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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. I have been waiting for this

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Speaker 1: moment for an entire week.

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Speaker 2: I am so excited.

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Speaker 3: I know you're actually smiling, ladies.

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Speaker 1: And gentlemen, making his glorious return. Please welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the show a fan favorite.

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Speaker 2: Can I get a drum roll please for.

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Speaker 4: The one the only Ruffer.

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Speaker 5: Rufer.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back, dude.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, thanks for having me back.

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Speaker 4: You're getting more requests than song requests.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you remind me Rufer what you were on, Like,

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Speaker 3: we had a second date last time, but I can't remember.

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Speaker 1: It's been over a year since he was last on

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Speaker 1: with them, and Rufe has actually been on the show

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Speaker 1: three different times. The most memorable one for me was

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Speaker 1: the coffee date that you had with a girl, which

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Speaker 1: you forgot about because that morning you were let's call

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Speaker 1: her medically enhanced sure that you may or may not

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Speaker 1: have been staring at the clock, or you stared at

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Speaker 1: it for too long and it's zoned out. We're just

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Speaker 1: gonna say that you forgot but yeah, that didn't work. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that sounds good, That sounds good, sounds like me. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: we don't need to go any more detail about that.

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Speaker 1: The bottom line is for your friend of the show.

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Speaker 1: We love hearing from you. So let's talk about this

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Speaker 1: new woman that you just met. What's her name?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Her name is is Cheryl?

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Speaker 2: Okay, where'd you meet her?

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Speaker 5: And we met on the bus.

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Speaker 1: She passed out to I am not surprised.

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Speaker 5: First of all, she was awake. I wanta.

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Speaker 2: Good for you, dude.

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Speaker 3: We know Jeffrey's humor.

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Speaker 4: You're good man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Well, like I didn't have a bus pass, so she

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Speaker 5: offered to cover my bus pass.

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Speaker 3: Ah, wow, did you not even digging in the trash

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Speaker 3: for a transfer?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so how did you and Cheryl'll get to talking

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Speaker 1: to each other?

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Speaker 2: Interacting with each other?

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Speaker 5: I mean, like I said, she bought me the bus pass,

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Speaker 5: and then she decided to sit with me. So I

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Speaker 5: started talking on the bus ride.

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Speaker 3: About her part meeting a man at a bus stop

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Speaker 3: and sitting next to him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So how did that conversation with her go?

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Speaker 5: Well, she said she was going to the botanical gardens.

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Speaker 1: Oh cool.

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Speaker 6: I was like, oh man, I got nothing else to do, Like, wait,

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Speaker 6: you invited yourself?

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Speaker 3: Invite you.

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Speaker 5: There's a little boat that was kind of like, can

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Speaker 5: I tag along?

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Speaker 4: And I like botanicals. I like greens.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're going to a funeral?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Sure, you know, my god, I say, good for you.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Was she open to that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the question.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, she was like cool.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: So you guys went to the botanical gardens together.

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Speaker 2: How was that?

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Speaker 5: Uh disappointing?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, why?

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Speaker 5: I guess I didn't know the botanical garden was, but

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Speaker 5: I was picturing it like an underwater thing. Huh.

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Speaker 4: Oh it's not an aquarium.

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Speaker 5: Like it was just a regular, regular gardens.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Did you voice how much you thought it sucked?

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Speaker 5: I tried to kind of keep it to myself. But

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Speaker 4: Ah yeah, seen one flower? You see them all.

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Speaker 1: Did you try to talk to your kind of date,

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Speaker 1: the girl at all?

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Speaker 4: Did you ask her any questions when you got bored?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I just kept talking like basic smile talk, what

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Speaker 5: do you do for work? And all that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 5: But I also brought this thermos and she shared some

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Speaker 4: Uh pre mix?

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Speaker 3: What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: I'm afraid to ask? What was your pre mix in

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Speaker 1: your thermis.

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Speaker 5: I call it a morning trucker. It's just like whiskey

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Speaker 5: and OJ kind of like, oh whisky.

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Speaker 2: What did you tell her?

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Speaker 3: What was in this?

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Speaker 4: Before she took a.

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Speaker 2: Big sip, like, I just said, it's whiskey and j Okay.

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Speaker 1: You told her?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Did that change the date around? Make things go a

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Speaker 1: little bit better?

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Speaker 5: I mean, you know, it took the edge off a

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Speaker 5: little bit, but no boring garden.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's a boring garden.

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Speaker 2: So well, maybe you need to change the scenery at

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Speaker 5: Well I tried, so after an hour, I was like,

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Speaker 1: What time in the morning is that you already have

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Speaker 1: ye your mixed thermos of whiskey and ojhich sounds Oh.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what she kind of said too. Are you

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Speaker 5: already drinking?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Kind of do you want to?

