1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded, y'all know what time, y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: don't know y'all, but. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: All at all. 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 3: So given a. 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 4: Black millon busy listening to show, I want to joy joy. 6 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: You don't. 7 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 5: Turn you love, turn, you gotta turn. 8 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 6: You got to turn the mouth, turn you probably got 9 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 6: to turn the mouth, turn out, turn the water the money. Look, come. 10 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: Come on, you're think. 11 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 7: Huh? 12 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 8: I sure, well, good morning everybody. 13 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 2: You're listening to the voice. 14 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 8: Come on, dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey 15 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 8: got a radio show. You know this week, I just 16 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 8: been on it, So today is no different. I'm telling you, 17 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 8: I've just reinvigorated myself. I'm more determined to share the 18 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 8: principles of success. I'm more determined to help and guide 19 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 8: and teach as many people as I can the things 20 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 8: that I've learned. And I mean, man, I've been through it. 21 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 8: I have really been through it. I kid you not. 22 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 8: You know. I used to say, Okay, God, you know, 23 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 8: why is all this happening to me? But as I've 24 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 8: gotten older, I understand that was the ingredients. I needed 25 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 8: the ingredients to be this cake. I needed all those 26 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 8: ingredients stirred up. I need all of that different flavors, 27 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 8: the stuff that I didn't think tastes so good. All 28 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 8: that stuff had to come into the bowl in order 29 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 8: for me to get to where I am today. As 30 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 8: much as I did not like the taste of the ingredients, 31 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 8: little did I know God was making this cake, not me. 32 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 8: But what he did was and you've heard the old 33 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 8: saying God could turn lemons into lemonade, Well that's what 34 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 8: he was doing now. At the time, it all had 35 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 8: a little funky lemonade lemony flavor to it, with some 36 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 8: other stuff in it too. I didn't care for it. 37 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 8: But little did I know that I needed everything that 38 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 8: happened to me, that happened to me in the exact 39 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 8: order that it happened, and the exact array of things 40 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 8: that happened for me to have the knowledge I have today, 41 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 8: the experience, the attitude, so I could turn around and 42 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 8: share that information. Okay, got that out the way. This 43 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 8: is what I want to give to you today. I 44 00:03:55,200 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 8: want you to understand something that discipline determines your destiny, 45 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 8: not your desire. Discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. 46 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 8: You've heard me say this how many times on the show. Okay, 47 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 8: here we go again, Steve, I got it. Faith without 48 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 8: works is dead. But let me tell you something. To 49 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 8: be a hard worker, you got to be disciplined. That's 50 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 8: one of the hardest lessons I'm trying to get through 51 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 8: to my sons. You're gonna throw yourself down a cliff 52 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 8: if you're not a young man or a man that 53 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 8: possesses discipline. Because they got something for undisciplined people. They 54 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 8: got some street laws for undisciplined people, and they got 55 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 8: some federal laws and state laws for undisciplined people. So 56 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 8: that's why them signs is outside on the freeway, We're 57 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 8: gonna let you go fast, But seventy is the limit. 58 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: Seventy fast enough. 59 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 8: Really, if you're disciplined enough of a person to leave 60 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 8: your house at the time you're supposed to leave your house, 61 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 8: seventy miles per hour is absolutely enough. But if you're 62 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 8: an undisciplined person, if you don't have the wherewithal to 63 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 8: leave your house on time, to get ready to go 64 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 8: where you wanna go, see the desires where you wanna go, 65 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 8: The discipline is how you get there. You understand, you 66 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 8: can wanna go to see your family in California. All 67 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 8: you want but the flight leaves at one eighteen. 68 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: You leave your house at twelve thirty. 69 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 8: They told you you must check in one hour before 70 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 8: your flight. Now, if you ain't got the discipline to 71 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 8: get to the airport to check in one hour before 72 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 8: your flight, leaving your house forty five minutes before the 73 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 8: flight departs, what you think gonna happen? 74 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 2: Your desire to go see. 75 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 8: Your family in la is going to be thwarted because 76 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 8: you lack the discipline to prepare yourself and get yourself 77 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 8: ready to do the things that you have to do 78 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 8: to make your desires come true. I'm telling you, discipline 79 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 8: determines your destiny, not your desire. You can write down 80 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 8: a list of stuff you wanna do all day, but 81 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 8: if you don't produce and show the discipline necessary to 82 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 8: get there. 83 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 2: What you think gonna happen? 84 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 9: Huh? 85 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 8: Okay? I wanna be rich. Okay, I wanna make four 86 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:24,679 Speaker 8: hundred thousand a year. Okay, I wanna be the best 87 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 8: player that they is. Okay, but you don't want practice. 88 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 8: See the cat that's disciplined enough to show up at practice, 89 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 8: that's shooting jumpers when everybody gone home. 90 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 2: That's the guy that's gonna be the best. 91 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 8: The guy that's never late for practice, the guy to 92 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 8: study the playbook. That's the guy that's gonna make it, 93 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 8: not the guy that's talking crack, got stalking that smack. 94 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 8: I'm gonna make the Pro Bowl, I'm gonna make the 95 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 8: All Star Team, I'm gonna be All American. That's just 96 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 8: what you're saying. But discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. 97 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 8: So now let's talk about this discipline. What is that, really, Steve. 98 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 8: That's your work ethic, that's your hunger, that's your wheel. 99 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 8: Discipline is how hard you're willing to demonstrate the attributes 100 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 8: and the traits to be what you want to be. 101 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 2: Did you hear me? 102 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 8: It is your willingness to conduct yourself in a manner 103 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 8: that is above and beyond what they say is necessary. 104 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 2: Now, this is a good example right here. Now. 105 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 8: You can wanna be in the NFL all you want, 106 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 8: but they got this thing called the NFL Combines where 107 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 8: they bring in some of the top players at every 108 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 8: position to come in and they gonna run a forty 109 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 8: yard dash, They're gonna do a standing broad jump, They're 110 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 8: gonna do a standing vertical leap, they gonna do drills, 111 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 8: running drills, cutting drills. They can determine if a lineback 112 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 8: of God stiff hips by making him back pedal, point 113 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 8: him in one direction and throw the football in another direction. 114 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 8: How does he turn his body? Now you can say 115 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 8: you can tell everybody at your college you want to 116 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 8: play pro football. You can tell everybody at your high school. 117 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 8: You can tell them in pee wee you wanna play 118 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 8: pro football. But they got tests for you though. It's 119 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 8: called the combines. Now you get out here and you 120 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 8: have a bad combine day, ain't nobody trying to hear that. 121 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 8: Let me tell you how excuses don't work with people 122 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 8: when they just trying to get when they trying to 123 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 8: win in the NFL. 124 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 2: The fact that you had a bad. 125 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 8: Day at the combine and you don't run your best 126 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 8: forties and you keep telling them you could do better, 127 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 8: they don't want to hear that. Because see, what ain't 128 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 8: nobody gonna pay you for is to play on Sunday. 129 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 8: And that's one of your bad days. We paying you 130 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 8: to play on Sundays. But because you keep having these 131 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 8: bad days, because you ain't disciplined enough to put in 132 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 8: the work to make sure that your maximum can be 133 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 8: called upon at any time. Now you at to combine 134 00:08:56,440 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 8: with some slow times that go on your record. Combine 135 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 8: you don't jump as high as you did when you 136 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 8: was at the gym class. Well, hold up, man, this 137 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 8: is show day now in the NFL. Sunday is show day. 138 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 8: What they can't run the risk of is paying you 139 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 8: your money and your bad day happen to be on 140 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 8: Sundays after we don't cut your check. 141 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 2: No, no, no, We. 142 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 8: Looking for people who limit them bad days, who got 143 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 8: the discipline to work hard, to make an effort for it. 144 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 8: You understand what I'm saying to your folks. Please understand this. 145 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 8: Discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. 146 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: If you can want it all. 147 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 8: You want, But if you ain't working, if you ain't grinding, 148 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 8: if you ain't hurting, if you ain't sweating real bad, 149 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 8: if you always somewhere, got to chill, You got to 150 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:48,199 Speaker 8: have a cold one, you got to smoke one, You 151 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 8: got to do all them things. Can I tell you 152 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 8: something you ain't gonna make it? Discipline determines your destiny, 153 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 8: not your desire. 154 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 155 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls. 156 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 8: Man, anybody else that's listening, got any pets in the 157 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 8: car sitting down and bring them up to the radio. 158 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 8: This is Steve Harvey Morning show Man, and what a 159 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 8: show it is. But we don't start this show without 160 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 8: saying thank you God. I tell you that for show man, 161 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 8: never have, never will. It's just something you just got 162 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 8: to get it. Man, Please formulate a relationship with God. 163 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:33,599 Speaker 8: It's the most important relationship you'll ever have in your life. 164 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:36,959 Speaker 8: Nuri Mohammad said one time. He said, outside of your 165 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 8: relationship with God, which is the most important relationship you 166 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 8: have in your life, the person you choose the rest 167 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 8: of your life with is the biggest decision you've ever made. Boy, 168 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 8: he ain't ever lied because you can get that decision 169 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 8: wrong too. And that's why I'm on the radio to 170 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 8: tell you that that right there is a back. Welcome 171 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 8: to the ride, y'all, Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shelby Strawberry 172 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 8: call it for real, Mississippi Monica, Well, well, well, looking. 173 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 2: Back at work today. 174 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 8: Grinted, squinty eyed, shout joke, tell it vacation, help kill shut. 175 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 2: Fright. And the legendary is. 176 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 8: Nephew Tommy Good morning, everybody. 177 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 9: Welcome back to her. 178 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 8: By man, Welcome back man? What is what is on 179 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 8: your mind? 180 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 10: You know? 181 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 7: Alattitude. 182 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 11: I just want to say thank y'all for all the support, 183 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 11: all the condolences, uh, for my grandmother, you know, for 184 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 11: our family. 185 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 12: Man. 186 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 11: I appreciate it, unc, I appreciate the motivational phone call. 187 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 7: I appreciate everything. 188 00:11:58,640 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 3: Man. 189 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 7: It is you know grade it's so important to me 190 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 7: now more than ever. 191 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 2: You be saying it. 192 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 11: But now you realize something. Now see now you lost something, 193 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 11: Now you was grateful for it. Now I understand it 194 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 11: a different way. 195 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 8: Now. 196 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 11: Now it ain't gonna beat on phone calls when I call. Granted, 197 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 11: now they're not. You're not gonna pick up. And that's 198 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 11: something I got to work on understanding that part. 199 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 8: Oh well, I'm not you're not well okay, okay, let 200 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 8: me say this right here about making that phone call. 201 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 2: You probably ain't gonna dial that number. 202 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 8: For one time and then and then that I'll probably 203 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 8: sank in right right after that, you feel me? 204 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, but you've done that. You've picked the phone. 205 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 7: Up, yeah, down it on accident out of habit. 206 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 8: Now, well, let me tell you something that they're gonna 207 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 8: throw you into something if they answer though, I got. 208 00:12:55,760 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 13: News, really, Steve, really, or if that number call you back, 209 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 13: it's just yeah, don't you just don't throw you into 210 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 13: summer now? 211 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? Either on number call you back? Yeah, you bet 212 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 2: you till come on, hey, to on. 213 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 8: You needed me and tell me to help you with 214 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:20,839 Speaker 8: this here, Paul, because you thought that it in being 215 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 8: that you do me. 216 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 2: You're making phone call and wasn't gonna say nothing. 