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Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola and Marisol Patton, an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hey, cheer nice, Hi amiga. We're here at Marisol's living room. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and having a cocky. If you guys are home and

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Speaker 2: listening to us, please have a cocky with us.

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Speaker 1: Have a cocky list.

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Speaker 2: Don't drive after the cocky. No, everyone's staying home. Alright,

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Speaker 2: it's four o'clock. Oh, it's a happy hour.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but on the East Coast it's one o'club.

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Speaker 2: No, that's ours West coast. I had too many copies.

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Speaker 1: I don't know a coast s'mon anymore.

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Speaker 2: Oh good. So wherever you're at, we hope you're having

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Speaker 2: a beautiful day and you're tuning in and listening to

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Speaker 2: us have a little bit of fun and having a

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Speaker 2: coffee with us.

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Speaker 1: We're very good at having fun, aren't we. And we're

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Speaker 1: excellent and having fun. I'm also very excellent relaxing. If

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Speaker 1: I could get paid for relaxing, i'd be a gazillionaire.

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Speaker 2: I need to learn from you, my friend, because I

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Speaker 2: am the opposite of the Oh.

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Speaker 1: I wish I was more like you, though. I wish

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Speaker 1: I would get up, run around and get in my car.

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Speaker 1: I want to go see the day. I want to

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Speaker 1: seize the sofa and I remember, like I only really.

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Speaker 2: Sit down when I'm so exhausted, like at the end

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Speaker 2: of the day, or not eat. I'm not out, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but well not, I'm just if you.

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Speaker 1: Lay around and off, you'll feel exhausted, because it's something

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Speaker 1: about relaxing that makes you even more exhausted than if

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Speaker 1: you went out and did a million things.

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Speaker 2: Well, speaking of exhausting, how was your weekend, because I

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Speaker 2: don't think that I saw you at any event for

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Speaker 2: swim week this weekend. Oh no, not that I was there.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, I was in Orlando. No, not Orlando.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, what is moment? All right?

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Speaker 1: Guys? Alexi and I we were at a very sad

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Speaker 1: memorial but after that we were so sad. We had

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Speaker 1: a lot of drinks and now I'm here and I

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Speaker 1: can't get my thoughts together. We had a cocky lunch

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Speaker 1: and it was really great because I love when we

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Speaker 1: hang out and have time together.

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Speaker 2: We should be doing this every every week when we're taping.

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Speaker 1: We're like, we're going to but you live kind of far.

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Speaker 1: We live far from each other.

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Speaker 2: But whenever we do have that opportunity, we take advantage

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Speaker 2: of it and we record together. We record too much.

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Speaker 1: Fun, so much better, so much better when we're together. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: So this weekend I was in Tampa. One of my

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Speaker 1: greatest lifelong dreams was to be on Home Shopping Network.

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Speaker 1: I would say HSN, but I keep saying HSN and

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Speaker 1: people are like what, so I have to spell it out.

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Speaker 1: It's Home Shopping Network. And I went on to sell

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Speaker 1: these beautiful headbands and hair pieces from lots and Maine.

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Speaker 1: I had a blast.

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Speaker 2: Are you plugging them in? How much did they pay

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Speaker 2: you that you're plugging them in into our part?

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Speaker 1: But I have to say why I was there? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: I was there. I don't have my own this week.

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Speaker 1: I don't have my own brand. I was plugging someone

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Speaker 1: else's brand. And that's why I wasn't here for swim week.

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Speaker 2: So but we went back Saturday, like Christy Brinkley, and

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Speaker 2: you could have ran right to.

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Speaker 1: The swim but why would I illustrated? But why?

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Speaker 2: Why? But I wanted to go and I didn't want

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Speaker 2: to go by myself, but you told me that.

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Speaker 1: Well wait, listen, I got home really tired.

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Speaker 2: There was no.

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Speaker 1: Way after I did home shopping work Friday midnight, and

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Speaker 1: then was up at five am to be on set

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Speaker 1: at ten am on Saturday, and then flew home.

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Speaker 2: I was dead.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't happening.

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Speaker 2: So it's more exhausting filming the show or filming something

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Speaker 2: like HSN.

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Speaker 1: They're different. I mean they're different, But what do you

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Speaker 1: like more? I liked both. I like both a lot

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Speaker 1: I like but I love doing our show. I have fun,

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Speaker 1: especially because I get to do it with you. And

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Speaker 1: HSM was like such a cool, fun experience. I mean

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Speaker 2: I just wanted you to see Christy because I knew

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Speaker 2: she was there and I'm just a big fan of hers.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was there selling like jeans and these cute

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Speaker 1: sailor outfits, very Hampton's type of clothing.

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Speaker 2: It was super cute. And then she flew back to

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Speaker 2: Miami and she attended the Sports Illustrated Swimming Then.

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Speaker 1: Swim Week is not my job. It used to be

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Speaker 1: my job, and thank god it's not my job anymore.

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Speaker 2: I remember when we used to go. We have so

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Speaker 2: many fun memories of Austin Swim Week. We have pictures

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Speaker 2: to go with it.

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Speaker 1: We went Gorga and Joe Gorga one year.

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Speaker 2: Remember, yeah has Sole Teresa is not gonna like that,

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Speaker 2: but that was a long time we did. We hung

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Speaker 2: out with Melissa and Joe, tons of fun and yeah,

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Speaker 2: that was like back in the day when it first started.

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Speaker 2: And it's going into such a big event here in

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Speaker 2: Miami and we filmed there last year. Yeah, and you

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Speaker 2: know I would have gone to the Sports Illustrated. That

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Speaker 2: one's the one that I would have gone to. Stupid,

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Speaker 2: you know what. I didn't get excited about it, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I have PTSD from doing those events because back in

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Speaker 1: the day, the summer was my slow season in the

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Speaker 1: PR firm, and if you could pick up a few

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Speaker 1: swim week events, at least you were busy and help

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Speaker 1: with payroll because you know, you got to pay the employees,

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Speaker 1: and but it was they paid so poorly, and it

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Speaker 2: And it's so hot and events really.

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Speaker 1: Really hard work and you get nothing for it. And

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Speaker 1: I have PTSD from that. I never made less money

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Speaker 1: in my life than when I worked on swim weeks,

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Speaker 1: So I don't for me swim weeks like ill no,

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Speaker 1: thank you. I don't want to go. But that's just

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Speaker 2: I feel like we've outgrown it, right, Like we've been

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Speaker 2: doing this for such a long time and it's there

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Speaker 2: every year, so it's like nothing special, you know. I'm happy.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy that it has grown into like a big thing,

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Speaker 2: and I hope it continues to grow and you know,

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Speaker 2: be great for the city. But I feel like, like

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Speaker 2: I said, like I I agree with I was excited

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Speaker 2: about the Sports Illustrated, Yeah, because I love their magazine

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Speaker 2: and you know the women that they put on their covers. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so it's very inspirational and that would have been a

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Speaker 2: fun event. I saw some of our friends were there.

