Speaker 1: What's up. What's up is a live service. I mean, yee,
Speaker 1: I'm g maguire, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm love ya, and
Speaker 1: I'm a love king. Hello, nice and smooth. Okay, yeah, well,
Speaker 1: welcome to the love King. That's a lot of pressure.
Speaker 1: That's not to be the love king, because that's the expectations.
Speaker 1: I think it's expectations when it's limited to just you know,
Speaker 1: sex or relationships, or the expectation of like, you know,
Speaker 1: your mate, you know what I mean. But like, in
Speaker 1: all seriousness, like the love king, the whole love king
Speaker 1: thing is not limited to just you know, R and
Speaker 1: B or trying to be the sex and got it
Speaker 1: you know. Uh, you know. It's more the love that
Speaker 1: I have for people, the love that I have for community.
Speaker 1: I hope that I in most cases carry myself like
Speaker 1: a king, but a humble king in the sense of
Speaker 1: like walking amongst the people and being a service to
Speaker 1: the people, like from a community aspect. It's more. It's
Speaker 1: more to it than this music. For me. Every time
Speaker 1: I see around him, he's being mad humble too, right,
Speaker 1: Like I come in to him, He's like, hey, how
Speaker 1: you doing. But he does talk like that all the time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like our minds is in the gutter because
Speaker 1: I always thinking about like love and sex, he said.
Speaker 1: He said, not I heard that, but I just the
Speaker 1: first t girl. But that's what I mean. It's like
Speaker 1: it's pretty d I said, what that movie looked like?
Speaker 1: They said, it's not a picture. I said, Okay, took
Speaker 1: bad leg. I was just trying to say about this Gemini. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm a Sagittarius okay, and I'm a Capricorn Capricorne. I
Speaker 1: just want to know what the nature when I'm dealing
Speaker 1: with May fifth tours? So what does that mean exactly
Speaker 1: about you? We got? We have like we got like
Speaker 1: a different kind loyalty. Are the ones that were loyal
Speaker 1: to We're very stubborn and bullheaded and creatives. Do you
Speaker 1: have any children? Do you have any children? I do again,
Speaker 1: R and B Singer. I definitely both of my dad's
Speaker 1: um my biological father and my stepfather who I was
Speaker 1: raised by both their May seventh and May ten and
Speaker 1: everything that you're explaining, I see my dad. We hone
Speaker 1: bodies and it's that same part that's being a tourist
Speaker 1: born I May next, Netflix and child Your personality is
Speaker 1: defined by charm and practicality. You have a special brand
Speaker 1: of wits and charisma that others greatly enjoy. Although you
Speaker 1: easily connect with people, you may prefer to only open
Speaker 1: up to a select few. And we're givers, like we
Speaker 1: we you know that's why X if you have children,
Speaker 1: because both of my father's were very generous, not only
Speaker 1: with their time and their finances, but with their love
Speaker 1: for all of their children. Something for me though, because yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's tough for me though, um know that, Wow, you're
Speaker 1: just as bad. I've always struggled with like I don't
Speaker 1: see my kids as much as I want to, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And and and so I'm definitely
Speaker 1: in a place of like like just figuring that out,
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean. Like, and they're cool
Speaker 1: with it. They're cool, they're understanding. The mother's cool understanding.
Speaker 1: But just for me, like I need that, I need
Speaker 1: their energy, you know what I'm saying. So it's uh,
Speaker 1: but it's but the payoff like that, the tradeoff for
Speaker 1: the gift that we have as creatives and artists is
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of people that need your energy too.
Speaker 1: You know that makes sense. So it's a it's a
Speaker 1: it's a it's a very slippery stop slope with that,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And and and it's you know,
Speaker 1: unfortunately parenting does not come with a handbook, and you know,
Speaker 1: so it's trying to error. A lot of that's contributed
Speaker 1: to the way I was raised, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like my my father was not in my household, but
Speaker 1: he was in my life, and I think part of that.
Speaker 1: Um so it's kind of like trying to break the
Speaker 1: cycle of like the level of comfortability and and not
Speaker 1: being I'm not cool with that. So as tho as
Speaker 1: I know, I'm not cool with that. It's like you
Speaker 1: that's always working towards the goal. And it's a lot
Speaker 1: to juggle because you know, you gotta keep them. You
Speaker 1: gotta keep the bills, you gotta keep the bills paid,
Speaker 1: lights on, and and making sure that they had the
Speaker 1: life that I didn't have. But you can't buy love either,
Speaker 1: you can what so but again it's been just like
Speaker 1: conscientious of it and and that's the mindset. So just
Speaker 1: it's working towards that. How many kids do you have,
Speaker 1: how many mothers do they get along? For? Yeah, for
Speaker 1: the moment. Yeah, yeah, yeah, like it's cool. It's no,
Speaker 1: it's no, it's a level of discipline that comes with
Speaker 1: being someone's child's father or have ain't um or having
Speaker 1: a child with a woman and not being in the house.
Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying, I think that I
Speaker 1: think we really get crazy. We can get crazy. It's
Speaker 1: just like if you you know, are going from bed
Speaker 1: to bed between the mothers, but tight for destruction, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like you know, so it's a
Speaker 1: level of discipline and understanding that happens. And like you know,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, kudos of them because
Speaker 1: they allow me, they make some very huge sacrifices that
Speaker 1: allow me to be the Rye Davon did the world
Speaker 1: get to enjoy. And you know what I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: it's it's it ain't I know, it ain't easy. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying for them, Um, you had along
Speaker 1: with my my children, so again, um, but co parenting
Speaker 1: is it's it's it's a cool thing when it's you know,
Speaker 1: when when it's done properly, do any of them get
Speaker 1: back in the feeling of like y'all being together, Like
Speaker 1: when maybe you're out with your child together. Something like
Speaker 1: that doesn't ever get to the point where the like,
Speaker 1: you know, we should get back together. Oh No, I
Speaker 1: don't think that. Nah. I mean like I think you know, Um,
Speaker 1: you know they have men in their life. I'm sure
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Um, so it's cool. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's that it's not a toxic situation.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's been it's forks in
Speaker 1: the role. It's been some challenges here. Then I think
Speaker 1: everybody goes through that. But again, when you when you
Speaker 1: send it on the child and was best for the
Speaker 1: child at the end of the day, Um, it'll force
Speaker 1: you to grow up. That's intimidating for a man that
Speaker 1: they're dating to be like, oh you know I have
Speaker 1: a child with with the love King. Again, it depends,
Speaker 1: you know, it depends on It depends on who their dating.
Speaker 1: It depends on you know, how insecure secure they are,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Um, But it's all good man.
