1 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: Transmitting Welcome to Thursday Show Morning studio. The list of 2 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: things that you have this if you're addicted to your phone? 3 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: All right, everybody, here we go. I'm not addicted to 4 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,439 Speaker 1: my phone, so but I will answer these honestly. I 5 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: do love my phone though, but I'm not addicted to it. 6 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: Number one, you reach for your phone before you fully 7 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:30,639 Speaker 1: wake up? Anybody do that? 8 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: No? 9 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: No, really, no I have. 10 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: That's a boundary that I set. 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: Good for you. I don't even think about my phone. Wow, 12 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: good for you? Huh yeah, I do. Well. Yeah, my 13 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 1: alarm goes off my phone though, Does that count? 14 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? 15 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: I think count. 16 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 2: Do you open it up and start scrolling? 17 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 4: No? 18 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 1: Not always. I do grab it when the alarm goes off, 19 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: and I check it to see what time it is. 20 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 2: Stuff, Right, that's different. 21 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: Okay, I can actually go and fully feed the dogs 22 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: before I even check my phone. Yeah, are you being honest? 23 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: Oh? 24 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just said before I'm going to be honest. 25 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: Oay. You fill a mild panic when you can't find 26 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: your phone. Yeah, of course, because I just lost my computer. 27 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 5: That's been in my pot yet there's so much on there, 28 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 5: like it's not because I oh gosh, I need to scroll. 29 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 5: But if I'm trying to leave my house, I need 30 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 5: it for maps I don't know how to get anywhere. 31 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: Good, Okay, we're all there. Next one, you check it 32 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: even when there's nothing new. Yeah, I do that me too, 33 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: And mostly it's just because I want to see what's 34 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: up in the news. That's my number one news source. Twitter. 35 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: I don't really check Instagram unless I like am purposeful. 36 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. Instagram's like my last one. 37 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's my first one. 38 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: If I want to be entertained, I go to TikTok first, 39 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: like if I got some time to sit and actually 40 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: like be entertaining, TikTok. If I'm just checking the news, 41 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: see what's up Twitter, Instagram's last. Yeah. I don't really 42 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: check my phone unless it buzzes. 43 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 2: Oh eddie, come on, you don't ever scroll on. 44 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 6: I mean, if I'm in the bathroom, the toilets all 45 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 6: all that's offense toilet Okay, you know he scrolls, like 46 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 6: to talk. 47 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: On the plane. I'll do that for entertainment. Yeah, okay, 48 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: next up. You use it to avoid even brief moments 49 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: of discomfort if you're like waiting in line, sitting alone, 50 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: riding in an elevator feeling awkward. Yes, I can put 51 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: it up to my ear and act like I'm talking 52 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: to someone if I don't want to talk to someone. 53 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: Does that now or is am I just using that 54 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: as like camouflage. 55 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: I mean this is like a decoy. 56 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: You acted like you're on a phone call. I've probably 57 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: done more fake phone calls in the past five years 58 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: than real phone calls. 59 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 2: Well, that's for sure, up man, because you don't. 60 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: Like real I don't like real phone calls. I don't 61 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: mind face times. So it's not a lack of connection. 62 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: It's on just speaking without visual I never know when 63 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: someone wants to get off the phone with me, and 64 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: I never know if they know I want to get 65 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: off the phone with them. And if we're on FaceTime, 66 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: I can tell, I can tell if they're done with me, 67 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: they can tell if I'm done with them. So yeah, 68 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: I don't think that counts then, because I just use 69 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: that to avoid conversations with people in real life. Oh hey, 70 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: what's up, Mike? Oh nothing as soon as that person 71 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: or mate Mike, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you check your 72 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: phone while someone's talking to you. I don't do that 73 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: at all. No, that's rude. Well, if it's somebody that 74 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: it's like Eddie and I get a message, I don't 75 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: mind and talk to Eddie all day, right, Like if 76 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: my wife, for the most part, unless it's trivial, I don't. 77 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 2: That's because she would murder. 78 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. That's true. But I've learned. But I 79 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: think it's broken me from that in general. Yeah, it's 80 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: made me realize that just me looking at my phone 81 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: can be rude. If I'm having a conversation with somebody, Yeah, 82 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: she would murder me. She has murdered me a couple 83 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: times for that, and I'm back. You feel the urge 84 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: to document instead of experience. 85 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 5: I think I had that maybe early on years ago, 86 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 5: but I've learned, like, just take the video on your phone, 87 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 5: save it for later, posts it later, like it doesn't 88 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 5: have to be posted in real time. 89 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: Oh, we would document though, that's just videoing. Yes, I 90 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: feel like my relationship with this is but for memories. Yeah, 91 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: but I realized watching other people document crap because they're 92 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: posting on their stories the. 93 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 2: Whole concert documenting. Are we talking about all the people will. 94 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: Do a whole song at a concert? No? No, not 95 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: that what I'll document is a very short sliver of it, 96 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: and then I'll put it put it away, yes, because 97 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 1: i know now I have the understanding that I'm never 98 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: going to watch you back. Pictures are different a couple 99 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 1: and then put it away. But I'm good at I'll 100 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: want to have this, but then I'm good at putting 101 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: it away. But I will record a little bit of everything, 102 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: but not a lot. 103 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 2: Of anything reasonable documentation. 