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Speaker 1: How do you make a woman's swoon? It's the jewbile show,

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Speaker 1: and let's face it, some guys are naturals at it,

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Speaker 1: and others slide into ladies dms.

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Speaker 2: Like hey hey, hey, hey, hey, hey hey, here's a

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Speaker 2: picture for you to look at. Hey hey hey hey

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Speaker 2: hey hey for fifteen months straight, and others look like

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Speaker 2: cartoon characters whose tongues drop out of their mouth and

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Speaker 2: steam comes out of their ears every time an attractive

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Speaker 2: lady walks alive. Not exactly the things that make a

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Speaker 2: woman swoon, And that's why there's a list going viral

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Speaker 2: traits that make women swoon, just in time for Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: What is the number one way that they say to

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Speaker 2: make a woman's swoon. We'll tell you in just a second,

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Speaker 2: but let's go over some of the other things from

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Speaker 2: this article on how to make any woman swoon.

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Speaker 3: It's really about that, Valentine. So I'm interested to see

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Speaker 3: what this says.

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Speaker 1: Humble confidence. Yes, what do you mean by humble confidence?

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Speaker 3: You're not cocky? He's cocky. You know what you bring

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Speaker 3: to the table.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're not walking around like yach dude. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: I make howl money a lot of touchdowns. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: totally go on pro but then I had that knee injury.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean. But I'm in real estate

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Speaker 1: right now and I'm crushing. It's just like I crush everything.

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Speaker 4: But those people are not confident though, So if they

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Speaker 4: are doing that, those are the ones that are not

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Speaker 4: confident exactly.

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Speaker 1: Humble confidence shows that he has a solid balance between

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Speaker 1: being strong and self directed without being arrogrant, arrogant or

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Speaker 1: a know it all.

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Speaker 4: I'm still into that, Like I'm kind of turned on

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Speaker 4: just thinking about it. I love that trait so much.

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Speaker 1: In another, one of the top traits that will make

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Speaker 1: any woman swoon, according to this article that's going viral,

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Speaker 1: will tell you what the number one thing is in

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Speaker 1: just a second. But the ability to anticipate what a

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Speaker 1: woman wants slash needs mind. If you're gonna read mine,

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Speaker 1: you're in yeah, so hot.

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Speaker 3: Usually it means Carrie snacks.

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Speaker 4: If she's starting to act up, give her a snack

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Speaker 4: and everything will be okay.

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Speaker 3: And I mean food, I mean real hit.

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Speaker 1: It says women can do this for people, but men

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Speaker 1: often struggle with knowing what another person might need without

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Speaker 1: being specifically directed on what to do.

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Speaker 5: Mm hmm guys, but I feel like it's not I

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Speaker 5: don't want to say it's not that hard, but it's

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Speaker 5: not that hard.

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Speaker 1: Nah.

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Speaker 3: But men we like like, we will do what you need.

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Speaker 1: Just tell us what it is. It's just I think

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Speaker 1: it's a communication thing. Guys are just very literal and

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Speaker 1: direct a lot of times, you know, just.

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Speaker 3: Tell us what it is and we'll fix the problem.

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Speaker 3: But if you don't tell us and then you're getting

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Speaker 3: mad because we're guessing.

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Speaker 4: Right, you just know, Yeah, if you handle it with

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Speaker 4: care and you're like, I see that there's something going on,

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Speaker 4: and you start to create that dialogue and keep her

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Speaker 4: soft even if she's a little riled, then you'll probably get.

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Speaker 3: The answer you need and everything will.

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Speaker 1: Be handled well and learning right. Like my girl and

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Speaker 1: I were in a converse the other day and it

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Speaker 1: was about something and I was like, what could I what?

