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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your girl, Lex Peak.

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Speaker 2: Amy Sugarl, Dre and the Cold and you were tuned

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Speaker 2: in to another episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: Now, y'all see the budget is up now period. I'selves.

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Speaker 2: We got three cameras today. Look, and I got voted

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Speaker 2: three long we got maybe today. It's just like I

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Speaker 2: voted today.

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Speaker 1: I saw a queen. Yes.

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Speaker 2: I lied to my mom because she was like blowing

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Speaker 2: me up, like did you go vote?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, I already voted. But you

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Speaker 1: know what, I felt.

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Speaker 3: Like everybody's kind of freaking out, and they thought a

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Speaker 3: lot of people were gonna be like in the streets

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Speaker 3: rioting and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that maybe that's gonna happen tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: I think once it's maybe once it's announced to one

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Speaker 2: the election for sure. Yeah, yeah, because I was like

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Speaker 2: in and out everybody was really That's what I was

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Speaker 2: worried about. What you going today? I was like hoping

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Speaker 2: that it wouldn't be like crazy up there.

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Speaker 1: No, it was like no, by I was like, and

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Speaker 1: now I.

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Speaker 2: Had people blowing up my phone too, Like my family

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Speaker 2: members been texting me all morning like, hey, have.

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Speaker 1: You voted here? First of all six, I've been voting.

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Speaker 1: I know that's right.

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Speaker 2: I voted when it was early voting two weeks ago

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Speaker 2: in the twenty seventh.

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Speaker 1: So what have you been doing this past week? What's

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Speaker 1: been up? What did we do?

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Speaker 2: Have we done anything this week? Have we done anything?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so, I don't think so. I've been

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Speaker 2: in Atlanta for the past week. I mean I went

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Speaker 2: to Houston last week. Yeah, well we were both in Houston.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so I just been chilling. So I decided

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Speaker 1: for me that I'm like completely done dating. I like

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Speaker 1: cleared out my roster. I believe that. I really I'm

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Speaker 1: done with everybody. So if it was if a person

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Speaker 1: was miss niggas.

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Speaker 3: No, But I really like I cleaned out my roster.

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Speaker 3: I'm not dealing with anybody right now. I feel like

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Speaker 3: me and throwback back, I told you, like we're really

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Speaker 3: good friends.

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Speaker 1: Like that's my nigga. I went and I saw him

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Speaker 1: last night.

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Speaker 2: Somehow his dick did end up in my mouth, but

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Speaker 3: But that was the last time. It was like, you

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Speaker 3: know how you gotta suck a nigga dick to tell him.

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Speaker 1: By No, I don't. I didn't tell him by well.

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Speaker 3: I mean it was like it was like some goodbye,

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Speaker 3: like okay, like this is it with no reply.

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Speaker 1: Details don't matter, you know what I'm tying. It was

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Speaker 1: y'all gonna being again.

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Speaker 2: No we're not.

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Speaker 1: We're like, girl, we get where I'm in right now?

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Speaker 2: Again No, No, But I feel like that was like.

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Speaker 1: Our goodbye sicks, Like it was cool, like we had

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Speaker 1: a good time.

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Speaker 2: Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Don't had good bye sacks like five times. No, this

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Speaker 1: is really goodbye. Don't forget about that, girl, I'm not

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Speaker 1: about to play with you. Okay. So, but the dick

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Speaker 1: was good.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's always good. That's why why are you

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Speaker 2: in this again?

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Speaker 3: Because I feel like we would be It's not necessarily toxic.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like we would be better off as friends.

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Speaker 3: And I'm emotional and I'll just be getting.

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Speaker 1: I just have to. I'll just be in my feelings.

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Speaker 2: I think that you should sing that today for your

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Speaker 2: song Don't forget about it.

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Speaker 1: No Emotional by Karl Thomas.

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Speaker 2: Oh god it is. It is Turtle Neck Weather. But

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Speaker 2: I actually have a better song.

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Speaker 1: Oh you gonna sing the song from yesterday? You fucking hell.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, let's get into these motherfucking topics.

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Speaker 1: We got a lot to discuss. I'm gonna let you

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Speaker 1: because something is wrong with this girl seriously.

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Speaker 2: Like well, first of all, in my defense, this is

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Speaker 2: not something that I just was thinking about on my own.

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Speaker 2: I was definitely on Twitter and I saw the topic

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Speaker 2: on Twitter.

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Speaker 1: I saw somebody say.

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Speaker 2: Oh, matter of fact, this guy was retweeting these old

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Speaker 2: photos of JT from Steadie Girls. Okay, right, and then

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Speaker 2: so he had all of her old like mugshots I

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Speaker 2: and so people were like going in on the timeline

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Speaker 2: and they was just saying, like, you ain't really ugly,

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Speaker 2: I kind of wanted to talk about that topic. Although

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Speaker 2: I feel like she wasn't ever ut wasn't. Yeah, he

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Speaker 2: wasn't ever ugly to begin with. But I feel like

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Speaker 2: people be forgetting too. We have came so far with

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Speaker 2: like technology, photos doing our makeup. I care all of

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Speaker 2: us was just super bad. Bit she's ten years ago.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I agree. I feel like I wasn't even

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Speaker 1: a bad beitch three years ago. Bitch, she too far.

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Speaker 1: No no, no.

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Speaker 3: But I'll say this though, because it does make fucking sense,

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Speaker 3: because honestly, I talk about this all the time. Bitch,

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Speaker 3: when I moved to Atlanta, y'all, I have three dollars now, Bitch,

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Speaker 3: I had two dollars then, So it's like I had

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Speaker 3: to get what I can. I had synthetic wigs, bitch

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Speaker 3: like busting lashes, my nailsouldn't even know I had press

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Speaker 1: I was just trying to make shit work. He used

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Speaker 1: to love what's the name of that company? I used

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Speaker 1: to love me a kid snail baby.

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Speaker 2: A nail kid doctor, King snail Kid.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know about that kid snail Kid. So yeah, I

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Speaker 3: First of all, I was never ugly, though, but I

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Speaker 1: Like to me, a bad bitch, I say that all the.

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Speaker 3: Time if we're just talking about looks now bad bitch.

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Speaker 3: If you get into it, it's more to it, like now,

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Speaker 1: But if we're talking about right now, we're talking about

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Speaker 2: Talking about the surface level of physical things, like a

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Speaker 1: Done, hair done, nails done, everything? Did you know what

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Speaker 3: So three years ago when I first wod moved to Atlanta,

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: But you were a beautiful girl. You still are beautiful.

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Speaker 2: You are still beautiful even despite the fact that you

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Speaker 1: Like I was taking that old picture, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: But you know also too, in my personal opinion, I

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Speaker 1: I I used to tell you that.

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Speaker 2: But I used to love when you had your short haircut.

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Speaker 2: see I got over the short hair, and then it

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Speaker 1: I didn't feel like getting my haircut every two weeks

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, so it was just like

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Speaker 1: Right, you know what I'm saying. Like it was just

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, I absolutely think you're not ugly or you're

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Speaker 1: You just don't have the money. Anybody can look good

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Speaker 1: once you get some in your pod. Yeah, I feel

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Speaker 1: like this is right now in my life. This is

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Speaker 2: well I should guess I should say in my adult life.

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Speaker 2: Mm hm, you know what I mean, Cause I was

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Speaker 2: school pictures, middle school pictures. You had college pictures, yea.

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Speaker 1: Even in college, like I was trying to work with

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Speaker 3: I feel like that I do get to I look

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Speaker 3: Like I used to be like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: Bitch. Now I'm pulling up in my fucking sneakers and

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Speaker 1: calm me today. Yeah that's your sweat, that's you know,

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Speaker 3: Like, I want to be comfortable, especially like if I'm

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Speaker 3: going now, if I'm going out to a club, yeah,

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Speaker 3: But if it's just like on some daytime shit at

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Speaker 3: like brunch or something, bitch, I'm pulling up at my sneakers.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely feel like as I get older,

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Speaker 2: I feel like both of us, it's like every year

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Speaker 2: better because I mean, we be making more.

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Speaker 1: And more money.

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Speaker 3: I mean, because if you have extra money to spend,

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Speaker 3: the extra little money I had, it was like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, do I want to eat or do I need

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Speaker 1: to get I was like, do I want them nuggets?

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Speaker 1: Or do I need to get my nails done? You

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Speaker 3: But now it's like, I can go get my nails done,

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Speaker 3: them done. It's just like I go get a facial.

