1 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another week of Casual Chaos. 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: This week, I have a very special guest Mom. Welcome 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: to Casual Chaos. 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 2: Hi spee heeart. Thank you for having me. 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 3: You're back again. 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 4: I know it's been it's been a minute since I've 7 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 4: been on. 8 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 3: No, it has been a minute. 9 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: And now we have a lot more to talk about 10 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: because I just moved out, we did Special Forces. 11 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 3: There's a lot to catch up on. 12 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 2: I know that was Yeah, that was something else. Let 13 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 2: me tell I'm so happy that we get to do 14 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: it together. So am I and you're so on So 15 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 2: everybody keep watching. Yeah, no, right. 16 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 4: I can't wait to watch this week's episode. 17 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 3: I know it just you. 18 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: The thing about Special Forces, and I think a lot 19 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: of people don't understand it is that you don't think 20 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: it could get harder, but every single day got more challenging. 21 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, it was crazy. 22 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you always comment on all my Instagram posts. 23 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 1: But do you listen to my podcast The Truth? 24 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, honey, there's a lot going on, so 25 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: but I will listen more. 26 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was funny. I could have answered that question myself. 27 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 1: Have I said anything on a line that has surprised 28 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: you recently. 29 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 2: I mean I watch all your clips that you post 30 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: and I comment, yeah, I do, see, I do like 31 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 2: all that anything. 32 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 4: I love. 33 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 2: I love the way you podcast, I do. I love 34 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 2: all the questions you ask. I like how you just 35 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 2: get in there down in dirty. 36 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: No, you always say that whenever I even have clips 37 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: or even if I just like am speaking in the press. 38 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 3: You love the way that I always respond and speak. 39 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 3: So that's the world of a compliment. 40 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 41 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 2: Sometimes I look at your clips and I'm like, oh 42 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,519 Speaker 2: my god, that was such a good question. I love 43 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 2: how she answered that. You know, so I'm taking tips 44 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 2: from you. 45 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 4: I want to get better. 46 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 2: Is that Bella right there on the left, Yeah, oh yeah, 47 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: so cute. 48 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: We are recording this over zoom because I have moved out. 49 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: It's been a lot of pressure, for sure, and it's 50 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: definitely been a process, but thankfully. 51 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 3: I have all the help in the world. 52 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: I mean, just spending yesterday with you, Louis Christian, the organizers, 53 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: it was so calming, and I think it was like 54 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: just like it was exactly what I needed before my 55 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: first night. And my bet is so cozy. It was 56 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 1: such a nice first night. What were your initial thoughts 57 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: with me being out of the house, I. 58 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 4: Need a truth. 59 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously, I'm sad that you're not here and 60 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: I can't see your beautiful face every day. I mean, 61 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 2: you swear you know, but I'm actually I'm like so 62 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 2: happy for you. I really am, like you know, like listen, 63 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 2: I love seeing I love my girls like you guys 64 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 2: are my life. Like I live for you guys like 65 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 2: you guys make my heart tick every day. But I'm 66 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 2: also so happy for you that you're able to do this, 67 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: Like you know, you're going to be paying your own rent, 68 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: You're doing it on your own. It's like, like I 69 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: love it. I'm so like, I'm proud of you. I'm 70 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 2: so proud of you. 71 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 4: I said, look, God forbid you need anything. I'm right here. 72 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: You know, you have me to fall back on, you know, 73 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 2: like Louie and I will do that, you know, like 74 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 2: we'll do anything for you guys, all of our kids, 75 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: you know. But I'm so proud of you, Like I'm 76 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 2: really proud of you, Like I like, I love your apartment. 77 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: I want to sell our house and I want to 78 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 2: move into your apartment now. 79 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 3: She literally said that. 80 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I can't wait to give you guys an 81 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: apartmentor but I really am so in love with my space. 82 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 3: It's so beautiful. 83 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you said you're building. You wanted to 84 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 2: show me, you know, the amenities that your building has. 85 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 2: But like, I love your apartment. I love the view, 86 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: I love the windows. It's just I felt good in your. 87 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 3: Apartment, Like it's good vibes. 88 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: You just you feel like at peace and free, like 89 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just it's so nice. 90 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 2: And you can see the Statue of Liberty. Yeah, you 91 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: got to show Milania. We've never taken Malani to the 92 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: Statue of Liberty. Milania wants to go to Statue of Liberty. 93 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 3: You've never taken me to the Statue of Liberty. 94 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: I know, we've never got Did you ever go into 95 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: field chair? 96 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't think so. 97 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to all right, So this summer we 98 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: should when Milania comes home from school, we should all 99 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 2: take a trip to the Statue of Liberty. Because Malania 100 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 2: is dying to go, she asked me last summer. So 101 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 2: we all need to go to the Statue Liberty. And 102 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 2: we can see it right from your right, from your 103 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 2: your windows. 104 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 3: It is so nice. Do you trust me living on 105 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 3: my own? Are you nervous? 106 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 4: Absolutely? Yeah? Now I trust you. 107 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 2: I mean, and you lived on your own in college, 108 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 2: and if you're going to do anything crazy, you're going 109 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 2: to do it in college. 110 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 4: Now you're a grown adult. 111 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 2: And you know, listen, you're twenty four years old, go 112 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 2: close to twenty five. January eighth, you'll be twenty five, 113 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 2: So listen, I totally trust you a million percent. I 114 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 2: feel like you could do you do crazier things in 115 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 2: college than in now. Yeah. 116 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 1: I don't really think I did even crazy things in college, 117 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,799 Speaker 1: So there's really nothing to you about. 