1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with her radio. All Right, 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: you ready for this? I am ready, Yes, almost famous, 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: the o G s. We're back, We're We're back in 4 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: the saddle. Now. We weren't gone. We just happened to 5 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: be in a couple of different locations where we did 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 1: some stuff and some things and we both had really fun, 7 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: really fun interviews. I know, I wish they could have 8 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: been together, but it was. I did have a great 9 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: time talking to Jesse, and I know you had fun 10 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: talking to Zach and playing some golf, and I just 11 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: couldn't make it. The kid's schedules, I think I can't remember, 12 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 1: but it was. I think it was a dance competition, 13 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: which is my life right now. Um, all good, no complaints, 14 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 1: but I wish I could fit it all in, you know, 15 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 1: you know it was. It was actually kind of a 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 1: weird circumstance that made the whole thing happen for me. 17 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: So originally we were supposed to go to l A 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: for the holidays Odyssey, Kanyon's family and the boys both 19 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: got sick, so we ended up pushing that trip to 20 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: the middle of January, which sunk up perfectly with you know, 21 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: going back and forth and actually being able to go 22 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: to Carmel for a couple of days because I was 23 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 1: already in l A. So it was actually a flight 24 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 1: and UM had a great conversation with Zach the current Bachelor, 25 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: who really really nice guy, and then UM also got 26 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 1: to hang out with Clayton, the previous Bachelor and get 27 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 1: to know him a little bit and uh, and then 28 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: some of the usual suspects were there too, which was 29 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: a lot of fun. And yeah, it was. It was 30 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: a really good week, really a really good week, you 31 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: know there and I and I actually really loved it 32 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: and I loved that area. I mean, I'm a big 33 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: fan of Monterey, so yeah, I'm jealous. Did you get 34 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 1: to meet Ashley and Jared's huty pie little boy? I 35 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: did not know, I think after I had already left 36 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: to go home, so got it. Yeah, we had to 37 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: get back, okay anymore, he's really cute though, Dawson is 38 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: so cute, doble. But yeah, so there was a really 39 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: fun time. We were there for the you know, the 40 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: Pebble Beach celebrity pro am thing and that was really 41 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: it's like a bucket list item. So I got to 42 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: watch Wells smack the ball around a little bit and 43 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: we had It's just a great time. So but I'm 44 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: really excited about today too because I had to reconnect 45 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: with someone from from my past. In fact, our guest 46 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 1: today is a Stella Gardener, Stella Rene Gardener, who was 47 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 1: the Final Ladies Standing on my season of The Bachelor, 48 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: Final Ladies Standing. That that's so funny because I remember, 49 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: I mean, Estella could attest to this. They you know, 50 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: back then as we as we referred too many times, 51 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: but it wasn't like if you had a personality and 52 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: you said things that didn't exactly fit the script. A 53 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: lot of that stuff was kind of left on the 54 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 1: cutting room floor. And I'll never forget it. Standing in 55 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: front of those ladies and you know, it's night one 56 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: and they're thirty ladies in the room and I've got, 57 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: you know, I don't remember, maybe fifteen roses or something, 58 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: and I remember literally saying to them, those of you 59 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: who go home tonight, you're welcome, because this is a mess. 60 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: Like whoever actually gets to stay. I feel really, you know, 61 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: I feel like I should almost like like this rose 62 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: should come with an apology. Um, But but it was 63 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: so much fun and the person if he had a 64 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: high Estella we're just talking about. I was just to say, 65 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: if there was a first impression rose back then, which 66 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: we really didn't have that like it wasn't like you know, 67 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: but Estella would have definitely gotten it because she came 68 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: out of a limo with such you know, obviously studyingly beautiful, 69 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: but comes out in the limit with just this great 70 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: energy and um, you know, it was so fun and 71 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: just like literally was almost like one of those people 72 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: that I would like be looking for because she was 73 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: so like like a calming presence on what was pretty 74 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: much a zoo of a night. You know, my mom 75 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: shows up randomly, and you know, all sorts of other 76 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: craziness ensues. But I remember, like there were times when 77 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: I look around the room and be like, oh, there's 78 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: a Stella, you know, and I start to walk towards her, 79 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden I get grabbed by you know, 80 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: Sally and or someone. Okay, we're going this way. I'd 81 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 1: be like, I hope I was gonna go say Hi, No, 82 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: you already talked to her. You talked to her for 83 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: like five minutes. Pomp. You know that's good, Like we 84 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 1: get it. She's getting a rounds. We know that. Okay, 85 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: moving on, let's go, you know, and that was kind 86 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: of a crazy night, but it stuff coming on the show. 87 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: You're welcome, How are you? Thanks very kind. I'm a 88 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: good and I didn't know it's going to be a video, 89 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: but hey, well you look beautiful. You look beautiful. Yeah, 90 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: thank you. And honestly it's only pushed out to social 91 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: so it's it's you know, oh no, I'm I just 92 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: do little stories up all the time anyway, so I'm 93 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: sure it comes with the job. So okay, I have 94 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: to get the elephant out of the room, right out 95 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: the gate. Have you guys talked in you know, I 96 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: guess any twenty years almost right? How long is it? 97 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: I would love to know if you guys have talked. 