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Speaker 2: You take away the control buttons and then you take

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Speaker 2: how much.

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Speaker 1: What are we just supposed to do? Now? Write everything down? Well,

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Speaker 1: how did our ancestors do it?

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Speaker 1: All the time. Actually, you know they did. They have

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Speaker 2: Many here with clippings, right, yeah, go find some newspapers

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Speaker 2: and then start clipping things out and handing them to me.

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Speaker 1: She's on Amazon right now.

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Speaker 2: We'll have it by tomorrow. So tomorrow's news. Today's news

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Speaker 2: is tomorrow is what we're doing. This hour will get

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Speaker 2: headlines maybe, I mean, I have them here somewhere if

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Speaker 1: Like, I'll just read them to you like this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, good lord, the entertainment reports coming up blogs

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Speaker 2: this hour, stay or go and waiting at the phone.

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Speaker 2: Of course, why did somebody get ghost to what are

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Speaker 1: K machine Gun?

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Speaker 4: Kelly finally responds to those rumors that he dated Sydney

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Speaker 1: That's it, that's the tweet.

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Speaker 2: So they announced that she's going on the podcast. Is

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Speaker 2: what happened last night? But we knew that because we

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Speaker 2: saw the silhouette and then there's an album coming.

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Speaker 1: That's what we learned. Yes, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: I woke up this morning and it was like, I

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Speaker 2: I guess we didn't know a lot of this. We

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Speaker 1: Lot of those. Yeah, okay, I'm learning yeah this morning, and.

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Speaker 2: Then I saw this morning that radio shows were posting

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Speaker 2: I mean I don't know that's still one could have

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Speaker 2: a Tuesday, shall we. A husband is uncomfortable with his

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Speaker 2: next time you get mad at me for pulling stuff

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Speaker 2: Call the people at People okay, and ask him. But

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Speaker 2: sharing every argument that they have, big or small with

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Speaker 2: So he asked if she could keep his private life

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Speaker 2: I was just trying to express how it feels to

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Speaker 2: no matter what you do, you're going to share your perspective.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's very rare.

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Speaker 2: It's very rare that any of my friends call me

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Speaker 2: And that's that's the perspective that I always hear because

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Speaker 2: I'm close with both of them. But the truth is,

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Speaker 2: you're going to tell things from your perspective. You're going

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Speaker 2: They'll never not know those things right. That's right, And

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Speaker 2: it's probably going to change the way that they look

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Speaker 2: at the other person, at least temporarily. So is it fair?

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Speaker 1: Who are you supposed to talk to? Like, who are

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Speaker 1: you supposed to end to? You know what I say,

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Speaker 1: say it the Lord, your mom. I might know what

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Speaker 3: But because I just feel like in a relationship, you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's certain people that will be unforgiving

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Speaker 2: forever no matter what. Yeah, and they're always gonna take

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Speaker 2: but that, But again, then where are you supposed to go,

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Speaker 2: Like if you can't go to your friends, and you

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Speaker 1: Family lady to relate the therapist which one.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes and no, Paully hat GPT is not, you

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Speaker 2: can't go. But it's already been determined that you shouldn't

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Speaker 5: I have nowhere else left to go because I am

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Speaker 5: the girl who.

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Speaker 1: Tells my friends, right.

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Speaker 5: But the thing is like mine is it's lighthearted, right,

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Speaker 5: And I tell Caylen all the time and she's like,

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Speaker 5: you guys roast each other. It's true, like my husband

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Speaker 5: things ever get tough tough like and sometimes they do,

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Speaker 5: I will threaten Hobby like I'm gonna tell your parents, Like.

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Speaker 1: That's just what I do. I'm better call my mom

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Speaker 5: And he told me share it to my face, like

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Speaker 5: if you get our families involved, like this isn't going

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Speaker 5: to be good. Like that's not a threat, it's just

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Speaker 1: I want to go somewhere I don't His mom is

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Speaker 2: It is you're going to her because that will sting

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Speaker 1: I turned into a snitch.

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Speaker 5: I haven't done that in a very long time, a

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Speaker 5: But then I've noticed this is this is the tricky part.

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Speaker 5: And he does this often. He'll turn things and kind

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Speaker 5: and it's like that, like why are you turning that

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Speaker 1: Or like why are you using that? Is that supposed

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Speaker 1: to be like funny? You know what I mean? I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I don't like that. So

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Speaker 1: I don't like one of my friends no more. Kelly says,

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Speaker 1: So she shouldn't be sharing with anybody. Kelly, Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you know, Hi, you're Kelly. You shouldn't be sharing with anyone.

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Speaker 7: You're saying, yes, I believe so from my experience, maybe

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Speaker 7: accept a therapist. It just it's to me, it's like

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Speaker 7: scapegoing and talking about the other person. I can get

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Speaker 7: around to the other person and it just hurts people.

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Speaker 2: I think parents should be excluded. I mean best friends,

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Speaker 2: best friends. I feel like you should be able touch

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Speaker 2: to your best friends, and they should be able to

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Speaker 2: moderate between you know, what you're telling me and then

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Speaker 2: how they act around the other person.

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Speaker 1: I guess I really don't know where you're Where are.

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Speaker 2: You supposed to go a therapist only, Kelly, I gotta

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Speaker 2: go find a therapist now.

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Speaker 7: I actually I can change my mind.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 7: I do change my mind. I do agree. I do

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Speaker 7: from my own personal experience. I do have a best

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Speaker 7: friend to talk to, but I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't talk to many people. Okay, so don't be

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Speaker 1: talking unless it's the best friend, Kelly says.

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Speaker 2: Therapist. That's okay, Kelly, Kelly, you're allowed. You're allowed to

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Speaker 1: You call okay? Sure? I love you, Kelly. I love you, Kelly.

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Speaker 1: I Vanessa, So the sister is the problem. You're saying yes,

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Speaker 2: So when someone tells you something about like like a

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Speaker 1: But maybe you don't care. Hey, Laura, how you doing, Hey,

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Speaker 2: So this this guy's upset because his wife is going

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Speaker 2: But he's asking her to stop going to his sister

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Speaker 13: I think there's got to be a fine line, because

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Speaker 13: Don't want those people close to you to kind of

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Speaker 2: To have vent Yes, because yeah, also, you know, to

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Speaker 1: Took that person back. I thought they were the worst

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Speaker 1: wait a minute, what story was it? Exactly?

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Speaker 2: What did was it with the two strippers or no strippers?

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Speaker 1: Like? What happened? Thank you, Laura, I have a good day.

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Speaker 1: What happened to the strippers? I don't know. I guess

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think this would be this way in my

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Speaker 1: That'll be the narrative.

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Speaker 2: It couldn't possibly be about the strippers again, the same strippers, mom,

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Speaker 2: It was the same strippers it except.

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Speaker 1: With her this time. It will never, ever, ever not

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Speaker 1: be my fault when that happens. Yeah, I'm probably run

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Speaker 2: Nah, that's all I need is one, two, three, well, Jason, four,

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Speaker 2: you want to know in headlines what the Farmers Almanac

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Speaker 2: Do we know if the Farmer's Almanac?

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Speaker 1: Can you look? Can you google?

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Speaker 2: Or ask your friend Chad gbtam how often the Farmer's

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Speaker 2: Almanac is correct? Because I feel like we do this

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Speaker 2: But the breakdown of the Farmers Almanac twenty twenty five

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Speaker 2: northern plains in New England bringes for the coldest stretches

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Speaker 1: It's all here. It's given eighty percent accurate. That's pretty

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Speaker 2: But I feel like every single year it's no worst

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Speaker 1: It is, you guys, snow's coming. Yeah, I said, tell

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Speaker 3: Okay is not here for this? You just body the farmers.

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Speaker 1: And I wrote all of what you just extraordinarily bad.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I believe it.

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Speaker 2: I got two extremely surprising stories for you in one

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Speaker 2: really you might be shocked by both. But AOL still

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Speaker 2: has dial up internet. You can still use dial up

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Speaker 2: internet from America Online AOL. The second part of the

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Speaker 2: for good.

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, you can still do it.

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Speaker 14: We need that here it might be more dependable. Right now,

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Speaker 14: I mean you should go.

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Speaker 2: If you go to my grand freend on here, go

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Speaker 2: to my instant story, you'll see what my day is

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Speaker 2: so far today it's an envelope going in and out,

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Speaker 2: in and out, in and out, in and out, up, down, up, down,

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Speaker 2: The company, which is now part of Yahoo, quietly announced

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Speaker 2: discontinue dial up internet. The move is effective on September thirtieth.

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Speaker 2: What are we going?

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Speaker 1: How are we going to connect to the satellites? Now?

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. Somebody get Greg.

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Speaker 2: On the phone. We're gonna have to come up with

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Speaker 2: something else. Maybe we go back to like tinfoil or something.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Here's another tech story. I'm going to

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Speaker 2: to talk about Taylor Swift because Canon's going to do that.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about Geelan Maxwell because well,

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Speaker 2: customers from and I'm being serious, setting up desktop computers,

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Speaker 1: So people are.

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Speaker 2: Going into Starbucks with a tower and a monitor and

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Speaker 2: a printer and up the shop and.

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Speaker 1: A power strip.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it's bad enough if you sit

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Speaker 2: there all day and you mooch off the internet and

441
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Speaker 2: you don't buy anything, But if I wheel in there

442
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Speaker 2: with a whole you know, I mean we might need

443
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Speaker 2: to do the show from there. Yeah, maybe illow to

444
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Speaker 2: bring our equipment. I can't bring my tower computer with me.

445
00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:48,680
Speaker 2: The squads also can't set up partitions or leave their

446
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Speaker 2: stuff unattended for long periods of time, so we're making

447
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Speaker 2: little cubicles in there too. There are many complaints about

448
00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:56,840
Speaker 2: the people taking up space there, and the company has

449
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Speaker 2: taken action. Laptops will still be allowed, but you cannot

450
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Speaker 2: stay old day. A twenty seven year old woman named

451
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Speaker 2: Wicka has announced her engagement to her AI chatbot fiance Casper,

452
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Speaker 2: after five months of virtual dating. She shared the news

453
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Speaker 2: on a Reddit with the post titled I Said Yes

454
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Speaker 2: and a photo of a blue heart shaped engagement ring.

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Speaker 2: The proposal was set in a picturesque mountain scene. Virtually,

456
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Speaker 2: of course, I mean she was alone because well, say I.

457
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Speaker 2: Wicka insists that she's fully aware of what she's doing,

458
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Speaker 2: knowing exactly what AI is and what a parasocial relationship entails,

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Speaker 2: and says that she's mentally healthy, socially active, and comfortable

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Speaker 2: with her choice.

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Speaker 1: Her bold move has sparked a.

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Speaker 2: Heated conversation online about the evolving boundaries of love and

463
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Speaker 2: connection in the age of AI. Now, Paulina, you you

464
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Speaker 2: rely on AI for a lot of things, captions for

465
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Speaker 2: the show, marital advice, all of it. Can you see

466
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Speaker 2: a world where that would be fulfilling enough for you,

467
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Speaker 2: like where you could just inter you just interact with AI.

468
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Speaker 2: You're just getting you just getting what you back what

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Speaker 2: you give it.

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Speaker 5: No, I need a human connection. I think we all

471
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Speaker 5: do as people. I just think that I become more

472
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Speaker 5: powerful because of chat, GPT and AI. Why because I'm

473
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Speaker 5: able to come up with new ideas that I might

474
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Speaker 5: have never thought of.

475
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Speaker 1: Like it gives you ideas, it gives you the last.

476
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Speaker 2: Big idea the chat gptio. I'd love to know what

477
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Speaker 2: is the last big idea the chat gpt contributed to

478
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Speaker 2: your life.

479
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Speaker 1: I mean, it's like she saves me time.

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Speaker 5: Like I wrote a caption yesterday ry Ill shouting somebody

481
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Speaker 5: out on my Instagram and I was like, hey, this

482
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Speaker 5: is who this person is based on this graphic. I

483
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Speaker 5: send it a graphic. Can you give me a nice

484
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Speaker 5: Instagram caption?

485
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Speaker 2: And came back with shout out to this person? That

486
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Speaker 2: was amazing, that's a great caption.

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Speaker 5: I was thank it was a wonderful caption and I

488
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Speaker 5: didn't have to even think you guys, And the best

489
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Speaker 5: part is I didn't even think of the things to

490
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Speaker 5: say because Chad does it for you, so I could

491
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Speaker 5: focus on other things.

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Speaker 1: She's like an assistant. Okay, yeah, you gotta you gotta

493
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Speaker 1: really be nice to her. I don't know what's wrong

494
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Speaker 1: with thinking. I don't know. Who is tired? Do you

495
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Speaker 1: have time? I'm tired? I don't know. I don't know.

496
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Speaker 1: I like to still think, Yes, I don't want to.

497
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Speaker 1: I've thought enough.

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Speaker 2: I mean, sometimes it would be nice to be heard

499
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Speaker 2: without having to, you know, the cumbersome duty of having

500
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Speaker 2: to listen back Like that, that would be nice sometimes,

501
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 2: Like can you imagine on one side, can you imagine

502
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Speaker 2: a relationship where all you do is like.

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Speaker 4: Take, I would hate that I'm a giver. That would

504
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Speaker 4: make me more dunim jacket.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm a giver too, but I mean in certain ways.

506
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Speaker 2: But I mean sometimes it can be it can be

507
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Speaker 2: mentally exhausting to have to take on other people's problems too,

508
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Speaker 2: Like I'm not here.

509
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Speaker 1: I'm not here to save the world.

510
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Speaker 2: I don't think I can, you know what I mean,

511
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Speaker 2: So I don't think everyone pouring out their stuff to me,

512
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Speaker 2: Like you know what I mean. If you're in a

513
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Speaker 2: relationship and you go home and your job is to

514
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Speaker 2: sort of absorb and and and you know, comfort another person,

515
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Speaker 2: and if someone's going through a really bad time, wouldn't

516
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Speaker 2: be nice to be like why don't you tell it

517
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Speaker 2: to Chad?

518
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Speaker 1: Why don't you go talk to Chad?

519
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Speaker 2: Like nobody being in a relationship is it's a it's

520
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Speaker 2: an emotional obligation. It's and imagine if you imagine if

521
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Speaker 2: you could be in a relationship where you didn't have

522
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Speaker 2: and it's part of it and you have to do it,

523
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Speaker 2: and I understand that. But what I'm saying is, imagine

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Speaker 2: a world where you didn't have to do that, where

525
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Speaker 2: you got the fulfillment of feeling like somebody cared for

526
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Speaker 2: you and somebody who's listening to you, and somebody was

527
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Speaker 2: looking out for you, but you didn't have to do

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Speaker 2: it back. Now, I'm not suggesting that you should do

529
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Speaker 2: that in a in a real relationship, but this is

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Speaker 2: probably what that could be. Is I just I just

531
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Speaker 2: am heard and understood, and this person learns to understand me,

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Speaker 2: and then I don't even have to do anything.

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Speaker 1: That's true after. That'd be great. Yeah, we're kind of

534
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Speaker 1: selling it rock on.

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Speaker 2: I know, it doesn't It doesn't sound all that bad

536
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Speaker 2: because I know people who just take on everybody's stuff

537
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Speaker 2: and then it's like this big.

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Speaker 1: Burden for them. Yeah yeah, and it's like, well, well

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Speaker 1: that's you know, how about how we're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: take on the burden. Yeah, that'd be nice. Give it

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Speaker 1: a chat, yes.

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Speaker 2: You know, and I don't know, the technology is such

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Speaker 2: that maybe the other things could be possible too.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean you know, like what a robot? Right?

545
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Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know that. That's I don't think I

546
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 1: could take you that far? Can I build a man?

547
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,239
Speaker 1: But have you ever let me ask you?

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Speaker 12: No?

549
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: But seriously, have you ever wanted yes?

550
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Speaker 2: Have you ever had a problem in your Okay, we

551
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 2: were just talking earlier about inventing to someone? Have you

552
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 2: ever wanted to vent to someone and then just hang

553
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 2: up the phone and then never have to address it again?

554
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 1: Like will I need to get this off my chest? Hey?

555
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 1: How you doing?

556
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 2: But here it all is and then be okay, that's it,

557
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 2: and then I don't I don't really feel like right

558
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 2: now having to do the thing where you then tell

559
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 2: me what's going on with you? Well, that's what chat

560
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 2: GPT would offer for you. It's therapy, except therapy is expensive.

561
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Speaker 4: I like ask my therapist about herself, like I'm very uncomfortable.

562
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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know. Does she answer? She that's supposed to? Yeah,

563
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 1: I trick her, I get her.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's it's it's like a waste because like

565
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Speaker 4: I shouldn't be doing that.

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Speaker 2: No, And this is just I'd like to finish the

567
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Speaker 2: headlines biggest stories of the day with one of the

568
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Speaker 2: most romantic stories I've ever heard. A guy steals twenty

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Speaker 2: one million dollars worth of lunar rocks from NASA to

570
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Speaker 2: use during set after promising his girlfriend the moon. What Yeah,

571
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 2: he got in trouble for literally promising his girlfriend the moon.

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Speaker 2: NASA intern fad. His name is Thad Fat Roberts. He

573
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Speaker 2: related he stole twenty one million dollars in moon rocks

574
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Speaker 2: from the Johnson Space Center to quote give his girlfriend

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Speaker 2: the moon. Roberts and two accomplices broke into the secure vault,

576
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Speaker 2: took Apollo lunar samples and a Martian meteorite, and then

577
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Speaker 2: scattered the rocks on a hotel bed to have sex

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Speaker 2: on top of them. The group was caught. The group

579
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Speaker 2: was caught in an FBI state. I don't know if

580
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 2: they were all involved, but the samples, once exposed, were

581
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Speaker 2: ruined for research. Roberts is going to serve more than

582
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Speaker 2: six years in prison for this.

