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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Hey Ashley, Hi, Ben, I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: for this podcast. It is gonna be absolutely magnificent. We

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Speaker 1: have a huge guest, Rachel Lindsay is on the Almost

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Speaker 1: Sameas podcast for the first time ever. What in the world,

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Speaker 1: how have we not had the bachelor out on That

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Speaker 1: is absolutely wild? But we are lucky to have her

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Speaker 1: this time. We're gonna talk about in this podcast some

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Speaker 1: crazy stuff. We're gonna talk again. We're gonna ask Rachel

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Speaker 1: her thoughts on the ri April Fool's joke, and we're

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Speaker 1: also gonna talk about some really interesting things that happened

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Speaker 1: this week. It was not the week of love for

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Speaker 1: Batchel Nation. It was actually the week of breakups. Laron,

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Speaker 1: Ben Wah and Dean and Leslie are broken up. And

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Speaker 1: I'm also really excited to hear your thoughts, Ashley and

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Speaker 1: Rachel's thoughts on who's gonna get married first. With Immatchination,

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Speaker 1: we have the list here of successful couple so far Imbatchlation,

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Speaker 1: Caitlin and Sean, Jojo and Jordan's Ari and Lauren Raven

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Speaker 1: and Adam Rachel and Brian. Rachel will give us her

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Speaker 1: thoughts on everything everything going on in the love life

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Speaker 1: of Rachel and Brian, but also her thoughts, Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: who wants a TV wedding? And what about this weird

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Speaker 1: three way wedding Shenanigans that there's been rumors floating around about,

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Speaker 1: like how they would cram all the weddings into one

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Speaker 1: wedding special that doesn't seem very personal. So we'll see

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Speaker 1: if Rachel would ever be down to do something like that.

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Speaker 1: But I know everybody wants to talk about the Dean

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Speaker 1: and Leslie and Clari and ben Wah breakup. It is

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Speaker 1: totally uncuffing season. Channing and Jenna are no longer as well.

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Speaker 1: All very sad. Um. I can't say that I didn't

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Speaker 1: see this coming, especially with Clarien Benoi. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: just feel like that girl was up on stage and

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Speaker 1: she did not know what they're to say yes or no. Um,

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Speaker 1: But she had to say yes because she didn't want

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Speaker 1: to hurt the guy so publicly, I think she should

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Speaker 1: have said no. Well uh, and I Rachel has never

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Speaker 1: helped back honestly. You know, she's always honest, so I'm

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Speaker 1: excited to hear her honest thoughts. I also need to

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Speaker 1: get an idea of what the heck is decupping decuffing

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Speaker 1: the couffing season the winter. That's when like you find

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Speaker 1: a relationship and then you dcuff come the springtime. Oh jeez,

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Speaker 1: I'm so far behind on this anyways, athlete, let's get

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Speaker 1: this thing started. How was your weekend? The Master's weekend?

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Speaker 1: And you're back. You're back in your old childhood home

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Speaker 1: right now? I see? It was absolutely incredible. Actually I'm

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Speaker 1: not I'm not kidding, Like, I could not have picked

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Speaker 1: a better way to spend time with my dad. Um.

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Speaker 1: Not only because it was a bucket list item for

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Speaker 1: the both of us as a father and son experience. UM,

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Speaker 1: but the Masters U and Augusta National just do something

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Speaker 1: different when it comes to your experience. And I kind

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Speaker 1: of I've been thinking about a lot since we got back.

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Speaker 1: What makes that place so special? Outside of the tradition

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Speaker 1: and outside of this the fact that it is one

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Speaker 1: of the most um historic championships in all of sports,

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Speaker 1: what really makes a guest the social special? And and

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Speaker 1: and the only thing I come up with is they

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Speaker 1: really care about the spectator experience. They really make the

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Speaker 1: spectators feel special. UM. And the way they do this

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Speaker 1: is by keeping things so simple. So, for example, this

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Speaker 1: is one of the coolest things. And I know you'll

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Speaker 1: You are oh yeah, no phones, that's it um And

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Speaker 1: so once you're inside the course, you're focused on one thing,

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Speaker 1: the people that you're with and the people that you're

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Speaker 1: watching in the tournament itself, and so everybody. And here's

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Speaker 1: it's a golf tournament. And most golf tournaments have your

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Speaker 1: or the sponsor the tournament. That's all good and great,

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Speaker 1: But what's cool about the Masters is that there are

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Speaker 1: no sweets. And so unless you're a member of Augusta National,

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Speaker 1: which not many people are, that everybody from Wayne Gretzky,

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Speaker 1: And because there's no phones, nobody bothers anybody. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: you're not asking for pictures or anything like that. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: you can be anything you want to be. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 1: Those experiences where everybody feels equal again don't exist often enough.

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Speaker 1: And even though the Masters, yes, is a luxury, and

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Speaker 1: the one aisle. Yeah, it takes away from the seriousness

427
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 1: of a wedding. And I think people would think that

428
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: our relationship shift for a joke if we did that, honestly,

429
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 1: and they're not. Right. Okay, so you're prepping for a wedding, Rachel. Uh.

430
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 1: We you know, we have a lot of listeners out

431
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: there who we talked about breakups and we talked about

432
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 1: successful relationship. This is a very relational focus podcast. A

433
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 1: lot of our listeners love to get advice, UH and

434
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: law also love to get the inside scooped so they

435
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,920
Speaker 1: can feel like they can relate with with people in

436
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: Batchelor nation. What has been the hardest part for you

437
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,640
Speaker 1: and Brian? Honestly, I mean with no judgment here, we've

438
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: talked pretty openly what has been hard in your relationships

439
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 1: and since you guys have gotten together. Um, well, one,

440
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 1: just the fact is that everything is still public, and

441
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: you know, we we had a lot of like scrutiny

442
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 1: after it was over with and the finale and everything,

443
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: so it was really hard to separate that and and

444
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: know what we have and stay true to each other.