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Speaker 3: It's just like when you have extra money to spend,

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Speaker 3: you do look better and you do feel better. But

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Speaker 3: I don't want people to feel like if you don't

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Speaker 2: And do you know what I'm saying, I mean no,

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Speaker 2: And I feel like that's not That's not what we're

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Speaker 2: more money you eat, you just look better, you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean. A lot of people are not ugly already,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I think that's the point

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Speaker 3: But I felt like for me at the time, I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gotta be quick, Like you wear like wear

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Speaker 2: I'm so fucking dead. But anyway, sidebar, why the fuck

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Speaker 1: I'll say this, that's not fair, though.

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Speaker 3: Show me one mugshot where somebody looks like just beautiful

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Speaker 2: No, it's so funny because in one of them videos,

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Speaker 3: I was definitely and then I used to be drunk

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Speaker 2: That's why I really funk with the people that they've

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Speaker 1: Why the were you even listening? Honestly, why would you

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Speaker 2: And then it was like a point that like we

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Speaker 1: No for real, but we used to try to make

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Speaker 2: If you're not ugly, York just broke, okay, so give

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Speaker 2: me They gonna write up to be like, hey, I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to feel.

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Speaker 3: I want to know, because honestly, sometimes people do feel

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like, bitch, if I was out here

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Speaker 1: Pressed, some nails and a bad body. Then you gotta

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Speaker 1: If I ain't got nothing else, I got this ass.

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Speaker 2: So that's one thing I feel like, obnestly, you saved

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Speaker 2: And then you would tell me that they were press

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Speaker 1: Because the house really used to be looking like you

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Speaker 2: I'm not even being you know that, I'm not even

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Speaker 2: So moving on to the next topic, we wanted to

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Speaker 1: It's easy for me to cut both of them off.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just because I look at my friends

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Speaker 2: Like it's different talking about like my mom or my sister.

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Speaker 2: I'm not including them on this conversation.

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Speaker 1: It's my friends. I mean, I feel like if I

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Speaker 1: no way. So have you ever had to cut off

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, I told you I had to cut off

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Speaker 1: Don't fuck with her, right, well, my situation.

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Speaker 2: She might watch this too, my situation my cousin when

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Speaker 2: Right So at the time, I just I wasn't comfortable

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Speaker 1: So my cousin like she took care of it for me, like,

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Speaker 1: Mom was getting into it. She was like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: My mom wasn't even mad. She was just kind of like,

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Speaker 1: Was bringing that up years later, good time having Mana

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Speaker 2: But after you know, when his sid was chilling Mana

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Speaker 1: You know, of course people want to be like, oh, hey, cuh,

442
00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,280
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you, cause I'm like, I don't know you.

443
00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,120
Speaker 2: But I just think that's why you gotta be careful though,

444
00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:15,560
Speaker 2: what you do to people, because you don't never know

445
00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:16,560
Speaker 2: what people gonna end up in.

446
00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,800
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying, that's why you gotta mean,

447
00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:19,880
Speaker 1: that's why you can do people.

448
00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,560
Speaker 3: At least, the least thing that you can do as

449
00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,159
Speaker 3: a human being is just be so and be a

450
00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:26,080
Speaker 3: decent person.

451
00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,200
Speaker 2: But that A's saying you gotta be the best person,

452
00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,119
Speaker 2: but at least be decent, at least be solid. And

453
00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:34,120
Speaker 2: I feel like with people treating their family members bad,

454
00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 2: it's like, damn, you can't even do your own family right.

455
00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:37,600
Speaker 1: See.

456
00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 2: My situation is a little bit different my cousin, But

457
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,080
Speaker 2: then it's also kind of different too because she still

458
00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 2: we still follow each other on like social media or whatever,

459
00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,960
Speaker 2: but not until recently because I had her block for

460
00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:53,119
Speaker 2: a while. So basically I had a situation where I

461
00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,720
Speaker 2: had a roommate I had just graduated from colleague.

462
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Speaker 1: Is this a roommate you used to her ass. She's

463
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Speaker 1: eating my ass. I wouldn't even a Oh I did

464
00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:09,840
Speaker 1: eat her ask one, I did seven days a week. Anyway,

465
00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:15,800
Speaker 1: you're pinking on my f You forget what I was

466
00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 1: talking about.

467
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so me and her became roommates and then,

468
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 2: you know I talked about these on Patreon. That situation

469
00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:24,920
Speaker 2: didn't end up turning out well, we had so she

470
00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:28,159
Speaker 2: moved out in the middle of our least, so my

471
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,680
Speaker 2: cousin ended up moving in. But at the time, I guess,

472
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,840
Speaker 2: you know, she wasn't making that much money and stuff

473
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 2: like that, but she told me she would be able

474
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Speaker 2: to pay the rent.

475
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 1: She wasn't able to pay the rent, so I was

476
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Speaker 1: like helping her pay the rent. And how much was

477
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Speaker 1: rent back then?

478
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Speaker 2: Shit, I want to say, back then, that apartment that

479
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Speaker 2: I was living at its well appease, probably yeah, because

480
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,440
Speaker 2: I think that apartment was like fourteen hundred.

481
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Speaker 1: Damn back then.

482
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Speaker 2: I mean this was like in twenty fourteen, oh fourteen, Okay,

483
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Speaker 2: I'm thinking, I forget.

484
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 1: And the apartment was like in Katie like by KT. Well.

485
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Speaker 3: When I first moved to p in two thousand and seven,

486
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 3: me and my sister had a two bedroom and it

487
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,679
Speaker 3: was like seven eight hundred dollars, but that was two thousands.

488
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:08,959
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, two thousand, because even when I was in college,

489
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,920
Speaker 2: I think my college apartment was like eight hundred dollars. Yeah,

490
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 2: so yeah, the apartment was like fourteen hundred dollars a month,

491
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 2: I want to say, so seven hundred dollars apiece. Plus

492
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 2: of course, you know the electricity and stuff. Every month,

493
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,640
Speaker 2: something would happen and she would need her paying the bills.

494
00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 2: So me and my mama was basically like helping her

495
00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:28,000
Speaker 2: pay her. So really it was me and my mama

496
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,640
Speaker 2: day apartment want to be taken a cool wet live there.

497
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 2: So we got into it one night because I guess,

498
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:36,920
Speaker 2: you know, she used to feel some type of way

499
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 2: because she used to always be going to work, slaving

500
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Speaker 2: every day.

501
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,960
Speaker 1: Heaven, she had like two jobs and then me, I

502
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,639
Speaker 1: just used to be living my best site.

503
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,719
Speaker 2: I'm all laid off for me, Oh yeah, I got

504
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,160
Speaker 2: I used to work in the oil and gas cup

505
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,199
Speaker 2: of the y'all, and I ended up getting laid off

506
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 2: and I got a savorance package.

507
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 1: I used to be chilli.

508
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 2: So she was trying to say one day, she like

509
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: he tried to call me your prostitute, because she was like,

510
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 2: you don't even work.

511
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 1: How the fuck do you always be having money and

512
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 1: doing this? I see?

513
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 2: And then a crazy thing gets back. Then the ship

514
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:08,159
Speaker 2: I'll be doing now, I wouldn't even do it. And

515
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 2: I said, I'm a pro, but how I be with

516
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 2: niggas and the ship I be now? I wasn't even

517
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,479
Speaker 2: know that I had a good money manager.

518
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 1: Right, So she trying to tell me a prostitute. So

519
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:21,879
Speaker 1: we got into a real man.

520
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 2: I was like, well, bitch, if I'm a prostitute, bitch,

521
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 2: you the fucking prostitute. I was like, but he's crazy

522
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: because you ain't even getting no money. You be having

523
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 2: these niggas laying up in this motherfucking house with you,

524
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 2: a different nigga every day, sleeping on a fucking.

525
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Speaker 1: Air man tree.

526
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,159
Speaker 2: She got an air man yes, oh no, she she

527
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 2: had one at first, and then she got a bed

528
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:46,320
Speaker 2: from rental center. I used to come, you know, I

529
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 2: tell you what she needs this why I cut her

530
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 2: ass off? So she's to have a different nigga up

531
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 2: in there every day. Can help up the bill. Right,

532
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 2: So we got into it, and when she said that

533
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 2: to me, she tries to start getting buck with me. Now,

534
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 2: mind you, she's bigger than me, like a bigger girl

535
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 2: than me. So she started getting buck with me. So

536
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, bitch, if you want to fight, we

537
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 2: could fight. It is what it is. You know.