217 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 12: Okay, tell me my lad and number can't call me. 218 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,959 Speaker 12: Don my dad and number can't call me? 219 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 9: All right, you bet? 220 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 2: I get Hey, Junior? 221 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 9: What again? Welcome back Junior? 222 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we 223 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: will hear from the nephew as he. 224 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 9: Runs that prank back right after this. You're listening Steve 225 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 9: Hardy Morning Show. 226 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 2: Everybody's your first cousin, Junior. 227 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 11: Looking for something new, try fencing, the Olympic and Paralympic 228 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 11: sport that makes. 229 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 7: It speed, strategy and fun. 230 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 11: It's like chess meets cardio, quick feet, quick decisions, and 231 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 11: satisfying people when you score a point. Kids, teens and 232 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 11: adults can start anytime, no experience needed, and many clubs 233 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 11: have loaner gear coaches teach fundamentals and safety from day one. 234 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 11: You can find a beginner class near you at USA 235 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 11: Fencing dot org slash try Fencing. That's USA Fencing dot 236 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 11: org slash try Fencing. 237 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 9: It is time now for the nephew to run that 238 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 9: brank back what you got for his neph I. 239 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: Left my ring got dog. 240 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 3: If you would allong. 241 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 10: Hello, I'm trying to reach a missus please ah right, 242 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 10: my name is doctor. I'm actually trying to reach your husband, Clarence. 243 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 10: Is he Is he available? 244 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 9: Chill? 245 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 14: Is that reason your collin? 246 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 3: Uh? 247 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 15: Well, I'm actually the surgeon that actually did the. 248 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 10: Procedure on removing his gallstones. Well, how's he doing? As 249 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 10: any complications? 250 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 2: That's fun? 251 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 14: Well, no complication according to the doctor. 252 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 10: Okay, well listen, there's a couple little bit of things 253 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 10: I want to discuss with you guys and see if 254 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 10: we can maybe get em rectified. Is he around? 255 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 15: Oh? 256 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 8: What reckless? 257 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 10: Actually? Miss Actually, when we actually did the procedure on 258 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 10: your on your husband and removing the gallstones, I will 259 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 10: say that there's a bit of a mistake made and 260 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 10: I'm hoping that he can come back in so we 261 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 10: can kind of get it rectified. You know, it'll be 262 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 10: actually thirty minutes and he'll be in and out. But actually, 263 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 10: when I removed the gallstones, and I'm very embarrassed to 264 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 10: say this, I actually left my wedding ring inside your husbands. 265 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 10: And I understand, man, I say, I actually left my 266 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 10: wedding ring inside your husband when I actually removed the gallstones. 267 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 10: And I'm hoping that he'll come back in so I 268 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 10: can actually take it out and and he'll be on 269 00:15:53,000 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 10: his way. He's last book. Hello, Hello, hello, mister. Yeah, 270 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 10: how you doing this is doctor? I actually did the 271 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 10: surgery on you when you were came in and got 272 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 10: your golfstones removed. I remember you that. I will say this, 273 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 10: missus Clarence, I actually made a bit of a mistake 274 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 10: when you were here. And my apology. If I can 275 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 10: actually get you to come back here, man, I can 276 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 10: get you taken care of. But and this is just 277 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 10: a big mistake on my part. But when you guys 278 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 10: came in and I removed your stones, I actually left 279 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 10: my wedding ring inside inside of me. Yeah, yes, sir, 280 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 10: your wedding ring. 281 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 8: Sir. 282 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 10: I know this is crazy, but yes, I have truly 283 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 10: made a mistake and wanted to see if I can 284 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 10: get this thing rectified and get this thing taken out. 285 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 10: And I tell you, man, I've been without my ring 286 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 10: and my wife is raising holy hell about it. Yeah, 287 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 10: but you know something, doctor, we got a problem with 288 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 10: What do you mean, I mean, I'm about to go 289 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 10: back to work. I really can't be going back into 290 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 10: the operating room for somebody to take a ring out 291 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 10: of me that the left that they left by mistake. 292 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 14: You know what I'm saying. 293 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 10: Okay, I mean, you know, I realized your wife. 294 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 14: Might be upsetting. 295 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 10: You need your ring, But at this point, that. 296 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 14: Ring's gonna have to stay where it is for a while. 297 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 10: So I can't, ironically can't allow for that ring to 298 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 10: stay there another two or three days. I don't think 299 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 10: you understand exactly what I'm going through. There's no way 300 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:29,679 Speaker 10: I can allow that. Yeah, I got to go back 301 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 10: to work. But you know something, I mean, you know, 302 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 10: I mean, you know we're talking about a bad, bad, 303 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 10: serious problem. You know we're talking about malpractice. I mean, 304 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 10: you know we're talking about me taking out more time 305 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 10: from work when I'm ready to go back. 306 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 14: I mean, you know, we're talking law suit all. 307 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 10: Kinds of stuff here. 308 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 14: We need to get together. 309 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 10: Can you hear me that? 310 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 2: No? 311 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, you need to come here. 312 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 10: Oh okay, my wife's a upset too. I mean, you know, 313 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 10: I can't get back on an operating tape. 314 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 14: Cirt. 315 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 10: This won't take the seconds is to actually me to 316 00:17:58,240 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 10: snip that thing and get that ring out of there 317 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 10: one take but a minute. I mean you still have 318 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:04,120 Speaker 10: the same incisions there. I can go right back into 319 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 10: what the same scar was and take that out and 320 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 10: keep it moving on. Go back into the same and 321 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 10: you're gonna operate again if you cut me, Oh for sure. 322 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 10: I promise you that you won't even know I was there. 323 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 10: I'll go in there and take that ring out, just 324 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 10: that quick talk. 325 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 14: Okay, but but that let me ask you this here, 326 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 14: my wife. 327 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 10: My wife is about to go crazy. I'm I'm pretty 328 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 10: I'm a pretty good guy here. But I mean, you 329 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 10: know you got left ring in me. I mean, you know, 330 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 10: do you all have math practice insurance? 331 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 15: And turn we have plenty of insurance. 332 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 9: You know. 333 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 10: It's really more about what I'm going through at home. 334 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 10: So I'm doing this, but you yeah, pretty much here 335 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 10: at this point, I mean, no one actually from the 336 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 10: hospital actually knows what I'm actually calling you. Wow, wow, 337 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 10: you know, I mean, that's the big, big problem. You 338 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 10: said something about math practice. No, I didn't say anything 339 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,400 Speaker 10: about mail practice. You guys actually said that. I didn't 340 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 10: say anything. Okay, now let me okay, hold on now, Darran, 341 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 10: hold on, well, now, let. 342 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 14: Me ask you this here. 343 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 10: Every time I've heard of somebody leaving something inside of somebody, 344 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,120 Speaker 10: you know, it usually end up being a situation where 345 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 10: it sets up infections and stuff. Well, that's that's eighteen 346 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:08,120 Speaker 10: carre go. That's not gonna affect you at all. Yeah, 347 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 10: I understand what you're saying. But good grief. I mean, 348 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 10: I I just I mean, I didn't even want to 349 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 10: do the first surgery, but I didn't have any choice. 350 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 15: You know what, miss, I'll be honest with you. I've 351 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 15: tried to talk to you and be patient with you. 352 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 15: If I got to come over and put some coll 353 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 15: form up against your nose and knock you out in 354 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 15: order to perform this procedure to get my ring, then damn. 355 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 14: It, that's what I gotta do. Oh ho, hold on 356 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 14: that that what I'm supposed to be doing while you're 357 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 14: doing that. You hear that what he said, whoa, come on, 358 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 14: come on. 359 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 10: You know I'm not gonna stand for these threats. Now. 360 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 14: You know that's your problem with your ring. 361 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:41,880 Speaker 13: Now. 362 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 14: You know, up until now everything was cool. 363 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 10: Now you got a big problem. 364 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 14: I tell you if it is, I'm at home right now. 365 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 14: You're at home with my ring. You got my ring? 366 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 14: You can time getting right now? 367 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 10: Right now? 368 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 15: Okay, Now, I don't I don't have a problem coming 369 00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:59,959 Speaker 15: right over there to get my ring because I want 370 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 15: I need my ring back. 371 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 14: Let's do it. Come on over wan man, we got 372 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 14: something for you down hey, listen, I don't care what 373 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 14: the both of you are doing. 374 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 15: The bottom line INSes that you have my ring. 375 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 14: I got your ring. You just told me I had it, 376 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 14: didn't you. It's inside of it. 377 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 10: West gonna say, sir, I'm not gonna continue to go 378 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 10: back and forth with you. 379 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 14: You're not gonna continue to do anything because you come 380 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 14: over here, gonna take you out. You've already threatened to 381 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 14: come over here and put plura from them and know 382 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 14: knocking me out to go in the side of my body. 383 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,479 Speaker 15: To come over here. Doc, you got problems, I'll tell 384 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 15: you what. I don't want any problems out of your 385 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 15: wife or out of you. I'm who's reading. 386 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 10: That's only gonna take thirty minutes and everybody'll be happy 387 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 10: after that. 388 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 14: You won't make a big car gop down. 389 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 10: I understand everything you say. 390 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 15: I got one more thing I need to say to 391 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 15: the both. 392 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:43,239 Speaker 10: Of you all. 393 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 15: Are you listening to me? 394 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 14: I'm listening. 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This is from Madison and Chesterfield. 433 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: Madison writes us, all, my sister's husband out with his 434 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 1: female coworker and I mentioned it in conversation to my sister. 435 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: He called me and said that I'm messy. I told 436 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 1: him that he's the one that made it look messy. 437 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,120 Speaker 1: Should I tell my sister that he called me? That's 438 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: what she wants to know. 439 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,199 Speaker 8: I mean, you know, I'm pretty sure when he called 440 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 8: you to tell you that you messy, that he ain't 441 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 8: care if you called her. You done already made the 442 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 8: call that he felt you had no business making. That's 443 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:38,919 Speaker 8: what he called because he felt like you were trying 444 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 8: to insinuate or start something just by making that phone call. 445 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 2: And you, as her sister, you have every right to 446 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 2: make that phone call. 447 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 8: I guess you know, if you see your sister's her 448 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 8: husband out with a coworker, just say hey, hey, I 449 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 8: just saw Jerom out with his coworker. And so when 450 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,680 Speaker 8: the wife confronted him, he said, no, we was out 451 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 8: because we were waiting on a group or we were 452 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 8: sitting there and some other people was joining us or 453 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 8: something like that, and we was in a broad daylight, 454 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 8: wide open pebblic public and that's all that was. And 455 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 8: then he called you and said, hey, look, I appreciate 456 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 8: you calling my wife because you're trying to be messy. 457 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 8: Now he expects you to call her and say that 458 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,440 Speaker 8: because I promise you he said that to your sister. 459 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 2: I promise you he said that to. 460 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 9: Your sister, And so that's the truth. 461 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, well yeah, because I know it was a public 462 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 8: place she saw me in, because she saw him. Now, 463 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 8: if she saw them coming out of the doorway the 464 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:53,880 Speaker 8: parking lot at the Winchester Inn, then that's a whole 465 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 8: nother report, you know. But if you're sitting at a 466 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 8: table at the Golden Corral it is the most seats around, 467 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 8: then that's. 468 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 2: A company outy with rashon. 