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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hi guys, Hi, Sorry I still sound like a man.

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Speaker 3: I'm really you do like.

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Speaker 2: I know? I Well, I upgraded to a Whole Foods bag,

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Speaker 2: so it's been sitting in my room, which is great.

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Speaker 2: So that's actually I you know. So funny is I

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Speaker 2: thought about you when I was putting my tissues in

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Speaker 2: my bag and it's totally filled to the top now,

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Speaker 2: so that's that's gone. I had to get another one.

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Speaker 2: It won't go away, it will not leave me.

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Speaker 3: Are you taking anything I refuse? Okay? And there we have.

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Speaker 2: And I work so hard on my gut cleanse that

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Speaker 2: like taking it in a boutic it's just gonna kill.

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Speaker 2: But I I've talked to Nate Dog and we're gonna

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Speaker 2: try a few other things. But the funniest thing was

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Speaker 2: the other day, this is what I don't like is

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Speaker 2: I can't hear out of my left ear. It feels

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Speaker 2: like it's like I'm underwater. So I'm constantly like so

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Speaker 2: the other night, I'm jumping up and down like in

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Speaker 2: my bathroom. Alan's like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: It feels like I've got water in my head.

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Speaker 2: Trying to like, you know, get it out, because when

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Speaker 2: you go like that, you can like hear it. Did

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Speaker 2: it Work's like you're jumping. There's a snot rack backing

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Speaker 2: a real hot over Periods officially concluded Super Hot Sliven

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Speaker 2: fart in front of him.

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Speaker 3: Though, oh my gosh, same, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Really I cannot just like, are you serious?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, you just talked about this, I know, but like

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Speaker 3: for real letter rip, like a real rip, Yeah, I would.

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Speaker 3: I can't always have.

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Speaker 1: I'm eleven years in and I've still not done that.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not holding that crap in for literally.

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Speaker 2: It's also interesting because you know, when I was in labor,

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Speaker 2: I was like, if I poop, don't tell me, you know,

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Speaker 2: like when you're pushing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if it bothered him or something, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: but like, it doesn't bother.

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Speaker 3: He don't care.

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Speaker 2: Well, honestly, if you think about it, it's just hum

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Speaker 2: Like it's just I feel like there's a certain amount

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Speaker 2: of like.

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Speaker 1: This is traction. Good one to ask. It doesn't make

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Speaker 1: him less attracted to me, so doesn't bother?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, doesn't matter. Have you asked him that?

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Speaker 1: Though we talked, We've talked about this. We talked about

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Speaker 1: this a couple of years ago in here. I feel like,

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Speaker 1: but yek, yeah, oh we've talked about.

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Speaker 2: It, Okay, I just love you. Yeah, he doesn't care.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Preston didn't care. Preston's gotten a little more.

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Speaker 2: He's gonna hate that I'm talking about. He has gotten

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Speaker 2: a little more like comfortable. It's not hidden, but it's

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Speaker 2: not not hidden, you know. But I am not right,

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Speaker 2: like you know, it's like, of course you were like

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Speaker 2: living together. It's kind of sneak out and I'd rather

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Speaker 2: out than in. Even Trek said it best, you know,

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Speaker 2: so you don't want heartburn or whatever hearts it.

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Speaker 1: Yeahs yes, I would love to hear from people though,

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Speaker 1: and see the amount of people that do and don't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's just you know, we've talked about

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Speaker 2: that because my I don't I want out who the

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Speaker 2: person was. But when we got back into the car,

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Speaker 2: he was just like, yeah, there's just a certain amount

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Speaker 2: of you still want to keep that attraction piece of

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Speaker 2: not saying that Nick's attracted to but like, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: and I agree, Like I'm like, I don't want you

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Speaker 2: farting in I don't know. I'm like, let's keep it

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Speaker 2: I don't awkward.

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Speaker 1: Well it doesn't bother us, fine, yeah, I mean yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to tell you.

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Speaker 3: I don't want him to do that without a vending

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Speaker 3: it's fine.

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Speaker 2: We both have different sexual lives as well, so there.

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Speaker 1: Could be it doesn't translate though, Well, I just wonder

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Speaker 1: if it's comfortability because you've also been together the longest.

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Speaker 3: That's my that's my thought.

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Speaker 1: Probably dating and still and we're doing that like it

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Speaker 3: That's so funny.

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Speaker 2: I remember I dated this guy I'll never forget in

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Speaker 2: my East Nashville house and he farted when he was like,

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Speaker 2: I mean he had like the door open, which is

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Speaker 2: again we were just like dating or wasn't even like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was gross.

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Speaker 1: I mean beginning yeah, it would have been. But I

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Speaker 1: mean we probably we just always kind of have. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and so it does not translate into our different sexual world.

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Speaker 1: Does he poop with the door open? No, he will

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Speaker 1: definitely not poop with the door door. He with the

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Speaker 1: door open, yeah, okay all the time?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do sometimes with the door open.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I don't.

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Speaker 2: I mean I do sometimes, but I mean not like

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Speaker 2: that's not like I'm like intentionally leaving it open, sure

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Speaker 2: I'll leave it open. But he's not like in there,

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Speaker 3: Right go and yeah.

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Speaker 2: So interesting because it's just human function, Like it's just

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Speaker 2: us existing. There's it's part of what we all do.

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Speaker 2: So it is interesting that there's like a thing about it.

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Speaker 3: How did we get to farts? I don't how did

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Speaker 3: that's that.

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Speaker 2: It always it's anything else you guys got.

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Speaker 3: There, we were starting.

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Speaker 2: So I'm where with football's over and I feel excited

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Speaker 3: Did you watch it? Did you sit down? Did you?

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Speaker 2: I sure didn't? And I'm really listen, I can. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to be America's most icaus, isn't it like this

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Speaker 3: I don't care.

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Speaker 2: I it's wild because Super Bowl Sunday is dumb to

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Speaker 3: And so I agree with that.

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Speaker 2: As a kid in school, we'd always have to leave

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Speaker 3: Like, why have we changed that? We changed?

