamish like I guess the older you get, I 153 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: don't know, or maybe because I've been married a long time. 154 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: But you know, some men will be like, oh yeah, 155 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: I like the natural smell of that thing, girl, But 156 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: then other men are like super like wanted to smell 157 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: like full on like I don't know, like flower and apple. 158 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: But also it does that ship work? Do you eat 159 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 1: pineapples make your vagina smell good? What it? Originally? I 160 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: know that I'm well when I don't smell like anything 161 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:39,559 Speaker 1: at all. It doesn't have a smell nothing. Initially was 162 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: for the men to take and then the men to 163 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 1: go down for us. It was for us to eat. 164 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: It was for them to taste. Wo That's what I thought. Yeah, 165 00:09:55,000 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: stuff to than anyone attest to whether this works? Does 166 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 1: this work? Amber? You can speak? Just eat pineapple? I 167 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 1: don't think so. Yeah, I mean I don't know if 168 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: it's proven, but it's it's a long held Uh yeah, 169 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: I believe in in the community urban urban legend, women 170 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: women friends. We haven't introduced Amber to anybody, yes, yes, no, no, 171 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 1: you do it introduced introduced Amber. Who are you? What 172 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: do you do here? Hey, y'all? I am Amber. I 173 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: am the producer of Jay dot L. So I'm just 174 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,319 Speaker 1: starting around the background. You know, we want to shout 175 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: out Eves. She has going on to um create something 176 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: amazing for herself. She's like seriously into nature and that 177 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: is her her path and goal. And we just want 178 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: to send out a shout out to Eves and welcome Amber. Ye. 179 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: On occasion when we have have old lady confusion, we 180 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: might we might refer to Amber to pull us out 181 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: of it, and it's you know, it's all up, but 182 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: not for nothing. Amber and y'all sell our other producer, right. 183 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 1: But it's great to have women on the show of 184 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 1: Intergenerational because even to talk about the couch, I've learned, 185 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: I've learned. Listen, I've spent more time in target in 186 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: that section learning about honey pot because of my younger 187 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,439 Speaker 1: sisters telling me about you might want to try this 188 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: or honest, I just introduced myself to the third wash cloth. 189 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: We're gonna have we have an honest Tutchi conversation. So 190 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: let's just tell me the conversation the third Yeah, because 191 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: you're having the face and the body. But did you 192 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 1: think that you probably need to watch that cooch cooch 193 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: with something different like that's you know that the body one? 194 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: The body one was kind of for that too, But 195 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: I guess, okay, let's work because the body with the 196 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: body you you you washing that booty too? Why why always? No? 197 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: I always rent and reapply the soap. You rent out 198 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: somebody one and then you rent it off real good 199 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,719 Speaker 1: and like a hand wash, and then you go back. 200 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: But but I'm all four and then you go you 201 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 1: don't go through there's you don't booty tooty just like 202 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: no not you know you never bring the ship to 203 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: the clip, isn't that would uh right down? That from 204 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 1: I got that from Martin. Martin said that in You're 205 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: So Crazy when he was talking about how you properly 206 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 1: wipe about and drop y'all don't remember that never bring 207 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: the ship to the clip. Yeah, that is such rules, 208 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: fellas listen up, because if she do that ship. Don't 209 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: go down there. Don't go down there. Don't go down there. 210 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 1: We'll be back. But again, we're just we're talking about 211 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 1: the evolution of talking about in public. I love this, y'all. 212 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: We free my mind be blown washing TV. And to 213 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: be honest, even on that, my like my man pulled 214 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: my coat on seeing these commercials without the blue ship 215 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: no more and I was like, yo, women are making 216 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 1: ship for us now like women. Well even with the 217 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: products like honey pot and stuff, those are products made 218 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: by women for women. Honey Potter is a good product. 