469 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:15,120 Speaker 1: All right, all right, Moving on to Josh in Kansas City. 470 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: Josh writes, my neighbors and I are all in a 471 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: text group. I told them I was having a get 472 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 1: together and they were welcome to come by. One of 473 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 1: the white guys asked if there would be any bbl's 474 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: at my party. 475 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 9: Should I have laughed it off like I did, or 476 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 9: step to him? 477 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 2: What you're gonna step to him for? 478 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: Because he asked if there were going to be any 479 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: bbl's at his party, meaning any you know, big booty 480 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 1: black women. 481 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 9: Oh huh, I wonder what they're what they're really bbl BB. 482 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 9: So now that's what he was asking, though, I mean, now, 483 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,199 Speaker 9: you shouldn't step to him. 484 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 2: He's just a neighbor. He's just making a joke. Maybe 485 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 2: he now if he the only. 486 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:09,479 Speaker 8: White dude on the text, threehead, but you invited your 487 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 8: whole neighborhood, so you live in a mixed neighborhood. 488 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 9: So he said the white guy, okay. 489 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 2: One of the white guys. 490 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 8: He wanted to know what's gonna be in there because 491 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 8: because he coming, Hey, man, you don't know, I mean, 492 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 8: is his wife black? 493 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 2: You don't know? 494 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 8: Do he like black women? Kind of like wait a minute, 495 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 8: So was sir Shureley you saying. He said, BBL is 496 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 8: a big booty black one. 497 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:40,920 Speaker 9: No, no, no, he said BBL. He said BBL, confusing. 498 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:48,199 Speaker 8: Me and you. That's okay, Well then yeah, if it's 499 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 8: gonna be in the bb l's there, yeah, that ain't 500 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 8: nothing to step to him back now, he said, it's 501 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 8: gonna being any of them black women with them huge 502 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 8: couduncles on them, and I can come through and maybe 503 00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,439 Speaker 8: you know then then yeah. 504 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 2: You would have had a probably like what he meant. So, yeah, 505 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 2: the ain't got no LB like little little booty ain't 506 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 2: no little bitty booties. You get a BBL and you 507 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 2: can get an LBB which one you. 508 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 9: Will get an enhancement or reduction? 509 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 2: All right? Moving on, you get a bt O. 510 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 9: What's the bt O? 511 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 2: Steve, careful, you'll go home? 512 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 3: All right. 513 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: We're moving on to Simone and Indianapolis. Simone writes, my 514 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 1: husband left to go hang out with his boys wearing 515 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: a button front shirt. When he came home, he had 516 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,399 Speaker 1: on a T shirt and he said he left his 517 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 1: other shirt at the cigar bar by mistake, that he 518 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: didn't smell like cigar smoke. 519 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 9: Where's his other shirt? 520 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 2: I'll tell you where it wasn't comedy wasn't coming in 521 00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 2: that house. I told you that. 522 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,920 Speaker 8: I don't know where his shirt is, but it wasn't 523 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 8: not coming back up in here on forty four fifteen 524 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 8: sixteen Ferguson Avenue. That's where it wasn't gonna come. I 525 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 8: don't know where your man shirt at, and I don't 526 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 8: know why that T shirt don't smell like cigaar. But 527 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 8: I want to put my hands together and thank god 528 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 8: he didn't bring that shirt in that house. I don't 529 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 8: care what lie I'm gonna have to tell you as 530 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 8: to what happened in my shirt. But we will not 531 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 8: be discussing to glitter your foundations on this shirt. 532 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,160 Speaker 9: I'm not fitna be in him, man, So what lie 533 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 9: goes with that? 534 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 2: That's what you gotta do, Louis, put. 535 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 9: No shirt coming in the house with a T shirt. 536 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 12: At least if you're coming home with a new T shirt, 537 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 12: you're gonna have to stop. Pull over, get a cigar, 538 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 12: light it up, blow it on this shirt so we 539 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 12: can get this shirt smelling like where we're saying we 540 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 12: came from you ignorant behind. 541 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 9: Okay, that didn't happen. 542 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 2: He dropped the ball. 543 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 8: But see that shirt right there, that shirt couldn't come 544 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 8: back to the house. See he don't he don't know 545 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 8: the light bread trick. I can come home with that 546 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 8: shirt because I know the light I know what light bread. 547 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 8: You can get lipstick. You got lipstick on your shirt collar. 548 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 8: You got to get some light bread, white bread at 549 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 8: the stove. Stop, roll it up in your hand and 550 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 8: just start rubbing it on the collar. It'll take it right. 551 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 8: I showed it y'all one time. 552 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 9: Yeah, so he didn't smell like cigar smoke. There's that. 553 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 2: He could have had that shirt on. He could have 554 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 2: had that shirt on and open open that that trunk 555 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 2: or that hood and get on that motor and waddle 556 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 2: all on that motor and get that just get that shirt, 557 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 2: motor ride yes that sh. 558 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 8: And drove to a ditch. We got to go coming 559 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 8: up win it old and old ended ditch. 560 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 9: Coming up next? 561 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 2: What happened to me? 562 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 9: Hey, y'all, this is Monica, This is Spike Lee. Hey, 563 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 9: this is Mary J. Blood Yo. 564 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 2: This is Stephen A. Smith. 565 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 9: Hey, this is Chaka Khan. 566 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 2: You have no idea what it is. 567 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 9: This is Carlos Miller and this may or may not 568 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 9: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 569 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, Tyrese posted an 570 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: emotional video. Okay, stop right. There aren't all Terese's videos emotional. 571 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 2: Last one emotion. He got off for a minute. 572 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 8: I saw it starting up, he said, another crime video 573 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 8: and I just swiped. 574 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 2: All right. 575 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 1: He posted the latest emotional video on his Instagram account. 576 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: This one was aimed at Mary J. 577 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 9: Blige. 578 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: Tyree said he's hurt because Mary J. Blige passed on 579 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 1: doing two songs with him after he quote customized and 580 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: made the songs Taylor made for Mary end quote. He 581 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: said that Mary's a legend. She's his sister and he 582 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 1: loves her. He said, if you all can't get this 583 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 1: message to Mary, as if he can't call her himself. 584 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: You know, he's saying he wants us his followers to 585 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,280 Speaker 1: get the message to Mary. 586 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 9: But Tyree knows her. He could call her himself, right, 587 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 9: if your brother's sister. 588 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, me and Mary J Blige are not close, her 589 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 8: and Mardria, but me and Mary J Blige are not close. 590 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 8: I can call Mary J Blige and I can't, saying 591 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 8: at all, I ain't got a song for a nun. 592 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 9: Well, why would you just call that regular exactly? 593 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, brou because that man, that drama of won't invite everybody. 594 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 8: If y'all could call her for me? 595 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 2: But what you crying for? Hey, dog? She ain't want 596 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:11,960 Speaker 2: to do the song? 597 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, that's it? 598 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, who's all? 599 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 12: He said? 600 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 9: It's Taylor made for her though, that's that's yeah. 601 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 2: But you got to sit in the studio with Tyres 602 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 2: for two songs. 603 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 9: Anyway. His fans of fans, y'all just be looking at. 604 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 8: The crime video. Y'all don't be there with him when 605 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 8: they ain't ain't caught on camera. 606 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 9: It's fans. 607 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: Fans of Tyrese, and people who aren't fans of Tyrese 608 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: pleaded with him in the comments to stop with these 609 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:43,880 Speaker 1: emotional videos. 610 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 9: Airing out his issues on social media. 611 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 2: Are sick of it? 612 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 1: Yeah it's Tyrese also recently posted a thirty minute long 613 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 1: video crying and saying that he is no longer in 614 00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 1: debt because of God. 615 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:00,479 Speaker 5: Uh. 616 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 1: He said that he knows it with God that wipes 617 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 1: his dead away, and uh, you know that's a great thing. 618 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: But here's the question, though, why do you think Terry 619 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 1: Tyree shares so much of his life publicly on Insta? 620 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 1: And you know, why why do you think he does that? Steve, 621 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 1: you don't do it. I'm not sharing nothing, Yeah, I 622 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: mean why do you think though some people? 623 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 8: Well, the reason I don't share it is because of 624 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 8: a couple of things. Look, man, don't nobody care. You're 625 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 8: supposed to because because most people want to have the 626 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 8: life you got anyway, so you won't hear it crying 627 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 8: about what you ain't got. 628 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 2: You know that every time they see you posting, you. 629 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 8: Coming out the front door of the Big House, you're 630 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 8: standing next to the Megatron thing you got, your Christmas tree, up. 631 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 8: You you know, you're getting in a brand new car. 632 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 8: You got rolls roy And says you're traveling parties in Dubai. 633 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 8: So don't nobody want to hear. 634 00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:58,320 Speaker 2: Campaigns? 635 00:33:59,280 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? 636 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:04,040 Speaker 2: Man, Plus I don't know if Tyreese understands that. Don't 637 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 2: nobody kill Yeah, everybody has their situation because man, that Internet, man, 638 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:12,320 Speaker 2: them not your friends. 639 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 9: No, no, you see the comments. 640 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 8: No see, I didn't even read the comments. I saw 641 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 8: the video he and I just started doing wiping his 642 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:29,759 Speaker 8: eye another crime video, another crime video, and I went, hey, man, 643 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 8: and I couldn't swipe quick enough because I don't have 644 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 8: time today because you know sometimes. 645 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 2: No, I just ain't got time. I just yeah, I 646 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,839 Speaker 2: love he talented us all get out. 647 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I mean he's a great actress. 648 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm mad because I don't get that. 649 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 9: You know, why don't you just don't go on Instagram 650 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 9: hate and crying about it? 651 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 2: All right? You know? 652 00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 8: But you know, I mean it has to be a 653 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,839 Speaker 8: like for a while he was off, I hadn't heard 654 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:07,279 Speaker 8: anything about him from for a while, and I thought, man, 655 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 8: maybe he got hisself over the little Instagram thing. And 656 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 8: then I was just scrolling through something another crime video. 657 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 8: He made the announcement that it was going to be 658 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 8: a crime video. 659 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, cry reeth one crime videos. 660 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:27,880 Speaker 8: Oh so you're just gonna go on and make you 661 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 8: gonna produce this one. But actually, but actually got the 662 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:34,920 Speaker 8: camera set up in now and crime. 663 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 9: Yeah we love you, Tyrese. 664 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:42,719 Speaker 2: All right. 665 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 9: This has been trending. 666 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:48,400 Speaker 1: Right before the start of Jacksonville Jaguars season, rookie Travis 667 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 1: Hunter and his wife Leanna have announced that they are 668 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 1: parents on Instagram. On Instagram, they posted a sweet birth 669 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 1: announcement video titled Dear Son, and it ends with the 670 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 1: birth of their son. You can hear Travis in the 671 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,800 Speaker 1: background of the video reacting to seeing his son for 672 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 1: the first time. 673 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 2: He said that. 674 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,279 Speaker 1: Baby looks just like me. You did, good, baby, with 675 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,080 Speaker 1: a great big smile in his face. Of course, fans 676 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 1: were caught off guard and took to the comments section 677 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,439 Speaker 1: to weigh in on him having a baby so early 678 00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: in his career and in his marriage. 679 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,399 Speaker 9: He's rich, Yeah what he thought. 680 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:29,360 Speaker 8: He's not asking for assistance. 681 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, he ain't got no gofund me. 682 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,719 Speaker 9: Paige's broke, like you said, these are so? 683 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 2: I mean, was she pregnant before they got married or 684 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 2: I think so. 685 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,879 Speaker 9: Yeah, it sounds like she was pregnant before they got 686 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:49,839 Speaker 9: married because Timeline, Yeah, Timeline yeah. 687 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 8: I mean, I'm happy for the cad. That's what if 688 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:56,320 Speaker 8: he if he happy, I'm overhowing. I don't understand the people. 689 00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,720 Speaker 8: I am gonna go to Tyree's page for the comments. 