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Come celebrate 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: Mother's Day at Whole Foods Market. 10 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,480 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen are a hot dreams of living life 12 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 2: like rappers do. Bought that new E forty after school. 13 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 2: After school, you know, big balling with my homemade home 14 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 2: or Steven has had us thinking ration though rational back 15 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: to reality. We boy yub bish yeahish another casualty of 16 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: WOI yubish yeahish tubulas in my uncle Tony head, my 17 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 2: Tony head, he said, one day I'll be on toy 18 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:02,639 Speaker 2: yuh besh yish. That Louis Burger never be the same, 19 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 2: won't be the same, Louis bet will never ease the 20 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 2: pain won't ease the pain. But I'm a purchase when 21 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 2: that day is jerking, that day is jerking. Pull out 22 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 2: the churches with poor rally skirt and brally skirting. Gay 23 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,639 Speaker 2: times is out the window. Your bish, your bish, hoping 24 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 2: all of them a finger, your bish, your bish. They 25 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: say your hood is a pot of go, the pot 26 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: of go, and we're gonna crash it with nobody home. 27 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 2: It goes Hollid bear a hallelujah, take your poison, Timmy. Anyway, Hey, 28 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 2: how y'all doing. Welcome to the Blackout Tips podcast host 29 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 2: Rod and Hell. Everybody gonna respect the shooter, but the 30 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 2: one in front of that gun lists forever. The one 31 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 2: in front of the gun lives forelbow all day, this away, 32 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: that away through connous way. Just the same money trees, 33 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 2: it's the perfect thing, same. That's just how I feel now. Now. 34 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: A dollar might just for your main bitch. 35 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: That's just I feel now. A dollar Mic say fuck 36 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: them niggas that you came with. Now that's just how 37 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 2: I feel now. All right, hey, let's get it to 38 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 2: the show. Okay, there's a lot of stuff to talk about, guys. 39 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 2: It's not all bad news, hopefully, you can find us 40 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: on iTunes, stitch your potomatic search the blackout us. Leave 41 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 2: us five star reviews. Well, appreciate it right takes the 42 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 2: turn out to do that. The official weapon of the 43 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 2: show is an unofficial sport and bulletball extreme and we 44 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: do mean it. Leave five star reviews. Okay, get up 45 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 2: off your ass and lead these five star reviews. Okay, 46 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 2: we love five star reviews. 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It's still We just came off that record 101 00:05:56,200 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 2: hottest July in recorded history of Earth, to which I say, 102 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 2: I understand all that. But when I went candle shopping 103 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 2: at Marshall's last Friday, I took a picture of it 104 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: put it on my social media. They had a rack 105 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 2: of pumpkin shit already out, already out. 106 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 4: Day is ready, and we got some men sense today 107 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 4: and it was pumpkin and sense them. 108 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 5: Shit smelled great. 109 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 2: We back, bitches. Okay, what't more basics at we all? 110 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 2: Bast It's time to get out. It's almost ugs time, y'all. 111 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: It's time. Leeve's gonna be changing color soon. Okay, it's 112 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 2: time for the Pumpkin Spice a lot tail. I believe 113 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 2: it returns August twenty seventh or twenty fifth of this 114 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 2: month at the Starbucks. So it's time to get basic again. Okay, 115 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 2: get back to basics. Get your infittity scarves out, bitches, 116 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: We back Colone. It's time okay, and I want more 117 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 2: people to sign up and join y'all. Last time, I know, 118 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 2: we had quite a few people come out of the 119 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 2: Pumpkin Spices closet, and I would love for y'all to 120 00:06:55,920 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 2: come out and enjoy Pumpkin Spice in twenty nineteen, Okay, 121 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 2: another year, another time to just get get down to 122 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 2: your most authentic basic cells. Okay, stop trying to act 123 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 2: like you're so sophisticated AND's a diddy and ahead of this. 124 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 2: Pumpkin Spice is good. Okay, will you go uh? Will you? 125 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 2: Will you go home? You know, like people say, well, 126 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: what pie do you get? Rod Okay, when it's time 127 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 2: for Thanksgiving, do you get sweet potato pie or do 128 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 2: you get pumpkin pie? And I say sweet potato pie 129 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 2: and they say, see that's my point. Ride pumpkin spice. 130 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 2: It's nobody likes pumpkin I said, you stoopid motherfucker, there's 131 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 2: no punkin and pumpkin spice. Pumpkin spice is literally the 132 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 2: shit you put in sweet potato pie. Dumb ass, google 133 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 2: the shit. Okay, Now come over here and join us, 134 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: because you just admit it. 135 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 3: Low Ki, you're a huge fan. 136 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 2: Come to the pumpkin hid, all right, the pumpkin patch. 137 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 2: I think it's what we're gonna be called. Come to 138 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 2: the pumpkin patch with the rest of us, get your 139 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 2: infinitive scars and your and your uggs out. 140 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 5: Well, I didn't know what No pumpkin and pumpkin spice, right, 141 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 5: gonna call the punkin spikes. 142 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 2: For you've been listening. 143 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 3: You've been my co host on this show. 144 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 2: It just shows how much you don't listen to me 145 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 2: because I have brought this up many times on the show. 146 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 2: But I guess with pumpkin season, there's certain traditions and 147 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 2: the right season. Part of that is re educating, caring 148 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:19,119 Speaker 2: again that there's no punkin and Pumpkin spikes. 149 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 5: No, I don't remember nothing. 150 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 2: At some point, black film criticism went from we want 151 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 2: black movies too. 152 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: I never enjoyed the black movie with a white person 153 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 3: in it. 154 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 2: I don't remember if I brought this up before, but 155 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 2: if I did, good, I wanted to bring it up again. 156 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 2: This is ridiculous. 157 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 3: It's gotten out of control. 158 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 2: Guys. 159 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 3: You're not walking in me all. 160 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 2: You niggas have watched a whole lot more white people 161 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 2: shit than I did, and it shows. 162 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, because it's some shit we covering, and some 163 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 4: of y'all be on it, and and there's nothing wrong 164 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 4: with that. 165 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 5: But you if you look online, a lot of niggas 166 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 5: be like, I don't like nothing with white people in it. 167 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 5: The nicest NYE. 168 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 2: I'm like, these ratings, sure do they pretty high? Y'all 169 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: the ones that be knowing these these remember the Turkey 170 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: episodes of Friends? Actually I don't because I've never seen it. 171 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 2: You liars, you dirty, dirty liars. Okay, that's why y'all 172 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 2: really so mad at Leena donem y'all was watching that show, 173 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: you liars. Try to act like y'all woke now in hindsight, please, 174 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 2: some of my favorite properties was made by white people. 175 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 3: It's okay to admit it. 176 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's fine. You don't have to like out black 177 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: everybody online. Your movie review doesn't have to be man, 178 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: I hate white people every week. It's just predictable. Now, 179 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 2: I got it. Now I can skip your reviews. I'm like, 180 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 2: let me guess white people was in it. It's a 181 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 2: bad movie now, right. Plus, I mean, listen, man, far 182 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 2: be it from me to tell y'all how to live 183 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 2: y'all lives. But as a movie critic, hey, man, y'all 184 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 2: missing out on some good, white good shit. I don't 185 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 2: know what to tell you. Man. Sometimes y'all really be 186 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 2: fucking it up for y'allselves. And I do understand rooting 187 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 2: for everybody black. And when against the Awards season, you know, 188 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 2: I don't argue with people online, but they always do 189 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 2: the like black people always do the like. 190 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 3: I want the two or. 191 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 2: Three black films to win that I saw this year, 192 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 2: regardless of if there might be other things that was 193 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 2: actually better. And I don't argue it because that's what 194 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 2: white people have been doing for a century. Is it 195 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 2: just one of you know, over one hundred and something 196 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 2: have aalon the Academy Awards. Is they've been doing that 197 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 2: TuS for a long time. They don't watch our shit. 198 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: Then they go to the ward and be like, these 199 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 2: were the best movies, all the white ones coincidentally. So 200 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 2: I get that people want some get back and all 201 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 2: this stuff, of course, but let me just say, man, 202 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 2: some of these white movies is good. 203 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 4: What was that one with Leonardo DiCaprio and the one 204 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 4: with the bear. 205 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 5: I had never watched the right everybody raved about it. 206 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 5: I had never, Man, you watched it. I was like, God, 207 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 5: damn that nigga acted. 208 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was good as fuck. 209 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 2: Like it. I mean, it's a lot of stuff though. 210 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 2: Every year, you know, it's like it's a good ass movie. Like, yes, 211 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 2: it was a small, insular independent like white film. But 212 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 2: like and then the thing that happens too is once 213 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 2: and I'm starting to notice the trends because now that 214 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 2: we review movies, I'm starting to notice how people talk 215 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 2: about movies. And one of the trends is with like 216 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 2: shadow and act and some of these black websites and 217 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 2: black critics. They don't just say I'm not gonna fuck 218 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 2: with this white movie that is getting critically acclaimed. It 219 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 2: like becomes an attack on that specific movie until we 220 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 2: find something problematic about it, even if it's something off camera, 221 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 2: like if it's not the actual movie, then who made 222 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 2: the movie? And if it's not who made the movie, 223 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 2: then what is the family of the person in the 224 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: movie was about? Think about it. It's like, if it's 225 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 2: not that, so it becomes bigger than the movie until 226 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 2: we find something. We will find it too. Now we 227 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 2: could do this to our same to black movies as well. Yes, 228 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 2: you know, but we ease off of the criticism. 229 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 6: You know. 230 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 2: You know with Spike Lee, you know he has issues 231 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 2: with women in his movies. He had, but last year 232 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 2: a lot of people wanted him to finally get his due, 233 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 2: so they were willing to be like. 234 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 3: Even though I feel like. 235 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 2: The Black Clans and movie is really cop aganda, blah 236 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 2: blah blah. When it came time to root for the awards, 237 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 2: they was cutting up hoping that he would win. And 238 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 2: when he stormed out of the Oscars, they was like, 239 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 2: you know, yazs fight, you know, and I'm like okay, 240 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 2: but like there were movies that were good that weren't 241 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 2: that movie last year it's okay, you know, when it 242 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 2: was Black Panther, it was okay, we're gonna keep the 243 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 2: energy of Black Panther has to win all the awards 244 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: and fuck everything else until the end of the year. 245 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 3: Like every other movie is terrible. 246 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 2: Except for this one. So I don't know, man, It's 247 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 2: just something I've noticed. I don't know if other people. 248 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 2: I've noticed it online with black critics, but I also 249 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 2: think they're writing themselves in a hole of like black 250 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 2: shit good, everything white shit bad, right, And I feel 251 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 2: like it's kind of kind of pointless, you know, especially 252 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 2: with the fact that everybody got they like shit did 253 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 2: they like that just is good? 254 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 3: It might not have black people in it, but it's good. 255 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 2: It might or you might watch something that has a 256 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: lot of black people in it and you don't like 257 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 2: it and it's bad, you know, Like yeah, Like, I 258 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 2: don't know, it's just becoming kind of more about the 259 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 2: agendas around movies, you know, than the movie, you. 260 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:11,319 Speaker 4: Know, right, and then you know a lot of them, 261 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 4: like the guilt trip people into watching shit, and you're like, 262 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 4: if I want to watch it. 263 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 5: I'll watch it. You don't have to guilt trip me 264 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 5: into it just because it's black. 265 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, box office. A lot of people are obsessed with 266 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 2: the box office. So it's not just that I liked 267 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 2: this movie and I thought I was good. It's how 268 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 2: do I convince other people to go support this movie 269 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 2: because I liked it? And now I'm playing fucking box 270 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 2: office stock market watch with movies every week. You know, 271 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 2: it's well fast color came out, y'all. Niggas didn't go 272 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 2: see it. I'm a shame at guilt y'all in the 273 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 2: seeing it, although I won't shame nobody in the voting. 274 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 2: And I'm a shame of guilt y'all and the seeing 275 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 2: and shit. But at the same time, it's like, Okay, 276 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 2: you could have just reviewed the movie and said it 277 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 2: was good. You didn't need to go out here and 278 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 2: like guilt everybody for not having seen it, because you're 279 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: the same people that I always get mad when people 280 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 2: don't watch like Slavery. I mean, you always get mad 281 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 2: when people say you need to watch this slavery movie. 282 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 2: You get mad, right, you go, No, you can't gilt 283 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 2: me in there. You can't make me do this, but 284 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 2: if you weren't living and dine with the box office 285 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 2: and the agenda of it and just going this movie 286 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 2: is good for this reason that like, and I bet 287 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: you I'm not the only black person that feels this way. 288 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 2: A lot of times you push me away from what 289 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 2: you are selling me when you're not selling me on 290 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 2: the credits of what it is. You're not going, this 291 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 2: is a good movie and this is what's good about it, 292 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 2: and this is why you should see it. And if 293 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 2: you just start describing it as black this, black that, 294 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 2: and you know what I mean, we need to support brother. 295 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 2: Like now I'm like, is this shit even good? Yep, 296 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 2: because it's not like if I tell people to listen 297 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 2: to my podcast, I go, don't you need important black voices? No? 298 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 2: I go, my shit? Is this shit? You're missing out 299 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 2: on a fun time. It's your fault, Like I can't 300 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 2: believe you just hate your ears that much. 301 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, and then all the deside and let's say you 302 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 4: are pressured and do watch it, and it was mediocre 303 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 4: to ide to just trash if you say anything that, Like, 304 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 4: you wrong for calling black shit not excellent. 305 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 5: Everything we do ain't excellent, y'all. 306 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 4: That's part of equality that we can make mediocre to 307 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 4: average the okay shit. 308 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean. 309 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 2: And the thing is if it is that like, and 310 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 2: also if it's not excellent to you and other people 311 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 2: enjoy it, let them cook, right, Like that's another thing 312 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 2: that people don't do. Like, Okay, that's what you didn't 313 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 2: enjoy this Tyler Perry thing. You don't have to like 314 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 2: destroy Tyler Perry. You could just be like, I don't 315 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 2: fuck with Tyler Perry movies. You know, it could be 316 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 2: that simple. But anyway, and last thing I want to 317 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 2: say before we get into the rest of the show. 318 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 3: If you've been watching the news and you've seen. 319 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: All the stuff about the debate of course back in 320 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 2: the news about gun control. 321 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 3: And I think this time it resonated even more with. 322 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: People because the killers used like a lot of trumps 323 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 2: wording and stuff in their manifestos and screens and the 324 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 2: things that they read online and all this stuff, right, 325 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 2: so y'all, you know, y'all see it, and then you go, well, 326 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 2: these Republicans they're out here saying thoughts and prayers. You're 327 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 2: in our thoughts, You're in our prayers, you know. Mitch 328 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 2: McConnell like a lot of Republicans get online and they 329 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 2: put out a blanket tweet that we all know is 330 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 2: bullshit because they're the ones that make sure there's no 331 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 2: gun control. You know, they still won't pass a soft 332 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 2: white weapons band that we literally just had when Clinton 333 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 2: was in office. 334 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 5: Right and then and I've read something about. 335 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 3: The let it expire. They let it expire. 336 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's right, they let it inspire, and like 337 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 4: gun violence jump like four hundred something after that. 338 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 2: Right, So that's easy to dunk on those people, right, 339 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 2: they're Republicans, is like that, you guys love guns, want 340 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 2: the people oh. 341 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 3: Blah blah, And I even ashamed of it. 342 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 2: But it's another group of people that I think is 343 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 2: getting the past that we don't talk about during this time. 344 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 2: And those are the people that were telling us not 345 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 2: to vote. They were saying, it's okay if you don't 346 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 2: feel like voting. So how the fuck are you pro 347 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 2: gun control on days like the day, but you won't 348 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:28,639 Speaker 2: go to the polls and support candidates that are pro 349 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 2: gun control. Isn't that just as empty as starts and prayers? 350 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 2: How is that any fucking different? It's the same shit. 351 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 2: Oh we need un controlled, man, We need to get 352 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 2: some Democrats, need to get a backbone and do this. Okay, 353 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,959 Speaker 2: under Obama, they tried as much as they could. They 354 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 2: put the feet to the fire, and the thing that 355 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 2: stopped at was a lot of Republicans being like, fuck 356 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 2: gun control, even with these white kids dying, we don't 357 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 2: give a fuck, and a lot of people go And 358 00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 2: that's the day I gave up because of the Republicans. 359 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 2: I'll say, no, that's not the day I gave up. 360 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 2: I started feeling like it was hopeless when no same 361 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 2: Republicans returned to their seats in the subsequent years and 362 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 2: they were not voted out. Now, that's when I said, Okay, 363 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 2: you guys didn't give a fuck, Like the voting populace 364 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,880 Speaker 2: didn't give a fuck, because you know, everyone thinks that 365 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 2: it's just the presidential election and the presidential result that 366 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 2: everybody's upset about. 367 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 3: But I'm like, nah, I've. 368 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 2: Been upset since for a long time, but specifically twenty 369 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 2: ten on, I've been like, oh, this country don't give 370 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:38,400 Speaker 2: a fuck. No, just an early adopter of yeah, yeah, 371 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 2: you guys talk a good game. You know, you love 372 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 2: when Obama gives flowery speeches, but when it comes to 373 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: showing up at the post when he said we are 374 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:47,400 Speaker 2: to change and. 375 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 3: Shit, y'all was like, we thought you were gonna do all. 376 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 2: The work, so good luck, nigger, and then just dipped 377 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:57,919 Speaker 2: out until twenty sixteen, right, right, So that's kind of 378 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 2: the thing what I was thinking about, is like, if 379 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 2: you're talking about gun control but also talking about I 380 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 2: don't vote, and two sides of the same coin, fuck 381 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 2: you. You just as ifty as thoughts in prayers. I feel 382 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 2: the same way about you, and Mitch McConnell about you, 383 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 2: and Paul Ryan and all these you know, Trump and 384 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 2: all these motherfuckers that are like, yeah, you know, I'm 385 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 2: for gun control, but you know, I mean, do we 386 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 2: really need to I mean, I mean we need to 387 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 2: do something. We need to put a band, we need 388 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 2: to do this. Well, who's gonna do it. You're not 389 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 2: gonna just go down to the local seven eleven and 390 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 2: fucking do it. You're gonna have to fucking unite politically 391 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 2: to make that happen. You're gonna have to get candidates 392 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 2: that want to see that happen. And all these like 393 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 2: woke ass candidates that got the best tweets and the 394 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 2: most followers are on Twitter telling you what, hey, I'm 395 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 2: for gun control, we need to pass this. Those are 396 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 2: platitudes until you get into the fucking position of power 397 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 2: to make those things happen. And how do you get 398 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 2: more people on the side of these people who are 399 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 2: in positions to help them? Baba, It's the only fucking way. 400 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 2: And yet you will see people lose this energy because 401 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 2: we have a fucking mass shoot in every fifteen minutes. 