104 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: You reach for your phone when your mind starts to wander. 105 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 1: We had who doesn't The phone's awesome. 106 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 2: I always No, I like to avoid because you don't 107 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 2: want to. 108 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: No, I'd like to put my wandering notes into my 109 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 1: phone my notes app. I got like nine notes apps 110 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: going at once, and I got all my thoughts in there. 111 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 2: Oh that's different. 112 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 5: See I heard that as some people because they want 113 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 5: they don't want to have to wander and think about 114 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 5: certain things, so they avoid it. 115 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 2: So they go to get distracted by their phone. 116 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: Loll and thought. Boredom, uncertainty, mild stress prompts an auto 117 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: automatic check. The phone fills the gap before you've even 118 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: decided whether you want the distraction or not. 119 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 2: That's why you gotta go. Raw dog boredom is what 120 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: it's called raw dog boredom. 121 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: I get raw dog boredom in the shower, and it 122 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: benefits me greatly. You don't take your phone in the shower, No, 123 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 1: just checking. Okay, if that's on the list, I'm definitely 124 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: don't have it. If there's a game on, I can't 125 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: see it. 126 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 2: Even in the shower, you're still doing a task. That's 127 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 2: not right. 128 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: I just sit through under the water. Oh, I just 129 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: sit through the water in my mind. Wonder it's the 130 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: only place I have in real freedom. 131 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 5: Well, then that counts. Okay, Sorry, am I bad? I 132 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 5: thought you were like lathering up. 133 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 1: Well you can do that though, but that's not something 134 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: that takes no. 135 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 2: But the point of raw dog boredom is you're supposed 136 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 2: to literally sit and do nothing. 137 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 5: I have my raw dog boredom in the shower, okay, 138 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 5: And now I know you sit under the running water 139 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 5: for sit. 140 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: Stand. 141 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 2: Oh thought you just said sit. Maybe it was pictures in. 142 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: The shower floor. I do, but. 143 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 2: I'm probably crying. 144 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: That's gross. 145 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 2: The showerfs glean. 146 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: You struggle to finish tasks without checking it, and you 147 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 1: check your phone during any lull. I'm probably guilty of 148 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: checking my phone at lulls. Yeah, you feel restless when 149 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: you don't have it. No, I'm actually okay. I think 150 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: mine is that I've been to places where I don't 151 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: have my phone at all. I've been to places for 152 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 1: a week where they take your phone from you, like 153 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: a mental health check away. It's just the first few 154 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: hours that it feels weird, then it actually feels awesome. 155 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: I don't feel like I'm addicted to my phone. I 156 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 1: know you guys say I am. I think I only 157 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: had three or four of these. I love my phone. 158 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: There's the difference. I love being with it makes me 159 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: feel so good. 160 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 5: Right, but you could be without it. I mean that's 161 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 5: sort of like with alcohols. Some people love alcohol and 162 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 5: they could quite literally go never touch it again if 163 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 5: they don't want to, whereas other people that have a 164 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 5: true adiction they can't do that. And so I think 165 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 5: some people can't get they are addicted to their phone, 166 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 5: and it would cause like visceral reactions to not have it. 167 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: Are you addicted to your phone? No? Are you addicted 168 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 1: to your phone? No chance? Do you think I'm addicted 169 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: to my phone? 170 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,600 Speaker 5: Yes, based on the definition we just gave, though, you're not. 171 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: I just use it a lot. I utilize it a lot. 172 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 7: Okay, Anonymous, is there a question to because. 173 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: Hello, Bobby Bones, our son is five, and my husband's 174 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: already comfortable letting him stay overnight at his pre k friends' houses. I, 175 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: on the other hand, am really struggling with the idea. 176 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: I don't feel like our son yet has the awareness 177 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: or communication skills to fully understand tricky situations. My husband 178 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: thinks I'm being overly cautious. Is there an appropriate age 179 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: for sleepovers? Or is it more about the kid in 180 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: the situation signed a mom who wants to do the 181 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:55,559 Speaker 1: right thing. I'll gladly pass this over to you, guys. Amy. 182 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, so for me, five is going to be too young. 183 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: It is tricky. 184 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 5: I think it depends on the maturity of the children. 185 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 5: But five, you haven't even hit that point yet. Do 186 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 5: they have a cell phone yet? Maybe I want my 187 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 5: kids to be able to call me at any point 188 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,559 Speaker 5: in time. And I think the more we learn about 189 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 5: the world, it's just everybody's house is not as safe 190 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 5: as our own. 191 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 2: It's just not. 192 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 8: Uh. 193 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 5: And yeah, I think my kids, I'm gonna want them 194 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 5: to be able to contact me. Five and a five 195 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 5: year old they don't have a cell phone. 196 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: It's too young, Yes, Eddie, five is way too young. 197 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: I'm with Amy on that. 198 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 6: I think, Man, I struggle sometimes, you know, when my 199 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 6: eighteen year old he wants to spend the night, Like what, 200 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 6: I'm like, why do you want to spend the night 201 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 6: at somebody else house? 202 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter that. I'm like, what are you going 203 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: to do there that? You like? Why do you want 204 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: to spend the night? 