Speaker 1: I'm all for like just keeping it's crazy. I just
Speaker 1: saw um, I was just in essence right, And you know,
Speaker 1: one of my first gigs was touring with Genuine Seeing
Speaker 1: background for him, so I popped up. She brought me
Speaker 1: out of whatever. But but what I thought was very
Speaker 1: dope during his show was that, you know, knowing I
Speaker 1: remember when he first started dating. So like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm also very I haven't also have
Speaker 1: a very close relationship with Professor Griff for Public Enemy,
Speaker 1: and he bought a Griff on stage, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, Soley was part of the set nice,
Speaker 1: you know, you know what I mean? To get to
Speaker 1: that point too, maybe maybe maybe not. But the point
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make is it that that that mindsets
Speaker 1: in terms of like you know, I think for us
Speaker 1: as people of black and brown color in particular, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I know that that's how I
Speaker 1: see a lot of white folks that could operate like that,
Speaker 1: but we have the stigmentation that's put on us as
Speaker 1: far as like having baby fathers and baby mothers, and
Speaker 1: it's just been this negative energy and that and that
Speaker 1: that can't that that energy can't exist. And you shouldn't
Speaker 1: have to be honest too in community. Got to be
Speaker 1: honest in your emotions and you know, and and and
Speaker 1: luggage or old feelings you may be carrying or you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like plays a role in it too.
Speaker 1: And I feel like that my son's father and I
Speaker 1: were we're like best friends. It took us a while
Speaker 1: to get there. But when I tell people that, they'd
Speaker 1: be like, what, Yeah, it's like it shouldn't be a surprise, shouldn't.
Speaker 1: I'm like, why not? We're you know, we were best
Speaker 1: friends when we were together. You know, we had our
Speaker 1: issues breaking up and now you know it's it's been
Speaker 1: almost eight years and we're good friends. Right, you know,
Speaker 1: you get through it, you got to. I want to
Speaker 1: ask you this. I had a debate with the guys
Speaker 1: on the morning show about this, right, and my whole
Speaker 1: thing was I always feel like, for me, relationships have
Speaker 1: always worked best when both parties are very independent people
Speaker 1: but choose to come together and be able to depend
Speaker 1: on each other. But know that, like I can hold
Speaker 1: it down, but I choose to rely on you for
Speaker 1: certain things. Not that I have to, but because I
Speaker 1: know I can. And they said that when you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship, you can't be independent anymore. So I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get your thoughts on that. Um. I think for for
Speaker 1: male or females, you got to it's it's definitely important
Speaker 1: to maintain your sense of independence. But whether you are
Speaker 1: single or in a relationship, we all need somebody. We
Speaker 1: all want something, you know what I'm saying, someone to
Speaker 1: know that or at least know we had an option
Speaker 1: of being able to lean on somebody, not just you know,
Speaker 1: in a financial state, but emotionally, physically, spiritually, you know,
Speaker 1: bounce ideas off of you know what I mean, that
Speaker 1: type of thing. So I think that you know, for
Speaker 1: somebody to be you know, for for for a brother,
Speaker 1: I didnybody just had an ice cold heart, stone heart.
Speaker 1: I don't need any buy that's like it's bullshit, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Or for the for the independent
Speaker 1: renaissance woman you know of today? Um, you know it's
Speaker 1: it's just as much, you know, we all need something.
Speaker 1: And women more attractive or do you think that they attractive?
Speaker 1: They attracted to me? I think something up. Some of
Speaker 1: them are at timing, hated by women that are in
Speaker 1: a position of power, that make more money than them.
Speaker 1: And and what happen, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: it's a it's a it's from when I'm hearing in
Speaker 1: the streets like, yeah, it's a you know, but you
Speaker 1: know I wanted them men. I don't. I'm not looking
Speaker 1: for my lady to be my mama, like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So you know, you've got that mentality
Speaker 1: to floating out there where you know, a lot of
Speaker 1: times we always you know, as men or we you know,
Speaker 1: we're on we it's a lot of gold digging men
Speaker 1: out here too. They thing together. They're like fucked up doctor,
Speaker 1: now you know what I mean, And you know they
Speaker 1: live in off of a woman. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And it's like, you know, but I feel like that's
Speaker 1: why it's important to be independent because we're not really
Speaker 1: necessarily independent, but be able to stand on your own too,
Speaker 1: because what happens if we're together and you're the provider
Speaker 1: and you fall off and I'm not, I'm here depending
Speaker 1: on you. Never where do we stand? You know what
Speaker 1: that means? So I feel like it great if you
Speaker 1: can pick up the pieces when they're able to drop
Speaker 1: it too. So I feel like you do have to
Speaker 1: have a sort of independence and do things on your
Speaker 1: own because it will benefit the relationship for y'all together.
Speaker 1: I feel like two holy independent people that come together
Speaker 1: that he is a power couple. Well you know what
Speaker 1: they say most relationships and don't thrive because of either
Speaker 1: finance or sex. Right, So yeah, and I like, you
Speaker 1: can be a part of the team and still be independent,
Speaker 1: Like I could be a star player and still part
Speaker 1: of it. I think I feel like that when a
Speaker 1: guy does When I was listening to you, which you
Speaker 1: was kind of trying to let them know, like you
Speaker 1: can be independent and doesn't mean that you're not a
Speaker 1: part of this. It's not saying I don't need you
Speaker 1: out of you, I'm gonna do everything myself, but it's
Speaker 1: saying I can handle a business regardless, I can help you.
Speaker 1: And I think for me, I know how if I
Speaker 1: really care about somebody, that I allow them to help me.
Speaker 1: And that's how you know you really care, because it's
Speaker 1: hard for me to take help from people unless I
Speaker 1: have strong feelings for them. But other than that, I
Speaker 1: don't want something from me because I don't want to
Speaker 1: feel like I owe somebody something unless I care about
Speaker 1: them too, right, you know. And then I also think
Speaker 1: it's a red flag when a guy wants you to
Speaker 1: give up your independence, like if he's like oh, I
Speaker 1: don't want you to work anymore because he wants to
Speaker 1: control you. That's a control. I don't want you to
Speaker 1: go out with your friends, stay home and do this,
Speaker 1: Like I think that's weird and I'm not really going
Speaker 1: for that. And I'm not saying that if you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: stay home and me is you know tonight I'm not
Speaker 1: feeling well. Of course I'm gonna do that. But if
Speaker 1: you just don't want me to go out and take
Speaker 1: of me both at him. Have you ever told anybody woman,
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Speaker 1: to do as a lot of people rely on me,
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, you know, um, I'm gonna work hard,
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Speaker 1: and just one woman only? Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah,
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Speaker 1: can't you gotta you know, you gotta learn that that
Speaker 1: that sexes and everything though, you know what what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: it plays a big factor. But It's really about what
Speaker 1: you what you want, what you gravitate to, how disciplined
Speaker 1: you could be, you know what I'm saying, and understanding
Speaker 1: that everything you see ay mean for you to touch.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's it's a it's a
Speaker 1: challenge though, you know what I'm saying. Like women, that's
Speaker 1: a challenge from that. Ain't no secret like somebody spoken,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So like I love everything
Speaker 1: about a woman, petit, plus size, whatever. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like bring it, you know what i mean.
Speaker 1: Like it's just like when when when you know, when
Speaker 1: the creator made y'all like ship Man, he showed up.