402 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 2: They will lose this energy by November of this year, 403 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 2: not just next year, twenty twenty. They'll lose it by 404 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 2: November of this year. They'll be like, oh, yeah, I'm 405 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 2: already over this shit. So yeah, that's what I kept 406 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 2: thinking about yesterday seeing all that shit because it was 407 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 2: some of the same people that's like, we're not tough 408 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 2: enough with gun laws. I'm like, what are you talking about? 409 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 2: It's the Democrat's fault. How Like, what more do you 410 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 2: want them to do? 411 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:39,439 Speaker 5: You didn't putting them in a position of power. 412 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 2: What more do you want them to do? They're filibustering 413 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 2: and all this shit. Do y'all even follow this shit 414 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 2: or do you just get on Twitter and talk? 415 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 6: They do? 416 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 4: And June keep saying this and I will hop on this. 417 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:54,640 Speaker 4: Most of the American populace does not know basic fucking civics. 418 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 4: They do not know how the government goddamn. 419 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 2: Works, right, they don't know. 420 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 4: That's why they could just say this and they think 421 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,880 Speaker 4: it's cool, and you're like, bitch, it don't work like that. 422 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just so weird to see people. We all 423 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 2: can agree that Republicans our problem, but it's a lot 424 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 2: of us in the voting electorate that are a problem too, 425 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 2: because we talk this shit, but then when it's time 426 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 2: to vote, it's like, well, you know, two sides of 427 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 2: the same coin. I mean, really, what's the difference. How 428 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 2: it's gonna really affect me? You know what I'm saying, 429 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 2: Like what they gonna do for me? Am I getting 430 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 2: reparations or something? And in flip this shit and it's 431 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 2: like okay, So then the next school when the school 432 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 2: shootings and things escalate, school ain't even in yet. When 433 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 2: this shit escalates this year, where are you gonna be. 434 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 2: I don't want to see shit from you. Keep it 435 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 2: to yourself, You don't, you don't really give a fuck. 436 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 2: Keep keep it like some thoughts and prayers to your 437 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 2: fucking self, because they just as helpful anyway. All right, 438 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 2: let's see, let's get into some other news. 439 00:21:53,160 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 6: How about this, There is something. 440 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 2: I wanna ask you, there's something that I want to know. 441 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 5: Answer this question. 442 00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 2: You have the answer, So tell me what our wo't know? 443 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 2: You you wanna funk? Do you wanna funk? Won't you 444 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 2: tell me now? 445 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 6: Won't you tell me now? 446 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 2: If you want a fun? And let me show ya? 447 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 2: How do you'll want a fund with me? 448 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 5: You you don't want a fun with me? 449 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 2: Oh yeah. Let's get into some LGBTQ news over here, 450 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 2: of course, is where we talk about all our lgbtqs, FAM, 451 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 2: fam and all the people on the spectrum of sexuality 452 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 2: all over the place. We're talking about you, all right now, okay, uh, 453 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 2: we are out here trying to spread the word, and 454 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 2: of course, as always with many of our segments, not 455 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,879 Speaker 2: a lot of good news, not a lot of good news. 456 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 2: Pretty pretty shitty world for everyone that's not a white 457 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 2: man right now, guys, pretty not a straight white man, 458 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 2: and it's pretty shitty, and that's what we're gonna talk about. 459 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 2: Let's see here, how about this gay man opposes Modesto 460 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 2: Straight Pride rally as his adoptive mother helps organize the 461 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 2: Straight Pride parade. I'll read it again. Gay man opposes 462 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 2: Modesto Straight Pride rally as adoptive mother helps organize it. 463 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 2: Organizes are planning Straight Pride rally to be held in 464 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 2: Modesto Park, but there is a growing group of people 465 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 2: trying to stop that gathering from happening, including a gay 466 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 2: son of one of the organizers. What is uh, what's 467 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 2: that Thanksgiving gonna look like? Y'all? 468 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 4: You know, And people wonder why when people get older, 469 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 4: they be like, I'm not coming to Danksgiving, I'm not 470 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 4: coming to Hollywood. 471 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 5: Know, you can't see my kids. 472 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 4: And people want to guilt trip you because a lot 473 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 4: of people think that you're just supposed to be. I'm 474 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 4: just gonna keep it real, y'all. When it comes to parents, 475 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,479 Speaker 4: a lot of people think parents are these people that 476 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 4: are not flawed, that don't fuck up, that don't actually 477 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 4: do things to actually damage you. And so when you 478 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 4: get older, you know, particularly down South, pay respect, pay respect. 479 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 5: Okay, that's cool, that's cool, that's cool. 480 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:19,440 Speaker 6: But I'm an. 481 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 5: Adult now and I'm growing. I'm not a child anymore. 482 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 4: And as an adult, I get to pick and choose 483 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 4: what I will and will not put up with. And 484 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 4: particularly if you've been raised up in a situation where 485 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 4: you've been oppressed and you haven't been your true self, 486 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 4: you have the right to be like, I'm not going 487 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 4: to deal with this, and not dealing with this means 488 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna deal with you. 489 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 5: And people get into feelings and they take it personal 490 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,919 Speaker 5: when people go, I don't fuck with my parents, you know. 491 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 4: And I think that everybody thinks that you're supposed to 492 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 4: have this unconditional love for your parents, but that's not 493 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 4: always true for everybody, because everybody's situation with their parents 494 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 4: are completely different. 495 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 2: A lot of times I don't have that unconditional love 496 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: for you, correct, you know, because they're a doctrine. 497 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 5: It's a respecting you know. 498 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 4: I understand that parents want children to respect them, but 499 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 4: you have to respect your children too, and people don't. 500 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 2: Especially once they become adults. And then, like I said, 501 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,399 Speaker 2: they're indoctrinated into this shit too, so a lot of 502 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 2: times their love for their child can be outwighed by 503 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 2: the fucking anti gay shit that they've learned their whole lives. 504 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 2: Like anyway, this is a straight pride This is hate pride, 505 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 2: said Matthew Mason. His mother, his adoptive mother, is organizing 506 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 2: the Straight Pride event. This is the woman who raised 507 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 2: me actively working against my rights as a human being 508 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 2: who I am as a person, Mason told Fox forty. 509 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 2: Said the event put on by the National Straight Pride 510 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 2: Coalition is more than just a celebration ahead on sexuals. 511 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 2: He worries is a platform to divide and incite violence. 512 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 2: Dog whistling and white supremacy. That is immediately inciting violence. 513 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 2: I am afraid of violence happening. I don't want anyone 514 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,120 Speaker 2: in my community to be hurt. 515 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:05,199 Speaker 5: Come on. 516 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 2: On the coalition's website, the group claims to be protecting 517 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:13,439 Speaker 2: God ordained natural nuclear family, Christian values, and the contributions 518 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 2: of Western civilization on the American society. Oh yeah, so 519 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 2: it's also white pride, because that shit always goes together. 520 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 2: You always find wherever there's one, you always find out. 521 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 5: The cousins are somewhere around. 522 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:33,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're racist, homophobic, xenophobic, you know all them phobias, 523 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 4: They all around each other. 524 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 2: Yep. It is again white Caucasians who did come to 525 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 2: this country to start liberty and gave us the greatest 526 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 2: constitution in the world, said Mason's mother, my Linda. Mylenda 527 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 2: Mason said, the Raley is meant to be a peaceful 528 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: gathering that actually brings people together. They're looking, oh man, 529 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: it is again white Caucasians. So who is the looking 530 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 2: to bring together? I mean, I do believe you're looking 531 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 2: to rings some people together, kind of like the Klan 532 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,359 Speaker 2: was looking to bring some people together, you know, the 533 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 2: Germans was. We're looking to bring some people together. If 534 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. 535 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 4: Why diversity looked everybody looked like me, but we diverse diversity. 536 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 2: Okay. We got brown hair over here, we got some 537 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 2: blond hell, and we got some red hair over here. 538 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 5: We got got a liverit of curly hell over here. 539 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 3: We got some dust. 540 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,239 Speaker 2: Some how tighten them curls. Okay, now how tight are 541 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 2: them curls on their hair? Because we don't have no 542 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 2: folks see curls up in here. 543 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 4: But we got the bag test and ship. We do 544 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 4: got some uh you know, you got one, you know, 545 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:36,120 Speaker 4: one seed. 546 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:36,479 Speaker 5: We can do with that. 547 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 2: We got all the shades of white. Okay, we got 548 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,959 Speaker 2: the white white. Then we got like Italian white. 549 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 5: We got the tanned white. 550 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 2: Right, we got not the Jewish white. Now, y'all gotta gone, 551 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 2: y'all get out of here. 552 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 5: We don't count y'all. 553 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 2: This is this is a straight priv arade. 554 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 5: But we don't count Irish either, Well we used to, 555 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 5: didn't count ours. 556 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,719 Speaker 2: No niggas allowed of the straight privated. As far as 557 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 2: we're concertained, blacks are all gay. Okay, y'all are all 558 00:28:58,120 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 2: gay to me, So y'all got to get the hell on, 559 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 2: she said, everyone's welcome. That to even members of the 560 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 2: LGBTQ community. Hey, we need somebody to burn. I mean, 561 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna burn yourself and burn. 562 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 5: We're gonna turn on you. 563 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 2: Gonna We're not. Look, these crouses is not gonna burn 564 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 2: all night without no human fuel. 565 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 3: So we invite the whole community out. 566 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 2: Okay, we want everybody, all right, these news is don't 567 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 2: tie themselves. 568 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 5: If you know they don't, they gotta we got something 569 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 5: hang them. 570 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 2: Up by adding the intolerance, does it from their side? 571 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 2: Look us white's the only people are not intolerant. It's 572 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 2: the gays. Really, Uh, By the way, they make it 573 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 2: sound like pride events are intolerant. Everybody can come to 574 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 2: the Pride event. 575 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 5: Yes they can. 576 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: They don't like kick anyone out of Pride. They're not 577 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,600 Speaker 2: like a straight get the fuck about it. Like everybody 578 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 2: via the Proud events. What the fuck? Yeah, the hate 579 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 2: is coming from the gate. You know how they be doing. 580 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 5: With the rainbows and the colors and the dancing and shit. 581 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 2: I remember I was in my high school basketball team 582 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 2: and you know, everybody was going to the showers and 583 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 2: we were all getting dressed, and that's when the guys 584 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 2: found out that I was straight. They saw a poster 585 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 2: of a woman in my locker room and they kicked 586 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 2: me off the team. Guys. You guys know they they 587 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 2: do not like straights. Okay, the Gates said, get the 588 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 2: fuck up out of here. You are off the team, buddy. 589 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 2: All right, that's enough of that shit. And for the 590 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 2: rest of the rest of my high school career, I 591 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 2: was I was an outcast. People walking around calling me 592 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 2: straight Rod. Oh they're straight Rod. Oh you know him? 593 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 2: Oh head Row, Get this headro out of here. I 594 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 2: hate them headed rows. I was like, come on, man, 595 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 2: stop calling me that, please, And I was. 596 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 3: Like, no, get out here. It was terrible. 597 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 2: Y'all know how they're having the all of US straights. 598 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 2: The fuck man, I swear privilege is just some shit 599 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 2: any way, you just be like listen, equality makes me 600 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 2: feel oppressed. So I'm gonna need y'all. 601 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 5: I got one hundred percent. I won't give you a 602 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 5: half of a percent. 603 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna need all y'all to get back into closet 604 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 2: because like, I'm starting to feel a little claustrophobic with 605 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 2: all y'all just you know, being free and being yourself. 606 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 2: I can't appreciate this. 607 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 5: I don't appreciate you in the vicinity. 608 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 2: I feel like I need a rally too. Okay, y'all 609 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 2: had the gay rally. I want I want a straight rally. Okay. 610 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 3: It's the only way to make this make sense. 611 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 2: All right, fucking idiots, Let's see what else happening. Oh. 612 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 2: Laverne Cox landed the cover of VOGUEY When the September 613 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 2: magazine issues hit newsstands, you can keep an eye out 614 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 2: for one with miss Laverne Cox. The actress made her 615 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 2: British Vogue cover debut and a project curated by Dutchess 616 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 2: of Sussex. 617 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 5: Uh. 618 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 2: The cover itself featured fifteen women in total dubb the 619 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 2: Forces for Change a monk. Them are Christy Turlington, Burns, 620 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 2: sal Mahaya Pinault, Jane Fondus, SHANEI Burke, and Moore. I'm 621 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 2: completely overwhelmed and overjoyed to share this cover, Cox wrote 622 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 2: and an Instagram post about the opportunity being on the 623 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 2: cover of Vogue magazine has been a dream of mine 624 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 2: since I was a child. To get to share this 625 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 2: cover with a group of women who inspire me, who 626 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 2: are truly forced to change as deeply humbling, that's it. 627 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 2: That it's British Vogue is even more special to me 628 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 2: because British Vogue was the first Vogue to feature a 629 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,959 Speaker 2: black monel on the cover, Donayelle Luna in May nineteen 630 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 2: sixty six. She wrote, American Vogue came later with Beverly 631 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 2: Johnson in nineteen seventy four. Thank you so much, Edward 632 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 2: Ininfo and guest editor, Her Royal Highness, the Dutchess of 633 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 2: Sussex for including me. Yeah, I think this is the 634 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 2: one that Megan. 635 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 3: Did, so yeah, that's dope. 636 00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 2: Congratulations and still getting first. 637 00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 4: In twenty nineteen, but oh yeah, we'll be getting Brown 638 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 4: people gonna get first forever. 639 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 5: Brown people and women are gonna be breaking. 640 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 2: First, Well, this is a trans persons first, because I 641 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 2: think they have had a black person. They have had 642 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:16,719 Speaker 2: a woman before, okay, but this is the first I 643 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 2: believe openly trans woman they had on thet on that 644 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 2: so congratulations, Yes, break. 645 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 5: Them barriers, fuckers down. 646 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:33,440 Speaker 2: Family values lawmaker resigns ahead a report of gay hook clubs. Clockwork, 647 00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 2: fucking clockwork man. Listen, not every bigoted ass Republican is 648 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 2: secretly gay. 649 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 3: I hate when people do that. 650 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 2: I think that's actually does a disservice because it makes 651 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 2: it seem like being gay is some bad shit that. 652 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 3: Makes you act out to and do hateful things like this. 653 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 2: So that's not true. But when one of these motherfuckers 654 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 2: is secretly gay, you really do just want to like 655 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 2: slap them because it's like you actively work to make 656 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 2: it harder for your fucking self. Like, no, maybe you 657 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 2: wouldn't have got elected if you was out now gay, 658 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 2: but or maybe you feel like you wouldn't have got 659 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 2: elected if you wasn't walking around hating on gay people 660 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 2: or whatever. But like this has to be what the 661 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 2: gay version of just a coon ass nigga must feel like, right, 662 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,960 Speaker 2: Like you just be like like being Carson, like how 663 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,319 Speaker 2: I feel about being Carson. Gay people gotta be looking 664 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 2: at this dude, like, bro, what are you doing? What 665 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 2: is happening with you right now? You can't be on 666 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 2: grinder and also talking about family values and a threat 667 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 2: to marriage, to the safety of marriage because gay people 668 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:43,879 Speaker 2: want to get married. You can't do both. Yet they do. Yeah, 669 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 2: he's a family values Repolgan from Kenton in northwest corner 670 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 2: of the state, announced unexpectedly Tuesday night he'd be resigning. 671 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 2: He told he had to give up the tendency and 672 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 2: he had to give up his seat in the state 673 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 2: House of Representatives so he could better attend to his business. 674 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 3: Or a white squirrel, we'll see right there. He owned 675 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 3: the winery, so it was. 676 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,400 Speaker 2: He also lamited the fact that during this time in 677 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:10,799 Speaker 2: the legislator legislature this year, he lost the fruit of 678 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 2: one hundred and thirty five peach trees, adding that his 679 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 2: son in law was recently diagnosed with cancer. Sanders and 680 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,720 Speaker 2: said he just couldn't justify the time he'd be sending 681 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:20,800 Speaker 2: away in Matshelle. 682 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,719 Speaker 5: Ain't as funny how all of a sudden you got 683 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 5: family time. 684 00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 4: Like to dude up here, all of a sudden, he 685 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 4: simply got sick and had to have an operation, so 686 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:33,920 Speaker 4: then he couldn't rerun. Your health was one hundred percent now, 687 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,799 Speaker 4: all of a sudden, all these family emergencies and excuses. 688 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 2: I can't remember the name of the politicians you're talking about, 689 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 2: but I know it's the guy who rig had election 690 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:43,799 Speaker 2: rigging and his. 691 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 5: Son came out and was like that nigga did it. 692 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, we cold it on the show a long time ago. 693 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 2: I'm sorry I can't remember his name. I hate to 694 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 2: bring up something like this and not be able to 695 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 2: give you all the details. I'll try to google it, 696 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 2: but yeah, he was a local North Carolina politician and yeah, 697 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 2: when he got busted, then the police started getting ready 698 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 2: to come around. It was time for him to go 699 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 2: to jail and criminal charges could be fouled. He suddenly 700 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,360 Speaker 2: got sick and was like, I'm not gonna run for 701 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 2: re election. Uh, you know, after this whole election fraud thing. 702 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,239 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just you know, I'm so sick right now, 703 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,360 Speaker 2: I need to lay down. Remind me of when I 704 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,919 Speaker 2: was a kid, and there was like he was about 705 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 2: to get a whooping up, and it's like, well, if 706 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 2: I lay down, try to take a nap first, maybe 707 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,319 Speaker 2: they'll just see me sleeping and leave me alone. And 708 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 2: it worked like one out of every three thousand times, 709 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,279 Speaker 2: So you know, had like most of the time, had 710 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,400 Speaker 2: like a one percent chance of working. And you know what, guys, 711 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 2: it happened a couple of times, adding that his son 712 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,840 Speaker 2: in law was recently diagnosed cancer. 