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Speaker 2: Everything is Saturday we're having we're having double halftime shows. Like, guys,

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Speaker 2: that we're still it still takes four hours and it's

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Speaker 2: He wants people over all the time to watch football.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just because he feels less guilty if

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Speaker 2: And I didn't help that case when we were on

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Speaker 2: the phone. My apologies you didn't. But also so you

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Speaker 2: bedtimes and like it's like the things he's not thinking of.

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Speaker 2: I know, but I still said, well, we would have

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Speaker 2: we weren't invited anywhere, neither were worried there were we

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Speaker 2: And I was like, are we officially off? Like I

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Speaker 2: don't does everyone just know I'm not fun and know

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Speaker 3: I hate football?

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Speaker 2: Also, why didn't anybody invite me to their football party?

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like it's well, maybe they did.

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Speaker 1: Maybe everyone around me had a party, but I don't

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Speaker 1: feel like a bunch of people had like super Bowl parties.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'll say this, our neighbor invited us, but

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Speaker 2: still have I'm not feeling great. Roman was Roman, That's

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Speaker 2: all right, you know, but we would have come to

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Speaker 2: for a couple hours at least, But I hear you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's also we had cheer, and so that was over it.

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Speaker 2: I made it four thirty, and I'm like, I just

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Speaker 2: made us a bunch of apps and made us nachos

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Speaker 2: and little mini pizzas and fringe fries like a bunch

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Speaker 2: And I was like, Yeah, can you.

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Speaker 3: Text Preston that that's cute? We didn't do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, I just you know, we can

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Speaker 2: all sit here like I've min it for the commercials

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Speaker 2: and that, But it's also like unrealistic. It's forty five

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Speaker 2: I don't I get forty five seconds of that before

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Speaker 2: we're back in it. I also think it might matter

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Speaker 2: a super Bowl party. If the Lions made it, it would

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Speaker 3: It was Patriots and Seahawks.

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Speaker 2: But like again, since Tom Brady's left the Patriots, I

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Speaker 2: I know nothing. Same with Seahawks. Couldn't even tell you.

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Speaker 2: I just known Seattle. Yeah, I just thought it's over,

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Speaker 2: and didn't you guys watched the halftime show, though I

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Speaker 2: did not. I didn't watch any of it. I didn't

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Speaker 1: Having said that, I was driving back and forth from

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't honestly, if I'm being honest, I like watching

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Speaker 1: the halftime shows, but I'm just not like if I

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Speaker 1: It's not like I'm like, oh my god, I can't

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Speaker 1: wait to watch it, you know. I've just always been

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Speaker 1: some where I've been so.

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Speaker 3: Excited to watch, you know.

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Speaker 1: So, But either way, I probably would have watched a

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Speaker 1: little bit of a little bit of it, but I

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Speaker 2: So I'd definitely love to watch the halftime show, and

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Speaker 2: I liked, I'm only in it for the commercials in halftime.

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Speaker 3: So did you watch it?

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Speaker 2: I didn't get to why as I was tending to children.

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Speaker 2: Oh yep, okay, right at bedtime. I like watching the

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Speaker 2: National time bedtime. Well, so that's what I was gonna say.

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Speaker 2: So the National is my favorite. I'm so bummed. So

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Speaker 2: I went back and watched on YouTube. Yeah, we were

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Speaker 2: it came back from that. Missed that and then again

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Speaker 2: I like the commercials or whatever. But as far as

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Speaker 2: I told Alan, I was like, I could literally care

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Speaker 2: My dad's like, this sucks, right, you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 2: Truthfully, I know nothing about Bad Bunny. I don't know

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Speaker 1: No, I do think that leading up to this part

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Speaker 1: I think some of the outrage was about burning flags

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Speaker 2: From I think we should be burning anyone exactly.

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Speaker 2: But can I ask when he burned the lives? Not

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Speaker 3: Can I mind it?

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Speaker 1: And I agree this is a good curious people do things.

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Speaker 3: Not Ricky Martin. Oh, I was like, not Ricky Martin.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's an international star, not as necessarily USA

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Speaker 2: Then just go do something else. Why are we creating

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Speaker 3: And I'm I mean after people that don't want to watch.

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Speaker 2: But I did a halftime show. Yeah that's the part

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Speaker 3: Why are they? Would you do it?

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Speaker 1: mean it's been a.

436
00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:20,879
Speaker 3: Yes, there were some good ones back in the day.

437
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:24,920
Speaker 2: Garth Brooks, I bet you they're going to ask T

438
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:25,960
Speaker 2: Swifty one day.

439
00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:27,560
Speaker 3: Is she she's not country music?

440
00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's still part of a country Okay, But

441
00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,760
Speaker 2: back to my point, but like, are there which big

442
00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,119
Speaker 2: I bet you Okay, I'm trying to think of a

443
00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,560
Speaker 2: big country superstar like a Tim McGraw or something like that.

444
00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:41,520
Speaker 2: Maybe one day.

445
00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,720
Speaker 3: Again, I don't think so. I truly don't so.

446
00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:49,200
Speaker 1: Coming from this brain the country music world, I can

447
00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:53,040
Speaker 1: see where Okay, man, this is awesome. You're giving them

448
00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:57,320
Speaker 1: a chance now to have their own stage. Possibly, is

449
00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:58,080
Speaker 1: it going to compete?

450
00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:58,480
Speaker 3: Never?

451
00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,480
Speaker 1: In that part of me, I'm going, you know, also

452
00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,040
Speaker 1: the managerial part of it, I'm like, you're never going

453
00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:03,480
Speaker 1: to be able.

454
00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 3: To compete with. But I don't think they were trying

455
00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:05,960
Speaker 3: to necessarily.

456
00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,760
Speaker 1: Beat it out, but they obviously were trying to because

457
00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,800
Speaker 1: everybody's talking about the numbers and how many people watched

458
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 1: and you know, all those things. Again, I'm looking at

459
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,639
Speaker 1: it going from the country music standpoint.

460
00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:18,960
Speaker 3: I'm not mad about it.

461
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,480
Speaker 1: I'm not confused about it because I'm like, you know,

462
00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,080
Speaker 1: what if low Cash were asked to be on that

463
00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:25,359
Speaker 1: one versus the other one.

