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Speaker 1: This is Intergalactic John, and this is Airlien Salm on

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Speaker 1: the International Oka Storytime podcast station. And we have some

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Speaker 1: human stories coming up, not alien, but before we make

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Speaker 1: a landing, stick around for this two minute not alien

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Speaker 1: ad break before we get to these interstellar stories.

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Speaker 2: I defended my sister in law and my family isolated me.

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Speaker 3: Seems like you picked a sod but they didn't pick you.

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Speaker 2: Trigger warning for failed pregnancies. I twenty four mail was

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Speaker 2: at my mom's house for dinner and me, my older siblings,

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Speaker 2: and my sister in law were in the living room

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Speaker 2: talking with my mom while she got dinner ready. My

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Speaker 2: relationship with my siblings is pretty bad due to some

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Speaker 2: background familial issues and the fact that we just don't

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Speaker 2: have personalities that mesh, but we're able to stay mostly

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Speaker 2: civil for my mother. My sister is one of those

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Speaker 2: hyper religious people that doesn't believe in western medicine and

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Speaker 2: wants everything natural. By the way, this comes from Apprehensive

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Speaker 2: Cry fifty two to thirty one. And if you want

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Speaker 2: us make your own story, go to the oar slash

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Speaker 2: Okay story Time Separated. I'm Sophia, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Riley, and I'm Keon and We're here to give good.

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Speaker 2: Advice, goofy, but we don't have all the answers. We

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Speaker 2: only know what we'd do, So let us know what

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Speaker 2: you would do in the comments, and oh pie, says

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Speaker 2: My sister in law twenty four female, recently got out

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Speaker 2: of the hospital after being there for an extensive period

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Speaker 2: of time following a really messy labor. From what I know,

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Speaker 2: she went into labor prematurely and had to get an

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Speaker 2: emergency c section as her and the baby's lives were

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Speaker 2: at risk. It was a tough period of time for

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Speaker 2: her and my brother. We were talking about how they've

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Speaker 2: been progressing since they got out, and sister in law

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Speaker 2: shared how hard it has been having to bounce back

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Speaker 2: from that traumatic experience to take care of her son.

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Speaker 2: My sister thirty four female, turned to my brother thirty

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Speaker 2: and she still complains and.

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Speaker 3: Laughed fun fact, giving birth is one of the hardest

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Speaker 3: things anyone has to go through, no matter if it's

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Speaker 3: any easy route or a hard route.

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Speaker 2: And also that was from Riley woman doctor. My sister

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Speaker 2: in law asked what she meant, and my sister proceeded

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Speaker 2: lesson and that's why things turned out the way they did,

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Speaker 2: and that she took the short cut and as the

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Speaker 2: audacity to complain.

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Speaker 3: Dude, this is where you really hold your tongue if

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Speaker 4: Honesty is the best policy.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry she had to get an emergency sea section,

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Speaker 2: and freaking sisters saying, oh, yeah, you had a short pregnancy,

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Speaker 2: Lucky you. She had to get an emergency pregnancy sea section.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like something. You just don't compare pain, don't compare pregnancies,

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Speaker 3: don't compare.

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Speaker 2: Like not even honestly, sister, Just don't even talk.

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Speaker 3: Dude, sister, I think you could find a sock, fill

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Speaker 3: it with some butter, and just oh Sam Sam Pucket

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Speaker 2: My sister in law tried to explain that the doctors

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Speaker 2: told her what would be best for her during her

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Speaker 2: would not let up and was gradually getting more insulting,

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Speaker 2: ignoring me telling her to knock it off. My sister

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Speaker 2: one dumb witch who couldn't get through high school?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Burn it learned. You just got burned. Ooh we need

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Speaker 2: some alivera for that burn. My sister lost her mind

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Speaker 2: and started yelling at me, which I just repeated, get

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Speaker 2: a job. At this point, yeah, you can't win. Opie

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Speaker 2: has clapbacks for days. Wait, this is so much funnier.

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Speaker 2: I just repeated get a job over and over again.

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Speaker 2: So the sister's like, how dar you say that, and

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Speaker 2: which made her angrier until she was crying and hurling

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Speaker 2: I had a heated phone call with my brother because

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Speaker 2: shut and let women handle their business. I'm sorry your

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Speaker 3: I get letting siblings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but his sister with his wife. This is not

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Speaker 2: just lady problems. My dad, my parents are divorced. Left

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Speaker 2: of blind and I need to apologize to her. My

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Speaker 2: sister in law texted me and said that she's sorry

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Speaker 2: she calls this situation and that she appreciates me speaking up.

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Speaker 2: But I didn't have to, and that's what's making me

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Speaker 2: I always have been, and I'm fine with that, but

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Speaker 2: I don't want to put her in a bad position

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Speaker 2: with them too when she's done nothing wrong. Am I

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Speaker 2: the ale for insulting my sister after she insulted my

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Speaker 2: sister in law? And there are some comments, But what

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Speaker 2: do you think, Riley?

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Speaker 3: I think we need to meet up with sister.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we have to have a little.

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Speaker 3: Talk, and we're gonna have a talk Mano Imano in

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Speaker 3: a public place. We're gonna double down. Oh yeah right,

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Speaker 3: we're gonna say, hey, your feelings got hurt. This is

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Speaker 3: how I feel if someone came yapping to me about

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Speaker 3: how if they I don't know, eight dandelions at birth

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Speaker 3: so they could have an easier than now canal out

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Speaker 3: with the baby? What I would a doctor.