118 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 4: And I'm glad I put the fear in you because 119 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 4: you're probably scared of me. 120 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 2: Now. I would try to put the fear in you 121 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 2: guys as much as I could, because that's how I 122 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 2: grew up with my dad. And then you had no no, 123 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 2: still living with us right when you were in college? Yeah, no, 124 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 2: no was living with us, right. 125 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, my mom was. 126 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: Already yeah no, no, no, Noah was living with us. 127 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: No no, right there in my freshman year dorm when 128 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: I yeah, been right there as I was setting up 129 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: my freshman dorm. 130 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 3: How often do you plan to visit me? 131 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 4: I want it. I can't. I want to wait till 132 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 4: you're all settled in. 133 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: Well, you know, non is like literally a disaster right now. 134 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: But the organizers just finished the kitchen. 135 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 2: Mom, you're amazing. 136 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 4: Those two girls are amazing. 137 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 3: I love them fund and inform they are amazing. 138 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 4: About my closet. You I mean, you know what, they. 139 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 3: Would have a stroke if they saw your closet. 140 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 2: Yes, they would, but you know, maybe I consider because 141 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 2: I don't want anybody to see my closet. 142 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 4: I just have so much stuff. 143 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 3: That's why so much stuff. 144 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 4: I have a lot of stuff. 145 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 3: Like I think it's like borderline, like you're a hoarder. 146 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 4: No, I'm not. 147 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: I have a lot of clothes and I don't want 148 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 2: to get rid of it because anytime you guys want anything, 149 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 2: you just go on my closet, go shopping. 150 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, but there's like certain things that like can we go. 151 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 2: But not really because things come back every ten years, 152 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 2: so every twenty years. 153 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but there's definitely some things that are like I 154 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 3: do give. 155 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 4: It away, you know, I do. 156 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: I give it to you know, I give it to 157 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 2: our cleaning lady, you know, I give it away to 158 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 2: the need. Like whenever I give rid of stuff. I 159 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 2: don't just throw it out. I give it away. 160 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's true, I do. 161 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: So the kitchen is done today, which is great. And 162 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: now Olivia is here. She's so cute going through all 163 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: of my makeup and she's basically seeing she's going through 164 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: all of my makeup right now. 165 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 4: Let everybody know who Olivia is. 166 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 3: Olivia is my cousin. She is a makeup artist and my. 167 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 2: God daughter, my niece and my goddaughter. 168 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: Yes, and she's going through all my makeup right now. 169 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: Whatever is my shade and that I could use in 170 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 1: the summer, I'm keeping, and then whatever else, I'm like, 171 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: take it all please, I'm like, I have so much, 172 00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: please take it, use it. 173 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 3: She'll obviously get my home. 174 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 2: Can you give me some I'm looking for a new foundation. 175 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 3: But yeah, so it was a lot yesterday. 176 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: But I mean, I remember, just after the move, you 177 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:14,679 Speaker 1: were so excited to just keep to keep coming back. 178 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: And I can't wait for us to really explore Jersey 179 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 1: City too, even for myself. I mean, obviously I'm not 180 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: going to be doing much until I feel pretty settled 181 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: and that once everything's organized. But there's so many restaurants 182 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: I walked around a little bit. The neighborhood's so so cute. 183 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: So I'm really excited for you guys to know I'm. 184 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 2: Excited because sorry, like, I've been to New York so 185 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 2: many times, so I'm like, I'm just saying I've been 186 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 2: to New York a lot of times. 187 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 4: But I'm excited about. 188 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 2: Jersey City just because it's fun, it's up and coming. 189 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 4: There's so many. 190 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 2: Restaurants and like, yeah, it's like I just want to 191 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 2: I totally want to check it out. 192 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 4: I really do. I want to check it out. 193 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 2: So I feel like, pick a date because when your 194 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 2: sister comes home, I want to do like being able 195 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 2: to do you know, Girl's day, you know, when Gabriella 196 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 2: and Malania come home from college, you know, for Thanksgiving break, 197 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 2: I definitely want to come. 198 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 3: So you know, I want everyone here all the time. 199 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 3: I hate being alone. 200 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: But do you have any advice because a lot of 201 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: people always, you know, you say this all the time 202 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: that you've you never lived on your own. The first 203 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: time you moved out was when you got married. So 204 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 1: what's one thing you wish you would have done differently 205 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: when you first moved out? 206 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 3: And what is your advice to me? 207 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 2: Well, I wish that I would have been able to 208 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 2: live on my own before moving in with your dad. Yeah, 209 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 2: because I went from my parents' house to your dad's house. 210 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 2: So it's like and I kind of rushed, like I 211 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: just wish I would have lived on my own. 212 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's a very good experience to have. 213 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: I think everyone should do it. It just gives you time 214 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: to grow, and it gives you time for yourself. 