713 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that may all be true. 714 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 2: With a report that came on the heels of Sanderson's announcement, 715 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,240 Speaker 2: claims that it's not just a boom and wine business 716 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 2: and dead peaches that led to the representative to step 717 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:51,399 Speaker 2: down millions of peaches. Peaches for me, the peachers didn't 718 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 2: cut it. Since he took office in twenty eleven, Tennessee 719 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:55,920 Speaker 2: State represented the bill. 720 00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,920 Speaker 5: Said, getting in some peaches apparently. 721 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 2: No, I don't think that's what it's called it all. 722 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. 723 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:03,359 Speaker 6: I don't know. 724 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,280 Speaker 3: I thought peach was like vaginas. 725 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 5: Oh, I don't know. 726 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,279 Speaker 2: They've been some gay stuff with peaches too. 727 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know. I just think of 728 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:11,760 Speaker 5: peaches and then booties. 729 00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, you know what, valid we 730 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 2: do call all booty's peaches. So he was getting in 731 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 2: some peaches. Since he took office in twenty eleven, Tennessee 732 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 2: State Representative Bill Sanderson has voted repeatedly in favor of 733 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:27,479 Speaker 2: legislation designed to horn the LGBT community. During that same 734 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 2: time period, the fifty nine year old Sanderson has also 735 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 2: been openly soliciting sex for much younger men on Grinder, 736 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 2: at gay hook up and dating app, both from his 737 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 2: home in West Tennessee and in Nashville. Gervin did not 738 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 2: publish any messages of photos from Sandyson on the app, 739 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 2: although she describes him in detail and sites sources who 740 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 2: told her about Sandus's communications and encounters with younger men. 741 00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,239 Speaker 2: She also said Sendacon denies it all and that he 742 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 2: begged her not to publish her story. In an interview, 743 00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:58,240 Speaker 2: she also plans to publish. Oh so then he resigned coincidently, 744 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,600 Speaker 2: because look, if this wasn't true, you know, he wouldn't resign, 745 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 2: right the Republicans fight on all the lies. And he 746 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,320 Speaker 2: was like, oh god, no, she got the pictures. 747 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 4: And you know what, even if they had the truth, 748 00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 4: with Donald Trump, fake news like like like honestly, you 749 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 4: can fake news yourself right on through it. 750 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 2: And he said, but see when they got them pictures. 751 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 2: He's new, he knew, he was like, they got no, 752 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,279 Speaker 2: they they definitely got pictures of me with my shirt off. 753 00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:24,880 Speaker 2: Let me just go ahead and lead us along. 754 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,040 Speaker 5: It don't matter, Caen. 755 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 2: He resigned, so it did matter for him. Yeah, yeah, can't. 756 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 2: Can't take it back on this one. Uh. 757 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 3: Garb also reports that Local ABC. 758 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 5: You know what, that's what's wrong? He cares. 759 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 2: I guess so I don't know when when you don't care, 760 00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 2: you'd be like it resign. Well, the thing is, though, 761 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:49,399 Speaker 2: don't care about what. I don't care about getting caught 762 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 2: being gay as a Republican senator or that's a little. 763 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,920 Speaker 5: Different, okay, okay, And we didn't care about. 764 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,240 Speaker 3: Having a mistress who had an abortion. 765 00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 2: Okay, but nigga, you gay, they don't like you. 766 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,960 Speaker 5: Okay, I'm with you now, that's a little different. Fucking 767 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:04,720 Speaker 5: women is fine. 768 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:06,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not that they don't like what you did. 769 00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 2: They don't like you as a fucking concept. And you 770 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 2: ran on that and campaign on that. You gonna lose. 771 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 2: You can't just you can't get caught fucking people on 772 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 2: grinder and then be like boils their egg on my face. Guys, 773 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 2: that was crazy. That was what a crazy day that was. Anyway, 774 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 2: see you in November. 775 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 3: Nah, that's it for you, not with the party. 776 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,920 Speaker 2: If we hate gay people and your candidate and your 777 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 2: fucking platform on your website is like vote for me 778 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:35,720 Speaker 2: because I hate gay people. 779 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:37,440 Speaker 3: You can't fucking do it. 780 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 2: It's too much. 781 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 4: But anything else but that, anything else he could have 782 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:43,400 Speaker 4: He could have faked news. 783 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 5: His way through it. 784 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 2: Anything but yeah, anything was like unless he's married to 785 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 2: a black woman. 786 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,319 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, I don't know what else. 787 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,360 Speaker 5: Give them about two things. 788 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 3: I don't know what else or the death nails, you know. 789 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 5: Fucking hookers, you know, secret averages and all that. You 790 00:39:58,520 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 5: could fake news. 791 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:00,919 Speaker 2: Like maybe if you find on the picture of somebody 792 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,680 Speaker 2: taking a knee before a basketball game. You know what 793 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like, oh, no, Senator gotta go. He gotta go. 794 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 2: This motherfucking thing Black lives matter. 795 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:09,839 Speaker 5: He just you can see. 796 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you don't say it's gotta it's gotta 797 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 2: be something pretty serious. It's not gonna be this. It's 798 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 2: not gonna be Uh. 799 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 3: I have a mistress. They don't care about that. 800 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,040 Speaker 5: Mmmm. That's how I was like fake news And you 801 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,720 Speaker 5: explained it I was like, oh, yeah. 802 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,600 Speaker 4: That's my bad. That's one of the few things you 803 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:25,799 Speaker 4: can't fake news your way through. 804 00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,960 Speaker 2: He was on his sucking Dix. He gotta go, he 805 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 2: got to go. I'll tolerate anything but that, you know, 806 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 2: anything that's sad. 807 00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:33,799 Speaker 5: Uh. 808 00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:35,719 Speaker 2: This sort of thing is a coming routine for a 809 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 2: Republican supermajority, although this year also saw Democratic Representative Rick 810 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,880 Speaker 2: Staple stepped down from a leadership spot post after a 811 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:47,400 Speaker 2: sexual rascal allegation. I'm here, Dick, Saint Dicken, not your friend. 812 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:47,799 Speaker 6: Uh. 813 00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 2: The Kenton Republican resignation came on the same day as 814 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,840 Speaker 2: House Republican Sida on the nominee to replace Speaker Glenn Casada, 815 00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 2: who announced his own resignation from the post in the 816 00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,360 Speaker 2: wake of a scandal involving racist and sexist text me. 817 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,440 Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, fuck the country. 818 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,360 Speaker 5: Start over, get your whole off deleted. 819 00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,880 Speaker 2: We really need the aliens to come and do what 820 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:11,719 Speaker 2: white people did to America, but to humans. Just start over, 821 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 2: Just be like you know what, we colonize as shit, 822 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 2: it's ours now, y'all did not know how to do 823 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 2: this right. Oh, let's see what else happened? Oh, Mario 824 00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 2: Lopez apologizes for ignorant and insensitive anti trans remarks. Following 825 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:32,880 Speaker 2: the outcrowd social media over his anti trans statements, Access 826 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:37,719 Speaker 2: Hollywood hosts Mario Lopez have to apologized for assertions he made, 827 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 2: and on The Candic's Own show in June Well, he 828 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,840 Speaker 2: called it dangerous for parents and support their transgender children. 829 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 2: The comments I made with ignorant and sensitive, and I 830 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 2: now have a deeper understanding of how hurful they were. 831 00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,880 Speaker 2: Lopez said the statement was repsit to the advocate. I 832 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 2: have been and always will be an art supporter of 833 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,040 Speaker 2: the LGBTQ community, and I'm going to use this opportunity 834 00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,120 Speaker 2: to better educate myself. 835 00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,760 Speaker 3: As before, I'll be more informed but thoughtful. 836 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,160 Speaker 2: Owens, a star supporter of Donald Trump, began a conversation 837 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,400 Speaker 2: about trans kids on her show by saying it was 838 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,560 Speaker 2: weird that celebrities like Charlie's their own child are picking 839 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 2: their gender. 840 00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,719 Speaker 3: Lopez says, I'm kind of blown away too. 841 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,880 Speaker 2: I've never I've never wanted to tell anyone how to 842 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:20,960 Speaker 2: parent their kids, obviously, and I think if you come 843 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:22,799 Speaker 2: from a place of love, you really can't go wrong. 844 00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:24,759 Speaker 2: But at the same time, if you're a three year 845 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 2: old and you're saying you're feeling a certain way or 846 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:29,800 Speaker 2: you think you're a boy or a girl, or whatever 847 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,080 Speaker 2: the case may be. I just think it's dangerous as 848 00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,480 Speaker 2: a parent to make this determination. It's sort of alarming. 849 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 2: I just think about the repercussions. Later on, Lopez went 850 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 2: on to conflict gender and sexuality when you're a kid, 851 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:47,120 Speaker 2: you don't know anything about sexuality yet, you're just a kid. Yeah, 852 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,239 Speaker 2: And I'll listen to a firestarter where they talked about it, 853 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 2: and they, you know, to me, signed a little like 854 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 2: kind of defensive of him, you know, to be like, well, 855 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,359 Speaker 2: you know, he he fucked up, and you know it 856 00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,839 Speaker 2: is true, he don't know. You don't know what's going 857 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,640 Speaker 2: on with three kids, don't know enough about themselves and stuff. 858 00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:09,880 Speaker 2: And I get all that, But to me, I feel 859 00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,640 Speaker 2: like he fucked up going on the Canvas own show 860 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,440 Speaker 2: in the first fucking place. That ain't the place for 861 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:19,080 Speaker 2: that discussion anyway, not that show. What the fuck would 862 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 2: be the point of that, you know what I mean? Like, 863 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,279 Speaker 2: And it's weird to me to then kind of like 864 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,160 Speaker 2: one understanding when you own a platform or place that's 865 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:33,239 Speaker 2: about not having understanding nothing candas Owners does is out 866 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 2: of the goodness of our heart or well intentioned or 867 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 2: any of this shit. What the fuck is he even 868 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,080 Speaker 2: doing over there? How is that not the first question 869 00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 2: out of everybody's mouth before you get to if he's 870 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,759 Speaker 2: transphob or not. The conversation took place on troll dot 871 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:51,239 Speaker 2: troll dot troll dot com, and y'all really situ here 872 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,400 Speaker 2: trying to have this discussion. It's not you can't do 873 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 2: it there. If he was on Tommy Lawrence Show, I 874 00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 2: feel the same fucking way. There's places where you can 875 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,240 Speaker 2: talk about this shit and earnest with people that actually 876 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,440 Speaker 2: give a fuck, and then there's people looking for a 877 00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:06,080 Speaker 2: viral sound bite that will set your celebrity ass up 878 00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,439 Speaker 2: because you ain't coming there thinking about this shit. Y'all 879 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:13,239 Speaker 2: did no preparation guarantee that she just randomly like got 880 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:16,399 Speaker 2: this bitch. That's I guarantee you shit got them, Cause I. 881 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:17,560 Speaker 3: Don't even gott to be the one to say it. 882 00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,279 Speaker 2: If I say the crazy shit, No, I'm gonna think 883 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,040 Speaker 2: about candas On says the crazy shit nus at eleven, 884 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 2: nobody cares. But if I get him to say it, now, 885 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 2: people are like, oh, it's candas own show. 886 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,760 Speaker 3: Where is that at? Let me go find this club? 887 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:30,799 Speaker 2: Let me listen to the whole episode while you hear 888 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,879 Speaker 2: the context she winning, you know, the breakfast club does 889 00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,879 Speaker 2: the same thing, like these viral moments is more important 890 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 2: than the conversation. So of course the conversation is problematic. 891 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 2: It's coming from fucking problematic dot com. Come on, man, 892 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,759 Speaker 2: and I don't care about his apology or not. I mean, 893 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 2: it's not for me to accept and not accept it. 894 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 2: It's not talking about me and I honestly to be 895 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,600 Speaker 2: to be fair, I don't know. And straight people don't 896 00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,680 Speaker 2: have all the answers, and non tr as people don't 897 00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,320 Speaker 2: have all the answers. And I'm sure the Trands experience 898 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:07,720 Speaker 2: is unique and varies per individual. Just like being straight 899 00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,439 Speaker 2: or not straight or gay or whatever, it's not all 900 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 2: just you know, broad stroke, just it's all the same 901 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 2: for everybody, all the time, even if you're straight, it's 902 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:17,800 Speaker 2: not the same for everybody. 903 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:19,319 Speaker 3: We don't fucking know. 904 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,839 Speaker 2: There's straight people that don't have sex until they fucking 905 00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 2: get married, right, there's there's forty year old virgins and 906 00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,080 Speaker 2: shit right, we don't none of us has the blueprint 907 00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,400 Speaker 2: for what is the exact right thing at the right moment. 908 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,960 Speaker 2: You do the best. You leave, like you said, you 909 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,719 Speaker 2: Lee will love. You do the best to accommodate your 910 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 2: child and to show them that they're supported, and you 911 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:41,719 Speaker 2: also want to protect them from the world. Right, So 912 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,760 Speaker 2: I understand that these are difficult choices. I've been around 913 00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 2: kids that are trans you know, I've been around kids obviously, 914 00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 2: been around straight kids, been around kids that are. 915 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,800 Speaker 3: Gay, and they knew right and like they knew way 916 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:55,480 Speaker 3: they knew. 917 00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:58,440 Speaker 2: We all knew. Like we were sitting up there, like 918 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:01,839 Speaker 2: that motherfucker is gay. That like that's like that like 919 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 2: not motherfucker. We wasn't say motherfucker, but you know, it's like, okay, 920 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 2: that little that little kid is gay, Like we know, 921 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:11,120 Speaker 2: it's fine, Like you know, and I understand. 922 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:12,440 Speaker 3: We're not parents. 923 00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 2: And so one of the things I think non parents 924 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,080 Speaker 2: do a lot of cases is we start judging people 925 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:24,320 Speaker 2: for either their shortcomings or the way they handle things. 926 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,440 Speaker 3: But they have a different reality than I have. 927 00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 2: Right, I don't have to live with the consequence of 928 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:32,239 Speaker 2: repercussions of anything a parent does to their child, Like 929 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,759 Speaker 2: it's not my I don't have some little kid growing up. 930 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:37,880 Speaker 2: That's gonna resent me later and be like you handled 931 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,319 Speaker 2: that terribly or you did a great job. 932 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 3: And I understand that these relationships are complicated. 933 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:43,319 Speaker 2: Right. 934 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 3: There's there's a spectrum of parenting too. 935 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:50,279 Speaker 2: There's a straight part, the straight pride rally mama, right, 936 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:54,160 Speaker 2: there's the straight pride rally mama on wonderful spectrum, right. 937 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:57,040 Speaker 4: And then you got the mama deck hugs people at 938 00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:00,680 Speaker 4: the parades because their parents was like, I don't. 939 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:01,319 Speaker 5: Want nothing to do with you. 940 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:05,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, which parrades the gay praise praise are not nota 941 00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:06,879 Speaker 4: but pripe raise. 942 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 5: They will mothers out there. 943 00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,359 Speaker 4: There was actually hugging people who kind of wish their 944 00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:12,560 Speaker 4: parents would accept us. 945 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 5: She was like, I will be your your your your 946 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:16,440 Speaker 5: adopted mama. 947 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:19,239 Speaker 2: So I can accept that it's challenging. We don't have 948 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,839 Speaker 2: all the answers. I think it's funny when they call 949 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 2: it point out celebrities doing this because of all the 950 00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:29,040 Speaker 2: people that have insulated like ability to protect their children, 951 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,200 Speaker 2: celebrities are a little bit different. So it's art least 952 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:35,319 Speaker 2: their own wants to, you know, says hey, my child 953 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,440 Speaker 2: is saying, hey, I want to wear a dress today. 954 00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:40,319 Speaker 2: And that's the end of the discussion, put on the 955 00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 2: dress and we can go out and do whatever the 956 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 2: fuck we want. Yeah, it might be a little different 957 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:45,520 Speaker 2: for she, at least their own because he kids ain't 958 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:47,319 Speaker 2: gonta worry about going to public school with the rest 959 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:51,479 Speaker 2: of these motherfucking rid ass chaps like that, That world 960 00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,520 Speaker 2: might be great for that child, no matter what happens 961 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:55,920 Speaker 2: with that child, that child could grow up and be 962 00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:57,319 Speaker 2: whatever the fuck they want to be. 963 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 5: And hopefully that they. 964 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 2: Will have had the tools and the affirmation and the 965 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 2: love that helps. You know what I mean, You. 966 00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,879 Speaker 5: Just as a parent just hope that you get it right. 967 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,279 Speaker 2: The other thing I think people don't understand because we 968 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 2: can only think what are like straight perspectives on this, 969 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,600 Speaker 2: or our CIS had perspectives on this, or our CIS 970 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,480 Speaker 2: gender perspectives on this. Most of the time we just 971 00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:22,640 Speaker 2: think how we grew up, right, We're like, I knew 972 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 2: I was blank at this time. I never questioned it, 973 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 2: and society just fulfilled me in that way. 974 00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 3: Right, Hey, you're gonna like girls when you grow up. 975 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 2: You're gonna be a heartbreaker, You're gonna do this well, Yeah, 976 00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 2: of course I don't think about it as conditioning. I 977 00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:40,560 Speaker 2: don't think of it. I'm just thinking of it as affirmation. 978 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:44,680 Speaker 2: But then what if I wasn't straight, what if I 979 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,120 Speaker 2: was trans? Then I'm not getting the affirmation because they 980 00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,279 Speaker 2: are literally telling me the opposite. You're gonna be a heartbreaker, 981 00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:53,359 Speaker 2: you're a handsome boy, you're this, so now we don't 982 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 2: fucking up. And also the big elephant in the room. 983 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:01,400 Speaker 2: A lot of this stuff changes the people's lives. They 984 00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:04,279 Speaker 2: might feel away at one age and at another age 985 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:07,759 Speaker 2: you're like, that's not who I am anymore. You know, 986 00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,560 Speaker 2: some things might actually be a choice. Hey, you know what, 987 00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:15,480 Speaker 2: I choose to be a lesbian. None of U's our 988 00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 2: fucking business, really, But I understand it's different when you're 989 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,279 Speaker 2: a parent. When you're a parent, I'm responsible for this 990 00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:24,600 Speaker 2: person's life, the protection they're well being. I'm doing my 991 00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:27,440 Speaker 2: best to like help them lead a life where they 992 00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,359 Speaker 2: don't stick out too much and end up being ostracized, 993 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:33,279 Speaker 2: picked on. And I think parents are afraid, like you're 994 00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,600 Speaker 2: this is a life you're responsible for, and there's there's 995 00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:40,440 Speaker 2: like this fear that has to take over, right because innately, 996 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,080 Speaker 2: you do know that LGBTQ kids are much more likely 997 00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 2: to die by suicide and much more likely to be 998 00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:51,239 Speaker 2: bullied and ostracized and sexually assaulted and shit, so you 999 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:54,160 Speaker 2: do try to, oh, well, maybe I'm so panicked, I'm 1000 00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:54,680 Speaker 2: so scared. 1001 00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:55,680 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna try to. 1002 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,520 Speaker 2: Get my kid to just pretend to be straight as 1003 00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 2: long as fucking possible, you know, And so you end 1004 00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,799 Speaker 2: up damaging your kid trying to protect your kid. 1005 00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's almost like you'd be like, oh, oh my god, 1006 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,040 Speaker 4: you're a double negative quote unquote you're black and you're gay, 1007 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:09,160 Speaker 4: you're black and you're queer. 