219 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 1: They have this one product that has it has like 220 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: a little tingle in the thing. It's like like something 221 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: honey and let me tell you something if somebody don't 222 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 1: want you first, First of all, all the honey pot 223 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 1: products unless you get it specifically, not with the tingle. 224 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: They come with the tingle. And that means the pad too, 225 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: because I got the pad with the thing, and that's 226 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: that's a nice. Yeah. I don't know about this. What 227 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: is what is this pad? And what does this what 228 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: does this tingle? Just quick up? Okay, so your pad 229 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: is for your cycle? Okay, come on, and you know 230 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: I'm a five yd girl, So I don't mesess where 231 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: everybody's past. You know, of course I gotta go overnight 232 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: every time. I mean, so for this to be a 233 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: product that I use, it's pretty cool brand. I might 234 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: not use it on the heaviest day, but yeah, so, 235 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: and it's all natural, so like for the overnights. I'm 236 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:37,239 Speaker 1: just gonna tell y'all real quick, it's a it's herbal infused, okay, 237 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: pads with wings. These pads have mint laugh enter listen, Yeah, 238 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: an aloe and no uh and plant based, all plant 239 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: based or feminine care. Yes, no fragrances, no pesticides, none 240 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 1: of that kind of stuff. Just really great. And then 241 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: they got a moose that you use for your washing 242 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: that you won't even to wash cloth a moose form. 243 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 1: What's the difference? Will come on? Moves, Come on, couchie moves. 244 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: Um excuse me, ma'am. I would like to know where 245 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: this is not a honeypot commercial. But I'm just saying, y'all, 246 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: I love that the tampon and the pad aisles are 247 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: looking differently these days, and they're looking brown, like Asia said, 248 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 1: full of brown women making ship too. So it's kind 249 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: of dope. And you know, I mean, we have you know, 250 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: we have a higher instances of stuff like five boys, 251 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: and we deal with a whole lot of different health 252 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: issues directly associated with our vadge and you know, and 253 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: black women are always just kind of really fighting that 254 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: that upward battle with our health. And so it's always 255 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: good to know that black women are making products specifically 256 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: with us in mine. And you know right now, like 257 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 1: I said that, one of the more popular ones is honeypot, 258 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: but certainly there's other products as well, because you have 259 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: a whole lot of Black women who are doing um 260 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: things called um I think they call them, like Yoni washes, 261 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: all kinds of differend the Yoni steam steaming for the money. Now, 262 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: there's a little bit of controversy on the on the 263 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 1: coach steam thing. The controversy, first of all, what the 264 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: Yoni steam is a series of of herbs. I'll say, oh, 265 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: I loved it. I've done it many times. I absolutely 266 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 1: loved it, loved it about the whole I felt new. 267 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 1: You know how it is after the first time you 268 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: have a calonic, if you okay, It's like the first 269 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 1: time I had a colonic, I walked out and I 270 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 1: felt like everything the birds were whistling a little bit louder, 271 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: my eyes were whiter. That there was a song in 272 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: my heart that I just I couldn't I couldn't sing it, 273 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: but I showed up felt it everywhere. I said, this 274 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: is right, this is right. I feel free. I felt 275 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: the same way with the Yoni theme. I really did, like, yeah, wow, 276 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: I got rid of some stress, you know, some some pasts, 277 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:11,439 Speaker 1: you know, situations that I shouldn't have been in the 278 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: first place, and get extracting, extracting energies. Y'all, let that 279 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: energy go. I was like, okay, and all I had 280 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 1: to do is sit on the bucket. It was a 281 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: hot bucket, a hot bucket. Can I ask some silly questions, 282 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 1: but I just need to know, okay? So number one, 283 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 1: what does your couci physically change as you're doing this 284 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 1: on the pot? Like I feel like it would like 285 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: plump it plump up or something a little bit. It 286 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 1: felt um, it felt warm, obviously, and it felt I'm 287 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 1: gonna go with it. It did a little plumping business. 