WEBVTT - Episode 202: Look at These Lips (Feat. Raheem DeVaughn) 0:00:04.120 --> 0:00:06.240 What's up. What's up is a live service. I mean, yee, 0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:09.680 I'm g maguire, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm love ya, and 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:18.239 I'm a love king. Hello, nice and smooth. Okay, yeah, well, 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:19.959 welcome to the love King. That's a lot of pressure. 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.280 That's not to be the love king, because that's the expectations. 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:26.520 I think it's expectations when it's limited to just you know, 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:32.760 sex or relationships, or the expectation of like, you know, 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:36.879 your mate, you know what I mean. But like, in 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:40.800 all seriousness, like the love king, the whole love king 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:43.000 thing is not limited to just you know, R and 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:44.760 B or trying to be the sex and got it 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:49.360 you know. Uh, you know. It's more the love that 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:51.880 I have for people, the love that I have for community. 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:55.720 I hope that I in most cases carry myself like 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:58.800 a king, but a humble king in the sense of 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.320 like walking amongst the people and being a service to 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.160 the people, like from a community aspect. It's more. It's 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.200 more to it than this music. For me. Every time 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:08.360 I see around him, he's being mad humble too, right, 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:10.039 Like I come in to him, He's like, hey, how 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:12.840 you doing. But he does talk like that all the time. Yeah, 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:14.840 I feel like our minds is in the gutter because 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:18.560 I always thinking about like love and sex, he said. 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:22.840 He said, not I heard that, but I just the 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:26.040 first t girl. But that's what I mean. It's like 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:32.200 it's pretty d I said, what that movie looked like? 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:37.040 They said, it's not a picture. I said, Okay, took 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:41.880 bad leg. I was just trying to say about this Gemini. Okay. Yeah, 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.760 I'm a Sagittarius okay, and I'm a Capricorn Capricorne. I 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:47.199 just want to know what the nature when I'm dealing 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:52.520 with May fifth tours? So what does that mean exactly 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:58.840 about you? We got? We have like we got like 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:02.520 a different kind loyalty. Are the ones that were loyal 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:09.560 to We're very stubborn and bullheaded and creatives. Do you 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:13.640 have any children? Do you have any children? I do again, 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:19.800 R and B Singer. I definitely both of my dad's 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:23.520 um my biological father and my stepfather who I was 0:02:23.560 --> 0:02:26.280 raised by both their May seventh and May ten and 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:30.839 everything that you're explaining, I see my dad. We hone 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:34.120 bodies and it's that same part that's being a tourist 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:37.760 born I May next, Netflix and child Your personality is 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:40.320 defined by charm and practicality. You have a special brand 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:43.639 of wits and charisma that others greatly enjoy. Although you 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:46.400 easily connect with people, you may prefer to only open 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.400 up to a select few. And we're givers, like we 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:53.000 we you know that's why X if you have children, 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:55.919 because both of my father's were very generous, not only 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:58.920 with their time and their finances, but with their love 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:05.840 for all of their children. Something for me though, because yeah, yeah, 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:12.200 it's tough for me though, um know that, Wow, you're 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:16.120 just as bad. I've always struggled with like I don't 0:03:16.120 --> 0:03:18.320 see my kids as much as I want to, you 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:22.280 know what I'm saying. And and and so I'm definitely 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:24.959 in a place of like like just figuring that out, 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:27.040 like you know what I mean. Like, and they're cool 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:30.720 with it. They're cool, they're understanding. The mother's cool understanding. 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:33.880 But just for me, like I need that, I need 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.480 their energy, you know what I'm saying. So it's uh, 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:41.400 but it's but the payoff like that, the tradeoff for 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:44.600 the gift that we have as creatives and artists is 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:47.560 like there's a lot of people that need your energy too. 0:03:47.800 --> 0:03:50.680 You know that makes sense. So it's a it's a 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:54.160 it's a it's a very slippery stop slope with that, 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:56.880 you know what I mean. And and and it's you know, 0:03:57.000 --> 0:04:01.280 unfortunately parenting does not come with a handbook, and you know, 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:04.840 so it's trying to error. A lot of that's contributed 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:06.240 to the way I was raised, you know what I mean, 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:09.120 Like my my father was not in my household, but 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:11.680 he was in my life, and I think part of that. 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:13.960 Um so it's kind of like trying to break the 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:17.120 cycle of like the level of comfortability and and not 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:19.160 being I'm not cool with that. So as tho as 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.040 I know, I'm not cool with that. It's like you 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:23.840 that's always working towards the goal. And it's a lot 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:26.279 to juggle because you know, you gotta keep them. You 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:28.400 gotta keep the bills, you gotta keep the bills paid, 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:31.720 lights on, and and making sure that they had the 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:34.520 life that I didn't have. But you can't buy love either, 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:37.360 you can what so but again it's been just like 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:41.320 conscientious of it and and that's the mindset. So just 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:43.599 it's working towards that. How many kids do you have, 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:48.560 how many mothers do they get along? For? Yeah, for 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:51.479 the moment. Yeah, yeah, yeah, like it's cool. It's no, 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.680 it's no, it's a level of discipline that comes with 0:04:55.520 --> 0:05:01.840 being someone's child's father or have ain't um or having 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:03.800 a child with a woman and not being in the house. 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:05.479 So you know what I'm saying, I think that I 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:08.440 think we really get crazy. We can get crazy. It's 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:11.840 just like if you you know, are going from bed 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:17.520 to bed between the mothers, but tight for destruction, you 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.760 know what I'm saying. Like you know, so it's a 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.960 level of discipline and understanding that happens. And like you know, 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:26.719 at the end of the day, kudos of them because 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:30.760 they allow me, they make some very huge sacrifices that 0:05:30.760 --> 0:05:33.800 allow me to be the Rye Davon did the world 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:37.080 get to enjoy. And you know what I'm saying, like, 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:40.400 it's it's it ain't I know, it ain't easy. You 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:43.120 know what I'm saying for them, Um, you had along 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:47.080 with my my children, so again, um, but co parenting 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:49.640 is it's it's it's a cool thing when it's you know, 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:52.159 when when it's done properly, do any of them get 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:55.120 back in the feeling of like y'all being together, Like 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:58.320 when maybe you're out with your child together. Something like 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:00.159 that doesn't ever get to the point where the like, 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:02.160 you know, we should get back together. Oh No, I 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:05.919 don't think that. Nah. I mean like I think you know, Um, 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.559 you know they have men in their life. I'm sure 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:12.200 you know what I'm saying. Um, so it's cool. You 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.800 know what I mean. It's that it's not a toxic situation. 