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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Jared, Welcome to the show. How

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Speaker 2: are you hey?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing it all right?

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Speaker 3: How are you doing doing all right? What's going on

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Speaker 3: with this woman? Rachel?

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Speaker 2: Of course this is waiting by the phone trying to

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Speaker 2: figure out if you've been ghosted by this person. But

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Speaker 2: we need to know how did you meet? Tell us

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Speaker 2: about any dates you've been on, and then where things

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Speaker 2: are now?

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Speaker 4: Sure, Yeah, I met Rachel at a party and we

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Speaker 4: really hit it off, like the banter.

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Speaker 1: Was really great between us. I got her number, we

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Speaker 1: went out for drinks a few days after that, and

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Speaker 1: I have not heard from her since. I mean, she

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Speaker 1: completely goes to me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and you met her in the wild, which means

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Speaker 2: that you, you know, you were able to kind of

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Speaker 2: gauge what she looks like in person and how the

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Speaker 2: chemistry was and how the conversation was going to flow,

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Speaker 2: because I mean everyone I think ideally you meet someone

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Speaker 2: like that, because the dating apps can be a little

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Speaker 2: bit of a little wild card, a little bit of

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Speaker 2: a wildcard. We said this all the time. It's like

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Speaker 2: you meet an and you get surprised, But when you

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Speaker 2: meet someone in person and hit on them. You have

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Speaker 2: a little bit better idea what you're working with, right exactly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why it's so disappointing that she's just completely gone.

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Speaker 2: Well and she would too write, so like, if she's

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Speaker 2: not calling you, it's probably not because you weren't who

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Speaker 2: you said you were, because well, she knew when she

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Speaker 2: gave you her phone number and agreed to go out

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Speaker 2: with you. So let's play a song. Come back in

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Speaker 2: like two minutes. I'm gonna call Rachel. You'll be on

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Speaker 2: the phone at the same time. I'm gonna see if

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Speaker 2: we can figure out what's going on, and maybe she

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Speaker 2: has a good explanation for not reaching out. And if

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Speaker 2: that's the case, it we'll set you guys up on

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Speaker 2: another date and pay for that. All right, awesome, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Let's find out what's going on? Part two of waiting

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Speaker 2: by the phone. After this song, guy got Bruno Mars

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Speaker 2: back in three minutes. Fred's Show, don't move, It's the

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Speaker 2: Fred Show, twelve hundred bucks, show Bizkiki, you can win

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Speaker 2: in ten minutes in the showdown the Entertainment Report. Before that, Hey, Jared, Yes,

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Speaker 2: all right, welcome back. Let's call this woman Rachel. You

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Speaker 2: met out and you guys are Shag's phone numbers, and

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Speaker 2: you went on a date and you thought the date

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Speaker 2: went great. But you haven't heard from Rachel since then,

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Speaker 2: and you want to know why she hasn't responded to you, calls, text, whatever,

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Speaker 2: nothing She's it looks like she's ghosting you.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, well let's call her now. Good luck?

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Speaker 1: Hello? Hi?

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Speaker 3: Is this Rachel? Yeah, Rachel? Hi, My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,

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Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 2: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 2: to continue with the call.

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Speaker 3: Can we chat for just a second? Would you mind?

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Speaker 5: Is this a pin call?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: No, I mean I'm really Fred and it's really the

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Speaker 2: Fred Show and we're really on the radio. I just

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Speaker 2: need a yes or no, and then I'll tell you

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Speaker 2: what we're doing here. You can hang up anytime.

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Speaker 3: Okay, sure, Well, thank you.

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Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Jared, who

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Speaker 2: I guess you met and went on a date with.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember a date with Jared?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I remember, I remember.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, he reached out to us and he told

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Speaker 2: you guys exchanged numbers and then planned a date and

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Speaker 2: went on the date. But he says he hasn't heard

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Speaker 5: Well, Jared was someone that I met at a party

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Speaker 5: and then we went out on a date a couple

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Speaker 5: and when the check dropped, the bartender let us know

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Speaker 5: So the bartender said that the guy just thought that

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Speaker 5: Jared was like my gay friend.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, So it.

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Speaker 5: Was just like a genuine misunderstanding.

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Speaker 2: So the guy at the end of the bar was

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Speaker 3: Is what happened? But you were?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, But I was just so turned off by

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Speaker 3: It honestly scared me.

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Speaker 1: So I want to.

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Speaker 2: Fight this guy because he felt like this guy was

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Speaker 2: moving in on his territory.

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Speaker 5: Essentially, Yes, but I mean this is our first date.