445
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 1: And I've spoken about that at length that that that

446
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 1: was really difficult afterwards. But I also think that just

447
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 1: two people coming together for the first time, we're both

448
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 1: in our thirties, established in that way, and then lending

449
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 1: our lives together, you know, like that takes work and

450
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 1: you're outside of the fantasy of the show and reality

451
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: it's hard as fast. So you know, we really had

452
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 1: to work on lending our lives together. Would you be

453
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: open to telling us on what one stress or in

454
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 1: your relationship has been. Um. You know what, I've learned

455
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,160
Speaker 1: a lot about myself. I'm more type AI than i'd

456
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 1: like to it fit. And I didn't realize that until

457
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: I had someone else living with me, and I was like,

458
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm really like anal about certain things,

459
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 1: and so I've had to kind of like calm that

460
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: down a bit. Um Mine so chilled, Like he's like,

461
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: he's more chill, so he's definitely like calmed me down,

462
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 1: and then to be up of it. It's it's a

463
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 1: good balance. I mean, I think that's what what's the

464
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 1: craziest thing about being in a serious relationship, especially when

465
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: when you've committed to each other, you learned so much personally.

466
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,199
Speaker 1: I mean, there were so many moments where I was like,

467
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: I never realized I had the insecurities and the reaction.

468
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 1: I was telling actually a couple of weeks ago on

469
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: the podcast that I found out my relationship that my

470
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 1: reaction towards things was so uh incorrect and negative. So

471
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,639
Speaker 1: when something would bother me, I would have these like

472
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 1: freak out moments and then ten minutes later be like,

473
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: what the heck did I just do? You You don't

474
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: realize it until you have somebody else say that you

475
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 1: care about that you're trying to make their life better

476
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,160
Speaker 1: as well, uh to when it comes the light of

477
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 1: just you know, how what we have to work on,

478
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: but that's the beautif relationship to make each other better. Yeah,

479
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: and I would definitely say that Brian, I have a

480
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: really good ballot. We have a lot in common. But

481
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 1: then we also, like you said, they're because that we

482
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: handle definitely, and it's taken time to learn how we

483
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:22,199
Speaker 1: react different situations and then just working through that. And

484
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: it's really about having a willing attitude to want to

485
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: work those things out. And I think that we have

486
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: really good communications and we've been able to do that.

487
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 1: You know, it's always sunshine and blue prizes, but like

488
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,479
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I would say it

489
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 1: is well, speaking of things not being sunshine and rainbows,

490
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 1: we just recently had two big Bachelor Winter Games breakups

491
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: this week Claire and Benoir and Dean and Leslie. Um, Rachel,

492
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,479
Speaker 1: did you see these coming? Maybe ben and I are

493
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: too close to the situation. Did you not see it coming?

494
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: I have both of them coming, Okay. I definitely saw

495
00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 1: Clare coming. Okay, I but at lea saw it because

496
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 1: it just felt like what I spoke about earlier. It's

497
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: the whole fantasy and getting raped up and saying and

498
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 1: I think that that would mistake a lot of thought

499
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 1: the couples makes. Wouldn't you start fantasizing about things that

500
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: you don't think about how they work in the real world.

501
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 1: I never thought Claire had been while we're going to

502
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: work now, Dan Leslie. I actually thought they were a

503
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: really good last each other. I thought that they had

504
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: they seem to have along with the same interest like

505
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: personalities that messed really well together. And I thought that

506
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: they were going to work out like I didn't think

507
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: that they were going to be running down the eye

508
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 1: only any times through. But I certainly thought that they

509
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 1: were going to be boyfriend and girlfriend for a while.

510
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: So I was that it ended so quickly. That's pretty

511
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 1: much my thoughts on it too. I thought Dean Leslie

512
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: would be together for a while and think they were

513
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 1: each other's forever person. I think he was going to

514
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: lead to marriage, but I thought it would be maybe

515
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: maybe become more months um with Claire and Benois. I

516
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: feel like in a lot of ways Claire and I

517
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 1: were in similar oats and I kind of just vibed

518
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: her um during that live show when she got proposed to,

519
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: and I just think she was like, oh my goodness,

520
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: we are not here yet. And I can just sense.

521
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: I could just sense there was a lot of worry

522
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: there and a lot of doubt, and she just, you know,

523
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: what was she supposed to do? Say no to him

524
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: on a live on a live TV show. Yeah, I

525
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: think so yes. I think then you think so yes.

526
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: For you to get his colt up and think that

527
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: now he's planning this future with her when she had

528
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,159
Speaker 1: these doubts, just say, you don't have to say a

529
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 1: hard now, but maybe like, oh my gosh, it's all

530
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: the sud, let's think about it. I just don't believe

531
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 1: in building people up, you know, just to bring them

532
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 1: down when you know you're not sure on what you

533
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 1: want to do. Ok, all right, yes, I mean, Rachel,

534
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 1: I I think you're spot on. I think it would

535
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: be hard. I think it would have made things awkward

536
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: for the time being, would have clarity to where they're

537
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 1: any time, I mean, okay, so that actually I both

538
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: participated in Winter Games. You're at Winter Games, Rachel, You're

539
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: closed your situations in the most any time there is

540
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: a couple announced on a live show and everybody that

541
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: would participated in the experience is shocked in the audience,

542
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: and then there's the proposal. I say that as an

543
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: odd way to enter in. I mean, I was surprised

544
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: that they were even dating. I had no clue that

545
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: there was even chemistry there. Now, Dina and Leslie are

546
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: a little different. I got to take a trip with

547
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: him to Honduras and they kind of had They have

548
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: this wonderlust. I think that's the right word, right. They

549
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: have the relationship that we can all look at, or

550
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: at least I look at, and I'm envious of because

551
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: they just kind of float through life and they're so

552
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: into each other and both you know, physically, and you

553
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: could tell they had a connection on on an emotional level,

554
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: and you just look at him and you say that couple.

555
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what this looks like long term, but

556
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: I've never seen any thing like it. Like I've never

557
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: seen two people so into just each other. But there

558
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: was that like sense of Okay, this is a good thing.

559
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: This makes sense. But I don't know, and I don't

560
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: want to speak for Dean Leslie here, but like I

561
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: think everybody around them thought, Okay, this is either gonna

562
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 1: be the absolute greatest relationship of all time and it's

563
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: gonna be fun and fruitful and multiply and make beautiful

564
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: children or it's gonna end. We just don't know when.