464
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:27,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been.

465
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,880
Speaker 2: Twenty two years, but listen to this though, twenty three

466
00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:33,520
Speaker 2: devil's advocate to that three devil's advocate to that is

467
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 2: not Okay, A gospel or a uh what other what?

468
00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 2: Any other music is not doing their own halftime show.

469
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:45,879
Speaker 2: They forgot they could, well they could, but I'm just

470
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 2: saying they're not, you know what I mean, Like and

471
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:50,320
Speaker 2: is turning point country No, you know.

472
00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,720
Speaker 3: And that is a country music Yeah, so that's like,

473
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 3: well it.

474
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,200
Speaker 2: Was, yeah, because they're they go more Christian.

475
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,359
Speaker 3: And American for sure. And so that goes back to

476
00:20:59,560 --> 00:20:59,760
Speaker 3: is the.

477
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:04,640
Speaker 2: Is an American? I don't think a rapper is an American.

478
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 3: No, I don't either.

479
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 2: I know what you're saying, But at the same time,

480
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 2: I don't think that makes them any less American. Just

481
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:12,439
Speaker 2: because your country artist doesn't mean you're American.

482
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 3: No, I'm not saying that. That's not what I'm saying.

483
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 1: I was actually agreeing with you and saying that maybe

484
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,359
Speaker 1: that's what they were trying to do by calling it

485
00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:23,360
Speaker 1: American and getting country artists to do the thing. I

486
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 1: feel like maybe that's what they were trying to do.

487
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: I'm agreeing with you that the American part of it

488
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 1: might have been what they were trying to do, and

489
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,680
Speaker 1: by using it's always kind of been known for whatever

490
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:39,679
Speaker 1: reason as more this like get your truck, and you know,

491
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 1: like it's been a very American type genre. It just

492
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 1: has right or wrong. Yeah, I'm not saying that other

493
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,199
Speaker 1: people aren't American. Let's please not like no, no, but

494
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 1: that is a headline. That's not what I mean.

495
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:54,960
Speaker 3: I'm saying. It's always kind.

496
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,120
Speaker 1: Of been known that way as being Again, I don't

497
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 1: know what the motives are, but if i'm I'm, you know,

498
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 1: managing somebody who may not ever be able on the

499
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,480
Speaker 1: halftime but they get a chance to do that. Like,

500
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 1: I don't blame them for doing that.

501
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I also I just don't know if they'd had

502
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 2: to say all American.

503
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:13,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know why they did.

504
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's that's where it's a little like they

505
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 2: should just call themselves the other halftime show. But at

506
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 2: that point then like have a slap in the face,

507
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 2: I feel like to the right, like at that point,

508
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,440
Speaker 2: why aren't we just like there's been a trillion people

509
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,239
Speaker 2: have done the halftime show. That isn't country music and

510
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,399
Speaker 2: isn't that genre, Like, you know, we've seen everybody do it.

511
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 2: We've seen Rihanna do things and Beyonce, right, haven't we

512
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 2: seen her? So like yeah, it's never been like why

513
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 2: all of a sudden and that country call it a

514
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 2: country halftime show?

515
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, oh yeah, I was just saying my

516
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 1: only I could see where I understand because they're probably

517
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 1: not they're not getting as many opportunities, probably because they're

518
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: not as big or whatever.

519
00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 3: But that, you know whatever, right, that's that's my whole point.

520
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: Like but do But again, Devil's advocate, and I don't

521
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 1: necessarily say I'm agreeing with this, but this is where

522
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 1: people are coming from international versus American.

523
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: I don't for the NFL, yeah, I mean, I get it.

524
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 1: That's where some people, I think, feel like that it's

525
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 1: an American because it's an American, it's American sport, the NFL.

526
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 2: Bad Bunny's American.

527
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: I know he's American, but she said an international. She's

528
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: just like in an international star.

529
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, A lot of people are international stars. Yeah.

530
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: I wish I wish we were international stars.

531
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 3: I'm not disagreeing with you, I know I'm not. No,

532
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 3: but I also love your brain because I need to know.

533
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 1: I like to look at why everybody thinks a certain way,

534
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 1: whether I agree with it or not. I'm not saying

535
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 1: y'all don't, but I'm just saying when I saw this,

536
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 1: because I was not outraged at all, I think you

537
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 1: watch what you want to watch and shut up about it.

538
00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: I think this is silly, if I'm being honest, But

539
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 1: I I did dig in a little.

540
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 3: Bit to see why.

541
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: Why does the person that's sending me a message right

542
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: here feel that way? Okay, I hear you, Like I

543
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: can see where maybe your brain went there, just like

544
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: I can see why y'all are saying this is division.

545
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 2: I'm not saying it's division or whatever. Yeah, I'm saying

546
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 2: it feels.

547
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 3: Feels like division. I don't disagree.

548
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 2: I also like I kind of count on the halftime

549
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 2: show to like teach me or like enlighten me on

550
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 2: other music, because I feel like I am eighty seven

551
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 2: and I don't know what's cool, you know, So I'm like, heck, yes,

552
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 2: bad bunny. I don't know why you're not a good bunny,

553
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 2: but I'm here to see that you're awesome, and I like,

554
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 2: I want to know your music. That's the only chance

555
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:44,160
Speaker 2: I'm going to get because my serious ExM is programmed

556
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 2: to jazz music.

557
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 3: And you know, like I'm not I'm not enlightening.

558
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 2: Myself in other areas just by default of capacity, but

559
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 2: it feels fun to me to like know what's trendy

560
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 2: and what's cute? And then I saw I only saw

561
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,919
Speaker 2: the screenshot of like that Gaga was on it, and

562
00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 2: I was like, well, that's kind of true.

563
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:00,639
Speaker 3: I did go back and watch that because I do.

564
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,719
Speaker 2: I do want to watching I haven't watched it, and

565
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 2: I love every artist that did you know one of

566
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 2: our very best friends, you know, husband's day, like, I love,

567
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 2: I love. I'm sorry I should reape that I don't

568
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 2: love all of them because I know one of the

569
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 2: other ones that, so let me. I don't know the

570
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 2: lineup at all. Actually I don't. I like all of them, Okay,

571
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 2: I've I am fans of all of their work. Okay,

572
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 2: very politically correct, thank you. I just want to be

573
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 2: very clear about that, very clear. I like all of them.