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Speaker 4: He's let Themoker's magic.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, yeah, sorry, I don't know all these new terms.

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Speaker 3: Jinalvanw canal out wagonal vaginal wagonal canal out. He's good. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: if you eat four day in lines before you have bird.

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Speaker 3: Sophia is crying vanaginalvaniw cow Why are.

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Speaker 4: You adding another a in there?

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Speaker 2: Vaginal?

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Speaker 3: It gets more complicated the more you meet it. But

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Speaker 3: that's what we're doing, though. Listen to your medical professionals.

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Speaker 2: But there is a comment. So your brother, who should

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Speaker 2: have stood up for his wife, is mad at you

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Speaker 2: for doing so. He has now pressured his own wife

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Speaker 2: into telling you shouldn't have done so. Does this mean

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Speaker 2: he also believes the same thing your sister does. I'm

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Speaker 2: just glad your sister in law saw at least one

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Speaker 2: person stand up for in that debacle. Unfortunately, she has

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Speaker 2: a husband problem and you have a family problem. I

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Speaker 2: up for and didn't do anything wrong. She didn't cause

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Speaker 2: are not the ale. Oh, he says, my brother's always

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Speaker 2: so I wasn't surprised that he didn't say anything, just

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Speaker 2: which she has always hated. Common two not the Ale.

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Speaker 2: I'm tired of people saying sea section is the easy

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Speaker 2: way out. You literally have to get cut open.

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Speaker 3: Like it's easier getting the baby out, but the experience

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Speaker 3: is still the same.

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Speaker 2: You literally have a scar, a giant scar in your

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Speaker 2: stomach because you got cut open.

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Speaker 3: Sure a sea section can get the baby out faster,

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Speaker 3: but like, still a lot happening down there.

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Speaker 2: So very dangerous. Good for you for speaking yes.

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Speaker 3: Because there's blades involved.

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Speaker 4: He's a doctor.

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Speaker 2: Common three not the Ale. Your bro is the ale

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Speaker 2: though for not standing up for his wife. Wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: Your old fam is a mess. Why are they backing

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Speaker 2: her up so much? Oh p he says, Well, my

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Speaker 2: dad just pretty blatantly doesn't like me, So that's probably

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Speaker 2: why my mom just doesn't like problems in the family.

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Speaker 2: And I'm pretty sure she wants me to apologize, so

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Speaker 2: my sister will shut up. My sister lives with her,

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Speaker 2: And there is an update, folks.

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Speaker 3: I have a similar family set up that if one

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Speaker 3: family member talks to crap about another, yeah, the mother

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Speaker 3: of that family member they're being talked about comes to

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Speaker 3: them and is like, hey, stop doing this, So they're

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Speaker 3: stop talking crap about you to me. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Also, OPI is a guy, my bad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you just gotta roll with the punches. And

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Speaker 3: people are gonna be upset because you're just defending the

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Speaker 3: sea section women, so be it.

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Speaker 2: That'll be it. They can stay upset. Yeah, if they're

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Speaker 2: we even want to hang out with them? Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: didn't do anything wrong.

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Speaker 3: You upset about the see section go to the A section,

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Speaker 3: Go to the B section. Yeah, I don't care. Just

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Speaker 3: get out of here, Get.

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Speaker 2: Out of my section. Updates. My brother has convinced my

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Speaker 2: mom that I, an openly queer man, am trying to

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Speaker 3: From the tile itself? You know how blatantly crazy these people.

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Speaker 2: Are three months later looking for any kind of advice

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Speaker 2: cut my losses with my crap show of a family.

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Speaker 2: My brother, thirty two male, has successfully convinced my family

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Speaker 2: that I, twenty four male, am in love with my

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Speaker 3: Right, How's that going to work out?

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Speaker 2: My brother and sister in law have been married for

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Speaker 2: four years. This apparently all came about because a couple

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Speaker 2: a big blow up against my sister in law's pregnancy,

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Speaker 2: I let her know she has nothing to apologize for

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Speaker 2: and that I'm here to help both her and my nephew.

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Speaker 2: We ended up having a pretty in depth conversation about

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Speaker 2: how my sisters treated her in the past. Apparently, my

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Speaker 2: brief period to help with my sister in law's first

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Speaker 2: for the sake of the baby. My sister in law

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like, maybe you can get your sister

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Speaker 3: I think it's best step away. Yeah, if the sister

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Speaker 2: I think if you have like your brother in law

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Speaker 3: That one was wild. Oh boy, my family is forcing

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Speaker 3: My thirty seven mal brother thirty two mail got kicked

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're done.

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Speaker 3: Toys, clothes, money, you name it. You're only seeing it

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Speaker 3: again if you sneak to his room and take it.

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Speaker 2: Why is he stealing? He's a little thief. Thief in

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Speaker 3: That's that's brother activities right there. The second he steps in.

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Speaker 3: The only way he leaves is if I chase him

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Speaker 4: Where this penny wise, get lout.

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Speaker 2: Scram scram, get stop stealing, Get off my mind property,

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Speaker 2: Stop stealing my my stuff.

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Speaker 3: That's wild.

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Speaker 3: I don't want another kid to take care of one

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Speaker 3: is quite enough, Thank you very much. My son thirteen

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Speaker 3: I'm already trying to learn anime from him, which is

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Speaker 2: What how is that?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Wait, every conversation that your brother has with your son

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's probably like, hey, kid, you go to stop

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Speaker 3: watching those cartoons all the time.