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Speaker 2: Lisa was there with Jody, and Kiki was there. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: killing it on the red carpet pal of course, Well

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Speaker 2: she is a model. Yeah no, I mean I had

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Speaker 2: like a bunch of cute off it's to wear. So

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Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know how you out because you.

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Speaker 1: Didn't want to go because I wasn't here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of wanted to go with you. And

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Speaker 2: then after it happened, I get like, fomo, like, okay,

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Speaker 2: I missed out, Like I didn't go, But then you know.

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Speaker 1: If you remember that, it's just stand on the line,

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Speaker 2: It's hot. It's not that great.

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Speaker 1: But you know, back in the day, I think you're

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Speaker 1: like me. You had the magazine, you had to go

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Speaker 1: to these things, but you were a whole swim we

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Speaker 1: got and I had to throw these fashion shows. And

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Speaker 1: when you had to do it for work, it no

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Speaker 1: longer becomes like a fun thing. You go back and

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Speaker 1: you remember it like work. That's how I am. I

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Speaker 1: feel like it's like work for me, and I feel

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Speaker 1: like the great brands are gone now. I remember vel

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Speaker 1: Swim where I.

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Speaker 2: Always attended their show, one of the most beautiful shows,

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Speaker 2: our best.

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Speaker 1: So good, and the bandage sweatsuits were so cool.

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Speaker 2: Louis Max lovely.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well we have really good memories actually of some

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Speaker 2: weeknd we didn't like so much.

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Speaker 1: We did it big, and we don't want to do

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Speaker 1: it any less than that, and it ain't so big anymore.

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Speaker 2: I'm going back and if I'm on the cover of

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, me too, me too, or somewhere inside.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, like yeah, but still intend you know

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Speaker 2: everybody you know it does. Yeah, Like I said, there's

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Speaker 2: room for everybody. I feel like it's become such a

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Speaker 2: like young thing, and it's I think it's more.

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Speaker 1: For like marketing and retailers and wholesale selling and shopping.

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Speaker 1: It's I feel like they should do it during the

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Speaker 1: day and it just keep it to like, like you know,

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Speaker 1: New York Fashion Week, a lot of it's during the day,

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Speaker 1: a lot of it's night too.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like a lot of guys that attend

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Speaker 2: these events too, right, girls in bikinis. Yeah, and in

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Speaker 2: Miami lecherous.

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Speaker 1: It's so sleeky sure that when all these guys going

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Speaker 1: there that aren't biberts, Yeah, a bunch of perverts.

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Speaker 2: It's all like yah, yeah, yeah, that's Miami. But we

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Speaker 2: still choose to live here, don't we. Oh No, I

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Speaker 2: love my city. Are you kidding me to want to

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Speaker 2: live anywhere else? But that's why we're allowed to talk

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Speaker 2: about it, Like you know, we're allowed to talk about

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Speaker 2: the things to go on in our city because we live.

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Speaker 1: In Then nobody knows that like we do. We've lived

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Speaker 1: here for how long our entire life?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, we went born and raised here.

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Speaker 1: You had a magazine, you went to every event, you

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Speaker 1: ran shit in this town. I had a PR firm,

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Speaker 1: I ran stuff in this town. I did all the events.

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Speaker 1: I know, we know everybody. We really know this town

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Speaker 1: like nobody we are And in Miami a.

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Speaker 2: Lot we should talk about that. Yet another age changed

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Speaker 2: a Miami has changed a lot, and it's kind of

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Speaker 2: like a joke. I mean seriously, like you go to

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Speaker 2: these places and it's like, you know, like what, oh

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Speaker 2: my god. Yeah, and I feel like the men have

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Speaker 2: figured it out, so like they're.

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Speaker 1: All like, let's go to Miami.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have some topics that we want to discuss.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and you know, I guess in our broad world, right,

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Speaker 2: we can't get away from it.

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Speaker 1: Right, and you know, we don't like to talk about housewise,

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Speaker 1: but we really need to talk about.

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Speaker 2: This one sure, and that is that New Jersey will

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Speaker 2: not have a remedy onion? Yeah yeah, but like, did

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Speaker 2: it surprise you? Does it surprise you that won't be

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Speaker 2: having a reunion.

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Speaker 1: I haven't watched in a long long time. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie since we went up there like in two thirteen.

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Speaker 1: But I did watch before and I did scoop in

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Speaker 1: a couple of times to see what's up because everyone

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Speaker 1: said it was very toxic and I did.

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Speaker 2: And it was really hard.

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Speaker 1: But it said about all the shows.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: That's why people watch.

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Speaker 2: By the way, the audience is toxic because they are watching.

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Speaker 1: It well to show it off of the toxic Okay

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Speaker 1: there are yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: People, do you see a reboot or do you just

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Speaker 2: That keeps what's going to happen and who brings more

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I think now there's more of a division

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Speaker 1: Throb be the voice of reason. I think that they

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Speaker 2: It was hard. People don't like change. You have to

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Speaker 1: It's great to take another season or or more or

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Speaker 2: So that's why I like it. I mean, I've seen

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Speaker 1: You know, actors are good separately on their own. Together,

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Speaker 2: No, it wasn't It wasn't great. So I kind of

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Speaker 2: I thought they needed it as well. Yeah, and you know,

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Speaker 1: I never thought i'd see that. Oh my god, I'm

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Speaker 2: But you know what, that's the trick give you give

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Speaker 2: that they could never be like us or compete like

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00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:15,880
Speaker 2: with our friendships. But we were at because they were new.

439
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,080
Speaker 2: So it's it's good, but it's not that good either.

440
00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:19,040
Speaker 2: It's hard.

441
00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,199
Speaker 1: It's harding, but there, you know, you have to you

442
00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:26,119
Speaker 1: have to. There's just a thing about we've been friends

443
00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:30,119
Speaker 1: for so long, you mean, Lisa Larsa. You know, we

444
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,679
Speaker 1: know each other so well and that you cannot you know,

445
00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:37,080
Speaker 1: that's a bond that's very difficult to break overnight, you know.

446
00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,320
Speaker 2: No, But you know, sometimes you do have friends for

447
00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,280
Speaker 2: a short period of time that you haven't met for

448
00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:42,760
Speaker 2: a long time and you just click and you have

449
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,480
Speaker 2: that chemistry and you can have that same bond and friendship.

