WEBVTT - How Dying Works

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to you stuff you should know Frondhouse storks dot com. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark, There's Charles W.

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<v Speaker 1>Chuck Bryant, he and Jerry's over there. Jerry, for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, I just saw a meme that's been out

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<v Speaker 1>for a couple of years. Yeah, that's that happened. That's

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<v Speaker 1>like when you rolled me like two years after it

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<v Speaker 1>was popular. You're like, isn't it the best? I was

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<v Speaker 1>lying in Wait, yeah, I thought that happened. So and

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing more obnoxious than sending someone something and be

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<v Speaker 1>like fill it two years ago. I'm so so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to show you something funny, right, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, Jerry just saw the do we even say

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<v Speaker 1>the mumble mouth reporter? Maybe? Yeah, the lady who supposedly

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<v Speaker 1>had a migraine but appeared to have had a stroke

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<v Speaker 1>reporting from the Grammys in Los Angeles a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. Yeah. I still don't know whether it's okay

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<v Speaker 1>to laugh at that, because I don't know really what

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<v Speaker 1>happened to her. Well, we didn't laugh. We very solemnly

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<v Speaker 1>showed Jerry. Yeah, and she laughed terrible. Jerry. Um, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got one for you. I've got a bit of an intro.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not much, so get your hopes up. Um. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever heard of the Population Reference Bureau? No, you have,

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<v Speaker 1>because I've mentioned it before. I've mentioned this this article before.

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<v Speaker 1>It's on PRB dot org. It's called how Many People

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<v Speaker 1>Have Ever Lived on Earth? And I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>we've mentioned and it maybe the Population Episode or something.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's a really cool little article by this demographer

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<v Speaker 1>named Carl hobb h au b and he Um. There's

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<v Speaker 1>even a video of him explaining it if you couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get what he was going with. But hobb um he

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<v Speaker 1>reckons that modern humans, people who are virtually indistinguishable from

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<v Speaker 1>you or me, aside from the fact that they're not

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<v Speaker 1>wearing like any clothes really um showed up about fifty

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand years ago. So hobb puts the population of

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<v Speaker 1>humanity at two uh in fifty thousand BC. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>from that point to two thousand eleven, he extrapolates, does

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<v Speaker 1>the math, does this little demography thing, and hobb comes

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<v Speaker 1>up with the number that one hundred and seven billion,

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<v Speaker 1>six hundred and two million, seven hundred and seven thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>seven hundred ninety one people have ever lived between fifty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand BC and two thousand eleven. See, that's pretty neat,

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<v Speaker 1>it is. That's a lot of people. He says. That

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<v Speaker 1>means about six point five of that are alive right now,

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<v Speaker 1>or we're in two thousand eleven, right, so we're dying off.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the point. All one hundred and seven billion, six

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<v Speaker 1>hundred two million, seven hundred seven thousand, seven hundred ninety

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<v Speaker 1>one of those people had one thing in common, one

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<v Speaker 1>thing aside from being humans, no, not even not even yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't have tax and in fifty BC they had

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<v Speaker 1>running from sabretooth tigers and death. It was death. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the one thing. All one hundred and seven billions, six

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<v Speaker 1>d two millions, seven hundred seven thousand, seven hundred ninety

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<v Speaker 1>one of those people had in common. You know, when

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking of your intro driving here today, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that'd be funny if Josh was like, how long

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<v Speaker 1>people been dying Chuck, And you know what, this wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>that far off? Was like, he wouldn't do that. You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>every way too boring. That's a good number. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Hundred seven billion, six hundred two million, seven hundred one

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<v Speaker 1>thousand seven seven. Yeah. Yeah, and that includes you and me. Pal.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what that means. You're gonna die. I'm gonna die,

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<v Speaker 1>Jerry's gonna die at least two or three times. We're

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<v Speaker 1>all gonna die. Yeah. This is our dying podcast, and

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<v Speaker 1>we have covered just about every aspect of dying. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you die from a broken heart? How rigor mortis works?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the worst way to die? Um? Is there a

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<v Speaker 1>best way to die? Did we do that? That was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of in the is there was? Yeah? Um, we've

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<v Speaker 1>covered everything from autopsies, peak oil, what can be done

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<v Speaker 1>with the dead body? Ninja's Yeah, well Ninja at least

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<v Speaker 1>you should know better than that. Yeah. We really have

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<v Speaker 1>danced around everything except just how dying works. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna be a sad podcast in many ways and

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<v Speaker 1>gruesome in some ways. Yeah, because we're gonna touch on

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<v Speaker 1>some of the stuff we hit on in like rigor

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<v Speaker 1>mortis and autopsies and the actual dying process. Right, But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so brace yourself. And I've mentioned this guy

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<v Speaker 1>scores of times at least, but as the it's a

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<v Speaker 1>Charles Man. You're thinking of the great psychologist Ernest Becker,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, shout out to our pal Joe Randazzo, who's

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<v Speaker 1>like in the Becker Now, Ernest, there's Ernest, Ernest, you're

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<v Speaker 1>thinking of Max Ernest. Okay. Ernest becker Um wrote the

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<v Speaker 1>Denial of Death, seminal work that basically says, we're all

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<v Speaker 1>just doing everything we came to think about our own demise,

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<v Speaker 1>and there is some sort of health, whether it's spiritual, emotional,

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<v Speaker 1>there's some sort of health or well being I think

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<v Speaker 1>from facing the fact that you're going to die and

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<v Speaker 1>talking about it. Yeah, so let's talk about death, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about you and me. Let's do it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So Molly Edmonds Um, who used to be on Sminty

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<v Speaker 1>Step Mom never told you we call it sminty Um

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<v Speaker 1>wrote this one, and I think it is interesting. And

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<v Speaker 1>I usually don't like it when articles say, like the

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<v Speaker 1>definition of blah blah blah, but it's kind of interesting

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<v Speaker 1>that in the first encyclopedia it was just the separation

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<v Speaker 1>of the soul from the body, and now it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty times that long in the encyclopedia, right, And that's

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<v Speaker 1>just sort of indicative of how we used to think

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<v Speaker 1>of it and how I don't know if it's ironic

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<v Speaker 1>or not, but how medical science has complicated that over

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<v Speaker 1>the years. Yeah, well it's definitely ironic because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we used to be confident that we understood death. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like that person isn't moving anymore. If you ask him

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<v Speaker 1>what he wants to eat, he's not going to respond.

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<v Speaker 1>If you choose something for him to eat, like a

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<v Speaker 1>block of cheese, it's not going to be swallowed like

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<v Speaker 1>that's death. And since there was perhaps a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>religiousness associated with death and dying than there is today, um,

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of underscored the belief and death. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>soul departing from the body, and what what more do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to know, egghead, it's death. Well yeah, and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>way back, you know, a few d years ago, you'd

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<v Speaker 1>call it a priest and they they checked the body,

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<v Speaker 1>see if it's breathing, and say, yep, they're dead, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was pretty much it. The doctor wasn't even involved

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<v Speaker 1>at that point. There may not have even been such

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<v Speaker 1>a thing as doctors, and if there were, they were

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<v Speaker 1>wearing like masks that made them look like crows to

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<v Speaker 1>protect them from the plague. So they weren't any better

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<v Speaker 1>it's ascertaining death than a priest. Was true. When doctors

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<v Speaker 1>did come along and they invented things like the stethoscope,

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<v Speaker 1>they could actually check and see if there was a heartbeat.

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<v Speaker 1>Before that, there was bal force test, which I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>find out a lot about this other than you stick

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<v Speaker 1>needles into the heart with little flags on it and

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<v Speaker 1>see if the flags move. I think that's pretty straightforward.

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<v Speaker 1>Really yeah, I think that's about it. I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the test by that, And there were other tests that

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<v Speaker 1>like a priest who may have come to say whether

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<v Speaker 1>you were dead or not, would use like placing a

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<v Speaker 1>feather above the mouth or around the mouth or knows

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<v Speaker 1>to see if he moves. Um, the old mirror mirror

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<v Speaker 1>trick that's still you know, useful, it is, but only

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<v Speaker 1>if the mouth is still moist. If it's a dried mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably not gonna fog up a mirror. Well, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not breathing, it's not gonna fall right exactly. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>So I said that medical science has complicated it, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what's happened over the years, because as we

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<v Speaker 1>progressed with medicine, we discovered a lot of ways to

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<v Speaker 1>actually reverse death, like bring people back from the dead,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's something as easy as CPR or as complicated

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<v Speaker 1>as you know, machines to help you breathe and feed you. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>And not only that, we've entered this really awkward period

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<v Speaker 1>um in human medical history where the machines that can

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<v Speaker 1>tell us whether someone is alive or not are more

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<v Speaker 1>advanced than our machines that can bring a person back

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<v Speaker 1>from death. Yeah, so we have ways to sustain the body,

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<v Speaker 1>but not necessarily the the person, depending on your definition

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<v Speaker 1>of death, like the faintest trace of a brain wave

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<v Speaker 1>maybe right. Yeah, So we went from holding a feather

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<v Speaker 1>under somebody's mouth or who knows to see if they

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<v Speaker 1>were alive, to using the m r I s to

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<v Speaker 1>see whether there's electrical activity. And we're finding that all

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<v Speaker 1>of these old signs, these old outward signs of death

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<v Speaker 1>don't necessarily mean that the person is dead. And even

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<v Speaker 1>if the person is dead, we have technology, like you

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<v Speaker 1>were saying, to resuscitate them. The question is, if we

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<v Speaker 1>resuscitate them and they're still not talking, they still don't

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what they want to eat, are they alive? Well? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and we in this hasn't been that long you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean in the fifty two thousand years or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the people have been dying. It's only been the past

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sixty something that we've had to come up

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<v Speaker 1>with terms like persistent vegetative state and irreversible coma because

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<v Speaker 1>of those machines that can resuscitate or sustain a body.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was when the French neurologists describe the coma

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<v Speaker 1>deposs which is a state beyond coma basically, uh, brain death,

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<v Speaker 1>although that didn't come along until technically until nineteen when

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<v Speaker 1>Harvard Medical School did uh, basically defined it for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time. Yeah, and although they didn't even call it

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<v Speaker 1>brain death at the time, what they call it just

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<v Speaker 1>irreversible comma like you're not coming back. Brain death was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of tagged on later. Um. So yeah, so comma

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<v Speaker 1>to pass um, vegetive, persistent vegetative state, brain death. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>all these things would indicate again that you're dead. The

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<v Speaker 1>problem is is we have these machines that can keep

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<v Speaker 1>your body warm, you can keep your chest rising and falling,

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<v Speaker 1>can keep your body going indefinitely. Um. But the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is there's something that's not there, and does that mean

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<v Speaker 1>you're dead. There's been a lot of talk about, um,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what constitutes death. Defining death is a very very

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<v Speaker 1>difficult thing to do, especially through the advancement of medical technology.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of changed every time you come with the Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I got it, this is the definition of death. Medical

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<v Speaker 1>technology can provide some picture of a state of consciousness

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<v Speaker 1>or life that throws the wrench in the works, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's um. Actually, after night it took one presidential

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<v Speaker 1>commission is when they finally in the United States wrote

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<v Speaker 1>a paper called Defining Death, Medical Legal and Ethical Issues

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<v Speaker 1>and the Determination of Death. That was the basis for

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<v Speaker 1>the Uniform Determination of Death Act, which basically rejected the

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<v Speaker 1>Harvard idea that of the higher brain, which is like,

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<v Speaker 1>when your personality and your memories are gone the cortical brain,

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<v Speaker 1>that means you're dead. And they rejected that in favor

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<v Speaker 1>of the whole brain, which includes the brain stem, which

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<v Speaker 1>is what keeps you breathing and functioning. Um, They're rejected

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<v Speaker 1>in favor of that. So Harvard was like, right, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I I I don't know. I think I subscribed to

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<v Speaker 1>the higher brain death the definition of death. Um, the

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<v Speaker 1>brain stem. I'm yeah, that's pretty significant. Um, you can

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<v Speaker 1>be born with just a brain stem. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>Mike the headless chicken before um he had his head

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<v Speaker 1>cut off, which included his brain, but his brain stem