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Speaker 1: Apparently, what.

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Speaker 2: Long I mean now, when she said take me to

585
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Speaker 2: the moon, I don't I think she was hoping for

586
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Speaker 2: something else. I don't think she literally wanted to have

587
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Speaker 2: sex on type of rocks. But no, well no, it's

588
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Speaker 2: National Middle Child Day. National Vinyl Record Day's Entertainer Report

589
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Speaker 2: is on the all.

590
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Speaker 1: Of it everything, give me a stitch and lies sometimes?

591
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Speaker 1: Why is my outlook still going in? And it's been

592
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: doing that for days?

593
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Speaker 4: I told Keky like it was it's starting to mentally

594
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,679
Speaker 4: like make me go insane because I feel like like

595
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 4: I'm doing something wrong. And I'm like Kiki and She's like,

596
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Speaker 4: check your cookies.

597
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm over here, like refresh to cookie every browser.

598
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 1: No power down and restart. I'll love honey, You're a

599
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Speaker 1: large company.

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Speaker 15: What are we doing?

601
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Speaker 1: Baby?

602
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Speaker 4: All right, let's move on to something low lighter, shall we.

603
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Speaker 4: Taylor Swift will be the surprise guest on the New

604
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Speaker 4: Heights podcast, hosted by her man Travis Kelce and his

605
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Speaker 4: brother Jason. They posted a teaser yesterday morning of an

606
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Speaker 4: outline of Taylor, which we talked about on the show,

607
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 4: then later a very sweet video of Travis and Taylor

608
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Speaker 4: before they recorded together, and then lastly at twelve twelve Eastern,

609
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Speaker 4: a teaser of Taylor announcing her album The Life of

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Speaker 4: a Showgirl her new album I should say t S

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Speaker 4: twelve with the cover being blurred out, but if you're

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Speaker 4: a swiftye The second you saw that damn orange in

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Speaker 4: the graphic they blurred out.

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Speaker 1: You knew what was coming.

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Speaker 4: She has been teasing this album since night one of

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Speaker 4: the Era's tour.

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Speaker 1: It looked like to me, I thought it was gonna

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Speaker 1: be yeah with that curly long hair what I thought? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you for life. I thought it was going to

620
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Speaker 1: be the New Heights podcast. Just waiting for that not

621
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Speaker 1: guilty verdict that.

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Speaker 9: Day.

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Speaker 1: Don't you don't you put that on me? Don't you

624
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,400
Speaker 1: put that on me? You were talking about Karen Reid.

625
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 4: However, I did just talk about Diddy, So it was

626
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Speaker 4: it was ill timed, you know.

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Speaker 2: But I'm a Karen Reid. I'm a bad girl for life, I.

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Speaker 1: Say you, Karen. Oh dude, no, I know. I was

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Speaker 1: there too. We didn't go Sometimes I wish I knew

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Speaker 1: then what I know now, same same time thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: For this things that I want to dissect this there's

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Speaker 4: the lover House and there's blocks out of it, and

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00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 4: there has been an orange square for literally years, and

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Speaker 4: now we know it is the life of a show Girl.

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00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 4: We don't have a release date, but my little gut

637
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 4: is telling me that the clock on her website ending

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Speaker 4: at twelve twelve, aka the day before her birthday on

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Speaker 4: the thirteenth.

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Speaker 1: Is a clue, okay, on yes, ma'am. Oh, you guys

641
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: don't have the way all lot.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but there's some sort of clue there

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00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 4: because twelve twelve, twelve thirteen, not sure, but the New

644
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 4: Heights episode drops tomorrow night at six or seven, depending

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Speaker 4: on where you are. Very sweet, and boy did she

646
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 4: do a big one for those two. She's like, let

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Speaker 4: me give you the click and.

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Speaker 1: The downloads and the videos. Let me just help you

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Speaker 1: out real quick, your little podcast.

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Speaker 4: In a new interview with Vanity Fair, Jennifer Aniston talked

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Speaker 4: about a whole bunch of stuff, but I have some

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Speaker 4: highlights for you. So first, on that love triangle between herself,

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Speaker 4: Brad Pitt, and Angelina Joe Lee in two thousand and five,

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Speaker 4: she said it with such juicy reads for people, if

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Speaker 4: they didn't have their soap operas, they had their tabloids.

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Speaker 4: It's a shame that it had to happen, but it happened,

657
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 4: and BOYD did I take it personally. She even said

658
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 4: that she and Gwyneth Paltrow, who if you didn't know,

659
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 4: dated bread pit as well say they still gossip about him.

660
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: She said, how can we not, We're girls.

661
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 4: As for her bestie Matthew, Perry said that she and

662
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 4: the Friends cast have been mentally mourning him for a

663
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 4: long time before his passing. She said his long battle

664
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 4: with addiction felt like a slow goodbye. She did reflect

665
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 4: on his death in October of twenty twenty three, saying

666
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 4: it was really painful, but there was solace in knowing

667
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 4: that he's finally free from suffering. She actually texted him

668
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 4: on the day he passed and he seemed happy, healthy

669
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 4: and committed to getting better, which is just heartbreaking. And

670
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 4: then she also talked about how Sandra Bullock talked about

671
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 4: with her that women in Hollywood would were discouraged from

672
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 4: being friends, being told no one wants the ladies to

673
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 4: be friends, which I think is so wild. That was

674
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 4: only fifteen years ago, but it was really ever present

675
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 4: at that time. You know, tabloids would pit women together

676
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 4: who wore it better, like a whole bunch of stuff.

677
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 4: And I guess behind the scenes they were also told

678
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 4: no one wants you guys to be.

679
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: Friends, So I thought that was pretty interesting.

680
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 4: And then lastly, for some reason, Drake installed a payphone

681
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 4: outside of his Canada mansion.

682
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but he.

683
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: I know you could still get a payful in the

684
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 2: same white didn't know you could still dial up to AOL. Right,

685
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 2: is what I'm doing this morning, trying to get the

686
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 2: outlook to work.

687
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 4: Let me know if you can get into your email,

688
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 4: because just again, it's just things we need for work,

689
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 4: you know, like these computers, these these things.

690
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: Oh, don't worry. The one on my phone works fine,

691
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: so they can always get to me. Okay, the one

692
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 2: I need here at in the radio studio that doesn't work,

693
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 2: just don't worry about. And they can feel email me

694
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 2: too in the morning if they want to.

695
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're just trying to do our jobs.

696
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 4: By the way, if you want to elevate or make

697
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 4: it worse your listening experience, type freend Show radio on YouTube.

698
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: You could see my Backstreet Boys shirt. What ha is

699
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: Kiki Gota?

700
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 4: Oh her Social Battery shirt which I love, So do

701
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 4: that on YouTube and we will be live through the parts.

702
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: That we can be live legally, yeah, because we don't

703
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 1: pay licensing for you. We can't afford it.

704
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 2: Paulina Gigi, your daughter two and a half, one and

705
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 2: a half, one and a half.

706
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 1: I can't keep all these interest right.

707
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 2: I got Shelley's kids, I got your kids, I got

708
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 2: my nieces, I got my illegitimate kids. Oh you know,

709
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: I got Kalin's kids aka her sister just turned twenty one.

710
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: That one. I know.

711
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 2: We just talked about it. Yeah, aka her sister. But whatever,

712
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 2: I just I'm trying to keep it all straight. I

713
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 2: got my other friend talking to her yesterday. She was

714
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: offended that I couldn't remember that her kids were months

715
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 2: months apart from Polly and May. I'm like, I can't, guys,

716
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 2: I don't have a spreadsheet. Okay, I'm trying to keep

717
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: it all straight.

718
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: That's a lot.

719
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 2: And then shoe assizes in this room and all the

720
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: other numbers. I got to try and keep organized. I could,

721
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 2: but Gigi, and I'm proud of her because she's she's

722
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: cussing now and she you wrote that she's saying O.

723
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: S oh yeah.

724
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 2: My favorite part of this is that it's appropriately it's

725
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 2: appropriately timed in place, so she knows that, right, that's

726
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. That's why I'm so proud of her,

727
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 2: not that she's cussing, but not only she cussing, but

728
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 2: she's using it appropriately properly, not appropriately, but properly.

729
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: My girl's so smart. But what is the uh? Because

730
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: I want to throw this out there.

731
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 2: I'm sure you guys can come up with things from

732
00:31:56,320 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 2: your kids eight five five five nine three five. What

733
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 2: is the thing that you had to get your kid

734
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 2: to stop saying? Because you know in this case it

735
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 2: was it's os. How does it come up? Like so

736
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 2: she hear she's heard you saying? Or is Hobby to colprit.

737
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 5: No, No, it's me many of times because I just

738
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 5: I just say it and I didn't realize she understands,

739
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 5: like as far as picking up what I'm saying.

740
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: And she just started saying it one day and I

741
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 1: was like, does she just say that?

742
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 5: And Hobby's like clear as day, And then he's getting

743
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 5: all mad at me, and I'm like, well, it's not

744
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 5: my fault, Like I'm just a little badding with a

745
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 5: bad mouth, Like I can't like help her walking around

746
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 5: here just saying things. And then she has like her

747
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 5: like a new kitchen said that I got her and

748
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 5: she's playing whatever the pots and pans and it falls

749
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 5: and she goes, oh, sir, stop and she almost like

750
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 5: slept going up the stairs because I walk with her,

751
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 5: hold her fingers right we're doing one, two or three.

752
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 5: She like couldn't get her little foot up there, so

753
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 5: she like kind of you know, fell to the side

754
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 5: a little bit, like her little body and she goes,

755
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 5: oh s, I'm like sucked.

756
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 2: But the problem is you want to laugh at that

757
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 2: because it's kind of cute and funny and the fact

758
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 2: that she knew to say that, and she learned that

759
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 2: from you, and she's doing it when she's supposed to

760
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 2: do it, you know what I mean.

761
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: I don't mean you're not supposed to do it.

762
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 2: But it's one thing if a kid just says like

763
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 2: I can remember as it like being really little insane words.

764
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: I didn't know what they meant. But like that's that's

765
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: timing right. You know. She's honest, she knows what she's saying,

766
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: doesn't miss a beat. She's so smart, you guys.

767
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 5: But like I don't know how to make her stop

768
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 5: because I'll say, Gigi, don't say that, and she laughs.

769
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Speaker 5: But she also doesn't get it right because like she

770
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 5: doesn't know what that means. Also does she really she

771
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 5: could really stop because I say stop.

772
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: No say it's like an inside word.

773
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 4: I feel like you can tell her, like if I

774
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 4: don't know how you guys feel as parents, but I

775
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 4: think you could just say, like, we don't say that

776
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 4: outside of the house, because I think you might have

777
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 4: lost the battle now that she knows what.

778
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: I feel like you should probably not let her say

779
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 1: in the house either, because I don't know. I believe

780
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: words are just words. I think, just don't say that. Unfortunately,

781
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 1: the rest of the world doesn't think that.

782
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 2: So so she's gonna go to pre K and see

783
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 2: that's right, She's gonna be DRS.

784
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 4: That's like a new parenting thing though, Like people will say,

785
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 4: you can say it at home.

786
00:33:56,560 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 3: They all, if you my little nephews on that video game,

787
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 3: I'm talking on a little Whinny's aunts.

788
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, do y'all hear it? And the parents just

789
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: like listen, you know, because.

790
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 2: I think until like maybe I don't know, like twenty

791
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 2: one or something, I tried not to cuss in front

792
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 2: of my parents, But now now I'm always cussing. I

793
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,720
Speaker 2: don't care, and I feel like I can't as a parent.

794
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 2: Like my parents they had to try to get me

795
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 2: not to cuss like it was like, you know, they

796
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,280
Speaker 2: can't just they can't just these can't.

797
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: Be are just free for all? No, you know what

798
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: I mean? So like I think you got to try

799
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 1: to get her to stop.

800
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Speaker 5: I don't take it so personal, just as like a

801
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 5: bad word. Like again, like Caitlyn said, the words are words.

802
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,919
Speaker 5: I just don't want her saying that to anybody. That's

803
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 5: the problem though, is like she's too young to know.

804
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 5: She's too young to know that she can say it

805
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 5: here and not say it there.

806
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:42,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hard.

807
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: Hey, Terrence, Terrence, what is it your kids start saying this?

808
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 2: You had to stop. It's like where'd you learn that?

809
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 16: Both my kids they like to say what the s.

810
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: Like eleven and five? Okay, a little early for that.

811
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 2: So this is now that Are they saying it when

812
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 2: they're supposed to say it, like when they're exasperated or

813
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 2: are they just saying it?

814
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 16: My daughter is a grown woman in a little girl's body,

815
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 16: so when she drops water, anything breaks something, she's.

816
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 17: Like, what what the here you talking about?

817
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: So so, Terrence, what do you do?

818
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 11: Like you just know that.

819
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 2: You want to laugh, right because it's funny, but like

820
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 2: you probably don't want them doing that at in the wild.

821
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 11: You can't.

822
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 6: I can't, you can't, you can't, Like, how do you

823
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 6: correct something that like you created?

824
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,359
Speaker 1: You created this?

825
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 11: I know that you like what you say.

826
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 2: Daddy, I know, but like if you laugh and then

827
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 2: you you sort of it's like you're sort of enabling it, right,

828
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 2: And then the problem is they go over to grandparents'

829
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 2: house and they go to school and then they get

830
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 2: in trouble for it, and they learned it from you,

831
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 2: and you didn't tell them to stop. So now they're

832
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 2: gonna you know, it's like but you kind of set

833
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 2: them up, not because maybe you don't care, but unfortunately

834
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 2: the world cares.

835
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 16: Man, the world, what the is the least of my work?

836
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 2: That's a good point. Yeah, yeah, yeah, is that where

837
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 2: I headed. I'm gonna go to like an elementary school

838
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 2: and it's gonna be like everyone just dropping f bomb.

839
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: Something rolling you. It's the new wave, and it's the

840
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: new waves. Cursing out teachers, it's a new waves, the

841
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:20,919
Speaker 1: new wave.

842
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 3: These parents are just letting them ride. I used to

843
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 3: have to curse in private, Like.

844
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 1: You know, I don't.

845
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,800
Speaker 2: I am not approved, but I don't think that's a

846
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 2: great idea. Everyone is so sensitive. I don't think that's

847
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 2: a great idea. Thank you, Terrence, have a good day.

848
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 2: Let me see here. My kids started calling their dead

849
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 2: babe because I do. That's kind of funny. Son of

850
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 2: a bee when something fell. He's three.

851
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: When my son was six or seven, he would call

852
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: his sister uh an adult toy that starts with a D.

853
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: I had no clue what it was.

854
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,239
Speaker 4: My sister called a a douche cabab because of me

855
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 4: when she was little, and she got suble for that.

856
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm twenty eight and I still don't cuss

857
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 2: around my mom. Maybe that's a topic in itself. It's like,

858
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 2: what are you as an adult? What are you still

859
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 2: afraid to do?

860
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah.

861
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 2: I used to get my nana, who's like, she was

862
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 2: super Catholic and in her like mid eighties. I used

863
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 2: to get her to cuss and she really didn't want

864
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 2: to do it. I'd be like, Nana, say the F word,

865
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 2: and finally she'd do it, but she'd just kind of

866
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 2: shake when she did it. It was like, doesn't compute,

867
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 2: you know, Like, what would Jesus think of this? I

868
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 2: don't know. I'm sure you let it go. When my

869
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 2: daughter was one she.

870
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: A second.

871
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, basically, it's said the S word. I let my

872
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 2: kids cuss when they were younger, as long as they

873
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 2: were not used towards anyone, like calling siblings the word.

874
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 2: We tell our grandkids don't say that that's a bad word.

875
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 2: We don't scold them because they're repeating what they hear.

876
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 2: We just let them know it's not a good word

877
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 2: to say.

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00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 1: It's good. Yeah, I guess. So there's one about Barney

879
00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: here where the Barney one go.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, and then a bunch of people are

881
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 2: validating the outlook doesn't work so good. Okay, I'd like

882
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 2: to take a cuss word about that, but I'm not

883
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 2: going more.

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Speaker 1: Fred Show next right here.

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Speaker 2: Fred Show, Good Morning one O three five Kiss FM,

886
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Speaker 2: Chicago's number one hit music station. Jason's giving away his car.

887
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: He's giving away Uh yeah, yeah, we don't want you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: I'm actual him cool today. That's good.

890
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: That might be the first prize in history that someone's like, actually, no,

891
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 2: I just I'm not going to come claim that. Talk

892
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 2: back for tickets today. I know I know what tomorrow is.

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Speaker 2: Tomorrow is a sold out State McCray Today. Nelly and

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Speaker 2: joh Rule. In fact, a couple of chances to win.

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Speaker 2: Nelly and joh Rule tickets got North Coast Music Festival

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Speaker 2: tickets see Geek Stadium to see Cascade and Zed and

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Speaker 2: Moore will hook you up with that, and Jonas Brothers

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Speaker 2: tickets as well as Maren Morris at Ravinia will hook

899
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 2: you up with that. And we want to take care

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00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 2: of first responders, so starting on Friday with Amy with

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Speaker 2: there at our friend one one hundred truck break and

902
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 2: you know you got the big bag of money and

903
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 2: we're always dipping in there to hook up deserving people.

904
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: Go to one O three five kiss fm dot com.

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Speaker 2: Nominate a first responder doing amazing things in your community.

906
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Speaker 2: Could be a family member or a friend, and we

907
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 2: could be calling them live on Friday morning and hooking

908
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 2: them up with one thousand bucks because you know, there's

909
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 2: nothing more important in our community than our first responders

910
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 2: and who are keeping us safe. I'm talking about police, fire, EMT, nurses,

911
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 2: all the people who are there to help us when

912
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Speaker 2: we're in need. And you know we left teachers around

913
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 2: here too, but this is all about first responders. One

914
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 2: O three five kiss fm dot com to nominate someone

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00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 2: and it's never just a thousand bucks.