98 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 1: I'll answer that questions I already say yes we have, 99 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 1: of course, but I'll let us all answer that. Yeah, 100 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,239 Speaker 1: we have, we've talked many, we've gotten we've we've talked, 101 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: we've gotten together and uh, you know, it was such 102 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: a crazy time in our life and we had just 103 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 1: such a really beautiful connection and it was like such 104 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: a crazy experience. And you know, with all of that, 105 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 1: that world can be a little crazy. Sometimes, and I 106 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: think there were some challenges after the show was done. 107 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: And then you know, of course, um Bob married someone 108 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: else and oh yeah that that happened. Oh yeah, that happened. 109 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, but he was you know, he was so wonderful. 110 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: You reached down and he just was like, hey, I 111 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: just wanna just a lot of integrity that I want 112 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: to apologize to you for anything I did that ma'am 113 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: hurt you. And that was really I thought, and pretty empy. 114 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: It's very sweet of you to say that I loved 115 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: I loved our experience together, and let's talk about something else. 116 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: I also really loved your mom. I loved your mom, 117 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: and I know she just passed and I'm so sorry. 118 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,239 Speaker 1: And she was such a lovely word. It's so interesting 119 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,479 Speaker 1: when we talk about the show, and I always I mean, 120 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: you know, I when I tell stories about oh then 121 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 1: we did this and we did that. I always love 122 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: to talk about Estella's mom because she was so fantastic, 123 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: like such an incredible person. And I remember sitting in 124 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: a Stella's beautiful apartment and you know, and and she 125 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 1: and her mom were having like some conversations where they 126 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 1: were signing, and I was like sitting there kind of going, Okay, 127 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not understanding exactly what's going on there, 128 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: but you know, it was so passionate between them, and 129 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: the connection was such that it was like beautiful. It 130 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 1: was almost like you know, I mean, I really do 131 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: mean this. It was like listening to someone speak in 132 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: another language and thinking, oh my god, that's such a 133 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: beautiful language and that you know. But I was watching 134 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: the two of them talk and I was like, I wish, 135 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: I wish I would have learned sign language, and I 136 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: wish I knew this because it looks beautiful the way 137 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: that they're communicating with one another. And it was just 138 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: a nice we were we were actually behind the scenes 139 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: and my mom, do not say this, do not say that. 140 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: It was such a handy drift. And all the producers 141 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: were like, you guys have to stop signing there, like 142 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: this is not good TV guys because they're signing. I'm like, 143 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: it was pretty funny, but yeah, you I know, your 144 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: mom just passed away, and I'm so sorry, and and 145 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: I mean, she was just so lovely. She was just 146 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: the very most important person in my life. And I 147 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: appreciate you saying that she loved being on the show, 148 00:07:56,640 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: and she loved meeting at you and loved meeting Oprah. 149 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: Uh it was just such a great time for her. 150 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: And uh, yeah, I really appreciate you, um, you know, 151 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: sharing that because she really just was such a special 152 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: human and um, it's very hard to see her go. 153 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: And um, but Bob, and the same thing as with 154 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: your father. Your father was an incredible man. And I 155 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: was so heartbroken when you when you had to share 156 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: that he had passed. And so yeah, you know, your 157 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 1: family was everything. And I remember enough to share something 158 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: when we were on our the hometown date. It was 159 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,439 Speaker 1: so sweet because it was just my mom and I. Um, 160 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 1: it was always just my mom and and we did 161 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 1: everything together. And Bob and Norah both they looked at 162 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: me and they said, we would be so happy to 163 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: have you part of our family. For you to bring 164 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: your mom, and we would love to be with you 165 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: and your mom and you guys will be part of 166 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 1: our family. Yeah. I can't believe I've never been out 167 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: a call with two of my ex girlfriends at the 168 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: same time. This is crazy. Yes, you have so how 169 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: is life we I know that you recently got married. 