574
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 3: You don't you know, I don't get it.

575
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 2: Well, when you look up the lineup, you'll you will

576
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 2: get it and you will l O L So okay,

577
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 2: ouse for that, but I I like, I like all

578
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,159
Speaker 2: of them. I enjoyed watching it again. I love nothing

579
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 2: more than a Christian message.

580
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 3: You know.

581
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 2: I loved what Kid Rock did. I thought it was great.

582
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 2: I just yeah, she's.

583
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 3: There and she's that is funny.

584
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: So AnyWho, I just it just kind of maybe go oh,

585
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 2: like we're trying to bring people together, not not make it,

586
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 2: you know, not bring us apart. Yeah, and that's I'm

587
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,439
Speaker 2: a saying they were trying to do that. That's just

588
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 2: what made me go why. But I hear what you're saying, Catherine,

589
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 2: you're all the you know.

590
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 1: I was just trying to kind of understand where ow

591
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 1: rage came. But again, I think we have it every time.

592
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: I think we have it every year. That just added

593
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: an element to it that just took it, took it further.

594
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,640
Speaker 2: I would like to see a halftime show. I would

595
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: like to just see one halftime show, and I'd like

596
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,719
Speaker 2: to see concerts of all the other ones. So if

597
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 2: we could have, you know, a Christian one, I would

598
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 2: love to see a gospel halftime show. It yeah they.

599
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: Should, maybe they should, you know, but I would all

600
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 1: drink four if again I didn't. I didn't even watch

601
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: this other one, but I would support if they decided

602
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: to watch it something.

603
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 2: It was a great show. He did wonderful. The choreography

604
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 2: was awesome too. I'm watching to watch it in the

605
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 2: direction of the camera, like how they went in. I mean,

606
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 2: it was so well done. I also haven't seen any

607
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 2: of the commercials, and that's my favorite for my marketing brain, Like,

608
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 2: I love to know what people have come up with.

609
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 3: So I'm going to go back and watch it all.

610
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 3: Not the game, all right, guys.

611
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 2: Since I'm in my non scrolling phase of things, I

612
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 2: really feel like my brain right now just stuck underwater.

613
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: But the US News anchor Savannah Guthrie says, I mean

614
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 2: there was stuff with her mom, the Nancy Guthrie, she's

615
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 2: a missing from her home outside of Tuscan since February first.

616
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 2: She disappeared in the middle of the night from her home.

617
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 2: Authorities believe she was taken against her will. This is interesting,

618
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 2: they said. Early on Saturday morning, a doorbell camera in

619
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 2: her home was disconnected and removed at two twenty eight

620
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: local time. The app connected to her pacemaker Connect to

621
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 2: your Pacemaker and implanted Kardik device was disconnected from her phone.

622
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 2: Savannah or two Slipbingsa recorded three videos that responded to

623
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 2: the kidnappers ransom requests, saying in the most recent video,

624
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,399
Speaker 2: we beg you now to return our mother so that

625
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 2: we can celebrate with her. This is the only way

626
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: we will have peace. This is very valuable to us,

627
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 2: and we will pay. The alleged ransom deadline is Monday,

628
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 2: February ninth, which is past asking for six million dollars.

629
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: So catch me up because again I don't know much

630
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 2: about this, but I don't know that there's much to

631
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 2: catch you up on because it's all very elusive and confusing.

632
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know that. We've been given a whole

633
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,439
Speaker 3: lot of information. I was doing ransom notes in like

634
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 3: what is happening and is it true?

635
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 2: Then they asked one, I'm not super in tru that's wrong.

636
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 2: I'm not like all in on this case because I

637
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 2: am truthfully just really monitoring what goes into my brain

638
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 2: right now because I've been super Suppanna. No, no, ma'am,

639
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 2: I'm now going to have nightmares. Get on here right now,

640
00:28:58,640 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 2: and now I'm forcing your asks to come on.

641
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 3: No, what did Hannah do?

642
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: Hannah just sent me. No, ma'am, what is this, Lily.

643
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 2: Hannah just texted me breaking news while we're on here FBI.

644
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 2: Obviously this is a week late, but FBI released the

645
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 2: surveillance photos and videos of potential subject in Nancy Guthrie's case.

646
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 3: I'm sorry to do this to you. No, don't you

647
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 3: don't show me. I can't see it.

648
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 2: Nightmares that is like, what of my nightmares are made

649
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 2: when I look at a ring camera a guy with.

650
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 3: A mask on.

651
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 2: No, well damn, I know, but like I'm that's like

652
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: freaky to say.

653
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,239
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? Oh? I hate this.

654
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 3: I can never jump be it. I'm here youa we

655
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 3: need a we need to feel agent in the field.

656
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 3: Hold on. I thought the camera was just well.

657
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 2: It had to be disabled, but he had to be

658
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 2: seen in it before it got disabled.

659
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 3: True, Hannah, Yeah.

660
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 4: So well one, I mean to traumatize you, but I

661
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 4: was just.

662
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 3: Freaks me out.

663
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: Ever since I saw the Teddy Mellencamp thing, and like

664
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: I just like I have likes I'm looking at my

665
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 2: ring camera and then like seeing that we had little

666
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,239
Speaker 2: hooligans in our neighborhood that were ding dong ditching and

667
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 2: they were putting hoods on and they were coming up

668
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: with masks, and I was like, oh, I can't do

669
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 2: a mask. Some of you were not raised in bad neighborhoods,

670
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 2: and you can tell because if that happened in some

671
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 2: of the neighborhoods I grew up in, Okay, talk to

672
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 2: us what happened.

673
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: So there's pieces of it there are there's blood splatter,

674
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: blood spatter, splatter.

675
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 3: Spatter droplets.

676
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you do, sure, but do you know,

677
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: I'm asking, do you know is it spatter or splatter?

678
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: I think splatter splatter sounds what I was.