690 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 8: I will be doing that. 691 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 2: All right. Yeah, in my truck, I'm gonna be on 692 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 2: with some ear bud. 693 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 1: Zone coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, President 694 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 1: Trump plans to honor former New York Mayor Giuliani with 695 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,720 Speaker 1: the Presidential Medal of Freedom Award. 696 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:21,760 Speaker 9: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve 697 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:22,879 Speaker 9: Hardy Morning Show. 698 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,360 Speaker 8: What is it that makes the all new Hyundai Palisade 699 00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 8: Hybrid and incredible suv? Is it the spacious interior that's 700 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 8: comfy for the whole crew. Maybe it's having up to 701 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 8: six hundred plus miles of range. What if it's all 702 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 8: of that and more? 703 00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 2: What is it then? 704 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 12: The all new Hondai Palisade Hybrid so much more than 705 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:50,439 Speaker 12: just another suv. Visit Hondai USA dot com. Oh Carl 706 00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:53,399 Speaker 12: five six two three one four four six zero three 707 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:54,320 Speaker 12: for more details. 708 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 1: Well, President Trump plans to honor former New York City 709 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:02,880 Speaker 1: Mayor Rudy Giuliani with the Presidential Medal of Freed Freedom Award, 710 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:08,840 Speaker 1: which is the nation's, of course, highest civilian honor. Donald 711 00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:12,040 Speaker 1: Trump said on social media that Giuliani is the greatest 712 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 1: mayor in the history of New York City and an 713 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: equally great American patriot. Trump made this statement after Giuliani 714 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 1: was seriously injured in a car crash. To be clear, 715 00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:28,759 Speaker 1: since serving as New York Mayor, Rudy Giuliani was sanctioned, disbarred, 716 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 1: and criminally charged in two states. 717 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 8: The greatest mayo though, yeah, I mean, but nobody can 718 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:38,800 Speaker 8: be surprised. Nobody. 719 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,520 Speaker 1: And while praising Giuliani, President Trump has continued to be 720 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,360 Speaker 1: nasty to former president Vice President Kamala Harris. 721 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:49,080 Speaker 9: You heard about this. 722 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: Trump has officially stopped Secret Service protection for Harris, and 723 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,719 Speaker 1: it went into effect this past Monday, September first, just 724 00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 1: as she prepares now for her fifteenth city booked tour 725 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 1: to promote her memoir one hundred and seven days. But 726 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 1: that's just fine, because the California Highway Patrol stepped in 727 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 1: and offer protection services to the former vice president former 728 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 1: vice president who was never hard or sanctioned or criminalist. 729 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 2: Guy. 730 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 8: Yeah right, he's different, man. He Nothing surprises me from 731 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:27,319 Speaker 8: this man at all. If you want to see if 732 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 8: just look at everything he does, it has no morality 733 00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:34,319 Speaker 8: attached to it at all. 734 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,920 Speaker 2: If you are looking for if you're looking for. 735 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 8: These qualities, morality, if you are looking for compassion, if 736 00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 8: you are looking. 737 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:53,000 Speaker 2: For anything to do with tradition, normally throw it out 738 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 2: the window. This is not the guy. No, this is 739 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:57,279 Speaker 2: not the guy. 740 00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 8: And the crazy part is the entire Republican Party will 741 00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 8: back and support anything and everything he does. And that's 742 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 8: the sadness of it. And the Democrats can't stop it 743 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,919 Speaker 8: because they don't have enough seats. They don't have enough, 744 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 8: they don't control nothing, and so the Democrats can't do nothing. 745 00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 8: And look, man, the only chance the Democrats have is Morland. 746 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:35,759 Speaker 8: Uh the governor of Maryland, West Moreland, Gavin. 747 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:42,719 Speaker 9: Newsom, California. Yeah, yeah, I'm so proud of his Instagram. 748 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:52,240 Speaker 9: He doesn't he it's a beast and he's tall and handsome, 749 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 9: the exact opposite. 750 00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 2: He does not care. 751 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:01,319 Speaker 12: Yeah. 752 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,239 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I mean that's that's what we have so far. 753 00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:09,400 Speaker 1: That's it right now, that's what's going on? 754 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:10,319 Speaker 2: All right? 755 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're 756 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,400 Speaker 1: going to play a round of one has to go 757 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:15,680 Speaker 1: right after this. 758 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,160 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 759 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,640 Speaker 1: It's time now, guys for a round of one has 760 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:31,080 Speaker 1: to go, Sugar Ray Leonard, Marvelous, Marvin Hagler or Tommy 761 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:32,400 Speaker 1: Hitman hearns. 762 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:36,319 Speaker 9: One has to go. One has to go. 763 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:43,840 Speaker 2: Now just for me. Uh, I just have to go on. 764 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:50,919 Speaker 8: Who I know, O, Sugar Ray Leonard top of the game. Yes, yeah, 765 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:56,480 Speaker 8: and that Tommy heard hit Man h Hagler was cold 766 00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:01,279 Speaker 8: and all them boys had battle with each other. That's 767 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 8: classics that they couldn't even have today. And so yeah, 768 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,600 Speaker 8: man and Marveless. Marvin was amazing. 769 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:13,839 Speaker 2: Ball head. 770 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 9: Animals love him. 771 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 2: But I know, Sugar. 772 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 8: And I met Tommy Hearn several times and I just 773 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 8: look at them cats man. So if I had to 774 00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,839 Speaker 8: take one off the list, and and and I'm telling 775 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 8: you only because you got to take one off, I 776 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,439 Speaker 8: have to take Marvin Marveless off the list. 777 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 2: But in sheer pain doing. 778 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,359 Speaker 9: All right to take off. 779 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 8: I'm taking off her, but it's tall. I'm taking her off. 780 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:51,319 Speaker 8: Oh that's a hate move right there, taking him off with. 781 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:52,120 Speaker 7: His tall. 782 00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:55,360 Speaker 2: Junior. 783 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 9: Were you're taking off? 784 00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 7: I can't say I was six. I ain't see these 785 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,239 Speaker 7: people six, mean, well take it off. 786 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:03,279 Speaker 9: Six years old. 787 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:04,160 Speaker 7: They were fighting. 788 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 2: I was sick. 789 00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 9: I was playing. 790 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,240 Speaker 7: I was fighting with my cousin. I have no idea 791 00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 7: how fun. 792 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:17,400 Speaker 8: Wow, that's crazy. That's crazy, man, I was sick. 793 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 9: All right, we're playing. One has to go banging body high, 794 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 9: I Q drop dead gorgeous. 795 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,960 Speaker 2: You gotta go because I think you know. 796 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:39,799 Speaker 9: So typical high by bye, predictive. 797 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:45,399 Speaker 8: So you're going over here and shut your stupid Yeah, 798 00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:47,920 Speaker 8: the baby we on vacation. 799 00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 2: I mean, hey, he order. 800 00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,680 Speaker 9: We knew they were gonna say it. We knew they 801 00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,240 Speaker 9: were gonna nerves. 802 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 2: That's that's what. 803 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,959 Speaker 9: All right, the older verse. 804 00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,440 Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna. 805 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, just take the knacking at your mouth, bab I 806 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 7: got to take the knacking at. 807 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:17,359 Speaker 2: Your out of the mouth. 808 00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 9: All right, we're playing. One has to go golf fishing, sex. 809 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:29,520 Speaker 9: One has to go golf fishing or sex. 810 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:30,360 Speaker 2: You're gonna have. 811 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 9: One has to go them golf clubs is gone. 812 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:40,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, I can't play that good golf. That was easy, 813 00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:46,239 Speaker 8: very sex. We're good, you're not really shouldn't take that 814 00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 8: from me. That's that's my whole life, because yeah, because 815 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:55,799 Speaker 8: both of them is my piece. 816 00:44:58,560 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 2: Junior. 817 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:03,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, golf, I don't even play, so okay, go that far. 818 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,839 Speaker 7: I try fishing and sex is not going. 819 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 1: No, all right, one has to go, Eddie Murphy, Dave Chappelle, 820 00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:19,360 Speaker 1: Chris Rock. One has to go. 821 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 2: You can't do that to us both. It's just a game. 822 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 9: We love all them, we all love them. One has 823 00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:30,400 Speaker 9: to go. 824 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 2: All of them is on the mountains. 825 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,920 Speaker 9: Yes, for sure, I'm not doing it. 826 00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,320 Speaker 2: I about down all three of them. I can't. I 827 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:41,920 Speaker 2: can't do this. 828 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:46,919 Speaker 7: In fact, I saw delirious when I was six. 829 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:52,080 Speaker 8: If we keep going back to us six, but you 830 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 8: didn't watch boxing, But. 831 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:01,480 Speaker 7: Wow, I gonna sasquatch what I see one? 832 00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 8: All right, Okay, I can't take nobody off with You 833 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 8: can't take nobody all right, all right, it's too much. 834 00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 9: Okay, it's okay. 835 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,160 Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is the Nephew and Today's prank 836 00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:17,640 Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 837 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:25,040 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after 838 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: the hour, it's my Strawberry letter for today, and the 839 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:34,880 Speaker 1: subject is my husband ruined my summer. Okay, well the 840 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 1: whole summer. We'll get into it. Find out what that's 841 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 1: all about. I can't even imagine in just a few 842 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,879 Speaker 1: because right now it is time for it. Today's prank 843 00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,120 Speaker 1: phone call with the nephew. Nephew, you're up. What you 844 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:48,759 Speaker 1: got for us? 845 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 12: Y'all looking for stupid, you're looking for ignorant, you're looking 846 00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 12: for crazy. I am up, and we're gonna hit one 847 00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,360 Speaker 12: of these office buildings. Okay, we hit it to one 848 00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,680 Speaker 12: of the office buildings. All right, everybody know what goes 849 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 12: on down now at the office. 850 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:03,400 Speaker 2: When you come to work? What do you do? 851 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:05,880 Speaker 12: You bring your lunch? You put your lunch in the 852 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:09,640 Speaker 12: fridge at the job. Everybody know about that refrigerator at 853 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 12: the job right right, You got your name on it. 854 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,800 Speaker 12: It's tied in and not you just secured it. 855 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:16,840 Speaker 9: Correct. 856 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:23,520 Speaker 12: This is called break room barbecue. Break room barbecue. Let's 857 00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:27,560 Speaker 12: get to a cat dog if you would Hello, I'm 858 00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 12: trying to speak to Eric. 859 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, Eric was up. 860 00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:33,320 Speaker 12: Hey, man, let me tell you something with me, and 861 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 12: you're finna get some straight today. Dog right here, right now, 862 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:37,560 Speaker 12: let me say this, man. 863 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 3: What is it what you're talking about? Right now. 864 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,400 Speaker 12: This is Quincy right here, it's Quincy. I work in 865 00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,239 Speaker 12: the same build. I work on the same floor you 866 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,360 Speaker 12: work on, all right, and I know that a lot 867 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 12: of people on the floor. Everybody kind of share the 868 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,200 Speaker 12: breakroom and the refrigerator or whatever. 869 00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 2: But let me tell you this right now. It's been 870 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:53,520 Speaker 2: brought to my attention. 871 00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 12: That you the person on Tuesday, on Tuesday, all right, 872 00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 12: that went in there and ate my barbecue rib. 873 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,440 Speaker 2: All right. It took me four five hours of smoke them. 874 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,120 Speaker 3: Hey, whoa, whoa, so go down, so down? You say 875 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,239 Speaker 3: your name, Quincy, right, go down, quins my name? Who 876 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:08,920 Speaker 3: bring this? Who bringing this to your attention? 877 00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 1: Bro? 878 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 12: Don't worry about that. Don't worry about who told me? 879 00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 12: But everybody say you always eating people's stuff. I break 880 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,239 Speaker 12: room without the refrigerator. 881 00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 3: Well I don't know who is everybody or whatever, but 882 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:20,920 Speaker 3: I ain't eating nothing refrigerator. I go out and get 883 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:22,600 Speaker 3: my own food. Bro, I go out and get my 884 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 3: own food. So I don't know what you talk about 885 00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:24,520 Speaker 3: right now. 886 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,840 Speaker 12: And let me say, let me say this, Let me 887 00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,480 Speaker 12: say this to your Let me say this to you, 888 00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,680 Speaker 12: all right, I'm coming by your Cuba could tomorrow. 889 00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:33,800 Speaker 2: I see anything. 890 00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 12: I see some barbecue South anything remotely look close to 891 00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 12: my barbecue ribs. 892 00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,760 Speaker 2: I sweatche I'm whooping yours. 893 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,120 Speaker 3: Right there in your Hey, you need to chill man. 894 00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:45,399 Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not about the threats. Bro. I'm telling 895 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,440 Speaker 3: you I wasn't the one that that did that. That 896 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 3: did that. I'm telling you that right now. So you 897 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 3: need to calm down first. 