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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Bria is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date. But first, Bria, how long

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Speaker 2: has the Vince had you heard from Jason?

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Speaker 3: It's then at least god like a week, but he

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Speaker 3: hasn't responded to me. Okay, yeah, I reached out a

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Speaker 3: couple of days ago and yeah nothing.

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Speaker 4: What did you say to him when you reached out?

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Speaker 5: I just was like, hey, love your date when I

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Speaker 5: go out.

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Speaker 4: In oh and then nothing?

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So how was the date?

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Speaker 6: I went really well, you know, before the date, we

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Speaker 6: talked to her a while on the apps, and I

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Speaker 6: don't know, it's just kind of like real conversations, really

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Speaker 6: viby stuff, not just like surface level. You know.

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Speaker 7: We talked about how much I love cooking, and he

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Speaker 7: seemed just like you was into that, and so then

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Speaker 7: he came over.

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Speaker 5: For dinner so I could make him dinner.

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Speaker 7: And I know, I know it was the first day

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Speaker 7: that was at my place, which was super scary and risky, but.

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Speaker 4: He came over, okay, bold, I like that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think I'm good at reading people, so

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Speaker 5: I think it's.

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Speaker 8: Fine, you know, Okay, And so I made him a

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Speaker 8: staffron chicken herb rice and a cucumber yogurt salad, and yeah,

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Speaker 8: he ate everything and poured a lot more wine, getting

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Speaker 8: like super romantic.

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Speaker 7: And then we went to the couch with the line

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Speaker 7: and I don't know, I was trying to figure out

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Speaker 7: how to get to the next step, you know, And

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Speaker 7: I remember this guy friend that I had mentioned that.

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Speaker 5: If you want to tease a man, you just blow

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Speaker 5: in the back his neck.

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Speaker 6: So I did.

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Speaker 5: Then you jumped up and freaked out, like I tagted him.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah it might It might shock me too.

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Speaker 4: I was just gonna say, Jubilee, is that a turn on?

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Speaker 2: If you just we were like I was eating and

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Speaker 2: you just randomly walked up behind me and kind of

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Speaker 2: blew on the back of my neck and probably I

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Speaker 2: probably jump.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we weren't eating anymore, we but the wine did

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Speaker 7: get everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Were you guys like making out before you did it?

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Speaker 2: Or you just kind of just lean over and he

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Speaker 2: blew on his neck.

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Speaker 5: I did kind of just lean over and blow.

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Speaker 9: Okay, yeah, that was a shock.

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Speaker 10: It's like you got to give people grace though, right

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Speaker 10: like right when you start to talk to somebody new,

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Speaker 10: you got to feel him out, So a little neck blow.

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Speaker 10: Hopefully we wouldn't do it, but it is a little

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Speaker 10: u surprised.

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Speaker 7: I said sorry, and I explained, like this is something

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Speaker 7: the friend told me to do, and he laughed it off,

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Speaker 7: but then immediately said he had to go.

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Speaker 9: Oh, like I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I thought we had kished, and he asked me a

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Speaker 7: lot of questions, which like people don't do, you know.

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Speaker 7: He asked me about my childhood, my favorite books, and

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Speaker 7: like I cannot remember the last time a man asked

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Speaker 7: me a question.

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Speaker 9: Well that's good.

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Speaker 2: On his way out, did you guys kiss again to

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Speaker 2: say goodbye or was he just like, oh, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: gotta go and then he was just gone.

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Speaker 5: He was just like, yeah, I gotta go, and then

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Speaker 5: he was gone. I'm like, it sucks. It sucks because

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Speaker 5: I don't just bring anyone to my.

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Speaker 7: Space and I can't really face with him, and like,

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Speaker 7: I don't know, I know that that was a weird

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Speaker 7: choice didn't feel like a deal breaker, you know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was one moment out of the whole evening.

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Speaker 9: Right, Well, let's see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 9: for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe get to a second date.

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Speaker 9: Okay, okay, great, all right, we'll get your first day.

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Speaker 1: Follow up, next first date follow up powered by the

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us at Bria is on

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Speaker 2: the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if he'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her a

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Speaker 2: second date. But Bria, before we do that, why don't

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Speaker 2: you recap your date for us again real quick.

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Speaker 5: We had a great time. He came to my place.

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Speaker 7: I made him a nice dinner, and I just decided

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Speaker 7: to blow on his neck afterwards get things going.

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Speaker 5: And he did not.

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Speaker 2: Like that any Think maybe it was the neck blowing

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Speaker 2: that kind of creeked him out, and that's why.

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Speaker 5: He's ghosting you gotta be gotta be.

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Speaker 9: Well, are you ready to go? Call him right now?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Jason.

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Speaker 2: Please, Hey Jay, how are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jebil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi Jason. I'm Nina.

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Speaker 9: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel. How are you?

