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Speaker 1: Text you will Healing Textual. Do you have an important

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Speaker 1: text to send but aren't quite sure what to say.

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Speaker 1: In the past, Microsoft words Clippy would pop up on

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Speaker 1: a text. Can I helps Clippy?

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Speaker 2: I don't think Clippy was around when we were sending

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Speaker 1: Yes, well Clippy is long long dead. He can't help

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Speaker 1: you anymore. And you certainly can't trust your friends because

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Speaker 1: they'll just gossip about it behind your back. So all

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Speaker 1: that's left is your radio fam That's right. We are

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Speaker 1: paid a very very small salary to help strangers with

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Speaker 1: their personal lives behind their back.

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Speaker 3: We are.

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Speaker 1: We're not friends. Yeah. So today we have a guy

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Speaker 1: who is in a tough spot and has turned to

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Speaker 1: us for help. His name is Jimmy. Jimmy, welcome to

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Speaker 1: Textual Healing.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for the help.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well I wouldn't say that right off the bat. Jimmy,

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Speaker 2: you don't know what kind of help we're going to.

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Speaker 3: Get better than anything I'm getting. Now, this is a

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Speaker 3: little bit of a pickle.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, all, what's going on? Why'd you email the show?

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Speaker 3: Here's what's going on? My next door neighbor. Name's Hannah.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure she's I don't really know it. She seems

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Speaker 3: to be a lovely lady. Okay, here's the problem. I

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you're in your office. Is this an apartment building?

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to picture here.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I live in a nice little two story house.

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Speaker 1: Okay, how many bedrooms and how many baths?

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Speaker 2: I need to know? How far away this neighbor is.

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Speaker 1: Victorian star It's a house with a window. So you

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Speaker 3: And I can see into her yard, and several times

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Speaker 3: she's just been laying out there sunbathing. But she's been

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Speaker 3: there's somebathing topless.

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Speaker 1: Ah, and what are you wearing when you're inside the house?

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Speaker 2: And Jeff, why she really doesn't care. She's in her

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Speaker 1: I know, but yeah, I don't want to look.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel creepy when you see this?

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Speaker 3: I feel very creepy. Yeah, I look the first time

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Speaker 3: I looked. I'm not gonna lie to it. For a time.

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Speaker 3: it's like wow, and then of course yeah, and I

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude. If it was my neighbor, I'd

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Speaker 3: And here's the thing. It's not like it's our two houses.

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Speaker 3: If I can see it, the neighbors can also see.

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Speaker 2: Do you think she doesn't realize.

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Speaker 3: That we all have bushes, you know, they're pretty high.

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Speaker 3: Some people have fences, so you can't see him from

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Speaker 1: So you may be doing her a favor by if

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Speaker 1: let her know that she's you can see her. Oh god,

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Speaker 1: that's so hard to say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean at first I thought like, let it go,

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Speaker 2: We know, what what do you know about her?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: Are you friends or what's your relationship with her.

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Speaker 3: There's really no relationship at all. I know that she's married.

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Speaker 3: I've met her maybe once. I've met her husband once or.

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Speaker 2: Twice, Okay, and we know she obviously hates tam lines. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think it's pretty even when it comes between me

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, that's not where you're doing it. Sounds like

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Speaker 1: But that's definitely an awkward conversation to have with anybody.

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Speaker 4: Way, I mean if when you text her, is she

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Speaker 1: Did you get the phone number from her?

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Speaker 3: I got her number from the HOA contact with from

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, I.

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Speaker 3: Actually don't know. Here's the thing. I don't know if

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Speaker 3: I should put from my phone and identify myself.

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Speaker 2: Can you stay anonymous?

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Speaker 1: Let's go around the room really quick and get ideas.

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Speaker 1: Alexis will start with you. What does he send?

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Speaker 4: I agree, I think he just seem to say the

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Speaker 1: I'm your neighbor, and I see you naked. Okay, that's

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Speaker 2: Think you say, hey, it's Jimmy.

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Speaker 4: We haven't met before, and this may be the most

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Speaker 1: So basically what Alexis said, but really long winded. What

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Speaker 1: do you think I think you need to be professional engeneric.

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Speaker 1: I think that's the best way. Okay, but in a

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Speaker 2: Maybe we put those bug eye emoji.

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Speaker 1: I was going all emojis where it's like, I emoji

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Speaker 1: each other. Emojis make her decipher what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: It's like, I don't think she would be mad at you.

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Speaker 2: I think she's just getting an embarrassed already.

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Speaker 1: So we threw a lot of ideas at you there, Jimmy.

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Speaker 1: Which one do you want to go with younger.

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Speaker 3: Me would definitely go with the all emoji decide do you.

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Speaker 1: Want to do all emojis?

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Speaker 3: Wait? No, no. If I was a younger, earlier man

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Speaker 3: oka say, she would text.