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00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 1: That's what it's supposed to be. But you know how

917
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 1: Amy does.

918
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,280
Speaker 2: It's like, ah, you know, here's eighteen gazillion dollars enjoy

919
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 2: like you can retire now, it's fine morning.

920
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: You got to recharge your crystals.

921
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 2: You recharge your no wonderrect My crystals have been empty

922
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 2: for my whole life.

923
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 1: I never recharge you.

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00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 18: Come on.

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Speaker 1: Fred's show is on. It's Tuesday. Good morning, August twelfth.

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Speaker 1: Red Show is here. Hi Kaitlin, good morning, Hi Jason

927
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Speaker 1: brow Hill, Hi Kiki, Good morning.

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00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 2: Showby Shelley one thousand and fifty bucks. In the showdown

929
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Speaker 2: in about twenty five minutes. You can win if you

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Speaker 2: could beat her in five questions. Snapper eighteen game win streak,

931
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Speaker 2: Cander lost ever seventy bet. That means you're on the

932
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Speaker 2: phone and the text eight five five five nine three five.

933
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Speaker 2: We'll get to blogs in just a second, our audio journal,

934
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:26,760
Speaker 2: stay or go, debate some relationship drama and the Entertainment

935
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Speaker 2: Report this hour too. What's in there?

936
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Speaker 4: K I will tell you who just paid the entirety

937
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 4: of their child's child support for a baby so up

938
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Speaker 4: until eighteen years.

939
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Speaker 1: Old, it's just like, here's the money, here's the money.

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00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: You can do that repaid and get the heck out

941
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: of here. I guess we got money like that.

942
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Speaker 12: Tell the nut.

943
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they scit.

944
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Speaker 11: Tell me.

945
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show that

946
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: is like I don't want anything to do with you

947
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 1: or this kid. Here you go.

948
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not it's not giving nice and the mom

949
00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 4: has some some serious concerns and I understand why.

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Speaker 1: Man like, yeah, dad said no, here's here's a bunch

951
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: of money. But no.

952
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 2: They gave them money because a lot of dads say no,

953
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 2: they don't get the money.

954
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: So there's that like running right right right? Is he

955
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 1: not evade child support? I thought we were talking about personally.

956
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:23,879
Speaker 1: Oh Yeaherty, I'm not the datty. Oh no, you didn't

957
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 1: pay your child support. Well I haven't paid any child supports.

958
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: I don't have any kids.

959
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, I haven't like running in our diaries

960
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 2: except we say them alive. We call them blogs. Nobody

961
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 2: call blowing glist. You take a blog, go.

962
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: Okay, dear blog.

963
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 3: Speaking of paying for things, I have come to the

964
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:52,280
Speaker 3: point of my life where I am experiencing extreme sticker shock, okay,

965
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 3: And I don't appreciate how we just go through life

966
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 3: and allow these things to happen. So I went to

967
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 3: six Flags the other day, which I had no business

968
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 3: being there, okay, talk about a jet to holiday.

969
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 1: Woo, not a big girl sport anyway.

970
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 3: So you know, but the pop, you know, like I

971
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 3: wanted to get some pop soda whatever you want to

972
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Speaker 3: call it. And it was seven dollars for a twenty

973
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 3: ounce of coca cola okay, And everybody was in there

974
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 3: just swiping and tapping their iPhones like this was normal.

975
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 3: That's not normal, okay. First of all, Then yesterday I

976
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 3: went to get an oil change. Every time I go

977
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Speaker 3: get a oil change or something, but it was over

978
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Speaker 3: one hundred dollars.

979
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: And I know, wait a minute, but did you go

980
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: for all the stuff?

981
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 11: What?

982
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 2: No, did they tell you all the stuff that all

983
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 2: your capacitor is Oh no, oh my gosh, blink or

984
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 2: fluid completely empty. I'm not even sure how you operated

985
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 2: like this.

986
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Speaker 1: You know, I don't go for that.

987
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 3: You know, they come over there with that little white

988
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 3: sheet of paper with all those things, tell them take

989
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 3: that right back.

990
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: But that's my point. That's that's my point.

991
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 3: There was I didn't do anything on the list, and

992
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 3: it was it was still one hundred dollars, and we

993
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 3: all sit around and act like this is normal. No,

994
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 3: when I used to go get my nails done, friend,

995
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 3: it was twenty five dollars. Sure was, I go get

996
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 3: a full set of nails one hundred dollars.

997
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: You have become that person. Now we just walk around

998
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 1: and act like this is normal. You become that person.

999
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 3: We need to start like having full meltdown, sticker shock faith.

1000
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,320
Speaker 3: Like the next time somebody tell me something that's overpriced,

1001
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 3: I'm gonna just faint right there, like I can't believe

1002
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 3: it and fall out because this.

1003
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 2: Well, don't do that, because the hospital bill won't make

1004
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 2: you happy either there you go, or the copey or

1005
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 2: the medicine or the ambulance tried, so noh, yeah, you

1006
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: don't want that.

1007
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: Don't faint, bro, This is insane.

1008
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 3: And it's just like people just go up on their

1009
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,359
Speaker 3: prices and we all we just we just pay it.

1010
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: Nobody react.

1011
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,439
Speaker 2: I want to know where all the money is, hey,

1012
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 2: because like every time I look at to your point,

1013
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 2: every time I like go on vacation or I take

1014
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 2: a trip, and I'm like this place is nice. I

1015
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 2: wonder how much of condo would be here just for

1016
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 2: just for fun, like how much it costs live here?

1017
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 2: And I look it up and I'm like eight million

1018
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 2: dollars for an apartment, you know, or like next year

1019
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:07,919
Speaker 2: I want to go on a trip and I'm looking

1020
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 2: at hotels and I'm like, huh huh, like who has somebody?

1021
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 2: I get that things are more expensive, but who's buying

1022
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 2: it right? Or like to get on you know, just

1023
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 2: crappy airline, you know whatever, crabby airline. I'm not going

1024
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 2: to pick it any one of them, but where they

1025
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 2: don't give you anything and nothing crazy happens, and you

1026
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 2: know what, you gotta get on it whatever. And that's

1027
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 2: seven hundred bucks to go to, you know, Saint Louis.

1028
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,919
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I've always wanted to go to Saint Louis,

1029
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 2: but not for seven hundred bucks. Yeah, I mean, I

1030
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 2: just I don't know who has the money to do

1031
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 2: all this stuff. So like, at what point does everybody

1032
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 2: stand up and go, we can't afford any of this,

1033
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 2: We're not doing it anymore, none of it. And then

1034
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 2: everything has to come down in price exactly. So I'm

1035
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 2: ready to cool.

1036
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: Come on, I'm ready to start it. Lead the charge. Okay,

1037
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 1: where are we going? I don't know.

1038
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 2: I still have no idea how you spent one hundred

1039
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 2: bucks in the oil change, though I think I think

1040
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 2: you got bamboozom.

1041
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: No way they put they put the diamond oil in. Well,

1042
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: they put the air in. My tire was the next

1043
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: forty five dollars.

1044
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,439
Speaker 2: Somehow, somehow you drove your card of the oil change,

1045
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 2: but you only had three tires somehow. Oh yeah, don't

1046
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 2: know what happened to the fourth tire. You gonna have

1047
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 2: to buy another way. I don't know where it went.

1048
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so how much are you I'll paying for oil change? Nothing?

1049
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 1: Why do you continually get rip of it? Just so

1050
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 1: happens that a guy in here with a man who

1051
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 1: owns a garage that operates, you know, the work cars.

1052
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: It would be crazy for you to go to that

1053
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: place where I'm done. It's so fat on with me.

1054
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: I'm done, I'm done selling. You're paid one hundred dollars

1055
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 1: for an oil change. Can you live near him? My

1056
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: mechanic owns the garage, the closest one in this room.

1057
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: My head, Jason, I never want to bother. That's the

1058
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: and that's another. Jason, I can't believe it.

1059
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 2: Editing, I took I took my Pinto I to the dealership,

1060
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 2: to the Pinto dealership, and they wanted to replace eighty

1061
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 2: four spark plugs.

1062
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 1: And I did it. It was four thousand dollars. I

1063
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: did it. Can you believe it? Can you believe that?

1064
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 2: Jason?

1065
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 1: If only there was someone in here who could help

1066
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,359
Speaker 1: me with it. Come gosh, it's so good. It's all

1067
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: hard to find a good mechanic. Also, our Bella went

1068
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,319
Speaker 1: to another mechanic her window fit. I don't know one's

1069
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 1: problem is with the gay rag in here.

1070
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 19: But.

1071
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: We do payment plans and finance to come there. You

1072
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: don't have to come there, Yes, I do need to

1073
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: come here. He stay or go?

1074
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 2: Okay, you guys, something going on? You want us to

1075
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 2: talk about you, Well, He'll be on the phone for

1076
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 2: part of it, so it's not all behind your back.

1077
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 2: You can hit us up on all the different social

1078
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,879
Speaker 2: search for the Fred Show and Fred Show Radio dot com.

1079
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 2: I gotta pull out my phone because you know my

1080
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 2: outlook doesn't work.

1081
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: Why would it? Hey, Kelsey, how you doing.

1082
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 20: About yourself?

1083
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: Kelsey doing all right, welcome to the program. Here.

1084
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 2: So you have been in a relationship for a year

1085
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 2: and a half and it says here that you think

1086
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 2: your boyfriend's wonderful. Okay, great, well thanks for calling. I mean,

1087
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 2: what are we talking about here? Your boyfriend's wonderful, you're

1088
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,839
Speaker 2: and a half, you know, a nice run. So what's

1089
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:02,280
Speaker 2: the issue?

1090
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:04,360
Speaker 15: Okay?

1091
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 20: So I'm going to say it again. He's really great.

1092
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 20: He's very loving, very helpful around the house.

1093
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 1: Is a big butt coming, is a big butt coming?

1094
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:15,919
Speaker 20: Yeah?

1095
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: He gets angry, Okay, Like I mean, you.

1096
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 2: Know his sports seems losing angry or you know his

1097
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, he stuffed his toe angry, or you

1098
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 2: ran out of fish ticks angry?

1099
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: You know? Like what kind of angry are you talking

1100
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 1: about here?

1101
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 20: So I would definitely say he has anger issues. He yells,

1102
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 20: he's punched a ball or two. Sometimes he'll throw things

1103
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 20: and it's a lot. And it's not like he's ever

1104
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,399
Speaker 20: hit me or anything, like I don't think he would

1105
00:47:56,400 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 20: ever do that, But it's just kind of terrifying to

1106
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 20: be around him.

1107
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: Is he mad at you or is he mad about

1108
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: other things? Or it does it matter?

1109
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 20: It doesn't matter. It's just the way that he expresses

1110
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 20: whatever he's feeling is not healthy.

1111
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: It's scary, okay, And do you feel in danger?

1112
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:19,399
Speaker 2: I mean you say that you don't think he would

1113
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 2: hit you, but like, do you feel do you feel

1114
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 2: at risk by this behavior? Or is it just scary

1115
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,799
Speaker 2: because of how quickly it ramps up and the way

1116
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 2: that he's sort of you know, it's communicated, I guess

1117
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 2: or manifest I.

1118
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 20: Yeah, I don't feel like I'm in danger, but it's

1119
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 20: it's just stressful having to witness it and be around it.

1120
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 20: And that's just how he is when he's upset.

1121
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 2: And has it always been this way the whole year

1122
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 2: and a half or is this something that you're only

1123
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 2: now seeing Maybe he was able to sort of keep

1124
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 2: it under.

1125
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 1: Wraps for a while.

1126
00:48:55,800 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 20: Well, I mean I would say like the first few months,

1127
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 20: like I hadn't really seen that side of him, But

1128
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 20: you know, a few months in that's when you start to.

1129
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 2: See, right, you're not really dating the real person for

1130
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 2: about six months, I've found resentative. Yeah, if you make

1131
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 2: it that far, Yeah, you're only seeing You're seeing what

1132
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 2: they want you to see. So this is more likely

1133
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 2: what you would be dealing with if you were with

1134
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 2: him forever, a lot of text already coming in. You

1135
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: got to you gotta run, like you gotta go the

1136
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 2: other way, Like this is a huge red flag. Now

1137
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 2: do you have any idea where this is coming from?

1138
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: Like?

1139
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 2: Is it where this why it ramps up so quickly?

1140
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 2: I mean, is it like is it? Do you feel

1141
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 2: like he's really stressed out? Do you feel like it's

1142
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 2: some sort of childhood trauma. Do you think it's anxiety

1143
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 2: or I mean, you know, is this something that a

1144
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 2: medical professional could address? Is he willing to go to therapy?

1145
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 2: I mean, have you talked about any of this with him?

1146
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 2: Have you said, hey, I watched you go from zero

1147
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 2: to one hundred so quickly and it really concerns me.

1148
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 2: Or does that just cause him to go zero.

1149
00:49:59,080 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: To one hundred.

1150
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 20: I'm I'm a little scared to talk to him about it,

1151
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 20: And that's a problem.

1152
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 3: Flak grand flag. Yeah, if she's scared, Yeah.

1153
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 2: Because I don't think anything's gonna change unless you communicate

1154
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 2: to him that you are concerned about it. And if

1155
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 2: you already feel trepidation about sharing it with him or

1156
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 2: sharing your thoughts with him, then that's the problem. Because

1157
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 2: how is it ever going to be resolved. Do you

1158
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 2: guys live together.

1159
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: We don't, not yet. Huh.

1160
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 2: But you say he's wonderful. I mean, so every other

1161
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 2: aspect of the relationship you're happy with, except when he

1162
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 2: gets angry, he gets really angry.

1163
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 20: Yeah, huh yeah, And that's what's that's what's difficult here,

1164
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 20: is he's actually really wonderful. It's just he's got a

1165
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 20: short fuse and his emotional regulation just isn't good when

1166
00:50:58,920 --> 00:50:59,399
Speaker 20: he's mad.

1167
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1168
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 2: I mean, it's overwhelming on the text, like it's blowing

1169
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 2: up eight five, five, five, nine, one one three five,

1170
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 2: you can call it text the same number. It's it's

1171
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 2: overwhelming that you have to move on. And I know

1172
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 2: that's easy for other people to say. Unfortunately, it sounds

1173
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 2: like a lot of people have lived through this before, though,

1174
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 2: and so they're they're they're coming, you know, they're they're

1175
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 2: talking to you, or they're they're giving this advice from

1176
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 2: their perspective and and maybe some of these people have

1177
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,879
Speaker 2: seen it through a little bit longer and it's been bad.

1178
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 7: Uh.

1179
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 2: This is above my pay grade, though, which is why

1180
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 2: I think we have a bunch of strangers tell you

1181
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 2: what to do. Eight five, five, five, nine one three five. Fortunately,

1182
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 2: this is not one that I've encountered before. I've encountered

1183
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 2: people that drink way too much and then their behavior

1184
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 2: becomes extremely erratic and dangerous, and that's a problem. But

1185
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 2: I've never encountered anybody who gets just just hair pin

1186
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 2: trigger angry. But if you can't talk to him about it,

1187
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 2: I guess that's the first sign that. I mean, how

1188
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 2: do you expect it to be any different if you

1189
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 2: don't feel comfortable talking to him about it and and

1190
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 2: thus coming up with some kind of a resolution, him

1191
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 2: getting some kind of help. I mean, I guess I

1192
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 2: don't know what. I don't know what to tell you.

1193
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 2: If you can't talk to him about it like that

1194
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 2: to me says everything.

1195
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 13: M h.

1196
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 20: I mean I could try to talk to him, I

1197
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 20: just I haven't yet.

1198
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: Hmmm. I'm gonna take some phone calls on this, Kelsey.

1199
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 2: I want you to listen, because I do think that

1200
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,359
Speaker 2: a lot of people out there, you know, something about

1201
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 2: our show is when we talk about stuff, and people

1202
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:30,319
Speaker 2: can call from their perspectives and a lot of people

1203
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 2: have lived this before. So maybe someone will say something

1204
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 2: that's helpful to you or that inspires you to know what.

1205
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: To do next. But I wish you the best, you know,

1206
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 1: be safe. Please Okay, yeah, thank you, thank you, thank you.

1207
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: Have a good day.

1208
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, people are saying, and I do feel like she's

1209
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 2: she's looking for validation to leave.

1210
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 1: That's what I do.

1211
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 2: I think she's looking for someone to tell her to leave.

1212
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:52,840
Speaker 2: And I agree with that. A bunch of texts like that,

1213
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 2: Hey Jessica, good morning.

1214
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 10: Good morning, how are you?

1215
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 2: And I was kind of serious to start the day.

1216
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 2: But nonetheless, I think people out there may have lived

1217
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 2: this before and might have some perspective to offer. This

1218
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 2: woman is concerned because she's been with a guy for

1219
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 2: a year and a half and he said she says

1220
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 2: he's a great guy. Maybe she's saying next to it

1221
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 2: doesn't get mad, but she says he's a great guy,

1222
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 2: except he has a temper and it hasn't really necessarily

1223
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 2: come out at her, but it comes out, you know,

1224
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 2: punching walls and you know, really sort of over the top,

1225
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 2: and it's scary.

1226
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 1: What do you think.

1227
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 10: Well, I'm kind of on the other end of this.

1228
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:31,760
Speaker 10: I married this person. We dated for about four years,

1229
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 10: and unfortunately I had unknown resolved unresolved childhood traumas, and

1230
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 10: I thought this was normal, and we got married, we

1231
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:47,320
Speaker 10: have some kids, and I finally threw my therapist have

1232
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 10: taken a stand and said, I'm not doing this anymore.