215 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 2: Right to grow exactly, to know who you are, to 216 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 2: know exactly you know what you really want in life. 217 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 2: Because I think I just wanted to get out of 218 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 2: a house. So the only way to get out of 219 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 2: my house is like if I got married. So it's 220 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 2: like I kind of rushed into like settling like with 221 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,599 Speaker 2: your dad. Unfortunately I really did, like I should have 222 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 2: dated more. And I mean, listen, I have I got 223 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 2: you four beautiful I have four beautiful daughters out of it. 224 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,319 Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, it's like I want you guys 225 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 2: to do everything I didn't get to do, Like you know, 226 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 2: I want you guys, yeah, to like explore life, know 227 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 2: what you want in your twenties, Like you think you 228 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 2: know it all, but you don't, like you know, I 229 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 2: think you start coming into who you really are, like 230 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: in your thirties, you know, and then I don't think it. 231 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 2: You know, I don't think anybody should rush into having kids. 232 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 2: And look, I adore you guys, but I feel like 233 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 2: you need to live your life. You have one life 234 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 2: to live live at the best way you know how. 235 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 4: And that's how I feel. 236 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: I agree. What are your best qualities that you see 237 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: in us? 238 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 3: In all of us? 239 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 2: And oh my gods, I mean everyone, everything that you 240 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 2: guys say about me that I'm strong or resilient, that 241 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 2: I you know, I can handle, Like if anything comes 242 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 2: by way, I can handle it, and I feel like 243 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 2: it bounces right back to you guys, because that's what 244 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 2: Malania even says to me. 245 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 4: She's like, Mommy, I'm glad, you know. She even says this. 246 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 4: She's like, I'm glad we went through what we went through. 247 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 4: I'm like we did. 248 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 1: She's like, because I say it all the time too, 249 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: because she's like, mom made me who I am today. 250 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 2: And that's what Malania says too. Malania says, mommy, because 251 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 2: I see my my friends that when they go through things, 252 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 2: she's like, they can't even handle anything. And she's like, 253 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 2: you know, and she's like, and that's what ye, Malanie's 254 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 2: just the same thing to me, and she's like, I 255 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 2: feel like I can handle anything in life, Like yeah, 256 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 2: she says that, and she you know, like Malanie's going 257 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 2: to be yeah, you know, she's junk. You know, she's 258 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 2: still in college, and she's like, I think I feel 259 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,199 Speaker 2: like anything that comes my way, I could handle it, Macau. 260 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 4: Because of what we've gone through. 261 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 3: What traits do you regret passing on? 262 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 4: Oh? 263 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 2: What traits? I guess losing temper, Like if you lose 264 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 2: your temper, like you know. 265 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: I think that's just like in our blood though, like 266 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: we are Italian, It's just it's in the blood. 267 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't want you guys to lose your temper. 268 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 2: I want you guys to be much calmer than me. 269 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 2: And like, you know, we gotta we gotta take more 270 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 2: a page out of Gabrielle and Augianna's book, Yeah, because 271 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 2: Agianna and Gabriella are very calm and we have to 272 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 2: learn from them, yes, and just we do and not 273 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:00,120 Speaker 2: react right because I feel like I feel like like 274 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 2: you met and Malaani are more the same and we. 275 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: Have to I used to definitely react more. Now I've 276 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 1: definitely gotten a lot better. 277 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, you have gotten better. 278 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, so, And I don't want like, I don't 279 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 2: really want you to be like me because I reacted 280 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 2: real quick. I was definitely hot blooded. I definitely have 281 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 2: my father's temper like my mom. 282 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: Was getting so funny because people have been saying it 283 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:28,719 Speaker 1: more and more to you recently, and I said it 284 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 1: to you not too long ago. 285 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 3: You are no. 286 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 2: No, yes, I'm totally my dad. No, No, I am 287 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 2: so my dad. Yeah, I really am so. 288 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 4: You know. 289 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 2: That's and obviously as I'm getting older, I am getting 290 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 2: calmer and now you know I'm not. 291 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: Well then that's what he did too. He was like 292 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: the biggest softy ever. 293 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: And the biggest teddy bear right turned into the big 294 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: I mean he was really scary growing up, like with me, 295 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 2: But like I wasn't that scary with you guys because 296 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 2: of our situation. I was with you right with you old. 297 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 2: I was so strict with you. Oh my god, it's 298 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: so strict with you. Oh find out you are not 299 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 2: a lot to have any sleepovers. 300 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 3: I couldn't leave the house. 301 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 2: I know, I was like that. Sorry, I'm know I'm sorry, 302 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 2: but look look at you now. 303 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't even care. 304 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: It's not even like I really wanted to go to 305 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: anyone else's house. But but that's what you guys would 306 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 1: say to me. 307 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 3: Oh, this isn't good. Your house isn't good. 308 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 2: Here now, sign, I did put the fear in you 309 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 2: because I was treating you. I was raising you the 310 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: way my parents raised me. Like I was not allowed 311 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: to have sleepovers, which. 312 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 3: Was like a beautiful way to be raised, like one thousand. 313 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, but kids like sleepovers. 314 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 2: But you know, listen, I educated you guys and gave 315 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 2: talks to you, you know, to all four of you, 316 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 2: because then later on I allowed your sisters to have sleepovers. 317 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:58,359 Speaker 1: So the only reason why you let them have sleepovers 318 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: is because you got soft. I bet you have none 319 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: of this ever happened, but because then I would get pissed. 320 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah no, if if none of the legal stuff happened, 321 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: and if your father was not if your father didn't leave, 322 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have Yeah. 323 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 4: I probably still would have been the same way. Yeah. 324 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: So I feel like this will give a lot of 325 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: other moms out there some helpful advice. 326 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 3: How do you approach the sex talk with your daughters. 327 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: Oh well you just had it so yeah with who. 328 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 4: Gianna? 329 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:48,479 Speaker 1: Yeah well yeah, okay, but my Adriana, don't get any ideas. 330 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:50,239 Speaker 3: She is pure and perfect. 331 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 4: She really is like amazing. 332 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I love driving my kids in the school 333 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 2: in the morning. I love driving like I love like 334 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 2: I have one more year left, so I love driving 335 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 2: out Gana to school and back. 336 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 4: Love it. 337 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 2: That's what she tells me everything anytime. I'm her uber driver, 338 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 2: so I'm her chauffeur, and I love doing it. And 339 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 2: that's when we you know, she tells me everything. 