Speaker 1: Good.
Speaker 2: All right, break it down.
Speaker 3: If you ever have feelings that you just fons, Amy
Speaker 3: and Cat got your cob and locking no brother ladies
Speaker 3: and peons, do you just follow an the spirit where
Speaker 3: it's all the fus front over real stuff, tell the
Speaker 3: chill stuff and the m but Swayne, sometimes the best
Speaker 3: thing you can do it Jill, stop you feel things.
Speaker 3: This is feeling things.
Speaker 1: With Amy and Cat.
Speaker 2: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm
Speaker 2: Cat and I'm ready to just get to the feelings
Speaker 2: because I know that you have a bone to pick
Speaker 2: with me, and I don't know what the bone is,
Speaker 2: but I just want to get through the feelings. And
Speaker 2: I don't know if that has to do with your
Speaker 2: feeling or what. But let's go.
Speaker 1: Okay, lego, Okay. So I will say this is a
Speaker 1: little taste of your own medicine. Okay, Okay, from when
Speaker 1: you told me that we needed to discuss something and
Speaker 1: then left me on red and I was freaking out
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 2: Right, I just sent you a text because I needed
Speaker 2: to talk about something, but it was really not a
Speaker 2: big deal.
Speaker 1: Well neither is this, Okay, Okay, Well, I will say
Speaker 1: my feeling of the day I have two, I feel
Speaker 1: very grateful and that's because of all of the like
Speaker 1: comments and messages and emails we got after I announced
Speaker 1: my pregnancy where they were so sweet and I was
Speaker 1: texting you and I was like, the people that are like,
Speaker 1: I don't even know you and I'm crying. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: was so sweet and that meant a lot. So that's
Speaker 1: my grateful I am going to use the feeling in
Speaker 1: because I'm not I'm intrigued. I'm intrigued, and this is
Speaker 1: my bone to pick with you. Okay, we have been
Speaker 1: talking about the past couple weeks or so Love is Blind,
Speaker 1: and I have been suggesting shows for you to watch,
Speaker 1: such as Traders, and you have been very anti both
Speaker 1: of these shows, right, and then I open Instagram and
Speaker 1: I see that you are watching Age of Attraction. Yes,
Speaker 1: so how did we get there? Because from my person
Speaker 1: effective Age of Attraction I could not even click on that.
Speaker 1: It gave me the ick. It is felt so cringe. Okay,
Speaker 1: So if you are so uninterested in these wonderful shows
Speaker 1: such as Strainers and Love was Blind, what got you
Speaker 1: interested in Age of Attraction? Well?
Speaker 2: I was sucked in through an Instagram click. Actually, of
Speaker 2: this woman and a man, but he's way younger, so
Speaker 2: a boy, but that feels weird. He he's a young man,
Speaker 2: a young man in his late twenties and a woman
Speaker 2: in her late fifty or mid fifties.
Speaker 1: Think I got the same video.
Speaker 2: So I got this video and they weren't telling us
Speaker 2: the age of these people. They were just showing that
Speaker 2: they were having a connection. And it was like, well,
Speaker 2: how does she and how does he? So then I
Speaker 2: got sucked in because I needed to know. I needed
Speaker 2: to know the age difference. And so the only way
Speaker 2: for me to find out is to watch.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, and for people who don't know what we're
Speaker 1: talking about, Age of Attraction is a dating show on Netflix,
Speaker 1: and from my understanding, it's you just date a bunch
Speaker 1: of people you don't know what their ages are, and
Speaker 1: at the end you tell tell you so.
Speaker 2: They bring everybody together and you have to do like
Speaker 2: these little speed dates or go on these types of dates.
Speaker 2: Only one rule, you cannot discuss your age.
Speaker 1: But like I think part of my thing was like
Speaker 1: you have to know they're like.
Speaker 2: Right, it's kind of obvious, right, yeah. Yeah, Well, so
Speaker 2: that one particular couple that I'm talking about, like I
Speaker 2: won't say their names or who they are, so it's
Speaker 2: not like a really spoiling anything. It's been all over
Speaker 2: the internet. But he ended up being older than her son,
Speaker 2: than her oldest son, Like that would be weird if
Speaker 2: I was her son younger.
Speaker 1: How did I say it older?
Speaker 2: He ended up being older than her oldest son? Maybe
Speaker 2: I said youngest son.
Speaker 1: That's not that's good, that's not you want. You want
Speaker 1: the boyfriend to be older than the kids. Okay, So
Speaker 1: was I younger than her kids? Okay? Maybe maybe you're right?
Speaker 1: I get it now. I was like, am I hearing
Speaker 1: this wrong? Or what's going on? Is this the trunk?
Speaker 1: That's normal? But okay, you're right, you're right, you're right.
Speaker 2: Fine, we'll make them the same age, even though, yeah,
Speaker 2: that's weird. They're they're a year apart or something. I
Speaker 2: can't remember obviously if he's older or younger, but they're
Speaker 2: only a year apart. It reminds me of when my dad,
Speaker 2: his fourth wife, my brother brought a girlfriend to dinner
Speaker 2: and my brother's girlfriend was older than my dad's wife.
Speaker 2: Now that makes sense.
Speaker 1: Right, yes, But was his girlfriend a lot older than no?
Speaker 2: Not a lot.
Speaker 1: Your dad's wife was a lot younger.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it would have made more sense for my
Speaker 2: brother to be dating my dad's wife.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 1: Wow's there? Wait, So do these people stay together after
Speaker 1: they find out that they don't know?
Speaker 2: I don't know, and I'm not going to be that
Speaker 2: invested in the whole thing. Don't like pick too many
Speaker 2: bones with me about this, because it's not like I'm
Speaker 2: obsessed with the show or anything, Like I don't know
Speaker 2: if there's season two that I'll watch the finale tomorrow,
Speaker 2: the finales tomorrow.
Speaker 1: But you watched all the episodes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had it on the back, you know how
Speaker 2: I watched shows like that, Like I was doing things
Speaker 2: those computer like walking in and out. But I watched
Speaker 2: it enough. But it's interesting because Netflix normally rolls things
Speaker 2: out all at once, but this has been in That's
Speaker 2: how they did Love Is Blind, where it was like, oh,
Speaker 2: three episodes, than two, then two, than one, then one
Speaker 2: the night whatever.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I will say that I think it's must be.
Speaker 1: On TikTok they're posting Netflix is posting videos of the
Speaker 1: age reveals, so they're kind of giving spoilers. Yeah, on TikTok,
Speaker 1: so I will say this.
Speaker 2: Shannon looked it up this particular couple. She he's fifty
Speaker 2: four and he's twenty seven, and he's two years younger
Speaker 2: than her oldest son, So that makes sense he's younger. Like,
Speaker 2: so if he's twenty seven, she has a son that's
Speaker 2: twenty nine. And I don't know why that was confusing
Speaker 2: me to say I was really doubling down too.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, it's like, am I crazy? I don't know,
Speaker 1: y'all are like he should be older this show? Also,
Speaker 1: did you feel weird about it at any point?
Speaker 2: No, everybody's they're all adults.
Speaker 1: And they surely have to be on Are they on
Speaker 1: there to find lover? They're on there to become Instagram influencers.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, this guy was a software salesman and she's
Speaker 2: a stylist.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe she wanted more clients and so she went
Speaker 1: on this Netflix show. Well if your parents went on
Speaker 1: this show, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe it could be fun, maybe not.