288 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with that. And you had to really gap, 289 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: you know, like really open up so all the steam 290 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 1: will go in yonder because around it's not the same. 291 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: That's nice. You know, you wanted to steam go in 292 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 1: in now okay, a full extension of a squad okay. 293 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 1: And then so by the time you do all that, 294 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 1: there's no chance that your smells, like the smells that 295 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 1: are going into you are so pungent that you don't 296 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: even do you not smell your original smell. I just 297 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:15,199 Speaker 1: because with a bunch of a couple of girlfriends, I 298 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 1: don't recall any pungency. I don't remember anything. It's it's 299 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: like a weak tea if anything. But I don't recall 300 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 1: any particular sense that I was like, oh, I don't 301 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: want my girl to smell like that. It's just smell clean. 302 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: That's That's about. How long does that feeling last? Like 303 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 1: for the days, Like it lasts until you're ready to 304 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 1: get it again, you know, because it's like the stual 305 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,160 Speaker 1: thing as well. I I think so I felt like 306 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: I'd love to have a you only steam again. And 307 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 1: then they do have stores. Well, they're saying that it 308 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 1: comes from it's becoming a lot more commercialized because now 309 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: you can buy at home, you only steam on the 310 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 1: Amazon and you put it. Yeah, but I want no, no, no, 311 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: it's not in the actual toilet. It's in a bowl. 312 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 1: So you put the bowl fits around the come over, 313 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: you put it in, and then you put the seat 314 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 1: on top of the bowl. So basically, it's just like 315 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: if you were having an enema, if you've ever you know, 316 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,159 Speaker 1: if you know anything about that, like after you have 317 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: a baby or something, they tend to give you these 318 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 1: these little bowls so you can clean and wash clean 319 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 1: a sid spad, that's what I'm thinking about, not an enema. 320 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: That's more like a uh that's clean out your butt. 321 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 1: That's clean out your butt. Yeah, that's not what we're 322 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 1: talking about. Yeah, so it's a sid's fat that's what 323 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: I'm thinking of. But it's more like that. So it's 324 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: just hot water and then you sit down and you 325 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: put a blanket or towel or something over your lap 326 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 1: and let the steam just go up in yonder and 327 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 1: you you breathe really well, and you just sit and wait. 328 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 1: So what's a controversy agent controversy? Well, I don't know 329 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 1: if it's controversy, but you know, now, let me also 330 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 1: start by the fact that Western medicine is always gonna question, 331 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 1: ain't your medicine is always gonna come out talking about 332 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: trying to tell Black people and Indigenous people they don't 333 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 1: know what they're doing. But there is some thinking around 334 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 1: they only steaming that it doesn't really have any actual, 335 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: like measurable health benefits. And so it's kind of like yet, 336 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:29,400 Speaker 1: it's nice, it's pleasant, but there's no real evidence that 337 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 1: it helps any of your kind of vaginal or internal 338 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: like uterine health or anything like that. But I mean, 339 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 1: who's doing the measuring, who measured it? Is anybody actually 340 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 1: doing that work? And are you gonna take hundreds of 341 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:47,199 Speaker 1: years of I don't know, indigenous wisdom over you know, 342 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:50,120 Speaker 1: a fraction of that amount of Western medicine that hates 343 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: Black women anyway, So there you have come. Listen for 344 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,360 Speaker 1: a fever. I'm still putting onions in my son's secks. Baby, 345 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:02,199 Speaker 1: listen and it works like a charm, and it works 346 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 1: gets cooked or the potato and it draws the heat 347 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 1: from the body. And you can tell me whatever you 348 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: want to say, you know, but I know that to 349 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: be true, So you know, I want to do it, 350 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: but you'll eat for me. Was was very pleasurable. I 351 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 1: felt I felt better. You know, if you if you've 352 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: been in this situation with somebody that, um, you want 353 