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Speaker 1: Good.

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Speaker 2: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 3: If you ever have feelings that you just fons, Amy

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Speaker 3: and Cat got your cob and locking no brother ladies

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Speaker 3: and peons, do you just follow an the spirit where

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Speaker 3: it's all the fus front over real stuff, tell the

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Speaker 3: chill stuff and the m but Swayne, sometimes the best

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Speaker 3: thing you can do it Jill, stop you feel things.

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Speaker 3: This is feeling things.

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Speaker 1: With Amy and Cat.

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Speaker 2: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm

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Speaker 2: Cat and I'm ready to just get to the feelings

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Speaker 2: because I know that you have a bone to pick

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Speaker 2: with me, and I don't know what the bone is,

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Speaker 2: but I just want to get through the feelings. And

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that has to do with your

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Speaker 2: feeling or what. But let's go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, lego, Okay. So I will say this is a

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Speaker 1: little taste of your own medicine. Okay, Okay, from when

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Speaker 1: you told me that we needed to discuss something and

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Speaker 1: then left me on red and I was freaking out

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 2: Right, I just sent you a text because I needed

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Speaker 2: to talk about something, but it was really not a

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Speaker 2: big deal.

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Speaker 1: Well neither is this, Okay, Okay, Well, I will say

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Speaker 1: my feeling of the day I have two, I feel

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Speaker 1: very grateful and that's because of all of the like

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Speaker 1: comments and messages and emails we got after I announced

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Speaker 1: my pregnancy where they were so sweet and I was

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Speaker 1: texting you and I was like, the people that are like,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know you and I'm crying. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: was so sweet and that meant a lot. So that's

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Speaker 1: my grateful I am going to use the feeling in

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Speaker 1: because I'm not I'm intrigued. I'm intrigued, and this is

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Speaker 1: my bone to pick with you. Okay, we have been

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Speaker 1: talking about the past couple weeks or so Love is Blind,

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Speaker 1: and I have been suggesting shows for you to watch,

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Speaker 1: such as Traders, and you have been very anti both

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Speaker 1: of these shows, right, and then I open Instagram and

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Speaker 1: I see that you are watching Age of Attraction. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so how did we get there? Because from my person

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Speaker 1: effective Age of Attraction I could not even click on that.

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Speaker 1: It gave me the ick. It is felt so cringe. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So if you are so uninterested in these wonderful shows

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Speaker 1: such as Strainers and Love was Blind, what got you

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Speaker 1: interested in Age of Attraction? Well?

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Speaker 2: I was sucked in through an Instagram click. Actually, of

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Speaker 2: this woman and a man, but he's way younger, so

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Speaker 2: a boy, but that feels weird. He he's a young man,

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Speaker 2: a young man in his late twenties and a woman

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Speaker 1: Think I got the same video.

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Speaker 2: So I got this video and they weren't telling us

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Speaker 2: the age of these people. They were just showing that

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Speaker 2: they were having a connection. And it was like, well,

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Speaker 2: to know the age difference. And so the only way

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, and for people who don't know what we're

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Speaker 1: talking about, Age of Attraction is a dating show on Netflix,

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Speaker 1: and from my understanding, it's you just date a bunch

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Speaker 2: They bring everybody together and you have to do like

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Speaker 2: Only one rule, you cannot discuss your age.

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Speaker 2: Right, it's kind of obvious, right, yeah. Yeah, Well, so

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Speaker 2: not like a really spoiling anything. It's been all over

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Speaker 2: the internet. But he ended up being older than her son,

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Speaker 1: How did I say it older?

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Speaker 2: He ended up being older than her oldest son? Maybe

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Speaker 1: I get it now. I was like, am I hearing

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Speaker 1: That's normal? But okay, you're right, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 2: that's weird. They're they're a year apart or something. I

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Speaker 2: can't remember obviously if he's older or younger, but they're

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Speaker 2: only a year apart. It reminds me of when my dad,

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Speaker 2: his fourth wife, my brother brought a girlfriend to dinner

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Speaker 2: and my brother's girlfriend was older than my dad's wife.