898 00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,960 Speaker 12: No, I ain't coming. I ain't calming down. Okay, I'm 899 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,200 Speaker 12: telling you right now. You're gonna get up in your 900 00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 12: cubicle if I. 901 00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,480 Speaker 3: Find I'm saying. But I'm trying to tell you I'm 902 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:01,680 Speaker 3: not the one that's doing that. That's what I'm telling you. 903 00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:03,120 Speaker 2: So at the wrong. 904 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,719 Speaker 12: How come everybody say if anybody ate your food, it's 905 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,520 Speaker 12: probably every one always eating everybody stuff up. 906 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,879 Speaker 3: They can say whatever they want to say. That don't 907 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,440 Speaker 3: mean that I was the one that did that. That's 908 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,440 Speaker 3: what I'm trying to tell you, Bro. That's what I'm 909 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:15,960 Speaker 3: trying to tell you. 910 00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 2: So they lying on you, now, they lying on you. 911 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:20,280 Speaker 14: They lying. 912 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:21,799 Speaker 3: I'm trying to tell you. They lying. 913 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,959 Speaker 2: I'm telling you that, So you do understand what I'm saying. 914 00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:29,800 Speaker 12: If it's anything that that remotely looked close to barbecue sauce, 915 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 12: anything a real bone, anything like that around your cuga 916 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,840 Speaker 12: in the trash can in your work area. I'm whooping 917 00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 12: your set man. 918 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 3: Christy man I was. I'm trying to be nice to 919 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,000 Speaker 3: you on this bone, bro. But I told you about 920 00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:44,160 Speaker 3: these threats. So at this point in time for you 921 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:48,680 Speaker 3: threatening me again, you and your barbecue sandwich, bro, that's 922 00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 3: how that's how it is, well, you and your barbecue sandwich. 923 00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:52,719 Speaker 9: Bro. 924 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:54,959 Speaker 3: I told making me threas to me, bro. 925 00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,440 Speaker 2: Ye gone admit that you gone, admit that you ate it, 926 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:00,360 Speaker 2: gone a min it? Then you know what? 927 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:02,600 Speaker 3: You know what at this point speaking to you on 928 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:04,480 Speaker 3: this phone like this, Bro, I really wish I ate 929 00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,239 Speaker 3: your sandwich. Bro. I wish I did, Bro, I went. 930 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:10,279 Speaker 12: I'm telling you right now, I smoked them ribs for 931 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 12: five hours. 932 00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,440 Speaker 2: I smoked in real put my hard work in it. 933 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:14,480 Speaker 2: And then I get to work. 934 00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,680 Speaker 12: You're ready to eat my food and somebody that ate 935 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,160 Speaker 12: my barbecue ribs and then everybody saying Eric the one 936 00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,840 Speaker 12: I always eating everybody food. I'm telling you, dude, I 937 00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 12: will come to your cubical you up if I find 938 00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:25,839 Speaker 12: anything it looked like my ribs over there. 939 00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:27,960 Speaker 3: That's like the third threat you're gonna gave me. 940 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 15: Bro. 941 00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:34,200 Speaker 3: That was good. Bro, that was good. I'm so glad 942 00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:34,640 Speaker 3: I took that. 943 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:36,799 Speaker 2: Oh so you admitting it now? 944 00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:38,920 Speaker 3: Now I'm telling you what you want to hear, Quincy. 945 00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,640 Speaker 3: That's what I'm doing right now, what you want to 946 00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:41,840 Speaker 3: hear it? 947 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,719 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's that's show tomorrow. That show. That show 948 00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:47,280 Speaker 2: is tomorrow the cub because. 949 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 3: I'm telling you now well, we're working in the same building, 950 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,000 Speaker 3: right I ain't going nowhere. You know what flooring at 951 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:52,120 Speaker 3: I ain't going nowhere. 952 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:53,359 Speaker 14: Was good. 953 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:55,879 Speaker 3: I don't know who you are. I don't know how 954 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,719 Speaker 3: you got my number, brother, but we even gotta wait 955 00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:00,719 Speaker 3: until you get up there. To my flow. 956 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 10: We can. 957 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,719 Speaker 3: We can get this cracking in the lobby, broke in 958 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,840 Speaker 3: the lobby. You can get your ribs broken. Your ribs, 959 00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,120 Speaker 3: not the ribs that you cooked on that barbecue, your ribs. 960 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:10,240 Speaker 3: We can get it cracking. 961 00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 12: It's it's whatever at this point, Eric, it's whatever. It's whatever. Okay, 962 00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,560 Speaker 12: it's you know what matter fact. I'm gonna I'm gonna 963 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:20,239 Speaker 12: let the shade know what's up. I'm gonna let the 964 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:21,080 Speaker 12: shade know what's up. 965 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:22,360 Speaker 14: The shame. 966 00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,320 Speaker 3: I know she'd tell you nothing about eating nothing like 967 00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:27,879 Speaker 3: eating your food. Bro. I know the Shade didn't say 968 00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:28,759 Speaker 3: nothing like that to you. 969 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:31,719 Speaker 12: No, no, the shape, now the shame, the Shade ain't 970 00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:33,239 Speaker 12: say you ain't no rib, that ain't what the Shae 971 00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:33,640 Speaker 12: told me. 972 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:35,839 Speaker 3: So why you bringing hug? Why you bringing her up? Then? 973 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:37,440 Speaker 2: You want to know what the Shade told me? 974 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:38,800 Speaker 3: What did the Shade told you? 975 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 2: Bro? 976 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 3: What she told you? 977 00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,120 Speaker 2: Shae told me to prank phone? 978 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:42,560 Speaker 3: Call you. 979 00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 12: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Hawby Marney Show. 980 00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,759 Speaker 12: You just got pranked by your coworker. 981 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:48,880 Speaker 2: The shame. 982 00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:51,799 Speaker 3: What what the hell you talking about? 983 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:52,440 Speaker 9: Eric? 984 00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:53,000 Speaker 2: Take it out. 985 00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:56,359 Speaker 12: This nephew tied me, Bro, Steve Harvey, Marty show your girl. 986 00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,440 Speaker 12: The Shae, your coworker got me to prank you. 987 00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:58,719 Speaker 2: Man. 988 00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:04,560 Speaker 3: Oh you know what, man, Well you got my blood boiling? 989 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:04,879 Speaker 12: Man? 990 00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:11,319 Speaker 3: Oh man, old shee she gonna get it. Bro, She's 991 00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:14,360 Speaker 3: gonna get it when I get back in there. And 992 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:18,000 Speaker 3: I man, I listen to y'all every man, I don't 993 00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:18,680 Speaker 3: believe it. 994 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,080 Speaker 14: Man, Hey, you you got me? 995 00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:22,479 Speaker 12: Man? 996 00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:24,799 Speaker 14: Oh man, it is. 997 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:26,480 Speaker 3: An honor, bro, it is a. 998 00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 1: Man. 999 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:32,560 Speaker 3: Hey man, I love y'all. Man, I'm gonna get the 1000 00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:36,120 Speaker 3: shade though. You tell her her man is mine? 1001 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 2: What you man? Do me a favor? 1002 00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:39,920 Speaker 12: Tell everybody what is the baddest and I mean the 1003 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,440 Speaker 12: baddest radio show in the land. 1004 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,240 Speaker 3: Man, the baddest radio showing the Lamb and Steve Hawks 1005 00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:45,960 Speaker 3: going to show. 1006 00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:49,440 Speaker 2: Baby man, go get some ribs and have a nice day. Baby. 1007 00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:52,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna do that, man, I'm gonna do that. 1008 00:52:56,800 --> 00:52:59,719 Speaker 2: Come on, prank Saint, Prank Saint. That's right. Come on, 1009 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 2: get some praise up in here. Okay, what's that, Frank? 1010 00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:10,400 Speaker 2: Come on, Frank sat all right, keep me I'm pranking 1011 00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 2: praise up in here, and keep it stupid as I 1012 00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,200 Speaker 2: am supposed to, y'all. 1013 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:16,719 Speaker 9: I'm just so. 1014 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,520 Speaker 12: I'm finna go through this again the night I went 1015 00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:23,680 Speaker 12: through it the last last week. 1016 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:25,640 Speaker 9: What's wrong? 1017 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:30,960 Speaker 12: It's just power ball, It's just not it's not landing 1018 00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:33,239 Speaker 12: on my numbers. It's just I don't understand it. 1019 00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,160 Speaker 9: With you. But they got another drawing tonight. 1020 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:37,759 Speaker 12: Let's see. 1021 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,719 Speaker 9: I know it's a night. 1022 00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,680 Speaker 2: Let's see. Let's see. I keep driving, and then I 1023 00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 2: got a certain strategy. You know, I'm I'm stopping. I'm 1024 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:51,839 Speaker 2: stopping a little old small service stations in the hood, 1025 00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:55,800 Speaker 2: and then way in, going way out in the rule area. 1026 00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:56,880 Speaker 2: I'm out there too. 1027 00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,520 Speaker 1: So many other people have that same Let me just 1028 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,680 Speaker 1: get one over here, just one, yeah, all right, and I'm. 1029 00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 12: Gonna go over here. I'm about a hundred over here. 1030 00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,520 Speaker 12: Give me one hundred over here. I got a strategy 1031 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,719 Speaker 12: of it, worthing, do the same thing. I'll pull up 1032 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,439 Speaker 12: in the service stage. If I see a food truck 1033 00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:16,480 Speaker 12: at the service stations, I'm going in there. Got a 1034 00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,400 Speaker 12: food said, I want you in there and get my ticket. 1035 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:25,239 Speaker 2: I'm back out there again. I in these streets. I'm 1036 00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:26,480 Speaker 2: in these powerball streets. 1037 00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:30,239 Speaker 9: Why that's right. What would you do if you won 1038 00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:31,879 Speaker 9: all that money one more time? 1039 00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:32,759 Speaker 2: What would you do? 1040 00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:36,960 Speaker 12: I would fake my death right in front of my family, 1041 00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:41,400 Speaker 12: in front of them. Yes, I'm gonna go get this 1042 00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,520 Speaker 12: real high tech guy out out out of Hollywood. That's 1043 00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:46,920 Speaker 12: just gonna make me just go up and flames right 1044 00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,840 Speaker 12: there in front of everybody. Y'all had a funeral, Do 1045 00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:53,719 Speaker 12: y'all thing, and I can assure you life will go on. 1046 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,239 Speaker 12: Y'all don't need me around, I promise you don't. You 1047 00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,520 Speaker 12: don't need to see what I'm finna do with this money. Okay, 1048 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 12: you don't need to see it, but you do need to. 1049 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:05,719 Speaker 12: But you do need to see the nephew in Huntsville, Alabama. 1050 00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:10,359 Speaker 12: That would be September nineteen and twenty, Levity Live Comedy Club, 1051 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:13,920 Speaker 12: Levity Live Comedy Club, Huntsville. A nephew coming back through 1052 00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,279 Speaker 12: been a few years. If your tickets, they don't say 1053 00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:19,200 Speaker 12: right now, ignorance is on the way. 1054 00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 9: All right, all right, all right you nephew, quick the powerball. 1055 00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 9: It's my strawberry letter. The subject is my husband ruined 1056 00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,920 Speaker 9: my summer. We'll get into it right after this. 1057 00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,839 Speaker 8: What is it that makes the all new Hyundai Palisade 1058 00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:39,440 Speaker 8: Hybrid and incredible suv? Is it the spacious interior that's 1059 00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,040 Speaker 8: comfy for the whole crew. Maybe it's having up to 1060 00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:45,479 Speaker 8: six hundred plus miles of range. What if it's all 1061 00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 8: of that and more? 1062 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:48,160 Speaker 2: What is it then? 1063 00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:52,000 Speaker 12: The all new Hyundai Palisade Hybrid so much more than 1064 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,879 Speaker 12: just another suv. Visit Hundai USA dot com or call 1065 00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,879 Speaker 12: five six two three one four four six zero three 1066 00:55:58,960 --> 00:55:59,760 Speaker 12: for more details. 1067 00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:02,960 Speaker 9: Hey, y'all, this is Monica. This is Spike Lee. Hey, 1068 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:04,279 Speaker 9: this is Mary J. Blood Yo. 1069 00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 2: This is Stephen A. Smith. 1070 00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:06,719 Speaker 9: Hey, this is Saca Kahn. 1071 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:08,560 Speaker 2: You have no idea what it is. 1072 00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:11,040 Speaker 9: This is Carlos Miller and this may or may not 1073 00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:12,799 Speaker 9: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1074 00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:21,120 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1075 00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:26,360 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, 1076 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,839 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM 1077 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,040 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 1078 00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:36,319 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 1079 00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:38,360 Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and 1080 00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:39,880 Speaker 1: you never know, it could be yours. 1081 00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,439 Speaker 12: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type 1082 00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,200 Speaker 12: we guide it for you here. It is Strawberry letta. 1083 00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:49,920 Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject My husband ruined my summer. 1084 00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:54,359 Speaker 1: My husband ruined my summer. Stephen Shirley. I'm a forty 1085 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:57,960 Speaker 1: nine year old married woman. It's my first marriage and 1086 00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:01,160 Speaker 1: my husband's second marriage. He has a nine year old 1087 00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,760 Speaker 1: daughter from his first marriage, and she spent two weeks 1088 00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:07,600 Speaker 1: with us this summer. We've been married for almost five years, 1089 00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,040 Speaker 1: but this is the first time that his ex wife 1090 00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 1: let her come stay with us, and I understand it 1091 00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 1: because she's older now. She lives in Pensacola, so my 1092 00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:20,320 Speaker 1: husband drove her home and stayed overnight, and then drove back. 1093 00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:23,440 Speaker 1: He didn't want me to ride down with him, and 1094 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:26,600 Speaker 1: I didn't press the issue. He's big on making his 1095 00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:29,480 Speaker 1: daughter feel comfortable since it was her first time seeing 1096 00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:31,040 Speaker 1: him around another woman. 