205 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 2: It's fun to have sleepover? 206 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, he says the same thing. 207 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 6: I'm like, dude, you can come home at one in 208 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 6: the morning if you want, but like, you're not spending 209 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 6: the night there. I don't like sleepovers, so to me, 210 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 6: definitely five is way out. 211 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 1: I think you lost our credibility. Though when you said 212 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 1: eighteen seems. 213 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, oh, man, okay, Eddie's on the 214 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 2: same page as mean, five. 215 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: Is way too young, Lunchboks. Five is fine. 216 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 9: Five is when I started doing sleepovers. I was in 217 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 9: kindergarten at five years old. That's when you start making friends. 218 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 9: You get to explore the world, have time at your 219 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 9: friend's house. It can be a little scary for the parents, 220 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 9: but you have to learn to trust your kids and 221 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 9: let them go experience the things you experienced. 222 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: You did the same thing, Amy, Oh, houses aren't safe. 223 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: You guys sound like old people. 224 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 9: It's so embarrassing to you. 225 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: You do, and you sound like you know, you sound 226 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: like an old person. 227 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 5: Also crazy to know the family so well, Like you 228 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 5: need to know that family so well because Lunchbucks, it's 229 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 5: not worried that, like my kid's going to make an 230 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 5: unsafe decision. 231 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 2: I don't trust the other people in the house. 232 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,679 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you sound like an old person. That's 233 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: what I asked a question. What happened to Lunchbox when 234 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: his five year old went to somebody's house? Uh? 235 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 4: He was. 236 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: He walked home how far two point something else called 237 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,319 Speaker 1: by himself, but he didn't make it home. All That's 238 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like he didn't have the awareness. I 239 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 1: know it's not safe, but he did have the awareness 240 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 1: when put in that situation to understand what to do. 241 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 9: Right, he decided he was ready to go. He packed 242 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 9: his bags and he said, how do I get home? 243 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 9: He walked back to his school and then walked to 244 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 9: our house. 245 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: Genius, I mean you did it? Is you ed out? No? No, 246 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: I didn't look out it's because I let my kid go. 247 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 9: Out and do things like I let him ride his bike, 248 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 9: and so he knows how to get around. If I 249 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 9: just kept a coat over him and didn't let him 250 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 9: leave the house, he would have never known how to 251 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:31,439 Speaker 9: do it. 252 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think we're sheltering our kids by 253 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 2: not letting them spend the night over at someone's house 254 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,599 Speaker 2: when we know nothing good happens. 255 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 1: When midnight scarry what. 256 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 2: Somebody else's did? 257 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: You never have a sleepover at someone's house? 258 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 2: It was I did fun, I did I lunchbox. I 259 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 2: think sleepovers are okay at five. I think five is 260 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 2: too young. I'm not complable with five, but maybe when 261 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 2: they're a little bit older. And even when they're older, 262 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 2: it's still still scary. It's still scary. 263 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: It is eighteen still scary. So I think you can 264 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 1: hear by this is that every parent is different depending 265 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: on the kid in the parenting style. 266 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 5: It is difficult when it's your your parenting with someone 267 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 5: and you both don't you're not on the same page. 268 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 2: Which is her situation. 269 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think for his whatever, if you're parenting in 270 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: different situations, you go with the one that's the more conservative. 271 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 1: Because something bad happens and you didn't agree on it. 272 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 4: I know, I know. 273 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: Thank you for the email. Though you're you're not alone, 274 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: Yeah you're not alone and feeling like this. There you go, 275 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 1: close it up, boy smail Place. 276 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 10: Had the pleasure of taking my daughter to our very 277 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 10: first daddy daughter dance, and I just wanted to say 278 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 10: it was awesome to make those memories with her. It's 279 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 10: something that I'll never forget, and I hope that she'll 280 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 10: never forget. 281 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: And to lunch Talks, you just keep making out with 282 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: your dad, buddy what you do, so I know it's 283 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,439 Speaker 1: going to say that at the end. So two things. 284 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: One Lunchbox thinks that dad daughter dances are creepy. I've 285 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: now it's like when you get a red card, you 286 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: notice all the red cars around here. Since he's brought 287 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 1: that up, I've started to see people on my Instagram 288 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 1: stories taking their daughters and dad daughter dances, and I 289 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 1: will say this, it does not look creepy at all. 290 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 1: It doesn't none. It never looked creepy because I never 291 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: thought of that, but he made such a big deal 292 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: about it. Now I see it. And so I saw 293 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:32,679 Speaker 1: Eric Decker taking his daughter to a daddy daughter dance, 294 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 1: and also because Eric Decker is also a NFL player 295 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: and he's like, awesome. It just there's nothing creepy about it. 296 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 1: It looked sweet, yeah, if that's the word you would use. 297 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: But man, you talk about some feedback. We got some 298 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: engagement on that one, but you still think it's it's. 299 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,559 Speaker 9: Very creepy, it's very awkward. It shouldn't happen. We need 300 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 9: to do away with it, and I don't. If you 301 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,719 Speaker 9: consider a peck on the lips making out, then I'm 302 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 9: with your. 303 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: Dad, no dad, daughter with you? 304 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 9: And your dad well either way if he's I mean if, 305 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 9: and that means if he gives his daughter a kiss, 306 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 9: he's making. 