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Subject he's not used to the real thing. 11 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a fifty one year old married 12 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: woman and my husband is fifty three years old. We 13 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: got married in January after dating seven months. He said 14 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: he knew I was the one because I'm mature and 15 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: I'm financially stable. I knew he was the one because 16 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: he seemed to be settled and ready for a real woman. 17 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,919 Speaker 1: This is the first marriage for both of us, and 18 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: he admitted to dating much younger women in the past. 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: He also admitted to getting a BBL for one of 20 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: the girls he dated, and then she left him for 21 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: a man her age. He had been hurt a lot 22 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 1: in the past, and so had I. He wanted to 23 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: wait until marriage to have sex, but I wanted to 24 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: see what I was getting before I married him. I 25 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: respected his wishes and we had sex two days after 26 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: we got married because he got food poisoning the night 27 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: of our wedding. When we first had sex, I noticed 28 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 1: he put on a condom, but I didn't say anything. 29 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: For the second round, he put on a condom again. 30 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: He wears one every single time we are intimate. I 31 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: asked him why he's using protection with me, his wife, 32 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,839 Speaker 1: and he said he has to use them for staying power. 33 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: I didn't understand, so he had to break it down 34 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: for me. He's not used to the real thing because 35 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: he gets too excited by the real thing. This is 36 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: a problem for me because I don't want to go 37 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: through a process before we're intimate. I would prefer to 38 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: be spontaneous and wory free, he said. But I would 39 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: be disappointed if he doesn't wear them. But I'm disappointed 40 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: either way. Is there some sort of medication that can 41 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: help him? What I appear to be nagging him if 42 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 1: I keep asking him to go see a specialist for this, Well, 43 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: absolutely not. I mean, you know you're his wife. You 44 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: want certain things, and that's not nagging. You need to 45 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: ask him to find out what's going on. And he 46 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 1: is your husband and you do want to help him, right, 47 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: So suggesting that he go to a doctor or a 48 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 1: specialist to get some pills or whatever to help him, 49 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: there's definitely nothing wrong with that. It shows you really care. 50 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you should be glad that this man was 51 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: honest with you and told you what was really going 52 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: on with him. 53 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 2: That is rare. 54 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 1: That is rare to hear the actual truth. And at 55 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: least with the truth, you have a starting point. Maybe 56 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: his problem can be fixed. At fifty three, maybe it 57 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: can be fixed if you're planning on staying married. You 58 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: guys have got to find a way to take care 59 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: of this situation because you said you do not like condoms. 60 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: You want spontaneous sex. You want that, and he already 61 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: told you that without him, he's no good because he 62 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: gets too excited by the real thing. I say, make 63 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: a doctor's appointment immediately and go with him and find 64 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: out what's going on. 65 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 3: What's really going on? 66 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 4: Steve, Well, Shirley, I'll give you credit on this right here. 67 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 4: You stayed away from it because obviously you know. The 68 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 4: first of all, let me say this to everybody listening 69 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 4: to the standard. 70 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 2: This is not a rare thing. This is so not rare. 71 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 4: It has happened to every single living human being of 72 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 4: the male species. He is telling you the truth. Now, 73 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 4: you all didn't get half sex. You wanted to wait 74 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 4: until after you were married. You had sex two days 75 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 4: after you got married. Because he got food poisoning on 76 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 4: the wed night. He wanted to wait. He bought a 77 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 4: girl of BBL. I don't know what that had to 78 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,119 Speaker 4: do with it. He's dated younger girls. After she got 79 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 4: to BBL, she went on and got up man at 80 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 4: her age and that hurt him. And you know, because 81 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 4: I ain't no telling her how much he spent for 82 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 4: the BBL got it just like he liked it, and 83 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 4: then found out everybody else liked it too. H So 84 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 4: Otis went on and been out on the limb and 85 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 4: spent that money on Keisha. Now, Odetta, let me talk 86 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 4: to you y'all after y'all got married. Here's what the 87 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 4: problem is. I noticed he put on a condom, but 88 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 4: I ain't saying anything for the second round. He put 89 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 4: on a condom again. He wears one every single time 90 00:04:56,120 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 4: we are intimate. I asked him why he he's using 91 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 4: protection me his wife, and he said he has to 92 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 4: use them for staying power. 93 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:12,919 Speaker 2: Come on, come on, Shirley says, this is rare. No 94 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 2: it's not. Shirley said, you need to go to a doctor. 95 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 2: No you don't. 96 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 3: I said, it's rare that he told her the truth. 97 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,839 Speaker 2: That's what I heard what you said. 98 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was rare that he told her. You interrupted 99 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 3: my answer, but you mentioned my name in your caller. 