565
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 1: And unfortunately it ended. But with all that being said,

566
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 1: in my opinion, Winter Games was still successful. It brought

567
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: a bunch of really great people together, and I think

568
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: it opened up everybody's heart to finding love and and

569
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: I mean that's the beauty of this whole thing. Even

570
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,959
Speaker 1: if it doesn't work out, at least now you're prepared

571
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: for a relationship. And actually, I know you know, coming

572
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: off of Winter Games, you said I learned a lot

573
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: about myself, just like Rachel was just saying being in

574
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: a relationship, she learned a lot about herself. Yeah, it's

575
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 1: like that necessary stepping stone. I think a lot of

576
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: us got that out of Winter Games. I want to

577
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: kind of go back for a second. When he didn't,

578
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: I just say I early, and I think I think

579
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: I have a bit of a different perspective because I

580
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: didn't watch Bachelor before. And to be honest, it's tiring

581
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: to me to see the same storyline to play out

582
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: every season, you know now that I've in it. So

583
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: when it seems to me the fresh air to just

584
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: see these different people and cultures coming together and you

585
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: know what each episode was going to be about. We

586
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: had no idea because you guys had no idea because

587
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: we've never seen anything like it before. I thoroughly enjoyed that.

588
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: Even when I was participating in it. I had so

589
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: much fun being there. You're right, I think it was

590
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 1: a success. We didn't even go into it knowing what

591
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: rose ceremonies were going to be like, or like, are

592
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: there gonna be rose ceremonies and how do we eliminate

593
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 1: each other? It was so good. Thinks it will be

594
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be something, And this is my prediction.

595
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: It's gonna be something that lasts a long time in

596
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: the back of the world because it's different, and I

597
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: think they have a lot of ability to be flexed.

598
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: But I'm actually wondering great. So this is my prediction

599
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: when it comes to Winter Games. Because of the experience

600
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: we all had and because we saw the format, I

601
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: think next year they're actually gonna have couples past couples.

602
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: Come on. I think you and Brian might make your

603
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: appearance on Winter Games, and I would recommend you guys

604
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: doing it because it was really that healthy and that

605
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: much fun. See, that's what i'd want. I'd really want

606
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: to see an amazing race like show with former Bachelor couples. Oh,

607
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, you, I don't love another reality show,

608
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 1: even if it only taped for twelve days. I know

609
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: that was that was nice. I don't know. I just

610
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: don't know. It's just screwed me of your relationship and

611
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: then you just don't know how it's going to be shown.

612
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 1: For example, like you heard me say with Claire, and

613
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: if I were clear and I didn't know, I would

614
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: have said I don't know. And like the screw we

615
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: tasted with the Alley, people thought that I did it

616
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: just to get a ring, and it's like, it's no

617
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: me for two seconds, you know I'm never going to

618
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: do something. Yeah, I like that kind of scrutiny. Um,

619
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: I just don't know if I would want to flying

620
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 1: and out of space a dance it was depend I mean,

621
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: never say never the jo It's kind of like the

622
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 1: couples to do couples therapy after the show and then

623
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: they're like, UM, okay, wow, way to make our relationship

624
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: look like something that it's totally not. But we did

625
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: it for the money, and we did it for the

626
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,479
Speaker 1: attention and it probably wasn't worth it in the end,

627
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: and that's what I don't want to do. Yeah, Hey, Rachel,

628
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: you mentioned Ari, and we got to talk about it

629
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 1: for a second last week actually, and I spoke about

630
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: just Ari and kind of his progression after the batter

631
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: and during the bachor and how you can get it

632
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: and and you understand that, you know, we've both been

633
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: in it, and sometimes as the lead of the show,

634
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: you can't do anything right no matter what you try

635
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: to do. But it just felt like Ari did a

636
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: couple of things that I would have advised him not

637
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: to do, including his April Fool's joke. Do you have

638
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 1: an opinion on that if you don't know about it?

639
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: He posted a picture claiming that he and Lauren were

640
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: pregnant and that Lauren was going to have a baby,

641
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: and then it was later foun out to be a

642
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: joke and people took acceptance too. They did not like it,

643
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: they found it controversial. What is your thoughts? Okay, I

644
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: thought it was people were a bit we're overacting a bit,

645
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: you know. It's I didn't think it was controversial. I didn't.

646
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: I also didn't think it was funny, but that's just me.

647
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: It just didn't make me laugh. But I just I

648
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: thought people are It's like it's like too sooner. You know,

649
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: people are still upset. You know, people are happy for

650
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: you because they do look very happy, but people are

651
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,479
Speaker 1: still upset. And I just think it was just too

652
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: soon for him to pull off that kind of joke.

653
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: You know, that's donation isn't quite over it yet quite

654
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: over what happened, And so I think maybe they need

655
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: to see back up, moved on and happy and think

656
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: you can make those types of jokes. I like, I

657
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: like your point of view, Rachel. Thanks thanks for agreeing

658
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: with us in some way. Also, yeah, right, it was crazy. Yes,

659
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: it was uncreative. It was totally uncreative, totally not timely

660
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 1: for them. But I mean, yuys, that was incidive. But

661
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: it wasn't funny either. It wasn't funny, No, not at all.

662
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 1: I just I just didn't find No, it was awkward.

663
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,240
Speaker 1: It was That's what I said. I never claim its funny,

664
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 1: Like I get that maybe, like people definitely overreacted, but

665
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: I also just don't understand like that the joke of it,

666
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 1: Like I'm not confused. Um, before we let you go right, Jill.

667
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: Can we end with some fun questions? Oh? I love this. Yeah.

668
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: If you could have any artists perform at your wedding,

669
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 1: who would it be? Oh my gosh, Well, okay, I

670
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: know I'm still a quick answer, but I actually always

671
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 1: said Print, but he's no longer with its. Um, I

672
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: would say Justin Bieber. That is a reach for ABC.

673
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to think more like B list artists

674
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: than that artist, now right, that's right. I remember going

675
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: into your season people were talking about how your ultimate

676
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 1: celebrity crash is Justin Bieber. I really like dis weever

677
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 1: I do got swag? Um? Would you have Chris Harrison

678
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:27,280
Speaker 1: officiate the ceremony? Um? It depends, it's it's been Dallas.

679
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: I would have my path to do it. Okay, I

680
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: think that's very respectable Chris. The second. You know, if

681
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: I were to have a Bachelor wedding, you know who

682
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: i'd want to appreciate it, Chris Dinner. That's cool. That

683
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 1: would be cool. Not very Bachelor related, though. I know

684
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: they'll let you have your pastor, like Sean Lowe had

685
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 1: his dad who's also a he Ben Ben still lot

686
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: over laughing about this. Ben it's not going to be

687
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: very funny when I tell you exactly who i'd want

688
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: to officiate my bachelor wedding, and that would be you.