307 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 1: Out with his daughter. 308 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 10: Right. 309 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 9: He didn't say he did, though, But you kiss your 310 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 9: dad on the mounth, I do, But that's not making out. 311 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 9: Making out is when you insert tongue. I mean, and 312 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 9: that's never happened. 313 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 1: Never. If you guys kiss on the mouth at a 314 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: rust you haven't seen your dad in a couple of months, 315 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: you meet a restaurant and you kiss on the mouth, 316 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 1: do people look at you weird? I have no idea. 317 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: You can't tell because you're looking deep in his eyes 318 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 1: as you kiss. 319 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 9: Oh, I've never looked at what other people are looking at. 320 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 1: I'm not really worried. 321 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 2: But have you done it in the in public? Or 322 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 2: just so? 323 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 11: Yeah? 324 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 9: Like if I'm like, if let's say we're meeting at 325 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 9: a restaurant and we're going to hit the road and leave, 326 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 9: all right, boy, I love you, we're out in front 327 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 9: of the restaurant. 328 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, mouth mouth how long? How long? 329 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 5: Oh? 330 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: Okay? Pet question? You never want to go crankle lips 331 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: on crankleed lips because you don't want to dry. So 332 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 1: you got to, like, even when you kiss your wife 333 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: or your husband, you got to make sure that they're 334 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: at least moisturize a little bit. Do you lick your lift 335 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: before you kiss your dad? Nope? Dry lip? 336 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 2: Is that a thing? Licking the list? 337 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: My list are dry though, So I don't want to. 338 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: I don't want to go strike crinkle lips into somebody 339 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: like my wife, So what do you do you lick 340 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: before you go in? And she always says, why do 341 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: you do that? Weird? That's weird. 342 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 2: Does anybody else do this? 343 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think you You guys as 344 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: dehydrated as I am generally. I'm just I'm like dust dust. 345 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 2: Here, Like should I say something because you were acting 346 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 2: like that was a normous. 347 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it like on the way in, but 348 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: if I know I'm about to do it, it's like, okay, 349 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: I just think I'm so a lizard. Yeah, lick and lick. 350 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: But you stand by even after all the feedback that 351 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: dad daughter dances should be no more. Yeah, it's creepy, 352 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: but you think you and your dad kissing on the 353 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 1: mouth is cool. It's fine. Have you ever kissed you? 354 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 1: You kissed them my lips? Yep. Ever at the same time, 355 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 1: did a triple kiss? Nope? Okay, never, Okay, I used 356 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 1: to do that on MTV. Yeah I've done that before 357 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: the bar triple kiss. Yeah with with two dudes. No, 358 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: a couple of chip one dude, one chick. Nope, two chicks. 359 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: One dude is really hot chick, but one dude. Okay, 360 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: just asking how was that just peck? No? That is 361 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: how do you do tongue on in two mouths? Just 362 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 1: come in from the sides. Many, it's like a teeth 363 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: cleaning you're doing. You're going side to side like bunch 364 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: and wiper. 365 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 9: I don't believe I don't believe that. 366 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 3: That's great. 367 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 1: I don't care for you to believe it. I've been there, 368 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: I've done that so much. All right, thank you for 369 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: the voicemail. It's time for the good news. Laurel Bates 370 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 1: is a kindergarten teacher and she was tired, tired of 371 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 1: the tattling. Jimmy did this, Sally did that? 372 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, all day kids lined up at her 373 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 9: desk to tattle. 374 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: She's like, I gotta do something about this. 375 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 9: So she got an old school phone, set it up, 376 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 9: taught the kids how to use it, and it's a 377 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 9: tattletale line. They called the number, leave a voicemail and 378 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 9: they tell him what they got a saddle on, so 379 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 9: she doesn't have to deal with it. 380 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 2: I love that. 381 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: Why, I mean, I need that for the house. You 382 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: know how many times a day we hear he did this, 383 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: he did that? Hey call the tattletale line. I love that. 384 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 2: Funny, Oh, lunchbox. 385 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: Was ever a Sally in your life? No, you always 386 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: go to Sally when he has to make up names 387 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: on the spot. It's always Sally. One of the kids there. 388 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, s for Sally just seems pretty easy, like it's 389 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 9: just a common name. I felt like maybe maybe it's 390 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 9: just pops in my head because it's s and Sally, Jesse, Raphael. 391 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know. I don't know 392 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: why I do Sally Sally is easy, yeah, I. 393 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 2: Guess, yeah, yeah, Sally. 394 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 395 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 11: You want to hear some of the ta yeah, go ahead. 396 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 9: One of them was someone called in to say Evan 397 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 9: has two erasers in his pencil pouch. He's only supposed 398 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 9: to have one good one. Benham was being bossy and 399 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 9: said he's the leader of everyone even though he's not 400 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 9: any Sally calls. No, we got Samantha said, scram to 401 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 9: Maverick because you won't leave her alone. 402 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 1: Got it? Those are the tititles, man, those are those 403 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: ones I saw. So they actually call a place. So 404 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 1: I got to set up like a line line though. Now, okay, 405 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: you can do that with an answering service service. 406 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 2: You could you could record it like, hey, this is 407 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 2: the tattletale line for the Garcia family. 