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:17.760 You know what I'm saying. It's been it's forks in 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:19.800 the role. It's been some challenges here. Then I think 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:23.000 everybody goes through that. But again, when you when you 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:24.560 send it on the child and was best for the 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:27.599 child at the end of the day, Um, it'll force 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.520 you to grow up. That's intimidating for a man that 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:32.160 they're dating to be like, oh you know I have 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:37.479 a child with with the love King. Again, it depends, 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:40.280 you know, it depends on It depends on who their dating. 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:44.120 It depends on you know, how insecure secure they are, 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:47.840 you know what I mean. Um, But it's all good man. 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:50.640 I'm all for like just keeping it's crazy. I just 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:54.120 saw um, I was just in essence right, And you know, 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:57.119 one of my first gigs was touring with Genuine Seeing 0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:59.480 background for him, so I popped up. She brought me 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:01.120 out of whatever. But but what I thought was very 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:04.000 dope during his show was that, you know, knowing I 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:06.400 remember when he first started dating. So like you know 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:09.480 what I'm saying, I'm also very I haven't also have 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:13.480 a very close relationship with Professor Griff for Public Enemy, 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:17.080 and he bought a Griff on stage, you know what 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:19.800 I'm saying, Like, Soley was part of the set nice, 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:21.880 you know, you know what I mean? To get to 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:24.360 that point too, maybe maybe maybe not. But the point 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:27.720 I'm trying to make is it that that that mindsets 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:31.320 in terms of like you know, I think for us 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:33.640 as people of black and brown color in particular, you 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:35.760 know what I'm saying. I know that that's how I 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:37.920 see a lot of white folks that could operate like that, 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:40.360 but we have the stigmentation that's put on us as 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:42.560 far as like having baby fathers and baby mothers, and 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:44.800 it's just been this negative energy and that and that 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:49.040 that can't that that energy can't exist. And you shouldn't 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:51.800 have to be honest too in community. Got to be 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:54.960 honest in your emotions and you know, and and and 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:59.000 luggage or old feelings you may be carrying or you 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:01.120 know what I'm saying, like plays a role in it too. 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:04.119 And I feel like that my son's father and I 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:06.880 were we're like best friends. It took us a while 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:09.120 to get there. But when I tell people that, they'd 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:14.160 be like, what, Yeah, it's like it shouldn't be a surprise, shouldn't. 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.560 I'm like, why not? We're you know, we were best 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:18.960 friends when we were together. You know, we had our 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:22.800 issues breaking up and now you know it's it's been 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:26.640 almost eight years and we're good friends. Right, you know, 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:29.480 you get through it, you got to. I want to 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:31.480 ask you this. I had a debate with the guys 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:35.880 on the morning show about this, right, and my whole 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:38.200 thing was I always feel like, for me, relationships have 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:43.120 always worked best when both parties are very independent people 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:46.439 but choose to come together and be able to depend 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:47.959 on each other. But know that, like I can hold 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:50.880 it down, but I choose to rely on you for 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:53.800 certain things. Not that I have to, but because I 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:56.400 know I can. And they said that when you're in 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:59.960 a relationship, you can't be independent anymore. So I'm gonna 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:04.720 get your thoughts on that. Um. I think for for 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:08.440 male or females, you got to it's it's definitely important 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:12.839 to maintain your sense of independence. But whether you are 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:16.880 single or in a relationship, we all need somebody. We 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:19.440 all want something, you know what I'm saying, someone to 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:21.480 know that or at least know we had an option 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:25.040 of being able to lean on somebody, not just you know, 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:29.800 in a financial state, but emotionally, physically, spiritually, you know, 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:32.200 bounce ideas off of you know what I mean, that 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:34.480 type of thing. So I think that you know, for 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:37.240 somebody to be you know, for for for a brother, 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.520 I didnybody just had an ice cold heart, stone heart. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:42.000 I don't need any buy that's like it's bullshit, you 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:44.360 know what I'm saying. Or for the for the independent 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:48.880 renaissance woman you know of today? Um, you know it's 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:52.880 it's just as much, you know, we all need something. 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:56.640 And women more attractive or do you think that they attractive? 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:59.240 They attracted to me? I think something up. Some of 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:01.440 them are at timing, hated by women that are in 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:03.640 a position of power, that make more money than them. 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:05.440 And and what happen, you know what I mean, Like 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:08.280 it's a it's a it's from when I'm hearing in 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:11.400 the streets like, yeah, it's a you know, but you 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:14.640 know I wanted them men. I don't. I'm not looking 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:16.880 for my lady to be my mama, like you know 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:20.040 what I'm saying. So you know, you've got that mentality 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.600 to floating out there where you know, a lot of 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:25.760 times we always you know, as men or we you know, 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:27.920 we're on we it's a lot of gold digging men 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:37.199 out here too. They thing together. They're like fucked up doctor, 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:39.160 now you know what I mean, And you know they 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:41.480 live in off of a woman. You know what I'm saying. 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:44.079 And it's like, you know, but I feel like that's 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:47.079 why it's important to be independent because we're not really 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:50.000 necessarily independent, but be able to stand on your own too, 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:53.640 because what happens if we're together and you're the provider 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:56.560 and you fall off and I'm not, I'm here depending 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:58.360 on you. Never where do we stand? You know what 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:00.800 that means? So I feel like it great if you 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:03.120 can pick up the pieces when they're able to drop 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:04.960 it too. So I feel like you do have to 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:07.319 have a sort of independence and do things on your 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:10.000 own because it will benefit the relationship for y'all together. 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:13.400 I feel like two holy independent people that come together 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:16.360 that he is a power couple. Well you know what 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:20.480 they say most relationships and don't thrive because of either 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:25.160 finance or sex. Right, So yeah, and I like, you 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:27.160 can be a part of the team and still be independent, 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:28.839 Like I could be a star player and still part 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:30.439 of it. I think I feel like that when a 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:32.360 guy does When I was listening to you, which you 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:34.480 was kind of trying to let them know, like you 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:36.880 can be independent and doesn't mean that you're not a 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:38.360 part of this. It's not saying I don't need you 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:40.520 out of you, I'm gonna do everything myself, but it's 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:43.079 saying I can handle a business regardless, I can help you. 