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 1: to get gone out your spirit, you know, you want 354 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 1: to get gone out your out of your mind as well, 355 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 1: but particularly your body. You know, going and sit on 356 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: something and I'm talking about you. She say, she said 357 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: what she said hurt hurt it girl specifically talking about 358 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: that moved it to my product. Child, you can't be 359 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 1: saying things like that to me. Just off the cuff. 360 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 1: You gotta you're girl, non listen. My husband, okay, so 361 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 1: we had this conversation recently and he is like, what 362 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: is going on with you, ma'am? And I was like, dude, 363 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 1: I had to look it up because I was very concerned. 364 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 1: I was like, where did this come from? And I 365 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 1: did get worn. Don't get me wrong. Some people was 366 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: like a girl, when you're turn for, what are you 367 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: going to turn? Yeah? Who child, it's a lot, it's 368 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: a lot. He was like, listen. He had to put 369 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: the hand up on me. He like, ma'am, ma'am, I'm 370 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: forty nine. Because this is what happens when you go younger. 371 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 1: Sometimes yeah, well I'm not that much younger, but I'm 372 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 1: younger than It makes a little, It just makes sometimes 373 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: it makes a little difference. He was like, he's like, lady, lady, 374 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: sit your ass not right on this. Sit down right here, ma'am, 375 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:09,120 Speaker 1: right here, ma'am, come here, sit down right here, right here? 376 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,919 Speaker 1: Can I sit down? I'm telling you, guys, it's always on. 377 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 1: The light is always on. He's like, you cannot believe this, 378 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 1: this is unbelievable. He's so excited. He was just like 379 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 1: like he will just test it. He will test it 380 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 1: to see. He'll be like, he'll give me the look 381 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: and I'll be like he's like, oh ship really, I'm like, yes, 382 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 1: what what happened? What are we doing? And you know 383 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: this is so great because because you're emptying at your 384 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 1: house slowly, you know, the children are graduating, moving on 385 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: with their life. And my, my mind, I couldn't been 386 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 1: for you. It's so intrusive. But I gotta know a 387 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 1: your I gotta question, go, go go, that is your 388 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: hot and the parents? Do you watch porn? Um? It doesn't? 389 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, tell me if it's okay. I'm sorry if 390 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: I didn't know what corn is not morning for me? Unfortunately, 391 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: you know what it is. What it really is is 392 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: that you can't unsee the racism and the misogyny. And 393 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: when I was young, it's like if you have to 394 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: when you search for it's like what comes up. It's 395 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: just like ghetto ho black. You gotta know what you're 396 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:32,640 Speaker 1: looking for, you ye, So anyway, I'm just super So 397 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: it's it's the but not even just in that. I'm 398 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: just talking about the search bar itself is scary, and 399 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 1: then all of it it's not doing. When I was younger, 400 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,640 Speaker 1: it was like a nice, good little thing to get 401 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: whatever I needed to get out. But now I don't 402 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 1: even really need it like that, to be honest, it's um, 403 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 1: the mind is a beautiful thing and I'm a I'm 404 00:24:56,080 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 1: an an artiste and so there for the imagination. It's 405 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 1: a lovely place. It's somewhere in between. It's now I 406 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: was gonna ask you jail, but I felt like I 407 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 1: knew they Yeah, you already know. But I mean, there's 408 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 1: no judgment for anyone else. I mean, you asked, I 409 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 1: told you. You You know what I'm saying. Have we judged 410 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,199 Speaker 1: each other? Tell me that they judged each other? Right, 411 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: never judge about these folks out here. But we're not 412 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 1: out here to judge each other or to judge you. 413 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: For that matter. We're just you know, three ladies having 414 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:34,120 Speaker 1: a conversation to spark conversation, which is the whole goal. 415 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: You know, we want you to talk about, um, what 416 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 1: works for your vagina, what's going on with yo pussy, 417 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: what's happening with your sweet girl? You know, sweet girl? 418 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you for this. Now my sweet girl 419 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:59,959 Speaker 1: doesn't do that? Okay, time just to