538
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 1: I was a little more.

539
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 2: Feisty in my younger days, you know that, right, So

540
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, if that's what she want to do,

541
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 2: we could do that. So she called her daddy, and

542
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 2: her daddy tell her to call the police. Police on

543
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 2: what they told me, I had to leave for the night,

544
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 2: so I had to go stay. So I had to

545
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Speaker 2: go spend the night at my fucking parents' house for

546
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 2: the night. Her dad, my uncle, told her to call

547
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,919
Speaker 2: the police on me, and then when my mama called him,

548
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 2: in charge him up about the she he gonna save. Well, honestly,

549
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 2: if she, if Drea had called me, I would have

550
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 2: told her to do the same thing. You a mother

551
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 2: fucking lie.

552
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: No, you wouldn't have. You know what you should have did?

553
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,119
Speaker 3: Should have took the safety pin and just put a

554
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 3: little bitty hole in her little mattress.

555
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 2: Well, no, she got the bed from rentalsent about it

556
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 2: in Oh damn good. But I should have left, should

557
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 2: have lifted me only coming, but I used to. So

558
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 2: y'all are still not cool to this day?

559
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: No, because I just feel like it's certain lines that

560
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: you just don't cross with him, right, you know what

561
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: I mean?

562
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 2: But I feel like I didn't even do anything to you, Like, yeah,

563
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 2: we was arguing this sheet, and we was probably about

564
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: the fight, But hell, are we cousins? Even if we

565
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 2: would have got into a fight, No, it would have

566
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 2: been See, I'm different on that. I feel like, once

567
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 2: I put my hands on you, there's no going back.

568
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 2: I didn't put my hands on no, But I'm saying,

569
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: once I get to the point to where I feel

570
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:31,120
Speaker 2: like I want.

571
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 1: To fight you, we ain't never fought none of your cousins. No,

572
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 1: Oh I have, but when we was younger.

573
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 2: But I just yeah, but I feel like as adults,

574
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 2: it's not fighting as kids versus fighting as adults. Like, bitch,

575
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 2: if you put your hands on me and like we're fighting, there's.

576
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 1: No going back for me.

577
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 2: But I'm saying, even a family member like you feel

578
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 2: like you would call the police. An't like your cousins

579
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:51,640
Speaker 2: y'all got into a fight.

580
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: Not a physic.

581
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't call the police. But if we got

582
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 2: into a physical fight, that's done. That relationship is dead forever. Wait, no,

583
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 2: I one hundred percent agree with But what I'm saying

584
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,399
Speaker 2: is I just feel like when it comes to family,

585
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 2: it's like you my cousin at the end of the day.

586
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 2: So even if we would have gotten a fight, we

587
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 2: probably still wouldn't have fucked with each other like that

588
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 2: in the future. But I just still would have never

589
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 2: called the police on you. I just feel like it's

590
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 2: certain lines that you just don't cross with your people,

591
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. At the time, I was young,

592
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 2: I had just graduated from college, I had my whole

593
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 2: life ahead of me. Like if I would have went

594
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 2: to jail for there, you know what I mean, It's

595
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,719
Speaker 2: like you just never know what could have had been right,

596
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 2: And it's like, but you was really willing to take

597
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 2: it there over.

598
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 1: Some petty ass. She because this is a petty ass?

599
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: Are you right? So now I can't fuck with you

600
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: no more? Yeah, And watching girl, I'm dead.

601
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 3: If she watches the show, I'm gonna be I'm gonna

602
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 3: scream why are you gonna because that's embarrassing.

603
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 1: Now the whole family know she was sleeping on the

604
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: air mattresses. Everybody know that.

605
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 2: Everybody know that already she upgraded her life. I would

606
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:54,239
Speaker 2: like to change the subject. Well, I'll say then they

607
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: gonna call me and be like, see, Draya, you did

608
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 2: not have to do that on the show.

609
00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: They don't call you say that anyway.

610
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 2: Well, actually, I don't think none about my family listens

611
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: to the show itself. For one person, Oh my aunt,

612
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: Oh okay, hang on, teach, she ain't really fun to

613
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 2: hook neither though. So I just feel like we as

614
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 2: far as family goes, especially at this age, I feel

615
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 2: like anybody can eat it. Yeah, Like if you don't

616
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 2: fuck with me or I found out you saying shit

617
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,639
Speaker 2: like I don't know. Like I said, I feel like

618
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 2: my friends or my family outside of my mom and

619
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 2: my sister, like that's my blood and my blood, but

620
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 2: as so as like cousins, aunts, uncles, like, I don't know.

621
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 2: I've never been like a super super family oriented person,

622
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

623
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: See, my family is big. Yeah, I don't have a

624
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: big family.

625
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 3: So it's like holidays, I'll be like whatever, I'll spend

626
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 3: my holidays with my friends. I might go home for Christmas,

627
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 3: and if I go home for Christmas, so just be

628
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 3: like me, mom, my sister, and.

629
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: My nephews and her boyfriend. You know what I'm saying.

630
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: So I don't have that like family dynamic.

631
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 2: So see my family is big and we're all really

632
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: really close. But see, my mama and my daddy know me.

633
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 2: My dad knew me, and so it's just like when

634
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 2: I get mad and I don't fuck with people no more,

635
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,200
Speaker 2: you cannot convinced me to fuck back with them. So

636
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 2: they knew that that she was a dude age. She's

637
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 2: two years younger than me. Okay, but I mean now

638
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 2: she be always responding to my stories and like commenting

639
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 2: and my pictures and stuff.

640
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: Sometimes do you say something back, No, I'm dead you

641
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 1: fucking pity. I'm not petty. I don't suck with her.

642
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 2: But you called the police on me over something childish

643
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: Like I could see if I had stole off of

644
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 2: I I can see if I had stole off on

645
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: their house. I still wouldn't have caught the police if

646
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 2: I was her, but I could more so understand the

647
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 2: logic behind it. I didn't actually hit her, well, I

648
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 2: think she was probably scared. You wasn't actually like you

649
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 2: were scared when you were talking all that ship though.

650
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm just saying that's the thing A little

651
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 2: say I can You're like, you.

652
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: Know, have you seen a chiaha when they get mad?

653
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: That's like, that's me.

654
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. But and I do feel like I could be

655
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 2: intimidating when I get angry. I do if you scared

656
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 2: of you, bitch? You the one that just said she

657
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 2: was scared. And I don't feel like people be scared

658
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,640
Speaker 2: of me. Maybe you not girl scared of you, bitch.

659
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Speaker 1: I feel like people I'm not.

660
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Speaker 2: Saying necessarily scared, but I definitely feel like people be

661
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Speaker 2: intimidated for sure.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know that's just how I am as a person.

664
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Speaker 1: I do feel that way.

665
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Speaker 2: I don't feel like you are because you know me.

666
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Speaker 2: You know I'm coolest, fun But I feel like on

667
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Speaker 2: the surface level how I come off a lot of

668
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Speaker 2: the time, I do feel like it can be intimidating

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Speaker 2: to people.

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Speaker 1: Interesting. But at the end of the day, about I'm

671
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Speaker 1: listening to how you're so scary, I was. I was frightened.

672
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Speaker 1: I was trying to like see where the firm because

673
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Speaker 1: remember that time we had got into it. You was

674
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Speaker 1: a little scared. I was like this. She pushed me

675
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Speaker 1: off the house. She was like, get out, get out.

676
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: I said, this hole here. I ain't had nowhere to go.

677
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Speaker 1: Y'all know I had three dollars. This bit's gonna put

678
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Speaker 1: me out the street. Bitch, I wasn't scared. I was like,

679
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Speaker 1: God damn, I'm walking down Peach Street with my.

680
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: Fucking bed stiff wink fast.

681
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Speaker 1: Walking down Peach Street. Nowhere to go. Just pick me up,

682
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: you fucking lie. Why are you lying to these people?

683
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Speaker 1: Where was your car?

684
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 2: Oh?

685
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 1: No, I want a fucking car. And then that's when

686
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: I worked, so I had to walk way to my car.

687
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: It was two o'clock in the morning. I had to

688
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Speaker 1: walk way to my car.

689
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 2: And then I went to Jazz's house because that's when

690
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Speaker 2: she had her one bedroom.