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<v Speaker 1>was still there and he's a chicken, so it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really matter. Um. But the that is a there's a

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<v Speaker 1>huge division between the two because there's a big difference

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<v Speaker 1>between breathing and being able to swallow for yourself and

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<v Speaker 1>making a conscious decision whether again what you want to

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<v Speaker 1>eat right there, or having memories or just reacting to

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<v Speaker 1>people aside from like you know, physical reaction. Right. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's one of the one of the there's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole article on brain death. Maybe we'll do that one.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we did that now I think we did

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<v Speaker 1>it in the organ donation Procurement episode. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>brain death and testing for and death like they shoot

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<v Speaker 1>ice cold water in your ear canal. Definitely remember covering

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<v Speaker 1>at some point. Yeah, I think it was in the

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<v Speaker 1>organ donation moment or maybe living wells. Obviously we might

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<v Speaker 1>have touched on it there. We did. We did wills,

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<v Speaker 1>but we hit on living wills. But you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned organs. I don't think we said that. That was

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<v Speaker 1>a big kind of a quandary in the nineteen sixties. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>in the late I'm sorry, mid nineteen fifties, and then

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<v Speaker 1>really in the nineteen sixties is when we went organ

0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:31.079
<v Speaker 1>transplant crazy. Um actually kind of not just the United States,

0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:34.800
<v Speaker 1>all over the world. Doctors said, hey, we can actually

0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:37.480
<v Speaker 1>give people a shot at life because we can now

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<v Speaker 1>transplant kidneys and lungs and hearts. The problem was, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is sort of one of the sad things that

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<v Speaker 1>Molly points out, is that the definition of death kind

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<v Speaker 1>of came about was hurried along, maybe because we needed

0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:56.800
<v Speaker 1>organs from these bodies that were still technically alive, which

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<v Speaker 1>is very ghoulish proposition. I mean, it makes sense from

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<v Speaker 1>a very utilitarian standpoint. It's like, this guy doesn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know he's laying there, and he's got a great kidney

0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:08.920
<v Speaker 1>that could go to his sister, who knows that she

0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:11.160
<v Speaker 1>needs a kidney. She's gonna die, and she's got kids

0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:12.920
<v Speaker 1>that she wants to hang out with, and like, can

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<v Speaker 1>put this kidney to good youth. So let's let's figure

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<v Speaker 1>this out. But um, as Molly says, like most developed

0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:22.000
<v Speaker 1>countries have signed on to the brain stem where it's

0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:28.320
<v Speaker 1>like you're brain can no longer keep you alive like

0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.960
<v Speaker 1>on your own. You can't swallow, you can't take a

0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:35.560
<v Speaker 1>breath for yourself, so you're dead. Um. The problem is

0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:40.240
<v Speaker 1>that's that's just that's different. That's a much much's much more.

0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:43.960
<v Speaker 1>It's a narrower definition of death, I guess. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that that probably rules out a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>who might otherwise be used to harvest organs harvest I know. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so let's talk about death itself. It's funny

0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:58.880
<v Speaker 1>that you well, it's not funny, but out of all

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<v Speaker 1>the different ways people can die, I thought it seems

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<v Speaker 1>simplified to break it down into three ways, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>really kind of the three ways. Yeah. I think we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about that in autopsies two right. Yeah, it can

0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:14.200
<v Speaker 1>be an accident obviously, Um, that's called the death. Yeah,

0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:18.120
<v Speaker 1>the violent death, which is also an opsie. I guess, well,

0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:23.360
<v Speaker 1>not an it's tragic homicide or suicide. So check. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about what it's like to die from different types

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<v Speaker 1>of death. You dug this up, yeah, because I've really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know, like, what is it like to drown

0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:36.240
<v Speaker 1>or to be burned alive? Yeah? And and people have

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<v Speaker 1>survived some of these things and come back to tell

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<v Speaker 1>the tale. That's obviously the only way we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>find this stuff out or from lucky people. Um, drowning,

0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.040
<v Speaker 1>I've always heard drowning is a good way to go

0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.520
<v Speaker 1>because it's not so painful. Yeah, and that like the

0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:53.600
<v Speaker 1>brain supposedly releases endorphins at the end. Yeah, same with freezing,

0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:58.280
<v Speaker 1>I've heard too. Maybe true. Um, although drowning victims have

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<v Speaker 1>reported uh, aside from the panic, a tearing and burning

0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:07.080
<v Speaker 1>sensation when your water starts filling with lungs and quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully really quickly after that is the feeling of calmness

0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:15.680
<v Speaker 1>that overcomes in tranquility. Yeah. Um, a heart attack. You've

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<v Speaker 1>got the squeezing chests, pain in your chest or your

0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:21.680
<v Speaker 1>left arm, Yeah, like a weight on your chest right. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>What I didn't know is that because of the heart

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<v Speaker 1>not delivering oxygen to the brain any longer, you can

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<v Speaker 1>lose consciousness. Um, within like ten seconds. Um, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize that. I think, like it was, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>more to it. Well, it depends. You know, everyone has

0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:42.840
<v Speaker 1>their own signature heart attack as well. Um, if you

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<v Speaker 1>bleed out, I imagine this is not one of the

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<v Speaker 1>best ways to go. Um, after about a liter and

0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:53.240
<v Speaker 1>a half of blood, you're gonna be thirsty and weak

0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:57.680
<v Speaker 1>and anxious. Anything over too, you're gonna be pretty confused

0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.440
<v Speaker 1>and dizzy and probably lose consciousness pretty soon. Now, and

0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:02.400
<v Speaker 1>all of that would be that would relate to how

0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:05.199
<v Speaker 1>fast you're losing blood, and it would probably be very

0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:09.080
<v Speaker 1>unpleasant depending on how you're losing blood. Like why because

0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:11.760
<v Speaker 1>you would imagine that if you're stabbed in the gut

0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:14.400
<v Speaker 1>or something like that. Yeah, you got the attendant pain

0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:17.280
<v Speaker 1>in addition to this dying from loss of blood or

0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:21.040
<v Speaker 1>like man reservoir dogs. Yeah, it's like one of the the

0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:24.280
<v Speaker 1>most hardcore ways to open a movie or not open.

0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:26.399
<v Speaker 1>But they cut right to that scene after the diner scene,

0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:31.480
<v Speaker 1>right after the walk Yeah. Um. Electrocution. Um, if you're

0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:34.760
<v Speaker 1>in your house and you get electrocuted, could stop your

0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:37.760
<v Speaker 1>heart right then and there. And uh, if you're in

0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:42.960
<v Speaker 1>an electric chair, you may have actually heated your brain

0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:46.440
<v Speaker 1>up to the point where you die or suffocated to death. Right.

0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:51.560
<v Speaker 1>But the there's indications that being electrocuted with enough voltage

0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:57.320
<v Speaker 1>that instantly you lose consciousness. That's the idea probably with

0:17:57.400 --> 0:18:02.359
<v Speaker 1>the quote un quote humane, I'm sorry quote humane end quote.

0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stop doing that. I'm going back to quote

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<v Speaker 1>unquote what if you fall from a height. If you

0:18:09.560 --> 0:18:13.880
<v Speaker 1>fall from a height, supposedly UM time slows, which is awful.

0:18:15.240 --> 0:18:18.760
<v Speaker 1>It's like, well, you're gonna experience all of this. Yeah,

0:18:19.160 --> 0:18:23.920
<v Speaker 1>that's uh yeah, the idea that you that you really

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<v Speaker 1>can take it all in, that's really awful. So they've

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<v Speaker 1>they did a study of UM jumpers from the Golden

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<v Speaker 1>Gate Bridge, which is seventy five what is that two

0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:42.600
<v Speaker 1>hundred thirty it's high enough, and they they found evidence

0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:47.040
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of them died from exploded lungs, exploded hearts, UM.

0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:51.320
<v Speaker 1>Their organs were all cut up from their ribs, which

0:18:51.359 --> 0:18:55.240
<v Speaker 1>would indicate death was pretty much instantaneous. Yeah. We talked

0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:57.440
<v Speaker 1>about that on something too recently, I think, or maybe

0:18:57.440 --> 0:19:00.000
<v Speaker 1>I heard it someone else talking about it. It's pretty

0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:01.840
<v Speaker 1>that way to go. What the Golden Gate Bridge or

0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:05.160
<v Speaker 1>just just falling diving from a height. Yeah, I can't remember.

0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:06.720
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to about jumping in the water. I

0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:08.159
<v Speaker 1>was like, what actually kills you when you jump in

0:19:08.200 --> 0:19:10.320
<v Speaker 1>the water from the eye, and that was like your

0:19:10.400 --> 0:19:13.320
<v Speaker 1>organs smash into each other and explode. Yeah, I guess

0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:15.760
<v Speaker 1>from any height. Yeah, but when you when you die

0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:19.359
<v Speaker 1>from that would be from organ explosion or whatever. Yeah,

0:19:19.520 --> 0:19:24.840
<v Speaker 1>or you know the brain obviously if you go head first. Yeah,

0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:28.240
<v Speaker 1>that's um, the long drop back in the day would

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<v Speaker 1>although they still you can get hung in certain states

0:19:32.280 --> 0:19:35.560
<v Speaker 1>if you choose really yeah, Washington state and now you

0:19:35.600 --> 0:19:38.160
<v Speaker 1>can huh. Um, you can choose that as your method.

0:19:38.200 --> 0:19:41.040
<v Speaker 1>They'll build you the gallows and uh. The idea that

0:19:41.080 --> 0:19:43.640
<v Speaker 1>there is you want your neck to snap, otherwise he's

0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:47.680
<v Speaker 1>died slower and you know, suffocate. The problem is there's

0:19:47.720 --> 0:19:50.800
<v Speaker 1>a study of thirty or four prisoners that found four

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<v Speaker 1>fifths of them died partly from asphyxiation. Really, that's the

0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:59.320
<v Speaker 1>wrong way to hang somebody. If you if you don't

0:19:59.359 --> 0:20:03.760
<v Speaker 1>snap their or they don't lose consciousness immediately, Um, they

0:20:03.960 --> 0:20:08.159
<v Speaker 1>sit there and hang and die of asphyxiation. That's a

0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:11.520
<v Speaker 1>bad way to go. Uh. And speaking of bad, I

0:20:11.520 --> 0:20:14.720
<v Speaker 1>think being burned to death maybe one of the worst.