the text. Man, 420 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: you know, you know the personalities of she you know, 421 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: um being being alive down yonders. I know a lot 422 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 1: of women, um unfortunately have never had orgasms, which is 423 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:21,880 Speaker 1: so crazy. I'm like, oh, not even by yourself. Oh, 424 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,880 Speaker 1: which which goes back to the porn you know industry 425 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 1: as well, like a lot of it is it really 426 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 1: isn't healthy. It's just it was mentioned on Cooria I 427 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: feel like a couple of episodes ago because the boy 428 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: was trying to have sex with somebody and she but 429 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 1: they were like, okay, you're going real fast. You watch 430 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: a lot of porn huh yeah, yeah, it really does 431 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 1: feed a lot of really bad, unhealthy sex practices that 432 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 1: actually don't give you pleasure. So it's just like I 433 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: don't know, I mean, because I just searched soft porn 434 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 1: and my ship is I got real specific movie scenes. 435 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't. I did by this book, 436 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,960 Speaker 1: Oh god, I do Girl on girls sometimes, so girl 437 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 1: on girl makes it a little bit less Sorry is 438 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: that too much? A little less Massagya you said a 439 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 1: little less missagy sometimes? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, go ahead, 440 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, yo. Now that's that's really something like who's 441 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 1: shooting the porn? Right? Do you love vagina? Do you 442 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 1: love it? Or you're just using it? Like I won't see. 443 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 1: I want to see stuff, appreciate it. I was thinking 444 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: a woman should start I'm wondering when a woman is 445 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: going to start her own porn site. From that perspective, 446 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, that would kind of be dope. 447 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 1: I think about it all the time. I think about 448 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: the search bar agents you're talking about is just men 449 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,640 Speaker 1: searching for bullshit. But so you're right, but I think 450 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: that when we are also seen. You know, for me, 451 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 1: if I could watch just a wee bit of a story, 452 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 1: not much softn that soft pat something in my mind. Yes, yes, 453 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 1: it's a couple of movies I go to. You know, 454 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:08,120 Speaker 1: there's a disappearing act scene and refrigerator with Tonalathan and 455 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: Wesley Snipe said, I'm like, if I close my eyes, 456 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 1: it's not Wesley someone else and it's not actually enjoying this. 457 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 1: And yes, it's sorry sharing too much. You're not sharing 458 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 1: too much. Oh my god. When McKai fifer through um 459 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: Nia long. Yeah. So the TV show Nicole, Ari Parker 460 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 1: and Boris had if I sometimes I want YouTube and 461 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 1: do just their scenes because they had some sexy situations. 462 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: So I'm yeah, they're actually I enjoyed before they Jason's lyrics. No, 463 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 1: Jason's lyrics had who he was doing it? He was 464 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 1: doing it. If I'm trying to tell y'all, you gotta 465 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:02,479 Speaker 1: YouTube so full the TV show is Nicole and Boris 466 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 1: because they're really doing it because they wasn't marry we 467 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: want it. Don't kill me. Boris and Nicole, I don't 468 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 1: know that they were doing it or they were, but 469 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 1: I think I know they have like a super hot 470 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 1: relationship and it's like it's still burning and it's great 471 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 1: and they just like they'be they'd be grossing their kids 472 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 1: out and stuff. They trow their kids big time on 473 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 1: the internet and it's awesome. I freaking love it. Jason's 474 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: lyric had the two really epic sex scenes for me, 475 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 1: talk about it. You know, I've never seen movie. So 476 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 1: it was the one's the one obviously in the TV 477 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: shop on the one and in the alleyway the one 478 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: with the one in the alley with the girl with 479 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: the Lisa the Cole Carson. Don't you babe me, Lisa 480 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: Nonicole Carson. Girl, ma'am, wherever you are, come on, wherever 481 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 1: you are, Lisa. I thank you for that scene. I 482 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: thank you for that scene because that scene validated all 483 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: of the I mean, it was just so equal parts 484 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 1: like ho ship but like love ship but like yeah, 485 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: that's my man, and we just can't. We're gonna do 486 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 1: whatever we're gonna do, and do whatever