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Speaker 5: WHOA?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 10: Hi?

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Speaker 9: How do you feeling good? Have you listened to the

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Speaker 9: show before?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 11: I think I know what this is about.

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Speaker 5: Is it about Bria?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 2: It is the first day follow up? Yep, you went

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Speaker 2: out with Bria and you're Ghostinger. So she emailed us

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Speaker 2: to see if you'll tell us why you're Ghostinger? Do

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Speaker 2: you mind talking about it?

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Speaker 6: Okay? Wow?

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Speaker 5: All right? Well what the.

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Speaker 11: Dinner was incredible but easily top five meals I've ever had.

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Speaker 5: Wow, there's no doubt. But there was no dessert, she said.

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Speaker 4: She tried to, you know, have a little like that, like.

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Speaker 11: So my grandma raised me and she always said, real

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Speaker 11: woman sends her man off to something sweet. And that

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Speaker 11: night I kept waiting maybe it was like chilling in

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Speaker 11: the fridge or like you're.

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Speaker 4: Talking about food.

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Speaker 9: Oh yeah, you're not. You actually mean dessert?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 11: Literally, like desert, and it's not just like you know, dessert.

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Speaker 11: It's like this principle of like completing the meal, you know,

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Speaker 11: like she nailed.

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Speaker 5: The sabery, but there was no sweet.

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Speaker 11: It wasn't balanced, and I just kept like waiting for

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Speaker 11: the meal to end, and it like never did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's why your ghostinger is because the food was good,

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Speaker 2: but it did not include a sweet treat at the end.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was just weird.

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Speaker 11: Like I was just like I didn't want to ask,

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Speaker 11: but I just kept waiting, and it was just like

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Speaker 11: my palette was all confused, and it was like, do.

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Speaker 4: You have dessert every night? Is that something that you do?

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Speaker 11: I mean not if I'm just like you know, eating

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Speaker 11: on the go, but like for a meal, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, part of like a meal. It's like it's not polite.

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Speaker 11: It's not polite to like not serve the dilrt you

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well, thank you for being honest with us.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, that's how I felt about it.

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Speaker 9: And Jason Bria is on the phone listening and wants

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Speaker 9: to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you've got to be kidding me. You got to

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Speaker 5: be kidding me.

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Speaker 7: Not polite you know what, you know, what else is

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Speaker 7: not plite ghosting someone?

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Speaker 11: Oh my god, are you serious right now?

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Speaker 5: Also, what is this nineteen fifty two?

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry that I didn't bring out a warm

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Speaker 3: pie to tuck you in at night.

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Speaker 11: Like it's not about You've got to be kidding about

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Speaker 11: like thoughtfulness, you know, like I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 11: it's not nineteen fifty two, but my grandma who had

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Speaker 11: to take care of people.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, oh oh good good.

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Speaker 7: So it's done to me like you don't want a girlfriend,

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Speaker 7: you want a grandma with benefits.

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Speaker 4: Right, Oh, that just sounds weird.

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Speaker 6: I don't like that.

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Speaker 11: Try to seduce me with a ghost breathe to the

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Speaker 11: jugular like, that's not care, that's confusion.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 7: I was trying to be something sweet and you should

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Speaker 7: have been an adult and said something.

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Speaker 5: You go to me over a cake. It's not the cake.

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Speaker 11: It's just like my grandma's principals, you know, Like that's like, yeah,

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Speaker 11: it's the fact you don't get the cake, you know.

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm so sorry. I'm not your grandma. I'm sorry

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Speaker 5: I'm not your grandma. I am too.

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Speaker 11: Honestly, I really thought you were cool. Oh, but I'm

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Speaker 11: not getting grandma vibes. It's just like, you know, it's

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Speaker 11: too bad.

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Speaker 10: You're looking for a grandma. You're looking for grandma characteristics

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Speaker 10: in your woman.

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Speaker 11: I mean in a certain way, I guess. Yeah, you

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Speaker 11: know you got to tick that box as well.

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Speaker 5: You know this is ridiculous And yeah, I'm sure you

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Speaker 5: can go to.

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Speaker 7: A nursing room bingo night to sign the woman in.

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Speaker 9: Jason, would you like a second date with Bria? We'll

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Speaker 9: pay for it.

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Speaker 11: I didn't in the past. Notice are like no direction.

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Speaker 7: Great, you and your grandma can go baked cookies and

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Speaker 7: have asleep over together.

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Speaker 11: Then, how dare you? My grandma's a beautiful woman.

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Speaker 5: Seriously, how dare you?

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Speaker 4: She must be so proud.

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Speaker 11: She's an amazing woman.

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Speaker 5: She's beautiful and honestly, she bed you didn't get a.

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Speaker 11: Chance to meet her, because you get a learned a

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Speaker 11: lot from her.

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Speaker 1: Bria You Will's first date follow up