Speaker 1: I feel about the man, you know, like that's so perfect.
Speaker 1: You feel like that's more dangerous somebody that doesn't have
Speaker 1: a particular type dangerous you know, I mean, could be
Speaker 1: that he would never actually gives you that. It actually
Speaker 1: gives you potential to more variety and in a good way,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like not having a type.
Speaker 1: I don't have like a physical type. It's a I
Speaker 1: have a type, but it ain't a physical type. It's
Speaker 1: like a it's one of them without word conversation things, chemistry, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a it's a it's a kind of a conversation
Speaker 1: piece that happens like finishing your sentences and just kind
Speaker 1: of like or you just know, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: you just don't. It's a thing about it. It's you know,
Speaker 1: I talked about it all the time. Songs and like
Speaker 1: pheromones and and and energy is really like a magnet.
Speaker 1: I'm a firm believer that women know within thirty seconds
Speaker 1: to a minute whever they need to like run for
Speaker 1: the hills with their panties like I'm I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: a suck this nigger at some point, I like, you know,
Speaker 1: and it might be before I should do it. Morally,
Speaker 1: I should not this one fucker and next hat me
Speaker 1: two hours so let me whatever or that, like you
Speaker 1: are forever friend zone. He absolutely is just not happening.
Speaker 1: We think we know, but it never turns out the
Speaker 1: way that we Yeah, I would love to believe that
Speaker 1: we know, but there's been a couple of surprises here,
Speaker 1: like first met and you're like never and back Now.
Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as whack pussy like it
Speaker 1: just doesn't feel good physically called whack pussy corp, pussy
Speaker 1: corps experience or like like where it was kind of
Speaker 1: like want some like you got up from like damn,
Speaker 1: you just wanted to just you just wanted to be
Speaker 1: able to say that you hit, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But like the actual physical on top of that, it
Speaker 1: wasn't good. It's like a wasted you know, not good.
Speaker 1: It's like dry just not just a wasted just like
Speaker 1: it's an energy thing you know, didn't click like you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Texas chemistry to it. You have
Speaker 1: to have a camera state or the proper the proper conversations.
Speaker 1: Ain't you call it the naked tank go for no reason?
Speaker 1: You gotta like really be in tune with the per
Speaker 1: sending rights move But he's somebody that I think is
Speaker 1: like has the best sex ever. And then someone else
Speaker 1: that I have them and they're like it was just
Speaker 1: maybe it was just whatever because they was trashed though too.
Speaker 1: How about that that could be like, yeah, that's how
Speaker 1: you got the phone on. I learned a long time
Speaker 1: ago not to have him to put sexual you get
Speaker 1: the man. What about somebody? What about somebody whose person
Speaker 1: whose personality you hated but their sex was good? Does
Speaker 1: that happen of course, like somebody just kind of get
Speaker 1: on your nerves. I don't think I can get to
Speaker 1: that part. You know, y'all don't know. You don't learn it.
Speaker 1: You know, you don't click other than in the bedroom, right,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, yeah, I think I
Speaker 1: think men can do that more than women, because yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought there probably was one guy I wouldn't even say.
Speaker 1: I dated him when I was younger, and he was
Speaker 1: really getting bad. But he was whack. See that's how
Speaker 1: I He was just corny, like he thought he was
Speaker 1: mad cool. He always had his sunglasses up here. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't, Obama. I was like, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: I had a situation where the guy wasn't intelligent enough
Speaker 1: for me, and I didn't learn that until being around
Speaker 1: him more and more intelligent. You mean, like like he
Speaker 1: was bembo, Like I feel like I'm I remember, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he was like a dumb blind and his sad, but
Speaker 1: he was like everything else about him I really liked.
Speaker 1: But then when he got to talk, and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: at first it wasn't like you like when he was mute,
Speaker 1: because yeah, because we would talk about our own personal
Speaker 1: live exactly. That's how your face. Then I couldn't take
Speaker 1: it anymore. They just got unattractive and I couldn't do
Speaker 1: it anymore. See, we have standards, no bembo all right now?
Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as being too busy for
Speaker 1: a relationship because you're busy saying we all are pretty
Speaker 1: busy have it? Some people say, though you make time
Speaker 1: for what you care about. Yeah, you make time for
Speaker 1: what you care about. But man like you, I agree
Speaker 1: with that. I mean, you make time for what you
Speaker 1: care about. I think it is such thing as as
Speaker 1: being too busy for a relationship. But sometimes we still
Speaker 1: want what we want. And sometimes I think that, uh yeah,
Speaker 1: we want what we want. And you know, men, we
Speaker 1: as men, sometimes we feel like we could tell a
Speaker 1: woman a lot of times, like we tell a woman, hey,
Speaker 1: like yo, I'm not ready for this, I'm not ready
Speaker 1: for a relationship. Or did we tell you right? And
Speaker 1: it's it's not like y'all harris, or or did you
Speaker 1: know that you so? But you know you got some
Speaker 1: you got some bomb pussy. So you're thinking, like my
Speaker 1: ship changes, I'm gonna change his mom. But sometimes guys
Speaker 1: be like I'm not ready, But then they bring you
Speaker 1: around their family with somebody else or whatever, whatever, whatever,
Speaker 1: whatever the ingredients soft for influence. You feel like I
Speaker 1: hear you name you, but you ain't never. You ain't never.
Speaker 1: I would treat you be like I'm gonna take you
Speaker 1: on vacation. I'm not ready for a relationship though, Oh,
Speaker 1: come meet my mom. Like guys do stuff like that. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm working on I'm working on a book,
Speaker 1: and one of the things that will be in the book.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, don't don't take my ship
Speaker 1: because I come find you. But it's scared. It's I've
Speaker 1: learned that you have to treat people. Don't treat the
Speaker 1: person you're dating like your girlfriend. Don't treat your girlfriend
Speaker 1: like your wife. M it's levels to the ship. How
Speaker 1: do you treat your girlfriend like your wife? You don't
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, what is that I treat
Speaker 1: the person that you're dating like your girlfriend like a girl,
Speaker 1: girlfriend like your wife, And don't treat a girlfriend like
Speaker 1: your wife. Everything is Every title has this title for
Speaker 1: your reason. I thought, like, my boyfriend chease me like
Speaker 1: his wife. So here's it. So here's a cat only
Speaker 1: only in the event. Only in the event you know,
Speaker 1: for you know, and it works on both sides. Offense
Speaker 1: only and if only an event of if there's the potential,
Speaker 1: you see that potential, you know what I'm saying. Then
Speaker 1: that's where it gets. That's where it's a blur line
Speaker 1: some guys hee did why It's like ship though too.