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:45.600 And I think for me, I know how if I 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:47.920 really care about somebody, that I allow them to help me. 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:50.360 And that's how you know you really care, because it's 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:52.720 hard for me to take help from people unless I 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:55.160 have strong feelings for them. But other than that, I 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:56.559 don't want something from me because I don't want to 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:59.440 feel like I owe somebody something unless I care about 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:01.880 them too, right, you know. And then I also think 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:03.640 it's a red flag when a guy wants you to 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:05.520 give up your independence, like if he's like oh, I 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:07.280 don't want you to work anymore because he wants to 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:09.800 control you. That's a control. I don't want you to 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:11.480 go out with your friends, stay home and do this, 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:14.840 Like I think that's weird and I'm not really going 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:17.000 for that. And I'm not saying that if you're like, oh, 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.080 stay home and me is you know tonight I'm not 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:21.080 feeling well. Of course I'm gonna do that. But if 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:22.959 you just don't want me to go out and take 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:26.000 of me both at him. Have you ever told anybody woman, 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:28.560 I want to courage independence. I'm gonna hustle. I'm gonna 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:30.120 go get it. I gotta make moves. I got things 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.760 to do as a lot of people rely on me, 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:36.000 so I need that that energy kind of kind of 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:37.640 kind of be the same. If you're not moving, or 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:41.960 you're not you don't have your own business or you know, um, 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:43.839 it could be an appetite for destruction, you know what 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:47.160 I'm saying, Like, you know, um, I'm gonna work hard, 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:51.440 play hard kind of guy like and that. 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I'm supposed 0:23:15.359 --> 0:23:17.680 to be only talk when I say one night stand, 0:23:18.280 --> 0:23:20.760 not literally in the same same night, met the person 0:23:21.000 --> 0:23:23.240 that night and will have you. But it was kind 0:23:23.240 --> 0:23:25.000 of like, hey, like my only tension was to be 0:23:25.080 --> 0:23:28.800 with you intimately, intimately one time, your brands out one 0:23:28.840 --> 0:23:32.760 time and had one up on you, or I didn't anticipate. 0:23:33.200 --> 0:23:35.760 You know what I'm saying is being turned into a 0:23:35.800 --> 0:23:39.520 relationship or situation, ship or whatever you wanna. So you 0:23:39.560 --> 0:23:42.800 must have been after that first time too, right, because 0:23:42.800 --> 0:23:46.040 you stuck around for you to follow up. It was 0:23:46.040 --> 0:23:48.359 worth your time, Yeah, it's worth Yeah, it's really about 0:23:49.040 --> 0:23:50.520 you hit it right on the No, it's really about 0:23:50.560 --> 0:23:53.840 what's worth your time, what keeps your interests? You know, 0:23:55.000 --> 0:23:59.399 for me personally, what is the best trick on woman's 0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:01.280 ever done to you that you're like damn. I never 0:24:01.320 --> 0:24:06.159 experienced something like that before. It was just kind of 0:24:06.240 --> 0:24:11.520 be like where they put your entire endowment, trot down 0:24:11.560 --> 0:24:24.960 the throat like bowls, shaft cut the apples, what kind 0:24:24.960 --> 0:24:29.600 of challenges that or you or you walk in or 0:24:29.680 --> 0:24:33.679 you walk in and it's like, okay, there's more bodies 0:24:33.720 --> 0:24:39.280 than you expected. Okay, So that not a plan one 0:24:39.400 --> 0:24:44.240 like a surprise threesoth not a plan for some body. Yeah, 0:24:44.600 --> 0:24:47.360 kind of like situation. I thought it was a threesome 0:24:47.560 --> 0:24:49.600 ended up being a five song. You think you could 0:24:49.640 --> 0:24:51.280 be with one woman for the rest of your life 0:24:51.280 --> 0:24:57.760 and just one woman only? Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, 0:24:57.840 --> 0:25:00.439 I mean I'm learning more about myself every day, you 0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:04.560 know what I'm saying, Like, um, yeah, if it's for 0:25:04.600 --> 0:25:09.080 the right reasons, it's in the right woman and you know, updated, 0:25:09.480 --> 0:25:14.920 updated women who who want monogagy, outdated women who are 0:25:14.960 --> 0:25:18.399 in a swing, and outdated women who you know. I mean, 0:25:18.440 --> 0:25:20.280 I guess it is either one or the other, right, 0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:27.760 So it really just depends on I'm learning how I 0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:29.920 can't you gotta you know, you gotta learn that that 0:25:29.920 --> 0:25:31.960 that sexes and everything though, you know what what I'm saying, 0:25:31.960 --> 0:25:34.520 it plays a big factor. But It's really about what 0:25:34.600 --> 0:25:38.560 you what you want, what you gravitate to, how disciplined 0:25:38.640 --> 0:25:40.440 you could be, you know what I'm saying, and understanding 0:25:40.480 --> 0:25:42.320 that everything you see ay mean for you to touch. 0:25:43.119 --> 0:25:47.280 You know what I mean. It's it's a it's a 0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:49.360 challenge though, you know what I'm saying. Like women, that's 0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:53.399 a challenge from that. Ain't no secret like somebody spoken, 0:25:55.080 --> 0:25:58.120 you know what I mean. So like I love everything 0:25:58.119 --> 0:26:02.200 about a woman, petit, plus size, whatever. You know what 0:26:02.200 --> 0:26:04.080 I'm saying, like bring it, you know what i mean. 0:26:04.200 --> 0:26:07.360 Like it's just like when when when you know, when 0:26:07.359 --> 0:26:10.600 the creator made y'all like ship Man, he showed up. 0:26:11.000 --> 0:26:17.280 I feel about the man, you know, like that's so perfect. 0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:20.080 You feel like that's more dangerous somebody that doesn't have 0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:24.719 a particular type dangerous you know, I mean, could be 0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:29.760 that he would never actually gives you that. It actually 0:26:29.760 --> 0:26:33.120 gives you potential to more variety and in a good way, 0:26:33.280 --> 0:26:35.520 you know what I'm saying, Like not having a type. 0:26:35.520 --> 0:26:38.240 I don't have like a physical type. It's a I 0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:40.360 have a type, but it ain't a physical type. It's 0:26:40.400 --> 0:26:47.680 like a it's one of them without word conversation things, chemistry, Yeah, 0:26:47.760 --> 0:26:50.600 it's a it's a it's a kind of a conversation 0:26:50.640 --> 0:26:53.800 piece that happens like finishing your sentences and just kind 0:26:53.800 --> 0:26:55.720 of like or you just know, you know what I mean, 0:26:56.080 --> 0:26:58.720 you just don't. It's a thing about it. It's you know, 0:26:58.800 --> 0:27:01.080 I talked about it all the time. Songs and like 0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:09.200 pheromones and and and energy is really like a magnet. 0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:14.680 I'm a firm believer that women know within thirty seconds 0:27:14.680 --> 0:27:18.399 to a minute whever they need to like run for 0:27:18.480 --> 0:27:21.680 the hills with their panties like I'm I'm like, I'm 0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:25.199 a suck this nigger at some point, I like, you know, 0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:28.080 and it might be before I should do it. Morally, 0:27:29.400 --> 0:27:32.040 I should not this one fucker and next hat me 0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:36.840 two hours so let me whatever or that, like you 0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:41.200 are forever friend zone. He absolutely is just not happening. 0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:43.720 We think we know, but it never turns out the 0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:46.800 way that we Yeah, I would love to believe that 0:27:46.880 --> 0:27:58.600 we know, but there's been a couple of surprises here, 0:27:58.720 --> 0:28:10.120 like first met and you're like never and back Now. 0:28:10.520 --> 0:28:12.679 Is there such a thing as whack pussy like it 0:28:12.760 --> 0:28:16.280 just doesn't feel good physically called whack pussy corp, pussy 0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:24.399 corps experience or like like where it was kind of 0:28:24.440 --> 0:28:28.240 like want some like you got up from like damn, 0:28:28.359 --> 0:28:31.080 you just wanted to just you just wanted to be 0:28:31.119 --> 0:28:33.600 able to say that you hit, you know what I'm saying. 0:28:34.359 --> 0:28:36.720 But like the actual physical on top of that, it 0:28:36.800 --> 0:28:39.640 wasn't good. It's like a wasted you know, not good. 0:28:39.640 --> 0:28:42.680 It's like dry just not just a wasted just like 0:28:42.760 --> 0:28:46.160 it's an energy thing you know, didn't click like you 0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:49.000 know what I'm saying, Texas chemistry to it. You have 0:28:49.200 --> 0:28:54.920 to have a camera state or the proper the proper conversations. 0:28:54.920 --> 0:28:57.720 Ain't you call it the naked tank go for no reason? 