1233
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 10: You have to go to therapy, you have to be

1234
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 10: on medication. It has gotten better, but he still has

1235
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 10: never said this is a problem. Like he always says

1236
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 10: I'm working on myself. He's never really come out and

1237
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 10: said that, you know, I have this problem. I have

1238
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 10: anger issues of fatality issues, like it's really hard. It's

1239
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 10: really hard. So if I could go back in time,

1240
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 10: sad to say, I love my children, but I would

1241
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 10: not have played with it.

1242
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:18,400
Speaker 2: It's such an interesting thing, Jessica, because I guess I

1243
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 2: never really understood this until recently, and I've I've been

1244
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 2: alive for a while. But you are saying that you

1245
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 2: grew up seeing this or experiencing this, and so as

1246
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,320
Speaker 2: obvious as it sounds, you know, you just thought that

1247
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 2: was how everybody was, and at some point what you

1248
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,760
Speaker 2: had an awakening, like you just said, wait a minute,

1249
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 2: this isn't how, this is not how every relationship is.

1250
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 2: It was modeled for you, and so now it's like,

1251
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:43,839
Speaker 2: no hold on, I don't want to live this way?

1252
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 2: Is that what happened? How did you come to that

1253
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 2: spot where you realize, Okay, no, this isn't how it's

1254
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 2: supposed to be.

1255
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 10: Well, I started going to therapy and I explained all

1256
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 10: my situations to my therapist and she's and me. I've

1257
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:00,879
Speaker 10: been with her for probably about four years now, I've

1258
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 10: been married for seventeen. But yeah, she's just like, this

1259
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,400
Speaker 10: is not normal, and she kind of, you know, let

1260
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 10: me see that it's not okay that he yells at

1261
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 10: loud and throws things and you know, I've actually had

1262
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 10: to call the police. And I feel like that that

1263
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:19,399
Speaker 10: was kind of like an awaking needs for him, Like, Okay,

1264
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 10: she's not dealing with this anymore. This is not going

1265
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 10: to be okay, Like I have to change. And my

1266
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 10: kids are now experiencing, you know, problems because they witnessed this,

1267
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 10: and so we're having to go through therapy with them

1268
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 10: and you know, unresolved trauma. And I mean it's big,

1269
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 10: like she, like I said, if I could go back

1270
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 10: in time, I wouldn't. I would have left him.

1271
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 2: Do you see a world Jessica where he I mean,

1272
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 2: he recognizes it and actually makes big steps towards changing it,

1273
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:48,319
Speaker 2: or do you think it's a lost cause.

1274
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 10: Well, my therapist says, I still have hope. So if

1275
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 10: I still have hope, then there's you know, I shouldn't

1276
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:59,399
Speaker 10: leave yet He's actively working on it, and he has

1277
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 10: gotten that, And I know that people in a piece

1278
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 10: of situations often say, you know, like, oh, but he's

1279
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 10: gotten so much better since then, But he has. And

1280
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 10: so I'm trying to focus on that. And I've laid

1281
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 10: out to him what I need in this marriage for

1282
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 10: it to work. And and we're actually we have a

1283
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 10: couple of therapy tomorrow, so I'm going to present him

1284
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 10: with that.

1285
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 2: But that takes what you're doing, Jessa, takes a lot

1286
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 2: of courage. Because everyone on here saying run, and I

1287
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 2: know why they're saying that, because it's dangerous. There could

1288
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 2: be dangerous. It sounds like you're fighting for it and

1289
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 2: you know, giving this gun opportunity to change and uh,

1290
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 2: and that takes a lot of courage.

1291
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:32,320
Speaker 1: So good for you.

1292
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 10: Thanks, Thanks, I appreciate it.

1293
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:36,320
Speaker 1: You have a good day, Jessica.

1294
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 10: Thank you.

1295
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:39,439
Speaker 1: It's amazing how like you can.

1296
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 2: Not to make it about me, but like you you

1297
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 2: can experience something growing up you can know what it was,

1298
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 2: you can and then and then you can be triggered

1299
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,360
Speaker 2: by that behavior all your life until one day you

1300
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 2: just say, and it happened for me recently.

1301
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 1: It's like wait a minute, no, like no, I'm not,

1302
00:56:57,080 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: you're not You're not going to do that.

1303
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 2: And then you you connect it with thing that happened,

1304
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 2: you know, early on in your life, and you're like, well,

1305
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 2: that's why that triggers me. But now I'm taking a

1306
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,320
Speaker 2: stand like no, not no, like I'm not going to

1307
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 2: be treated that way by anybody. And unfortunately sometimes it

1308
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 2: takes over correction to then come to the place where

1309
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:14,240
Speaker 2: you just avoid it entirely.

1310
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: But that that makes me sad.

1311
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 2: It makes me sad that this woman got herself into

1312
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 2: a marriage thinking this is this is how it, this

1313
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 2: is just how it is right because it's what she

1314
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 2: saw it and it doesn't have to be that way.

1315
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: Hey Becky, good morning, good morning. How are you doing?

1316
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 2: I beg you Okay, So you're not a total random

1317
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 2: you are a therapist. You know, we did not check

1318
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 2: your licensure, but we'll.

1319
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 5: Go with it.

1320
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 1: You hear this, What do you think.

1321
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 6: If a person doesn't have emotional regulation, which is really

1322
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 6: control of their emotions. Right now, the relationship as relationship

1323
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 6: culch I will tell her he's only going to get

1324
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 6: to know you. He's going to become familiar which you.

1325
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 6: Once he becomes familiar with you, he's going to feel

1326
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 6: comfortable lashing out and you and you don't know where

1327
00:57:59,920 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 6: that lash is going to go to.

1328
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 12: Him, definitely if he's behaving like that, asis well, adverse

1329
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 12: childhood traumas have come in those experiences. So if he

1330
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 12: doesn't have control of it, you have an individual with

1331
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 12: unmanagemental health issues.

1332
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 6: They may manage it. What a faz with alcohol?

1333
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,959
Speaker 1: You never know in your experience, Becky, for your life.

1334
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so she says, go now in your experience, though,

1335
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 2: have you ever seen where people can be rehabilitated from this?

1336
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 2: Like if the guy is really opened, if he accepts

1337
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 2: the fact that this is really happening and he wants

1338
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 2: to save his family, and he goes to the right

1339
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 2: person and he leans into the process. I mean, does

1340
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:41,920
Speaker 2: it have to be a go.

1341
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 6: No, it doesn't have to be a goal. But she's

1342
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:52,560
Speaker 6: afraid to address him, and he's he hasn't taken responsibility

1343
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 6: for his actions, because if he took responsibility for his actions,

1344
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:58,960
Speaker 6: you think it is when you look at an individual

1345
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 6: you care about and you see how you've wounded them,

1346
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 6: or you see how you've brought them to fear, you

1347
00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:10,919
Speaker 6: try to comfort them in that, whatever means it takes,

1348
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 6: you would try to you know what, I'm going to

1349
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 6: talk to somebody about this. You should be your own advocate.

1350
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, that's not happening, Becky. Thank you. Have

1351
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: a good day, you too. Yeah.

1352
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 2: I mean I'm not naive to the fact this is

1353
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 2: happening a lot, but my god is the text is

1354
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 2: blowing up with people who, unfortunately can relate to this

1355
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 2: very scenario. Hey Monica, Hi, good morning, Hi Monica.

1356
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1357
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 2: So, if you're just joining, and I know you're not,

1358
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 2: but if you're just tuning in stare go, this woman

1359
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 2: you know, loves your boyfriend, says he's a great guy,

1360
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 2: but things go zero to sixty with the anger. He

1361
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 2: gets very angry, very quickly, and well it's not directed

1362
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 2: at her yet it concerns her, but she's not willing

1363
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 2: to talk to him about it, and she's wondering if

1364
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 2: she needs to get out. It sounds like if she's

1365
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 2: not willing to talk about it, then there's nothing left

1366
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 2: to talk about.

1367
00:59:57,520 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 1: Like she's got to go.

1368
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 10: Yeah, she has to absolutely go.

1369
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 19: And as out listening, the fact that she says that

1370
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 19: I don't think he'll hit me, Oh, she's not certain.

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01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,919
Speaker 19: I've been married with my husband for over eighteen years

1372
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:13,919
Speaker 19: and I can say he will not hit me. There's

1373
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 19: a difference between being angry simply just you know, the

1374
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 19: temple of angry. Oh you know, I'm hungry or I've

1375
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 19: lost the game. But the fact that she cannot say

1376
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 19: he won't hit me, and even listening to her talks,

1377
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 19: she sounds very scared.

1378
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 6: To get the words out.

1379
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:32,440
Speaker 10: All the red flags are there.

1380
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 13: She has to go.

1381
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 10: She's setting herself up for a lifetime a.

1382
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 19: Failure, and once she brings kids into the mix, it's

1383
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 19: going to be even harder to leave.

1384
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 10: So I hope that she's listening, but she needs to go,

1385
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 10: needs to go.

1386
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 1: Have a good day.

1387
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 13: Welcome, so thank you.

1388
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 2: I think it sometimes gets you in new a value

1389
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 2: proposition too. Some people think that they just don't they

1390
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 2: don't deserve to have it all. And I'm not sure

1391
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:57,360
Speaker 2: if that's what she's thinking, but you know, for some

1392
01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 2: people it's well, they just stay in it because it's like, well,

1393
01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 2: you know, he's nice most of the time.

1394
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, you make excuse excuses, and you see potential and

1395
01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 3: you and when it's good, it's probably really good, you

1396
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 3: know what I mean.

1397
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 1: Like when they make up, it probably feels great, but

1398
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 1: then it happens again. It's a cycle. Yeah, maya, Hi, Hi,

1399
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 1: good morning, Hey, good morning. Stay or go? What do

1400
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 1: you think when you hear this, it's kind of overwhelming today, Yeah,

1401
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:21,840
Speaker 1: she needs to.

1402
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 13: Go, definitely.

1403
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 15: I sadly was in a similar situation and he was

1404
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 15: throwing things and screaming on stop until one day he

1405
01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 15: drew something towards me and smashed my face.

1406
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, and he said.

1407
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 15: He would never hit me, he would never do anything

1408
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 15: like that, but one day it happened.

1409
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 10: He was so remorseful.

1410
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,560
Speaker 13: I'm so sorry. But you know what, I walked away

1411
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 13: good thing.

1412
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, a lot of strength and I'm sorry it

1413
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 2: came to that. But so for you, when you hear this,

1414
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 2: it's well, it's not happening yet, but you know we're

1415
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,080
Speaker 2: on the trajectory. It's escalating, and so you hear this

1416
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 2: and you think, well, you know, we're certainly headed in

1417
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 2: the wrong direction. As far as he may not. He

1418
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 2: may say that, or you may feel that now, but

1419
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 2: it's but since they've Matt, it's gotten so much worse.

1420
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 1: So it's possible that it turns on her.

1421
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 13: See.

1422
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 15: The scary thing about this is that God Forbada turns

1423
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 15: on her and then when she walks away like myself, now,

1424
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 15: if I hear a man yelling or loud noises or

1425
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 15: anything smashing, I jump.

1426
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 13: And I was in therapy for three years because of him.

1427
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 15: I'm much better now, but I still get triggered.

1428
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can imagine. Yeah, that's stuff that Steph Lingers. Yeah,

1429
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 1: thank you, Maya, Thanks for sharing. Have a good day.

1430
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 15: Thank you you too.

1431
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 1: All Right, I was gonna move on. I got time

1432
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 1: for one more though. Albert, good morning, Good morning. How

1433
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 1: you guys doing that all the time?

1434
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 2: And this guy kind of heavy, But I maybe it's

1435
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 2: something that people need to hear because it obviously resonates

1436
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 2: with people. But you are calling because you were this

1437
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:53,479
Speaker 2: guy in some ways. I'm not saying this guy because

1438
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:54,800
Speaker 2: I don't know what you were and I don't know

1439
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 2: what he is, but but you were the angry guy.

1440
01:02:58,040 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 18: Yes, so.

1441
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:05,040
Speaker 16: Childhood trauma, all of that aside, there were issues in

1442
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 16: our marriage and I became very angry and hateful and

1443
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 16: verbally would lash out and things like that. Unfortunately, my

1444
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 16: kids also saw me acting like that, and I knew

1445
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:21,440
Speaker 16: I needed to get better. I knew I wanted to

1446
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 16: be better, but I was just in my own little

1447
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 16: world with that hate and anger for so long that

1448
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:33,880
Speaker 16: that was my normal. And it took for my ex

1449
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 16: wife to actually go through with the whole divorce process

1450
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 16: for me to you know, hit rock bottom and realize, hey,

1451
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 16: I need to change. I need to you know, work

1452
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 16: on myself and get rid of this anger that's built up.

1453
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 16: So I'm in a much better place now. But and

1454
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 16: I'm not trying to victim blame or anything like that,

1455
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 16: but I feel now that I can think clearly about

1456
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:00,560
Speaker 16: how I behaved and how my anger was and what

1457
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 16: I put my ex and the kids through. I'm a

1458
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 16: little ashamed that, you know, my ex stayed with me

1459
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,959
Speaker 16: for as long as she did, because I kind of hope,

1460
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 16: you know, she would have left that situation before it

1461
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 16: got to that point.

1462
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 2: I hear you saying that you're accepting your behavior, and

1463
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 2: you look back and think, how on earth would someone

1464
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 2: stay with me through that, which is something you weren't

1465
01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 2: able to see at the time.

1466
01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 16: Correct.

1467
01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so here's here's the guy in the situation.

1468
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 11: Go.

1469
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's selling this woman to go from his perspective.

1470
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 3: Mact that so much because I do to relationships say

1471
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 3: I'm going to stay for the kids.

1472
01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to stay and work it out for the kids.

1473
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 3: If you are in an abusive relationship, the best thing

1474
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 3: you can do for your kids is to leave.

1475
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. And if the.

1476
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 4: Abuse can be emotional and it can be burner, it

1477
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,280
Speaker 4: doesn't have to be physical.

1478
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 10: Yep.

1479
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 2: I appreciate you calling, man, because you know, we really

1480
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 2: we had only heard from you from the other side.

1481
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 2: So and the fact that you can say that now

1482
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 2: and you could admit that you were that person, and

1483
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 2: I appreciate that valuable.

1484
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 1: Have a good day, man, Yeah, I have a good one.

1485
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 9: Thank you.

1486
01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:04,439
Speaker 1: And then we did get a text it to Taylor

1487
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:05,439
Speaker 1: Swift announced an album.

1488
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 2: So just so you know, did you guys know Taylor

1489
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 2: Swift announced very heavy, very heavy topic. But Taylor Swift

1490
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 2: announce an album. Calon's Entertainment Report, he's on.

1491
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 1: The Bread Show.

1492
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 4: We now know the cause of death for Kelly Clarkson's

1493
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 4: ex husband, Brandon Blackstock, also a talent manager and former

1494
01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 4: stepson of Ruba McIntyre died from melanoma, a form of

1495
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 4: skin cancer that he battled for over three years. He

1496
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 4: passed away peacefully at his home in Montana, surrounded by

1497
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 4: family under hospice care. He leaves behind four children, which

1498
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:37,640
Speaker 4: is so sad, two with Kelly, two from a previous marriage,

1499
01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:40,919
Speaker 4: as well as a grandson and extended family. So while

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01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 4: a lot of people think melanoma no big deal, beatable,

1501
01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 4: it can be a big deal. So please wear your

1502
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 4: son's screen. I don't care if you don't burn, I

1503
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:51,479
Speaker 4: don't care if you tan well. Please wear your sun's screen.

1504
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 4: It's always my PSA. Nicki Minaj and former NFL star

1505
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 4: Dez Bryant have ended that social media feud I told

1506
01:05:58,000 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 4: you about.

1507
01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 1: I think it was last week if you've got though.

1508
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:03,919
Speaker 4: The whole thing started when Nicki referenced his past legal

1509
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:06,680
Speaker 4: issues and he fired back by calling attention to our

1510
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 4: husband's criminal history.

1511
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,520
Speaker 1: Nikki even offered Dez ten million to fight her husband,

1512
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: which was wild.

1513
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 4: The online showdown concluded with Dez issuing a heartfelt apology,

1514
01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 4: acknowledging that he let the devil win and expressing regret

1515
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:24,480
Speaker 4: for bringing up Nicki's husband. She responded with grace, accepting

1516
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:27,440
Speaker 4: his apology and praising his accountability.

1517
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 1: So that was not something I expected. That was a

1518
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: very mature way to end social media feud. NBA Star

1519
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 1: And this is the story that I teased.

1520
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 4: Anthony Edwards just paid over one million dollars in child support,

1521
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:44,040
Speaker 4: covering the next eighteen years for his child in one

1522
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 4: lump sum, but his ex, Aisha Howard, says it's unfair

1523
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 4: because she can't go back to court and ask for

1524
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 4: more if his income goes up. She said, I've already

1525
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 4: paid one hundred thousand or I've already used that. Rather,

1526
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 4: what if it runs out before eighteen years. She didn't

1527
01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 4: blame the judge for betraying her, saying this is an injustice,

1528
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 4: injustice to poor women like me. I feel betrayed. So

1529
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 4: I guess a judge signed off on that. I've never

1530
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 4: heard of that happening.

1531
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 1: Which is crazy because look how the prices keep going up,

1532
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:13,800
Speaker 1: right exactly inflation. Suishing today is not to wishing tomorrow.

1533
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 4: A million percent. So it'll be interesting to see if

1534
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 4: that can be challenged or how that.

1535
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 1: Moves forward base get a million bucks. It was just

1536
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: over Yeah, so fifty a year. Yeah yeah, I mean

1537
01:07:27,120 --> 01:07:29,600
Speaker 1: I guess, I guess I'm surprised. Yeah, me too, Yeah,

1538
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 1: that that would But we'll see how it all plays out.

1539
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:33,959
Speaker 1: And then there are some people now listening going fifty

1540
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 1: grand central bit because my dead be pay anything for sure.

1541
01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 1: You know, it's all ends of the spectrum.