Speaker 1: You could get a new friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say if it was reversed and like
Speaker 2: the fifty four year old was a man and the
Speaker 2: twenty seven year old was a girl, i'd be way
Speaker 2: more creeped out.
Speaker 1: Yes, well that does I think that happened too, right.
Speaker 2: Sure, but this was the couple that got me to
Speaker 2: watch the show. Okay, like, this is the couple that
Speaker 2: you know. I don't know if it was reversed, i'd
Speaker 2: been like, yuck, I'm not watching, but instead I was
Speaker 2: like intrigued.
Speaker 1: I wonder if any couple has got together that were
Speaker 1: like normal.
Speaker 2: There are two that I watched. They seemed relatively the
Speaker 2: same age. She was definitely younger than him, but not
Speaker 2: by much, like thirty years. It wasn't anything crazy or yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, well I just need to talk about that because
Speaker 1: I was a little offended that you were too good
Speaker 1: for my shows, and then you were watching.
Speaker 2: This right now. Well, I am feeling affirmed. And since
Speaker 2: I'm struggling with making sense today, this may not make
Speaker 2: sense at all, but I feel like it's it's affirmation
Speaker 2: but a little bit of the place oh effect. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 2: let me explain it to you and then you tell me. Okay,
Speaker 2: so I was at pilates and they were like you,
Speaker 2: good job, Amy, and you know what's my love language? Exactly?
Speaker 2: So if I get affirmed during class. What do you
Speaker 2: think that does for me?
Speaker 1: I'm doing a good job. I'm gonna work harder, Like
Speaker 1: I guess I'm a star plates princess. I'm gonna work.
Speaker 1: I'm coming back tomorrow.
Speaker 2: Watch you thought my form was good there, watch it now.
Speaker 2: So then we move on to a different move and
Speaker 2: they're like yeah, okay, yes, oh that's it Amy, And
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I got it again. Then throughout class,
Speaker 2: I mean there was three or four times where I
Speaker 2: got called out. Well, then you know, they give you
Speaker 2: wipes at the end of class, sous you wipe your
Speaker 2: bed down and then over by the trash can you
Speaker 2: throw away the wipe. Well, normally always on top of
Speaker 2: the trash can. Normally always that's I think that's okay,
Speaker 2: normally always, I think it's contradicting.
Speaker 1: I didn't get any red flags.
Speaker 2: Normally they have this sheet of the all the beds
Speaker 2: and whose name is on each bed, so that the
Speaker 2: instructor knows. So probably so they can call people out
Speaker 2: and be like, good job Amy, nice form, Amy, ooh
Speaker 2: looking good Amy. Guess how many Amy's were in my class?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: No, three, three Amy's, So who knows when they were
Speaker 2: actually shouting me out.
Speaker 1: They should say like Ayby right or Amy? Yeah, but
Speaker 1: they know they left it at Amy. Wait, that's funny,
Speaker 1: So that instructors trobably like, yes, I can only have
Speaker 1: to think about one name.
Speaker 2: Right, If I say Amy, I've nailed you know most
Speaker 2: of the class. Yeah, there's fourteen beds total, three of
Speaker 2: them are Amy. So I was really feeling good. So
Speaker 2: what's crazy is well, I say placebo is because some
Speaker 2: of those weren't even for me. But yet I felt.
Speaker 1: Did you have the urge to walk up to the
Speaker 1: instructor and say like, so when you said good job,
Speaker 1: it was me right? Definitely? I think she would have
Speaker 1: been like yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2: And then when I left they would say something about
Speaker 2: me being a weirdo.
Speaker 1: But so, do you want some insider baseball on fitness instructors?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because Kat used to teach spin class.
Speaker 1: Tell me so I taught? Yeah, I taught spin and
Speaker 1: we had I had on my computer. I could see
Speaker 1: the all all the people in their names, and sometimes
Speaker 1: I would just open up that tab on my computer
Speaker 1: because I also would play my music off my computer
Speaker 1: and just call people's names out. But I didn't know
Speaker 1: who they were because it's nice. It is really nice
Speaker 1: and motivating to hear your name regardless, however, I will
Speaker 1: say sometimes I would do that, but when you know them,
Speaker 1: I would say good job, and I would mean it
Speaker 1: most of the time.
Speaker 2: Don't ruin this for me. I need to be affirmed
Speaker 2: in class, does it?
Speaker 1: But I think this is goes to like the placebo.
Speaker 2: Of it, like you're right, I'm not gonna know, but
Speaker 2: now I'm gonna know.
Speaker 1: Oh, she's probably just saying the name like to motivate
Speaker 1: you though.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's I like being told I'm doing good job
Speaker 2: and it being like I earned this. Yeah, like nice
Speaker 2: form amy good technique.
Speaker 1: But I think if you say nice form, you need
Speaker 1: to be I wouldn't say nice form to somebody if
Speaker 1: I wasn't looking at them, because what if they're like
Speaker 1: sitting down, okay time.
Speaker 2: I feel like at my studio.
Speaker 1: They take it seriously. I feel like, well, like I'm
Speaker 1: picturing you a spin class.
Speaker 2: It's like dark.
Speaker 1: You can't always see everybody, you know. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: would again, I would only say nice form or something
Speaker 1: specific like that if I could see them. But I
Speaker 1: might say, like, I don't know, keep it up or
Speaker 1: something like that. When it's dark and I can't see.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it's never fully dark in there. And I've
Speaker 2: never gotten to like just blanket like keep it up, Amy,
Speaker 2: keep it up, Cindy.
Speaker 1: Like I get my keep an actual, like I like
Speaker 1: the lunch with your right leg Amy.
Speaker 2: Very good, like good extension.
Speaker 1: Amy. Did you do you know that instructor? Uh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I mean would define no, like I've taken
Speaker 2: her class multiple times.
Speaker 1: Like you stay high like she probably yea, yeah.
Speaker 2: Like some I see more than others. Like I was
Speaker 2: leaving the other day and one of my favorite instructors,
Speaker 2: her name is Nicole. She was like, oh, great job, Amy,
Speaker 2: per usual, and I was like per usual. I was like,
Speaker 2: she thinks I did good. I wish it was like
Speaker 2: that's my usual, that's my sometimes always.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well, I'm glad that it felt good, no
Speaker 1: matter it felt good, no matter what. It just made
Speaker 1: me think.
Speaker 2: Like there was something that Bobby said on the The
Speaker 2: Bobby Bone Show the other day, some article I'm paraphrasing,
Speaker 2: don't have the scientific research with me at all whatsoever,
Speaker 2: but that obviously we know about the placebo effect, but
Speaker 2: sometimes even just taking a candy or sugar pill or
Speaker 2: something before bed and acting as if it's some magic
Speaker 2: pill that's going to help you sleep, will help you sleep. Really,
Speaker 2: I'm like, I gotta start trying that, Like I got
Speaker 2: to pop a skittle and be like.
Speaker 1: Yes, I will say when you're this is for me,
Speaker 1: and I feel like this is somewhat universal. When you're
Speaker 1: working out in a class like that and somebody says
Speaker 1: your name, it's coming to my mind, is like you're
Speaker 1: feeling seen in that space and like they know you
Speaker 1: and you feel special. That is like a I don't know,
Speaker 1: a feeling that you can't make up somewhere like it's
Speaker 1: what's the the term I'm looking for When it doesn't
Speaker 1: when you can't buy it with money.
Speaker 2: M tangible Nope, No, when its priceless, Oh.
