WEBVTT - Miss CON-Toring 0:00:08.600 --> 0:00:15.840 Miss Spelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, you guys, 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:20.599 welcome to another Tory story. So I was just at 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:24.480 another convention. My TV hubby and boy Bessy, Brian, Austin 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:29.440 Green and I were there and I feel like I'm like, oh, 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.040 you know what, they don't want to hear about another convention. 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:35.879 We've talked about it. The stories just keep happening, you 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:40.520 guys that when there's too much goodness of funny things 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:43.600 that happen. I got to talk about a con again. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:46.320 I feel like this and Brian and I have more 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:49.240 coming up. In fact, we're going our next convention is 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:51.440 in Palm Springs. I feel like that's going to be 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:55.480 a great story. So I feel like how we have 0:00:55.920 --> 0:01:00.880 many like versions of the show, like it's misspell but 0:01:00.920 --> 0:01:04.880 then we have Tory stories and then we have bow talks. 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:09.640 I kind of feel we need like kind of a 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:15.039 convention one because they're not stopping. We're going on the 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:20.080 road to these conventions all summer long. Oh yeah, got 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:25.200 Niagara Falls coming up? What would that be? I'm good 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:28.280 with puns. I would say I'm typically good with puns, 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:33.399 but at this point I have been traveling and working 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:38.720 since Thursday, and I don't even know what day it is, like, 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:43.440 it has not stopped. I literally got back last night 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:48.360 two connections east coast to get to Huntsville, Alabama, and 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:52.080 it was we're talking delays. You guys know, I don't 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:55.600 like flying getting better, getting better, but there's no direct 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:59.560 flight there. So you got multiple connections, delays in Dallas, 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:06.920 delay like four hour delays, crazy storms. And then I 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.560 think I got home. We're there. We got home with 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:11.000 two in the morning last night, and. 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:13.840 Here we are, yep, here we are. 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:19.200 You know why, because the stories are just too good 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:23.040 and we're professionals. We you just got to keep going. 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:27.360 You just got to keep going. What would be a 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:31.800 fun pun for our convention stories? Both our brains are 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:36.120 a little fried right now. We literally have not stopped working, traveling, 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:41.120 or slept in four days. Four days, yeah, and not 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.720 for any like like we've been for four days and 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:44.960 not for any fun reasons. 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.160 We'll have to work on the pun. 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:51.800 Oh god, you know, I want to come up with 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:54.799 it on the spot. Matt myself right now. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:57.280 Miss Unconventional, I think we did that already. 0:02:57.400 --> 0:03:00.000 We've done that. But if it's its own like little. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.760 It's not an episode like it's very many one because 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:05.680 we have we're going to continue to have conn stories 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:10.600 because you've booked me through like next year on so 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:12.679 many of them. Thank you. 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:15.960 And I always tell Torry when she's like, I can't 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:19.200 believe I have another convention this week and or we 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:21.160 have to get up at the crack of dawn. I 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:25.959 have to remind her. Me too. Lucky me, I get 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:26.680 to go with. 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:30.280 Her, and then I love to remind her. But it's 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:35.160 my face that is on camera right now for our 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:39.160 social clips. Oh and that's where I think I'd like 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:42.840 to start with your face. Okay, God, I love a 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:47.680 good segue. Okay, So Ruthanne and I travel at this convention. 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:51.560 Keep in mind, I am grateful for these conventions like 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:56.200 I have. I come back with the fullest heart, so 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.320 much love, so much energy. I'm a people person, you 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:02.360 guys know. I like to talk. It's so amazing to 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:05.600 meet these people and see what a part of their 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:09.080 lives you have been in the effect you've had, and 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:12.040 just waile to connect. For me, like even just as 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:14.880 a human, I get human connection and I get to 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:19.159 hear stories and meet great amazing people. So it's great. 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:22.640 And you know, the kids are always like, oh my god, 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:25.719 you're gone for another weekend. And I'm like, you know, 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:28.960 I'm this is how I provide for my family at 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:33.840 this point, you know, it's one of my jobs. But anyway, 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:37.200 so we have to do a connecting flight. We apply 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:44.440 out of lax which is hell in itself, Miss Burbank. 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:48.240 But we get there, we have to go to Dallas 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:52.480 and do a connecting flight. And because of the storms, 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:54.680 and Ruth Anne tells me, because I have not flown 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:59.880 through Dallas before that Dallas is notorious for delays. That 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:03.320 airport it wasn't even an airport. It was like it 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:05.720 was the biggest thing I have ever seen in my 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:06.880 lifetime so far. 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:08.200 It's like it's own city. 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:12.760 That's exactly what it is. Oh, it's like the Truman show. 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:16.440 Oh my god, in an airport. Ooh should we do that? 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:20.240 Added to my list ideas that'd be a good TV show. Okay. 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:24.200 Anyway, anyway, if you get laid over there long enough, 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:27.520 you might have to live there, because that's how long 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:28.240 the delays are. 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:31.360 I'd rather get laid and not layover, but yeah. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:32.040 That's possible. 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:38.920 Anything can happen in the mecca that is the Dallas Airport. No, 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:44.360 so we landed. We had a delay four hours, you guys, 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:49.440 because there was crazy storms happening. And then oh, so 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:53.160 Brian is not on our flight, but he's in Dallas, 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:57.080 he's landed and he's taking another flight to Huntsville, Alabama. 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:02.520 And so I'm panicked. And this is how well Brian 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:06.560 knows me, like I say to him, and ruth Ann 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:09.000 knows me well and she didn't even know this. I 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.719 was panicked because I'm like, Brian and I aren't on 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:15.040 the same flight. And she's like, he puts it the headphones. 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:17.000 He's listening to music and stuff the whole time, like 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:19.320 it's not even like you're gonna be talking. And I 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:23.000 was like okay, okay. And so Brian's like where are you. 