Speaker 1: Like what I'm saying is it's something it's women out here,
Speaker 1: you know, and men fucking on one another and they
Speaker 1: know they ain't got no attention being one another. Y'all
Speaker 1: know that ship, then keep it in God bless what
Speaker 1: al but like all the gas and and and you
Speaker 1: know what necessary and capping and then because what I
Speaker 1: have realized is that is that accountability is real. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, And they're gonna hold you you know,
Speaker 1: you're some women out here that's gonna hold you accountable
Speaker 1: to what you say. It's something out here that's gonna
Speaker 1: hold you accountable to what you say and especially and
Speaker 1: they're gonna hold you accountable about what you say according
Speaker 1: to what you do. You know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: I'm one of the people that in business life love
Speaker 1: whatever that, but I don't knowld you accountable to what
Speaker 1: you tell? Me. It's how you, it's what you do.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Have you ever been a
Speaker 1: side piece? Yeah, I'm already single. Girls, Sometimes it's just easier,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you know, in the
Speaker 1: matters of dealing with matters of the heart and just
Speaker 1: like you know, y'a up in the side piece, like
Speaker 1: you a married woman or just a woman in a relationship?
Speaker 1: Do you let them fight that faith that fail fight
Speaker 1: and you like ask about right right? Oh wait to
Speaker 1: take this guy here? Come on? Cool? So do you
Speaker 1: like if they come to you like this happened? Way,
Speaker 1: would you let them confide in you, like as far
Speaker 1: as like they tell you about their personal their problems
Speaker 1: and they know you know why, because I'm so because
Speaker 1: I'm so trill with it. I feel like I feel
Speaker 1: like that's me hating on that on that name. Like
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I don't want to give
Speaker 1: you unless we're in a unless we're unless unless we're
Speaker 1: the place a really really really like friendship where where
Speaker 1: where I know that you were Like that's a real
Speaker 1: slippery slope, you know what I'm saying. I don't want
Speaker 1: to be that guy to feel like and they could
Speaker 1: be like you know what I'm saying, I don't want
Speaker 1: to feel like that's hate, like whit you hate? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like that, ain't you know that's
Speaker 1: kind of like breaking codes. I'm going but don't tell
Speaker 1: me about your relationship. I'm gonna somebody ever they were
Speaker 1: going to leave that man for you. Um, He's like,
Speaker 1: please don't. I didn't into like, you know, being with
Speaker 1: funking on somebody that that that belong to somebody else.
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean, you've done it, but
Speaker 1: you're not into it. I mean, yeah, definitely I think
Speaker 1: or you don't or you don't know you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you know what I'm saying kind of
Speaker 1: like it's like after the after thought. Oh, by the way,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I'm still with my baby father.
Speaker 1: Or by the way, you know what I mean, I
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. Or by the way, I'm married, I'm married.
Speaker 1: What ship like I like, you know, it's a lot
Speaker 1: of people in the grave and in prison for you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. For pussy, Has anybody ever tried
Speaker 1: to put a baby on you that wasn't yours? Kind
Speaker 1: of like, yeah, it's a soft spot. You Listen to
Speaker 1: the first album. Listen to the first album, We're taking
Speaker 1: it Back, Go back. Listen to the first album. Listen
Speaker 1: to the lyrics to the first album. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Definitely, Yeah, I've been through that. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: that's a heart in your heart, in your heart, it'll
Speaker 1: have you, like you gotta be careful with that for
Speaker 1: any brother that's been out there, because they'll have you.
Speaker 1: It'll have you. You can you can you you might
Speaker 1: find yourself becoming like you know, hating women and hurting people,
Speaker 1: and you know what I'm saying, and then directly, you know,
Speaker 1: not when you don't, when you don't deal with that,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? What they say, Um Mama's
Speaker 1: maybe pop Mama's baby papas maybe you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: you know, so, yeah, I've definitely been through that. That
Speaker 1: would have to be devastating old. Yeah, to find out
Speaker 1: that you that you you know what I'm saying, You're
Speaker 1: going to uh, You're going to you know, uh rubbing
Speaker 1: bellies in the hospital visits and there and watch the
Speaker 1: baby coming out, just to find out that you know,
Speaker 1: that's not your child and not only just you, your family,
Speaker 1: your family, and I'm saying that had a baby, your
Speaker 1: mom and your dad, your daddy, like it's yeah, a
Speaker 1: friend of mine, he's a basketball player, and that happened
Speaker 1: to him and he when he was in um you know,
Speaker 1: went to college. His high school sweetheart. They got pregnant
Speaker 1: and when the baby came, they did the baby shower.
Speaker 1: All of that. Families knew each other always, and when
Speaker 1: the baby came, it wasn't his. But you know what,
Speaker 1: I've learned how to always and he's a fucking asshole
Speaker 1: ever since, you know, I to uh to try to
Speaker 1: look at things from both sides, right, And unfortunately it's
Speaker 1: some real funk up guys out there to make babies,
Speaker 1: don't have no intentions or whatever. So some so for
Speaker 1: the women out there, they might they might like, yo,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's a good dude. I
Speaker 1: know he's gonna be a great dad. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. It's very selfish to get it past. It's
Speaker 1: very it's very selfish, you know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: I hope it. I try to look at everything. Oh no,
Speaker 1: but they were high school sweethearts like that was supposed
Speaker 1: to be his gaze. See, but I think that that's
Speaker 1: probably what the woman is thinking, Like I really just
Speaker 1: hope it's him because she's she don't even know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean like but like you not. But in those
Speaker 1: scenarios where you're like, yo, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: what's up? Like they say my kid and they can
Speaker 1: and you say who the dad? And they can tell
Speaker 1: you the address? Then it's like all right, then you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, like what kind of get like
Speaker 1: on what kind of game you really playing? So how
Speaker 1: would you how do you think she should have handled
Speaker 1: that situation? Like told both of y'all, I'm not sure
Speaker 1: whose it is. Yeah, I mean at the day, nobody's
Speaker 1: ever gonna do. That's what I'm saying, Like I cant
Speaker 1: being like the end of the day, I've learned that, like,
Speaker 1: no matter how hard it is, because I've learned some
Speaker 1: valuable lessons when it comes to truth and and and
Speaker 1: lying and honesty. And it's just like that lie that
Speaker 1: you're trying to tell and eventually it just could just
Speaker 1: go a whole another way. I might have to clean
Speaker 1: the country, had a baby, see who would look like?
Speaker 1: And what? Hold on? Hold on? Hello? It's a caveat
Speaker 1: to that is what is she dealing with to do?
Speaker 1: What does she gotta type? And the dude look just
Speaker 1: like you, That's what I'm saying, she's gonna be. My
Speaker 1: father's both had types, and all of their mothers of
Speaker 1: their children look alike. And me and my siblings. You
Speaker 1: could look at us and not tell mother and father
Speaker 1: because we all look like that type. That's true, right,
Speaker 1: You better hope that traces. That's the only thing that
Speaker 1: we're gonna get away with. Asian one and a black
Speaker 1: one or a Spanish one and something else. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but it's you never know to still even with that,
Speaker 1: that's never strong. Yeah, So my parent is pale. Was
Speaker 1: the palest thing I ever seen. He was red. Now
Speaker 1: my mother is like a little browner than gi. Because
Speaker 1: sometimes one parent could be darker and the baby come
Speaker 1: out looking like that, and then the other kid come out.