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Speaker 1: Right, yes, But was his girlfriend a lot older than no?

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Speaker 1: Your dad's wife was a lot younger.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like it would have made more sense for my

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Speaker 1: Wow's there? Wait, So do these people stay together after

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Speaker 2: I don't know, and I'm not going to be that

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Speaker 2: invested in the whole thing. Don't like pick too many

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Speaker 2: bones with me about this, because it's not like I'm

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Speaker 2: if there's season two that I'll watch the finale tomorrow,

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Speaker 2: the finales tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: But you watched all the episodes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I had it on the back, you know how

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Speaker 2: I watched shows like that, Like I was doing things

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Speaker 2: it enough. But it's interesting because Netflix normally rolls things

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Speaker 2: out all at once, but this has been in That's

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Speaker 2: how they did Love Is Blind, where it was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: three episodes, than two, then two, than one, then one

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I will say that I think it's must be.

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Speaker 1: On TikTok they're posting Netflix is posting videos of the

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Speaker 1: age reveals, so they're kind of giving spoilers. Yeah, on TikTok,

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Speaker 2: Shannon looked it up this particular couple. She he's fifty

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Speaker 2: four and he's twenty seven, and he's two years younger

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Speaker 2: so if he's twenty seven, she has a son that's

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Speaker 2: twenty nine. And I don't know why that was confusing

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, it's like, am I crazy? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: y'all are like he should be older this show? Also,

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Speaker 2: No, everybody's they're all adults.

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Speaker 1: And they surely have to be on Are they on

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Speaker 2: I mean, this guy was a software salesman and she's

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe she wanted more clients and so she went

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Speaker 1: on this Netflix show. Well if your parents went on

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe it could be fun, maybe not.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say if it was reversed and like

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Speaker 1: Yes, well that does I think that happened too, right.

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Speaker 2: Sure, but this was the couple that got me to

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Speaker 1: I wonder if any couple has got together that were

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Speaker 2: There are two that I watched. They seemed relatively the

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Speaker 2: by much, like thirty years. It wasn't anything crazy or yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well I just need to talk about that because

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Speaker 1: I was a little offended that you were too good

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Speaker 2: This right now. Well, I am feeling affirmed. And since

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Speaker 2: I'm struggling with making sense today, this may not make

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Speaker 2: sense at all, but I feel like it's it's affirmation

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Speaker 2: but a little bit of the place oh effect. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 2: let me explain it to you and then you tell me. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so I was at pilates and they were like you,

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Speaker 2: good job, Amy, and you know what's my love language? Exactly?

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Speaker 2: So if I get affirmed during class. What do you

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Speaker 1: I'm doing a good job. I'm gonna work harder, Like

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm a star plates princess. I'm gonna work.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming back tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Watch you thought my form was good there, watch it now.

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Speaker 2: So then we move on to a different move and

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Speaker 2: they're like yeah, okay, yes, oh that's it Amy, And

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Speaker 2: I mean there was three or four times where I

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Speaker 2: throw away the wipe. Well, normally always on top of

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Speaker 1: I didn't get any red flags.

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Speaker 2: Normally they have this sheet of the all the beds

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Speaker 2: and be like, good job Amy, nice form, Amy, ooh

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Speaker 2: looking good Amy. Guess how many Amy's were in my class?

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Speaker 2: No, three, three Amy's, So who knows when they were

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Speaker 2: actually shouting me out.

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Speaker 1: They should say like Ayby right or Amy? Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: they know they left it at Amy. Wait, that's funny,

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Speaker 1: So that instructors trobably like, yes, I can only have

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Speaker 2: Right, If I say Amy, I've nailed you know most

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Speaker 2: what's crazy is well, I say placebo is because some

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Speaker 1: Did you have the urge to walk up to the

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Speaker 1: instructor and say like, so when you said good job,

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Speaker 1: it was me right? Definitely? I think she would have

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Speaker 2: And then when I left they would say something about

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Speaker 2: me being a weirdo.

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Speaker 1: But so, do you want some insider baseball on fitness instructors?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because Kat used to teach spin class.