340 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 4: She really does. 341 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know, she has an amazing body. 342 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: And like I guess we're not just like we're not 343 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: just talking about draw what do you always do? 344 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 2: I feel comfortable about talking about this because I feel 345 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 2: like it's private. I feel like every mom like they 346 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 2: have their way of doing it, like. 347 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: Okay, but I feel like your way of doing it 348 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: is I can't believe I'm even having this conversation with 349 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: you right now. But d so, like I think she 350 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: gives us her advice of like there shouldn't even be 351 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: a topic of conversation right now. 352 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 4: Correct. 353 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 2: But in the same case. 354 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 3: Justin Kate, here's my take. Here's my take. 355 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, because that all right? You want me to 356 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 4: say that? 357 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:04,440 Speaker 2: Take? 358 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 4: All right? 359 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 2: I'm like, we should never be having this conversation. You 360 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 2: should not be having sex. You should not have sex, tope, 361 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:14,199 Speaker 2: like before you get married. Yeah, that's you know, this 362 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 2: is why my dad told me he was gonna take 363 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 2: me to the doctors the day before I got married 364 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 2: to make sure. 365 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 4: I was a virgin. Yeah, that's what my dad told me. 366 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 367 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 4: Yeah that so, so. 368 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 2: I say, I kind of like I sound like my dad. 369 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, you shouldn't be having sex until right 370 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 2: before you get married, and but if it happens, just say, 371 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 2: make sure you wear a raincoat, like definitely a raincoat. 372 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 4: Yeah what well, the guy has to wear a raincoat. 373 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 2: What I'm talking about, he has to wear a raincoat 374 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 2: down there like over it. 375 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm like, what the are you talking about? 376 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 2: Nobody said that to me, and always somebody just said 377 00:17:58,880 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 2: they're dying. 378 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 4: Is that you're. 379 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 2: Yes, somebody get to work. I'm like, make sure the 380 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 2: guy wears a raincoat. And I said that to Adrian 381 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 2: Audre was like, I know what that is. 382 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I didn't even know what that is. 383 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: That's I've never heard of that in my life. 384 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 4: Yes, so a raincoat. 385 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:17,479 Speaker 2: And I said to her, you know, because God forbid, 386 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 2: you know, you could get sexually transmit diseases. 387 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 4: That's STDs. Do you know what that is? 388 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, did you learn that in school? And she's 389 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 2: like yes, I'm like yeah, you don't want to get 390 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 2: you know. 391 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,199 Speaker 4: And then Audren was. 392 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 2: Like, ew, that's disgusting, and I'm like you see that. 393 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, that's what it is, I know. And 394 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,360 Speaker 2: then Augianna was so freaking cute though she's like can 395 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 2: I should I say this? Far? 396 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 4: I mean this, she goes this, I don't even it's 397 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 4: she's like. 398 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 2: I don't even want to have sex because she's like, 399 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 2: then for me it's going to be really special, and 400 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 2: then for him it's not going to be that special 401 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 2: because if he had sex before. And I was like 402 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 2: die and because I was like, I was like. 403 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: She really is so amazing because like she is, she 404 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: just has so much respect for herself, and you know, 405 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: she's just also such a mature mindset, like who says 406 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: that yet? But she's also just so real with herself, 407 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: even when it comes to like relationships and getting dating. 408 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 3: In high school and all of this. 409 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:26,199 Speaker 1: Like she's so real with herself, like she's like, you know, 410 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 1: I'm not ready, I'm too young, and she's like this 411 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:33,400 Speaker 1: is not this is not my thing right now, and 412 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: it's so amazing. 413 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 3: But I think. 414 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 1: Adriana, you feel the most comfortable talking to her. I 415 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:42,680 Speaker 1: think she also feels the most comfortable talking to all 416 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 1: of us. I would never talk to you about sex. 417 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: I know in my life. 418 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 4: We're really close, Like. 419 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 3: Well, but I couldn't talk to you about that stuff. 420 00:19:55,400 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: For you, Yeah, I would be out of the houck now, 421 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: like go live with Nona. 422 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 3: Like I would get dropped off by the nuns, Like yeah. 423 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,399 Speaker 2: I remember that's what me and your father used to 424 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 2: say anytime you guys made us upset, where like we're 425 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 2: dropping you guys off at the nuns and you guys 426 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:18,679 Speaker 2: would all start crying. It was so freaking killing. I 427 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,880 Speaker 2: was like, I can't really say that. I mean, that's 428 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 2: how we got you guys to listen. 429 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So that was never a conversation with me. 430 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 4: And then we even drove you guys once to the church. 431 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 4: We're like, all right, we're dropping you guys off. 432 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 3: That, yeah, I remember. 433 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 1: And then Gabriella, I don't think ever we'll talk to 434 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:39,880 Speaker 1: you about that either, Yeah, no. 435 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:45,880 Speaker 2: No, but Gabriella yeah, now maybe maybe Milania, Yeah, Milanyah 436 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 2: and Gabriella yeah now yeah maybe Milania. 437 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:49,919 Speaker 4: And Milani is very open with me too. 438 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 2: Yes. 439 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: What do you think makes a real partnership work, especially 440 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: after everything you learned from both of your marriages? 441 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 2: I'll communicate, yeah, and I like I didn't have that 442 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 2: really that much with your dad, but Louis like, we 443 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 2: communicate you. 444 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:09,399 Speaker 4: I mean you see it. 445 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: I mean you see, Louis, I think communication and trust 446 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: is kay. 447 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 2: Yes, communication trust and yeah, I mean yeah, I mean 448 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 2: you see you see it, like like Louis amazing. He's 449 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 2: like it's so different, like I went, like. 450 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: I mean they're definitely from one scale to the exactly. 451 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 2: Yes, that's very different one scale to the other. 