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Speaker 1: What's up. What's up is a live service. I mean, yee,

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Speaker 1: I'm g maguire, I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm love ya, and

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Speaker 1: I'm a love king. Hello, nice and smooth. Okay, yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the love King. That's a lot of pressure.

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Speaker 1: That's not to be the love king, because that's the expectations.

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Speaker 1: I think it's expectations when it's limited to just you know,

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Speaker 1: sex or relationships, or the expectation of like, you know,

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Speaker 1: your mate, you know what I mean. But like, in

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Speaker 1: all seriousness, like the love king, the whole love king

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Speaker 1: thing is not limited to just you know, R and

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Speaker 1: B or trying to be the sex and got it

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Speaker 1: you know. Uh, you know. It's more the love that

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Speaker 1: I have for people, the love that I have for community.

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Speaker 1: I hope that I in most cases carry myself like

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Speaker 1: a king, but a humble king in the sense of

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Speaker 1: like walking amongst the people and being a service to

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Speaker 1: the people, like from a community aspect. It's more. It's

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Speaker 1: more to it than this music. For me. Every time

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Speaker 1: I see around him, he's being mad humble too, right,

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Speaker 1: Like I come in to him, He's like, hey, how

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Speaker 1: you doing. But he does talk like that all the time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel like our minds is in the gutter because

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Speaker 1: I always thinking about like love and sex, he said.

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Speaker 1: He said, not I heard that, but I just the

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Speaker 1: first t girl. But that's what I mean. It's like

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Speaker 1: it's pretty d I said, what that movie looked like?

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Speaker 1: They said, it's not a picture. I said, Okay, took

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Speaker 1: bad leg. I was just trying to say about this Gemini. Okay. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm a Sagittarius okay, and I'm a Capricorn Capricorne. I

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Speaker 1: just want to know what the nature when I'm dealing

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Speaker 1: with May fifth tours? So what does that mean exactly

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Speaker 1: about you? We got? We have like we got like

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Speaker 1: a different kind loyalty. Are the ones that were loyal

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Speaker 1: to We're very stubborn and bullheaded and creatives. Do you

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Speaker 1: have any children? Do you have any children? I do again,

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Speaker 1: R and B Singer. I definitely both of my dad's

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Speaker 1: um my biological father and my stepfather who I was

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Speaker 1: raised by both their May seventh and May ten and

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Speaker 1: everything that you're explaining, I see my dad. We hone

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Speaker 1: bodies and it's that same part that's being a tourist

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Speaker 1: born I May next, Netflix and child Your personality is

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Speaker 1: defined by charm and practicality. You have a special brand

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Speaker 1: of wits and charisma that others greatly enjoy. Although you

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Speaker 1: easily connect with people, you may prefer to only open

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Speaker 1: up to a select few. And we're givers, like we

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Speaker 1: we you know that's why X if you have children,

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Speaker 1: because both of my father's were very generous, not only

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Speaker 1: for all of their children. Something for me though, because yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's tough for me though, um know that, Wow, you're

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Speaker 1: just as bad. I've always struggled with like I don't

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Speaker 1: in a place of like like just figuring that out,

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Speaker 1: But just for me, like I need that, I need

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Speaker 1: like there's a lot of people that need your energy too.

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Speaker 1: You know that makes sense. So it's a it's a

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Speaker 1: is it's it's it's a cool thing when it's you know,

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Speaker 1: when when it's done properly, do any of them get

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Speaker 1: that doesn't ever get to the point where the like,

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Speaker 1: it's just been this negative energy and that and that

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Speaker 1: because what happens if we're together and you're the provider

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00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: than you expected. Okay, So that not a plan one

424
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 1: like a surprise threesoth not a plan for some body. Yeah,

425
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 1: kind of like situation. I thought it was a threesome

426
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 1: ended up being a five song. You think you could

427
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: be with one woman for the rest of your life

428
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: and just one woman only? Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah,

429
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 1: I mean I'm learning more about myself every day, you

430
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, um, yeah, if it's for

431
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: the right reasons, it's in the right woman and you know, updated,

432
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: updated women who who want monogagy, outdated women who are

433
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 1: in a swing, and outdated women who you know. I mean,

434
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: I guess it is either one or the other, right,

435
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: So it really just depends on I'm learning how I

436
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 1: can't you gotta you know, you gotta learn that that

437
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: that sexes and everything though, you know what what I'm saying,

438
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: it plays a big factor. But It's really about what

439
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: you what you want, what you gravitate to, how disciplined

440
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 1: you could be, you know what I'm saying, and understanding

441
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 1: that everything you see ay mean for you to touch.

442
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's it's a it's a

443
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,360
Speaker 1: challenge though, you know what I'm saying. Like women, that's

444
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 1: a challenge from that. Ain't no secret like somebody spoken,

445
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So like I love everything

446
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: about a woman, petit, plus size, whatever. You know what

447
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like bring it, you know what i mean.

448
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,360
Speaker 1: Like it's just like when when when you know, when

449
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: the creator made y'all like ship Man, he showed up.

450
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: I feel about the man, you know, like that's so perfect.

451
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: You feel like that's more dangerous somebody that doesn't have

452
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:24,719
Speaker 1: a particular type dangerous you know, I mean, could be

453
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: that he would never actually gives you that. It actually

454
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 1: gives you potential to more variety and in a good way,

455
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like not having a type.

456
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: I don't have like a physical type. It's a I

457
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,360
Speaker 1: have a type, but it ain't a physical type. It's

458
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: like a it's one of them without word conversation things, chemistry, Yeah,

459
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: it's a it's a it's a kind of a conversation

460
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: piece that happens like finishing your sentences and just kind

461
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 1: of like or you just know, you know what I mean,

462
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 1: you just don't. It's a thing about it. It's you know,

463
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: I talked about it all the time. Songs and like

464
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 1: pheromones and and and energy is really like a magnet.