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Speaker 2: You don't understand the perfection of anime. Wait, who watches anime?

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Speaker 2: The brother of the son? Okay, he's like, these cartoons

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Speaker 3: I said, no, he is not getting a foot in

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Speaker 5: Man, this guy's like Vin Diesel, fast and furious over

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Speaker 4: You never turn your back on family, You never to family.

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Speaker 3: And only ever saying that when they try to bring it.

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Speaker 3: I'm all about family helping family. If that family member

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Speaker 2: Yeah, If they don't, then stay gone.

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Speaker 3: Ever seen the movie Money Pit.

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Speaker 2: Ever seen the movie Airbud? Scram get out of here.

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Speaker 2: No one wants you here.

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Speaker 3: It's not Steph Gart.

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Speaker 3: There's a simple solution to that.

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Speaker 2: I talked to him, Holy jo this.

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Speaker 3: Blew up Opie. So this is a gay couple, by

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Speaker 3: and we wrote a modified version and sent that out

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Speaker 2: We have a common really not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, come on, some dude wants to just bum

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and steal your.

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Speaker 3: Stuff, steal all your toys and.

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Speaker 2: Like lecture your son about anime.

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Speaker 3: Come on, come under one. Dudes burnt his bridges and

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Speaker 3: now he's got to face music. Family's there for support.

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Speaker 3: Stick to your pew pews. You got a kid and

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Speaker 3: a home to look after. If other families so held

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Speaker 3: bent on helping, they can step the f up that

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Speaker 3: they turned a one to eighty real quick. Don't let

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Speaker 3: do you care? Opie says kind of. I still love

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Speaker 3: in for just appeasement. Baseball bat is on standby. I

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Speaker 3: don't know if you're gonna live somewhere and they like

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Speaker 3: just completely flip over your way of life, I don't

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Speaker 3: really think it's worth having that person. I agree come

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Speaker 3: if he hasn't learned to overcome adversity at his age,

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Speaker 3: this is the perfect opportunity for a crash. Course, he

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Speaker 3: cannot stay in your house. It'll ruin whatever piece you have.

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Speaker 3: The definition of family to the people you've posted about

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Speaker 3: is codependent. And unhealthy. I don't even think of that.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: can't just take that just because their family.

442
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 3: I know for a fact that if I went back

443
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 3: home I was stealing stuff from people, my family would

444
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 3: not let me. No, Oh, you gotta figure that out.

445
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 2: There's lots of complicated really. I mean like I have

446
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 2: a huge family, and there's tons of complicated relationships within

447
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 2: that because it's so big, and there are certain people

448
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,639
Speaker 2: that you just can't help because they don't want to

449
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 2: help themselves.

450
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 3: Hope, he replies, That's what I'm worried about too. I

451
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 3: can't live with someone who hates my son. Taking my

452
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 3: piece from parasites comes first. Just worried I may set

453
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 3: off a serious drama bomb coming. Four. Whoa hates your

454
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 3: That's enough right there, Ope says, hearing you guys made

455
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,679
Speaker 3: me think about it more violence. Would my bro have

456
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 3: these conversations trying to change who my son is if

457
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:14,439
Speaker 3: my bro actually loved his nephew. Comedy five, You have

458
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 3: an early teen in the house. Your brother is not

459
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 3: the sort of daily influence and an example you want

460
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:25,400
Speaker 3: in your home. Protect him and keep saying no. Hope.

461
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: He says, I can't subject him to that. It would

462
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,680
Speaker 3: be very exhausting if I had to have an intervention

463
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 3: every single day. Comedy six, No you're not. Why are

464
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,920
Speaker 3: you the first port of call and not anyone else? Hope?

465
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 3: He says, I have the biggest house.

466
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 2: And there it is, op has money.

467
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 3: I think everyone's assuming I'm the best fit. Come and replies,

468
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 3: would it be desperate enough to break in? He says,

469
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 3: I sure, hope not. I don't think his bones would survive.

470
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 3: A very fit, regularly exercising man with a metal baseball bat.

471
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 2: Can't forget about that metal baseball bat.

472
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 3: It's like every other sentence with him.

473
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, I've got a metal baseball bat and

474
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:06,360
Speaker 2: I'm not afraid to use it.

475
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 3: Probably his brother nails.

476
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: It's like the Stranger Things baseball bat. He's like he's

477
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 2: doing like the flip, the baseball bat flip from from a.

478
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,639
Speaker 3: High school musical no Oh from Twilight Twilight.

479
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, it's like a there's like a specific he.

480
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 5: Does the little with the baseball I know exactly what

481
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 5: you're talking about, so he like swings it in place

482
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 5: and like it.

483
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 3: Oh, I see what you're saying.

484
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 4: I got you. I picked up what you were thinking.

485
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 3: We have an update.

486
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 2: I've got a baseball bat.

487
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 3: You do, it's my room. So update. One week later,

488
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 3: husband helped me write this in a professionalish way. Contacted

489
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 3: Joe's Nighthawk X, who's a lawyer. Nighthawk hasn't officially taken

490
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 3: a case, but we thought you would be able to

491
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 3: help us write a serious sounding letter, like giving us

492
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 3: pointers and revising to add graravatas. For the sake of readability,

493
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,479
Speaker 3: I will give people fake names. I will use Smith

494
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 3: for a fake family surname and Joe for my brother,

495
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 3: just for readability. Lower your pitchforks for I am not

496
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 3: going to subject to all of you the same letter

497
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 3: we sent to our family group chat, but I will

498
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 3: share the ending. This is a a little bit okay,

499
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 3: So here's the ending of the letter. If anyone feels

500
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 3: strongly that Joe needs a place, our door is not

501
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 3: the one to knock on, but yours absolutely could be.