1008 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,399 Speaker 5: You go, you're black is a prime enough. But then 1009 00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:12,440 Speaker 5: you almost like. 1010 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,480 Speaker 2: And that's if you're talking about just black people, right 1011 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,239 Speaker 2: Mario Lopez. I mean he's just seems to be talking 1012 00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,399 Speaker 2: about trans kids in general, you know, like just so 1013 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,719 Speaker 2: that's just anyway. My point is to be this, I'm 1014 00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 2: not trying to say this on some like let me 1015 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:30,160 Speaker 2: come down on Mario Lopez for his moment of that's 1016 00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:33,279 Speaker 2: for somebody else to do that actually has much more 1017 00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:37,040 Speaker 2: experience in writing and knows all the right things to say. 1018 00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:40,560 Speaker 2: I don't know all the right thingology, yeah whatever, I 1019 00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:42,520 Speaker 2: just don't know all the right things to say, and 1020 00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 2: I haven't lived this experience, and I haven't had a 1021 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:48,080 Speaker 2: child that is trans I don't like I would hope 1022 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,279 Speaker 2: that in this complicated, messy ass world, the fact that 1023 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:56,480 Speaker 2: you love and support your child would enable you and 1024 00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:59,120 Speaker 2: listen to your child hopefully would enable you to like 1025 00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:01,120 Speaker 2: help them through this life. 1026 00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:01,440 Speaker 6: Right. 1027 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 2: That's that's what I feel like parents go roles are 1028 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:07,799 Speaker 2: to do. Like that's but I also understand that, you know, 1029 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,920 Speaker 2: we put labels on kids because it's convenient to society 1030 00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 2: at such a young age. We don't fucking know what 1031 00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:17,359 Speaker 2: the kid is gonna be, none of us, so you 1032 00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:19,279 Speaker 2: just start, I guess we're getting them blue because he's 1033 00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,640 Speaker 2: a boy, you know what I mean. I guess give 1034 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:24,799 Speaker 2: him a basketball, see what he do with that. Like, 1035 00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,400 Speaker 2: like we're all just fucking guessing. We're all just fucking 1036 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:31,040 Speaker 2: messy ass machines. We don't fucking have, Like none of 1037 00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 2: us fit neatly into these categories, but we try to 1038 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:38,080 Speaker 2: sort it out right away, you know, And we haven't 1039 00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,239 Speaker 2: definitely haven't progressed another society where we're gonna have this 1040 00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 2: genderless existence for kids until they decide what they're gonna be, 1041 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:49,239 Speaker 2: at least not now. Maybe a century from now, you know, 1042 00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:54,000 Speaker 2: but this shit is still not really uh there's not 1043 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:57,239 Speaker 2: enough people pushing for that, and are not enough people 1044 00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,799 Speaker 2: who are willing to let go of all the traditional 1045 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:03,480 Speaker 2: genderized like language and norms and shit that we have. 1046 00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,919 Speaker 2: And it's hard too, Like, you know, I know that shit. 1047 00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:09,920 Speaker 2: I'll probably I'll die and never be able to completely 1048 00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:11,640 Speaker 2: or get it out of my brain because I just 1049 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:16,319 Speaker 2: it was this way in my brain for forty years, right, 1050 00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:18,360 Speaker 2: and I'm trying to be like, okay. 1051 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,240 Speaker 5: Let me just stop saying that program yourself. 1052 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:23,680 Speaker 2: But it's difficult, you know, so I can I see 1053 00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 2: why society has a problem with all this shit. But yeah, 1054 00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:30,560 Speaker 2: to turn around and say it's dangerous for parents to 1055 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,520 Speaker 2: affirm their tails at that age, I think it's a 1056 00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:38,320 Speaker 2: little misleading. And then the whole like sex and sexual 1057 00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 2: orientation being this like same thing. It's not, you know, 1058 00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:48,319 Speaker 2: no more than you telling your straight son he's gonna 1059 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:52,400 Speaker 2: be a heartbreaker or a ladies man and he's fucking three. 1060 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,960 Speaker 2: No more than you doing that is you affirming some 1061 00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:58,400 Speaker 2: of your child and being like you can wear a dress, 1062 00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,359 Speaker 2: you can uh, you know, okay, you want to play 1063 00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,600 Speaker 2: sports that typically will associate with boys. You can do that. 1064 00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,440 Speaker 2: There's no like, I don't know, it's just kind of 1065 00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,839 Speaker 2: it's just kind of ridiculous how it gets into like 1066 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 2: so much fear right away, and we skipped right past 1067 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:17,840 Speaker 2: like the love and shit. So but anyway, before we 1068 00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:19,560 Speaker 2: get to all that, why the fuck are you on 1069 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:24,160 Speaker 2: can his own show? That was the biggest question, like 1070 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,960 Speaker 2: how many people gotta go on these stupid as shows 1071 00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,600 Speaker 2: and end up being in a controversy for We're like, mmm, 1072 00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 2: kind of your fault for going on the show. Yes, 1073 00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,000 Speaker 2: I'm victim blaming Mario Lopez. 1074 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 3: Get the fuck off of that show. 1075 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,440 Speaker 2: What are you doing? You actually have a career? Do 1076 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,720 Speaker 2: you not like money? You don't like the easy street 1077 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:43,319 Speaker 2: of just being the nigga on every TV in every 1078 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:47,239 Speaker 2: hotel like you have it made? Ah, what are you 1079 00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:49,680 Speaker 2: even doing? No one cares about your opinion on this shit? 1080 00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 2: Are you on entertainment tonight to interview whoever got a 1081 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,440 Speaker 2: movie coming out? 1082 00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,520 Speaker 3: The fuck did you want to adventure into this? 1083 00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:57,600 Speaker 5: For? 1084 00:53:58,440 --> 00:53:59,000 Speaker 3: What the fuck? 1085 00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,240 Speaker 2: And then and the fact that people are transphobic enough 1086 00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,520 Speaker 2: to be on some it don't matter that he was 1087 00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 2: on Canda's own show. You let that nigga have said 1088 00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:10,480 Speaker 2: some racist shit. Y'all will be the first ones to 1089 00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:12,880 Speaker 2: be like he on this coon show talking about this 1090 00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:18,239 Speaker 2: coon shit. Come on now, you know, people gotta be 1091 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:20,719 Speaker 2: better than this. Stop going on these stupid ass shows. 1092 00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,480 Speaker 2: The fucking cand someone's do for Mario Lupez? Are you 1093 00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:30,160 Speaker 2: gonna get more retweets? Like you're already? Mario Lopez? What 1094 00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:33,319 Speaker 2: are you doing? Just an own goal man? 1095 00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:34,759 Speaker 3: All right? 1096 00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:40,680 Speaker 2: Last story, mom credited with inventing gender reveal parties begs 1097 00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:41,640 Speaker 2: people to stop. 1098 00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:43,800 Speaker 5: Oh shit, well what happened? 1099 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,560 Speaker 2: Jenner Carvonitas, a Los Angeles blogger who was credited with 1100 00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,399 Speaker 2: creating the gender reveal party, now wants to trend to end. 1101 00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 2: According to a post she put on Facebook, she was 1102 00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,120 Speaker 2: expecting the first child of two thousand and eight decided 1103 00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 2: to have a party. Of the party was covered by 1104 00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,759 Speaker 2: Bump magazine. She was interviewed and then she says, I 1105 00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:02,759 Speaker 2: do spread from there. I've felt a lot of mixed 1106 00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:05,640 Speaker 2: feelings about my random contribution to the culture. She said, 1107 00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,320 Speaker 2: it's just exploded. It just exploded. It's crazy. 1108 00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:10,759 Speaker 3: After that, literally guns. 1109 00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:14,840 Speaker 2: Firing, forest fires, more emphasis on gender than has ever 1110 00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:19,200 Speaker 2: been necessary for a baby in a decade since the 1111 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:23,120 Speaker 2: popularized tread, he has traveled all over the world, including Australia, 1112 00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,560 Speaker 2: where Gender Revel Party took a dramatic turn as a 1113 00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 2: car used to spew blue smoke suddenly ignited. Oh yeah, yeah, 1114 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:38,360 Speaker 2: I have. We have all seen these like gender revel fails. 1115 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,600 Speaker 5: Right, yeah, they all don't end well. 1116 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:41,719 Speaker 3: Someone made a. 1117 00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:43,440 Speaker 2: Big forest fire in like Arizona. 1118 00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,640 Speaker 5: Shit, yep, yeah, look, think they got jail time, tried 1119 00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:48,239 Speaker 5: to lower it. 1120 00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,520 Speaker 2: I don't think he got jail. I don't think he 1121 00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:53,440 Speaker 2: got jail, but I think he was a police officer 1122 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,200 Speaker 2: and he escaped jail time. But it was like a 1123 00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:57,600 Speaker 2: million dollar fine or some shit. He ain't never gonna 1124 00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:57,880 Speaker 2: pay that. 1125 00:55:58,680 --> 00:55:59,960 Speaker 5: He's gonna die on that money. 1126 00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,520 Speaker 2: But yeah, this is ridiculous. Who cares what gender the 1127 00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:05,320 Speaker 2: baby is? She said. I did at the time because 1128 00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:07,600 Speaker 2: we didn't live in twenty nineteen and I didn't know 1129 00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:09,319 Speaker 2: what we know now that a sign and focused on 1130 00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,800 Speaker 2: gender at birth leads out so much of their potential 1131 00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,240 Speaker 2: and talents that have nothing to do with what's between 1132 00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:19,360 Speaker 2: their legs. Yep, and I feel like the cat's already 1133 00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:22,239 Speaker 2: out the bag on this one. They ain't gonna stop 1134 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,879 Speaker 2: doing these gender revealed parties, and you. 1135 00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:26,560 Speaker 4: Know what, and it got to the point, now when 1136 00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:28,640 Speaker 4: you have a baby, people look like something wrong with 1137 00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:29,440 Speaker 4: you if you don't. 1138 00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,040 Speaker 5: Want to have one. 1139 00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:32,840 Speaker 4: But I don't want to have that, and people that 1140 00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:34,800 Speaker 4: you got to No, I really don't have to, but 1141 00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:35,360 Speaker 4: I don't want to. 1142 00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:38,880 Speaker 2: And it's like a I guess, maybe an extra So okay, 1143 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:43,840 Speaker 2: we don't have it. So are these replacing baby showers 1144 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:46,239 Speaker 2: or in addition to baby showers? 1145 00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:47,120 Speaker 5: We have both? 1146 00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:49,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, cause, like you know, part of a 1147 00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 2: baby shower normally is we know what the sex of 1148 00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:55,400 Speaker 2: the baby is or whatever, and so people buy you 1149 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:59,200 Speaker 2: things that support that room is in addition to So 1150 00:56:59,280 --> 00:56:59,960 Speaker 2: that's why they do. 1151 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,560 Speaker 5: It's a gimmick, ya, So. 1152 00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:04,040 Speaker 3: It's just an extra extra. 1153 00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:08,840 Speaker 5: Ye won't catch my black ans like that. 1154 00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:11,520 Speaker 2: That's why they doing it. That's why they won't let 1155 00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:13,520 Speaker 2: it go. They try to act like it's some principal shit. 1156 00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 2: It's I mean, now I have heard and I do 1157 00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:18,959 Speaker 2: like this approach to it. I mean, like I said, 1158 00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,880 Speaker 2: I'm not a big I've never been to a gender 1159 00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:24,880 Speaker 2: reveal party. I don't care one way or other, you 1160 00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:29,040 Speaker 2: know whatever. But I did hear somebody do it. If 1161 00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,760 Speaker 2: people were like, these are dangerous, it's you know what 1162 00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,040 Speaker 2: if your child is trans with all this stuff, and 1163 00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:38,080 Speaker 2: I hear them, and the person responded, well, if my 1164 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:42,240 Speaker 2: child is trans, we have another gender reveal party when 1165 00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,040 Speaker 2: they come out to the family, because we gonna be 1166 00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:46,760 Speaker 2: the kind of family that love and support them. And 1167 00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:49,960 Speaker 2: I said, now, you know what, I do think that's 1168 00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:55,880 Speaker 2: valid because at least you get two parties. Okay, so 1169 00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,960 Speaker 2: you get double the party is double the fun and 1170 00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:01,720 Speaker 2: it's and I don't give a fuck if I'm forty five, 1171 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:03,120 Speaker 2: I want my party and. 1172 00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:05,480 Speaker 4: The second one you will be here to actually remember 1173 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 4: a lot of times, you know, the gender reveal is 1174 00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:12,880 Speaker 4: before the the your child is born or the child 1175 00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:13,320 Speaker 4: is born. 1176 00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:17,520 Speaker 2: So somebody said, it's not supposed to be gifts. So wait, 1177 00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 2: y'all go to a gender reveal and nobody even gets ship. 1178 00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:22,520 Speaker 2: That's even worse. 1179 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,640 Speaker 5: Cakes, like you, you're the one actually giving the gifts. 1180 00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 2: So you do a gender reveal party to give people ship, 1181 00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:29,880 Speaker 2: but you don't. 1182 00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:32,080 Speaker 5: Get to show the colors. 1183 00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:34,640 Speaker 2: That's the dumbest shit I ever heard of my life. 1184 00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:35,400 Speaker 2: Is that for real? 1185 00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,919 Speaker 5: Saying some people actually mix them? Yeah, some people mix them. 1186 00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:43,040 Speaker 2: They are mixed at the baby shower. Y'all better get 1187 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:45,760 Speaker 2: some mother Listen. I'm not saying I'm for these gender 1188 00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,600 Speaker 2: reveal parties. I do think they're kind of stupid, but 1189 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:52,200 Speaker 2: I don't care either. Like if somebody did one, okay, 1190 00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:53,000 Speaker 2: that's fine. 1191 00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:57,240 Speaker 3: But I hope y'all are getting something. 1192 00:58:57,880 --> 00:58:59,919 Speaker 2: Hope y'all not doing these and not getting shit, because 1193 00:58:59,920 --> 00:59:03,520 Speaker 2: that that's even stupider than than doing them and getting shit, 1194 00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,080 Speaker 2: Like just at least get some like, at least you 1195 00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,400 Speaker 2: get justified with Like, listen, we did gender real we 1196 00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 2: got like forty seven dollars worth of pampa. So I 1197 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:12,920 Speaker 2: you know, hate me if you need to, But my 1198 00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:16,040 Speaker 2: baby gonna be pinying in the in the right pampa 1199 00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:16,520 Speaker 2: for a while. 1200 00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,040 Speaker 5: That that that's gonna be me. You know. 1201 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,240 Speaker 4: I ever have a baby, I'd been like, Yeah, all 1202 00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,640 Speaker 4: I want is diapers and baby powder that I can 1203 00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:26,760 Speaker 4: handle everything else. 1204 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:29,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just lost a lot of respect for people. 1205 00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:33,439 Speaker 2: If they're not getting ship on my wish list, that's 1206 00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:36,480 Speaker 2: the dumbt shit. I hope y'all getting something anyway. All right, 1207 00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:42,360 Speaker 2: let's get into the rest of the news. Ohio state 1208 00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 2: Representative Candice color blames mass shootings on Obama, drag queen advocates, 1209 00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,600 Speaker 2: and marijuana. 1210 00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,800 Speaker 5: Doth it makes no sense at all? 1211 00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,040 Speaker 2: She took the Facebook to express her belief that after 1212 00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:58,280 Speaker 2: every mass shooting, the liberals start the blame game. Why 1213 00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:01,960 Speaker 2: not place the blame where it belongs, and then blamed 1214 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:06,000 Speaker 2: everything but guns and uh, you know, white supremacists. 1215 01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:13,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's why I saying nothing's going to change. 1216 01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,960 Speaker 2: The breakdown the traditional American family. Thank you transgender homosexual 1217 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:21,120 Speaker 2: marriage at all the way, hold on, after every mass shooting, 1218 01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,120 Speaker 2: the liberals starved the blame game. 1219 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,920 Speaker 3: One not place the blame where it belongs. 1220 01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:30,680 Speaker 2: The breakdown of the traditional American family, Thank you transgender 1221 01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:36,640 Speaker 2: homosexual marriage and drag queen advocates. Followlessness a subject no 1222 01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:40,040 Speaker 2: one discusses or believes it is relevant. The ignoring of 1223 01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:44,160 Speaker 2: violent video games, the relaxing the llows against the criminals, 1224 01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:50,960 Speaker 2: open borders, the acceptance of recreational marijuana, failed school policies, Hello, 1225 01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:57,120 Speaker 2: parents who defend misbehaving students, disrespect to law enforcement, thank you, Obama. 1226 01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:01,040 Speaker 2: Hatred of our veterans, Thank you, profession athletes who hate 1227 01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:05,360 Speaker 2: our flag and national anthem. The dm Congress, many members 1228 01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:09,360 Speaker 2: who are openly anti Semitic, the culture which could totally 1229 01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:13,480 Speaker 2: ignores the importance of God and the Church until they 1230 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:18,120 Speaker 2: elect a president, state office holders who have no interest 1231 01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:22,120 Speaker 2: whatsoever and learning about our Constitution and the Second Amendment, 1232 01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,840 Speaker 2: and snowflakes who can't accept the duly elected president. 1233 01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:27,400 Speaker 3: Did I forget anybody? 1234 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 2: The list is long and the fury will continue. So 1235 01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:35,040 Speaker 2: that's what you get after three white supremacists shooting up 1236 01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:36,160 Speaker 2: people in seventy. 1237 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,560 Speaker 7: Two hours, everyone's quite except let me see if she 1238 01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:44,040 Speaker 7: knows Nope, did not see white supremacists on here or 1239 01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:46,200 Speaker 7: anything about access to guns. 1240 01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:51,280 Speaker 2: So if you guys are yeah, Also, I. 1241 01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:53,760 Speaker 5: Think somebody might have got bingo because she hit all the. 1242 01:01:53,680 --> 01:02:01,040 Speaker 2: God words, all right. Also this pseudo science of blaming 1243 01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:04,360 Speaker 2: video games when like actual scientists have said, it has 1244 01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:07,320 Speaker 2: nothing to do with this shit. Mm hmmm. I fucking 1245 01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:10,920 Speaker 2: hate that pop culture science. Like I already have a 1246 01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:15,000 Speaker 2: problem with video games. Let me blame mass shootings on 1247 01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:18,680 Speaker 2: this shit? Like what we have the fucking they right 1248 01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:22,439 Speaker 2: men eifestos? Dog they what more evidence do we need? 1249 01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,720 Speaker 2: They hate women, they hate brown people. 1250 01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:27,480 Speaker 5: They tell you, and you been like, know what do 1251 01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:27,960 Speaker 5: they mean? 1252 01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:30,760 Speaker 2: And they have access to guns. You think niggas don't 1253 01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:32,520 Speaker 2: play these Call of duty games? 1254 01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:32,920 Speaker 7: Right? 1255 01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:36,600 Speaker 2: You think it's only white supremacists that play these games. 1256 01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:40,320 Speaker 2: Everybody play these fucking games. It's a billion dollar industry, 1257 01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:44,280 Speaker 2: the video game industry, you know. I saw some on Twitter. 1258 01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:46,880 Speaker 2: I said, like, just like blaming candy Crush for the 1259 01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:52,000 Speaker 2: starting diabetes. Yeah, like, what are you doing? Leave that 1260 01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:52,800 Speaker 2: ship out of this. 1261 01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 5: We're dailious. 1262 01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:56,720 Speaker 2: It's bad enough when Republicans do it. But whenever I 1263 01:02:56,800 --> 01:02:58,640 Speaker 2: see like a well meaning liberal person like, maybe we 1264 01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:00,920 Speaker 2: should looking at this, No, what a fuck we shouldn't. 1265 01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 2: We have looked into it, and you know it's not 1266 01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:04,360 Speaker 2: the fucking problem. 1267 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,320 Speaker 3: You know, mental illness is also not the problem. No, 1268 01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:11,000 Speaker 3: it's not like stop deflecting. Well, I mean we need 1269 01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:12,280 Speaker 3: to look at the mental. 1270 01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:16,200 Speaker 2: Illness or what. So every mintal ill person out here 1271 01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,640 Speaker 2: killing somebody. Everybody that got a mental health issue is 1272 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,920 Speaker 2: killing people. No, stop working backwards from the fucking problem 1273 01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 2: and just go with what the fuck they telling you. 1274 01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 2: I hate niggers and I hate benches, and I got 1275 01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 2: a big ass AR forty seven or whatever the fuck we. 1276 01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,000 Speaker 3: Call this shit, and I'm killing people's right. 1277 01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:34,600 Speaker 2: I got a Ak forty seven, AR fifteen thirty seven 1278 01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:39,520 Speaker 2: magazines Body Armor and I hate niggers and uh and uh, 1279 01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:41,080 Speaker 2: but it was really was call of duty. It was 1280 01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:43,040 Speaker 2: really a call of duty. Was where I said, I'm 1281 01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:45,720 Speaker 2: gonna shoot everybody else. It was, Uh, I remember, it's 1282 01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:49,439 Speaker 2: call of duty too, Okay, get the fuck out of there. 1283 01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:52,800 Speaker 2: R Kelly facing new sex crimes charges in Minnesota over 1284 01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:55,640 Speaker 2: two thousand and one allegations. Wonder what video game it 1285 01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:59,200 Speaker 2: was that led him down the wrong path. Guys, he 1286 01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:02,200 Speaker 2: played a little too much Leeza Shuit Larry, Get the 1287 01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:06,280 Speaker 2: fuck out of here, man. Anyway. I love it nothing 1288 01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:10,360 Speaker 2: that nothing, just cooks my bacon, just fries my bacon. 1289 01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:14,320 Speaker 2: Like seeing another charge against r Kelly. Ain't it the best? 1290 01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:16,120 Speaker 5: Oh? 1291 01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:19,200 Speaker 2: So good? Ain't it? I hate I hate it for 1292 01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:22,200 Speaker 2: the people that's on the opposite side of this, Cuz. Oh, 1293 01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,680 Speaker 2: I started smiling every time I report every one of 1294 01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:27,840 Speaker 2: them too, Like I almost didn't. I almost didn't reporting this. 1295 01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:30,600 Speaker 2: I was like, I mean, he getting accused of another one? 1296 01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:32,600 Speaker 2: I mean, is it even news? And I thought to myself, Oh, 1297 01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:36,600 Speaker 2: I love to tell the people Harry listeners, it seems 1298 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:38,280 Speaker 2: like r Kelly is in some more trouble. 