465
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm a firm believer that women know within thirty seconds

466
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 1: to a minute whever they need to like run for

467
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: the hills with their panties like I'm I'm like, I'm

468
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 1: a suck this nigger at some point, I like, you know,

469
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: and it might be before I should do it. Morally,

470
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: I should not this one fucker and next hat me

471
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: two hours so let me whatever or that, like you

472
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: are forever friend zone. He absolutely is just not happening.

473
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: We think we know, but it never turns out the

474
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: way that we Yeah, I would love to believe that

475
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 1: we know, but there's been a couple of surprises here,

476
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:10,120
Speaker 1: like first met and you're like never and back Now.

477
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as whack pussy like it

478
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: just doesn't feel good physically called whack pussy corp, pussy

479
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 1: corps experience or like like where it was kind of

480
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 1: like want some like you got up from like damn,

481
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: you just wanted to just you just wanted to be

482
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: able to say that you hit, you know what I'm saying.

483
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: But like the actual physical on top of that, it

484
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: wasn't good. It's like a wasted you know, not good.

485
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: It's like dry just not just a wasted just like

486
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: it's an energy thing you know, didn't click like you

487
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Texas chemistry to it. You have

488
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: to have a camera state or the proper the proper conversations.

489
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 1: Ain't you call it the naked tank go for no reason?

490
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: You gotta like really be in tune with the per

491
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: sending rights move But he's somebody that I think is

492
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: like has the best sex ever. And then someone else

493
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: that I have them and they're like it was just

494
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: maybe it was just whatever because they was trashed though too.

495
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: How about that that could be like, yeah, that's how

496
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: you got the phone on. I learned a long time

497
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: ago not to have him to put sexual you get

498
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: the man. What about somebody? What about somebody whose person

499
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: whose personality you hated but their sex was good? Does

500
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: that happen of course, like somebody just kind of get

501
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: on your nerves. I don't think I can get to

502
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: that part. You know, y'all don't know. You don't learn it.

503
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: You know, you don't click other than in the bedroom, right,

504
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, yeah, I think I

505
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 1: think men can do that more than women, because yeah,

506
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,479
Speaker 1: I thought there probably was one guy I wouldn't even say.

507
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: I dated him when I was younger, and he was

508
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: really getting bad. But he was whack. See that's how

509
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: I He was just corny, like he thought he was

510
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: mad cool. He always had his sunglasses up here. Oh yeah,

511
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: you can't, Obama. I was like, what are you doing?

512
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: I had a situation where the guy wasn't intelligent enough

513
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: for me, and I didn't learn that until being around

514
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: him more and more intelligent. You mean, like like he

515
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: was bembo, Like I feel like I'm I remember, yeah, yeah,

516
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: he was like a dumb blind and his sad, but

517
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: he was like everything else about him I really liked.

518
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: But then when he got to talk, and I'm just like,

519
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: at first it wasn't like you like when he was mute,

520
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: because yeah, because we would talk about our own personal

521
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: live exactly. That's how your face. Then I couldn't take

522
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: it anymore. They just got unattractive and I couldn't do

523
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: it anymore. See, we have standards, no bembo all right now?

524
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as being too busy for

525
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 1: a relationship because you're busy saying we all are pretty

526
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: busy have it? Some people say, though you make time

527
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: for what you care about. Yeah, you make time for

528
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: what you care about. But man like you, I agree

529
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: with that. I mean, you make time for what you

530
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: care about. I think it is such thing as as

531
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: being too busy for a relationship. But sometimes we still

532
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: want what we want. And sometimes I think that, uh yeah,

533
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: we want what we want. And you know, men, we

534
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: as men, sometimes we feel like we could tell a

535
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: woman a lot of times, like we tell a woman, hey,

536
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: like yo, I'm not ready for this, I'm not ready

537
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 1: for a relationship. Or did we tell you right? And

538
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: it's it's not like y'all harris, or or did you

539
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: know that you so? But you know you got some

540
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: you got some bomb pussy. So you're thinking, like my

541
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: ship changes, I'm gonna change his mom. But sometimes guys

542
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: be like I'm not ready, But then they bring you

543
00:31:55,320 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: around their family with somebody else or whatever, whatever, whatever,

544
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: whatever the ingredients soft for influence. You feel like I

545
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: hear you name you, but you ain't never. You ain't never.

546
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: I would treat you be like I'm gonna take you

547
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: on vacation. I'm not ready for a relationship though, Oh,

548
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: come meet my mom. Like guys do stuff like that. Well,

549
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: you know, I'm working on I'm working on a book,

550
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: and one of the things that will be in the book.

551
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, don't don't take my ship

552
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: because I come find you. But it's scared. It's I've

553
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 1: learned that you have to treat people. Don't treat the

554
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: person you're dating like your girlfriend. Don't treat your girlfriend

555
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: like your wife. M it's levels to the ship. How

556
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: do you treat your girlfriend like your wife? You don't

557
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, what is that I treat

558
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: the person that you're dating like your girlfriend like a girl,

559
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: girlfriend like your wife, And don't treat a girlfriend like

560
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: your wife. Everything is Every title has this title for

561
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: your reason. I thought, like, my boyfriend chease me like

562
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: his wife. So here's it. So here's a cat only

563
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: only in the event. Only in the event you know,

564
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: for you know, and it works on both sides. Offense

565
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: only and if only an event of if there's the potential,

566
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: you see that potential, you know what I'm saying. Then

567
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: that's where it gets. That's where it's a blur line

568
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: some guys hee did why It's like ship though too.

569
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: Like what I'm saying is it's something it's women out here,

570
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: you know, and men fucking on one another and they

571
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: know they ain't got no attention being one another. Y'all

572
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,479
Speaker 1: know that ship, then keep it in God bless what

573
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: al but like all the gas and and and you

574
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: know what necessary and capping and then because what I

575
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: have realized is that is that accountability is real. You

576
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, And they're gonna hold you you know,

577
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 1: you're some women out here that's gonna hold you accountable

578
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 1: to what you say. It's something out here that's gonna

579
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: hold you accountable to what you say and especially and

580
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: they're gonna hold you accountable about what you say according

581
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: to what you do. You know what I'm saying. And

582
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: I'm one of the people that in business life love

583
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: whatever that, but I don't knowld you accountable to what

584
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: you tell? Me. It's how you, it's what you do.