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.560 You're not on my flight and I was like, yeah, 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:30.440 I'm on a different flight. And I go I'm freaking out. 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:32.440 I only like to fly with you. And he's like 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:37.560 he texts me and he's like why because you feel 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:41.160 safer knowing that both of us are on that flight, 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:46.760 Like crying face, crying face knowing me. Well, then I'm like, okay, 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:51.440 in my irrational flying fear, like if Brian and I 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:55.239 are on the same flight, like that's that flight won't 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:58.599 go down basically, like and you know, I've talked about 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:01.440 my fears before of like if there's the celebrity on 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:04.360 the flight and babies, I'm like, okay, this flight will 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:08.680 be okay. Like it's irrational, I know, but anyway, I 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:13.040 loved that Brian knew my irrational fear in that, and 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:17.960 I was like, duh, yeah, that's exactly it. Anyway, So 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:20.200 we get to Dallas and Brian's like, oh, I'm getting 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:22.840 on this flight and it was earlier and didn't have 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:25.960 a delay, and I said to Ruthanne, Oh my god, 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:29.240 can we get on that flight? And she was like, 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:33.760 we can try. Well, there was nobody to change the ticket, 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:37.080 so we couldn't go online, we couldn't call, so we 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:40.880 decide to just run and we have to run. And 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:43.240 when I'm thinking, okay, we have to run to get 0:07:43.240 --> 0:07:46.960 to Brian's gate, I'm like, okay, it'll be like a couple. 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:50.080 Like I don't know, what are those things you get on. 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:55.880 It's not an escalator goes flat, moving walkway. If you're 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:57.960 going to stand still go to the right. If you're 0:07:57.960 --> 0:07:59.680 going to walk, please let people buy and go on 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:02.960 the left left. It's a courtesy. I always stand still 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:07.320 on it. It's my mee time. Anyway, I'm not a runner, 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:09.520 as you guys know, but we did because I was like, 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:11.679 I feel safe for being on the second floor with Brian, 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:17.440 so you know, I'm going to actually bolt, and we ran. 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:19.160 But what we didn't. 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:22.960 Realize is that the airport is a city, and even 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:28.080 though it's the same airline, Dallas is the hub for American, 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:31.920 So American is in every terminal, not just one. So 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:36.680 you could be changing flights from one terminal to another 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:38.679 and still be on American, which is right. 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:40.000 Exactly what was. 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:43.920 Happening, Well, I mean you'll say this didn't happen, but 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:50.199 this happened. You did look down and you didn't have 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:53.760 your glasses on. You were squinting, and I said, what 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:57.080 terminal is it in? And you said it's in B. 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.640 But she misread it and it was an E. 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:08.080 Well you do know how tiny the print is. For 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:10.920 some reason, it's a cruel joke the airlines play on you. 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:12.760 But yes, that is true. It is true. 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:15.640 I Miss I was like, oh my god, it's e 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:17.600 and you were like, okay, and do'll we find So 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:20.880 we're running, we're running, and then we see that we 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:23.080 have to go on a train. It takes you to 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:28.080 a different terminal. And so I'm running and I'm like, 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:30.360 I'm I'm on a mission. Now I'm going to get 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:32.680 on that flight with Brian Austin Green, like David and 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:36.080 Donna are flying together. It's irrational. It's in my mind. 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:38.160 And once I put my mind to something, I make 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:40.400 it happen. So I'm like, it's happening. 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:44.400 So I mean, even so you're still behind me and 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:46.760 I'm in front of you, and I'm on the escalator 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:47.400 going up. 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:51.439 She's walking up the stairs and you are. 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:54.440 Not walking on the escalator. You were standing still as 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:57.959 you do. And I got to the platform and I'm 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:01.840 walking ahead, and so she's walking ahead out and you're 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:02.400 not there. 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:06.960 She's walking ahead. But what happened is that by walking ahead, 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:11.360 and I hope you learned your lesson. I saw the 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:13.920 skylink and I saw it opened up and it said 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:17.000 get on here, and it's taken you to eat. And 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:20.400 she was probably squinting even though she was ahead and 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:23.200 didn't see that and kept walking. I jumped on that. 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:27.839 I jumped on that skylink and it wasn't until I 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:31.440 got on there that I realized, oh my god, what 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:36.079 if ruth Ann doesn't get on? And I panic because 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:38.679 now I am alone and I've never been on a skylink, 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:42.240 and I'm like, what is this thing? So I say, 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:44.480 oh my god, wait my friend, I don't think she 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.760 got on, and these two men are like, oh, she'll 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:49.240 make it. There's one that comes every two minutes. So 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:51.120 I was like, no, I'm scared of being alone. I 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:54.560 didn't say that. So I bulked to the thing because 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.000 I'm like, I'm going to get off, and I see 0:10:57.080 --> 0:11:01.439 ruth Anne come back around, like what And literally right 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:04.520 as I go to get off, it closes and I'm 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:08.600 pressed up against the glass. We have proof. Ruthan, while 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:11.360 she was laughing her ass off, ran up and took pictures. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.040 And I'm pressed up against the glass. 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:28.520 Like no, there was Torri's little face squitshed up against 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:32.160 the glass as the skylink pulled away from the platform, 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:33.720 and I was a little panicked. 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:37.880 That can't be sanitary either, And I didn't give two books. 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:42.880 I was just I full mouth pressed up against that glass, panicked. 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:47.760 Yeah, And I was like, oh no, because I don't 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:51.199 really trust toy to navigate an airport fire. 