689
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: I want you to afficiate it. Yeah, thank you know

690
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 1: it's funny because her first I don't know how Rachel's

691
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: initial like second response like they didn't take any time

692
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: to go Chris Jenner, I know, like she had the

693
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: answer planned. Actually, I would absolutely love to fish you

694
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: when that's actually like that means a lot, and we

695
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: got to talk about that offline. Would Chris Harrison be upset?

696
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: This is so hypothetical, Um, you know, I don't know. Yeah,

697
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: you have to give him a role in it, and

698
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure he would love to be a part of it.

699
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: I mean, your wedding is your day, and I think

700
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: anybody needs to understand that if anybody's gonna get upset

701
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: with you for being a little selfish on your wedding day,

702
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: like that's their own problem. And I and we all

703
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,800
Speaker 1: know Chris enough to know that he's confident enough in

704
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: himself and his abilities to not be upset if somebody says, hey,

705
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: I have somebody else had like sause it between a

706
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 1: little bit more. Yeah, also be that applies for an

707
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: off camera wedding as well, So would you appreciate my wedding?

708
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 1: I would love to act, you know. I'm actually I

709
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: was ordained I know during my season of the Bachelor,

710
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 1: and I still am able to get my license. So

711
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 1: if if you and Brian wanted to low Rachel in Vegas,

712
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:27,800
Speaker 1: I think I can still sign the wedding, uh wedding license.

713
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: That is really good to know. That's so awesome. My

714
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 1: last question, Rachel is will you take Brian's last name? Yeah,

715
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 1: so be it won't be haspinatid. I will completely take

716
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: his lesson. Yeah, I like that too old fashioned? All right, well, Rachel,

717
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: this has been a blast. You've been on here for

718
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: like half an hour. We appreciate that so much. Thank you, guys. Fine,

719
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 1: what took me so long, But I'm here next time.

720
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yes, next time you're gonna like come in studio.

721
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Speaker 1: We'd love to have you baby before of the bachelorret

722
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:08,720
Speaker 1: love it all right, Thank you so much. What an incredible,

723
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 1: incredible guest. Yeah, that was so good. I love it.

724
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: I love I mean. The one thing uh I want

725
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 1: to ask her though, uh today is this still cool

726
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 1: to have the hashtags for your wedding. Yeah, I think

727
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 1: you know why it's cool to have hashtags for your

728
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: wedding because all the pictures are organized on social media,

729
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 1: so you can go and look at all your guest

730
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: pictures with one hashtag. That that makes complete sense. I've

731
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 1: always I've always found that creative and I always like

732
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 1: to see, like what people come up with. Um I

733
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: think the Bachelor world needs to get really creative because

734
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: if if every Bachelor contestant nowadays is a content creator, uh,

735
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: then their content needs to be, you know, on par

736
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 1: with what they're stating. And so I'm excited to see

737
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: what hashtags come out at these future weddings. I don't

738
00:38:56,200 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 1: disagree with Rachel Astley, honestly. I could Seek and Sean,

739
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: Jojoe and Jordanary and Lauren, Raven and Adam and Rachel

740
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 1: and Briant all getting married this year. And I don't

741
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: know why these couples wouldn't they've been together a while,

742
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: um Are and Laura. I'd probably recommend taking some time

743
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: to to take a deep breath. But this could be

744
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: a eighteen could be a season of weddings for Bachelor nations,

745
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: all right, Well, Ben I actually have a question about

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Speaker 1: I want to go back to my question. Ben. You've

797
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Speaker 1: been talking about how you think all these couples are

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Speaker 1: ready to get and they're all like most of them

799
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Speaker 1: think they're they're ready to get married this year. That

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Speaker 1: how long do you think a couple should date? Then

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00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:12,760
Speaker 1: how long do you think a couple should be engaged?

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00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's such a good question. Actually, I

805
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: mean there's a thousand opinions on this. I mean I

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00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 1: have people really close to me who have dated for

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Speaker 1: three months and got married, including my parents. UM, I

808
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,919
Speaker 1: have people close to me that have dated for nine years.

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00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 1: I think there is I'm just talking to somebody about

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00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: this to the day, there is a maximum amount of

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Speaker 1: time that you should date. I think. I think any couple, uh,

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Speaker 1: if you're if you're personal decision is that you want

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Speaker 1: to pursue marriage. Now, everybody today is wanting to get married.

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Speaker 1: I understand that. Let's let's just assume for a second,

815
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,360
Speaker 1: and when we're talking about this conversation that every couple

816
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: that we're speaking of wants to get married someday. Okay,

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00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: So if you're wanting to get married and spend your

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Speaker 1: life with somebody and have that partner, then I feel

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Speaker 1: like you both need to make the commitment that life

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Speaker 1: while commitment to each other within a at least a

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Speaker 1: year and a half of dating. I think if you've

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Speaker 1: been together a year and a half, you know if

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Speaker 1: this is the right person for you. Now. I get

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Speaker 1: that certain circumstances and events change that. You know, what,

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Speaker 1: if somebody's in the military, maybe aren't able to spend

826
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Speaker 1: as much time with each other. That's those are unique

827
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: scenarios and that is down to the invidual person. But UM,

828
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Speaker 1: I do think there's a maximount of time that people

829
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Speaker 1: should date because I think over time it just gets

830
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Speaker 1: a little unhealthy, gets a little weird, And I think,

831
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Speaker 1: like it or not, society puts that pressure on us.

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Speaker 1: And anytime there's pressure outside pressure on a relationship, that

833
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: has an effect, even if you like it or not,

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Speaker 1: it will have an effect. So to clear up all

835
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Speaker 1: of that. Unfortunately, we live in a world that expects

836
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Speaker 1: you to get married pretty quickly, like you might want

837
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Speaker 1: to do that, especially if you're in love with the

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00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 1: person now a minimum amount of time. Um, I mean

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Speaker 1: I feel like that sweet spots like seven months, six

840
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:56,800
Speaker 1: or seven months. I think you really get to know

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Speaker 1: the person. You've seen their ups and downs, they've they've

842
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: hit themselves. You know, they showed you their best side

843
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: for three months or so. Um, but that's six seven months. Rangel.

844
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Speaker 1: Really good an idea. And how cool is it when

845
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Speaker 1: you can look at somebody after like seven months and say,

846
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Speaker 1: I'm so in love with you, like I so get this,

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Speaker 1: I get who you are now, and I want to

848
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Speaker 1: spend my life with you. That's a moment we can

849
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Speaker 1: all look forward to now. For me, the only time

850
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: I've ever done that was after a few months, and

851
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know if I ever been that either.