1542
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:43,600
Speaker 4: We got to get to the showdown though, but if

1543
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 4: you want to watch us on YouTube, you could type

1544
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,880
Speaker 4: freend Show Radio and we will go live throughout the

1545
01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 4: show during the portions that we can afford.

1546
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 2: Who wants to take on Shelley eight five, five, five nine,

1547
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 2: one three five call right now one thousand, one hundred

1548
01:07:59,520 --> 01:07:59,840
Speaker 2: and fifty.

1549
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:00,560
Speaker 1: It's just the price.

1550
01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 2: Shelley's record one thoy thirty nine wins only sixty nine

1551
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 2: loss is shobs. Shelley is here is I'm counting on

1552
01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: you to light and you get a light in the mood. Man,

1553
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 2: it's you, it's your job. Tell us, tell us the jokes.

1554
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 2: He's something funny right now on the spot. Immediately, yeh,

1555
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:17,560
Speaker 2: did you see that?

1556
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:20,519
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm I'm surprised. Aren't Jason and Kaylin?

1557
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:23,280
Speaker 1: Are you freaking out about that? I mean, yeah I was,

1558
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 1: and I'm not even like a here swift. The mood

1559
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:29,160
Speaker 1: has been pretty calm this morning. I was tired the.

1560
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 3: Sales spreadsheets over there. Don't let them fool you. They

1561
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:34,759
Speaker 3: gets really they are trying to put it all together.

1562
01:08:34,800 --> 01:08:40,280
Speaker 1: Shelley, you go with what like Easter eggsilines, I'm.

1563
01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 2: Doing Massive twelve twelve, but the announcement was at twelve,

1564
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 2: but then it's your twelfth album twelve twelve.

1565
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 1: Twelve, and then twelve times and then yeah, yeah, somebody

1566
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 1: to go back and look in the background of the set.

1567
01:08:55,960 --> 01:08:58,639
Speaker 1: Maybe there's some clue in there too. There wasn't Easter Egg.

1568
01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: There was an extra suit case and sent me I

1569
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 1: don't know, but the ts on it and it was

1570
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 1: up on his little show, and.

1571
01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 2: Then you all try to, like, you know, go through

1572
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:08,640
Speaker 2: a trash to figure out who she was working with.

1573
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 2: So you think maybe it's gonna be like a nineties

1574
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:12,800
Speaker 2: pop sound Max Martin.

1575
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, who did in nineteen eighty nine.

1576
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,680
Speaker 2: Backstree Boys and a bunch of other stuff too, So

1577
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 2: maybe maybe there'll be some mixed up lyrics too. Where

1578
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 2: like tell me like I want it that way, where

1579
01:09:24,240 --> 01:09:25,720
Speaker 2: the song won't make any sense, but it will be

1580
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 2: a complete and total banger.

1581
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:31,719
Speaker 1: Maybe, do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

1582
01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 1: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown Show? You're gonna listen

1583
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 1: to the actual podcast episode right like that. I'm gonna

1584
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 1: watch it, Shelley, watch it. Oh my gosh, I still

1585
01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 1: leave my house. Yeah, Okay, it on a movie theater.

1586
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:50,120
Speaker 1: Watch it.

1587
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:54,799
Speaker 2: Well, that's a good idea by herself. Why didn't already

1588
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:57,160
Speaker 2: you want to talk about overpriced stuff? How about going

1589
01:09:57,200 --> 01:09:59,120
Speaker 2: to the movies try and buy it. You gotta buy

1590
01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:02,360
Speaker 2: seven gallons and it's like twenty eight dollars and don't

1591
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 2: refill it for you though.

1592
01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it all tastes like grape because they use

1593
01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:08,960
Speaker 3: the machine with all the different flavors.

1594
01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:10,880
Speaker 2: Man, I was just somewhere the other day where they

1595
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 2: had the one machine that makes every Shoda ever ever invented.

1596
01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 2: And you're right, they all taste like cherry coke. Yes,

1597
01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 2: it makes me so mad, Like I didn't order cherry

1598
01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 2: coke o the water. It tastes like cherry coke. Somebody

1599
01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:30,080
Speaker 2: getting your cleanest thing? Hey, Jenna, Hi, Jenna, good morning.

1600
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:31,439
Speaker 2: Fun fact about you is what.

1601
01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,000
Speaker 20: My sister and I have the same birthday, but we

1602
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:37,840
Speaker 20: are not twit.

1603
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:41,800
Speaker 1: Okay, how far apart are you? Cool? Two years? All right? Wow?

1604
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 2: Fascinating. I wonder if your parents got it on on

1605
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:46,960
Speaker 2: the same way. What is your birthday? Let's figure out

1606
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:48,559
Speaker 2: the day they got it on. What's your birthday?

1607
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: July twenty seven? So like around the holidays. Yeah, so

1608
01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 1: they were doing it on Christmas.

1609
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 2: They were they were the holiday party two years and

1610
01:10:57,080 --> 01:11:00,200
Speaker 2: they got it on a little too many cocktails, too

1611
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 2: much eggnog. And look what happened you and your sister

1612
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,640
Speaker 2: boom problem solved. I just figured the whole thing out.

1613
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 2: That's how it happened. Yeah, she's like, whatever, I don't

1614
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 2: want to want to consider that.

1615
01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 1: One and fifty bucks, one thousand and thirty nine wins,

1616
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: only sixty nine losses all time, and eighteen straight for Shelley.

1617
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 1: Five questions. Let's go, guys, good luck? All right, good luck?

1618
01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:22,280
Speaker 1: Told you respect Shelley. You gotta go.

1619
01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:25,439
Speaker 2: Sound boof poof Jenna, Question number one. The Kelsey Brothers

1620
01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 2: had the Internet going crazy over a podcast teaser hinting

1621
01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:30,839
Speaker 2: the Taylor's swift maybe a guest tomorrow.

1622
01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:34,559
Speaker 1: What is the name of their podcast New Heights.

1623
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:38,320
Speaker 2: Christiano Ronaldo, which, for some reason it always hearts for

1624
01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:42,120
Speaker 2: me to say, proposed to his girlfriend Georgia Rodriguez with

1625
01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 2: the biggest ring I've ever seen.

1626
01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 1: Yes, and you know that, you know they dug that

1627
01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:47,240
Speaker 1: out of somewhere. That is not a lab grown diamond.

1628
01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:48,320
Speaker 1: Wait it long for that.

1629
01:11:48,760 --> 01:11:54,880
Speaker 2: What is Christiano best known forcer? Who did the Jonas

1630
01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:57,599
Speaker 2: Brothers bring out for a Camp Rock reunion during night

1631
01:11:57,720 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 2: one of their Greetings from your Hometown? Tour influencer and

1632
01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 2: singer Dixie Demilio is twenty four today. What is the

1633
01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 2: name of Dixie's famous sister, who is a dancer and

1634
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 2: TikToker Sly And which Columbian singer paused his contract to

1635
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 2: call out a mom from bringing her baby without ear protection.

1636
01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 1: That's a five.

1637
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 12: That might be it.

1638
01:12:23,439 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 1: You might do it, you might get it.

1639
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,759
Speaker 2: We might be writing a check. She got a five.

1640
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 2: She got a five, Shelley, get the typewriter out, Jason,

1641
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 2: that's out. I think today's the day. Well, I'm going

1642
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 2: to need to write emails because that's the only reason

1643
01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:44,080
Speaker 2: I only way I can do that, all right? Question

1644
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 2: was running and someone corrected me. I guess Jenning. Your

1645
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:50,760
Speaker 2: parents got it on around Halloween, so same deal, you know?

1646
01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 2: And then ye right?

1647
01:12:55,479 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 1: Question number one.

1648
01:12:56,200 --> 01:12:58,439
Speaker 2: The Kelsey Brothers had the Internet going crazy over a

1649
01:12:58,479 --> 01:13:01,639
Speaker 2: podcast teaser, hinting the tailor Swift may be a guest tomorrow.

1650
01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:05,200
Speaker 1: What is the name of the podcast New Heights? That's right.

1651
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 2: Cristiano Ronaldo proposed to his girlfriend Georgia Rodriguez. What is

1652
01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:12,679
Speaker 2: Cristiano best known for soccer?

1653
01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:13,439
Speaker 1: Did you see a ring?

1654
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1655
01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 1: Oh, I saw the ring, all right.

1656
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:17,000
Speaker 2: I don't know how she can carry her hand around

1657
01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 2: who and I'll also be afraid of my hand I

1658
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:21,080
Speaker 2: get cut off wearing that there?

1659
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:21,439
Speaker 12: Yes?

1660
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 2: Who do the Jonas Brothers bring out for a camp

1661
01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 2: Rock reunion during night one of their Greetings from Your

1662
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 2: Hometown tour?

1663
01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 1: Demie Lovato?

1664
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, influencer and singer Dixie Emilio's twenty four today. What

1665
01:13:32,120 --> 01:13:34,160
Speaker 2: is the name of Dixie's famous sister? Who is a

1666
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:35,240
Speaker 2: dancer in TikToker?

1667
01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:35,960
Speaker 12: Oh?

1668
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 1: No, what a stream Dixie and a tricksy?

1669
01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:42,960
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1670
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:45,280
Speaker 1: Oh, Dixie and Trixie know.

1671
01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 5: Charlie?

1672
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:52,519
Speaker 2: And which Columbian singer pushed his concert to call out

1673
01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:54,640
Speaker 2: pause rather his contract to call out a mom for

1674
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 2: bringing her baby without air protection.

1675
01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:59,000
Speaker 1: Ohlma, oh you got that. I thought you'd get I

1676
01:13:59,080 --> 01:13:59,919
Speaker 1: thought you missed.

1677
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:08,960
Speaker 2: Fifty bucks and last number seventy and you snapped her

1678
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:12,400
Speaker 2: eighteen game win streak back to one hundred bucks tomorrow.

1679
01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: Wow, Wow, what are you gonna do with the money?

1680
01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:19,080
Speaker 11: Probably go on to vacation.

1681
01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 2: Okay, there you go. That's okay, all right, one thousand,

1682
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:26,599
Speaker 2: one hundred and fifty bucks is yours. Hang on one second,

1683
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:30,000
Speaker 2: you can hang with it. Got really you did it?

1684
01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 1: Hang on? I don't. I'm not going to go a

1685
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 1: long for no. Hold on, that's what he's saying. Well,

1686
01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: you know, I don't have to come back for that.

1687
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 1: You know.

1688
01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 2: I don't want to yes, and I'm not going to

1689
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 2: go along. That would mean I have to say yes.

1690
01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:50,640
Speaker 2: I'm not going to go along. I'm not going to

1691
01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:53,439
Speaker 2: say that, not on purpose. Sometimes it happens, you know,

1692
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:57,719
Speaker 2: sometimes if you're that hot. Anyway, I gotta go, Shelley,

1693
01:14:57,840 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 2: have a good day. One hundred bucks tomorrow, we started

1694
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:00,639
Speaker 2: all over again.

1695
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:02,040
Speaker 1: All right, sounds good?

1696
01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 11: Okay?

1697
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 1: I mean, somebody, if it's that good, you know, what

1698
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 1: can I say?

1699
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 21: Not much to say that Kiki, Hey, what no, you

1700
01:15:14,600 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 21: know being that hot? Somebody has little I mean sometimes

1701
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 21: a little sometimes.

1702
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:21,280
Speaker 12: What can I do?

1703
01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:25,480
Speaker 1: What can I do? Yeah, there's you can do? Aren't

1704
01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 1: you complimented? Sometimes me when that happens, Yes, all the time.

1705
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 1: Oh it's every Well that's a different problem entirely, but

1706
01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:36,599
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Speaker 2: You should listen just to see what's gonna happen next.

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01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 2: show mis Shelley new waiting at the phone tomorrow morning

1731
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:49,920
Speaker 2: on the show as well. And speaking of which, we'll

1732
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:51,439
Speaker 2: do that next. In the Hall of Fame, why does

1733
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:54,880
Speaker 2: somebody get goes to the Entertainer Report headlines and fun

1734
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:55,600
Speaker 2: fact coming up to you?

1735
01:16:55,640 --> 01:16:56,080
Speaker 1: What are you working on?

1736
01:16:56,240 --> 01:17:00,640
Speaker 4: K one of Victoria and David Beckham's children today New

1737
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:03,759
Speaker 4: All and they were not there and it is getting

1738
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:05,640
Speaker 4: very interesting, so talk about it.

1739
01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:09,880
Speaker 1: All of that's coming up. Ever been left waiting by

1740
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:14,240
Speaker 1: the phone. It's The Fred Show. Hi, Christina, good morning,

1741
01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:14,600
Speaker 1: how are you?

1742
01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 12: Hey?

1743
01:17:15,439 --> 01:17:18,479
Speaker 1: Good morning? Uh, you know I'm doing okay, just you know,

1744
01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:20,120
Speaker 1: just a little confused.

1745
01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 2: In my dating life, I guess, right right, Okay, well

1746
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 2: that's what we're here for. Why don't you tell us

1747
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 2: about this guy, Alex, how did you meet? I want

1748
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:29,680
Speaker 2: to hear about any dates that you've been on, and

1749
01:17:29,760 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 2: then you know what's happening right now.

1750
01:17:31,560 --> 01:17:32,599
Speaker 1: So I met this guy.

1751
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 18: Alex on Hinge and you know, after we matched, we

1752
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:38,719
Speaker 18: did talk for a few days until he finally asked

1753
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:41,719
Speaker 18: me out, you know, for drinks, and that actually turned

1754
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:43,599
Speaker 18: into dinner, which was you know, which was nice.

1755
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:44,600
Speaker 19: You know.

1756
01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 18: For some reason though, Alex kind of stopped responding to me,

1757
01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:50,920
Speaker 18: and I don't really know if I have any more

1758
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:54,599
Speaker 18: energy for any more first dates. So I guess I'm

1759
01:17:54,680 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 18: calling because I you know, i'd like you to figure

1760
01:17:57,080 --> 01:17:58,400
Speaker 18: out what's going on with this one.

1761
01:17:58,479 --> 01:17:59,320
Speaker 1: I really don't know.

1762
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 2: Okay, So you really thought everything went really well and

1763
01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:04,080
Speaker 2: I always ask these questions, but you know, you look

1764
01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:06,240
Speaker 2: back on the date. The conversation was good. You thought

1765
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 2: there was chemistry, You felt like, you know, the back

1766
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 2: and forth was going on, and the whole thing nothing awkward, nothing,

1767
01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 2: nothing weird.

1768
01:18:13,120 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I really.

1769
01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:17,680
Speaker 18: Thought back to the entire like date night, the conversations

1770
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 18: were easy and crazy. You know, we laughed a little

1771
01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:22,760
Speaker 18: bit here and there, food and drinks were good, and

1772
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:25,200
Speaker 18: you know, overall, I just felt like we enjoyed each

1773
01:18:25,200 --> 01:18:27,680
Speaker 18: other's company. So that's why I'm kind of sitting over

1774
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 18: here like, well, why are you leaving me on read?

1775
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:30,760
Speaker 8: You know what I mean?

1776
01:18:30,920 --> 01:18:31,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1777
01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:33,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, And look, I say this all the time about

1778
01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:35,760
Speaker 2: the dating apps because I've been on and off them forever.

1779
01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:38,559
Speaker 2: When you meet someone and you feel a certain kind

1780
01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:40,439
Speaker 2: of way, you know, and they and they feel it

1781
01:18:40,479 --> 01:18:43,639
Speaker 2: feels different from the other matches and there's actual chemistry,

1782
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:45,640
Speaker 2: because that's something you can't gauge on the dating apps, right,

1783
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 2: is if there's going to be in person chemistry. So

1784
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:49,800
Speaker 2: when you go out with someone and then you sense that,

1785
01:18:50,120 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 2: then you know you you were hoping that goes someplace exactly.

1786
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:56,880
Speaker 18: Yeah, you know, this entire dating world on the apps

1787
01:18:56,920 --> 01:18:59,040
Speaker 18: has really just turned a lot of us off to

1788
01:18:59,160 --> 01:19:02,040
Speaker 18: the concept of even dating and being in a relationship.

1789
01:19:02,640 --> 01:19:05,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, let's call this guy Alex. You're gonna be

1790
01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:06,960
Speaker 2: on the phone at the same time. We're gonna ask

1791
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:08,800
Speaker 2: these questions for you if we can get a hold

1792
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:10,840
Speaker 2: of him. And you know, the hope is always is

1793
01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:13,280
Speaker 2: that we can figure out what's up, straighten it out,

1794
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:15,400
Speaker 2: set you guys up on another date, and then we'll

1795
01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:19,560
Speaker 2: pay for that. Christina. Yeah, okay, let's call Alex. You

1796
01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:21,519
Speaker 2: guys met on one of the dating apps.

1797
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:22,160
Speaker 1: You went in a date.

1798
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:25,000
Speaker 2: You felt like the chemistry was good, back and forth

1799
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 2: was good. You were attracted to him, you got the

1800
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:30,320
Speaker 2: vibe he was into you. The problem is you haven't

1801
01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 2: heard from this guy since that date, and it's bugging you.

1802
01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:35,599
Speaker 2: You've been thinking a lot about it, and you want

1803
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:36,479
Speaker 2: to know what happened.

1804
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,560
Speaker 1: What's going on? Yeah, exactly, I just don't like the

1805
01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:51,720
Speaker 1: last Okay, let's call him now. Good luck. Hello, Hi,

1806
01:19:51,920 --> 01:19:52,599
Speaker 1: is this Alex?

1807
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:54,600
Speaker 11: Yeah, this is Alex.

1808
01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 2: Alex, Hi, good morning. My name is Friend. I'm calling

1809
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 2: from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show. I have

1810
01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:00,840
Speaker 2: to tell you that we are on radio right now.