1097 00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:31,440 Speaker 10: Me. 1098 00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,000 Speaker 1: What bothered me was that he refused to sleep in 1099 00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 1: the room with me the whole time his daughter was there. 1100 00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,240 Speaker 1: He slept in the spare bedroom next to the room 1101 00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:44,360 Speaker 1: his daughter slept in. He said she's too young to 1102 00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 1: understand that he has a new wife that replaced her Mommy. 1103 00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:50,480 Speaker 1: It's BS to me, and I told him it was 1104 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:53,160 Speaker 1: BS every morning that he woke up and every night 1105 00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,760 Speaker 1: that he went to the other room. He told me, 1106 00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm naive and I would understand if I had a 1107 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 1: child of my mid This was the perfect time to 1108 00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 1: let his child know that she is a stepmom and 1109 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 1: I'm not going anywhere. But instead, he allowed his daughter 1110 00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,920 Speaker 1: to refer to me as quotes she and her. I 1111 00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:15,080 Speaker 1: want her to acknowledge me as a parental figure, but 1112 00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:17,640 Speaker 1: he says it's too soon for her to process all 1113 00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:20,520 Speaker 1: of this. I want to know what he and his 1114 00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,520 Speaker 1: ex wife have been telling her. Seems odd that she 1115 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,360 Speaker 1: doesn't know what a step parent is by now, what 1116 00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:29,760 Speaker 1: am I missing? Was my husband wrong for acting like 1117 00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:33,440 Speaker 1: we're not a married couple? Or am I being naive? 1118 00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:37,040 Speaker 9: Like he said? No, You're not being naive. 1119 00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:41,520 Speaker 1: Your husband is being ridiculous. He's acting like a scared 1120 00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: little boy. 1121 00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:45,680 Speaker 9: His daughter is not a baby, and at nine years old, 1122 00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,680 Speaker 9: she is more than capable of understanding that daddy is 1123 00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,040 Speaker 9: remarried and you are his new wife. 1124 00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:56,680 Speaker 1: She knows he doesn't live with you. She knows he 1125 00:58:56,800 --> 00:59:00,360 Speaker 1: doesn't live with you and mommy anymore. Okay, she is 1126 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,840 Speaker 1: old enough to be sat down and talked to. She 1127 00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:06,040 Speaker 1: needs to know the truth because, like you say, you're 1128 00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:08,480 Speaker 1: not going anywhere. I get that he loves her and 1129 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:10,360 Speaker 1: he wants to break it to her gently, but not 1130 00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:13,720 Speaker 1: at your expense. Who does I mean? Who does his 1131 00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,480 Speaker 1: daughter think you are anyway? I mean you're there at 1132 00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:19,600 Speaker 1: the house with her dad. Why does she think you're 1133 00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:23,120 Speaker 1: living there? He's making you pay for something he and 1134 00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:25,280 Speaker 1: his ex should have taken care of long before the 1135 00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,080 Speaker 1: child came to stay there. I think it's very rude 1136 00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:30,800 Speaker 1: for her to refer to you as she and her, 1137 00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 1: not even saying your name or giving you a title 1138 00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:38,440 Speaker 1: or anything. That's on the parents to set her straight 1139 00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,400 Speaker 1: on that. I don't think he should even allow that. 1140 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,040 Speaker 1: He's put you, his wife of five years, in the 1141 00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:47,160 Speaker 1: most awkward space possible by not telling the little girl 1142 00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,120 Speaker 1: who you are. You don't need to have a child 1143 00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:54,080 Speaker 1: of your own to know that this is, like you say, bs, 1144 00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,240 Speaker 1: shame on him for allowing his ex and his daughter 1145 00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,800 Speaker 1: to treat you this way. I mean, he's treating you 1146 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,120 Speaker 1: horribly too, So speak up for yourself. Tell him to 1147 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:06,440 Speaker 1: let everyone involved in this mess know what's going on. 1148 01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:11,400 Speaker 1: The daughter, the mother, him, everybody. His exit needs to 1149 01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 1: be in agreement, because they should have nipped this in 1150 01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:16,240 Speaker 1: the bud a long time ago. 1151 01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:19,360 Speaker 8: Steve, Normally, when we do these letters, I try to 1152 01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:23,720 Speaker 8: offer maybe a counterbalance to something surely says right, so 1153 01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:26,760 Speaker 8: the letter becomes interesting, so we're not beating the same. 1154 01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:28,560 Speaker 2: Drum over and up and over. Right. 1155 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:33,760 Speaker 8: I can't offer a counter here because this letter is 1156 01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:40,320 Speaker 8: wrong on so many levels. You know, you're forty nine, 1157 01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:43,480 Speaker 8: you're on your first marriage, just your husband's second. He 1158 01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 8: got a nine year old from his first marriage. Well, 1159 01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:49,680 Speaker 8: the subject is my husband ruined my summer. But I 1160 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 8: think we're only talking about two weeks. 1161 01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:51,400 Speaker 3: HEO. 1162 01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:55,720 Speaker 8: We've been married for almost five years, but this is 1163 01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:58,760 Speaker 8: the first time. Now they've been married five years, so 1164 01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:03,400 Speaker 8: that means he's been away from the daughter of a 1165 01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:08,000 Speaker 8: minimum of four years, but longer than that. See, the 1166 01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:12,120 Speaker 8: divorce is when the court makes it legal. You probably 1167 01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:16,200 Speaker 8: were separated or something. You didn't just wake up exactly 1168 01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:18,800 Speaker 8: five years ago and go, hey, we divorced, and it 1169 01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:20,360 Speaker 8: went down the court and they gave it to you. 1170 01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:23,800 Speaker 8: It's a process. So let's say the girl was three 1171 01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:27,840 Speaker 8: when you're filed for divorce. Then the girl turned four 1172 01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:32,040 Speaker 8: and you got the divorce. So it's been five years 1173 01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:36,560 Speaker 8: since your daddy hasn't been around the girl in her 1174 01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:39,200 Speaker 8: life because you've been married to this woman for five 1175 01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:42,400 Speaker 8: years now and the first time she's let us stay 1176 01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:44,280 Speaker 8: with y'all cause she's older now and you know you 1177 01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:47,400 Speaker 8: don't have a problem with the ex right, So they 1178 01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:48,360 Speaker 8: live in Pensacola. 1179 01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:50,040 Speaker 2: Now, your husband, let's start with this part. 1180 01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:50,880 Speaker 9: He drove. 1181 01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:55,720 Speaker 2: To pick up his daughter. He didn't want you to go. 1182 01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,840 Speaker 8: I understood that because maybe he wanted to spend that 1183 01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:01,280 Speaker 8: time with this little girl, kind of prep her for 1184 01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:04,320 Speaker 8: things to come, and spend some time with him and 1185 01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,919 Speaker 8: make her feel special. And i' say, okay, Well, he's 1186 01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:10,320 Speaker 8: big on making his daughter feel comfortable, like I said, 1187 01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:14,360 Speaker 8: and this is our first time seeing him around another woman. 1188 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,479 Speaker 2: Well, that dad ain't been at the house for five 1189 01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:18,160 Speaker 2: years now. 1190 01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:20,520 Speaker 8: I don't know where you think daddy was and what 1191 01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:23,400 Speaker 8: you think daddy was doing, but it's time that you 1192 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:27,600 Speaker 8: found out. What bothered me was he refuses to sleep 1193 01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:29,600 Speaker 8: in the room with me the whole time his daughter 1194 01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:32,120 Speaker 8: was there. He slept in the spare bedroom next to 1195 01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:35,080 Speaker 8: the room she slept in. And said she's too young 1196 01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:38,240 Speaker 8: to understand that he has a new wife that replaced 1197 01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:43,720 Speaker 8: her mama. That is complete, Bs. She is not too young, 1198 01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:48,160 Speaker 8: she is nine. These are the facts, and y'all should 1199 01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:50,680 Speaker 8: have explained it to her so she can start coping 1200 01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:54,680 Speaker 8: with it. This delayed learning thing y'all allowing her to 1201 01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:59,160 Speaker 8: do is bad for everybody, including the little girl. 1202 01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:00,920 Speaker 2: I have always come back. 1203 01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:03,000 Speaker 1: All right, all right, Steve, we'll have part two of 1204 01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:06,280 Speaker 1: your responds coming up at twenty three minutes after today's 1205 01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:10,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject my husband ruined my summer. We'll get 1206 01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:14,360 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 1207 01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:15,040 Speaker 1: Morning Show. 1208 01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:22,120 Speaker 11: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, planning, 1209 01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,120 Speaker 11: and hard work to get in the door. Then make 1210 01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:26,640 Speaker 11: that house a home. Now, all that effort has built 1211 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:29,919 Speaker 11: something hugely valuable, equity. It's the portion of your home 1212 01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:32,360 Speaker 11: you truly own that can be tapped to funnel what's next. 1213 01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,520 Speaker 11: And Rocket Mortgage is here to help you turn your 1214 01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:38,280 Speaker 11: home's equity into cash. 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He had a little girl from a 1224 01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:10,080 Speaker 8: previous relationship who's nine. They've been married five years and 1225 01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:13,040 Speaker 8: this is the first time that the wife has allowed 1226 01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:14,960 Speaker 8: the daughter to spend time with him. 1227 01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,840 Speaker 2: Over extended period of time because she's old enough, so 1228 01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:19,439 Speaker 2: that was good. 1229 01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:22,600 Speaker 8: They live out of state, so he goes to drive 1230 01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:25,360 Speaker 8: to Pennsilcola to get the daughter and ask you not 1231 01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:27,680 Speaker 8: to go so he could spend some time with his daughter. 1232 01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:30,520 Speaker 8: I understood that, you know, he could talk freely, make 1233 01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:33,600 Speaker 8: his daughter comfortable. He's big on making his daughter comfortable. 1234 01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:37,320 Speaker 8: And they were a little concerned because this is the 1235 01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:41,880 Speaker 8: first time that the little girl would see him around 1236 01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:46,240 Speaker 8: another woman that's not his mommy. 1237 01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:49,240 Speaker 2: Well, the other woman is his wife. 1238 01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:53,800 Speaker 8: He ain't around another woman the little girl, mama is 1239 01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 8: the other woman right now, this other woman is the wife. 1240 01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,960 Speaker 8: Now on this letter, I blamed the husband and the 1241 01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:06,840 Speaker 8: ex wife because they created this entire situation. 1242 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,160 Speaker 2: Right here. Here was the crazy part. 1243 01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,480 Speaker 8: They get to the house and he refused to sleep 1244 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,480 Speaker 8: in the room with his wife the whole time his 1245 01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:16,280 Speaker 8: daughter was there. 1246 01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:18,280 Speaker 2: He slept in the spare room down there next to 1247 01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:19,000 Speaker 2: his daughter. 1248 01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:22,920 Speaker 8: Because he said she's too young to understand that he 1249 01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:26,040 Speaker 8: has a new wife that replaced her mama. 1250 01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:29,840 Speaker 2: Well, ain't that what happened though? Ain't that what happened? 1251 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:33,959 Speaker 8: So for the past five years that you've been living 1252 01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:39,520 Speaker 8: with this other woman. Who is your wife that replaced 1253 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:43,400 Speaker 8: her mama? What y'all been telling this little girl? 1254 01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:44,240 Speaker 2: What you been doing? 1255 01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:47,040 Speaker 8: You was in what was you in prison? You had 1256 01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,920 Speaker 8: went to the store. But what y'all been telling this 1257 01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:54,000 Speaker 8: little girl? And you said as BS to me? And 1258 01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:56,480 Speaker 8: I told him it was Bs every morning that he 1259 01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:58,160 Speaker 8: woke up and every night he went to the other 1260 01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:02,440 Speaker 8: room and you met him. Are one thousand percent correct? 1261 01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:06,560 Speaker 8: Because it is. He told me that I'm naive and 1262 01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:08,480 Speaker 8: I would understand that if I had a child of 1263 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:10,720 Speaker 8: my own. Well, ain't that about the dumbest thing in 1264 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,320 Speaker 8: the world. I think you're naive and you would understand 1265 01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:17,640 Speaker 8: if you had a child of your own. I think 1266 01:06:17,760 --> 01:06:19,640 Speaker 8: fire hot, But I ain't got to get on set 1267 01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:25,320 Speaker 8: on fire to know that what part of you not 1268 01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:28,480 Speaker 8: telling the nine year old that I'm your wife is 1269 01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:32,920 Speaker 8: helpful to anybody in this house. So who does this 1270 01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 8: little girl think this other woman is? You should explain 1271 01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:40,880 Speaker 8: to her. And I'm gonna tell you something, my man. 1272 01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:43,920 Speaker 8: You spending the night in that other room and not 1273 01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:46,680 Speaker 8: what your wife is setting a bad example to your 1274 01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:50,680 Speaker 8: daughter because now your daughter is not clear of how 1275 01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:54,600 Speaker 8: women should be treated. Because now, who is this other 1276 01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:59,000 Speaker 8: woman in this room down the hallway. It is called 1277 01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:02,920 Speaker 8: a family, and you should give her the idea of 1278 01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:06,080 Speaker 8: what her family was. Now, me and your mommy had 1279 01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:10,280 Speaker 8: a family together, but we didn't work or work out together, 1280 01:07:10,600 --> 01:07:15,480 Speaker 8: so we separated. We still love us parents, but the 1281 01:07:15,600 --> 01:07:18,040 Speaker 8: two of us didn't get along, so it was best 1282 01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:21,440 Speaker 8: that we didn't live together. But we are still co 1283 01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:26,000 Speaker 8: parenting and we both love you. Now I have a family. 1284 01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:31,400 Speaker 8: Now I have a new wife. See the problem is 1285 01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:39,560 Speaker 8: here go the problem. The mama ain't found nobody. And 1286 01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:44,480 Speaker 8: so now she over there, she half mad, and that 1287 01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 8: and and and. 1288 01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:48,200 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. When you said that, uh, 1289 01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:52,040 Speaker 2: this was the perfect time to let his child know 1290 01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:54,480 Speaker 2: about it. 1291 01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:55,160 Speaker 8: Uh. 1292 01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:57,960 Speaker 2: She that she has a step mom and I'm not 1293 01:07:58,080 --> 01:07:58,760 Speaker 2: going anywhere. 