852
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: This is definitely a good topic for us to discuss

853
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,399
Speaker 1: further in some other episode. I also think that long

854
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: engagements usually end up being confusing because you're like, oh,

855
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: is this just an extension of dating or is this

856
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: just our period of time to plan our wedding? And

857
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 1: I think it should actually kind of just be that

858
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: period of time to plan your wedding. Yeah, that is

859
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: that is a great, a great statement. But you actually,

860
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: I think that engagement period is that next step to

861
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 1: where you're no longer dating each other. You are starting

862
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 1: to have those conversations that are like planning a life

863
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: to what's the ready gonna look like, where we're gonna move.

864
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: Can we start like figuring out strategically how our finances

865
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,919
Speaker 1: are going to match up? You know, where does your debt?

866
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: Where's your debt act? And I can I help pay

867
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,760
Speaker 1: you out? Like totally starts to happen. Um, I'm actually

868
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: really interested about this. It's a conversation has been coming

869
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,720
Speaker 1: up a lot I'd love to hear from our listeners.

870
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: I think this is a great listener question. Uh So,

871
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: anybody out there listening, Even it's a nice little short email,

872
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: would be awesome to to hear from you, or maybe

873
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: a review online on the I heart app. But if

874
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: you're listening and you have an opinion on this, uh,

875
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: please email us at Ben and Ashley at i heart

876
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: media dot com. We really do want to hear from you,

877
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: even if it's a sentence or two. Please let us

878
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: know your thoughts on kind of what's the time frame

879
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 1: for dating an engagement? It shouldn't be, you know, quicker

880
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: or longer? What's up? I need help with that. I

881
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 1: think actually does too. Yeah, and I'd love to ask

882
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: our guest Sarah Herron because she just celebrated her one

883
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: year anniversary with her boyfriend. UM. Sarah is on the

884
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: line and we've gotten her quest to have Sarah on UM.

885
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: This was from Kathy a couple of weeks ago. Uh, Sarah,

886
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 1: are you on? Yes, I'm here. I'm going to read

887
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: this to you. This is from Kathy, says Hi Been

888
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,320
Speaker 1: and Ashley. I love the crap out of both of you,

889
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: but could you please get Sarah Herron on for an

890
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,720
Speaker 1: update on her love life and life in general. Please.

891
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm so happy that she's finally found her prince charming.

892
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 1: I could never understand how she was never chosen to

893
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: be the bachelorette. I think that she's one of the

894
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 1: bravest and classiest women I've ever witnessed. And can you

895
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 1: just tell her that she has a beautiful and generous soul,

896
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: Kathy maybe, Oh my gosh, that's the nicest messode ever.

897
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: That's so sweet. So welcome to the podcast. Sometimes I

898
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 1: come to this podcast and actually says that kind of

899
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 1: stuff about me, and it always makes me feel good.

900
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: But Sarah, I'm glad we could welcome you with that

901
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 1: kind of Oh my god, thank you. I know, I'm

902
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: so excited to be on with you guys today, Like,

903
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, what anather. Sarah. So you've been with

904
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: your boyfriend for just about a year now, congratulations. Thanks.

905
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: I know I never thought it was happened. Don't say

906
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 1: that you're only you're You're just you're going to turn

907
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 1: thirty one soon. I did turn thirty one. Yeah, so yeah,

908
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 1: I know. It's it's amazing. Though we lived together, um

909
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: we I lived to his town of Carbondale, Colorado, which

910
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,320
Speaker 1: is like the tiniest town in the whole world. I

911
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: think population in four thousands. So going from Los Angeles

912
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: this tiny mountain town is crazy, but it's so nice.

913
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: So what how did you guys meet? Everybody loves to

914
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 1: meet stories, you gotta tell us. Yeah, So, Dylan is

915
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:38,959
Speaker 1: a photographer director and I was hosting my very first

916
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: shelift retreat here in Ascent, and I was looking for

917
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: a local UM photographer to come in and help with

918
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:49,320
Speaker 1: the retreat. It was five days, and so he was

919
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: referred to me by an old colleague from my days

920
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 1: in advertising, and he joined us for five days with

921
00:47:56,640 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: UM you know, seven young women that had physical friends,

922
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: and I think it just brought out this amazing, like

923
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: compassionate side of him that I got to see, as

924
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: you know, the he was the only male and a

925
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 1: roomful of women for five days, and I just my

926
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: heart melted for him and I fell for him. And

927
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: by the end of the retreat he asked me out

928
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: on a date. It's we've been like attached to the

929
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 1: hip ever since. You wrote an amazing Instagram caption for

930
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 1: your first anniversary. It was so touching. Can you briefly

931
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: describe to everyone what what Dylan makes you feel and

932
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 1: how he's changed you for the better. Yeah, well, I

933
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: mean he's I was always just looking for somebody that um,

934
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: you know, accepted me for who I was, but challenged

935
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 1: me to be better. Kind of all the cliche things

936
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: that people have always said, but I never really felt

937
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 1: it until I met Dylan. And he just makes me

938
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: feel confident in who I am, and you know, he

939
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 1: just supports me and everything that I do, and I'm

940
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: so I'm so so grateful for his support and love

941
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 1: every day. So sweet you he helps you, but you

942
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: help a ton of other girls out there with your

943
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: Sheilaft program, and I think you're starting a podcast about it.

944
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: I am, um, yeah, I'm really excited starting a podcast,

945
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 1: but I am like currently recording from my closet because yeah,

946
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: because I'm like so low, but um, but I'm really

947
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: excited to do it and we're gonna have amazing guests

948
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: on the premise is to introduce um, women that I

949
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 1: am friends with or look up to who are using

950
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 1: their projects or platforms for change in creativity and connection.

951
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: So really it's just giving voice to everyday women who

952
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 1: are overcoming obstacles and helping women listeners and men who

953
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: love women feel um, you know, sense of connection and

954
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 1: community through other people's challenges. How can our listeners go

955
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: and help the Sheila found a um. Anyone can visit

956
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 1: she lift dot org to learn more about the organization,

957
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,399
Speaker 1: and then of course follow us on Instagram she Lift

958
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 1: Graham and I'm constantly pushing information now through my personal

959
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: Instagram and news letter, so there's never a shortage of information. Alright, Sarah,

960
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: wish we had more time with you. We will have

961
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: you back on soon when you're podcasting, when your podcast

962
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: officially launches. It hasn't officially launched yet, right, thank you

963
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: know it'll be May all right. You let us know

964
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: when and we will make sure to plug it here

965
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 1: on the Almost His podcast. We love you so much.