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:55.840 Or navigate anywhere. I have the worst sense of direction 0:11:56.400 --> 0:12:00.520 and time, you guys. So anyway, she he texted me 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:03.160 and she's like, I'm right behind you. I'm getting on 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:07.720 the next one. Wait there at the next station, right, 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:10.120 So I did. I did, and then she got there 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:12.880 and we ran and we ran. I'd like to say 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:16.640 we found Brian. We found him on his gate on 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:20.520 his earlier flight that wasn't delayed with the three Lawrence 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:25.720 brothers and uh yeah, they were there, probably every other 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:29.160 celebrity and we were on this like random later flight 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:37.720 and we get there. That's directed of me, duh me 0:12:38.120 --> 0:12:48.240 passive aggressive what But we wouldn't have these stories if 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:50.600 we had got on the earlier flight. 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:52.120 That's true. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.440 So I do believe there are no coincidences. I do 0:12:55.520 --> 0:13:00.880 believe in signs and yeah, so this is what happened. 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:03.560 Brian's like, oh, you made it, and I was like yeah, 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:05.720 and I was like, we're going to change her ticket 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:07.680 and they were like, you have to wait for someone 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:10.040 at the gate. So we wait, we wait. No one 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:12.440 ever came to that gate, and then they were boarding 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:17.440 and there was nothing left, so uh, Brian had to 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:19.679 go and he even like texted me, He's like, did 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:22.559 you get on the flight, and like nope, but our 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:28.480 flight is four hours delayed. So see in Huntsville. Oh man, 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:31.840 So we have time to kill a lot of time. 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:34.800 So we go to what is it called what is 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:35.280 it called? 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:38.920 Well? First? Oh, we. 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:43.480 First, we try to go to the American Lounge because 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:46.480 we always seem to forget whether or not if you're 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:48.199 flying first class they'll just let you in. 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:51.839 The answer is no, but she forgets what I told her, 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:53.760 I doubt they will let us in. 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:56.720 And that was quite a long ways away. 0:13:57.040 --> 0:13:59.720 But we had four hours, so we figured, okay, let's 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:02.120 give back to try and at the same time, we're 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:05.920 talking about maybe just staying in Dallas overnight because it's 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:06.960 already so late. 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:10.319 Oh my god. So I am now and you know me, 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:13.679 you guys, I am a positive person. I don't really 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:16.720 get in bad moods. I'm now in a mood and 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:20.440 I'm like, I'm exhausted, I have been traveling all day. 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.560 I'm a terrified flyer. Like it doesn't it's not good 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:28.360 to my nervous system. Emotionally, it's like I'm leaving my kids. 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:31.360 It's been a long day. And I was like, you 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:34.320 know what I said, you know, I'm at the point 0:14:34.400 --> 0:14:36.880 like it's eight something now, like maybe we just like 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.960 stay at the airport hotel and we catch the first 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.920 flight in the morning, because the convention itself didn't start 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:48.480 that day on Friday till four o'clock. So Rudan says, 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:51.240 I have a friend who has an amazing house here. 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:53.880 She'll give us the code, which I I was like, 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.800 I don't know. Anyway, I text Brian and I'm like, 0:14:57.000 --> 0:15:01.560 I think we might and he was like fuck no, no, 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:03.920 he said, you get on that next flight. He goes, 0:15:04.360 --> 0:15:05.960 do not. You're gonna be miserable. 0:15:06.080 --> 0:15:06.400 Do not. 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:10.240 This is funny, he said, do not stay a night, 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:12.800 just get there. You can go to sleep, you can 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:17.040 sleep in, you could have breakfast. You could go to 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:21.040 the gym. And I was like, who do you think 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:25.040 you're talking to and he's like, oh right, He's like 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:29.040 I forgot. He goes, well, you can sleep in. You 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:32.760 could have a diet doctor pepper in the morning. You 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:36.760 could avoid water at all costs, and you could watch 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:39.080 people and laugh as they walk in and out of 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:42.960 the gym. I go, ah, there's my best friend, good boy, 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:45.520 good for knowing me, and he goes, yeah, it felt 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:50.120 better writing it that way. Yeah, anyway, we make the law, We. 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:52.720 Make the long haul to the American Lounge, only to 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:57.680 be declined, and then I look up and see if 0:15:57.720 --> 0:15:58.920 there's any other lounges. 0:15:59.200 --> 0:16:02.160 I'm just gonna mind you though you had a choice. 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:06.160 They said, there's two lounges near where your your gate 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:10.880 is that you can go to, and she has American Express. 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.080 There was one you could buy for like it was 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:17.000 like ninety nine dollars a person, No, no, no, is 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:19.960 that writer sixty nine dollars. I just loved the number 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:23.560 sixty nine. Okay, it was ninety nine. And or there's 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:26.880 one that you could buy with your American Express for 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:28.080 nine dollars. 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:29.920 No, it was free. 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:32.320 It ended up being free. But this is what the 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:37.120 woman told us. And she was like, they're both right here, 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:42.600 and you said we should save money. Let's you know, 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:45.320 it's just, you know, it's just a lounge. We should 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:47.640 go to the one that's nine dollars, which did end 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:53.280 up being free, but it also costs you your sanity 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:55.920 going to that lounge because we got there. 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:58.880 Okay, fair, good good good. Being with you though always 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:02.040 cost me myself. It doesn't matter where I go. 0:17:02.640 --> 0:17:06.000 Twenty five years and we're still going though, go on, no, 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:11.320 you go on? Okay, no, literally, we've known each other 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:18.119 twenty five years. I was being literal. And so we 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:21.680 get to the lounge and we're checking in, giving our 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:24.080 passes so they can scan them and say, yes, yes, 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:28.640 say let's go to the lounge. Oh god, I love 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:36.720 this one. And the woman says to her, oh, is 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:38.000 it a mother daughter trip? 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:40.240 Yeah, And they. 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:44.040 Were referring to me as the mother in case anybody 0:17:44.240 --> 0:17:45.720 had any confusion about that. 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:49.080 So once again standing behind Ruth Anne and she's doing 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:52.119 all the talking and I'm just behind her and so 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:56.239 oh yeah, it's no missing any any who are they 0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:59.040 talking to? They are talking to her. I'm just in 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:04.160 the background. Oh is this a mother daughter trip? And 0:18:04.200 --> 0:18:07.920 I froze because if you all remember, if you haven't, 0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:10.399 you should go back and listen to that episode. Make 0:18:10.440 --> 0:18:13.240 sure you download listen give us five stars. We love you. 0:18:14.800 --> 0:18:19.040 When we went to another convention and we were packing 0:18:19.160 --> 0:18:22.600 like we went to the front and the luggage they 0:18:22.640 --> 0:18:26.960 were weighing it. The woman at that airport had said, 0:18:27.600 --> 0:18:28.720 is this your daughter? Right? 