408 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: Leave a tattle there you go. That's what it's all about. 409 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: That was telling me something good. The game is called 410 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:35,439 Speaker 1: this or that Ready Ready for example, which show premiered 411 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 1: first American Idol or the Voice American American Idol two 412 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: thousand and to the Voice, twenty eleven, Good Job, right, 413 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: Transer's down? Amy versus Eddie? In a game of this 414 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 1: or that? Man, do noboy yourself doesn't have the same om. 415 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: I know which player retired first, Peyton Manning or Tom Brady, 416 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 1: this or that? And then I'm in Amy Peyton Manning, 417 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 1: Eddie Peyton Manning. In twenty sixteen it was Peyton Manny 418 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 1: and Tom Brady was twenty twenty two. Good Job next one? 419 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 1: Which show ran longer? Friends or Seinfeld Man? 420 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm man Amy Friends. 421 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 1: Eddie, I'm gonna go Seinfeld? Well it was close ten 422 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: verses nine? 423 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:22,399 Speaker 2: Oh did I won? 424 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 10: I know? 425 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 1: I know? 426 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 2: Friends with Seniors? 427 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:25,119 Speaker 1: How do you know that? 428 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:25,959 Speaker 2: Because I just know? 429 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: Good for your Friends ran for ten seasons, Way Seinfeld 430 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: ran for nine Friends, did two hunred thirty five episode 431 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 1: Seinfeld did one hundred and eighty? Oh next up? And 432 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: this are that? Man? It's lonely. Nobody did a good job. 433 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 2: Thank Do you want to YO with you? 434 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: I don't know. 435 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 8: I just don't know when you're doing it. I know 436 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 8: every once in a while, I go this or that 437 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 8: I'll pick up with you at that Witch launched first, 438 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 8: Google or Amazon. I'm in Amy Google, Eddie. 439 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 1: Amazon in nineteen ninety five or Amazon launched in nineteen 440 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: ninety eight, Google launch another question in Oh my god, 441 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 1: it sounds like we try this. Which movie won the 442 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:19,679 Speaker 1: Best Picture at the sixty seventh Academy Awards, Forrest Gump 443 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: or The Shawshank Redemption. 444 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 2: I'm in. 445 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 12: Ooh, okay, hold on, I'm in Amy Shawshank, I'm going 446 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 12: Shoshank Forrest Gump. 447 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 1: No, it's tattoo too right here? Which artist has more 448 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 1: Grammy Wins, Taylor Swift or Beyonce? Which artist has more 449 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 1: Grammy Wins Taylor Swift or Beyonce. 450 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,439 Speaker 2: Does Beyonce's win does its destiny? 451 00:19:53,720 --> 00:20:02,400 Speaker 1: Which artist has more Grammy Wins? I'm in I'm in Amy, Taylor, Eddie, Beyonce, 452 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: Beyonce has thirty five. That's a lot. Taylor has fourteen. Oh, 453 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: Beyonce holds the record for the most. That's a lot, 454 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: all right, three more? Who has won more CMA Entertainer 455 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 1: of the Year Awards Kenny Chesney or George Strait. Oh 456 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:22,239 Speaker 1: my gosh, this is tough. I'm in now. Eddie's got 457 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: a one point lead. What's the name of this game? 458 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 2: This sort of that? All right? 459 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 1: Amy? 460 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:34,439 Speaker 2: Any meaning miney? 461 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: George Eddie? I went George straight. George Strait has three 462 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 1: wins eighty nine, ninety and ninety three. Kenny Chesney has 463 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: wins and four, six and seven and eight. Kenny Chesney 464 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: has four, George Strait has three. Wow. Which band formed first? 465 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,400 Speaker 1: Backstreet Boys or in sync? Amy? Back Street Boys Eddie 466 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: Backstreet Correct. I'm not sure how many more, I said, 467 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,920 Speaker 1: we we're gonna do, but we'll do one more. Amy, 468 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 1: you need this, you need him to miss it? Which 469 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 1: premiered first Keeping Up with the Kardashians or Jersey. 470 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 13: Shore a man, Amy, Jersey Shore, Eddie? Yes, I too, 471 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 13: wrote down Jersey Shore. You just need to hurt to match, 472 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:21,119 Speaker 13: and you're both wrong. Jersey Shore oh nine, Kardashians, oh seven. 473 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 13: But the winner of. 474 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: This or oh I was ready the winner of this? 475 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: Or that is Eddie? All right? This is an interesting voicemail. 476 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,959 Speaker 3: I finally got the promotion that I've been working so 477 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 3: hard for for five years, and I had to sit 478 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 3: down with the manager and everything was going fantastic. He 479 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 3: was telling me everything I wanted to hear, and until 480 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 3: it came to the salary, I f feel like. 481 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 1: I was low balled. Is way a. 482 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 3: Lot less than what I was expecting, what I was 483 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 3: hoping for. How would you handle the situation if I 484 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 3: wanted to say no because it's that far off of 485 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 3: the salary that I was hoping for. Love the show, 486 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 3: Love to hear your advice. 487 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: First off, congrats on the promotion. That is awesome. I've 488 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: been there five years, right, five years, But yeah, they 489 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: value you and so hard work's paying off. But if 490 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 1: this happens and let's just say everything is as is 491 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: and you keep working as is, you're going to create 492 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 1: a resentment inside of you that's going to be bad 493 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 1: for everyone involved, for you, for the company. Like, so 494 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 1: you gotta kind of nip that in the butt. If 495 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 1: you say no immediately, that's not good. You're only saying 496 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: no immediately, like Nope, not good. I'm out of here. 497 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 1: You're being triggered. You're reacting, you're not responding. Do not 498 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 1: react in a situation like this because it is business. 499 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 1: If I were you, I would go and say something 500 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: to the tune of, hey, I'm very excited about this opportunity. 