502
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 3: We fully support anyone in the family opening their home

503
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 3: to him and showing how family support is done. We

504
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 3: love you all, but we are not sacrificing our home

505
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 3: stability to prove our loyalty. That is our final word

506
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 3: on the matter. With love and boundaries, op and family. Okay,

507
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 3: so that's a little end of the letter. I like

508
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 3: that he If anyone wants a full letter, request it

509
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,120
Speaker 3: in the comments. I feel like I'm already pushing it

510
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 3: with the post link. I think the other part of

511
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 3: the letter is him probably pointing out all the other

512
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 3: things that Joe's been doing.

513
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 2: Probably.

514
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, the Communications Harmful Act ceased after two days of

515
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 3: us turning in against them. No one has threatened to

516
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 3: burn bridges or exclude us from family events. Okay, they

517
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 3: tried to use the bad family card, but we just

518
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 3: played it back at them, accusing them of being the

519
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 3: bad friend.

520
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 2: Nice turn the tables.

521
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 3: I underestimated how much people can just spam it. We

522
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 3: may have dodged a big bullet. I really don't like

523
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 3: going on too long about it, but I don't know

524
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 3: how to make this shorter without making it sound blander

525
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 3: and unseasoned, unbuttered rice. Before this, we talked to the police,

526
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 3: and thanks to my hubby's connections, they knew the situation

527
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 3: and the event Joe broke in and tried to claim residency.

528
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 2: You can't just break into a house and be like

529
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 2: I live here.

530
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, please, you can't do that.

531
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, please, you can't do that.

532
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 4: He literally said, claimed this mine.

533
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 2: Kean's gonna break into the house one day and be like,

534
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 2: I live here.

535
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 4: In my house, I live here.

536
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 3: Honestly, I think we'd all be like, all right, yeah, sure.

537
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 2: This wouldn't do much about it. You already lived here.

538
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like no one would be upset about it.

539
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. I used to wake up one day and you're

540
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 2: in Riley's old room.

541
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 4: Yep, I wake Hey, what's up.

542
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, oh cool, I'm gonna use the bathroom now. Yeah.

543
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 3: We made it clear Joe is not a resident and

544
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 3: incapacity and we don't want him in the house unless

545
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 3: we invite him. We are on a weekend trip to

546
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 3: my in laws place, who are very much just the

547
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 3: loving Aunties and Grandma's. They are non drama people and

548
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 3: respect boundaries. Yesterday, I get a call from my parents

549
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,360
Speaker 3: saying Joe got in trouble with the police. Fortunately, he

550
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 3: was not arrested and he was not harmed. Apparently he

551
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 3: showed up at our house at night and he tried

552
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 3: to get us to let him in, but no one

553
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 3: was around, but he tried harder. Neighbors called the cops

554
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 3: because they didn't know who it was and thought that

555
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 3: we were being robbed. Cops showed up, and I don't

556
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 3: know everything, but my mom told me that the cops

557
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 3: told her that he tried to claim residency, but that

558
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 3: was false and they.

559
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 2: Knew wait, he did try to do it.

560
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 3: And then Joe told the cops he didn't have a home.

561
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 3: You're gonna claim residency. He's like, you dick quick with it?

562
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't be like it's my house and they're like,

563
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 2: are you sure and he was like, no, I don't

564
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:20,880
Speaker 2: have a home.

565
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 3: I don't have one of these.

566
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 2: Actually I wish it was my house.

567
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,400
Speaker 3: Well, like, the cops told my parents that they could

568
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 3: either pick up Joe or they'd get a shelter and

569
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 3: other services involved. They called Joe's parents.

570
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, they were like, can you come get your adult son?

571
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 3: How bad do you have to be for the cops?

572
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 3: You call your parents? Like what I think?

573
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 2: Probably Joe gave them the number, my parent's number. Can

574
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 2: you call my.

575
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 3: Mom, dude, call my mom, go pick me up.

576
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 2: They're like, do you have a house. He's like, yeah,

577
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 2: it's this one. They're like really and he's like, no,

578
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 2: call my mom.

579
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 3: I could see a five year old doing this for sure.

580
00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 3: Parents had to end up driving home to pick them

581
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 3: up late at night, and now Joe is crashing on

582
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: their couch. Joe's ex Nighthawk, as I called her before

583
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 3: on my last post, bite me it works and my

584
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 3: husband are still friends.

585
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 4: Bite me, Nighthawk works. It's cool.

586
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 2: It's cool.

587
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean it's pretty bad, but it stands out

588
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 3: and she says she's never taking Joe back to her nest.

589
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 3: Joe might have lost a lover, but Son didn't losing it.

590
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 3: Son's doing okay, still an up ill battle to understand anime,

591
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 3: but he likes the effort I put in.

592
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 2: Oh P, I feel like it's pretty easy.

593
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 3: There's a lot of resources out there.

594
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: I think it's pretty easy and understand anime.

595
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's storytelling, and you know how many recap videos

596
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 3: are are yeah, of different animes.

597
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I guess unless you're watching one piece, but

598
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 2: even then and probably wouldn't that hard.

599
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 3: No, no, no, there's still recap videos on YouTube. Yeah, he

600
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: said he was happy we didn't have to live with Joe.