452 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 4: It's like totally. 453 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:39,200 Speaker 1: Different, right, yeah, definitely two different people. Yes, but I 454 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:40,959 Speaker 1: guess you got to have the macho guy to then 455 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: get the you know, the sweet guy, so you got 456 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 1: to try them all out. 457 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 2: Well see, that's the thing because when you were when 458 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 2: I was younger, Yeah, I mean, like who the person 459 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 2: I am today. 460 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 3: But now I think anybody when they're younger, you know, 461 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 3: and I don't. 462 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 1: I don't think it's intentional, but I think a lot 463 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:02,199 Speaker 1: of girls when they're younger are more attracted to like 464 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 1: the macho bad boy, and then obviously, you know, sometimes 465 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 1: it doesn't turn out to be the best decision because 466 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 1: then sometimes the macho bad boy gets in trouble. 467 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 2: I know. But even though I feel like Louie's macho too, 468 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,199 Speaker 2: like I love, like, I'm very attracted to him, so 469 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 2: there's you know he has. 470 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, like he's attractive, but Louis was was not 471 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: Dad like Louie didn't get in trouble, you know, get deported, 472 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: like things didn't happen to you. 473 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 2: God, Yeah, yeah. 474 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 3: But no, I definitely agree. 475 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 1: Do you think if we were never on Housewives that 476 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: our family would still be together, like Dad not being 477 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 1: deported and like you and your brothers still being close, 478 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 1: like just everything. Do you think the show like caused 479 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 1: a lot of like turmoil? 480 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 2: Oh definitely, But I don't want to go back in 481 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 2: time because you could say what it could have should have. 482 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 4: But yes, I mean, did. 483 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,880 Speaker 3: I get definitely you know, added to the. 484 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,679 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, So I feel like I was made an 485 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 2: example of. Absolutely absolutely, because, like I said, your father 486 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 2: had a partner and he didn't go to jail, and 487 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 2: he should have went to jail. So that's what pissed 488 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 2: me off the most. Like I don't care, I mean, 489 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 2: I get it. My John Hancock was you know on 490 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,199 Speaker 2: you know, because I went to a closing and I 491 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 2: did sign those papers because you know, your father used 492 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 2: my credit. 493 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 4: Blah blah blah. 494 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 2: But you know what pisses me off is that all 495 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 2: three of us should have went to jail. Yeah, and 496 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 2: you know, he had a partner and his partner didn't 497 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 2: go to jail, and that's well, you know, and that's why, 498 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 2: you know, I know I was made I was made 499 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 2: an example of. 500 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 4: You're right and about me and your dad. I don't know. 501 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 4: I mean, listen, I feel like. 502 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: You know, I think, you know, regardless if the marriage 503 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:56,360 Speaker 1: would have lasted or not. 504 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:57,160 Speaker 4: I don't think. 505 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 3: I think. 506 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 4: I don't think it would. 507 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: I think he would have been in the States though, 508 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 1: if it weren't for housewives, Oh. 509 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 4: Yes, that's for sure. 510 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,120 Speaker 2: But I don't know if our marriage would have lasted 511 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 2: just because yeah, I don't think so, because it would 512 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 2: have if it would have lasted, it would have lasted. 513 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,919 Speaker 1: So you know, so we were I mean no, really, 514 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be married to somebody living in Italy. 515 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 2: No, hello, we knew, we know someone else that got 516 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 2: deported and she traveled back and forth. 517 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's just like so like that's just like 518 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 3: very difficult. You had four kids. 519 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 2: She had three kids, No, but they were. 520 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,479 Speaker 1: Two of her kids were already graduated from college and 521 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:37,919 Speaker 1: one was in college. 522 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 3: So they were all of all of us were so young, 523 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 3: like we we all had to be in the States. 524 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 1: It would have it would have been a lot. And 525 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: it's no way to have a marriage, even for anyone 526 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: in that situation. Yes, if you really love the person, 527 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:53,719 Speaker 1: you know, you try to make it work. But like 528 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 1: you suffer a lot of things. You could, you know, 529 00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: face infidelity with each other, long distance, you're not with 530 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 1: your partner every day. 531 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 3: Like it's not. 532 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: No, it's not. I wouldn't have made it work even 533 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 1: if it was an option. I mean, it's not. That's 534 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: not how I want my marriage to be. And I 535 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: don't think a lot of people want their marriages to 536 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 1: be that way. 537 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 3: So I think regardless even if you still loved him 538 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,160 Speaker 3: at the time. I don't think anyone blames you for 539 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 3: divorcing him. 540 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I'm glad, but. 541 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 3: Let's move on to Special Forces. 542 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: But special Forces was really emotional for me, especially watching 543 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: you leave. Were you worried about me after you left? 544 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 2: Oh? 545 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 4: My god? Gee, you know I cried. 546 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 2: First of all, I cried that that whole night in 547 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 2: the hotel, that whole night. 548 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 4: I cried the whole. 549 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 2: The next day, going to the airport, I called Christian. 550 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 2: I was hyperventilating talking to him. I was just so emotional, like, Luisa. 551 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 4: Are you okay? 552 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 2: I was crying on the airplane. Stewardess asked me if 553 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:02,200 Speaker 2: I was okay. 554 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 4: She kept bringing me tissue. I swear to God, I 555 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:06,400 Speaker 4: wish the stewardess. 556 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,360 Speaker 2: Well, can you call g into her podcast and let 557 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 2: her know how I was crying on the plane. 558 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. 559 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 2: I was hysterical crying. Yeah, like if I remember, if 560 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 2: I get that plane, we should find that plane, find 561 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,920 Speaker 2: the stewardess that were on that plane, and they're gonna 562 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: I was hysterical, hysterical, I couldn't stop crying, like I 563 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 2: was a mess. And then coming home, Louis like, what's wrong? 