0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:29.560 Yep, yep? 0:18:29.680 --> 0:18:32.760 That would be united at the Burbank airport, and I 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:36.480 was horrified and I ran out the door and immediately 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:37.320 got botox. 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:39.520 So I was feeling a little better about myself on 0:18:39.560 --> 0:18:45.080 this trip. Once again, be looked a great. 0:18:47.080 --> 0:18:51.680 She by the way, your botox looks great, very natural. 0:18:51.880 --> 0:18:55.679 You looked refreshed. You even said your husband was like, oh, 0:18:55.760 --> 0:18:58.280 you just looked fresh, liked. She didn't even know you 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:01.720 bout anything done. She was looking good, by the way. 0:19:01.960 --> 0:19:04.960 So I now panic because I'm like. 0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:07.480 Panic in between laughing maniacally. 0:19:07.720 --> 0:19:12.120 Yes, uh huh so uh So the last time this happened, 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:14.080 I was just like, oh my god, I'm going to 0:19:14.119 --> 0:19:17.040 shut up and just we got to get on that flight. Well, 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:19.159 now we have four hours to kill so I'm going 0:19:19.200 --> 0:19:21.600 to jump in on this this time. Now it's happened 0:19:21.600 --> 0:19:25.680 two times, and I say, oh, we're friends. I go, 0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:31.119 we're actually only nine years apart THEYD care so I 0:19:31.160 --> 0:19:33.520 was like trying to say, like, there's no way she 0:19:33.600 --> 0:19:36.760 could have had me. So anyway, we get into the 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:40.919 lounge and I was like, are you okay? As I'm laughing, 0:19:42.280 --> 0:19:45.720 She's like, no, I just spent three thousand dollars on 0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:49.919 my face. Like I was feeling good, and this happens again. 0:19:51.080 --> 0:19:54.199 I was like, oh my god, I said, well, and 0:19:54.240 --> 0:19:57.360 then I tried to make excuses. I'm like, you know what, 0:19:58.119 --> 0:20:01.320 I tried to make it about me me. I don't 0:20:01.359 --> 0:20:04.440 dress my age. I'm the bad one. I'm in the 0:20:04.640 --> 0:20:08.679 inappropriate I'm dressed like a teenager, which everyone gives me 0:20:08.840 --> 0:20:11.640 shit about, even though I like dressing like this. I'm 0:20:11.680 --> 0:20:15.080 standing behind you, I have sunglasses on, I'm dressed like 0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:18.400 a skater girl, and you're doing all the talking. So 0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:20.240 I was trying to give her all the reasons why 0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:22.879 they might have assumed it was a mother and her daughter. 0:20:23.280 --> 0:20:26.200 She was decided the next trip, I'm wearing my hair 0:20:26.280 --> 0:20:29.639 up and pigtails. I'm gonna be having I'll have a 0:20:29.680 --> 0:20:32.560 lollipop in my hand and a stuffed animal in my arm. 0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:35.440 And then let's see if they think I'm your mother 0:20:36.320 --> 0:20:37.160 or what did you say? 0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:39.480 No, They'll think that i'm baby Jane. 0:20:40.000 --> 0:20:42.679 Yeah, whatever happened to baby Jane? That just that just 0:20:42.720 --> 0:20:46.760 sounds that sounds like some creepy fetish I don't know, but. 0:20:47.359 --> 0:20:51.880 Everybody in the lounge got in on it and made comments, and. 0:20:52.000 --> 0:20:56.959 Well, because she had to tell everybody in the lounge, 0:20:57.240 --> 0:20:59.720 and we, you know us, we make friends with everybody 0:20:59.760 --> 0:21:02.640 where before we go. So we're talking and telling. Anyway, 0:21:03.440 --> 0:21:07.800 third times the charm comedy happens in three So I'm 0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:10.960 really sorry, my friend, but I think it's probably gonna 0:21:10.960 --> 0:21:12.560 happen one more time. 0:21:12.520 --> 0:21:14.920 One more time. But we'll say that for a little 0:21:14.920 --> 0:21:25.280 bit later. So we make friends with everybody in the lounge. 0:21:25.280 --> 0:21:27.840 We say oah, goodbyes, we give you a five star review, 0:21:28.359 --> 0:21:29.400 and we go to our gate. 0:21:29.960 --> 0:21:35.840 So as she's so divisive sometimes, so as we're walking 0:21:37.119 --> 0:21:42.560 like no, no, no, no, no, we've checked our tickets. We're walking 0:21:42.720 --> 0:21:48.000 through that little like time yea ramp. Sorry, I don't 0:21:48.000 --> 0:21:52.600 know flying terms. I hate flying onto the plane, she goes, 0:21:54.000 --> 0:21:56.000 I have a little bit of bad news. 0:21:57.119 --> 0:22:02.199 In between laughing hysteria and practically being in my pants. 0:22:02.359 --> 0:22:05.879 And I was like, oh god, you know what, I 0:22:05.920 --> 0:22:09.080 go bad news for me. I'm used to his sister 0:22:09.240 --> 0:22:14.359 every day like what I'm flappable tory spelling like whatever, 0:22:14.600 --> 0:22:18.320 what is it now? And I go is it? I go? Wait, 0:22:18.520 --> 0:22:21.160 let me know how bad is it. I'm thinking she's 0:22:21.200 --> 0:22:23.879 gonna tell me like the convention's canceled, like or so, 0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:27.760 I don't know what she's gonna tell me. But but 0:22:27.880 --> 0:22:31.560 she said, uh, I hope you like who you're sitting 0:22:31.600 --> 0:22:36.320 next to on the plane. I'm like, oh my god. 0:22:36.400 --> 0:22:40.680 So being a scared flyer, it's not like I'm look 0:22:40.680 --> 0:22:42.960 at me having to defend myself, like I don't have 0:22:43.080 --> 0:22:44.959 to be in first class, I don't have to be 0:22:45.160 --> 0:22:46.520 with a friend, but I don't. 0:22:46.520 --> 0:22:50.000 We're usually seated together, that's but on this particular flight, 0:22:50.560 --> 0:22:54.680 it wasn't available, so I had put us like behind 0:22:54.720 --> 0:22:57.480 each other, assuming someone would switch. But I had forgotten 0:22:57.520 --> 0:22:59.399 about it until we were getting on the plane, and 0:22:59.440 --> 0:23:03.119 it just seemed and listen hilarious to me in that moment. 0:23:03.440 --> 0:23:10.520 Okay, here here's the thing. And I told Dean this 0:23:10.680 --> 0:23:13.920 for twenty years and he still never listened. I am 0:23:14.200 --> 0:23:19.439 way better at handling things if you're tell me up front. 0:23:20.160 --> 0:23:25.560 I don't like surprises. I hate surprises that plummets me worse. 0:23:25.800 --> 0:23:30.720 I like knowing everything up front, and I'll bitch about 0:23:30.720 --> 0:23:34.000 it whatever, and then I'll move on and we'll deal 0:23:34.040 --> 0:23:37.320 with it. But yeah, anyway, So we get on the 0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:39.720 flight and she says, don't worry, I'll ask the person 0:23:39.720 --> 0:23:41.880 because I always get nervous, like I'm sorry, I don't 0:23:41.880 --> 0:23:43.960 want you know me. So I'm sorry, I'm sorry for 0:23:44.080 --> 0:23:46.520 my existence. I don't want to ask you to move. 0:23:47.160 --> 0:23:49.840 So we get on. Were the last people the board 0:23:50.080 --> 0:23:55.639 of course, final call, and there's only two rows in 0:23:55.720 --> 0:23:58.800 first class because you booked us on this tiny plane. 0:23:58.920 --> 0:24:01.560 Another thing, I'm like, my choice. 0:24:01.720 --> 0:24:05.200 I decided we would fly on the tiniest plain possible. 0:24:05.880 --> 0:24:09.560 So I decide, all right, there's two guys I can ask, 0:24:09.680 --> 0:24:12.080 one sitting in the front, one sitting behind, and I'm 0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:13.840 going to go for the guy behind who has his 0:24:13.920 --> 0:24:17.960 head down. And I tapped him on the shoulder and said. 0:24:17.800 --> 0:24:20.199 Excuse me, sir, would you. 0:24:20.440 --> 0:24:24.160 Terribly mind switching seats till my friend and I could 0:24:24.160 --> 0:24:24.760 sit together? 0:24:24.840 --> 0:24:27.200 And then Tory says, yes, I'm terrified. 0:24:26.840 --> 0:24:29.040 Right, I pipe in and tell the truth. I'm a 0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:33.200 terrified flyer. Over explaining myself always I'm a terrified flyer. 0:24:33.240 --> 0:24:36.600 Would be so grateful and because you guys, it's true, 0:24:36.640 --> 0:24:39.439 like I'm getting better, I'm working on my fear of flying. 0:24:39.800 --> 0:24:44.080 But in the past like I I will clutch you, 0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:48.200 i will scream, i will bruise your arms because I'm 0:24:48.200 --> 0:24:52.480 holding on so tight, nails, digging into you, crying on 0:24:52.520 --> 0:24:55.479 your shoulder. It's not pretty, Like you don't want to 0:24:55.520 --> 0:24:58.280 be that human sitting next to me and that alone. 0:24:58.440 --> 0:25:01.840 I've explained in the past, people are like, cool, I'm up, 0:25:01.920 --> 0:25:06.359 I'll switch. But anyway, this gentleman was very accommodating. He 0:25:06.400 --> 0:25:08.440 looked at me and said, oh, of course, no problem, 0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:12.120 no problem. Got up. So he goes and sits right 0:25:12.160 --> 0:25:15.640 in front of us. We take our seats, and then 0:25:15.760 --> 0:25:18.640 ruth Anne goes, oh my god, do you know who 0:25:18.640 --> 0:25:21.600 that is? And I was so scared and in the 0:25:21.680 --> 0:25:24.680 moment and not looking. I don't know. So at this 0:25:24.880 --> 0:25:28.280 point all I have anything to base anything on is 0:25:28.400 --> 0:25:33.760 looking at his luscious curls long hair because I'm looking 0:25:33.840 --> 0:25:36.800 at his head. He's in front of me, and she 0:25:37.280 --> 0:25:40.400 texts me, it's weird al yankiffing. 