601
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 3: I didn't tell him about the concern you all showed

602
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 3: for him, But I think that's fine, fine, probably safer

603
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 3: this way. Family now has to put their money where

604
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 3: their mouth is. Joe is fine, Our butts are covered.

605
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 3: We're fine and safe. Additional information from OP sharing the

606
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 3: letter that they sent to the Smith family, I'll share

607
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 3: people of the Smith family for anyone who hasn't heard

608
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 3: it yet. Mister Joe Smith asked us for a place

609
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 3: to stay after a recent breakup with Miss Knighthawk. Members

610
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 3: of our household have talked it over and we came

611
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 3: to the conclusion that Joe Smith would not make for

612
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 3: a suitable tenant in our household. We understand some people

613
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 3: believe family should help family, and we do not completely

614
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 3: deny the statement. However, help does not always mean allowing

615
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 3: people to move in for an undefined amount of time.

616
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 3: Given past history, which everyone reading this knows about, let's

617
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 3: not pretend otherwise. The already strained relationship between Joe and

618
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 3: certain household members, this was already tenuous. We also have

619
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 3: a statement from Miss Nighthawk that Joe was never employed

620
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 3: while living with her, and their arrangement was financially parasitic

621
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 3: in nature.

622
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 2: Listen, messy, missy, messy messy.

623
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 3: Based on the current state of mister Joe Smith's employment,

624
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 3: we believe this will be so different for us. Hosting

625
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 3: mister Joe Smith would not be healthy for anyone under

626
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 3: our roof. If anyone feels strongly that Joe needs a place,

627
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 3: our door is not the one to knock on, but

628
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 3: yours absolutely could be. We fully support anyone in the

629
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 3: family opening their home to him and showing how family

630
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 3: support is done.

631
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 2: I love that. It's like, our door's not open, but

632
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 2: your doors could be open with that. Yeah, it's like, personally,

633
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 2: can't do it. Your door can be open. Your son

634
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 2: needs you.

635
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 3: Yep, take him in today. Yeah for the free cost

636
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 3: of free ninety nine. But he has a lot of

637
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 3: subscriptions that he comes with, and.

638
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 2: He kind of sucks.

639
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: He smells mm hmm. The impression we're trying to give

640
00:30:55,520 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 3: off is we're so serious, we're talking like officials. Brother comments.

641
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 3: I have a few questions slash issues here. One. All

642
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 3: he did was talk about a scary lawyer. Why is

643
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 3: that so horrible? Too. Bro is a mal thirty two

644
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 3: and ruins and or never returns anything given to him.

645
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 3: Opie sneaks into Bro's room to retrieve anything when Bro's

646
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 3: thirty two isn't home. Have I got that right? And

647
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 3: have they gave mel thirty two toys? Still? Am I

648
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 3: missing a thing? Why doesn't Joe have a job and

649
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 3: his own place to live? What's wrong with Joe that

650
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 3: prevents him from working and giving his own place? Clearly

651
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 3: a lot Even with questions, Opie, you're not the a

652
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 3: hole if your fam is the a hole demanding you

653
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 3: to take in this thirty two man child stand firm,

654
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 3: OPI responds. Number one, night Hawk of a woman that

655
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 3: my brother David can be very terrifying at times, and

656
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 3: my brother still thought it was a good idea to

657
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 3: say insulting things behind her back to his friends. N

658
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 3: Ihog found out and unlive the respects she had for him.

659
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 3: Number two. I stopped giving Joe anything after I snuck

660
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Speaker 3: into his room when I was fourteen to get back

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Speaker 3: the Game Boy I gave him to borrow. I found

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Speaker 3: it with yoga marks across the screen. Oh no, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: I hate that you stop John here Og host.

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Speaker 3: Ever since I stopped giving him things, I have not

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Speaker 3: needed to steal anything back. Three. He has told me

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Speaker 3: every excuse in the book, from not liking people to

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Speaker 3: not liking the job itself. I think he's lazy, but

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Speaker 3: who knows, but still thanks anyways. Opie clarifies on the

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Speaker 3: reason Joe was kicked out by his ex and why

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Speaker 3: he was breaking into Opie's house. Opie says Joe was

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Speaker 3: gossiping with his buddies and saying mean things about nine

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Speaker 3: Hawk behind her back. I saw the texts from the screenshots.

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Speaker 3: I won't repeat it, but it was awful hints that

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Speaker 3: unlived any trust Night Hawk had in Joe and the relationship.

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Speaker 3: Though the second part about their to break in, I

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Speaker 3: don't think Joe was trying to break in. My mom

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Speaker 3: told me so much. But apparently Joe's phone had passed away,

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Speaker 3: and I think Joe thought someone was home and thought

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Speaker 3: making enough noise would get attention. We'll do a sweep

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Speaker 3: of the house when we get back, though. Comedy two said,

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Speaker 3: how did a bad button Nighthawk end up with your

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Speaker 3: brother hope. He says, I don't know. Hearts are weird.

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Speaker 3: Opposite to tract. I have no idea. Love was love

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Speaker 3: until it passed away for them. Yeah. I was confused

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Speaker 3: by that too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was so cool. Well, you know what, she

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Speaker 2: got away from him and he's clearly not doing well

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Speaker 2: and she is. Yeah, so that's all you can ask for.

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Speaker 3: I suppose the situation was weird, like he's not working,

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Speaker 3: they got married, place to live, putting yogurt stains on

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Speaker 3: game boys.

