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That's right, soft rep dot Com 21 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 2: Forward slash book hyphen Club. If you are new to 22 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 2: the program. Welcome. If you want to check out a book, 23 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,919 Speaker 2: use the Gym, which is a book for your mind. 24 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 2: Go check out our book club. We have great authors 25 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 2: that are all curated from the special operations team behind 26 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 2: the scenes here at soft reap dot com. So without 27 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 2: further ado and I'll introduce you to his bio here 28 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: in just a moment. But let me introduce Patrick Nnton, 29 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 2: who has written Born from War. Welcome to the show. 30 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you so much for having me. Rad really 31 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 3: looking forward to the conversation. 32 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: Wonderful And I just want you to know I'm clapping, right, 33 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: I always clap. I am the studio audience. Okay, so 34 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 2: when we go back and listen to it, just know 35 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: that I am your studio audience. Well, welcome, former lieutenant 36 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: or lieutenant actually current lieutenant colonel. Correct, not retired. You're 37 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 2: still in huh, still dabbling, still going for it. After 38 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 2: I'm going to read a little bit about you and 39 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 2: then we'll get into you, Okay. Patrick W. Nutton, Junior 40 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 2: is lieutenant colonel in the US Army and a military historian. Currently, 41 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 2: he is an instructor at the US Army's Command and 42 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: General Staff College, CGSC at Fort Leavenworth, Kansas. Patrick is 43 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 2: also currently serving as a Fellow at the Simons Center 44 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: for Ethical Leadership and Interagency Cooperation, a program of the 45 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: CGSC Foundation. In addition to various tactical, operational, and strategic 46 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 2: assessments held over twenty eight years in the Army, Patrick 47 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:53,519 Speaker 2: has also served as a legislatively as a Legislative Liaison 48 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: to the US Senate, an Interagency Fellow with the Department 49 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: of Labor, and a Congressional Partnership Program Fellow with the 50 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 2: Partnership for a Secure America. He has also served as 51 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: a Senior Fellow with West Points Center for Junior Officers. 52 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 2: Patrick is also the recipient of the General Douglas MacArthur 53 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 2: Leadership Award. He holds a master's degree in history from CGSC, 54 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 2: where he was an Art of warst Scholar, and a 55 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 2: bachelor's degree in history from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. 56 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 2: Patrick has published with over a dozen peer review history 57 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: and national security journals, and he lives in Fort Leavenworth, Kansas, 58 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: with his wife, Sheila, and son Thomas. Patrick's work can 59 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: be found at www dot patnot dot com. That's worldwide 60 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 2: web period patnot dot com. Okay, so you want to 61 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 2: learn more about him after the show, you can go 62 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 2: check out that website. But welcome again to the show. 63 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: What a great uh, what a great bio. 64 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks so much for having me. I hear that bio, 65 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: and I'm like, is that me? Is he talking about 66 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 3: It's been a long twenty eight years, that's for sure 67 00:03:59,000 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 3: it is. 68 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 2: And so you're how old are you today? 69 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 3: I am forty six. I'll be forty seven in a 70 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 3: couple of weeks. 71 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I was born in nineteen seventy seven. Okay, yeah, yeah, 72 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 2: so what's up? We know about Zelda right, Yeah. 73 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: We didn't have any video games growing up. We didn't 74 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 3: have that kind of money, but. 75 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 2: My dad had to have it. How great. So you've 76 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 2: got some reviews of your book here, Captain Dale Dye wrote, 77 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 2: like a nice description about your book. Should I read it? Yeah? 78 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 3: Sure if you liked to. 79 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. As a father and a multi tour Vietnam veteran, 80 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 2: I struggled to explain my war and my voluntary service 81 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: in it to my children. Reading about author Patrick Nnton 82 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 2: similar experiences in his family helped me understand that broad 83 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 2: generational gap that confounded so many of us between our 84 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 2: war and what was faced by younger veterans of America's 85 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 2: global War on Terror, what we had between seminole events 86 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 2: was more than a simple failure to communicate. The insights 87 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 2: provided by Naughton's Born from War are enlightening and invaluable. 88 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 2: Captain Dale Die USMC retired author, actor, filmmaker. So many 89 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 2: things he's been a part of, from Platoon to Saving 90 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 2: Private Ryan, that we'd all know him if we saw him. 91 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 3: Yep, yep. 92 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 2: And you may not have seen him, but he's made 93 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 2: all the movies tried to be accurate and depict you know, 94 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 2: great you know, oscars and things like that. And he's 95 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,239 Speaker 2: saying that he enjoyed your book because he had issues 96 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 2: to try to talk to his kids. You have a dad, 97 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 2: and not only are your military, but your dad. You're like, hey, dad, 98 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 2: talk to me, what's up? Yeah? 99 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, you know that was that was definitely 100 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 3: an amazing endorsement from from from Dale Died. You know, 101 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 3: I didn't, I didn't. I just reached out to him 102 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 3: cold and and he responded right away, and I was 103 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 3: I was quite shocked by it. And uh, and I 104 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 3: guess he really he really liked the topic of the book, 105 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 3: as you can tell from from his endorsement, and so 106 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 3: I sent him a coffee and he that's what he provided. 107 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 3: And uh, you know, I always tell all of my 108 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 3: students here at at at CGSC that one of the 109 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 3: things to to live by life is to make people 110 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 3: tell you no. So you know, people were always like, oh, 111 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 3: you know, you shouldn't reach out to you know, Dale 112 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 3: Die and all these other people that I reached out 113 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 3: to that are and that are also endorsed the book. 114 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 3: You know, he he or she will never respond, you know, 115 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 3: don't worry. So I was like, well, I'll make them 116 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 3: tell me no. You know, I'll just I'll reach out 117 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 3: to them. And the worst thing that's gonna happen is 118 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 3: they're just not going to respond. They're not gonna say anything, 119 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 3: or they're going to respond and say, hey, it's not 120 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 3: for me. Uh So, yeah, you know, I really got 121 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 3: some amazing endorsements from some really interesting people, which you 122 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 3: can see on the on the back cover of the book, 123 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 3: you know, especially Dale Died being kind of the leading one. 124 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 3: But you know, doctor Craig Venter, he was a Vietnam veteran. 125 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 3: He also wrote an endorsement and he's he's the guy 126 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 3: who invent or discovered the human genome. You know, he's 127 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 3: like a really huge guy as well. And I was 128 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 3: very shocked by you know, but yeah, you know, and 129 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 3: and all of them, I think what what enticed them 130 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 3: or what interested them about the book was that that 131 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: that family piece of it, that that energet generational connection 132 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 3: of service. I mean you yourself, your your your your 133 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 3: father was what was a Green beret, correct, and that 134 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 3: influenced you. Yeah, but you know, and that he had 135 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 3: influenced you heavily in life. Whether you know that parent 136 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 3: wanted it to influence you or not, it did, you know. 137 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 3: And so I will say that to all the listeners 138 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 3: out there who have warned uniform or still still wear 139 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 3: in a uniform, that you really have no idea how 140 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 3: much your service influences your kids, whether you are talking 141 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 3: about it all the time or whether you never talk 142 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 3: about it, and you have all this stuff hidden in closets, 143 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 3: closets like my dad did, who never talked about it 144 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 3: and never was something that he tried to encourage with me. 145 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 3: You know, it has a huge influence on your kids 146 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 3: and you probably don't. Don't don't even. 147 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 2: Realize it one hundred percent. You know, before my father 148 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: passed away, you know, he saw that I got into 149 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 2: this like wargame lifestyle and he's like, you know, I'm 150 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 2: sorry that this is the business he chosen that you 151 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 2: love and that I introduced it to you at such 152 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 2: a young age. And I was like, why, Dad, I 153 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 2: love it and he's like that's why. And he's like 154 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 2: that's why. And you know, he never really bragged about it. 155 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 2: I think I brag about my dad more than he 156 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: ever would, or like it came full circle for me 157 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 2: to about my dad when all the cops in Leyton, 158 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 2: Utah would come and hang out and I'm on my 159 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 2: skateboard and I'm like skating in the street and you're 160 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 2: not supposed to skat in the street, and all the 161 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 2: cops are there and my dad's on the curb and 162 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: they're talking and I'm just like skating, being a little 163 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 2: punk kid, like you can't stop me. My dad's right there. 164 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 2: I didn't realize that he was the coolest guy on 165 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 2: the block. Okay. So they weren't just there harassing anybody. 