Speaker 1: That's like a priceless feeling when you're like, oh, they
Speaker 1: know me here and they care about me here and
Speaker 1: they see me here versus like you go to a
Speaker 1: workout class like a I don't know, this is how
Speaker 1: I felt in like big places like a soul cycle
Speaker 1: or something, when there's like seven I have people in
Speaker 1: the class, you feel like just like one of the
Speaker 1: I don't know millions and they don't really care if
Speaker 1: you're there, so it's very important. I'm glad that your
Speaker 1: intructor was calling out names. Yeah, well, because a big
Speaker 1: part of it.
Speaker 2: Where I go, they've generally been great at that. I
Speaker 2: really feel like it's why I decided to sign up
Speaker 2: even after the first time I went. You know, Kat
Speaker 2: called me a Pilates princess a minute ago, because when
Speaker 2: I first signed up at this place after my first class,
Speaker 2: and they do this with every first time visitor. After
Speaker 2: you get done, you go to your locker and open up,
Speaker 2: and they have put a card inside that says congratulations
Speaker 2: zero Pilates Princess, like you did great, good job.
Speaker 1: And there's little stickers and you just feel special.
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, fine, all by a year.
Speaker 1: When even if they do that to every single new person,
Speaker 1: it still means that they care about every single new
Speaker 1: person that comes in the door, versus like, oh, who
Speaker 1: cares if they come back or not, Like we're fine.
Speaker 1: So I like your studio and I've never been been there.
Speaker 1: Love that. Love it.
Speaker 2: Speaking of other things that I love that, you were
Speaker 2: talking about how you got some nice messages from people
Speaker 2: and notes. We have some voicemails and I love them
Speaker 2: and they're for you. I'm nervous, so this is a
Speaker 2: little gift to you and the baby. Okay, from our listeners,
Speaker 2: we have a voicemail from Linda. Some people say where
Speaker 2: they're calling from. I don't know where Linda's calling from.
Speaker 2: Just picture Linda in the world.
Speaker 1: Can I picture her like in Australias maybe.
Speaker 2: Because you know we're international, Yeah we are, okay, so,
Speaker 2: but I don't think she has an accent.
Speaker 1: But here's Linda.
Speaker 5: Cats having a baby, Cat having a baby.
Speaker 1: Yay, congrattul My friends just listening to the podcast and
Speaker 1: that was so exciting. I'm so happy for you.
Speaker 2: Love the show.
Speaker 1: That's sweet. That was so okay to take your time
Speaker 1: out to send that message and this is going to
Speaker 1: make me cry. Yeah, is that your goal?
Speaker 2: Well, I think you're gonna love this next one. Okay,
Speaker 2: this is from Kylie and she's in Alabama.
Speaker 4: Okay, Hello, my name's Kylie. There is an Alabama and
Speaker 4: I am feeling super excited because Kat and I are
Speaker 4: pregnant at like the same time. Because as of right now,
Speaker 4: twelve weeks pregnant, my baby is the size of a lime.
Speaker 1: Have the day you need to have lives and that
Speaker 1: means now her baby's the size of a lemon. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because last week you were alive and this week I'm
Speaker 1: a lemon, which my app said because it gives you
Speaker 1: like different categories, and the fruit category, I'm a lemon.
Speaker 1: But then it also said it was the size of
Speaker 1: a Pokemon card. And then it also said it was
Speaker 1: the size of a baby carrot, and a baby carrot
Speaker 1: and a lemon are very different.
Speaker 2: Very very different.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, is it this big or is it
Speaker 1: this big? Isn't that crazy? Yeah, I need a new
Speaker 1: app baby.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. That is really weird.
Speaker 2: We need more details about that for sure.
Speaker 1: So well, I'm gonna go with lemon.
Speaker 2: We'll go with lemon, especially since we went with the
Speaker 2: line last week, so we'll just go on.
Speaker 1: That would mean a got smaller if it's now a
Speaker 1: baby carrot.
Speaker 2: We have other voicemails, but you can't play them all.
Speaker 2: So I've got this one from Amber in Iowa.
Speaker 5: Hey, Amy and kat I just finished today's episode and
Speaker 5: number one, Yes, I know Puma, absolutely love with him
Speaker 5: and his crew. I didn't know the name of the
Speaker 5: thing though. I'm really bad at that number two? Can
Speaker 5: you continue doing check ins with Kat? I'm so excited
Speaker 5: for you. Congratulations, excited to watch you become a mom.
Speaker 5: Here you become a mom both. I don't know, but
Speaker 5: it's fun and I think Amy has perfect questions since
Speaker 5: she's never experienced that. And I also have never experienced it,
Speaker 5: though I wanted it when I was younger, but I
Speaker 5: dealt with the fact that I'm not happening for me. Anyways, Yeah,
Speaker 5: those are fun check ins for as much as Kat
Speaker 5: is willing to share, it's fun to hear you go
Speaker 5: through it. So anyways, have a good day, have the
Speaker 5: day you need to have. This is Scamber from Iowa. Thanks.
Speaker 2: So we've got to create little check ins that we
Speaker 2: can do periodically, like like okay, you know, time for
Speaker 2: the baby check in?
Speaker 1: We cat okay, but remember we were told that our
Speaker 1: singing was annoying.
Speaker 2: We can get our I can get a jingle for
Speaker 2: it or something like we can get an official jingle like.
Speaker 1: Time for the baby check in with cat Okay. That
Speaker 1: one's actually kind of cute.
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like I could do that live every time.
Speaker 2: It's quick too, like do do it's time for the
Speaker 2: baby check in with cat. Okay, yeah, so the check
Speaker 2: in today is that.
Speaker 1: Lemon or a baby lemon?
Speaker 2: Are there any other things you're experiencing because I have
Speaker 2: something I could bring up if you're not ready or prepared.
Speaker 1: It's about you though, my legging your gee. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm in the stage where I I'm not like showing,
Speaker 1: but I am showing, if you know what I mean. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't have a baby bump, but my stomach has expanded,
Speaker 1: so my clothes don't really fit and I'm just in
Speaker 1: this weird in between. My jeans sometimes feel too tight,
Speaker 1: even though some of them I can sew a button.
Speaker 1: So I bought I've never bought something from Hilara before.
Speaker 1: Have you seen that on? You get the ads? We
Speaker 1: all get the ads, right, I don't know what you're
Speaker 1: talking about. You don't get Hailara ads on your TikTok.
Speaker 2: Is it for maternity clothing?
Speaker 1: No, It's like, no, these aren't even maternity jeans. These
Speaker 1: are normal people jeans that are just really stretchy. They
Speaker 1: do like active wear. And I've never bought anything.
Speaker 2: Well, now that you're saying it, I'm sure I'll get
Speaker 2: the ads.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're welcome. Yeah, but they are literally leggings. They're
Speaker 1: so stretching. You saw how far I stretched them. They
Speaker 1: look like like jeans and they're the cut of them.
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times jeggings, like jean
Speaker 1: leggings don't actually have the like shape of jeans, but
Speaker 1: they do and I love them and they'll I think
Speaker 1: they'll stretch with me for a while. So great purchase.
Speaker 1: They're very cute, really good about them.
Speaker 2: Your shirt is cute? Is your where's your shirt?
Speaker 1: From Old Navy? New Recent? I actually got this when
Speaker 1: I was doing my egg retrieval because I when you
Speaker 1: do the egg retrieval, your stomach looks pregnant because your
Speaker 1: ovaries are so what's the word swollens? Well, I guess so.
Speaker 1: So I needed really baggy clothes, so I got a
Speaker 1: bunch of these.