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Speaker 2: I think that was when they were children, but yeah,

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Speaker 2: still might still might be doing it. And that's disgusting.

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Speaker 3: That's seen to that one. Guys.

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Speaker 2: You you you.

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Speaker 3: You family dynamics are weird.

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Speaker 2: My mother accidentally called my brother in law's wife by

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Speaker 2: his ex girlfriend's name. Oh, this is so awkward you

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Speaker 2: and this comes directly from the r slash Okay storytime

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Speaker 2: subred it. Oh, my husband male twenty two and I

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Speaker 2: femaled twenty two have been together for about six years.

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Speaker 2: When we were just dating, he would bring his little brother,

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Speaker 2: Jacob now twenty one, to my family's parties. Jacob would

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Speaker 2: always bring his girlfriend Katie to these family parties as well.

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Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from Okay Impact eight eight

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Speaker 2: I'm Riley, and I'm Keon and we're here to give

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Speaker 2: good advice. Goofiley, But we don't have all the answers.

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Speaker 2: We only know what we do, So let us know

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Speaker 2: what you would do in the comments, and Op says

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Speaker 2: Jacob and Katie would hang out together for like what

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Speaker 2: felt like twenty four to seven, and anywhere my husband

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Speaker 2: and I went, Jacob and Katie would tack along. My

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Speaker 2: family got to know Katie and built a good relationship

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Speaker 2: with her. From an outsider's perspective, Jacob and Katy had

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Speaker 2: a great relation relationship. Uh huh. He even gave her

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Speaker 2: a promise rank after two years of being together.

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Speaker 3: Oh cute.

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Speaker 2: Fast forward to a few months after Jacob graduated from

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Speaker 2: technical school. He moved about three hours away and began

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Speaker 2: staying with a friend while working. Katie would go stay

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Speaker 2: with Jacob and his friend for the majority of the week,

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Speaker 2: and if not, then Jacob would travel back down to

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Speaker 2: their city to see Katie. A few months after Jacob moved,

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Speaker 2: he called my husband to tell him that he and

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Speaker 2: Katie would no longer be seeing each other due to

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Speaker 2: him cheating on her with another girl from his hometown.

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Speaker 3: Crystal, Ah, that checks out. I know exactly where you

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Speaker 3: people are from. That's wild, hear me out though. Ye

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Speaker 3: kind of saw it coming. Yeah, I knew that once

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Speaker 3: he left and Katie was like not by side all

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Speaker 3: the time, Yep, he'd get a little bored.

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Speaker 2: Crystal knew Jacob and Katie were together, but didn't care.

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Speaker 2: When my husband and I found out Jacob was no

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Speaker 2: longer with Katie, we were disappointed because we really liked her,

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Speaker 2: but we under stood that they were both still young.

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Speaker 2: So things happened. No no, no, no, no no no no,

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Speaker 2: we're not We're not brushing cheating off as all things happen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, get was get Jacob back on the hook here.

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00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, put him back on that hook.

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Speaker 4: Accidents happened, guys. He tripped and fell into her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Breakups happen because they're still young. Cheating No, no, no.

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Speaker 3: There's a little bit more of intention behind that.

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Speaker 2: We suggested to Jacob that now that he's single, he

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Speaker 2: should go out and enjoy his gardening tool life. Since

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Speaker 2: he cheated and it seemed like that's what he wanted

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Speaker 2: to do. Why are we encouraging this behavior?

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Speaker 3: Yes, the single live's not for old Jacob.

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Speaker 2: Jacob didn't do that and instead ended up marrying Crystal

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Speaker 2: a couple months after he broke.

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Speaker 4: Up with Katie bro What proved a point.

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Speaker 3: Marrying a girl named Crystal?

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Speaker 2: He's like under twenty one at this point, dude.

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Speaker 4: Everybody makes mistakes. Everybody has those days.

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Speaker 3: That is a permanent mistake right there.

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Speaker 2: Although my husband and I didn't really like Crystal or

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Speaker 2: the way his brother acted around Crystal, we obviously had

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Speaker 2: no say and who he decides to be with, so

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Speaker 2: we decided to build a relationship with her. On my

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Speaker 2: husband's and my first visit home after two years, we

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Speaker 2: decided to rent an Airbnb and have a cookout with

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Speaker 2: both of our families. Prior to this cookout, my family

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Speaker 2: had only met Crystal once. So my mom, Crystal, and

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Speaker 2: I were in one of the bedrooms trying to put

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Speaker 2: the babies to sleep, and my mom, who had been drinking,

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Speaker 2: said to Crystal, Katie, you gotta use this as a

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Speaker 2: practice for when you and Jacob have a baby. Crystal

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Speaker 2: responded with oh, that won't be anytime soon. And then

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Speaker 2: she exited the room.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool, it was an accident.

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Speaker 2: That was like, clearly an accident.

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Speaker 3: Mama was drinking.

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Speaker 2: That was clearly an accident. When she exited the room,

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Speaker 2: I looked at my mom and said, seriously, you just

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Speaker 2: called her Katie. Like I said, my mom had been

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Speaker 2: drinking and this was only her second time meeting Crystal

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Speaker 2: versus Katie, who she had known for two years. That's

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Speaker 2: an honest mistake. Okay, there's not I don't think there's

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Speaker 2: anything wrong here.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you literally explained it. Yeah, you seem like, oh,

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Speaker 3: we went. I know you're one of us too, but

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna call you out on this. She went, she

786
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Speaker 3: literally called her Katie after meeting her for the second time,

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Speaker 3: while Katie's been around for two years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel like that's an honest mistake.