166 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 2: They were there to stop by and say, hey, what's up, Jack? 167 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 2: How's it going? You run the armory over here at 168 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 2: the junior high school with all the other a team, 169 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 2: you know, that kind of thing. They knew who he was. 170 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 2: I just thought eleven year old me was like, oh, 171 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 2: dad's just talking to the cops. No, there's you know. 172 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 2: And he did influence me so heavily, you know, taking 173 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 2: me up in the mountains with his team without ever saying, 174 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 2: why is your ten year old tagging along with us? 175 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 2: Why do we have a moguli going up these hills 176 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 2: with us? And they were in uniform. They were just 177 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 2: in like jeans and plaid shirts and tucked in with belts, 178 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: you know, just like out of uniform. So my dad 179 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 2: always asked me why did you want to go Air Force, 180 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 2: you know? And I was like, well, you know, if 181 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 2: I get through, they have a blueber and it's not 182 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 2: as hard as a Green beret. He just looked at 183 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: me and said, that's all I wanted to know, you know. 184 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 2: So there is that generational gap, like you were saying, 185 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 2: where he never talked about it. My mom said, here's 186 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 2: his file if you want to know what he told 187 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 2: the therapist at the VA, and I opened up page one, 188 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 2: and I might have turned to page two and then 189 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 2: I just shut it. It's like, you know, if my 190 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 2: dad wanted me to know these things, he would have 191 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 2: told me these things, you know, And so I still 192 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: have that file of not cracked into it. So I 193 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 2: just want to bring that to you on this because 194 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 2: I feel like a little bit of that's what we're 195 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 2: getting at here is like what did dad? You know, 196 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 2: the generational gap? 197 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know he growing up, he never talked 198 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 3: about Vietnam. Once in a while, a little story would 199 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 3: sneak out or something would sneak out, and that was 200 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 3: the only way that you knew. I mean, he never 201 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 3: you know, he never wore like veterans hats or had 202 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 3: bumper stickers or was part of the VFW or any 203 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 3: of those types of things. This is something he never 204 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,599 Speaker 3: talked about. And then as a kid, you know, you 205 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 3: I was sneak around looking through your parents' stuff and 206 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 3: you know, digging through their closets or whatever, and so 207 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 3: in doing that, you know, I would discover pieces of uniform, 208 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 3: old medals, ribbons, you know, things like that. And so 209 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 3: that's kind of like that was the influence on my life, 210 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 3: is that it was always in the background that I 211 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 3: knew my father was a Vietnam veteran who never talked 212 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 3: about it, So you know, that really influenced me to 213 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 3: then join the army. And then, you know, decades later, 214 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 3: we found all these letters that he wrote home from Vietnam, 215 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 3: as well as a diary that he kept for the 216 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: year that he was there, and so being able to 217 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 3: you know, dig through all that stuff, and by that 218 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 3: point I had already you know, written a whole bunch 219 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 3: of articles. It was really into writing, and it always 220 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 3: wanted to write a book, and so that was kind 221 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 3: of the genesis of the book ideas, coming from finding 222 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,959 Speaker 3: all that stuff and then going through it. And then 223 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 3: you know, like you mentioned just a second ago, you know, 224 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 3: we never really we we think we know our parents, 225 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 3: but we don't. 226 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 2: You know. 227 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 3: The only way we know them is from like growing 228 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 3: up and you know, how they disciplined us or whatever. 229 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 3: We grew up with them. But when you get a 230 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 3: chance to, like and I hope one day you do 231 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 3: open that file and read it, because and then you'll 232 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 3: really discover who your dad is, you know, Yeah, and 233 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 3: that can be quite quite powerful. 234 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 2: Page one was kind of nuts, you know, it talks 235 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:10,199 Speaker 2: about Vietnam and some things that he had seen, and 236 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 2: what turned him into a Green Beret was the things 237 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 2: he had seen done to other Green Berets that they 238 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 2: were finding. And so I can see the crossover from 239 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 2: him being a young seventeen year old Navy he did 240 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 2: Morse code radioman too, being a nineteenth Special Forces Group 241 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: Guy eighteen echo radio guy right, Morse code. So I 242 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 2: could see how he just went from one to the 243 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 2: other because he's like, I'm just gonna wear the beret 244 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 2: that I was finding around in his file. It's interesting. 245 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 2: I have to read more of it. I only read 246 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 2: one page and I stopped. 247 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would highly encourage you to read it. I mean, 248 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 3: I think it would be quite moving for you. 249 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 2: Maybe it's been time, you know. And at the time, 250 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 2: I was just so fresh and I was just like, 251 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 2: you know, he had just passed, and Mom was like, well, 252 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 2: here's his file and stuff, and. 253 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 3: I was just like, I think that's probably a good 254 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, TP A technique for our 255 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 3: Some of the people listening to this who have served 256 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 3: is you know, they don't want to talk about it, 257 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 3: maybe to their kids and so on, but maybe leave 258 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 3: something behind, you know, maybe maybe leave some some letters 259 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 3: that they write to them. What I'm doing with my 260 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,319 Speaker 3: son is my wife and I are doing is we 261 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 3: created an email for him all right now. He's only 262 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 3: three years old right now, so we created an email 263 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 3: for him, and then every so often we email him, 264 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 3: you know, our thoughts and what we're doing in our 265 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:28,599 Speaker 3: lives and things like that, and thoughts of him. And 266 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 3: then when he's eighteen, we're gonna give him the password 267 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 3: and he'll be able to look back through, you know, 268 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 3: eighteen years of our thoughts and love for him and 269 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 3: experiences that we're going through. 270 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 2: In our own lives. That's cool to journal, you know. 271 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 2: You guys uploading some images of him? 272 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 3: Are I mean just writing whatever? You're like, hey, we 273 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 3: just PCs again after a year. We're at Ford Levenworth. 274 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,079 Speaker 3: You know, you've already lived in three places and you're 275 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 3: only three years old. So just things like that, you know, 276 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 3: and so it's kind of so I think you'll leave 277 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 3: leaving that for your your your kids and so like 278 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 3: like you know, you have file that you can read 279 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 3: one day, or these emails that you give him the 280 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 3: shirt when they're eighteen, or even all your old ribbons 281 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 3: and your medals and your and you're write up maybe 282 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 3: in your evaluations, you know, keep all that in a 283 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 3: folder somewhere. Give it to them when they're an adults. 284 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 3: I think that might be quite interest. 285 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 2: I still have pops uniform, his full classes with his 286 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 2: blue cord and everything. I looked at it and I 287 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: was like, how did how did he fit in this? 288 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 2: He got got bigger, a little bigger after you know, 289 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 2: and stuff like that, and then I look, I'm six five. 290 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, there's no way I could even fit in this, 291 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 2: you know. And I still have his camouflage pants from 292 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 2: his woodlands, and I have some of his old greens 293 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 2: with his name on it from when he was first 294 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 2: in the eighties, you know, the old Odie green uniforms 295 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: with the slant pockets. So I still have some of 296 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 2: that and I and I cherish it, you know, and 297 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 2: sometimes I'll smell it. Yeah. And I have his helmet, 298 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 2: his kpot that has his woodland cover and it's got 299 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 2: like C seventeen six jumps and he's got like all 300 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 2: these slashes of different aircraft. I'll smell the interior of it. Okay. 301 00:13:57,840 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 2: I just want you to know that's what I'm always 302 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 2: looking for. Wasn't trying to have a session with you 303 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 2: today on therapy. 304 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 3: But yeah, well it's good. It's good conversation. I mean, 305 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 3: I think it's important for for you know, veterans and 306 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 3: people who serve to realize that the impact that it 307 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 3: has on their their their children and their spouse too, 308 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 3: and then to you know, save something for them that 309 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 3: they can then look on later in life, you know, 310 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 3: when they're adults themselves, and get a better understanding of 311 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 3: you when you were young and raising them and soul. 312 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 2: Like his ring right here that my mom gave me 313 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 2: when he passed in twenty thirteen. It's his Special Forces 314 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 2: ring right here. So my kids all look at her like, hey, 315 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 2: can we put that on our thumb? Can we try 316 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 2: it on dad? You know my daughter she's you know, 317 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 2: it's like do I leave it to her? Do I 318 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 2: leave it to my son? To leave it to my 319 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 2: other daughter. It's like they can figure it out, but 320 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: it's here here, it is. Yeah, you know Grandpa's you know, 321 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 2: handed down Yeah, yeah, and you know they. 322 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 3: Have all these recordings too from this podcast. 323 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 2: One hundred percent, well, you know, immortalized, right as long 324 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 2: as the internet's not cut at the bottom of the 325 00:14:55,160 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 2: ocean on us. Then you should have so so born 326 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 2: from war? Right, you yourself enlisted at what age or commissioned? 