Speaker 2: Don't ask for me for words earlier. You're looking at
Speaker 2: the word priceless, and I was like frugal, Like I
Speaker 2: don't know what I said, but it couldn't. It was
Speaker 2: like never near the right word what you were looking for. Oh, tangible,
Speaker 2: You're like, what's the word, And.
Speaker 1: I'm like, tangible money? You can't buy it with money? Tangible,
Speaker 1: which you can't.
Speaker 2: Buy it with money, because I was looking at it
Speaker 2: like because like something you can't touch. Yeah, yeah, it's
Speaker 2: like you tried whatever I tried. So now you're like,
Speaker 2: what's the word. I'm like, I don't know. I'm assuming
Speaker 2: your ovaries are inflamed, woolen, enlarged.
Speaker 1: I guess enlarged. Why can't I think of the word
Speaker 1: that they would use, juicy? The word juicy. I looked
Speaker 1: more pregnant in the ten days of my egg retrieval
Speaker 1: than I do now. It was crazy. That is crazy,
Speaker 1: So shout out to anybody who's going through that, because
Speaker 1: it is a I mean, that's a mind gang with
Speaker 1: your body image. So also, I do believe Old Navy
Speaker 1: is doing a half off cell right now.
Speaker 2: Well, I might go on there and look for that
Speaker 2: shirt because I love.
Speaker 1: The green boyfriend cut Oxford is what it was.
Speaker 2: What looks great with your stretchy jeans? I thought literally
Speaker 2: they were maternity, but you're saying they're just for anybody.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, anybody. Because I hear that maternity jeans are
Speaker 1: people don't like them, that a lot of people are
Speaker 1: just wearing lower cut jeans, which I don't know if
Speaker 1: I want to do that. Oh.
Speaker 2: I saw a girl that's in at our track meet
Speaker 2: the other night and she.
Speaker 1: Was full belly out, like little teeny tiny tank top.
Speaker 2: With these low rise drawstring pants and her like she
Speaker 2: must have been eight or nine months along, like.
Speaker 1: Giving birth any day.
Speaker 2: And it was interesting. I didn't have anything wrong, you know,
Speaker 2: but there was You're like, I don't know that I
Speaker 2: would do it. I don't think I could do that.
Speaker 2: She looked adorable. I didn't know I could do it.
Speaker 2: And then yeah, I feel that way.
Speaker 1: That's like the style now that people like their bump
Speaker 1: is an accessory, and I think it is so cute
Speaker 1: when I see people, because I get a lot of
Speaker 1: tiktoks now that are about maternity style and I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: those outfits are so cute, but I'm not wearing a
Speaker 1: crop top with my belly out to work, right. I
Speaker 1: can't do that. I just am more I think modest
Speaker 1: than that. And I'm not at the point now or
Speaker 1: that I could do that anyway, because I don't have
Speaker 1: the bump, but it is. It's the thing. It's like
Speaker 1: instead of a necklace, you have your baby.
Speaker 2: Bump, you know, sure, sure, yeah's your accessory.
Speaker 1: It's what was that rule you have to have like
Speaker 1: seven things?
Speaker 2: Yeah, the rule of seven.
Speaker 1: The bump is one of the things.
Speaker 2: Earrings, purse, jacket, hat, scarf.
Speaker 1: Bell, Yeah, baby bum baby bom So.
Speaker 2: Shannon has confirmed Old Navy is having a STU right
Speaker 2: now fifty off online and in store, but only till
Speaker 2: March twenty fifth, so like one day. If you're listening
Speaker 2: to this on Tuesday, you cant until tomorrow and then, yes,
Speaker 2: your ovaries were inflamed, she confirmed online.
Speaker 1: That is what it is. That's the official There's a
Speaker 1: word that they used though, but I'm thinking.
Speaker 2: Enlarged, enlarge, inflamed.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of the word because they were
Speaker 1: the Maybe it's stimulated because they're stimulating your follicles so
Speaker 1: all of so, then they want them to be a
Speaker 1: certain size and once they get to a be a
Speaker 1: certain size, then you have the retrieval and they go
Speaker 1: and then they suck them out.
Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense. Which also shout out Amber for
Speaker 2: knowing Puma.
Speaker 1: Yeah crazy love that. Wait, that means she's seen the
Speaker 1: videos of Puma since she knows him Apple Gay or
Speaker 1: Apple whatever the landscaping company is that he works for yeah,
Speaker 1: because they're TikTok and Instagram famous, like they obviously have
Speaker 1: a following because they make fun videos while they're at work.
Speaker 1: And Puma, he's just so cute.
Speaker 2: I swear to you, if I see him, I will
Speaker 2: be like Puma and I'm like what And Ambery knows
Speaker 2: Puma too.
Speaker 1: So cool.
Speaker 2: This is something that came up in my therapy session
Speaker 2: the other day, and then I saw shrink Chicks post
Speaker 2: about knowing if you can trust yourself, like if you're
Speaker 2: feeling like you can't, or maybe you once could and
Speaker 2: you feel like you've lost trust in yourself. They shared
Speaker 2: a long list of small ways you can build that
Speaker 2: trust back, but I pulled five of my favorite from
Speaker 2: the list and then put my own little twist on
Speaker 2: them after something that came up in therapy, because my
Speaker 2: therapist was challenging me with something I could do to
Speaker 2: support myself a little bit in that moment, Like what's
Speaker 2: one little thing you can do to support yourself? So
Speaker 2: that might be, for example, like going on a walk,
Speaker 2: like can you get up if I'm feeling in a
Speaker 2: certain way. She was also celebrating and acknowledging that my
Speaker 2: window of not my window of tolerance, but my window
Speaker 2: of let's say I go off the rails and do
Speaker 2: a behavior that like isn't in alignment with who I
Speaker 2: want to be now, but it's like, oh, I thought
Speaker 2: I evolved from that, right, Like why am I having
Speaker 2: this thought? Or why did I have that behavior? Or
Speaker 2: why did I do that? Or why did I snap
Speaker 2: or what you know, like why was that my reaction
Speaker 2: or why did I react and not take time to respond?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 2: But I recover more quickly, and so she said that
Speaker 2: my window of recovery is getting smaller, which is great.
Speaker 2: She's like, that's what we want in therapy, Like we
Speaker 2: want you to have that awareness and then you come
Speaker 2: back to self.
Speaker 1: Because we're going to mess up more quickly.
Speaker 2: Right. She was like, have grace. You're human, doesn't mean
Speaker 2: you're gonna always okay. Now that you've decided this is
Speaker 2: who you are and how you're going to be that,
Speaker 2: you just that's the path you stay on. And I
Speaker 2: told her that I had a moment, but I self
Speaker 2: corrected faster than like ever before, and she was like, oh,
Speaker 2: let's celebrate that because your window of recovery is becoming
Speaker 2: more narrow, which is what we want because some days
Speaker 2: sometimes like who knows, you may not even be aware
Speaker 2: of how you acted or what you did for like
Speaker 2: a week or a month, or you may stay in
Speaker 2: it because you did it. You might be like, oh well,
Speaker 2: and you may stay in that behavior for or that
Speaker 2: slump or whatever you want to call it, for a week,
Speaker 2: a month, or however long when if you want a
Speaker 2: course correct anyway, So we were celebrating that, and then
Speaker 2: I was just like, well, now I feel like I've
Speaker 2: lost a little bit of trust in myself, and how
Speaker 2: do I know I can take care of myself. She's like, well,
Speaker 2: that's one example, but she's like, what are some little
Speaker 2: things you can do for yourself that will support you
Speaker 2: in those moments if you're having some of those thoughts,
Speaker 2: since she was like going outside, getting fresh air, practicing whimsy,
Speaker 2: like when we've wanted to be more playful. Do I
Speaker 2: need to take a nap? Do I need to eat something?