585
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Have you ever been a

586
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: side piece? Yeah, I'm already single. Girls, Sometimes it's just easier,

587
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you know, in the

588
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: matters of dealing with matters of the heart and just

589
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: like you know, y'a up in the side piece, like

590
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,760
Speaker 1: you a married woman or just a woman in a relationship?

591
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: Do you let them fight that faith that fail fight

592
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: and you like ask about right right? Oh wait to

593
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 1: take this guy here? Come on? Cool? So do you

594
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,359
Speaker 1: like if they come to you like this happened? Way,

595
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 1: would you let them confide in you, like as far

596
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: as like they tell you about their personal their problems

597
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 1: and they know you know why, because I'm so because

598
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:56,399
Speaker 1: I'm so trill with it. I feel like I feel

599
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 1: like that's me hating on that on that name. Like

600
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I don't want to give

601
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 1: you unless we're in a unless we're unless unless we're

602
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: the place a really really really like friendship where where

603
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 1: where I know that you were Like that's a real

604
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: slippery slope, you know what I'm saying. I don't want

605
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:17,919
Speaker 1: to be that guy to feel like and they could

606
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 1: be like you know what I'm saying, I don't want

607
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: to feel like that's hate, like whit you hate? You

608
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like that, ain't you know that's

609
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: kind of like breaking codes. I'm going but don't tell

610
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: me about your relationship. I'm gonna somebody ever they were

611
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: going to leave that man for you. Um, He's like,

612
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: please don't. I didn't into like, you know, being with

613
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: funking on somebody that that that belong to somebody else.

614
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean, you've done it, but

615
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 1: you're not into it. I mean, yeah, definitely I think

616
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 1: or you don't or you don't know you know what

617
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you know what I'm saying kind of

618
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,800
Speaker 1: like it's like after the after thought. Oh, by the way,

619
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I'm still with my baby father.

620
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: Or by the way, you know what I mean, I

621
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. Or by the way, I'm married, I'm married.

622
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: What ship like I like, you know, it's a lot

623
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: of people in the grave and in prison for you

624
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. For pussy, Has anybody ever tried

625
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 1: to put a baby on you that wasn't yours? Kind

626
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: of like, yeah, it's a soft spot. You Listen to

627
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 1: the first album. Listen to the first album, We're taking

628
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: it Back, Go back. Listen to the first album. Listen

629
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: to the lyrics to the first album. You know what

630
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Definitely, Yeah, I've been through that. Yeah, And

631
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: that's a heart in your heart, in your heart, it'll

632
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: have you, like you gotta be careful with that for

633
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 1: any brother that's been out there, because they'll have you.

634
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 1: It'll have you. You can you can you you might

635
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 1: find yourself becoming like you know, hating women and hurting people,

636
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: and you know what I'm saying, and then directly, you know,

637
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,879
Speaker 1: not when you don't, when you don't deal with that,

638
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,240
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? What they say, Um Mama's

639
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 1: maybe pop Mama's baby papas maybe you know what I'm saying, Like,

640
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: you know, so, yeah, I've definitely been through that. That

641
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: would have to be devastating old. Yeah, to find out

642
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 1: that you that you you know what I'm saying, You're

643
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: going to uh, You're going to you know, uh rubbing

644
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 1: bellies in the hospital visits and there and watch the

645
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 1: baby coming out, just to find out that you know,

646
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: that's not your child and not only just you, your family,

647
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: your family, and I'm saying that had a baby, your

648
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: mom and your dad, your daddy, like it's yeah, a

649
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 1: friend of mine, he's a basketball player, and that happened

650
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 1: to him and he when he was in um you know,

651
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 1: went to college. His high school sweetheart. They got pregnant

652
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 1: and when the baby came, they did the baby shower.

653
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:52,439
Speaker 1: All of that. Families knew each other always, and when

654
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 1: the baby came, it wasn't his. But you know what,

655
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 1: I've learned how to always and he's a fucking asshole

656
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 1: ever since, you know, I to uh to try to

657
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 1: look at things from both sides, right, And unfortunately it's

658
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: some real funk up guys out there to make babies,

659
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: don't have no intentions or whatever. So some so for

660
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 1: the women out there, they might they might like, yo,

661
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's a good dude. I

662
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: know he's gonna be a great dad. You know what

663
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: I mean. It's very selfish to get it past. It's

664
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 1: very it's very selfish, you know what I'm saying. But

665
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 1: I hope it. I try to look at everything. Oh no,

666
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: but they were high school sweethearts like that was supposed

667
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: to be his gaze. See, but I think that that's

668
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: probably what the woman is thinking, Like I really just

669
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: hope it's him because she's she don't even know. Yeah,

670
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: I mean like but like you not. But in those

671
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: scenarios where you're like, yo, you know what I'm saying,

672
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: what's up? Like they say my kid and they can

673
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: and you say who the dad? And they can tell

674
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: you the address? Then it's like all right, then you

675
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 1: know what I mean, like what kind of get like

676
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: on what kind of game you really playing? So how

677
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: would you how do you think she should have handled

678
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,399
Speaker 1: that situation? Like told both of y'all, I'm not sure

679
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: whose it is. Yeah, I mean at the day, nobody's

680
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 1: ever gonna do. That's what I'm saying, Like I cant

681
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: being like the end of the day, I've learned that, like,

682
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: no matter how hard it is, because I've learned some

683
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 1: valuable lessons when it comes to truth and and and

684
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 1: lying and honesty. And it's just like that lie that

685
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: you're trying to tell and eventually it just could just

686
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: go a whole another way. I might have to clean

687
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 1: the country, had a baby, see who would look like?

688
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: And what? Hold on? Hold on? Hello? It's a caveat

689
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: to that is what is she dealing with to do?