170 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: How is married life treating you? Oh I love it. 171 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: I love it so much, and you know it took 172 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: me obviously a lot longer than anyone else, but it 173 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: was worth it. That's okay. Yes, you know I I 174 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: always um knew that from me, like I want to 175 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: I want to be married once, not that it. You know, 176 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: some people are married a couple of times, so that's 177 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: but some people in this call that's me more than twice. Yeah, 178 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: you know, for me, I wanted to get married a 179 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 1: bunch and then uh is my dream of a little 180 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: black like you mean, I want to do that? And 181 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 1: then for me, you know, I always you know, but 182 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: enough about me? Yes, so you well, I think guys, 183 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: do you need to go through a marriage or two 184 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: before they before you get somewhere the hero? But now 185 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: he um, I you know, wait, he's just amazing. I 186 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: just love being married to him. He's my best friend, 187 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 1: we're business partners, we do everything, I mean where you 188 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: just do life together and he's just an extraordinary man 189 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: and he um just he just loves me so incredibly. Well, 190 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: it's amazing and I just love him so much. So 191 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: it's really really lovely. Your posts are beautiful. I feel 192 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: like you're like like the two of you together. Like, 193 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 1: I'm really bad at posting things, so like I never 194 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: think that anything is being conveyed through my messaging other 195 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: than the fact that I really must love my kids. Uh. 196 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: But every time you guys post anything, it's like, oh 197 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: my god, they're so someone love. This is so awesome. 198 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: And then you started a new business. Can you mentioned 199 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: you guys are business partners in that too. You've got 200 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 1: so much going on. Yeah, yeah, so we UM. We 201 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: started UM last April. We've we've only been open almost 202 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: a year. And I just I've been teaching for a 203 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: long time. So I've been a health and wellness coach 204 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: for a very long time. And I was teaching lagree, 205 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: which is what I what my studio is. It's a workout. 206 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,839 Speaker 1: It's like a pilates and strength training workout, and I've 207 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: been teaching that for fifteen years. Yeah, and I love 208 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: the workout. I've always loved the workout and UM and 209 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:40,840 Speaker 1: so I started learning about infrared and the health benefits 210 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: of infrared and obviously for brain health, it is one 211 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: of them. And my mom, I don't know a trust 212 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 1: if you knew that my mom passed away, she at alzheimer, 213 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 1: So she's so brain health UM is a focus of 214 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: mine and has been on the Certified Brain Health Coach, 215 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: and my husband's mom also has it, so UM, I 216 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: just knew the benfits of it. I wanted to bring 217 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 1: it into the workout. I wanted us to have a 218 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: place that wasn't just a workout because I've been working 219 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: out for so long. I wanted something that was also 220 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: focused on recovery and healing your body. So it's been 221 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 1: really cool. I mean, no one's done it, So this 222 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: is where the you know, I put the studio together 223 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: with my husband and I wasn't sure how people were gonna, 224 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: you know, really take it. I mean a lot of 225 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 1: people surprisingly don't know about infrared and the health benefits 226 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: of it, and so I just was I wasn't quite 227 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 1: sure how people would respond, but I knew it's something 228 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: that I wanted to do and it's just been a 229 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: huge blessing and people love it. They love the workouts. 230 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: We have infrared saunas, which Trista, I think you guys, 231 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: I think Ryan, we have one. Yeah, I was. I 232 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: was actually just going to ask you tell me more 233 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 1: because we have one in our house. Because of friend's diagnosis, 234 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: with lyme disease. And are you doing like you're saying 235 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 1: infrared but doing the workouts? Are you working out while 236 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 1: you're in the sauna or how do you or is 237 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,559 Speaker 1: it something that you have people get in afterwards? Yeah, 238 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: So we actually have good infrared. We have one spectrum 239 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: of infrared over the workout the machine, and we have 240 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: red light also over the machine. And then and then 241 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: we have we have separate sauna room. So after they 242 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: do the workout, sometimes before because it actually helps give 243 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: your energy for your workout, they will go in a 244 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: sauna and do a do a sauna that is so cool? 245 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: Do you does it? Um? Because obviously ours is in 246 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 1: a like a sauna I feel like is an enclosed space. 247 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: So since you have it above and in front of 248 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: or wherever, does it not dissipate and or is it 249 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 1: still effective it's still infect just the range of where 250 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 1: it is. It's not as kind of training as the 251 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 1: saunas are. The sauna as I call them like little 252 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,199 Speaker 1: healing machines. I mean they're going to punish a lot 253 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 1: deeper the ones above the machine and how we have 254 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: it for the workout, it's gonna heat your core temperature 255 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: up a lot quick, or you're gonna burn more calories 256 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: than you would a normal degree workout. It HAPs with recovery, 257 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: it helps with muscles um sleep. People feel like they're 258 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: sleeping better since they started doing the workout. It's more surface, right, 259 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:14,199 Speaker 1: It's not as kind of trading as the saunas are. 260 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: Where can people go to find more information on your studios? 