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Speaker 3: Opie, Yeah a grease Vanna.

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Speaker 2: Ah see. I reacted calmly, since Crystal didn't mention anything

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Speaker 2: about being called Katie, we were hoping maybe she didn't

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Speaker 2: hear what my mom said. I went and knocked on

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Speaker 2: Crystal in Jacob's door to apologize, and when Jacob opened

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Speaker 2: the door and I apologized. He seemed confused as to

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Speaker 2: what I was talking about, so I made up an

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Speaker 2: excuse and went back to talk to my husband about

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Speaker 2: what happened.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we could have dropped the ball here. She was like, Oh,

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Speaker 3: be still bringing it up. It's not an issue.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I also don't think that you need to apologize.

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Speaker 2: It's not your fault, like your mom accidentally said the

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Speaker 2: wrong name. I feel like if she wants to go

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Speaker 2: apologie us, then she should. But I don't think you've

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Speaker 2: done anything wrong.

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Speaker 3: He probably wants to have a good relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and this is like probably the you know, hasn't

807
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Speaker 2: really matter a lot before. It seems like it seems

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00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 2: like this first time she's been home. I think you

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Speaker 2: necessarily need to bring it up because it wasn't your fault.

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Speaker 5: I will say, I've been in this predicament where my

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Speaker 5: parents did call one of not not now, but in

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Speaker 5: high school, where where my parents called one of my

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Speaker 5: previous girlfriends an ex's name.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and it was very awkward.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's awkward, but I don't think it's anything

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Speaker 2: to like necessarily like if it was done maliciously. No, no,

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Speaker 2: it was and repeatedly different, it's like a one time.

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Speaker 4: And she corrected. She's like, no, my name is this.

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Speaker 5: He's like, oh, sorry, sorry, sorry, yeah, And I looked

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Speaker 5: at him like with like I was like, are you serious?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just do that. Yeah, you rag on them

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Speaker 2: and then you get over it. So I made up

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Speaker 2: an excuse and went back to talk to my husband

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Speaker 2: about what happened. The following day, I was able to

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Speaker 2: catch Jacob alone, and I asked him whether or not

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Speaker 2: Crystal heard my mom. When he said yes, I immediately

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Speaker 2: be apologizing and asked if he wanted me to apologize

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Speaker 2: to her on behalf of my mom, since my family

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Speaker 2: had already gone back home. But Jacob said no, that

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Speaker 2: Crystal was over it and it wasn't a big deal. Okay,

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Speaker 2: turns out it was. The day our vacation was over.

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Speaker 2: Jacob talked to my husband and told him that I

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Speaker 2: had made a rude face towards him and Crystal. I didn't,

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Speaker 2: and that Crystal was still very upset that my mom

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Speaker 2: never apologized, even though he said it was fine. There's

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Speaker 2: a little bit left of this story. Honestly, Op, I

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Speaker 2: feel like you're taking a lot of the blame here.

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Speaker 2: When it's none of it is literally none of it

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Speaker 2: is your fault. Oh mama, your brother cheated on his girlfriends,

840
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Speaker 2: got married way too young, and is now having problems

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Speaker 2: with his current wife because she's being immature because she

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Speaker 2: is quite young.

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Speaker 3: I feel like this is a good test for the

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Speaker 3: young couple to see what kind of people they are. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: by having a little mistake and seeing how everyone responds

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Speaker 3: next to it and kind of lets me know where

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be spending my holidays.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and so the fact that she and he are

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Speaker 2: getting mad at you when you literally have done nothing wrong,

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Speaker 2: Like I guess I could understand maybe that they get

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Speaker 2: mad at the mom a little bit for this. You

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Speaker 2: did nothing and even offer to apologize on behalf of

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Speaker 2: your mother.

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Speaker 2: and that's the end of that story. I just I

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Speaker 2: got to behave that way, and if your sister in

876
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 2: law's gonna behaved that way, then that's on them. And

877
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: you haven't done anything wrong.

878
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, So your mom to get her names right, because

879
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 3: that's ridiculous. She shouldn't be doing all that. Yeah, the mom.

880
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 3: This is all on the mom. The mom should honestly.

881
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:28,800
Speaker 2: She should have apologized.

882
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 3: She needs to go and really go into therapy and

883
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 3: check herself after this, okay, because that's just unacceptable. On

884
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 3: all fronts.

885
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 4: Wait, remember what he did? He cheated?

886
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah?

887
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, this on the mom though, that's fine. Yeah,

888
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: PU cheatings on the mom, cheatings on the moms.

889
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 2: Everything's on the mom your parents, right, Yeah.

890
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 3: I think your mama let you watch too much TV

891
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 3: with people cheating, that's on her.

892
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is this is my Riley sarcasm flag.

893
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 3: Oh there's a flag.

894
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 2: There's a doctor can in case the viewers don't register it.

895
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 3: Can I have blue and green in it? Yeah?

896
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 2: So that was that story. And now we're gonna read

897
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 2: some comments from an old video that we posted. Wife

898
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 2: cheated with her cousin. Divorce lawyer reacts featuring Sarah A

899
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 2: and Delligator And this is posted on September twenty first,

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00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 2: twenty twenty five.

901
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 3: Do you remember.

902
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 2: TLDRP thirty one male found out his wife, twenty eight

903
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 2: female cheated on him with her own cousin.