1811
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:03,600
Speaker 2: I would need your permission to Yeah, I need you

1812
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:04,760
Speaker 2: permission to continue with the call.

1813
01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:06,680
Speaker 1: Is that cool? Foo cheat for just a second? Oh?

1814
01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 11: Yeah, that's cool.

1815
01:20:07,479 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you.

1816
01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:10,559
Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a woman who reached out

1817
01:20:10,600 --> 01:20:12,519
Speaker 2: to us. Her name is Christina, and I guess you

1818
01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:14,840
Speaker 2: recently went on a date after matching on one of

1819
01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:15,200
Speaker 2: the apps.

1820
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:15,720
Speaker 1: Do you remember her?

1821
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:16,679
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, I remember?

1822
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:20,840
Speaker 2: Okay, good, So what happened? Because she just got done

1823
01:20:20,880 --> 01:20:23,160
Speaker 2: telling us that she liked you and was attracted to

1824
01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 2: you and thought the date went well and all these things,

1825
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:26,960
Speaker 2: but says she hasn't heard from you since then. You

1826
01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:29,439
Speaker 2: haven't called her, texted it or responded or anything like that.

1827
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:31,640
Speaker 1: So what happened? What's not?

1828
01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:35,560
Speaker 11: Nothing too much? The date was just pretty good, and

1829
01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 11: then like, I don't know, she did something that made

1830
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:40,760
Speaker 11: me feel kind of weird. So basically, like throughout the

1831
01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:43,599
Speaker 11: whole date, she was like at first there was something

1832
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:45,640
Speaker 11: like a napcan, she'd stick it in her purse, and

1833
01:20:45,760 --> 01:20:48,360
Speaker 11: then like she was like a spoon, she's stuck it

1834
01:20:48,439 --> 01:20:50,479
Speaker 11: in her purse, a menu she stuck it in her purse,

1835
01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:53,120
Speaker 11: and like I didn't know she was like a kleptomaniac

1836
01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:55,840
Speaker 11: or something. But eventually I finally brought it up to her,

1837
01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:58,000
Speaker 11: and then she was like, Oh, I'm just saving a

1838
01:20:58,080 --> 01:20:59,800
Speaker 11: bunch of stuff from our first date in case we

1839
01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:05,000
Speaker 11: up getting married someday. I'm not ready to think about

1840
01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:05,800
Speaker 11: marriage at all.

1841
01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:08,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I stole them to marry you.

1842
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:11,200
Speaker 2: She stole them any in case you guys got married,

1843
01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:12,720
Speaker 2: and somehow, I don't know, she could like give it

1844
01:21:12,760 --> 01:21:14,080
Speaker 2: to your children that you're gonna have.

1845
01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:16,120
Speaker 11: Yeah, yes, you know, so they could know what the

1846
01:21:16,160 --> 01:21:18,320
Speaker 11: soup special was, you know, on a first state, Like,

1847
01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:21,000
Speaker 11: I don't know, it just kind of spooked me, like

1848
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:23,000
Speaker 11: it wasn't a big deal, but yeah, it was just

1849
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 11: like it seemed like she's pretty eager to, you know,

1850
01:21:26,479 --> 01:21:27,840
Speaker 11: jump into marriage or something.

1851
01:21:27,960 --> 01:21:29,599
Speaker 1: So like I've heard about people doing.

1852
01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:31,400
Speaker 2: This, by the way, I've heard about people keeping like that,

1853
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 2: you know, the concert ticket stub or the some sort

1854
01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:37,280
Speaker 2: of momento, but they do it quietly. They're not that

1855
01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:39,439
Speaker 2: obvious about it because it's like one of those things

1856
01:21:39,479 --> 01:21:41,360
Speaker 2: where later then you give it to them and it's like,

1857
01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:43,519
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, that was so sweet that you collected

1858
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 2: all this stuff. But then if it doesn't work out,

1859
01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:48,120
Speaker 2: they never know you did it right. But this woman

1860
01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 2: is just doing it right in front of you. So

1861
01:21:49,479 --> 01:21:51,800
Speaker 2: so someday, if you get married, she can give you

1862
01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 2: back the spoon that she ate from.

1863
01:21:56,400 --> 01:21:56,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1864
01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:58,720
Speaker 11: I mean you'd have to ask her her train of

1865
01:21:58,760 --> 01:22:00,479
Speaker 11: thought on that, but yeah, all right.

1866
01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 2: Well, good hey, good news, because I can Christina is here.

1867
01:22:03,920 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 2: I forgot yeah, I forgot to mention that part. I'm sorry.

1868
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:09,839
Speaker 2: I'm very I'm often very forgetful with these things. Christina,

1869
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:12,640
Speaker 2: is this what happened? You were saving things from the

1870
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:14,680
Speaker 2: date so that you could I don't know, like as

1871
01:22:14,720 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 2: a as a momento.

1872
01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:19,920
Speaker 18: I mean, honestly, I didn't really think about that as

1873
01:22:19,960 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 18: like a red flag on my end.

1874
01:22:21,880 --> 01:22:26,400
Speaker 1: Eventually, you know, one of the first date will not

1875
01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:27,720
Speaker 1: say little things just in.

1876
01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:31,479
Speaker 2: Case, you know, I mean for one purpose exactly, Like

1877
01:22:31,600 --> 01:22:36,360
Speaker 2: so like, remember the menu here it is from years

1878
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:37,080
Speaker 2: ago when we met.

1879
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:38,400
Speaker 1: I mean, is that a scrap book?

1880
01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:38,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1881
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 6: Right?

1882
01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:40,960
Speaker 1: Are you keeping a scrap book? Are you keeping? Is

1883
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:42,320
Speaker 1: it like for evidence purposes?

1884
01:22:42,400 --> 01:22:42,439
Speaker 6: Like?

1885
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:43,080
Speaker 1: What are we doing?

1886
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 18: No, it's just like, you know, the relationship will move

1887
01:22:46,320 --> 01:22:48,880
Speaker 18: forward eventually, someday, you know, we could be husband and

1888
01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:50,920
Speaker 18: wife and it would just be nice to have a

1889
01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 18: see you little mementos from our first date where you know,

1890
01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:57,000
Speaker 18: things got you know, our relationship started essentially.

1891
01:22:57,760 --> 01:23:00,320
Speaker 2: Okay, No, because I really have heard about that. I've

1892
01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:04,479
Speaker 2: heard about guys who keep little things early on and

1893
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:06,760
Speaker 2: then later they're like, hey, look, and then they give

1894
01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:08,720
Speaker 2: it to the person in some form of Yeah, like

1895
01:23:08,760 --> 01:23:12,000
Speaker 2: a scrap book or something, and it usually comes off

1896
01:23:12,080 --> 01:23:15,439
Speaker 2: sweet if you're really into the person. But again, if

1897
01:23:15,840 --> 01:23:17,680
Speaker 2: if it winds up going you know, falling flat, then

1898
01:23:17,680 --> 01:23:18,559
Speaker 2: you throw the stuff away.

1899
01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:19,679
Speaker 1: It's like it never happened.

1900
01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:22,160
Speaker 2: I have heard this. I've heard of guys doing it

1901
01:23:22,240 --> 01:23:24,120
Speaker 2: for girls. I haven't heard it the other way around.

1902
01:23:24,240 --> 01:23:27,600
Speaker 2: But you're saying, Alex that this was at first You're like,

1903
01:23:27,680 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 2: I think she's a thief, which we've had that before.

1904
01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:31,599
Speaker 2: By the way, I'm waiting by the phone when people

1905
01:23:31,600 --> 01:23:34,120
Speaker 2: are stealing like the ketchup and the Saltan pepper shakers,

1906
01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:37,400
Speaker 2: but I guess their personal use or something. But you're

1907
01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:39,280
Speaker 2: saying it just kind of freaks you out because she's

1908
01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:40,479
Speaker 2: ten steps ahead of you.

1909
01:23:40,720 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 17: Yeah, at the end of the day, like it's not

1910
01:23:42,400 --> 01:23:45,400
Speaker 17: necessarily about you know, taking this stuff. It's just like,

1911
01:23:45,640 --> 01:23:49,000
Speaker 17: you know, we literally just met and like somehow on

1912
01:23:49,120 --> 01:23:51,479
Speaker 17: our first date, you know, the conversation gets turned to

1913
01:23:51,560 --> 01:23:54,559
Speaker 17: talking about marriage. Like that's just on any first date.

1914
01:23:54,600 --> 01:23:56,400
Speaker 17: I don't think you should use the M word at all.

1915
01:23:57,560 --> 01:24:00,599
Speaker 2: I would think that's probably pretty safe. Yeah, I mean, Christina,

1916
01:24:00,680 --> 01:24:02,559
Speaker 2: can you see how this might have looked to somebody

1917
01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 2: who's just getting to know you? Might be a little

1918
01:24:05,320 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 2: easily spooked about the commitment thing. Doesn't even know your

1919
01:24:08,400 --> 01:24:09,599
Speaker 2: you know, last name.

1920
01:24:10,000 --> 01:24:12,200
Speaker 1: I mean not, no, not really.

1921
01:24:12,439 --> 01:24:15,600
Speaker 18: I honestly I do this on every first day I have,

1922
01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:18,599
Speaker 18: just in case. And honestly, I like, you really shouldn't

1923
01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:21,559
Speaker 18: feel so special about that. You're not the first guy.

1924
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:22,360
Speaker 6: I do that too.

1925
01:24:22,640 --> 01:24:24,640
Speaker 1: How many how many second dates do you do?

1926
01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:27,479
Speaker 18: I mean, depending on the guy, I you know, you

1927
01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 18: a little bit here and there. I wouldn't say, like

1928
01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:32,280
Speaker 18: my rate is one hundred percent overall, but.

1929
01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:35,839
Speaker 2: Who is how many menus do you have at these?

1930
01:24:35,880 --> 01:24:37,560
Speaker 2: I mean, do you even have to look up? You know,

1931
01:24:37,720 --> 01:24:40,760
Speaker 2: like what's eat anymore? You just I'm just cared. I'm

1932
01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:41,200
Speaker 2: just wondering.

1933
01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:45,240
Speaker 18: No, no, I mean again, I would say I just

1934
01:24:45,439 --> 01:24:48,599
Speaker 18: date the normal amount. And I really don't think it's

1935
01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:51,400
Speaker 18: a huge deal that I like to keep things from

1936
01:24:51,800 --> 01:24:54,280
Speaker 18: you know, things that could potentially matter to me down

1937
01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 18: in the future. And yeah, I've been out on second

1938
01:24:57,880 --> 01:25:01,559
Speaker 18: dates and honestly, this is the first time that anyone

1939
01:25:01,680 --> 01:25:05,120
Speaker 18: has actually said anything to me about, you know, taking

1940
01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:08,960
Speaker 18: the mentos from our first game. So Alex, You're you're

1941
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:11,360
Speaker 18: starting to feel like you're really special here.

1942
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:15,080
Speaker 1: But the one.

1943
01:25:15,520 --> 01:25:15,640
Speaker 6: I know.

1944
01:25:15,840 --> 01:25:18,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know that we need to necessarily diss

1945
01:25:18,160 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 1: the man.

1946
01:25:18,760 --> 01:25:20,960
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, this is what you chose to do,

1947
01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:23,800
Speaker 2: and and you announced it, and the guy spooked, and

1948
01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:25,200
Speaker 2: he has a right to that. I mean that's not

1949
01:25:25,360 --> 01:25:30,719
Speaker 2: uncommon early on in relationships that people if you're already

1950
01:25:30,800 --> 01:25:35,719
Speaker 2: indicating a level of seriousness, that that person isn't necessarily

1951
01:25:35,760 --> 01:25:38,080
Speaker 2: prepared to, you know, accept because they don't know you

1952
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:40,320
Speaker 2: that well. So I don't know if it's the taking

1953
01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:41,920
Speaker 2: of the men you per se. I think it's the

1954
01:25:41,960 --> 01:25:43,439
Speaker 2: fact that you're like, well, we might get married some

1955
01:25:43,560 --> 01:25:46,320
Speaker 2: days walking, I mean we're halfway through the date.

1956
01:25:46,360 --> 01:25:48,240
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. There's so many restaurants out

1957
01:25:48,240 --> 01:25:53,080
Speaker 1: there though, that are like missing right out right, Yeah,

1958
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:56,080
Speaker 1: a lot of places. Wonder where there's spoons and silver

1959
01:25:56,160 --> 01:26:01,719
Speaker 1: were with this economy? Okay, look, so I'll ask the question, Alex.

1960
01:26:02,240 --> 01:26:04,160
Speaker 1: I think I know the answer, but I'm required to

1961
01:26:04,240 --> 01:26:06,040
Speaker 1: ask you. Would you like to go out with Christina

1962
01:26:06,120 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 1: again if she leaves all of the restaurant's items at

1963
01:26:08,560 --> 01:26:09,120
Speaker 1: the restaurant?

1964
01:26:11,160 --> 01:26:14,360
Speaker 11: No, like after this awkwardness, and like, I think it

1965
01:26:14,439 --> 01:26:16,400
Speaker 11: shows the best, you know, we go our separate way.

1966
01:26:16,560 --> 01:26:18,720
Speaker 11: Thank you, dude, Seriously, you.

1967
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:20,559
Speaker 1: Are not special, so you have to stop.

1968
01:26:22,040 --> 01:26:24,880
Speaker 2: You know, we we were clear he was special when

1969
01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:27,559
Speaker 2: we did all this other stuff, but then about halfway

1970
01:26:27,600 --> 01:26:29,720
Speaker 2: through the call, he became unspecial, right, Yeah, I.

1971
01:26:29,760 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 11: Was special enough to steal a spoon for come on, he.

1972
01:26:32,960 --> 01:26:33,839
Speaker 1: Does that for everyone.

1973
01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:37,880
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, no, and it's it's petty. That's petty theft

1974
01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:41,200
Speaker 2: or something that's a misdemeanor at least. Okay that she

1975
01:26:41,360 --> 01:26:41,680
Speaker 2: may not.

1976
01:26:41,720 --> 01:26:45,599
Speaker 1: Be Superman, but I'm Spoonman baby, Okay.

1977
01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:50,200
Speaker 2: Anyway, Yeah, I don't know. I don't know spoon Man.

1978
01:26:50,280 --> 01:26:53,640
Speaker 2: I'm not sure about that one. But Christina, get back

1979
01:26:53,680 --> 01:26:55,720
Speaker 2: on the apps. Spoon Man's taken. I guess I don't know.

1980
01:26:56,760 --> 01:27:01,880
Speaker 1: That was weird. Cain's Entertainment report on Ooh, this is

1981
01:27:01,920 --> 01:27:02,639
Speaker 1: getting wild.

1982
01:27:02,840 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 4: So Brooklyn Beckham, son of Victoria and David Beckham, had

1983
01:27:06,880 --> 01:27:09,920
Speaker 4: a whole vow renewal and didn't even invite his parents

1984
01:27:10,280 --> 01:27:13,000
Speaker 4: amid all this family drama. So he and his wife Nikola,

1985
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:16,280
Speaker 4: who was beautiful, shared photos from their vow renewal on

1986
01:27:16,400 --> 01:27:19,280
Speaker 4: Instagram yesterday, which I guess took place at our family's

1987
01:27:19,400 --> 01:27:23,400
Speaker 4: estate on August second. And then this morning, the couple

1988
01:27:23,439 --> 01:27:25,360
Speaker 4: who said I do for a second time in just

1989
01:27:25,439 --> 01:27:28,400
Speaker 4: three years. So I also thought that was interesting of

1990
01:27:28,520 --> 01:27:31,760
Speaker 4: their after party. They shared those photos too, where it

1991
01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:34,400
Speaker 4: is that David and Victoria were not even told about

1992
01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:38,120
Speaker 4: the ceremony amid this whole family drama, and so Nikola's

1993
01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:40,800
Speaker 4: parents very much took center stage. They were in all

1994
01:27:40,840 --> 01:27:44,920
Speaker 4: these photos, They were applauded, they were celebrated. So, I mean,

1995
01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:47,639
Speaker 4: I don't know all the ins and outs of their

1996
01:27:47,680 --> 01:27:50,240
Speaker 4: family drama, but I can't imagine that that was easy

1997
01:27:50,600 --> 01:27:54,880
Speaker 4: for David and Victoria to see online. I did hear

1998
01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:57,559
Speaker 4: that it started between the brothers with a girl they

1999
01:27:57,640 --> 01:28:01,120
Speaker 4: both dated, and then I they know that there was

2000
01:28:01,240 --> 01:28:04,800
Speaker 4: drama between Nicola and Victoria long before that. It was

2001
01:28:04,960 --> 01:28:07,680
Speaker 4: very much giving Paulina, You and I talked about this,

2002
01:28:07,760 --> 01:28:11,240
Speaker 4: like when Victoria interrupted their first dance to dance with

2003
01:28:11,320 --> 01:28:11,720
Speaker 4: her son.

2004
01:28:11,840 --> 01:28:14,120
Speaker 1: That was a little red flaggy for me. And then

2005
01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:15,760
Speaker 1: I know Nikolo didn't wear a.

2006
01:28:15,840 --> 01:28:17,840
Speaker 4: Dress designed by Victoria, So I know that there was

2007
01:28:17,880 --> 01:28:20,160
Speaker 4: some drama back at their first wedding as well, So

2008
01:28:20,240 --> 01:28:21,640
Speaker 4: maybe that's why they wanted to redo it.

2009
01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:25,360
Speaker 1: But they didn't even know and they were not invited.

2010
01:28:25,320 --> 01:28:29,400
Speaker 4: And speaking of weddings and also soccer stars, everyone was

2011
01:28:29,439 --> 01:28:29,920
Speaker 4: talking about it.

2012
01:28:30,000 --> 01:28:34,000
Speaker 1: So let's do it. Cristiano Ronaldo. Okay, So he got engaged.