450
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,040
Speaker 2: So I mean, I don't know. I think that that

451
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,439
Speaker 2: it's hard to do. A reboot is difficult. You have

452
00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 2: to like really want it. For example, like whoever it

453
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:58,800
Speaker 2: may be that's staying, you know, on the show is

454
00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:00,879
Speaker 2: going to have to be welcome, mean, you know, with

455
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,280
Speaker 2: the new girls and you know whatnot. But you know,

456
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 2: I think that I think.

457
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,359
Speaker 1: That if they kept Teresa, she would do a good

458
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 1: job at that.

459
00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,600
Speaker 2: I think so Teresa is super nice, Oh.

460
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:14,160
Speaker 3: Nice, she's super nice, and I think very grandly understood,

461
00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:15,400
Speaker 3: very free.

462
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,800
Speaker 2: Very friendly, but you know, it's too many years of

463
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 2: the same thing and of the attacking. You have to

464
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,199
Speaker 2: let people be happy and be you know and like.

465
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,359
Speaker 2: And I feel like that's just like we're going to

466
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 2: talk about that, talking about that with Jaelo and I'm

467
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,480
Speaker 2: not even comparing you, but it's like our next topic

468
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,679
Speaker 2: that we're going to talk about is Jlo because I

469
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,720
Speaker 2: feel like they don't leave this woman alone, Like you

470
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,399
Speaker 2: need to leave people alone. And I feel like Teresa

471
00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:41,000
Speaker 2: and her thing. It's like they went after her. Now

472
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 2: they saw her happy, Oh because Louis this, and Louis

473
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 2: it's like, dude, like it's just too much, so with

474
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,760
Speaker 2: you against the entire world.

475
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,359
Speaker 1: I think it's a little different because people haven't always

476
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:57,400
Speaker 1: been attacking Jaelo. It's only recently, and that's Teresa's had

477
00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 1: that all along. But Jayla everyone was like, she's oh,

478
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 1: she's JLO and now she's getting some heat. And now

479
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 1: people are getting upset because she's getting a little heat

480
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 1: for the first time in her life.

481
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 2: Why do you think that she's getting some heat now?

482
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:09,600
Speaker 2: And I'm in the house.

483
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 1: I think that she's had too many flops in a

484
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 1: row right now. The movies are being panned, her documentary

485
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,919
Speaker 1: is being panned. She couldn't sell the tickets, and now

486
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 1: everyone's like, JLO sucks.

487
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 2: Well, who cares if she couldn't sell the tickets, that's

488
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 2: not such a big deal.

489
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,679
Speaker 1: Well, she had too many things that came out at

490
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 1: the same time. Too many people are giving opinions and

491
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 1: reviews on all these different things, and they're negative because

492
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:32,200
Speaker 1: they're not good.

493
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:34,639
Speaker 2: But I think it's more than that. I feel like

494
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:38,359
Speaker 2: people don't want to see her happy. Nobody's rooting for her,

495
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 2: and ben like, I think that people would be okay

496
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,919
Speaker 2: because she's human, you know, you can't be successful and

497
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,399
Speaker 2: everything that everything can be a hit, you know, I

498
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 2: think that she did it was like poor timing and

499
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 2: poor It's a judgment and a bad collecimity and a

500
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: lot of things that are happening to her right now.

501
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 2: And my heart really goes out for her, not only

502
00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,439
Speaker 2: because I, you know, I like her and I've you know,

503
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 2: I've always seen her as an inspirational woman and she

504
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 2: has flaws like every other woman, but you know, I

505
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 2: tend to see the beauty in her and all her

506
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 2: positive and all her great things which she has, which

507
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 2: there are a lot of them. And then when she

508
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: opens up and she's vulnerable on a docu series, not

509
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 2: people are coming after her like why did you do this?

510
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,120
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. So it's like, oh no, no, Gana.

511
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 2: It's like it's always like the same thing.

512
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,640
Speaker 1: I honestly didn't watch any of it. Well obviously everybody

513
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: knows I'm not a fan, so I didn't watch.

514
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 2: Any of it.

515
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 1: But it's unfortunate. It's not good when everything you're doing recently.

516
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:36,200
Speaker 1: It just kind of sucks and.

517
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,439
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. Don't think give people the right to

518
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 2: be so hate, you know, like just to show so

519
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 2: much hate.

520
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 1: They do it anyway, because.

521
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 2: You know, look at yourself. I mean, people need to

522
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 2: self reflect and look at themselves. Are you that great?

523
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 2: And are you whatever?

524
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 1: Are you that they're not? That's why they're upset because

525
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 1: their life isn't that great and even on their worst day,

526
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 1: it's not as bad as j Loo's. And then they

527
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 1: get angry and then they you know, they just want to,

528
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,440
Speaker 1: you know, put out their frustrations on the internet. I

529
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 1: don't know if it makes them feel any better, if

530
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: it's cathartic, but they just do it. It is what

531
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 1: it is, and it's unfortunate. But I think it's just

532
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 1: a collision of a lot of bad products. She's put

533
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 1: out in a row and now.

534
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 2: Everyone, well, I I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Just because you

535
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 2: put a bad product out there does not mean that

536
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 2: people have the right to attack you the way or

537
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 2: attacking the moment. I'm sorry.

538
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 1: People have the right to know it wasn't they have

539
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: the right.

540
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 2: How would you? How do you like it when they

541
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 2: say things about you. Don'd you get three little comments

542
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 2: You're like, oh my god, and you're like dying for

543
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 2: three comments. Stop. I'm not nice.

544
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it's nice. I'm just saying it

545
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 1: is the way of the world now. And the reason

546
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:44,639
Speaker 1: is that she had too many bad products that she

547
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 1: put on. She had a documentary she hasn't.

548
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 2: Well, it was bad to people that didn't want that

549
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 2: were not Okay, hold on a minute, just like you

550
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 2: could say, well, you know what if it doesn't work

551
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,200
Speaker 2: out for you, whatever, Well you have a bad show.

552
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,959
Speaker 2: You know, you have a toxic show. That's not but

553
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 2: that doesn't mean you want to hear that from the

554
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 2: people and in the comments.

555
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 1: Well, okay, so even so, this isn't helping her. This

556
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 1: guy that she did the last film with Atlas, who's

557
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: this guy? This guy Sterling K. Brown. He's been mocking

558
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: her on the press tours.

559
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 2: He's a little loser.

560
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 1: He hates her.

561
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 2: Okay, but you know what, he worked with her.

562
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 1: He probably she's probably like shitty on the set and

563
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: he doesn't like her.