966
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 1: We're so glad that you have this amazing organization and

967
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 1: an amazing man. Doesn't everything in life come together at thirty?

968
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 1: It really does. Just wait till thirty. It's the best. Yes,

969
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: it really is good. All right, thanks, Sarah, I will

970
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 1: talk to you soon, you gu I mean it's so

971
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: good sometimes, I mean, I feel like this has been

972
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 1: a really good podcast, kind for me to hear. We've

973
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: had Rachel on who is confident, well spoken, uh engaged

974
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: in a relationship that just seems healthy and fruitful. And uh,

975
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: you know, we've gotten to now talk to Sarah Herron,

976
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:14,560
Speaker 1: who I got to actually meet her family on Easter

977
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: at the golf course and yeah, I ran into her

978
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: family and they were so proud of Sarah and they're

979
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 1: so proud of the stuff that she's doing. A few

980
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: years ago I was able to uh get to know

981
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 1: more about the she Lift organization, and it really is

982
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: incredible that she's doing. And not only is it one

983
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: of those causes that meaningful and doing a great thing

984
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: in the world, but it's a lot of fun to

985
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: participate in, right. I mean, she's literally doing these really

986
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:43,320
Speaker 1: cool adventure activities, uh with with people all around the US.

987
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 1: And so if anybody's out there kind of like, hey,

988
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: I just need to mixed life up a bit. I

989
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 1: want to volunteer with an organization that that kind of

990
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: shakes up the world not only for good but also

991
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 1: just for adventure. I really think she left it would

992
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 1: be a great organization for you to reach out to,

993
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: So please do that. UM. It's it's awesome to hear

994
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 1: people like Sarah taking um, taking life and really molding

995
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,919
Speaker 1: it into something that's not only good. UM, but something

996
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: that she's passionate about. It's so awesome and with all

997
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 1: that beautiful sounding stuff, it is time for Ben bitches.

998
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I mean I have a good one

999
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: to day actually, and I'm up. I'm not happy. I'm annoyed. Ben.

1000
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: Some people think that you're handing it up and you're

1001
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 1: acting when you do this. I'm always this angry. Okay.

1002
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: So I just spent the last week with my father

1003
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:42,320
Speaker 1: at the Master and the one thing about the Masters

1004
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: that really stood out to me was the simplicity, how

1005
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: everybody was equals, how new nobody could could see the

1006
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: hierarchy of of society when it comes to the Masters.

1007
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:55,919
Speaker 1: Everybody's on equal playing Uh, we're watching golfers play golf,

1008
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 1: and it hit me one thing that I wasn't missing

1009
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: was the fact anybody out there was trying to impress

1010
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: anybody else. I'm upset today because I've been around people

1011
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,280
Speaker 1: the one upper. Do you know about the one uppers? Actually,

1012
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 1: we all know them. And if you if you don't

1013
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:13,879
Speaker 1: know a one upper, then you might want to look

1014
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: internally on yourself because you might be that one upper,

1015
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:22,719
Speaker 1: might be that constantly wants to bring others down. To

1016
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:26,359
Speaker 1: lift each other or to lift you up right. I mean,

1017
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: how many times have you been in a conversation like, Okay,

1018
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 1: for example, the one with Sarah Herron right here, she's

1019
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 1: doing an amazing, amazing thing. Some people out there, the

1020
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: one uppers out there, would have looked at Sarah hairing

1021
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 1: or for case to podcast so spoken to Sarah Harris instead, Sarah,

1022
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 1: it's great that you're doing that, but listen to what

1023
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm doing, and they would come up with something that

1024
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 1: sounds a little bit better, a little bit twisted, a

1025
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 1: little bit more generous or philanthropic in nature. And you

1026
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: know what that would done. That was shot right through

1027
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:04,800
Speaker 1: Sarah's heart. It would have demoralized the passion and the

1028
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: purpose at which he's pursuing this mission. And that's unfair

1029
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 1: to Sara, and it's unfair to any of us out there.

1030
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 1: So I'm bitching today to anybody listening to say, if

1031
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 1: you're that one upper, take a step back, humble yourself

1032
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: to the world, understand that nobody is bigger or greater

1033
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 1: than anybody else out there, that we're all equals. Then

1034
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: we all have a responsibility to do good. We all

1035
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,320
Speaker 1: have a responsibility to serve each other. We all have

1036
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 1: a responsibility to pursue our purposes and passions in this world.

1037
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you right now, if you're pursuing your person,

1038
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: your purposes and passions, to tell everybody else about it.

1039
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: Take a sip, seat down, step away. I don't want

1040
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: to hear it. Okay, I have to admit I'm a

1041
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: one upper when it comes to boy band stories. When

1042
00:54:53,239 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: people are like, oh my god, podcast successf people are like,

1043
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm such a huge trailing you don't

1044
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: even know. My room looked like I was like I

1045
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: was in Bop Star and Bop Magazine because my room

1046
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 1: was so crazy. And it's like I went to like

1047
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: five of their concerts. I was like, I went to

1048
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:14,879
Speaker 1: twenty seven of their concerts, and it's like, oh my gosh,

1049
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 1: this is one time I met them. I'm like, I've

1050
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 1: been friends with them and I've been on their tour

1051
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 1: bus and the worst. But only when it comes to

1052
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: boy band stories, they're like, oh my gosh, I gotta

1053
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,719
Speaker 1: tell you this. I'm like, okay, that's great, but only

1054
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: when it comes sorry, I'm sorry, I feel like you.

1055
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe this is going to come off incredibly. Ps,

1056
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: I feel like you want upping. Anybody on boy band

1057
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: Stories actually does has the opposite effect. When anybody hears it,

1058
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: sounds like you're embarrassing yourself. No, because boy band fans there,

1059
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 1: they wouldn't think that. They would just think that was

1060
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:55,040
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Speaker 1: do that with any product, but Wink is just revolutionary.