564 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 2: And I was I was so out of that until 565 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 2: you came home. Louis thought that maybe I don't know 566 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 2: if something happened on. 567 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 4: Special Forces, like did you find No? 568 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 2: No, okay, not that I found Zone, but I was 569 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 2: really like in another world. And he's like, are you okay? 570 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 2: It's like you're very different, and I'm like, I just 571 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 2: you know, I was just so I was so worried 572 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 2: about you, and I wasn't myself until you got home. 573 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: No, I know, because it is scary and you you 574 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 1: understood it because we really were doing things that were 575 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 1: very dangerous, sin just terrifying. 576 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that living conditions were horrible. It was like, yeah, 577 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 2: it was bad. Yeah, it's like really bad. 578 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,360 Speaker 1: Do you think you learned more about me from our 579 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 1: time together on the show. 580 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, a lot more. 581 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and even I'm so like I was proud before 582 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 2: and so much you know, I'm so much more. 583 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 4: I don't want to say prouder. 584 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 3: Because like you just like, I'm even more proud now. 585 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:30,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm even more. 586 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,359 Speaker 2: I like that, thank you, I'm even more proud, and 587 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 2: I'm like in awe of you, and I'm so glad 588 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,439 Speaker 2: we got to do this together because it's something like 589 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 2: I'll never forget, I'll always cherish and I feel like, 590 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 2: you know you're going to do the same. 591 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 3: What has it been like to continue? 592 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,679 Speaker 4: And I was this is one regret. 593 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 2: I wish they would have did the milling a few 594 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 2: episodes later. 595 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, just because it was really early on. 596 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,719 Speaker 2: It was and it's like I didn't want to trust me, 597 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,479 Speaker 2: I didn't want to leave. But then it was something 598 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 2: that you know, because we were talking before that and 599 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and I just made a call as your 600 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 2: mom and something that I wanted to show you as 601 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 2: your mom, and you know, to prove to you that 602 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: you know. It was a lot of things, you know, 603 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 2: like first of all, I would have never been able 604 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,919 Speaker 2: to see you fight, Like whoever was punching you, I 605 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 2: would have been punching them. 606 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 4: That would have not been good, But that would have 607 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 4: made great TV that way. 608 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 1: It would have if Fox was kicking themselves after that one. 609 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,119 Speaker 4: I would have made the best TV ever. 610 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 2: And I didn't want you to see me fight because 611 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 2: I feel like I've been fighting. There's like a lot 612 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 2: of things I feel like I've been fighting on TV 613 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 2: for the past fifteen years, like defending myself. And this 614 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 2: is the true first time that I'm saying this too, 615 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 2: So I feel like I was incorporating, like mentally, all 616 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 2: these things about the milling gave me post traumatic stress 617 00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 2: about a lot of things. 618 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 4: And I and. 619 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 2: As a mom, because I'm always a mom, first, I 620 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 2: wanted to show you. You know, I don't want you 621 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 2: to fight in life. I don't like, I don't want 622 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 2: you to fight in life. I know you had to 623 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 2: do that because that was our task. I get it, 624 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 2: that was what we had to do. But at this 625 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 2: point in my life, you know, I was I was 626 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 2: with my daughter. I was you know, I was with you, 627 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm like, I want to teach 628 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 2: my daughter something. I want to just show her something. 629 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: So it was something mentally for me to show you. 630 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 2: And you know, and I feel like I feel like you. 631 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,959 Speaker 1: Did what you had to do for yourself, and like 632 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: I totally understood and respected why you learn and I. 633 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 2: Think exactly, I feel like you totally understood it and. 634 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 4: I was just and I was just like, but I 635 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 4: was upset doing it. 636 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 2: But you know, I was like, I know my child's 637 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 2: going to understand this, you know, when I'm able to 638 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,959 Speaker 2: speak to her and tell her like why I did it? 639 00:29:55,480 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 3: Definitely thank you. You've always told me to be strong. 640 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 3: What does strong mean to you? 641 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 2: Now when you get knocked down that you're able to 642 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 2: get back up and do it with a smile on 643 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 2: your face. 644 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 1: A lot of people said they saw a new Terresa 645 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 1: on the show. Did it make you rethink how people 646 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 1: perceive you? 647 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's not a new Tersa. 648 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 2: That's a Teresa, that's always that, That's who I am. 649 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: And it's because you weren't around, you know, you weren't 650 00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: in a toxic environment. You weren't around like you know, 651 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: people who are just trying to like tear you down, 652 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: and it's hard. And that's what people don't understand, like 653 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: being on the Real Housewives in New Jersey or just 654 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 1: being on Real Housewives in general, Like as a franchise, 655 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: it is a fun show, but when it gets dirty, 656 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 1: it gets dirty, and when it gets messy, it gets messy, 657 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 1: and when it gets draining, it's draining. 658 00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 3: Special Forces, we as. 659 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 1: A cat like we all really got along so well, 660 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 1: and we had such a good cast, so. 661 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 2: Now we did and we had each other's backs, like 662 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 2: everyone helped out, you know, I'm just saying, like I 663 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 2: didn't feel no jealousy, no toxicity, no trying to tear 664 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 2: each other down. 665 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 4: Like the guys were actually helping us, like. 666 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 3: We were all, Oh my god. 667 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 1: If it wasn't for the guys, I probably wouldn't have 668 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: gotten up half the hills I did. 669 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I have to say, like I did 670 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 2: have a lot of guy friends in high school, you know, 671 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 2: I mean, because guys are cool, you know, no me, 672 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 2: They're like, guys are cool and like. 673 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 4: They were really steet. 