Speaker 1: Children can also take the traits from their grandparents and
Speaker 1: out looking like nothing like, nothing like the one of
Speaker 1: the parents. That baby they come out singing, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: run baby, all right. So what do you think are
Speaker 1: some things that you could do to be a better mate? Oh,
Speaker 1: by the way, I got brand new album out. It's
Speaker 1: called The Love Reunion. It's like the greatest ship ever
Speaker 1: for our be It's gonna go down in history. Is
Speaker 1: some of the greatest you know, a project that's like,
Speaker 1: it's my greatest body of work, my contribution to black music.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's the soundtrack to like Relationship,
Speaker 1: your Bad Room Game, just the Beach, all of that,
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean. It's it's definitely um
Speaker 1: with the reasurgence of r and being sold music, you know,
Speaker 1: black music is is I'm gonna ask you a question
Speaker 1: a minute, but I gotta get this out. Black music
Speaker 1: is the only our culture is the only cost is
Speaker 1: just guarding like where it's where it's treated as it
Speaker 1: as if it's disposable, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: we have to remember to reclaim. We got to reclaim art,
Speaker 1: our art and our culture and our existence um as
Speaker 1: blow girls as black radio depends on that. So don't
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It's the only thing that's
Speaker 1: treated like you know what I'm saying. This it scarted.
Speaker 1: So again, It's available on all social media, all streaming platforms,
Speaker 1: all your mama pop stores. I'm one of those few
Speaker 1: artists still sell CDs. Very definitely came in with a CD.
Speaker 1: It's the number four selling the album this week. R
Speaker 1: B album Congratulations. You know we stream we streaming crazy
Speaker 1: right now. You're streaming crazy right now, not just one
Speaker 1: song on the entire album, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: And yeah, brothers, you want to put that on. Just
Speaker 1: let that marinate. You know what I thought? You were
Speaker 1: just in South Africa to right. What's your question? We'll
Speaker 1: get back to that. What are some things that you
Speaker 1: think you could do better as a meet, Like if
Speaker 1: you could improve on some things about yourself and critique yourself, um,
Speaker 1: being being being, being open to the idea. It was
Speaker 1: just like, damn, damn man deep ask question right now? Um,
Speaker 1: what are some of the things I could feel like
Speaker 1: I could that would make me a better mate? Um?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that I'm kind of in
Speaker 1: that space where just understanding that everything takes us, you know, time?
Speaker 1: Are you open and patience? Am I open to work? Like?
Speaker 1: Are you open when you're with somebody? Are you open
Speaker 1: for love? Are you open to yeah? Like all of that.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's just Uh, you know
Speaker 1: what it is. It's doing a better job here. It
Speaker 1: is doing a better job of of of juggling my
Speaker 1: career and understanding that, um, everything kind of has his
Speaker 1: time in this place. You know I'm saying, I'm very
Speaker 1: one dimensional. So one of the things that I know
Speaker 1: that like that, I um that it's still like a
Speaker 1: challenge for me that I know from Like, you know,
Speaker 1: my oldest my oldest son is a thirteen right, um
Speaker 1: pretty much, and uh I remember kind of like a
Speaker 1: time when his mom was just like yo, you just
Speaker 1: always like I'll just be in my own cold world,
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying in terms of my
Speaker 1: career and the things that I feel like are like
Speaker 1: important to me. And sometimes you just gotta put the
Speaker 1: phone down some Sometimes you just gotta shut the phone
Speaker 1: down some sometimes you gotta you got have to appoint
Speaker 1: certain days to connect, to invest, to disconnect and invest
Speaker 1: into your your family, your children, your lady, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Your mom, your dad, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And that's something that I think I still
Speaker 1: struggle with to this day because I'm so uh passionate
Speaker 1: about what I do, and I think that I'm truly
Speaker 1: addicted to like making music, and what I do not
Speaker 1: not just not's not not so much the accolades of
Speaker 1: it and the fame or like you know, while I'm
Speaker 1: doing to get a piece of pussy or something like that,
Speaker 1: but so much as a like you know, I don't
Speaker 1: like I don't hit no clubs unless I'm getting paid
Speaker 1: in the bag to do it, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times I'm in a different city,
Speaker 1: like if it's the Oxen, she ain't gonna get going
Speaker 1: the club, or you know, hey, what's up, Zaddy, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to pull up like I'm being a studio, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like or I'm gonna be doing
Speaker 1: some community work, or like I'm building a legacy, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And and I just I just
Speaker 1: really every before the world knew my name, I worked
Speaker 1: for Chevy Chase Bank. I work for Giant Food. I
Speaker 1: work for Food Action. The last job I had was
Speaker 1: a tower records. Like every job I ever had had
Speaker 1: me in customer service or whatever. But I know what
Speaker 1: hard work is since I was like the age thirteen
Speaker 1: fourteen years old, you know, so I try to dibble
Speaker 1: and dabble in the streets. I Saint quick. That was
Speaker 1: not for me, you know what I mean. Like, so
Speaker 1: all I know is hard work, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So sometimes I'm so consumed by the amount of people
Speaker 1: that I take care of and the people that depend
Speaker 1: on me, you know what I'm saying. It's like you
Speaker 1: lose sight of the fact that the people that really
Speaker 1: mattered to you most, they're hurting, they need you that,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and ain't about like just
Speaker 1: sending some money or situation. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the most surreal thing for me in the last two
Speaker 1: years is having to you know, um, I believe in
Speaker 1: protecting my family and loved one, so I don't put
Speaker 1: their business completely out there, but I put a particular
Speaker 1: family member where I had to seek like get guardianship
Speaker 1: on them and go and and go and and I
Speaker 1: had my world. I had stopped everything that was moving
Speaker 1: in my world and go and take care of them
Speaker 1: and get them back white, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And that right there kind of like what's groundbreaking for
Speaker 1: me just because I because it was I was only
Speaker 1: one I could do it, you know what I'm saying
Speaker 1: it wasn't no sibling that could do it, and what
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, no other family member whatever.
Speaker 1: It was kind of I got the call like we
Speaker 1: think you're the only one that they can't make this happen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: regardless of what was going on, and and I had
Speaker 1: a lot on on at the time, but I made
Speaker 1: it my business to you know. And you know, sometimes
Speaker 1: when you're moving so fast, like the creator of universe
Speaker 1: will do things to grab your attention, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Just like just just just like the people
Speaker 1: to take you for granted right in your world, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like so it's just like they'll
Speaker 1: grab their attention and be like yo, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like you can't, you can't, so you sold.