327 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 2: Do you mind telling a little bit about how you 328 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 2: decided to join the military at what age that was? 329 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? So, you know, like I said, growing up, there 330 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 3: was always kind of an influence. So it was always 331 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 3: kind of the back of my mind that I would 332 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 3: join the army because my dad was in the Army, 333 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 3: and they have a long history of family members so 334 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 3: went all the way back to the American Revolution, who 335 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 3: had fought in pretty much every single war. But I was, 336 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 3: I was a teenager. I got into a lot of trouble, 337 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 3: you know, I was. I was a really bad kid, 338 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 3: and so I really didn't know what I was gonna 339 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 3: do with my life. Thankfully, up until that point, I 340 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 3: hadn't gotten any serious trouble that would have, you know, 341 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 3: kept me out of the joining the army. 342 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 2: Right, But I was. 343 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 3: I was in school, and I was in a special 344 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 3: program for like trouble maker kids, and so I was 345 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 3: acting up and one of the teachers was like got 346 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 3: frustrated with me and was like, what the heck are 347 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 3: you gonna do with your life. And I was like, 348 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 3: if you, I'm gonna join the army whatever. And then 349 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 3: she was like okay, and so she went. And then 350 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 3: about a couple of minutes later, she's like, oh, there's 351 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 3: there's a phone call for you, and they had phones 352 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 3: in the classroom that in case she acted out. And 353 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 3: I was like okay, and I got it, and it 354 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 3: was a recruiter, and the recruiter was like meet me 355 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 3: at the flag pole after school, and I was like, oh, okay. 356 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 3: And you know, so I was seventeen. Joined my dad 357 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 3: signed a delayed entry program and so that that's seventeen, 358 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 3: and then about I think three months later, went off 359 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 3: to basic, joined the infantry like my dad. My dad 360 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 3: was an infantry officer, but I was an infantry listed 361 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 3: at that time. Joined the infantry, did about six years, 362 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 3: did some hundred first time I got out, did some 363 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 3: Hawaiian National Guard time still in the infantry, became an NCO, 364 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 3: went back into ROTC, got my degree, you know, had 365 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 3: my gi bill, had all that stuff, everything all paid for. 366 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 3: Was really awesome, and then got commissioned and then you know, 367 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: like my bio, done a whole bunch of really cool 368 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 3: things since then. So it's been it's been quite a ride, 369 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 3: for sure. 370 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 2: I understand the class. Can I tell you that the 371 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 2: special class. I was in that class. Yeah, we had 372 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 2: a timeout box. So yeah, so if the kid acted 373 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 2: out or said, you know, fu there, like go to 374 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 2: timeout and you'd have to go on your own course. 375 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 2: Or they brought the second grader in one time and 376 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 2: just put him in there. He's kicking it. He's like, 377 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 2: you guys suck. This teacher sucked all these schools he 378 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 2: needed to be in there, and then he went to sleep. 379 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 2: That's so funny that you yeah, yeah, oh, I was 380 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 2: a second year senior in high school and always skateboarding 381 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 2: and always doing things and just out there. So funny enough, 382 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 2: you know, just not bad enough to have a record. 383 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, at least record, you know. Yeah, I mean 384 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 3: the Army. The Army really saved my life had I 385 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 3: not joined the army. I know, I have I have 386 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 3: this reoccurring nightmare where I wake up and I wake 387 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 3: up in a jail cell and like all and everything 388 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 3: happened in my past life was all a dream and 389 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 3: really all along I've been in this, in this, in 390 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 3: this jail cell. So that's kind of you know where 391 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 3: I was and the army really redirected me, thankfully, And 392 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 3: I think it does that for a lot of people 393 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 3: who joined the UH the military. Thankfully. 394 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 2: They can give a lot of people a direction left, right, straight, 395 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 2: U turn, start over, do something a little different, you know, 396 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,199 Speaker 2: whatever the case may be. It's like it does give 397 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 2: you a direction though in life, and and it helps 398 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 2: you to get out and understand a little bit of 399 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 2: a chain of command makes sense. You know, you're like, oh, hey, 400 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 2: you know what, I get why that? I get why 401 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 2: there's a hierarchy in my job, right, you know, it 402 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 2: kind of makes sense, you know, go up the chain. 403 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 2: And so what was the questions that you had about 404 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 2: your dad that inspired you to want to write you know, 405 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 2: the the Born Born from War Vietnam, IRAQ, Global War 406 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 2: on Terror, you know, blended? What was that in you? 407 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 2: I know you're a historian, Okay, I know you makes 408 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:36,639 Speaker 2: sense with the emails to your son, right. 409 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it was it was you know, once we 410 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 3: had all that material, I mean, it was it was 411 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 3: just really wanting to know more about that war, you know, 412 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 3: your Vietnam. You know, I'm a historian, so you know, 413 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 3: but Vietnam. Most of us don't know much about Vietnam. 414 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 3: All you know is from a bunch of corny eighty 415 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 3: movies that show us that it was all bad. And 416 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 3: then you know, even in professional military education for the military, 417 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 3: we kind of skip over Vietnam a little bit. You know, 418 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 3: we jump right from the World War two to Desert Storm, etcetera, 419 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 3: really focusing on that large scale combat operations. So I 420 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:07,920 Speaker 3: really wanted to know more about that war and then 421 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 3: my dad's experience in that war. And you know, during 422 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 3: the process of writing the book, you know, I was 423 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 3: able to I tracked down, you know, all the influence 424 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 3: that Vietnam had when he was growing up, and the 425 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 3: people that died in his neighborhood. You know, how that 426 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 3: I talked to those families, and how that influenced their families. 427 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 3: You know, even fifty sixty years later, they still missed them. 428 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,199 Speaker 3: And then all the people that he served with. I 429 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 3: was able to track down a lot of them and 430 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 3: actually interview them. So I was able to cold call 431 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:35,919 Speaker 3: these you know, social media you could find anybody, and 432 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 3: I was able to find these people, you know, so 433 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 3: they're like fifty sixty years later, the the son of 434 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 3: somebody that they served with, you know, decades ago out 435 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,159 Speaker 3: of nowhere has reached them and asking them about you know, 436 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 3: his father and their experience in the war and all 437 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 3: that played together. And I had the same name as 438 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 3: my dad, so you know, to them getting this random 439 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 3: email from a guy they knew learning that it's his son, 440 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,199 Speaker 3: so that was really interesting. And then just taking all 441 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 3: the lessons from Vietnam, you know that that that on 442 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 3: counter insurgency fight, and then looking at you know, g Watt. 443 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 3: I mean I was in Iraq, so that's really what 444 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 3: I focused on, but g Watt overall as a whole, 445 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 3: and looking at some of the same bear traps that 446 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 3: that we walked right into, you know, and had we 447 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 3: really studied and understood what we did, what we tried, 448 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:19,120 Speaker 3: what we applied in Vietnam, we probably could have avoided 449 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 3: some things that we did in Iraq and Afghanistan and 450 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 3: other theaters. So you know, all that's together in the book. 451 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 3: So it's it's it's kind of it's not just a 452 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,719 Speaker 3: dry history. You know, it has some historical chapters if 453 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 3: you like that kind of stuff, but it really is 454 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,439 Speaker 3: takes a a personal look at both wars, from the 455 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 3: human experience and then historically combines, you know, both of 456 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 3: the lessons that we missed and so on and all 457 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 3: of that together. So I'm hoping that it appeals to 458 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 3: a much broader audience, and not just to you know, 459 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 3: military audience, and not just to like a historian audience, 460 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 3: hoping that it appeals to like a broader society understanding 461 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 3: how that influences people who serve intergenerational and how that 462 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 3: that that impact on society as a whole. 463 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 2: Now, now, now, Patrick, tell me what your dad did 464 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 2: in Vietnam. Like, I know he was an infantry officer. 465 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 2: I might have heard the hundred first maybe from you 466 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 2: or from him. Tell me again, what was his detail 467 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 2: in Vietnam that you can recall. 468 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, so he was in the eighty second Airborne as 469 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 3: an infantry officer. And what's funny is, you know, the 470 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 3: eighty second was that strategic reserve that was kept back 471 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 3: from Vietnam. They were supposed to be the ones that 472 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,160 Speaker 3: would answer if Russia or Soviet Union at a time 473 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 3: something like that happened. But after ted, they needed more 474 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,919 Speaker 3: force flow to come in very quickly, and so they 475 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 3: broke glass and they sent to eighty second, So my 476 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 3: dad was not airborne. He went straight from IOBC and 477 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 3: then went to jungle training and then went to Vietnam 478 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,159 Speaker 3: and then was plugged into eighty second even though he 479 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 3: was an airborne because eighty second wasn't airborne airborne tag 480 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,639 Speaker 3: at the time in Vietnam. But he came in on 481 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 3: the tail end of that deployment of the eighty second, 482 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 3: So he did six months with the eighty second, and 483 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 3: then the eighty second redeployed back to Brag but he 484 00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 3: didn't get to go because he still had six months 485 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 3: that he the big Green machine. So then he became 486 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 3: an ARBON advisor and he advised the South Vietnamese Army 487 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 3: with the twenty fifth Arvin Division. So he did six 488 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 3: months with the eighty second, and he did six months 489 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 3: as an ARBON advisor, and he did it right in 490 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 3: from nineteen sixty nine to nineteen seventy, which is right 491 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 3: when the Vietnam War was changing from pacification with the 492 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 3: US and the lead to Vietnamization to the Vietnamese in 493 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,719 Speaker 3: the lead. So he literally was like right at that 494 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 3: gap when that happened at that strategic level, that's when 495 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 3: he joined at that tactical level and was doing exactly 496 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 3: the same thing that was being briefed strategically. So it's 497 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 3: a really interesting perspective of the Vietnam War to see 498 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 3: it from you know, large American unit that he's leading, 499 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 3: you know, as a platoon leader in the eighty second, 500 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 3: to then going and advising the Arbon to now take 501 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 3: the war, take take charge of the war, and be 502 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 3: the front while the Americans take a step back. So 503 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 3: that's that's what he did. And he saw with the 504 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 3: Arvon he saw way more combat than he did with 505 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 3: the eighty second, which kind of flips that narrative on 506 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,439 Speaker 3: its head. Is that most people when they think about Vietnam, 507 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,679 Speaker 3: they think that the Arbon units were very poor performing 508 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,239 Speaker 3: and you know, they dropped the rifle, you know that 509 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,679 Speaker 3: that joke that I can sell you an Arvin rifle, 510 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 3: you know, never fired, only dropped once type of thing. 