100 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 4: Did I say anything when Shirley was talking. 101 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 2: I don't know why. 102 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 4: Okay, but I don't know why. When I get to 103 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 4: have my answer, all of a sudden you got information now. 104 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: Into it. 105 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:53,599 Speaker 4: And because what you said, you said Rath, you said, 106 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 4: he told the truth. 107 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 2: Listen to me. You said, this is Wrath. 108 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 3: Get it not this and Odetta. 109 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 2: It happens all the time we come back. 110 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you what you can do about this 111 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 4: problem you had. Please, I'm gonna tell her what she 112 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 4: can do about this problem he had, and then we 113 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 4: can get to stay. 114 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: And work though. 115 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 4: Right but I'm telling you right now what I have 116 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 4: the solution. 117 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: All right, doctor Harvey, we'll have part two of Steve's 118 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes. 119 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 2: For another show. You know I had just. 120 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 3: Now, Doctor Harry, I. 121 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,679 Speaker 2: Think damn it, Doctor Harvey is by time I think. 122 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: Got a nice ring to it makes sense to me. 123 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 4: The subject isn't medical advice for those people that don't 124 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 4: have money. 125 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 3: We'll get back to you. We'll get back to the 126 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 3: letter right after this. You're listening. 127 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: Morning show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's 128 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject is he's not used to the 129 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: real thing more. 130 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 4: Amus fifty one years old, married to a man three 131 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:08,599 Speaker 4: years old. They got married after dating seven months. He 132 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 4: said she knew he was the one, she said. She 133 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 4: says she knew he was the one. He said she 134 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 4: knew she was the one. He was usually dating younger 135 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 4: women before bought a girl to BBL. She ended up 136 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 4: leaving him for a man her age because after he 137 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 4: got what he wanted, found out everybody else wanted it too, 138 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 4: so he wanted to wait until he had till he 139 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 4: got married to have sex. But a little fast thing 140 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 4: Miss Frisky wanted to see what it was about, so 141 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 4: she knew what she was getting into before she got married. 142 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 2: But she waited. 143 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 4: They didn't have sex right away because he got food 144 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 4: poisoning on his wed at night, so they had sex 145 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 4: two days later. They were sitting to have sex, he 146 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 4: put on the condom. Then in round two he put 147 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 4: on the condom again. She says he uses protection every 148 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 4: single time they have sex. She asked him why he 149 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 4: was using protection with me, his wife, and he said 150 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 4: he was using it for staying power. Now we better 151 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 4: accept that because with all of his previous life and 152 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 4: him using protection, it could be protecting you. Now the 153 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 4: reason I think you need to go to the doctor. 154 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 4: So y'all both can get tested tested for any STDs. 155 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 4: That's what you need to get tested for before you 156 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 4: go out here with this unprotected sex. Because the first 157 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 4: two times you have sex with a person, now, the 158 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 4: fact that you his wife, don't stop, no information that 159 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 4: he might have and only knowing the man seven months, 160 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 4: you need to find out why he's really using protection. 161 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 4: It might be to save your life. It could be, 162 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 4: but he says it is for staying power. This is 163 00:08:56,320 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 4: a very very real thing, stay in power. The problem 164 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 4: is you think he can't handle the real thing. There's 165 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 4: a sensitivity with the real thing. Lord, have mercy, go 166 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 4: with me, protect me as I go down this area 167 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 4: that I've never gone down before. 168 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 2: On the radio, the real thing is real. 169 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 4: The real thing is real thing, got it has all 170 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 4: it has something on it. 171 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 2: I don't know what it is. 172 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 4: You're there, but we'll just call it the real thing. 173 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 4: We gonna just keep it. We gonna keep calling it 174 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 4: the real thing. The real thing is too real for most. 175 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: And the key word in the real is thing. 176 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 4: Ask what it is? Something about that thing? Whoa something 177 00:09:55,320 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 4: about that thing? A? I want that thing or that 178 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 4: thing or that thing. I'm not gonna use no words 179 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 4: that ain't in the title the title of his letters. 180 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: He's not used to the real thing? What is it 181 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 2: about the thing? Well? 182 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 4: Join it with me, deacon, as we preach this old 183 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 4: are here today? Yeah? 184 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 2: I need some church music, brother day. Yeah, if you 185 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 2: would uh come today to talk about a subject you 186 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 2: with me? Deacon? I went your past? 187 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 4: Uh? The subject today is is he not used to 188 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 4: the real thing? He not used to the real thing? 