1299 01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:41,320 Speaker 3: M M, this time in Minnesota. 1300 01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:42,439 Speaker 5: What the pea hive? 1301 01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:44,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, the pea hives gonna be upset. 1302 01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:49,240 Speaker 2: Shout out to missus span Oh, but yeah, he's facing 1303 01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:54,240 Speaker 2: six times in Minnesota too. M get his ass. 1304 01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:56,760 Speaker 5: Around the kitchen all fifty stays. What the fuck happening here? 1305 01:04:56,920 --> 01:05:00,000 Speaker 2: Officials from Henny Pen County Attorney's office announce charges on Monday. 1306 01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:03,560 Speaker 2: Some might say, aren't you piling on attorney court? County 1307 01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:07,720 Speaker 2: Attorney Mike Freeman said, well, frankly, Minnesota victims deserve their 1308 01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:09,800 Speaker 2: day in court. Come on, yes they do. 1309 01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,760 Speaker 3: Also, some niggas need to be powered on. 1310 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,720 Speaker 2: Okay, if I could, I would ask the only reason 1311 01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:18,600 Speaker 2: I would ask Kamala Harris to hop out of. 1312 01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:23,520 Speaker 3: The Democratic UH primary, is to prosecute R. 1313 01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:23,800 Speaker 6: Kelly. 1314 01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:27,120 Speaker 2: That's it. You know, I don't have no problems with him. 1315 01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:29,000 Speaker 2: Just go ahead, and can you get this nigga too? 1316 01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:36,200 Speaker 2: Fry him up? Uh, gotta go, gotta go. Oh shout 1317 01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:39,800 Speaker 2: out to one people that remember that bit. Let's see 1318 01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:42,200 Speaker 2: what else happened. Oh man, it's sad chance the rapper 1319 01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:48,240 Speaker 2: sad y'all, so chance the rapper who was recently awarded 1320 01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:51,000 Speaker 2: with the Humanitarian awarded to Beat Awards Los Angeles. 1321 01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:57,240 Speaker 3: Uh, he is being like kind. 1322 01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:02,960 Speaker 2: Of hip hop. I was, let me know what you 1323 01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:06,040 Speaker 2: would call him, Like people celebrate the fuck out of 1324 01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:09,800 Speaker 2: him two three years ago. Like he was. He was 1325 01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:13,160 Speaker 2: kind of like that dude, Like he was independent. He 1326 01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:16,120 Speaker 2: had done mixtapes, he had had official. 1327 01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:16,640 Speaker 3: Album out. 1328 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:22,360 Speaker 2: And uh, this is the first time putting out an 1329 01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:25,720 Speaker 2: actual studio album and it didn't do well. It's called 1330 01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:29,640 Speaker 2: the Big Day. And uh. People liked him because he 1331 01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:31,080 Speaker 2: was like a breath of fresh air. He was a 1332 01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:34,880 Speaker 2: very positive rapper from Chicago. He was churched up, you know. 1333 01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:36,800 Speaker 2: I remember people talking about how much they loved that 1334 01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:41,720 Speaker 2: album and the church vibes and all this stuff. And 1335 01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:44,439 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened, but at some point people 1336 01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:47,840 Speaker 2: was kind of like I'm sick of chance, you know, 1337 01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:49,560 Speaker 2: Like I like, I still. 1338 01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:51,800 Speaker 5: See him doing positive things. It was just like heep 1339 01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:53,360 Speaker 5: being positive and I kept it trucking. 1340 01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I still remember because I never was a huge 1341 01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:58,920 Speaker 2: fan of him. After ten Day ten Day, I was 1342 01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:01,000 Speaker 2: when I was like, yo, I fuck with chands. And 1343 01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:03,640 Speaker 2: then I think he came out with his album and 1344 01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:05,520 Speaker 2: I didn't really get into it as much as everybody 1345 01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:05,840 Speaker 2: else did. 1346 01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:09,400 Speaker 3: But I do remember everybody being into that album. 1347 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:11,800 Speaker 2: I wasn't into it like that, but I remember like 1348 01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:15,120 Speaker 2: it was a high percentage of people that fuck with 1349 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:19,320 Speaker 2: that album. And I wasn't like I thought it was whack. 1350 01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:21,360 Speaker 2: I just literally just he wasn't my cup of tea, 1351 01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:23,120 Speaker 2: so I didn't listen. It wasn't like I thought, oh 1352 01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:26,880 Speaker 2: my god, what a terrible album. Anyway, he put out 1353 01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:28,880 Speaker 2: his new album and this is like an actual his 1354 01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:31,720 Speaker 2: first actual official album, and it didn't do well, got 1355 01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:36,280 Speaker 2: very bad critical reception. This dude, NF is the number 1356 01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:38,600 Speaker 2: one album in hip hop right now, so he didn't 1357 01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 2: even get number one album that week. And he was 1358 01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:47,440 Speaker 2: tweeted and he said, I'm getting this crazy feeling that 1359 01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:50,680 Speaker 2: people want me to kill myself. That's not my vibe 1360 01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:52,479 Speaker 2: at all, but I feel to push and I feel 1361 01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:54,240 Speaker 2: like even more than that, some people want me to 1362 01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:57,160 Speaker 2: feel a shame. Shame is heavy, yo, and feeling shame 1363 01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:00,960 Speaker 2: for something that you were once proudful about, super heavy. 1364 01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:04,560 Speaker 5: Social media pressure, real, y'all. 1365 01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:07,320 Speaker 3: He went on to check people in his life who 1366 01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:09,200 Speaker 3: have checked in on him and thank him. 1367 01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:11,400 Speaker 2: He said, the number one thing that has been on 1368 01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:16,320 Speaker 2: my heart has been been reaffirmed in the last week. 1369 01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:18,400 Speaker 2: That I'm now one hundred percent sure of is that 1370 01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:22,880 Speaker 2: I love my wife, he wrote, before reiterating the fans 1371 01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:25,479 Speaker 2: that he did not have that suicidal thoughts. I just 1372 01:08:25,560 --> 01:08:27,799 Speaker 2: want to reiterate that I don't want to kill myself, 1373 01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:29,760 Speaker 2: nor am I ashamed of love of my wife. I 1374 01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:31,880 Speaker 2: think I just wanted to say out loud that I 1375 01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:35,840 Speaker 2: see the vibes. Well chance they specifically clarify which vibes 1376 01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:38,519 Speaker 2: prompted his Twitter thread. The rapper's new album has received 1377 01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:40,960 Speaker 2: mixed reviews, with some critics suggested twenty two song release 1378 01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:43,320 Speaker 2: is a step down from the previous efforts, his wildly 1379 01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:45,439 Speaker 2: praised mixtape, Acid Wrapped and Coloring Book. 1380 01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:47,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, Coloring Book. 1381 01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:47,800 Speaker 5: That was one. 1382 01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody loved that, right, everybody loved it. From my understanding, 1383 01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:55,320 Speaker 2: I don't know, seem like it's also that Twitter thing 1384 01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:58,960 Speaker 2: where people do that revisionist history. It's like no one 1385 01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:02,320 Speaker 2: ever was feeling this. I'm like, that's not true at all. 1386 01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:08,080 Speaker 2: That's not true, guys. Anyway. It made me think about though, 1387 01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:11,160 Speaker 2: like I feel sad that he feels that way, and 1388 01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,320 Speaker 2: you know, maybe perspective and stuff and when you when 1389 01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:17,000 Speaker 2: you are used to getting like pretty rave reviews and 1390 01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:19,080 Speaker 2: then have people turn around and be like, not this way. 1391 01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:23,280 Speaker 2: Even if it's valid, even if it's true, it still 1392 01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:25,320 Speaker 2: hurts to be like I thought I was putting out 1393 01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:26,960 Speaker 2: hot shit and y'all don't fuck with it no more, 1394 01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:31,760 Speaker 2: you know. And a lot of a lot of the 1395 01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:34,679 Speaker 2: criticism have been about how he talks so much about 1396 01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:37,280 Speaker 2: loving his wife and shit, which I think is funny 1397 01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:42,960 Speaker 2: because for so long people have complained like these rappers 1398 01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:45,320 Speaker 2: be married and shit and then wrapping their videos about 1399 01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:49,200 Speaker 2: fucking bitches and hoes and all this shit. And so 1400 01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,799 Speaker 2: he put out an out He's like, I love my wife, 1401 01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:55,000 Speaker 2: I'm not cheating. I'm a good dude and she makes 1402 01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:56,960 Speaker 2: me happy. People was like, yeah, nah, nigga, we good. 1403 01:09:57,280 --> 01:10:01,960 Speaker 2: Go back to please talk about bitches, please, sir. 1404 01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:04,719 Speaker 5: You have you know the track as much as people 1405 01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:08,400 Speaker 5: talk about it, you know, being misogynistic and shit like that. 1406 01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:10,720 Speaker 5: You know them the same people that will claim that 1407 01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:12,479 Speaker 5: didn't turn around. By my eye, that's not what I 1408 01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:13,240 Speaker 5: won't really want it. 1409 01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so he been taking some hits. Man, it probably sucks, 1410 01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:21,960 Speaker 2: I know. Liz O was she had talked about like 1411 01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:24,799 Speaker 2: there was a person that gave her a bad review 1412 01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,200 Speaker 2: and she was on Twitter talking about it. 1413 01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:32,080 Speaker 5: Like, because they're real fucking human beings, people have a 1414 01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:33,000 Speaker 5: tendency to forget that. 1415 01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:36,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and this stuff does affect them, right, you know. 1416 01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,360 Speaker 2: I think everybody thinks these people get famous and they 1417 01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 2: ain't never look at their mentions again. But that's not 1418 01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:42,040 Speaker 2: how that happens. 1419 01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:44,439 Speaker 5: No, And like I said, we've talked to kind of 1420 01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:45,000 Speaker 5: talk about this. 1421 01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:47,160 Speaker 4: Before, but that that that's the thing that kind of 1422 01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:51,840 Speaker 4: frustrates me because I don't know what the magic number is, 1423 01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:53,439 Speaker 4: but a lot of people have a magic number, and 1424 01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:56,040 Speaker 4: once you get past whatever that magic number is, people 1425 01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:56,600 Speaker 4: just feel like. 1426 01:10:56,960 --> 01:10:59,320 Speaker 5: They could just do anything and say anything to you, 1427 01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:01,519 Speaker 5: and you just supposed to take it because your quote 1428 01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:04,200 Speaker 5: unquote supposed to be above it all. But they're human 1429 01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:04,760 Speaker 5: beings too. 1430 01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:08,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I don't know. Maybe the shit whag I 1431 01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:11,160 Speaker 2: haven't listened to it, but I haven't either. If it's 1432 01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:13,800 Speaker 2: you know, whatever it's if it's just more of his 1433 01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:20,400 Speaker 2: evolution of chance, the rapper, the you know him growing 1434 01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:22,839 Speaker 2: up in this now he's kind of on this marriage 1435 01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:25,680 Speaker 2: and I mean he was always on this religious shit, 1436 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:28,519 Speaker 2: so I guess I wouldn't be surprised, but you know, 1437 01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:31,280 Speaker 2: I was listening from Afar, so I don't know why. 1438 01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:36,000 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened. Anyway, I hope everything goes 1439 01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:39,080 Speaker 2: gets better with him, because I don't never want nobody 1440 01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:42,320 Speaker 2: to feel that way, you know, no, not nobody. I 1441 01:11:42,360 --> 01:11:45,200 Speaker 2: don't ever want somebody to feel that way over like 1442 01:11:45,400 --> 01:11:48,240 Speaker 2: what I think about their music or something. You know, 1443 01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:50,920 Speaker 2: and who knows what kind of ignorant shit people say 1444 01:11:50,960 --> 01:11:52,160 Speaker 2: on Twitter that he may have seen. 1445 01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:53,920 Speaker 5: That's right, because that's the thing. 1446 01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,479 Speaker 4: Nobody ever checks the mentions. And I will continue to 1447 01:11:56,520 --> 01:11:59,120 Speaker 4: say this. Everybody act like when people say shit, they go, 1448 01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:01,560 Speaker 4: that ain't real. You don't ever check the minches. Like 1449 01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:03,640 Speaker 4: a lot of times people say shitting because they're not 1450 01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:05,960 Speaker 4: the ones putting it out there. They just assumed that 1451 01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:09,400 Speaker 4: nobody is no check the minches, check the replies, thousands 1452 01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:15,400 Speaker 4: of replies of nonsensical bullshit that you know you'll never see. 1453 01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:20,880 Speaker 2: Right, all right, let's get into uh fucking with black people. 1454 01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:21,160 Speaker 6: Guys. 1455 01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:23,200 Speaker 2: We can get my fucking with black people in music out. 1456 01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:35,280 Speaker 8: We're just fucking with those black people. Were just fucking 1457 01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:39,920 Speaker 8: with those blacks. We're just fucking with fucking with black people. 1458 01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:42,320 Speaker 8: That's right, guys, It's time to play the game we 1459 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,680 Speaker 8: all hate to play. It's fucking with black people. The 1460 01:12:44,760 --> 01:12:46,360 Speaker 8: game that goes all around the globe bakes to feel 1461 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,120 Speaker 8: fuck with the will side points Scortes Zio ten one 1462 01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:50,800 Speaker 8: hundred and the rolls of twenty five all the way 1463 01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:54,040 Speaker 8: to your cars. Uh for how much we feel fuck 1464 01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:56,360 Speaker 8: with by these articles? All right, today's contested. 1465 01:12:56,520 --> 01:13:06,439 Speaker 2: Everybody. All right, let's see who we got here. Baton 1466 01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:10,920 Speaker 2: Rouge police chief apologizes for hiring officer who killed Auton Sterling. 1467 01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:20,760 Speaker 2: That's not it's not something you look at on a 1468 01:13:20,800 --> 01:13:23,040 Speaker 2: resume and go maybe not here. 1469 01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:31,760 Speaker 5: That nobody cares. Nobody can do a Google search. 1470 01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't understand how you you know in hindsight. Yeah, 1471 01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:43,280 Speaker 2: Officer Blaze Salamoni killed Sterling back in July twenty sixteen. 1472 01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:46,559 Speaker 2: Sterling's death sparked outrage as well as protests run from 1473 01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:49,040 Speaker 2: the Black Lives Matter movement. We're sorry, Baton Rouge. I 1474 01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:51,320 Speaker 2: want to apologize to the family of Auton Sterling, also 1475 01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:56,400 Speaker 2: to his kids, said Chief Paul. According to CNN affiliate WAFB, 1476 01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:59,439 Speaker 2: We're sorry because he should have never been hired. And 1477 01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:01,639 Speaker 2: while we are obviously cannot change the past, it's clear 1478 01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:04,240 Speaker 2: we must change the future. I sincerely apologize for the 1479 01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:06,439 Speaker 2: actions of the past in the role that our profession 1480 01:14:06,880 --> 01:14:09,120 Speaker 2: has played in the building the bearris and community color 1481 01:14:09,200 --> 01:14:11,120 Speaker 2: and bad and rouge. What is he up for? Reelection? 1482 01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:12,160 Speaker 2: What the fuck is happening? 1483 01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:15,960 Speaker 4: Oh, motherfucker one hundred. You just hope nobody would have 1484 01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:18,160 Speaker 4: seen it. Somebody did, So now you got to backtrack 1485 01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:21,559 Speaker 4: because y'all knew. You can't tell me with certain cases, 1486 01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:23,080 Speaker 4: you just don't not know. 1487 01:14:23,240 --> 01:14:25,439 Speaker 2: Oh. I think what he's saying is we should have 1488 01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:27,880 Speaker 2: never hired the officer in the first place before he 1489 01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:34,599 Speaker 2: killed Alton Sterling. Yeah, he joined the Wait wait, wait 1490 01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:39,360 Speaker 2: a minute, Okay, bears in the community. So Paul joined 1491 01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:42,880 Speaker 2: the department in January twenty eighteen. March twenty eighteen, state 1492 01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:45,320 Speaker 2: official determined would not press charges against two officers of 1493 01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:48,160 Speaker 2: Bob Sterling's death, claiming that actions would justified. However, only 1494 01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:51,320 Speaker 2: days later, the department dropped Salomony for his position for 1495 01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:54,639 Speaker 2: violating force policies in the shooting the Sterling. Paul announced 1496 01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:56,960 Speaker 2: on Thursday of the department reached the resident that band 1497 01:14:57,040 --> 01:15:00,599 Speaker 2: Salomony from working for the force forever. Mayor the Western 1498 01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:05,920 Speaker 2: Broom said Salomony also wouldn't be getting paid in the resolution. First, 1499 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,080 Speaker 2: let me say I stand behind the officers, men and 1500 01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:09,800 Speaker 2: women who put their lives on the line every day 1501 01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:12,439 Speaker 2: to serve to protect our citizens. Western Broom said, However, 1502 01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:15,120 Speaker 2: our department no longer has room for individuals who can't 1503 01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:17,240 Speaker 2: live up to its high standards or have shown a 1504 01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:21,160 Speaker 2: pattern of unprofessional behavior. Leo Hamilton, an attorney for the 1505 01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:23,640 Speaker 2: Baton Ruth's Police Department, said Thursday, the Salomony had a 1506 01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:27,320 Speaker 2: history of misbehavior prior to staling shit. Oh what became 1507 01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:29,640 Speaker 2: a parent From all the evidence presented to achieve was 1508 01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:32,120 Speaker 2: that mister Salomony had a propensity for acting outside the 1509 01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:37,000 Speaker 2: standards established by the BRPD for commanding the temper and 1510 01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:38,080 Speaker 2: use of force. 1511 01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:41,080 Speaker 3: Oh okay for commanded temper and use force. 1512 01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:43,160 Speaker 2: So he was already angry and out of control and 1513 01:15:43,240 --> 01:15:46,280 Speaker 2: shit and it escalated until he killed this black man. 1514 01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:50,080 Speaker 2: Hamilton said Salomony would often abuse his power authority by 1515 01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:52,360 Speaker 2: physically and verbally assaulting individuals with the use of per 1516 01:15:52,439 --> 01:15:55,479 Speaker 2: vanity and excessive force. Seeing their reports that another officer 1517 01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:58,439 Speaker 2: explained that the salomony wasn't stop. He could kill someone, 1518 01:15:59,360 --> 01:16:01,519 Speaker 2: so they so they knew he was a loose cannon 1519 01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:05,320 Speaker 2: the whole time. And after he killed out and certainly like, 1520 01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:08,679 Speaker 2: oh yeah, we should have never even hired this nigga. Okay, 1521 01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:12,920 Speaker 2: and I guess this chief is a new chief. So 1522 01:16:13,120 --> 01:16:14,320 Speaker 2: he wasn't there. He wasn't. 1523 01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:16,200 Speaker 3: He had nothing to do with this dude getting hired. 1524 01:16:16,280 --> 01:16:20,760 Speaker 2: And when he got the job, the discipline happened on 1525 01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,920 Speaker 2: his watch, but not the and not the discipline, but 1526 01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:26,840 Speaker 2: the judgment happened on his watch, but not the actual crime. 1527 01:16:27,640 --> 01:16:33,519 Speaker 2: And then he fired the due anyway without pay. That's interesting, huh? 1528 01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:37,479 Speaker 5: Or like you coming in and going, oh shit, what 1529 01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 5: the fuck is this? 1530 01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:42,479 Speaker 2: Yeah? Actually I won I won't say seventy five for me. 1531 01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:45,519 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say seventy five, all right? What you say? 1532 01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:46,960 Speaker 2: One hundred cars? I can't remember. 1533 01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:49,160 Speaker 4: Oh, I didn't give a school. I was just listening 1534 01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:53,360 Speaker 4: to you finishing off the story. Yeah, it's still good 1535 01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:55,320 Speaker 4: one hundred because it's the system at large to me. 1536 01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:59,560 Speaker 4: But I do kind of understand his perspective. He was like, 1537 01:16:59,640 --> 01:17:03,240 Speaker 4: what is happened before I came? I'm here, I made 1538 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:06,560 Speaker 4: sure he didn't get paid afterwards. But it's one of 1539 01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:10,720 Speaker 4: those things where it's like for us, it's like this 1540 01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:12,679 Speaker 4: happens again and again and again and again. 1541 01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:16,519 Speaker 5: I'm glad this something happened, you know, but it's still 1542 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:19,000 Speaker 5: one of those things where the system at large is 1543 01:17:19,120 --> 01:17:21,879 Speaker 5: just a fuck up system. Yeah, if the system was functioning, 1544 01:17:22,120 --> 01:17:23,080 Speaker 5: he would have never got hired. 1545 01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:25,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, cop not going to jail, you know. And of 1546 01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:27,559 Speaker 2: course this guy saying we should have never hired him. 1547 01:17:27,960 --> 01:17:30,160 Speaker 2: But let's see what happens on your watch, you know. 1548 01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:32,479 Speaker 2: That's how it always is. One of these motherfucker's gonna 1549 01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:34,800 Speaker 2: do some wild shit on your watch, and it will 1550 01:17:34,880 --> 01:17:36,920 Speaker 2: be somebody you hired. Eventually. What are you gonna do? 1551 01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:41,439 Speaker 3: Black women can no longer afford to say broken black men. 1552 01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:43,000 Speaker 5: Uh. 1553 01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:45,840 Speaker 2: This is on Madam Nuart dot com. I do not 1554 01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:47,280 Speaker 2: know how to pronounce her last name. 1555 01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:50,519 Speaker 3: I will try. Her first name is Rah A R 1556 01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:51,000 Speaker 3: A H. 1557 01:17:51,400 --> 01:17:56,600 Speaker 2: And it looks like Helloa boogie chuquote. I hope I 1558 01:17:56,720 --> 01:18:00,200 Speaker 2: pronounced that right, boogie chow cool. I struggle with the 1559 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:02,479 Speaker 2: title of this article. I considered the polarity of the 1560 01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:04,760 Speaker 2: words I intended to use, and thought that maybe just 1561 01:18:04,840 --> 01:18:07,439 Speaker 2: this once the situation called for a disclaimer, but the 1562 01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:10,160 Speaker 2: more I allowed the peace to manifest, the more I 1563 01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:14,360 Speaker 2: felt the title needed to be as Ra's reality as 1564 01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:17,160 Speaker 2: a reality, not for the sake of louring readers with consciousness. 1565 01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:19,760 Speaker 2: Camouflage is controversy, but because I'm no longer in a 1566 01:18:19,840 --> 01:18:22,559 Speaker 2: business a calling people from that truth, especially black men. 1567 01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:24,720 Speaker 2: The truth is that black women have lived in a 1568 01:18:24,760 --> 01:18:27,080 Speaker 2: perpetual state of fear and fantasy with black men for 1569 01:18:27,160 --> 01:18:31,080 Speaker 2: a very long time. Black women have long carried an unyielding, 1570 01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:34,880 Speaker 2: sometimes unexplainable loyalty to black men, even when that loyalty 1571 01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:37,120 Speaker 2: has cost us our lives. And although black women have 1572 01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:39,800 Speaker 2: all but verbally committed to being a refuge for black 1573 01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:42,680 Speaker 2: men's ruins for the sake of our survival, we can 1574 01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:47,679 Speaker 2: no longer afford to do so. Women like Sadie Roberts Joseph, activist, educator, 1575 01:18:47,720 --> 01:18:50,479 Speaker 2: community organizer who dedicated her life to serving an African 1576 01:18:50,520 --> 01:18:54,480 Speaker 2: American community through the veins of her second home, Baton Rouge, Louisiana, 1577 01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:58,880 Speaker 2: come to mind. Miss Sadi championed for her community, starting 1578 01:18:58,920 --> 01:19:04,800 Speaker 2: a nonprofit organization, Community Against Drugs and Violence CDAV to 1579 01:19:05,439 --> 01:19:08,560 Speaker 2: further reach the further the reach of her youth advocacy. 