WEBVTT - Time is a blank slate

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is to think of time as a blank slate. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it will be filled with something, but what it is

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<v Speaker 1>filled with is largely up to you. I have been

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<v Speaker 1>tracking my time on weekly spreadsheets for over five years now.

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<v Speaker 1>The spreadsheets have half hour blocks running down the left

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<v Speaker 1>hand side from five a m. To four thirty a m.

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<v Speaker 1>With the days of the week Monday to Sunday along

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<v Speaker 1>the top. Every Monday, for more than five years now,

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<v Speaker 1>I have finished the previous spreadsheet and opened a new one.

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<v Speaker 1>When I do, I notice something interesting. The new spreadsheet

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<v Speaker 1>is blank. The next week is completely blank. It hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>happened yet. Eventually it will. Of course, eventually I will

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<v Speaker 1>be on the other side of the next one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>sixty eight hours, But that blank spreadsheet is not yet filled.

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<v Speaker 1>What I fill the cells with will depend on the

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<v Speaker 1>choices I make, both now and in the future, and

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<v Speaker 1>of course they will be filled based on choices I

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<v Speaker 1>have made in the past. That doesn't mean all of

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<v Speaker 1>it is discretionary by any means. Life also deals us

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<v Speaker 1>things that we have to deal with. However, sometimes those

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<v Speaker 1>surprises show us how elastic time can truly be. I

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<v Speaker 1>have had thousands of people track their time for me

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<v Speaker 1>over the years, and one particular log really showed this

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So forgive me if you've heard me tell

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<v Speaker 1>the story before. This busy woman who tracked her time

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<v Speaker 1>for me worked in finance and had two young too.

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<v Speaker 1>One she went out for a Wednesday night for something

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<v Speaker 1>and came home to find that her water heater had broken.

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<v Speaker 1>There was now water all over her basement. Her time

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<v Speaker 1>log showed her dealing with this giant wet mess, the plumbers,

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<v Speaker 1>the cleaning crew. All this took seven hours of her week,

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<v Speaker 1>which is quite a bit of time. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like finding an extra hour in the day. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>about this afterwards and said, well, hey, at the start

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<v Speaker 1>of the week, do you think you would have been

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<v Speaker 1>able to find those seven hours. Let's say you needed

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<v Speaker 1>to find seven hours to train for a triathlon, or

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<v Speaker 1>mentor your younger colleagues at work, or read a fifth

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<v Speaker 1>of War and Peace. Would you have been able to

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<v Speaker 1>do it? Well, of course not. We can all see

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<v Speaker 1>how busy she was. But when she had to find

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<v Speaker 1>seven hours because there was water all over her basement.

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<v Speaker 1>She found seven hours. Time is highly at last stick.

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<v Speaker 1>We cannot make more time, but time stretches to accommodate

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<v Speaker 1>what we need or want to put into it. And

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<v Speaker 1>so the key to time management is treating our priorities

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<v Speaker 1>as the equivalent of that broken water heater. We choose

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<v Speaker 1>to put them into the blank slate of time first,

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<v Speaker 1>we put them in with urgency. Now, of course, this

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<v Speaker 1>seldom works perfectly, since time keeps passing. It has a

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<v Speaker 1>way of getting away from us. But I find this

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<v Speaker 1>image of the blank slate hopeful. My blank spreadsheet is

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<v Speaker 1>full of possibility. I can dream and plan about how

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<v Speaker 1>I will arrange the tiles. Every week is a new opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>Every week offers a new chance to ask if I

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<v Speaker 1>am spending my time as I wish to be spent

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<v Speaker 1>in my time. Every week offers a new chance to

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<v Speaker 1>fill that blank slate with hard work toward meaningful goals,

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<v Speaker 1>towards creating new things, and to fill the slate up

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<v Speaker 1>with joy. So as you look forward to the next week,

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<v Speaker 1>and the next month, and the next year, and to

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<v Speaker 1>the coming decades, remember how much of this time is

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<v Speaker 1>a blank slate. It will be filled with something. Eventually,

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<v Speaker 1>all time will pass. But what this time will be

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<v Speaker 1>filled with is still open. It can be shaped, it

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<v Speaker 1>can be changed. Even if you believe that all of

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<v Speaker 1>our days are preordained in some place, we don't yet

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<v Speaker 1>know that script, and so we can still approach time

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<v Speaker 1>as if it were that blank slate. How about we

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<v Speaker 1>all fill it with some ng marvelous in the meantime.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making

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<v Speaker 1>the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to

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