we do till 487 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: we're done. Girl, don't understand that. Baby. I need to 488 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 1: see Jason's lyric, Jill, because I'm gonna tell you as 489 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 1: Harry as Alan Paine is, I ignored all of it 490 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 1: when they him and Jada Pinket has sex and that 491 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: field okay and full of flyers okay, okay. I just 492 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: appreciate the fact that he didn't shave it for him. 493 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 1: For him, it was everywhere everybody man something not everybody man. 494 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:59,880 Speaker 1: But you know, if your man is Harry bless him. Yeah, 495 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 1: we'll be back after the break. Somebody would ask me 496 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 1: for a list of the best like black sex scene 497 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 1: or just sex. I got, y'all risky business. I do 498 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,800 Speaker 1: white too, risky business on the on the train, we 499 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 1: could go old school, like I'm trying to think of 500 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 1: from white movies. I don't know. I'm sorry white people, 501 00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 1: y'all don't turn me on. But we wasn't always in 502 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: the movie, so we had to go where we had. 503 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 1: I don't dislike y'all just saying y'all don't turn me on. 504 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, State, I'm sorry, but I mean Michael Douglas 505 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 1: ain't my goal too. But when him and Sharon Stone 506 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 1: hit that bin and wait a minute, no, no, no, no, no, no, 507 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 1: I take that back. I take that back. Who you got? 508 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 1: Who you got? Jason Momoa and and Denarious in the 509 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 1: Game of Thrones when she figured out how to know 510 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 1: before but she figured it out, figured it out, and 511 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 1: she was like she made him look at her. Yeah, here, here, here, here, Inelu, 512 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull that up. Later, there was a couple 513 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: of moments with brother and sister. I was like, Okay, 514 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: well they're brother and sister, but their actor we we got, 515 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: like we for for cultures, so many that particularly like 516 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 1: the Asian cultures. You know, you've got the Indian culture, 517 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: You've got the Karma Sutra, and um, there's lessons in 518 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 1: love making, there's lessons in the art of love making 519 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: and sexuality, but we're left to porn as an educator 520 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 1: primarily a lot of like what we were saying earlier 521 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 1: about a lot of women not having orgasms, they don't 522 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: know how to please themselves. And if they don't know 523 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: how to please themselves, how how are they going to 524 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: know how to please anyone else of that matter, you 525 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's and the release that 526 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 1: you're missing out on, Like, I wonder what that does 527 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: to you, that that mentally several virgins that are in 528 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: their upper fifties, Yeah, I said, several they feel free 529 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 1: to you what they like? What's they feel bottled to me? 530 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: You know, they feel bottled to me. They one of 531 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: them is absolutely insane, that's my opinion. She's nuts. She 532 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 1: needed some dicks so bad or something. She needs something, 533 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: something gotta happen. She need to pop off okay, and 534 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: that's that's my at least for yourself, it's okay. You 535 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,880 Speaker 1: need to at least know how to pop off something something. Um, 536 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: there's like a sometimes in religion, you know. Um, they 537 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 1: can make you make make you feel like you're wrong 538 00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 1: for knowing how to please yourself, which is really unfortunate. 539 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 1: And the other one, the one that's nuts to me. 540 00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: To me, I mean, maybe that's not fair to say, 541 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 1: but to me, she don't that's not good sense. I 542 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on inside that brain. The other 543 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 1: virgin plus a fifty plus virgin that I know, she's brilliant, brilliants, 544 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 1: had a lot of time to read my goodness, does 545 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 1: she know everything about everything? Brilliant? The look? First of all, No, 546 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: let's let's real is back. Let's just realist back, hold up, 547 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,840 Speaker 1: because we're going to shame listen. I would rather I 548 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,839 Speaker 1: would like to hear what these women feel about their lives, 549 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,919 Speaker 1: because honestly, for real, for real, if that's a choice 550 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:40,560 Speaker 1: that you want to mak and you feel happy with it, 551 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,399 Speaker 1: see that's one thing. But if it's if it's if 552 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 1: it's a choice or something that's happened