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Speaker 2: Trea is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted from a date she

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Speaker 2: went on with a woman named Carolina. So we're going

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Speaker 2: to see if we can help figure it out for

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date if she still wants one.

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Speaker 2: In a second, but first, Draa, how long has it

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Speaker 2: been since you heard from Carolina.

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Speaker 3: It's been about a week now that I haven't heard

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Speaker 3: from her, Okay, And yeah, so I'm.

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Speaker 4: Just really confused because we will for like, we met

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Speaker 4: at work and we've kind of been flirting, like back

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Speaker 4: and forth, you know, just kind of office romance.

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Speaker 3: I guess, yeah, exactly. But she's really pretty.

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Speaker 4: She has a great sense of humor, and we've actually

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Speaker 4: been having coffee like in the office break room and

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Speaker 4: stuff and kind of getting to know each other. So

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Speaker 4: it was we kind of knew each other before going

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Speaker 4: into the date, and so I finally got up the

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Speaker 4: nerve to ask her out. And I wanted I've been

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Speaker 4: wanting to play pickleball because I've heard there's so much

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Speaker 5: Is that what you did for your date?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we went, we played We played a couple of

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Speaker 4: rounds of pickleball, and then we had.

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Speaker 3: Some drinks after where that bar okay?

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Speaker 6: And I mean, as far.

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Speaker 4: As I'm concerned, the date was great, Like the conversation

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Speaker 4: was wonderful. Like I said, she has a great personality,

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Speaker 4: she's funny, she has wonderful sense of humor.

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Speaker 3: And we even shared a little kiss. Oh but yeah,

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Speaker 3: the next day, I was excited to like get to

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Speaker 4: Because I was like, oh, no, you know, I just

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Speaker 4: wanted to make sure she was okay, maybe she was sick.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to check in on her, and she didn't

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Speaker 4: answer me back, and so she hasn't been at work

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Speaker 4: all week.

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Speaker 6: She get fired, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I hadn't heard anything, so I don't think so. But

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Speaker 4: I've been reaching out to her, and I'm actually like

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Speaker 4: kind of worried because like I don't know if something happened,

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Speaker 6: Or if I mean maybe I.

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Speaker 4: Just don't know. I thought we had a great date.

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Speaker 3: I think, you know.

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Speaker 4: Now I'm just worried I did something.

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Speaker 2: Do they have like a policy about dating other coworkers

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Speaker 2: at your office only if you're.

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Speaker 4: Like you can't like supervisors can't be hourly employees and

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Speaker 4: things like that. But if you're both hourly, then you can.

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Speaker 3: Then you can date.

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Speaker 5: Okay, then it's a free for all dating each other.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 7: Does she usually show up to work every day?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 7: I mean, is she the type of person that just

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Speaker 6: Or No?

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Speaker 4: She's actually pretty good with attendance, so, which is why

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Speaker 7: Did anything weird happen on the date? Like, was there

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I mean not on my end, I

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Speaker 4: thought everything went went great. Like when we parted, we

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Speaker 4: we were kind of even like, hey see you see it,

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Speaker 4: We're like see you around the office, and just kind

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Speaker 4: of made a little joke out of it.

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Speaker 5: But I'd be worried too. Have you asked around about her?

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Speaker 4: I asked a couple of people, but nobody really made.

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Speaker 4: Everybody just kind of says they haven't heard from her either, especially.

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Speaker 7: A week I feel like it's a good amount of

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Speaker 7: time to not be in the office, right, Like, do

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Speaker 7: you know where she lives? Just do a drive by

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Speaker 4: I did call her from a block number to see

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Speaker 4: if she would answer, and she did answer, but I

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Speaker 6: Just hung up.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, so you know that she's answering her phone

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Speaker 2: at least.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well, good, she's alive.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she is alive, So that's good. I just now

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Speaker 4: it's more so I'm worried that she's just avoiding me.

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Speaker 5: We'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come Back, and then we'll call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date if you still

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Speaker 2: want one. Okay, great, thanks guys, All right, we'll play

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Speaker 2: song come Back. Get your first Day follow Up.

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Speaker 1: Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Grea is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a date she

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Speaker 2: went on with a coworker named Carolina and doesn't know why.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call Carolina and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting and maybe get Drea another

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Speaker 2: date if she still wants one. But first, Drea, why

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Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your date with Carolina.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Carolyne and I met at work. We've been kind

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Speaker 4: of flirting back and forth, and I finally got the

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Speaker 4: nerve to ask her out. We went, we played pickleball,

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Speaker 4: We had drinks, great conversation, and even a little kiss

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Speaker 4: at the end. So I'm just wondering why she's not

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Speaker 4: richur in my text to coast and she.

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Speaker 5: Hasn't been to work for a week. Yeah, that's the

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Speaker 5: alarming thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, all right, that's where I'm worried.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, McCall her.

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Speaker 7: Hello, Hi, may I speak to Carolina? Please?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 5: This is Carolina, Carolina, how are you? My name is

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Speaker 5: Jewbell and a host the radio show and it's called

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Speaker 5: The Jewbell Show.