511 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 3: But he found that the Arbon battalion that he was 512 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 3: advising was extremely, extremely ferocious and they really fought like tigers, 513 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 3: and he saw with them. Yeah, then he did with 514 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 3: the eighty seconds. 515 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 2: He probably appreciated being with them because that's their that's 516 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 2: their backyard. 517 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, oh absolutely, you know what. 518 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 2: I mean it' second come this way, no, no, no, 519 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 2: this way, no, just between these trees, bro Yeah, pungee 520 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 2: sticks are here, There's none here. It's like and you. 521 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 3: Know what's funny is like my dad, you know, I 522 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 3: talked to a lot of the other advisors on his 523 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 3: team that he was with, and they said exactly what 524 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 3: you just said. You know, they would like the Vietnamese 525 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 3: would stop and say, hey, I smell something, yeah, and 526 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 3: the American would be like what you know, and they're 527 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 3: they're smelling things that are out of place in their 528 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 3: native environment that shouldn't be there. 529 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:58,199 Speaker 2: You know. 530 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 3: My dad was six two, so uh, the Vietcong would 531 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 3: hang up booby traps you know, at his level, trying 532 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 3: to hit the American advisors. And so that was something 533 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 3: he had to watch out to you that the ARB 534 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 3: taught him to duck down in certain places and things 535 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 3: like that. So really really fascinating experience. And like I said, 536 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 3: he kept the letters and he kept his diary, so 537 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 3: I have a real detailed time of that year. Wore 538 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 3: that that that that he did, and then anything that 539 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 3: was missing I was able to fill in the gap 540 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 3: from you know, the others that I found that. 541 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 2: He served with. They're so unconventional warfare, right, I mean, 542 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 2: like these guys that were lurps and everybody that went 543 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 2: into the to the jungles, people have talked to and interviewed, 544 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 2: getting like some real accounts from them, you know, walking 545 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 2: on trails and then just their guys drop, but they 546 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 2: just see the enemy and then they shoot the guys 547 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 2: who like didn't say nothing behind them. They're like what 548 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 2: mind readers. You know, it's like, oh, don't forget watch 549 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,360 Speaker 2: out for your head because there's booby traps hanging from 550 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 2: the trees. You know, I'm trying not to step in 551 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 2: a tiger pit. 552 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's an operational environment that I think, you know, 553 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 3: US veterans from from around in Afghanistan, it would just 554 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 3: be so foreign to us. You know, what special operations 555 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 3: and line units faced in Vietnam was just so different 556 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,360 Speaker 3: than what you know, we saw in Iraq and Afghanistan. 557 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so. 558 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 3: It's just really interesting. Yeah, those guys were tough. 559 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 2: Man the rain alone, Yeah yeah, man, I read about 560 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 2: that too. 561 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,239 Speaker 3: You know, the rain My dad got trench foot all 562 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 3: kinds of other things from from constant immersion. So yeah, really, 563 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 3: you know, it really really hard war. Really, Vietnam was 564 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 3: really really ugly in that sense, in the conditions that 565 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 3: they had to fight under. 566 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and today we have more of a technological 567 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 2: war going on, you know, but they're still you know 568 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 2: what I call the snow piercer element, the human element 569 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 2: that has to keep the machine going right, even though 570 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 2: we wanted to just be like androids fighting each other 571 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,679 Speaker 2: with no souls going up to heaven and hell and stuff. 572 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 2: But you know who's controlling those and then once you 573 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 2: get to that element you take out those guys, so 574 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 2: someone there's got to be this human element in combat. 575 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,199 Speaker 2: It's just crazy. Yeah, you know. 576 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 3: You know what's interesting is, uh, you know, Vietnam tried 577 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,120 Speaker 3: to use technology too. We don't really realize that they 578 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 3: tried to use technology as that I guess combat enhancer 579 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 3: or whatever a way to to keep soldiers and to 580 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 3: keep boots off of the ground. They tried things like 581 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,679 Speaker 3: dropping sensors that would embed into the ground and they 582 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 3: would set off an alarm anytime somebody walked by it. 583 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 3: I mean, they tried all kinds of things like that. 584 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 3: Cause you don't give no credit for and you're exactly right, 585 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 3: you know, it's still required. It's still required troops on 586 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 3: the ground, no matter how much technology they tried to 587 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 3: apply in Vietnam. And then you know later at Afghanistan. 588 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean, you know, jade ams and whatnot, 589 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 2: don't just like they have to like be guided in it. 590 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 2: It's like like someone's looking at something. You know, it's like, 591 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:48,879 Speaker 2: you know, don't turn the binoculars. You know, it's like 592 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 2: a movie where he looks with the layer. What. So, 593 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 2: you know you've written so much, you're you're a historian 594 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 2: of the military. What is your fate favorite genre that 595 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 2: you like to focus on. 596 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, American Civil war is probably my most favorite. 597 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,880 Speaker 3: That's one of the least selling genres. 598 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, such a repeating of history genre. 599 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's such a saturation. You know, there's so many 600 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 3: civil war books and things that it's it's hard to 601 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 3: get something out on that. But you know, I enjoy 602 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,639 Speaker 3: any any military history. And you know, one of the 603 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 3: things I've discovered, you know, as I write all these 604 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 3: articles and then now my book working on my second 605 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 3: book now, is that when you look at military history, 606 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 3: you know, uniforms change, the reason for the conflict change, 607 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 3: you know, the weapons, technology, things like that. But that 608 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:46,679 Speaker 3: common military experience is like so timeless. I mean, you 609 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 3: can write, you can read something. If you could find 610 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 3: it about like a Roman centurion and that common military 611 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 3: experience and bring it all the way forward to raack 612 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:56,400 Speaker 3: in Afghanistan, you would find that that common timeless experience 613 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 3: of being in the military, you know, joining up, being 614 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 3: subjected to that suppline, shipping out overseas, just the common 615 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 3: hardships that you face when you put on a uniform. 616 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 3: I mean, it's so timeless that it's always shocking when 617 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 3: I whenever I read into those historical narratives. 618 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 2: And stuff, right, because I mean you do have you know, 619 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,479 Speaker 2: a degree in the art of war, right, and so 620 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 2: it's like you know, attack at night and fall back, 621 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,400 Speaker 2: you know, and then attack when they retreat and then 622 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,400 Speaker 2: like you know, don't attack in the daylight kind of thing. 623 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 2: And just like the simplest thought process un Sue wrote. 624 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 2: You know, like the book is about I can't remember 625 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 2: how many pages, but it's not very very big. Yeah, 626 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 2: it's like just you know, move out of the way. 627 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's there's some common you know, some very common 628 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 3: strategic themes that are also timeless as well, which you 629 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 3: can you can glean from that from that that study 630 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 3: of history too. 631 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,480 Speaker 2: I had a marine I interviewed yesterday that'll come out 632 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 2: here in a few you know, probably right before your show, 633 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 2: if anybody's listening. But we're talking about how he didn't 634 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 2: quite know what to you know, hold on to in 635 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 2: a conflict. And so his instructors before they went to 636 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 2: go to Iraq and in two thousand and six said 637 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 2: you know, let me tell you about Valhalla. And so 638 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 2: he wound up writing a book called Valhalla Voice, and 639 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:11,239 Speaker 2: so yeah, yeah, and so Valhalla was something that he 640 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 2: was able to. They talked about the warrior ethos of 641 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 2: a Viking and the Norse and how they believed in 642 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,520 Speaker 2: transcending through battle, and he's like that kind of gave 643 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 2: me a good sense of grounding, you know. So you know, 644 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 2: it's hard because you come from you know, we all 645 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 2: come from somewhere. Some people don't have a faith that's 646 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 2: been taught to them. Some people just come from you know, 647 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 2: maybe like an orphanage into the military and never had 648 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 2: anybody but a drill sergeant loved them the most. And 649 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 2: then that drills, you know, and so it's like what 650 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 2: do they what do they have to latch onto how 651 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 2: do they find that grounding mechanism And so like you said, 652 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 2: it can go all the way back to a centurion. 653 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 2: You can go all the way back to Norse. You know, 654 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 2: like that's an importance. 655 00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 3: It's an importance some military unit history especially is uh 656 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 3: you know, Sir Michael Howard, he's really the most famous 657 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 3: historian to really latch onto that that idea that you 658 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 3: just that you just uh you just mentioned is that 659 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,880 Speaker 3: you know the importance of history is you can use 660 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 3: it to to to build that that commanderie, that that history, 661 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 3: that that pride in your unit, which can help you, 662 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 3: you know, survive and thrive in combat situations. So you know, 663 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 3: soldiers in one hundred first, I was one hundred first, 664 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 3: you know, you know, Infantruman, we can always no matter 665 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 3: what hardship you find yourself in, you can always think 666 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 3: back to oh man, think of those guys in World 667 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 3: War two, you know, battle the bulls, all that type 668 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 3: of stuff, and you can you can pull forward that 669 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 3: sense of pride, that sense of cammaderie, and that it 670 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 3: gives you that strength to to further push forward, you know, 671 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 3: and you can find that like you said, you know, 672 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 3: with Valhalla, but you can find that, you know. The 673 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 3: eighty second, I mean, any any any unit you want 674 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 3: to name out there, and that's really that power of 675 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 3: that history. So you know, as as a leader informations 676 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 3: out there, you know, I would suggest not to overlook 677 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 3: that that power of that history and then use it, 678 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 3: capture it, you know, And you're almost doing like a 679 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 3: propaganda type thing. And isn't it to help you know, 680 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 3: instill some some pride, some some ability to to be 681 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 3: resilient and to push forward, you know, within your formations. 682 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,479 Speaker 3: I think it's a really powerful tool that a lot 683 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 3: of people overlook. 684 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, what would you suggest to somebody who's thinking about 685 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,719 Speaker 2: going into the military right now? You know a lot 686 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 2: of my listeners will be the younger kids looking up 687 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 2: to you. You know, maybe someone in their twenties is like, ah, 688 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 2: maybe this is my moment. You know, it's like I'm 689 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 2: a little older, I got some college, but I want 690 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 2: to enlist. You know, what's your advice to somebody who's 691 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 2: thinking about this from your perspective? You know, Yeah, you know, I. 692 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 3: Would say I always tell every young person, you know, 693 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 3: if you don't know what you want to do, you know, 694 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 3: you're you're seventeen eighteen, and you don't know if you 695 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 3: want to go to college, you don't know, if you 696 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 3: want to go to trade school, you don't know, if 697 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 3: you just want to go to work. Whatever, you know, 698 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 3: consider the military. I mean, now, the way the military 699 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 3: is set up, it's no longer that you know that 700 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 3: a twenty year system. Now it has a blended retirement 701 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 3: system where you can do three years or whatever it is, 702 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 3: and then you can walk away with like a four 703 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 3: oh one K. So that's that's huge, you know, So 704 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 3: I would suggest, you know, go to the military for 705 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 3: a couple of years. It'll help you find yourself. You'll 706 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 3: get to see the world, you'll get some amazing experiences, 707 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 3: some amazing exposure and all that. But also, you know, 708 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 3: I would say, make the military work for you. So 709 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 3: you want to serve, right, you're already giving yourself to 710 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 3: that service to our nation. So that's huge. But also 711 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 3: take back a little bit too, So take advantage of 712 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,959 Speaker 3: the of the g I bill, take advantage of anything 713 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 3: else that they're offering. You know, if if you want 714 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 3: to be a door kicker and you want to go infantry, 715 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 3: and or you want to go special forces, you know, 716 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 3: get after it awesome, but also consider, hey, what's some 717 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 3: other things that I could use that are gonna things 718 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 3: that I could learn? They are gonna make me marketable, 719 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 3: you know, maybe learning about computers or radios or AI 720 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 3: all that that that cutting edge stuff that the military 721 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 3: is working on. So, you know, my biggest advice you 722 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 3: take advantage of whatever the military is offering. Gi Bill. 723 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 3: If you can get a couple of college classes out 724 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 3: knocked out of the way with the education center on posts, 725 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 3: do that get some good you know, some some training, 726 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 3: whether it's uh ivory type stuff or some type of 727 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,479 Speaker 3: trade or whatever it is. You know, all of that 728 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 3: so that when if you do decide to get out 729 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 3: and not do you know, twenty plus years, then you've 730 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 3: got stuff. You know, you've got a four oh one K, 731 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 3: You've got givil you can fall on, You've got that 732 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 3: trade skill or whatever it is that you can also 733 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 3: leverage as well when when you're getting. 734 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 2: Out VA home Loan VA homeland. 735 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 3: I mean, there's all kinds of benefits that are available 736 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 3: right now. So take advantage of all that stuff you're 737 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 3: gonna give. So give yourself, be selfless, you know, do 738 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 3: that selfless service, that sacrifice, but also take back as well. 739 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 3: Whatever they have to offer, take it. So you walk 740 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 3: out with a whole bunch of stuff in your kit bag, 741 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 3: ready to move on to your next career. Take on 742 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,360 Speaker 3: the world. You know, all that's going to help you out. 743 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,880 Speaker 3: So that's my suggestion. 744 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's great advice too, you know. And just going 745 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 2: in and talking to someone at a career center for 746 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 2: the military is just your first step, right, You just 747 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 2: got to take that step over the door, say hey, 748 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 2: what's up. Someone I was interviewing one time. They said 749 00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 2: they went into the army, they were pretty committed to 750 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:54,400 Speaker 2: the army, but then all of a sudden they went 751 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 2: maybe seal next door. And they didn't mean to like 752 00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 2: offend anybody, but they just said, well I felt a 753 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 2: different direction. 754 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 3: But they're still well yeah, yeah, check them all out. 755 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you can ask for what you want if 756 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,800 Speaker 2: you like, you know, say you want to be a 757 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:09,840 Speaker 2: truck driver and you want to get the best truck 758 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 2: driving training. You can go in as that and you 759 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 2: can come out with the creds of you know, an 760 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,120 Speaker 2: Army eighty eight mic truck driver that knows how to 761 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 2: do it all. I mean really, you know, and. 762 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,960 Speaker 3: That's good advice to Yeah, shop around. Definitely hit hit 763 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 3: hitoped service and see what they're gonna make them offer. 764 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 2: TV because they're called career centers now they are. 765 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:31,880 Speaker 3: They're all most of them are co located so they 766 00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 3: don't have to walk far. 767 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,600 Speaker 2: No, you don't. You can check them out and you 768 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,719 Speaker 2: could just like, you know, or just act out in 769 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,840 Speaker 2: class and you'll get a phone call. You'll see, you know. 770 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 3: I don't even know if I don't even know if 771 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,879 Speaker 3: that teacher legally was supposed to do that, Like I'm 772 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 3: not sure she could, you know what I mean, Like 773 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 3: it's ship. I don't know sure if that would be 774 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 3: allowed today, that you could just like call a recruiter 775 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 3: and link them up with a student, you know. 776 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think the timeout box is 777 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 2: allowed anymore today. Yeah, but there's a lot of things 778 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,839 Speaker 2: that aren't allowed anymore, you know, the level system, eating 779 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 2: lunch in the room or in the cafeteria. Come come on, 780 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 2: But I mean I get it. There's some kids out there, 781 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 2: you know, and we love you, okay, my troubled kids. 782 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 2: Alternative high school, all the day, all day right here, 783 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 2: A second year senior but you know what a second 784 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 2: year senior means that I pushed through. I still kept going. 785 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 2: My friends were sleeping in while I was going to 786 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 2: school at seven in the morning every single day. Because 787 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:25,719 Speaker 2: I had to graduate, I had to get credits. I 788 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 2: had to I had to just push forward. And I 789 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,879 Speaker 2: think I get a lot of that from my dad 790 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 2: and my mom, you know, instelling in me. You know, 791 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,359 Speaker 2: like a lot of Okay, let me just really quick, 792 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,439 Speaker 2: just hijack this conversation. So I had a skateboard shop 793 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 2: when I was thirteen years old, and so I was 794 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 2: selling skateboards out of my garage. My dad was like 795 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,840 Speaker 2: really impressed with me selling you know, grilled cheeses at first, 796 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 2: and all the kids were selling lemonade, and I sold 797 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 2: grilled cheeses. And I was making like thirty forty bucks 798 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 2: a day selling grilled cheeses. He ran an armory at 799 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 2: a junior high school that had a candy machine in it, 800 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 2: and all the guys would buy it. He's just super 801 00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,439 Speaker 2: smart and just had a vending machine and I would 802 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 2: take his apply and sell it out front. Okay, so 803 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 2: out front moms are sending their kids over to pick 804 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 2: up diet cokes you know, oh, go buy them from Radel. 805 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 2: Go buy the diet cokes down the street from Radel. 806 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 2: You don't have to go to the store. So I 807 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 2: would just sell them two for a buck, two for 808 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 2: a buck. And my Dad's like one day he comes 809 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 2: up to me. He's like, let me ask you something. 810 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 2: How much you make today on those diet cokes. I 811 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 2: said about thirteen dollars. He's like, well, you know they're 812 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 2: sixty cents now, right, because they're not fifty cents. I 813 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 2: was like, oh, bro, I forgot. They went up to 814 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,440 Speaker 2: sixty cents at the vending machines, so I had to 815 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,239 Speaker 2: pay him back. But he said I was doing so 816 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,280 Speaker 2: well on the grilled cheeses that I was making money 817 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 2: minus the bread, the cheese, the rent, the refrigerator that 818 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,879 Speaker 2: cost electricity, the stove that had natural gas. He broke 819 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,320 Speaker 2: it down, like, you should owe me this much, but 820 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,320 Speaker 2: I'm going to just charge you X. So I said, 821 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 2: buy me a business license in Layton. Let me open 822 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,319 Speaker 2: a skate shop. I know I can sell these skateboards. 823 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 2: And he had a business degree in human resource and 824 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,000 Speaker 2: business management. As a Green Beret, and he was working 825 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 2: all the way to his doctorate public speaking and business 826 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 2: communications and stuff. So I think he just really instilled 827 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 2: in me this business mentality of just like go after 828 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:09,400 Speaker 2: it that, like you said, was hidden the whole time. 829 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,399 Speaker 2: It wasn't like he just kind of groomed me into 830 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 2: this businessman that I am today. I have multiple shops. 831 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:20,120 Speaker 2: I'm successful entrepreneur. You know, same mentality I had with 832 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 2: my skate shop. Except what happened to my skate shop 833 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 2: is I didn't have any insurance. So as a seventeen 834 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 2: eighteen year old kid now from thirteen to eighteen, I 835 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 2: got like sixty thousand dollars in inventory. I got snowboards 836 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,840 Speaker 2: and skateboards. I have a whole arcade with like Tron 837 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 2: and Mortal Kombat and all these different games paying the rent. 838 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,479 Speaker 2: And what happened was some skaters that got TD wide 839 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 2: with their dad to Hill Air Force Base, so I'd 840 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 2: never met crowbarred the front door, stole everything. I just 841 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 2: broke all my glass cases, took all the wheels, all 842 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,760 Speaker 2: the trucks, took all my stuff that was on layaway, 843 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 2: and I was just like, oh man, right for Christmas. 844 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,279 Speaker 2: So that pretty much ended it right there, which is 845 00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 2: what gave me a direction to go to college at night. 846 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,319 Speaker 2: And then I joined the Air Force and I was 847 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 2: supposed to have a skate shop, right, So he just 848 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:07,960 Speaker 2: instilled in me this business. So later in life, I 849 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 2: said to myself, Okay, I'll always open a business, but 850 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:14,920 Speaker 2: I'll do it the three ways. Okay, location, location, location, insurance, insurance, insurance, 851 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 2: and location location location. So you know, thanks again to 852 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,359 Speaker 2: Dad for you know, inspiring me to be a businessman, 853 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 2: you know, at such a young age, which is why 854 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 2: I was always not in school. You see, I was 855 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 2: running my skate shop. So at ten am, dude, you'd 856 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 2: find me opening the shop and I'm just slinging skateboards 857 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 2: to all the skater dudes that are like nineteen right 858 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 2: at fifteen sixteen, So I'm like, who needs school? Well? 859 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 2: I needed school because what happened. I got broke into 860 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,919 Speaker 2: everything got snatched out from underneath me, and I still 861 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 2: had a chance to graduate. Yeah, so that's you know, 862 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,680 Speaker 2: thanks Dad and Mom for you know, inspiring me there. 863 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:56,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, fort's have a plan B that so that lesson is, but. 864 00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 2: We don't have a planet B, so we got to 865 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,200 Speaker 2: take of what we got here. We got to be 866 00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 2: good Stewards today. No, yeah, just to give you some 867 00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 2: backstory on the skate shop, right, and how I was 868 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 2: getting there. That's what it is, you know. So anybody 869 00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 2: can open a business. You just got to be out 870 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 2: of a job. You're like, how do I hustle? How 871 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,479 Speaker 2: do I do this? You know a lot of folks 872 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,000 Speaker 2: getting out of the military, they're like, how did you 873 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 2: do it? And I was like, well, when you don't 874 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:25,880 Speaker 2: have a job, you become an entrepreneur. You're like, how 875 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 2: do I eat? Yeah? How do I eat? 876 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:28,239 Speaker 3: Yeah? 877 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 2: That's the trick about being an entrepreneurs. You got a 878 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:34,240 Speaker 2: risk yourself, and yourself is something you're so selfish about, 879 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:36,960 Speaker 2: you know. I know we're selfless swear oaths, but at 880 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:38,359 Speaker 2: the end of the day, it's you that cares about 881 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:43,399 Speaker 2: you the most. So I'm you know, and I would 882 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 2: love to tell everybody all about your book. There's chapters 883 00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 2: in your book Born from War that are like, I 884 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 2: think chapter nineteen, let me see here real quick, is 885 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:55,840 Speaker 2: that the one that says killing was killing people is 886 00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,600 Speaker 2: the easiest thing in the world. 887 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that was a Derek. So all the 888 00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,359 Speaker 3: chapter chapters start with a quote from somebody that I 889 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 3: interviewed or or Yeah, so that was a that was 890 00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 3: one of the advisors that my was I was with 891 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,960 Speaker 3: my dad. That was one of the quotes that uh 892 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 3: that during our conversation that that that he said. 893 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,760 Speaker 2: To me, that is the easiest thing in the world. 894 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, Yeah, there's some really interesting stuff. I mean, 895 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 3: you know, talking to these guys who fought in Vietnam. 896 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,320 Speaker 3: I mean, some of the things they said, you know, 897 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 3: and all of us in the book, it just kind 898 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 3: of blows your way. You know, today's today's PC world, 899 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 3: it would uh not fly, you know, and you're just like, 900 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 3: whoa smokes can't believe you just said that. So it 901 00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,319 Speaker 3: was really interesting to talk to them because they were 902 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 3: really really honest, you know, about what they experienced in 903 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 3: the in the war, and really bared their souls to me, 904 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,319 Speaker 3: which I was very surprised by. I did not expect that. 905 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 3: And so, you know, all that's in the book. I 906 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,360 Speaker 3: tried to you know, obviously, I treated it respectfully and 907 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,960 Speaker 3: I did leave a lot of things out that you know, 908 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,799 Speaker 3: some of them talked bad about other people and things 909 00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,239 Speaker 3: like that. I left some of that stuff out just 910 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:00,880 Speaker 3: because there was there's no there was no need for 911 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:05,920 Speaker 3: that but yeah, so really really heartfelt, deep conversations that 912 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:07,720 Speaker 3: I had with them, which I hope really come across 913 00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 3: in the books. 914 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, and one more chapter i'll call out here is 915 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,880 Speaker 2: where was it red white? Was it red white and 916 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,839 Speaker 2: blue on blue? Is that what it's called? Red white 917 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 2: and blue? Let me find it here? 918 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:20,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? 919 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:25,400 Speaker 2: Sorry, I don't mean to, but it's like red white 920 00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:28,240 Speaker 2: and blue on blue, probably talking about you know, friendly fire. 921 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not one of mine. I'm not sure. 922 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 2: Let me see here. I'll find it real quick. I 923 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,480 Speaker 2: was just reading Killing People the Battalion. Should I read 924 00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:38,960 Speaker 2: all your chapters real quick? Do you want me to 925 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 2: say them? Done? Let me tell you them. Let me 926 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:44,080 Speaker 2: tell you the should I take some quotes? What are 927 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 2: you going to do with your life? That was. 928 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 3: Talked about that one. 929 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 2: Get out of this house? He never wanted to worry 930 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:56,480 Speaker 2: me singing when the lights went out? 931 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was about one of the guys that died 932 00:41:58,480 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 3: in my dad's neighborhood. 933 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 2: A little piss at war. 934 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my dad said. That was lbj's quote, said, 935 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,560 Speaker 3: what about that little piss at war in Vietnam? 936 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:08,919 Speaker 2: He cried on the way home. 937 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 3: And that was my grandfather drafting my dad off the Vietnam. 938 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:16,280 Speaker 2: Oh is that right off the airport? Yeah, I finally 939 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:17,040 Speaker 2: had my war. 940 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:18,560 Speaker 3: Yeah that was me interac. 941 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,400 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, you finally did. Oh yeah, no, I 942 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 2: love that, nough, I love this. This is actually super fun. 943 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:28,320 Speaker 2: A breaking point. 944 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was between sixty nine and seventy when Vietnam 945 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 3: hit that point where he decided in America has to 946 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 3: get out and Viti he's got to take take the lead. 947 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,040 Speaker 2: So the year my dad went in as a Navy 948 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 2: as seventeen was in sixty eight. Sixty Oh yeah, same time. 949 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 2: Ye never knew his dad was coming out at sixty nine, 950 00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,560 Speaker 2: but my dad never knew his dad. My dad was adopted, Okay, yeah, 951 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:48,680 Speaker 2: his dad was. His dad was ending the National Guard 952 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:52,399 Speaker 2: Service as my dad was enlisting as a Navy radio guy. 953 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 2: And he never knew this. He never. I found this 954 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 2: out doing DNA afterwards and everything genealogy. I'll see here 955 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 2: looks like Vietnam. Yeah. 956 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 3: That was the pictures I sent home of flying over 957 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,400 Speaker 3: a rack to my dad and he was like, it 958 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 3: looks like Vietnam. 959 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:10,840 Speaker 2: Well he sees what he sees. 960 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, because you know, my daddy fought in the area. 961 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,359 Speaker 3: So a lot of people and they see Vietnam, they 962 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 3: think of the jungle, and a lot of Vietnam is 963 00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,880 Speaker 3: actually rice patties. So my dad primarily fought against the 964 00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,319 Speaker 3: Viet Kong and the rice paddied areas around Saigon, so 965 00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 3: different than what most people think. They think of these 966 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,400 Speaker 3: dense jungles, which some units DIAD serving, but most of 967 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 3: the most people fought in jungle, the rice paddied areas 968 00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:34,440 Speaker 3: around the population areas. Yeah. 969 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's been some depictions in films I've seen where 970 00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:39,239 Speaker 2: that's exactly what it's. The battle is in is in 971 00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,840 Speaker 2: the rice patties and mortars going off and land mines 972 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:45,719 Speaker 2: strung everywhere throughout the probably still to this day. 973 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, there's still uh you know, Vietnam, Cambodia 974 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,360 Speaker 3: allows people are still losing limbs to that stuff. 975 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:58,360 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it really is. Man, My men are a 976 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,080 Speaker 2: strange group. Let me get my dad. 977 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,840 Speaker 3: That's both of us actually, So most of the chapters 978 00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,359 Speaker 3: are comparing contrast. So it's like my dad talking about, 979 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 3: you know, the bunch of draftees that he has, and 980 00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:09,680 Speaker 3: then me and the you know, when I was in 981 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 3: the one hundred first and stuff. 982 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 2: But that's what I'm like going back and forth here, 983 00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,359 Speaker 2: like the grenade belonged to him. 984 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was my dad. He had they were doing 985 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 3: a patrol and they had this captain. He thought he 986 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,520 Speaker 3: was a hot shot and he ended up the pin 987 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,400 Speaker 3: in his grenadian it getting caught in a bush and 988 00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 3: he blew himself up. You know, they still got a 989 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 3: purple heart. Tried to hide it and made it like 990 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,040 Speaker 3: it was it was contact with the enemy when it wasn't. 991 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 2: And maybe I was dreaming that red, white and blue 992 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,279 Speaker 2: arm blue. I don't know why I was thinking that. 993 00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,440 Speaker 2: You know, maybe I was just like, you know, thinking 994 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,359 Speaker 2: something outside myself. But you know, I would say that 995 00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,320 Speaker 2: if anybody wants to know the rest of these chapters, 996 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,719 Speaker 2: like chapter nineteen, the killing people is the easiest thing 997 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 2: in the world, or the equal of the VC who 998 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,799 Speaker 2: said the equal of the VC who said that? 999 00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that was the the Arvin. So people talking 1000 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 3: about my dad talking positively about the Arvin is that 1001 00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,480 Speaker 3: they held their own against the Viet Cong, at least 1002 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 3: the guys that he advised for sure. 1003 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:10,040 Speaker 2: And then this one, I'm gonna mention this chapter. Your 1004 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:15,080 Speaker 2: dad did some really heroic stuff. Which dad you or him? 1005 00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, my dad. Yeah. So what was interesting, You know, 1006 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,720 Speaker 3: my dad is a Bronze star with the Valor winner 1007 00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 3: in Vietnam. And what was interesting is that, you know, 1008 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,840 Speaker 3: as I was doing the research for my book, I 1009 00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:29,719 Speaker 3: came across a retired lieutenant general, General Richard Keller, as 1010 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,000 Speaker 3: he was a Yukon commander at one point I retired, 1011 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,799 Speaker 3: but he was getting interviewed as part of a Boy 1012 00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,160 Speaker 3: Scout project way back in like twenty twelve. So, and 1013 00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 3: I actually met him, and he's actually one of my 1014 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 3: mentors right now. But so I found this online through 1015 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 3: the Library of Congress, and so he made this comment 1016 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:46,759 Speaker 3: in twenty twelve, well before I met him. I didn't 1017 00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:51,680 Speaker 3: meet him til twenty seventeen. Anyway. In the interview, one 1018 00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 3: of the boy Scouts asking him, you know, from your 1019 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 3: long experience in military thirty something years, you know, three 1020 00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 3: wars under his belt, what is one of the most 1021 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,360 Speaker 3: things that stand out to you the most. And to 1022 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,959 Speaker 3: my surprise and shock, what he said, you know, after 1023 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:05,759 Speaker 3: all this time the military and all this time, you know, 1024 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 3: three different conflicts, what he mentioned was what my dad 1025 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 3: did in Vietnam and how he won that bronze Star 1026 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,120 Speaker 3: would be. And so that was like very shocking to 1027 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,720 Speaker 3: me to come across that video, you know, me totally 1028 00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,080 Speaker 3: out of the blue. That's the one thing that this 1029 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,880 Speaker 3: retired lieutenant general remembered of all his years of service 1030 00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,880 Speaker 3: was what my dad did in Vietnam when he was 1031 00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,520 Speaker 3: a major in terge of my dad. So so that's 1032 00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 3: that's where that that comes from. 1033 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 2: It just stands out. He just remembers that. Yeah, yeah, 1034 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,319 Speaker 2: that's wild. So he was his commanding officer that Yeah, 1035 00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 2: he was. 1036 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 3: A team leader for the Urban Advisory Team. He was 1037 00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 3: a major at that point. 1038 00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:38,880 Speaker 2: My dad was a lieutenant So I'd imagine he'd have 1039 00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,440 Speaker 2: to have seen and been involved and you know, witnessed 1040 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,560 Speaker 2: because a lot of these accreditations or medals that are 1041 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,200 Speaker 2: given are signed off you know. You know, I think 1042 00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 2: what you get combat Action badge or Infantry badge if 1043 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 2: it's the CIV. Yeah, yeah, you know, if it's been 1044 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,600 Speaker 2: witnessed or there's like contact, et cetera. So to get 1045 00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:59,520 Speaker 2: a valor on the bronze stars though, right there are 1046 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 2: that's not a cluster, right. That's the difference between a 1047 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 2: cluster and a v is for valor. 1048 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:05,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, V is for valor. You know, you can get 1049 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 3: to get a bron star, you have to be in 1050 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,000 Speaker 3: a theater of combat, theater of operations. But the V 1051 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:14,279 Speaker 3: is what you know separates it, yeah, from from just 1052 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 3: being a you know, high performance in a combat zone 1053 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,480 Speaker 3: to a act of valor. 1054 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,240 Speaker 2: I mean it's only like a congressional medal of honors 1055 00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:23,240 Speaker 2: above that I think. 1056 00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,800 Speaker 3: Is the Silver Star and the Middlener after that. 1057 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, so it's it's something that was like, I'm 1058 00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 2: gonna make sure that you get a device. 1059 00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's what you know. It's in the book too. 1060 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,960 Speaker 3: It's interesting is that, uh, General Keller at a time, 1061 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 3: Major Keller, it took a long time to get my 1062 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 3: dad this award and my end so Major Keller is like, 1063 00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,920 Speaker 3: where is this award? So he goes to headquarters and 1064 00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 3: he goes to the personnel clerk there and he's like, 1065 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 3: where's this award? And the guy's like, oh, you know, 1066 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 3: and he starts ripping through. He starts ripping through this 1067 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:57,880 Speaker 3: guy's desk and he finds a c ib bronze stars 1068 00:47:57,920 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 3: and all these things in that guy's name. And this 1069 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,040 Speaker 3: guy was like a personnel clerk, you know, E four 1070 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,920 Speaker 3: never left the base when in any combot operations or anything. 1071 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,680 Speaker 3: And so he was because he was a personnel clerk, 1072 00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:10,480 Speaker 3: he was able to put himself in for all these 1073 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,839 Speaker 3: awards and so on and had them and so general 1074 00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:17,000 Speaker 3: you know, Richard Keller discovered him and basically told on 1075 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,319 Speaker 3: this guy and got him in trouble. But what's more 1076 00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 3: interesting about this this guy he's in the book. I 1077 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:22,920 Speaker 3: won't give his name out. He got to go by 1078 00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 3: the book if he want his name, but yes, yes, 1079 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:29,280 Speaker 3: he's Later he ends up at CGSC as a major. 1080 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 3: And then one of the other guys my dad served 1081 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,920 Speaker 3: with on that advisory team in Vietnam ends up at 1082 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 3: CGSC and runs into him, and it's like, how the 1083 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 3: hell are you a major when you were an E 1084 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:42,120 Speaker 3: four personnel clerk with all these fake ribbons and badges. Yeah, 1085 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:43,880 Speaker 3: and now you're a major, And so he told on 1086 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 3: him and ended up he had this guy. You know, 1087 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,120 Speaker 3: this was before computers and all this stuff, so he 1088 00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:51,000 Speaker 3: was able to fake a commission and end up at 1089 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:52,799 Speaker 3: CGSC and get away with it. So then he gets 1090 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:54,799 Speaker 3: kicked out of the army for this. And so then 1091 00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,879 Speaker 3: several years later this guy turns up on the cover 1092 00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 3: of Soldier of Fortune magazine as a mercer in Rhodesia, 1093 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,360 Speaker 3: presenting himself as a three time Vietnam veterans, you know, 1094 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 3: special Forces, everyone, arranger, all this other stuff, and he 1095 00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:09,000 Speaker 3: was all made up. 1096 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:12,120 Speaker 2: I know this, I know this story. I interviewed the 1097 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:16,400 Speaker 2: FBI agent that did the sting operation. Yeah, yeah, on 1098 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:20,200 Speaker 2: soft rep. He had a bar. This guy had a bar. 1099 00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,279 Speaker 2: Oh there's another person I'm going to say that did 1100 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 2: the same exact thing you're talking about. And the only 1101 00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 2: way it was found out was somebody had to like say, 1102 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 2: well the citation and the citation don't match up with 1103 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,680 Speaker 2: the date of the account. Something was just off, you know, 1104 00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:38,359 Speaker 2: and it was Otherwise it would have been scott free. 1105 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, he would have got away with it. Yeah, it's 1106 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,480 Speaker 3: all bunch of stole I mean, I myself was a 1107 00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,799 Speaker 3: commander caught a guy who stolen beler wearing a fake 1108 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,000 Speaker 3: tab and a couple of other things and got him kicked. 1109 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,759 Speaker 2: Out of the air. Oh that's real stolen valor. That's 1110 00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:50,000 Speaker 2: not the guy going to the thrift store buying a 1111 00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 2: jacket and going outside on the street and getting some 1112 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 2: food or something. That's not what you're talking about with 1113 00:49:56,680 --> 00:50:00,880 Speaker 2: intent with ye per premeditated. 1114 00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, that happens, Man, it happens. I would say it's common, 1115 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,080 Speaker 3: but I mean it happens. You know, everybody has an experience, 1116 00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:08,719 Speaker 3: I think with that. Anyway, all that stuff's in the book, 1117 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,799 Speaker 3: and it's oh yeah, you know, all kinds of things 1118 00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,040 Speaker 3: like that that I discovered, you know, in the research 1119 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,920 Speaker 3: of the book that really makes it I think interesting. 