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Speaker 1: Back, she'd be like, what is this?

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Speaker 3: I think you get it, but I think I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: All right, So go ahead and tell us what you're writing.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, Hi, this is your next door neighbor, Jimmy,

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Speaker 3: just so you know we can see you sunbathing.

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Speaker 1: Top lits okay and okay finger don't don't.

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Speaker 2: Put topless in there, just sunbathing, sun.

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Speaker 3: Baby, call we can see you sunbathing, and.

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Speaker 1: Three thumbs up emojis.

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Speaker 3: I just deleted no, no emojis. I just deleted the

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Speaker 3: Period At the end of the sentence of sunbathing, I

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: We're just alerting her that that she's being seen, so

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Speaker 1: we'll see if she responds. We're gonna come back and

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Speaker 1: continue textual healing with your next door neighbor as we

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Speaker 1: alert her that you can see her topless in her

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Speaker 1: backyard right after them. If you're just joining us. We're

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Speaker 1: tom named Jimmy, because he works from home and has

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Speaker 1: spotted his next door neighbor sunbathing multiple times in her

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Speaker 2: And I gotta say, we got to give him credit

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Speaker 4: Wants to help her out and not just let her continue.

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Speaker 3: Like some.

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Speaker 2: So I really actually appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: You don't just say gross guy. You would do it too, Brooks.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you would keep looking. But he did want to

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Speaker 2: Kids are building treehouses all around your yard right now.

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Speaker 1: Thing is, it's awkward because he doesn't really know her

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Speaker 1: very well, only met her like once. So how do

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Speaker 2: Well, and he knows for sure she's married.

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Speaker 1: Right, So we decided the best route was to go

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Speaker 1: with a professional text, basically saying Hi, I'm your neighbor,

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Speaker 1: Jimmy's choice. Jimmy did she respond?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, okay, here's the thing. What yakay?

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Speaker 2: Why are you so stressed out?

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Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing. Okay, I got a response. The

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Speaker 2: Oh god, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think if a guy read that text, he could

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was not happy. I got a lot of

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Speaker 1: Of swearing from the husband.

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Speaker 3: From the husband, and you know he's serious because there

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Speaker 2: You know, wait, what what can you read of his response?

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Speaker 2: Can you read any of it?

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Speaker 3: What do you mean? You? And then that this, you know,

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Speaker 1: That wonderful, helpful neighbors.

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Speaker 3: That the last text is she shouldn't be showing it off.

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Speaker 3: Here's her number? You tell her what? Yeah, he gave

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Speaker 2: That's weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe he's wants to Oh my god, like he's like,

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Speaker 1: she shouldn't be doing that, like in their own backyard.

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't he just deal with that relationship.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's not the first text that he's gotten like

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Speaker 3: God, I didn't think about it.

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Speaker 2: He's like pastor complaints to her. Okay, it's like it's

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Speaker 2: a problem now. So now we have to retext the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I listen, I already texted. I just texted her

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Speaker 3: the same message I said the first time.

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Speaker 4: Include any information about how you accidentally told her husband.

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Speaker 1: Thank you if you would have said I talked to

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I didn't see a reason to make

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Speaker 3: the situation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I could cause it fight.

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Speaker 3: Any more awkward. So I'm just waiting for a response

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh god, okay, so now we're still oh geez,

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Speaker 1: we're going to make it super awkward with you and

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Speaker 1: the husband.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. Maybe that the husband is just

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Speaker 2: really mad at his wife. Oh it sounds like it

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Speaker 2: sounds like it's bugging him.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, I just I just got a response. I'll

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Speaker 3: tell you. I'll tell you what she responds right now.

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Speaker 3: Let me just open it and read. The wife responded,

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Speaker 3: she just responded, are you the one with the binoculars?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, this is the time you need

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Speaker 1: to be honest with us.

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Speaker 3: No, no, let's get that out of the way. I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean I'm writing like if I wanted. Okay,

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Speaker 3: why are you.

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Speaker 1: Still so much?

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Speaker 2: This should be a very simple response.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not looking at her with binoculars.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Is it a telescope that you're using? What device?

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Speaker 3: No? No? Nothing? Okay, Wait what do I say to that?

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Speaker 1: I mean no, yeah, yeah, that's the truth. It doesn't

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Speaker 4: I think you need to say No, that's horrifying. I

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Speaker 4: was writing you to warn you that people could see you.

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Speaker 3: I like that. I don't like the horrifying part.

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Speaker 1: You boobs are harassing our neighborhood. It makes it sound

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Speaker 1: like the view is not a good view.

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Speaker 2: I don't think. I didn't take it that way.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's not you that he's texting, and we just know.