0:25:42.359 --> 0:25:47.679 I couldn't say it because I was laughing too, so 0:25:47.840 --> 0:25:52.080 I had a texting yeah, because I was laughing in him. 0:25:52.160 --> 0:25:54.840 But it was just so absurd of all the people 0:25:54.960 --> 0:25:58.040 in the world. Because we are big fans, actually weird 0:25:58.080 --> 0:25:58.919 al Yankvich and. 0:25:58.920 --> 0:26:03.439 He's very nice, huge legend, legend, icon legend. So but 0:26:04.160 --> 0:26:09.760 in my tory brain, I'm like, oh, well, screw Brian, 0:26:10.200 --> 0:26:13.199 I'm on a flight with weird al Nothing's happening to 0:26:13.280 --> 0:26:20.000 this flight. I'm good, I'm solid. But I text my 0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:23.080 kids and my son Liam is like a huge sick 0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:25.560 fan of weird Awl, Like he loves old school stuff 0:26:25.600 --> 0:26:28.160 and he's just like and I said, weird Alice sitting 0:26:28.200 --> 0:26:30.520 in front of me, and he said, no way, no way. 0:26:30.720 --> 0:26:33.240 And he said, oh my gosh, Mom, I know you 0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:36.960 hate doing this, but would you ask him for a photo. 0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:40.240 And I was like, oh my gosh, I said, I'll try, baby, 0:26:40.280 --> 0:26:41.600 But I knew in my head. I was like, I'm 0:26:41.640 --> 0:26:44.880 too scared. I'm too scared. It's weird al Yo, like 0:26:45.320 --> 0:26:51.560 he's a legend. Anyway. Yeah, So that flight, I got 0:26:51.560 --> 0:26:55.960 to say, in the history of my flights, was one 0:26:56.000 --> 0:26:58.440 of the scariest flights I've ever been off. 0:26:58.880 --> 0:27:01.680 It was rough. Admit, that was a rough light. 0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:05.280 I mean we went through a thunderstorm, we went the 0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:10.840 plane was dropping and there's lights and here's the thing. 0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:15.840 God bless them, they got us there safely, but when 0:27:15.880 --> 0:27:19.080 the pilot when you land and they're like ding and 0:27:19.119 --> 0:27:21.720 everyone gets up to leave, and he comes out of 0:27:21.760 --> 0:27:25.000 the cockpit and he goes, phew. 0:27:26.119 --> 0:27:26.480 You know. 0:27:28.040 --> 0:27:31.320 That was a bad one, right, It's not my irrational fear. 0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:35.240 He goes, phew oh. And then he turns to the 0:27:35.240 --> 0:27:38.399 flight attend and he goes, yeah, that's storm. That was 0:27:38.480 --> 0:27:41.160 a bad one we went through. So I'm like, oh 0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:44.359 my god. Even he was like, I don't know if 0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:49.080 we're gonna be okay. And then he goes she says something, oh, 0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:49.960 well we made it. 0:27:50.000 --> 0:27:53.120 Or or she said that was a great landing. 0:27:53.080 --> 0:27:57.080 Great landing, and he goes through, any landing is a 0:27:57.119 --> 0:28:02.840 great landing. And you know what, I was like, Dann. 0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:05.200 Straight, yeh wow, we are right. 0:28:06.600 --> 0:28:10.760 Anyway, we made it. We went went to sleep. We 0:28:10.800 --> 0:28:13.280 got in literally by the time we got to the hotel, 0:28:13.400 --> 0:28:14.840 it was like what three in the morning. 0:28:15.000 --> 0:28:15.240 Yep. 0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:17.879 But we're like, hey, weird all can do this, we 0:28:17.960 --> 0:28:22.040 can do this. Yeah, So we go to sleep. The 0:28:22.119 --> 0:28:26.600 convention the next day we get there. Refresh my memory. 0:28:26.800 --> 0:28:30.040 What happened on Friday, Well, what happened on Friday was 0:28:31.400 --> 0:28:34.800 weet up with Brian to go to the convention. And 0:28:34.800 --> 0:28:38.840 lo and behold, he's broken his towel and he is 0:28:38.880 --> 0:28:41.080 having a very hard time getting around. 0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:49.080 And yes, and then on the way to the convention, 0:28:51.240 --> 0:28:55.960 I see my friend Rose McGowan, because Rose McGowan and 0:28:56.080 --> 0:28:58.640 Holly Marie Combes we kind of are all doing the 0:28:58.640 --> 0:29:03.479 same circle and doing these conventions. And I see Rose 0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:06.480 and she's in a boot and she's on like a 0:29:06.560 --> 0:29:10.400 knee scooter. I'm like, what happened? And she tells me 0:29:10.520 --> 0:29:14.360 this horrific story that happened, and I'm not going to 0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:16.520 tell it right because I was like, oh my god, 0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:20.120 Oh my god, what is happening? But basically, you know, 0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:21.920 she broke. 0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:25.160 Her foot, she pulled all the. 0:29:25.120 --> 0:29:29.560 Ligaments and and yeah, she was on an I was like, wow, 0:29:29.640 --> 0:29:33.240 but you made it here, and good for you. So 0:29:33.280 --> 0:29:36.040 we got we got Rose on a knee scooter with 0:29:36.080 --> 0:29:39.480 a boot broken. We got Brian with a broken toe 0:29:40.080 --> 0:29:44.960 who's like limping but like still walking. And he's such 0:29:45.000 --> 0:29:49.520 a dude, like, you know, he wouldn't like I was like, 0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:52.160 let's get in an uber when we were going to 0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:54.760 like dinners and stuff or you know, and he's like, 0:29:54.840 --> 0:29:57.280 I'm okay, I'm just going slower I'm like, oh, it's 0:29:57.280 --> 0:30:00.280 such a man like not to be like I got this, 0:30:00.400 --> 0:30:02.320 I got this, like because you know, they don't want 0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:06.000 to be like, okay, I'll take it easy. So he 0:30:06.160 --> 0:30:12.480 was a trooper. Rose was a trooper. And then Saturday, 0:30:12.680 --> 0:30:16.160 Jamie Presley comes in. She's doing a whole they got 0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:20.280 everyone from my name is Earl there, very cool, and 0:30:20.440 --> 0:30:25.280 she comes in and when she gets there, she breaks 0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:29.320 her foot at the airport. At the airport coming in, 0:30:29.640 --> 0:30:32.760 Jamie has broken her foot. It was like an old injury, 0:30:32.880 --> 0:30:37.800 hairline fracture. And now at the airport she had a 0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:41.080 Dallas connection and was trying to get through fast and 0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:46.840 like make that connection at the Mecca City and yeah, 0:30:46.880 --> 0:30:51.840 and broke rebroke it but like bad. And again I'm like, 0:30:51.920 --> 0:30:57.040 oh my god, my friends are all troopers, like super troopers. 0:30:57.640 --> 0:31:00.239 So anyway, she has a boot on two. She had 0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:03.280 the boot on two, so you have boots galore, except 0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:06.240 the boy who refuses to do it. So he's and. 0:31:06.120 --> 0:31:08.160 She's suffering through it, suffering. 0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:12.400 So we leave our table during the convention to get 0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:13.200 photos taken. 0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:16.560 And it's Brian and Tory and myself and. 0:31:16.520 --> 0:31:19.120 We're walking really slow because we know how you know, 0:31:19.160 --> 0:31:20.800 we're hanging back for Brian. 0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.920 They assigned an escort, a volunteer escort, to take you 0:31:24.240 --> 0:31:27.520 to your next event. And at first I'm thinking the 0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:29.480 guy we're walking with us is walking. 0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:32.840 He's walking in front of us with Brian and RUTHI Harry. 0:31:33.400 --> 0:31:37.840 We're like, oh, that's very respectful that he's going so slow. 0:31:38.440 --> 0:31:40.360 And then I took take another look and I. 0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:45.600 Say, actually he's badly limping as well, so he's either 0:31:45.680 --> 0:31:50.040 imitating Brian, which I highly doubt, or he too has 0:31:50.080 --> 0:31:52.480 an injury and. 0:31:52.920 --> 0:31:55.120 Need to find out. When we get to the panel, 0:31:55.720 --> 0:31:59.480 he says to me, I've met you before, and I said, 0:31:59.480 --> 0:32:02.080 oh my god, I'm so sorry. Where did we meet? 0:32:02.520 --> 0:32:05.840 And he said, in twenty nineteen, you were doing BH 0:32:06.000 --> 0:32:08.240 nine oh two and zero and at Century City Mall. 0:32:08.720 --> 0:32:11.760 They had like a fashion institute and we had like 0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:15.920 your clothes from the show and your design, your costume 0:32:15.960 --> 0:32:18.680 designer Mandy Lyin was there, and you and Jenny and 0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:23.080 I think Gabrielle, yeah, all the girls. And he said 0:32:23.560 --> 0:32:26.520 there was massive security because there was so many people 0:32:26.560 --> 0:32:30.520 like kind of bum rushing you. And I came up 0:32:30.840 --> 0:32:32.920 and wanted to get a photo with you as you 0:32:32.960 --> 0:32:35.880 were leaving, and he said, I still have the photo 0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:40.440 because all security swarmed in to keep me away, and 0:32:40.640 --> 0:32:43.160 you said, no, no, no, I'm fine, I'll take a 0:32:43.200 --> 0:32:47.480 photo with him. And the photo is kind of me 0:32:47.640 --> 0:32:50.040 kind of leaning in and you could see the security 0:32:50.080 --> 0:32:53.520 in the background, just like coming for this guy, and 0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:57.440 I took the picture quickly. They rushed me on. I 0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:01.400 thought it was okay. I haven't seen him since. Apparently 0:33:01.560 --> 0:33:04.320 they like tackled him. They thought he was like doing 0:33:04.360 --> 0:33:08.240 something to me. Wasn't. He was just a fan there 0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:12.160 at the time, like tackled him and he's had an injury. 