1120 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:19,320 Speaker 2: You know, I think you're really a cool dude, sir dude, 1121 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,319 Speaker 2: And uh, I. 1122 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:22,759 Speaker 3: Appreciate it, Thank you, Thank You're cool. 1123 00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,120 Speaker 2: Thank you very much. And you know I've had your 1124 00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,640 Speaker 2: time for just about an hour on this episode, and 1125 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,400 Speaker 2: and it's just been banter back and forth about you know, 1126 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 2: Born from War, and I hope it much success and 1127 00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,560 Speaker 2: just I hope it sells out. And if it hasn't already, 1128 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:40,919 Speaker 2: h when when is it out already? Am I saying it? Yeah? 1129 00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 3: It came out last week, April fifteenth, out now, and 1130 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:49,480 Speaker 3: it's on it's through Casemate Publishers. There are big military history, 1131 00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 3: military type books most people will. 1132 00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,239 Speaker 2: Know shout out to Casemates. 1133 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:57,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, all kinds of book, good books, so you know 1134 00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 3: they're they're probably the biggest in the industry as far 1135 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,319 Speaker 3: as that John both in the US and the UK, 1136 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,800 Speaker 3: so its available through them, but also, uh, you know, 1137 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:05,680 Speaker 3: any other books on a bookseller. You can think of 1138 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,320 Speaker 3: Barnes and Noble, Amazon, all types of different booksellers. And 1139 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 3: it's also an ebook as well, so you can get 1140 00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 3: get a that's your thing as well. 1141 00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,520 Speaker 2: Are you gonna voice it? Are you going to do 1142 00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,000 Speaker 2: an audible for it? You're gonna sit behind? 1143 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,319 Speaker 3: I think I think if it does well, I think 1144 00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 3: that's when they make that that that leap to that 1145 00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:22,879 Speaker 3: that audible book. But right now it's right now it's. 1146 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,239 Speaker 2: Not available as that, right, I mean, but like, are 1147 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:26,560 Speaker 2: you going to do the read? Oh? 1148 00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. 1149 00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:29,399 Speaker 2: I don't know. They have to say about that from 1150 00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,800 Speaker 2: your Don't you get to choose that choice, isn't it 1151 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 2: like you don't know? 1152 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:35,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I mean, you know, I've been 1153 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 3: a little bit, so I don't know how that would 1154 00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:37,480 Speaker 3: work out. 1155 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,560 Speaker 2: Oh, I think you'd be great. I think you'd be great. 1156 00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:41,600 Speaker 2: I think you'd be fine. You sound great. You know, 1157 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,320 Speaker 2: it'd be cool to hear it from you, you know. 1158 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:44,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's pretty cool. 1159 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's your account. 1160 00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know, Yeah, I hope it's I hope 1161 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:51,360 Speaker 3: people like the book. It's uh, I know, I definitely 1162 00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:52,880 Speaker 3: poured my heart into it. Took me about three and 1163 00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,279 Speaker 3: a half years, uh to write it from you know, 1164 00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,759 Speaker 3: putting actual keystroke to to word document. Sure, And like 1165 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:00,440 Speaker 3: I said, it's a whole. You know, it's got everything. 1166 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 3: It's got that larger strategic history piece if you like that. 1167 00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,600 Speaker 3: You know, it's got the human experience if you like that. 1168 00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,120 Speaker 3: It's got the societal piece across society as a whole, 1169 00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:11,600 Speaker 3: the intergenerational piece between two conflicts. It's got war stories 1170 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,040 Speaker 3: as well. So if that's your jam and you want 1171 00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:14,520 Speaker 3: to you want to read some war stories, it's got that. 1172 00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:16,279 Speaker 3: You know, It's got like everything in it, And so 1173 00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:18,920 Speaker 3: I hope it appeals, Like I said, to a broader audience. 1174 00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,280 Speaker 2: You could probably make a series out of every chapter. 1175 00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:22,359 Speaker 2: You could. 1176 00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,440 Speaker 3: That's what I tried to do. I tried to make 1177 00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:25,759 Speaker 3: it in a way I like to read books. Is 1178 00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:27,160 Speaker 3: I don't like really long chapters. 1179 00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like them. 1180 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:30,880 Speaker 3: Shorter chapters that kind of neatly wrap it up so 1181 00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 3: that when I want to go to sleep, I could 1182 00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 3: be like, Okay, yeah, I could put a pin in 1183 00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 3: there go to sleep. Otherwise, like people will leave you 1184 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,080 Speaker 3: hanging and you're like, oh my god, I gotta keep reading, 1185 00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:39,560 Speaker 3: and it's like, you know, four in the morning. So 1186 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:41,839 Speaker 3: I try to try not to do that as much. 1187 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 2: And if you want to know the rest of the chapters, 1188 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 2: I encourage you to go check out Born from War, 1189 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,920 Speaker 2: A Soldier's Quest to Understand Vietnam, Iraq and the Generational 1190 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:55,680 Speaker 2: Impact of Conflict, written by Patrick W. Notton Junior. And 1191 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,920 Speaker 2: you know, a selfless server to our nation. You've done 1192 00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:02,800 Speaker 2: a lot of oaths in your life, so thank you 1193 00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,000 Speaker 2: for holding on to those. I feel that from you, 1194 00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:09,040 Speaker 2: and I encourage everyone out there to find your book, 1195 00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,200 Speaker 2: get the e book, and if you do read his book, 1196 00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:16,080 Speaker 2: leave a review for his book wherever you bought it. 1197 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,560 Speaker 2: If you bought it on you know, the Big River website, 1198 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,759 Speaker 2: then you know, feel free to leave a review right 1199 00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,360 Speaker 2: there so that it can rise up and be picked 1200 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:25,960 Speaker 2: up even further. 1201 00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,360 Speaker 3: So I definitely appreciate that if anybody could do that. 1202 00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:30,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a big deal, and I know that. 1203 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:32,960 Speaker 2: And you know, the only other secret I would tell 1204 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:36,040 Speaker 2: you is as I look over my shoulders, if you 1205 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,480 Speaker 2: go to the airport, okay, and you want to see 1206 00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:40,719 Speaker 2: your book. This is a trick I heard from another 1207 00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,759 Speaker 2: very very very very very renowned author. I won't say 1208 00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,279 Speaker 2: his name, okay, but he said he always takes one 1209 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,160 Speaker 2: of his books with him and he'll just have him 1210 00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,120 Speaker 2: scan it if he doesn't see one of it already 1211 00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,760 Speaker 2: on the shelf at the airport. And what the UPC 1212 00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:58,040 Speaker 2: does is says, oh, last one, negative one out of 1213 00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:59,320 Speaker 2: stock reorder. 1214 00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:01,759 Speaker 3: I've never heard of that. 1215 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 2: I just let you know, okay, So if you have 1216 00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:05,560 Speaker 2: to carry one, you know, I'm not saying just set 1217 00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:08,120 Speaker 2: it up there, just try to buy it. Say hey, 1218 00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:09,840 Speaker 2: I'd like to buy this book, and just slide it 1219 00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:11,399 Speaker 2: there and let them scan it and they might charge 1220 00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:14,240 Speaker 2: you nineteen ninety nine, twenty one ninety nine. That cool. Thanks, 1221 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,080 Speaker 2: and just know that you get your book back and 1222 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:18,479 Speaker 2: they might have to restock your out of stock book. 1223 00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,480 Speaker 3: Oh man, I'm gonna try that. I've never heard of that. 1224 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:26,480 Speaker 2: That's a good TV right there, Thanks to good maybe mom. 1225 00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,160 Speaker 2: Actually I know who it was. He's the author. He's 1226 00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:31,960 Speaker 2: a good dude, so good. You know, I think i'd 1227 00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,319 Speaker 2: like to wind down our time. You're always welcome back 1228 00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,200 Speaker 2: on the show. We can talk anything you want to 1229 00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:39,719 Speaker 2: talk about, historic history wise, your own service wise, you know, 1230 00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 2: anything that's you know on your mind. We can talk 1231 00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:44,160 Speaker 2: more about your book, your new book that you're going 1232 00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:45,719 Speaker 2: to have coming out. I just want to say you 1233 00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,200 Speaker 2: have a welcome platform here at soft Rep Radio. And 1234 00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:50,440 Speaker 2: you know, you've been a really cool gem and a 1235 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,840 Speaker 2: cool lieutenant colonel to have on the show. Sir no. 1236 00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:55,879 Speaker 3: I appreciate that so much. And you know, I really 1237 00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,759 Speaker 3: enjoy enjoy Softwrep. I mean, you got your guys, your 1238 00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,200 Speaker 3: guys venues. It's really awesome. You know, I love reading 1239 00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,000 Speaker 3: reading your articles and the podcast, and you know, I'll 1240 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:05,960 Speaker 3: put a plug for you guys. Anybody out there who's 1241 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,399 Speaker 3: you know, kind of overwhelmed by the by the by 1242 00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,960 Speaker 3: the the media escape right now and you're trying to 1243 00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:12,640 Speaker 3: get to the truth. You know, you're looking at maybe 1244 00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,520 Speaker 3: left wing media, right wing media, and then you're you know, 1245 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,800 Speaker 3: come go to you guys for any type of national security, 1246 00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,239 Speaker 3: military type stuff. Yeah, that's really kind of a really 1247 00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 3: good place that I found that you can get really informed. 1248 00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:24,440 Speaker 2: Well, so I appreciate that. 1249 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:26,120 Speaker 3: That's off to y'all, and I appreciate you guys having 1250 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:26,320 Speaker 3: me on. 1251 00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:30,239 Speaker 2: Thanks Patrick, And with that said, on behalf of Brandon Web. 1252 00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,319 Speaker 2: I always got to shot him out right. Go check 1253 00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,160 Speaker 2: out his books as well. Uh, you can find those everywhere. 1254 00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 2: And to callum my producer, and to April who's on 1255 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:41,320 Speaker 2: the back end, and Chris who's out there, and Martin 1256 00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:43,960 Speaker 2: and we know you're chasing everybody out there to sponsor us, 1257 00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,960 Speaker 2: So thanks so much, bro. And if you are a 1258 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,680 Speaker 2: sponsor or, you want to advertise on Software where you 1259 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,759 Speaker 2: want to sponsor the show, reach out to us. We'll 1260 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,040 Speaker 2: bring you on board if you're if you've got what 1261 00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:55,200 Speaker 2: it takes, that's what it is. I'm gonna be real, 1262 00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:56,799 Speaker 2: you know, hit us up, let us know, we'll we'll 1263 00:55:56,920 --> 00:56:02,239 Speaker 2: vet you. So on behalf of Patrick Junior. My name 1264 00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:04,800 Speaker 2: is Rad and this is SOFTWAREP Radio saying peace. 1265 00:56:20,360 --> 00:56:22,800 Speaker 1: You've been listening to Self Rep Radio. 1266 00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:23,800 Speaker 2: H