189 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 4: Key word thing thang thang t a A n G. Yes, 190 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 4: Why is he not used to the real thing? Our 191 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 4: writer says, he must you was a condom Every time 192 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 4: we have sick. I asked him why, He said it 193 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 4: is for staying power. Saw ain't that the truth? How 194 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 4: many times have you talked so much smack ragged about 195 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 4: this and that? 196 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 2: But what you was gonna do with it? Yeah? 197 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 4: Long you could stay with it? Say how you just 198 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 4: gonna sprink it? Rock slipping all of that, and then 199 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 4: the moment of truth came. You didn't know that that 200 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 4: real thing had that thing on it. 201 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 2: Okay, you got a hold of that real thing. And 202 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 2: what you didn't know about that real thing was that 203 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 2: real thing. He had a whole lot of real on it. 204 00:11:55,000 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 4: Get real everywhere year when it is is, it's just real. 205 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 4: I can't add no adjectives. I want to say something 206 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 4: about the texture. I I want to say something about them, 207 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 4: but I'm not a doubt. All I'm gonna do is 208 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 4: just call it that real thing, man, get it. In 209 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 4: all of a sudden, you ain't what you said. You 210 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 4: was that real thing and got a hold of you. 211 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 4: You ain't got hold of the real thing. The real thing' 212 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 4: even got hold of you. Yeah, next thing you know, 213 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 4: it's over. 214 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 2: You didn't you didn't you don't, Just o, lord, it ain't. 215 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 4: Asking no time now you over there laying on your 216 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 4: back looking at the ceiling wondering what the hell happened 217 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:47,199 Speaker 4: to you. 218 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 2: You should have added on a condom so you could 219 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: have power letter and. 220 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: Facebook and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the tree. 221 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 3: iHeart radio app. 222 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 2: Talking about you need to know. 223 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: It ain't get some coming up with forty six minutes 224 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 1: after be got in sports talk right after. 225 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 3: This, you're listening. 226 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: Morning show. 227 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 3: It is time nowt for junior and sports talk. Junior 228 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 3: take it away. 229 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 2: We ain't got to. 230 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 4: Do sports if you don't want to pay back to 231 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 4: sermon from the strop head that because I wasn't through. 232 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 2: And sports is old. 233 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 4: But we know who won Game seven with no city 234 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 4: that we live in. 235 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 2: It ain't no city. 236 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 4: We ain't em on the radio in Indianapolis. We ain't 237 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 4: even on the radio in Boston. We show ain't on 238 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 4: the radio wedding Timberwood. Please were on the radio in Dallas. 239 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 4: That's why I say, come on, Mavericks. But oh, let's 240 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 4: get back to the sermon. Uh he not used to 241 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 4: the real thing. Where you're at deacon where my deacon? 242 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah right, pay attention. 243 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 4: Yeah ah, this man when he finally gets up to 244 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 4: the plate and the bases is loaded, and he'll come 245 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 4: to pitch. 246 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 2: Yeh, he sway and he hit it. He ain't gonna 247 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 2: go far. 248 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 4: He might have well burnt the ball because he ain't 249 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 4: gonna make it the first base because he ain't got 250 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 4: no stamina. He ain't got no stay in power. You 251 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 4: ain't finishing no old run because that real thing, what 252 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 4: is it, Degan, real thing? You got the hair stamina. 253 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 4: You can't just run up in the here like you 254 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 4: want to. You can't just do like you want to, 255 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 4: because that real thing got something that comes with it a. 256 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 2: Exactly what it is. 257 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 4: But it's something about that real thing that makes you 258 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 4: blood on top of your head off. 259 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 2: You can't see good. 260 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 4: I roll in the back of your head, a hair 261 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 4: raised up on the back of your neck. 262 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 2: Both your legs cramp. 263 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 4: You're pulling armstrings and quad and muscles pull spread out. 264 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: His starting to spasle. 265 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 4: You don't know what's going on because you at messed 266 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 4: up and got a hold to the real thing. 267 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: And now you. 268 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 4: Ain't got no He ain't got no what Deacon stammini. 269 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 4: You got to have stamina, stay in power. That's the 270 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 4: most powerful thing ever invented on the mankind. 271 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: Is that real thing. 272 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 4: And you got to get yourself some help because this 273 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 4: woman don't want that condo. You got to buy something. 274 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 4: It shut all the feeling down. 275 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: You need some ps Hall or something like that. You 276 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 2: gotta get some. 277 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 4: You gotta put some Tompson's water coat on yourself. You 278 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 4: gotta get a protection lady in there because you. 279 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 2: All of that real thing. 280 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 4: That real thing gonna get a hold of you because 281 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 4: you ain't got no what diggon stamm. 282 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 3: Amen. 283 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 2: Amen. 284 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, a woman 285 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: on social media needs some advice from Steve about sharing 286 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 1: financial responsibilities. 287 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 3: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening 288 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: Morning Show