564
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, but do you blame her? Do

565
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 2: you blame her? Like her life right now isn't great? Personally.

566
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: And you know, I can speak for myself for that,

567
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 2: when your life is not personally, if you're like that

568
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 2: kind of a woman and you have no control of

569
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 2: like your personal life right now, whatever's going on, it

570
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:40,200
Speaker 2: affects your professional life. Because she's human. I know she's Jlo,

571
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 2: but she's also human. She's a mom, she's a daughter,

572
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 2: she's a wife. I mean, she's also human, and she

573
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 2: has every right not everything's going to be perfect, I mean,

574
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 2: for her all the time. Just because you didn't like

575
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 2: her show, So don't watch it, that's all you gotta do.

576
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:55,400
Speaker 2: Don't watch.

577
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 1: And I'm just telling you about the rebews on the

578
00:24:58,080 --> 00:24:59,919
Speaker 1: last three things she's put out. We're back, you know,

579
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: sell the ticketing, well, who cares?

580
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 2: Okay, she can say, you know, how many tickets she

581
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 2: sold her entire life?

582
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: What are people.

583
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 2: Focus about right now?

584
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: Okay, well right now, who cares?

585
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 2: But why do people just focus on that. She's had

586
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: a career where she sold billions of tickets. I myself

587
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 2: want to go see her in Vegas where she performed

588
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 2: and it was incredible that woman gave you know, like

589
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 2: for the money that I paid, she should have charged

590
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 2: three times because it was incredible. Like, she's such a performer,

591
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 2: she's so hard working. And again that's not good enough

592
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 2: because it also affected her personal life and that's where

593
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,800
Speaker 2: she's at now. Like I really don't believe that she

594
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 2: canceled her concert because of poor ticket sales. I really

595
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 2: do believe that she canceled her concert because her personal

596
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 2: life is falling apart and for once she can deal

597
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 2: with it. Stop it with your pr ship. It's not

598
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 2: no pr spin Okay, I'm sorry, No, it's not you

599
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 2: as a publicist, you can stayed up. But I really

600
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 2: don't believe that.

601
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: Okay, she's no Share and she's no Madonna, Okay, Di,

602
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: I agree with them, and you know, okay, so she dances,

603
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: she puts on a naked outfit and she blip syncs.

604
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 2: Okay, and so to one hundred other people.

605
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: But you know what, you know, she's just never going

606
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,479
Speaker 1: to be them. She's never going to sell out those

607
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: tours for the rest of her life. You know who

608
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: will do that? Adele. Adele can put on a black dress,

609
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: sit on a stool because she has a voice and

610
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: she sings. She doesn't have to dance and wear the

611
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: sparkly outfit and distract people from the fact of the

612
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 1: lack of talent. That's just my opinion, and Adele will

613
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 1: just be like Barbara Streissan and will be keep singing

614
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: and selling out concerts till the day she puts her

615
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: foot in the grape.

616
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: Jaylo said in her release, I am completely heartsick and

617
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 2: devastated about letting you down. Please know that I wouldn't

618
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 2: do this if I didn't feel that it was absolutely necessary.

619
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 2: Totally agree with her. I promise I will make it

620
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 2: up to you and we'll all be together again. I

621
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 2: love you all so much until next time. It's sad,

622
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 2: it's very sad. It's odd. Yeah, I'll make it up

623
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 2: to you.

624
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: We'll all be together and I love you much until

625
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: next time.

626
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, but.

627
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: It is down, of course.

628
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 2: But you know, you know, her career is very important

629
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 2: to her.

630
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: She's letting down the people that didn't buy the tickets, No.

631
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 2: The people that know, just everybody, because she feels this.

632
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 2: She feels this from all the people giving her all

633
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 2: this hate and not it's supporting her PR spin. I

634
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: don't know how that's a PR spin.

635
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 1: Because everyone knows she couldn't sell the tickets and she's

636
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: making it seem like not everything in life is about

637
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 1: pr not everybody on my friend, I'm going to put

638
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: this proposition out now. She remember when she broke up

639
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: with a rob because he cheated on her, and two

640
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 1: weeks later she's already out with Ben and they're engaged. Well, okay, okay,

641
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: you know I didn't know that, but she knows how

642
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 1: to spend shit and she trusts me. Would this breakup

643
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: if she had sold those tickets out and she could

644
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: really do a tour, she would have gone.

645
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 2: She would have gone.

646
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,959
Speaker 1: She would have gone and done it because maybe she

647
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 1: likes to keep going and doing her thing and moving on.

648
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 2: So you don't think at this time that she's suffering

649
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 2: from her separation from Ben.

650
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 1: Right now, you think what she is. But she's a

651
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: woman likes to throw herself into her work or into

652
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: another man, and she keeps it moving.

653
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 2: And so now I mean I think that that's how

654
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 2: she has loved her life. Yes, that's correct. Right well now,

655
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 2: now sometimes there's different situations and she's fifty four years

656
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:37,719
Speaker 2: old and she sees you know, probably life and family,

657
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 2: especially being on her fourth marriage.

658
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: She says, I'm making no money and all the back

659
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: with my family, who I don't want to hang out

660
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: with anyway.

661
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 2: Do you think so? Yeah? I thank you. You're entitled

662
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 2: to think that like you, one hundred thousand other people do,

663
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 2: and those are the ones that are leaving the hate comments.

664
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 2: I know. I'm supporting her, and I think it's really

665
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 2: honorable that she that she was able to she did

666
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 2: find love with Ben. But I really hope that she

667
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 2: can save her marriage and her relationship and that she

668
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 2: realizes that she has nothing to prove. She's proven everything.

669
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 2: She's a freaking superstar. She's done everything I agree to

670
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 2: herself she does. She keeps on trying to do something,

671
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 2: you know, to work like, she doesn't stop working. I

672
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 2: mean at this point, she hadn't made music since twenty nineteen, Like,

673
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: why would you go back, like you said, having all

674
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: these things in the plate, already having your Netflix docu series,

675
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 2: having the Outlets movie for Netflix, and she's filming something

676
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 2: else in New York.

677
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: I forgot. I think she thought she was gonna be like, Wow, no,

678
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: I was a superstars. She already knows that she's a

679
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: super who who's not gonna listen? In this business, you

680
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 1: got to keep pustling.

681
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 2: It's well, by the way, Ben is working too, you

682
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 2: know what I mean. So Ben is working too, and

683
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 2: you know, and Ben doesn't look like he's such a

684
00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 2: walk in the park. I'm sorry.

685
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: No, okay, he doesn't.

686
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: He doesn't, so I'm sorry.