690
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: What does she gotta type? And the dude look just

691
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: like you, That's what I'm saying, she's gonna be. My

692
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 1: father's both had types, and all of their mothers of

693
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 1: their children look alike. And me and my siblings. You

694
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 1: could look at us and not tell mother and father

695
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: because we all look like that type. That's true, right,

696
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: You better hope that traces. That's the only thing that

697
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna get away with. Asian one and a black

698
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: one or a Spanish one and something else. I don't know,

699
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: but it's you never know to still even with that,

700
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: that's never strong. Yeah, So my parent is pale. Was

701
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: the palest thing I ever seen. He was red. Now

702
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 1: my mother is like a little browner than gi. Because

703
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 1: sometimes one parent could be darker and the baby come

704
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: out looking like that, and then the other kid come out.

705
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: Children can also take the traits from their grandparents and

706
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: out looking like nothing like, nothing like the one of

707
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: the parents. That baby they come out singing, Yeah, that's

708
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: run baby, all right. So what do you think are

709
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 1: some things that you could do to be a better mate? Oh,

710
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: by the way, I got brand new album out. It's

711
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: called The Love Reunion. It's like the greatest ship ever

712
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 1: for our be It's gonna go down in history. Is

713
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: some of the greatest you know, a project that's like,

714
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: it's my greatest body of work, my contribution to black music.

715
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:24,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's the soundtrack to like Relationship,

716
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: your Bad Room Game, just the Beach, all of that,

717
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean. It's it's definitely um

718
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: with the reasurgence of r and being sold music, you know,

719
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: black music is is I'm gonna ask you a question

720
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: a minute, but I gotta get this out. Black music

721
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: is the only our culture is the only cost is

722
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: just guarding like where it's where it's treated as it

723
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: as if it's disposable, you know what I'm saying. So

724
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: we have to remember to reclaim. We got to reclaim art,

725
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: our art and our culture and our existence um as

726
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: blow girls as black radio depends on that. So don't

727
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It's the only thing that's

728
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: treated like you know what I'm saying. This it scarted.

729
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:13,959
Speaker 1: So again, It's available on all social media, all streaming platforms,

730
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 1: all your mama pop stores. I'm one of those few

731
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 1: artists still sell CDs. Very definitely came in with a CD.

732
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 1: It's the number four selling the album this week. R

733
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: B album Congratulations. You know we stream we streaming crazy

734
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: right now. You're streaming crazy right now, not just one

735
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: song on the entire album, you know what I mean?

736
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: And yeah, brothers, you want to put that on. Just

737
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 1: let that marinate. You know what I thought? You were

738
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: just in South Africa to right. What's your question? We'll

739
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 1: get back to that. What are some things that you

740
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: think you could do better as a meet, Like if

741
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: you could improve on some things about yourself and critique yourself, um,

742
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: being being being, being open to the idea. It was

743
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: just like, damn, damn man deep ask question right now? Um,

744
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: what are some of the things I could feel like

745
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:18,280
Speaker 1: I could that would make me a better mate? Um?

746
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that I'm kind of in

747
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: that space where just understanding that everything takes us, you know, time?

748
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: Are you open and patience? Am I open to work? Like?

749
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: Are you open when you're with somebody? Are you open

750
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: for love? Are you open to yeah? Like all of that.

751
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's just Uh, you know

752
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: what it is. It's doing a better job here. It

753
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: is doing a better job of of of juggling my

754
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: career and understanding that, um, everything kind of has his

755
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,359
Speaker 1: time in this place. You know I'm saying, I'm very

756
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: one dimensional. So one of the things that I know

757
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: that like that, I um that it's still like a

758
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: challenge for me that I know from Like, you know,

759
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: my oldest my oldest son is a thirteen right, um

760
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: pretty much, and uh I remember kind of like a

761
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 1: time when his mom was just like yo, you just

762
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: always like I'll just be in my own cold world,

763
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying in terms of my

764
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: career and the things that I feel like are like

765
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 1: important to me. And sometimes you just gotta put the

766
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: phone down some Sometimes you just gotta shut the phone

767
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: down some sometimes you gotta you got have to appoint

768
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:31,720
Speaker 1: certain days to connect, to invest, to disconnect and invest

769
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 1: into your your family, your children, your lady, you know

770
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Your mom, your dad, you know what

771
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And that's something that I think I still

772
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 1: struggle with to this day because I'm so uh passionate

773
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: about what I do, and I think that I'm truly

774
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: addicted to like making music, and what I do not

775
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: not just not's not not so much the accolades of

776
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 1: it and the fame or like you know, while I'm

777
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,919
Speaker 1: doing to get a piece of pussy or something like that,

778
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 1: but so much as a like you know, I don't

779
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 1: like I don't hit no clubs unless I'm getting paid

780
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: in the bag to do it, you know what I mean,

781
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times I'm in a different city,

782
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 1: like if it's the Oxen, she ain't gonna get going

783
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: the club, or you know, hey, what's up, Zaddy, I'm

784
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: trying to pull up like I'm being a studio, you

785
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like or I'm gonna be doing

786
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: some community work, or like I'm building a legacy, you

787
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And and I just I just

788
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 1: really every before the world knew my name, I worked

789
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: for Chevy Chase Bank. I work for Giant Food. I

790
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: work for Food Action. The last job I had was

791
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 1: a tower records. Like every job I ever had had

792
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: me in customer service or whatever. But I know what

793
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: hard work is since I was like the age thirteen

794
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: fourteen years old, you know, so I try to dibble

795
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 1: and dabble in the streets. I Saint quick. That was

796
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,879
Speaker 1: not for me, you know what I mean. Like, so

797
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: all I know is hard work, you know what I'm saying.

798
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: So sometimes I'm so consumed by the amount of people

799
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: that I take care of and the people that depend

800
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 1: on me, you know what I'm saying. It's like you

801
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,919
Speaker 1: lose sight of the fact that the people that really

802
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: mattered to you most, they're hurting, they need you that,

803
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and ain't about like just

804
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: sending some money or situation. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

805
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: the most surreal thing for me in the last two

806
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 1: years is having to you know, um, I believe in

807
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: protecting my family and loved one, so I don't put

808
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: their business completely out there, but I put a particular

809
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,359
Speaker 1: family member where I had to seek like get guardianship

810
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: on them and go and and go and and I

811
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 1: had my world. I had stopped everything that was moving

812
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: in my world and go and take care of them

813
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,959
Speaker 1: and get them back white, you know what I mean.