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Speaker 1: We love Wink. Uh. But speaking of love, we're listening

1112
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 1: or we're going to read off a couple of readers

1113
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: or listener emails right now, and I have a couple

1114
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 1: of questions Actually, I'm sure you're familiar with this. I

1115
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: had no idea. This was a shock to me. And

1116
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 1: I've been in this world for a while. I'm gonna

1117
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:13,440
Speaker 1: read an email from Sarah Sarah's emails titled get Holly

1118
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:16,560
Speaker 1: and Blake on and I was reading through this. Who

1119
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 1: is Holly? I've been looking through this too, and I

1120
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: thought the exact same. Apparently there's another successful Bachelor couple

1121
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: of we have no idea about them all, and we've

1122
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 1: never talked about it. This email, and and we're gonna

1123
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: have him on the podcast. We're gonna find him, track

1124
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: him down. They've got to get their their moment, uh

1125
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: to to talk to us. We've got our gunner moment

1126
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 1: to talk to them. That sided, uh, kind of kind

1127
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 1: of weird on my part. Okay, it says how I've

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00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 1: been in Ashley. I'm just curious. We always talked about

1129
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 1: the successful Bachelor franchise couples. Yes we do. This includes

1130
00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, the Bachelor at and the Bachelor in Paradise,

1131
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 1: But we never talked about the one successful Bachelor pag couple,

1132
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Speaker 1: Holly and Blake Julian. Can we get them on a segment?

1133
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 1: Who the heck? Are you. I loved watching them on

1134
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: Bachelor Pad. I'm gonna love to know what they're up

1135
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: to now. Thanks guys, love the show. Keep up the

1136
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: good work. Sarah Hoffman, I'm telling you I had no

1137
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: clue there. Actually, how haven't we been corrected on this before?

1138
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 1: We've talked about the success couples a zillion times. Nobody's

1139
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: ever said what about Holly and Blake before we've been

1140
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 1: on air for a year. I agree, we get criticized

1141
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: and corrected on everything moving my grandpa, but we've never

1142
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 1: gotten corrected on the fact that there's another successful But

1143
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if I believe it. And I like

1144
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:37,000
Speaker 1: the way that well, I don't like the way it's

1145
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 1: just it says it's Holly and Blake Julian as if

1146
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 1: they're married. There's another Bachelor married couple. Yeah, they're married.

1147
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 1: I looked him up. No way, I promise, this is craziness.

1148
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 1: I'm surprised you didn't know. I read this, and I thought, oh,

1149
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 1: actually can carry this this email because she'll know me

1150
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 1: because boys in the back. I would have I would

1151
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 1: have corrected our ourselves as Zilian times. If I had known.

1152
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: I never watched Bachelor Patt, I wonder what season they

1153
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 1: came out of. Well, guys, this is our on our

1154
01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: priority list. We are hoping to get Blake in Holly

1155
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 1: on next week craziness. Should we move on? Yeah? I

1156
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: mean I have nothing else to say on the fact that.

1157
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 1: Thanks Sarah, like we had no clue. Yeah, thanks Sarah. Okay,

1158
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 1: I have a question. We have a good email for you, Ben. Oh, actually,

1159
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: I would love there's so many good emails today. Okay,

1160
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to read this one first for you, Ben,

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01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,959
Speaker 1: Term Jenna, Dear Ashley and Ben. This question is mainly

1162
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 1: for Ben. I'm twenty nine and I have been back

1163
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 1: in the dating pool for about six months after a

1164
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 1: pretty serious relationship. I have a huge heart for Jesus

1165
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 1: and I've always thought it was very important that my

1166
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 1: partner and I share that quality. However, I find that

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01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 1: the guys that I have been dating recently do not

1168
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 1: feel the same way. And it's quality, and it's a

1169
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: quality that's tough to find unless I date within my church. Ben,

1170
01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 1: is it a deal breaker for you if a girl

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01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 1: doesn't share the same faith as you? How do you

1172
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: broach the subject of faith in a new dating relationship

1173
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 1: and how do you handle ending things with somebody that

1174
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 1: ultimately you don't think you could be with for the

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01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 1: rest of your life because of their beliefs. Do you

1176
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 1: think it's possible to overcome this difference? I love the

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01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 1: podcast Guys, keep doing you Genia. It's a great question,

1178
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 1: and that's one that I mean, we can do a

1179
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: whole podcast on this. Let me start just by kind

1180
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 1: of breaking it down. UM. I've dated people do not

1181
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: believe the same things as I do, uh, and had

1182
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: very healthy, successful relationships in that I mean, they weren't

1183
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 1: ultimately successful in the end, but they were they were fruitful. Uh.

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01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 1: And in the time that I had them. However, I

1185
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 1: found myself when it came to the harder issues of

1186
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: of relationships, we weren't communicating because we weren't coming from

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01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: the same place. So I'm going to come from a

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01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:55,440
Speaker 1: place that I'm grounded, uh and uh the who Jesus

1189
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 1: was and what the Bible says and kind of the

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01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 1: wisdom that I get from my face system, my my

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01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 1: belief system, because I believe it's true. I'm not a

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01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 1: Christian just because it's what I grew up, but I

1193
01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 1: believe that that is uh, the truth of the world.

1194
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:12,479
Speaker 1: And so if my truth is different than my partner's truth,

1195
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 1: then ultimately coming together and the compromise is going to

1196
01:03:15,880 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 1: be very difficult. And it it proves to be difficult

1197
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:20,800
Speaker 1: from everywhere too, from any questions on how we're gonna

1198
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 1: raise our kids to uh, you know, how we're going

1199
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 1: to spend our time in the evening, and then how

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01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 1: do we deal with um difficult circumstances. Are we gonna

1201
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 1: pray through it? Are we going to support people? And also,

1202
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 1: you know, one of the biggest things that came in

1203
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: my life is uh, you know, I get a lot

1204
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 1: of credit and and and it's unnecessary credit because of

1205
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 1: the things that I participated in life. When it comes

1206
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 1: to philanthropy or specks of service, I only do those

1207
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 1: because I believe that I was called and to do

1208
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 1: that by Jesus. And so I believe that as my

1209
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 1: calling and that as my purpose on life. You know,

1210
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: not all, not always is that come from a really

1211
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 1: pure placed in my heart. I do it because I

1212
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 1: believe that through service will find the most joy. And

1213
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: I also believe that through service that was our our

1214
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 1: intent on being on earth. And so if my partner

1215
01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: doesn't believe in service, and that's how I'm spending most

1216
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: of my time. Then there's gonna be a dilemma, and

1217
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 1: that dilemma is gonna hurt, and it's gonna hurt both people.