0:33:12.880 --> 0:33:16.080 And I was like, oh my god. So literally, this. 0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:19.920 This unfortunate limp he has was caused by Tory. 0:33:20.880 --> 0:33:23.400 Oh take it back, take it back. Oh my god, 0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:28.760 that's the headline. Uh listen, it was. It was not 0:33:28.880 --> 0:33:32.840 directly caused by me, but it Yeah. Anyway, we hugged 0:33:32.840 --> 0:33:34.560 it out. I said, I'm so sorry. He's like, well, 0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:37.320 you didn't do it, you weren't responsible. He was so nice. 0:33:37.600 --> 0:33:39.920 I said, you know what the least I could do 0:33:40.080 --> 0:33:42.800 was let's do a proper picture without a security guard 0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:45.200 in the background about to tack you. So we took 0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:48.760 some really good pictures. Anyway, I got to see my 0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:53.000 old friend, not old, well, I mean he's older. I 0:33:53.040 --> 0:33:57.080 got to see William Shatner lunch with us. We had 0:33:57.160 --> 0:34:01.160 lunch with William Shatner, Me and Brian, Ruth and Tracy, Brian, 0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:07.320 Samandrain and Bill and that man. And again, if you 0:34:07.400 --> 0:34:11.680 have not heard that episode with William Shatner, we go, 0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:15.160 we go where no one has ever gone before. So 0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:19.000 he told me. And that is the infamous episode where 0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:24.520 I inform William Shatner that you should do an enema 0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:28.319 before anal sex. And he had never heard that women. 0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:31.200 Do that, so he appreciated the info. 0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:34.120 Yeah, he really did. But that man has I thought 0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:37.040 I had a good memory. He's how old ninety two 0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:40.880 ninety threety three, I think, and one of the best memories, 0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:47.040 I mean, one of the most intelligent, witty, quick men 0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:48.840 I have ever met in my life. 0:34:49.000 --> 0:34:49.920 Human, handsome. 0:34:50.719 --> 0:34:56.040 I'm still handsome, so I said to him. So, if 0:34:56.040 --> 0:34:58.680 you haven't listened to that episode, mister William Shatner, you 0:34:58.760 --> 0:35:02.719 got to listen to it. It's amazing on misspelling podcasts. 0:35:03.480 --> 0:35:06.320 But I said to him, Oh my god, my friend. 0:35:06.440 --> 0:35:08.279 And he's like, how are you? As we go over 0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:11.480 and we hug and give him a kiss, and I'm like, oh, 0:35:11.600 --> 0:35:13.920 I missed you. Oh my god, I love you. And 0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:19.959 then I said I still owe you pickles and he said, yes, 0:35:20.040 --> 0:35:23.040 you do. You never sent me those pickles. So in 0:35:23.120 --> 0:35:26.680 the episode, I randomly because I was like, you know what, 0:35:26.719 --> 0:35:30.920 everyone has asked William Shatner everything in his career, so 0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:36.239 I kind of was like freestyling, freestyling podcast version. That's 0:35:36.280 --> 0:35:39.360 a new thing. And I was like, I'm gonna go 0:35:39.480 --> 0:35:43.279 rogue and whatever comes to mind in this moment with him, 0:35:43.280 --> 0:35:46.160 I'm just gonna ask. In the day before, I had 0:35:46.360 --> 0:35:50.719 just made homeweede pickles, like the DIY version, so and 0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:53.319 I'm obsessed with pickles. So, you know, we're in the 0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:55.680 middle of talking about his career and everything. I look 0:35:55.719 --> 0:35:58.680 at him and I say do you like pickles? And 0:35:58.719 --> 0:36:01.000 he goes, I do I love pickles? And then he goes, 0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:03.840 oh my god, that reminds me of a funny story 0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:07.319 that I don't think I've ever shared with anyone. And 0:36:07.400 --> 0:36:10.359 he talks about this whole pickle story of when he 0:36:10.520 --> 0:36:15.680 was eighteen and working as a counsel and this whole 0:36:15.719 --> 0:36:19.080 thing and pickle barrel, which he proceeds to tell Brian 0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:23.759 and ruth Anna Tracy. But yeah, so god, I got 0:36:23.800 --> 0:36:25.680 to get him those pickles. I got to make pickles 0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:26.080 and give it. 0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:34.239 To him, all right. 0:36:34.320 --> 0:36:38.960 Speaking of handsome men, Yes, let's talk about that bartender 0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:39.399 you met. 0:36:40.000 --> 0:36:46.040 Oh my gosh, you guys in different cities. Apparently bartenders 0:36:46.040 --> 0:36:50.760 have a thing for me. So here I am again. 0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:55.360 If you remember an episode if you haven't listened to it, 0:36:55.920 --> 0:36:58.680 with my best friend Jess, we went to Kansas City 0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:02.480 for an immersive whole experience with our friend Darren Bausman, 0:37:02.560 --> 0:37:07.600 who does the creator Saw and Everything. And there was 0:37:07.640 --> 0:37:11.120 a bartender at the bar that we were like kind 0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:13.200 of flirting, and I was just it was kind of 0:37:13.200 --> 0:37:15.319 like made me feel good about myself that someone was 0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:19.719 like actually interested in me. And anyway, he ended up 0:37:19.719 --> 0:37:24.120 being twenty four years old, ended up telling us that 0:37:24.400 --> 0:37:26.720 didn't know who I was, but he was definitely flirting 0:37:26.719 --> 0:37:29.440 with me, and I was feeling all good until he 0:37:29.520 --> 0:37:33.120 told me his mom because is two years younger than me. 0:37:33.320 --> 0:37:36.080 I mean, he said it nicely, but when he found 0:37:36.080 --> 0:37:38.080 out who I was, he was like, oh, my mom 0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:40.440 knows who you are, she watched your show, and I 0:37:40.520 --> 0:37:42.520 was like, oh, and he is like all these siblings, 0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.840 how was your mom? And he's like, oh, what do 0:37:44.880 --> 0:37:47.839 you say, My mom's forty nine or something or forty eight. 0:37:47.840 --> 0:37:51.880 I'm like, how fuck my life? Anyway, So that was 0:37:51.920 --> 0:37:56.839 then listened to that episode. It's really great. But here 0:37:56.880 --> 0:38:01.320 I am again at the bar and we'd had a 0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:03.279 long day, so we were just sitting there and we 0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:08.239 had food and I randomly got spinach arta choke dip 0:38:08.280 --> 0:38:12.200 and slan because that's what everyone orders for dinner when 0:38:12.239 --> 0:38:16.840 in Huntsville, Bama's so random. Anyway, we have some drinks 0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:20.799 and this one is different than the last bartender. So 0:38:21.000 --> 0:38:23.239 this one is he has his hair and like a 0:38:23.280 --> 0:38:28.600 man bun, and he's kind of alternative and cool and 0:38:28.680 --> 0:38:32.880 like dark sense of humor. Totally my jam. But unlike 0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:35.800 the other one, who I felt like I was flirting 0:38:35.840 --> 0:38:39.919 with him and then he then it reciprocated, this one 0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:43.759 was like all him on me and he just kept 0:38:43.800 --> 0:38:47.479 like winking at me and like I'm like, okay, this guy, 0:38:48.320 --> 0:38:52.120 this guy's flirting with me. He's into me. So I 0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:55.319 say at this point it's Brian had gone to bed 0:38:55.680 --> 0:38:58.600 and it was Tracy brand'smander and Ruth Anne. I said, you, guys, 0:38:58.680 --> 0:39:01.400 I got to go to the bathroom. So I go 0:39:01.480 --> 0:39:03.960 to the bathroom and then I go outside. There's like 0:39:04.000 --> 0:39:07.080 a little area to go outside, go outside, and I'm 0:39:07.160 --> 0:39:10.160 literally about to FaceTime my kids to say good night. 0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:14.480 And asked me about to FaceTime my kids. I hear hi, 0:39:15.040 --> 0:39:18.319 and I'm like, okay. I turn around and he's come 0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:21.000 out and he's come outside and I'm sitting on the 0:39:21.040 --> 0:39:24.799 stoop there and he's like, oh, how are you? And 0:39:24.840 --> 0:39:28.000 he said, oh no, he said hi, and then he 0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:34.120 said I heard your famous, and I, being me in 0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:38.759 an adorable way, said ew, well, that's not the way 0:39:38.800 --> 0:39:41.920 to lead. And he was like, no, I don't know 0:39:41.920 --> 0:39:45.560 who you are, but I heard your famous. And I 0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:48.240 was like, I don't know whatever. I'm like, that's weird. 