Speaker 1: So So I think that that for me, there's still
Speaker 1: a work in progress. And that's something that definitely i'm
Speaker 1: you know, did I noticed a challenge that I have
Speaker 1: to work on? Okay, that's fair enough. Somebody told that
Speaker 1: you fall asleep right after said I'm getting drunk. Somebody
Speaker 1: said you fall asleep right after somebody told you that
Speaker 1: they're definitely tapping off first. That's how you know, you
Speaker 1: did a good job, right, ladies. When he fall asleep
Speaker 1: right afterwards, yeah, he knocked off not only what the
Speaker 1: feeder position? Oh yeah, leg over you just like just saying, damn, guys,
Speaker 1: do you mind like for a girl to do things
Speaker 1: like say, y'all about to get into it and she
Speaker 1: just sit on your face. I wish that would happen
Speaker 1: more women to be aggressive in the room. Oh yeah, definitely,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying Like that, it's all good.
Speaker 1: You know, it ain't too much we can't do. You know. See,
Speaker 1: we talked about this before about initiating more and being
Speaker 1: more aggressive, and that was my lesson that I learned.
Speaker 1: And I'm an extremist though, so so so it's got
Speaker 1: you gotta be careful because you're doing you're doing so much,
Speaker 1: you're doing this ship. And then they'd be like then
Speaker 1: when they're like, you know what I'm saying picking out
Speaker 1: combustions or like I'm a strength, like you know what
Speaker 1: i mean, Like, I'm just that's I've learned that about
Speaker 1: my personality. I have addictive personality and I'm I'm extremists,
Speaker 1: so I'm very I'm extremely competitive, right, so those can
Speaker 1: those things can be an appetite for destruction when you're
Speaker 1: talking about like sex and intimacy, because every person of
Speaker 1: all don't. I had to also learned to everybody don't
Speaker 1: deserve to be able to have to be able to
Speaker 1: have what I'm offering for you and you and you,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So like like preach everybody
Speaker 1: to learn that you know what I'm saying. That's still
Speaker 1: something that's like you know, work in progress and understanding it,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But like you know, I
Speaker 1: think that you know what you do as you do
Speaker 1: as boys, do you do as men? Do you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like, at the end of the day, Um,
Speaker 1: there's always multiple attractions to whatever. Again, it's about what
Speaker 1: you open to with your mate, what you're trying to explode,
Speaker 1: what you're trying to do. But you know, at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, I ain't a trophy for nobody,
Speaker 1: and women are not a trophy to be necessarily like
Speaker 1: conquident and just move on or just discarded, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And um, that's something that I had
Speaker 1: to learn to know what I'm saying. I think you know,
Speaker 1: I think that's any man needs to know that at
Speaker 1: least hear that and then you act accordingly from it.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, what's the most orgasms you've
Speaker 1: ever had in a row? The most or the most
Speaker 1: orgasm orgasms I've ever had in a row? Yeah, like
Speaker 1: you just can't. I'm more, I'm I'm going to what
Speaker 1: how many she happen? You know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: I can you know when it comes to like like
Speaker 1: can you can right after? What I'm saying is it's
Speaker 1: like if I'm coming and I don't come somewhere, you
Speaker 1: come and I'm not ready until after you Yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm like Like for me, For me personally,
Speaker 1: the act of intimacy is about I'm totally I'm like
Speaker 1: on some pleasing, Like I'm you know what i mean.
Speaker 1: So I not to say that I'm not there to
Speaker 1: enjoy myself and have a good time. Right, That's what
Speaker 1: you enjoy is pleasing somebody that's not here. That's time man,
Speaker 1: I go know what I'm saying, They go make an
Speaker 1: album and you know what I'm saying, Like that seems
Speaker 1: like now? Now? What is not What is the best though,
Speaker 1: is when you encounter someone who got the same energy
Speaker 1: and that's when they can get all kind of like
Speaker 1: you know, and be like laid back. No, you laid
Speaker 1: back when it's really when it's really did when that
Speaker 1: point they got to say it, it it just kind of
Speaker 1: just yeah, just just you know what I'm saying, just
Speaker 1: kind of just it's just it's organic. Feel like you
Speaker 1: were in a great state of mind when you did
Speaker 1: this album. I'm in a great state of mind when
Speaker 1: I make music, and I make music daily. It's like, look,
Speaker 1: we walked in here as the studio. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: figure out I can get a couple of hours in
Speaker 1: here too late. Yeah, you got to before I leave here.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I wanna I wanna um
Speaker 1: so because because I'm constantly making music in real time
Speaker 1: um and I don't physically write anything down, and like
Speaker 1: we're dealing with real live emotions in that current state
Speaker 1: of how I feel. Typically, most of the time I
Speaker 1: make music is between the hours of like nine PM
Speaker 1: and nine am, you know, says they say some of
Speaker 1: the most the greatest time for creatives is between I
Speaker 1: don't know why, but they say between like three and
Speaker 1: four am, four am, And that's typically like when I'm
Speaker 1: in there, like yeah, when I'm in my zone, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So, um and I don't care
Speaker 1: like what I gotta do the next day, like if
Speaker 1: it's if it's morning news, taking kids in school, a flight, whatever, Um,
Speaker 1: I just gotta get it in like that's just it's
Speaker 1: just a part of me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And um, so yeah, it's it's it's it's just so
Speaker 1: so it makes it easy to put out albums I got,
Speaker 1: Like I gotta vote, I got fifteen is where for
Speaker 1: music already recorded? Damn you listen, listen. This is the
Speaker 1: second album I dropped. This is seventh album, but this
Speaker 1: is the second album I dropped in the last not
Speaker 1: in the last eight nine eight months. So like I'm
Speaker 1: on my second decade. I'm gonna be a problem out here.
Speaker 1: And for far too long I've been purposely I will
Speaker 1: admit I've been purposely dimming my life or like not
Speaker 1: out of insecurity, but just yeah and and and I'm
Speaker 1: still humble. But it's a time and a place for that.
Speaker 1: And I know that I'm I know that, I know
Speaker 1: that I know I'm tapped into my inner goat is
Speaker 1: ums and I know that I know. I'm great at
Speaker 1: what I do and I'm one of the greatest of
Speaker 1: my generation. You know what I'm saying, And I don't.
Speaker 1: It's not a Grammy that that needs that I need
Speaker 1: to tell me that. It ain't a BT Award that
Speaker 1: I need to tell me that my team can change, manager, management, wise, agents, whatever.
Speaker 1: He loves you guys. But the only thing I really
Speaker 1: care about is a connection that I make with my
Speaker 1: with with with the with the with the with the
Speaker 1: consumer and in the music level, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And I and I and I was doing that before,
Speaker 1: long before it was cool to do it. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Now you gotta almost damn near do it.
Speaker 1: And you know, you know what I mean because between
Speaker 1: social and that's why you see so many artists crashing
Speaker 1: and burning, because it's just like it's just like a
Speaker 1: dog when they can smell fear, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And it's just like, you know, people come up on
Speaker 1: you and they can they can they can sense that
Speaker 1: you the real deal? Are you not the real deal?