691
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 3: Apartment, and I went over there. So no, bitch, I

692
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 3: wasn't scared. I just left cause I knew we was

693
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Speaker 3: about to get physical. It was about it was about

694
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Speaker 3: to get.

695
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Speaker 1: I see see yeah that you ain't do it right?

696
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Speaker 2: You do it?

697
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: You about to flex with that ship girl playing with me?

698
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Speaker 1: God damn it, come, I'm getting mad all over again.

699
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Speaker 1: This home.

700
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 2: I was like, I would kick to apologize to you

701
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Speaker 2: on camera in front of all these people. I'm so sorry,

702
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: damn today, but you deserved because you was talking to.

703
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Speaker 1: Holl bunch of she be. She was you had to

704
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Speaker 1: fucking go and me and we still let my house.

705
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you are trash. You are trash.

706
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Speaker 2: Okay, So, if you've ever been kicked out of your

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Speaker 1: Better Help actually got me through that night, me and

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736
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738
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739
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741
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Speaker 3: And even if you're not going through something, I feel

742
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Speaker 3: like therapy is a good thing. Like some people just

743
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Speaker 3: need to release sometimes and talk about things. It's just

744
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745
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so a therapist can, yeah, definitely help you with

746
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Speaker 2: what you're going through. So yes, make sure y'all Betterhelp

747
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Speaker 2: dot Com backslash Poor mine.

748
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Speaker 1: Now we're gonna get into the bed a A.

749
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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna let you uh introduce this topic because

750
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Speaker 2: poor pussy management.

751
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: Since you were talking about I mean, we were talking

752
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: about your cousin. You said, you know what, I'm not

753
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: one thing I cannot stand and I did this myself.

754
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: I cannot stand to see a woman struggling but she's

755
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 2: like in a relationship, are she fucking with somebody? Cause

756
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 2: that used to be me. That used to be me

757
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 2: so fucking bad. Now when I look back on I'm like,

758
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: did so you feel like you had? I had terrible

759
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 2: pussy manage, like to Garfield at the At one point

760
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Speaker 2: Garfield was like, bitch.

761
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Speaker 1: I quit. I ain't coming to work today. Bitch, I'm

762
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: tired of working not getting fucking paid.

763
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Speaker 3: Like it was, just like it's just I feel like,

764
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 3: and I'm not saying that you're exchanging your pussy for

765
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Speaker 3: money and things like that.

766
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Speaker 1: If you do do that, that you'll be But what

767
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying is there's no way. But I mean it's

768
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: the same with men. Poor dick management. There's no there's

769
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Speaker 1: no no because I feel like no, because we're gonna

770
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Speaker 1: keep it fair.

771
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 3: Honestly, if I'm in a relationship with a man and

772
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Speaker 3: something happened and he fought, and he usually be up

773
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Speaker 3: and something happened and he fall off.

774
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Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm if this is my boyfriend, you're

775
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Speaker 1: gonna be straight still though, you know what I'm saying.

776
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Speaker 2: Oh well yeah, if we're in a relationship, Yeah, yeah,

777
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. So if you're in a relationship

778
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Speaker 2: with somebody home on we've been day no.

779
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Speaker 1: See, you're supposed to hold your nigga down. Not if

780
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Speaker 1: we've been together for three months, you would leave your nigga.

781
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 3: Like obviously y'all have been talked, talking for a while

782
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 3: to get to that point to be in a relationships.

783
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Speaker 1: In a relationship, you got in a relationship after two weeks,

784
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: I absolutely did. But we're not talking about me. But

785
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying people get in a relationships.

786
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 2: You don't. I'm talking about you specifically. You do not

787
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 2: get in a relationship quickly.

788
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: So I have before.

789
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Speaker 2: If you are with somebody, you've been dating them for

790
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 2: three months, y'all have been talking for a while.

791
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: I'm talking about you specifically.

792
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 3: So if you were in a relationship with a man

793
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Speaker 3: for three months, obviously you've known this man for a while,

794
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,399
Speaker 3: and y'all been talking for a while.

795
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Speaker 2: So something happened in that three months and he fell off.

796
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Speaker 2: You wouldn't make sure he was straight until he got

797
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Speaker 2: back up on his feet.

798
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Speaker 1: Bitch.

799
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 2: I'm talking about if I just met somebody and we

800
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Speaker 2: got in a relationship in three months, That's what I'm.

801
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not talking I'm talking about you.

802
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 2: I've done that before, so that's what I'm saying. I'm

803
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 2: talking about it you meet somebody, now, I just you

804
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 2: are probably not even I don't fall in love quickly,

805
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 2: so in three months, I'm.

806
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Speaker 1: Not even in love with real? Bye, good look, God speed.

807
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 2: I feel like God, damn it. I feel like it's

808
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 2: hold y'all, nigga. Maybe that's why I got poor pussy man.

809
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: Yes, steady is why. That's why.

810
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Speaker 2: That's why absolutely I was gonna ask you do so,

811
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Speaker 2: do you feel like with I guess with me and

812
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 2: and women where you are in life, do you feel

813
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Speaker 2: like that's any indication of your pussy management or your

814
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 2: dec management like where I'm at life, Like, yes, I

815
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 2: guess more songs is more so a topic for women.

816
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Speaker 3: I guess yeah, I mean absolutely, I feel like, honestly

817
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 3: like I said three years ago, you could tell my

818
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Speaker 3: my wig, I have poor pussy.

819
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like now.

820
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Speaker 2: You see my wheezy like this, you know, keep taking

821
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 2: yourself Like I'm just saying, you know, a bitch got

822
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 2: good pussy when you got that frontal a bitch when

823
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 2: I stepped out that red wig, people.

824
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: Like, damn, I know that pussy. Good nigga taken care

825
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Speaker 1: of her. You know what I'm saying. We ain't sucking

826
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 1: that song in a long time.

827
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 2: I know, but that But you know what, I do

828
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,959
Speaker 2: believe that it's something that you really have to learn

829
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 2: and you happy. Yeah, But I feel like a lot

830
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 2: of time were I mean, I feel like I didn't

831
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Speaker 2: always have good pussy management.

832
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Speaker 1: But for me it was more so.

833
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Speaker 3: I used to be embarrassed to say, oh, I don't

834
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,479
Speaker 3: have any money right now, or I need help.

835
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 2: It was embarrassing for me, but you was fucking them.

836
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 2: So but that's why I say I learned, Like now,

837
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 2: why I guess I'm just asking for like maybe some

838
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,439
Speaker 2: of the girls out there, they probably feel the same way.

839
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 2: Why were you scared to ask? Because I was embarrassed.

840
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 2: I was embarrassed that I didn't embarrassed to pull your pennies.

841
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 3: No, I'm never embarrassed. You see that motherfucker she be

842
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 3: ready to shun. It ain't nothing to be shame about that.

843
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You know, you know, please,

844
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm serious. I'm serious too. No, was

845
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 1: I embarrassed to fuck?

846
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 2: No?

847
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: Because I was horny?

848
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 2: Now people horny and bro I really.

849
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: Don't understand it. Like that's not even an emotion I have.

850
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 2: When I don't have no mony, Lily, don't even feel literally,

851
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 2: don't even I swear to God, I put this everything.

852
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 2: I don't even think about dick. If I don't have

853
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 2: no money, well, you know, unless he's about.

854
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: To give me some money. Like well, I mean, you

855
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 1: know what I mean, not saying.

856
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 2: Fuck the nigga for money, but like if I'm going

857
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 2: to like if a nigga trying to date me right,

858
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 2: and me and this nigga started talking, you know what

859
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 2: I mean, and we getting along and shit, he's going great,

860
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 2: and then he's trying to fuck. It's like, okay, well

861
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,800
Speaker 2: let me tell you everything I got going on, because

862
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 2: if you ain't trying to help, I ain't trying to fuck.

863
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: You know, I help me.

864
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 2: I'm not about to be fucking on a nigga when

865
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 2: I'm poor. My bro, No, I'm not trying to help

866
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Speaker 2: me get out of my situation.

867
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 3: I agree with you one hundred percent. But like I said,

868
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 3: in my situation, I was not only embarrassed. I was

869
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 3: intimidated by this man and like the way he used

870
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 3: to make me feel. But this man specifically was not

871
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 3: a good person.

872
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 1: And we're not getting to that. Yeah, but uh, at

873
00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: the time, like I said, I was just embarrased.