2013
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:37,320
Speaker 4: To his very long time partner Georgina Rodriguez, and he

2014
01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:40,479
Speaker 4: broke the internet because of this engagement ring.

2015
01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:43,560
Speaker 1: And we've all seen it, right, it is huge. I

2016
01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:45,800
Speaker 1: like Freds and I don't know how she even can

2017
01:28:45,880 --> 01:28:48,400
Speaker 1: lift her hand up. It's so massive. It broke the

2018
01:28:48,439 --> 01:28:51,960
Speaker 1: whole internet. You know how I feel about rings these days? Yeah,

2019
01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:57,479
Speaker 1: tell us, I do not. Okay, So that's a massive ring.

2020
01:28:58,560 --> 01:28:59,280
Speaker 1: He's so rich.

2021
01:28:59,400 --> 01:29:02,400
Speaker 2: I'm certain that it's real, right, but you can go

2022
01:29:02,479 --> 01:29:05,080
Speaker 2: out and buy a lab grown diamond that size for

2023
01:29:05,960 --> 01:29:08,960
Speaker 2: a fraction of the cost. And so like, let's take

2024
01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:12,000
Speaker 2: it down to like real people stuff, like like you know,

2025
01:29:14,040 --> 01:29:18,439
Speaker 2: normal income people like us. Okay, why would I even

2026
01:29:18,479 --> 01:29:20,760
Speaker 2: if I saved up my you know for thirty years,

2027
01:29:20,800 --> 01:29:23,240
Speaker 2: which I basically have by not getting married to anyone,

2028
01:29:23,680 --> 01:29:25,320
Speaker 2: I could go buy you know, maybe I could go

2029
01:29:25,400 --> 01:29:26,840
Speaker 2: buy a bigger ring than I could have when I

2030
01:29:26,960 --> 01:29:30,120
Speaker 2: was twenty something. That's real and expensive, and yes it

2031
01:29:30,200 --> 01:29:36,880
Speaker 2: has value and yes, you know it could be passed

2032
01:29:36,920 --> 01:29:39,639
Speaker 2: down and it's worth something and that's what I would

2033
01:29:39,640 --> 01:29:41,320
Speaker 2: think I would want to do. But why would I

2034
01:29:41,400 --> 01:29:44,280
Speaker 2: do that when somebody else can go and buy a

2035
01:29:44,400 --> 01:29:47,800
Speaker 2: lab grown diamond for ten percent of the cost that's

2036
01:29:47,800 --> 01:29:49,800
Speaker 2: bigger than the one I just bought. If we're playing

2037
01:29:49,800 --> 01:29:51,720
Speaker 2: a size game, you know what I mean? Because I

2038
01:29:51,720 --> 01:29:53,240
Speaker 2: feel like that's what we're doing. I feel like people

2039
01:29:53,280 --> 01:29:55,280
Speaker 2: go buy big diamonds because they want people to believe

2040
01:29:55,320 --> 01:29:56,160
Speaker 2: that they have a lot of money.

2041
01:29:56,520 --> 01:29:58,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't think it.

2042
01:29:58,320 --> 01:30:00,639
Speaker 2: I don't think that says anything anymore. Buy the diamond

2043
01:30:00,680 --> 01:30:01,400
Speaker 2: because you want to buy.

2044
01:30:01,479 --> 01:30:01,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2045
01:30:01,920 --> 01:30:03,600
Speaker 2: I just I have a hard time now thinking that

2046
01:30:03,640 --> 01:30:06,760
Speaker 2: I should go out and spend a gazillion dollars on

2047
01:30:06,920 --> 01:30:11,280
Speaker 2: any kind of engagement ring, because I feel like somebody,

2048
01:30:11,479 --> 01:30:14,439
Speaker 2: if if the only purpose is keeping up with the joneses,

2049
01:30:14,640 --> 01:30:18,080
Speaker 2: which it shouldn't be, you should buy something that has value.

2050
01:30:18,280 --> 01:30:20,759
Speaker 2: You should buy something that's quality that can be passed

2051
01:30:20,800 --> 01:30:23,559
Speaker 2: down and you know whatever, If you've got the money, great.

2052
01:30:23,560 --> 01:30:24,920
Speaker 2: But I guess what I mean is that someone else

2053
01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:26,560
Speaker 2: can go buy a costume basically, and it's not I know,

2054
01:30:26,640 --> 01:30:28,720
Speaker 2: a lab growing diamond's on costume jewelry, But then they

2055
01:30:28,760 --> 01:30:30,240
Speaker 2: can go by the thing and it's like, oh, it's bigger.

2056
01:30:31,320 --> 01:30:32,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean so like I don't know.

2057
01:30:32,840 --> 01:30:34,840
Speaker 4: For me, it's like safety, Like I just wouldn't want

2058
01:30:34,920 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 4: like we saw even if you have security. We saw

2059
01:30:37,360 --> 01:30:39,320
Speaker 4: what happened to Kim Kardashian and I you know, she

2060
01:30:39,479 --> 01:30:41,120
Speaker 4: was fonding that big ring that Kanye gave her and

2061
01:30:41,200 --> 01:30:43,240
Speaker 4: it was dangerous and it's scary. So at what point

2062
01:30:43,479 --> 01:30:45,400
Speaker 4: do you even feel safe wearing something like that? And

2063
01:30:45,479 --> 01:30:49,240
Speaker 4: they haven't given us details yet, but this diamond I.

2064
01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:51,439
Speaker 2: Think could be fake and nobody would know the difference,

2065
01:30:51,439 --> 01:30:54,840
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know. I just have a hard

2066
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:57,080
Speaker 2: time with which is why I think everyone should just

2067
01:30:57,120 --> 01:30:58,040
Speaker 2: wear a wedding No, I'm kidding.

2068
01:30:58,040 --> 01:30:59,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe this is just me getting out

2069
01:30:59,880 --> 01:31:01,639
Speaker 1: us ending a whole bunch of money on a ring. Yeah,

2070
01:31:01,800 --> 01:31:03,679
Speaker 1: let's do what you feels, right, Yeah.

2071
01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:05,760
Speaker 2: By what you can afford, by the quality that you want,

2072
01:31:05,840 --> 01:31:07,880
Speaker 2: do whatever you want. I just think if the only

2073
01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:10,760
Speaker 2: reason that we're wearing big, fat rings is to give

2074
01:31:10,840 --> 01:31:14,639
Speaker 2: the impression that you're more loved or that your guy

2075
01:31:14,760 --> 01:31:16,960
Speaker 2: has more money than everybody else, I don't think that's

2076
01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:17,839
Speaker 2: what it means anymore.

2077
01:31:18,240 --> 01:31:20,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, for me, like what would be sexy as like

2078
01:31:20,760 --> 01:31:23,080
Speaker 4: home ownership of vacation home maybe whatever.

2079
01:31:23,120 --> 01:31:25,840
Speaker 1: I'd rather spend that money I elsewhere. But this guy just.

2080
01:31:25,840 --> 01:31:28,400
Speaker 2: Confirmed, Cristiando Rinaldo, whatever his name is, he has more

2081
01:31:28,439 --> 01:31:31,240
Speaker 2: money than me. Wow, it's confirmed a lot of.

2082
01:31:31,240 --> 01:31:31,880
Speaker 1: Money to give you.

2083
01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:34,160
Speaker 4: You would like a house or it just I don't know,

2084
01:31:34,320 --> 01:31:36,160
Speaker 4: Like now I'm more practical. Maybe I used to be

2085
01:31:36,240 --> 01:31:39,280
Speaker 4: this way. This dude who owns a diamond shop says

2086
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:41,240
Speaker 4: that he thinks it's thirty five carrots and that's just

2087
01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:44,120
Speaker 4: the big one. He also thinks that's flanked by other diamonds.

2088
01:31:44,160 --> 01:31:47,720
Speaker 4: They haven't released other stats on the ring like themselves,

2089
01:31:47,760 --> 01:31:49,639
Speaker 4: and so this is just someone guessing. But it ranks

2090
01:31:49,640 --> 01:31:53,840
Speaker 4: alongside the famous Taylor Burton diamond gifted to Elizabeth Taylor

2091
01:31:54,160 --> 01:31:55,120
Speaker 4: by Richard Burton.

2092
01:31:55,200 --> 01:31:57,760
Speaker 1: So it's very, very big and really quick.

2093
01:31:57,840 --> 01:31:59,519
Speaker 2: I just went to Claries before they close. A butt

2094
01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 2: one looks just like you could literally it's a righo.

2095
01:32:03,080 --> 01:32:05,360
Speaker 2: It's going to stay on your finger and you know

2096
01:32:05,479 --> 01:32:08,160
Speaker 2: it's gonna turn green or whatever.

2097
01:32:08,240 --> 01:32:12,639
Speaker 1: But hey, that's crazy. I love you a lot, a lot,

2098
01:32:12,680 --> 01:32:14,880
Speaker 1: a lot. It's there on purpose though, like nine years

2099
01:32:14,920 --> 01:32:16,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe she didn't want to get I

2100
01:32:16,360 --> 01:32:16,800
Speaker 1: don't know all that.

2101
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:19,880
Speaker 5: But nine years she even like raised his son. They

2102
01:32:19,960 --> 01:32:22,400
Speaker 5: had like five more kids, I think or six. She

2103
01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:25,040
Speaker 5: my girl deserves that room and she earned it every

2104
01:32:25,160 --> 01:32:28,040
Speaker 5: year here. That's right, that's a good rule. And we're

2105
01:32:28,080 --> 01:32:30,160
Speaker 5: running out of time. But yes, Taylor Swift is dropping

2106
01:32:30,160 --> 01:32:31,880
Speaker 5: a new album. This is for the one Texter who

2107
01:32:32,160 --> 01:32:33,599
Speaker 5: wanted us to move the topics along.

2108
01:32:34,400 --> 01:32:39,320
Speaker 4: She's coming out with TS twelve and she is telling

2109
01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:40,839
Speaker 4: us what it's called the life of a showgirl.

2110
01:32:40,880 --> 01:32:43,040
Speaker 1: But we don't know when we're getting it, hopefully sooner

2111
01:32:43,120 --> 01:32:44,439
Speaker 1: rather than what I guessed earlier.

2112
01:32:44,840 --> 01:32:47,439
Speaker 4: She also will be on the New Heights podcast uh

2113
01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:50,000
Speaker 4: tomorrow at six or seven, depending on where you are.

2114
01:32:50,080 --> 01:32:51,960
Speaker 1: And then she was on a podcasts such a nice

2115
01:32:52,000 --> 01:32:54,800
Speaker 1: Color on You, Yes, I know it's the color of

2116
01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:59,640
Speaker 1: your Eyes scooty podcast.

2117
01:33:01,720 --> 01:33:04,800
Speaker 4: Oh, she's gonna a podcast for a swifty You know

2118
01:33:05,760 --> 01:33:07,759
Speaker 4: you don't love it. You don't love all the hoopla,

2119
01:33:07,880 --> 01:33:08,080
Speaker 4: do you.

2120
01:33:14,640 --> 01:33:14,680
Speaker 6: Like?

2121
01:33:15,840 --> 01:33:18,080
Speaker 1: I respect the hell out of Taylor. I like her music.

2122
01:33:19,200 --> 01:33:21,799
Speaker 1: It's you know, everything she does is going to explode

2123
01:33:21,800 --> 01:33:25,360
Speaker 1: into gazillions and records and it's just whatever, good podcast.

2124
01:33:25,439 --> 01:33:29,320
Speaker 2: Well, it's just the least surprising news. Ever, her soon

2125
01:33:29,400 --> 01:33:32,000
Speaker 2: to be husband does a big podcast. Her going on

2126
01:33:32,160 --> 01:33:33,920
Speaker 2: the podcast is the least surprising thing.

2127
01:33:34,240 --> 01:33:36,040
Speaker 1: Of course she was going to go on the podcast.

2128
01:33:36,160 --> 01:33:38,519
Speaker 1: You want her to shock you more, just like I

2129
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:42,120
Speaker 1: just of course she was. I can't believe it. Can

2130
01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:43,840
Speaker 1: you can believe it? You knew you were gonna do this.

2131
01:33:43,880 --> 01:33:46,160
Speaker 1: You're one of the most strategic people on Earth. Of

2132
01:33:46,240 --> 01:33:48,400
Speaker 1: course you knew this too much. You knew two years ago.

2133
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:52,559
Speaker 2: Okay, is there any part of you, Kiki that did

2134
01:33:52,640 --> 01:33:54,639
Speaker 2: not think she would make an appearance on that podcast?

2135
01:33:54,920 --> 01:33:57,760
Speaker 3: The girl was she announced that blew my wig back.

2136
01:33:58,240 --> 01:34:01,160
Speaker 3: I couldn't believe it. Our lashes blew off.

2137
01:34:01,520 --> 01:34:01,680
Speaker 6: You know.

2138
01:34:01,880 --> 01:34:04,200
Speaker 3: I where are we going to be tomorrow six March

2139
01:34:04,280 --> 01:34:05,880
Speaker 3: in the New Height. Yes, we're all going to be

2140
01:34:05,920 --> 01:34:07,479
Speaker 3: watching it, so maybe we'll be there too.

2141
01:34:07,680 --> 01:34:07,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2142
01:34:08,120 --> 01:34:10,120
Speaker 2: And to their credit, they I mean, I don't think

2143
01:34:10,160 --> 01:34:12,240
Speaker 2: I don't think that all the attention that they got

2144
01:34:12,920 --> 01:34:15,920
Speaker 2: because Jason's with her, I don't think that hurt anything.

2145
01:34:16,040 --> 01:34:18,880
Speaker 2: But to their credit, they built that podcast themselves with

2146
01:34:18,960 --> 01:34:19,720
Speaker 2: their personality.

2147
01:34:19,800 --> 01:34:21,280
Speaker 1: I think it's a good They do a good job.

2148
01:34:21,400 --> 01:34:25,439
Speaker 1: Jason's not with her, because that would be weird, Travis,

2149
01:34:25,880 --> 01:34:27,760
Speaker 1: but I don't. They both on the podcast for sure.

2150
01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:30,040
Speaker 1: But you said Jason's with her, and I was like, well, I.

2151
01:34:30,080 --> 01:34:33,120
Speaker 2: Met Travis, But Jason and Travis to the podcast together,

2152
01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:35,160
Speaker 2: and they built that on their own and and it's

2153
01:34:35,280 --> 01:34:38,240
Speaker 2: they're very funny together. They have great chemistry as brothers whatever.

2154
01:34:38,360 --> 01:34:40,040
Speaker 2: So I give them a lot of credit. It wasn't

2155
01:34:40,080 --> 01:34:42,920
Speaker 2: like they launched the podcast with her on it and

2156
01:34:43,000 --> 01:34:43,680
Speaker 2: then rode that.

2157
01:34:44,400 --> 01:34:47,160
Speaker 4: I mean, that viral clip of him saying I wanted

2158
01:34:47,200 --> 01:34:49,840
Speaker 4: to give her a friendship bracelet with my number on

2159
01:34:49,960 --> 01:34:51,360
Speaker 4: it kind of put them on the map.

2160
01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:53,000
Speaker 1: But I'm giving them credit.

2161
01:34:53,240 --> 01:34:55,600
Speaker 2: I'm for waiting a while to do this because I

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01:34:55,840 --> 01:34:58,960
Speaker 2: probably would have pulled this right out, like if I

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01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:01,559
Speaker 2: were if I were didating tail Swift within like four days,

2164
01:35:01,560 --> 01:35:02,760
Speaker 2: I would have been like, Hey, come on the radio,

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01:35:04,200 --> 01:35:06,720
Speaker 2: would you mind stopping by the friend Show?

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Speaker 1: Please? Have you ever heard of iHeartRadio? Would you make

2167
01:35:09,640 --> 01:35:11,600
Speaker 1: a little video about it? Like, you know, come on.

2168
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Speaker 2: I guess I'm shameless, but I'm just saying good for them,

2169
01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:18,040
Speaker 2: But it's the least surprising information ever.

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Speaker 4: Okay, watch party, Okay, we'll be there, all right, take

2171
01:35:22,760 --> 01:35:26,559
Speaker 4: the that engagement ring. You want to catch up about

2172
01:35:26,560 --> 01:35:28,680
Speaker 4: anything from this show? Just on the free I heard

2173
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Speaker 4: radio app.

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Speaker 2: I have someone tell me recently they wanted to they

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01:35:32,360 --> 01:35:34,280
Speaker 2: want like a whole different thing now, an emerald or

2176
01:35:34,320 --> 01:35:36,320
Speaker 2: something like if they got married, they would want something

2177
01:35:36,360 --> 01:35:40,680
Speaker 2: totally different. Oh yeah, why what you can afford, by

2178
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Speaker 2: the most value you can afford.

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Speaker 1: It's all good.

2180
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Speaker 2: I just I kind of wonder why we're still buying

2181
01:35:45,880 --> 01:35:49,680
Speaker 2: these massive rings if we're trying to tell people that.

2182
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Speaker 1: Were rich right by what your bride would like exactly, and.

2183
01:35:54,000 --> 01:35:56,760
Speaker 2: Don't buy the bigger thing because you want everyone to

2184
01:35:56,840 --> 01:35:58,000
Speaker 2: think it's it's just fake.

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01:35:58,200 --> 01:36:01,479
Speaker 1: It's fake. You are on fire today. I kind of

2186
01:36:01,560 --> 01:36:03,680
Speaker 1: like it. Your monkey, it's that email ever since you

2187
01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:04,800
Speaker 1: can get in that email.

2188
01:36:04,640 --> 01:36:08,840
Speaker 2: Rightly, I'm just free. I feel free. A bunch of

2189
01:36:08,840 --> 01:36:10,080
Speaker 2: people could be telling me to do a bunch of

2190
01:36:10,080 --> 01:36:11,680
Speaker 2: stupid stuff right now. I won't even know because I

2191
01:36:11,720 --> 01:36:14,800
Speaker 2: can't read it. Sorry, a bunch of managers I never

2192
01:36:14,880 --> 01:36:19,560
Speaker 2: hear from. Ooh, I listen today and I heard this,

2193
01:36:20,720 --> 01:36:21,559
Speaker 2: look at the ratings.

