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Speaker 2: John is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Chloe.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and
Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
Speaker 2: maybe get him another date. But first, John, how long
Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Chloe?
Speaker 1: It's been like two weeks. I feel like I've given
Speaker 1: it enough of time to like give it a breath
Speaker 1: and see if it was just me or something I
Speaker 1: did weird. But like I really, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I thought we were vibe it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, two weeks is kind of a long time to
Speaker 4: not hear anything. I mean, unless maybe she's just really busy.
Speaker 4: Did you get that vibe?
Speaker 1: It didn't really seem like that. Like we so for starters,
Speaker 1: Like I wanted to do something fun and interactive, something
Speaker 1: that like didn't make us think about the fact that
Speaker 1: we were like.
Speaker 3: Just trying to get to know each other.
Speaker 1: So I s figned this up for a cooking class
Speaker 1: something something, you know, that we have something to do
Speaker 1: and we get out probably all together. So we took
Speaker 1: this cooking glass was more of a baking glass. We
Speaker 1: tried we tried to make a cake. I think what
Speaker 1: came out was like pretty edible. It was really cool.
Speaker 1: The instructor was really sweet. They had some wind flowing,
Speaker 1: they had good music.
Speaker 4: Why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: Man Like, after after the day we went out, we
Speaker 1: had coffee, we took a walk around the park and
Speaker 1: just shatted and she was like whipped smart, like annoyingly smart,
Speaker 1: in in a good way, in like the best way.
Speaker 1: She was like funny, she was kind and and I
Speaker 1: mean I was nervous, but she had I mean stitches.
Speaker 1: And I'm confused because like we even kissed. It wasn't
Speaker 1: like movie magic. It was it was a quick moment
Speaker 1: and it seemed like she kind of like pulled away
Speaker 1: pretty fast. But the lead into it seemed very open
Speaker 1: and receptive.
Speaker 4: Why would she pull away?
Speaker 1: I don't know. And maybe and maybe maybe she like
Speaker 1: she like wanted to keep things more prim and proper
Speaker 1: for a first date, which I can respect. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm just like, maybe she has like a kid, I
Speaker 1: don't know about or about I have kids or something.
Speaker 1: Maybe she just got like weirded out, or she hasn't
Speaker 1: been on a day in a while and was like,
Speaker 1: maybe this isn't the right guy for my kid or something.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Okay, so she does have a kid, or you just
Speaker 4: think she has a kid.
Speaker 1: I have no clue. Maybe I'm trying to create scenarios.
Speaker 2: You're just going deep down a rabbit hole of like reasons,
Speaker 2: and you went straight to kids.
Speaker 1: I'm in the weeds an things possible.
Speaker 2: I asked, all, right, well, is there anything else other
Speaker 2: than maybe one of you guys as a secret kid.
Speaker 1: I think the reason I care so much is like
Speaker 1: most of the other days I've been on are just
Speaker 1: really like an all small talk. And and we got
Speaker 1: into some we got into some stuff. We started, you know,
Speaker 1: really getting esoteric. It was nice.
Speaker 3: It was lovely.
Speaker 1: It didn't feel like a first date.
Speaker 4: Nice word, thank you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I studied my yeah that.
Speaker 1: And man, I don't know if she was like maybe
Speaker 1: she maybe she's in like a pollocule or something and
Speaker 1: I'm not the right fit. But I really I just
Speaker 1: a pollocule. Like she's poly, like she's in a she's
Speaker 1: a relationships.
Speaker 3: Trying to come up with like Pollock.
Speaker 1: You know anything under the son to explain it? Okay,
Speaker 1: keep replaying it over and over in my head, and
Speaker 1: I like, I don't want to put myself on the
Speaker 1: back too much, but I think I did a pretty
Speaker 1: good job. And I think I'm I'm pretty personal, so
Speaker 1: I'm maybe I'm just really ugly.
Speaker 4: Hopefully that's not it, but we'll find out for you.
Speaker 4: He's ugly things there.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 1: Okay, hey, thanks so much, guys, I really appreciate it.
Speaker 2: Yep, we'll get your first day follow up right after this.
Speaker 2: It's the Jewel Show if you're just joining us for
Speaker 2: today's first date follow up. John is on the phone
Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Chloe. So
Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell
Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting and maybe get him a second date.