261 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: Agree l A g R E read r E d 262 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 1: so lagree is the workout read obviously and for red 263 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: so lagree red dot com. And then we're on Instagram 264 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: and Facebook, and and I saw your post. I saw 265 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: the post you had with all of the instructors at 266 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: your studio and everything. That was really you've got a 267 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: lot of people on board. That's a cool crew. I 268 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: mean people or something like that. There's a ton of people. Oh, 269 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: I love my instructors, you guys. I have just the 270 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: most beautiful team. They're just they always step up. Everyone 271 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: cares about the clients. And and then we're in Carl's 272 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: Bad and the community. We're like by the beach, so 273 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: I think, let me buy the beach. I think people 274 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: are really friendly, Yeah, they're happy, Yeah, awesome community. And 275 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 1: my husband and I always talk like we just feel 276 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 1: so grateful. Just it's been a blessing. And I think 277 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 1: when you're intention and in business and in life is 278 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: just how can we be of service? How can we 279 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: when you have that intention? Like the world just gives 280 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 1: you that right back? You know, absolutely? I love that. 281 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: Now let's talk about how you guys met, because I 282 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: think it's pretty cool. Uh you know, I've always it's 283 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: kind of interesting after being on the show like The 284 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: Bachelor and the Bachelorette. Um, it's kind of funny because 285 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: people will always be like, you know, oh well you 286 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 1: probably you know you've already done something crazy, so you 287 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: would never do online dating? And I was like, you know, 288 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: I wouldn't personally I didn't have to, I guess, but 289 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: I would have. I mean, I just kept marrying everybody 290 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: I met, but getting kidding an um, but I should work, 291 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 1: you know, keep trying this three times. But for me, 292 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 1: I was the only person you get married, That's right. 293 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 1: I I let you let you avoid that pain. I 294 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: let you both ought of that out of that pain. 295 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: Um Sella, do you remember? So I was telling Trista 296 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 1: before you came on that I I was like, you know, 297 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: the show was so different back then, obviously, and so 298 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: a lot more formulaic. We all know that to be true. Now, 299 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 1: it's like sometimes just craziness ensues and they let it happen. 300 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 1: But I remember back then. I remember having like fifteen 301 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 1: flowers and thirty ladies, and I remember giving a speech 302 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: that I thought was awesome and I'm like, oh, this 303 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 1: is definitely gonna make it. And I basically ended it 304 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 1: with for those of you who do not get a 305 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: roast tonight, you're welcome because this is crazy or something. 306 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: And I remember, you remember everyone laughed and I was like, oh, 307 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: that was so good. You know, they never used it 308 00:16:56,680 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: the good night. I'm like, oh no that. Do you 309 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 1: remember the other blooper where um where I had a 310 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,479 Speaker 1: rose and I was nervous, right, So I was like, 311 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 1: you know, I'm holding my my rose and I'm like okay, 312 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 1: you know, and they they're like, you know, giving me 313 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 1: the signal from behind, and so I'm like waiting and waiting, 314 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 1: and then they give me another and I'm like Debbie 315 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: and it was I don't know what name I said, 316 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: but the top of the rose flew off. Do you 317 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: remember that? And I don't know what to do because 318 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 1: it's just like literally one of my first like five roses, 319 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, and so I just sort of 320 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 1: held it there, you know, with my stem in my hand, 321 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 1: and she comes walking up because she doesn't know what 322 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 1: to do either, and they haven't stopped us. And I'm like, Debbie, 323 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 1: will you accept this stem? And she's like like it 324 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: goes back, and they're like, okay, this is when this 325 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: is when I really realized the reality TV wasn't super reality. 326 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: And they're like, we're going to start that over Get 327 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: Fresh Rose, you know, the whole bit. But that was 328 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: pretty funny. I'm glad. So going back to how you met, 329 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 1: tell us this story of how you were open to 330 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:07,199 Speaker 1: the Bachelor obviously, and that probably aligned with how you 331 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 1: were open to how you met your husband's would tell 332 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: us the well, I was open to the Bachelor, but 333 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: I wasn't open to match dot Com. You weren't, no. 334 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 1: I Well, so you know when I when I did 335 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 1: The Bachelor, I was so young and back I was seven, 336 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 1: and I think when you're twenty seven, we'll at least 337 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 1: at that. For me, I didn't really like think about like, oh, 338 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 1: the consequences are, what could happen or getting heard or 339 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: any of that kind of because you're still young and 340 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 1: you know, you don't really think about those things. And 341 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 1: so I was way more open to The Bachelor, and 342 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: and actually it was I ended up doing I know, 343 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: the Bachelor, like they usually take about six months and 344 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,120 Speaker 1: how when they they interviewed the girls, and it's such 345 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 1: a really long process, and for me, it happened within 346 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. So they had already picked all 347 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:56,959 Speaker 1: the girls, they had already had everyone picked out, and 348 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 1: just so happened that one of my girlfriends had submitted 349 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:03,159 Speaker 1: my short but little short application they had online and 350 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: they had forgotten to take Bob down. They forgot to 351 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: take the whole application down, and it mind just happened 352 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: to get through. And