1580 01:19:08,880 --> 01:19:12,960 Speaker 2: Her most impactful contribution the Baton Ruge odell As Williams 1581 01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:16,679 Speaker 2: Now and Then Museum of African American History, the first 1582 01:19:16,680 --> 01:19:21,040 Speaker 2: and only museum dedicated to the preservation of African and 1583 01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:24,800 Speaker 2: African American history in the city. When police identified the 1584 01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:27,840 Speaker 2: body of the beloved community leaders stuffed into the trunk 1585 01:19:27,920 --> 01:19:31,080 Speaker 2: of her vehicle and abandoned just three miles from her home, 1586 01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:33,839 Speaker 2: the community jumped at the assumption that Misscedie was targeted 1587 01:19:34,080 --> 01:19:37,360 Speaker 2: for her fight against white supremacy and systemic injustice. It 1588 01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:40,639 Speaker 2: made sense that people she targeted with her activism would 1589 01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:43,360 Speaker 2: make her the target of their violence. It didn't make 1590 01:19:43,400 --> 01:19:45,320 Speaker 2: sense that she would fall victim to the very people 1591 01:19:45,400 --> 01:19:48,120 Speaker 2: she risked her life to serve. Yes, this is a 1592 01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:50,360 Speaker 2: woman that I told y'all. I read the article and 1593 01:19:50,439 --> 01:19:53,439 Speaker 2: everybody was like, y'all need to talk about this. These 1594 01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:56,280 Speaker 2: white people they killing activists from Ferguson and now they 1595 01:19:56,400 --> 01:19:57,080 Speaker 2: killed this woman. 1596 01:19:57,160 --> 01:20:00,599 Speaker 3: And I said, let's just chill. Let's wait a few days. 1597 01:20:01,360 --> 01:20:03,720 Speaker 2: Let's see what the police say, Let's see what the 1598 01:20:03,840 --> 01:20:06,920 Speaker 2: arrest looks like, Let's see what the autosi looked like. 1599 01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:09,160 Speaker 5: Because we knew someone, right, whatever happened? 1600 01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:12,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, we obviously she didn't like put herself in the 1601 01:20:12,400 --> 01:20:15,920 Speaker 2: trunk and die, So what happened? Because a lot it's 1602 01:20:16,000 --> 01:20:19,560 Speaker 2: easy to rally around this like we gonna get the 1603 01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:23,920 Speaker 2: white people shit, but uh, it's not as easy when 1604 01:20:23,920 --> 01:20:27,479 Speaker 2: the calls coming from inside the house. According to a 1605 01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:30,240 Speaker 2: study by the Violence Policy Center, nine out of ten 1606 01:20:30,280 --> 01:20:32,800 Speaker 2: Black women murdered by men are murdered by men they know, 1607 01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:35,200 Speaker 2: and this is just where the relationship could be determined. 1608 01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:38,040 Speaker 2: Ninety one percent of black female homicide victims knew their killers, 1609 01:20:38,320 --> 01:20:40,840 Speaker 2: Miss Sadie being no accepsion to that statement. Black female 1610 01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:44,960 Speaker 2: homicide victims were almost often killed. Were also most often 1611 01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 2: killed during the course of an argument or disagreement, like 1612 01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:50,840 Speaker 2: Merry Unique Spears, twenty seven year old mother of three 1613 01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:52,920 Speaker 2: who was shot killed outside of a funeral reception in 1614 01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:55,760 Speaker 2: Detroit after arguing with a man who became in rage 1615 01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:58,720 Speaker 2: and her refusing his advassist. Black women are killed by 1616 01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:00,880 Speaker 2: black men at a rate three three times higher than 1617 01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:04,320 Speaker 2: that a white women killed by white men. Let me 1618 01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:06,880 Speaker 2: read that one again. Not our first time talking about 1619 01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:08,479 Speaker 2: this on the show, but let me read that again, 1620 01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:10,680 Speaker 2: because I know it sounds unbelievable, but you can look 1621 01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:14,080 Speaker 2: it up yourself. Black women are killed by black men 1622 01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:16,760 Speaker 2: at a rate three times higher than that of white 1623 01:21:16,760 --> 01:21:20,080 Speaker 2: women killed by white men, and while white men appear 1624 01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:22,400 Speaker 2: to be the standard, black men measure their behavior against. 1625 01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:23,640 Speaker 3: Like when conversations about r. 1626 01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:26,240 Speaker 2: Kelly turned to pity parties about how white men get 1627 01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:29,720 Speaker 2: to be pedophiles with impunity, this particular comparison scenes to 1628 01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:33,679 Speaker 2: never make the docket. Not only do black women find 1629 01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:37,000 Speaker 2: themselves being killed by men they know, but most often 1630 01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:41,000 Speaker 2: by men they've extended themselves to, by men who've come 1631 01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:45,600 Speaker 2: to them after exhausting all other resources, having the expectation 1632 01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:48,479 Speaker 2: that these women will meet their needs in some empathetic way. 1633 01:21:48,960 --> 01:21:52,160 Speaker 2: Men like Ron Jermain Bell, thirty eight years old, convicted 1634 01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:54,920 Speaker 2: child rapists who served a seven year sentence in connection 1635 01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:57,400 Speaker 2: to the aggravated rape of an eight year old girl. 1636 01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:02,040 Speaker 2: As a registered sex offended with restrictions on where he 1637 01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:05,880 Speaker 2: could live, work, and socialize, Bell relied on the existential 1638 01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:09,320 Speaker 2: goodness of people who to overlook his crime and recognize 1639 01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:14,280 Speaker 2: his humanity is humanitists humanness. Sorry, had it not been 1640 01:22:14,320 --> 01:22:17,640 Speaker 2: from Mescedi allowing Bell to rent an apartment in one 1641 01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:20,719 Speaker 2: of her properties. Belle would have likely struggled to secure 1642 01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:24,880 Speaker 2: housing while branded by his scarlet letter. But Mescedi chose 1643 01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:27,519 Speaker 2: compassion if only that same luxury had been afforded her. 1644 01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:30,800 Speaker 2: Were Mercedi and many black women fail to realize, is 1645 01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:32,719 Speaker 2: that you cannot help people who are committed to hurting, 1646 01:22:32,800 --> 01:22:35,599 Speaker 2: whether that's hurting other people or hurting themselves. Black women 1647 01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:38,200 Speaker 2: are socialized to see mistreatment from others as an obstacle, 1648 01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:41,320 Speaker 2: not a an omen. We're raised seeing our brothers and 1649 01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:44,479 Speaker 2: cousins kyddle through their dysfunction while we receive tips on 1650 01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:47,480 Speaker 2: how to best cope with it. Later, we create generations 1651 01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:50,439 Speaker 2: of black women who feel obligated to repair broken black men, 1652 01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:54,920 Speaker 2: so much so that many see self preservation as abandonment 1653 01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:55,920 Speaker 2: or disloyalty. 1654 01:22:56,439 --> 01:22:57,759 Speaker 3: So much so that we will. 1655 01:22:57,600 --> 01:23:00,320 Speaker 2: Continue to implore one another to hold a black man down, 1656 01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:02,879 Speaker 2: even if that means we're held down in the process, 1657 01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:06,320 Speaker 2: just so we can brag on our unwavering, unrequired support, 1658 01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:10,240 Speaker 2: support that has garnered us nothing in return. Jackallye Smith, 1659 01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:13,240 Speaker 2: a fifty four year old electrical engineer, supported her fifty 1660 01:23:13,240 --> 01:23:15,880 Speaker 2: two year old husband of four years, Keith Smith, despite 1661 01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:18,040 Speaker 2: his string of armed robberies that cost him twelve years 1662 01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:20,599 Speaker 2: of freedom and earned him a felony conviction. She supported 1663 01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:23,200 Speaker 2: Smith and his adult daughter financially, according to the family, 1664 01:23:23,280 --> 01:23:26,920 Speaker 2: providing him with a very lavish lifestyle, and in December one, 1665 01:23:27,080 --> 01:23:30,439 Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, when Keith stabbed his wife to death in 1666 01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:33,040 Speaker 2: the front seat of her vehicle, he would point out 1667 01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:36,479 Speaker 2: to that very same generosity as the cause of her death, 1668 01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:39,479 Speaker 2: misleading the public to believe Smith was killed while giving 1669 01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:40,560 Speaker 2: money to panhandlers. 1670 01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:43,280 Speaker 3: I remember that story too. That was another one. 1671 01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:46,000 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not covering this because it doesn't 1672 01:23:46,000 --> 01:23:49,519 Speaker 2: make sense, Like, yeah, she was giving money to a 1673 01:23:49,960 --> 01:23:52,120 Speaker 2: random panhandler and they just killed her for no reason. 1674 01:23:52,160 --> 01:23:56,400 Speaker 2: It's like, okay, I mean, y'all, I understand, y'all wanna 1675 01:23:56,800 --> 01:23:58,800 Speaker 2: road with the first thing, y'all see, but this shit 1676 01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:01,720 Speaker 2: don't make no fucking sense. You wait a few, you know, 1677 01:24:02,000 --> 01:24:04,720 Speaker 2: a couple of weeks in that case, and then it's like, yeah, 1678 01:24:04,920 --> 01:24:08,640 Speaker 2: so he killed her. You know. I hate that. 1679 01:24:08,800 --> 01:24:11,519 Speaker 3: I hate this shit. I hate this shit, you know. 1680 01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:13,120 Speaker 2: I hate to even have to feel that way, to 1681 01:24:13,200 --> 01:24:16,880 Speaker 2: be like, I hope this woman did die by some 1682 01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:20,519 Speaker 2: random coincidence. I hope it was not a man within 1683 01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:22,800 Speaker 2: the proximity of her life that just ended her life 1684 01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:27,120 Speaker 2: on some bullshit. But it happens all the time, you know. 1685 01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:30,040 Speaker 2: I you know people think that, and I know a 1686 01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:32,360 Speaker 2: lot on specifically point to me. You know, I do 1687 01:24:32,520 --> 01:24:35,479 Speaker 2: pick the articles on the show, and I'm a black man, 1688 01:24:36,040 --> 01:24:37,519 Speaker 2: so I know a lot of people feel like a 1689 01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:40,280 Speaker 2: level of betrayal or some shit for me as a 1690 01:24:40,360 --> 01:24:42,320 Speaker 2: black man that I'm not. You know, one of the 1691 01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:46,439 Speaker 2: why if Harvey Winston you get the right people, then 1692 01:24:46,439 --> 01:24:48,439 Speaker 2: why can't Bill Cosey is because I'm not one of 1693 01:24:48,520 --> 01:24:49,200 Speaker 2: those black men. 1694 01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:52,559 Speaker 3: It's like I'm betraying us or some. 1695 01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:53,360 Speaker 2: Shit, But I'm not. 1696 01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:54,400 Speaker 3: I love us. 1697 01:24:55,520 --> 01:24:57,160 Speaker 2: I love us enough to look at us and say 1698 01:24:57,240 --> 01:25:00,479 Speaker 2: we can do better than this shit. This is terrible 1699 01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:03,800 Speaker 2: and it is an epidemic. It is a problem. Now anecdotally, 1700 01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:05,720 Speaker 2: she could take stories like this, She could write a 1701 01:25:05,840 --> 01:25:11,000 Speaker 2: story to day. I could cover multiple stories every day 1702 01:25:11,040 --> 01:25:14,040 Speaker 2: on this show just about this topic. I actually spare 1703 01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:17,560 Speaker 2: the audience and spare myself from covering this shit. I 1704 01:25:18,000 --> 01:25:21,200 Speaker 2: read these articles, by the way, anyway, Like I still 1705 01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:22,800 Speaker 2: go out and read them, and I still go out 1706 01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:25,280 Speaker 2: and you know, because I'm finding material for the show. 1707 01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:29,479 Speaker 2: I see these articles every day every day, and the 1708 01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:32,439 Speaker 2: ones I normally don't cover is stuff like this because 1709 01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:36,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, I can only tell you how I feel 1710 01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:38,719 Speaker 2: about this so many times, I don't have a joke. 1711 01:25:39,120 --> 01:25:41,200 Speaker 2: I have some poignant thing to say that's gonna change 1712 01:25:41,240 --> 01:25:44,320 Speaker 2: your mind. If it's one of these motherfuckers's out here 1713 01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:47,720 Speaker 2: that's killing motherfuckers and attacking women, and shit, they not 1714 01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:50,000 Speaker 2: listening to this show to be like, you know, Nata 1715 01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:52,920 Speaker 2: Rod said it. You know, I don't know what to 1716 01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:55,640 Speaker 2: say other than get the fuck away from these motherfuckers. 1717 01:25:56,439 --> 01:26:00,800 Speaker 2: You can't help them, and they will kill you, and 1718 01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:04,280 Speaker 2: you shouldn't feel bad about about being like, yeah, I'm out, 1719 01:26:04,320 --> 01:26:07,919 Speaker 2: and I don't want to die because you can't help yourself. 1720 01:26:08,280 --> 01:26:13,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to do that, you know. But yeah, sad, obviously, 1721 01:26:13,720 --> 01:26:16,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, he misled the public to believe she was 1722 01:26:16,240 --> 01:26:19,400 Speaker 2: killed because she gave money paying handlers. The Spicemith giving nature, 1723 01:26:19,600 --> 01:26:21,200 Speaker 2: she'll line herself with a man who only knew how 1724 01:26:21,200 --> 01:26:23,120 Speaker 2: to take from her, eventually costing her life. Black women 1725 01:26:23,200 --> 01:26:25,479 Speaker 2: can no longer afford to rescue wounded black men. Yes, 1726 01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:27,800 Speaker 2: some of us eventually pay with our lives, but these 1727 01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:29,839 Speaker 2: interactions have cost us so much more. In the interim. 1728 01:26:30,040 --> 01:26:33,840 Speaker 2: We're not just rescuing our intendeds. We're rescuing our brothers, 1729 01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:36,800 Speaker 2: our fathers, are down tried to male friends. We're who 1730 01:26:36,920 --> 01:26:39,760 Speaker 2: they call when they need a place to crash. Where 1731 01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:41,920 Speaker 2: who they call when they need a couple of dollars 1732 01:26:42,080 --> 01:26:44,240 Speaker 2: to pay day? Where who they call when the money 1733 01:26:44,280 --> 01:26:47,679 Speaker 2: they abandon us for the women, the people they abandoned 1734 01:26:47,760 --> 01:26:50,320 Speaker 2: us for turn their backs. We're who they call when 1735 01:26:50,360 --> 01:26:52,479 Speaker 2: the rest of humanity is refusing to recognize their value 1736 01:26:52,479 --> 01:26:55,320 Speaker 2: of their lives. We're always who black men call when 1737 01:26:55,360 --> 01:26:58,280 Speaker 2: they've been wounded. Why is it that black women always 1738 01:26:58,360 --> 01:27:02,560 Speaker 2: everyone's first picks to save but not worthy of but 1739 01:27:02,840 --> 01:27:06,479 Speaker 2: worthy to no one of being saved? Well, just as 1740 01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:09,479 Speaker 2: disenfranchised our male counterparts serving a parallel sentence in this 1741 01:27:09,560 --> 01:27:12,920 Speaker 2: country of our kidnapping, Why aren't we worthy of the support. 1742 01:27:12,680 --> 01:27:13,599 Speaker 3: That is demanded of us? 1743 01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:16,800 Speaker 2: If this is the trajectory, We're going to continue to 1744 01:27:16,880 --> 01:27:19,360 Speaker 2: head down when where we knowingly risk our lives for 1745 01:27:19,400 --> 01:27:22,320 Speaker 2: bragging rights and close calls survival stories, ignoring the red 1746 01:27:22,360 --> 01:27:25,479 Speaker 2: flags and warning signs while cutting ourselves trying to piece 1747 01:27:25,560 --> 01:27:28,720 Speaker 2: together our people's sharks. I want off this ride. I 1748 01:27:28,800 --> 01:27:31,560 Speaker 2: want off the ride Black women, at some point we 1749 01:27:31,720 --> 01:27:35,519 Speaker 2: have to choose life our own and regardless of the 1750 01:27:35,600 --> 01:27:38,200 Speaker 2: social backlash that comes with saying my survivors more important 1751 01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:41,240 Speaker 2: than your rehabilitation, it needs to be said repeatedly because 1752 01:27:41,360 --> 01:27:44,920 Speaker 2: it's true. Prior to the arrest of Ron Jermaine Bell, 1753 01:27:45,120 --> 01:27:47,360 Speaker 2: black men responded to the death of Miss Sadie Roberts 1754 01:27:47,400 --> 01:27:49,200 Speaker 2: and I remember this and I saw this in real 1755 01:27:49,320 --> 01:27:52,559 Speaker 2: time and I didn't even know what to say because 1756 01:27:52,600 --> 01:27:57,080 Speaker 2: it's so fucking it was so fucking predictable and transparent 1757 01:27:57,200 --> 01:28:01,120 Speaker 2: and so obvious. But yeah, I'll go finished this office 1758 01:28:01,120 --> 01:28:04,880 Speaker 2: a last figure. There was talk of protests, and yeah, 1759 01:28:04,920 --> 01:28:06,479 Speaker 2: they was parted to her death with raised There's talk 1760 01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:09,519 Speaker 2: of protest and retribution, anything to see the assumed white 1761 01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:12,280 Speaker 2: supremacist responsible for her death rout to justice. But when 1762 01:28:12,320 --> 01:28:14,639 Speaker 2: ban Ruge's police announced that they had arrested at Bell, 1763 01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:17,280 Speaker 2: an African American man, for suspicion of the murder of 1764 01:28:17,320 --> 01:28:22,799 Speaker 2: Miscedi Roberts, Joseph black men responded with dismissal and denial. 1765 01:28:23,360 --> 01:28:26,280 Speaker 2: They went from being fully behind law enforcement to questioning 1766 01:28:26,360 --> 01:28:30,880 Speaker 2: their motives. Oh Watercufts blaming this black man, I mean shit, 1767 01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:34,400 Speaker 2: But y'all was just a second ago of the Copsulder said, 1768 01:28:34,439 --> 01:28:35,640 Speaker 2: it was a whit dude, y'all would have been like 1769 01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:39,160 Speaker 2: mm hm. They did it. They diverted energy and attention 1770 01:28:39,280 --> 01:28:41,519 Speaker 2: to baseless conspiracies, arguing that she was killed by the 1771 01:28:41,640 --> 01:28:44,519 Speaker 2: United States government to keep her from opening her museum, 1772 01:28:44,600 --> 01:28:48,040 Speaker 2: a museum that she opened almost twenty years ago. So 1773 01:28:48,080 --> 01:28:51,759 Speaker 2: apparently government owns a time machine. It wasn't that fiction 1774 01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:54,560 Speaker 2: was more believable than fact. It was that acknowledging the 1775 01:28:54,680 --> 01:28:56,800 Speaker 2: facts around the Mescedes's death would require a level of 1776 01:28:56,800 --> 01:29:00,680 Speaker 2: accountability that kydle men do not possess, and men who 1777 01:29:00,760 --> 01:29:04,000 Speaker 2: lack accountability lack the capacity for change. With that said, 1778 01:29:04,640 --> 01:29:06,680 Speaker 2: if we do not disrupt the pattern on our end 1779 01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:10,160 Speaker 2: and discontinue the buffet of uncontraditional support and sacrifice, we 1780 01:29:10,240 --> 01:29:13,360 Speaker 2: cannot expect people who are intentional on emptying us to 1781 01:29:13,400 --> 01:29:16,519 Speaker 2: suddenly decide they've had their feel Black women are worth protecting, 1782 01:29:16,600 --> 01:29:19,439 Speaker 2: worth preserving. It's certainly worth saving. Who better equipped to 1783 01:29:19,439 --> 01:29:25,320 Speaker 2: save us than ourselves? And that's all piece. But yeah, 1784 01:29:25,320 --> 01:29:28,920 Speaker 2: I read that, and I thought that's valid as fuck, 1785 01:29:30,760 --> 01:29:37,200 Speaker 2: you know, especially when in light like in light of 1786 01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:42,800 Speaker 2: that recent tragedy of this man killing this woman and 1787 01:29:43,040 --> 01:29:45,400 Speaker 2: watching it was crickets. People don't talk about this shit. 1788 01:29:46,560 --> 01:29:48,800 Speaker 2: That shit went from we need to find out who 1789 01:29:48,840 --> 01:29:52,760 Speaker 2: did it to it's like nobody did it. You don't 1790 01:29:52,800 --> 01:29:55,960 Speaker 2: hear no follow up stories. Ain't nobody talking about, Well, 1791 01:29:56,080 --> 01:29:58,320 Speaker 2: let's how do we address this violence? Now it's back 1792 01:29:58,360 --> 01:29:59,920 Speaker 2: to it's just like when white men shoot up some 1793 01:30:00,720 --> 01:30:04,600 Speaker 2: Now it's a fucking one off anecdotal thing. Fuck the 1794 01:30:04,640 --> 01:30:07,800 Speaker 2: stats about three times more likely to be killed. Fuck 1795 01:30:07,920 --> 01:30:12,080 Speaker 2: that shit, that's an epidemic, you know, but it's fucked 1796 01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:13,400 Speaker 2: that we now we offer that. 1797 01:30:13,600 --> 01:30:14,680 Speaker 3: Okay, he just. 1798 01:30:14,720 --> 01:30:18,000 Speaker 2: Won random crazy nigga. You never know, crazy people. If 1799 01:30:18,040 --> 01:30:19,360 Speaker 2: a white dude would have did it, we would have 1800 01:30:19,360 --> 01:30:21,879 Speaker 2: said white supremacist is terrorist. 1801 01:30:23,040 --> 01:30:23,240 Speaker 4: You know. 1802 01:30:23,720 --> 01:30:25,479 Speaker 2: So it's you know, like I said, and I'm not 1803 01:30:25,600 --> 01:30:28,200 Speaker 2: saying this to be like, you know, the single out 1804 01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:29,960 Speaker 2: black men is pathologically worse. 1805 01:30:30,080 --> 01:30:34,120 Speaker 3: I honestly do feel like the problem is when you 1806 01:30:34,200 --> 01:30:34,879 Speaker 3: talk about. 1807 01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:38,120 Speaker 2: Black and brown anything, they are the least protected and 1808 01:30:38,200 --> 01:30:40,360 Speaker 2: the least recognized in our government. 1809 01:30:41,200 --> 01:30:43,240 Speaker 3: And that that goes for black men too. 1810 01:30:43,400 --> 01:30:45,280 Speaker 2: That goes with black men two. And so what happens 1811 01:30:45,400 --> 01:30:47,800 Speaker 2: is we go, well, since we're part of that group 1812 01:30:47,960 --> 01:30:51,360 Speaker 2: that is not protected and not recognized, we cannot harm 1813 01:30:51,439 --> 01:30:54,240 Speaker 2: anybody or any harm that we do. We can deflect 1814 01:30:54,360 --> 01:30:58,120 Speaker 2: onto the fact that we have oppression and that's not 1815 01:30:58,960 --> 01:31:03,479 Speaker 2: within the offices of the community. That's not true within 1816 01:31:03,600 --> 01:31:06,040 Speaker 2: the offices of the community. We can't be killing our 1817 01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:08,080 Speaker 2: own people and then be like, but you can't hold 1818 01:31:08,120 --> 01:31:08,800 Speaker 2: me accountable. 1819 01:31:08,840 --> 01:31:11,920 Speaker 3: I'm a black man. You can't take that out on me, 1820 01:31:13,479 --> 01:31:15,240 Speaker 3: you know, But that's the situation. 1821 01:31:15,400 --> 01:31:18,519 Speaker 2: I do think a lot of it's from coddling, you know, 1822 01:31:18,920 --> 01:31:21,920 Speaker 2: it's from that, like you're the real my whole life. 1823 01:31:22,920 --> 01:31:26,680 Speaker 2: Every charity type event that I've been involved in, that's 1824 01:31:26,800 --> 01:31:31,080 Speaker 2: like a even the academic achievement stuff I was in, 1825 01:31:32,160 --> 01:31:34,559 Speaker 2: it was always pointed out that I was a black 1826 01:31:34,720 --> 01:31:39,719 Speaker 2: male as it somehow that was more valuable than the many, 1827 01:31:39,800 --> 01:31:43,799 Speaker 2: many more many times black women in those same achievement classes. 1828 01:31:44,439 --> 01:31:47,240 Speaker 2: My story was seen as the success story. That was 1829 01:31:47,320 --> 01:31:49,200 Speaker 2: like the crowning chiefment, like, oh, we got a black 1830 01:31:49,320 --> 01:31:53,880 Speaker 2: man in here now we're talking meanwhile, sisters in there, 1831 01:31:54,120 --> 01:31:55,679 Speaker 2: and you know who will be the main ones clapping 1832 01:31:55,800 --> 01:31:58,680 Speaker 2: them same sisters, Yes, sir, like, yeah, we only got 1833 01:31:58,720 --> 01:32:00,559 Speaker 2: four black men in this program, thank god. 1834 01:32:01,520 --> 01:32:04,439 Speaker 3: You know, Oh they made it good for you. What 1835 01:32:04,560 --> 01:32:05,479 Speaker 3: can I do to help you? 1836 01:32:05,960 --> 01:32:06,599 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 1837 01:32:07,800 --> 01:32:09,559 Speaker 3: You know I and I do understand that. 1838 01:32:09,960 --> 01:32:15,720 Speaker 2: With academic achievement and incarceration, gas and stuff. I do 1839 01:32:15,920 --> 01:32:18,360 Speaker 2: understand when people make this argument that, like, will black 1840 01:32:18,439 --> 01:32:23,719 Speaker 2: men face a different type of oppression in certain areas? Yeah, 1841 01:32:23,840 --> 01:32:28,519 Speaker 2: they do, But so the black women, right, So it's 1842 01:32:28,600 --> 01:32:31,439 Speaker 2: it's not like there's some sort of oppression that that 1843 01:32:32,200 --> 01:32:36,040 Speaker 2: is limiting us, but would be would not affect the 1844 01:32:36,200 --> 01:32:38,560 Speaker 2: black women and black family units. 1845 01:32:38,320 --> 01:32:39,160 Speaker 3: That I attached to us. 1846 01:32:40,000 --> 01:32:45,000 Speaker 2: It affects us all. And yet somehow it's it's a man. 1847 01:32:45,080 --> 01:32:46,679 Speaker 2: What was that? What was that show? 1848 01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:51,120 Speaker 3: It's a raisin in the sun, It's that ship. 1849 01:32:51,160 --> 01:32:54,479 Speaker 2: It's still the same ship, all this time later, it's 1850 01:32:54,520 --> 01:32:58,000 Speaker 2: still the same. I'm a black man. I can be tank, 1851 01:32:58,080 --> 01:33:01,040 Speaker 2: I can have tantrums, I can be violent, And your 1852 01:33:01,160 --> 01:33:03,000 Speaker 2: job as a black woman is to rely on me 1853 01:33:03,120 --> 01:33:06,320 Speaker 2: and support me. Period. Never made me feel bad about 1854 01:33:06,360 --> 01:33:09,200 Speaker 2: this shit. The world already made me feel bad enough. 1855 01:33:09,439 --> 01:33:11,160 Speaker 2: But what does the world make black women feel like? 1856 01:33:13,560 --> 01:33:15,840 Speaker 2: And that's that's and for the most part, I'm assuming 1857 01:33:15,880 --> 01:33:17,960 Speaker 2: everybody listening for the most part. Thing I'm only talking 1858 01:33:17,960 --> 01:33:20,599 Speaker 2: about says that stuff too, So that's before you get 1859 01:33:20,640 --> 01:33:24,960 Speaker 2: to other levels of marginalization within the group. So it's 1860 01:33:25,080 --> 01:33:27,840 Speaker 2: I don't know, man's I read that and I didn't 1861 01:33:27,880 --> 01:33:29,519 Speaker 2: have anything to add to what she had to say 1862 01:33:29,600 --> 01:33:33,760 Speaker 2: other than she right. And you know, I hate to 1863 01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:37,400 Speaker 2: even fucking have to say something like that, but she right. 1864 01:33:37,680 --> 01:33:40,840 Speaker 2: How can you if somebody came to a conclusion like 1865 01:33:40,920 --> 01:33:44,400 Speaker 2: we just talked about Auton Sterling, right, Alton Sterling is 1866 01:33:45,120 --> 01:33:48,240 Speaker 2: convicted of sexual I think sexual sort of a minor 1867 01:33:48,360 --> 01:33:51,440 Speaker 2: or something like I remember when he got killed. 1868 01:33:51,320 --> 01:33:53,559 Speaker 3: And there were like some black women was like, yeah, 1869 01:33:53,720 --> 01:33:54,080 Speaker 3: not him. 1870 01:33:56,080 --> 01:33:57,600 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know what you do with that, 1871 01:33:59,160 --> 01:34:01,599 Speaker 2: you know, because we still I still saw those women 1872 01:34:01,680 --> 01:34:04,400 Speaker 2: get chastised on like you got the support to these 1873 01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:09,160 Speaker 2: brothers and shit, and it's like, Okay, do we don't 1874 01:34:09,200 --> 01:34:12,840 Speaker 2: really the man that support for everybody? No, we don't. 1875 01:34:13,200 --> 01:34:16,360 Speaker 5: And I don't know if you said it or somebody 1876 01:34:16,400 --> 01:34:16,680 Speaker 5: said it. 1877 01:34:17,240 --> 01:34:24,640 Speaker 4: If the push for equality for particularly black people, uh, 1878 01:34:25,880 --> 01:34:29,720 Speaker 4: it will end when if and when black women say 1879 01:34:29,800 --> 01:34:30,120 Speaker 4: fuck it. 1880 01:34:30,360 --> 01:34:33,479 Speaker 5: I'm not marching no more. I'm not showing up. You're 1881 01:34:33,560 --> 01:34:36,719 Speaker 5: not getting another fucking dime from my black ass. 1882 01:34:36,800 --> 01:34:40,960 Speaker 4: If black women actually as a mask say fuck out, 1883 01:34:41,439 --> 01:34:42,280 Speaker 4: I'm out. 1884 01:34:43,960 --> 01:34:47,080 Speaker 5: And not be the backbone, because that's the thing. Black 1885 01:34:47,120 --> 01:34:47,479 Speaker 5: women are. 1886 01:34:47,520 --> 01:34:51,519 Speaker 4: The backbone have a lot of shit, and black women 1887 01:34:51,560 --> 01:34:54,840 Speaker 4: will actually knowingly do the work, and I actually will 1888 01:34:54,920 --> 01:34:58,760 Speaker 4: allow black men to be the face because of patriarchy, 1889 01:35:00,240 --> 01:35:03,240 Speaker 4: and they'll let them take all the credit and everything, 1890 01:35:03,360 --> 01:35:05,280 Speaker 4: because you know, black women are. 1891 01:35:06,720 --> 01:35:09,800 Speaker 5: Women, particularly straight women, are forced to always. 1892 01:35:11,720 --> 01:35:13,320 Speaker 4: Put me in first, Put me in first, put me 1893 01:35:13,360 --> 01:35:14,960 Speaker 4: in first, put your brother first, Put your brother first, 1894 01:35:15,520 --> 01:35:18,360 Speaker 4: like you always been forced to put them first. 1895 01:35:18,760 --> 01:35:20,360 Speaker 5: You know, even and we've talked about this before. 1896 01:35:20,400 --> 01:35:23,040 Speaker 4: Even the way children are raised the most, you know, 1897 01:35:23,080 --> 01:35:25,400 Speaker 4: studies have been shown parents are hard on girls. 1898 01:35:25,800 --> 01:35:27,200 Speaker 5: You actually have more chores. 1899 01:35:27,520 --> 01:35:30,160 Speaker 4: You're expected to clean up, You're expected to watch this is, 1900 01:35:30,200 --> 01:35:32,960 Speaker 4: You're expected to fold clothes, You're expected to do those things. 1901 01:35:33,479 --> 01:35:35,960 Speaker 5: Boys are all quote unquote always expected. 1902 01:35:35,680 --> 01:35:36,000 Speaker 1: To do that. 1903 01:35:36,200 --> 01:35:38,120 Speaker 4: Sometimes you have some parents to be like fuck it, 1904 01:35:38,200 --> 01:35:40,479 Speaker 4: everybody don't know how to do everything, because I'm not 1905 01:35:40,640 --> 01:35:42,360 Speaker 4: raising no children to go out here that don't know 1906 01:35:42,400 --> 01:35:43,400 Speaker 4: how to be self sufficient. 