0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:52.320 So we end up talking very nice, cool guy. Really 0:39:52.400 --> 0:39:56.000 I liked him, and I was just like the way 0:39:56.320 --> 0:39:58.799 I liked the other bartender. I didn't feel it for 0:39:58.840 --> 0:39:59.279 this one. 0:39:59.520 --> 0:40:01.399 Well wait, but you're missing an important part. 0:40:01.920 --> 0:40:05.880 By the time he came out to tell me, I 0:40:05.920 --> 0:40:09.480 hear your famous and pick up on me, he had 0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:14.840 let down his hair. Now I raise boys who make choices, 0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:17.560 and they all have long hair. I love a good 0:40:17.560 --> 0:40:20.319 head of hair, like longish kind of hair is my thing, 0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:23.960 but I don't mean long like it was like long. 0:40:24.360 --> 0:40:28.080 We call him Fabio now minus the goose blood hitting 0:40:28.120 --> 0:40:30.200 him in the face on the roller coaster that I 0:40:30.320 --> 0:40:32.760 had to tell Tracy and ruth Ann and Brian about, 0:40:32.960 --> 0:40:35.200 and they didn't know that story. I'm like, you guys 0:40:35.200 --> 0:40:39.800 never heard that horrific story of Fabio on the roller 0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:42.200 coaster and the goose hit him in the face and 0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:46.120 died and there's blood everywhere. So they had this story. Ever, 0:40:46.640 --> 0:40:50.839 but I digress. So he had like shaken his locks out, 0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:53.239 and I'm sitting on the stoop and he's standing above me, 0:40:53.320 --> 0:40:55.120 and he must have thought like he would come out 0:40:55.120 --> 0:40:58.040 with this long hair and I'd be like ooh, and 0:40:58.120 --> 0:41:02.399 I was like ooo. But anyway, very good looking guy, though, 0:41:02.600 --> 0:41:06.880 very nice guy. Again, this one wasn't twenty four, but 0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:09.000 I was like, how old are you? And he's like 0:41:09.040 --> 0:41:12.839 twenty eight, and I'm like, gosh, I'm like these young 0:41:12.880 --> 0:41:15.799 ones like me for some reason. But you know what, 0:41:16.360 --> 0:41:18.640 And Brian pointed this out when I told him the story. 0:41:19.480 --> 0:41:22.680 This guy was really confident for a guy in his twenties, 0:41:23.000 --> 0:41:25.719 especially dealing with someone that he had just found out 0:41:25.800 --> 0:41:30.239 was like famous or something and an older woman like he. 0:41:30.719 --> 0:41:33.840 He goes right into uh, there's a famous arts and 0:41:33.920 --> 0:41:37.080 crafts fair here this weekend, and I said, oh, I 0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:40.439 heard about that, and he said, I'd like to take 0:41:40.440 --> 0:41:43.360 you tomorrow night. And he said, I'll buy you a ticket, 0:41:43.440 --> 0:41:45.399 I'll come pick you up. I have the day off. 0:41:45.880 --> 0:41:52.680 And I was like, okay, so very confident, like ballsy, 0:41:52.880 --> 0:41:57.280 like wow, good, you know what? Good for him? Of course, 0:41:57.360 --> 0:41:59.560 I was like, oh, well, you know, I don't know. 0:41:59.680 --> 0:42:01.840 We're working late. I don't want her his feelings, so 0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:04.600 I'm like, I don't know, we're working late. Was Henry 0:42:04.719 --> 0:42:08.080 working till? I said oh? And I can't lie? And 0:42:08.120 --> 0:42:10.560 I said, oh, the convention is at eight, and he goes, oh, 0:42:10.600 --> 0:42:13.680 that's perfect timing. I'll pick you up at nine. And 0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:16.120 I was like, you know what. I gave him my 0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:18.239 cell and I said text me. I said, brag. Got 0:42:18.280 --> 0:42:22.000 to tell you, I'm not sure these conventions are exhausting 0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:26.600 and I'm not sure what we're gonna do. But and 0:42:26.680 --> 0:42:28.680 he said, okay, okay, I'll hit you up tomorrow and 0:42:28.719 --> 0:42:30.719 I was like, oh, showing his age. Hit me up, Yeah, 0:42:30.800 --> 0:42:34.839 hit me up. Anyway, we go to bed and I 0:42:34.880 --> 0:42:37.160 did text my best friend Jess and I was like, 0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:40.279 so I got another bartender and she was like, oh 0:42:40.280 --> 0:42:42.719 my god, tell me everything. And I was like no, no, no, 0:42:43.200 --> 0:42:46.640 I'm like no, no, no, this one. But she even said, 0:42:46.680 --> 0:42:49.759 she goes, wait, I like this guy. She goes, first 0:42:49.760 --> 0:42:51.080 of all, I can't get past the fact that I 0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:53.480 invite you to an arts and crafts fair in Alabama. 0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:57.040 But I'll let that one go. She was like, that's 0:42:57.160 --> 0:42:59.960 really gutsy. I'm like, yeah, that's what Brian said. Anyway, 0:43:00.760 --> 0:43:03.799 So the next day back at the convention, I had 0:43:03.800 --> 0:43:06.680 told him it ends at eight, and I'm at my 0:43:06.800 --> 0:43:10.959 table and at tables and conventions, if you've ever met 0:43:10.960 --> 0:43:16.400 me some celebrities, it's fine, sit behind the table with 0:43:16.440 --> 0:43:20.279 all their pictures and you come to the table and 0:43:20.320 --> 0:43:23.600 they're nice and they interact and sign for you. Brian 0:43:23.640 --> 0:43:26.160 and I and I really eat the more. Like Brian 0:43:26.200 --> 0:43:28.240 and I like travel and do all this stuff together, 0:43:28.560 --> 0:43:31.240 even though I pretty much always knew it, Like Brian 0:43:31.280 --> 0:43:33.600 and I are the same human. And I'm proud to 0:43:33.640 --> 0:43:37.000 say that because I'm his TV wife and gosh, you know, 0:43:37.520 --> 0:43:40.120 one of the greatest loves of my life in whatever 0:43:40.200 --> 0:43:43.360 form that is. But I'm proud to say, like we 0:43:43.400 --> 0:43:45.719 are the same human. He's the male form, I'm the 0:43:45.760 --> 0:43:50.920 female form. Yep, Donn and David forever. It's real. But anyway, 0:43:52.120 --> 0:43:55.080 we both don't ever sit down the entire time. I'm 0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:57.279 talking like if it goes ten hours, like, we don't 0:43:57.320 --> 0:44:01.160 ever sit We stand and on our table and we 0:44:01.200 --> 0:44:03.600 go right up to our everyone in our lines, and 0:44:03.640 --> 0:44:06.600 we're just we are both huggers and we go write in, 0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:09.719 we introduce ourselves, ask their name, we hug them, we 0:44:09.800 --> 0:44:14.200 talk to them. At previous conventions, people have said, like, 0:44:14.880 --> 0:44:18.000 people are getting bummed because they're waiting in such long lines. 0:44:18.040 --> 0:44:20.239 You got to go quicker, and Brian and I are 0:44:20.280 --> 0:44:22.400 both like, you know what, No, this is like a 0:44:22.480 --> 0:44:26.040 moment for people, and we love people. We're going to 0:44:26.040 --> 0:44:28.799 give as much time as they need. And they want 0:44:28.840 --> 0:44:31.360 to tell us stories, we want to talk to them. 0:44:31.960 --> 0:44:35.160 It's only fair, so you know, and it's what we enjoy. 0:44:35.680 --> 0:44:39.359 So anyway, I'm in front of my table. I've just 0:44:39.640 --> 0:44:43.280 you know, signed something. I turned back around to OCD 0:44:43.560 --> 0:44:49.040 organize my pictures weird. And ruth Anne, who is sitting 0:44:49.040 --> 0:44:51.400 behind the table because she handles the money and everything, 0:44:52.880 --> 0:44:59.200 she says behind you now, she claims she said, because 0:44:59.239 --> 0:45:01.799 I I heard behind me, and I was like, oh 0:45:01.920 --> 0:45:07.080 my god. I panicked, and I was like, who, what's 0:45:07.200 --> 0:45:10.440 behind me? I have no idea. It reminds me of 0:45:10.520 --> 0:45:15.880 city slickers where like do you remember that where he 0:45:15.920 --> 0:45:18.080 says something and then he's like, he's right behind me, 0:45:18.160 --> 0:45:20.799 isn't he? Oh my god, Billy Crystal says something and 0:45:20.800 --> 0:45:22.000 he's right anyway. 0:45:23.000 --> 0:45:29.440 But I did say I said, bartender behind you. Maybe 0:45:29.440 --> 0:45:33.080 that wasn't descriptive enough. I was trying to be efficient. 0:45:33.360 --> 0:45:37.120 And why five kids. My hearing at this point is 0:45:37.160 --> 0:45:40.960 so not good and so all I heard is and 0:45:41.040 --> 0:45:44.400 I can't see barely anymore. I mean I can, but 0:45:44.400 --> 0:45:45.960 it's just like my eyes aren't as good as they 0:45:46.000 --> 0:45:47.360 used to. I used to be able to read lips 0:45:47.440 --> 0:45:52.759 like a mother. But but all I heard is behind you, 0:45:52.960 --> 0:45:58.400 and I'm like, huh, frozen. I like swirl around quickly, 0:45:58.480 --> 0:46:03.200 like what's happening? And yep, it's the bartender and he's there, 0:46:04.320 --> 0:46:08.799 hair down and he's got like very like cool kind 0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:14.360 of almost like seventies vibes, like hipster, I don't kind 0:46:14.360 --> 0:46:18.960 of festival hotel in his shirts and buttoned all the 0:46:18.960 --> 0:46:21.400 way to like down his chest. He's got some gold 0:46:21.520 --> 0:46:25.640 chains on. I did like his off white slides, the 0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:30.759 brand off white with socks. That's what everyone wears. You 0:46:30.800 --> 0:46:34.040 and Tracy kept obsessing and Brian about the slides with 0:46:34.080 --> 0:46:38.440 the socks. That is a fashion statement these days. I'm 0:46:38.440 --> 0:46:42.239 not defending him. And he's wearing something around his neck 0:46:42.280 --> 0:46:44.279 and he holds it up and he goes, I bought 0:46:44.320 --> 0:46:49.759 a day pass and I'm like, yay, and he is. 0:46:49.880 --> 0:46:55.719 He is holding a cocktail and Ruth Anne when you say, I. 0:46:55.640 --> 0:46:57.280 Said, oh, are you working tonight? 0:46:57.400 --> 0:47:01.239 And he says, no, I am drinking tonight and he 0:47:01.320 --> 0:47:04.760 holds up his cup and unfortunately for him, a couple 0:47:04.800 --> 0:47:08.600 of the staff members saw that and he was immediately 0:47:09.560 --> 0:47:11.640 shuffled off the convention. 0:47:11.360 --> 0:47:15.120 Floor because you can't drink there. Yes, so, but he 0:47:15.160 --> 0:47:18.600 didn't know. And then they said, is this man harassing you? 0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:22.000 I'm like, no, don't kick him out. I'm like, at 0:47:22.040 --> 0:47:25.360 my age, it's so flattering to anyone to be interested 0:47:25.400 --> 0:47:28.520 in me, I said, I said, it's a it's a 0:47:28.680 --> 0:47:33.080 boy and he's wait what was that line? Uh, this 0:47:33.200 --> 0:47:35.680 is just a girl asking a boy to love notting 0:47:35.719 --> 0:47:42.959 Hill anyway, Julia Roberts, Sorry, anyway, he did. I was like, don't, don't, 0:47:43.000 --> 0:47:45.279 don't make him leave. Like, I was like, I don't 0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:46.680 want to go out with this guy. But he asked 0:47:46.680 --> 0:47:49.359 me out. But it's so flattering that he's flirting with 0:47:49.400 --> 0:47:52.080 me and he's twenty eight and he's cute. Mine is 0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:56.120 long hair. Anyway, Yeah, he was amusing. 0:47:56.520 --> 0:47:57.160 I will give him. 0:47:57.160 --> 0:47:59.719 He did text me later and say you're still doing 0:47:59.719 --> 0:48:04.719 a right and I feel bad at ghosted him. I 0:48:04.760 --> 0:48:07.880 did I should text him. 0:48:08.239 --> 0:48:10.040 No, you really should not. You should lose the phone 0:48:10.120 --> 0:48:12.040 number and move on. That is what you should do. 0:48:12.840 --> 0:48:13.840 Leave it in the past. 0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:16.480 Yeah, but I just don't want to feel bad about himself. 