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Speaker 5: I want to mix it up, get other drinks.

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Speaker 4: You can't day drink unless you start.

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Speaker 2: In the morning.

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Speaker 1: So you offered to change scenery, go to a bar

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Speaker 1: and drink. What did she say?

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Speaker 5: She did not want to do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so sound very fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean she took a bus with the sole

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Speaker 3: purpose of spending time in this garden. She was really

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Speaker 1: Honestly, Rufe, I'm surprised you'd even want to call a

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Speaker 1: woman like this back killed.

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Speaker 5: Still, overall, was the garden that that suck.

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Speaker 6: Her?

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Speaker 2: You felt the vibe?

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Speaker 4: You just think it was setting that messed it up

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Speaker 4: for you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: Did she share her phone number with you?

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Speaker 5: Rufer? Yeah? I did get her number, and I mean, okay,

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Speaker 5: my fault, but like, why she's not calling back? I

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Speaker 5: kind of let the old cricket wireless account expire.

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Speaker 4: There also, your cell phones off? Where are you calling

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Speaker 4: us from? I was going to say, maybe she's single?

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Speaker 4: It works now it was shut off temporarily.

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Speaker 1: I just wonder who that cricket?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot.

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Speaker 2: Of people, that's Rufer.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now your cell phone's back up and running, and

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Speaker 1: you still haven't heard anything back from her, No text,

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Speaker 1: no calls, nothing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean again, it was down for like a week,

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Speaker 5: but I could text her would have got back up.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, So I mean, was.

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Speaker 3: There anything romantic about this, because maybe she wouldn't it

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Speaker 3: in it? Think you more of a French?

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Speaker 1: Did you not hear him say morning trucker out?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And that should have won you over, like by miles

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, I mean I don't think, like the first

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Speaker 5: hangout it's to be romantic or anything, but like we

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Speaker 5: totally vibed good.

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Speaker 2: That's a good awkward.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we just need a good starting point to jump

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Speaker 1: off from. So that's what we're gonna do. We're all

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Speaker 1: gonna have some morning Truckers and come back. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: doing it for Rufer coming back and Collin Cheryl. Try

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Speaker 1: to get your second date update right after this second

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Speaker 1: date update, quick recap for our good buddy Rufer, who

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Speaker 1: is back on the show.

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Speaker 2: We're getting a lot of texts at seventy five ninety two.

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Speaker 1: By the way, if people very excited saying Rufer's back.

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Speaker 2: Love me some roof raise the roof, a lot of

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Speaker 2: roof pumps.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like we should just be chanting Ruf Rue.

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Speaker 1: You should tons of fans of Rufers. So, Rufer, is

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Speaker 1: there anything you want to say to your radio posse

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Speaker 1: who's listening right now?

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Speaker 4: The roof heads?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Man, I mean you guys already already hit it,

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Speaker 5: but thank you. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But Rufer has come to us again today, this time

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Speaker 1: because he met a woman on the bus. Public transportation

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Speaker 1: is where all the hidden hotties lie, and this one

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Speaker 1: is named Cheryl. Rufer invited himself to the botanical gardens

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Speaker 1: with her, where she was already going, and they shared

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Speaker 1: his thermistful of Trucker moonshine whatever it was, and after

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Speaker 1: about an hour that they decided to call it a day. Rufer,

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Speaker 1: don't let him talk about you like that.

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Speaker 5: What is it called again, It's it's morning, Trucker Morning.

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Speaker 4: It does sound better when you when it goes by

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Speaker 4: a name.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, screwdriver doesn't sound true. But I don't like when

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Speaker 2: he doesn't like vodka standards.

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Speaker 1: Nous, No, he said vodka. Rufer's got some class. But

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Speaker 1: he did feel something when he hung out with Cheryl.

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Speaker 1: And it's not just the headache that he woke up

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Speaker 1: And Rufer knows when you like someone and they're not

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Speaker 1: reaching out back to you, you come to us.

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Speaker 4: We've always gotten on the line at least.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think we've ever gotten a successful second

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Speaker 1: date for you yet.

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Speaker 2: This might be the one, though, Rufer.

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Speaker 5: I feel, I feel.

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Speaker 4: The worst case, you made more.

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Speaker 3: You know that means that you haven't had enough morning truck.

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Speaker 2: If you still feel all right.

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Speaker 5: You're right, let me tap myself off real quick.

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Speaker 1: That's a good idea.

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Speaker 4: No, don't. Sounds like you got it on top.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like what you've done broke? All right, Here we go.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Cheryl. You hold on to that drink.