874
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 3: It's now like, no, I'm not like if you want

875
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 3: me to either not be at work taking time off

876
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 3: to see you, like and I'm going through something, or

877
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 3: I need a bill paid or I need some help, nigga,

878
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 3: you're gonna have to help me, you know. Like now

879
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 3: I don't need help, like I'll be straight, but I mean, yeah,

880
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 3: if I want to go shopping or I want my

881
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 3: hair done or all my nails done, and to fuck

882
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 3: with me, yeah, I'm definitely gonna ask clothed mouths don't

883
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 3: get fed, you know what I'm saying.

884
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: And we know that men like to do the bare minimum.

885
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: If they can do the bare minimum and still get

886
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: the fucks what they gonna do.

887
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 3: That's smart to me. I don't even fault smart. I

888
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 3: don't even fault men for that. Women get so many

889
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 3: like niggas want to do the bare minimum because.

890
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 1: Y'all are allowing them, me being one of them that

891
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: used to allow that to happen.

892
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 2: So they want to say men are dumb, but it's

893
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 2: like no, because if a man don't have to do

894
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 2: nothing to fuck, why would he do more when he

895
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 2: doesn't have to. Let me tell you, when my policy

896
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 2: mintage got bible, when I had to let my ex

897
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 2: have my own cell phone, I was like, oh, I

898
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 2: can't fuck with these poor niggas no more.

899
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 1: And I was cheating because I forgot to clear to

900
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: me it was a sad day. So what phone were

901
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: you using? It was my old phone? Oh it was

902
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: one of my old phone. Oh damn. So he had

903
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: the five seat. He was broke.

904
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 2: He couldn't even buy a new phone. So I had

905
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,760
Speaker 2: gave him one of my old phones. But I forgot

906
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 2: to clear it out. And that was the last time

907
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,319
Speaker 2: that I fucked with a nigga who was not doing

908
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 2: nothing for me, absolutely, because I was just like, what

909
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 2: the fuck?

910
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: Why am I having to give you my cell phone. Well,

911
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, y'all.

912
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 2: Drea had a guy pay for her nails and he

913
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 2: didn't have it, and he was pulling out ones in

914
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 2: his pocket and they were all crumbled up, but he

915
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 2: was gonna make sure he paid for them nails.

916
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 1: That's true, he was like.

917
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,280
Speaker 2: And then the bus I realized he didn't have no money,

918
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 2: and he was putting on a facade.

919
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my, as she.

920
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 3: Crumbled up ones out of his pocket. That is so embarrassing.

921
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: And I knew he had poor dick manage me when

922
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: I seen that. Why the ones crumbled up like that?

923
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: You ain't got no hand with one, honey? What a

924
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: big face, honey. And you know what, it was funny

925
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: the night after they left Magic City. You know why

926
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 1: I was crumbled up in there. He was picking that

927
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: off off the floor because he damn Strew wasn't throwing.

928
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 1: He was like, you lean back and back, nobody watching you,

929
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: and you act like you gotta tie your shoe. You

930
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: act like you gotta tie your shoes. You pick up

931
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: the one.

932
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 2: But oh and that nigga is a that's a it's

933
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 2: a great thing that you just brought him up because

934
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 2: that nigga is a prime example of the type of

935
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 2: niggas to like me, wanting you to have poor pussy management,

936
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 2: be mad when.

937
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 1: You realize your work and realize that men love women.

938
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: Then they try to call you gold niggers and say

939
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 2: that you you you I thought you was different and

940
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 2: all these other bullsh know, like very else. And that's

941
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 2: the one thing that they trying to do to make

942
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 2: you feel bad too. Oh you just why didn't make

943
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 2: me feel bad about that?

944
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 1: You just like all these other women? Yeah, like, oh,

945
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: you're different from these other girls.

946
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: No, I'm not.

947
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: I'm really like and it's okay, that's totally fine.

948
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: And you know what I mean, That nigga can definitely

949
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 2: not make me feel bad about requiring things from him

950
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 2: if we're having said right.

951
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 1: I agree, I know what I mean. It's like, what

952
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: the fuck do I look like?

953
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 2: What the fuck do I look like fucking on a

954
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 2: nigga or fucking with a nigga who is making X

955
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 2: amount of money and it's successful or whatever and doing

956
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 2: well for He's like, I'm over here struggling. I can't

957
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 2: even figure out how to fuck I'm gonna pay my

958
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 2: rent every moneth and I can't figure out how can

959
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 2: I don't even got fucking fifty dollars to go get

960
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 2: my nails done. And you know, I know it's just

961
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 2: because I know we have a lot of younger listeners.

962
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 2: I notice a lot of girls. They just want to

963
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 2: fuck with a bd B or a man who has

964
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: money or whatever, just to say, oh.

965
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 1: I fucked with him.

966
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 2: I think that's more so niggas, right, That's what I'm saying.

967
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 2: They just want bragging rights. No, you don't even have

968
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 2: to have a name, even if you.

969
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 3: Just a local drug dealer and you got a lot

970
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 3: of money, just wanna be like, oh, yeah that's who

971
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 3: I fuck with a name.

972
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 2: No, that's what I'm saying, if you want, because it's

973
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 2: a lot of niggas who got money, who people don't

974
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 2: even know. And bitches ain't about to just be going

975
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 2: around bragging about fucking on them niggas, no nothing.

976
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 1: Because don't nobody knows it. No, but I'm not saying that.

977
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 2: But they can be like, yeah, the nigga i'm fucking with,

978
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 2: he owned this company and he's a millionaire. Yeah, I

979
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 2: just want to say that, but is he he's a

980
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 2: millionaire and he's doing he got all this, but he's

981
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,320
Speaker 2: not giving you no, you don't know how fucking stupid, Charlie.

982
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 2: I would literally never go tell somebody that I'm fucking

983
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 2: on a millionaire and I'm still poor, right, But that's

984
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 2: what That's what a lot of people do.

985
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: That's what a lot of people do. They just kind

986
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: of want like the bragging, right.

987
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I shouldn't say poor because it's like,

988
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 2: you're not about to be rich like that nigga, but

989
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 2: you should be comfortable, you know what I mean. It's like,

990
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 2: if you're not married to a dude, realistically speaking, you

991
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 2: you're not about to have the same amount of wealth

992
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 2: as he had.

993
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:35,959
Speaker 1: He's not about to give you that kind of money,

994
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 1: but he should be making sure that you straight on him.

995
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 2: I would never understand girls that don't be having no

996
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,879
Speaker 2: fucking money in they perse I'm having no fucking bank

997
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 2: accounts and shit would be going around bragging like, oh,

998
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 2: I'm fucking these nigga.

999
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 1: I'm fucking that nigga ogn in like two years. Definitely

1000
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: not going to get in that today.

1001
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 2: That's a good topic though, I've seen that on Twitter too.

1002
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 2: How people be so freaky without be having no primary

1003
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 2: care doctor, you know what.

1004
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: Alright, So.

1005
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 3: So we gonna get into the bob a A. Okay,

1006
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 3: while I was drinking my water, I wasn't paying attention. Okay,

1007
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 3: So I was actually put on a new artist the

1008
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 3: other day and it was his name is Dylan Sinclair

1009
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 3: and he has a song called Intermission And you know

1010
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 3: what I've really when I was listening to this song.

1011
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 3: It's basically about like how a person gives themselves to

1012
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 3: everybody and they just need a break from the world

1013
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 3: and like they just need to go clear their minds, smoke.

1014
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: A blunt and just chill. And I was like really listening,

1015
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, this is a really good song.

1016
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 3: Because most R and B songs are about love, and

1017
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 3: they're about breakups or falling in love or cheating or

1018
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 3: always something to.

1019
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 1: Do with like a partner.

1020
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 2: So it was actually refreshing to hear a song that

1021
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 2: wasn't about sucking dick or eating pussy or falling in

1022
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 2: love and getting married. It was just like about like

1023
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 2: a better better in yourself, like you know, like releasing.

1024
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's my bop of the week. Dylan Saint

1025
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 2: Clair intermission. Oh okay, my pop of the week is

1026
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 2: this song called Falling by Summer Walk. Well, it's by

1027
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:16,439
Speaker 2: Trevor Daniel in Summer Walker. Okay, and I love something,

1028
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 2: I love this, I love some Walker.

1029
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: I haven't heard that. It's a good song.