687
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: So she's probably like, Okay, you focus on your thing.

688
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to focus on me and I'm going to.

689
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: Do my thing and I'm going to do what I

690
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 2: love to do greatious and it's just right. That doesn't matter.

691
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 2: But they're both very very well off. They're not concerned

692
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 2: about money at this point. For once, this relationship is

693
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 2: not about money. They didn't marry each other for money.

694
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: She doesn't care about any of that.

695
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 2: She cares about work and about her career and about

696
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 2: her profession. But you know, which is something else that

697
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 2: we can talk about. Like she's fifty four years old.

698
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 2: I think she's had a remarkable life and career. She

699
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 2: hasn't been so great. I agree with you. She's not

700
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 2: a sheriff and Donna Dell whatever as far as singing

701
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 2: goes or acting like you know, let's say Meryl Streep

702
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 2: or any of that. But with the talent that God

703
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: gave her, she's done so much with it, and yes,

704
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 2: and she should be inspirational for a lot a lot

705
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 2: of young women to say, you know what, never give

706
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 2: up on your dreams. I started this way and where

707
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 2: I'm here now. So that's what I've always seemed to

708
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 2: think about. And I really do believe that she's really

709
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 2: in love with Ben, and she really is. She you

710
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 2: know sometimes and you don't hit like rock bottom, but

711
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: she's always so busy that she doesn't realize what's going on.

712
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 2: So when she saw that probably Ben moved out and

713
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 2: wanted some separation between them, she's like, what, like, what

714
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 2: is really happening to me right now? And seeing her

715
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: family is falling apart, and you know, she's a human being,

716
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: and like she's had four marriages already, it's like a tapano.

717
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: You know.

718
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 2: It's like you're like, you know what, like maybe you know,

719
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 2: I need to save this, Like this is the love

720
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 2: of my life, like she like she professors that it is,

721
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 2: which I really do believe it is. So why aren't

722
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 2: you fighting for it?

723
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: Drop everything right now and go fight for it.

724
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 2: And I think that that's what she's doing. That's just

725
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 2: me personally, that my friend I would love to be

726
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 2: friends with her, But.

727
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: I know you would because I think we have Like

728
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: I've actually hung out with her and had dinner with

729
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: her a few times in the nineties. I wasn't impressed.

730
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: Maybe that's why I still have like, you know, well in.

731
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 2: The nineties, who were you in the nineties. Well, she

732
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 2: had already done, Selena.

733
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: I was told in the nineties.

734
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 2: And I'm still but I want to take you some

735
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 2: kind of growth, you know, like you know when you're

736
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 2: in the nineties and she was just starting off. There's

737
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 2: a lot of insecurities.

738
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: Okay, well whatever, let's just I forgot I was going

739
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: to say I had some really important points.

740
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: He said, what did you just say about the nineties? No?

741
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: Before that? Oh, here's what I think. I think that

742
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: and I know you're going to agree with me. She

743
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: needs to take a break from all these QUICKI relationships

744
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: and marriages because she keeps moving her kids into these

745
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: situations with other kids and other and restarting. So what

746
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: happened with you know, a Rod's kids, they were super close.

747
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: Now she lives with Ben's kids and her kids. Yeah,

748
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: Like I don't understand that. It's like, you need you

749
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: need to consider them too. And I understand being in

750
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: love with love and you and I love that and

751
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:56,959
Speaker 1: we jump into stuff. I can do that as much

752
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: as I want. I don't have many kids, and I

753
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: know your relationship chips have all been long ten then

754
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: fifteen years and now another eight years like you. But

755
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: her relationships don't even last two three years. And then

756
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: she's I'm honest and moving the kids and new kids

757
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: an instant family.

758
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that that's hard. Like I don't think she's

759
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: made the best decisions, you know, for her family. You know,

760
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 2: maybe for her, but not for her family. And she's

761
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 2: in love with the idea of being in love. But

762
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: I really do think that, Like Ben was also comunga

763
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 2: how do you say.

764
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: Like when you're stubborn and stuck on.

765
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 2: Like when you really want like the fact that she

766
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 2: couldn't have them twenty three years ago, and you know,

767
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: so it was always like in the back of her

768
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 2: mind and then timing happened, were you know, a rod

769
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: supposedly cheated on her or she cheated on her and

770
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: she was alone filming.

771
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: Ben was alone. It was all about timing, and you know, sometimes.

772
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 3: It was like it had to be you know, what

773
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 3: I mean, it was years ago.

774
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm telling you know, sorry, Oh you cheated on me, Ben, No,

775
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 2: I know, but hold on. Yeah, but again, no, no,

776
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that. No, I'm saying that she was

777
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 2: like a go gittle like it was her go Gito,

778
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 2: Like he was the one that escaped, and you know,

779
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 2: she can't have anybody she wants. It was like the man,

780
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 2: the guy that escaped twenty something years ago, and she

781
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 2: was so much younger and naive and not even immature,

782
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 2: and so is he. And then they reconnected and they

783
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,399
Speaker 2: always had that love for each other that's like really

784
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 2: hot and sexy and like any anybody, you know what

785
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: I mean at that stage in their life would totally

786
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: try again. But the truth is, and nothing's changed. They're

787
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 2: more public than ever, They're more popular than ever, they're

788
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 2: more famous than ever. Now they have kids, So now

789
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 2: you put kids into the equation. Before it's just them too.

790
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 2: Now you have five kids. Now you have five kids.

791
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: I don't think any of them NEPR like Ben for

792
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 2: sure hates social media, hates the paparazzi, hates the pr

793
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 2: They're never going to really believe like her side of

794
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 2: the story and I think that that's why she wanted

795
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 2: to do that docu series.

796
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,720
Speaker 1: It's kind of like she wanted to prove to the world.

797
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 2: I think that they really that they were really in

798
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 2: love and that he always loved her and he never

799
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,879
Speaker 2: like really left her or like he was always thinking

800
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 2: about her. She wants to prove and you see, I

801
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 2: feel like that's where she went wrong. If she would

802
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: have kept that all to herself, Yes she shouldn't have

803
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 2: done that. Maybe she wouldn't be but you know what,

804
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 2: she did it from her heart. She didn't think that

805
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 2: that he was not going to be okay with her

806
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 2: support it because he didn't like it.

807
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,919
Speaker 1: She's marketing her relationship.

808
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 2: She's got a song with that. It's not a good idea.

809
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 2: It's not a good idea. And I think that that

810
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 2: it's you know, she she's paying for right now. She's

811
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: paying for enough.

812
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,720
Speaker 1: That relationship was doomed.

813
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: I think they took a pact.