so they're like, well, she's a 353 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: mortgage broker, she's dark hair, um, she lives in l A. 354 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: Let's just meet her. And so it actually it happened 355 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:24,439 Speaker 1: so quick. They called me the very next day and 356 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 1: then everything they sent me to the psychologists, which I'm 357 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: so surprised I was even on this show because I 358 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,239 Speaker 1: totally failed that test and I have no idea how 359 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 1: I was able to go when they show you fail 360 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 1: that test? How can you fail that test? Do you 361 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: know who they have on the show, like, not you, 362 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 1: but the other people? How can you fail that test? 363 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: I think the people who fail to have on the 364 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:53,199 Speaker 1: show's good. No, I'm joking though, but it was. It 365 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:56,399 Speaker 1: didn't happen so quickly. And I remember my mom giving 366 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: me advice about it, because you know, I think if 367 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 1: I would have had a lot more time to think 368 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: about it, I wouldn't have done this show. If I 369 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,199 Speaker 1: would have had that six months to be able to 370 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 1: bell out, yeah, I would have freaked myself out probably. 371 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 1: But my mom, she said, honey, I called my mom. 372 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:14,120 Speaker 1: She was the only person I called. She said, honey, Um, 373 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 1: just go on, just be yourself and just you know, 374 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,199 Speaker 1: let it, let the cards fall where they may. And 375 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 1: that's what I did. And um, And so the show 376 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:27,360 Speaker 1: The Bachelor was way more open to UM. But then 377 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 1: dating online I was not open to. I did not 378 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: want to do it. That's why I hired a coach, um. 379 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 1: And she said, oh yeah, oh yeah, I hired in 380 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: a very expensive dating coach. She was worth every funny 381 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: And did she tell you to go on match? Yeah, 382 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: well that was part of it. She's like, at the 383 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,640 Speaker 1: end of this, you're gonna go on match and I'm 384 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna help you with the whole. But first 385 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 1: she works on like whatever is blocking your heart from 386 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 1: wanting to have a long because obviously, you know, I 387 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: had done all the work that I thought I could 388 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 1: do on myself to you know, relate, to to bring 389 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: someone into my life. As far as internally, I always 390 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 1: worked on myself, like how can I be a better 391 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 1: version of myself? But she really was amazing. I mean 392 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 1: she discovered like that my heart was still blocked and 393 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: from you know, obviously we all get hurt, and you 394 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 1: know I had lost from who was it blocked from. Sorry, 395 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 1: I think correcting this tacting my friend Trista. Thanks buddy, 396 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. I mean, I love that he reached 397 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,919 Speaker 1: out to you and you know said I'm sorry if 398 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 1: I ever hurt you, Like I love that, Bob. I 399 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: just you know, I'm his friend. I gotta give him 400 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: some you know, I love it. That takes a lot 401 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:55,439 Speaker 1: of courage, It takes it's a lot of integrity, and 402 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 1: I think, you know because at the end of the day, 403 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 1: like this is life. You know, you go through life. 404 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,919 Speaker 1: You you meet people, you fall love, and then you 405 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: fall out of love or you know, whatever it may be. 406 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: And Bob and I were meant to do that period 407 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: of time together, but we weren't meant to be life partners, 408 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,719 Speaker 1: you know. And I think, you know, I think when 409 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 1: you can come around and if you've done something that 410 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 1: you're not fully um, that you're not aligned with, and 411 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:22,679 Speaker 1: you can say I'm sorry for that, I think that 412 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: that just goes a long way. I think to be 413 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: able to look somebody and I and just say, you 414 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: know what, I'm sorry, I'm sorry I hurt you, and 415 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 1: a lot of people have a hard time doing that, 416 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:36,360 Speaker 1: and it just cleans everything up. It just agree, it's 417 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 1: what I want my kids to be. Helps that you're 418 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: such a forgiving person to for you know what I mean. 419 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: Like also, Estella was open to that type of a 420 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: conversation as opposed to you know, something might not be 421 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: so you know, that's very kind of you too. But 422 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 1: so you you get this coach, and the coach teaches 423 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: you how to open up and be ready and then 424 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: you can together your profile or what's next. So then 425 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 1: she like wants to know you have to write a 426 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: profile for your match dot Com. And it was so 427 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,640 Speaker 1: funny because she said, look, if you do this program 428 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 1: exactly the way I tell you to do it, and 429 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: exactly the way I tell you to do it, everything 430 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 1: I tell you to do, you do. I promise you 431 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: you'll meet your partner that it's like an amazing partner 432 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: for life. And so when I got to the match 433 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: dot Com, I'm like and then she's like, then the profile. 434 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 1: You have to write this profile and it's long, and 435 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: it's this story, and it's like this whole because she 436 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: actually works with like very she's worked with all these 437 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: different like you know, profile writers, and I mean it's 438 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: a pretty extensive program. And they say to do it 439 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 1: a certain way, like write it as a story so 440 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,360 Speaker 1: that men are very visual and they need to they 441 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,919 Speaker 1: see themselves in your life, So write a story and 442 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: how they can fit in your life. And it's so 443 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 1: long and very vulnerable. And I am living in San Diego. 