814
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 1: And that right there kind of like what's groundbreaking for

815
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,399
Speaker 1: me just because I because it was I was only

816
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: one I could do it, you know what I'm saying

817
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: it wasn't no sibling that could do it, and what

818
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, no other family member whatever.

819
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 1: It was kind of I got the call like we

820
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: think you're the only one that they can't make this happen. Yeah,

821
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: regardless of what was going on, and and I had

822
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: a lot on on at the time, but I made

823
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: it my business to you know. And you know, sometimes

824
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 1: when you're moving so fast, like the creator of universe

825
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: will do things to grab your attention, you know what

826
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Just like just just just like the people

827
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: to take you for granted right in your world, you

828
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like so it's just like they'll

829
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,880
Speaker 1: grab their attention and be like yo, you know what

830
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: I mean, Like you can't, you can't, so you sold.

831
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: So So I think that that for me, there's still

832
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: a work in progress. And that's something that definitely i'm

833
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: you know, did I noticed a challenge that I have

834
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: to work on? Okay, that's fair enough. Somebody told that

835
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: you fall asleep right after said I'm getting drunk. Somebody

836
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: said you fall asleep right after somebody told you that

837
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: they're definitely tapping off first. That's how you know, you

838
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: did a good job, right, ladies. When he fall asleep

839
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 1: right afterwards, yeah, he knocked off not only what the

840
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 1: feeder position? Oh yeah, leg over you just like just saying, damn, guys,

841
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,479
Speaker 1: do you mind like for a girl to do things

842
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 1: like say, y'all about to get into it and she

843
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 1: just sit on your face. I wish that would happen

844
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: more women to be aggressive in the room. Oh yeah, definitely,

845
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying Like that, it's all good.

846
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: You know, it ain't too much we can't do. You know. See,

847
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 1: we talked about this before about initiating more and being

848
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 1: more aggressive, and that was my lesson that I learned.

849
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: And I'm an extremist though, so so so it's got

850
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: you gotta be careful because you're doing you're doing so much,

851
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: you're doing this ship. And then they'd be like then

852
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 1: when they're like, you know what I'm saying picking out

853
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: combustions or like I'm a strength, like you know what

854
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 1: i mean, Like, I'm just that's I've learned that about

855
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 1: my personality. I have addictive personality and I'm I'm extremists,

856
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: so I'm very I'm extremely competitive, right, so those can

857
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: those things can be an appetite for destruction when you're

858
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: talking about like sex and intimacy, because every person of

859
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: all don't. I had to also learned to everybody don't

860
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 1: deserve to be able to have to be able to

861
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:32,280
Speaker 1: have what I'm offering for you and you and you,

862
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So like like preach everybody

863
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 1: to learn that you know what I'm saying. That's still

864
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 1: something that's like you know, work in progress and understanding it,

865
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But like you know, I

866
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 1: think that you know what you do as you do

867
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 1: as boys, do you do as men? Do you know

868
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like, at the end of the day, Um,

869
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: there's always multiple attractions to whatever. Again, it's about what

870
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 1: you open to with your mate, what you're trying to explode,

871
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: what you're trying to do. But you know, at the

872
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: end of the day, I ain't a trophy for nobody,

873
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: and women are not a trophy to be necessarily like

874
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 1: conquident and just move on or just discarded, you know

875
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And um, that's something that I had

876
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: to learn to know what I'm saying. I think you know,

877
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: I think that's any man needs to know that at

878
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 1: least hear that and then you act accordingly from it.

879
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, what's the most orgasms you've

880
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 1: ever had in a row? The most or the most

881
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: orgasm orgasms I've ever had in a row? Yeah, like

882
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: you just can't. I'm more, I'm I'm going to what

883
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 1: how many she happen? You know what I'm saying, Like

884
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 1: I can you know when it comes to like like

885
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,359
Speaker 1: can you can right after? What I'm saying is it's

886
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 1: like if I'm coming and I don't come somewhere, you

887
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: come and I'm not ready until after you Yeah, you

888
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: know what I'm like Like for me, For me personally,

889
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 1: the act of intimacy is about I'm totally I'm like

890
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: on some pleasing, Like I'm you know what i mean.

891
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: So I not to say that I'm not there to

892
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: enjoy myself and have a good time. Right, That's what

893
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 1: you enjoy is pleasing somebody that's not here. That's time man,

894
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: I go know what I'm saying, They go make an

895
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 1: album and you know what I'm saying, Like that seems

896
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: like now? Now? What is not What is the best though,

897
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: is when you encounter someone who got the same energy

898
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: and that's when they can get all kind of like

899
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: you know, and be like laid back. No, you laid

900
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 1: back when it's really when it's really did when that

901
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: point they got to say it, it it just kind of

902
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: just yeah, just just you know what I'm saying, just

903
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 1: kind of just it's just it's organic. Feel like you

904
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: were in a great state of mind when you did

905
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: this album. I'm in a great state of mind when

906
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:55,759
Speaker 1: I make music, and I make music daily. It's like, look,

907
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 1: we walked in here as the studio. I'm trying to

908
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 1: figure out I can get a couple of hours in

909
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: here too late. Yeah, you got to before I leave here.

910
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I wanna I wanna um

911
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: so because because I'm constantly making music in real time

912
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 1: um and I don't physically write anything down, and like

913
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 1: we're dealing with real live emotions in that current state

914
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 1: of how I feel. Typically, most of the time I

915
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:19,720
Speaker 1: make music is between the hours of like nine PM

916
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 1: and nine am, you know, says they say some of

917
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 1: the most the greatest time for creatives is between I

918
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: don't know why, but they say between like three and

919
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 1: four am, four am, And that's typically like when I'm

920
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 1: in there, like yeah, when I'm in my zone, you

921
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,879
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So, um and I don't care

922
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: like what I gotta do the next day, like if

923
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 1: it's if it's morning news, taking kids in school, a flight, whatever, Um,

924
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: I just gotta get it in like that's just it's

925
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 1: just a part of me, you know what I'm saying.