0:28:57.960 --> 0:28:59.920 You gotta like really be in tune with the per 0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:04.480 sending rights move But he's somebody that I think is 0:29:04.520 --> 0:29:07.240 like has the best sex ever. And then someone else 0:29:07.280 --> 0:29:10.400 that I have them and they're like it was just 0:29:11.880 --> 0:29:14.080 maybe it was just whatever because they was trashed though too. 0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:17.440 How about that that could be like, yeah, that's how 0:29:17.480 --> 0:29:19.240 you got the phone on. I learned a long time 0:29:19.280 --> 0:29:22.280 ago not to have him to put sexual you get 0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:25.240 the man. What about somebody? What about somebody whose person 0:29:25.320 --> 0:29:28.560 whose personality you hated but their sex was good? Does 0:29:28.600 --> 0:29:32.600 that happen of course, like somebody just kind of get 0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:34.800 on your nerves. I don't think I can get to 0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:37.000 that part. You know, y'all don't know. You don't learn it. 0:29:37.200 --> 0:29:39.480 You know, you don't click other than in the bedroom, right, 0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:42.640 you know what I mean? Like, yeah, I think I 0:29:42.640 --> 0:29:45.040 think men can do that more than women, because yeah, 0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:48.479 I thought there probably was one guy I wouldn't even say. 0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:50.520 I dated him when I was younger, and he was 0:29:50.560 --> 0:29:53.120 really getting bad. But he was whack. See that's how 0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:58.240 I He was just corny, like he thought he was 0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:02.120 mad cool. He always had his sunglasses up here. Oh yeah, 0:30:02.400 --> 0:30:09.000 you can't, Obama. I was like, what are you doing? 0:30:09.680 --> 0:30:13.040 I had a situation where the guy wasn't intelligent enough 0:30:13.040 --> 0:30:15.720 for me, and I didn't learn that until being around 0:30:15.760 --> 0:30:18.840 him more and more intelligent. 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Some people say, though you make time 0:31:04.440 --> 0:31:06.120 for what you care about. Yeah, you make time for 0:31:06.120 --> 0:31:13.000 what you care about. But man like you, I agree 0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:15.640 with that. I mean, you make time for what you 0:31:15.680 --> 0:31:19.000 care about. I think it is such thing as as 0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:22.280 being too busy for a relationship. But sometimes we still 0:31:22.320 --> 0:31:26.480 want what we want. And sometimes I think that, uh yeah, 0:31:26.520 --> 0:31:30.440 we want what we want. And you know, men, we 0:31:30.640 --> 0:31:33.040 as men, sometimes we feel like we could tell a 0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:36.720 woman a lot of times, like we tell a woman, hey, 0:31:36.760 --> 0:31:39.760 like yo, I'm not ready for this, I'm not ready 0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:42.720 for a relationship. Or did we tell you right? And 0:31:42.760 --> 0:31:45.560 it's it's not like y'all harris, or or did you 0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:47.200 know that you so? But you know you got some 0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:50.360 you got some bomb pussy. So you're thinking, like my 0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:53.640 ship changes, I'm gonna change his mom. But sometimes guys 0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:55.280 be like I'm not ready, But then they bring you 0:31:55.320 --> 0:32:00.600 around their family with somebody else or whatever, whatever, whatever, 0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:03.960 whatever the ingredients soft for influence. You feel like I 0:32:04.040 --> 0:32:05.920 hear you name you, but you ain't never. You ain't never. 0:32:08.600 --> 0:32:10.480 I would treat you be like I'm gonna take you 0:32:10.560 --> 0:32:13.080 on vacation. I'm not ready for a relationship though, Oh, 0:32:13.120 --> 0:32:15.960 come meet my mom. Like guys do stuff like that. Well, 0:32:17.120 --> 0:32:19.400 you know, I'm working on I'm working on a book, 0:32:19.400 --> 0:32:20.960 and one of the things that will be in the book. 0:32:21.360 --> 0:32:23.080 You know what I'm saying, don't don't take my ship 0:32:23.200 --> 0:32:28.600 because I come find you. But it's scared. It's I've 0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:32.680 learned that you have to treat people. Don't treat the 0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:35.960 person you're dating like your girlfriend. Don't treat your girlfriend 0:32:36.080 --> 0:32:40.040 like your wife. M it's levels to the ship. How 0:32:40.040 --> 0:32:42.560 do you treat your girlfriend like your wife? You don't 0:32:42.680 --> 0:32:44.280 know what I'm saying, Like, what is that I treat 0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:46.920 the person that you're dating like your girlfriend like a girl, 0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:50.160 girlfriend like your wife, And don't treat a girlfriend like 0:32:50.160 --> 0:32:52.520 your wife. Everything is Every title has this title for 0:32:52.560 --> 0:32:54.640 your reason. I thought, like, my boyfriend chease me like 0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:59.960 his wife. So here's it. So here's a cat only 0:33:00.200 --> 0:33:03.880 only in the event. Only in the event you know, 0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:06.840 for you know, and it works on both sides. Offense 0:33:09.000 --> 0:33:11.920 only and if only an event of if there's the potential, 0:33:12.080 --> 0:33:13.760 you see that potential, you know what I'm saying. Then 0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:15.680 that's where it gets. That's where it's a blur line 0:33:16.280 --> 0:33:18.200 some guys hee did why It's like ship though too. 0:33:18.560 --> 0:33:21.240 Like what I'm saying is it's something it's women out here, 0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:24.400 you know, and men fucking on one another and they 0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:28.120 know they ain't got no attention being one another. Y'all 0:33:28.120 --> 0:33:30.479 know that ship, then keep it in God bless what 0:33:30.480 --> 0:33:34.080 al but like all the gas and and and you 0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:39.800 know what necessary and capping and then because what I 0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:45.200 have realized is that is that accountability is real. You 0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:47.560 know what I'm saying, And they're gonna hold you you know, 0:33:47.760 --> 0:33:49.760 you're some women out here that's gonna hold you accountable 0:33:49.800 --> 0:33:51.640 to what you say. It's something out here that's gonna 0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:54.360 hold you accountable to what you say and especially and 0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:57.920 they're gonna hold you accountable about what you say according 0:33:57.960 --> 0:34:00.280 to what you do. You know what I'm saying. And 0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:02.920 I'm one of the people that in business life love 0:34:03.000 --> 0:34:04.760 whatever that, but I don't knowld you accountable to what 0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:07.720 you tell? Me. It's how you, it's what you do. 0:34:07.920 --> 0:34:10.520 You know what I'm saying. Have you ever been a 0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:18.440 side piece? Yeah, I'm already single. Girls, Sometimes it's just easier, 0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:20.120 you know what I'm saying, Like you know, in the 0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:22.279 matters of dealing with matters of the heart and just 0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:24.560 like you know, y'a up in the side piece, like 0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:26.760 you a married woman or just a woman in a relationship? 0:34:27.400 --> 0:34:31.560 Do you let them fight that faith that fail fight 0:34:32.520 --> 0:34:37.080 and you like ask about right right? Oh wait to 0:34:37.200 --> 0:34:41.120 take this guy here? Come on? Cool? So do you 0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:44.359 like if they come to you like this happened? Way, 0:34:45.360 --> 0:34:48.279 would you let them confide in you, like as far 0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:51.080 as like they tell you about their personal their problems 0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:54.399 and they know you know why, because I'm so because 0:34:54.440 --> 0:34:56.399 I'm so trill with it. I feel like I feel 0:34:56.440 --> 0:34:59.080 like that's me hating on that on that name. Like 0:34:59.160 --> 0:35:01.279 you know what I'm saying, I don't want to give 0:35:01.320 --> 0:35:04.799 you unless we're in a unless we're unless unless we're 0:35:04.880 --> 0:35:11.000 the place a really really really like friendship where where 0:35:11.040 --> 0:35:13.440 where I know that you were Like that's a real 0:35:13.560 --> 0:35:16.000 slippery slope, you know what I'm saying. I don't want 0:35:16.000 --> 0:35:17.919 to be that guy to feel like and they could 0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:19.879 be like you know what I'm saying, I don't want 0:35:19.880 --> 0:35:22.640 to feel like that's hate, like whit you hate? You 0:35:22.680 --> 0:35:25.719 know what I mean? Like that, ain't you know that's 0:35:25.800 --> 0:35:29.279 kind of like breaking codes. I'm going but don't tell 0:35:29.280 --> 0:35:33.520 me about your relationship. I'm gonna somebody ever they were 0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:37.040 going to leave that man for you. Um, He's like, 0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:46.080 please don't. I didn't into like, you know, being with 0:35:46.280 --> 0:35:48.680 funking on somebody that that that belong to somebody else. 0:35:48.800 --> 0:35:50.920 Like you know what I mean, you've done it, but 0:35:50.960 --> 0:35:54.319 you're not into it. I mean, yeah, definitely I think 0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:56.480 or you don't or you don't know you know what 0:35:56.520 --> 0:35:58.719 I'm saying, Like you know what I'm saying kind of 0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:01.800 like it's like after the after thought. Oh, by the way, 0:36:03.160 --> 0:36:05.600 you know what I'm saying, I'm still with my baby father. 0:36:05.760 --> 0:36:07.520 Or by the way, you know what I mean, I 0:36:07.520 --> 0:36:11.480 have a boyfriend. Or by the way, I'm married, I'm married. 0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:16.080 What ship like I like, you know, it's a lot 0:36:16.080 --> 0:36:19.480 of people in the grave and in prison for you 0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:21.839 know what I'm saying. For pussy, Has anybody ever tried 0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:26.279 to put a baby on you that wasn't yours? Kind 0:36:26.280 --> 0:36:30.239 of like, yeah, it's a soft spot. You Listen to 0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:33.319 the first album. Listen to the first album, We're taking 0:36:33.360 --> 0:36:36.960 it Back, Go back. Listen to the first album. Listen 0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:38.759 to the lyrics to the first album. You know what 0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:42.960 I'm saying. Definitely, Yeah, I've been through that. Yeah, And 0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:45.239 that's a heart in your heart, in your heart, it'll 0:36:45.280 --> 0:36:47.680 have you, like you gotta be careful with that for 0:36:47.719 --> 0:36:49.480 any brother that's been out there, because they'll have you. 0:36:50.320 --> 0:36:52.440 It'll have you. You can you can you you might 0:36:52.480 --> 0:36:56.320 find yourself becoming like you know, hating women and hurting people, 0:36:56.440 --> 0:36:59.040 and you know what I'm saying, and then directly, you know, 0:36:59.320 --> 0:37:01.879 not when you don't, when you don't deal with that, 0:37:01.960 --> 0:37:04.240 you know what I mean? What they say, Um Mama's 0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:08.319 maybe pop Mama's baby papas maybe you know what I'm saying, Like, 0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:12.680 you know, so, yeah, I've definitely been through that. That 0:37:12.760 --> 0:37:15.560 would have to be devastating old. Yeah, to find out 0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:16.880 that you that you you know what I'm saying, You're 0:37:16.920 --> 0:37:21.040 going to uh, You're going to you know, uh rubbing 0:37:21.120 --> 0:37:24.520 bellies in the hospital visits and there and watch the 0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:27.359 baby coming out, just to find out that you know, 0:37:27.520 --> 0:37:30.080 that's not your child and not only just you, your family, 0:37:30.200 --> 0:37:33.279 your family, and I'm saying that had a baby, your 0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:36.799 mom and your dad, your daddy, like it's yeah, a 0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:38.840 friend of mine, he's a basketball player, and that happened 0:37:38.880 --> 0:37:41.719 to him and he when he was in um you know, 0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:45.320 went to college. His high school sweetheart. They got pregnant 0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:48.360 and when the baby came, they did the baby shower. 