444 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 1: I know everybody in San Diego because I grew up 445 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: here and I think business here and I'm like, oh, 446 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 1: please don't make me do this. This is so whole. 447 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 1: Plus you know, just it was so vulnerable and exposing, 448 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 1: and I just went against my ego. I went against 449 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: like wanting to look good and not let anybody like 450 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 1: know any of my personal said and I just did 451 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 1: it and it was funny. I had so I have 452 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: girlfriends that have gone on Match, and she's like, I 453 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: just don't get a lot of hits. When when I 454 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 1: put my profile and I told about my profile, she 455 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 1: was like, no, don't do that. That's awful. It's so embarrassing. 456 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: And I literally had hundreds of people reaching out to 457 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 1: me when I put the profile up, and they were like, 458 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: best profile ever read? My husband really, oh yeah, And 459 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: my husband was like, that was hands down the best 460 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: profile I've ever read. He's like, I felt like I 461 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: had so much to talk to you about because you've 462 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 1: just given all this information and and so it was 463 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 1: really cute. So what she I did it exactly the 464 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,360 Speaker 1: way she said it, and it worked and we actually 465 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,159 Speaker 1: we actually met and started dating pretty quickly, so I 466 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 1: wasn't I didn't have to be on Match very long. 467 00:24:56,040 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: So that was a good theory. Good the first time 468 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: you guys got together, were you just like, Okay, this 469 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 1: this guy is exactly who I'm looking for. Yeah, I 470 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: mean pretty much. I didn't Actually he's so funny. He'll 471 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: tell you I put him through the ringer. I didn't 472 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: like go on actual date we had, He'll say I had. 473 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: We had like five phone calls, five face time dates, 474 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 1: and then I finally went on like a one physical 475 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 1: date with him and we went on a hike. He 476 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 1: wanted to go to dinner. I'm like, let's you want 477 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: to hike? But but yeah, when I when I met him, 478 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,439 Speaker 1: and well, I remember we did our first face time 479 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 1: and he was so charming and we both very much. 480 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: We were we like to grow and learn, and we're 481 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 1: both spiritual and God it's a big part of our lives. 482 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 1: And so we talked a lot about that on our 483 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: our first face time and I knew, okay, this guy 484 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 1: is something special. And we went on a hike and 485 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: he reached over and he grabbed my hand and then 486 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: I felt the butterflies. Sorry, that's awesome. I'm so happy 487 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 1: for you. M h Okay, I want to know do 488 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 1: you still watch the show? And has your husband watched 489 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: your season? Okay, so it's really funny. So my husband 490 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: his his daughter, my stepdaughter, who's adorable and sweet. Um 491 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: he has two kids, so um, he has a daughter 492 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 1: and a son, and so my husband was like, oh, 493 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,399 Speaker 1: you're on the Bachelor, and then like two years was 494 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 1: this early on? Was this okay? Got it? Well? He 495 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,120 Speaker 1: he learned because he googled me and he's like, oh, 496 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: of course, of course, I'm like okay. And then his 497 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 1: daughter was like, my dad is a super fan. He 498 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 1: loves the Bachelor. Oh that she totally called him out. 499 00:26:56,320 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's like, yeah, what is that? How 500 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: old was she when you guys met? So she's twenty four, 501 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:13,440 Speaker 1: so she was one twenty two? Just got it? Yeah, 502 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:19,439 Speaker 1: so she knew and had she watched your season? Um? No, no, 503 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 1: and I won't. Let's just watch your season. I'm like 504 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 1: absolutely not, No, no, did he did? He watched it 505 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 1: since he's a super faned he watched it back in 506 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 1: the day and just doesn't remember or skipped that one 507 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 1: or god, okay, he saw it. But his daughter was like, 508 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:46,119 Speaker 1: yes you did, how funny? Or if you watched my 509 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: wedding because you guys were at my wedding, Yeah, yes, 510 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 1: thank you. You watch your weddings. Like, do you guys 511 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: ever sit down in your anniversary and throw that on 512 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 1: because it's so beautiful? I mean it was like, you're 513 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: the sweetest. Um no, I We've watched uh a little bit, 514 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 1: you know, clips here and there, but definitely it's not 515 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 1: like a tradition or anything. Maybe we should maybe at 516 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: twenty years, which is December, we'll do that. We'll start 517 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: doing that December. I love it. It's crazy crazy, I 518 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,119 Speaker 1: mean really that is. I cannot believe the show has 519 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:37,400 Speaker 1: been on for so long, right, yeah, right, crazy? Yeah. 520 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: Did you watch it before you were on Bob season? Oh? Yeah, 521 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 1: oh yeah, and I actually knew. I like obviously watched 522 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: Bob and you and Um I had gone through a 523 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: breakup and my girlfriends were They're like, oh my god, 524 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: Bob's the Bachelor. Oh actually, I kind of remember that 525 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: that you actually liked Bob and wanted to be on 526 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: his show if he was. Yes, that true. I had 527 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 1: a huge crush on