Speaker 2: Do I need to drink something water? Probably not like
Speaker 2: drinking something else. So then it reminded me of something
Speaker 2: that the shrink chicks put up, and it's pretty much,
Speaker 2: if you're not sure you can trust yourself anymore, these
Speaker 2: are some ways that you can, and that was one
Speaker 2: of them. To ask yourself what would feel just a
Speaker 2: little more supportive right now? Just small shifts like that
Speaker 2: are more than you think. What would be one for you?
Speaker 2: If like you were feeling off, like, what something you
Speaker 2: know you could go do for yourself that might feel
Speaker 2: supportive to you in the moment.
Speaker 1: The first thing that I came to mind was take
Speaker 1: a shower. But you can't always do that, I know, so.
Speaker 2: Do not underestimate washing your hair too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, today was a hair wash day. I felt really good.
Speaker 1: But when I can't do that, well, I can't go
Speaker 1: cause I like that reset. I'll do like an ice
Speaker 1: roller that feels like soothing, you know, or I mean
Speaker 1: drinking a cold glass of water. Yeah, something that feels like, yeah,
Speaker 1: soothing and good to you.
Speaker 2: One of the examples from Shrink Chicks was stop rushing
Speaker 2: yourself back to fine, because sometimes we want to. Even
Speaker 2: though I was celebrating that, I course corrected more quickly.
Speaker 2: I probably need to give myself space because sometimes that
Speaker 2: might not always be the case. Or if I'm in
Speaker 2: a rut or grieving something like, oh I need to
Speaker 2: feel better by this point. You don't need to necessarily
Speaker 2: rush that we need to trust that we're going at
Speaker 2: the pace that is good for us. Another thing was
Speaker 2: paying attention to what your body is telling you, Like
Speaker 2: if you're tired, hungry, tents, all of those things are
Speaker 2: signals your body's communicating something to you. So start listening
Speaker 2: and paying attention and then acting on it and be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: I ate and I felt better, so I can trust myself.
Speaker 2: Or I drink water, I felt better.
Speaker 1: I took a nap and then I felt better like that, So.
Speaker 2: For my naps, can't go too long. I don't I'm
Speaker 2: not a big napper anyways, but if I nap, If
Speaker 2: I do nap and it's too long of a nap,
Speaker 2: then it's a problem. But there's like a sweet spot
Speaker 2: for me. It's gotta be less than thirty minutes. Why
Speaker 2: how long are your naps?
Speaker 1: Well, that's a cat nap. This is also not really
Speaker 1: fair because I just went through tremester one of pregnancy
Speaker 1: and I was taking like two hour naps every day.
Speaker 1: That is not normal for me. So I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think a good nap is like forty five minutes
Speaker 1: to an hour. Really yeah, interesting, By the time if
Speaker 1: at thirty minutes, like I've just fallen asleep in them.
Speaker 2: Back up, listen, don't ask me. I'm not really that
Speaker 2: big of an napper. Give yourself permission to change your
Speaker 2: mind is another thing, because changing your mind is evolving.
Speaker 2: That's wisdom. Don't beat yourself up for it. You're allowed
Speaker 2: to change your mind.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's something that gets people twisted in
Speaker 1: trusting themselves when they're like, well, I now believe this,
Speaker 1: or I now know this, or I now would do this,
Speaker 1: and so then they're like, how do I even know
Speaker 1: that's right because I used to think this. That's not fair.
Speaker 1: It's like you said, it's natural to evolve, and as
Speaker 1: we gain more wisdom, we allow ourselves to change our minds.
Speaker 1: That should build more trust, knowing that I'm flexible when
Speaker 1: I gain more information, versus I can't trust myself because
Speaker 1: I once thought this thing.
Speaker 2: I feel like online isn't necessarily making it easy for
Speaker 2: some people to change their mind. Like if someone opens
Speaker 2: up and is sharing like, oh I was wrong about this.
Speaker 2: There's so many comments and these are trolls, so you
Speaker 2: should not listen to them anyways, but it's hard to
Speaker 2: ignore when someone's like trying to publicly say hey, I
Speaker 2: know da da da da, but now I'm thinking da
Speaker 2: da da da da, instead of being like, oh cool,
Speaker 2: like way to evolve and do some critical thinking and whatever,
Speaker 2: instead of saying, well, you were part of this problem
Speaker 2: to begin with, soh yeah, now you know it's like, wait,
Speaker 2: that's not very good.
Speaker 1: Celebrate welcoming to it's it's all yeah, it's like is
Speaker 1: that our job to hold them accountable for those things?
Speaker 2: Or yeah no, and then it's so then it's difficult
Speaker 2: for them to be like, oh, well, I guess I'm
Speaker 2: not allowed to change my mind, which you are. Give
Speaker 2: yourself permission to change your mind. And then the final
Speaker 2: thing is follow through on one small thing you promised
Speaker 2: yourself each day. So this doesn't have to be anything crazy.
Speaker 2: It can be something manageable, you know, Like I mentioned water.
Speaker 2: It could be like, okay, I want to drink six
Speaker 2: cups of water today. Follow through on that for yourself,
Speaker 2: and then you'd be like, okay, I can trust myself.
Speaker 2: Or I want to go to bed tonight at nine
Speaker 2: thirty pm. We'll get in bed at nine to twenty,
Speaker 2: so that you're you know, yeah, do little things to
Speaker 2: show yourself.
Speaker 1: You mean what you say. Yeah, I think what happens
Speaker 1: a lot of times when people want to make a
Speaker 1: change is they want to make all the changes at
Speaker 1: once because you're motivated. But that's not possible. So then
Speaker 1: that backfires because you're not going to do all of
Speaker 1: that stuff, and so then it's like, well, never change
Speaker 1: versus like you're saying. If I start with, like this week,
Speaker 1: I'm going to go to bed at nine pm three times,
Speaker 1: Like you can do that, but you can't go to
Speaker 1: bed at nine pm every night, drink seventeen glasses of water,
Speaker 1: cook all your meals at home, make sure that your
Speaker 1: gas has car your car has gas in it before
Speaker 1: it's time to leave to go somewhere, do all your laundry.
Speaker 1: Like you can't do all of that stuff. This that
Speaker 1: if you're going to change it at once, it's going
Speaker 1: to gobody calming that. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Have I told you my gas thing that I'm doing
Speaker 2: my little reward? Yes, I feel like I talked about it,
Speaker 2: but now I can't remember what it wants.
Speaker 1: You would love it?
Speaker 4: What is it?
Speaker 1: You don't remember? Try to guess.
Speaker 2: Okay, I give myself picture me at a gas station.
Speaker 2: If you're getting myself a treat.
Speaker 1: If you fill up your gas before you get three
Speaker 1: quarters a quarter a quarter, then you can get a
Speaker 1: diet coke. Yes, okay, yeah, I did it. You did
Speaker 1: it from from the fountain.
Speaker 2: No, I just get a bottle or bottle or can.
Speaker 1: The bottle is the worst kind of diet.
Speaker 2: I don't know that I trust the ice at the fountain.
Speaker 1: Huh. But that's I've never been worried about that.