0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:52.439 All of that. Families knew each other always, and when 0:37:52.440 --> 0:37:54.920 the baby came, it wasn't his. But you know what, 0:37:56.040 --> 0:37:58.719 I've learned how to always and he's a fucking asshole 0:37:58.880 --> 0:38:04.719 ever since, you know, I to uh to try to 0:38:04.719 --> 0:38:08.359 look at things from both sides, right, And unfortunately it's 0:38:08.400 --> 0:38:11.120 some real funk up guys out there to make babies, 0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:13.719 don't have no intentions or whatever. So some so for 0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:16.319 the women out there, they might they might like, yo, 0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:18.719 you know what I mean. It's a good dude. I 0:38:18.719 --> 0:38:20.840 know he's gonna be a great dad. You know what 0:38:20.920 --> 0:38:23.239 I mean. It's very selfish to get it past. It's 0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:25.120 very it's very selfish, you know what I'm saying. But 0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:27.800 I hope it. I try to look at everything. Oh no, 0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:30.120 but they were high school sweethearts like that was supposed 0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:32.120 to be his gaze. See, but I think that that's 0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:34.680 probably what the woman is thinking, Like I really just 0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:42.279 hope it's him because she's she don't even know. Yeah, 0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:47.440 I mean like but like you not. But in those 0:38:47.480 --> 0:38:49.920 scenarios where you're like, yo, you know what I'm saying, 0:38:50.160 --> 0:38:53.120 what's up? Like they say my kid and they can 0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:54.480 and you say who the dad? And they can tell 0:38:54.520 --> 0:38:58.160 you the address? Then it's like all right, then you 0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:01.040 know what I mean, like what kind of get like 0:39:01.120 --> 0:39:03.560 on what kind of game you really playing? So how 0:39:03.560 --> 0:39:05.560 would you how do you think she should have handled 0:39:05.600 --> 0:39:08.399 that situation? Like told both of y'all, I'm not sure 0:39:08.400 --> 0:39:12.560 whose it is. Yeah, I mean at the day, nobody's 0:39:12.560 --> 0:39:14.879 ever gonna do. That's what I'm saying, Like I cant 0:39:15.560 --> 0:39:17.920 being like the end of the day, I've learned that, like, 0:39:19.120 --> 0:39:21.080 no matter how hard it is, because I've learned some 0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:23.480 valuable lessons when it comes to truth and and and 0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:27.480 lying and honesty. And it's just like that lie that 0:39:27.560 --> 0:39:31.160 you're trying to tell and eventually it just could just 0:39:31.160 --> 0:39:32.960 go a whole another way. I might have to clean 0:39:33.040 --> 0:39:42.879 the country, had a baby, see who would look like? 0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:49.320 And what? Hold on? Hold on? Hello? It's a caveat 0:39:49.400 --> 0:39:52.000 to that is what is she dealing with to do? 0:39:52.120 --> 0:39:53.960 What does she gotta type? And the dude look just 0:39:54.040 --> 0:39:58.120 like you, That's what I'm saying, she's gonna be. My 0:39:58.239 --> 0:40:01.800 father's both had types, and all of their mothers of 0:40:01.840 --> 0:40:03.880 their children look alike. And me and my siblings. You 0:40:03.880 --> 0:40:07.280 could look at us and not tell mother and father 0:40:07.760 --> 0:40:10.440 because we all look like that type. That's true, right, 0:40:10.560 --> 0:40:13.520 You better hope that traces. That's the only thing that 0:40:13.520 --> 0:40:17.120 we're gonna get away with. Asian one and a black 0:40:17.200 --> 0:40:20.560 one or a Spanish one and something else. I don't know, 0:40:20.760 --> 0:40:23.000 but it's you never know to still even with that, 0:40:23.000 --> 0:40:29.200 that's never strong. Yeah, So my parent is pale. Was 0:40:29.360 --> 0:40:31.960 the palest thing I ever seen. He was red. Now 0:40:32.000 --> 0:40:35.360 my mother is like a little browner than gi. Because 0:40:35.360 --> 0:40:38.080 sometimes one parent could be darker and the baby come 0:40:38.080 --> 0:40:40.040 out looking like that, and then the other kid come out. 0:40:41.640 --> 0:40:44.120 Children can also take the traits from their grandparents and 0:40:44.480 --> 0:40:47.440 out looking like nothing like, nothing like the one of 0:40:47.520 --> 0:40:58.680 the parents. That baby they come out singing, Yeah, that's 0:40:58.760 --> 0:41:02.080 run baby, all right. So what do you think are 0:41:02.200 --> 0:41:05.759 some things that you could do to be a better mate? Oh, 0:41:05.800 --> 0:41:09.200 by the way, I got brand new album out. It's 0:41:09.239 --> 0:41:12.640 called The Love Reunion. It's like the greatest ship ever 0:41:12.719 --> 0:41:14.520 for our be It's gonna go down in history. Is 0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:17.319 some of the greatest you know, a project that's like, 0:41:17.840 --> 0:41:20.920 it's my greatest body of work, my contribution to black music. 0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:24.240 You know what I'm saying. It's the soundtrack to like Relationship, 0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:28.680 your Bad Room Game, just the Beach, all of that, 0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:31.160 Like you know what I mean. It's it's definitely um 0:41:31.200 --> 0:41:34.120 with the reasurgence of r and being sold music, you know, 0:41:34.320 --> 0:41:36.680 black music is is I'm gonna ask you a question 0:41:36.680 --> 0:41:39.040 a minute, but I gotta get this out. Black music 0:41:39.160 --> 0:41:42.560 is the only our culture is the only cost is 0:41:42.600 --> 0:41:45.400 just guarding like where it's where it's treated as it 0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:50.160 as if it's disposable, you know what I'm saying. So 0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:53.160 we have to remember to reclaim. We got to reclaim art, 0:41:53.640 --> 0:41:59.560 our art and our culture and our existence um as 0:41:59.600 --> 0:42:05.000 blow girls as black radio depends on that. So don't 0:42:05.040 --> 0:42:06.520 you know what I'm saying. It's the only thing that's 0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:09.040 treated like you know what I'm saying. This it scarted. 0:42:09.120 --> 0:42:13.959 So again, It's available on all social media, all streaming platforms, 0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:17.319 all your mama pop stores. I'm one of those few 0:42:17.400 --> 0:42:21.240 artists still sell CDs. Very definitely came in with a CD. 0:42:23.200 --> 0:42:26.040 It's the number four selling the album this week. R 0:42:26.120 --> 0:42:30.640 B album Congratulations. You know we stream we streaming crazy 0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:34.080 right now. You're streaming crazy right now, not just one 0:42:34.080 --> 0:42:36.560 song on the entire album, you know what I mean? 0:42:36.640 --> 0:42:39.040 And yeah, brothers, you want to put that on. Just 0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:42.480 let that marinate. You know what I thought? You were 0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:46.000 just in South Africa to right. What's your question? We'll 0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:49.279 get back to that. What are some things that you 0:42:49.280 --> 0:42:51.560 think you could do better as a meet, Like if 0:42:51.600 --> 0:42:57.600 you could improve on some things about yourself and critique yourself, um, 0:42:57.640 --> 0:43:00.640 being being being, being open to the idea. It was 0:43:00.680 --> 0:43:10.719 just like, damn, damn man deep ask question right now? Um, 0:43:12.640 --> 0:43:14.120 what are some of the things I could feel like 0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:18.280 I could that would make me a better mate? Um? 0:43:18.320 --> 0:43:19.920 I don't know. I think that I'm kind of in 0:43:19.960 --> 0:43:25.040 that space where just understanding that everything takes us, you know, time? 0:43:25.560 --> 0:43:28.920 Are you open and patience? Am I open to work? Like? 0:43:28.960 --> 0:43:31.000 Are you open when you're with somebody? Are you open 0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:34.960 for love? Are you open to yeah? Like all of that. 0:43:35.000 --> 0:43:37.400 You know what I'm saying. It's just Uh, you know 0:43:37.440 --> 0:43:40.080 what it is. It's doing a better job here. It 0:43:40.200 --> 0:43:44.160 is doing a better job of of of juggling my 0:43:44.239 --> 0:43:49.200 career and understanding that, um, everything kind of has his 0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:51.359 time in this place. You know I'm saying, I'm very 0:43:51.360 --> 0:43:53.200 one dimensional. So one of the things that I know 0:43:53.280 --> 0:43:56.200 that like that, I um that it's still like a 0:43:56.280 --> 0:43:58.160 challenge for me that I know from Like, you know, 0:43:58.239 --> 0:44:03.160 my oldest my oldest son is a thirteen right, um 0:44:03.160 --> 0:44:07.880 pretty much, and uh I remember kind of like a 0:44:07.960 --> 0:44:09.840 time when his mom was just like yo, you just 0:44:09.920 --> 0:44:14.080 always like I'll just be in my own cold world, 0:44:14.640 --> 0:44:17.440 Like you know what I'm saying in terms of my 0:44:17.640 --> 0:44:19.640 career and the things that I feel like are like 0:44:20.200 --> 0:44:22.360 important to me. And sometimes you just gotta put the 0:44:22.400 --> 0:44:24.920 phone down some Sometimes you just gotta shut the phone 0:44:24.920 --> 0:44:27.120 down some sometimes you gotta you got have to appoint 0:44:27.200 --> 0:44:31.720 certain days to connect, to invest, to disconnect and invest 0:44:31.760 --> 0:44:35.360 into your your family, your children, your lady, you know 0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:37.600 what I'm saying, Your mom, your dad, you know what 0:44:37.600 --> 0:44:39.960 I'm saying. And that's something that I think I still 0:44:40.160 --> 0:44:44.480 struggle with to this day because I'm so uh passionate 0:44:44.520 --> 0:44:47.520 about what I do, and I think that I'm truly 0:44:47.560 --> 0:44:51.680 addicted to like making music, and what I do not 