0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:18.520
<v Speaker 1>And then what we came up with on the I

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<v Speaker 1>think so because you feel it and you'd think like

0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:23.479
<v Speaker 1>your nerve endings, that's what I thought, like, oh, your

0:20:23.520 --> 0:20:27.280
<v Speaker 1>nerve endings are probably like stop responding quickly. But apparently

0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:28.960
<v Speaker 1>that's not the case. No, not only is that not

0:20:29.080 --> 0:20:33.840
<v Speaker 1>the case, Apparently you're fire further sensitizes your nerve endings,

0:20:33.880 --> 0:20:38.159
<v Speaker 1>so you feel even more pain. Yeah, but luckily most people,

0:20:38.760 --> 0:20:41.960
<v Speaker 1>I think the vast majority of people who die in

0:20:42.040 --> 0:20:45.760
<v Speaker 1>fires actually die from smoke inhalation before they ever feel

0:20:45.760 --> 0:20:48.639
<v Speaker 1>pain from fire. Yeah, that are well, I don't know

0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:52.280
<v Speaker 1>about before they feel pain, but hopefully quick enough. Well,

0:20:52.320 --> 0:20:56.199
<v Speaker 1>you know, cover monoxide thinks, so like, well, there's a

0:20:56.200 --> 0:20:59.679
<v Speaker 1>lot of smoke you are download to the ground and

0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:02.520
<v Speaker 1>that's of the carbon carbon monoxide is so you're entailing

0:21:02.600 --> 0:21:06.159
<v Speaker 1>mostly that, so it's possible it's before, it's true. And

0:21:06.200 --> 0:21:10.280
<v Speaker 1>then the natural death, which is uh, passing of old

0:21:10.320 --> 0:21:13.320
<v Speaker 1>age or disease. And here in this country we have

0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:15.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of whipped up a lot of the disease over

0:21:15.800 --> 0:21:20.320
<v Speaker 1>the years into into they sniff them off. The case, right, Well,

0:21:20.320 --> 0:21:22.440
<v Speaker 1>it depends like some of the ones that like kill

0:21:22.640 --> 0:21:27.320
<v Speaker 1>undeveloped countries, like diarrheal disease, like dying from diarrhea. Um,

0:21:27.400 --> 0:21:29.919
<v Speaker 1>you don't have that much in the US, but we

0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:36.760
<v Speaker 1>have chronic disease like obesity, and diabetes and UM cardiopulmonary disease. Um,

0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:39.639
<v Speaker 1>we have that downpat. I've got the top five here. Actually,

0:21:39.680 --> 0:21:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I think they're all in there, aren't they. Um, heart

0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:46.240
<v Speaker 1>is number one, cancer is number two. UM, lower respiratory

0:21:46.320 --> 0:21:50.600
<v Speaker 1>is number three. Strokers for an accidents are five. And

0:21:50.760 --> 0:21:54.359
<v Speaker 1>it's a huge drop. Cancer and heart are close to

0:21:54.400 --> 0:21:57.760
<v Speaker 1>six hundred thousand, and then number three at lower respiratories

0:21:57.800 --> 0:22:00.760
<v Speaker 1>only a hundred and thirty eight thousand. So that shows

0:22:00.760 --> 0:22:02.879
<v Speaker 1>you what cancer and heart disease are doing in the

0:22:02.960 --> 0:22:05.040
<v Speaker 1>United States at least. And the upshot of all this

0:22:05.119 --> 0:22:09.480
<v Speaker 1>is that most of us are not going to die suddenly. Um,

0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:12.760
<v Speaker 1>either by accident or by violent death. Yeah. Dying of

0:22:12.760 --> 0:22:15.040
<v Speaker 1>old age didn't used to be a thing. No, it

0:22:15.200 --> 0:22:16.639
<v Speaker 1>was like like a lot of ways to die, but

0:22:16.680 --> 0:22:19.800
<v Speaker 1>that was one of them. You ticked off some traveling night,

0:22:20.240 --> 0:22:26.160
<v Speaker 1>or there's a dispute over grazing rights. Ye. Plague, Yeah,

0:22:26.200 --> 0:22:29.520
<v Speaker 1>you walked into a bear cave. Yeah. The plagues another

0:22:29.920 --> 0:22:32.800
<v Speaker 1>but um, yeah, old ages. It's kind of a new thing,

0:22:33.000 --> 0:22:37.960
<v Speaker 1>but it's one of the most um prevalent forms of

0:22:38.000 --> 0:22:43.240
<v Speaker 1>death in developed countries. It actually has its own name, frailty, Yeah,

0:22:43.240 --> 0:22:45.360
<v Speaker 1>which is great. It's sad, but it's great that now

0:22:45.400 --> 0:22:48.680
<v Speaker 1>we can live out our lives and and we're about

0:22:48.720 --> 0:22:50.960
<v Speaker 1>to talk about it. But sometimes the body, just like

0:22:51.000 --> 0:22:54.240
<v Speaker 1>any other machine, just stops. It's not designed to keep

0:22:54.240 --> 0:22:59.320
<v Speaker 1>going indefinitely, and ultimately the system shuts down as its

0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:04.239
<v Speaker 1>subsystem shut down. This shutting down every second right right now,

0:23:04.920 --> 0:23:09.320
<v Speaker 1>are shutting down. And for that reason, because you and

0:23:09.359 --> 0:23:12.080
<v Speaker 1>I are both dying. I guess once you're born, you

0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:15.440
<v Speaker 1>start dying, or after you stop growing, you start dying,

0:23:15.560 --> 0:23:19.760
<v Speaker 1>right Is that just the positive outlooker, But I mean,

0:23:19.800 --> 0:23:23.320
<v Speaker 1>like you're shedding cells and like this is like the dying.

0:23:23.359 --> 0:23:25.320
<v Speaker 1>We're in the midst of the dying process. Just this

0:23:25.400 --> 0:23:28.119
<v Speaker 1>natural system is in the winding down, although it takes

0:23:28.160 --> 0:23:31.280
<v Speaker 1>decades and we still have plenty to do. Like you said,

0:23:31.560 --> 0:23:35.760
<v Speaker 1>you're dying, I'm dying. That's why they have a more

0:23:35.920 --> 0:23:40.240
<v Speaker 1>specific definition of death, which is um called active dying.

0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:45.720
<v Speaker 1>Like you and I are not actively dying right now. No, no, uh. Instead,

0:23:46.880 --> 0:23:49.320
<v Speaker 1>if we are actively dying, we're in the midst of

0:23:49.320 --> 0:23:53.440
<v Speaker 1>the dying process. It has started. The dying processes started.

0:23:53.560 --> 0:23:57.720
<v Speaker 1>The descent, if you will, has started, right, So, um,

0:23:57.880 --> 0:24:00.520
<v Speaker 1>all this kind of happens since different types of cells

0:24:01.000 --> 0:24:04.680
<v Speaker 1>die at different speeds, that's what it is. It's cell death.

0:24:05.400 --> 0:24:06.800
<v Speaker 1>Cellular I don't want to let the cat out of

0:24:06.800 --> 0:24:11.119
<v Speaker 1>the bag, but oxygen doesn't happen to different parts of

0:24:11.119 --> 0:24:14.760
<v Speaker 1>the body. Your cells are gonna die exactly, um. And

0:24:14.840 --> 0:24:18.080
<v Speaker 1>so as the cells die at different speeds, different systems

0:24:18.119 --> 0:24:21.800
<v Speaker 1>are gonna shut down. But just from watching frail people

0:24:22.560 --> 0:24:26.000
<v Speaker 1>die of old age, UM, they kind of have like

0:24:26.080 --> 0:24:30.320
<v Speaker 1>this the the order in which it happens kind of downpad.

0:24:31.359 --> 0:24:35.400
<v Speaker 1>So there's the UM, there's the preactive dying phase which

0:24:35.480 --> 0:24:39.840
<v Speaker 1>can take about three weeks, starts about three weeks before death,

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:43.720
<v Speaker 1>two or three weeks. And then there's the active dying phase,

0:24:43.760 --> 0:24:46.199
<v Speaker 1>which can take a few days. And obviously that's not

0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:48.399
<v Speaker 1>set in stone. None of this is set in stone.

0:24:48.800 --> 0:24:52.560
<v Speaker 1>But this is all just um kind of accumulative knowledge

0:24:52.720 --> 0:24:55.919
<v Speaker 1>from observations of people dying in like hospice and things

0:24:56.000 --> 0:25:00.000
<v Speaker 1>like that. So you get the preactive phase of dying UM.

0:25:00.080 --> 0:25:01.920
<v Speaker 1>And like I said, it starts a couple of weeks

0:25:01.920 --> 0:25:05.520
<v Speaker 1>ahead of the actual death. Because we have this is

0:25:05.520 --> 0:25:08.040
<v Speaker 1>a big deal right now, what we're talking about, Like

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:13.520
<v Speaker 1>it's becoming very clear, UM in our modern age that

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:16.520
<v Speaker 1>death is not an instant, it's not a moment, there's

0:25:16.560 --> 0:25:20.640
<v Speaker 1>a process. Yeah, well unless it isn't an instant, but yeah,

0:25:20.720 --> 0:25:24.320
<v Speaker 1>old age dying, yes, or like other kinds of dying.

0:25:24.359 --> 0:25:28.000
<v Speaker 1>But how about non accidental dying. We'll call it that

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:30.960
<v Speaker 1>because that's like the instantaneous thing, and even sometimes in

0:25:31.080 --> 0:25:34.600
<v Speaker 1>a very short scale that can follow some of these

0:25:34.720 --> 0:25:39.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, Oh yeah, I forgot it all to you, yes,

0:25:40.240 --> 0:25:43.520
<v Speaker 1>nodding my head. So the preactive phase of dying, Chuck,

0:25:44.040 --> 0:25:47.120
<v Speaker 1>what do we got? Well, Um, you're gonna start sleep,

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:49.600
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna get sleepy, You're not gonna have much energy,

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna start sleeping more and more. Uh, your skin

0:25:53.400 --> 0:25:56.520
<v Speaker 1>might become cooler to the touch, might turn a little

0:25:56.560 --> 0:26:02.640
<v Speaker 1>bluish gray. Yeah, cyanosis, So that's called it's just becoming

0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:06.160
<v Speaker 1>oxygen deprived. Like apparently your body's like, okay, don't really

0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:08.440
<v Speaker 1>need to use the legs anymore because we're bedridden, So

0:26:08.480 --> 0:26:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start focusing more of the circulation on the

0:26:12.119 --> 0:26:16.200
<v Speaker 1>inner organs. Yeah. Well that probably causes the modeling too,

0:26:16.320 --> 0:26:20.280
<v Speaker 1>which is, uh, your your skin can become sort of reddish,

0:26:20.440 --> 0:26:24.840
<v Speaker 1>like splotchy with reddish blue splotches as well. Right, you're gonna, um,

0:26:25.000 --> 0:26:29.600
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be a little restless. Probably, you're gonna possibly

0:26:29.600 --> 0:26:33.320
<v Speaker 1>come off as confused. Um, You're you're not gonna be hungry. No,

0:26:33.520 --> 0:26:38.240
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna probably withdraw from UM social activities. You're gonna

0:26:38.280 --> 0:26:42.360
<v Speaker 1>become a little a little withdrawn. UM. You might wanna

0:26:42.480 --> 0:26:47.080
<v Speaker 1>settle unfinished business with family. You might request family come

0:26:47.160 --> 0:26:50.439
<v Speaker 1>visit you for that kind of thing, the non physical parts.

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:53.359
<v Speaker 1>That's definitely something you'd be interested in doing. Right, But

0:26:53.600 --> 0:26:58.119
<v Speaker 1>that's like, UM, apparently something that that people intuitively know

0:26:58.359 --> 0:27:03.920
<v Speaker 1>like they need it. Apparently patients know when they're dying.

0:27:04.080 --> 0:27:06.639
<v Speaker 1>I've seen that happen. And one of the one of

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:11.160
<v Speaker 1>the signs from UM that's mentioned in hospice care palliative

0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:15.359
<v Speaker 1>care UM is that the patient may even state I'm

0:27:15.480 --> 0:27:21.520
<v Speaker 1>dying like I started, it's coming. That's pretty common um. Yeah,

0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:26.120
<v Speaker 1>and that's sad that when you realize like, all right,

0:27:26.160 --> 0:27:29.119
<v Speaker 1>this is this is it, Like I feel myself, I'm

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:32.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna be gone soon. But that's neat though, especially if

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:36.040
<v Speaker 1>you yeah, if you're like, okay, I'm gonna put everything

0:27:36.080 --> 0:27:41.440
<v Speaker 1>in order then die happy or peacefully. Yeah, that's neat

0:27:41.480 --> 0:27:45.440
<v Speaker 1>that you have that that time to to take care

0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:47.439
<v Speaker 1>of that. Yeah, if you're fortunate enough to go that

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:50.560
<v Speaker 1>way for sure. Back to physically, Um, you you won't

0:27:50.600 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 1>be able to heal from a wound er and infection

0:27:53.600 --> 0:27:57.480
<v Speaker 1>any longer. Yeah, you might um lose control of your

0:27:57.560 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 1>bladder and your bowels with the course of some time. Um,

0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:06.040
<v Speaker 1>you might be in pain, but chances are here in

0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:07.800
<v Speaker 1>the modern world they're gonna take care of you in

0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:11.000
<v Speaker 1>that respect. Right and again that's called palliative care, where

0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:15.160
<v Speaker 1>at some point it's very obvious that you're going to die. Um,

0:28:15.200 --> 0:28:17.160
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of it can be based on what

0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:21.680
<v Speaker 1>you want, even even um without your wishes, there's probably

0:28:21.720 --> 0:28:26.399
<v Speaker 1>a point in time where medical science says, there's nothing

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:28.879
<v Speaker 1>we can do for you. Um, we just want to

0:28:28.920 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 1>make you comfortable, exactly, so we're gonna give you pain meds.