679
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: Okay, but on the front like she would have had

680
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: to have like walked out, like she would have had

681
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: to have been outside because it was like on the

682
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: front porch or whatever. And then one thing I saw

683
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: too that's kind of a mess is that they didn't secure.

684
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 3: The crime scene. There was like a bunch of media

685
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 3: and stuff.

686
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: So if there was blood spatter, I think it's spatter outside,

687
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: how far did that go?

688
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 3: How did that?

689
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: But then you had other people they didn't stick here

690
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: the site, so you have it's like messed up the

691
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: whole crime scene, you know. So there's that issue that

692
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: doesn't seem to be making sense. Also a lot of

693
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense.

694
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 2: Like there's back doors to homes, so it's wild to

695
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 2: me that they're even going out the front door. Well

696
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 2: there was blood there, I know, but I'm saying, like,

697
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 2: if you were going to take someone oh right, Like

698
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: it feels a little attention seeking, right, right to do

699
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 2: it that way, it's all not adding up.

700
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 3: And then the brother in law is being investigated.

701
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 2: And now the sister too, right the sister, And yeah,

702
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 2: I guess so I think.

703
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 3: And Hannah, what's the latest. I mean, you guys have

704
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 3: pretty much covered it.

705
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 4: The Savannah's released a couple of videos.

706
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 3: There was a ransom note.

707
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 4: The first ransom note seemed to be go to TMZ,

708
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 4: which is strange versus authorities. I feel like that's strange,

709
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 4: and it seems like multiple media outlets received ransom letters.

710
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 3: Well this was very attention seeking obviously.

711
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's I mean, like just as of this morning,

712
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 4: I saw in our local news that like La has

713
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 4: billboards up, but it's.

714
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 3: It is just like the strangest case.

715
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 2: She's also without her medication. Right, Savannah's mother is without

716
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 2: her medication. She's they've disconnected from the pacemaker. Like Jana said,

717
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 2: so we have no like actual well check and that

718
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 2: I know that the family is asked for proof of

719
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 2: life because they say in many cases. You know what's

720
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 2: ironic is Elizabeth Smart's dad actually did an interview.

721
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 3: Oh did you watch that documentary?

722
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: Speaking of, Well, this is reminding me a lot of that.

723
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 1: That's why I ask.

724
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was saying, I didn't watch everything.

725
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 3: I just saw it.

726
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to really filter what's going to my

727
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 2: brain right now because I'm really in a very delicate space,

728
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: and so I thought, I just want to kind of

729
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 2: know like the high points, you know. And I saw

730
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 2: Elizabeth Smart because we had talked to Elizabeth, so I

731
00:32:58,080 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 2: thought that was pretty interesting.

732
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 3: But I didn't do a deep dive.

733
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: I just well, it's interesting because you know, in these cases,

734
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: obviously you're going to look at people close, because I

735
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: think the percentage of when these things happen, it is

736
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: somebody close, you know. But it reminds me such so

737
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: much of the Elizabeth's Elizabeth Smart case, because you know,

738
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: are they focused on everybody close? But this could be

739
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: just a complete outlier, random. They're going after an old woman,

740
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: because that's the part.

741
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 2: Why would you go after an innocent maybe woman?

742
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: That to me makes it seem like it's just pointed

743
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: at her and that's who at Savannah, and that's who

744
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: matters so much to her.

745
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 2: But like it's this Savannah, I mean, I know she's

746
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 2: a host on the today, But I mean, is she.

747
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: That's why it just feels like though it has to

748
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: be something aimed at her, like because you're taking something

749
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: that matters so much to her.

750
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,719
Speaker 3: Does that make sense? I don't know, it's all I know.

751
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 3: Exactly does she have? Is she incredibly wealthy?

752
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: Like?

753
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I don't know.

754
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 2: That's I think what everyone's thing is is like of

755
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 2: all people this you know, like you haven't Is it

756
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 2: because she's on the news and they want to make

757
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 2: the news is like a news thing?

758
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: Well that's maybe like attention and yeah maybe, or you know,

759
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: some people are saying that there's ties to the Epstein

760
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: stuff because she interviewed a lot of Epstein victims.

761
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 3: I don't, you know. I don't know.

762
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of theories out there and

763
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: nothing seems to really amazing. Well, I don't think we'll

764
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 1: ever know.

765
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 3: We'll never know.

766
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: I think that so many times in these things, we're really,

767
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: like especially nowadays, like we're really fixated on it.

768
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 3: We're really what's going on.

769
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: And I think we're going to get to a point

770
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: where all this other stuff happens, We're going to stop

771
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: talking about it and then they're never going to really

772
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: tell us what happened.

773
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 2: Well, then where's the when's the old lady coming back?

774
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 2: When's miss sweet Nancy coming back? I don't know what

775
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 2: I don't like and I can what I really super

776
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 2: dislike is I feel like in times like this, and

777
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,439
Speaker 2: I feel this way about school shooting shootings as well,

778
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 2: we really glorify and we get so much media attention,

779
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 2: and I know that is is I'm trying to think

780
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 2: of how to word this so that I don't dig myself,

781
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 2: but it's like, you know, of course we need the awareness,

782
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 2: but then there's this over the top about everything that like,

783
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 2: if you're a person seeking if you're a sick minded

784
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 2: person seeking this kind of attention, well now you just

785
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 2: know to go kidnap an old lady that matters to

786
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 2: someone that's not like we're giving playbooks when we give

787
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 2: this kind of coverage and this kind of attention, And

788
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 2: it sickens me, like because there's going to be a

789
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 2: copycat of this yep, because it's getting the coverage.

790
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 1: It's getting well, and people are outraged because they're not

791
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 1: being transparent with us and giving us all the information,

792
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: which is probably now why this has come out to

793
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: show us this. But you're right, because the flip side

794
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,359
Speaker 1: of that is if we know everything like this, people

795
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,439
Speaker 1: are just going to keep you know. I mean, it's

796
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 1: it's scary to think, like we truly don't need to

797
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 1: know all of these details. I love to know everything,

798
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: you know. I like to know the answer. I like

799
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: to know what's going on. That's why I feel like

800
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: we'll never know. But sometimes maybe it's better that we

801
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 1: don't know.

802
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, And and for the protection of the case. And

803
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 3: like if they.