1218
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 1: So I think from that perspective, when it comes with

1219
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: dealing with situations, yes, it's important to have somebody of

1220
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: the same same faith, UM, when it comes to just

1221
01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:30,479
Speaker 1: the moral and ethical issue, or maybe just faith issue,

1222
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:33,240
Speaker 1: I should you deal with be with somebody that has

1223
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:35,920
Speaker 1: the same faith. I would recommend it. I think it's

1224
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 1: gonna add more depth to a relationship when you when

1225
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:42,920
Speaker 1: the two people are coming from a similar worldview. I

1226
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 1: believe it's gonna add um more life to to the

1227
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 1: events and and the things that you're pursuing as a couple.

1228
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: But the question here that I really want to finish

1229
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 1: this with um is how do you broach the subject

1230
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 1: of faith in a new dating relationship ship? I do

1231
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: it right away. Uh, it's my first date conversation. It's

1232
01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:07,959
Speaker 1: who are you? You know? What are you? What makes

1233
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: you you? If I was to sit down on a

1234
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 1: date with you, Ashley, I and we you know obviously

1235
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 1: this this sounds weird and almost like interrogative, but it's

1236
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 1: not you know, through a conversation. My goal in the

1237
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: first date is to let you have your time to

1238
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 1: tell me who you are and what makes you you

1239
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 1: tell me tell me at a very service of We

1240
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 1: don't have to get into the details and the grid.

1241
01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 1: But I want to know what makes Ashley I Ashley I?

1242
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 1: What what makes you tick? What's your belief system? Because

1243
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: the truth isn't all of this, and I think we're

1244
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 1: living in a time that's exciting for this. UM. I

1245
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 1: want to date people within my faith, but it doesn't

1246
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 1: mean that I have to be exclusive to anybody else.

1247
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: Of opposite things. We're in a very inclusive time period,

1248
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 1: but we're dealing and and friends being friends and building

1249
01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: relationships with people of all sorts of world views, and

1250
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: I think that's a beautiful thing. But it's also something

1251
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 1: that we shouldn't make taboo, just like we shouldn't make

1252
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 1: sex taboo or drug you know, your your addictions taboo.

1253
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: I think faith is something that we should talk about openly.

1254
01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 1: What are you ashamed of if it's what you believe,

1255
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 1: it's what you believe, if that's the truth that you

1256
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: believe the world operates on speak about it, talk about it,

1257
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 1: share that love, share that purpose, share that service. And

1258
01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:20,959
Speaker 1: so what better first date conversation? Then what's your truth?

1259
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: What do you believe him? Because I want to hear it.

1260
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 1: I want to hear it. I want to know about

1261
01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 1: your experiences asking girls like that on the first date.

1262
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: Does it freak them out? Uh? It has? And I

1263
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,120
Speaker 1: don't know if it freaks them out, but you can

1264
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 1: definitely tell the ones that maybe have had it insecurity

1265
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:41,920
Speaker 1: or you know. The church unfortunately has hurt a lot

1266
01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 1: of people, especially in this generation. The church was misrepresented

1267
01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 1: by a lot of people that were a part of

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Speaker 1: the church. And so sometimes Uh, in this generation, people

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Speaker 1: have stories from their experiences in the church that hurt

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Speaker 1: them deeply, and they're scared to talk about it, and

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Speaker 1: and and it brings up a most sins that they're

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Speaker 1: not ready to talk about. That's fine, we have to

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Speaker 1: talk about there. But it allows me to have a

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Speaker 1: better perspective about where they're coming from. And those are

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Speaker 1: unique situations where I'm not gonna then say, Okay, sorry,

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Speaker 1: we can't date because the churches hurt you at some level,

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Speaker 1: Like that's ridiculous, like not at all. But the ones

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Speaker 1: that are more open. I think it's refreshing for me

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Speaker 1: and I find that a quality that I am attracted to.

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Speaker 1: I guess so if if say everything else equal, there's

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Speaker 1: been no pain cause from religion, which a lot of

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Speaker 1: people have felt pain from religion, and it's just the

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Speaker 1: conversation topic and the person kind of pulls back, like, yoh,

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Speaker 1: I don't really want to talk about that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: And it's just because they're they're not very a very

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Speaker 1: I like vulnerability. I would be a horrible interviewer if

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Speaker 1: I didn't ask. If you ask girls this on The

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Speaker 1: Bachelor and it never made air, Oh definitely. Oh. You know.

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Speaker 1: The one thing about The Bachelor, though, that's unique, is

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Speaker 1: everybody I would assume most of the women that were

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Speaker 1: knew where I was coming from. I didn't necessarily know

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Speaker 1: where they were coming from, and it never really did

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Speaker 1: make care. No, but most of the conversation is now

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Speaker 1: the first nights a little different because you get about

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Speaker 1: five minutes. And I think that's a pretty heavy question,

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Speaker 1: but I do believe my most common question on the

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Speaker 1: what makes you you? Like, tell me about yourself because

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Speaker 1: I want to know it. And we don't have a

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Speaker 1: lot of time here, so relax, take a look around,

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Speaker 1: get comfortable this environment, but try to block everything out

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Speaker 1: and just tell me what makes you you. So if

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Speaker 1: is that a red flag to you that that maybe

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Speaker 1: that isn't a huge part of her life. No, I

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Speaker 1: would probably follow up with a question just and I

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Speaker 1: the questions like perfectly, you know, on both sides. And

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Speaker 1: so I think that's the part of the date that

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Speaker 1: dig into the conversation. And so, yeah, I definitely have

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Speaker 1: I just don't see it, you know. I don't get it,

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Speaker 1: on dear Evan Hansen. I definitely have a lot to

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Speaker 1: Rachel Lindsay, you're wonderful. Sarah Harn wish we had more

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Speaker 1: time with you, but I am so happy that you

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Speaker 1: found your prince charming. He seems wonderful. Yea, and Ben,

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Speaker 1: thank you for being here the day after you back

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Speaker 1: from the Masters. Are you kidding me? What a week? Ashley?

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Speaker 1: You're looking beautiful as always. We love you, ask keep

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Speaker 1: it up. I'm telling you you have a lot of

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Speaker 1: so many people come up to me and say, as

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Speaker 1: I can, Eddie makes that podcast, and I say, I

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Speaker 1: See you guys next week. Bye. Follow the Benn and

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