0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:35.400
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna like your your care is being transferred over

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:38.960
<v Speaker 1>from a physician to who's you know, wants to save

0:28:39.000 --> 0:28:43.080
<v Speaker 1>your life and keep you going to hospice workers, health

0:28:43.120 --> 0:28:45.400
<v Speaker 1>care professionals who are trained to just keep you as

0:28:45.440 --> 0:28:48.960
<v Speaker 1>comfortable as possible for the for the duration of your life.

0:28:49.000 --> 0:28:52.720
<v Speaker 1>Right man, hats off to those people, like all health

0:28:52.720 --> 0:28:57.200
<v Speaker 1>care professionals of course, but man, hospice nurses, that's tough stuff.

0:28:57.200 --> 0:29:00.080
<v Speaker 1>You've gotta be like, you've got to be made of

0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 1>of the right qualities as a human to be able

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:05.120
<v Speaker 1>to tackle something like that and still get up and

0:29:05.160 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 1>go to work every day. Like they're literally in the

0:29:06.960 --> 0:29:11.440
<v Speaker 1>business of dying. I mean, very valuable, valuable service people provide.

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:14.640
<v Speaker 1>So that's the um, that's the preactive phase. That's the

0:29:15.320 --> 0:29:17.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting ready to die. I got a couple of

0:29:17.240 --> 0:29:21.000
<v Speaker 1>weeks and all of my systems are starting to wind down.

0:29:21.600 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 1>In the active phase, the systems are starting to shut down. Um,

0:29:26.120 --> 0:29:28.959
<v Speaker 1>you may not have consciousness, and if you do, you

0:29:29.040 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>may Uh. If you are able to be aroused from

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:38.800
<v Speaker 1>conscious from unconsciousness, you're gonna slip right back into it again. Possibly, Um,

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 1>you are probably and apparently families find this very disconcerting.

0:29:44.640 --> 0:29:48.080
<v Speaker 1>You're probably going to talk about people who are dead

0:29:48.120 --> 0:29:49.920
<v Speaker 1>as if they're in the room or you can see

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:53.080
<v Speaker 1>them or hear them. Yeah, it's just just the mind slipping.

0:29:53.840 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 1>They don't know. Um. Hospice workers, from what I can tell,

0:29:57.040 --> 0:30:00.840
<v Speaker 1>tend to just treat it like it's real, treated on

0:30:00.880 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 1>its own terms. They're not saying it's real or it's

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:07.920
<v Speaker 1>a hallucination or something like that. And they advise families

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 1>not to treat it like a hallucination. It just to

0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>not to correct them. Yeah, that makes sense, because you're

0:30:14.120 --> 0:30:17.600
<v Speaker 1>there to provide comfort, not say no, Grandpa, grandma has

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:20.400
<v Speaker 1>been gone for years. Why would you want to do that.

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:23.080
<v Speaker 1>There is an exception to that. You would want to

0:30:23.120 --> 0:30:26.280
<v Speaker 1>do that. If they're fearful from their visions, then you

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:29.200
<v Speaker 1>can say that's it's not real. It's just you your

0:30:29.440 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 1>brain that's not real or whatever. Again, all about comfort, yes,

0:30:34.680 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 1>but you don't want to contradict them if they're happy

0:30:37.440 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 1>or even saying it in a neutral tone. It's only

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 1>if they're they're fearful that you want to say that.

0:30:41.760 --> 0:30:45.600
<v Speaker 1>But apparently families are kind of like, oh god, crazy,

0:30:45.680 --> 0:30:48.240
<v Speaker 1>you know. But it's a it's a natural part of

0:30:48.240 --> 0:30:53.320
<v Speaker 1>the active dying process. Breathing is gonna become really weird. Um,

0:30:53.400 --> 0:30:59.640
<v Speaker 1>the patient's gonna stop breathing for disconcertingly long periods of time. Yeah,

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:05.560
<v Speaker 1>that's called Cheney strokes respiration stokes sorry, Cheney Stokes name

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:08.800
<v Speaker 1>for John Cheney and William Stokes. Obviously, the first dudes

0:31:08.840 --> 0:31:12.920
<v Speaker 1>who described it, Let's get all the press quick deep breaths,

0:31:12.960 --> 0:31:17.840
<v Speaker 1>sometimes very slow ones like you said, sometimes stopping altogether. Uh.

0:31:17.880 --> 0:31:20.240
<v Speaker 1>And that is caused by receptors in the heart and

0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:26.160
<v Speaker 1>brain stem basically being too sluggish to respond two different

0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 1>amounts of oxygen and CEO two and it's just kind

0:31:29.520 --> 0:31:32.680
<v Speaker 1>of lagging behind. Again, think of it as a machine

0:31:32.720 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 1>that's just slowing down and those receptors can't pick up

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:38.120
<v Speaker 1>on it in times, So it's it doesn't know how

0:31:38.120 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 1>to tell you to breathe basically like at a steady rate. Um,

0:31:41.600 --> 0:31:44.720
<v Speaker 1>we should say that there isn't evidence that that is

0:31:45.240 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 1>physically painful again, like awful for the healthy person in

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:52.800
<v Speaker 1>the room. Yeah, yeah, for the family watching it, you

0:31:52.840 --> 0:31:55.000
<v Speaker 1>think that the person is suffering, there's not evidence that

0:31:55.040 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 1>they are in fact suffering. Yeah, but it seems like it.

0:31:58.160 --> 0:32:02.200
<v Speaker 1>And that from what I understand with palliative care, UM,

0:32:02.240 --> 0:32:05.720
<v Speaker 1>not only making the patient comfortable is one of the priorities.

0:32:05.920 --> 0:32:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Making the family comfortable as a priority as well, because

0:32:09.320 --> 0:32:13.440
<v Speaker 1>how you die has a very lasting impact on the

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:16.520
<v Speaker 1>people who are there to witness your death. For family,

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:22.760
<v Speaker 1>so um, explaining that they're not suffering, Uh, is helpful,

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:26.440
<v Speaker 1>but not necessarily enough. Yeah, and I think actually this

0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:29.560
<v Speaker 1>podcast itself could help like some people, because I don't

0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:31.240
<v Speaker 1>think a lot of people do this sort of research

0:32:31.680 --> 0:32:33.760
<v Speaker 1>when they go into a hospital room in the last

0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 1>hours of a loved one's life. Yeah, and they may

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 1>not be told. They may even if it is explained

0:32:39.200 --> 0:32:41.520
<v Speaker 1>to it, it it might not sink in what they're being

0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:46.120
<v Speaker 1>told because you know, seeing somebody gasping for breath and

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:48.440
<v Speaker 1>then being told that they're not really suffering, those two

0:32:48.440 --> 0:32:51.000
<v Speaker 1>things might not jibe. Well, yeah, You're you're instinct is

0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:54.040
<v Speaker 1>probably trying to get help, like they can't breathe clearly,

0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:55.880
<v Speaker 1>let's get a nurse in here, and the nurses like, no,

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 1>that's that's that's part of it. Yeah. Another one that's

0:32:59.760 --> 0:33:02.400
<v Speaker 1>very just concidering. Another sign of active dying is the

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:05.960
<v Speaker 1>death rattle. And ye I did a I guess it.

0:33:06.040 --> 0:33:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Don't be dumb on death rattles. And basically, either you

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:13.960
<v Speaker 1>have fluid in the lungs or like you know, when

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:16.520
<v Speaker 1>you clear your throat like I just did, that's a

0:33:16.600 --> 0:33:21.280
<v Speaker 1>normal ability you have until you start dying. You can't

0:33:21.280 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 1>clear your throat anymore. Those are your laryngeal muscles, right,

0:33:25.520 --> 0:33:30.160
<v Speaker 1>basically spasming, what clearing your throat? No, the death rattle. No,

0:33:30.280 --> 0:33:33.480
<v Speaker 1>the death rattle is just breathing through the mire. It's

0:33:33.520 --> 0:33:39.040
<v Speaker 1>both it's it's either liquid or it's the muscle spasms. Yeah, okay,

0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:42.840
<v Speaker 1>so did you find that that's painful? Because I found

0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>that it's it doesn't cause pain, it's just it sounds

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:48.680
<v Speaker 1>terrible again to the people in the room exactly. And

0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 1>this is uh, I don't think we pointed out this

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:55.160
<v Speaker 1>is the agonal phase of death and it's Greek for struggle,

0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:59.040
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, that's sort of just encapsulates it. I think

0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 1>that's probably why they call it the active phase of

0:34:01.640 --> 0:34:05.040
<v Speaker 1>death now rather than agonol. Oh do they don't even

0:34:05.080 --> 0:34:07.240
<v Speaker 1>call it that anymore? I mean I think some people do,

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 1>but I think the active and agonol are the same

0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:13.520
<v Speaker 1>one and the same. It's just you know, they're in

0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:17.600
<v Speaker 1>the agony faith, right, or they're in the active faith. Uh.

0:34:17.640 --> 0:34:21.840
<v Speaker 1>Your muscles, aside from your vocal cords, UM might start

0:34:21.960 --> 0:34:27.040
<v Speaker 1>convulsive and spasm ng. Um. You can get all you know,

0:34:27.880 --> 0:34:30.719
<v Speaker 1>herky jerky and do things that wouldn't seem like you

0:34:30.719 --> 0:34:34.600
<v Speaker 1>should be able to do in your state, like um

0:34:34.800 --> 0:34:37.279
<v Speaker 1>card tricks. I don't know if you could do cards

0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:41.000
<v Speaker 1>shuffling card tricks from one hand to the other, and

0:34:42.000 --> 0:34:45.520
<v Speaker 1>Grandpa never could. Before I knew he gets something. We're

0:34:45.560 --> 0:34:50.560
<v Speaker 1>in here somehow. Um what else? Uh, well, let's see. Um,

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:52.960
<v Speaker 1>your blood pressure is gonna drop, your jaw is gonna drop,

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:57.040
<v Speaker 1>you might end up in a really weird rigid position. Um,

0:34:57.440 --> 0:35:01.400
<v Speaker 1>and uh you're I think we said your extremities are

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:05.400
<v Speaker 1>going to be cold to the touch. Yeah. Actually, the

0:35:05.120 --> 0:35:08.279
<v Speaker 1>the death rattle as a result of the spasming of

0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:12.239
<v Speaker 1>your laryngeal muscles that can also produce um, what was

0:35:12.680 --> 0:35:16.640
<v Speaker 1>described in what I read as a barking sound. Oh yeah, yeah,

0:35:16.640 --> 0:35:19.279
<v Speaker 1>and I've never I didn't search that out to see

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:22.520
<v Speaker 1>if that was recorded anywhere. But I'm curious what that

0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:27.160
<v Speaker 1>sounds like. I've heard everything from gurgling like gurgle too.

0:35:27.320 --> 0:35:30.960
<v Speaker 1>It sounds like there's marbles in your throat. Uh, barking.

0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:33.320
<v Speaker 1>That's a new one. But it makes I think everybody

0:35:33.320 --> 0:35:36.520
<v Speaker 1>has their own signature death rattle, you know, but they

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:39.160
<v Speaker 1>the rule of thumb, apparently among hospice workers, is once

0:35:39.200 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 1>the death rattle comes, it's a sign that they got

0:35:41.239 --> 0:35:44.879
<v Speaker 1>about forty eight hours or less left to live. Yeah,

0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:47.960
<v Speaker 1>and all of these are tells, really and all of them.