804
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 2: Say we think we're on to someone, we think it's

805
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 2: you know, Gerald, and it's.

806
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 3: Like, well posted the photo.

807
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I don't I it's okay for like

808
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 2: almost everything. And maybe I am just turning into this

809
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 2: old lady myself. But like it's okay for police business

810
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 2: to be police business. It's okay for the FBI to

811
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 2: be handling this case and us not know every single thing.

812
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 2: We can offer prayers, we can offer support, we can

813
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 2: certainly be on the lookout for Nancy if we're in

814
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 2: the area, and it's okay that we don't know which

815
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 2: way the blood's flattered or spattered for that matter. Yeah,

816
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 2: And like it's okay you know, like like we can

817
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 2: maybe we get to know about it when it's when

818
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 2: it's solved and it's become the docu series. Yeah, it's

819
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 2: poor sweet woman, though I know.

820
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 4: I I do think with this one is like they're

821
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 4: the release of the photos, like Savannah just posted the

822
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 4: photos as well, and I think they're asking the public's

823
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 4: help on recognizing them. Yeah, sometimes that does help solve crimes.

824
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 3: So then it's definitely not.

825
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 2: But it's been ten days of not knowing what this

826
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 2: person looked like. Someone then close because they wouldn't be

827
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 2: like who is this when it's like them? Yeah, when

828
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 2: they're like that sure looks like one day Yeah done

829
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 2: dune dumb, you would hope not. I am not made

830
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 2: for this one.

831
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,720
Speaker 3: I watched too many shows true.

832
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 2: Speaking of shows, we missed our wine about it. Oh

833
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,359
Speaker 2: and I'd like to go back to wine about it.

834
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 2: It's about about it? What is that is it about

835
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: a show? This is a very simple wine and this

836
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 2: will lighten things.

837
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 3: We didn't whine.

838
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: We are I feel like we've kind of whined, but yeah,

839
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: we didn't have a wine about it.

840
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 2: I and say, hopefully we'll lighten things up a little bit.

841
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 2: But speaking of shows. So while I've been down and out,

842
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 2: we have binged a show and I'm at the point

843
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 2: now where we've caught up and I'm like what, oh what, I.

844
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 3: Can't watch the next episode.

845
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 2: They're like, oh, no, next Wednesday, and I'm like, no, no, no,

846
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 2: Can we all get on the same page where it's

847
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 2: either they give us all the episodes or every Wednesday,

848
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 2: like you know mcguy for every Monday. You know what

849
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 2: I mean, watch like go back, go back where it

850
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 2: was every week, or we get it all or we

851
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 2: get it all. It's not knowing like because now I'm

852
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 2: like so bummed, Wait, so what show are you?

853
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 3: It is in?

854
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 2: It's honestly I think my favorite show ever whoa you

855
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 2: never you wouldn't like it. Having said that, I'm going

856
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: to force you to watch it, Okay, well that's how

857
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 2: best friends do. Okay, I'm in, and I want you

858
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 2: to just give me three episodes, no phone, because they're

859
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 2: only like thirty issue minutes. I love a show that

860
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 2: you can laugh and you can get a tearful, reflective moment.

861
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 2: I hope people think that way about wind Down Continue

862
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 2: Jenna Shrinking. Oh, I've heard such incredible obsessed I've never

863
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 2: laughed cried like reflected even al and I will have

864
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 2: such great conversations after the show and we and it's

865
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 2: like thirty to forty five minute episodes. Harrison Ford is it?

866
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 2: I mean, what a dream like. He's incredible in the

867
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 2: show and then he just gave this last speech in

868
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 2: season two that was apparently what Michael J.

869
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 3: Michael J.

870
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: Fox did And I mean, it's it's incredible. You guys

871
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: have to watch it. Okay, I went, I love it,

872
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: so I actually started I heard, but I was watching.

873
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 2: I will watch it. It's for like, oh yeah good,

874
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 2: I will watch it. Nominated for a Grammy or something

875
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 2: and I just make that up. It's not Emmy.

876
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh crazy to guess is amazing. I mean it is.

877
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 2: Literally it's it's probably hands down, like one of my

878
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 2: favorite shows that I've ever watched. Well, the cast is phenomenal.

879
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 2: It's unbelievable, and I just love that you can like laugh,

880
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 2: cry reflect all in one episode again cry reflect. And

881
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 2: I love Harrison Ford. I think he's just like what

882
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 2: a handsome mass I love he is, he is forever

883
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 2: and he's so and like you this would just be

884
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 2: like right up your boat. I cannot believe you haven't

885
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 2: watched it. I started watching, but I was watching with Preston,

886
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 2: and I don't think it's up his alley probably Okay, Yeah, well.

887
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,280
Speaker 1: I watched like the first little and it is slow,

888
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,399
Speaker 1: so I have to get my mind ready for it.

889
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 3: To know that. Yeah, buckle up, it's so good. But

890
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 3: we are.

891
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 2: We are caught up on season three and it's so good.

892
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 2: And it's just like that perfect show at the end

893
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: of the day because it's not too too deep, you

894
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,360
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like it's just it's light and

895
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 2: it's still good.

896
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 3: I love it.

897
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 2: But you wish there was more of it.

898
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 3: I sure do.

899
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 2: And I just wish we would just get on one

900
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 2: one page. I just want one page, I understand. You know,

901
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:38,919
Speaker 2: like either we're all going to watch shows every day

902
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 2: or like this is you know, like once a week

903
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 2: a week, or you're justing.

904
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 3: We got to decide where we're at. Yeah, they've been

905
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,919
Speaker 3: doing that a lot lately, like they in Paris, they're

906
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 3: doing a lot of them. It was like, here's half

907
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 3: your season and I'm like.

908
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: Well, okay, I'm wondering. Yeah, it's almost like you're releasing

909
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: it when it's out or something like.

910
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 2: That's my thoughts. Do you guys watch Lindsay Vonn Have

911
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:03,760
Speaker 2: you been watching any Olympics?

912
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: Yes, well no, but I've paid attention to all of

913
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: her stuff.

914
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 2: I just love Lindsay Vonn, love her quote, her her

915
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: quote was amazing.