him and I was. I was 528 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 1: dating my boyfriend at the time, and we would watch 529 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 1: The Bachelor and I'm like, oh, he's so funny, like 530 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: doing letting him Go. We had honestly, like I remember, 531 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: you know, like I mean I always say this, but 532 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 1: it was it was really interesting for me because I 533 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 1: really knew after that first night like I was like, Wow, 534 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: these Stella and Kelly Joe actually stuck out to me 535 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 1: more than anybody else. And it's almost like you feel 536 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 1: bad saying that because it's like, you know, you're you're 537 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 1: trying to remain with an open heart and everything, and 538 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 1: I really was, but I remember it would always just 539 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: come back to and I would like, literally, like I 540 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: said before, I remember we went on a water date. 541 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 1: Do you remember that a Stella went to a water park? 542 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: And I felt really bad because the whole time I 543 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 1: was just hanging out with a Stella. I'm like, you know, 544 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: we'd be walking away from like, you know, the Truro 545 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 1: stand together, you know, hey, let's get it a yeah, 546 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 1: And you know I felt bad, like, oh, that's why 547 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be how a to date with you 548 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: know these other four ladies as well. I gotta you 549 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 1: know my situation right here, But it was I think 550 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 1: that's really hard to do. That's really hard to do, though, 551 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 1: Like if you're feeling somebody, then spend time with them. 552 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: I feel like, if any if there's any advice to 553 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: give to the people on the show, especially the leads, 554 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: if you are wanting to spend time with someone then 555 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: spend time with them. It's your share, right. Well, now 556 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 1: it's so like we said, now it's so different. Now 557 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 1: you can do that now. I think they you know, 558 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 1: they'll be on a group date and they're like, I'm 559 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 1: just gonna take this lady over here and talk to 560 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: her for an hour and everyone's like okay, you know 561 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 1: where back then it was like, you know, it does 562 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 1: cause drama. It does cause drama. So um Like, especially nowadays, 563 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 1: it causes drama because of course, I'm sure there's a 564 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: little mix of the producers backs, you know, behind the 565 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 1: scenes going oh, how do you feel about being with 566 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 1: a stilla that entire time? You know? Oh yeah, yeah, 567 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 1: for sure. Do you watch the show now? Is Stella? Yeah? 568 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 1: My my husband and I will watch it, um not 569 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: as regularly, but like this season we're not we're not 570 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: watching it as much, but we'll watch it. When we 571 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 1: first started dating, I thought I never I actually stopped 572 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 1: watching it for a long time, and then when we 573 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: got together we started watching it. And it's fun. It's 574 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 1: like really fun to watch with him. And my husband's 575 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 1: like a total romantic. That's why he loves to watch. 576 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 1: He's just an absolute romantic. And um and he and 577 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 1: it's cute and I love him and I love watching 578 00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 1: it with him, and I have my own commentary. And 579 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you had any actually right here? 580 00:31:47,680 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: You know insight? Yeah. Mine's mostly like oh stop, yes, right, well, 581 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: at least we know we got we gottah. You know, 582 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 1: you you found somebody with the same you know, aligned 583 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 1: to the same way. You're both romantics and spiritual and 584 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 1: you know, into the whole thing. And man, if you 585 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 1: can watch The Bachelor together, I think that really that 586 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: goes next level. My my wife and I we uh 587 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,360 Speaker 1: we watch Real Housewives together and I act like I 588 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: don't like it, and I'd be like I can't believe 589 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: you're watching this. And then I'll be like what did 590 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 1: Davinda just say? And she's like, how do you know 591 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 1: their names? I'm like, oh, I can't get him to 592 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 1: watch Real Housewives with me. He's like, I will not. 593 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: He's like, that's the only one I will not watch them. 594 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:43,600 Speaker 1: Like it's tough. It's tough because I find myself getting 595 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 1: roped in. I'm like, oh god, I am into this thing, 596 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 1: damn it. But it's so good, so good, so bad 597 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 1: that it's so good. Well, it has been amazing talking 598 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: to you with Sella. I'm so glad that you have 599 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 1: and find some time for us. I'm really sorry about 600 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 1: your mom. I'm really happy for your your marriage and 601 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 1: your business. And thank you for sharing all those tips. 602 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 1: Um and yeah, thanks for coming. It was great too. 603 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: I am so glad I got to see you again 604 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: and chat with you, and thank you so much for 605 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: having me on and and I just appreciate you guys, 606 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: and I appreciate you chatting me up and make sure 607 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,720 Speaker 1: you reached out if you want any information about but girl, 608 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: get in your sauna four days a week. I am 609 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: going to do that. You should. They're amazing chicken, so 610 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 1: I could use and I can use all the help 611 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 1: I can get you to have kids. It's it's a 612 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: first of all, it's a really good idea. I advise 613 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 1: it to chasing them around. I could use a little 614 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: sauna action for sure. But so great to connect with 615 00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: you