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Speaker 1: What could I have said? That's better? I don't I

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Speaker 1: don't want to have to tell you what to say.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I was like, I hear that,

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Speaker 1: But the reason I'm asking is so I can learn.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to find out what I can say

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Speaker 1: to shut you up. That's not what I'm doing. I

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Speaker 1: want to learn what I can do better so that

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Speaker 1: I can take note of it and try to do

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Speaker 1: that again.

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Speaker 3: He's doing what he does.

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Speaker 1: What he does.

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Speaker 3: You're taking information so that later you don't have to ask.

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Speaker 1: There you go. If you want somebody to answer this

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Speaker 1: patri and needs lady to train them like a.

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Speaker 4: I didn't work though, after you explained why you were

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Speaker 4: asking that question, was able to.

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Speaker 3: Give you what you needed.

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Speaker 1: And then she explained to me what what the thing was,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, that makes sense. I'll remember that.

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Speaker 1: That's how things you need to hear things. Yeah, exactly

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Speaker 1: so much. My AI engine started working and taking note

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Speaker 1: of that. Going over a article that's going viral just

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Speaker 1: in time for Valentine's Day season. Traits that make women swoon.

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Speaker 1: The number two on the list is using spontaneous appropriate

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Speaker 1: humor appropriate because a rare trait that makes women's swoon

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Speaker 1: is genuine spontaneous humor that appeals to their taste.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, cat, but a good dirty joke kit every time.

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Speaker 1: Just walking into the room like it's one of your

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Speaker 1: bros and farting really loud. That was hilarious. I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to do it right. No, no, okay, never mind

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Speaker 1: wed And the number one thing that they say will

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Speaker 1: make any woman swoon just in time for Valentine's Day

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Speaker 1: is be an active listener. And that doesn't mean running

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Speaker 1: in place while they're talking. It says, active listening is

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Speaker 1: rare in men. Yeah, that's why you hear the term

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Speaker 1: man's plaining. Man who's modest, doesn't brag and listens intently

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Speaker 1: to what other people say without piggybacking on that person's

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Speaker 1: comments to bring focus back to themselves is a rare

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Speaker 1: type of guy.

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Speaker 3: That's actually really true. You think it's pretty rare.

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Speaker 4: It is pretty rare, And I think sometimes guys can't

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Speaker 4: help themselves. That's why I find myself in situations where

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Speaker 4: people talk about themselves a lot, and so ask questions.

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Speaker 4: But I think I'm starting to realize that's kind of flaggy.

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Speaker 5: But but I feel like as long as you say

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Speaker 5: things a certain way, like I don't mind if you

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Speaker 5: have to explain something like, say it in a certain

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Speaker 5: way where you're not being I think it goes back

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Speaker 5: to like the arrogant and cocky and like all about

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Speaker 5: me type of vibe.

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Speaker 4: Well, a conversation with somebody Victoria and you're like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I went snowboarding this weekend, and he takes and he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: so I went to the coolest mountain in Japan and

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Speaker 4: I snowboarded, and then like I.

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Speaker 3: Got a gold medal in my head? You know what

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Speaker 3: I mean?

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Speaker 4: That's time and we cannot even get back to this

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Speaker 4: that the snowboarded this weekend.

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Speaker 3: I got the gold medal in my head? Is crazy?

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Speaker 3: Heard something like that or whatever I read it.

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Speaker 1: I read an article once that said that when a

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Speaker 1: woman says she wants you to share more, it means

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Speaker 1: she wants you to listen more.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's not okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, it's like a mind.

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Speaker 3: Trick, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: I want you to share more, but really I just

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Speaker 1: want you to be quiet, figure out me share and

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Speaker 1: no I feel connected to you know.

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Speaker 3: It's the follow up questions. It's to be present. Guys

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Speaker 3: are making it way harder than it needs to be.

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Speaker 1: Do not talk about yourself right right.

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Speaker 3: I want to get to know you. I want to

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Speaker 3: get to know you, but don't talk about yourself.

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Speaker 1: Just stay shut up and listen

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Speaker 3: Talk about you