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Speaker 7: Hi, Carolina, the show's here too. My name is Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 7: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: There's three of us on the phone with you right now.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 6: Okay, sorry three, Okay, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: We do a segment on our show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the first Date follow Up that's where if

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Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, that person can email us to get

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Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 2: So we got an email about you from somebody that

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Speaker 2: you dated recently, Okay, any idea who would be?

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Speaker 6: Was it Drea?

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Speaker 5: Yes? It was Drea wants to know why you're ghosting

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Speaker 5: way even't been to work?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So I'll tell you about that. Okay, cool, I

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Speaker 8: It, Okay, appreciate it, yeah, okay, but you know what, fine,

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Speaker 8: So I'm gohost and Drea, you can tell her this

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Speaker 8: because you know, as we were leaving our.

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Speaker 6: Date, something you didn't really sit right with me was

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Speaker 6: a comment that she made. She's kind of like, oh,

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Speaker 6: you know, it's going to be amazing when my ex

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Speaker 6: just kind of looked at it like, oh, so there's

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Speaker 6: you know, listen, I'm getting older. I don't want to

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Speaker 6: by that. I thought it was really uncalled for, and

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Speaker 5: She was saying that going out with you was going

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like basically like getting back at her, Like happiness

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Speaker 6: is the best revenge. Like that's what I took from

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Speaker 6: I haven't around her because I called out of works

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Speaker 6: in mysterious ways, and I really did come down with something.

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Speaker 6: So I've actually been pretty sick this past week or so,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm glad you're feeling about.

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Speaker 6: She seems like a cool girl. I had to protect

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Speaker 2: You think that she didn't really like you that much?

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Speaker 2: She just wanted to make her ex jealous.

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Speaker 6: Well that's the thing, Like, I didn't see that coming

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Speaker 6: You know, it was just the one date. So I

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Speaker 6: So I don't know what she'll say if I mentioned

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Speaker 6: that comment that she made. I don't know, a little backfire.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's see, because she's actually on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's been listening this whole time, and she wants to

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, So, Dreya you're there.

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Speaker 4: No, yeah, yeah, I'm here. Sorry, I just got kind

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Speaker 4: No, First of all, I am so sorry. It's like,

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Speaker 4: let me apologize for making that comment. Obviously you don't

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Speaker 4: And you're just, all of a sudden, this amazing, beautiful

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry for that comment. If it hurt you, okay,

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Speaker 4: I would say right now, like I do appreciate the

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Speaker 4: I'm interested if they gave us any further. For me,

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Speaker 4: the biggest reason why is just kind of like the

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Speaker 4: whole X talk. I feel like this is a lot

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Speaker 4: of talk about your AX and like I don't even

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Speaker 4: like bringing up like past girlfriends or even guys I

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Speaker 4: dated about nothing from.

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Speaker 6: The past like early on, So I feel like this

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Speaker 6: is a lot coming at me. Does that make sense?

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Speaker 6: You dated guys? Yes, I date people for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh yeah, you didn't tell me that, so I

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Speaker 4: didn't know that.

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Speaker 6: So I just thought I'll mention, you know, THROW keeps

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Speaker 6: your secrets for sure, so you know that's kind of

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Speaker 6: I don't know, just a lot.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well you're getting onto me about like my ex

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Speaker 4: but you didn't even tell me about your x is.

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Speaker 3: So it's just kind of it's just kind of odds

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Speaker 6: I wasn't really getting on too about your acts. I

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Speaker 6: think for me, it was just more about like, oh,

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Speaker 6: that seems like some game playing there.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, well, I just I mean, I guess, like

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Speaker 4: I kind of like to be upfront about things. I

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Speaker 4: you know, I don't really like to keep things from people,

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Speaker 4: even though early on in a relationship, you know, because

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Speaker 4: if you're trying to get to know somebody, you're trying

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Speaker 4: to get to know somebody.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but like in time for sure that that is

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Speaker 6: exactly what I'm trying to say. You just pretty much

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Speaker 6: stated that there. You know, I just think it takes

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Speaker 6: time to get to know one that really I don't

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Speaker 6: need to know everything up front.

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Speaker 4: I guess I'm just kind of different on that end.

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Speaker 4: I kind of like, you know, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean more different Carolina. Would you would you like to

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Speaker 2: go out with your egg in another date? We'll pay

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Speaker 2: for it.

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Speaker 6: I think I've just made myself pretty clear here. Again,

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Speaker 6: I think she seems like a cool girl, but I

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Speaker 6: just think, you know, she's I'm not the one for her.

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Speaker 6: You know, it was early on, but I can tell,

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Speaker 6: I can definitely tell this.

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Speaker 5: We're just not a match.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, no, that's fine. I mean, I would feel

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Speaker 4: like to be friends because I think you're a really

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Speaker 4: cool girl. But I mean, I just I'm not really

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Speaker 4: interested either, because you know, like doing to hide things from.

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Speaker 6: Me, so well, hopefully you know, work friends.

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Speaker 4: We'll leave it at that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well see it work, Carolina.

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Speaker 7: We have a good first day back after being sick.

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Speaker 6: Oh, thank you, I appreciate that.

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