674 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 2: And I have to say all the girls, all the 675 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 2: ladies on our cast too, I thought they were all 676 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 2: like empowering. 677 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 4: They were. 678 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 1: No, definitely, and everyone has their own story. So everyone 679 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:52,480 Speaker 1: definitely had an empowering story on Special Forces. 680 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 3: But we did Special Forces together. 681 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 1: Would you do it again with Audriata, Malania and Gabriella 682 00:31:58,440 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 1: if they wanted to? 683 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 4: Absolutely? Yeah. 684 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 2: I can't say yes to you, and I say yes 685 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: to that. 686 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 1: Let's talk about next Gen in real houses in New Jersey. 687 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 1: So next Gen, myc How does it feel to watch 688 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: me film my own reality TV show? 689 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 2: I love it, love love love It's what do you. 690 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 1: Think is different about it? Watching me film Next Gen? 691 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,320 Speaker 1: Versus you filming Housewives. 692 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 2: I don't feel like there's anything different about it. I 693 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 2: just feel like it's your error. Like it's where you 694 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 2: being your twenties, having fun being out there and like, 695 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 2: oh my god, the sky behind you is absolutely gorgeous. 696 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 4: Oh no, it's so I love your view. 697 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 2: Last night, the skyline was amazing. 698 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 4: Oh I'm so beautiful. 699 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 3: I know, it's I just. 700 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I'm just happy for you. 701 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 2: And I feel like you're doing what I always saw 702 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 2: you to be doing because I used to take you on. 703 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 3: Gee. 704 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 4: I took in so many. 705 00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 2: Auditions when you were younger, so many auditions, and and 706 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 2: like we just kept going and going, and I mean 707 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 2: the you know, because you had, like we had, you 708 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 2: had to land the right part that is right for you, 709 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 2: and like look and now you're finally doing what's right 710 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:14,719 Speaker 2: for you and like now you can do it on 711 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 2: your own. 712 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 4: But I did. I took it in so many auditions. 713 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:20,280 Speaker 3: You did. You did so much for me when I 714 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 3: was younger. 715 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I really did. Don't forget that. 716 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,280 Speaker 1: Did you have any hesitations when I first brought up 717 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: this idea to you? 718 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 4: No, not at all. I'm she's gonna kill it. 719 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 2: And you're like amazing, and how just how you are, 720 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 2: Like I'm take one advice from me. 721 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 4: Watch your show, Yeah, watch your show. 722 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 1: Well, how do you think I was perceived in the 723 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 1: first season? 724 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,320 Speaker 2: I mean, you're my daughter, so I feel like you're 725 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 2: perceived amazing. But like, you know, I guess you took 726 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 2: accountability for you know, any actions that you know it 727 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 2: was set to you and then you're like, Okay, you 728 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 2: know what, I'm going to do it this way again. 729 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 2: You know, then you saw what people were saying to you, 730 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 2: and and I feel like that's a good Definitely. 731 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, I self reflected a lot, definitely. 732 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 4: And I love that. 733 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,879 Speaker 2: Like that's why I feel like it's important to watch 734 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,719 Speaker 2: your show, and I have to do more of that. 735 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 2: And I'm going to yeah, like it's important. It is 736 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,839 Speaker 2: it is because the thing is you I didn't watch 737 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 2: the show. First of all, I didn't have time. I 738 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,399 Speaker 2: was raising four beautiful daughters and I didn't have the time. 739 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 2: And I'm glad I didn't want. And then look, there 740 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,719 Speaker 2: was a reason why I didn't watch it because if 741 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 2: I would have watched it, real houses in New Jersey would. 742 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 4: Have ended a long time ago. 743 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,880 Speaker 2: I think or or they would have definitely made different changes, 744 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,799 Speaker 2: like a long time. So it was there was a 745 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,480 Speaker 2: reason why I didn't watch it because I think if 746 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 2: and it would have caused a lot of heartache for no, no, 747 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,359 Speaker 2: and no that if I would have saw it. 748 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 4: So I'm glad I didn't. 749 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,280 Speaker 2: So everything everything always works out. 750 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 4: The way it's supposed to. It really does. 751 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 2: Like that's why you can't say I would have, could have, 752 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 2: should have, wasn't supposed to watch it. But going forward, 753 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,360 Speaker 2: if Rosse's in New Jersey comes back, I will be watching. 754 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 1: You've been through some brutal friendship breakups on Housewives. What 755 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 1: is the biggest difference between how your generation handles falling 756 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 1: out versus my generation? 757 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,839 Speaker 2: I don't know. You have to tell me that. I mean, 758 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,760 Speaker 2: how does your generation I just cut people off. 759 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 3: They're like just that's I mean, that's that's the right 760 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 3: way to do it. 761 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 1: I mean I think our generation it's a little bit 762 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:39,319 Speaker 1: like you know, beating around the bush and then like 763 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,920 Speaker 1: finally you got to address it. 764 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 3: But I don't think it's as direct. 765 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I'm a more direct person as you 766 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 2: can see, Like I'm very direct, Like yeah, and I 767 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 2: don't know if that's a good way to be. I mean, 768 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 2: it's just I don't know how to be any other way. 769 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 1: But no, but I think being direct is a good thing. 770 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 1: Like you need to tell people how you feel. You 771 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:08,239 Speaker 1: need to be straight up and it's honestly, it's if 772 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 1: you're not telling somebody how how you feel, I just 773 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: think you're being fake. 774 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 2: But there's a lot of that going on. Yeah, there's 775 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 2: a lot of that going on. And it's all about 776 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 2: how you play the game and blah blah blah. See 777 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:26,400 Speaker 2: I'm not strategic and calculated, so I'm neitherning reo is 778 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 2: what you see is what you get. So I kind 779 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,359 Speaker 2: of I don't know, Like I'm not saying my way 780 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:31,280 Speaker 2: is the right way. 781 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 4: I don't know what the right way. 782 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 1: I get what I mean, I think the right way 783 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 1: is though, because again, communication is so key, Like if 784 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,879 Speaker 1: something is bothering you, you need to address it, Yes. 785 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,680 Speaker 2: Very And I think that's a million percent that's what 786 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 2: I do. 787 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 3: I mean, and I think that's something that my generation lacks. 