501 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 1: I was surprised by the salary. And again I'm going 502 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,959 Speaker 1: to say this, don't make people defensive. That's the number 503 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: one thing to remember whenever you are in some sort 504 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: of conflict resolution when you actually want a resolution, don't 505 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 1: make people defensive, even if you feel like they should be. 506 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,959 Speaker 1: And based on the added responsibilities that I have and 507 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: what I've seen the market pay for in this role, 508 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 1: I was expecting something closer to. Then you have to 509 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:20,479 Speaker 1: give them a number. You can't say higher. You literally 510 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 1: have to give them a number, and so they'll have 511 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 1: to make a decision based on that. Either they can 512 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 1: adjust it and they go, oh, thank you for sharing that. 513 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 1: And sometimes businesses won't move unless you tell them you 514 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 1: need them to move, like why would they They're not 515 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 1: just they're not doing charity, so they'll move it. They 516 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 1: can also say we can't move it now, but we 517 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,239 Speaker 1: can give you a timeline to how we can move it. 518 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 1: That also is a way out of that path. Or 519 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 1: they just truly can't move, and then you have to 520 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 1: make a decision. But at least you're not reacting without 521 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: going through those avenues of having the discussion, let them 522 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 1: know where you are and letting giving them an opportunity 523 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,920 Speaker 1: if you are so valued, to show you you're valued, 524 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: They're not just going to go good, point, bro, here's 525 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: more money, or they would have done that initially. Yeah, 526 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: So be professional. Remember a company doesn't have heart and 527 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: feelings and emotions. The company's just there to make money. 528 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: And sometimes we you know, one of the four agreements, 529 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: don't take anything in business personally, even though it could 530 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: be people you work personally with. If they promoted you, 531 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: they obviously see your value. But I would go back 532 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: and I would say that, like, thank you for the 533 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 1: promotion and opportunity. I can't wait to prove you right. 534 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. Something that helped me in a negotiation a year 535 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 2: ago or so is just being open to creative solutions 536 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 2: because they weren't the bottom. 537 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 5: The original offer couldn't change, like the base price was 538 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 5: going to be that price, but we got creative with 539 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 5: a few other ways where money could come in. And 540 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 5: maybe you could get creative and think ahead of what 541 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 5: some of those could be and use that be like, hey, 542 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,120 Speaker 5: and I'm open to creative solutions, like here's some things 543 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 5: I've thought of, Like maybe we could go that route too, 544 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 5: and maybe they can maybe they can't, but in my 545 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 5: case that actually worked. They're like, oh, actually, we could 546 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 5: pull a percentage from this and you get paid it 547 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 5: quarterly or something, and so it's not on every single paycheck. 548 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,680 Speaker 5: But it's just a way to at the end of 549 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 5: the year get what you were looking for. 550 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: And how did you encourage you to that? Very very 551 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 1: very last, give them an opertee to figure out ways 552 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 1: to get you more money before you have to figet 553 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 1: to figure out ways to do more work to get 554 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 1: more money. So that's an option. But don't just walk away. 555 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: Don't walk away now. You may decide you want to, 556 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:32,880 Speaker 1: but also don't walk away now anyway until you find 557 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 1: another job. Yeah, it's so much easier to find another 558 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,919 Speaker 1: job if you have a job, and people for the 559 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,160 Speaker 1: most part like to hire people from another job instead 560 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: of somebody that doesn't have a job, as unfair as 561 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: that is, because they think, oh, they currently have a job, 562 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:46,919 Speaker 1: there's some value with that person. 563 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, and something you just said makes you want to clarify, 564 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 5: because Bobby, it's sort of advice you gave me your 565 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,400 Speaker 5: go I don't know if you get in trouble, remember 566 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 5: you're not going to be in trouble at all, but 567 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 5: it's not necessarily your creative socition doesn't have to be 568 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 5: creating more work for you at all. It's like finding 569 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 5: different ways where money can come in, and you might 570 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 5: need to be the one creatively coming up with like, oh, 571 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 5: you know, you get what I'm saying, Like, it doesn't 572 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 5: have to be more work, it's just how they pay 573 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 5: you in a different way. 574 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 2: Like does that make sense? 575 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: You kind of more work? 576 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 2: No, it's not more work. 577 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 5: I promise, I'll tell you all fair what you told men? 578 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,400 Speaker 2: Wait, I promise, do it? It helped me. It was good advice, 579 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 2: I'm sure. 580 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, good luck, we're rooting for you. Don't react. Respond 581 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 1: generally in life. If we respond, better results generally in life. 582 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,399 Speaker 1: If we react, not good results. Yeah, generally in life. 583 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,679 Speaker 1: If we get into conflict and we don't make the 584 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 1: person feel defensive, the conflict is resolved much easier because 585 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: they don't. You're back into a corner. You're gonna react 586 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 1: in ways that you don't. You're gonna you're gonna make 587 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:52,639 Speaker 1: them react, and. 588 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,200 Speaker 2: Then they're gonna be like, this person's exhausting. 