1294 01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:01,880 Speaker 8: But instead he allowed his daughter to refer to me 1295 01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:05,800 Speaker 8: as she and her and I want her to acknowledge 1296 01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:07,040 Speaker 8: me as a parental figure. 1297 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:07,919 Speaker 2: Well that's cool. 1298 01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:11,400 Speaker 8: I don't know what name you prefer, you know, Mama 1299 01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:18,880 Speaker 8: EM or miss h or or Mama T some I 1300 01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:21,560 Speaker 8: don't know what other name you want to be a 1301 01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:23,800 Speaker 8: parental name, but you get whatever you want. 1302 01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:30,519 Speaker 2: But the problem is the mama then told her that 1303 01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:31,320 Speaker 2: you go over there. 1304 01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:35,160 Speaker 8: But that ain't your mama. I'm your mama, and don't 1305 01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:38,840 Speaker 8: you call nobody else mom except me. Oh, she's been 1306 01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:43,679 Speaker 8: instruct because children are not that evil. Children don't own 1307 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:49,640 Speaker 8: their own She heard, she has heard this saying, and 1308 01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:54,880 Speaker 8: she's repeating what she's been told or over her. You 1309 01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:58,920 Speaker 8: want to be acknowledged as to that. But he said 1310 01:08:58,960 --> 01:09:01,880 Speaker 8: it's too soon for her to process all of this. Well, 1311 01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:05,080 Speaker 8: let me ask you something, brother, when is she supposed 1312 01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,519 Speaker 8: to be able to process that You ain't coming back. 1313 01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:11,840 Speaker 2: It's been five years. You don't think that little girl 1314 01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:14,920 Speaker 2: then figured this out? No, man, this is some hogwash 1315 01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:17,439 Speaker 2: you and your ex have put together. 1316 01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:20,479 Speaker 8: And brother, you kind of handpecked to me a little 1317 01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:24,080 Speaker 8: bit to your ex because your loyalty should be to 1318 01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:28,320 Speaker 8: your new wife, not to your ex. So to me, man, 1319 01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:30,360 Speaker 8: you kind of hand pecked to your ex wife. I 1320 01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,800 Speaker 8: don't know what she got hanging over your head. I 1321 01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:35,400 Speaker 8: don't know how y'all have decided to co parent his daughter, 1322 01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:39,720 Speaker 8: but teaching her disrespect is not a good thing. I 1323 01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:41,439 Speaker 8: want to know what he and his ex wife have 1324 01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:44,280 Speaker 8: been telling her. That you ain't his mama, that you 1325 01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:47,240 Speaker 8: ain't her mama. She ain't got to call you her mama. 1326 01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:51,200 Speaker 8: And that that right there that they have ain't even 1327 01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:54,680 Speaker 8: real because she destroyed your original family with me and 1328 01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:55,320 Speaker 8: your daddy. 1329 01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:59,240 Speaker 1: All right, Steve lead your comments on Today's Strubberry Letter 1330 01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:02,040 Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook at Steve HARVEYSM and check us 1331 01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:05,960 Speaker 1: out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. 1332 01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:08,600 Speaker 1: Now coming up next, he is back, We've missed you, 1333 01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:12,680 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk Right after this, you're listening to 1334 01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:14,360 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1335 01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:20,840 Speaker 11: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1336 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:22,880 Speaker 11: planning and hard work to get in the door. 1337 01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:24,160 Speaker 2: Didn't make that house a home. 1338 01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:25,760 Speaker 7: Now, all that effort has. 1339 01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:29,000 Speaker 11: Built something hugely valuable, equity. 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What you got for it's junior. 1350 01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 11: Okay, all right, well I'm back, Thank you Tommy and 1351 01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:57,760 Speaker 11: off doing sports for me. 1352 01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:00,519 Speaker 7: I got the report and everything. Y'all did really good 1353 01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:01,160 Speaker 7: some days. 1354 01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:03,320 Speaker 2: I know good. Hell well we did. We don't need 1355 01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:08,280 Speaker 2: it's your sports. Here we go, let's talk about it. 1356 01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:08,519 Speaker 12: Man. 1357 01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:14,400 Speaker 2: The US Opening, he held, y'all'll thank me and Tommy 1358 01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:15,519 Speaker 2: for sitting in for you. 1359 01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:21,960 Speaker 9: I was even just being polite. See, don't thank me 1360 01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:24,200 Speaker 9: for sitting here for you. I was at work. 1361 01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:30,080 Speaker 2: I wasn't sitting in for you. I was at work. Tommy, 1362 01:11:30,240 --> 01:11:32,479 Speaker 2: was you sitting in or was you already here at work? 1363 01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:36,439 Speaker 2: I was already here at work. Okay, go ahead, we 1364 01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:37,320 Speaker 2: were sitting. 1365 01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:37,560 Speaker 8: In for you. 1366 01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:42,080 Speaker 7: Anybody Coco Golf the US Open, So they played. Did 1367 01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:46,280 Speaker 7: y'all see that? Watch good black girl magic nail in soccer? 1368 01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:47,599 Speaker 2: One six three, six two. 1369 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:49,560 Speaker 7: But it was a healthy I think it's gonna be 1370 01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:50,360 Speaker 7: a healthy rivalry. 1371 01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:51,200 Speaker 2: Nothing bad. 1372 01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:53,240 Speaker 7: They were just two black girls out there on center court, 1373 01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:54,280 Speaker 7: look really good. 1374 01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:56,040 Speaker 2: But everybody black. 1375 01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:58,160 Speaker 9: I couldn't share. I didn't care who won. 1376 01:11:58,280 --> 01:11:58,479 Speaker 1: It was. 1377 01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:05,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I see it. But let's get fan. I'm a fan. Yeah. 1378 01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:07,320 Speaker 2: I met her and her father at Super Bowl one. 1379 01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:10,160 Speaker 9: Yeah, and I love them. 1380 01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:16,040 Speaker 2: I don't know her well, she's black. I was pulling 1381 01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:19,040 Speaker 2: for talking to man. Towns are lost for a couple 1382 01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:19,360 Speaker 2: of days. 1383 01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:20,200 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1384 01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:23,560 Speaker 9: Yeah. Another sister, another. 1385 01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:26,720 Speaker 2: Ten sister, She coming though, ain't no joke. Yeah. 1386 01:12:27,120 --> 01:12:29,280 Speaker 8: That woman had her finger on her face telling her 1387 01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:37,240 Speaker 8: she should have slapped her with the rack. Yeah wow, 1388 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:46,599 Speaker 8: she told, And you have no education win. I ain't 1389 01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:48,760 Speaker 8: got no re you ain't got no more tief. 1390 01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:49,680 Speaker 2: So you know. 1391 01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:55,560 Speaker 7: It's gonna get to it. Also know what tomorrow is 1392 01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:56,000 Speaker 7: big though? 1393 01:12:56,720 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 11: And if fail is back, and if fail is back, 1394 01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:05,719 Speaker 11: let's get it game one Thursday night football Cowboys and Eagles. 1395 01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:09,320 Speaker 7: Cowboys and the Eagles tomorrow night. 1396 01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:11,439 Speaker 2: What you want to say? Go ahead and ask me? 1397 01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:13,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, go ahead, un just go ahead. 1398 01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:15,240 Speaker 2: Just who you think is gonna win. 1399 01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:26,360 Speaker 8: The preason that ain't playing? They traded Michael Parson, Yeah, 1400 01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:33,240 Speaker 8: the Eagles. The Eagles is not a game though, that. 1401 01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:35,599 Speaker 9: You he's really cute too. 1402 01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:39,120 Speaker 8: I don't know why they centerpenion trying to figure out 1403 01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:40,760 Speaker 8: is he a top ten quarterback? 1404 01:13:41,280 --> 01:13:46,800 Speaker 2: Yes? End of the Super Bowl twice? What top tier quarterback? 1405 01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:47,479 Speaker 7: Who you going? 1406 01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:50,320 Speaker 2: You're throwing the ball to your people that ain't making 1407 01:13:50,400 --> 01:13:50,959 Speaker 2: the playoffs. 1408 01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,840 Speaker 9: All right, Thank you, Ju, and you're welcome back. 1409 01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,200 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, a fifteen 1410 01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:58,880 Speaker 1: year old woman Steve needs some advice after she's dated 1411 01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:02,240 Speaker 1: a man for eight years. We'll get into that right 1412 01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:05,719 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1413 01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:13,080 Speaker 1: All right, This is from Quinn in Minneapolis. Quinn says, 1414 01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm a fifty year old single woman, but I live 1415 01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:19,080 Speaker 1: with my boyfriend of eight years. I've recently started referring 1416 01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:21,439 Speaker 1: to myself as single because my man told me that 1417 01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:24,400 Speaker 1: we don't need a piece of paper saying we're a couple. 1418 01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:26,920 Speaker 1: He said a wedding would be a waste of time. 1419 01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:30,040 Speaker 1: I don't plan to make any drastic moves right now, 1420 01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:33,920 Speaker 1: but I'm open to dating other people. Am I crazy 1421 01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:37,000 Speaker 1: to want a wedding and to be legally married after 1422 01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:37,960 Speaker 1: eight years? 1423 01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:41,320 Speaker 8: Well, I think it's crazy for you to say you're 1424 01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:47,760 Speaker 8: open to dating other people. Y'all live together. I don't 1425 01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:52,559 Speaker 8: know why women y'all are so accepting of this new 1426 01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:55,760 Speaker 8: way of doing things when you really want the old 1427 01:14:55,840 --> 01:15:00,840 Speaker 8: fashioned thing. You want to be somebody's wife, and you 1428 01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:03,320 Speaker 8: want to be married and have a family. Structure now 1429 01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:05,400 Speaker 8: because some dudes done set up here and told you 1430 01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:07,439 Speaker 8: you don't need a piece of paper between us, and 1431 01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:09,800 Speaker 8: you set up there and let that happen. Now you 1432 01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:12,360 Speaker 8: just set up there and build a life with this dude. 1433 01:15:12,880 --> 01:15:14,680 Speaker 8: And now he then told you he don't need a 1434 01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:17,679 Speaker 8: piece of paper to be I don't care what he said. 1435 01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:22,400 Speaker 8: What about what you want now? This thing that you're 1436 01:15:22,520 --> 01:15:26,519 Speaker 8: saying about, I want to be open to dating? How 1437 01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:27,679 Speaker 8: where are y'all going? 1438 01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:31,920 Speaker 2: Cause you can't get dressed and lead that house with 1439 01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:33,920 Speaker 2: a skirt on and some makeup. 1440 01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:36,479 Speaker 8: And your had done and some heels and then tell 1441 01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:41,120 Speaker 8: this dude that's sitting up in here paying bills with you, 1442 01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:47,080 Speaker 8: I'm going on a date. Girl, Girl, you put the 1443 01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:51,639 Speaker 8: whole cart in front of the horse. Now, now now 1444 01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:55,240 Speaker 8: you want to start changing moves, it will never happen. 1445 01:15:55,760 --> 01:15:59,400 Speaker 8: You are not single, and he didn't told and you 1446 01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:00,679 Speaker 8: not start dating? 1447 01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:04,280 Speaker 2: What do you know? You got it? You got it, 1448 01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:07,600 Speaker 2: you got you got you gotta tell this god, this 1449 01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:08,200 Speaker 2: is the deal. 1450 01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:13,000 Speaker 8: If you want this to continue to continue, I have 1451 01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:15,759 Speaker 8: to be married or else I'm out. 1452 01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:18,160 Speaker 2: And then you have then you go out and then 1453 01:16:18,200 --> 01:16:21,639 Speaker 2: you can start dating. Okay, But you're not. You can't 1454 01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:25,559 Speaker 2: date from this man's how you cannot do that? Yeah? 1455 01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:28,360 Speaker 9: All right, all right, great advice. Thank you. 1456 01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:30,519 Speaker 1: We have time for another one, Steve. This is from 1457 01:16:30,560 --> 01:16:34,120 Speaker 1: Rashid in Brooklyn. Rashid says, I had a female over 1458 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,559 Speaker 1: at my house during the week and my girlfriend came 1459 01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:39,559 Speaker 1: to visit me this past weekend. When my girlfriend got 1460 01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:43,439 Speaker 1: in my bed, she immediately said she could smell another woman. 1461 01:16:43,920 --> 01:16:47,000 Speaker 1: That was impossible because I bought new sheets for her visit. 1462 01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:50,440 Speaker 1: What is it about women that make them so suspicious 1463 01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:51,880 Speaker 1: of everything? 1464 01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:57,200 Speaker 8: No, it's not suspicion, dog, it's called intuition. You got 1465 01:16:57,240 --> 01:17:02,720 Speaker 8: the wrong issue. It's no suspicion, it's intuition. 1466 01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:06,040 Speaker 2: See. See, you need to get your issues together. 1467 01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:12,759 Speaker 8: Because if you think that you can have a woman 1468 01:17:12,960 --> 01:17:16,120 Speaker 8: over your house and then me and your girlfriend over 1469 01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:18,400 Speaker 8: the house and she ain't gonna know it, I can't 1470 01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:22,120 Speaker 8: even explain it to you. Though, I can't even explain 1471 01:17:22,200 --> 01:17:27,320 Speaker 8: it to you, but you are beyond stupid, Sid. And 1472 01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:29,679 Speaker 8: then you said you went and bought some new sheets. 1473 01:17:30,040 --> 01:17:32,880 Speaker 8: She said she could smell another woman. 1474 01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:35,240 Speaker 9: Smell another woman? 1475 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:46,840 Speaker 8: Now, bro, the only way you could have slept with 1476 01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:50,599 Speaker 8: this girl and your wife not know it if y'all 1477 01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:52,960 Speaker 8: had to did it in there on the kitchen float 1478 01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:55,679 Speaker 8: and then you mocked with a swift though. 1479 01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:56,720 Speaker 2: That's the only way. 1480 01:17:58,439 --> 01:18:04,160 Speaker 8: That's the only way with them as some pine solid fabulous, 1481 01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:10,519 Speaker 8: that's only Wait. If that girl, yeah, if that girl 1482 01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:15,559 Speaker 8: done touched air piece of fabric in that, we will 1483 01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:16,400 Speaker 8: know they know. 1484 01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:20,160 Speaker 9: True dogs. 1485 01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,519 Speaker 2: She knows how your toothbrushes is arranged. 1486 01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:23,760 Speaker 12: Don't do it. 1487 01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:26,920 Speaker 2: She'll see a fangerprint on the corner of the medicine cabinet. 1488 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:28,920 Speaker 9: Yeah, we got it. 1489 01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:31,479 Speaker 8: Like you can't have no teeth marks in your head 1490 01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:33,320 Speaker 8: board because they wasn't here last week. 1491 01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:39,680 Speaker 9: Worry, you can't have no teeth marks your. 1492 01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:43,120 Speaker 2: Head board cause there last week. 1493 01:18:44,760 --> 01:18:47,599 Speaker 1: All right, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, 1494 01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:50,000 Speaker 1: we'll have more of the no head board. 