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:50.000
<v Speaker 1>And we'll talk about what happens after the body is

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:53.719
<v Speaker 1>dead too, and that helps with finding out you know,

0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:55.800
<v Speaker 1>in forensics, I think we pointed out plenty of times

0:35:56.080 --> 0:35:59.239
<v Speaker 1>at the time of death, depending on the various things

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:02.239
<v Speaker 1>that happen when they find you. But all all of

0:36:02.239 --> 0:36:07.359
<v Speaker 1>these are almost like like markers on a clock. Yeah,

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:09.480
<v Speaker 1>and if you're in hospice care, you know these things

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:12.399
<v Speaker 1>like oh this is this means this? Well, there there

0:36:12.400 --> 0:36:15.239
<v Speaker 1>are signs and symptoms of the system shut down that

0:36:15.320 --> 0:36:19.240
<v Speaker 1>the person's body is going through, you know. So, Um,

0:36:20.680 --> 0:36:25.280
<v Speaker 1>the senses apparently also are lost in a healthy person

0:36:25.360 --> 0:36:29.040
<v Speaker 1>or a person who has all five senses. Um, they're

0:36:29.080 --> 0:36:32.520
<v Speaker 1>lost in a certain order, and touch and hearing are

0:36:32.520 --> 0:36:37.320
<v Speaker 1>the last to go. And another another very important point

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:41.200
<v Speaker 1>that hospice workers make is never ever talk about the

0:36:41.239 --> 0:36:44.400
<v Speaker 1>patient like they're not there, because they can hear you

0:36:44.480 --> 0:36:47.279
<v Speaker 1>up until the end. Like hearing is kept so long

0:36:47.320 --> 0:36:49.799
<v Speaker 1>as the person could hear before then there's not any

0:36:49.880 --> 0:36:53.640
<v Speaker 1>damage from you know, during the act of dying period. Um,

0:36:53.800 --> 0:36:56.919
<v Speaker 1>they can hear you until the moment they die, and

0:36:57.320 --> 0:37:00.719
<v Speaker 1>you need to be careful what you said. Yeah, And

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I think that's a really nice thing that the last

0:37:03.920 --> 0:37:06.640
<v Speaker 1>things that you can experience are the touch of a

0:37:06.680 --> 0:37:08.440
<v Speaker 1>loved one or the voice of a loved one. Right,

0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, you needs to see him. You may not

0:37:10.640 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>even be able to respond to that, but you can

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:16.600
<v Speaker 1>still hear. That's true. I would definitely pick that over sight.

0:37:17.040 --> 0:37:20.319
<v Speaker 1>I'd rather hear someone's words as I pass rather than

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 1>having silence and just seeing their faces staring at me,

0:37:24.400 --> 0:37:26.359
<v Speaker 1>so long as the words aren't. Wait, one more thing,

0:37:28.840 --> 0:37:30.759
<v Speaker 1>I think it would be almost cruel to be able

0:37:30.800 --> 0:37:33.160
<v Speaker 1>to see and not here at the end. You know,

0:37:34.640 --> 0:37:37.279
<v Speaker 1>like he wants to see your family upset. You want

0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:40.120
<v Speaker 1>to hear feel them hold your hand and say everything's

0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:42.759
<v Speaker 1>gonna be right. So you So you you raise a

0:37:42.800 --> 0:37:46.799
<v Speaker 1>good issue like there's if you have a dying family member,

0:37:46.880 --> 0:37:49.560
<v Speaker 1>especially if they're dying a frailty or they're just dying,

0:37:49.600 --> 0:37:51.759
<v Speaker 1>like they're in the dying process, so they're about to

0:37:51.880 --> 0:37:55.760
<v Speaker 1>enter the dying process. Um, you could do worse things

0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:59.000
<v Speaker 1>than to go online and educate yourself on how to

0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:02.560
<v Speaker 1>be around them. I think people don't intuitively know how

0:38:02.600 --> 0:38:04.799
<v Speaker 1>to be around a dying person and there's certain things

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:07.359
<v Speaker 1>that you should do, certain things you shouldn't do. Like,

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:10.239
<v Speaker 1>for example, um, they say that you should talk to

0:38:10.280 --> 0:38:13.560
<v Speaker 1>the person, not the condition. So don't treat them like

0:38:13.640 --> 0:38:16.719
<v Speaker 1>they're frail or dying, Like, treat them like they're your

0:38:16.760 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 1>old friend. Who they are. Um, it's extremely important to

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:24.759
<v Speaker 1>make sure that they're in a peaceful, calm environment. Um. So,

0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:28.799
<v Speaker 1>like maybe yelling at somebody over the will is a

0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:31.319
<v Speaker 1>really bad idea. They seem like no brainers, but I

0:38:31.360 --> 0:38:33.319
<v Speaker 1>guess some people need to be told this stuff. Yeah,

0:38:33.320 --> 0:38:35.799
<v Speaker 1>but I mean think about it, like it can put

0:38:35.840 --> 0:38:38.040
<v Speaker 1>you on edge being around a dying person, like do

0:38:38.120 --> 0:38:40.360
<v Speaker 1>you mention the fact that they're gonna die? Or do

0:38:40.520 --> 0:38:42.880
<v Speaker 1>you you know? I mean like do your dad's around it?

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:45.480
<v Speaker 1>If they make a joke or something like can you

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:47.839
<v Speaker 1>laugh or do you laugh too hard? Do you not

0:38:47.920 --> 0:38:53.000
<v Speaker 1>laugh enough? Like there's I think it's not necessarily like yeah,

0:38:53.080 --> 0:38:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I think it's it's just put you on edge or

0:38:54.920 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 1>not everyone is as sensitive to that. Don't bring a

0:38:59.280 --> 0:39:02.839
<v Speaker 1>laptop in there and watch reruns of the Office. No, yeah,

0:39:03.040 --> 0:39:06.040
<v Speaker 1>are you speaking from experience. I'm just gonna add that. Okay,

0:39:07.040 --> 0:39:09.920
<v Speaker 1>that's on my list. Get off your cell phone. Yeah,

0:39:10.080 --> 0:39:12.400
<v Speaker 1>pay attention to them. Sure, yeah, I mean that's what

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:15.359
<v Speaker 1>you're there for. The as hospice workers put it, you're

0:39:15.360 --> 0:39:19.640
<v Speaker 1>giving them a very um heartfelt gift by being there

0:39:19.680 --> 0:39:22.720
<v Speaker 1>with them while they're dying and maybe receiving a gift,

0:39:23.040 --> 0:39:26.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, and many religions and cultures, it's very uh

0:39:26.840 --> 0:39:28.920
<v Speaker 1>much an honor to be a part of this whole thing,

0:39:29.320 --> 0:39:32.080
<v Speaker 1>and even if you're not religious, that you could just

0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:36.400
<v Speaker 1>feel that way spiritually as a human, you know. Okay, uh, well,

0:39:36.680 --> 0:39:40.240
<v Speaker 1>let's pause here because Chuck, it's time for a message

0:39:40.280 --> 0:39:49.640
<v Speaker 1>break and we're back. Okay, So are we dead yet?

0:39:49.680 --> 0:39:53.400
<v Speaker 1>Are we at that point? Yeah? The the person has passed.

0:39:53.440 --> 0:39:56.759
<v Speaker 1>It just sounded very cheery. Yeah yeah, yeah, Well, I

0:39:56.760 --> 0:40:01.000
<v Speaker 1>mean like we've rattled off some pretty what seems like suffering.

0:40:01.040 --> 0:40:03.239
<v Speaker 1>But now the suffering is over. If there was any

0:40:03.239 --> 0:40:08.560
<v Speaker 1>other person is dead. So once you, immediately immediately after

0:40:08.600 --> 0:40:12.040
<v Speaker 1>you die, your pupils are going to dilate because the

0:40:12.120 --> 0:40:15.560
<v Speaker 1>muscles controlling the iris or you know, gonna have their

0:40:15.600 --> 0:40:18.719
<v Speaker 1>final rest. So your pupils are going to dilate. And

0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:21.239
<v Speaker 1>then have you heard of the terminal tier or the

0:40:21.320 --> 0:40:26.879
<v Speaker 1>lacrima mortists? This is a usually in the right eye,

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 1>and there's no real explanation for it, but um, it

0:40:31.160 --> 0:40:36.080
<v Speaker 1>is a final tier that you shed. And um, it

0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:38.960
<v Speaker 1>doesn't always happen right after you die, although it can.

0:40:39.320 --> 0:40:41.200
<v Speaker 1>They did a study in the early nineties in New

0:40:41.280 --> 0:40:44.400
<v Speaker 1>Zealand and out of a hundred deaths, fourteen of them

0:40:44.560 --> 0:40:47.280
<v Speaker 1>right at the time of death had the lacryma mortists

0:40:47.320 --> 0:40:50.440
<v Speaker 1>here and uh thirteen of them in the final ten hours.

0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:54.440
<v Speaker 1>And they say uh to to look out for that

0:40:54.480 --> 0:40:57.360
<v Speaker 1>if you're the family, because it can be a sign.

0:40:57.480 --> 0:40:59.959
<v Speaker 1>And also they try to talk you into the fact

0:41:00.000 --> 0:41:04.440
<v Speaker 1>it it's a comforting thing to see that tier being shed. Wow. Yeah.

0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:06.920
<v Speaker 1>And since we're on eyes, you know the old thing

0:41:06.920 --> 0:41:10.120
<v Speaker 1>where you close someone's eyes after they die, Oh yeah,

0:41:10.239 --> 0:41:13.000
<v Speaker 1>or you put silver dollars on if it's it's the

0:41:13.000 --> 0:41:16.840
<v Speaker 1>old West. Um, I guess people do that too. So

0:41:16.960 --> 0:41:19.640
<v Speaker 1>you're not having someone a dead body staring at you, right,

0:41:19.719 --> 0:41:22.880
<v Speaker 1>because if they're looking dead forward, straight forward there like

0:41:23.000 --> 0:41:25.640
<v Speaker 1>following you all through out there. Yeah, and it's definitely

0:41:25.640 --> 0:41:28.120
<v Speaker 1>a movie trope. But if you don't close the eyes.

0:41:28.160 --> 0:41:32.040
<v Speaker 1>And I never knew this, um something called t A

0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:34.640
<v Speaker 1>c H E. Noir. I don't know if it's tash

0:41:34.880 --> 0:41:38.920
<v Speaker 1>or taste more. That is a black, a dark reddish

0:41:38.960 --> 0:41:42.759
<v Speaker 1>brown strip that forms horizontally over your eyeball. And I

0:41:42.800 --> 0:41:44.560
<v Speaker 1>guess it's just you know, your eyeballs dry out and

0:41:44.640 --> 0:41:46.920
<v Speaker 1>has the air. So if you don't close your eyes,

0:41:47.120 --> 0:41:49.920
<v Speaker 1>and I looked it up, you're gonna see this weird

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:53.560
<v Speaker 1>horizontal stripe across your eye. But there's a plus the

0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:56.560
<v Speaker 1>effect that has in the living, the difference between seeing

0:41:56.560 --> 0:41:58.560
<v Speaker 1>a dead body with their eyes closed and a dead

0:41:58.560 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 1>body with their eyes open, and it's just it's like

0:42:01.239 --> 0:42:04.719
<v Speaker 1>a galaxy between the two as far as discomfort goes.

0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:07.319
<v Speaker 1>Somebody should edit together the like every time that's ever

0:42:07.360 --> 0:42:12.440
<v Speaker 1>been done in a movie, just like super Fast. All right,

0:42:12.480 --> 0:42:17.280
<v Speaker 1>So that's all I got on the eyes, Um said Chuck.

0:42:17.760 --> 0:42:21.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to alarm you right now. Boy. You have

0:42:21.480 --> 0:42:26.080
<v Speaker 1>living in your guts right now, the very organisms that

0:42:26.120 --> 0:42:28.759
<v Speaker 1>are going to decompose your body when you die. They're

0:42:28.800 --> 0:42:31.400
<v Speaker 1>just sitting around waiting waiting for action, waiting for the

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:36.080
<v Speaker 1>signal yep Um, when you die, there's a lot of

0:42:36.120 --> 0:42:39.399
<v Speaker 1>stuff that's still alive, that's still going on, even though

0:42:39.480 --> 0:42:43.920
<v Speaker 1>your brain dead, whole brain, higher, brain, heart dead, your

0:42:43.960 --> 0:42:47.399
<v Speaker 1>heart stopped dead. That's another definition of death. I don't

0:42:47.440 --> 0:42:49.840
<v Speaker 1>know if we mentioned heart. Your heart's not beating anymore.