Speaker 2: I mean, but I mean I'll go to a restaurant
Speaker 2: and get it from the same thing.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe not the health code standards, they'd be different,
Speaker 1: well not standards, but I bet that like Chick fil
Speaker 1: A has a higher health code score than your local
Speaker 1: Xon the gas station.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, but I just go in and
Speaker 2: get Yeah, either a tall boy can or the screwtop.
Speaker 1: I like the screwtop because that'll last.
Speaker 2: Me a few days because I can put the lid
Speaker 2: back on and you don't keep it in my fridge.
Speaker 1: But you don't go home and pour it into a
Speaker 1: cup with ice. No, I'll just take a few SIPs
Speaker 1: in the car.
Speaker 2: It's I get I get your It's not the same
Speaker 2: fountain thrown through all the way fountain, diet coke, can,
Speaker 2: diet coke, then bottle.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're right. If you have a can, you
Speaker 1: have to drink it all then.
Speaker 2: Right, you can't if you've got the bottle. So anyway,
Speaker 2: that's if.
Speaker 1: You are trying to mess with your reward, that's really great.
Speaker 2: Second, if you struggle with getting gas, because I am
Speaker 2: a get gas when my car says refuel immediately. So
Speaker 2: my car goes you know empty or like close to
Speaker 2: getting empty, and then it'll send me a message on
Speaker 2: the dashboard that says please refuel, and then it will
Speaker 2: go refuel immediately. And that's normally when I get gas.
Speaker 2: But as of the last six months or so, I
Speaker 2: have been going and if I get there and I
Speaker 2: still have a quarter of tank left, I get my
Speaker 2: diet coke treat.
Speaker 1: Have you ever ran out of gas on the road? Yes, recently. No.
Speaker 1: Was this a teenage thing? Yes, okay, that's appropriate, but.
Speaker 2: I mean I've been close, yeah, and it's not. People
Speaker 2: always love to send messages because when I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm on it, please refuel, I'm like, oh, Instagram, like,
Speaker 2: I don't know why that's.
Speaker 1: Something daredevil at me. I'm so edgy I don't know.
Speaker 2: That's why that's one of my most viral videos ever
Speaker 2: has to do with the guest tank.
Speaker 1: I think it has over eleven million views. Well that's
Speaker 1: like kind of rage bait. Don't you think why when
Speaker 1: you post a picture and you're like have negative that
Speaker 1: gets people riled up?
Speaker 2: Well? I did like a video where I did like
Speaker 2: I married my video up with another girl's video from TikTok.
Speaker 2: I can't remember her name, but I gave her credit
Speaker 2: in the video. It wasn't like just like oh, but
Speaker 2: I pulled her video like she says. She said in
Speaker 2: her video, do you know why I keep my gas
Speaker 2: tank on e? And she's like, because if anybody gets
Speaker 2: in my car and you know, puts a gun in
Speaker 2: my head and is like just drive, She's like, where
Speaker 2: am I gonna drive besides the gas station so that
Speaker 2: I can get out of my car and run, you know.
Speaker 2: And so I did a little like stitch video with
Speaker 2: her where I was like, anytime I'm nearing empty, I
Speaker 2: think of this woman. And then I played her clip
Speaker 2: because it's like, do I really want to get gas?
Speaker 2: Because what if I get taken? And then I'm like, well, sorry,
Speaker 2: we're going to need to go to the gas station.
Speaker 1: Having gas in your car essentially could end your life exactly.
Speaker 2: They could get they could drive all the way to
Speaker 2: the country rural parts.
Speaker 1: Yes, and then you're really then you're in the middle
Speaker 1: of nowhere.
Speaker 2: I think about that a lot when I'm in the land,
Speaker 2: like if I'm somewhere, like if i'm ever well, if
Speaker 2: I'm driving where there's lots of land, or looking at
Speaker 2: homes that have lots of land. To die here, No,
Speaker 2: I don't think I could die. I think are there
Speaker 2: bodies there?
Speaker 1: We wouldn't know.
Speaker 2: And then you know, I don't know if this is
Speaker 2: on your algorithm, but a lot of bunker stuff is
Speaker 2: showing up on my algorithm. I don't know if this
Speaker 2: is on your algorithm, but a lot of bunker stuff
Speaker 2: is showing up on my algorithm. Of people who built underground.
Speaker 1: Bunkers, we very different.
Speaker 2: And I strongly believe anybody that is building an underground
Speaker 2: bunker needs a background check. Why because now you're telling
Speaker 2: me you have this very discreete oh container under in
Speaker 2: your backyard that has like this hidden trap door you
Speaker 2: could hide with all these living amenities where they could
Speaker 2: totally live like life down there, like you could be
Speaker 2: hiding somebody.
Speaker 1: That's fair. I was thinking, I need to find a
Speaker 1: friend that has a bunker just in case. Yeah, same,
Speaker 1: I don't know anybody. I also are the people that
Speaker 1: are doing bunkers are they kind of trying to keep
Speaker 1: that on the deal because.
Speaker 2: If they need them, some aren't because I mean, but if.
Speaker 1: They need it, they don't want people to know because
Speaker 1: they don't want them all up in their.
Speaker 2: Showing up, Like, hey, I know you have a bunker.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like one more mouth to feed more
Speaker 1: person just in the cot mm hmm.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't have this on my algorithm though.
Speaker 2: Really is it?
Speaker 1: I wonder is it because you're watching Paradise?
Speaker 2: I got intrigued because this one bunker guy popped up
Speaker 2: my feed.
Speaker 1: Who's built them?
Speaker 2: For all the billionaires like Zuckerberg and everybody else?
Speaker 1: Okay, that brings up a whole other I don't know
Speaker 1: why I got so.
Speaker 2: You had a visceral reaction, Yes for you, sweating cat,
Speaker 2: just how my palms.
Speaker 1: Are getting Ah wait, bit for some reason, billionaire and
Speaker 1: bunker freaks me out because they already get away with
Speaker 1: so much stuff because they have billions of dollars. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that I'm like, they don't get to have a bunker
Speaker 1: because they could be doing If somebody's going to do
Speaker 1: something with a bunker, I feel like it's going to
Speaker 1: be that. That's very judgmental, and I acknowledge that and
Speaker 1: I will work on that. And that is how I
Speaker 1: feel right now.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if this is true or not,
Speaker 2: because again it was just in my algorithm, but there
Speaker 2: apparently is some secret Paradise esque type bunker situation that
Speaker 2: all the wealthy people have. I'm not talking about Zuckerberg.
Speaker 2: I'm talking about just maybe not billionaires, but maybe they're
Speaker 2: multi multi millionaires and there's this community of where they
Speaker 2: will know but as should they need to. They bought
Speaker 2: in and it exists somewhere in America. Yeah, like a
Speaker 2: prestigious club that you can get into hold your slot.
Speaker 2: I mean, ronal, what a racket be Like, Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: to all these people with money, you just act like
Speaker 2: you have this Like.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 2: Let's hope so because they're whyse with their money? Obviously,
Speaker 2: most people that wealthy don't just have the wealth because
Speaker 2: they're well, unless buying bunkers sight unseen.
Speaker 1: Unless they've just been gifted that money through you know, inheritance. Yeah,
Speaker 1: which they could still be wise with their money. But okay,
Speaker 1: is that on your algorithm that you're seeing that because
Speaker 1: I didn't. I've never heard this, Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 2: That's why I'm true. Also Switzerland, I believe I talked
Speaker 2: about this on the Bobby Bone Show. I think they
Speaker 2: have a shelter for everyone in their population.
Speaker 1: Well how big is your population?
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know exactly, but still to have something
Speaker 2: and then some and they have extra space, but it's required,
Speaker 2: like they have somewhere safe for everybody to go shelter
Speaker 2: bunker types underground yeah or in the Yeah, in the ground,
Speaker 2: under the.
Speaker 1: Ground, it's the difference. No, in the ground, not underground.
Speaker 1: So here it is.
Speaker 2: Switzerland has a vast network of nuclear hardened shelters and
Speaker 2: bunkers capable of housing its entire population of over nine
Speaker 2: million people.
Speaker 1: What's the population of United States?
Speaker 2: Way more than that. Shenon's going to look it up.
Speaker 1: Should we move to Switzerland?
Speaker 2: I'm thinking maybe we should, just cause they seem happy neutral. Yeah,
Speaker 2: they're like it's what they're them for being neutral and positive.
Speaker 2: I mean they have a plus sign on their flat.
Speaker 1: What what's the cuisine of Switzerland? That would be a
Speaker 1: we have in the US.
Speaker 2: We have three hundred and forty two million.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a little different, so yeah, crazy, Okay, So
Speaker 1: I'll I would consider Switzerland, but I don't like, I
Speaker 1: don't think like I want to go on vacation there
Speaker 1: to try their food because what is their food? Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna look that up. Okay, what is it like? Well,
Speaker 1: Shannon's looking up a Swiss cuisine? Cuisine?
Speaker 2: Do they have Swiss cheese?
Speaker 1: Like Swiss cheese? But I do? Is that a pretzel?
Speaker 1: I know that's like a German thing, But is that
Speaker 1: just like a soft pretzel?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Or like a leaner schnitzel. You just wanted to say
Speaker 1: that I did.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Well Shannon already found it, so we'll do
Speaker 2: the other thing in a second. But popular Swiss cuisine
Speaker 2: is by hearty Alpine influenced dishes featuring generous amounts of cheese, potatoes,
Speaker 2: and bread.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can do that, Yeah, I can do it.
Speaker 1: I'll move, let's go. I had two more bunkers.
Speaker 2: We're going population nine million plus two more? Oh wait
Speaker 2: and cat and you're having a baby, so I have.
Speaker 1: To bring my husband. Yeah, I can't take the baby.
Speaker 1: That's kidnapping. If you take it away from the father.
Speaker 2: Well he can come too.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Is speaking of other ways of being? I came across
Speaker 2: four Victorian inspired phase phrases for dealing with men, and
Speaker 2: these just made me laugh. Okay, did you watch Bridgerton? No?
Speaker 2: You know, I love Gilded Age and I didn't.
Speaker 1: Watch any of those like Olden Days shows. And I
Speaker 1: don't know why. Part of it is I have a
Speaker 1: hard time understanding what they're saying.
Speaker 2: Really well, I'm speaking ill because it's not really You're done,
Speaker 2: That is not what I mean. I just feel like,
Speaker 2: really because it's not like it's some crazy accent that's
Speaker 2: like or you could just put the subtitles one like
Speaker 2: what the Help.
Speaker 1: I never have tried. I just remember watching the what
Speaker 1: was it The Crown? The Crown, and that was hard
Speaker 1: to follow for me. Right, You're like, yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is just formal Okay, speaking Victorian, you
Speaker 2: know proper. So if your man is talking to you
Speaker 2: in a condescending way, this is what you can say
Speaker 2: to him. You appear most committed to the sound of
Speaker 2: your own voice.
Speaker 1: Isn't that cute? Yeah, I'll say that to past, but
Speaker 1: you just say it with it you like an English accent.
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's like proper.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But okay, you appear most committed to the sound of
Speaker 2: your own voice.
Speaker 1: You know what I've been looking up because I'm watching
Speaker 1: a show that is we have to have the subtitle song.
Speaker 1: It's broad Church. It's in England, I'm pretty sure. And
Speaker 1: you can't like some of the some of the words,
Speaker 1: we don't have that word like, they're just they the
Speaker 1: way they say things are, It's just everything is either
Speaker 1: cuter or sweeter or like meaner. Like maybe because it's
Speaker 1: not my language, but I'm envious of it.
Speaker 2: Do you know the happiest language this is just from
Speaker 2: the Dome. Don't quote me because maybe research has changed.
Speaker 2: I guess yeah.
Speaker 1: Australian.
Speaker 2: No, No, that's English, Spanish, Ah, it's like the happiest,
Speaker 2: like you.
Speaker 1: Know, yeah, And the angriest I feel like would be
Speaker 1: German yeah, or Russian.
Speaker 2: Freaks me out, maybe because those places are both freaky.
Speaker 1: I wonder I feel like German the way they have
Speaker 1: to talk, they have to be so like direct. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the words you have to say them so like.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay. When your man is defensive, your fragility
Speaker 2: is most revealing.
Speaker 1: I feel like that might make him more defensive.
Speaker 2: When he won't apologize, accountability appears beyond your current capacity.
Speaker 2: Now I feel like it turned into a Southern Bell.
Speaker 2: Accountability appears to be beyond your current capacity.
Speaker 1: You're good that.
Speaker 2: Who was the girl from White Lotus? What would she say?
Speaker 2: What would she say?
Speaker 1: I love talking to I never even watched that, but
Speaker 1: I knew that. And there's another thing she would say?
Speaker 1: Was the named Parker Posy. I think that's the actress.
Speaker 1: Oh that's not her name in the show.
Speaker 2: I think it's her real name. And she was fabulous
Speaker 2: as that character. Sounam me the final one when you're
Speaker 2: done dealing with his Oh wait, hold on, I have
Speaker 2: another one for when he won't apologize. Sorry, there's two options.
Speaker 2: This conversation has reached its natural demise.
Speaker 1: That sounds like a robot. This conversation has reached its
Speaker 1: natural demise. I've start of lost my victory self implowed.
Speaker 2: I sort of lost my Victorian era when I mixed
Speaker 2: with Southern Bell. This conversation has reached its natural demise. Okay,
Speaker 2: when you're done dealing with his bs. I have two
Speaker 2: options for you. I take my leave of this foolishness.
Speaker 2: You may continue alone.
Speaker 1: That's a good one. You may you may continue and
Speaker 1: that still sounds to me like a robot. You may
Speaker 1: continue alone. Goodbye, You may continue alone.
Speaker 2: Mandarin, Chinese, German, Arabic, Russian, and Korean are frequently cited
Speaker 2: as sounding the most aggressive when they really they could
Speaker 2: be saying something so sweet and nice, but it just
Speaker 2: sounds a little more.
Speaker 1: I like listening to people.
Speaker 2: Spanish, Yeah, yeah, they have more like sas caliente riba.
Speaker 2: I wish I had really paid more attention in Spanish.
Speaker 2: Spanish was ranked number one, followed by Portuguese, English, Indonesia
Speaker 2: and French. Oh if I could speak French. I've never
Speaker 2: even been to Paris, but I want to go there
Speaker 2: and have a croissant.
Speaker 1: I feel like French is not my favorite language. It
Speaker 1: feels yeah. Italian, I feel like it was very very pretty.
Speaker 2: Give me some Italian because I can't, like, I.
Speaker 1: Can't go that's it.
Speaker 6: Pam balonese, pasta prima vera, oh madn okay okay, okay,
Speaker 6: But yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: Know, like I can't say a sentence. I know a
Speaker 1: couple of words, and I know a curse word, and
Speaker 1: that's about it. You can say a curse word, which
Speaker 1: one well, I don't know if it's an actual Well,
Speaker 1: now I'm blanking on it. It's something my grandma always says.