916
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 3: I give her so much credit.

917
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 2: And what a freaking This is a really shitty thing

918
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 2: to say, because obviously you would love someone that retires

919
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 2: to come back win a gold medal. But I think

920
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 2: the message of what has happened is the win, Like I,

921
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 2: I honestly think that is more powerful than her getting

922
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 2: the gold medal. I agree, And it gives this sweet

923
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 2: young athlete that won the gold to get the gold,

924
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, And it's like it's inspired me at

925
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 2: a forty forty years old. I hope it inspires my daughter.

926
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 2: I hope, Like yeah, I her a message is gold

927
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: to me. Yeah, true athlete even bigger than like around

928
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 2: her neck.

929
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 3: I don't even know how she did it.

930
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 1: I mean I don't even know how she got up

931
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: there her like her strength, not even just physical but

932
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: just the mental strength it takes to even get up there.

933
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 1: And it's just it's unbelievable.

934
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 2: I've been watching figure skating obviously.

935
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 3: Do you know that?

936
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 2: When the kids turned it on, I was like, do

937
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: you guys want to know something your aunt?

938
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can really triple axle her way around.

939
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 2: Very triple live as a legend where we live, and

940
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 2: that's what our parents did. And it's so funny because

941
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 2: I'm like watching it, like you fabricate. It can't be

942
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 2: what you want to be.

943
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 3: To do anything.

944
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 2: I could barely spend three times around with that one

945
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 2: to puke. So I can't even go out there because

946
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 2: I'm afraid of my tail button. So you, my friend,

947
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 2: are a gold medalist to me. Oh, but it's I

948
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 2: enjoy it, that's honestly though.

949
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: All I really watch, Yeah, I've just watched clips of

950
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: Lindsay basically and watch it.

951
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 3: Was it?

952
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it was kind of hard to tell

953
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 1: in the middle of it what really happened because it

954
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: was just it was literally like a dumpster fire, you know,

955
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: I mean, like when that happens, you know, But I

956
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: mean she was in pain.

957
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it sounds like I mean, it sounds like

958
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 3: it was a horrible Well.

959
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 2: Wasn't she already recovering from an acl.

960
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it had nothing to do with that. Yeah,

961
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 1: wild's hard, top of it. It had nothing to do

962
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: with that. She was about five inches off. She hit

963
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 1: the thing and it made her go and she broke

964
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 1: her leg real bad, like right into surgery.

965
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 3: We'll have to have several surgeries, Like.

966
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: Lindsay, Yeah, I know a woman of the people and

967
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: go figure had nothing to do with her.

968
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,959
Speaker 3: Ryeah. Yeah.

969
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 2: I'm a divorce mom and my ex husband and I

970
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,240
Speaker 2: have a ten year old son. He wants to be involved,

971
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: but in reality he never lives up to his word.

972
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 2: He constantly misses school events, sports games, and cancels on

973
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 2: joint dinners. Recently, our son made a comment about not

974
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 2: feeling like his dad loved him as much as I do,

975
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: and it breaks my heart to see him notice his

976
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 2: father's absence. I don't want to lie to him, but

977
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 2: I also don't want to be constantly be covering for

978
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 2: my ex's lack for my ex's lack of effort. How

979
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 2: can I handle the situation to protect my son. I

980
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 2: feel like you're more qualified to answer this than listen.

981
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 2: This is hard. And this just popped up the other

982
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 2: day because I was Jase's mystery reader and Jolie goes

983
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 2: Dad was never my mystery reader. She's like you or

984
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 2: you were always my mystery reader, dad, and it was

985
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: never once my mystery reader.

986
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 3: And I'm like, well, you know.

987
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 2: And it's like I go to make an excuse for him,

988
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 2: be like because I don't want her feelings to be

989
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 2: her because what do I say? Well, sorry, he's not

990
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 2: gonna you know, work was more important. Yeah, I mean

991
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 2: I don't. I mean my kids, what are you involvement?

992
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 2: I mean, listen, we're very married and his involvement in

993
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 2: that stuff is minimal. Like even today, love is going

994
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 2: for an X ray. It's quick two seconds. And I said,

995
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 2: you want me to just do that with her? And

996
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 2: he was like, I need to be at every appointment

997
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 2: that I can be at with her, And it didn't

998
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 2: like it just hit me.

999
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: I was like, well, of course you should, you know, Like,

1000
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,919
Speaker 1: I mean, I think a lot of dads can't be right.

1001
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: I do do think that a lot of dads cannot

1002
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: be at things at school during the day. A lot

1003
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: of moms can't be Yeah, though too, so that can

1004
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,320
Speaker 1: go both ways, but that's tough.

1005
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 2: I also do think there's some value in and maybe

1006
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 2: this is just like my current season of rectifying in

1007
00:44:56,440 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 2: my own family. But like people love to the best

1008
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 2: of their ability and that's all they can do. So

1009
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 2: I don't know how you explain that to a ten

1010
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,959
Speaker 2: year old. I'm imagining the ten year olds wise, because

1011
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 2: he's got a really great mom or she has a

1012
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 2: really great mom. But like, I think there's some value

1013
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 2: just saying, you know, not making excuses, but just saying

1014
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 2: like this is the this is the most he can

1015
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 2: show up or this is the most. It's more about

1016
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,840
Speaker 2: like what you are than what he's not right, and

1017
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 2: it's it's hard for us to I mean even in

1018
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 2: that moment, I mean I really I didn't didn't even

1019
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 2: know what to say, because it's like we want to

1020
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 2: we want to speak our heart, but we can't say

1021
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 2: that to our kids. We also protect tutuation exactly, so

1022
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 2: you want to protect. But I will say the one

1023
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 2: piece of advice that I've offered, and this is my stuff,

1024
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 2: because I don't want the kids to feel like they

1025
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 2: don't show up. So like he never went to a

1026
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 2: field day for the first three years, uh no four

1027
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 2: because kindergarten, and I said to him finally last year,

1028
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 2: I said, listen, they're going to know that you didn't

1029
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 2: show up to field day. He's like, well, I got

1030
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 2: to work, and I was like, you can take one

1031
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 2: hour to go show up to a field day. I

1032
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 2: promise you. She will remember the times you weren't there

1033
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: rather than the times that you were there. And I

1034
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:13,320
Speaker 2: was like, and this is I go and I go listen,

1035
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 2: this is my shit talking so like, but I also

1036
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:19,959
Speaker 2: know she recognizes the fact that you're there, not there,

1037
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,399
Speaker 2: she sees Alan there. She needs to see her dad

1038
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 2: there too, you know what I mean. And he's just

1039
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,439
Speaker 2: like and he said, he said, he's like, you know work,

1040
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 2: and I'm like, okay, again, you can take one hour

1041
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 2: to come to come do that. You know, he's never

1042
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:35,399
Speaker 2: done a lunch thing or a lunch visit or fine again,

1043
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 2: I know understand work, not everybody can. But certain things

1044
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 2: like field day when there's a bunch of other parents there.