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Speaker 1: We're going to talk to her for a bit.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Well, ah, right, we're looking to speak with Cheryl.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it's a sheet.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, is this going to be a surprising phone call?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Eryl, You're on a radio show right now, and everybody.

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Speaker 6: In this room thinks that you're a very, very lucky

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Speaker 6: woman by brave woman, I share al. Okay, Hi, So

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Speaker 6: we're a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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Speaker 6: and uh we do this segment called a second Date

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Speaker 6: Update where we try to help out our listeners with

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Speaker 6: their dating life if they want to see somebody again

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Speaker 6: after going out on one date. Okay, there is a

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Speaker 6: guy that wants to see you one more time.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess you weren't really a date date.

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Speaker 1: But his name is Rufer. Is how we know him?

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he introduces himself a different Oh.

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Speaker 7: My god, Rufer, Okay, you know him, that was like

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Speaker 7: six months ago?

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Speaker 3: Did the Are you sure you're talking about the same guy,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh we okay. You know what, we never asked

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Positive?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to be fair, he didn't know exactly what the

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Speaker 3: I feel like she's getting when he was Yeah, that

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Speaker 7: Actually, why what.

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Speaker 3: Was he like in the gardens?

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Speaker 7: Is he okay?

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Speaker 3: Is this is this after you guys shared the whiskey

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Speaker 7: Oh that was later? That was after this?

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Speaker 2: What was it good?

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Speaker 1: You're you're in this building and he's talking to the

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Speaker 7: The staff like signs a room for him to go

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Speaker 4: No, wait, was it an excuse for a phone charger.

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Speaker 3: Is that what you're implying?

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Speaker 7: I think so I had no idea what was going on.

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Speaker 7: I wandered around and look some of the stuff in

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Speaker 3: Peeted into display of flowers.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, those are like expensive, super well kept flowers.

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Speaker 3: There are so many bathrooms. What did you do?

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Speaker 7: I pretended I didn't see him and was okay.

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Speaker 3: Rufer's because he doesn't know that she saw it, or.

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Speaker 1: right now, who's actually on the other line at the moment?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for you there?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: I mean, the phone thing makes sense. My phone's always

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Speaker 1: You don't remember that you remember going in charging your phone?

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Speaker 5: I would and I'm sorry. The bushes, I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: No, no brons, especially in the botanical garden.

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Speaker 7: He could have definitely gone in one of those. Hey,

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Speaker 5: Think I problem put like coffee in it too, and

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Speaker 5: coffee just goes right through me. Coffee called the morning trucker.

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Speaker 5: What else do you drink in the morning?

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Speaker 4: I think that's called a four logo?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Okay, for the.

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Speaker 7: Record, I don't remember any coffee in that sermon.

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Speaker 5: I think it was mostly whiskey, in.

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Speaker 7: A quiet whisper of orange shoe.

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Speaker 8: Okay, well, the good news is that that the memory

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Speaker 7: Certainly it was certainly a colorful experience, one.

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Speaker 4: That you would like to have again.

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Speaker 2: That's a great idea.

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Speaker 1: Broke and Brew would love to offer to funds that

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Speaker 5: What do you think, Cheryl, Oh, listen, I'll leave the

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Speaker 5: this time.

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Speaker 2: A man.

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Speaker 1: Don't let a gentle poet like this slip away from

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Speaker 7: As sivalous as this offer is, I think I'm going

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Speaker 6: We almost did it, Rufer, Yeah, buddy, I mean Bummer,

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Speaker 2: Back to the public transportation system for me.

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Speaker 3: Leave the thermost at home, my man.

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Speaker 5: Why would you leave the thermost at home. That's the

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Speaker 1: I think Brook thinks you should put it in a

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Speaker 2: It gets way more with him there.

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Speaker 4: That is, don't listen to drinking brown water.

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Speaker 3: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we've ever had a listener go

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's amazing that there's no embarrassment from him,

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Speaker 1: The thing about Ruffer, even still after all that public rejection,

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Speaker 2: How could you not love him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I.

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Speaker 3: Can see why you wouldn't want to date him, but

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Speaker 1: I heard Alexis is going to put a shirtless picture

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Speaker 2: B Jordan Harry styles.

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Speaker 4: All right, you know.

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Speaker 1: What he looks like?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but I feel like pictures of Ruffor

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Speaker 4: Can't we just hop on a bus and find him ourselves?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Probably, you can probably smell him out.

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Speaker 1: But Ruff is always going to be a friend of

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Speaker 1: You have to do is trust us.

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Speaker 2: How hard is that? Email the show.

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Speaker 1: We'll call that person who was in calling you back

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Speaker 1: and go check out all of our Second Date podcasts

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Speaker 1: wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey