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Speaker 1: More, more better, more, a little bit more better More.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to More Better, a podcast where we stop pretending

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Speaker 2: to have it all together and embrace the journey of

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Speaker 2: becoming a little more better every day, or at least

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Speaker 2: trying to. That's most Fumarow and that's Stephanie Beatrice and

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Speaker 2: welcome here. We are here, we are doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty good.

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Speaker 2: How are you? Yeah? Yeah, I have a weird creek

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Speaker 2: in my neck thing like not my neck, but you

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Speaker 2: know the area where like when you get older you

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Speaker 2: get a little hump uh huh. I have a criok

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Speaker 2: at my ump. Oh, I have a criok in my shop.

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Speaker 2: It's really see like aging. It's not for the week, No,

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Speaker 2: it's not.

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Speaker 4: I think I slept weird or there was a child

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Speaker 4: in my bed in the middle of the night, and

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Speaker 4: sleep weird.

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Speaker 2: Hold a tense position while you're driving too much. If

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Speaker 2: you're driving right now, relax your shoulders to get there.

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Speaker 2: I swear to God, I think it's the wrong pillow. Whatever,

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Speaker 2: it's fine. I'll be fine. I'll survive. I will so bad.

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Speaker 2: Have you done anything lately that's a little more better

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Speaker 2: for your neck? Perhaps I went to pilates yesterday. That

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Speaker 2: was good. That is good. Oh my god, is that

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Speaker 2: where I hurt my neck? So stupid on a dumb

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Speaker 2: Oh god, that's so that's so annoying. That's so annoying

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Speaker 2: if that's where I hurt my neck, because you know,

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Speaker 2: you pay like twenty dollars to go to I mean

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Speaker 2: twenty dollars if you get a deal. These classes are

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Speaker 2: so expensive. They're so expensive. Anyway, I took care of

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Speaker 2: myself and went to pilates. Let me try to be

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Speaker 2: positive about it. But you thought, really good, you moved

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Speaker 2: your body, you went to pilates, you showed up, you

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Speaker 2: did the thing. Yeah it was good.

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Speaker 3: That's big.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you. I also worked out this week for the

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Speaker 2: first time in two weeks. I we're at YEP, called

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Speaker 2: my my friend and my trainer, Ricky, and I said

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Speaker 2: I had this day off or this morning off, and

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Speaker 2: he was like, let's do it. And then he teased

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Speaker 2: me the whole time about like do you remember how

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Speaker 2: to do push ups, in which I enjoy? Oh, but

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Speaker 2: I cannot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I know that's not your vibe, but I enjoy that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't do a one on, I can do

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Speaker 2: I can do a one on one if the trainer

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Speaker 2: is very positive person Like my friend Jenna is a

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Speaker 2: trainer and she's amazing and she's super positive and she's

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Speaker 2: like pushy. But I can't do like standing over you.

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Speaker 2: That's from your dance background.

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Speaker 3: Oh a hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: I just want somebody standing over you with the canes

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Speaker 2: stomping on the floor. No, and shout out to Ricky.

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Speaker 3: I love him.

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Speaker 4: He's really great and I think he gets my sense

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Speaker 4: of humor now, so he's like a little more looser

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Speaker 4: with me. But he's definitely like the Eastern European stoic

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Speaker 4: teachers I used to.

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Speaker 2: Have, but he absolutely does.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the vibe.

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Speaker 2: And that's why it like pushes me because I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I want to impress you out and that's Meanwhile, I

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Speaker 2: quit la like in second grade, so I was like,

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Speaker 2: this is hard. I can't do this. I don't want

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Speaker 2: any part of this. Bye. Yeah, well, listen, we both

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Speaker 2: took care of our bodies kind of this kind in

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Speaker 2: my hump. In my homp, Melissa, it's like right where

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Speaker 2: older people get a little I know, but you don't

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Speaker 2: my hump is like an old lady. That's happening, your

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Speaker 2: old lady hump, your old latest sexy lump in the beck.

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Speaker 2: My hump has a crook in it.

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Speaker 1: More better?

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Speaker 2: What are we talking about this week?

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Speaker 4: We are talking about taking vacations.

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Speaker 2: Yes, because we don't do it very often. I don't

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Speaker 2: think Americans in general do it very often. But I

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Speaker 3: Really not ingrained in our culture in any way at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, nh, it's weird, isn't it. I think our society

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Speaker 2: makes you like feel bad if you go on vacation sometimes,

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Speaker 2: and like especially if it's like a good vacation or

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Speaker 2: like the weird social media pressure of like people like

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Speaker 3: So there's just I don't know, I.

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Speaker 4: Feel like there's a lot of like negativity around taking

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Speaker 2: I think you're right. I mean, I think you know,

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Speaker 2: it's it's tricky, right because not everybody can afford to

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Speaker 2: to talk about that too, because like you know, when

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Speaker 2: I was a kid, my family couldn't We never went

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Speaker 2: on vacation. It was like our vacation for us was

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Speaker 2: maybe we drive to Galveston that day and like spend

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Speaker 2: the day at the beach, like a weekend day at

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Speaker 2: the beach, and that was the vacation because we couldn't

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Speaker 2: afford to go anywhere, Like, we just couldn't do it.

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Speaker 2: You know. The first vacation family vacation that we ever took,

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Speaker 2: I was fifteen, and we drove from Houston to Orlando.

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Speaker 2: That was fun. That was so fun, four of us

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Speaker 3: Right, it was a long right, you do it in

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Speaker 3: one day?

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Speaker 2: I think we did it in two days. I remember

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Speaker 2: sleeping in the car, like I remember we were asleep

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Speaker 2: in the back of the car, me and my sister.

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Speaker 2: I think we were parked at a like a travel

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Speaker 2: you know, like one of those state travel stops or whatever. Right,

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Speaker 2: I don't recommend this is probably really dangerous, but I

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Speaker 2: think that's what my parents did overnight and then we

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Speaker 2: drove to Orlando. And then you know what they did,

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Speaker 2: God bless them. They had these things where like time

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Speaker 2: shares will sit you through like a six hour time

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Speaker 2: share presentation, but then at the end they'll give you

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Speaker 2: passes to Disney. Yeah, my parents did that for us.

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Speaker 2: They sat through, they sat through one of those fucking

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Speaker 2: things for like six hours, you know, said no, said no,

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Speaker 2: said no, and then got four park Hopper passes And

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Speaker 2: that's what we did the next day. We went. So sweet.

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Speaker 2: It's very sweet. But it's hard. It's hard for like

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Speaker 2: working people to take vacations. You know. My mom was,

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Speaker 2: so like it was hard for them to get time off.

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Speaker 2: You know. It's like so on one hand, taking vacations

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Speaker 2: can be really stressful because it's like, oh, how are

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Speaker 2: we gonna like do this, Like how are we going

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Speaker 3: It's supposed to be good for you and be relaxing. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was really lucky growing up.

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Speaker 4: My dad always had his two weeks vacation and we

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Speaker 4: went to Miami every summer, wow, and we would stay

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Speaker 3: When I was really little, we.

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Speaker 4: Actually a couple summers stayed in one of those like

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Speaker 4: art deco hotels on South Beach because this was before

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Speaker 3: Was like South Beach and it was and they were.

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Speaker 4: Such cool buildings and then like you just crossed the

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Speaker 3: And then but this.

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Speaker 4: Was like they weren't, you know, remodeled yet they were old,

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Speaker 4: like South Beach was pretty empty, Like it wasn't the

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Speaker 4: parents were like, oh, we can't afoord that.

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Speaker 2: That is so what a sentence.

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Speaker 4: But I remember staying in those hotels and being.

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Speaker 2: Like, this is awesome, this is so cool.

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Speaker 4: And we would go every summer because my mom's siblings

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Speaker 4: lived there and my grandmother lived there. And then we

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Speaker 4: stayed in my grandmother's condo a bunch of times. There

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Speaker 4: was another time where my dad found an apartment to

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Speaker 4: I think maybe it was through someone he knew or something, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and we would just squeeze into like small apartments. My

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Speaker 4: brother and I would sleep on a sleeper sofa or

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Speaker 4: on the floor. Yeah, and we'd just go for two

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Speaker 4: weeks and we'd see the family and we'd go to

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Speaker 4: the beach every day. And that was And then there

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Speaker 4: were when I was older, around ten or twelve, there

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Speaker 4: were a few summers where these family friends we went

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Speaker 4: on these big group vacations. We went to Dominican Republic,

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Speaker 4: we went to can Kun once, and then we went

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Speaker 4: on a cruise once and so it was like a

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Speaker 2: It was like five families. And that was the first

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Speaker 2: time I saw my mom drunk. Oh my god. On

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Speaker 2: the Crustian, they.

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Speaker 3: Had a kid's club.

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Speaker 4: I didn't see my parents except when we would land

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Speaker 3: But we're on the ship.

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Speaker 2: I did not see my parents. I was like, this

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Speaker 2: is the best vacation ever.

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Speaker 4: And so the parents were also just like partying down

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Speaker 2: Lit so crazy, man, Like I cannot even My parents

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Speaker 2: was like fifteen, I cannot imagine like roaming a cruise

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was wild.

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Speaker 4: Isn't that crazy? Isn't that crazy? I was just like

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Speaker 4: it was it was. It was the best, but yeah,

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Speaker 3: It was so much fun. We did those.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we did like two or three vacations with that group,

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Speaker 2: and then yeah we went back to going to Miami. Dude.

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Speaker 2: You know what's funny now as an adult, like it's like,

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Speaker 2: you know, you think about when we were kids, it

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Speaker 2: was like, this is fun, We're going on vacation. But

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Speaker 2: now as an adult, I'm like, oh my god, this

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Speaker 2: is this is not a vacation, you know, like this

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Speaker 2: is not with children. Oh, with children, like it is

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Speaker 2: and it isn't you know what I mean, Like with kids,

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Speaker 2: it's not. Well, I can see why your parents were like,

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Speaker 2: go to the kid's club.

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Speaker 3: One hundred percent.

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Speaker 4: It's not a vacation unless there is a kid's club,

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Speaker 4: to be honest, when you have children, and like, there

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Speaker 4: is this Huffington Post article a few years ago that

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Speaker 4: went viral. A bunch of moms had like sent it

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Speaker 4: to me, and it's so funny because it's so true.

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Speaker 4: It's called Vacation or Trips a Helpful Guide for Parents.

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Speaker 4: And I'm just going to read you a few quotes

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Speaker 4: because it's so spot on. If your final destination has

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Speaker 4: a kitchen, you are not on vacation. You are on

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Speaker 4: a trip.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, so real, so real, because you have

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Speaker 2: to fill up that kitchen with snacks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you have small children, especially if you're going

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Speaker 4: with a baby, and you're like, we got a store

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Speaker 4: milk or breast milk or formula.

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Speaker 3: We need a fridge.

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Speaker 2: We got an AIRBNBB can't stay at a hotel you

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Speaker 2: are on a trip. Do you remember when you were

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Speaker 2: There's some studies. Do you do you work on vacation?

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Speaker 4: of like, yeah, this is how I think I need

441
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 4: to be from now on. Like I've worked really hard

442
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 4: to get where I am in this phase of my life,

443
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:03,919
Speaker 4: and I can. I need to prioritize my my the

444
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,200
Speaker 4: things that are important to me and my family and

445
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 4: you know, and that time, that family time, that trip

446
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 4: time is important.

447
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 3: It's important for all of us, like we bond.

448
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you don't get it back either. My boys

449
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 2: get along better on trips, like it's really good for

450
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 2: their relationship. Like and they're little, and they're little now, yeah,

451
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 2: and they like want to go places with you. It's

452
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 2: like you want to take advantage of that. Yes, Or

453
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 2: when you guys go on vacation, do you do you

454
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 2: pack for everybody?

455
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I.

456
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: Do you do? I knew it. I do? I do?

457
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 2: And then I I am bitter about it the whole time,

458
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 2: like why gotta do all this? David will be like

459
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 2: tell me what to do, and I'm like, go away,

460
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: you won't do it right. Yeah. Also sometimes like when

461
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: they're like tell me what to do, I'm like, fit

462
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,879
Speaker 2: is mental work for me to make you a list?

463
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 2: Do it yourself. Brad is much better about that now,

464
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,119
Speaker 2: But like I cannot. I am like I don't know

465
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 2: if I have undiagnosed like something ADHD, but like I

466
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 2: need another person sitting in the room with me to

467
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 2: pack my suitcase otherwise I cannot. It takes me hours,

468
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 2: Melissa hours to pack one suitcase. It is I cannot focus.

469
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, I I cannot, I cannot do it. I

470
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 2: also wonder sometimes if I have something undiagnosed, I hyper

471
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 2: focus on my packing. But then I also, like a

472
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 2: little squirrel will like do tangents in my packing. So

473
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 2: like I'll be like packing the boys bags and then

474
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: I'll like go to the kitchen to like fill up

475
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 2: my coffee mug, and I'll be like, oh, write snacks,

476
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 2: and then I'll pack another bag with like snacks, and

477
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 2: I'll get on this like packing tangent.

478
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 3: And then I go back to the suitcase and I'm

479
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 3: like where was I?

480
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 2: Oh, right, this, and then you know, and that's and

481
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 2: it's like all these little side trips.

482
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:05,479
Speaker 3: And that's what's hard about packing.

483
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 2: Even when I make a fucking list, I'm like, you know,

484
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 2: I have.

485
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 4: A list, yes, And then love to roll, the float,

486
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 4: the little clothes. Everything is like super neatly packed organized.

487
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 2: I heard. I heard you're supposed to like lay flat

488
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 2: and fold because it takes up more space if you roll.

489
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 3: I feel like it takes up less space. If you roll,

490
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 3: I feel like I fit more things if I roll.

491
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 2: I I just I'm really trying. I'm really trying to

492
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 2: like to do like, Okay, so we have a vacation

493
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 2: coming up, Brad and I are going to We're going

494
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: out of the country. That's really really exciting. Beautiful red yes,

495
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 2: oh thank you, I just got made me in a

496
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 2: cure of my vacam and it looks really pretty, thank you. Uh.

497
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 2: I am trying to like mentally put together like a

498
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 2: like a vacation wardrobe, and I'm I'm so I feel

499
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 2: so much anxiety about my vacation wardrobe. I wish I

500
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: wish I was a different person, you know what I mean,

501
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,239
Speaker 2: Like I wish I was like, ah, I wish I

502
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 2: was the kind of woman that was like all my

503
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 2: clothes are chic and neutral. But I'm not. I'm you know,

504
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 2: I have like four different vintage bowling shirts that I

505
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 2: want to take with me, and I don't know if

506
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 2: any of them match what, you know what I mean, Like,

507
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,120
Speaker 2: I just am not. I have a really hard time

508
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 2: narrowing down vacation clothes because it's not how I normally dress.

509
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 2: Like normally, I go in the closet and I'm like, Okay,

510
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 2: what's the inspiration, you know, like, what is the weird

511
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 2: one thing that I want to wear today? And then

512
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,159
Speaker 2: I build outfit from there. But like when you're on vacation,

513
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,719
Speaker 2: you're you're down to like ten things that you can

514
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,199
Speaker 2: fit in your carry on and I'm not checking it

515
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 2: back to go to Europe. I have seen the tiktoks.

516
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 2: It is a mistake.

517
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 3: Smart so like I'm bringing.

518
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 2: One bag, but it is.

519
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 4: It's totally stressful to plan outfits ahead of time.

520
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 2: I don't. I can't. It's really hard. I feel like

521
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,639
Speaker 2: some people are really good at it, and it is

522
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 2: not a skill that I have in my arsenal. I'm

523
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 2: wearing the same tank top three days in a row,

524
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 2: like that is sinky. I did buy like little. I

525
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 2: will say this in terms of prep. I am listen.

526
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 2: I'm great at shopping. I am good at getting on

527
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 2: Amazon and being like we need these little I bought

528
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 2: these little packets that you can wash clothes in the sink. Oh,

529
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 2: I bought one of those. I bought like an emergency

530
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 2: medical kit. I bought medicine, like little packs of I

531
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 2: have like advil, decongestent, sinus medication. Because I was like,

532
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be in Italy. I'm not gonna be

533
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 2: in Italy with diarrhea, trying to like find a drug

534
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 2: store and being like bourjoor no, I don't even fucking

535
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 2: speak Italian like diarrheo, like what the hell how do

536
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 2: you say diarrhea? And in Italian I don't know. I

537
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 2: don't I just did what people do to us with Spanish.

538
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:14,479
Speaker 2: I added an oh oh no, I'm sorry Italians that

539
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: was plucked up. I'm so sorry. I apologize for my

540
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 2: I mean, how do you say it in Spanish?

541
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 4: It's probably pretty close to you probably could actually get

542
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,959
Speaker 4: in Italy. You could get away with uh just speaking

543
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 4: Spanish and probably most people would half understand you.

544
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 2: I don't know.

545
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 3: I think you should try it.

546
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 2: I mean, you make you do an experiment.

547
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 3: And send me some videos for sure.

548
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 2: God, you know, my Spanish accent is pretty dec My

549
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 2: Italian accent is a sad Okay, I want to I

550
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 2: want to talk about because I did read some stuff

551
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 2: about vacations and how good they are for your mind

552
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 2: and body.

553
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, let's get into the nerd corner.

554
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 2: Is that what we're calling the nerd corner of A

555
00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 2: seven and MILSA. So I read this study, Okay. It

556
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 2: was a small study. Sixty three different workers eligible for

557
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 2: paid vacation attended a lab visit during which their blood

558
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: was drawn and they also did an interview assessing their

559
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 2: vacationing behavior in the last twelve months and their metabolic syndrome.

560
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 2: Which is like, okay, so let me read you this

561
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 2: metabolic syndrome. This is related, I promise.

562
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 3: Hold on, I'm into it, I'm following, and I am interested.

563
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: Please. Metabolic syndrome is a cluster of conditions that increases

564
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 2: the risk of heart disease, stroke, and diabetes. Metabolic syndrome

565
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 2: includes high blood pressure, high blood sugar, too much body

566
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 2: fat around the waste, and irregular cholesterol levels. Latinos are

567
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 2: at increased risk of metabolic syndrome, which is like, that's

568
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 2: really scary to think that because we're working hard. I'm

569
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: going to think about like my parents met me too,

570
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,719
Speaker 2: you know, and culture I'm working hard. I'm like, oh,

571
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 2: I can't afford to take vacation. I can't afford today.

572
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 2: It's like I can't afford not to actually, like if

573
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: I want to be around for a long time. This

574
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 2: study basically said that they're all of those people that

575
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 2: were actually taking vacations, they lowered their risk of metabolic syndrome.

576
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 2: Like their blood showed they were at lower risk of

577
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 2: metabolic syndrome because when you go on vacation, you're calm,

578
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 2: you relax, your blood pressure is lower, you're walking a

579
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 2: lot you're resting more, you're sleeping more. Even like a

580
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: small increase in the amount of sleep that you get

581
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 2: helps your metabolic rate, Like isn't that that's while it's

582
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 2: like a help, Like it's an actual health thing. Like

583
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 2: it's a risk that you're putting you're putting yourself at

584
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 2: risk if you don't take time to rest and vacation.

585
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 2: Is that fucked up?

586
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 3: Girl?

587
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 2: It's so fucked up because like my brain tells me, like,

588
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: you're so lazy for doing this, Like how dare you

589
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 2: like leave for a week and go to another country?

590
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 2: Like what are you doing? Like what opportunities are you

591
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: leaving behind? Oh? What about your kid that you're like

592
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 2: leaving with your mom and sister? Like what babe, babe, bah,

593
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 2: don't go, don't go, don't go. You know you're gonna

594
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 2: be around longer for your kid and you're maybe, yeah,

595
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 2: that can be even a better parent to your kid

596
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 2: because you at a moment of rest and rejuvenation And yeah,

597
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: like we think of health is so much bigger than

598
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 2: just like what we do day to day. It's I

599
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 2: think these big moments we take for ourselves And it's

600
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 2: such a good reminder, like to hear something like that

601
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 2: of like this has real effects on your body, on

602
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 2: your longevity on there's this ripple effect that happens, you know. Yeah,

603
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 2: And it's such a good reminder of just like don't

604
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:49,479
Speaker 2: fucking feel guilty, man, go on my no bigger, go

605
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 2: on a trip.

606
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 3: Go on a trip.

607
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 2: Go on the trip, because like life is short, life

608
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 2: is sure.

609
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, like if it's short, simple camping

610
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 4: or it's you know, no camping.

611
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of.