1030
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: It's a little different though from like her usual so

1031
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 2: I guess because of the artists who because she's featured

1032
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: on the song. Okay, I have ran White Tea by

1033
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 2: Summer Walker into the song around and.

1034
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,320
Speaker 1: I still be running over it. Into the ground album.

1035
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 3: The whole album is just like, she really made a

1036
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 3: good fucking album. Bro, she snapped, She did what she

1037
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 3: had to do.

1038
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,959
Speaker 1: She snapped with that one brain cell. She made it work.

1039
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: You know, she had the Brothers crown.

1040
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 2: Now you know.

1041
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,720
Speaker 1: Now you know, I'm not about to talk about that, lady.

1042
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 2: We do not look like everybody always be saying that

1043
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 2: in a coming between her and.

1044
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: Y'all, I am dead.

1045
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 2: So yeah, those are the bops of the week. So

1046
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:10,479
Speaker 2: now we're gonna get into the question portion of the show.

1047
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 2: If you want your question to answer on the show,

1048
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 2: make sure you email us at ask Poor Minds at

1049
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. That's a skp oh you are in

1050
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 2: my n ds at gmail dot com. Don't send it

1051
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: to our personal emails, don't send it to our dms.

1052
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 1: Make sure you keep it a paragraph. Okay. Don't send

1053
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: it to Drea in leak show email either. I'm dead. Okay.

1054
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 2: So if you're a Patreon member, you also get to

1055
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 2: skip the line. So we have a question from one

1056
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 2: of our Patreon members and it says, hey, ladies, love

1057
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 2: the podcast. Much love from Houston and love to Drea

1058
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 2: my Taurus cyst.

1059
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 1: Lol. So I'll keep it short. I need some advice obviously.

1060
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 2: I've recently met a guy and it's not anything serious,

1061
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 2: but I like him so far.

1062
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 3: He's funny, nice and attractive. Problem is, I'm twenty eight

1063
00:45:54,000 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 3: and still a virgin. Why it's not a bad thing.

1064
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 1: I just know that's not a bad thing. That's just

1065
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 1: I didn't think virgins were a real thing. Crazy.

1066
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 2: Oh, and I'm still a virgin. I'm not waiting for

1067
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 2: marriage or anything at this point.

1068
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: I just need some dick. How you know you need

1069
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: some dick when you ain't never had moody you funny.

1070
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,280
Speaker 1: I've asked friends and got different answers. Advice.

1071
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 2: Should I wait or just go for it? Also, should

1072
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 2: I tell him or just keep it to myself?

1073
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 3: Well, you definitely, no, I don't know because I feel

1074
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 3: like if you tell him that, he really gonna be

1075
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 3: like I wanna fuck, because or it.

1076
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: Might scare him away because they actually and because like

1077
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: some niggas want them a freak and they don't want

1078
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:34,800
Speaker 1: to teach.

1079
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 2: Nobody in being and they don't want you to be

1080
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 2: super attached. Because I mean, it's gonna be. I feel like,

1081
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 2: whoever you end up, whoever you end up having six weeks,

1082
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 2: you're going to have an emotional attachment to them.

1083
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: Look, I've been fucking since I was six.

1084
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 2: I get attached every time I have sex, and I

1085
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 2: ain't nowhere near a virgin, right, So I'm saying I

1086
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 2: feel like, whoever she end up having sex week, she's

1087
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,959
Speaker 2: gonna have an emotional attachment to them. I was going

1088
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 2: to ask, you know, is there some type like are

1089
00:46:59,920 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 2: you you still a virgin for like religious reasons or

1090
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 2: I wonder like, what what's the reason in I.

1091
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 1: Mean, well, we don't know.

1092
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I'll say this because if that's at this point,

1093
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say wait until you're married or whatever. But

1094
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: since that's not what you're trying to do, but you

1095
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 2: definitely need to wait to have sex with somebody you're

1096
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 2: in a committed relationship with, cause I would hate for

1097
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 2: you to just lose your virginity and then you just

1098
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 2: like regret it.

1099
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 1: I mean, you've waited twenty eight years at this point.

1100
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: What's a couple more years or whatever?

1101
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 3: If you and this man decide to get into a

1102
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:33,439
Speaker 3: serious situation or y'all decide to take the next step

1103
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 3: in y'all's relationship, and I think that is something you

1104
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 3: need to share with him, like before he's like, well,

1105
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 3: he's gonna try to sleep with you, So before he

1106
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 3: gets to that point, I think you need to share

1107
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 3: that with him because if I was like dealing with

1108
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 3: a guy and we were about to fuck, I want

1109
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 3: to know that you're a virgin, Like I wouldn't.

1110
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:52,720
Speaker 1: Want to, you know, take y'rll virginity.

1111
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to take nobody's virginity means, especially

1112
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 3: at this to me, that's too much pressure.

1113
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a lot of pressure.

1114
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:01,879
Speaker 3: And then Garfield gonna go with you up, I would

1115
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 3: be swellowing me. You might be scarred for life. So yeah,

1116
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,879
Speaker 3: I think it's definitely something that you need to share

1117
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 3: with him.

1118
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 2: But I think you need to wait until you're in

1119
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 2: a serious, committed relationship with somebody.

1120
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:16,479
Speaker 3: I wouldn't just fuck him just because you ready to fuck. Yeah, girls,

1121
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 3: stick to the vibrators. These niggas ain't shit.

1122
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: I agree, girl, you can hold out a little bit longer.

1123
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 3: And honestly, you'll probably have a better orgasm with a

1124
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 3: vibrator anyway.

1125
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 1: Mm, you better tell the truth. I'm telling the truth.

1126
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: Huh Okay.

1127
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 2: So the next question is, so I've been celibate for

1128
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,399
Speaker 2: a long time. The last person I was active, we'd

1129
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 2: have some whack dexies. Ugh. How far would you backpedal

1130
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 2: on last partners? What's crossing the line? My favorite X

1131
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 2: boo has a girlfriend now but still shoots his shots.

1132
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 2: Would that be trifling to go back? I'd hate to

1133
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 2: go from the main bitch to the mystreets laughing my

1134
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 2: ass off.

1135
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: Help sisters. I don't like backtracking. Yeah, neither.

1136
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 2: I never suggest the backtrack, cause it's like y'all ended

1137
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 2: for a reason. Move on and find some new deal,

1138
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,799
Speaker 2: especially if he got a new girlfriend. Yeah, like I'm hell,

1139
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 2: and that's what I'm saying. You don't want to go

1140
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 2: from the main to the mischief, like to the side chick.

1141
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 3: And there's no benefits in that, honestly, unless he has

1142
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 3: a lot of fucking money, right, Just making sure that

1143
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 3: you straight unless you.

1144
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: Get in something it's more beneficial other than deck out

1145
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,320
Speaker 1: of the situation. Yeah, I would say absolutely.

1146
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 2: But that's the only time I would backtrack if it's like, well,

1147
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 2: if it's beneficial, but honestly, just move on.

1148
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: Find you a new body.

1149
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 3: I don't care about body counts. I'd be like, if

1150
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 3: I'm ready to fuck, I'd be ready to fuck man.

1151
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 2: And I ain't gonna never tell nobody the truth, no

1152
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 2: way exactly how many of me is you fucked free?

1153
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna never find out the truth. So you

1154
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 1: don't need to be worried exactly, So you might as

1155
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: well just keep it pushing, sister.

1156
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say, don't backtrack, fuck him, let's move on.

1157
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:48,760
Speaker 1: Okay.

1158
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 2: So the next question, Oh yeah, okay, please don't use

1159
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 2: my name.

1160
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: If y'all read this, rich but boring.

1161
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 3: I found a man who's respectful, takes care of me,

1162
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 3: very wealthy, and it's decent in bed.

1163
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: He does everything y'all said.

1164
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 3: A man should do ask me how I am wants

1165
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 3: to get married, pays all my bills, He's about to

1166
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 3: buy a house in my city for me to live

1167
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 3: in full time, but he's kind of boring.

1168
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 1: There's no spark.

1169
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 2: Should I sell for stability or hold out for a

1170
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 2: rich and fun I'm almost thirty. All my previous relationships

1171
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 2: were toxic, like NDA with a multi millionaire and dragged

1172
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 2: into his custody case.

1173
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:26,399
Speaker 1: Toxic girl. If he boring, bitch you better, I'm sitting

1174
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 1: in that house with your ass.

1175
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:29,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I feel like you can kind of

1176
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 2: probably bring him out of his shell, Like do you

1177
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 2: try to do things with him to kind of like,

1178
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 2: are suggest things that you want to do and how

1179
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:38,359
Speaker 2: you want to go? Because I feel like it's one

1180
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 2: thing to just to look at somebody and be like,

1181
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 2: oh you boring, it's fucked, versus actually suggesting things to

1182
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 2: do and then them turning it down. And then you

1183
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 2: could kind of be like, Okay, well I've tried to

1184
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 2: get him out of his shield and he still don't

1185
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 2: want to do shitt Cause let me tell you something

1186
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:53,320
Speaker 2: says if he's about to get you a house for

1187
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 2: you to live in, like he taking he's respectful, he

1188
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 2: take care of you.

1189
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 1: He decent in bed. Girl, in there and eat your food. Girl,

1190
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: you gotta sit.

1191
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 2: There and eat y'all full bitch, I'll be the most

1192
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 2: boring Bitchye are you buying me a house? Now?

1193
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be born. I would just trying to get

1194
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: him to be a little more.

1195
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 3: Now, That's what I'm saying, Like I would try to

1196
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 3: get him out the house and do things. But honestly,

1197
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 3: says you, the likelihood of finding that again is very

1198
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 3: unlikely and too most of the time. If you go

1199
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 3: out and find another man that's doing that and he's fun,

1200
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:24,800
Speaker 3: you're gonna be sharing him with like six seven big.

1201
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:26,959
Speaker 1: And most of these niggas that's rich is not fun.

1202
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: Why do y'all be thinking it? They really aren't. Now.

1203
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 1: One thing we have never said was, oh my god,

1204
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 1: my baby Bee is so fun.

1205
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 2: So now we be going out with our babbs and

1206
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 2: we'd be having fun. But they just gotta be sitting there, like,

1207
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 2: just get it what you want. Yeah, pretty well, because

1208
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 2: I'm still on the search for a fun one too.

1209
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: I mean, my baby Bee, like Big Papa is cool,

1210
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: like he'd be fun. I meanas who was cool.

1211
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 2: But the reason that I say that these niggas is

1212
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 2: not fun is because it's so much toxic shit in

1213
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 2: my opinion.

1214
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: And be coming with rich men.

1215
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 2: So it's kind of like if you I'm found, it's

1216
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 2: toxic shit that comes with it's toxic hit. I mean

1217
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 2: right right, But were talking about a rich guy, you

1218
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 2: know what I mean. So I'm saying these toxic shit

1219
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 2: they come with reach me in.

1220
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: But I saw.

1221
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 2: I feel like if you find one and it ain't

1222
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 2: really no toxic shit going on, but you could try

1223
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 2: to make him fun because the ones that is londated,

1224
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 2: they done been fun.

1225
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 1: Being toxic is fun, right, So.

1226
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 2: I feel like you win and says just try to

1227
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 2: suggest some things spice up the relationship.

1228
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: Don't leave that nigga, No, stay where you at? Oh

1229
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,800
Speaker 1: how you always leave me with the long ass question?

1230
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 2: Somebody got a loan? Now we done told y'all. Oh,

1231
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:42,319
Speaker 2: ain't that that long? Oh she's cute? Okay, let's see,

1232
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 2: Oh she is cute? Insecure friends, Hi, Alex Andrea, please

1233
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 2: keep me anonymous. I recently discovered your podcast and now

1234
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,720
Speaker 2: I can't stop listening. You girls are so funny and relatable.

1235
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm talking to my besties. Speaking of besties,

1236
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 2: I'm having some issues with mine. I love my girlfriends.

1237
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 2: They're all hilarious and we always have fun when we

1238
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 2: link up. I've never made friends for their looks, but

1239
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 2: because they can make me laugh and and have intellectual conversations.

1240
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 2: Because of this, I'm usually the baddie in the friend

1241
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 2: group that gets attention from guys and gets everyone in

1242
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 2: the club everyone to the club sections, which they're usually

1243
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 2: fine with. However, when I tell my friends about any

1244
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 2: bdb's I talk to or that approach me, they are

1245
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 2: never happy for me, and they're never happy for me

1246
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 2: the way I feel like they should be. I know

1247
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 2: it's kind of stupid, but I don't even feel like

1248
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 2: telling them stuff because I never get the response I want.

1249
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: Recently, I told one of my girls about.

1250
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 2: A famous guy that I was talking to, and she

1251
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 2: became super insecure and started telling me how she feels

1252
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,880
Speaker 2: ugly and even said that she doesn't like that her

1253
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 2: man likes all my picks on ig mind you. I

1254
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 2: always listen to their god drama and hookup stories and

1255
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 2: am super supportive. Literally all we talk about when it

1256
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 2: comes to the guys is their problems. So my question is,

1257
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 2: should I start making friends with more girls who are

1258
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 2: on my level looks wise? Should I ditch my current

1259
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 2: friends or just certain topics to myself to avoid making

1260
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 2: them feel insecure?

1261
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,439
Speaker 1: What should I do? Thanks? Ladies. PS, here's a pick

1262
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: of me in case you're curious. This is actually a

1263
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: good question because we were actually talking about this yesterday.

1264
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 2: I got something to say, and she bad and she

1265
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:18,959
Speaker 2: is a beautiful girl, and you got that fatty yeah

1266
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 2: looks over here listening over you, fink. So what I

1267
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 2: have to say is I don't feel like you should

1268
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 2: go and find friends that are on your level looks

1269
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 2: because those bitches are worse.

1270
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, those bitches are worse.

1271
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 2: What I do think that, But you might still do

1272
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 2: need to go find some new friends because friends that

1273
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 2: aren't supportive, friends that are jealous, those are not the

1274
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 2: type of people that you want to be around, you

1275
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 2: know what I mean? I feel like nothing good is

1276
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 2: gonna come from there. You fucking with a nigga and

1277
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 2: what you're getting from a nigga and she like that.

1278
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:55,399
Speaker 2: Of course, insecurity is a normal human emotion. I feel

1279
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 2: like we've all had it before. Jealousy to an extent

1280
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 2: is a certain I mean, it's a normal human emotion

1281
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 2: I feel we've all experienced before. But certain shit that

1282
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 2: you getting out of niggas and stuff like that that

1283
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 2: shouldn't be making your friends jally certain secure. They should

1284
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 2: be happy for you, you know what I mean, And

1285
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:13,799
Speaker 2: if they wanted the same things out of life, they

1286
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 2: could probably get the same things. Like we always say

1287
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 2: on the show, even if you cause you know, you

1288
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 2: said that they're not baddies quote unquote, being a baddie

1289
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 2: don't have nothing to do with getting living a certain lifestyle.

1290
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 1: There's plenty of women that live a certain.

1291
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 2: Way off of niggas and they don't look like bad

1292
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 2: BITCHI right, you know, so I feel like them.

1293
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 1: Holl's just some haters, you know what I mean.

1294
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 2: And I can't stand being friends with beaches who low

1295
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 2: key don't like me, so because I feel like the

1296
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 2: only thing that's gonna happen is shit just gonna keep

1297
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 2: getting worse. Dead for her to say she don't like

1298
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 2: her boyfriend liking your peaks on ig but she just

1299
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,479
Speaker 2: now saying it all of a sudden because you fucking

1300
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 2: with somebody famous.

1301
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 1: That's weird as fuzz right. I feel like.

1302
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:57,920
Speaker 2: It's definitely something that you need to talk to them about,

1303
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 2: but you have to understand that actually, I.

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Speaker 3: Say, I'll say this what exactly because if you bring

1305
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 3: that up, like I feel like y'all aren't supportive of

1306
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 3: me and things that I talk about, they're gonna get

1307
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,759
Speaker 3: the defensive. They're not going to admit it. No, who

1308
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 3: who is openly gonna admit like, hey, I'm jealous, you

1309
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. So I feel like that maybe

1310
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 3: you should probably just distance yourself because I feel like,

1311
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:25,399
Speaker 3: if anything, your friends should be your safe haven. That's

1312
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 3: who you're happy with that you can be one hundred

1313
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 3: percent yourself with that you can just tell all your business.

1314
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 2: To and you know what I'm saying, especially at that age.

1315
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:36,359
Speaker 2: So I feel like, well, she didn't say how old

1316
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 2: she was, but she looks pretty young. Yeah, she looks

1317
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 2: pretty young.