1495 01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:54,960 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1496 01:18:58,880 --> 01:19:01,880 Speaker 1: Well, if you forgot to buy Powerball ticket for last 1497 01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:06,599 Speaker 1: night's massive one point three billion with a b billion 1498 01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:10,599 Speaker 1: dollar jackpot, you're in luck because there was no winner. 1499 01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,439 Speaker 1: There was no winner, Okay. The winning numbers and Monday's 1500 01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:20,519 Speaker 1: drawing were eight, twenty three, twenty five, forty and fifty 1501 01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:24,880 Speaker 1: three with a red power ball of five. Okay, there 1502 01:19:24,960 --> 01:19:28,360 Speaker 1: were ten tickets that won one million dollars in prizes. 1503 01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:29,160 Speaker 2: Uh. 1504 01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:33,160 Speaker 1: The jackpot for the next drawing is tonight, and it's 1505 01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:36,439 Speaker 1: now up to a hefty one point three billion. 1506 01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:38,759 Speaker 2: The lumpstick who had a million dollars? 1507 01:19:39,240 --> 01:19:41,719 Speaker 9: They had some of the numbers five five. 1508 01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:47,360 Speaker 2: Powerball is a million dollars. The powerball has to match. Yes, 1509 01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:50,439 Speaker 2: that's why it's so hard. So if you get six 1510 01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:55,600 Speaker 2: numbers but the powerball number, well yeah, but. 1511 01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:58,840 Speaker 9: You can only get six with the powerball numbers five 1512 01:19:59,120 --> 01:20:00,559 Speaker 9: without the power ball number. 1513 01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:03,240 Speaker 2: But you need that powerball number for the sixth number 1514 01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:05,680 Speaker 2: to win. Okay, So hold on, let me ask you 1515 01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:06,040 Speaker 2: a question. 1516 01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:09,679 Speaker 8: Now, it's six numbers that they pull, right, right, Let's 1517 01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:15,200 Speaker 8: say the powerball number powerball number is seventeen, but your 1518 01:20:15,400 --> 01:20:20,200 Speaker 8: number seventeen is not in that powerball window, right. 1519 01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:21,160 Speaker 9: It has to match. 1520 01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:24,160 Speaker 2: I know because I had the powerball number when it 1521 01:20:24,280 --> 01:20:28,520 Speaker 2: was seventeen. Yeah, but I didn't have now the numbers. 1522 01:20:30,320 --> 01:20:32,040 Speaker 9: Fives there you know what you got for that? 1523 01:20:32,360 --> 01:20:39,680 Speaker 1: Photouts All right, coming up next, guys, we'll play around it, 1524 01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:40,280 Speaker 1: would you rather? 1525 01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:44,639 Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1526 01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:50,280 Speaker 2: Everybody's your favorite play cousin. 1527 01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:50,679 Speaker 3: Junior. 1528 01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:54,120 Speaker 11: Looking for something new, try fencing, the Olympic and Paralympic 1529 01:20:54,160 --> 01:20:57,160 Speaker 11: sport that mix it speed, strategy and fun. It's like 1530 01:20:57,320 --> 01:21:01,400 Speaker 11: chess meats cardio, quick feet, quick decision, and satisfying beep 1531 01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:04,120 Speaker 11: when you score a point. 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You wrunt your own man cave? 1542 01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:39,080 Speaker 2: You got both of them, Tommy, Yeah, you better start 1543 01:21:39,160 --> 01:21:45,560 Speaker 2: up in here. Well, reflection, you do it, You got that, 1544 01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:46,320 Speaker 2: do it? 1545 01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:47,000 Speaker 3: Do it. 1546 01:21:48,280 --> 01:21:50,439 Speaker 2: Let's go what you got. I got my own. 1547 01:21:50,360 --> 01:21:53,599 Speaker 8: Primary bathroom and I got a man cave with another 1548 01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:54,760 Speaker 8: primary bathroom. 1549 01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:02,320 Speaker 9: It's some got it to do it, that's right. Let 1550 01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:04,360 Speaker 9: us dream big, all right. 1551 01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:05,240 Speaker 2: I can sit my. 1552 01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:13,920 Speaker 17: Tail down on anything your tail Okay, yeah, can't. I 1553 01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:17,760 Speaker 17: wide open now, I don't want to stay behind. I 1554 01:22:17,880 --> 01:22:19,280 Speaker 17: can't say what I want to say. 1555 01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:26,000 Speaker 9: So now, all right, golf lessons with Tiger Woods? 1556 01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:26,960 Speaker 2: All right? 1557 01:22:27,040 --> 01:22:30,799 Speaker 9: Would you rather or smoke a cigar with Barack Obama? 1558 01:22:31,640 --> 01:22:35,160 Speaker 2: Be oh, I'm I'm gonna frustrate Tiger. 1559 01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:36,240 Speaker 3: I know, I know. 1560 01:22:41,720 --> 01:22:48,120 Speaker 8: See, man, Tiger Woods is the only dude in this 1561 01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:52,559 Speaker 8: world that I've ever wanted to meet that I haven't met. 1562 01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:55,240 Speaker 2: I have met every other living song. 1563 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:59,920 Speaker 8: I met Richard Prior, I met Bill Cosby, I met 1564 01:23:00,160 --> 01:23:05,200 Speaker 8: Mohammad Ali, I met everybody I ever looked. I've been 1565 01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:11,320 Speaker 8: with Barack Obama several times. Tiger is the only dude. 1566 01:23:13,520 --> 01:23:18,840 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna come on. 1567 01:23:20,360 --> 01:23:23,479 Speaker 8: I'm gonna pick the golf lessons with Tiger because then 1568 01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:24,719 Speaker 8: I will have completed. 1569 01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:28,719 Speaker 2: You hold the bucket list. I don't care. I'm gonna 1570 01:23:28,720 --> 01:23:30,360 Speaker 2: be on his now. I'm not even gonna play golf. 1571 01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:32,439 Speaker 9: You're just gonna be talking. 1572 01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:34,040 Speaker 2: I'm talking. 1573 01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:35,479 Speaker 12: Now. 1574 01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:39,559 Speaker 2: I want to talk with father. I talk to him 1575 01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:44,360 Speaker 2: about father. All right? 1576 01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:53,120 Speaker 9: Would you rather cuddle with your ex or I'm surprised 1577 01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:53,679 Speaker 9: you guys. 1578 01:23:55,520 --> 01:23:56,520 Speaker 2: With a porcupine? 1579 01:23:58,000 --> 01:23:58,040 Speaker 10: No? 1580 01:23:58,520 --> 01:24:04,760 Speaker 9: No, no water with a shop, No cuddle with your 1581 01:24:04,840 --> 01:24:08,080 Speaker 9: ex or would you rather cuddle with Linda Blair from 1582 01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:08,920 Speaker 9: the Exorcist? 1583 01:24:10,520 --> 01:24:15,599 Speaker 2: I'm cudding with Linda. They're the same person. Yeah, they're 1584 01:24:15,640 --> 01:24:16,720 Speaker 2: the same person. 1585 01:24:16,560 --> 01:24:18,000 Speaker 7: But I'm going with Beato. 1586 01:24:18,640 --> 01:24:22,320 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, guys, that's today's round of 1587 01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:23,160 Speaker 1: would you rather? 1588 01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:24,040 Speaker 2: Now? 1589 01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:26,240 Speaker 1: Coming up next, It is our last break of the day, 1590 01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:28,879 Speaker 1: and we'll close out the show with the one and only, 1591 01:24:29,200 --> 01:24:32,000 Speaker 1: the Man, the Myth, the Legend, Steve Harvey. 1592 01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:34,760 Speaker 9: Right after this what I've thought? 1593 01:24:34,920 --> 01:24:36,960 Speaker 14: Your boy's a big snoop dog And you're listening to 1594 01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:38,880 Speaker 14: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1595 01:24:40,479 --> 01:24:42,960 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1596 01:24:47,120 --> 01:24:49,519 Speaker 11: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1597 01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:51,639 Speaker 11: planning and hard work to get in the doors. 1598 01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:54,439 Speaker 2: Didn't make that house a home. Now, all that effort has. 1599 01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:57,640 Speaker 11: Built something hugely valuable equity. It's the portion of your 1600 01:24:57,680 --> 01:24:59,639 Speaker 11: home you truly own that can be tapped to funn 1601 01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:01,880 Speaker 11: what's next? And Rocket Mortgage is here to help you 1602 01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:04,080 Speaker 11: turn your home's equity into cash. 1603 01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:06,280 Speaker 2: Fund your next drink with Rocket Mortgage. 1604 01:25:06,360 --> 01:25:09,080 Speaker 11: Visit rocket mortgage dot com today to find out more. 1605 01:25:09,240 --> 01:25:13,040 Speaker 11: Rocket Mortgage LLC license in fifty states, n MLS Consumer 1606 01:25:13,120 --> 01:25:15,080 Speaker 11: Access dot Org number thirty thirty. 1607 01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:18,479 Speaker 9: All right, guys, here we are our last break of 1608 01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:22,040 Speaker 9: the day. Wow, it's been a fun day. We've had 1609 01:25:22,040 --> 01:25:25,920 Speaker 9: a good time today, yep, Monday. And what did we learn? 1610 01:25:26,160 --> 01:25:26,840 Speaker 2: What did we learn? 1611 01:25:28,040 --> 01:25:32,240 Speaker 9: We spent twelve hundred on the lottery in one ninety. 1612 01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:34,080 Speaker 2: Twelve pay off. 1613 01:25:34,160 --> 01:25:34,880 Speaker 9: Tonight gone. 1614 01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:38,439 Speaker 2: But let's go big, Tommy, going back, going right back. 1615 01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:43,320 Speaker 9: Junior's back, yup, Welcome. 1616 01:25:43,640 --> 01:25:49,759 Speaker 2: Welcome back, and the dreams remains that you come around. 1617 01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:52,519 Speaker 9: Well, that was one of your favorites, wasn't it. 1618 01:25:53,160 --> 01:25:55,719 Speaker 2: I just love welcome by Carter Junior. 1619 01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:59,200 Speaker 9: Were you around when Welcome back everything? 1620 01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:00,639 Speaker 2: He was still in panthers. 1621 01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:02,080 Speaker 7: I was in the pin watching it. 1622 01:26:03,160 --> 01:26:06,839 Speaker 8: Nobody ain't nobody finish? And don't quit asking him questions? 1623 01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:14,559 Speaker 9: All right, Steve, come on take us out, you. 1624 01:26:14,640 --> 01:26:17,320 Speaker 2: Know, uh surely. 1625 01:26:17,360 --> 01:26:20,320 Speaker 8: And I were talking a minute ago as I was 1626 01:26:20,640 --> 01:26:24,240 Speaker 8: thinking about my clothes, remarks, what I might say, and 1627 01:26:24,640 --> 01:26:27,639 Speaker 8: it the topic came up of regrets. 1628 01:26:28,080 --> 01:26:29,280 Speaker 2: Do I have any regrets? 1629 01:26:30,920 --> 01:26:38,639 Speaker 8: And you know, of course, everybody, everybody's had something happened 1630 01:26:38,680 --> 01:26:42,439 Speaker 8: to them, and you don't lie. Everybody has had something 1631 01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:46,439 Speaker 8: happened to them that they wish didn't happen. That's I 1632 01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:48,640 Speaker 8: don't know a person that's you know, people caiming I 1633 01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:52,960 Speaker 8: have no regrets, Well, yeah, that's I mean, it's easy 1634 01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:56,599 Speaker 8: to say that once it's over, that you have no regrets. 1635 01:26:57,960 --> 01:27:03,000 Speaker 8: But I've been in so many regretful situations I can't 1636 01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:07,439 Speaker 8: even explain it. And so yes, of course there are 1637 01:27:07,600 --> 01:27:11,760 Speaker 8: things I wished had never happened to me. But on 1638 01:27:11,880 --> 01:27:16,439 Speaker 8: the other side of all of those regrets is the 1639 01:27:16,640 --> 01:27:21,040 Speaker 8: reason why it happened. And that's the key that you 1640 01:27:21,240 --> 01:27:24,760 Speaker 8: have to get to. Because if you wallow in regret, 1641 01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:33,000 Speaker 8: if you sit there and mimic it, rerun it, relive it, 1642 01:27:34,240 --> 01:27:38,439 Speaker 8: remain in the condition that it caused, what good is 1643 01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:39,160 Speaker 8: that to you? 1644 01:27:40,439 --> 01:27:45,320 Speaker 2: What good is that? Regret serves no purpose. Regret is 1645 01:27:45,479 --> 01:27:46,000 Speaker 2: like guilt. 1646 01:27:46,840 --> 01:27:50,560 Speaker 8: It's two of the most useless emotions that we have 1647 01:27:50,960 --> 01:27:53,960 Speaker 8: because guilt serves no purpose for anybody except the person 1648 01:27:54,040 --> 01:27:54,760 Speaker 8: that's applying it. 1649 01:27:55,560 --> 01:27:56,680 Speaker 2: Guilt is crazy, man. 1650 01:27:56,960 --> 01:27:59,240 Speaker 8: Have you ever noticed that every time you feel guilty 1651 01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:04,719 Speaker 8: is usually a person behind it that's making you feel guilty. 1652 01:28:04,960 --> 01:28:07,519 Speaker 8: Have you ever noticed that you don't just wake up 1653 01:28:07,520 --> 01:28:11,639 Speaker 8: and feel guilty? Man, I got a great life. Man, 1654 01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:14,120 Speaker 8: It's crazy. I shouldn't be living this good? 1655 01:28:14,280 --> 01:28:15,840 Speaker 2: Why? Why? 1656 01:28:16,360 --> 01:28:21,040 Speaker 8: Because I can assure you somebody has said something to 1657 01:28:21,120 --> 01:28:25,240 Speaker 8: you to make you feel that way. Regret, y'all, this 1658 01:28:25,400 --> 01:28:32,120 Speaker 8: is the way I handled regret. Regret has been a 1659 01:28:32,240 --> 01:28:36,439 Speaker 8: part of my foundation. The things that happened to me 1660 01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:40,200 Speaker 8: that I wished had not happened to me, I made 1661 01:28:40,240 --> 01:28:41,800 Speaker 8: them a part of my foundation. 1662 01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:45,680 Speaker 2: I can stand on all my regrets right now, and 1663 01:28:45,800 --> 01:28:47,680 Speaker 2: I do. I stand on all of them. 1664 01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:51,840 Speaker 8: I realized the mistakes I made, I owned up to them, 1665 01:28:52,280 --> 01:28:55,479 Speaker 8: I learned the valuable lesson that I needed to learn. 1666 01:28:55,920 --> 01:28:59,240 Speaker 8: But I also came away with the blessing that it created. 1667 01:28:59,880 --> 01:29:05,920 Speaker 8: So regret has become one of the stabilizing forces of 1668 01:29:06,160 --> 01:29:12,839 Speaker 8: my foundation. Also, anything I ever regretted has really brightened 1669 01:29:12,880 --> 01:29:15,640 Speaker 8: my future because guess what, I bet I don't do 1670 01:29:15,760 --> 01:29:20,439 Speaker 8: that again. Oh my goodness, how many times have you 1671 01:29:20,600 --> 01:29:24,559 Speaker 8: had a regretful moment that taught you a valuable lesson? 1672 01:29:25,160 --> 01:29:29,880 Speaker 8: See that's what they're for, y'all. Those regrettable moments. They 1673 01:29:30,000 --> 01:29:35,120 Speaker 8: build character. They help shape your future. See, once you 1674 01:29:35,400 --> 01:29:37,000 Speaker 8: you know you know what, man, you know what kind 1675 01:29:37,040 --> 01:29:39,519 Speaker 8: of like you know, the older you get and you're 1676 01:29:39,560 --> 01:29:41,320 Speaker 8: talking to a young person. You're trying to give a 1677 01:29:41,360 --> 01:29:44,320 Speaker 8: young person some advice, and then when they ask you 1678 01:29:44,400 --> 01:29:46,760 Speaker 8: for the advice and you start telling them, and then 1679 01:29:46,760 --> 01:29:48,560 Speaker 8: they gonna say no, but I was gonna do it 1680 01:29:48,680 --> 01:29:52,360 Speaker 8: like this and no, and you say, I stop them 1681 01:29:52,360 --> 01:29:52,920 Speaker 8: all the time. 1682 01:29:53,360 --> 01:29:56,439 Speaker 2: I said, listen, listen, listen, man, I don't seen this 1683 01:29:56,640 --> 01:30:02,760 Speaker 2: movie before. It ain't gonna end well. I was the 1684 01:30:03,000 --> 01:30:07,120 Speaker 2: star in that scene, that scene you just described. I 1685 01:30:07,320 --> 01:30:10,720 Speaker 2: was the star in that scene you just described. And 1686 01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:15,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now it's not gonna end well. Oh, 1687 01:30:15,240 --> 01:30:17,200 Speaker 2: but they keep on talking about well, I was gonna 1688 01:30:17,200 --> 01:30:18,599 Speaker 2: do it this way, and I don't go that way. 1689 01:30:18,920 --> 01:30:19,680 Speaker 2: Listen to me, man. 1690 01:30:20,760 --> 01:30:25,040 Speaker 8: You can walk around the Marlberry Bush any kind of 1691 01:30:25,080 --> 01:30:27,280 Speaker 8: way you want to. You can skip, you can crawl, 1692 01:30:27,760 --> 01:30:30,800 Speaker 8: you can belly, you can army crawl, you can get 1693 01:30:30,840 --> 01:30:33,639 Speaker 8: up in one leg, hop it. You can walk backwards 1694 01:30:33,640 --> 01:30:36,600 Speaker 8: around the Marlberry Bush. But when you go round to 1695 01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:39,679 Speaker 8: Marlberry Bush and you come back, this is what's gonna happen. 1696 01:30:40,280 --> 01:30:42,840 Speaker 8: And see, that's the problem. Sometimes when you're trying to 1697 01:30:42,960 --> 01:30:46,920 Speaker 8: forewarn a person about something that you live through as regret, 1698 01:30:47,800 --> 01:30:50,920 Speaker 8: sometimes you just gotta let them go. That's that's where 1699 01:30:51,000 --> 01:30:53,960 Speaker 8: sayings come on, you know, that's where sayings come from. 1700 01:30:54,080 --> 01:30:57,240 Speaker 8: Like you just don't believe fat meat, greasy, let me 1701 01:30:57,320 --> 01:31:01,880 Speaker 8: eat some. Go ahead, but listen to me. Regret has 1702 01:31:02,000 --> 01:31:06,080 Speaker 8: taught me so much, and I'm grateful for every regretful 1703 01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:09,400 Speaker 8: moment I've had. But if you have some regretful moments, 1704 01:31:09,479 --> 01:31:10,439 Speaker 8: quit wallowing in it. 1705 01:31:11,160 --> 01:31:11,840 Speaker 2: Stand on it. 1706 01:31:12,720 --> 01:31:15,519 Speaker 8: Yeah I did it. Yeah that was me, my bad, 1707 01:31:16,120 --> 01:31:20,920 Speaker 8: my mistake. I'm sorry. I've apologized. I've asked God for forgiveness. 1708 01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:23,439 Speaker 8: I've asked you for forgiveness. Now the fact that you 1709 01:31:23,560 --> 01:31:28,160 Speaker 8: won't forgive me, that's on you. God is in the 1710 01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:32,120 Speaker 8: forgiving business. I take all the regrets, put it on 1711 01:31:32,240 --> 01:31:36,000 Speaker 8: my foundation, and it helps shape my future. So you 1712 01:31:36,120 --> 01:31:39,879 Speaker 8: know what, Hope I don't have too many more regrets, 1713 01:31:39,960 --> 01:31:42,560 Speaker 8: But if I do, I packed that away as a 1714 01:31:42,640 --> 01:31:45,639 Speaker 8: lesson well learned. Also, those are my closing remarks. Hey, y'all, 1715 01:31:45,720 --> 01:31:50,000 Speaker 8: listen to this important fact. Please talk to God to go. 1716 01:31:51,240 --> 01:31:55,840 Speaker 2: He would absolute love to hear from us. He loves you. 1717 01:31:56,400 --> 01:32:00,439 Speaker 2: Don't forget me, y'all. Have a great day today for all. 1718 01:32:00,479 --> 01:32:04,439 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey contests No purchase necessary, voidware prohibited Participants must 1719 01:32:04,479 --> 01:32:07,519 Speaker 1: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless 1720 01:32:07,680 --> 01:32:12,120 Speaker 1: otherwise stated. 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