Speaker 2: But first, John, why don't you recap your dat again
Speaker 2: force real quick before we call her.
Speaker 1: We went to a little making bake cake date, had
Speaker 1: some coffee to go, walk, shared a kiss, and that
Speaker 1: was it, and.
Speaker 4: Then you've got some interesting reasons why you think you
Speaker 4: might be getting ghosted.
Speaker 1: I just think I'm probably spiraling out of control. All
Speaker 1: the reasons that I can think of is she's Polly,
Speaker 1: or I'm ugly, or you know, she's got a kid,
Speaker 1: and doesn't you know I want to be dating around Dune.
Speaker 1: I have no clue. I have no clue.
Speaker 4: Okay, well, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Man, I gotta know.
Speaker 4: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, MA, speak to Chloe. Please.
Speaker 3: This is Chief.
Speaker 2: Hey Chloe, how are you? This is a radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called The Jebile Show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Chloe, I'm Nina.
Speaker 3: Hey, make sure I.
Speaker 4: And my name is Juble. What's up?
Speaker 3: Hi? Did I win something?
Speaker 2: I don't know yet? Actually, but we did get an
Speaker 2: email about you, Chloe. That's why we're.
Speaker 3: Calling an email. I'm sorry, what is it.
Speaker 2: It's a radio show called The Jewbile Show, and we
Speaker 2: do a segment on our show that's called the First
Speaker 2: Date follow Up. That's where if you go out on
Speaker 2: a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,
Speaker 2: that person can email us to get you on the
Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And somebody emailed
Speaker 2: us saying that you're not calling them back after you
Speaker 2: had a date and they really liked you, and they're
Speaker 2: wondering if we can figure out why.
Speaker 4: You're getting ghosted.
Speaker 3: I'm I'm really confused.
Speaker 5: I'm not really sure why you guys, I don't really
Speaker 5: know what you're talking about.
Speaker 4: Hi, A few weeks ago, you went on a date
Speaker 4: with a guy named John.
Speaker 5: Wait, John, I it's not ring any bol Did you
Speaker 5: go make a cake with the guy?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god. McKenzie is gonna die
Speaker 3: when she hears this. Yes, I do know what you're
Speaker 3: talking about. Now, this is this.
Speaker 5: I can't even believe that you're calling me about this.
Speaker 5: This guy was like the complete weirdo I went out
Speaker 5: with two weeks ago.
Speaker 4: Do you think he's a weirdo? And who's McKenzie?
Speaker 5: McKenzie is my best friend and she actually she went
Speaker 5: out with this guy and she was telling me this
Speaker 5: horror story and there was a group of friends and
Speaker 5: we just kind of had this bet about Hall and
Speaker 5: I didn't really believe how.
Speaker 3: Bad the date was.
Speaker 5: So she told me I needed to go out with
Speaker 5: him to find out myself.
Speaker 2: So, oh, your friend went out with him. I didn't
Speaker 2: like the date and then told you that you have
Speaker 2: to check it out for yourself, and that's why you
Speaker 2: went out with him.
Speaker 4: Girl, that's terrible.
Speaker 3: I don't think it's that terrible. She he was like
Speaker 3: pretty awful to my friends. I don't see a problem
Speaker 3: with it. He was super.
Speaker 5: Weird, and my friend was telling me about it, so
Speaker 5: we just thought it would be hilarious this I actually
Speaker 5: went out a.
Speaker 3: Date with this guy.
Speaker 2: So you had no intention of calling him back. You
Speaker 2: just wanted to go check it out and see experience
Speaker 2: what your friend was talking about.
Speaker 3: She had she.
Speaker 5: Had a bet that I couldn't make it two hours
Speaker 5: on a date with this guy, and I made it
Speaker 5: just the two hours.
Speaker 3: And that was all enable.
Speaker 4: What was so weird?
Speaker 3: He dresses like super weird. He had a hat with
Speaker 3: like these peacock.
Speaker 5: Feathers on it, and then had a flannel shirt with
Speaker 5: a flannel shirt and then a hat with peacock feathers,
Speaker 5: and then he picked his teeth a lot, like with
Speaker 5: his fingernails and we were making a cake.