788 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,160 Speaker 2: I mean, you know what, then you do you if 789 00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,799 Speaker 2: something bothers you, then you communicate with the person you know, 790 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 2: and then maybe maybe you'll teach them something, you know. 791 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, what kind of advice would you give me in 792 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 1: regards to keeping my personal life and my professional life 793 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,359 Speaker 1: separate even though they kind of blur into each other. 794 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:16,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would try to keep it, you know, as 795 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 2: private as much as as you can. Yeah, I would, 796 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 2: just because you learn from mommy. Yeah, I feel like 797 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:26,239 Speaker 2: it's better that way. 798 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 1: You have had everything, quite literally everything filmed and broadcasted 799 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 1: on TV. 800 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 3: What do you think I should keep private that. 801 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 2: Your private life. Yeah, your private life is your private 802 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 2: time because I mean, yeah, I mean, you don't have 803 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 2: to show every little thing. And that's the thing everyone 804 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:48,239 Speaker 2: thinks that they know. 805 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:53,080 Speaker 4: Oh my god, the sky is so beautiful. It's I think. 806 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 2: Everyone thinks they know you by only seeing you know, 807 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,600 Speaker 2: they see it's a glimpse into your life. It's not 808 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 2: your full life. So you you know, that's what people 809 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,440 Speaker 2: are gonna have to you know, that's what people have 810 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 2: to realize, Like it's it's not your full life, you know. 811 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 3: It's not. 812 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 1: You're filming three months out of the year. They catch 813 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 1: you at moments or catch you during times where they 814 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 1: can be heightened, and you're not your true self, and 815 00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:20,840 Speaker 1: it is it's it's a glimpse of you. 816 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 3: It's not the full picture. 817 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,280 Speaker 2: I mean, I just say, don't judge. 818 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't judge. 819 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 3: I agree. 820 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 1: I know you can't say too much about Housewives, But 821 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: if Housewives were to come back, what would fans expect 822 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:38,080 Speaker 1: from the new season or what could fans expect from 823 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 1: the new season from you? 824 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:44,279 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm not going to give that away now. You 825 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 2: just have They're gonna have to tune in to see 826 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 2: you know what to expect. 827 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's listen, it's been. 828 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,360 Speaker 3: It's maybe something with cooking. 829 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:58,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I would love to do another cookbook. Yes, 830 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,399 Speaker 2: I would love to do another cookbook. As a matter 831 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 2: of fact, I'm working on my third memoir right now. 832 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,920 Speaker 3: Incredible. You're so amazing. 833 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 2: Well, you know I'm working on my have a skincare 834 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:16,880 Speaker 2: line coming out, Sampity. Yes, I know, so samfy like 835 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 2: our tattoos, Sampane and Zami. 836 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,359 Speaker 4: Sampity means in a talent always like. 837 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 3: You can always do your skincare. 838 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you always have to wear your skincare. So excited 839 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 2: about that. 840 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,080 Speaker 3: That's super exciting. 841 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,160 Speaker 2: And there's other things in the works too. 842 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:32,920 Speaker 4: There's so much. I can't give it all away. 843 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 1: You know, I'm so happy for you that you're staying busy. 844 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 1: But before we close out on this podcast, what are 845 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:42,960 Speaker 1: you most proud of me for? 846 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:45,880 Speaker 3: For? 847 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 2: Just for everything that you've accomplished. Like, look, look where 848 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 2: you're living right now, Look at your view. You're living 849 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,279 Speaker 2: in your own apartment. You're twenty four years old, doing 850 00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:01,040 Speaker 2: it on your own. You have Look at you're beautiful, 851 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 2: you have, you have the brains, you have it all. 852 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 4: I feel, yeah, I'm so proud of you. 853 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:10,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you're so strong, you're so you're dedicated to 854 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 2: your family, your wonderful big sister, wonderful daughter, wonderful step daughter. 855 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:21,800 Speaker 2: Like you're pretty amazing, Yeah, pretty amazing. So Brady, if. 856 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:25,280 Speaker 1: We had the chance to work on something together again, 857 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:26,799 Speaker 1: what would you want to do? 858 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 2: Like I would love to do a traveling show with you, 859 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:35,320 Speaker 2: Like let's like go to different go go to different 860 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,480 Speaker 2: cities and like and try the food and say what 861 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,919 Speaker 2: we thought, try different restaurants, like like what was the name? 862 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 2: Like a like a traveling traveling to different countries. 863 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 4: I would love to do that. Oh my god, I 864 00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:50,440 Speaker 4: would love to do that with you. 865 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:52,720 Speaker 3: Not do a show where we could travel the world. 866 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 2: Yes, I would love that, or pick like five beautiful 867 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 2: places and then talk about it and go and try. 868 00:40:58,920 --> 00:40:59,879 Speaker 4: Different you know the better. 869 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 3: All right? 870 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: Any networks get me and my mom on a traveling show. 871 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,319 Speaker 4: Yes, I would love that. Love that? 872 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 3: All right? 873 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:07,759 Speaker 2: Mom? 874 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: I love you so much and thank you for coming 875 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:10,920 Speaker 1: on Casual Chaos. 876 00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 2: Love you so much, and make sure you tune into 877 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 2: Turning the Tables awesome. 878 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:15,719 Speaker 3: Yes, where can they find you? 879 00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:16,040 Speaker 2: Mom? 880 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 4: Anywhere? Anywhere you get your podcasts. 881 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,920 Speaker 2: Make sure your rate reviews, subscribe Turning the Tables love Love, 882 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:23,840 Speaker 2: Love you guys. 883 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 1: And your Instagram Teresa, Teresa Judys, Yes Teresa. All right guys, 884 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,359 Speaker 1: And that is all for this week's episode. Until next time, 885 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:44,239 Speaker 1: Love you, guys,