0:42:50.600 --> 0:42:54.560
<v Speaker 1>You're dead. Yes, Um, there's no bringing you back. You've

0:42:54.560 --> 0:42:57.480
<v Speaker 1>been in your heart hasn't or your brain hasn't had

0:42:57.520 --> 0:43:01.480
<v Speaker 1>oxygen for a while. You died of hype thermia. Uh,

0:43:01.520 --> 0:43:04.319
<v Speaker 1>and they warmed you up. So now you're officially dead.

0:43:04.480 --> 0:43:07.920
<v Speaker 1>You're gone, But there's still a lot of stuff. Remember

0:43:08.000 --> 0:43:11.680
<v Speaker 1>the poop Shake episode who Can Forget? We talked about

0:43:11.719 --> 0:43:15.000
<v Speaker 1>the microbio and we have this whole other like part

0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:18.040
<v Speaker 1>of our life are living organism that's still around, that's

0:43:18.040 --> 0:43:21.440
<v Speaker 1>still operating, and a lot of stuff living within us,

0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:25.239
<v Speaker 1>including part of our microbiome. They're still carrying on processes

0:43:25.320 --> 0:43:28.279
<v Speaker 1>like apparently you can harvest skin cells for twenty four

0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:33.400
<v Speaker 1>hours and and they're still alive. Just use them, Yeah,

0:43:33.480 --> 0:43:37.200
<v Speaker 1>for all sorts of stuff. Yeah, you can harvest them. Uh.

0:43:37.520 --> 0:43:40.000
<v Speaker 1>And then of course inside your intestines there's a little

0:43:40.000 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 1>tiny organisms that are still living and are gonna help

0:43:42.719 --> 0:43:44.920
<v Speaker 1>do the work that comes next, starting a couple of

0:43:45.000 --> 0:43:47.640
<v Speaker 1>days after death, like if you just fell over in

0:43:47.680 --> 0:43:50.279
<v Speaker 1>the woods and no one was around. I always loved

0:43:50.320 --> 0:43:54.800
<v Speaker 1>the setting right, Um, and you're just left there. Within

0:43:54.840 --> 0:43:59.879
<v Speaker 1>about three days, these organisms of micro flora is going

0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:04.040
<v Speaker 1>go to work on you, starting in your intestines. Yeah,

0:44:04.040 --> 0:44:07.200
<v Speaker 1>and this is after the various mortises. Correct, Yes, which

0:44:07.840 --> 0:44:09.160
<v Speaker 1>I guess we should kind of go over it. But

0:44:09.239 --> 0:44:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I would recommend everybody, um go listen to what causes

0:44:12.760 --> 0:44:15.200
<v Speaker 1>rigor mortis? For sure. It's on the website. You can

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:18.320
<v Speaker 1>go to stuff you should know dot com, slash podcasts,

0:44:18.440 --> 0:44:25.520
<v Speaker 1>uh slash what hyphen causes hyphen rigor hyphen mortis. Um,

0:44:25.640 --> 0:44:28.480
<v Speaker 1>we'll just run through the mortis is real quick. Then, Um.

0:44:28.520 --> 0:44:31.759
<v Speaker 1>Algor mortis, or the death chill, that's the first first

0:44:31.800 --> 0:44:34.000
<v Speaker 1>thing that's gonna happen. That's where your body starts dropping

0:44:34.040 --> 0:44:36.640
<v Speaker 1>in temperature about a degree and a half fahrenheit per

0:44:36.680 --> 0:44:40.320
<v Speaker 1>hour until you are just like a nice red wine

0:44:40.960 --> 0:44:44.520
<v Speaker 1>at room temperature. Yeah, actually that's not quite true. Red

0:44:44.560 --> 0:44:46.440
<v Speaker 1>wines like sixty four degrees for you. I guess it

0:44:46.440 --> 0:44:47.920
<v Speaker 1>depends what kind of room you're in. Yeah, if you're

0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:52.760
<v Speaker 1>in a sixty four degree it's perfect, all right. What else? Well,

0:44:52.800 --> 0:44:55.560
<v Speaker 1>after algor mortis, um, you get rigor mortis a couple

0:44:55.560 --> 0:44:58.720
<v Speaker 1>of hours after death, where the body um, settles into

0:44:58.920 --> 0:45:03.600
<v Speaker 1>a stiff state. Uh, and that lasts for what like

0:45:03.640 --> 0:45:06.120
<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours? I don't remember, we talked about it.

0:45:06.600 --> 0:45:10.200
<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, yeah, I think so. Um, and then between

0:45:10.239 --> 0:45:14.840
<v Speaker 1>those you have live remortis or subdulation. That's where like

0:45:14.880 --> 0:45:18.279
<v Speaker 1>all the blood coagulates them. Yeah, basically that your red

0:45:18.320 --> 0:45:20.960
<v Speaker 1>blood cells are pretty heavy and they just sink and um,

0:45:22.480 --> 0:45:26.320
<v Speaker 1>it's about twenty minutes to three hours after death is

0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:29.080
<v Speaker 1>when you're going to be in live remortis, and then

0:45:29.120 --> 0:45:32.439
<v Speaker 1>after that is riggor that's right. Okay, so not back

0:45:32.480 --> 0:45:35.839
<v Speaker 1>to putrification right, Well, that's the best thing can talk about. Yeah,

0:45:35.880 --> 0:45:38.879
<v Speaker 1>that's that's basically like you're these organisms go into work

0:45:38.920 --> 0:45:43.080
<v Speaker 1>breaking down your body and they do it pretty quick. Um.

0:45:43.120 --> 0:45:45.840
<v Speaker 1>The pancreas apparently has so many in there that it

0:45:45.960 --> 0:45:50.399
<v Speaker 1>just itself eats itself. The pancreas consumes itself. It's pretty efficient. Um,

0:45:50.440 --> 0:45:54.319
<v Speaker 1>your other organs are gonna eventually eventually be consumed in

0:45:55.040 --> 0:45:58.719
<v Speaker 1>turned into liquid. You're liquefied from the inside out. Yeah,

0:45:58.719 --> 0:46:01.920
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna turn colors, uh in this order green than

0:46:02.000 --> 0:46:05.239
<v Speaker 1>purple than black, which is just like a like a

0:46:05.400 --> 0:46:08.359
<v Speaker 1>black eye, I guess. Yeah, in that the same stage. Yeah,

0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:14.320
<v Speaker 1>except it never fully heels explodes. Um you Uh, within

0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:19.920
<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks, you're going to be liquid inside. Uh.

0:46:20.280 --> 0:46:24.080
<v Speaker 1>The organisms that are eating you produce a gas as

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:27.160
<v Speaker 1>a byproduct from their consumption. So you're going to be bloated.

0:46:27.160 --> 0:46:29.279
<v Speaker 1>Your tongue is going to stick out. He's gonna turn

0:46:29.400 --> 0:46:32.240
<v Speaker 1>dark to your tongue. Yeah, and that gas really stinks.

0:46:32.440 --> 0:46:35.640
<v Speaker 1>Your eyes are going to protrude. Yeah. Um. There's something

0:46:35.640 --> 0:46:40.000
<v Speaker 1>called purge fluid that is a putrid, reddish brown fluid

0:46:40.080 --> 0:46:45.400
<v Speaker 1>that can be expelled through just everywhere you've got an opening.

0:46:45.960 --> 0:46:49.640
<v Speaker 1>Can come out of your mouth, your nose, your vagina. Uh,

0:46:49.680 --> 0:46:51.319
<v Speaker 1>it can be mixed with feces and come out of

0:46:51.360 --> 0:46:54.600
<v Speaker 1>your rectum. Another. Um, there's something else I can come

0:46:54.640 --> 0:46:58.120
<v Speaker 1>out of your vagina too. Yeah. This is maybe the

0:46:58.160 --> 0:47:01.960
<v Speaker 1>worst thing I've ever heard. I just I had no idea. Yeah,

0:47:02.280 --> 0:47:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I had no idea. You know, I know all about

0:47:04.560 --> 0:47:07.080
<v Speaker 1>death and all that, and it's like interests me. I

0:47:07.120 --> 0:47:09.080
<v Speaker 1>had never heard of this before, and you want to

0:47:09.080 --> 0:47:10.880
<v Speaker 1>talk about you don't either. Maybe we should type it

0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:14.480
<v Speaker 1>into the computer and make the computer say it. Do

0:47:14.600 --> 0:47:19.680
<v Speaker 1>we have that ability? Oh? Wow, that's pretty good. That's

0:47:19.719 --> 0:47:23.000
<v Speaker 1>a good computer impression. So wait, that's what you do

0:47:23.520 --> 0:47:26.200
<v Speaker 1>when you don't want to say something yourself. You pretend

0:47:26.239 --> 0:47:29.040
<v Speaker 1>you're a computer. Yeah that, Emily and I most of

0:47:29.040 --> 0:47:32.480
<v Speaker 1>our fights are like that. Really. Yeah, it's pretty cute.

0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:36.920
<v Speaker 1>I go into a war games mode. What was it again, computer? Uh?

0:47:38.800 --> 0:47:43.600
<v Speaker 1>Coffin birth. So basically those gases that, um, this is

0:47:43.640 --> 0:47:45.920
<v Speaker 1>a real thing. We're not making this up. Yeah, but

0:47:46.000 --> 0:47:48.799
<v Speaker 1>post mortal fetal extrusion is another name for it. So

0:47:48.960 --> 0:47:51.319
<v Speaker 1>the gases that build up in the body before the

0:47:51.360 --> 0:47:55.120
<v Speaker 1>body ruptures um, which comes a little later, can become

0:47:55.800 --> 0:47:59.800
<v Speaker 1>so pressurized that a pregnant woman who has died with

0:48:00.120 --> 0:48:04.000
<v Speaker 1>the feet is still in utero can actually the gases

0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:08.280
<v Speaker 1>can push the fetus out of the vagina um, which

0:48:08.520 --> 0:48:13.719
<v Speaker 1>is birth. Yeah, and this doesn't happen much anymore, thankfully,

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:17.560
<v Speaker 1>because we take care of dead bodies pretty quickly. Um.

0:48:17.600 --> 0:48:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Although they did find evidence of it in a case

0:48:19.719 --> 0:48:21.440
<v Speaker 1>in two thousand eight where this woman was found like

0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:24.439
<v Speaker 1>in the woods, but um, it was described a lot

0:48:24.600 --> 0:48:29.719
<v Speaker 1>in like the eighteenth century medical literature. You know, it

0:48:29.880 --> 0:48:33.399
<v Speaker 1>just drove them crazy to she was obviously alive for

0:48:33.640 --> 0:48:38.319
<v Speaker 1>weeks afterward. Yeah, and archaeologists apparently too, or I have

0:48:38.400 --> 0:48:41.799
<v Speaker 1>to rethink sometimes when they find because sometimes you would

0:48:41.800 --> 0:48:44.279
<v Speaker 1>die during childbirth, but the um they have buried the

0:48:45.280 --> 0:48:48.759
<v Speaker 1>the baby with the mother, and so you would find

0:48:48.760 --> 0:48:51.359
<v Speaker 1>the bones like cradling each other almost. But then they

0:48:51.400 --> 0:48:53.200
<v Speaker 1>go back, they've had to go back and look at

0:48:53.280 --> 0:48:56.880
<v Speaker 1>somewhere they find the you know, between the legs, the

0:48:56.880 --> 0:48:58.520
<v Speaker 1>bones of the baby, and they think that might be

0:48:58.560 --> 0:49:01.879
<v Speaker 1>the case, like of a coffin birth. Right, So there's

0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:05.479
<v Speaker 1>the worst thing in the world. Yeah, Um, there's probably

0:49:05.520 --> 0:49:07.640
<v Speaker 1>death male band with that name. If there's not, there

0:49:07.719 --> 0:49:13.200
<v Speaker 1>is now. Um. So the gases ultimately, eventually once they start,

0:49:13.560 --> 0:49:15.680
<v Speaker 1>once they really get down to business and they're no

0:49:15.719 --> 0:49:18.239
<v Speaker 1>longer just what's it called where they're the fluids coming

0:49:18.239 --> 0:49:20.920
<v Speaker 1>out a little orifice is here, they're purge fluid. Okay.