Speaker 1: I don't know that it's it's what I don't Never
Speaker 1: heard that vava culo, but I don't know if it
Speaker 1: was like a sla. My grandma also taught me this word,
Speaker 1: and now I can't remember what it was, but it
Speaker 1: meant you look It's something you'd say if you look
Speaker 1: like a mess. And the translation is you look like
Speaker 1: a cat sprayed across the wall, splattered on the wall,
Speaker 1: A cat splattered on the wall. That was like the
Speaker 1: English translation. But it meant like you look like a mess.
Speaker 1: But I can't I don't. That's not helpful because I
Speaker 1: don't remember what it is.
Speaker 5: Sorry.
Speaker 2: I remember when I went to Africa, if they wanted
Speaker 2: to compliment your outfit, they would say you.
Speaker 1: Looked smart, ooh thank you smart. Smart.
Speaker 2: That means I get think.
Speaker 1: Was that that was a word or they thought that
Speaker 1: smart man.
Speaker 2: That's how they said, like, oh beautiful, it was smart
Speaker 2: or like you look nice, smart, but I don't know
Speaker 2: that wasn't what did they speak in Kenya?
Speaker 1: It's like, do you want to know a fun fact
Speaker 1: about Italian that I learned when we went I think
Speaker 1: it was two and.
Speaker 2: That's duh, duh tangible. So I don't know that my
Speaker 2: brain is working this episode, so I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: That's okay, that makes it better.
Speaker 2: It's priceless.
Speaker 1: So when Italian, you learn Italian. Just because you learn
Speaker 1: Italian doesn't mean you can go to Italy and speak
Speaker 1: Italian everywhere, because every single like little city or like
Speaker 1: suburb or whatever has a different die dialect. And so
Speaker 1: when we were in Cortona, we went and did this
Speaker 1: cooking class and we were talking to the people that
Speaker 1: live there and she was like, if you go one
Speaker 1: town over, I might I have. That's why Italians talk
Speaker 1: with their hands so much, because the word that I
Speaker 1: might use for road might be a different word that
Speaker 1: they use for road. So we talk with our hands
Speaker 1: to explain things so we can understand each other. So
Speaker 1: learning Italian in high school or if you take an
Speaker 1: Italian class doesn't mean that you're going to be understood
Speaker 1: in certain areas or that you'll understand right certain areas.
Speaker 1: And I thought that was so interesting because English is here.
Speaker 1: It's just English. I mean there might be like slang words, but.
Speaker 2: I mean we would say like pop coke soda pop.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we would all understand that, like highway road free.
Speaker 2: Some people say freeway.
Speaker 1: But we understand what that. If somebody were to come
Speaker 1: and say freeway, we would understand what that.
Speaker 4: Matt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I also talked with my hands a lot.
Speaker 1: Are you talking? Well, maybe it's just part.
Speaker 2: Of my No. I believe I'm Irish, which didn't end
Speaker 2: up on a friendly or a aggressive list.
Speaker 1: The language, Well, don't don't Irish people speak English Ireland?
Speaker 1: I think they speak English. I mean I could be wrong.
Speaker 2: But that their their accent is very different.
Speaker 1: Yes, oh oh oh, can you do an Irish accent?
Speaker 2: I just did?
Speaker 1: I did?
Speaker 2: I said Ireland Ireland from they.
Speaker 1: Say like day and bar the perk or the gurden
Speaker 1: the garden instead of I've watched a video trying to
Speaker 1: learn the accent of Irish because I feel like that's
Speaker 1: such a fun accent that in Australian, but it's so hard,
Speaker 1: and it was something about like instead of a ar
Speaker 1: it's like e er so that they say, would you
Speaker 1: like to go to the perk or the gurden?
Speaker 2: Yeah, the of the gurden? Okay, well, but yes, be
Speaker 2: talking like this. I don't know if I'm bither at
Speaker 2: this because my sister and I did it so much
Speaker 2: growing up when we would say, oh, sister, I don't know,
Speaker 2: do you know where father is?
Speaker 1: Like, we talked like this all the Time's natural.
Speaker 2: We'd like, go order our food in public this way.
Speaker 1: People were like, uh, somebody calls some help, right, I
Speaker 1: thought of the curse word, so.
Speaker 2: Well, if it's in another language, it's fine.
Speaker 1: It's fun goal, which means I think the F word.
Speaker 2: Hmm.
Speaker 1: So my grandma could say that, and it's not like
Speaker 1: she was cussing because I didn't know what I met. Right,
Speaker 1: The more you know, I could be wrong though, so
Speaker 1: fact check me or don't or just let me live.
Speaker 1: Just in the live your life, speak how you want,
Speaker 1: do your thing?
Speaker 2: Okay, well, good, perk of the gurden.
Speaker 1: Try to say something else. With the Irish accent. It's
Speaker 1: very to say do you want.
Speaker 2: Lucky?
Speaker 5: Erm?
Speaker 1: Wait, what is it the slogan they're after my They're
Speaker 1: after me lucky terms there after me lucky terms.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I guess that's all I got to say.
Speaker 1: Do you want to go to lunch? Do you want lunch?
Speaker 1: All I have in my head is do you want
Speaker 1: to go at the lunch? And now now I sound
Speaker 1: like Dracula. Think about do you want to go at
Speaker 1: the lunch? Think about how hard it is for actors.
Speaker 2: I don't know how they do it. How did they
Speaker 2: do It's like a gift. Yeah, obviously one we don't have,
Speaker 2: like people that can sing or dance. Like impressions are
Speaker 2: some people are so good impressions. I mean, yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 2: Like sometimes my algorithm will get on impressions of people
Speaker 2: just impersonating different people. There's this one girl that does
Speaker 2: a Claar Danes impression that is just so spot on.
Speaker 1: That's such a random impression too.
Speaker 2: Like the other day I thought it literally was Claire
Speaker 2: Danes and then I was like, oh no, no, this
Speaker 2: is that girl that impersonates her.
Speaker 1: That's crazy.
Speaker 2: And then this one guy was doing Obama but it
Speaker 2: was like a white guy, so you knew it wasn't
Speaker 2: Obama obviously, but it was perfect.
Speaker 1: Wow, you almost could pass as him if.
Speaker 2: My eyes were closed, right, But even his facial expressions,
Speaker 2: look in the pauses like it wasn't just the words,
Speaker 2: it was like the pause and the like it was
Speaker 2: everything was perfect.
Speaker 1: And like Eddie on.
Speaker 2: The Bobby Bone Show, he can do really good impressions
Speaker 2: of like Luke Bryan.
Speaker 1: Isn't that just like contracts though?
Speaker 2: No, he really sounds like Luke and then it's not
Speaker 2: just like oh Brian, like he really sounds like him,
Speaker 2: and then or like Disney characters and stuff like he
Speaker 2: can like goofy people can sound like those characters. It's crazy.
Speaker 2: I don't have that gift. Trying to figure out my gift.
Speaker 1: Honest. I was gonna say that could be something you
Speaker 1: learn and like improv.
Speaker 2: No, I don't know. I think it's like it's again,
Speaker 2: I couldn't learn how to sing it improv.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you might learn how to do impressions. I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 2: I think the only one I have is Russian Russian ceister.
Speaker 1: That's like mediocre at best. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, well there you go.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's fun. Okay. Well, we hope wherever you are
Speaker 1: that you have the day you need to have. Bye bye,