926
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 1: And um, so yeah, it's it's it's it's just so

927
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: so it makes it easy to put out albums I got,

928
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 1: Like I gotta vote, I got fifteen is where for

929
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 1: music already recorded? Damn you listen, listen. This is the

930
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: second album I dropped. This is seventh album, but this

931
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:10,800
Speaker 1: is the second album I dropped in the last not

932
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 1: in the last eight nine eight months. So like I'm

933
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,399
Speaker 1: on my second decade. I'm gonna be a problem out here.

934
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:22,719
Speaker 1: And for far too long I've been purposely I will

935
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: admit I've been purposely dimming my life or like not

936
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: out of insecurity, but just yeah and and and I'm

937
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 1: still humble. But it's a time and a place for that.

938
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 1: And I know that I'm I know that, I know

939
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 1: that I know I'm tapped into my inner goat is

940
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 1: ums and I know that I know. I'm great at

941
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: what I do and I'm one of the greatest of

942
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 1: my generation. You know what I'm saying, And I don't.

943
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,879
Speaker 1: It's not a Grammy that that needs that I need

944
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 1: to tell me that. It ain't a BT Award that

945
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:59,280
Speaker 1: I need to tell me that my team can change, manager, management, wise, agents, whatever.

946
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 1: He loves you guys. But the only thing I really

947
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: care about is a connection that I make with my

948
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 1: with with with the with the with the with the

949
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,919
Speaker 1: consumer and in the music level, you know what I'm saying.

950
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 1: And I and I and I was doing that before,

951
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: long before it was cool to do it. You know

952
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:25,839
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Now you gotta almost damn near do it.

953
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,760
Speaker 1: And you know, you know what I mean because between

954
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 1: social and that's why you see so many artists crashing

955
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: and burning, because it's just like it's just like a

956
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 1: dog when they can smell fear, you know what I'm saying.

957
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 1: And it's just like, you know, people come up on

958
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: you and they can they can they can sense that

959
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: you the real deal? Are you not the real deal?

960
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,320
Speaker 1: Are you fooling You're fooling the people? You know what

961
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you know the big I always say,

962
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 1: like open mics and stuff like that always expose artists

963
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,439
Speaker 1: and musicians because you can go to an open mic

964
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 1: and you can take the best of the best and

965
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: let it look and and let let let an improvisational

966
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 1: moment happen, and you will see who's contrived, who's the

967
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: real deal, who's the student of they cry? Who the

968
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 1: real musicians are, who can crytrol comfortable in a skin? Who?

969
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, that's across the board, whether

970
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 1: you're talking pop, country, hip hop, R and B or

971
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 1: what have you. So, Um, you know, I'm done dim

972
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 1: in my light? And and you know, and and and

973
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,360
Speaker 1: everything has its time and has this course, you know

974
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 1: what I mean. Yeah, I'm glad you're not dim in

975
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: your light no more. No, it's just you know, it's

976
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,520
Speaker 1: it's it's there's no reason to man, you know what

977
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, it's it's it's time. But everything everything

978
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 1: happens when they're supposed to. Because you've been consistent for

979
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: such a long time and putting out such great music.

980
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:47,760
Speaker 1: Are you selling any of these songs to other artists?

981
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: It's funny you say that. I think my biggest flaw

982
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: during my career is being selfish with my brand and

983
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: bring selfish with my sound. I think I have a

984
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 1: very distinct sound. Um, and now I'm ready to get

985
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 1: it to the world. Meaning any artists you want to

986
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: go on the studio, you want me to do an

987
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: album on you ep, whatever, like, let's get it. You

988
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'm currently working on a number

989
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: of things. Um. One of the projects I'm super excited

990
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: about is v Boseman. You know what I'm saying right now? Yeah,

991
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: so we're in the studio. Have you working on her project?

992
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: And it's not just limited to a song, it's a

993
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: body of work. It's a sound. You know what I mean? Um? Uh.

994
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: Sister by the name of Yasa Um. You may remember

995
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 1: Grenique from being on Motown and just like, um, it's

996
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: a it's a it's a it's a plethor of artists.

997
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:38,399
Speaker 1: And I'm working with right now. UM, different things. But

998
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: you know I've worked with you know, I wrote, I

999
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 1: wrote and worked with Usher in the past, Jamie Fox,

1000
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: you know, contributed to t paying projects. UM. I feel

1001
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: like you would be really good with are Lennox? Oh,

1002
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: I would look so, but already don't mean look, but

1003
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: it'd be it'll happen to time. I know already before

1004
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 1: the world knew. Yeah yeah, and she's allays been, man,

1005
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:04,640
Speaker 1: I think that as so. So I'm so happy for her,

1006
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. And it's crazy like

1007
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 1: to now look up or be on the charts with

1008
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 1: like the r Lennoxes of the world. Um, you know,

1009
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 1: Daniel Caesar's you know, you know, have a great first

1010
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 1: week and you know see my name, you know, right

1011
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 1: next to Chris Brown or Kurt Franklin or or whoever right,

1012
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 1: and it's like wow, like it speaks to it speaks

1013
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 1: to staying power stas too, like when you stick to

1014
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 1: your guns. Like at some point it's they catch up,

1015
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And for me, Um, someone

1016
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: who I really love and respect, who is like a

1017
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 1: mentor to me and on so many levels is Doug

1018
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 1: you fresh. We got a great relationship. And I remember

1019
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: one time you put me to the side. He said

1020
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: you're the last one, bro, and I didn't know what

1021
00:57:57,040 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: he meant. I understand what he meant, but now I

1022
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 1: know what he meant. You put on the radio and

1023
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 1: it was like, yeah, I know what, So I know

1024
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: what he meant. You know what I'm saying. And so

1025
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 1: for me, it's a it's the concept of the last

1026
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: man standing effect. I understand that this that for me creatively,

1027
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: it's a marathon. It's not a sprint. And as long