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00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,880
Speaker 3: So I feel like, you know, you're supposed to have

1319
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 3: friends that got your back and they'd be happy to

1320
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 3: see Like I'll be happy as fuck when a BDBB

1321
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 3: slide and dran d is.

1322
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:48,399
Speaker 1: She'd be like ooh girl, cause I'd be like, oh,

1323
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:49,800
Speaker 1: I can't wait to get one of his friends.

1324
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 3: That's how I look at she I'd be like, when

1325
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 3: my friend winning, that means we all win it, I mean.

1326
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, it's like, that's

1327
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:58,320
Speaker 2: how your friends should look at it too. It's just

1328
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 2: like they should feel like, Okay, they can get the

1329
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 2: niggas that they want to, like why you hate it?

1330
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 2: And I just think that's so weird. I don't like that.

1331
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 2: But I feel like trying to find somebody, like trying

1332
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 2: to find friends based off their looks, that's not That's

1333
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:11,800
Speaker 2: not the way to go.

1334
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not the way to go.

1335
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 3: But I definitely think you should probably maybe you know,

1336
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 3: expand your horizon and look for more friends you don't

1337
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 3: have like no childhood friends and anyhing.

1338
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

1339
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 3: I mean, but sometimes people be grow I mean people,

1340
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, but but good luck sis. I

1341
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 3: definitely think that maybe you shouldn't ditch them, but kind

1342
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 3: of like bring it to their attention and maybe just

1343
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 3: ask them why, like why, be like, why aren't you

1344
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 3: It seems like y'all are never happy for me when

1345
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 3: I tell y'all these things, just asking.

1346
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 1: Why or maybe just keep them in the category of

1347
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: you know, associates. You know what I mean. I feel

1348
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 1: like it's levels to friendship. You know what I mean.

1349
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 2: You have the people that you I just talked about

1350
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 2: these own Patreon last night. You have the people that

1351
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 2: you go out with that you have a good time with.

1352
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 2: You have your associates, and then you have your friends.

1353
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 2: Maybe they just meant to be your associates or some

1354
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 2: people that you just go I would have fun with.

1355
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,439
Speaker 2: She needs to stop telling them your personal business because

1356
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 2: everybody not gonna be happy for you.

1357
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, so last one? You read that one? Or

1358
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 1: did I read that one? Oh? You read it already.

1359
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 2: Hey, Alex Andrea, I recently decided that I wanted to

1360
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 2: move on from an on and off again relationship.

1361
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 1: The only problem is I don't know how to let

1362
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 1: him go.

1363
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 3: Anytime I get drunk or start feeling lonely at night,

1364
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 3: I immediately call him and we are back to square.

1365
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 2: One of trying to fix our relationship. I was wondering

1366
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 2: if you too have any advice for me to officially

1367
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 2: let this go.

1368
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1369
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 3: Nope, I don't. I was sucking a nigga dick last night.

1370
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 3: I had no business sucking, so I can't help you

1371
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 3: help her, Andrea, help her?

1372
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 1: Help her?

1373
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 2: Why do you be calling him cause she be drunk.

1374
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 2: I'll be drunk, block him, deleat his number, that don't work, deleat.

1375
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 1: The number and black I haven't memorized. Well, maybe she

1376
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: don't have him memorized about you.

1377
00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 2: Am I giving?

1378
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: We need advice? I just feel like, you know what

1379
00:58:59,880 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: I mean, let him, just let him go.

1380
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1381
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's hard for me to It's really.

1382
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 2: Hard for me to tell people what to do in

1383
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 2: situations like this because it's really easy for me to

1384
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 2: cut people out, like it always been just easy by

1385
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 2: nature for me to do that. Somebody said the companies

1386
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 2: the other day, they was like Drea's mantra in life's

1387
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 2: been leave. She always said leaves, because I really do

1388
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 2: feel that way. If you're not happy, you should leave,

1389
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 2: and it's something that's meant for you. Y'all will find

1390
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 2: y'all way back to each other eventually. But obviously you're

1391
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 2: not happy because you're writing goods asking us how to

1392
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 2: let him be right.

1393
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times what I do is

1394
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 1: whenever I'm drinking, I miss somebody.

1395
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 3: I tend to forget about the bad shit, and I

1396
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 3: just be thinking about the good stuff, And I don't,

1397
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 3: like you have to remember the.

1398
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: Bad obviously is outweighing the good.

1399
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 3: But when we drinking we're thinking about somebody, we're obviously

1400
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 3: only thinking about the good ship, you know what I'm saying.

1401
00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 3: So I've caught myself doing that a lot, and I

1402
00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 3: fall fixed with that still, right that's while I.

1403
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 1: Was at that thing out last night, you know what

1404
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

1405
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:05,440
Speaker 3: So I'm still working on it myself. But I think

1406
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 3: it's just like it's it's you have to take it

1407
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 3: day by day. I think you need to be comfortable

1408
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 3: with not talking to him, and that's where I'm that's

1409
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 3: the point I'm getting at, Like I have to become

1410
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:18,800
Speaker 3: comfortable with not talking to this man every day, cause

1411
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 3: it's like if a day went by and we.

1412
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 2: Didn't talk, I'm like, damn we didn't talk today, like

1413
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 2: and it would bother me. But now I'm becoming okay

1414
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 2: with that.

1415
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 3: So you're slowly kind of getting yourself on a different

1416
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 3: track of not being around him and not.

1417
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 1: Talking to him. So, like I said, just take it

1418
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: day by day.

1419
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 3: I think as far as distancing yourself, you can't go

1420
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 3: cold turkey as far as my can. It doesn't work

1421
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 3: for me. Cold turkey may work for some people, it

1422
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 3: doesn't work for me. I have to like slowly like

1423
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 3: wing myself off of people.

1424
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, and I feel like two I mean,

1425
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 2: And this is just another beat of advice. If every

1426
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 2: time you drink, you call him, maybe you should take

1427
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 2: a little break from drinking, you know what I mean,

1428
01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 2: Maybe give yourself like a not saying a law right

1429
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 2: period of time, but maybe just kind of give yourself

1430
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 2: like two weeks kind of detox your body, de talk yourself,

1431
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 2: talk that pussy, delete his number and stuff, you know

1432
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 2: what I mean, Like I said, and then just you know,

1433
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 2: don't talk to him for two weeks, when if he

1434
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 2: do call, you ignore his calls because you're gonna be

1435
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 2: in a sober mind frame. So I feel like it's

1436
01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 2: gonna be easier for you to ignore him and not

1437
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 2: talk to him when you're sober, because if drinking, if

1438
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 2: you're using drinking, that's the reason why you be calling him,

1439
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 2: Just take a little break from drinking and see what happens.

1440
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it'd be hard for me because I

1441
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 1: like to drink. I mean, I do too. And I

1442
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:39,720
Speaker 1: have been victim with like Phil, victim to calling people

1443
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: when I get drunk. For sure, we know, we know

1444
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:44,240
Speaker 1: how you know.

1445
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:48,240
Speaker 2: I called you you first of all. You we got

1446
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 2: some stories of what you've done drunk, Denzel.

1447
01:01:56,720 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 1: Exactly. That was a that was a dark time in

1448
01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:03,439
Speaker 1: my life. I was really going through some things.

1449
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 3: Okay, So if y'all want your question answer on the show,

1450
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 3: make sure y'all email us at ask for Minds at

1451
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 3: gmail dot com, and make sure y'all try to keep

1452
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 3: it a paragraph.

1453
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm so excited to sing this song. I'm excited.

1454
01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 2: It's just the chorus. It's just gonna be some real

1455
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 2: quick because we heard calm down. I was practicing in

1456
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 2: the car.

1457
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:26,720
Speaker 1: Okay, do you know what are we talking about the

1458
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: same song? I think so it's a song you were

1459
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: singing yesterday. Last night.

1460
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 3: We was here, girl in the club, show up shaking that,

1461
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 3: asking the club, getting.

1462
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:41,720
Speaker 2: Upirl, hold in the clubs sho shaking that, asking the club.

1463
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:51,919
Speaker 1: Nigga. Yeah, it's good, that's all. Just get y'all next week.

1464
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 1: I had that last note. You wasn't ready for you

1465
01:02:59,160 --> 01:02:59,520
Speaker 1: to hear.

1466
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 2: Not the tick I am.

1467
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: Then that was a good. I said, that was a

1468
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 1: good that was thanks the food, just like, oh, you

1469
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:12,960
Speaker 1: just got