1045
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 2: I'm not saying to the parent that has never gone,

1046
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 2: you're not a good parent. But I also know the

1047
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 2: feeling as that kid never seeing their parent there. It

1048
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:54,280
Speaker 2: does form a feeling. It did for me at least,

1049
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 2: So you know, was he there but next one yes,

1050
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 2: And like he's like this is great and I'm like,

1051
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 2: it is great. Isn't this so fun to see your kids?

1052
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 3: Like, especially for.

1053
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 2: Him because he's an athletic dude. Yeah, like that's up

1054
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 2: his alley. So it's been nice and he has started

1055
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 2: to show up more for those things because I'm like,

1056
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,919
Speaker 2: you're not. This is like two more years and they're

1057
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 2: done with this, you know what I mean, Like, enjoy

1058
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 2: this and she's gonna love the.

1059
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 3: Fact that you're here.

1060
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 2: So like, I don't know if you can have that

1061
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 2: conbo with your ex and then if not from there,

1062
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 2: Like again, I don't know the words to say, but

1063
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 2: I always go back to as long as one parent

1064
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 2: is there, they're loved and taken care of.

1065
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, kap, yeah, I mean again, I don't do the

1066
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: stuff at the school and I work from home, so

1067
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: I give Grace a lot when it comes to that stuff.

1068
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 2: But that might have been important to you when you

1069
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 2: were here.

1070
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,479
Speaker 1: Right, But also like we don't really go to field day,

1071
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 1: Like it's not like everyone's field day.

1072
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 3: If I knew that.

1073
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 1: There was like one where like you know, and now

1074
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: at parties you can only have the room parent, you know,

1075
00:47:57,239 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: so there's so many less opportunities for everyone that I

1076
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: don't like to put too much emphasis on that because

1077
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 1: I did used to work in an office and I

1078
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: didn't used to be able to really go. But I

1079
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 1: can translate that in other areas. And when it comes

1080
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: to after school activities and stuff like that and showing

1081
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 1: up for one kid and the other and making sure

1082
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 1: that the other parents, we have those conversations all the time.

1083
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I haven't done this with Ramsey in

1084
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: a while. You haven't done this with Imman, you need

1085
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Speaker 1: to show up here and you so I can translate

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Speaker 1: it in.

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Speaker 3: Other areas for sure.

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Speaker 1: And I mean that is just being aware of it

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Speaker 1: and showing it and you know, but we're also just

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Speaker 1: doing the best we can.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I just I had to miss a field day one

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Speaker 2: of them, the last one because I was doing a

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Speaker 2: movie and I was like devastated, but I know, but

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Speaker 2: I knew then like he was going to be there, right.

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Speaker 2: It like made me feel better because I don't want

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Speaker 2: because ours like almost like so many parents go.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't get weird when we were little and

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Speaker 3: had field.

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Speaker 2: Day, or we didn't we didn't have parents that came there.

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Speaker 2: But like I'm saying, for like other parents would try.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well we feel that way even a lot in

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Speaker 2: our world, Like sure, our data is not hardly at anything,

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Speaker 2: and he's really not. And it's not because he doesn't

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Speaker 2: want to be, because he would rather be doing what

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Speaker 2: I'm doing than doing what he's doing.

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Speaker 1: But and that's important conversations to have too, you know that,

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Speaker 1: Like but in our house working, Yeah, this is how

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Speaker 1: it works at our house, you know. And it's just

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Speaker 1: so different for every family, so it's hard to Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I always tell them, like I get to be with

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Speaker 2: you because dad is.

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Speaker 1: Working hard for us, Like you know that Mike could

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Speaker 1: take off an hour, yes and go be there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he exactly. So it's also different different, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I will say too, like missing when this dad

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Speaker 2: is missing school then sports stuff, as long as you

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Speaker 2: know that because here's the end of the day, that's

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Speaker 2: his own guilt and shame that he's going to live

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Speaker 2: with when the kid gets older, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: Like the fact that he wasn't able to be there

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Speaker 2: at those things because again it's so short lived, but

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Speaker 2: you get to know that you did everything you could

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Speaker 2: to show up and love them, and like you said,

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Speaker 2: like you go do all the events for their you know,

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Speaker 2: their and stuff.

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Speaker 1: So but it's hard because you don't want your kid

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Speaker 1: to have to deal with that later. For sure, you

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Speaker 1: get that, you know, it's like you just want them

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Speaker 1: to just do it, but you don't.

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Speaker 3: Also, but you can't. You can't control it. Nothing you

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Speaker 3: can do. But you get control here exactly, and if

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Speaker 3: you did, then you probably wouldn't be excess.

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Speaker 2: Not say we're controlling her husband's No, I'm just saying like,

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Speaker 2: if you had that much like if it was if

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Speaker 2: you was that workable and you know, compatible, then you

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Speaker 2: probably wouldn't be excess. So it's burthering that you've made

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Speaker 2: a good choice for your family, and your sweet little

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Speaker 2: baby knows that he has he or she has a

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Speaker 2: good mom. Also, stay tuned in next week because I

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Speaker 2: believe we're going to be able to say some exciting

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Speaker 2: news potentially maybe next week or the week after that.

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Speaker 2: Oh what a teaser, But stay tuned.

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Speaker 1: Hi,