0:49:20.920 --> 0:49:23.920
<v Speaker 1>So once it's like enough with the purge fluid, the

0:49:25.040 --> 0:49:30.000
<v Speaker 1>we're just gonna tear the sucker open. Your body ultimately ruptures. Yeah,

0:49:30.080 --> 0:49:32.000
<v Speaker 1>and this is you know, your skin has already blistered

0:49:32.040 --> 0:49:35.440
<v Speaker 1>at this point, Um, your hair, nails, and teeth have

0:49:35.520 --> 0:49:38.200
<v Speaker 1>fallen out. They don't keep growing. No, it's your skin

0:49:38.280 --> 0:49:42.000
<v Speaker 1>receding from drawing out, from desiccating. So pass that around

0:49:42.080 --> 0:49:45.319
<v Speaker 1>in school kids. When someone says that your fingernails keep

0:49:45.320 --> 0:49:48.160
<v Speaker 1>going after death, you set him straight, tell him Josh saying,

0:49:49.160 --> 0:49:53.520
<v Speaker 1>oh god, I just realized there's kids listening to this. Um.

0:49:53.560 --> 0:49:55.840
<v Speaker 1>And then the old d gloving which we talked about before,

0:49:56.160 --> 0:49:58.959
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I forgot about that, remember that? Yeah? Where

0:49:59.000 --> 0:50:01.960
<v Speaker 1>the that can upen to you? If you drive at

0:50:02.000 --> 0:50:05.040
<v Speaker 1>ten and two and you have an air bag, the

0:50:05.120 --> 0:50:07.960
<v Speaker 1>gases that expand the air bag out of your steering

0:50:08.000 --> 0:50:11.719
<v Speaker 1>wheel are very hot. And if you're not driving at

0:50:11.920 --> 0:50:14.360
<v Speaker 1>nine and three and you have your hands at like

0:50:14.400 --> 0:50:16.680
<v Speaker 1>ten and two or something like, you're going to be

0:50:16.760 --> 0:50:21.800
<v Speaker 1>de gloved alive. Yeah, but your skin is just burned

0:50:21.880 --> 0:50:24.799
<v Speaker 1>right off your hands, or it's burned and separated and

0:50:24.800 --> 0:50:26.920
<v Speaker 1>then eventually comes off. So ten and two is not

0:50:26.960 --> 0:50:30.560
<v Speaker 1>how you should drive it on. Really, That's what I've learned. Yeah,

0:50:30.560 --> 0:50:33.800
<v Speaker 1>I drive it either just a straight up six o'clock

0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:36.920
<v Speaker 1>with one hand or a nooner, just just straight up

0:50:36.960 --> 0:50:39.600
<v Speaker 1>noon noon. I rarely have two hands on the wheel.

0:50:39.680 --> 0:50:41.520
<v Speaker 1>You don't drive with like your knees, with your hands

0:50:41.520 --> 0:50:46.160
<v Speaker 1>behind your head relaxing occasionally if I'm you know, relaxing. Yeah,

0:50:46.160 --> 0:50:51.319
<v Speaker 1>we're playing the guitar or something. Yeah, de gloving is

0:50:51.640 --> 0:50:55.200
<v Speaker 1>and then we talked about this in the probably rigor mortis.

0:50:55.239 --> 0:50:59.200
<v Speaker 1>But that's when your body farms maybe, yeah, that's when

0:50:59.200 --> 0:51:03.359
<v Speaker 1>basically your skin is removed, still attached to things like

0:51:04.160 --> 0:51:06.600
<v Speaker 1>fingernails and things like that, and it's they call it

0:51:06.640 --> 0:51:08.640
<v Speaker 1>the gloving for a reason. I don't think we need

0:51:08.680 --> 0:51:11.840
<v Speaker 1>to explain that it makes perfect sense. Or de socking sometimes,

0:51:11.840 --> 0:51:13.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, can happen to your feet. And well I

0:51:13.440 --> 0:51:15.439
<v Speaker 1>hadn't heard of that one. Did you just make that up? Well,

0:51:15.719 --> 0:51:18.799
<v Speaker 1>they said gloves or socks if it's your feet. But

0:51:18.880 --> 0:51:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I did make up the socking. Well I have to

0:51:23.160 --> 0:51:27.000
<v Speaker 1>use that from now on. That might be a new thing. Um.

0:51:27.080 --> 0:51:30.920
<v Speaker 1>So the body, once it once ruptures, your organs are

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:34.160
<v Speaker 1>already liquid um, and all that's left is a skeleton

0:51:36.120 --> 0:51:39.560
<v Speaker 1>which will eventually turn to dust too. Can I be done? No, wait,

0:51:39.600 --> 0:51:41.200
<v Speaker 1>we can't be done, because we do need to talk

0:51:41.239 --> 0:51:47.239
<v Speaker 1>a little bit about assisted suicide. Yeah, I just eat

0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:50.000
<v Speaker 1>that up for you. You should. Um, that's quite a

0:51:50.000 --> 0:51:53.440
<v Speaker 1>controversial subject, like we said, Um, I don't know if

0:51:53.480 --> 0:51:55.439
<v Speaker 1>I said or not. Like this has just been such

0:51:55.480 --> 0:51:59.920
<v Speaker 1>a huge whirlwind of input of information in my head

0:52:00.000 --> 0:52:03.640
<v Speaker 1>the last like thirty six hours studying for this um

0:52:03.719 --> 0:52:05.920
<v Speaker 1>that I don't know what I've said yet or not,

0:52:06.200 --> 0:52:08.480
<v Speaker 1>or what we talked about in another podcast, but so

0:52:08.719 --> 0:52:10.960
<v Speaker 1>we talked about dying of frailty of old age and

0:52:11.000 --> 0:52:15.520
<v Speaker 1>that it's increasing. Supposedly five out of ten people in

0:52:15.560 --> 0:52:18.479
<v Speaker 1>the United States will die in the intensive care unit.

0:52:19.040 --> 0:52:23.160
<v Speaker 1>And I saw this Ted talk from Newcastle, Australia with

0:52:23.200 --> 0:52:24.960
<v Speaker 1>this guy I can't remember what his name is, but

0:52:25.040 --> 0:52:26.920
<v Speaker 1>it's it's about dying. I think it's called it can

0:52:26.960 --> 0:52:29.600
<v Speaker 1>we talk about dying or something, And his point was,

0:52:30.560 --> 0:52:33.880
<v Speaker 1>you're going to die in the I see you, whether

0:52:33.920 --> 0:52:36.680
<v Speaker 1>you want to or not, if you die of a

0:52:36.760 --> 0:52:41.839
<v Speaker 1>degenerative disease or frailty, unless you say you don't want

0:52:41.880 --> 0:52:44.560
<v Speaker 1>to die there, because the way medical science is currently

0:52:44.600 --> 0:52:49.080
<v Speaker 1>set up, you are going to be treated most of

0:52:49.120 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 1>the time up until a bitter end with life saving measures,

0:52:54.400 --> 0:52:57.040
<v Speaker 1>and you're going to die in the I see you

0:52:57.280 --> 0:53:00.480
<v Speaker 1>with tubes hooked up and things be being and like

0:53:00.560 --> 0:53:03.520
<v Speaker 1>other people having crash carts taken in and out of

0:53:03.520 --> 0:53:07.320
<v Speaker 1>their room and people making a big ruckus up until

0:53:07.320 --> 0:53:09.719
<v Speaker 1>the point you die unless they give you palliative care

0:53:09.880 --> 0:53:13.799
<v Speaker 1>or or you say, I don't want to be sustained

0:53:13.840 --> 0:53:15.239
<v Speaker 1>like that, I don't want to go to the i

0:53:15.360 --> 0:53:18.560
<v Speaker 1>c U. And this point was, if half of Americans

0:53:19.360 --> 0:53:21.759
<v Speaker 1>are gonna die in the i c U, you have

0:53:21.800 --> 0:53:24.040
<v Speaker 1>to assume that maybe not all of them would want

0:53:24.160 --> 0:53:26.920
<v Speaker 1>to die in the i c U. And therefore they

0:53:26.960 --> 0:53:30.480
<v Speaker 1>need to think of things like I wanted an advanced directive,

0:53:30.600 --> 0:53:33.200
<v Speaker 1>a living will, I want a living power of attorney

0:53:33.239 --> 0:53:36.359
<v Speaker 1>to somebody to say no, no, do not put them

0:53:36.360 --> 0:53:39.160
<v Speaker 1>on a ventilator, do not put them in feeding tubes.

0:53:39.200 --> 0:53:41.759
<v Speaker 1>Like they don't want that. They just want to die,

0:53:41.880 --> 0:53:43.239
<v Speaker 1>or they want to go to hospitals. They want to

0:53:43.239 --> 0:53:46.439
<v Speaker 1>go back home. That's another big one, like they don't

0:53:46.520 --> 0:53:49.680
<v Speaker 1>let you go back home, especially if you can't speak

0:53:49.680 --> 0:53:53.879
<v Speaker 1>for yourself, like to medical science these days, that's crazy.

0:53:54.080 --> 0:53:56.280
<v Speaker 1>You don't leave the hospital when you know you're dying.

0:53:56.920 --> 0:53:59.640
<v Speaker 1>You stay in the hospital and and we keep doing

0:53:59.719 --> 0:54:02.520
<v Speaker 1>stuff until you die. That's not the way it drives

0:54:02.560 --> 0:54:04.760
<v Speaker 1>with a lot of people. But if you don't stop

0:54:04.800 --> 0:54:06.880
<v Speaker 1>and think about it and then write it down or

0:54:06.920 --> 0:54:09.919
<v Speaker 1>tell somebody who can speak for you, that's you're not

0:54:09.960 --> 0:54:12.560
<v Speaker 1>going to go home. You're not going to get to hospice.

0:54:12.880 --> 0:54:15.120
<v Speaker 1>You have to do this ahead of time. And part

0:54:15.160 --> 0:54:17.520
<v Speaker 1>of that that's kind of come out of this idea

0:54:17.880 --> 0:54:20.799
<v Speaker 1>is Okay, well, if we have autonomy to say I

0:54:20.880 --> 0:54:23.600
<v Speaker 1>don't want you to intibate me, why don't we have

0:54:23.640 --> 0:54:26.359
<v Speaker 1>the autonomy to say, I want you to give me

0:54:26.880 --> 0:54:30.480
<v Speaker 1>some stuff that's going to painlessly end by life, because

0:54:30.600 --> 0:54:33.319
<v Speaker 1>it's either that or facing a tremendous amount of pain

0:54:33.360 --> 0:54:37.600
<v Speaker 1>and suffering through this degenerative disease. Basically saying I'm ready,

0:54:37.880 --> 0:54:41.239
<v Speaker 1>I am ready, it is my life. It's like the

0:54:41.360 --> 0:54:45.279
<v Speaker 1>Richard dryf this movie from the eighties, Uh covertus, whose

0:54:45.320 --> 0:54:48.799
<v Speaker 1>life is anyway? I think I have no idea what

0:54:48.840 --> 0:54:51.760
<v Speaker 1>you're talking about. Think it was a movie about assisted

0:54:51.800 --> 0:54:54.480
<v Speaker 1>suicide and do you should you have the right to

0:54:54.480 --> 0:54:56.719
<v Speaker 1>be able to You know, that's a hot button issue

0:54:56.760 --> 0:55:00.400
<v Speaker 1>for sure, but apparently most Americans or the jority of

0:55:00.440 --> 0:55:03.919
<v Speaker 1>Americans actually support it until you start using a word

0:55:03.920 --> 0:55:06.600
<v Speaker 1>like suicide. Right when you pull them and say do

0:55:06.680 --> 0:55:10.960
<v Speaker 1>you are you in favor of doctors helping someone painlessly

0:55:11.040 --> 0:55:14.359
<v Speaker 1>in their life or something at the end of life? Yeah,

0:55:14.400 --> 0:55:16.280
<v Speaker 1>And then they're like, okay, so you're a favorite physician

0:55:16.320 --> 0:55:20.640
<v Speaker 1>assistant suicide. Um, what's that word? You know? And and

0:55:20.800 --> 0:55:24.360
<v Speaker 1>the doctors who are in favor of euthanasia is another

0:55:24.480 --> 0:55:29.879
<v Speaker 1>term for it. Um, say, look at palliative care, it's

0:55:29.880 --> 0:55:33.760
<v Speaker 1>like half of a step away from physician assisted suicide.