1907 01:35:43,760 --> 01:35:45,920 Speaker 5: But what happens is that the average household does not 1908 01:35:46,040 --> 01:35:48,360 Speaker 5: do that. Then you have this little boy that grows 1909 01:35:48,400 --> 01:35:50,360 Speaker 5: up to be a man that has the same expectations 1910 01:35:50,400 --> 01:35:52,559 Speaker 5: that he wants to do a woman, and he wants 1911 01:35:52,600 --> 01:35:54,479 Speaker 5: to marry her, and he wants her to be his mama. 1912 01:35:54,520 --> 01:35:56,760 Speaker 5: I'm not your mama, you know. He wants you to 1913 01:35:56,880 --> 01:35:59,200 Speaker 5: quote unquote do everything and baby him and take care 1914 01:35:59,280 --> 01:36:00,439 Speaker 5: of him. That's not my job. 1915 01:36:00,439 --> 01:36:02,800 Speaker 4: I'm supposed to be your help mate, or you'll help meet. 1916 01:36:02,880 --> 01:36:04,799 Speaker 4: I'm not supposed to be here to take care. 1917 01:36:04,720 --> 01:36:05,760 Speaker 2: Of you, you know. 1918 01:36:06,000 --> 01:36:09,760 Speaker 4: And it's funny though, when you sit back and you 1919 01:36:10,840 --> 01:36:13,200 Speaker 4: get into the nuts and the boats and the nitty 1920 01:36:13,200 --> 01:36:16,120 Speaker 4: gritty women are coming to a relationship. But we're supposed 1921 01:36:16,120 --> 01:36:18,960 Speaker 4: to all we're supposed to have it all together. Men 1922 01:36:19,000 --> 01:36:21,200 Speaker 4: are supposed to be a fucking mess. And my job 1923 01:36:21,320 --> 01:36:24,360 Speaker 4: is to quote unquote raise this man. I mean, raise 1924 01:36:24,400 --> 01:36:26,040 Speaker 4: this boy to be a man. You know. 1925 01:36:26,160 --> 01:36:27,400 Speaker 5: And I'm not knocking this, but. 1926 01:36:27,520 --> 01:36:30,120 Speaker 4: So many men praise their women and their wives and 1927 01:36:30,160 --> 01:36:33,920 Speaker 4: their girlfriends for helping them to mature to be a man. 1928 01:36:34,240 --> 01:36:37,719 Speaker 4: Why because black girls are taught, were forced to mature 1929 01:36:37,760 --> 01:36:40,600 Speaker 4: at a very very very very very early age. We 1930 01:36:40,760 --> 01:36:44,320 Speaker 4: have shit put on us as children that boys are 1931 01:36:44,320 --> 01:36:46,559 Speaker 4: allowed to just kind of be free to an extent, 1932 01:36:46,960 --> 01:36:48,599 Speaker 4: and then yes, it's hard for them too. 1933 01:36:48,640 --> 01:36:49,719 Speaker 5: I'm not saying that it's. 1934 01:36:49,600 --> 01:36:52,519 Speaker 4: Equal, but little girls are forced and they'll have the 1935 01:36:52,640 --> 01:36:54,200 Speaker 4: pressure on them at a really. 1936 01:36:54,080 --> 01:36:57,559 Speaker 5: Really early age. Don't get pregnant, don't let boys touch 1937 01:36:57,640 --> 01:37:00,760 Speaker 5: you at this way. Close your legs, you know, do this, 1938 01:37:00,960 --> 01:37:02,599 Speaker 5: do that. You don't want to bouy to coloring your whole, 1939 01:37:02,600 --> 01:37:03,559 Speaker 5: You don't want about a coning you. 1940 01:37:03,520 --> 01:37:06,000 Speaker 4: A sweat like like it's just it's it's almost like 1941 01:37:06,400 --> 01:37:09,360 Speaker 4: anything you do quote unquote is bad for the family name. 1942 01:37:09,439 --> 01:37:11,519 Speaker 5: You make us look bad. Now, this boy can go 1943 01:37:11,640 --> 01:37:14,320 Speaker 5: out here and cut a whole fucking food, but he 1944 01:37:14,479 --> 01:37:17,040 Speaker 5: quote unquote don't make the family name look bad. But 1945 01:37:17,200 --> 01:37:20,320 Speaker 5: a girl blink wrong, she's you know, her skirt too 1946 01:37:20,400 --> 01:37:21,200 Speaker 5: short or whatever. 1947 01:37:21,280 --> 01:37:23,280 Speaker 4: It is, all of a sudden, you have to deal 1948 01:37:23,320 --> 01:37:26,800 Speaker 4: with the backlash of your elders and the people that're 1949 01:37:26,800 --> 01:37:30,240 Speaker 4: supposed to love you chastising you and making you question 1950 01:37:31,960 --> 01:37:34,640 Speaker 4: just your body and your sexuality. Because me growing up, 1951 01:37:34,680 --> 01:37:36,479 Speaker 4: not to get off topic, I used to think my 1952 01:37:36,560 --> 01:37:38,679 Speaker 4: body was dirty. I used to think sex was dirty 1953 01:37:38,880 --> 01:37:41,400 Speaker 4: because it's just one of those things where you just 1954 01:37:41,560 --> 01:37:44,000 Speaker 4: kind of just talk that everything about you is quote 1955 01:37:44,080 --> 01:37:47,280 Speaker 4: unquote wrong and nobody wants to even talk about you know, 1956 01:37:47,520 --> 01:37:50,240 Speaker 4: those types of things when it comes to growing up, 1957 01:37:50,680 --> 01:37:52,960 Speaker 4: and it's and it's funny when it got say, you 1958 01:37:53,040 --> 01:37:56,240 Speaker 4: come into a relationship, my job is not to have 1959 01:37:56,360 --> 01:37:56,880 Speaker 4: an equal. 1960 01:37:57,200 --> 01:38:00,120 Speaker 5: My job is to help you become my equal, you know. 1961 01:38:00,200 --> 01:38:01,320 Speaker 5: And a lot of people come. 1962 01:38:01,240 --> 01:38:03,519 Speaker 4: To that expect Women come into it expecting that and 1963 01:38:03,640 --> 01:38:04,920 Speaker 4: men come into it expecting that. 1964 01:38:05,400 --> 01:38:07,559 Speaker 5: But you know what, it is nothing wrong. 1965 01:38:07,880 --> 01:38:10,000 Speaker 4: You have a generation of women now when I plot 1966 01:38:10,080 --> 01:38:13,679 Speaker 4: them for that is like listening to what you read, 1967 01:38:13,760 --> 01:38:15,880 Speaker 4: It's like, I want to come in a relationship. I 1968 01:38:15,960 --> 01:38:18,519 Speaker 4: want a whole man, because the man want a whole woman. 1969 01:38:18,960 --> 01:38:20,560 Speaker 4: He want a woman that can cook and clean and 1970 01:38:20,600 --> 01:38:21,960 Speaker 4: do all this other shit and he don't have to 1971 01:38:21,960 --> 01:38:22,800 Speaker 4: put no work in it. 1972 01:38:23,000 --> 01:38:24,680 Speaker 2: Well, it's interesting you put it in the terms of 1973 01:38:24,840 --> 01:38:28,519 Speaker 2: like relationship, right, because I think she's more talking about 1974 01:38:28,680 --> 01:38:32,000 Speaker 2: just like your brothers and sisters, like brothers, your father, 1975 01:38:32,320 --> 01:38:36,200 Speaker 2: like everybody, correct, like not even just like your partner romantically. 1976 01:38:36,840 --> 01:38:39,280 Speaker 3: But there's an expectation even when we're friends. 1977 01:38:39,640 --> 01:38:43,519 Speaker 2: I'm the man, I'm the one who you're here to 1978 01:38:43,680 --> 01:38:46,360 Speaker 2: help me, you know. And I think that's a male 1979 01:38:46,439 --> 01:38:49,320 Speaker 2: privileged thing. I don't think it's specific to black men. 1980 01:38:50,000 --> 01:38:52,519 Speaker 2: I think what is specific to black men is only 1981 01:38:52,640 --> 01:38:55,920 Speaker 2: the excuse, right, the excuse of I get to do 1982 01:38:56,000 --> 01:38:59,320 Speaker 2: this because I'm oppressed accountability. Yeah, like you, I can't 1983 01:38:59,360 --> 01:39:02,080 Speaker 2: be accountable to you because I look, life is hard 1984 01:39:02,120 --> 01:39:04,719 Speaker 2: for me. You know, that's the only thing that specific 1985 01:39:04,800 --> 01:39:07,639 Speaker 2: The black men patriarchy pretty much goes through our ivery. 1986 01:39:08,520 --> 01:39:11,719 Speaker 3: Uh every culture, you know, ours included. 1987 01:39:11,800 --> 01:39:14,400 Speaker 2: So yeah, and I think she has a point of 1988 01:39:14,600 --> 01:39:17,720 Speaker 2: just like the idea that as a boy, as a man, 1989 01:39:17,960 --> 01:39:19,759 Speaker 2: your sister, haad, you're. 1990 01:39:19,720 --> 01:39:23,280 Speaker 4: Taught to take like you're not taught to and that's 1991 01:39:23,320 --> 01:39:25,880 Speaker 4: why you have a lot of men. Boys grow up 1992 01:39:25,880 --> 01:39:28,160 Speaker 4: not I don't have no compassion. They don't know how 1993 01:39:28,160 --> 01:39:31,160 Speaker 4: to communicate. Girls are forced to use their words. 1994 01:39:31,200 --> 01:39:33,599 Speaker 5: We don't you know, don't fight, use your words, use 1995 01:39:33,640 --> 01:39:37,360 Speaker 5: your words talk. You know, most little girls are taught, 1996 01:39:37,479 --> 01:39:40,000 Speaker 5: particularly straight girls are taught to have a range of emotions. 1997 01:39:40,120 --> 01:39:42,560 Speaker 5: We are forced to have a range of emotions. 1998 01:39:43,080 --> 01:39:47,400 Speaker 2: And you know, well, well, y'alls are limited, correct, y'all 1999 01:39:47,600 --> 01:39:50,040 Speaker 2: the things they take from from girls is that you 2000 01:39:50,160 --> 01:39:53,320 Speaker 2: can have the emotion success for anger. Uh, you know, 2001 01:39:53,640 --> 01:39:55,840 Speaker 2: like there's certain things that like, nah, girls don't get 2002 01:39:55,880 --> 01:39:58,439 Speaker 2: to be that and boys get to be the opposite. 2003 01:39:58,439 --> 01:40:00,479 Speaker 2: You know. It's why you know, we talked about gender reveals, 2004 01:40:00,560 --> 01:40:02,880 Speaker 2: but it's why gender as a concept is such a 2005 01:40:02,960 --> 01:40:06,840 Speaker 2: fucked up prism to put to look at everything through 2006 01:40:07,000 --> 01:40:11,200 Speaker 2: like like you're putting people in these boxes and being 2007 01:40:11,360 --> 01:40:13,200 Speaker 2: like this is what should define you. 2008 01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:15,160 Speaker 3: So you're a girl, you don't get to. 2009 01:40:15,160 --> 01:40:18,720 Speaker 2: Be angry, sad, Yeah, you need to be nice and 2010 01:40:19,080 --> 01:40:21,920 Speaker 2: you know or whatever. Your boy, you don't get to 2011 01:40:22,000 --> 01:40:22,439 Speaker 2: be sad. 2012 01:40:22,720 --> 01:40:25,120 Speaker 3: You get to be angry, though, you do get to 2013 01:40:25,160 --> 01:40:25,559 Speaker 3: be angry. 2014 01:40:25,680 --> 01:40:28,360 Speaker 2: Like so, you know, we have all this different shit, 2015 01:40:28,720 --> 01:40:31,559 Speaker 2: but we're as boys, we're definitely taught to take from 2016 01:40:31,600 --> 01:40:34,160 Speaker 2: the women in our lives, Like your mother is supposed 2017 01:40:34,200 --> 01:40:35,800 Speaker 2: to cook for you, and then you're spending you spend 2018 01:40:35,840 --> 01:40:37,320 Speaker 2: the rest of your life looking for a mother. And 2019 01:40:37,400 --> 01:40:40,880 Speaker 2: then the things that we're supposed to provide for women, 2020 01:40:41,600 --> 01:40:44,720 Speaker 2: I think, you know, as black men, it's harder to 2021 01:40:44,880 --> 01:40:48,000 Speaker 2: provide those things, right because how can I protect you? 2022 01:40:48,040 --> 01:40:51,040 Speaker 2: I can't protect myself, right, and then we but I 2023 01:40:51,160 --> 01:40:54,880 Speaker 2: think a lot of cases men basically black men will 2024 01:40:54,920 --> 01:40:58,800 Speaker 2: go well, even sayings all that shit, you still need 2025 01:40:58,880 --> 01:41:02,160 Speaker 2: to give me everything like you still I'm still demanding 2026 01:41:02,600 --> 01:41:06,320 Speaker 2: your allegiance to me despite not really being able to 2027 01:41:06,360 --> 01:41:08,840 Speaker 2: bring the same things to the table, the protection and stuff, 2028 01:41:09,120 --> 01:41:11,920 Speaker 2: which shouldn't be a problem if you looked at it 2029 01:41:12,000 --> 01:41:16,080 Speaker 2: as equals. It wouldn't be a fucking problem if you said, look, 2030 01:41:16,240 --> 01:41:19,000 Speaker 2: we are in this shit together. Things are fucked up 2031 01:41:19,400 --> 01:41:21,320 Speaker 2: for both of us, and we're gonna do our best 2032 01:41:21,680 --> 01:41:23,760 Speaker 2: with me and you and the family to work our 2033 01:41:23,800 --> 01:41:27,960 Speaker 2: way through this. But instead it's, uh, we're in this. 2034 01:41:28,360 --> 01:41:33,360 Speaker 2: I'm still the boss, your second in command, and we're 2035 01:41:33,439 --> 01:41:36,120 Speaker 2: gonna do the best for you to support me, to 2036 01:41:36,240 --> 01:41:39,800 Speaker 2: help me get through this, and I will trickle down 2037 01:41:39,840 --> 01:41:40,599 Speaker 2: this shit to you too. 2038 01:41:41,479 --> 01:41:44,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's the thing that makes you frustrated because 2039 01:41:45,360 --> 01:41:48,320 Speaker 4: kind of piggybacking on her conversation. 2040 01:41:49,320 --> 01:41:53,000 Speaker 5: Is draining enough to deal with this from your mate. 2041 01:41:53,520 --> 01:41:58,240 Speaker 4: But imagine, like most black women, every single solitary man 2042 01:41:58,400 --> 01:42:02,240 Speaker 4: you almost fucking come and contact with has this same 2043 01:42:02,479 --> 01:42:05,919 Speaker 4: expectation of you, and that's when the ship becomes tiresome. 2044 01:42:06,320 --> 01:42:09,840 Speaker 5: A lot of times, every friend and your father, your brother, 2045 01:42:10,280 --> 01:42:11,160 Speaker 5: every man. 2046 01:42:11,160 --> 01:42:14,639 Speaker 4: You come in contact with you expect you to give 2047 01:42:14,760 --> 01:42:19,400 Speaker 4: this unlimited amount of energy, and nobody can deal with that. 2048 01:42:19,840 --> 01:42:23,400 Speaker 4: And then when a woman is like mad and angry 2049 01:42:23,560 --> 01:42:26,320 Speaker 4: and bitter and I understand it, it's like fuck y'all 2050 01:42:26,439 --> 01:42:28,720 Speaker 4: niggers and actually mean it, and. 2051 01:42:29,000 --> 01:42:32,640 Speaker 5: Like I'm tired of y'all, you know. 2052 01:42:32,920 --> 01:42:35,439 Speaker 4: And and the thing is, once you start exercising no, 2053 01:42:35,880 --> 01:42:38,080 Speaker 4: that's when men get mad. Once you know, I know 2054 01:42:38,160 --> 01:42:39,320 Speaker 4: I'm not giving you no money. 2055 01:42:39,560 --> 01:42:41,920 Speaker 5: No, I'm not helping you. No, I'm not helping you 2056 01:42:41,960 --> 01:42:44,000 Speaker 5: pay no bill. No, I'm not helping you pay your 2057 01:42:44,120 --> 01:42:45,720 Speaker 5: child support. Nigga, you got it. 2058 01:42:45,800 --> 01:42:48,200 Speaker 4: You put yourself in that situation, you handle it, and 2059 01:42:48,280 --> 01:42:50,639 Speaker 4: they act like you have fucking betrayed them. 2060 01:42:51,439 --> 01:42:53,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, we've seen what happened when black women 2061 01:42:53,640 --> 01:42:53,920 Speaker 2: say no. 2062 01:42:55,280 --> 01:42:56,439 Speaker 5: I died from saying no. 2063 01:42:57,200 --> 01:42:59,120 Speaker 2: You've seen We've seen the results. 2064 01:42:59,200 --> 01:42:59,400 Speaker 5: Man. 2065 01:42:59,640 --> 01:43:04,120 Speaker 2: Like is like I said, man, I am not knocking 2066 01:43:04,160 --> 01:43:06,519 Speaker 2: this woman at all. And I looked at the comments 2067 01:43:06,560 --> 01:43:08,960 Speaker 2: of our article, and I think it just proves her 2068 01:43:09,000 --> 01:43:14,240 Speaker 2: point because there's so many people that were if you 2069 01:43:14,439 --> 01:43:16,640 Speaker 2: listen to that article and you got mad because you 2070 01:43:16,760 --> 01:43:19,519 Speaker 2: heard a black woman centering herself and her emotions and 2071 01:43:19,600 --> 01:43:21,160 Speaker 2: her safety and her sanity first. 2072 01:43:22,960 --> 01:43:24,240 Speaker 3: Then that's the problem, right. 2073 01:43:25,640 --> 01:43:29,479 Speaker 2: There, Isn't that the fucking issue because we are used 2074 01:43:29,520 --> 01:43:32,080 Speaker 2: to hearing black men centering themselves and put ourselves first 2075 01:43:32,120 --> 01:43:35,320 Speaker 2: in the you know, this brother's putting out videos crying 2076 01:43:35,560 --> 01:43:38,519 Speaker 2: over Bill Cosey having to go to jail. You know 2077 01:43:38,560 --> 01:43:41,439 Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, we are centering us first, and 2078 01:43:41,520 --> 01:43:44,080 Speaker 2: that's just the default. It's just what we know, is 2079 01:43:44,120 --> 01:43:45,920 Speaker 2: what we were raised up to be. Is you know, 2080 01:43:46,280 --> 01:43:50,400 Speaker 2: I'm not telling I'm not saying it's all black men's fault. 2081 01:43:50,640 --> 01:43:53,240 Speaker 2: Every black man is choosing this shit. I really do. 2082 01:43:53,400 --> 01:43:55,000 Speaker 3: Feel like patriarchy is fucked up. 2083 01:43:55,000 --> 01:43:57,599 Speaker 2: White supremacy is fucked up, and of course it has 2084 01:43:57,680 --> 01:44:01,120 Speaker 2: fucked us up, all of us, you know. And for 2085 01:44:01,280 --> 01:44:04,000 Speaker 2: the record, women are not blameless in this because a 2086 01:44:04,040 --> 01:44:07,520 Speaker 2: lot of times women are the ones that coddle the dudes. 2087 01:44:07,280 --> 01:44:08,280 Speaker 6: Like we like. 2088 01:44:08,360 --> 01:44:11,519 Speaker 2: It's a cycle that infects the entire group of people, 2089 01:44:11,920 --> 01:44:15,080 Speaker 2: and people play different roles within it, you know, and 2090 01:44:15,160 --> 01:44:17,840 Speaker 2: we all hopefully wake hopefully you wake up to the 2091 01:44:17,880 --> 01:44:19,320 Speaker 2: shit and go, this is my part in this. 2092 01:44:19,479 --> 01:44:20,960 Speaker 3: I'm out right, you know. 2093 01:44:21,560 --> 01:44:24,040 Speaker 4: And it's a generational thing because you have some of 2094 01:44:24,080 --> 01:44:26,880 Speaker 4: the younger generations going fuck that, and some of the 2095 01:44:27,040 --> 01:44:30,439 Speaker 4: older women going, well, this is the hell you supposed to. 2096 01:44:30,479 --> 01:44:33,519 Speaker 5: Die on the I'm like, I'm not, I'm not doing that, man. 2097 01:44:33,960 --> 01:44:36,000 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's even generational. I think some 2098 01:44:36,120 --> 01:44:38,240 Speaker 2: of the older generations tired of that shit too. Yeah, 2099 01:44:38,479 --> 01:44:40,200 Speaker 2: you see a lot of the aunties living their best 2100 01:44:40,240 --> 01:44:43,040 Speaker 2: motherfucking life because they said, fuck this shit. I don't 2101 01:44:43,400 --> 01:44:47,240 Speaker 2: I'm not centering my life around finding, occupying and being 2102 01:44:47,320 --> 01:44:48,559 Speaker 2: occupied by some niggas. 2103 01:44:48,720 --> 01:44:51,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why you see people get divorced older and 2104 01:44:51,320 --> 01:44:54,200 Speaker 4: the next thing, you know, she she on Instagram, Twitter, 2105 01:44:54,240 --> 01:44:56,040 Speaker 4: and Facebook having the best fucking time of her life 2106 01:44:56,080 --> 01:44:57,920 Speaker 4: cause that nigga was wearing her out and wearing her 2107 01:44:58,000 --> 01:44:59,000 Speaker 4: down right. 2108 01:44:59,360 --> 01:45:01,880 Speaker 2: So, I don't know, man, It's like I said, it's 2109 01:45:01,960 --> 01:45:04,600 Speaker 2: just I feel her on that ship, you know. And 2110 01:45:04,680 --> 01:45:07,920 Speaker 2: I think people pick the relationship part of it, but 2111 01:45:08,320 --> 01:45:11,400 Speaker 2: it's it's really not just a relationship thing. I think 2112 01:45:11,439 --> 01:45:14,200 Speaker 2: it's a life thing. There's friends that like that, there's 2113 01:45:14,240 --> 01:45:18,840 Speaker 2: coworkers like that. There's a fraternity and sorority systems like that. 2114 01:45:19,080 --> 01:45:22,720 Speaker 2: Like a lot of our dynamic church, a lot of 2115 01:45:22,760 --> 01:45:24,920 Speaker 2: the dynamics of our community are set up in this 2116 01:45:25,040 --> 01:45:29,400 Speaker 2: gender ship and in each time, each each role is like, yeah, 2117 01:45:29,479 --> 01:45:33,479 Speaker 2: I'm expecting women to do this work for me. You know, 2118 01:45:34,840 --> 01:45:36,920 Speaker 2: I see where I almost at the break real quick, 2119 01:45:36,920 --> 01:45:41,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna pause it all right now in the next session. 2120 01:45:41,520 --> 01:45:44,360 Speaker 2: But yeah, that was I don't know, we probably picked 2121 01:45:44,400 --> 01:45:46,400 Speaker 2: out a meat off of that bone. But you know, 2122 01:45:46,840 --> 01:45:49,080 Speaker 2: I definitely understood what she was saying, and you too, 2123 01:45:49,160 --> 01:45:52,000 Speaker 2: I think, go ahead, I'm sorry. 2124 01:45:53,120 --> 01:45:56,040 Speaker 4: And the thing is when people write ales like this, 2125 01:45:56,360 --> 01:45:58,640 Speaker 4: the comments will actually just justify. 2126 01:45:58,439 --> 01:46:00,720 Speaker 2: Why she had to write to Yeah, that's what y 2127 01:46:00,760 --> 01:46:01,760 Speaker 2: That's what I said, Like. 2128 01:46:02,320 --> 01:46:05,679 Speaker 4: Like I couldn't even imagine your comunderneath that article. 2129 01:46:05,920 --> 01:46:08,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was on Mada Noir, you know, and 2130 01:46:08,280 --> 01:46:10,480 Speaker 2: it's just everything set some accountability. 2131 01:46:10,560 --> 01:46:10,680 Speaker 5: Man. 2132 01:46:10,760 --> 01:46:13,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's like the only time you really 2133 01:46:13,360 --> 01:46:16,200 Speaker 2: hear black men admit we got problems is when like 2134 01:46:16,960 --> 01:46:20,280 Speaker 2: a prominent black man is killed by another black man. 2135 01:46:20,920 --> 01:46:23,519 Speaker 2: Then we'll go, you know what, man, we really need 2136 01:46:23,600 --> 01:46:28,000 Speaker 2: to work with our on issues. But I still remember 2137 01:46:29,560 --> 01:46:33,160 Speaker 2: after after Nifsey got killed, I still remember people like 2138 01:46:34,080 --> 01:46:38,000 Speaker 2: being upset that like Jamel Hill brought up toxic masculinity 2139 01:46:38,080 --> 01:46:41,240 Speaker 2: in that moment, because everybody thinks toxic masculinity is just 2140 01:46:41,320 --> 01:46:43,200 Speaker 2: how we treat women. But it's like, nah, it's the 2141 01:46:43,320 --> 01:46:46,320 Speaker 2: thing inside of you that says, I will kill this 2142 01:46:46,520 --> 01:46:50,000 Speaker 2: nigga because he don't agree with me, or he called 2143 01:46:50,080 --> 01:46:52,680 Speaker 2: me a name, or like I can't live with that, 2144 01:46:52,880 --> 01:46:54,680 Speaker 2: and more pointly, he can't live with that. 2145 01:46:55,479 --> 01:46:55,960 Speaker 6: That is it. 2146 01:46:56,840 --> 01:46:58,960 Speaker 2: But they don't give a fuck about reading that or 2147 01:46:59,040 --> 01:47:03,559 Speaker 2: any of that stuff. Like they just completely get into 2148 01:47:03,760 --> 01:47:06,760 Speaker 2: like it's everything except you. 2149 01:47:06,760 --> 01:47:07,280 Speaker 3: Know, woe is me? 2150 01:47:07,360 --> 01:47:11,840 Speaker 2: They get into woe was me immediately. So but yeah, man, 2151 01:47:11,880 --> 01:47:13,400 Speaker 2: that's that's sad. 2152 01:47:15,439 --> 01:47:17,360 Speaker 5: I'm glad we talked about that because, like I said, 2153 01:47:17,400 --> 01:47:19,679 Speaker 5: I've been seeing an article foot around, but I hadn't 2154 01:47:19,720 --> 01:47:21,080 Speaker 5: had a chance that shuit down and read it. 2155 01:47:21,960 --> 01:47:26,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, you know, yeah, some of the 2156 01:47:26,160 --> 01:47:28,479 Speaker 2: comments I think this article is misgodden in dangers. You 2157 01:47:28,479 --> 01:47:31,360 Speaker 2: can always find example to back any point, but it 2158 01:47:32,200 --> 01:47:34,479 Speaker 2: but it remains an example, not the norm. 2159 01:47:35,360 --> 01:47:37,559 Speaker 3: Where's the responsibility on the part of black women? 2160 01:47:37,800 --> 01:47:41,320 Speaker 2: What strong, secure, mental, stable person do you know will 2161 01:47:41,400 --> 01:47:44,160 Speaker 2: allow a man, any man, to treat her negatively and 2162 01:47:44,240 --> 01:47:47,519 Speaker 2: then stay with them until they kill them. Many of 2163 01:47:47,600 --> 01:47:52,040 Speaker 2: these black women, so in a situation where someone kills 2164 01:47:52,120 --> 01:47:56,479 Speaker 2: someone in a relationship. It's still the woman's fault. Someone 2165 01:47:56,600 --> 01:47:59,160 Speaker 2: is a murder one of them is a murderer, and 2166 01:47:59,280 --> 01:48:02,640 Speaker 2: the other person got murdered, and we're like, what were 2167 01:48:02,720 --> 01:48:09,400 Speaker 2: you doing hanging around this guy that murdered you. Many 2168 01:48:09,479 --> 01:48:11,479 Speaker 2: of these black women who become victim, by the way, 2169 01:48:11,600 --> 01:48:13,360 Speaker 2: keep in mind they murder you when you leave. 2170 01:48:13,439 --> 01:48:14,720 Speaker 3: By the way, a lot of people don't know. 2171 01:48:14,800 --> 01:48:17,360 Speaker 5: This, right, You have a higher chance of dying when 2172 01:48:17,400 --> 01:48:18,600 Speaker 5: you be like I fuck it. 2173 01:48:18,640 --> 01:48:19,000 Speaker 6: I'm out. 2174 01:48:19,800 --> 01:48:23,360 Speaker 2: And that's somehow still a black woman's fault. Somehow in 2175 01:48:23,479 --> 01:48:25,280 Speaker 2: this person's mind, they thought this would be a good 2176 01:48:25,320 --> 01:48:27,720 Speaker 2: thing to write on this post. This is twelve hours ago. 2177 01:48:28,240 --> 01:48:30,240 Speaker 2: I'm not excusing any of the black men in this 2178 01:48:30,400 --> 01:48:32,720 Speaker 2: article potaste too, but I beg but yes you are, though, 2179 01:48:32,760 --> 01:48:35,880 Speaker 2: because you're saying it's black women's fault for being there 2180 01:48:36,000 --> 01:48:39,719 Speaker 2: to die. Many of the black women who become victors 2181 01:48:39,760 --> 01:48:42,000 Speaker 2: of the black male violence have low self esteem because 2182 01:48:42,280 --> 01:48:45,519 Speaker 2: caused by many issues, including racism. I'm not excusing any 2183 01:48:45,560 --> 01:48:47,679 Speaker 2: of black men. It's article potastes, but I begged the question, 2184 01:48:47,800 --> 01:48:50,559 Speaker 2: what woman in her right mind in quotes will tolerate 2185 01:48:50,640 --> 01:48:51,799 Speaker 2: the kind of men you mentioned? 2186 01:48:52,080 --> 01:48:54,439 Speaker 3: And then anytime you bring up like a situation, they're 2187 01:48:54,439 --> 01:48:55,920 Speaker 3: gonna be like, well, that one wasn't in the right one. 2188 01:48:56,360 --> 01:49:01,040 Speaker 2: The problem is bigger than what is being discussed. What 2189 01:49:01,200 --> 01:49:06,439 Speaker 2: she did bring up the actual stats that these weren't all. 2190 01:49:06,560 --> 01:49:09,040 Speaker 2: That's why I said, when I was reading the article, 2191 01:49:09,080 --> 01:49:11,519 Speaker 2: I said, yes, she's bringing up anecdotic examples, but you 2192 01:49:11,600 --> 01:49:14,240 Speaker 2: have to understand she also quoted the stat three times 2193 01:49:14,320 --> 01:49:18,360 Speaker 2: more likely, three times more likely. We want all the 2194 01:49:18,400 --> 01:49:22,080 Speaker 2: white privilege shit. None of them are fucking other shit, right, 2195 01:49:22,240 --> 01:49:23,840 Speaker 2: none of the other measurements. Do we want to talk 2196 01:49:23,840 --> 01:49:25,640 Speaker 2: about just that white privilege? Like I would like to 2197 01:49:25,680 --> 01:49:27,120 Speaker 2: be able to get away with crimes. 2198 01:49:27,880 --> 01:49:28,639 Speaker 5: Uh, what you mean? 2199 01:49:28,800 --> 01:49:31,160 Speaker 2: I'm not supposed to be killing people. There's some bullshit 2200 01:49:31,160 --> 01:49:33,680 Speaker 2: that's white people shit. The problem is bigger than what 2201 01:49:33,840 --> 01:49:36,360 Speaker 2: is being discussed. And the article exempts black women and 2202 01:49:36,439 --> 01:49:42,679 Speaker 2: other forces from responsibility. How the fuck am I responsible for? Okay? 2203 01:49:42,800 --> 01:49:45,200 Speaker 5: Because black women, anything that happens in the black community 2204 01:49:45,280 --> 01:49:46,120 Speaker 5: is the black women's fault. 2205 01:49:46,120 --> 01:49:46,600 Speaker 2: You ain't know that. 2206 01:49:46,960 --> 01:49:48,920 Speaker 3: I'm just imagine this for a second though. 2207 01:49:49,720 --> 01:49:51,800 Speaker 2: If you're a straight black man listening to this or whatever, 2208 01:49:52,000 --> 01:49:54,920 Speaker 2: right and you're upset, imagine someone writing the same thing 2209 01:49:54,960 --> 01:49:59,360 Speaker 2: about I don't know race, Like a cop kills Alon 2210 01:49:59,400 --> 01:50:02,040 Speaker 2: Sterling and and they go, yeah, I mean, but it's 2211 01:50:02,080 --> 01:50:05,000 Speaker 2: really black people's fault for you know, selling loose cigarettes 2212 01:50:05,080 --> 01:50:07,200 Speaker 2: or hanging out in front of seven to eleven. I mean, 2213 01:50:08,040 --> 01:50:11,680 Speaker 2: you know they until black, the black people take responsibility 2214 01:50:12,040 --> 01:50:14,840 Speaker 2: for the cops killing them. I mean, who's even around cops? 2215 01:50:14,920 --> 01:50:17,519 Speaker 2: You know, cops kill people, and you're still around doing 2216 01:50:17,560 --> 01:50:19,639 Speaker 2: stuff out there where cops might come. 2217 01:50:19,880 --> 01:50:21,760 Speaker 3: We would be like, get your racist ass out of 2218 01:50:21,760 --> 01:50:22,120 Speaker 3: my face. 2219 01:50:22,439 --> 01:50:25,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, because you know, racism is quote unquote something that 2220 01:50:25,920 --> 01:50:27,559 Speaker 5: all of us understand, right. 2221 01:50:27,520 --> 01:50:29,200 Speaker 3: And we would expect black women to watch for it. 2222 01:50:29,520 --> 01:50:30,320 Speaker 2: Yes, we would. 2223 01:50:31,280 --> 01:50:32,559 Speaker 3: Our enemy is not each other. 2224 01:50:32,600 --> 01:50:34,760 Speaker 2: It's the lack well you know what, when you're killing me, 2225 01:50:34,960 --> 01:50:38,320 Speaker 2: it feels kind of like it is, yes, sir. It's 2226 01:50:38,360 --> 01:50:40,759 Speaker 2: the lack of self esteem of black women and black 2227 01:50:40,840 --> 01:50:43,840 Speaker 2: men and the lack of opportunity constance assault on black men. 2228 01:50:44,240 --> 01:50:47,439 Speaker 2: All calls are century of racism and oppression. It's literally 2229 01:50:47,560 --> 01:50:50,040 Speaker 2: the exact thing I just said before we even read 2230 01:50:50,080 --> 01:50:53,280 Speaker 2: any of this. The well, we're pressed, so I mean, 2231 01:50:53,520 --> 01:50:54,519 Speaker 2: you just gotta deal with it. 2232 01:50:55,240 --> 01:50:59,439 Speaker 5: Sometimes to be funny, we don't want to hear your excuses. 2233 01:50:59,560 --> 01:50:59,920 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 2234 01:51:00,200 --> 01:51:02,080 Speaker 5: Sometimes it's like nigung black too. 2235 01:51:02,200 --> 01:51:04,759 Speaker 2: And now what let's take it to the logical extent. 2236 01:51:05,880 --> 01:51:09,639 Speaker 2: What that person is saying is once black men become 2237 01:51:09,760 --> 01:51:13,120 Speaker 2: white men, then they won't be killing your ass. So 2238 01:51:13,320 --> 01:51:15,719 Speaker 2: we just need to get the oppression and the racism 2239 01:51:15,840 --> 01:51:18,680 Speaker 2: fixed and then we'll work on what we do to you. 2240 01:51:20,479 --> 01:51:23,240 Speaker 2: Then we'll fix that the thing, the two unfixable things 2241 01:51:23,240 --> 01:51:25,439 Speaker 2: that we know ain't ever gonna happen. When we get 2242 01:51:25,479 --> 01:51:27,599 Speaker 2: to the mountain top of that shit, then we'll look 2243 01:51:27,640 --> 01:51:30,400 Speaker 2: at how we treat black women and we'll figure it out. 2244 01:51:33,120 --> 01:51:36,800 Speaker 2: So yeah, the comments section is pretty much trash, right, 2245 01:51:38,680 --> 01:51:42,240 Speaker 2: and a whole lot of the fate, the platitudes of Look, man, 2246 01:51:42,479 --> 01:51:46,400 Speaker 2: I just love everybody. Look, everybody should be happy, don't 2247 01:51:46,479 --> 01:51:46,680 Speaker 2: you know? 2248 01:51:47,040 --> 01:51:47,280 Speaker 6: Like that? 2249 01:51:48,439 --> 01:51:52,439 Speaker 2: Oh all right, all right, all right? That a hundred 2250 01:51:52,640 --> 01:51:56,400 Speaker 2: from your cards, your cars. I'm very fucked with by 2251 01:51:56,479 --> 01:51:59,200 Speaker 2: this conversation. I try not to bring it up on 2252 01:51:59,240 --> 01:52:01,040 Speaker 2: the show too much, try not to. I don't want 2253 01:52:01,040 --> 01:52:03,519 Speaker 2: to just be a debbie ass downer nigga and bring 2254 01:52:03,640 --> 01:52:05,519 Speaker 2: this ship up all the time. But my mom hasn't 2255 01:52:05,600 --> 01:52:09,599 Speaker 2: changed on any of this ship. Like, and I say 2256 01:52:09,680 --> 01:52:12,719 Speaker 2: that full well being, like and I understand the oppression 2257 01:52:12,760 --> 01:52:14,920 Speaker 2: that I experienced as a black man, but it's it's 2258 01:52:15,000 --> 01:52:18,240 Speaker 2: not a fucking get out of jail free car. People 2259 01:52:18,360 --> 01:52:20,800 Speaker 2: use this ship for rich black niggas, like with r. 2260 01:52:20,880 --> 01:52:22,880 Speaker 2: Keller and racism like so it's a get out of 2261 01:52:22,960 --> 01:52:27,680 Speaker 2: jail free car for everything. Bill Cosby the powel cake 2262 01:52:27,720 --> 01:52:32,160 Speaker 2: speech niggas him too. No one goes to. 2263 01:52:32,200 --> 01:52:35,160 Speaker 5: Jail ever, just like ain't nobody racist ship? 2264 01:52:36,600 --> 01:52:44,120 Speaker 2: All right, sorry, that's a big ten. All right, let's 2265 01:52:44,160 --> 01:52:49,160 Speaker 2: get into Guess the Race. Now that it's time for 2266 01:52:49,439 --> 01:52:50,759 Speaker 2: some guests the race. 2267 01:52:51,640 --> 01:52:56,320 Speaker 5: That's right, this guess the race. Fine, Now that it's 2268 01:52:56,439 --> 01:53:00,840 Speaker 5: time for some guests the race. That's right, his guest time. 2269 01:53:03,040 --> 01:53:06,519 Speaker 2: That's right, It's time for Guess the Race, the number 2270 01:53:06,520 --> 01:53:08,160 Speaker 2: one game show. Go across all the podcasts, and we 2271 01:53:08,240 --> 01:53:10,120 Speaker 2: read the play news. It's small over the globe. Oh yes, 2272 01:53:10,240 --> 01:53:13,160 Speaker 2: our contests today Karen and the chat room. Two guests 2273 01:53:13,560 --> 01:53:17,080 Speaker 2: love race and of course everybody playing his races. Start 2274 01:53:17,320 --> 01:53:22,439 Speaker 2: The first one guys a man who's been sentenced to 2275 01:53:22,520 --> 01:53:26,040 Speaker 2: twenty days in jail after slapping Little Caesar's manager over 2276 01:53:26,120 --> 01:53:29,320 Speaker 2: pizza toppings. Oh shit, was it the wrong tapping. 2277 01:53:29,880 --> 01:53:33,400 Speaker 3: Uh, I mean I guess it was the wrong topping. 2278 01:53:33,439 --> 01:53:36,840 Speaker 5: I mean he walking with like pizza pizza smack right. 2279 01:53:37,439 --> 01:53:40,200 Speaker 2: Like to give you a piece of my mind. Uh 2280 01:53:40,439 --> 01:53:42,000 Speaker 2: you know what topic this is gonna have on it? 2281 01:53:42,160 --> 01:53:46,000 Speaker 2: Some beef after I slept your ass. A Lavonia man 2282 01:53:46,080 --> 01:53:48,840 Speaker 2: has been arrested for assaulting the Little Caesar's manager out 2283 01:53:49,000 --> 01:53:51,559 Speaker 2: all because he was unhappy with his pizza. The attack 2284 01:53:51,680 --> 01:53:54,360 Speaker 2: was caught on camera. You can see how she was 2285 01:53:54,439 --> 01:53:56,679 Speaker 2: smacked right across the face. Oh, he smacked a woman. 