Speaker 3: It was disgusting, Okay. He used he just like.
Speaker 5: Used a lot of big words, like trying to tell
Speaker 5: like make it seem like he was really smart and
Speaker 5: it just felt like really unnecessary.
Speaker 4: Thank you for telling us, Chloe, appreciate that.
Speaker 2: And now I should let you know that John is
Speaker 2: actually on the phone and has been listening and wants
Speaker 2: to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Wait what eymore, John's John's on the phone.
Speaker 1: Ye, yeah, it's mister Peacock. What's going on?
Speaker 5: I mean, I can't even but I can't.
Speaker 1: Believe in many words I can, I can just says sup.
Speaker 3: Wow, Okay.
Speaker 5: I mean, if this doesn't prove the point that I'm
Speaker 5: trying to make.
Speaker 3: I don't know what does.
Speaker 5: He wrote a radio station to confront me about this.
Speaker 5: I mean, are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: How unbelievably stuff it is to just go on gate
Speaker 1: with somebody as a joke.
Speaker 5: I think it's pretty stuff that you decided to then
Speaker 5: confront me on a public radio station afterwards so you
Speaker 5: can think about what you're doing too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I am.
Speaker 1: I didn't understand what was happening, and you wouldn't get
Speaker 1: back to me. So I mean, if you want to
Speaker 1: keep ruining and meddling in other people's lives just as
Speaker 1: a lark, more power to you. And you're exaggerating about
Speaker 1: the hat. Yeah, there are peacocks feathers in it, but
Speaker 1: it's a regular hat. It's just like that's a little
Speaker 1: it's a little Papa color, and I didn't wear it
Speaker 1: the whole time while we were outside.
Speaker 3: Any hat with peacock feathers in it is not a
Speaker 3: normal hat. Let's just put that right on the table there.
Speaker 5: First of all, I don't know why you needed to
Speaker 5: come in confront anyone who's.
Speaker 6: Going on a date with somebody just to laugh at
Speaker 6: them with their friends. Is kind of messed up to
Speaker 6: when you, at least degree can we meet halfway?
Speaker 5: You picked your teeth and then made a cake.
Speaker 3: I don't really know what else to tell you about
Speaker 3: this situation.
Speaker 6: I mean, I you do not know, and you spent
Speaker 6: two hours on it date with somebody that you had
Speaker 6: no interest with.
Speaker 3: That's like way more of a.
Speaker 1: Move than picking cake batter out.
Speaker 3: Of your teeth. I don't know. I won the bet.
Speaker 3: I'm sure. I'm sure you won the bet.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can take all those winnings and buy a
Speaker 1: personality that's worth it. Damn.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, Okay, I mean I have a personality. I
Speaker 3: have a boyfriend. I'm that's soot which maybe I'll message
Speaker 3: him we have a little chat.
Speaker 2: A date with John because your friend said he was
Speaker 2: weird and you have a boyfriend, but.
Speaker 3: You yeah, that's weird as a bet. It wasn't anything serious.
Speaker 4: Does your boyfriend know you did this?
Speaker 5: He knows that we have like a friendship like that,
Speaker 5: that we do like fun bets like that.
Speaker 3: He knows that.
Speaker 5: I don't think I actually told him I went on
Speaker 5: a date, but he knows that, like we do fun stuff.
Speaker 3: But it doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 1: Girl, You hear yourself, right, I just I just want
Speaker 1: to make sure that.
Speaker 3: We're all living in that reality. Yeah. I don't see
Speaker 3: a problem with it. I don't know why you have
Speaker 3: an issue with it.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine why anybody wouldn't have an issue with that.
Speaker 1: But you know what, thanks for showing your true colors.
Speaker 1: I got the answers I need.
Speaker 4: Olly, would you like another date? What John will pay
Speaker 4: for it?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: I just told you, guys, I have a boyfriend.
Speaker 4: So crazy, this.
Speaker 3: Is like, actually what this has been such a waste
Speaker 3: of my time? All you can just coughed wow?
Speaker 4: Whoa wow? John? She hung up.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry I couldn't get you another day with her.
Speaker 2: She sounds super sweet.
Speaker 1: I think I dodged a bullet, So yeah, what's going on?
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