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Speaker 2: That isn't me, not even OMG.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you need to reply little bit more surprised,

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Speaker 3: Here's the thing, I don't oh anything like that. I

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Speaker 3: that wasn't me. Once I put know that wasn't me,

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Speaker 3: I think we're good.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean I think you should at least explain.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to warn you into other people trying

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Speaker 3: Okay, No, that wasn't me. I just wanted you to

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Speaker 1: Sure, if you want to get a bit simple like that,

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Speaker 1: that's up to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think as simple as possible. I just want

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Speaker 1: You know, I think it doesn't make sense, alexis what

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Speaker 2: That's the end of it. You're gonna let her know

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Speaker 2: what's going on. What's going on? You didn't say anything?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well no, no, no, no, I just want to

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Speaker 3: know that people can see it. That's it. There's no

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Speaker 3: need to He's just going back and forth. I'm just

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Speaker 3: trying to be a good neighbor. Here's what's happening, are

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Speaker 1: You seem really like amped up and stressed out about this?

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Speaker 3: Is it what I didn't expect to have to deal

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Speaker 3: with the husband. And this was the whole thing with

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Speaker 3: the guy basically yelling at me over the text you don't.

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Speaker 1: Deal with drama.

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Speaker 3: No, not at all.

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Speaker 1: Got it?

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Speaker 3: You know, I worked for a whole or a rea.

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Speaker 2: The husband back and say I'm so sorry or something.

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Speaker 3: Right, I could, but now it's like you want me

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Speaker 3: to text two people and I just want to get.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all the answers.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have to sell your house and move.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be the most hated person in the neighborhood

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Speaker 1: by the end of this. But just start with the

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Speaker 1: text to the wife where you're just politely telling her,

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Speaker 1: I just was trying to warn you that I could

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Speaker 1: see you. Okay, let's go with uh, with or without binoculars,

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Speaker 1: I can see I'm close.

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Speaker 3: Enough, right, Okay, So the response to are you the

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Speaker 3: one with the binoculars is just going to be No.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted you to know what was going on, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't really our suggestions, but you're telling you.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to leave it open for like a

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Speaker 3: back and forth conversation, Okay. I just wanted you to know.

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Speaker 3: Just sound where I'm gonna have to go back and forth.

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Speaker 1: Okay, stop talking, start hitting send on your text message.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, I'm gonna do that right now, let me just.

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Speaker 1: It's more, more worse, isn't going to end well? I

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Speaker 1: feel like even if she was like James for letting

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Speaker 1: me know, and the guy was.

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Speaker 3: Like, thank you, okay, I just sent it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank god.

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Speaker 2: This is just such a simple situation.

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Speaker 3: Up it was definitely wasn't in the beginning. And then

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Speaker 3: you know, when I gotta I don't know this guy.

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Speaker 3: I know he's going to react when he comes home

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Speaker 1: You know, you got to pay more attention when you're

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Speaker 1: looking at what numbers you're texting.

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Speaker 2: That's why you need to know your neighbors.

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Speaker 3: I was it's got to be a mistake on the

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Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you you're talking is not going

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Speaker 2: to help you. If you have to talk to this

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Speaker 1: It's actually better that we're doing this overtext.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, she does. She's typing a response that.

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Speaker 1: St start, starts, that starts.

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Speaker 3: What was that was that supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: That you were supposed to.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's the response?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, whoa?

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Speaker 3: This is her response? Is what if I said I

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Speaker 3: wanted you to see me smirk emoji.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're getting beat up by us.

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Speaker 3: Oh this, yeah, this is great. Now I really do

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, just just right back and say I'm not

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Speaker 2: Leave it, Blake. Let her guess what you are into.

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Speaker 3: It's obviously no, I don't want any any connecting. Could

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Speaker 3: I just say I think it would be may be easy

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Speaker 3: to just say no, thank you and then just block

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Speaker 3: their number her.

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Speaker 2: You have to live.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe do a bikini emoji and then a thumb's

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Speaker 2: Oh god, that's terrible. I think I'm not into that.

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Speaker 1: It's probably good, well, I mean it's that's the way

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Speaker 1: to let her know that he doesn't want.

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Speaker 2: To you said, I said horrific view or something like.

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Speaker 1: That, and you were before I realized she was going

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Speaker 3: I mean, now that I think about it, I don't

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Speaker 3: like they already know who I am.

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Speaker 1: You can't block her you live next The only way

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Speaker 1: this could be worse is if the husband texted you saying,

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? Are you not into her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys, I just I don't want to be

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Speaker 4: It is strange that the husband told him I was

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Speaker 3: And now this whole thing's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: The house going with just the three of you, all right,

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Speaker 1: but at least it sounds like we helped you do

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Speaker 1: her that people can see, and now she definitely is aware.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to feel bad if you look, because parents.

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Speaker 1: She wants you to. You can go ahead and get

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Speaker 1: those binoculars back out.

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Speaker 3: Can not meculars yeah, okay, sure, or even old binocular

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