0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:54.279 not just not's not not so much the accolades of 0:44:54.320 --> 0:44:56.839 it and the fame or like you know, while I'm 0:44:56.880 --> 0:44:58.919 doing to get a piece of pussy or something like that, 0:44:59.160 --> 0:45:02.320 but so much as a like you know, I don't 0:45:02.360 --> 0:45:04.759 like I don't hit no clubs unless I'm getting paid 0:45:04.800 --> 0:45:06.759 in the bag to do it, you know what I mean, 0:45:06.800 --> 0:45:08.840 Like a lot of times I'm in a different city, 0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:11.520 like if it's the Oxen, she ain't gonna get going 0:45:11.560 --> 0:45:15.160 the club, or you know, hey, what's up, Zaddy, I'm 0:45:15.160 --> 0:45:17.719 trying to pull up like I'm being a studio, you 0:45:17.719 --> 0:45:19.319 know what I mean, Like or I'm gonna be doing 0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:22.960 some community work, or like I'm building a legacy, you 0:45:22.960 --> 0:45:26.319 know what I'm saying. And and I just I just 0:45:26.400 --> 0:45:29.879 really every before the world knew my name, I worked 0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:32.120 for Chevy Chase Bank. I work for Giant Food. I 0:45:32.160 --> 0:45:34.000 work for Food Action. The last job I had was 0:45:34.000 --> 0:45:37.359 a tower records. Like every job I ever had had 0:45:37.360 --> 0:45:39.520 me in customer service or whatever. But I know what 0:45:39.600 --> 0:45:41.680 hard work is since I was like the age thirteen 0:45:41.760 --> 0:45:43.799 fourteen years old, you know, so I try to dibble 0:45:43.840 --> 0:45:45.640 and dabble in the streets. I Saint quick. That was 0:45:45.760 --> 0:45:47.879 not for me, you know what I mean. Like, so 0:45:48.480 --> 0:45:50.480 all I know is hard work, you know what I'm saying. 0:45:50.520 --> 0:45:54.239 So sometimes I'm so consumed by the amount of people 0:45:54.280 --> 0:45:56.680 that I take care of and the people that depend 0:45:56.719 --> 0:45:58.560 on me, you know what I'm saying. It's like you 0:45:58.640 --> 0:46:00.919 lose sight of the fact that the people that really 0:46:00.960 --> 0:46:04.400 mattered to you most, they're hurting, they need you that, 0:46:04.560 --> 0:46:06.440 you know what I'm saying, and ain't about like just 0:46:06.480 --> 0:46:11.040 sending some money or situation. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, 0:46:11.200 --> 0:46:13.000 the most surreal thing for me in the last two 0:46:13.080 --> 0:46:16.840 years is having to you know, um, I believe in 0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:18.759 protecting my family and loved one, so I don't put 0:46:19.000 --> 0:46:22.160 their business completely out there, but I put a particular 0:46:22.200 --> 0:46:25.359 family member where I had to seek like get guardianship 0:46:25.360 --> 0:46:27.960 on them and go and and go and and I 0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:30.279 had my world. I had stopped everything that was moving 0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:33.200 in my world and go and take care of them 0:46:33.320 --> 0:46:35.959 and get them back white, you know what I mean. 0:46:36.520 --> 0:46:40.880 And that right there kind of like what's groundbreaking for 0:46:41.000 --> 0:46:43.399 me just because I because it was I was only 0:46:43.400 --> 0:46:45.520 one I could do it, you know what I'm saying 0:46:45.680 --> 0:46:47.960 it wasn't no sibling that could do it, and what 0:46:48.080 --> 0:46:50.120 you know what I mean, no other family member whatever. 0:46:51.200 --> 0:46:52.759 It was kind of I got the call like we 0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:57.319 think you're the only one that they can't make this happen. Yeah, 0:46:57.360 --> 0:46:59.600 regardless of what was going on, and and I had 0:46:59.600 --> 0:47:02.560 a lot on on at the time, but I made 0:47:02.560 --> 0:47:06.120 it my business to you know. And you know, sometimes 0:47:06.480 --> 0:47:10.360 when you're moving so fast, like the creator of universe 0:47:10.400 --> 0:47:13.040 will do things to grab your attention, you know what 0:47:13.080 --> 0:47:16.879 I'm saying, Just like just just just like the people 0:47:16.920 --> 0:47:19.640 to take you for granted right in your world, you 0:47:19.640 --> 0:47:22.600 know what I'm saying. Like so it's just like they'll 0:47:22.600 --> 0:47:24.880 grab their attention and be like yo, you know what 0:47:24.920 --> 0:47:27.520 I mean, Like you can't, you can't, so you sold. 0:47:27.560 --> 0:47:30.080 So So I think that that for me, there's still 0:47:30.080 --> 0:47:32.880 a work in progress. And that's something that definitely i'm 0:47:33.000 --> 0:47:35.960 you know, did I noticed a challenge that I have 0:47:36.080 --> 0:47:40.279 to work on? Okay, that's fair enough. Somebody told that 0:47:40.360 --> 0:47:43.360 you fall asleep right after said I'm getting drunk. Somebody 0:47:43.400 --> 0:47:45.440 said you fall asleep right after somebody told you that 0:47:51.560 --> 0:47:56.080 they're definitely tapping off first. That's how you know, you 0:47:56.120 --> 0:47:58.200 did a good job, right, ladies. When he fall asleep 0:47:58.280 --> 0:48:01.560 right afterwards, yeah, he knocked off not only what the 0:48:01.600 --> 0:48:17.680 feeder position? Oh yeah, leg over you just like just saying, damn, guys, 0:48:19.600 --> 0:48:21.479 do you mind like for a girl to do things 0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:23.360 like say, y'all about to get into it and she 0:48:23.520 --> 0:48:27.200 just sit on your face. I wish that would happen 0:48:29.080 --> 0:48:32.120 more women to be aggressive in the room. Oh yeah, definitely, 0:48:32.320 --> 0:48:34.640 you know what I'm saying Like that, it's all good. 0:48:35.160 --> 0:48:39.080 You know, it ain't too much we can't do. You know. See, 0:48:39.200 --> 0:48:41.480 we talked about this before about initiating more and being 0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:43.799 more aggressive, and that was my lesson that I learned. 0:48:43.800 --> 0:48:48.000 And I'm an extremist though, so so so it's got 0:48:48.040 --> 0:48:50.719 you gotta be careful because you're doing you're doing so much, 0:48:50.840 --> 0:48:52.520 you're doing this ship. And then they'd be like then 0:48:52.520 --> 0:48:53.839 when they're like, you know what I'm saying picking out 0:48:53.840 --> 0:48:57.560 combustions or like I'm a strength, like you know what 0:48:57.600 --> 0:49:02.360 i mean, Like, I'm just that's I've learned that about 0:49:02.360 --> 0:49:06.200 my personality. I have addictive personality and I'm I'm extremists, 0:49:06.480 --> 0:49:11.680 so I'm very I'm extremely competitive, right, so those can 0:49:11.719 --> 0:49:14.600 those things can be an appetite for destruction when you're 0:49:14.600 --> 0:49:18.640 talking about like sex and intimacy, because every person of 0:49:18.680 --> 0:49:22.239 all don't. I had to also learned to everybody don't 0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:25.319 deserve to be able to have to be able to 0:49:25.360 --> 0:49:32.280 have what I'm offering for you and you and you, 0:49:32.280 --> 0:49:36.600 you know what I mean. So like like preach everybody 0:49:36.680 --> 0:49:38.319 to learn that you know what I'm saying. That's still 0:49:38.400 --> 0:49:41.920 something that's like you know, work in progress and understanding it, 0:49:41.960 --> 0:49:44.239 you know what I mean. But like you know, I 0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:46.840 think that you know what you do as you do 0:49:46.880 --> 0:49:48.360 as boys, do you do as men? Do you know 0:49:48.360 --> 0:49:50.840 what I'm saying. Like, at the end of the day, Um, 0:49:50.880 --> 0:49:53.799 there's always multiple attractions to whatever. Again, it's about what 0:49:53.880 --> 0:49:56.320 you open to with your mate, what you're trying to explode, 0:49:56.320 --> 0:49:59.040 what you're trying to do. But you know, at the 0:49:59.120 --> 0:50:01.120 end of the day, I ain't a trophy for nobody, 0:50:01.680 --> 0:50:05.040 and women are not a trophy to be necessarily like 0:50:05.120 --> 0:50:08.520 conquident and just move on or just discarded, you know 0:50:08.520 --> 0:50:11.239 what I'm saying. And um, that's something that I had 0:50:11.239 --> 0:50:13.160 to learn to know what I'm saying. I think you know, 0:50:13.200 --> 0:50:16.400 I think that's any man needs to know that at 0:50:16.480 --> 0:50:19.279 least hear that and then you act accordingly from it. 0:50:19.320 --> 0:50:21.640 You know what I'm saying, what's the most orgasms you've 0:50:21.640 --> 0:50:24.560 ever had in a row? The most or the most 0:50:24.680 --> 0:50:28.560 orgasm orgasms I've ever had in a row? Yeah, like 0:50:28.600 --> 0:50:33.480 you just can't. I'm more, I'm I'm going to what 0:50:33.800 --> 0:50:36.719 how many she happen? You know what I'm saying, Like 0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:40.400 I can you know when it comes to like like 0:50:40.480 --> 0:50:44.359 can you can right after? What I'm saying is it's 0:50:44.400 --> 0:50:46.440 like if I'm coming and I don't come somewhere, you 0:50:46.560 --> 0:50:50.640 come and I'm not ready until after you Yeah, you 0:50:50.640 --> 0:50:54.920 know what I'm like Like for me, For me personally, 0:50:55.840 --> 0:50:59.319 the act of intimacy is about I'm totally I'm like 0:51:00.000 --> 0:51:01.759 on some pleasing, Like I'm you know what i mean. 0:51:02.440 --> 0:51:04.680 So I not to say that I'm not there to 0:51:04.800 --> 0:51:07.200 enjoy myself and have a good time. Right, That's what 0:51:07.280 --> 0:51:11.319 you enjoy is pleasing somebody that's not here. That's time man, 0:51:11.360 --> 0:51:12.880 I go know what I'm saying, They go make an 0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:18.880 album and you know what I'm saying, Like that seems 0:51:18.880 --> 0:51:22.640 like now? Now? What is not What is the best though, 0:51:22.760 --> 0:51:26.040 is when you encounter someone who got the same energy 0:51:26.320 --> 0:51:28.000 and that's when they can get all kind of like 0:51:28.160 --> 0:51:31.000 you know, and be like laid back. No, you laid 0:51:31.000 --> 0:51:37.960 back when it's really when it's really did when that 0:51:38.040 --> 0:51:40.400 point they got to say it, it it just kind of 0:51:40.440 --> 0:51:44.520 just yeah, just just you know what I'm saying, just 0:51:44.640 --> 0:51:47.480 kind of just it's just it's organic. Feel like you 0:51:47.520 --> 0:51:49.279 were in a great state of mind when you did 0:51:49.280 --> 0:51:51.759 this album. I'm in a great state of mind when 0:51:51.760 --> 0:51:55.759 I make music, and I make music daily. It's like, look, 0:51:55.840 --> 0:51:57.320 we walked in here as the studio. I'm trying to 0:51:57.360 --> 0:51:58.880 figure out I can get a couple of hours in 0:51:58.920 --> 0:52:01.600 here too late. Yeah, you got to before I leave here. 0:52:01.600 --> 0:52:04.120 You know what I'm saying, I wanna I wanna um 0:52:04.120 --> 0:52:07.200 so because because I'm constantly making music in real time 0:52:07.640 --> 0:52:11.120 um and I don't physically write anything down, and like 0:52:11.160 --> 0:52:14.399 we're dealing with real live emotions in that current state 0:52:14.520 --> 0:52:16.640 of how I feel. Typically, most of the time I 0:52:16.719 --> 0:52:19.720 make music is between the hours of like nine PM 0:52:19.880 --> 0:52:22.759 and nine am, you know, says they say some of 0:52:22.760 --> 0:52:26.279 the most the greatest time for creatives is between I 0:52:26.320 --> 0:52:29.600 don't know why, but they say between like three and 0:52:29.680 --> 0:52:33.239 four am, four am, And that's typically like when I'm 0:52:33.239 --> 0:52:35.799 in there, like yeah, when I'm in my zone, you 0:52:35.800 --> 0:52:37.879 know what I mean. So, um and I don't care 0:52:37.920 --> 0:52:39.920 like what I gotta do the next day, like if 0:52:39.960 --> 0:52:46.360 it's if it's morning news, taking kids in school, a flight, whatever, Um, 0:52:46.440 --> 0:52:48.799 I just gotta get it in like that's just it's 0:52:48.840 --> 0:52:50.480 just a part of me, you know what I'm saying. 