Speaker 1: Are you fooling You're fooling the people? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you know the big I always say,
Speaker 1: like open mics and stuff like that always expose artists
Speaker 1: and musicians because you can go to an open mic
Speaker 1: and you can take the best of the best and
Speaker 1: let it look and and let let let an improvisational
Speaker 1: moment happen, and you will see who's contrived, who's the
Speaker 1: real deal, who's the student of they cry? Who the
Speaker 1: real musicians are, who can crytrol comfortable in a skin? Who?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, that's across the board, whether
Speaker 1: you're talking pop, country, hip hop, R and B or
Speaker 1: what have you. So, Um, you know, I'm done dim
Speaker 1: in my light? And and you know, and and and
Speaker 1: everything has its time and has this course, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Yeah, I'm glad you're not dim in
Speaker 1: your light no more. No, it's just you know, it's
Speaker 1: it's it's there's no reason to man, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, it's it's it's time. But everything everything
Speaker 1: happens when they're supposed to. Because you've been consistent for
Speaker 1: such a long time and putting out such great music.
Speaker 1: Are you selling any of these songs to other artists?
Speaker 1: It's funny you say that. I think my biggest flaw
Speaker 1: during my career is being selfish with my brand and
Speaker 1: bring selfish with my sound. I think I have a
Speaker 1: very distinct sound. Um, and now I'm ready to get
Speaker 1: it to the world. Meaning any artists you want to
Speaker 1: go on the studio, you want me to do an
Speaker 1: album on you ep, whatever, like, let's get it. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'm currently working on a number
Speaker 1: of things. Um. One of the projects I'm super excited
Speaker 1: about is v Boseman. You know what I'm saying right now? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we're in the studio. Have you working on her project?
Speaker 1: And it's not just limited to a song, it's a
Speaker 1: body of work. It's a sound. You know what I mean? Um? Uh.
Speaker 1: Sister by the name of Yasa Um. You may remember
Speaker 1: Grenique from being on Motown and just like, um, it's
Speaker 1: a it's a it's a it's a plethor of artists.
Speaker 1: And I'm working with right now. UM, different things. But
Speaker 1: you know I've worked with you know, I wrote, I
Speaker 1: wrote and worked with Usher in the past, Jamie Fox,
Speaker 1: you know, contributed to t paying projects. UM. I feel
Speaker 1: like you would be really good with are Lennox? Oh,
Speaker 1: I would look so, but already don't mean look, but
Speaker 1: it'd be it'll happen to time. I know already before
Speaker 1: the world knew. Yeah yeah, and she's allays been, man,
Speaker 1: I think that as so. So I'm so happy for her,
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. And it's crazy like
Speaker 1: to now look up or be on the charts with
Speaker 1: like the r Lennoxes of the world. Um, you know,
Speaker 1: Daniel Caesar's you know, you know, have a great first
Speaker 1: week and you know see my name, you know, right
Speaker 1: next to Chris Brown or Kurt Franklin or or whoever right,
Speaker 1: and it's like wow, like it speaks to it speaks
Speaker 1: to staying power stas too, like when you stick to
Speaker 1: your guns. Like at some point it's they catch up,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And for me, Um, someone
Speaker 1: who I really love and respect, who is like a
Speaker 1: mentor to me and on so many levels is Doug
Speaker 1: you fresh. We got a great relationship. And I remember
Speaker 1: one time you put me to the side. He said
Speaker 1: you're the last one, bro, and I didn't know what
Speaker 1: he meant. I understand what he meant, but now I
Speaker 1: know what he meant. You put on the radio and
Speaker 1: it was like, yeah, I know what, So I know
Speaker 1: what he meant. You know what I'm saying. And so
Speaker 1: for me, it's a it's the concept of the last
Speaker 1: man standing effect. I understand that this that for me creatively,
Speaker 1: it's a marathon. It's not a sprint. And as long
Speaker 1: as you keep moving, you know, you get on the
Speaker 1: track and you just keep moving. You sprint when you
Speaker 1: need to, you slow down your distance, run when you
Speaker 1: need to, you might even walk. But you never stopped moving,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. If you never and as
Speaker 1: long as you never stopped moving, you know, you start
Speaker 1: looking to the side. Fucker's run out of breath. They
Speaker 1: just stopped for a minute to take that breath. If
Speaker 1: I never stopped moving, you know what I mean. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So so it's it's it's the last man standing the
Speaker 1: fact um, you know, and the type of the oppo
Speaker 1: sitting on so much music, like yeah, when we anticipate
Speaker 1: no in on time with the mass anything. I mean,
Speaker 1: ain't claiming nothing like that, but like it's a lot
Speaker 1: of music. You mentioned Chris Brown just now, So what
Speaker 1: do you think about the whole situation he's going through
Speaker 1: with the words that he used, Because you don't use
Speaker 1: words like that in your songs. Chris is from a
Speaker 1: different generation. I love Chris. Chris we had the same birthday.
Speaker 1: So that's my brother. You know what I'm saying, that's
Speaker 1: my brother. And at the end of the day, Um,
Speaker 1: I love him. I remember the day that Chris walking
Speaker 1: and was walked in the job like I remember the
Speaker 1: day he signed it. He was there, bright eyed bush
Speaker 1: he telled now. So at the end of the day, Um,
Speaker 1: the trials and tribulations of life are just what they are,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And he has he has
Speaker 1: to do. He has to run his course of life
Speaker 1: just like I have to run mine. And regardless of
Speaker 1: like the pitfalls or the highs and lows. One thing
Speaker 1: you can't take fromm is that he's a conic, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And he has it. He has it,
Speaker 1: he has to take his journey just you know. So
Speaker 1: you know I'm big homie to that. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. From afar Um, the people that are around
Speaker 1: you can either build you up or tear you down,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So, Um, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know who is who? Who is uh? Voice voice
Speaker 1: of reason is you know what I'm saying around him,
Speaker 1: but definitely you know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta
Speaker 1: keep the right people around you that you trust, but
Speaker 1: you got to also be willing and be open to
Speaker 1: the idea with somebody say a bro like, Hey, that
Speaker 1: ain't a good mood. You know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: if there's nobody telling you that, then you might have
Speaker 1: a lot of people around you don't give a funk
Speaker 1: about you. It's hard with social media though, because people
Speaker 1: it's fine and there's nothing no one could do about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So so, but I get it.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a tourist. It's it's so many times I
Speaker 1: want to like wile out or speak or speak my
Speaker 1: mind or really say how I feel you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, or really call people out on different things
Speaker 1: or whatever. You know what I mean, I'll be at
Speaker 1: the end of the day. It's an old saying when
Speaker 1: people say like, hey, man, how are you feeling to day? Man,
Speaker 1: I'm cool if I had a complaint when nobody want
Speaker 1: to hear it anyway, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: so it's it's ask how you feeling? You really tell them,
Speaker 1: like they'd be like, man, goddamn how you feel. And
Speaker 1: guess what they're gonna go. They're gonna go hug somebody else,
Speaker 1: text somebody else to tell them you're bad news. So
Speaker 1: you gotta be careful those that bring you bad news.