1028
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: as you keep moving, you know, you get on the

1029
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: track and you just keep moving. You sprint when you

1030
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: need to, you slow down your distance, run when you

1031
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: need to, you might even walk. But you never stopped moving,

1032
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. If you never and as

1033
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 1: long as you never stopped moving, you know, you start

1034
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: looking to the side. Fucker's run out of breath. They

1035
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 1: just stopped for a minute to take that breath. If

1036
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: I never stopped moving, you know what I mean. Yeah,

1037
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: So so it's it's it's the last man standing the

1038
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 1: fact um, you know, and the type of the oppo

1039
00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 1: sitting on so much music, like yeah, when we anticipate

1040
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: no in on time with the mass anything. I mean,

1041
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 1: ain't claiming nothing like that, but like it's a lot

1042
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 1: of music. You mentioned Chris Brown just now, So what

1043
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: do you think about the whole situation he's going through

1044
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 1: with the words that he used, Because you don't use

1045
00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 1: words like that in your songs. Chris is from a

1046
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 1: different generation. I love Chris. Chris we had the same birthday.

1047
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 1: So that's my brother. You know what I'm saying, that's

1048
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: my brother. And at the end of the day, Um,

1049
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: I love him. I remember the day that Chris walking

1050
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 1: and was walked in the job like I remember the

1051
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: day he signed it. He was there, bright eyed bush

1052
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 1: he telled now. So at the end of the day, Um,

1053
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: the trials and tribulations of life are just what they are,

1054
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And he has he has

1055
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 1: to do. He has to run his course of life

1056
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 1: just like I have to run mine. And regardless of

1057
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 1: like the pitfalls or the highs and lows. One thing

1058
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 1: you can't take fromm is that he's a conic, you

1059
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And he has it. He has it,

1060
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 1: he has to take his journey just you know. So

1061
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 1: you know I'm big homie to that. You know what

1062
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying. From afar Um, the people that are around

1063
00:59:56,200 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: you can either build you up or tear you down,

1064
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So, Um, you know, I

1065
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 1: don't know who is who? Who is uh? Voice voice

1066
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 1: of reason is you know what I'm saying around him,

1067
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: but definitely you know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta

1068
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 1: keep the right people around you that you trust, but

1069
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 1: you got to also be willing and be open to

1070
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: the idea with somebody say a bro like, Hey, that

1071
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: ain't a good mood. You know what I'm saying. And

1072
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 1: if there's nobody telling you that, then you might have

1073
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: a lot of people around you don't give a funk

1074
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: about you. It's hard with social media though, because people

1075
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 1: it's fine and there's nothing no one could do about it. Yeah,

1076
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So so, but I get it.

1077
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a tourist. It's it's so many times I

1078
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: want to like wile out or speak or speak my

1079
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: mind or really say how I feel you know what

1080
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying, or really call people out on different things

1081
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: or whatever. You know what I mean, I'll be at

1082
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 1: the end of the day. It's an old saying when

1083
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:01,360
Speaker 1: people say like, hey, man, how are you feeling to day? Man,

1084
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm cool if I had a complaint when nobody want

1085
01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 1: to hear it anyway, you know what I'm saying. So

1086
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 1: so it's it's ask how you feeling? You really tell them,

1087
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 1: like they'd be like, man, goddamn how you feel. And

1088
01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: guess what they're gonna go. They're gonna go hug somebody else,

1089
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 1: text somebody else to tell them you're bad news. So

1090
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: you gotta be careful those that bring you bad news.

1091
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: And really it's just about the company you keep. And

1092
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 1: if that means you gotta stand alone, walk along a

1093
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 1: lot of time, you see me, I'm what alone, So

1094
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 1: I'm never alone alone. I got the creative with me.

1095
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 1: And it's a lot of people out here that love me,

1096
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 1: you know, but but I'm not nai to It's a

1097
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: lot of people that you know, success breathe, envy and

1098
01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 1: jealousy and whatever. You know what I'm saying. So it's

1099
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: um again, man, you know, I ain't got nothing bad

1100
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: say about Chris. It's just it's it's it's really about

1101
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. Um, I'm sure he

1102
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 1: loved himself, It's really really the real question is how

1103
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 1: many of them people around him really love him and

1104
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: really got his best interests and really are the voice

1105
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 1: of reason and whatever. The more the people that you

1106
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because I'll sit back and watch

1107
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,919
Speaker 1: the show still and watched the fireworks and then get

1108
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: your check. And you know what I'm saying, So you know,

1109
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 1: and I think that that's something that we as artists,

1110
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 1: you know, it's artists a lot of times, man, we

1111
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: tort your souls because we give so much. We pour

1112
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 1: so much into other people. We poured so much into

1113
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: the culture. But who's going it to us besides our kids,

1114
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 1: our beautiful kids. Even your parents will like take you

1115
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:54,640
Speaker 1: through the ring for some of us, you know what

1116
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So, like, you know, it's a lot of

1117
01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:00,040
Speaker 1: each other. It's a whole lot of things. Care I

1118
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:03,440
Speaker 1: can't you know, I'm iconic in my own sense, but

1119
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 1: I can't imagine what it'd be like to be at

1120
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:06,920
Speaker 1: that level. I think that's part of the reason. That's

1121
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 1: probably the reason why I kind of like them the

1122
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: light a little bit, you know what I mean, because

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01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: I want to I want to be known. But I

1124
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:17,240
Speaker 1: realized at the end of the day now where I'm at,

1125
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 1: like it ain't gonna happen, ain't or never. I was

1126
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: born to do what I do. This is my gift,

1127
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 1: and let it shine as bright as it do. And

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Speaker 1: if that's what come with it, so be it. You

1129
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, but I'm gonna keep some real

1130
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:30,320
Speaker 1: ones around me there. It could be like, hey, bro,

1131
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:35,280
Speaker 1: that song whack, go back in the studio, get that right,

1132
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And it ain't a good

1133
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 1: movie you're about to make, or that ain't you need

1134
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: to take that down immediately, or that's how you're feeling cool,

1135
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 1: let's talk about it. Go get a counselor, or that's

1136
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But don't, don't, don't don't

1137
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 1: do that. You know well, they're saying, you gotta go

1138
01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 1: because you have somewhere else to be. I got to go,

1139
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 1: That's what he said. It was like, we can we

1140
01:03:56,080 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 1: can talk now you reading? I can I come back?