589 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: Just fire. That's true. Good luck, We're rooting for you, 590 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 1: and let us know how it goes, how do you 591 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 1: feel about the word sure? 592 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 5: Well, I use the word sure, and I think that 593 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 5: I'm saying yes. But I keep seeing people talk about 594 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 5: how the word sure really means no. And an example 595 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 5: that came to mind for me is when Scuba Steve 596 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 5: hits us up about work things. Sometimes I will reply 597 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 5: with a yes and it feels good. Other things I 598 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,639 Speaker 5: reply with the sure and I am saying yes, but 599 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 5: I think I really do mean no. 600 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: My wife will say, why did you just sure me? 601 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 1: I think everybody sure is different. My sure means I'll 602 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: do it, but it's not my first choice of things 603 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: to do. It's a yes, but I'm not running into 604 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 1: it going I'm so pumped to do it, like will 605 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 1: you take out the trash? Sure? Will you move the 606 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,679 Speaker 1: car from the garage? Sure? Yep, I'm gonna do it. 607 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 1: But it's different than you. I feel like yes is 608 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: a passion or I'll do it, no problem. Sure, as 609 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: you should know I'm saying yes, but I wouldn't do 610 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 1: it otherwise. That's my sure. 611 00:27:59,080 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 612 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 1: But I do think some people say sure and it 613 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,199 Speaker 1: is a no. I think you have to know the 614 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: person yeah, define your sure. 615 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,439 Speaker 5: Well, this has got me thinking about my shures, and 616 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,479 Speaker 5: really the time I used sure the most is sometimes 617 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 5: in correspondence with Scuba Steve, and I'm thinking, I feel 618 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 5: like I'm just replying yes because it's my job and 619 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 5: I need to. 620 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 2: Do it, but I give I make sure. 621 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 5: It's almost like my way of letting him know you 622 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 5: don't want to do it, but you will do it 623 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 5: because you can't. 624 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 1: It's part of the obligation. 625 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,639 Speaker 5: Like even in the same email, if I'm like a 626 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 5: bullet point of things, like I'll be like yes, yes, yes, sure, 627 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 5: Like why wouldn't I. 628 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 1: Just say yes that one you don't want to say 629 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 1: yes to, but you are saying yes, but you're letting 630 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 1: him know you're not saying yes yes right, But if. 631 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 5: It's truly a yes, and it's no difference to Scuba Steve, 632 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 5: why don't I just say yes and then no? 633 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 2: Yet, why don't I have yes and no? Like why 634 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 2: do I even have the. 635 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: Sure passive progressive vernacular for you? Man? 636 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 6: I think that sure is just another way of me 637 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 6: saying yes, Like I get tired of yes, so I 638 00:28:58,080 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 6: just say. 639 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: Like yes, yep, yeah sure. I think tone has a 640 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 1: lot to do it if verbally said like ask me 641 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: if i'll take out the trash. Hey, Bobby, will you 642 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 1: take out the trash? Sure? 643 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 6: Oh you don't want to I don't want to ask 644 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 6: me again, Hey Bobby, you want to take out the trash? 645 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: Sure? I pitched sure is yes okay, and love doing it. 646 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 5: But see Eddie saying his sure as a yes, and 647 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 5: I'm also saying yes. 648 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 2: When I'm saying sure, I'm saying yes. 649 00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: Sure is different. But I think that sure is I'll 650 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 1: do it. I don't really want Oh that's what I 651 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 1: was thinking about. Text sure, yeah, text sure it sure? 652 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 2: Like if Bobby ever to say, hey, do you have 653 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 2: a minute talk right now? And you replied back. 654 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 1: Sure like it's not what I would have chosen to 655 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: do it, but I do have a minute. 656 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 2: To talk, And then I'm going to receive your shirt 657 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 2: and mean like, yes, Well, why wouldn't he just say? 658 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 2: I know it's a yes. But what I'm saying is, 659 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 2: if I really think about it, am I saying sure 660 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 2: just to please? So I really should say no. 661 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: No, I don't think so you should still say yes. 662 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: If it's a sure, sure is still yes. 663 00:29:58,240 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 2: Okay. 664 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 6: That's a good point because every time I've asked you 665 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 6: to play golf, you're like yes, You're never. 666 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 1: Like sure because that's what I really want to do. 667 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 1: If you were to ask me something that I thought 668 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 1: I should do and it's a yes, it's a sure 669 00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 1: mm hm, lunchbox. Are you sure? Sure? 670 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 9: So there is more like I'll do it. I'm not excited, 671 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 9: but I could be all right. You hear the same, sure, sure? 672 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 2: But what if we just start seeing if it needs 673 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 2: to be so? 674 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: Okay again, if there's something I don't want to do though, hey, 675 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 1: would you mind cutting off your toe? Sure, I'm gonna 676 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 1: do it, but I don't want to do it, But 677 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 1: taking out the trash is perfect because you can't say 678 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: no to that. Like my wife asked me, I'm not 679 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: gonna be like no, and I'm not gonna be like 680 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: yes because I'm not gonna give her the benefit of 681 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 1: just thinking I wanted to do it and I don't 682 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 1: mind doing it. I'm gonna give them a sure knowing 683 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 1: that I don't really want to do this, but I'm gonna. 684 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 2: Maket me try out just but it's not a no. 685 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: It's not a no. Sure, it's not a no. Sure 686 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: is not imagine you told your what no, I can't imagine. 687 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 1: Like firsts would be like, hey, do you want to 688 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 1: take the trash? And I'll be like, no, I don't. 689 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: Oh you know what I say. Sometimes i'll say no. 690 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 1: I'll say she said, do you want to do that? 691 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 1: I don't, but I'll do it. That's nice of you. 692 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: That's even worse than sure. Yeah, that's even that's a no. 693 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: But I know it's better long term to do a yes. 694 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 1: The English language is tough, and trying to imagine learning 695 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 1: the English language from another country. I think we have 696 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 1: the hardest language because our words all mean different thinks 697 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:29,840 Speaker 1: the same word means different things. Then you hit them 698 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 1: with lit like fire fire. 699 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 10: No, it's time for the good news. 700 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 2: Okay, get this. 701 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 5: A woman is taking a water aerobics class and the 702 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 5: diamond falls out of a ring. 703 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 2: This isn't just any old diamond. 