2286 01:53:57,600 --> 01:53:59,960 Speaker 2: The irate customer first called to complain about his piece, 2287 01:54:00,200 --> 01:54:02,400 Speaker 2: but even after he was told he could get a 2288 01:54:02,479 --> 01:54:04,479 Speaker 2: refund or a new pizza, he showed up at Little 2289 01:54:04,520 --> 01:54:09,400 Speaker 2: Caesars even more upset. The That irate customer called the car. 2290 01:54:09,760 --> 01:54:11,880 Speaker 2: I mean, wait, I've been doing this for twelve years, 2291 01:54:11,920 --> 01:54:13,479 Speaker 2: not a day of my life. I've never had a 2292 01:54:13,520 --> 01:54:16,640 Speaker 2: customer backlas lash out at me that bad, especially of 2293 01:54:16,720 --> 01:54:19,080 Speaker 2: a five dollar pieza, said Kelsey, back with come on, 2294 01:54:20,720 --> 01:54:23,160 Speaker 2: she still can't believe what happened to her earlier this 2295 01:54:23,360 --> 01:54:26,200 Speaker 2: month at the Lavonia Little Caesars, or she works a 2296 01:54:26,280 --> 01:54:30,200 Speaker 2: magic police say, Joseph Thorpe is the man who got 2297 01:54:30,320 --> 01:54:34,920 Speaker 2: mad that his pizza had Italian seasoning on it instead 2298 01:54:34,920 --> 01:54:39,520 Speaker 2: of parmesan. Uh. He got so mad he returned to 2299 01:54:39,600 --> 01:54:41,800 Speaker 2: the store and slapped back with right across the face. 2300 01:54:44,520 --> 01:54:48,920 Speaker 5: Wow, what because he knew he could what? 2301 01:54:50,440 --> 01:54:51,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, if that was the man he wanted to put 2302 01:54:51,880 --> 01:54:57,200 Speaker 4: his hands on him, right, maybe right? Yeah, because he's 2303 01:54:57,200 --> 01:54:59,960 Speaker 4: a woman, I don't care. I'm yeah, might be right, 2304 01:55:00,240 --> 01:55:01,720 Speaker 4: But fuck that you did it because it was a 2305 01:55:01,800 --> 01:55:02,960 Speaker 4: woman that was a man in there. 2306 01:55:03,000 --> 01:55:04,560 Speaker 5: You still might have showed your ass. But guess what, 2307 01:55:04,680 --> 01:55:06,080 Speaker 5: you probably had a fist fight. 2308 01:55:07,040 --> 01:55:09,600 Speaker 2: Uh. Possibly he probably would try to hit a man 2309 01:55:09,640 --> 01:55:12,520 Speaker 2: with a weapon or punch him in the face. Uh, 2310 01:55:12,720 --> 01:55:15,680 Speaker 2: threw his piece of Yeah, the slap is so disrespectful, right. 2311 01:55:16,600 --> 01:55:18,440 Speaker 2: I remember one time I was playing basketball and this 2312 01:55:18,520 --> 01:55:21,640 Speaker 2: dude slapped this dude, and then the dude the dude 2313 01:55:21,680 --> 01:55:25,320 Speaker 2: who got slapped him up. Y'all, it's been years. I 2314 01:55:25,440 --> 01:55:27,760 Speaker 2: only remember that slap. I don't remember that beat up, 2315 01:55:28,360 --> 01:55:29,800 Speaker 2: like he got beat up for that ship. But I 2316 01:55:30,000 --> 01:55:32,400 Speaker 2: just like the balls of you to slap a grown 2317 01:55:33,360 --> 01:55:38,720 Speaker 2: man his motherfucking face. What Like, if I'm gonna get 2318 01:55:38,760 --> 01:55:40,720 Speaker 2: beat up, let me slap the nigga first of y'all. 2319 01:55:40,760 --> 01:55:42,400 Speaker 2: At least be like yo, he slapped. 2320 01:55:42,040 --> 01:55:43,120 Speaker 3: His ship out of him. 2321 01:55:43,240 --> 01:55:44,480 Speaker 5: He got his ass whipped over. 2322 01:55:44,680 --> 01:55:47,000 Speaker 2: You deserve that ass, boy, did you see that slap? 2323 01:55:47,080 --> 01:55:49,840 Speaker 2: Like the slap will go viral, the ass whooping won't. 2324 01:55:49,880 --> 01:55:52,080 Speaker 2: But just slap, they'd be like yo, he slapped his 2325 01:55:52,120 --> 01:55:54,240 Speaker 2: ship out. That motherfucker though, like. 2326 01:55:55,440 --> 01:55:56,560 Speaker 5: Him all up and down the gym. 2327 01:55:56,840 --> 01:56:01,680 Speaker 2: The audacity of slapping the nigga, it's it's so, it's 2328 01:56:01,800 --> 01:56:04,720 Speaker 2: so fucked up. That's why pimps did it, because it's 2329 01:56:04,720 --> 01:56:08,760 Speaker 2: psychologically slapped you instead of punch in your face, slap like, damn, 2330 01:56:08,960 --> 01:56:10,440 Speaker 2: slap me with the back of the hand. There's no 2331 01:56:10,560 --> 01:56:13,320 Speaker 2: respect on that. I'm supposed to just come back and 2332 01:56:13,440 --> 01:56:17,160 Speaker 2: be around here like it's normal. Right, I'm supposed to 2333 01:56:17,160 --> 01:56:21,600 Speaker 2: show my face at this basketball court again anyway. Police say, 2334 01:56:21,720 --> 01:56:23,480 Speaker 2: Joseph Thorpe is a man who got so mad. That's 2335 01:56:23,520 --> 01:56:25,480 Speaker 2: piece of attick and see's anunderstated apartment john that he 2336 01:56:25,560 --> 01:56:27,400 Speaker 2: returned the store and slapped back with right across the face, 2337 01:56:27,640 --> 01:56:29,040 Speaker 2: threw his piece on the count and told me he 2338 01:56:29,160 --> 01:56:31,080 Speaker 2: was gonna beat everyone's butt in the store. I got 2339 01:56:31,160 --> 01:56:33,120 Speaker 2: my coworker to call the police because he was straightening 2340 01:56:33,120 --> 01:56:35,400 Speaker 2: to everyone. I was getting ready to refund his money 2341 01:56:35,480 --> 01:56:38,400 Speaker 2: and next thing you know, I turned back towards him 2342 01:56:38,440 --> 01:56:40,920 Speaker 2: and he was just stepped into it, brought his hand 2343 01:56:41,000 --> 01:56:42,840 Speaker 2: back as far as he could and slapped the crap 2344 01:56:42,920 --> 01:56:46,080 Speaker 2: out of me. Oh under the jail seconds later on 2345 01:56:47,280 --> 01:56:49,640 Speaker 2: No on one call, you can hear back with screaming 2346 01:56:49,680 --> 01:56:52,800 Speaker 2: in pain when you see the violence hues against this manager, 2347 01:56:52,880 --> 01:56:55,280 Speaker 2: this female manager who was trying to make things right. 2348 01:56:55,360 --> 01:56:58,960 Speaker 2: Really in't comprehensible, said Captain Ron tag a Lavonia police 2349 01:56:59,000 --> 01:57:01,320 Speaker 2: back with says customers. The coworkers helped off the crown 2350 01:57:01,720 --> 01:57:04,320 Speaker 2: and got her ice for her cheek. Damn, we slipped 2351 01:57:04,320 --> 01:57:06,560 Speaker 2: it to the crown. One of the customers got the 2352 01:57:06,640 --> 01:57:08,560 Speaker 2: lcens plate of the car Thorpe took off in. It 2353 01:57:08,680 --> 01:57:10,520 Speaker 2: wasn't registered to him, but police were able to track 2354 01:57:10,600 --> 01:57:14,560 Speaker 2: him down. You know what else is wild about this shit? 2355 01:57:14,840 --> 01:57:18,280 Speaker 2: Like you really drove up there just to slap You 2356 01:57:18,320 --> 01:57:21,880 Speaker 2: didn't get no pieza? Was you even hungry? I think 2357 01:57:21,920 --> 01:57:24,800 Speaker 2: he just wanted to slap somebody, Yes, when I heard 2358 01:57:24,840 --> 01:57:26,840 Speaker 2: the food being so good, or slap your mama. But 2359 01:57:26,960 --> 01:57:30,080 Speaker 2: this is due. Witnesses did an extremely good job taking 2360 01:57:30,120 --> 01:57:32,280 Speaker 2: the pick of the license plate. Then we had to 2361 01:57:32,400 --> 01:57:34,680 Speaker 2: work from there. The police, the people we interviewed were 2362 01:57:34,720 --> 01:57:38,880 Speaker 2: not cooperative, good combo, old and new to check the work. Also, 2363 01:57:39,360 --> 01:57:41,320 Speaker 2: it turned the first forty eight. These motherfuckers ain't want 2364 01:57:41,360 --> 01:57:45,480 Speaker 2: to help. Wow, that's some bullshit. Thorpe was charge of 2365 01:57:45,520 --> 01:57:47,280 Speaker 2: the SOBTMN battery. He was send us to twenty days 2366 01:57:47,280 --> 01:57:50,560 Speaker 2: behind bars. Beckwell says she's no longer in pain. She 2367 01:57:50,720 --> 01:57:53,280 Speaker 2: definitely is more on guard at work. There's no reason 2368 01:57:53,320 --> 01:57:55,440 Speaker 2: to be hitting someone, especially a dude hitting no female 2369 01:57:55,480 --> 01:57:58,080 Speaker 2: of but file dollar piezas talk things out before a game. 2370 01:57:58,160 --> 01:58:00,440 Speaker 2: Thing gets to that level, Karen, guess the race of 2371 01:58:00,560 --> 01:58:01,200 Speaker 2: Joseph Thorpe. 2372 01:58:02,000 --> 01:58:06,400 Speaker 5: Joseph Thorpe was he white? And uh yeah, maybe that 2373 01:58:06,440 --> 01:58:08,480 Speaker 5: shit on video too. Oh, I will soothe the fuck 2374 01:58:08,520 --> 01:58:12,400 Speaker 5: out of you. Put your hands on me while I'm 2375 01:58:12,440 --> 01:58:13,320 Speaker 5: that goddamn work. 2376 01:58:13,600 --> 01:58:17,760 Speaker 2: Let's check the chat room witnesses didn't cooperate with the police. Black, 2377 01:58:18,720 --> 01:58:22,840 Speaker 2: he ain't trying that shit. In Papa John's Black White 2378 01:58:23,640 --> 01:58:28,960 Speaker 2: and Louis Winthorpe the third voice, a terrible, awful Negro 2379 01:58:29,120 --> 01:58:33,240 Speaker 2: black pizzo was too spicy and not cheesy, white white 2380 01:58:33,280 --> 01:58:36,520 Speaker 2: power slap a pimp name slip back black a white 2381 01:58:36,600 --> 01:58:41,120 Speaker 2: man who only had six dollars black, white, white as hell. 2382 01:58:42,480 --> 01:58:46,680 Speaker 2: Karen said white. Some of you guys said black. The 2383 01:58:46,800 --> 01:58:51,240 Speaker 2: correct answer is and Karen, you gotta incorrect. He's black. 2384 01:59:04,960 --> 01:59:06,320 Speaker 3: Some of you did get it right, though. 2385 01:59:06,680 --> 01:59:08,120 Speaker 5: Let's see what this negro looked like. 2386 01:59:08,880 --> 01:59:12,800 Speaker 2: The kind of nigga that eat five dollars that easy? 2387 01:59:23,040 --> 01:59:30,320 Speaker 2: Is it showing? M yes, coming up, Okay, I'm going back. 2388 01:59:30,320 --> 01:59:32,560 Speaker 2: I'm going back, all right, it should show it now. 2389 01:59:33,320 --> 01:59:35,680 Speaker 2: But uh yeah, I mean he looked like he was 2390 01:59:35,680 --> 01:59:37,120 Speaker 2: struggling for some pizza. 2391 01:59:37,160 --> 01:59:41,560 Speaker 5: Pizza he reads all the way across the counter. 2392 01:59:42,040 --> 01:59:43,800 Speaker 2: M hm, yep. 2393 01:59:44,080 --> 01:59:45,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, he just wanted to hit that woman. 2394 01:59:46,040 --> 01:59:46,280 Speaker 2: Yep. 2395 01:59:46,640 --> 01:59:48,280 Speaker 3: He went all the way out there just to slap 2396 01:59:48,360 --> 01:59:50,120 Speaker 3: somebody like. 2397 01:59:50,320 --> 01:59:52,800 Speaker 4: And they were trying to do and I'm pretty sure 2398 01:59:52,880 --> 01:59:54,880 Speaker 4: they wouldn't ask with him over the phone or nothing. 2399 01:59:55,120 --> 01:59:56,720 Speaker 3: They was trying to fix it, right. 2400 01:59:57,280 --> 02:00:01,040 Speaker 2: That's why I'm not gonna do a whole nother rant 2401 02:00:01,120 --> 02:00:02,720 Speaker 2: on it. But this why I don't believe in people, 2402 02:00:02,920 --> 02:00:06,120 Speaker 2: Like when I all talk about socialism and fucking it's 2403 02:00:06,200 --> 02:00:08,720 Speaker 2: capitalism and it's this and it's that and it's everything, 2404 02:00:08,840 --> 02:00:13,360 Speaker 2: But now it's people. People fucked up people that buy 2405 02:00:13,480 --> 02:00:16,080 Speaker 2: five dollar pieces that little seeds are no more better 2406 02:00:16,200 --> 02:00:19,080 Speaker 2: morally than the richest motherfucker on the planet. They're all 2407 02:00:19,160 --> 02:00:22,960 Speaker 2: the same person. It's just different circumstances. If that motherfucker 2408 02:00:23,080 --> 02:00:26,440 Speaker 2: was rich, he'd be an asshole and doing all kinds 2409 02:00:26,440 --> 02:00:27,040 Speaker 2: of most shit. 2410 02:00:27,680 --> 02:00:30,800 Speaker 3: But the core people, if you work, if you ever 2411 02:00:30,880 --> 02:00:32,280 Speaker 3: worked their job like this, like me. 2412 02:00:32,280 --> 02:00:37,560 Speaker 5: And Karena, we know general public is terrible. 2413 02:00:37,680 --> 02:00:40,040 Speaker 2: We do all this ship a lot, especially politicians do 2414 02:00:40,080 --> 02:00:43,280 Speaker 2: all this like blowing smoke up the like the ass 2415 02:00:43,360 --> 02:00:44,200 Speaker 2: of the common person. 2416 02:00:44,400 --> 02:00:46,360 Speaker 3: Like these valiant then I'm like. 2417 02:00:46,400 --> 02:00:49,840 Speaker 2: Nigga, they ain't shit either. Just split the ship evenly 2418 02:00:49,920 --> 02:00:53,960 Speaker 2: because everybody ain't shit. Just you know, right, let everybody 2419 02:00:54,000 --> 02:00:58,200 Speaker 2: be equally ain't shit because Jesus, these people. Let's see, 2420 02:01:00,920 --> 02:01:06,560 Speaker 2: how about uh, how about no, not this one. Let 2421 02:01:06,600 --> 02:01:10,240 Speaker 2: me do a different one, Okay. A New York woman 2422 02:01:10,360 --> 02:01:13,839 Speaker 2: is facing charges for burglarizing homes of people attending funerals. 2423 02:01:17,920 --> 02:01:20,880 Speaker 2: A Bronx woman wasn't dyed at a shout out to 2424 02:01:20,960 --> 02:01:22,320 Speaker 2: the Bronx was. 2425 02:01:22,400 --> 02:01:22,920 Speaker 3: They ted it? 2426 02:01:23,080 --> 02:01:29,400 Speaker 2: On Wednesday twenty two, criminal charges for allegedly burglarizing homes 2427 02:01:29,560 --> 02:01:31,960 Speaker 2: of grieving family members while they were attending the loved 2428 02:01:32,000 --> 02:01:38,720 Speaker 2: one's funeral. What Latonia Schalicia Stewart twenty six is facing 2429 02:01:38,960 --> 02:01:43,640 Speaker 2: council burglary, grand larceny, criminal possession of stolen property, petty larceny, 2430 02:01:43,720 --> 02:01:49,680 Speaker 2: criminal mischief, possession of burglars tools, and three motor vehicle violations. Wait, 2431 02:01:49,800 --> 02:01:59,360 Speaker 2: possessions of burglars tools is a law? This motherfuck got 2432 02:01:59,400 --> 02:02:01,600 Speaker 2: a crowball like burglars too? 2433 02:02:01,640 --> 02:02:02,800 Speaker 5: Were gonna charge for that too? 2434 02:02:02,920 --> 02:02:05,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? What count is burglar too? You had like a 2435 02:02:05,480 --> 02:02:08,560 Speaker 2: lot pick uh, Like, what counts burglar? 2436 02:02:09,560 --> 02:02:11,320 Speaker 5: You going to jail to charge for that. 2437 02:02:11,840 --> 02:02:14,440 Speaker 2: She's connected to six different burglars that took place at 2438 02:02:14,480 --> 02:02:21,000 Speaker 2: homes located in Roybrook, Corlance, Scarsdale, Irvington, Austining, Austining, and 2439 02:02:21,200 --> 02:02:27,000 Speaker 2: Terrytown between fall twenty seventeen Spring twenty eighteen. ABC seven 2440 02:02:27,120 --> 02:02:30,560 Speaker 2: New York reports that Stewart allegedly conducted the crimes by 2441 02:02:30,600 --> 02:02:33,760 Speaker 2: finding obituarors of the deceased online, then going through the 2442 02:02:33,840 --> 02:02:36,480 Speaker 2: effort of locating where their loved ones lived. She then 2443 02:02:36,520 --> 02:02:38,680 Speaker 2: broke into the people's homes where they were intending to 2444 02:02:38,720 --> 02:02:41,240 Speaker 2: wake or funeral services of their dead family members, and 2445 02:02:41,240 --> 02:02:46,120 Speaker 2: indictment says she reportedly would break windows and the glass doors, 2446 02:02:46,480 --> 02:02:49,080 Speaker 2: using a mallet hammer to enter three homes where she 2447 02:02:49,240 --> 02:02:52,720 Speaker 2: was still personal items like jewelry. Police said they noticed 2448 02:02:52,760 --> 02:02:54,760 Speaker 2: to trend the robberies tied to people who recently had 2449 02:02:54,800 --> 02:02:59,520 Speaker 2: relatives obituaries published detailing funeral information. Stewart was eventually caught 2450 02:02:59,600 --> 02:03:01,680 Speaker 2: made first twenty eighteen when cops found her attemping to 2451 02:03:01,720 --> 02:03:06,120 Speaker 2: burgalize a dead person's home. Prosecutor said. Official say that 2452 02:03:06,200 --> 02:03:08,400 Speaker 2: mallet hammer was found in the car when they arrested her. 2453 02:03:08,440 --> 02:03:11,280 Speaker 2: The obituary of the deceased was a portly found on 2454 02:03:11,440 --> 02:03:14,520 Speaker 2: Stewart's phone. Her baby was also found in the backseat 2455 02:03:14,520 --> 02:03:17,640 Speaker 2: of her car with additional stolen property. What the baby 2456 02:03:17,760 --> 02:03:25,400 Speaker 2: was still into Stewart's returning the court August thirteen. Well, 2457 02:03:25,480 --> 02:03:30,840 Speaker 2: care guess the race of what was her name? Latonia 2458 02:03:31,280 --> 02:03:32,800 Speaker 2: Chelicia Stewart. 2459 02:03:35,680 --> 02:03:38,000 Speaker 5: The baby's name was on the house leaper. 2460 02:03:40,120 --> 02:03:44,040 Speaker 2: Okay, I guess her. I guess how her crimes will 2461 02:03:44,080 --> 02:03:45,920 Speaker 2: finally come to the end of the road. 2462 02:03:55,560 --> 02:03:58,960 Speaker 4: Hey, you know what this is why they tell people 2463 02:03:59,000 --> 02:04:00,960 Speaker 4: now A lot of people don't. I'm surprised you won't 2464 02:04:01,000 --> 02:04:03,360 Speaker 4: put addresses in anymore. They'll tell you to contact the 2465 02:04:03,400 --> 02:04:06,720 Speaker 4: family like for the addresses and ship like that. 2466 02:04:06,880 --> 02:04:08,800 Speaker 5: Because the people do that bullshit. 2467 02:04:10,720 --> 02:04:12,440 Speaker 2: It's gonna be so hard for her to say goodbye 2468 02:04:13,560 --> 02:04:18,280 Speaker 2: to her freedom. Uh, New York woman, New York woman. 2469 02:04:18,880 --> 02:04:20,440 Speaker 2: All right, let me take the chat room and see 2470 02:04:20,480 --> 02:04:22,920 Speaker 2: what that guesses are? Why is her picture not popping up? 2471 02:04:24,040 --> 02:04:26,200 Speaker 2: All right, I'll see about if it loads in the meantime, 2472 02:04:26,240 --> 02:04:27,480 Speaker 2: but I'll read, you'll see. 2473 02:04:30,400 --> 02:04:30,800 Speaker 6: Go up. 2474 02:04:31,080 --> 02:04:33,760 Speaker 2: I think I may have missed where you asked. 2475 02:04:35,320 --> 02:04:36,840 Speaker 5: Uh, I think I did. 2476 02:04:37,720 --> 02:04:40,840 Speaker 2: Okay, she had the baby steal in Wench. She had 2477 02:04:40,920 --> 02:04:43,840 Speaker 2: the baby steal a Wench. She is the president of 2478 02:04:43,960 --> 02:04:49,720 Speaker 2: Bronx branch of the hood Rat Ship Club. He'll well, 2479 02:04:49,800 --> 02:04:51,440 Speaker 2: he'll referenced infant. 2480 02:04:52,080 --> 02:04:52,240 Speaker 5: Uh. 2481 02:04:53,960 --> 02:05:01,360 Speaker 2: Every where we go, we be breaking in. Uh, it's 2482 02:05:01,440 --> 02:05:04,680 Speaker 2: a family in feasy, Black excellence on display. Black a 2483 02:05:04,800 --> 02:05:10,080 Speaker 2: black black a legend. I can't pronounce the name black 2484 02:05:10,200 --> 02:05:13,840 Speaker 2: a nigger Section eight Black Karen Chicat got on. 2485 02:05:14,360 --> 02:05:19,000 Speaker 3: Damn hard rs Uh what was happening in black porch? 2486 02:05:19,080 --> 02:05:23,160 Speaker 2: Monkey Ski mask negress Right, Hell has a ghetto just 2487 02:05:23,280 --> 02:05:23,840 Speaker 2: for this one. 2488 02:05:24,040 --> 02:05:24,320 Speaker 6: Black. 2489 02:05:25,160 --> 02:05:28,200 Speaker 2: This ain't black magic, but she is black. She is black. 2490 02:05:29,200 --> 02:05:29,360 Speaker 4: Uh. 2491 02:05:30,640 --> 02:05:34,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, city girls jails now black, Yeah, high girls some 2492 02:05:34,800 --> 02:05:38,880 Speaker 2: of got high girl funeral addition, No, anyway, she was black. 2493 02:05:38,960 --> 02:05:55,320 Speaker 2: Everybody said black was right. Uh, let me see if 2494 02:05:55,320 --> 02:05:58,760 Speaker 2: I can he'se goddamn pop ups. See if I can 2495 02:05:58,840 --> 02:06:01,280 Speaker 2: put this up. Put it on the screen for y'all. 2496 02:06:02,040 --> 02:06:05,320 Speaker 2: Father was killing me, man, I like hitting, no thanks, 2497 02:06:05,400 --> 02:06:06,800 Speaker 2: and then it's like, you know you won't give me 2498 02:06:06,880 --> 02:06:08,880 Speaker 2: your full name, your address. We're gonna sign you up 2499 02:06:08,880 --> 02:06:12,920 Speaker 2: full Newsletter'm like, just show the fucking picture of the woman? 2500 02:06:14,120 --> 02:06:14,720 Speaker 2: No thanks? 2501 02:06:15,440 --> 02:06:15,920 Speaker 3: How meany time? 2502 02:06:16,000 --> 02:06:16,360 Speaker 5: Can I hear? 2503 02:06:16,440 --> 02:06:16,480 Speaker 4: No? 2504 02:06:16,640 --> 02:06:21,160 Speaker 2: Thanks? God? Damn it? Degree yo, y'all are really can 2505 02:06:21,240 --> 02:06:22,360 Speaker 2: y'all see her face at all? 2506 02:06:22,880 --> 02:06:23,920 Speaker 5: It's slowly coming up? 2507 02:06:24,200 --> 02:06:29,120 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, no thanks, I see that. Okay, Yeah, it's 2508 02:06:29,160 --> 02:06:34,400 Speaker 2: like that's her face kinda there you go? Anyway she 2509 02:06:34,680 --> 02:06:35,480 Speaker 2: was she's black. 2510 02:06:35,680 --> 02:06:37,280 Speaker 5: No, I don't want your email. 2511 02:06:37,680 --> 02:06:40,160 Speaker 2: Right all right, let me go to the bonus round 2512 02:06:50,920 --> 02:06:57,000 Speaker 2: the race, double up, saying the race, that's right, double 2513 02:06:57,080 --> 02:06:59,280 Speaker 2: the points, double the race in the bonus round to 2514 02:06:59,320 --> 02:07:01,840 Speaker 2: guess the race so far, Caring is one and one. 2515 02:07:02,720 --> 02:07:06,240 Speaker 3: But can she make up for how. 2516 02:07:06,280 --> 02:07:07,400 Speaker 2: Terrible she's been doing. 2517 02:07:07,720 --> 02:07:08,720 Speaker 5: I'm gonna pay. 2518 02:07:11,800 --> 02:07:13,080 Speaker 2: Well, it was not even terrible. 2519 02:07:13,080 --> 02:07:14,240 Speaker 3: I don't even know I said that. 2520 02:07:17,160 --> 02:07:19,800 Speaker 2: Let's see a woman allegedly left the baby in a 2521 02:07:19,880 --> 02:07:22,120 Speaker 2: running car to take shots in the nightclub and her 2522 02:07:22,320 --> 02:07:23,680 Speaker 2: racial slurs at the cops. 2523 02:07:23,760 --> 02:07:27,200 Speaker 3: Oh shit, man, a lot of leaving babies in cars today. 2524 02:07:28,040 --> 02:07:29,200 Speaker 2: What's going on with the world? 2525 02:07:30,160 --> 02:07:31,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, hot girl summer for real? 2526 02:07:32,480 --> 02:07:34,240 Speaker 2: Hot baby like them? 2527 02:07:34,320 --> 02:07:41,480 Speaker 5: Kids, don't nobody cares no more. 2528 02:07:41,920 --> 02:07:47,920 Speaker 2: This hot baby summer. Kids, that's terrible. Hot babies in 2529 02:07:48,000 --> 02:07:52,000 Speaker 2: the cars, hot car summer. Come, oh man, the babies. 2530 02:07:53,880 --> 02:07:56,320 Speaker 2: A twenty six year old Texas mother was arrested Sunday 2531 02:07:56,400 --> 02:07:59,880 Speaker 2: falling alleged allegedly racist tirade inside the bar she accused 2532 02:08:00,080 --> 02:08:04,400 Speaker 2: drinking and while her infant was left unattended in a 2533 02:08:04,480 --> 02:08:09,640 Speaker 2: running car outside. An affidavid obtained by people alleged Samantha Vaughn, 2534 02:08:10,440 --> 02:08:14,560 Speaker 2: a copperas of Coppera's Cove, was belligerent when confronted by 2535 02:08:14,600 --> 02:08:18,120 Speaker 2: officers aside trackside a nightclub in that city. Uh. The 2536 02:08:18,160 --> 02:08:22,680 Speaker 2: affidavit further alleged as Vaughn resistant officers ever to detain her, 2537 02:08:22,720 --> 02:08:25,879 Speaker 2: shouting name racial epithet as she was placed in handcuffs. 2538 02:08:26,280 --> 02:08:29,000 Speaker 2: You will not take my child and place her with 2539 02:08:29,200 --> 02:08:33,720 Speaker 2: a fucking epithet. I wonder what that was I wonder 2540 02:08:33,920 --> 02:08:38,840 Speaker 2: which one do you think? She said, fucking juke, okay, okay, 2541 02:08:38,960 --> 02:08:42,520 Speaker 2: all right. The Affidavid alleged she streamed that the arrested officers. 2542 02:08:42,520 --> 02:08:47,440 Speaker 2: The officers, the Avidavid indicator did not charged her with resisting. Instead, 2543 02:08:47,520 --> 02:08:50,000 Speaker 2: she was charged of abandoning or dangering the child. Would 2544 02:08:50,000 --> 02:08:52,800 Speaker 2: intend to return according to Let's see when she got 2545 02:08:52,800 --> 02:08:55,360 Speaker 2: off the line. According to Avidavid, officers arrived at the 2546 02:08:55,400 --> 02:08:58,000 Speaker 2: club to find a running automobiles that they found Vaughn's 2547 02:08:58,040 --> 02:09:04,960 Speaker 2: infant child in the vehicles backseat. Police alleged Vaughn told 2548 02:09:05,040 --> 02:09:07,080 Speaker 2: them she had driven there to pick up her husband. 2549 02:09:07,400 --> 02:09:09,920 Speaker 2: She allegedly told officer she used the bathroom before sitting 2550 02:09:09,960 --> 02:09:12,240 Speaker 2: down with her husband for two shots. Vonn and the 2551 02:09:12,240 --> 02:09:16,960 Speaker 2: Affidavid alleged smelled strongly of alcohol. Investigators alegend Affidavid she 2552 02:09:17,080 --> 02:09:19,480 Speaker 2: refused to comply when they tried to take her into custody. 2553 02:09:19,760 --> 02:09:21,560 Speaker 2: At one point, she let herself fall to the floor. 2554 02:09:21,720 --> 02:09:24,480 Speaker 2: She allegedly continued to thrash her body around, yell, and 2555 02:09:24,560 --> 02:09:27,520 Speaker 2: throw herself about. It's had the patrol car. She allegedly 2556 02:09:27,600 --> 02:09:30,400 Speaker 2: smashed her forehead into a steel rail, resulted in a 2557 02:09:30,520 --> 02:09:34,000 Speaker 2: noticeable wound. It was unclear Wednesday she had entered a 2558 02:09:34,080 --> 02:09:36,720 Speaker 2: please with the soul charge against her her Ton. These 2559 02:09:36,720 --> 02:09:43,560 Speaker 2: information also unavailable. Karen guessed the race of Samantha Vaughn. 2560 02:09:45,200 --> 02:09:45,480 Speaker 5: White. 2561 02:09:46,280 --> 02:09:49,560 Speaker 2: Karen's going with white. All right, let's check the chat 2562 02:09:49,640 --> 02:09:53,800 Speaker 2: room and see what you guys will leave hot becky 2563 02:09:53,880 --> 02:09:58,560 Speaker 2: summer white white privilege. Reese Witherspoon back at the bar. Hey, 2564 02:09:59,720 --> 02:10:04,080 Speaker 2: her mom was waiting on a date to get some sausage. 2565 02:10:04,160 --> 02:10:09,440 Speaker 2: White crackers. Rod. It was them crackers, them crackers, white, white, ugly, 2566 02:10:09,480 --> 02:10:13,320 Speaker 2: white lady, white, white lady. Oh, she did all that again, 2567 02:10:13,440 --> 02:10:19,960 Speaker 2: pepper white, alive, white, speaking of her main meth money. White. 2568 02:10:20,640 --> 02:10:24,960 Speaker 2: She was married to her baby's father, white, aw black, 2569 02:10:25,720 --> 02:10:27,640 Speaker 2: them crackers. I am dying. 2570 02:10:27,720 --> 02:10:31,680 Speaker 3: Okay, the correct answer is and Karen said white. 2571 02:10:32,680 --> 02:10:45,160 Speaker 2: You're right, he's she's white. Mm hm hmmm. 2572 02:10:47,440 --> 02:10:47,520 Speaker 4: Uh. 2573 02:10:47,760 --> 02:10:53,800 Speaker 2: Babies and cars. What is happening this summer? Doing ruggras 2574 02:10:53,840 --> 02:10:55,680 Speaker 2: shit with my rugras friends? 2575 02:10:55,880 --> 02:10:58,880 Speaker 5: Come on, I'm in the whole group. 2576 02:11:00,880 --> 02:11:05,680 Speaker 2: But yeah, let's face tax and everything. Mother of the 2577 02:11:05,760 --> 02:11:10,840 Speaker 2: year mm hmmm, and a white woman, so you know 2578 02:11:10,960 --> 02:11:13,520 Speaker 2: we can't blame her for anything to happen. Hell, Okay, 2579 02:11:13,640 --> 02:11:16,200 Speaker 2: it's he's low self esteemed black women. That's the real problem. 2580 02:11:16,200 --> 02:11:20,920 Speaker 2: According to the department section all right, let's do soor 2581 02:11:20,960 --> 02:11:45,800 Speaker 2: and ratchetes to get out here. I'll see here And 2582 02:11:46,040 --> 02:11:48,880 Speaker 2: Illinois man allegedly killed his mom with a sword before 2583 02:11:49,000 --> 02:11:53,760 Speaker 2: hiding her in a garbage can. What white he was? White? 2584 02:11:54,480 --> 02:11:56,840 Speaker 2: Illinois man's in charge of first degree murder at the 2585 02:11:56,960 --> 02:11:59,280 Speaker 2: dead body of his mother was founding a garbage can 2586 02:11:59,360 --> 02:12:02,080 Speaker 2: inside his home on Monday morning and park reached. 2587 02:12:02,080 --> 02:12:04,000 Speaker 3: The police officer coming and social worker stopped it. 2588 02:12:04,040 --> 02:12:06,040 Speaker 5: They to put it out too late. The garbage people 2589 02:12:06,280 --> 02:12:06,960 Speaker 5: already came by. 2590 02:12:07,600 --> 02:12:15,400 Speaker 2: They didn't pick up the trash time. Yeah so yeah. 2591 02:12:15,440 --> 02:12:20,640 Speaker 2: They noticed debris scattered around the driveway. Both the officer 2592 02:12:20,680 --> 02:12:25,760 Speaker 2: and social worker knew David Christiniac Christy Neac forty seven 2593 02:12:26,000 --> 02:12:29,080 Speaker 2: because he allegedly suffered from mental illness. They thought the 2594 02:12:29,160 --> 02:12:31,960 Speaker 2: debris were unusual and decided to check in on the pair, 2595 02:12:32,120 --> 02:12:34,720 Speaker 2: but there was no answer when they knocked on the door. 2596 02:12:34,880 --> 02:12:37,200 Speaker 2: Three hours later, the officer the social worker returned to 2597 02:12:37,240 --> 02:12:40,240 Speaker 2: the homes they parked their car. David Christiak came out. 2598 02:12:40,360 --> 02:12:42,520 Speaker 2: When the officer asked him how and where his mother was, 2599 02:12:42,640 --> 02:12:45,120 Speaker 2: he invited the pair side the house. Once the side, 2600 02:12:45,120 --> 02:12:47,400 Speaker 2: the officer the social worker noticed the home was in 2601 02:12:47,440 --> 02:12:49,400 Speaker 2: the state of disarrayed. Then they noticed a hammer and 2602 02:12:49,440 --> 02:12:52,600 Speaker 2: a sword, as well as what looked like a hand 2603 02:12:52,680 --> 02:12:56,240 Speaker 2: sticking out of a large garbage can. Inside the can, 2604 02:12:56,320 --> 02:12:59,960 Speaker 2: they found you this body. She had apparently been stabbed 2605 02:13:00,040 --> 02:13:02,720 Speaker 2: to death with the sword. Christniak was arrested and later 2606 02:13:02,880 --> 02:13:04,520 Speaker 2: allegedly confessed to killing his mother. 2607 02:13:04,840 --> 02:13:05,920 Speaker 3: Police believe Judith was. 2608 02:13:05,920 --> 02:13:08,520 Speaker 2: Killed sometimes Sunday night, and that christianact allegedly tried to 2609 02:13:08,560 --> 02:13:10,640 Speaker 2: conceal the death. I put in her body in the 2610 02:13:10,680 --> 02:13:13,200 Speaker 2: garbage can before trash pick up on Monday, so they 2611 02:13:13,240 --> 02:13:14,000 Speaker 2: put it out too early. 2612 02:13:14,080 --> 02:13:16,200 Speaker 5: Care, Oh too early? 2613 02:13:16,320 --> 02:13:17,000 Speaker 6: Okay, cops. 2614 02:13:17,640 --> 02:13:18,520 Speaker 5: I thought it was too late. 2615 02:13:18,840 --> 02:13:21,640 Speaker 2: Cops came by too soon, and uh, he was like, fuck, 2616 02:13:21,720 --> 02:13:23,320 Speaker 2: I got away till Monday for trash pick up. 2617 02:13:23,320 --> 02:13:25,840 Speaker 5: Everything automated, you know, people joke about it. 2618 02:13:25,920 --> 02:13:28,160 Speaker 4: But the old school dude that actually come by and 2619 02:13:28,280 --> 02:13:30,760 Speaker 4: checked it, be sure you ain't no dead bodies of babies. 2620 02:13:31,040 --> 02:13:33,000 Speaker 5: They got rid of his ass. So machine just comes 2621 02:13:33,040 --> 02:13:33,520 Speaker 5: and dumps it. 2622 02:13:33,960 --> 02:13:37,440 Speaker 2: But are they gonna pick up the fucking trash with 2623 02:13:37,560 --> 02:13:39,880 Speaker 2: a handsticking out there? I feel like they have people 2624 02:13:40,080 --> 02:13:42,680 Speaker 2: on the trash like you gotta look at the trash 2625 02:13:42,760 --> 02:13:44,000 Speaker 2: can before you put it in the truck. 2626 02:13:44,160 --> 02:13:44,560 Speaker 5: I don't know. 2627 02:13:44,600 --> 02:13:46,440 Speaker 4: I don't dy honey, they don't cut out was it's 2628 02:13:46,440 --> 02:13:48,320 Speaker 4: a big ass machine to come pick it up dumping 2629 02:13:48,320 --> 02:13:49,880 Speaker 4: and sut that shit down. I don't know if the 2630 02:13:49,960 --> 02:13:52,080 Speaker 4: man out there no more, you know, the two man truck. 2631 02:13:52,400 --> 02:13:53,840 Speaker 4: I don't know if they get the two man truck 2632 02:13:53,920 --> 02:13:56,200 Speaker 4: no more, a three man truck, two in the front, 2633 02:13:56,240 --> 02:13:58,040 Speaker 4: one of the back. That was his job to be 2634 02:13:58,080 --> 02:14:00,960 Speaker 4: shoot with no baby sitting dead old people blended. Y'all 2635 02:14:01,000 --> 02:14:02,760 Speaker 4: got rid of his ass, and I guarantee you it's 2636 02:14:02,760 --> 02:14:04,600 Speaker 4: a bunch of dead people. Y'all ain't never gonna find 2637 02:14:04,640 --> 02:14:04,960 Speaker 4: out there. 2638 02:14:06,920 --> 02:14:10,720 Speaker 3: You are such an old country on that he just 2639 02:14:10,880 --> 02:14:14,880 Speaker 3: swarmped into a ninety old country for no reason. 2640 02:14:17,120 --> 02:14:17,680 Speaker 5: Was their job. 2641 02:14:19,560 --> 02:14:24,440 Speaker 2: I love you, Chris Knack his mother have a good relationship, 2642 02:14:24,600 --> 02:14:28,120 Speaker 2: had a good relationship forlic said, yeah, yeah, I'm sure 2643 02:14:28,360 --> 02:14:30,440 Speaker 2: they had a good relationship up until you know, the 2644 02:14:30,600 --> 02:14:33,280 Speaker 2: sword went through her and then it was not as good. 2645 02:14:34,520 --> 02:14:41,400 Speaker 2: Sounds like maybe they severed ties at that point. I'm 2646 02:14:41,440 --> 02:14:45,280 Speaker 2: not even gonna play the sound They had lived together 2647 02:14:45,360 --> 02:14:47,520 Speaker 2: in the home for decades and where Park Ridge natives 2648 02:14:47,560 --> 02:14:50,040 Speaker 2: and motive remains unknown. The Shadows Sun Times supports he 2649 02:14:50,200 --> 02:14:52,560 Speaker 2: remains finding bars at out Ball and it scheduled the 2650 02:14:52,560 --> 02:14:56,760 Speaker 2: next period courd in August. Attorney's information was not available Thursday. 2651 02:14:57,240 --> 02:15:02,880 Speaker 3: Wow, that's scared hell man. Mm hmmm, sorry to hear 2652 02:15:02,920 --> 02:15:03,280 Speaker 3: about that. 2653 02:15:03,880 --> 02:15:06,640 Speaker 2: A lot of people with Soword crimes man living with 2654 02:15:06,760 --> 02:15:10,080 Speaker 2: their parents and ship. Get the sowreds out of the house. 2655 02:15:10,120 --> 02:15:13,000 Speaker 2: If your kids still live with you, there's no need. 2656 02:15:13,680 --> 02:15:15,720 Speaker 2: We never read the other way around. It's always the 2657 02:15:15,800 --> 02:15:20,360 Speaker 2: kids killing their parents kids. All right, all right, guys, 2658 02:15:20,560 --> 02:15:23,800 Speaker 2: we'll be back. Uh, we'll be back to. 2659 02:15:25,480 --> 02:15:27,680 Speaker 5: Uh what I say, must be. Don't come up. 2660 02:15:27,680 --> 02:15:30,640 Speaker 2: Books must have been, must have been too many video games. 2661 02:15:31,000 --> 02:15:34,040 Speaker 3: All right, we'll be back tomorrow. Until then, I love you.