612
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 4: Like things that don't cost a lot of money, like

613
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 4: to do things that are like.

614
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 3: You can do on the cheap, you know, or like

615
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 3: the beach.

616
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 2: I'll do camping. No, I can't.

617
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 3: Same, I'm not. No, I'm city as fuck.

618
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 2: Pee in the woods.

619
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 3: No camping twice with my brother.

620
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 2: My brother's really big into camping, and but he does

621
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 2: like camping light and we did like a campground that

622
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 2: was by a river that had bathrooms and puts an

623
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: air mattress in a tent and he brings like a

624
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 2: little grill lamping.

625
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 3: And it was like lamping.

626
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 2: I love it, and that's nice, amazing, But there's nothing

627
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: that I could ever convince my husband to even.

628
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 3: Do lamping.

629
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: As city as I think I am. I'm married to

630
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 2: someone who is even more city but also will like

631
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: go into the middle of the ocean and be fine.

632
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 2: Like he's that kind of guy, but he's he's selective

633
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 2: about his nature, his nature. Yeah, but yeah, it's got

634
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 2: to do it. We got to get out there.

635
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: More better.

636
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 2: Do you feel like you like learned anything today. I

637
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: mean I feel like you're saying it right now, like

638
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 2: you get gotta do it. Yeah. I just feel like

639
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 2: kind of motivated to make it a priority and like

640
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: do it make it happen.

641
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's important.

642
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is important. Thanks, because I think I was

643
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: feeling very guilty about going.

644
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, girl, no, drop the guilt. Your kid's

645
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 3: going to be great. She's gonna have a great time.

646
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 3: She's also going to have her own little vaca with

647
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 3: her dah and her family. And you guys are going

648
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 3: to have an amazing.

649
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 4: Time and just like enjoy every second and your closer

650
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 4: will look fabulous. Okay, and you're gonna send me videos

651
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 4: of you speaking Spanish to Italians and it's going to

652
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 4: be great.

653
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 2: If you're Italian, please write in and let us know

654
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 2: how you say diarrhea and Italian because I'd really love

655
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: to know, not that I'm gonna need it because I

656
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 2: have my want. We want to be just because someone

657
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 2: else has diarrhea. While I'm we know what's going to get.

658
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Speaker 2: The food in Italy is incredible. What am I talking

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Speaker 2: about this that we're like gonna listen? I can't wait.

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Speaker 2: I'm I don't know, I can't wait, but also like

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Speaker 2: it might just happen. Yeah, it's fine, it's fine. I'm prepared.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like I learned what God,

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Speaker 2: I can't believe I said diarrhas so many times today,

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Speaker 2: I I wow. Sorry, if you're listening to this with

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Speaker 2: your kids, do you feel a little more better?

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Speaker 3: I do feel more better.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel more better I am about Vaka? I do

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Speaker 2: feel Yeah, I do. I feel a lot more better

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Speaker 2: about vacation, especially since we discussed all these you know,

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Speaker 2: the reasons in favor of.

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Speaker 3: Agree and I love that. And I'm excited for your

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Speaker 3: trip too.

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Speaker 2: I'll bring you back something. What do you want food?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, bring me back up.

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Speaker 2: I gave bring you I'll bring you like some something

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Speaker 2: from Modona. That's where we're going. Oh yeah, we're going

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Speaker 2: to like the food center of Italy, like there's literally

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Speaker 2: an Italy theme park.

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Speaker 4: Bring me a bottle of something. I don't care what

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Speaker 4: it is, bottle of something.

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Speaker 2: Great, Mulso you have to post it on your Instagram

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Speaker 2: so people can see what I brought you. I will,

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Speaker 2: I will, Okay, all right, all right, bye friends, Bye.

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Speaker 1: Friends, Bye more.

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Speaker 2: with Stephanie Melissa is a production from WV Sound and

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Speaker 2: iHeartMedia's Mikuta podcast network, hosted by me, Steffie Beatriz and

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Speaker 2: Melissa Fumero. More Better is produced by Isis Madrid, Leo Clem,

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Speaker 2: and Sophie Spencer Zaebos. Our executive producers are Wilmer Valderrama

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Speaker 2: and Leo Clem at w V Sound. This episode was

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Speaker 2: features original music by Madison Davenport and Hello Boy.

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