814
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: That's what they say about everybody's relationship. Everybody's relationship is doomed.

815
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 2: I have it. Travis and Kelsey Odita. People start saying, oh, no,

816
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 2: they're not doomed. They're already saying no, they're already saying

817
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 2: they had a five blah blah blah.

818
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: Everybody fine, oh no, no, but yeah.

819
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 2: But it's different when you're a public peron and you

820
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,359
Speaker 2: fight and somebody sees you and you know, and they

821
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 2: say they did they talk about it, or you leave

822
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,839
Speaker 2: at restaurant, it's different. When you're in that you know,

823
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 2: in that platform, or whatever you want to call it.

824
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 2: It's it's very different. It's like you can't do anything

825
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 2: without people finding out.

826
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 1: Guys having an opinion. Alex Ya, they're not doomed. They're

827
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:24,280
Speaker 1: going to get married Travis and and Okay, well, pinky swear,

828
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: Jo and Ben are getting back together.

829
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: Oh no, they're not.

830
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 3: Yes they are, Yes they are. It's gonna get have

831
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 3: to help them. You have to go to La and

832
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 3: talk to jal. Yes, No, they're there. Yes, are you

833
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 3: agreement from the beginning?

834
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 2: Agreement?

835
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: You don't see it an agreement?

836
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 2: Oh my god, who can hop an agreement?

837
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: It's Hollywood. Hollywood's been doing that for years. In the

838
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: fifties and sixties, there were gay actors. They would put

839
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: them together with straight women, put them in the tablets

840
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 1: like they were dating because they weren't allowed to. Okay,

841
00:36:58,520 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: well that's that different.

842
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, twenty four an agreement.

843
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: People still for she's the master at this.

844
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,439
Speaker 2: She calls the paparazzi everywhere she goes.

845
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,720
Speaker 1: She knows what she's doing. She has a whole time.

846
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: By the way, so does he. I don't think he does.

847
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: You know, he doesn't want it. Oh that's what he says, no,

848
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 2: my love when he was with Anna Diadamas. But by

849
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 2: the way, she's keeping Oh my god, yeah, exactly, yes, yes,

850
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 2: my love. So read yourself said. You can know so

851
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 2: because I'm a fan of Anaadama. She was dating Ben.

852
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:38,479
Speaker 2: With Benny, you're dating Ben and the one that would

853
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 2: call the paparazzis because she's like she's an amazing, very

854
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 2: very incredible actress.

855
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she doesn't have like that.

856
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 2: You know, there's some actresses that have like no, yes

857
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 2: she does, but there's some people that have like that

858
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 2: stark quality power, you know, that attracts the paparazzi in

859
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,240
Speaker 2: the media to talk about them, and there's some people

860
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 2: that don't. She's beautiful, talented, but people don't really care

861
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 2: for her. But anyway, she dated Ben. She's a lot

862
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 2: younger than Ben. For like a year and a half.

863
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: No, yes, and they were super serious.

864
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: And the one that would call the paparazzi and it's

865
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 2: public knowledge, the one that would call the proparazzi and

866
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 2: wanted him to get to the pictures was him.

867
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 1: No, you know what, he wants to control it. This

868
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: is what happens.

869
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 2: He likes the paparazzi when he can control the paparazzi

870
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 2: and they can put the picture of him that he likes,

871
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 2: hold the hand, do like the whole thing when he

872
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 2: controls it. What doesn't ben like when the paparazzi gets

873
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 2: them mad for usual because it has the ship face

874
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: and is not opening the door to j Lo or

875
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 2: he's having a conversation with her, or he's doing when

876
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 2: they catch him in a way that he doesn't want

877
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 2: to see that people he doesn't want to see people

878
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 2: portray him that way right or be perceived.

879
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: But if not, he's okay with it. So it's like

880
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 1: double standards. No, I can't believe an armad what happened them?

881
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. Should be call Anna, maybe she'll tell her.

882
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 2: I mean, he should have stayed with her, She's That's

883
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: what I'm telling you that besides she's a very talented,

884
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 2: she's very pretty, and she seems pretty normal also, by

885
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 2: the way, But I wonder why it didn't work out.

886
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: I feel like she's a lot younger than him. I

887
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 2: think that's that was a problem.

888
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 1: Tell me what you think about Lenny Kravitz. He hasn't

889
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: had sex in nine years.

890
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 2: Speaking of relationships, Yeah, speaking.

891
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 1: Of extreme relationships, jumping from one to another and then

892
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: like not having one and not well.

893
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 2: For that really surprised me. I would never think that

894
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 2: about Lenny Gravits, Like, he's.

895
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: Such a superstar.

896
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,399
Speaker 2: He's like a rock star. He's like everything that has

897
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 2: to do with like hottness and sexiness. I mean, have

898
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 2: you seen it? The pantsy? Oh my god, are you

899
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 2: gonna say, is peenis? No? It's penis No. But you

900
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 2: can see his penis throws rulin you're always looking at that.

901
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,439
Speaker 1: Well, he wears these very like like on gossamer type

902
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: of things that you can see his religion like right

903
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:58,720
Speaker 1: through his pan.

904
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 2: Well, so let's be see. Celibacy is a different story.

905
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 2: You know you can wear those type pants. Well he

906
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 2: wears Yeah.

907
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: He's celibate, So what the hell's going on there? Okay?

908
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: In a new interview with The Guardian, krowtstold the interview

909
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: he's not been in a serious relationship for nine years.

910
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 2: Wow, I think Lisa was the last one.

911
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 1: What, No, they've been Okay, Well, were you serious when

912
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: you so married a while ago that you wanted to

913
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 1: be celibate until you found the right woman.

914
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,439
Speaker 2: Yes, it's a spiritual thing.

915
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: He says he'd love to be in a relationship now,

916
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: but he thinks he might struggle. I have become very

917
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: set in my ways, in the way I live. Well, yeah,

918
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 1: he's sixty yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and you know what,

919
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: people are complicated. It's very hard to live with someone

920
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 1: you know, you need to be on the same damn page.

921
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: It's very different.

922
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 2: I mean, even if you're not in the same I

923
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 2: don't think you have to be in the same damp page.

924
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 2: But no, I mean you have to like meet halfway

925
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: and there has to be like some adjustments and like conversationations.

926
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 2: But because it's not only about like my way right right? Okay?

927
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: Could you ever be celibate for that long? And what's

928
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:08,760
Speaker 1: the longest you've been without sex?