0:52:50.640 --> 0:52:56.000 And um, so yeah, it's it's it's it's just so 0:52:56.000 --> 0:52:58.120 so it makes it easy to put out albums I got, 0:52:58.160 --> 0:53:00.400 Like I gotta vote, I got fifteen is where for 0:53:00.520 --> 0:53:06.200 music already recorded? Damn you listen, listen. This is the 0:53:06.239 --> 0:53:08.600 second album I dropped. This is seventh album, but this 0:53:08.600 --> 0:53:10.800 is the second album I dropped in the last not 0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:14.719 in the last eight nine eight months. So like I'm 0:53:14.719 --> 0:53:17.399 on my second decade. I'm gonna be a problem out here. 0:53:18.280 --> 0:53:22.719 And for far too long I've been purposely I will 0:53:22.760 --> 0:53:26.480 admit I've been purposely dimming my life or like not 0:53:26.520 --> 0:53:31.520 out of insecurity, but just yeah and and and I'm 0:53:31.560 --> 0:53:33.560 still humble. But it's a time and a place for that. 0:53:34.160 --> 0:53:36.000 And I know that I'm I know that, I know 0:53:36.080 --> 0:53:40.440 that I know I'm tapped into my inner goat is 0:53:40.480 --> 0:53:43.160 ums and I know that I know. I'm great at 0:53:43.160 --> 0:53:44.759 what I do and I'm one of the greatest of 0:53:44.760 --> 0:53:48.000 my generation. You know what I'm saying, And I don't. 0:53:48.120 --> 0:53:50.879 It's not a Grammy that that needs that I need 0:53:50.920 --> 0:53:53.719 to tell me that. It ain't a BT Award that 0:53:53.760 --> 0:53:59.280 I need to tell me that my team can change, manager, management, wise, agents, whatever. 0:53:59.360 --> 0:54:10.799 He loves you guys. But the only thing I really 0:54:10.800 --> 0:54:14.120 care about is a connection that I make with my 0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:15.759 with with with the with the with the with the 0:54:15.800 --> 0:54:18.919 consumer and in the music level, you know what I'm saying. 0:54:18.920 --> 0:54:20.799 And I and I and I was doing that before, 0:54:20.920 --> 0:54:23.080 long before it was cool to do it. You know 0:54:23.080 --> 0:54:25.839 what I'm saying. Now you gotta almost damn near do it. 0:54:26.400 --> 0:54:28.760 And you know, you know what I mean because between 0:54:29.200 --> 0:54:31.480 social and that's why you see so many artists crashing 0:54:31.520 --> 0:54:34.560 and burning, because it's just like it's just like a 0:54:34.640 --> 0:54:36.880 dog when they can smell fear, you know what I'm saying. 0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:39.120 And it's just like, you know, people come up on 0:54:39.160 --> 0:54:40.719 you and they can they can they can sense that 0:54:40.800 --> 0:54:42.600 you the real deal? Are you not the real deal? 0:54:42.880 --> 0:54:45.320 Are you fooling You're fooling the people? You know what 0:54:45.360 --> 0:54:48.520 I'm saying, Like you know the big I always say, 0:54:48.560 --> 0:54:52.800 like open mics and stuff like that always expose artists 0:54:53.800 --> 0:54:56.439 and musicians because you can go to an open mic 0:54:56.440 --> 0:54:58.640 and you can take the best of the best and 0:54:59.000 --> 0:55:02.440 let it look and and let let let an improvisational 0:55:02.480 --> 0:55:07.040 moment happen, and you will see who's contrived, who's the 0:55:07.080 --> 0:55:10.520 real deal, who's the student of they cry? Who the 0:55:10.560 --> 0:55:16.040 real musicians are, who can crytrol comfortable in a skin? Who? 0:55:16.200 --> 0:55:18.000 You know what I'm saying, that's across the board, whether 0:55:18.000 --> 0:55:21.160 you're talking pop, country, hip hop, R and B or 0:55:21.160 --> 0:55:24.080 what have you. So, Um, you know, I'm done dim 0:55:24.080 --> 0:55:27.360 in my light? And and you know, and and and 0:55:27.400 --> 0:55:29.360 everything has its time and has this course, you know 0:55:29.400 --> 0:55:31.400 what I mean. Yeah, I'm glad you're not dim in 0:55:31.440 --> 0:55:33.560 your light no more. No, it's just you know, it's 0:55:33.640 --> 0:55:36.520 it's it's there's no reason to man, you know what 0:55:36.600 --> 0:55:40.320 I mean, Like, it's it's it's time. But everything everything 0:55:40.360 --> 0:55:42.799 happens when they're supposed to. Because you've been consistent for 0:55:42.840 --> 0:55:45.640 such a long time and putting out such great music. 0:55:45.680 --> 0:55:47.760 Are you selling any of these songs to other artists? 0:55:48.239 --> 0:55:50.560 It's funny you say that. I think my biggest flaw 0:55:51.320 --> 0:55:54.640 during my career is being selfish with my brand and 0:55:54.160 --> 0:55:56.480 bring selfish with my sound. I think I have a 0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:59.879 very distinct sound. Um, and now I'm ready to get 0:55:59.880 --> 0:56:02.840 it to the world. Meaning any artists you want to 0:56:02.840 --> 0:56:04.200 go on the studio, you want me to do an 0:56:04.200 --> 0:56:07.080 album on you ep, whatever, like, let's get it. You 0:56:07.120 --> 0:56:09.719 know what I'm saying. I'm currently working on a number 0:56:09.800 --> 0:56:13.080 of things. Um. One of the projects I'm super excited 0:56:13.120 --> 0:56:16.520 about is v Boseman. You know what I'm saying right now? Yeah, 0:56:16.560 --> 0:56:18.640 so we're in the studio. Have you working on her project? 0:56:18.920 --> 0:56:20.759 And it's not just limited to a song, it's a 0:56:20.800 --> 0:56:25.040 body of work. It's a sound. You know what I mean? Um? Uh. 0:56:25.719 --> 0:56:29.000 Sister by the name of Yasa Um. You may remember 0:56:29.040 --> 0:56:32.560 Grenique from being on Motown and just like, um, it's 0:56:32.600 --> 0:56:34.520 a it's a it's a it's a plethor of artists. 0:56:34.520 --> 0:56:38.399 And I'm working with right now. UM, different things. But 0:56:39.120 --> 0:56:40.759 you know I've worked with you know, I wrote, I 0:56:40.760 --> 0:56:43.440 wrote and worked with Usher in the past, Jamie Fox, 0:56:43.800 --> 0:56:47.640 you know, contributed to t paying projects. UM. I feel 0:56:47.640 --> 0:56:49.960 like you would be really good with are Lennox? Oh, 0:56:50.040 --> 0:56:54.000 I would look so, but already don't mean look, but 0:56:54.280 --> 0:56:57.080 it'd be it'll happen to time. I know already before 0:56:57.080 --> 0:57:01.040 the world knew. Yeah yeah, and she's allays been, man, 0:57:01.640 --> 0:57:04.640 I think that as so. So I'm so happy for her, 0:57:05.040 --> 0:57:10.520 like you know what I'm saying. And it's crazy like 0:57:10.840 --> 0:57:13.080 to now look up or be on the charts with 0:57:13.200 --> 0:57:17.160 like the r Lennoxes of the world. Um, you know, 0:57:17.400 --> 0:57:21.160 Daniel Caesar's you know, you know, have a great first 0:57:21.200 --> 0:57:23.840 week and you know see my name, you know, right 0:57:23.880 --> 0:57:27.800 next to Chris Brown or Kurt Franklin or or whoever right, 0:57:27.960 --> 0:57:31.640 and it's like wow, like it speaks to it speaks 0:57:31.680 --> 0:57:33.920 to staying power stas too, like when you stick to 0:57:33.960 --> 0:57:39.480 your guns. Like at some point it's they catch up, 0:57:39.600 --> 0:57:43.040 you know what I'm saying. And for me, Um, someone 0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:45.720 who I really love and respect, who is like a 0:57:45.760 --> 0:57:49.760 mentor to me and on so many levels is Doug 0:57:49.760 --> 0:57:53.320 you fresh. We got a great relationship. And I remember 0:57:53.320 --> 0:57:54.960 one time you put me to the side. He said 0:57:55.320 --> 0:57:57.000 you're the last one, bro, and I didn't know what 0:57:57.040 --> 0:57:59.520 he meant. I understand what he meant, but now I 0:57:59.520 --> 0:58:00.960 know what he meant. You put on the radio and 0:58:00.960 --> 0:58:03.680 it was like, yeah, I know what, So I know 0:58:03.720 --> 0:58:05.640 what he meant. You know what I'm saying. And so 0:58:05.720 --> 0:58:07.640 for me, it's a it's the concept of the last 0:58:07.680 --> 0:58:12.200 man standing effect. I understand that this that for me creatively, 0:58:12.560 --> 0:58:15.120 it's a marathon. It's not a sprint. And as long 0:58:15.120 --> 0:58:17.680 as you keep moving, you know, you get on the 0:58:17.720 --> 0:58:19.680 track and you just keep moving. You sprint when you 0:58:19.720 --> 0:58:22.000 need to, you slow down your distance, run when you 0:58:22.080 --> 0:58:25.080 need to, you might even walk. But you never stopped moving, 0:58:25.760 --> 0:58:26.920 you know what I'm saying. If you never and as 0:58:26.960 --> 0:58:29.080 long as you never stopped moving, you know, you start 0:58:29.120 --> 0:58:32.640 looking to the side. Fucker's run out of breath. They 0:58:32.680 --> 0:58:34.560 just stopped for a minute to take that breath. If 0:58:34.600 --> 0:58:37.880 I never stopped moving, you know what I mean. Yeah, 0:58:38.040 --> 0:58:40.240 So so it's it's it's the last man standing the 0:58:40.360 --> 0:58:45.080 fact um, you know, and the type of the oppo 0:58:45.080 --> 0:58:49.720 sitting on so much music, like yeah, when we anticipate 0:58:49.800 --> 0:58:51.760 no in on time with the mass anything. I mean, 0:58:51.800 --> 0:58:55.080 ain't claiming nothing like that, but like it's a lot 0:58:55.120 --> 0:58:57.880 of music. You mentioned Chris Brown just now, So what 0:58:58.000 --> 0:59:01.000 do you think about the whole situation he's going through 0:59:01.120 --> 0:59:04.200 with the words that he used, Because you don't use 0:59:04.600 --> 0:59:07.680 words like that in your songs. Chris is from a 0:59:07.680 --> 0:59:11.600 different generation. I love Chris. Chris we had the same birthday. 0:59:11.680 --> 0:59:13.880 So that's my brother. You know what I'm saying, that's 0:59:13.920 --> 0:59:16.280 my brother. And at the end of the day, Um, 0:59:16.320 --> 0:59:18.080 I love him. I remember the day that Chris walking 0:59:18.440 --> 0:59:20.440 and was walked in the job like I remember the 0:59:20.520 --> 0:59:23.120 day he signed it. He was there, bright eyed bush 0:59:23.120 --> 0:59:27.680 he telled now. So at the end of the day, Um, 0:59:27.760 --> 0:59:30.000 the trials and tribulations of life are just what they are, 0:59:30.440 --> 0:59:32.400 you know what I'm saying. And he has he has 0:59:32.440 --> 0:59:34.320 to do. He has to run his course of life 0:59:34.360 --> 0:59:38.360 just like I have to run mine. And regardless of 0:59:38.400 --> 0:59:41.160 like the pitfalls or the highs and lows. One thing 0:59:41.160 --> 0:59:43.640 you can't take fromm is that he's a conic, you 0:59:43.640 --> 0:59:45.160 know what I'm saying. And he has it. He has it, 0:59:45.440 --> 0:59:47.880 he has to take his journey just you know. So 0:59:49.120 --> 0:59:51.960 you know I'm big homie to that. You know what 0:59:52.000 --> 0:59:56.200 I'm saying. From afar Um, the people that are around 0:59:56.200 --> 1:00:01.040 you can either build you up or tear you down, 1:00:01.080 --> 1:00:03.760 you know what I'm saying. So, Um, you know, I 1:00:03.800 --> 1:00:08.120 don't know who is who? Who is uh? Voice voice 1:00:08.120 --> 1:00:10.760 of reason is you know what I'm saying around him, 1:00:11.360 --> 1:00:14.000 but definitely you know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta 1:00:14.080 --> 1:00:17.960 keep the right people around you that you trust, but 1:00:18.040 --> 1:00:20.080 you got to also be willing and be open to 1:00:20.120 --> 1:00:24.560 the idea with somebody say a bro like, Hey, that 1:00:24.600 --> 1:00:27.400 ain't a good mood. You know what I'm saying. And 1:00:27.400 --> 1:00:30.160 if there's nobody telling you that, then you might have 1:00:30.200 --> 1:00:31.800 a lot of people around you don't give a funk 1:00:31.840 --> 1:00:34.760 about you. It's hard with social media though, because people 1:00:35.240 --> 1:00:37.240 it's fine and there's