that happenstance or 553 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 1: maybe you've not been able to find that partner or 554 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: whatever the case may be, or maybe there's something you 555 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 1: feel insecure about. See, that's different. So I don't know, 556 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:58,839 Speaker 1: I mean, because that's in that spectrum of that's exactly, 557 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: that's that's the thing. And we don't want to hyper 558 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,840 Speaker 1: sexualized black women and act like all Black women have 559 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,880 Speaker 1: a specific type of sex drive or desire sex in 560 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 1: the same way, because we don't. No, absolutely not. I am. 561 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 1: I'm a doctor, but I'm not that kind. And I'm 562 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 1: just saying that. To me, my diagnosis is take this doctor, 563 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 1: take this doctor, take that. Take that. That's my that's 564 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:34,359 Speaker 1: my diagnosis. She said. I said the bit crazy, Yeah, 565 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 1: I said, I said, this is one particular virgin bit 566 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 1: just ain't all just one not? I said. I said 567 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:45,760 Speaker 1: what I said, Some women are really legitimately waiting for somebody, 568 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,400 Speaker 1: truly special. And I just say that you have to 569 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 1: can't you can't wait. You actually have to get up 570 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: and get out and go find it. That means it 571 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:02,840 Speaker 1: probably isn't in Atlanta. When you know, when it's eighteen 572 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 1: to one, um, it's probably probably not. And so I'm 573 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:14,520 Speaker 1: probably not you might want to explore the world. Sis, 574 00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: are we trying to find something you know, truly special 575 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 1: and amazing and uh, you know, holding onto your virginity 576 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 1: for that, then you probably need to get up and 577 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: get out into the world, you know, go go somewhere 578 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: where they where people are not that often, you know, 579 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:35,080 Speaker 1: to find someone truly different. This is how it goes. People. 580 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Jake dot Il the podcast. This is 581 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: what happens. We're going to start somewhere and we're gonna 582 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 1: go and travel. We're gonna traverse these thoughts and this 583 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:50,240 Speaker 1: this real life, the world we're living in. Um. Sometimes 584 00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: we're gonna land exactly on the mark. Sometimes we're gonna 585 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 1: be quite left of it. But nonetheless, um, the intention 586 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,919 Speaker 1: is pure. These are conversations to spark conversations. And I 587 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 1: am a big advocate for more penises on the television. 588 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. And don't forget about the coaches. 589 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: I'm heterosexual. I don't know. I mean, we need everybody 590 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,759 Speaker 1: to vaginas I want. We need representation now, we need 591 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:25,879 Speaker 1: the representation that is all should be represented. Liberation for 592 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 1: all liberations. Vagina and a pretty lady, it's what you 593 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: call it. You a sweet lady, a free the sweet 594 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:38,360 Speaker 1: ladies and the vaginas, all of that. Just show me 595 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 1: more Penis. Thank you? All right? How do you eat 596 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 1: an elephant? One by? It time? Hello, dear listeners, this 597 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,759 Speaker 1: is Amber the Pretty Sir. We're at the end of 598 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,440 Speaker 1: this episode, and I just wanted to provide you with 599 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 1: a little more information about a couple of things that 600 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 1: we talked about today. Before I get into it, I 601 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,840 Speaker 1: just want to remind you our health and wellness journeys 602 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 1: are all very specific to each person, so before trying anything, 603 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,960 Speaker 1: you always check in with your care team to see 604 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 1: if it's right for you today, like you have talked 605 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:25,879 Speaker 1: about the Honey Pot Company and its products now. This 606 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 1: company is founded by b Wilson, a black woman who 607 00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 1: suffered from chronic bacterial vaginosis when an ancestor came to 608 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,800 Speaker 1: her in a dream and gifted her with a vision 609 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 1: to heal herself. With that vision, she created the Honeypot, 610 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: the first ever feminine care line powered by herbs. Get 611 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 1: into it. You can find the Honey Pot products and target. 612 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: I'll also link their site in the show notes. Jill 613 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:57,400 Speaker 1: also expressed her love for Yoni steams. They're an incredible 614 00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 1: tool for many women, but they may not be the 615 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:04,399 Speaker 1: right choice for everyone's body. 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