929
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 2: Hm? Well, I think that I think not having sex

930
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 2: is more like abstaining. I don't think. I don't consider

931
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 2: that celibacy. I consider I've never had celibacy never, never,

932
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 2: not that you know, because it's like you're married, but

933
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 2: for like spiritual reasons, you know what I mean. Like

934
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 2: I see more celibacy with like a spiritual meaning behind it.

935
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 2: And even though I haven't been married, I've still like

936
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 2: had sex, and I feel like that's a lot for

937
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 2: a lot of people, Like I don't believe that you

938
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 2: can only have sex if you're married, and that's part

939
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: of celibacy.

940
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 1: Well, how do you know you want to marry someone

941
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 1: and listens you have sex of course. Yeah.

942
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 2: So yeah, I just I was really in shock that

943
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 2: he that he was celibate and that he would talk

944
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: about it. You see, This is what I'm trying to say,

945
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 2: And like I always talk about these when we're talking

946
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 2: about hot topics that like even Camilla Cabello the other

947
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: day saying that she lost her virginity, uh whatever, age,

948
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,919
Speaker 2: Like who asked you? One this case? Is she who

949
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 2: asked you? Why are you talking about it now? Like

950
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,720
Speaker 2: why are you trying to get attention? Like yeah, like

951
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 2: nobody wants to know that.

952
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: By the way, I was like who cares about Camilakavello.

953
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: But by the way, I really am obsessed that the

954
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: fact the Lenny Tighte wearing pants see my penis through

955
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:29,720
Speaker 1: my pants, hasn't had sex in nine years. That's pretty crazy.

956
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: But I think that he's doing some Yeah, he's doing

957
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: a religious thing, right, So that's what I said.

958
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 2: So I said, one thing is abstaining from having sex

959
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 2: and not just having it because like you know, you're

960
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 2: stressed out about it or you're get stresses your whatever

961
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 2: your reason might be. But it's not with the spiritual

962
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 2: connection rush, whereas celibacy is you know, they believe that

963
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 2: until you don't find that partner and you marry them,

964
00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:59,919
Speaker 2: is not that you can have like sex with kind

965
00:42:59,920 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 2: of right, because I mean there's other sexual things you

966
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 2: can do. And that's the other thing too, Like celibacy

967
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:08,959
Speaker 2: like on your own boy, it's that doesn't even count.

968
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 2: I mean, that's you're like self pleasuring yourself. Oh for sure,

969
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 2: he's like in love with it, Oh my god, for sure.

970
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 2: In Celibacy doesn't mean you can't touch your own baby.

971
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 2: Yeah you got to do Yeah, of course he's doing that.

972
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: We should I want to What's more concerning.

973
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 2: But you know, what's more concerning with me that he's

974
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: not connecting spiritually with any woman.

975
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: That is the question. The question shouldn't be Women.

976
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 2: Shouldn't be like, oh my god, he's not having sex,

977
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 2: you know.

978
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: The question should be like, why aren't you having sex?

979
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 2: Lenny? Why aren't you connecting? In nine years? There's not

980
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 2: one woman you could have connected with spiritually. It's not

981
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 2: a weird I'm kind of like able got out. Oh

982
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, you know, And I'm such a fan of

983
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 2: baby crabits.

984
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, and I actually.

985
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 2: See him here in Miami all the time and with women,

986
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: So like, what's going on, Lenny? How came you're not connecting?

987
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 2: But speaking of that, I feel like I've heard of

988
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 2: many other like actress and actresses more.

989
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: Actress, guys pay pay bills.

990
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 2: No that I don't know, but that the dude that

991
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 2: practice sell really Yeah. So I remember doing a magazine

992
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: cover with Eduardo. He was like this hot Mexican actor,

993
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,280
Speaker 2: you know, back in the day, and now he's actually

994
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 2: very involved with politics.

995
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: He's so beautiful, he's a.

996
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 2: Very handsome guy. Well now he doesn't look that great.

997
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 2: When I had him on my cover of the magazine.

998
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 2: That guy was gorgeous, like he walked in. Everybody was like, oh,

999
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 2: I saw it, and then my job was to google them. Yeah.

1000
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 1: Well when I googled him, I'm like, I think Alexi

1001
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: and I was, and I think I saw him on

1002
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:42,439
Speaker 1: a cover.

1003
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, And everybody would always tell me like like when

1004
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 2: we met each other there, I was like, no, well

1005
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 2: first I was married, but you know, every time we're hooking.

1006
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 2: Oh no, everybody thought every time I had a hot

1007
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 2: guy on the cover, that would be like Alex is

1008
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 2: doing whatever. It was so rude, and I think that

1009
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 2: that's why I've always thoune that my friend, Okay, thank

1010
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: that's good and you know me, yeah, no, I mean,

1011
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 2: and that's why I think I hate the media so

1012
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 2: much and like people, you're champing even though I'm here

1013
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 2: chaining out though. Yeah, I mean, it was like I

1014
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 2: had like the stamp in my in my forehead that

1015
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 2: it was like I was, no, it doesn't make you

1016
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 2: a boot, but you know, it was honestly like offensive,

1017
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 2: like that's what everybody thought, Like every time I had

1018
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 2: a hot cover, Oh hug guy on the cover, it's

1019
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 2: because you're doing like that's so rare.

1020
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 1: You have like a casting couch what we kind of did. No,

1021
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: you're silver so fu Yeah yeah, it would look like

1022
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 1: tinfoils so cool. Your whole office was very bar ba.

1023
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 2: Yeah that's always been kind of barb Yeah. But anyways,

1024
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 2: so we had it and and but this is you

1025
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: see what I'm talking about, Like I think it goes

1026
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:46,399
Speaker 2: into like being like a little weird. I mean, also,

1027
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 2: we're talking about men that have always been like so

1028
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 2: good looking. All these guys have had women throwing themselves

1029
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 2: at like it's like it's gross, you know what I mean.

1030
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 2: It's like women throwing themselves at them the whole time.

1031
00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 2: So they're like, I feel like he's so that he

1032
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 2: just is just know now he's married. I think he's

1033
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 2: very now. He's very now. Yeah he's married now so

1034
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: he's having sex.

1035
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, well okay, but the audience needs to know that

1036
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,839
Speaker 1: this man did fourteen years of celibacy.

1037
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 2: Yes, So when we met him and he was on Ala,

1038
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 2: he was already practicing the Seals, sellab the sceed. So

1039
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 2: we were all like freaking out because he was like that.

1040
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 2: But I want you to know that he was so

1041
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,320
Speaker 2: serious about that. So we're trying to get him dressed

1042
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 2: and you know, there was a salast there and everything.