nothing no one could do about it. Yeah, 1:00:37.280 --> 1:00:39.280 you know what I mean. So so, but I get it. 1:00:39.320 --> 1:00:41.880 I'm I'm a tourist. It's it's so many times I 1:00:41.920 --> 1:00:45.400 want to like wile out or speak or speak my 1:00:45.440 --> 1:00:48.040 mind or really say how I feel you know what 1:00:48.040 --> 1:00:51.160 I'm saying, or really call people out on different things 1:00:51.280 --> 1:00:56.400 or whatever. You know what I mean, I'll be at 1:00:56.400 --> 1:00:58.920 the end of the day. It's an old saying when 1:00:58.960 --> 1:01:01.360 people say like, hey, man, how are you feeling to day? Man, 1:01:01.400 --> 1:01:04.040 I'm cool if I had a complaint when nobody want 1:01:04.040 --> 1:01:07.360 to hear it anyway, you know what I'm saying. So 1:01:07.360 --> 1:01:10.360 so it's it's ask how you feeling? You really tell them, 1:01:12.760 --> 1:01:23.880 like they'd be like, man, goddamn how you feel. And 1:01:24.120 --> 1:01:26.680 guess what they're gonna go. They're gonna go hug somebody else, 1:01:26.680 --> 1:01:29.400 text somebody else to tell them you're bad news. So 1:01:29.440 --> 1:01:32.480 you gotta be careful those that bring you bad news. 1:01:33.040 --> 1:01:35.760 And really it's just about the company you keep. And 1:01:35.800 --> 1:01:38.360 if that means you gotta stand alone, walk along a 1:01:38.360 --> 1:01:46.200 lot of time, you see me, I'm what alone, So 1:01:46.520 --> 1:01:49.880 I'm never alone alone. I got the creative with me. 1:01:49.920 --> 1:01:51.360 And it's a lot of people out here that love me, 1:01:51.440 --> 1:01:53.800 you know, but but I'm not nai to It's a 1:01:53.840 --> 1:01:56.480 lot of people that you know, success breathe, envy and 1:01:56.560 --> 1:01:59.760 jealousy and whatever. You know what I'm saying. So it's 1:02:00.040 --> 1:02:03.880 um again, man, you know, I ain't got nothing bad 1:02:03.960 --> 1:02:07.720 say about Chris. It's just it's it's it's really about 1:02:08.040 --> 1:02:10.840 at the end of the day. Um, I'm sure he 1:02:10.920 --> 1:02:14.480 loved himself, It's really really the real question is how 1:02:14.520 --> 1:02:16.840 many of them people around him really love him and 1:02:17.000 --> 1:02:20.240 really got his best interests and really are the voice 1:02:20.240 --> 1:02:24.240 of reason and whatever. The more the people that you 1:02:24.280 --> 1:02:26.320 know what I'm saying, because I'll sit back and watch 1:02:26.360 --> 1:02:29.919 the show still and watched the fireworks and then get 1:02:29.960 --> 1:02:33.040 your check. And you know what I'm saying, So you know, 1:02:33.360 --> 1:02:36.280 and I think that that's something that we as artists, 1:02:36.880 --> 1:02:38.400 you know, it's artists a lot of times, man, we 1:02:38.440 --> 1:02:41.840 tort your souls because we give so much. We pour 1:02:41.960 --> 1:02:44.400 so much into other people. We poured so much into 1:02:44.400 --> 1:02:47.600 the culture. But who's going it to us besides our kids, 1:02:47.600 --> 1:02:52.880 our beautiful kids. Even your parents will like take you 1:02:52.920 --> 1:02:54.640 through the ring for some of us, you know what 1:02:54.720 --> 1:02:58.160 I'm saying. So, like, you know, it's a lot of 1:02:58.200 --> 1:03:00.040 each other. It's a whole lot of things. Care I 1:03:00.080 --> 1:03:03.440 can't you know, I'm iconic in my own sense, but 1:03:03.480 --> 1:03:05.080 I can't imagine what it'd be like to be at 1:03:05.080 --> 1:03:06.920 that level. I think that's part of the reason. That's 1:03:06.960 --> 1:03:08.440 probably the reason why I kind of like them the 1:03:08.520 --> 1:03:11.840 light a little bit, you know what I mean, because 1:03:11.880 --> 1:03:13.760 I want to I want to be known. But I 1:03:14.160 --> 1:03:17.240 realized at the end of the day now where I'm at, 1:03:17.360 --> 1:03:19.200 like it ain't gonna happen, ain't or never. I was 1:03:19.280 --> 1:03:21.560 born to do what I do. This is my gift, 1:03:21.760 --> 1:03:23.720 and let it shine as bright as it do. And 1:03:23.760 --> 1:03:26.160 if that's what come with it, so be it. You 1:03:26.160 --> 1:03:28.680 know what I'm saying, but I'm gonna keep some real 1:03:28.720 --> 1:03:30.320 ones around me there. It could be like, hey, bro, 1:03:30.720 --> 1:03:35.280 that song whack, go back in the studio, get that right, 1:03:35.560 --> 1:03:37.800 you know what I'm saying, And it ain't a good 1:03:37.840 --> 1:03:39.880 movie you're about to make, or that ain't you need 1:03:39.880 --> 1:03:43.280 to take that down immediately, or that's how you're feeling cool, 1:03:43.360 --> 1:03:45.880 let's talk about it. Go get a counselor, or that's 1:03:45.880 --> 1:03:48.480 you know what I'm saying. But don't, don't, don't don't 1:03:48.480 --> 1:03:51.280 do that. You know well, they're saying, you gotta go 1:03:51.320 --> 1:03:53.280 because you have somewhere else to be. I got to go, 1:03:54.440 --> 1:03:56.080 That's what he said. It was like, we can we 1:03:56.080 --> 1:04:01.920 can talk now you reading? I can I come back? 1:04:01.960 --> 1:04:05.160 Did we get it back? Right? They're gonna give me 1:04:05.160 --> 1:04:10.640 a watch. Take your toys. We got some silicone Luver 1:04:10.720 --> 1:04:15.360 camp for you. This is your super I'm not gonna lock. 1:04:15.800 --> 1:04:17.960 I can clown you can. You can make a meme 1:04:18.000 --> 1:04:20.720 out of me. We're not making you. I think I'm 1:04:20.800 --> 1:04:22.680 I think I'm gonna use that that toy y'all gave 1:04:22.720 --> 1:04:26.000 me that. Give me a yall, y'all, I get your review. 1:04:27.000 --> 1:04:30.880 This is Jonna first you next time. Yeah, you gotta 1:04:30.920 --> 1:04:33.480 come in with the review I got, I got this 1:04:33.560 --> 1:04:35.720 little pussy pump and alug it's going. I got the 1:04:36.400 --> 1:04:43.640 right real lives, real love, get your real love, kid pussy. 1:04:48.920 --> 1:04:52.959 We gotta look at you that edition. Man. I wish 1:04:53.000 --> 1:04:54.960 I I would love to. I love to come back. 1:04:55.040 --> 1:04:58.760 You know you use that, you use that come back 1:04:58.800 --> 1:05:01.320 and we're gonna talk about all about now. But we 1:05:01.400 --> 1:05:03.000 had a great time. We appreciate you for coming. I 1:05:03.040 --> 1:05:04.880 didn't think he was really gonna show. I saw him 1:05:05.320 --> 1:05:08.680 with me and g and I was like, you gotta 1:05:08.720 --> 1:05:11.880 come to lip service. He said, Yeah, that's another thing 1:05:13.080 --> 1:05:15.920 I've been calling myself out on my on my following 1:05:16.000 --> 1:05:18.320 through game. Okay, you know what I'm saying, A lot 1:05:18.640 --> 1:05:21.000 you're getting better. Excuse me. A lot of times we 1:05:21.080 --> 1:05:25.160 don't we block our own blessings about just simply not 1:05:25.320 --> 1:05:30.600 following through on situations. Anover another chapter from the book. 1:05:30.840 --> 1:05:33.160 You know what I'm saying, what's the three grades? What's 1:05:33.160 --> 1:05:35.960 the three grades? The three greatest gifts that to create 1:05:36.080 --> 1:05:49.280 I'm and I'm like, I don't know. What's the three 1:05:49.400 --> 1:05:53.480 greatest gifts that the creator universe? We have you given us? 1:05:53.560 --> 1:05:58.320 In your opinion? The three greatest Yeah three three three 1:05:58.360 --> 1:06:10.280 gifts family, yeah, love. Okay, I'm going I'll break them 1:06:10.320 --> 1:06:13.880 down in the book. I'll break them down in the 1:06:13.920 --> 1:06:17.600 book though, the three things. Once I discovered these three things, 1:06:18.600 --> 1:06:22.080 it's like my whole world opened up, my whole universe, right, 1:06:22.520 --> 1:06:25.880 And it's the it's the it's the it's the three gators. Gifts, 1:06:25.920 --> 1:06:29.600 in my opinion, are the gift of time from the 1:06:29.680 --> 1:06:31.640 time we were born. We are running out of time, 1:06:32.320 --> 1:06:35.439 So it's the gift of time, right, It's the gift 1:06:35.480 --> 1:06:37.800 of free will and decision from the time we wake up. 1:06:37.880 --> 1:06:39.760 You can you can you can decide whether you're gonna 1:06:40.120 --> 1:06:41.680 be a no show with the lip service. You can 1:06:41.720 --> 1:06:43.720 decide you won't do the Breakface club or not. You 1:06:43.760 --> 1:06:48.240 can decide teeth, wash your ass, go be productive, get 1:06:48.280 --> 1:06:51.240 a bag, not get it bag whatever. Right, So it's 1:06:51.240 --> 1:06:55.280 the gift of time, um, the gift of decision, and 1:06:55.360 --> 1:06:57.280 the the last gift is a gift of one another, 1:06:58.360 --> 1:07:00.600 you know what I'm saying, And gift the relationship and 1:07:00.680 --> 1:07:03.400 really cultivating them. And a lot of times we had 1:07:03.480 --> 1:07:08.480 rooms with people, industry, ship, whatever, and you stand in 1:07:08.560 --> 1:07:11.960 necessary money and just because you ain't simply say hey, 1:07:12.040 --> 1:07:13.800 what's your name? Or what you do that? You never 1:07:13.920 --> 1:07:18.080 know what what they have to offer you, what you 1:07:18.160 --> 1:07:20.080 have to offer them, you know what I'm saying, And 1:07:20.200 --> 1:07:22.760 sometimes it ain't nothing. It's just a simple conversation where 1:07:22.760 --> 1:07:25.080 you can just say something and drop a jewel on them. 1:07:25.200 --> 1:07:27.720 Or motherfucker might just been thinking about jumping off a bridge. 1:07:28.600 --> 1:07:34.440 You know what I'm saying, because nobody acknowledges them. You 1:07:34.480 --> 1:07:37.000 know what I'm saying, anowledge, Yeah, you know what I mean. 1:07:37.120 --> 1:07:40.000 So again, you know, as long as we use the 1:07:40.040 --> 1:07:43.240 gift of time, free will and decision and one another 1:07:44.120 --> 1:07:51.919 properly is all good. So I'm definitely those are those 1:07:51.920 --> 1:07:53.760 are extensions of it for me, you know what I'm saying. 1:07:53.800 --> 1:07:58.840 But like it's really about um, you know, accountability and 1:07:58.960 --> 1:08:01.040 and of course you know on in my word like 1:08:01.160 --> 1:08:10.200 so definitely I'll be back. Yeah, yeah the pump you 1:08:10.320 --> 1:08:18.320 already got her put a tight than you alright, but 1:08:19.080 --> 1:08:21.760 make sure you all enjoy that. It's a great love 1:08:21.880 --> 1:08:24.680 making album. It's a great taking on vacation with you 1:08:24.920 --> 1:08:28.080 and y'all have a good time. It's definitely it's definitely 1:08:28.400 --> 1:08:31.000 uh contender for R and B. Soul Album of the 1:08:31.080 --> 1:08:34.200 Year at a decade of a lifetime. I think that 1:08:34.320 --> 1:08:37.360 this body of work is very special and it feels 1:08:37.439 --> 1:08:39.200 that way. You know, It's only been like a week 1:08:39.280 --> 1:08:41.880 or two sinces out, but I've never had this much 1:08:41.960 --> 1:08:44.519 momentum with an album out, and I can gauge it 1:08:44.640 --> 1:08:47.559 now because of social media, because of different platforms, because 1:08:47.640 --> 1:08:50.920 of you know, people speaking in mind and talking about it. 1:08:51.040 --> 1:08:54.200 So you know, don't don't worry if I blow up, 1:08:54.600 --> 1:08:58.160 you know, blow up more than I have. Don't, don't don't. 1:08:58.160 --> 1:09:01.320 I ain't gonna go crazy on y'all. Don't don't. Don't 1:09:01.479 --> 1:09:02.920 steal us it on his face, don't be. Don't be 1:09:03.000 --> 1:09:07.599 selfish with He's again, man, don't be. Don't be selfish 1:09:07.680 --> 1:09:10.400 with the art man like spread like spread the love, 1:09:10.720 --> 1:09:12.640 Spread the love man. That's what you know what I'm saying, Like, 1:09:13.160 --> 1:09:23.680 that's what it's about, you know, dr Vine and it 1:09:23.800 --> 1:09:32.479 already got the vibrating cock ring on it. There we go, alright, Divine, 1:09:32.520 --> 1:09:34.880 thank you so much. I gotta y'all like a little 1:09:34.920 --> 1:09:36.400 drop of something with me. Look at my lips where 1:09:36.400 --> 1:09:38.760 I get out of you back