1141
01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:05,160
Speaker 1: Did we get it back? Right? They're gonna give me

1142
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 1: a watch. Take your toys. We got some silicone Luver

1143
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: camp for you. This is your super I'm not gonna lock.

1144
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 1: I can clown you can. You can make a meme

1145
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:20,720
Speaker 1: out of me. We're not making you. I think I'm

1146
01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna use that that toy y'all gave

1147
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 1: me that. Give me a yall, y'all, I get your review.

1148
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: This is Jonna first you next time. Yeah, you gotta

1149
01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 1: come in with the review I got, I got this

1150
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 1: little pussy pump and alug it's going. I got the

1151
01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:43,640
Speaker 1: right real lives, real love, get your real love, kid pussy.

1152
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:52,959
Speaker 1: We gotta look at you that edition. Man. I wish

1153
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 1: I I would love to. I love to come back.

1154
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 1: You know you use that, you use that come back

1155
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 1: and we're gonna talk about all about now. But we

1156
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: had a great time. We appreciate you for coming. I

1157
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: didn't think he was really gonna show. I saw him

1158
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 1: with me and g and I was like, you gotta

1159
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: come to lip service. He said, Yeah, that's another thing

1160
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:15,920
Speaker 1: I've been calling myself out on my on my following

1161
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: through game. Okay, you know what I'm saying, A lot

1162
01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 1: you're getting better. Excuse me. A lot of times we

1163
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 1: don't we block our own blessings about just simply not

1164
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 1: following through on situations. Anover another chapter from the book.

1165
01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, what's the three grades? What's

1166
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: the three grades? The three greatest gifts that to create

1167
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 1: I'm and I'm like, I don't know. What's the three

1168
01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: greatest gifts that the creator universe? We have you given us?

1169
01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 1: In your opinion? The three greatest Yeah three three three

1170
01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 1: gifts family, yeah, love. Okay, I'm going I'll break them

1171
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 1: down in the book. I'll break them down in the

1172
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 1: book though, the three things. Once I discovered these three things,

1173
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:22,080
Speaker 1: it's like my whole world opened up, my whole universe, right,

1174
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 1: And it's the it's the it's the it's the three gators. Gifts,

1175
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: in my opinion, are the gift of time from the

1176
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 1: time we were born. We are running out of time,

1177
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:35,439
Speaker 1: So it's the gift of time, right, It's the gift

1178
01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:37,800
Speaker 1: of free will and decision from the time we wake up.

1179
01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 1: You can you can you can decide whether you're gonna

1180
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 1: be a no show with the lip service. You can

1181
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: decide you won't do the Breakface club or not. You

1182
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 1: can decide teeth, wash your ass, go be productive, get

1183
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: a bag, not get it bag whatever. Right, So it's

1184
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 1: the gift of time, um, the gift of decision, and

1185
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: the the last gift is a gift of one another,

1186
01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And gift the relationship and

1187
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 1: really cultivating them. And a lot of times we had

1188
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 1: rooms with people, industry, ship, whatever, and you stand in

1189
01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 1: necessary money and just because you ain't simply say hey,

1190
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:13,800
Speaker 1: what's your name? Or what you do that? You never

1191
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 1: know what what they have to offer you, what you

1192
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 1: have to offer them, you know what I'm saying, And

1193
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 1: sometimes it ain't nothing. It's just a simple conversation where

1194
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 1: you can just say something and drop a jewel on them.

1195
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 1: Or motherfucker might just been thinking about jumping off a bridge.

1196
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:34,440
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because nobody acknowledges them. You

1197
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, anowledge, Yeah, you know what I mean.

1198
01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 1: So again, you know, as long as we use the

1199
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Speaker 1: gift of time, free will and decision and one another

1200
01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:51,919
Speaker 1: properly is all good. So I'm definitely those are those

1201
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 1: are extensions of it for me, you know what I'm saying.

1202
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 1: But like it's really about um, you know, accountability and

1203
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 1: and of course you know on in my word like

1204
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:10,200
Speaker 1: so definitely I'll be back. Yeah, yeah the pump you

1205
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: already got her put a tight than you alright, but

1206
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:21,760
Speaker 1: make sure you all enjoy that. It's a great love

1207
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:24,680
Speaker 1: making album. It's a great taking on vacation with you

1208
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 1: and y'all have a good time. It's definitely it's definitely

1209
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 1: uh contender for R and B. Soul Album of the

1210
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Speaker 1: Year at a decade of a lifetime. I think that

1211
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:37,360
Speaker 1: this body of work is very special and it feels

1212
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,200
Speaker 1: that way. You know, It's only been like a week

1213
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:41,880
Speaker 1: or two sinces out, but I've never had this much

1214
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:44,519
Speaker 1: momentum with an album out, and I can gauge it

1215
01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 1: now because of social media, because of different platforms, because

1216
01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 1: of you know, people speaking in mind and talking about it.

1217
01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:54,200
Speaker 1: So you know, don't don't worry if I blow up,

1218
01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 1: you know, blow up more than I have. Don't, don't don't.

1219
01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna go crazy on y'all. Don't don't. Don't

1220
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:02,920
Speaker 1: steal us it on his face, don't be. Don't be

1221
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:07,599
Speaker 1: selfish with He's again, man, don't be. Don't be selfish

1222
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: with the art man like spread like spread the love,

1223
01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:12,640
Speaker 1: Spread the love man. That's what you know what I'm saying, Like,

1224
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:23,680
Speaker 1: that's what it's about, you know, dr Vine and it

1225
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 1: already got the vibrating cock ring on it. There we go, alright, Divine,

1226
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I gotta y'all like a little

1227
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 1: drop of something with me. Look at my lips where

1228
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Speaker 1: I get out of you back