0:48:16.520 --> 0:48:18.799 There's no closure there for him. 0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:24.040 Okay, Moving along, The convention was a success. 0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:25.440 You guys did a great panel. 0:48:26.080 --> 0:48:28.640 Oh my gosh, the panel. For one second, I got 0:48:28.640 --> 0:48:35.040 to say, we went to Alabama not knowing what to expect, 0:48:35.680 --> 0:48:40.160 and Huntsville is beautiful. They have one they have the biggest, 0:48:40.200 --> 0:48:43.360 they have the space camp there. They have so many 0:48:43.440 --> 0:48:47.480 like it's so many professionals and doctors and some of 0:48:47.480 --> 0:48:51.120 the best like medical things like it's it's really and 0:48:51.200 --> 0:48:55.319 beautiful architecture, great food, and the kindest people. Oh my, 0:48:55.400 --> 0:48:57.880 And everyone kept saying, you got to find yourself is 0:48:58.040 --> 0:49:02.400 the Southern what is say, Southern charm, Southern hospitality? You 0:49:02.400 --> 0:49:06.760 got to find yourself a Southern man. And I was like, maybe, 0:49:07.920 --> 0:49:10.480 but oh my god, the fried creen tomatoes were so 0:49:10.640 --> 0:49:17.440 good there. Oh the hush puppies, Oh god, it was insane. Anyway, 0:49:18.400 --> 0:49:22.480 the panel, we do panels all the time, and it 0:49:22.520 --> 0:49:25.719 was me and Brian and usually the panels are very 0:49:25.840 --> 0:49:28.000 light and like, what are your favorite memories, what's your 0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:31.960 favorite show? Your character? Uh, this is the first time 0:49:32.040 --> 0:49:35.440 during a panel that people could in the audience have 0:49:35.520 --> 0:49:38.440 a mic and ask questions. And this is the first 0:49:38.520 --> 0:49:41.440 time that And this had happened to me all day 0:49:41.880 --> 0:49:45.240 while I was there. Someone said, Tori, I know you've 0:49:45.520 --> 0:49:48.960 personally gone through a lot and just want to say 0:49:49.000 --> 0:49:51.000 we're proud of you. And I had gotten that from 0:49:51.040 --> 0:49:54.680 women all day long, and it meant a lot, because 0:49:54.680 --> 0:49:59.120 I guess, I guess at times, I doubt myself at 0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:03.560 times and sometimes I'll be like, you know, the press 0:50:03.560 --> 0:50:06.759 has such a way of turning everything into like, you know, 0:50:07.760 --> 0:50:11.479 life fallowed apart, like broke home, like they've been such 0:50:11.520 --> 0:50:15.680 horrible things because a nice story doesn't sell, you know. 0:50:16.320 --> 0:50:19.440 And I sometimes read the press and it's like, God, 0:50:19.680 --> 0:50:22.000 do people just perceive me as a hot mess, Like 0:50:22.400 --> 0:50:25.719 I'm a single mom going through it. Stuff has happened, 0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:29.400 but I'm a fighter like I and people are like, 0:50:29.480 --> 0:50:32.239 get a job, people say, I'm like, I have fifty try. 0:50:32.320 --> 0:50:36.360 I'm scrambling to provide for my family as a single mom. 0:50:36.960 --> 0:50:39.360 I don't have help. I don't have like I am. 0:50:39.719 --> 0:50:43.960 I'm working through stuff, and I'm working through it a 0:50:44.000 --> 0:50:46.400 lot of the emotional stuff and things that have happened 0:50:46.400 --> 0:50:51.200 through you know, trauma and stuff personally and emotionally, like 0:50:51.760 --> 0:50:56.640 I'm working through it as I go, you know, and 0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:59.800 and not not missing a beat because it's fight or flight. 0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:03.440 But my kids are my everything, and I keep going. 0:51:03.800 --> 0:51:06.560 But that's who I am, and no matter if my 0:51:06.640 --> 0:51:09.000 life fell apart or didn't fall apart, I'm always going 0:51:09.080 --> 0:51:13.520 to keep going. And it was a nice reminder that 0:51:13.560 --> 0:51:16.840 there are people humans. It's not just this stuff we 0:51:17.000 --> 0:51:20.960 read online that people can hide behind. And it was 0:51:21.080 --> 0:51:25.560 nice to be reminded the humans and men even said it, 0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:30.600 and especially women and moms, and they're just like this woman, 0:51:30.719 --> 0:51:32.960 this woman had three kids and she was there and 0:51:33.000 --> 0:51:34.919 she said, I know what you've been through. I read 0:51:34.960 --> 0:51:38.239 it and she said, I'm proud of you. And she's like, 0:51:38.800 --> 0:51:41.759 you just keep going. She's like, you got this, and 0:51:41.800 --> 0:51:44.640 she hugged me and she prayed for me while she 0:51:44.719 --> 0:51:49.560 hugged me and said this beautiful prayer and I said 0:51:49.560 --> 0:51:50.880 thank you. And she's like, I'm going to put you 0:51:50.920 --> 0:51:52.560 at the top of my prayer list every night. I said, 0:51:52.560 --> 0:51:54.759 oh my god, no, I'm not worthy. Just put me 0:51:54.800 --> 0:51:57.560 like number five or something whatever. No. I was like, no, 0:51:57.560 --> 0:51:59.480 oh my gosh, and she said, no, you're on it. 0:51:59.560 --> 0:52:01.799 She's like, because I believe in you, and it's going 0:52:01.880 --> 0:52:04.319 to be okay. You're going to get through everything and 0:52:04.800 --> 0:52:07.840 elevate and be even better. And anyway, in this panel, 0:52:09.120 --> 0:52:11.480 people start saying that and they said, we've been through 0:52:11.520 --> 0:52:14.880 a lot and you're a warrior. You know you keep going. 0:52:15.000 --> 0:52:17.680 And I just I had a moment, you know me, 0:52:17.760 --> 0:52:22.680 I don't crack easy where I spoke to my truth 0:52:22.880 --> 0:52:27.680 and I acknowledge that Brian, since he was right next 0:52:27.719 --> 0:52:32.560 to me. He's been so instrumental in being that person 0:52:32.680 --> 0:52:35.520 to lean on in my rock through a lot of 0:52:35.560 --> 0:52:37.680 stuff and believing in me when I didn't think I 0:52:37.680 --> 0:52:41.719 could believe in myself. And I realize that I don't 0:52:41.760 --> 0:52:44.200 have a big I have a big outer circle. I 0:52:44.239 --> 0:52:47.800 don't have a big. Small circle is my inner circle. 0:52:48.000 --> 0:52:52.160 It's very small. But everyone that's in that believes in 0:52:52.239 --> 0:52:55.960 me and has been there for me. And it makes 0:52:55.960 --> 0:52:58.600 you realize in life, who's there for you for the 0:52:58.680 --> 0:53:02.640 right reason, who's not? And those are the people that 0:53:02.719 --> 0:53:04.440 really kind of were there for you. I mean, you 0:53:04.440 --> 0:53:06.840 gotta no one can save you. You know you got to. 0:53:06.880 --> 0:53:08.640 You gotta step up and do it for yourself. But 0:53:09.800 --> 0:53:12.279 I did. I started crying at the panel, and I 0:53:12.360 --> 0:53:16.799 spoke my truth of my why, and I acknowledged in 0:53:16.840 --> 0:53:19.880 my tory way that everyone goes through stuff and people's 0:53:19.920 --> 0:53:25.760 lives fall apart, and what you know is what's happened 0:53:25.800 --> 0:53:29.759 to me is very might look very different than what's 0:53:29.800 --> 0:53:32.760 happened to someone else. I might be an LA girl 0:53:33.360 --> 0:53:37.120 and going through stuff and publicly and I'm an actress 0:53:37.640 --> 0:53:43.760 and a podcaster, but that doesn't minimize what the person 0:53:43.880 --> 0:53:46.640 here all the way here across the country, and Alabama 0:53:46.760 --> 0:53:49.880 is going through and we're connecting. I'm connecting with women 0:53:50.000 --> 0:53:55.560 daily on struggles and things and trauma and getting past 0:53:55.640 --> 0:54:00.560 that and the effect it has on you, and and 0:54:00.600 --> 0:54:04.800 you realize how none of them like, we're all just humans. 0:54:05.360 --> 0:54:08.279 We're all just human on a human level. And we 0:54:08.400 --> 0:54:12.640 might be in different places going through different things, and 0:54:12.680 --> 0:54:17.080 we might be doing it on different levels, in different 0:54:17.120 --> 0:54:21.640 places of life or professions, but at the heart of it, 0:54:22.239 --> 0:54:26.040 we are all human beings. And it was so nice 0:54:26.440 --> 0:54:31.120 to connect with people and know that. And I don't know. 0:54:31.160 --> 0:54:32.799 I just turned to Brian and I said I love you, 0:54:32.960 --> 0:54:36.359 and he said I love you too. And he's been 0:54:36.360 --> 0:54:39.440 a really great friend. I'm very grateful for him. So 0:54:39.480 --> 0:54:42.520 there was a reason Donna and David forever. Literally he 0:54:42.600 --> 0:54:46.560 stuck with me in this lifetime. Poor guy. Anyway, Okay, 0:54:47.080 --> 0:54:48.640 we saw a lot of great people, met a lot 0:54:48.640 --> 0:54:52.720 of great people. But then I was like, oh my gosh, 0:54:52.760 --> 0:54:59.799 we're dan. The convention's ending, and I liam really wanted 0:54:59.800 --> 0:55:03.280 to picture with weird al and I'm terrified. I'm scared 0:55:03.280 --> 0:55:06.920 to say anything, and so all ruth Anne went and asked, 0:55:07.239 --> 0:55:10.040 and he was so nice. 0:55:10.239 --> 0:55:11.440 He couldn't have been nicer. 0:55:11.760 --> 0:55:15.080 He got up from his table, came behind the curtains 0:55:15.080 --> 0:55:18.959 because there's a green room kind of backstage, and came 0:55:19.000 --> 0:55:21.319 over and took a picture and I said, thank you 0:55:21.400 --> 0:55:26.360 so much. My son eighteen, huge fan, so your a 0:55:26.440 --> 0:55:29.480 legend and took a picture and I was like, wow, 0:55:29.640 --> 0:55:34.440 that is full circle. Until we were flying home to 0:55:34.640 --> 0:55:39.160 connecting flights through Dallas again delayed another four hours. Oh yeah, 0:55:39.520 --> 0:55:42.680 delayed another four hours. We get on our final leg, 0:55:42.920 --> 0:55:46.080 our final connection back to LA and guess who's on it? 0:55:46.480 --> 0:55:49.360 Weird al Now that's full circle. 0:55:49.880 --> 0:55:51.759 Wait, but back to the lounge. 0:55:52.160 --> 0:55:56.000 Yes, we went back to the lounge and a very 0:55:56.120 --> 0:55:59.319 nice man next to her said, you remind me of 0:55:59.360 --> 0:56:02.680 my mother. Third times the term there's comedy in three's. 0:56:02.760 --> 0:56:05.759 I forgot about that. Yep, it happened. Oh so you're good. 0:56:05.840 --> 0:56:08.640 From now on, you might just get referred to as 0:56:08.640 --> 0:56:09.240 my grandmother.