again. We love you and uh you know, think 616 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: about you, and so happy for you and your business 617 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 1: and your husband. Please tell him we all say hello 618 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 1: and so happy to thank you you guys, have an 619 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: awesome day and maybe we'll chat soon. Thanks, isn't that nice. 620 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 1: I love that she's so sweet. I mean, seriously, I 621 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: know she was, you know, forgive me for giving you, 622 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 1: but I have to do that. I'm kind of you 623 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 1: have to, yeah, but um, I love that you guys 624 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: can just you know, very any hurt feelings. It seems 625 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,439 Speaker 1: like she did that a very long time ago, went 626 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: after he called her, especially so I was always the 627 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: big thing about a style, and I was I mean, 628 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 1: we didn't get a chance to get into it. But 629 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,920 Speaker 1: you know, back in those days, it was tough because 630 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 1: I remember we finished filming in uh July July, and 631 00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,240 Speaker 1: then we had to do that whole for aid for 632 00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 1: for the next five months. You did five months. We 633 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 1: did five months. Yeah, because yeah, they extended my season 634 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 1: um that year, so that so that it was only 635 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,000 Speaker 1: like a week off before your wedding, and so they 636 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,319 Speaker 1: pushed to my wedding. Oh I'm sorry. It was not 637 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 1: your fault. They wanted it for sweeps week. They told me. 638 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's cool. I didn't even know what 639 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: that was. I'm like, god, I love sweeps. But it 640 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,359 Speaker 1: was they you know, it was one of those things. 641 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: And so it was just a really long time to 642 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: be on that kind of you know, the thing, and 643 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,120 Speaker 1: then and then life just gets in the way, and unfortunately, 644 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 1: you know, it was just one of those things where 645 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,839 Speaker 1: you don't know each other that well to begin with, 646 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,279 Speaker 1: then have that kind of distance for that kind of 647 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 1: a period of time. But I remember, you know, my 648 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 1: big thing with her was I was just gonna be 649 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 1: really honest and and she was very she was very 650 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 1: open to that, which was really nice because I could say, 651 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 1: you know, look, I just feel this, this and this, 652 00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 1: and it wasn't like I was, you know, in the 653 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,400 Speaker 1: ink fish and over it. It It was kind of like 654 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 1: you know, and so it makes you be more open, 655 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:08,240 Speaker 1: and you know, and she's she's just she's so sweet. 656 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 1: I'm so happy for her, you know, I'm just I mean, 657 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: with the passing of her mom and then all of 658 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,920 Speaker 1: a sudden to find this joy almost like you know, 659 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:18,880 Speaker 1: in tandem with that moment, and and just you know, 660 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,080 Speaker 1: to be in such a good spot for herself personally. 661 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 1: I think it's so awesome. Yeah, yeah, no, I I 662 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 1: think that she's such a sweetheart, even though I've only 663 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:31,239 Speaker 1: met her, you know, a handful of times, but you 664 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,320 Speaker 1: can tell, just like everybody else, oh yeah, you can 665 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,879 Speaker 1: completely tell what kind of um person she is at 666 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 1: the heart, no doubt. Anyway, that was that was great. 667 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 1: I know you probably were like, oh gosh, are we 668 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,360 Speaker 1: are we gonna be okay? No, you know, I was 669 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 1: actually really happy to do it because I mean, we 670 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,719 Speaker 1: had Kelly joel Onto and you know, I mean, I 671 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: know you know this about me, but I don't know 672 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,719 Speaker 1: that a lot of our listeners do. But it was 673 00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 1: really important for me at first. All it's hard for 674 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,760 Speaker 1: me to be bachelor when I was the bachelor because 675 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 1: I didn't want to. I mean, you and I had 676 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 1: the same feeling. We didn't want to hurt people that 677 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 1: might have feelings if if we weren't reciprocating it. And 678 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,160 Speaker 1: and that was the toughest part of the job for me, 679 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 1: was sending someone home. But then afterwards too, when you know, 680 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,879 Speaker 1: you go through this relationship cycle, and like I've said 681 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 1: a million times, you and Ryan I really navigated it 682 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 1: so much more brilliantly than most. Obviously the numbers show 683 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:25,440 Speaker 1: you know that the two of you are the original 684 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 1: couple that made it through, and now there's always been 685 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: a handful of them since, But it was that was 686 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 1: a tough road to hoe too, and it was just 687 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 1: I hated it. I hated the whole breakup aspect of it. 688 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:37,960 Speaker 1: And then it's in the public eye and you know, 689 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 1: but you know, I was always like, I have nothing 690 00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 1: negative to say, because there's literally nothing negative to say 691 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 1: about us all that, you know, And so they would 692 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:47,799 Speaker 1: come after me like, you know, why did you guys 693 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,480 Speaker 1: break up? What's going on? Like you know, it's it 694 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: must be me, because it's certainly not it's me. And 695 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 1: you know, in the years past, we've found that it 696 00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,839 Speaker 1: was it was truly me every time read much fuse 697 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,600 Speaker 1: until I found, of course, my beautiful intolerant kingdom who 698 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:12,799 Speaker 1: puts up with the gosh. All right, I love you, 699 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 1: Bob Guinny, and thanks for tuning in people, thank you 700 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,280 Speaker 1: for listening to everybody.