704 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 5: It's a family heirloom gone forever. Can't find it well 705 00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:00,240 Speaker 5: in one in a billion coincidence, her neighbor Coleman, was 706 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 5: playing water volleyball in that same pool later that day, 707 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 5: and he managed to step on the diamond so perfectly 708 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 5: that it wedged into the sole of his water shoe. 709 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 2: But it gets even better because you're probably thinking that 710 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:11,960 Speaker 2: he gets out of. 711 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 5: The water from playing volleyball and finds it. Yeah, oh no, 712 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,479 Speaker 5: that's not when he finds it. Coleman travels to Florida 713 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 5: for vacation, puts his water shoes back on at the pool, 714 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 5: and then that's when he spots what he thinks is 715 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 5: a piece of glass. 716 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 2: Wedged in his shoe. Then he goes to a jeweler 717 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 2: to be like, what could this be because he's like, wait, 718 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 2: this looks like it's different than glass. Sure enough, it 719 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:40,400 Speaker 2: was a high quality vintage diamond. He posted a photo 720 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 2: of it on Facebook where mutual friends connected them, and 721 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 2: the diamond was returned to her. Wonder and he's again her. 722 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 1: Name, If that's just a raw diamond? Yeah, all the 723 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 1: other stuff that happened and then a raw diamond make 724 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 1: it home. And it made it all the way to Florida. 725 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 5: Because he packed it with shoes on. But he packed 726 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:02,959 Speaker 5: him in his bag and when he put him back 727 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 5: onto the pool. But I'm thinking, is if you know 728 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 5: you lost it, which maybe she didn't know she lost 729 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 5: it when she was playing doing water aerobics, but like 730 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 5: it's a contained pool, would just like search the whole 731 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 5: pool sin divers. 732 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 1: Maybe I would imagine she didn't know she lost it 733 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 1: in the pool. 734 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 2: Maybe, yeah, But how core raising. 735 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 1: All that's crazy, that's crazy. That's a great story. That's 736 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,480 Speaker 1: what it's all about. That was telling me something good. 737 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 7: Wake up, Wake up in the mall and it's Al 738 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 7: Radio and the Dodgers. Ready, lunchbox, more game too, Steve 739 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 7: Brant trying to put you through the fog. 740 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 1: He's running this week's next bit. 741 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 13: The Bobby's on the box, so you know this. 742 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 1: Is the Bobby ball. Ninety seconds on the clock. We're 743 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: gonna do the investigative. Corny Amy, Ready, team, You're ready, Ready, 744 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 1: let's get it the morning, Corny. 745 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,760 Speaker 2: What do you call a laughing labradoodle dog? 746 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,320 Speaker 1: A laughing labradoodle hybrid? 747 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:14,440 Speaker 10: Have a. 748 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 8: Laughing doodle, comedian labradoodle, labradoodle labor that's. 749 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 1: A labrador and a poodle. 750 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 2: That's what I have. 751 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 1: I don't know what's the joke. 752 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 2: What do you call a laughing labradoodle? 753 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 9: Order words for laugh marking, giggle, giggle, haha, l O, 754 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:45,479 Speaker 9: l tehi, la, love, I don't laugh, chuckle, chunky, chuck, 755 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 9: chucky doodle, chuck doodle? 756 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: Is that it? Snicker? Snickerdoodle. 757 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 2: Yes, that's it. Why is wind power popular? 758 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 1: It blows up everywhere it goes and always blown up 759 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,640 Speaker 1: on social media? Say that again? 760 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 2: Why is why is wind power popular? 761 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 1: Blows people away? Blow it blows up. They blow up 762 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: in popularity. They blow. 763 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:17,000 Speaker 9: Wins when windmill always stop. 764 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 1: Circles viral as fans its fans, a lot of fans. Yeah. 765 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 2: What kind of thief is the strongest? 766 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 1: Burglar? Criminal? Burglar? Strongest wait strong arm? 767 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:38,000 Speaker 11: Wait, wait power car jacking, jacked? What kind of thief 768 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:43,719 Speaker 11: is it? That's good? Lusts shoplifter of that's pretty good? 769 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: All right? How man, we get We fought hard, though, 770 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 1: we fall hard. Pride of your work. We fall hard 771 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 1: on that one. 772 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 2: Bobby Bone show. 773 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 1: Sorry up today. This story comes us from New Jersey. 774 00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 9: Ay, thirty one year old man's got tattoos on his 775 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 9: own arm, neck, one on his face, and some of 776 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,360 Speaker 9: the neighborhood kids like, man, how'd you get those? He's like, Oh, 777 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 9: you want me to give you a temporary tattoo. It's 778 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 9: really easy. So he set down three kids and gave 779 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:12,320 Speaker 9: him real tattoos. 780 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, real tattoos. He thought they were temporary, right, 781 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 1: he was just an idiot, is it right? The kids 782 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,560 Speaker 1: thought they were temporary, but he gave him real tattoos. 783 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:21,959 Speaker 12: He's great. 784 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's going to jail for three years. So, like. 785 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 4: How I saw the story, I just assumed maybe it 786 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:36,239 Speaker 4: was like he was also unknowingly giving people tattoos. 787 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 2: Oh like it's magic ink that just like disappears. 788 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 4: Because I can't imagine he's the most intelligent guy anyway. 789 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 4: That sucks for those kids. 790 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,279 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm lunchbox. That's your bonehead story of the day. 791 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,880 Speaker 1: Our iHeart country Festivals coming up and we're taking over 792 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 1: the Moody Center in Austin, Texas on May second. See 793 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,760 Speaker 1: superstars like Luke, Bryan, Kane Brown, Riley Green, Parker McCollum, 794 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: and I'm hosting the show. 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