904
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 3: I remember this.

905
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 4: I remember this.

906
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 2: Just days before their big move to Florida. She pushed

907
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: for divorce, but once op started moving on, she suddenly

908
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 2: begged him to stay. Ope has to decide if he

909
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 2: should forgive her or end the marriage for good. If

910
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 2: you're curious to know the full story. You can go

911
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 2: watch the full video and Kean's gonna read something.

912
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 4: I'm going to read some the comments. We have a comment.

913
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 5: Here by herdicles. Let me take off my glasses. I

914
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 5: have allergies, all right, so hercles says. So we're all

915
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 5: in an agreement that there was a lot more than

916
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 5: talking going on with the cousins, right yeah, cue that

917
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 5: one song with the.

918
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:04,720
Speaker 3: Guitar riff talking with some hips.

919
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, Nana, no, no, Nana all right?

920
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 5: Comment number two by bomb dot Com twenty one sixty eight.

921
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 4: Another comment from them, this is great.

922
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 5: That first story is absolutely wild. I hate when people

923
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,959
Speaker 5: are like, get back with me for the kids. You're

924
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 5: never getting back with slash staying with someone for the kids.

925
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 5: It's for yourself. It's better that kids grow up in

926
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 5: two different households than in one with turmoil. Not to

927
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 5: mention the wife is cheating with her. Oh that's the

928
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 5: worst thing to say. Yeah, I don't care if it's

929
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 5: emotional or what. There's no way in h double hockey

930
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 5: sticks I'm going to stick with a cheater, let alone

931
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 5: one who's committing the sest of in ugh. Ugh.

932
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 3: I mean it might be good for the kids to

933
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 3: see different family dynamics if you want to stay open minded.

934
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 3: But if you don't want that, then probably not stay

935
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 3: waving the flag again.

936
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 2: I'm rewatching Tavasa and one of the character Higgins, whenever

937
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 2: he's uncomfortable, he goes yes, and that's that's nice.

938
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 5: Love Higgins, me too. Coming number three here by Amy Bluesol.

939
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 5: One of my childhood friends in high school was dating

940
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 5: a guy and she was telling her grandma about her boyfriend.

941
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 5: The grandma says, John Smith is his mom Lucy Smith.

942
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 5: When friends say yeah, grandma says.

943
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:22,760
Speaker 4: Their third cousins.

944
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 5: Oh, they stopped dating. Hadn't gotten full spice level yet.

945
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 5: So that was good.

946
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 3: Coming from a town where there's a lot of people

947
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:33,240
Speaker 3: and it's small.

948
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 2: I mean, they didn't even question the name stuff.

949
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 3: At what line of cousins are you? Like? No? Is

950
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 3: it third cousins? That line?

951
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: If I know that any a person is at any

952
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 2: way related to me?

953
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 3: What if your fourth cousins? But it's not blood related.

954
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 2: No, if there's any sort of a family gathering, yeah,

955
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 2: I'm but it's not blood related.

956
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 4: It don't matter, It don't matter.

957
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 3: You don't know, I don't want to know. You don't know,

958
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:04,399
Speaker 3: I told you fortunately live in a city where like

959
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 3: that happens. If it's fourth cousins, not blood related at all,

960
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 3: it's like, oh, my mom's cousins, sister's aunt, that is

961
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 3: my aunt my marriage Mary.

962
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: No, I see what you're saying.

963
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 4: You're still see what you're saying. I'm still not doing

964
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 4: that for sure.

965
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 2: I just I just wouldn't want any connection. Yeah, interesting,

966
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 2: I want zero connections.

967
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 3: So so, first cousins you share grandpa. Yeah, Second cousins,

968
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 3: you share a great grandpa. Third cousins, you share a

969
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,919
Speaker 3: great great grandpa. Fourth cousins, you share a great great

970
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 3: great great great grandpa. But it's fourth cousins through marriage.

971
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 3: It's like that.

972
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 2: No, No, I see what you're saying. There's no moral problem here.

973
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 5: I just personally for that sharks, I'm out.

974
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 2: I just don't want any I don't want to even

975
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 2: see them at a family yeah, Austome Ashley says, if

976
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 2: I might see them at a family reunion, no, all right.

977
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 5: This is why I've also told my mom when she

978
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 5: was like, oh, are you a date of Filipino girls.

979
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 3: Like heck, no, might be my cousin.

980
00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 5: They legitimately could all Filipinos are related. I say it,

981
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 5: we're family, but it's like I will never date a

982
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 5: Filipino girl.

983
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 3: Fun fact, we're all related.

984
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:07,240
Speaker 2: Related to them.

985
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 4: Look back to the comments here.

986
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 3: We're all related. We all are somewhat of cousins.

987
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 5: We have another comment here by Alexi Casserras Gurad. I

988
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 5: definitely butchered that three two eight. Sorry about that, but

989
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 5: by the way, very interesting episode with the advice of

990
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 5: a specialist. As a forty six year old person myself,

991
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 5: sometimes I wish I could bring host with the perspectives

992
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 5: of more years of life experience. And that was because

993
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 5: we did have a guest host, yeah, I, which was

994
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 5: very lovely.

995
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 2: And she was great.

996
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,240
Speaker 3: She was great, She is fun. I love their boots.

997
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 2: The boots were cool.

998
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 4: They were meant for walking. That's what they're gonna dot.

999
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 2: Thank you, and those are the rest of the comments

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Speaker 2: from that video. And this is the end of the episode.

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