1043
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 2: But I think we had like a few discrepancies and

1044
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: size because you're usually like, you know how the girls

1045
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 2: lie about their size, so two men. Yeah, so he

1046
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 2: probably said he was like a size thirty in waist

1047
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 2: and he was like a thirty two. Oh But anyways,

1048
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 2: so everybody was like no, I say, like he was

1049
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 2: like not liking it, like you have to go in

1050
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 2: there and talk to him and whatever. And I literally

1051
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 2: opened the door and he was like, yeah, clevering, covering

1052
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 2: his baby, covering his baby, And I was like, okay,

1053
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 2: And how well was he? He was in his thirties?

1054
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 2: He was like in his thirties yeah.

1055
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,360
Speaker 1: Grown man, Yeah yeah, no, it was young holding beautiful

1056
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 1: woman to see his people.

1057
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 2: No or or anybody for that matter, but you can

1058
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 2: see like his energy was kind of like weird, you know,

1059
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 2: because we know we're used to being around just like

1060
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 2: normal people. Wow, he is like so what I'm trying

1061
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 2: to say, Yeah he is. He's very religious. And actually

1062
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 2: loved that about him because I think religion is very important.

1063
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 2: I do, true, So I loved that he was religious

1064
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 2: and he's like super devla like Lavina a little bit.

1065
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 2: I know if you've seen his like his Mexican Yes,

1066
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 2: he's an incredible human being. He's done a lot for

1067
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 2: It's funny we're talking about him after like all these years.

1068
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 2: I still remember his cover and but back in the day,

1069
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 2: nobody was really talking about celibacy. So everybody was like,

1070
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 2: of course, what do people do. They go the other

1071
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 2: way and they start saying, oh, yeah, that's because he's

1072
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 2: you know, gay, it's not because people want to have

1073
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 2: sexic women. Yeah. Yeah. So then there were all these

1074
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 2: rumors about him, and I was like, wow, why do

1075
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 2: people just believe like that You're you know, you're just

1076
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 2: not interested, like for some people, you have to have

1077
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 2: that connection. Okay, I want to talk about his honeymoon night.

1078
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: I want to talk about his honeymoon night because I

1079
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: can't anymore. Yeah, so, after fourteen years of not having sex,

1080
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: what do you think his honeymoon night was? Like like

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Speaker 1: he just got out of prison, right right?

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I didn't talk about it. No, no, no, I didn't

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Speaker 1: read anything. I'm just imagining fourteen years you don't touch

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Speaker 1: a human being. My gosh, do you even think he

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Speaker 1: even made it inside without having his explosion, because I

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Speaker 1: would think that he would have just went like all

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Speaker 1: over the place.

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Speaker 2: Again, Like, I don't know how you know, Like I said,

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Speaker 2: celibacy could be sexual. It's usually sexual, but there's also

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Speaker 2: like different degrees of celibacy, Like there's some that don't kiss,

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Speaker 2: that don't touch, that don't you know within houbles, but

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Speaker 2: there's some that everything's allowed except the sex and the penetration.

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Speaker 2: What degree do you think I I don't know. That's

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Speaker 2: very personal. Like I just by looking at you, I

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Speaker 2: could tell you that, Well.

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Speaker 1: If you looked at me, you know that I wasn't

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Speaker 1: doing a sexual religious starvation things.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean it's like, yeah, I don't really want

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Speaker 2: to live and I want to enjoy. And the thing

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Speaker 2: is like I don't have problems connecting with people and

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Speaker 2: either do you you know or with men you know

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00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 2: too much? Yeah, So it's like I feel that sometimes

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Speaker 2: these are personal journeys. I want to say that. And

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Speaker 2: I think it's more like a masculine I think it's

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Speaker 2: more of a man thing than a woman. I don't know, well,

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Speaker 2: actually do know women, but the women that I know

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Speaker 2: that don't have sex now or haven't had sex is

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Speaker 2: because they abstained. They're abstaining from sex. Like I want

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Speaker 2: people to realize that it's two different things.

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Speaker 1: And why are they upselling your friends?

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Speaker 2: So some of my friends that they're sex desire, that's A.

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Speaker 2: And then B they're more selective and they're just more

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Speaker 2: selective about the individual. You know, they feel like they're

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Speaker 2: not going to give like that away or you know

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Speaker 2: that kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: But you know why, I think it is.

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Speaker 2: A because their sex drive isn't the same. Because when

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Speaker 2: you're horny, you're not selective. It's true, right, So you know,

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Speaker 2: so I feel that So that's a connection with that

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Speaker 2: and and that's it. It's basically those two things, right,

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Speaker 2: But you're not into it and then you're more selective.

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Speaker 1: What I would think that it is. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: if there was like a religious component to it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I make I make promises all the time.

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Speaker 2: Religious component? What ALRIGHTE? Like, how would this be religious

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Speaker 2: about sex? But look, that's why I find it interesting

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Speaker 2: with Lenny Kravitz because like he's doing this like in

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Speaker 2: the best years of his life, getting because I do of.

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Speaker 1: Like living the life of a Buddhist.

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Speaker 2: What does he living? What is his Oh? Yes, religious

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Speaker 2: sometimes Yeah it is. I mean, I don't know, I

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Speaker 2: didn't read about that, but he could be like that.

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Speaker 2: He gives me the vibe that he could be like a.

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Speaker 1: Little literally just working out, eating super clean and.

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Speaker 2: Not having sex.

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Speaker 1: You might as well be dead.

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Speaker 2: I agree. I think that those are the best things

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Speaker 2: in life. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sex, food, Yeah, and no exercise. Look, exercise. I'm the

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Speaker 1: epitome of all. I'm the poster child of you. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't eat food. I'm not a big eater, but

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Speaker 1: I do like my sexy time and my relaxation. No exercise.

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Speaker 2: No, you do the liquid diet, which is perfect right.

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Speaker 2: You do the liquid you you're hydrated for sure, you're

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Speaker 2: not worried.

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Speaker 1: About graded and you'll never see me parched and thirsty.

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Speaker 2: Oh it was. It was so much fun. I feel

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Speaker 2: like we need to do in person.

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Speaker 1: We're going to keep doing them in person.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I really enjoy your company, and I love that

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Speaker 2: you guys are listening to us. I hope you had

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Speaker 2: a lot of fun with us. We've really enjoyed our time.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you're ready for another cocky.

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Speaker 1: Oh, yes, you know. My husband is in the kitchen

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Speaker 1: listening to us waiting for us to come back in

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Speaker 1: and have cocktails because it's cocktail.

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Speaker 2: Cheers.

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Speaker 1: Cheers. Yeah, we we love you you, so I put forward,

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Speaker 1: I put forward, Thanks Forward, Thank you, thanks for listening.

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