0:55:33.960 --> 0:55:36.560
<v Speaker 1>Like you're keeping somebody if they requested and knockdown on

0:55:36.640 --> 0:55:38.960
<v Speaker 1>morphine for the rest of their life, so they're never

0:55:38.960 --> 0:55:42.480
<v Speaker 1>going to regain consciousness. Um. There's this you you dug

0:55:42.560 --> 0:55:47.560
<v Speaker 1>up this one article by a British physician who argues that, um,

0:55:47.760 --> 0:55:53.040
<v Speaker 1>that agonal um gasping reflex. Apparently when part of the

0:55:53.080 --> 0:55:56.480
<v Speaker 1>apnea is that your body has a reflex where you

0:55:56.840 --> 0:56:00.840
<v Speaker 1>gasp for air and it's really disconcerting to family members.

0:56:00.880 --> 0:56:03.799
<v Speaker 1>Even though they don't think that you're suffering, it looks

0:56:03.840 --> 0:56:06.600
<v Speaker 1>like you're suffering. And this doctor argued, well, we have

0:56:06.760 --> 0:56:10.440
<v Speaker 1>drugs that can block this response so that the person

0:56:10.520 --> 0:56:12.839
<v Speaker 1>can't gusp for air. And what it's going to cost

0:56:12.920 --> 0:56:15.600
<v Speaker 1>them their last couple of breaths. But these last couple

0:56:15.640 --> 0:56:17.680
<v Speaker 1>of breaths make it appear like they're suffering, and the

0:56:17.719 --> 0:56:21.960
<v Speaker 1>family remembers that their kids suffered. Um, so why wouldn't

0:56:21.960 --> 0:56:25.600
<v Speaker 1>we do that? And there's this conversation that's taking place

0:56:25.640 --> 0:56:28.279
<v Speaker 1>more and more and more that ultimately it's kind of like,

0:56:29.960 --> 0:56:32.920
<v Speaker 1>who is somebody to say that somebody can't choose to

0:56:33.000 --> 0:56:35.880
<v Speaker 1>end their own life painlessly through the use of like

0:56:36.080 --> 0:56:39.719
<v Speaker 1>drugs or like Hunter Thompson did. Well, I mean, that's

0:56:39.719 --> 0:56:42.520
<v Speaker 1>another way to go, and you anybody can do that, sure,

0:56:43.000 --> 0:56:45.399
<v Speaker 1>but there are some people out there who don't want

0:56:45.440 --> 0:56:49.239
<v Speaker 1>to die violently for their family. Like that's the part

0:56:49.280 --> 0:56:52.160
<v Speaker 1>that I was upset about with that was his wife,

0:56:52.280 --> 0:56:55.080
<v Speaker 1>like finding him and stuff, his wife and his son,

0:56:55.680 --> 0:56:57.440
<v Speaker 1>and it was just like, not only that he did

0:56:57.440 --> 0:56:59.640
<v Speaker 1>it in his own basement, which I can understand doing

0:56:59.680 --> 0:57:01.680
<v Speaker 1>it at home, but he left quite a mess in

0:57:01.719 --> 0:57:04.239
<v Speaker 1>his own basement for his family to clean up. But

0:57:04.320 --> 0:57:08.920
<v Speaker 1>if he had other options these days, like doctor assisted suicide,

0:57:09.080 --> 0:57:10.480
<v Speaker 1>he might not have had to make a mess in

0:57:10.480 --> 0:57:14.239
<v Speaker 1>his beast My first families and chuck, uh. We know

0:57:14.320 --> 0:57:17.520
<v Speaker 1>that Hunter Thompson is far from the only person to

0:57:17.560 --> 0:57:22.320
<v Speaker 1>make his own exit his own way. Another very famous person, uh,

0:57:22.360 --> 0:57:25.320
<v Speaker 1>Sigmund Freud did too. Huh oh yeah, yeah, you know

0:57:25.400 --> 0:57:29.960
<v Speaker 1>that assisted suicide. Yeah, literally, physician assisted suicide. He was

0:57:30.200 --> 0:57:34.640
<v Speaker 1>um diagnosed with cancer of the palette because he smoked

0:57:34.680 --> 0:57:40.080
<v Speaker 1>tons of cigars, which were sometimes just a cigar and UH.

0:57:40.280 --> 0:57:43.160
<v Speaker 1>For sixteen years he lived with that diagnosis and finally,

0:57:43.200 --> 0:57:47.160
<v Speaker 1>towards the end, he asked his surgeon, his physician, go

0:57:47.200 --> 0:57:50.000
<v Speaker 1>ahead and hit me up with I think five grams

0:57:50.000 --> 0:57:52.720
<v Speaker 1>of morphine, like just a ton of morphine. And he

0:57:52.800 --> 0:57:55.439
<v Speaker 1>died three hours after the injection of it, but which

0:57:55.480 --> 0:57:58.320
<v Speaker 1>was more than his usual two grams of morphine right

0:57:58.560 --> 0:58:02.000
<v Speaker 1>or cocaine. He loved cocaine um, but he had um

0:58:02.240 --> 0:58:06.760
<v Speaker 1>developed what was called todden angst todin angst as German,

0:58:06.880 --> 0:58:10.960
<v Speaker 1>which is a dread of death. So and so we

0:58:11.000 --> 0:58:13.280
<v Speaker 1>lived with that for sixteen years. But he finally he

0:58:13.680 --> 0:58:17.160
<v Speaker 1>decided along the way like I fear this, but I'm

0:58:17.160 --> 0:58:21.600
<v Speaker 1>going to take it into my own hands. Physician assisted suicide.

0:58:21.840 --> 0:58:24.479
<v Speaker 1>And there's definitely more than one side to this coin.

0:58:24.760 --> 0:58:27.040
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of people. There's very strong opinions on

0:58:27.120 --> 0:58:29.919
<v Speaker 1>either side. But I think it's a at the very least,

0:58:29.920 --> 0:58:32.160
<v Speaker 1>even if you remove a motion from it's an extremely

0:58:32.240 --> 0:58:35.600
<v Speaker 1>interesting conversation and that it reveals so much about our

0:58:35.600 --> 0:58:40.240
<v Speaker 1>attitudes towards death and autonomy and like who's who has

0:58:40.280 --> 0:58:42.480
<v Speaker 1>the right to decide whether they're going to die or

0:58:42.800 --> 0:58:44.520
<v Speaker 1>who has the right to tell somebody that they can't

0:58:44.520 --> 0:58:48.160
<v Speaker 1>do that? Whose life is it anyway, Richard Dreyfus. Uh,

0:58:48.160 --> 0:58:50.320
<v Speaker 1>and then chuck one. One other thing that we want

0:58:50.320 --> 0:58:54.320
<v Speaker 1>to hit on is um regret. Yeah, I actually saw

0:58:54.360 --> 0:58:56.440
<v Speaker 1>this a few weeks ago, just by chance, and then

0:58:56.480 --> 0:58:59.320
<v Speaker 1>you sent it to me. Um. I think it was

0:58:59.320 --> 0:59:04.520
<v Speaker 1>in England hospice nurse spent a lot of time researching

0:59:05.080 --> 0:59:07.560
<v Speaker 1>life regrets over the course of a certain amount of

0:59:07.560 --> 0:59:11.520
<v Speaker 1>time and came up with the five most common life regrets.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, I think this is like a good way

0:59:15.200 --> 0:59:18.480
<v Speaker 1>to end it, you know. Number one, I wish I

0:59:18.480 --> 0:59:20.400
<v Speaker 1>had the courage to live a life true to myself

0:59:20.760 --> 0:59:23.440
<v Speaker 1>and not the life others expected of me. That was

0:59:23.480 --> 0:59:26.440
<v Speaker 1>the number one regret. Number two was I wish I

0:59:26.440 --> 0:59:29.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't work so hard. That doesn't surprise me at all.

0:59:30.760 --> 0:59:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Number three I wish I had the courage to express

0:59:32.640 --> 0:59:35.440
<v Speaker 1>my feelings. Number four I wish I had stayed in

0:59:35.480 --> 0:59:38.200
<v Speaker 1>touch with my friends. It's a very sad one. And

0:59:38.480 --> 0:59:41.960
<v Speaker 1>I wish I'd let myself be happier. There's number five. Yeah,

0:59:42.040 --> 0:59:44.480
<v Speaker 1>like that she was saying that they didn't realize towards

0:59:44.520 --> 0:59:46.760
<v Speaker 1>until the end of their life. That happiness is a

0:59:46.880 --> 0:59:49.640
<v Speaker 1>choice that you make. It's not something that happens to you.

0:59:49.680 --> 0:59:51.560
<v Speaker 1>It's something you go search out. It's a state of

0:59:51.680 --> 0:59:56.560
<v Speaker 1>mind that you strive for and to figure that out

0:59:56.600 --> 1:00:00.360
<v Speaker 1>like at the end, that that's the regret. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>call to action people, Yeah, really, like you think about

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff. You don't have to wish these things on

1:00:05.360 --> 1:00:07.440
<v Speaker 1>your deathbed if you start doing something about it now

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<v Speaker 1>exactly dying, Chuck, you know what we might have just done.

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<v Speaker 1>We might have just finished the death of the death suite.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet there's something else. Yeah, only time can tell.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know how much more aspects of death

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<v Speaker 1>we can cover. And I'll tell you what. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>put all of them together in a blog post the

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<v Speaker 1>Death Sweet, so everybody can go listen to all things

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<v Speaker 1>death via stuff you should know. In the meantime, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to look up more about dying, just type

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<v Speaker 1>dying into the search bar. How stuff works. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it has its own channel. Um, there's so much to it. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And since I said search bar, it's time for a

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<v Speaker 1>listener mail. This is a nice one. Um. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>normally do shout outs, but this was a nice one,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, what better way to end such a

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<v Speaker 1>depressing show. Uh? Hey, guys and Jerry loved the podcast. Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to thank you for teaching my fiance, Danny

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<v Speaker 1>and me about the flashlight trick to see spider ez. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I still haven't done it, man, I never think about

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<v Speaker 1>it at night. Jerry, you said you tried to write

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<v Speaker 1>new work. Yeah, okay, I need to do it. I

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<v Speaker 1>need to set a reminder. And my my response to

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<v Speaker 1>people who have been like, can you can you explain

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<v Speaker 1>it again? Practice? That's my explanation. Just practice, Just try

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<v Speaker 1>it from a different angle. Just practice. It's a real thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a trick. It is completely amazing. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is from Peacheat by the way. Uh, and it's wonderful

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<v Speaker 1>and frightening at the same time. But the problem now

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<v Speaker 1>is that whenever we walk our dogs at night, I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't have my normal fiance. I have this dude

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<v Speaker 1>with the flashlight stuck to his forehead, stopping at every

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<v Speaker 1>field to let me know just how many spiders are

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<v Speaker 1>dogs are stepping on and how we are always surrounded.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for the show, and now for a shameless request.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you don't often give shout outs. But it

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<v Speaker 1>would be the most amazing thing ever if you could

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<v Speaker 1>give a shout out to Danny on the podcast The

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<v Speaker 1>Airs sometime before our wedding on oct let him know

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<v Speaker 1>that I love him more than anything, and then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited to share my life with him, even if he

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<v Speaker 1>does have a flashlight stuck to his forehead, with the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of our lives walking our dogs together. I know

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<v Speaker 1>this is totally blown away and I would even let

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<v Speaker 1>him listen to that podcast first. So thanks to Jerry.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks guys. That is from Peachy way in Thousand Oaks, California.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Peachi just expressed it very nicely. Yeah, so Danny, Peachy, congratulations, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>best of luck, best witches from us. I told her

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<v Speaker 1>listen up for it on the Dying podcast and he

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<v Speaker 1>thought that was kind of funny, and it's like great. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and Danny, um, maybe put that flight once in a while. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>White h and Peachy don't use the word fiance so much. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a life lesson. I'm Chuck right there. I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to hear that. Um. If you want to see

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