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Speaker 1: Because when you went to summer camp, you could assume

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Speaker 3: It really makes you a people person Like you you

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Speaker 1: Let me see, working in retail makes talking to those

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Speaker 2: I believe that. I believe that Hey, Amanda, good morning.

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Speaker 6: It's it's easier to talk to people, and you kind

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Speaker 1: You're saying it gives you faith in people. It did

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Thank you, Jen, have a good day.

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Speaker 2: I just didn't. Hey, June, how you doing, k Brad,

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Speaker 6: A thirteen takes for taking my cap?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I made yeah take it away.

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Speaker 6: Both my kids. You a lot of caffeine already this morning.

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Speaker 2: God bless you.

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Speaker 6: I'm working on it.

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Speaker 6: I made both my kids going to service industry when

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Speaker 2: It is better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you you you got to do service

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Speaker 2: June, thank you for listening. Have a great day to

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Speaker 2: Thanks guy. I love you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you too. Look at all these people, man,

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