2194
01:36:21,880 --> 01:36:24,680
Speaker 1: Oh period, go on, shut up. I don't know how.

2195
01:36:27,280 --> 01:36:29,080
Speaker 1: I listened for three minutes today and I heard this,

2196
01:36:29,160 --> 01:36:31,320
Speaker 1: So I counted how many times you said shut it off?

2197
01:36:32,400 --> 01:36:36,920
Speaker 1: More fread show. Next, The Thread show is on Friend's

2198
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Speaker 1: Fun Fact Fred fun learn so much.

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Speaker 2: I believe that what I'm about to tell you is

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01:36:48,240 --> 01:36:50,120
Speaker 2: going to be a problem for people with anxiety.

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Speaker 1: It's the same way.

2202
01:36:51,400 --> 01:36:52,880
Speaker 2: It's like, do you ever anyone ever point out to

2203
01:36:52,920 --> 01:36:55,160
Speaker 2: you I'm about to like triple it up, anyone ever

2204
01:36:55,200 --> 01:36:56,719
Speaker 2: point out to you, like, do you ever think about blinking?

2205
01:36:57,439 --> 01:36:59,800
Speaker 2: I mean, you don't think about blinking, But then like,

2206
01:37:00,240 --> 01:37:01,800
Speaker 2: you don't think about blinking one time. I've thought about

2207
01:37:01,800 --> 01:37:04,200
Speaker 2: blinking one time in the last ninety days. But now

2208
01:37:04,280 --> 01:37:05,880
Speaker 2: that you say it, I'm like, I'm thinking about it.

2209
01:37:05,960 --> 01:37:07,040
Speaker 2: Or do you ever think about breathing?

2210
01:37:07,280 --> 01:37:09,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't do that. It's like, no, I don't think

2211
01:37:09,040 --> 01:37:11,400
Speaker 1: about it. Now I'm thinking about it. Okay. So here's

2212
01:37:11,439 --> 01:37:11,840
Speaker 1: the fact.

2213
01:37:12,360 --> 01:37:16,960
Speaker 2: Your nose is always visible, but your brain ignores your

2214
01:37:17,080 --> 01:37:21,400
Speaker 2: nose through a process called unconscious selective attention, making it

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01:37:21,560 --> 01:37:25,559
Speaker 2: seem invisible to you. So your nose is like right there,

2216
01:37:25,920 --> 01:37:28,240
Speaker 2: and I guess your brain and your eyes can see it,

2217
01:37:28,320 --> 01:37:30,559
Speaker 2: and it would be like very pronounced in your view,

2218
01:37:31,120 --> 01:37:33,240
Speaker 2: but your brain learns to not see it.

2219
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Speaker 1: I can see it. That's cross it. Yeah. Someone take

2220
01:37:38,120 --> 01:37:40,559
Speaker 1: a picture of Kaylen looking at her nose. It's amazing.

2221
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Speaker 1: They talk better than they sit. Tell me these are

2235
01:38:27,160 --> 01:38:30,160
Speaker 1: the radio blogs on The Fred Show, like we're rinning

2236
01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:31,840
Speaker 1: in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

2237
01:38:31,920 --> 01:38:34,280
Speaker 2: We call them blogs. I'm gonna take this one, dear blog.

2238
01:38:34,479 --> 01:38:38,920
Speaker 2: I uh okay, now wait a minute, I'm scared. No,

2239
01:38:39,040 --> 01:38:41,040
Speaker 2: I pushed the button, but then I'm afraid if I

2240
01:38:41,080 --> 01:38:41,839
Speaker 2: pushed the button.

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Speaker 1: Again, we'll get stuck on the air. Okay, I don't know.

2242
01:38:45,680 --> 01:38:47,360
Speaker 1: I pushed it twice. What I don't know.

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01:38:48,040 --> 01:38:51,840
Speaker 2: No, I reset all the computers eight times, and now

2244
01:38:51,920 --> 01:38:54,280
Speaker 2: my outlook works, so that's cool. But it was but

2245
01:38:54,360 --> 01:38:56,120
Speaker 2: it was like the seventh reset, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

2247
01:38:57,640 --> 01:38:59,760
Speaker 2: Tech Support's like, well duh. I'm like, oh, I'm sorry.

2248
01:38:59,760 --> 01:39:01,400
Speaker 2: I didn't realize the seventh time would do it.

2249
01:39:01,520 --> 01:39:01,880
Speaker 19: My bad.

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Speaker 1: You're a big company outlet, My bad. And when many

2251
01:39:06,439 --> 01:39:08,240
Speaker 1: of us are having this issue, right, but they want

2252
01:39:08,280 --> 01:39:10,920
Speaker 1: me to call and I've oh, yeah, you become it

2253
01:39:11,160 --> 01:39:12,840
Speaker 1: when you put a ticket in. Girl, It's like, no,

2254
01:39:12,920 --> 01:39:16,280
Speaker 1: you work for us, now it's your blog.

2255
01:39:17,479 --> 01:39:19,640
Speaker 2: So we had a little radio conference last week, and

2256
01:39:19,680 --> 01:39:22,880
Speaker 2: then since I was in Texas, I went from Austin

2257
01:39:22,920 --> 01:39:25,840
Speaker 2: to Dallas to see my nieces now. And by the way,

2258
01:39:26,920 --> 01:39:29,280
Speaker 2: every time I talk about going to Dallas, I'm going

2259
01:39:29,360 --> 01:39:31,439
Speaker 2: to see my nieces now. My sister lives there as

2260
01:39:31,439 --> 01:39:33,840
Speaker 2: well my brother in law. They happen to be, you know,

2261
01:39:33,880 --> 01:39:35,639
Speaker 2: the parents of the nieces. But that's not really why

2262
01:39:35,680 --> 01:39:38,040
Speaker 2: I'm there, Let's be honest. I'm there to see my nieces,

2263
01:39:38,080 --> 01:39:41,280
Speaker 2: Polly who's four and a half, and Mave, who's I

2264
01:39:41,360 --> 01:39:42,439
Speaker 2: think two ish.

2265
01:39:42,840 --> 01:39:43,240
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2266
01:39:43,800 --> 01:39:45,599
Speaker 2: I'm losing track of how old they are. It doesn't matter,

2267
01:39:46,200 --> 01:39:49,479
Speaker 2: but I hang out with these girls and I'm supervised, right.

2268
01:39:49,680 --> 01:39:51,240
Speaker 2: I think we're at the point now where I could

2269
01:39:51,280 --> 01:39:55,640
Speaker 2: be unsupervised with at least Polly, because Polly can use

2270
01:39:55,680 --> 01:39:57,560
Speaker 2: the bathroom by yourself, and that was kind of the

2271
01:39:57,600 --> 01:39:58,280
Speaker 2: big barrier.

2272
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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01:40:00,120 --> 01:40:01,200
Speaker 2: We could have gone in there with her, we could

2274
01:40:01,200 --> 01:40:02,599
Speaker 2: have figured it out, but like, I don't know, I'm

2275
01:40:02,640 --> 01:40:04,240
Speaker 2: not I don't know how to do this parenting thing.

2276
01:40:04,439 --> 01:40:06,680
Speaker 1: How old is she? Probably four and a half? Oh,

2277
01:40:06,760 --> 01:40:08,960
Speaker 1: she certainly helped wiping though. If it's a number two,

2278
01:40:09,760 --> 01:40:10,439
Speaker 1: well good for me.

2279
01:40:10,520 --> 01:40:12,840
Speaker 2: I guess it's fine. How do you find I would

2280
01:40:12,880 --> 01:40:15,240
Speaker 2: do it? It doesn't matter. Whatever she needs, whatever she needs,

2281
01:40:15,280 --> 01:40:17,599
Speaker 2: But I don't. I don't really know what I'm doing.

2282
01:40:17,760 --> 01:40:20,120
Speaker 2: So it's it's I think they'd probably like, let me

2283
01:40:20,200 --> 01:40:24,519
Speaker 2: go figure it out, but I don't anyway, So like

2284
01:40:24,680 --> 01:40:27,880
Speaker 2: we I just when did when do you lose as

2285
01:40:27,920 --> 01:40:30,960
Speaker 2: a parent? This sense that they're going to break at

2286
01:40:31,080 --> 01:40:34,120
Speaker 2: every turn because like, you know, we went to Target

2287
01:40:34,240 --> 01:40:35,840
Speaker 2: because they had to get some stuff, and then Polly

2288
01:40:35,920 --> 01:40:37,600
Speaker 2: wanted one of those little cake pops. So we go

2289
01:40:37,680 --> 01:40:39,960
Speaker 2: over to the thing and and I'm walking with her

2290
01:40:40,080 --> 01:40:43,400
Speaker 2: and like I'm holding her hand and she's fine with that,

2291
01:40:43,600 --> 01:40:45,000
Speaker 2: but then she runs ahead of me and I'm like,

2292
01:40:45,040 --> 01:40:46,439
Speaker 2: hold on, hold on, and what are you doing?

2293
01:40:46,680 --> 01:40:48,639
Speaker 1: So I'm Jason, after this, She's nothing going to happen.

2294
01:40:48,920 --> 01:40:50,880
Speaker 2: And then she's you know, looking around all this stuff

2295
01:40:50,960 --> 01:40:53,120
Speaker 2: at the Starbucks and touching everything, and I'm just like,

2296
01:40:53,240 --> 01:40:56,519
Speaker 2: I like, I create this like bubble around her, you know,

2297
01:40:57,120 --> 01:40:59,640
Speaker 2: And then I don't know, when do you? And then

2298
01:40:59,640 --> 01:41:00,920
Speaker 2: they're in the car and I'm.

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01:41:00,800 --> 01:41:02,040
Speaker 1: Like, are you sure? That builds it in?

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01:41:02,160 --> 01:41:02,360
Speaker 12: Right?

2301
01:41:02,479 --> 01:41:03,000
Speaker 1: Like you sure?

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01:41:03,320 --> 01:41:04,680
Speaker 2: And my brother in law and my sister are like

2303
01:41:04,680 --> 01:41:07,080
Speaker 2: they're fine, dude, Like everything's fine. When do you lose

2304
01:41:07,200 --> 01:41:10,400
Speaker 2: this like sense that that you don't have to watch

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01:41:10,479 --> 01:41:11,680
Speaker 2: every single step they make?

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Speaker 5: I think it's you have that second kid, because I

2307
01:41:14,120 --> 01:41:17,000
Speaker 5: think if this was just Polly, your brother, your brother

2308
01:41:17,000 --> 01:41:18,960
Speaker 5: in law, and your sister would not be that chill.

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01:41:19,200 --> 01:41:21,479
Speaker 2: I helicopter over these kids and yes, then they're like

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01:41:21,640 --> 01:41:24,400
Speaker 2: jumping around on the couch. They're disassembling the couch and

2311
01:41:24,800 --> 01:41:27,040
Speaker 2: turning it into a trampoline. I'm like, Amanda, I don't

2312
01:41:27,120 --> 01:41:29,560
Speaker 2: is this and she's just chilling and I'm sitting on

2313
01:41:29,640 --> 01:41:31,559
Speaker 2: the couch, so like, I know that if something happens

2314
01:41:31,600 --> 01:41:34,040
Speaker 2: to one of these kids, it's I'm gonna get blamed, yep,

2315
01:41:34,560 --> 01:41:36,880
Speaker 2: because I'm sitting right there even though this is all

2316
01:41:36,960 --> 01:41:40,160
Speaker 2: happening around me, and they're just I'm like, I don't know,

2317
01:41:40,280 --> 01:41:41,760
Speaker 2: PAULI don't do that, And I don't want to be

2318
01:41:41,800 --> 01:41:43,840
Speaker 2: the guy that says don't do that. But I know

2319
01:41:43,960 --> 01:41:46,000
Speaker 2: if she's trips the one time and I'm sitting there,

2320
01:41:46,080 --> 01:41:49,320
Speaker 2: that's going to be Bubba Broker. They call me Bubba.

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01:41:49,360 --> 01:41:51,439
Speaker 2: So I'm just when do you lose this sense that

2322
01:41:51,520 --> 01:41:53,599
Speaker 2: they're going to break all the time. It's my question

2323
01:41:53,880 --> 01:41:56,320
Speaker 2: because I don't I don't know when I'm gonna I

2324
01:41:56,360 --> 01:41:57,680
Speaker 2: don't know if there's ever gonna be a time where

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01:41:57,680 --> 01:41:59,400
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable being with them where I don't feel like

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01:41:59,439 --> 01:42:02,840
Speaker 2: if any thing happens that I will be excommunicated from

2327
01:42:02,880 --> 01:42:08,040
Speaker 2: the family. You know, but you have a lot of nephews, yes,

2328
01:42:08,240 --> 01:42:10,800
Speaker 2: I mean, is there ever a point where you take

2329
01:42:10,840 --> 01:42:13,599
Speaker 2: them out to do stuff and you're like, just let

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Speaker 2: them go.

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Speaker 1: They'll be fine. They can go with me when they

2332
01:42:16,040 --> 01:42:18,560
Speaker 1: can eat hot wings and watch Real Housewives. That's a

2333
01:42:18,600 --> 01:42:20,519
Speaker 1: good one. Which is what age would you say? Seven?

2334
01:42:22,280 --> 01:42:22,479
Speaker 6: Ten?

2335
01:42:23,400 --> 01:42:27,600
Speaker 1: At what ages are the housewives appropriate? But yeah, I

2336
01:42:27,680 --> 01:42:29,800
Speaker 1: need you to be able to, you know, wipe and

2337
01:42:30,320 --> 01:42:31,880
Speaker 1: talk in all of that. Okay, so you.

2338
01:42:33,520 --> 01:42:36,200
Speaker 2: As a as a woman with a maternal instinct with

2339
01:42:37,200 --> 01:42:40,160
Speaker 2: you know, with all these nephews, nine of them, I

2340
01:42:40,240 --> 01:42:44,080
Speaker 2: lost counsel. I can understand why even you won't take

2341
01:42:44,120 --> 01:42:46,880
Speaker 2: them on your own until they're ten. Yeah, pretty much. Okay,

2342
01:42:46,920 --> 01:42:48,800
Speaker 2: good Now I feel better about this because I've been

2343
01:42:48,840 --> 01:42:51,240
Speaker 2: a little resistant and even though I want to to

2344
01:42:51,320 --> 01:42:52,880
Speaker 2: be like, come on, you come with me and we're

2345
01:42:52,920 --> 01:42:55,000
Speaker 2: gonna go out and have a day, because I don't

2346
01:42:55,000 --> 01:42:58,120
Speaker 2: know what would happen, you can there's.

2347
01:42:57,880 --> 01:42:59,559
Speaker 1: A lot of angles. I wouldn't know how to deal.

2348
01:42:59,600 --> 01:43:01,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't I wouldn't what to do. Yes, I wouldn't

2349
01:43:01,960 --> 01:43:04,360
Speaker 1: be able to triage. I wouldn't be able to handle it. No,

2350
01:43:04,960 --> 01:43:06,479
Speaker 1: you know, I wouldn't know what to do, not only

2351
01:43:06,520 --> 01:43:08,479
Speaker 1: because it's a girl, because it's a kid. I wouldn't

2352
01:43:08,479 --> 01:43:11,200
Speaker 1: know what to do yep, and so I don't.

2353
01:43:11,760 --> 01:43:14,400
Speaker 2: But I'm just curious when this sense of like, okay,

2354
01:43:14,439 --> 01:43:18,360
Speaker 2: everything's gonna be all right and and and the helicoptering ends.

2355
01:43:18,520 --> 01:43:21,920
Speaker 1: And for me maybe the answer is never. No, I

2356
01:43:21,960 --> 01:43:22,479
Speaker 1: can just hear it.

2357
01:43:22,640 --> 01:43:25,960
Speaker 2: Now, you know, poly skins your knee. What did you

2358
01:43:26,160 --> 01:43:29,120
Speaker 2: let her do? I don't know, Amanda. She was swinging

2359
01:43:29,200 --> 01:43:34,240
Speaker 2: off of the couch. I know she climbed the wall

2360
01:43:34,360 --> 01:43:37,080
Speaker 2: earlier in front of you, and that was okay. She

2361
01:43:37,240 --> 01:43:42,200
Speaker 2: was on the dining room table previously. But yeah, I

2362
01:43:42,240 --> 01:43:43,920
Speaker 2: went to this place called the Landing Strip. I wanted

2363
01:43:43,920 --> 01:43:46,120
Speaker 2: to see it, but it's not by the airport. They

2364
01:43:46,280 --> 01:43:49,320
Speaker 2: loved her there. You should have seen it. Man, she

2365
01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:55,920
Speaker 2: really took to those two turquoise and and candy or whatever. Okay,

2366
01:43:55,960 --> 01:43:59,880
Speaker 2: so it's ten years old. Yes, that's the safer safe aid.

2367
01:44:00,360 --> 01:44:03,080
Speaker 2: But then I'm afraid of like, okay, so ten's fine.

2368
01:44:03,240 --> 01:44:05,240
Speaker 2: Then we get twelve, thirteen, fourteen. Now we get into

2369
01:44:05,320 --> 01:44:06,920
Speaker 2: some areas where I also don't know what I would

2370
01:44:06,920 --> 01:44:09,479
Speaker 2: be doing. So that's scary too. So I'm thinking maybe

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Speaker 2: just twenty.

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Speaker 1: One, that's the say, not even then, not never.

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Speaker 2: Well, by by twenty one, everything's under I mean not

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Speaker 2: under control, not mentally, but like there's some sense of

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Speaker 2: there's not no night's Bar.