Speaker 1: And really it's just about the company you keep. And
Speaker 1: if that means you gotta stand alone, walk along a
Speaker 1: lot of time, you see me, I'm what alone, So
Speaker 1: I'm never alone alone. I got the creative with me.
Speaker 1: And it's a lot of people out here that love me,
Speaker 1: you know, but but I'm not nai to It's a
Speaker 1: lot of people that you know, success breathe, envy and
Speaker 1: jealousy and whatever. You know what I'm saying. So it's
Speaker 1: um again, man, you know, I ain't got nothing bad
Speaker 1: say about Chris. It's just it's it's it's really about
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. Um, I'm sure he
Speaker 1: loved himself, It's really really the real question is how
Speaker 1: many of them people around him really love him and
Speaker 1: really got his best interests and really are the voice
Speaker 1: of reason and whatever. The more the people that you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because I'll sit back and watch
Speaker 1: the show still and watched the fireworks and then get
Speaker 1: your check. And you know what I'm saying, So you know,
Speaker 1: and I think that that's something that we as artists,
Speaker 1: you know, it's artists a lot of times, man, we
Speaker 1: tort your souls because we give so much. We pour
Speaker 1: so much into other people. We poured so much into
Speaker 1: the culture. But who's going it to us besides our kids,
Speaker 1: our beautiful kids. Even your parents will like take you
Speaker 1: through the ring for some of us, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So, like, you know, it's a lot of
Speaker 1: each other. It's a whole lot of things. Care I
Speaker 1: can't you know, I'm iconic in my own sense, but
Speaker 1: I can't imagine what it'd be like to be at
Speaker 1: that level. I think that's part of the reason. That's
Speaker 1: probably the reason why I kind of like them the
Speaker 1: light a little bit, you know what I mean, because
Speaker 1: I want to I want to be known. But I
Speaker 1: realized at the end of the day now where I'm at,
Speaker 1: like it ain't gonna happen, ain't or never. I was
Speaker 1: born to do what I do. This is my gift,
Speaker 1: and let it shine as bright as it do. And
Speaker 1: if that's what come with it, so be it. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, but I'm gonna keep some real
Speaker 1: ones around me there. It could be like, hey, bro,
Speaker 1: that song whack, go back in the studio, get that right,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And it ain't a good
Speaker 1: movie you're about to make, or that ain't you need
Speaker 1: to take that down immediately, or that's how you're feeling cool,
Speaker 1: let's talk about it. Go get a counselor, or that's
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But don't, don't, don't don't
Speaker 1: do that. You know well, they're saying, you gotta go
Speaker 1: because you have somewhere else to be. I got to go,
Speaker 1: That's what he said. It was like, we can we
Speaker 1: can talk now you reading? I can I come back?
Speaker 1: Did we get it back? Right? They're gonna give me
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Speaker 1: I can clown you can. You can make a meme
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Speaker 1: We gotta look at you that edition. Man. I wish
Speaker 1: I I would love to. I love to come back.
Speaker 1: You know you use that, you use that come back
Speaker 1: and we're gonna talk about all about now. But we
Speaker 1: had a great time. We appreciate you for coming. I
Speaker 1: didn't think he was really gonna show. I saw him
Speaker 1: with me and g and I was like, you gotta
Speaker 1: come to lip service. He said, Yeah, that's another thing
Speaker 1: I've been calling myself out on my on my following
Speaker 1: through game. Okay, you know what I'm saying, A lot
Speaker 1: you're getting better. Excuse me. A lot of times we
Speaker 1: don't we block our own blessings about just simply not
Speaker 1: following through on situations. Anover another chapter from the book.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, what's the three grades? What's
Speaker 1: the three grades? The three greatest gifts that to create
Speaker 1: I'm and I'm like, I don't know. What's the three
Speaker 1: greatest gifts that the creator universe? We have you given us?
Speaker 1: In your opinion? The three greatest Yeah three three three
Speaker 1: gifts family, yeah, love. Okay, I'm going I'll break them
Speaker 1: down in the book. I'll break them down in the
Speaker 1: book though, the three things. Once I discovered these three things,
Speaker 1: it's like my whole world opened up, my whole universe, right,
Speaker 1: And it's the it's the it's the it's the three gators. Gifts,
Speaker 1: in my opinion, are the gift of time from the
Speaker 1: time we were born. We are running out of time,
Speaker 1: So it's the gift of time, right, It's the gift
Speaker 1: of free will and decision from the time we wake up.
Speaker 1: You can you can you can decide whether you're gonna
Speaker 1: be a no show with the lip service. You can
Speaker 1: decide you won't do the Breakface club or not. You
Speaker 1: can decide teeth, wash your ass, go be productive, get
Speaker 1: a bag, not get it bag whatever. Right, So it's
Speaker 1: the gift of time, um, the gift of decision, and
Speaker 1: the the last gift is a gift of one another,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And gift the relationship and
Speaker 1: really cultivating them. And a lot of times we had
Speaker 1: rooms with people, industry, ship, whatever, and you stand in
Speaker 1: necessary money and just because you ain't simply say hey,
Speaker 1: what's your name? Or what you do that? You never
Speaker 1: know what what they have to offer you, what you
Speaker 1: have to offer them, you know what I'm saying, And
Speaker 1: sometimes it ain't nothing. It's just a simple conversation where
Speaker 1: you can just say something and drop a jewel on them.
Speaker 1: Or motherfucker might just been thinking about jumping off a bridge.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because nobody acknowledges them. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, anowledge, Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So again, you know, as long as we use the
Speaker 1: gift of time, free will and decision and one another
Speaker 1: properly is all good. So I'm definitely those are those
Speaker 1: are extensions of it for me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But like it's really about um, you know, accountability and
Speaker 1: and of course you know on in my word like
Speaker 1: so definitely I'll be back. Yeah, yeah the pump you
Speaker 1: already got her put a tight than you alright, but
Speaker 1: make sure you all enjoy that. It's a great love
Speaker 1: making album. It's a great taking on vacation with you
Speaker 1: and y'all have a good time. It's definitely it's definitely
Speaker 1: uh contender for R and B. Soul Album of the
Speaker 1: Year at a decade of a lifetime. I think that
Speaker 1: this body of work is very special and it feels
Speaker 1: that way. You know, It's only been like a week
Speaker 1: or two sinces out, but I've never had this much
Speaker 1: momentum with an album out, and I can gauge it
Speaker 1: now because of social media, because of different platforms, because
Speaker 1: of you know, people speaking in mind and talking about it.
Speaker 1: So you know, don't don't worry if I blow up,
Speaker 1: you know, blow up more than I have. Don't, don't don't.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna go crazy on y'all. Don't don't. Don't
Speaker 1: steal us it on his face, don't be. Don't be
Speaker 1: selfish with He's again, man, don't be. Don't be selfish
Speaker 1: with the art man like spread like spread the love,
Speaker 1: Spread the love man. That's what you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: that's what it's about, you know, dr Vine and it
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Speaker 1: thank you so much. I gotta y'all like a little
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