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Speaker 2: So we're seeing that Jared has a bit of a temper.

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Speaker 2: Let's ask Jared about this. I forgot to mention that

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Speaker 2: Jared is here. I'm very forgetful.

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Speaker 3: Jared. Is this is this how it went down?

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Speaker 2: A guy got your stuff and then you freaked out

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Speaker 2: and then you like the rage came out of you

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Speaker 1: Look, I mean she's describing me like I turned into

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Speaker 1: the incredible Hulk. But I'm not going to sit here

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Speaker 1: and to say that I'm going to let a guy

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Speaker 1: pay for me and my dates drinks when I want

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Speaker 2: Third I mean I probably would have been like, cool,

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Speaker 2: I'm going home with her or whatever. I'm even with her,

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Speaker 2: so nice. Try way to shoot your shot, but like

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Speaker 2: you missed dinner. And by the way, I didn't have

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Speaker 2: to pay for this. I mean, I think I might

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Speaker 2: be especially if I don't know, I think I might

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Speaker 2: be flattered.

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Speaker 1: No, I what self respecting guy.

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Speaker 3: Would do that?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean he could try. I guess he misread

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Speaker 2: the situation. He wasted his money. She didn't run over

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Speaker 2: to him and you know, hang out with him. She

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Speaker 2: still hung out with you, right, I mean it wasn't

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Speaker 2: like she got him walked away.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you're letting him get the you letting him

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Speaker 5: get the best of you was honestly disrespectful to yourself

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Speaker 2: And then the temper is probably not the hottest thing.

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Speaker 2: And the insecurity, which again, I mean, look, I can

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Speaker 2: don't think that's the time to like go off and

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Speaker 3: I mean, you just met her.

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Speaker 1: Well, I honestly think that she knew the guy.

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Speaker 2: You know, that's the part that we're not talking about.

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Speaker 2: So you think this was like you think that they

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Speaker 2: were in on this, Like, why why would she lie

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Speaker 1: I just say that she knew him. I mean, I've

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Speaker 5: That's he thought that you were gay. He just he

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Speaker 5: simply thought you were gay.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, sure, yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean he thought you guys. I guess to him it

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Speaker 2: I mean people are stupid, like they do dumb Men

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Speaker 2: do dumb things. Women do. People do dumb things. He

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Speaker 2: was trying to slide, you know, it didn't work or whatever.

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Speaker 2: He was trying to make an impression, and you were

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Speaker 2: there with someone else romantically, so he wasted his money. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So I don't know why. I don't know why you're

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Speaker 2: freaking out, Jared. I mean I might be like, yeah, nice,

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Speaker 2: try buddy and then leave. I don't think you have

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Speaker 4: Look, I'm a man and I'm not going to have

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Speaker 4: my manhood tested like that.

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Speaker 3: Oh Mart, Why do you have trust issues like this?

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Speaker 3: Like she's telling you that she didn't know him. Why

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Speaker 3: don't you trust her?

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Speaker 2: Ye?

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Speaker 3: Why would she pretend not to know?

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Speaker 2: I don't understand it, Like, what what would be the

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Speaker 2: harm in her going? Yeah, I know the guy at

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Speaker 2: the end of the bar, like he's a coworker. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, he's whatever, Like thanks for dinner, but I'm

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Speaker 2: on a date and then leave.

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Speaker 3: I guess I don't you know.

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Speaker 2: It would be one thing if she got him, walked

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Speaker 3: But she didn't do that, did she?

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Speaker 1: No, she did it?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, look, Rachel, I'll ask the question. I think I

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Speaker 2: know the answer. But now let's say he takes you

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Speaker 2: at face value, and we do. I believe you that

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Speaker 2: you don't know this person. I don't know where he's

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Speaker 2: coming up with that. Would you like to go out

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Speaker 2: with him again? If he can tone it down, we'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: Well you know what, Rachel, seriously you.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh wow, so there's that temper. I don't think

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Speaker 3: it's a match. Wow. Okay, hey, Jared, I mean deep

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Speaker 3: breath here, it's okay. We were trying to help you.

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Speaker 1: Remember it is so frustrating.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well hey we wish Wow. I was

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Speaker 2: scared now myself. All right, Jared, good luck to you, Rachel,

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Speaker 2: thanks for your time, good luck as well. The Entertainment

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Speaker 2: Report is next A one thousand, two hundred bucks five

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Speaker 2: questions in the showdown. If you listen, then you have

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Speaker 2: the answers from the Entertainment Report, and you could start

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Speaker 2: the weekend with that money.

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Speaker 3: Next Bread Show,