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Speaker 1: Tell me so I taught? Yeah, I taught spin and

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Speaker 1: we had I had on my computer. I could see

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Speaker 1: the all all the people in their names, and sometimes

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Speaker 1: I would just open up that tab on my computer

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Speaker 1: because I also would play my music off my computer

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Speaker 1: and just call people's names out. But I didn't know

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Speaker 1: who they were because it's nice. It is really nice

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Speaker 1: and motivating to hear your name regardless, however, I will

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Speaker 1: say sometimes I would do that, but when you know them,

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Speaker 1: I would say good job, and I would mean it

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Speaker 1: most of the time.

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Speaker 2: Don't ruin this for me. I need to be affirmed

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Speaker 5: Hey, Amy and kat I just finished today's episode and

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Speaker 2: Well, I might go on there and look for that

439
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Speaker 2: shirt because I love.

440
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 1: The green boyfriend cut Oxford is what it was.

441
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:36,439
Speaker 2: What looks great with your stretchy jeans? I thought literally

442
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 2: they were maternity, but you're saying they're just for anybody.

443
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:42,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, anybody. Because I hear that maternity jeans are

444
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 1: people don't like them, that a lot of people are

445
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 1: just wearing lower cut jeans, which I don't know if

446
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 1: I want to do that. Oh.

447
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: I saw a girl that's in at our track meet

448
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 2: the other night and she.

449
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:59,120
Speaker 1: Was full belly out, like little teeny tiny tank top.

450
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 2: With these low rise drawstring pants and her like she

451
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 2: must have been eight or nine months along, like.

452
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 1: Giving birth any day.

453
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:11,479
Speaker 2: And it was interesting. I didn't have anything wrong, you know,

454
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,159
Speaker 2: but there was You're like, I don't know that I

455
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 2: would do it. I don't think I could do that.

456
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 2: She looked adorable. I didn't know I could do it.

457
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 2: And then yeah, I feel that way.

458
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 1: That's like the style now that people like their bump

459
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,119
Speaker 1: is an accessory, and I think it is so cute

460
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,199
Speaker 1: when I see people, because I get a lot of

461
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 1: tiktoks now that are about maternity style and I'm like, Okay,

462
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,679
Speaker 1: those outfits are so cute, but I'm not wearing a

463
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,199
Speaker 1: crop top with my belly out to work, right. I

464
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 1: can't do that. I just am more I think modest

465
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: than that. And I'm not at the point now or

466
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 1: that I could do that anyway, because I don't have

467
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 1: the bump, but it is. It's the thing. It's like

468
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 1: instead of a necklace, you have your baby.

469
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 2: Bump, you know, sure, sure, yeah's your accessory.

470
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:53,439
Speaker 1: It's what was that rule you have to have like

471
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 1: seven things?

472
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, the rule of seven.

473
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 1: The bump is one of the things.

474
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 2: Earrings, purse, jacket, hat, scarf.

475
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 1: Bell, Yeah, baby bum baby bom So.

476
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:07,199
Speaker 2: Shannon has confirmed Old Navy is having a STU right

477
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 2: now fifty off online and in store, but only till

478
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 2: March twenty fifth, so like one day. If you're listening

479
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 2: to this on Tuesday, you cant until tomorrow and then, yes,

480
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 2: your ovaries were inflamed, she confirmed online.

481
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,439
Speaker 1: That is what it is. That's the official There's a

482
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 1: word that they used though, but I'm thinking.

483
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 2: Enlarged, enlarge, inflamed.

484
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of the word because they were

485
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 1: the Maybe it's stimulated because they're stimulating your follicles so

486
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 1: all of so, then they want them to be a

487
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: certain size and once they get to a be a

488
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 1: certain size, then you have the retrieval and they go

489
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 1: and then they suck them out.

490
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Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense. Which also shout out Amber for

491
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 2: knowing Puma.

492
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Speaker 1: Yeah crazy love that. Wait, that means she's seen the

493
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Speaker 1: videos of Puma since she knows him Apple Gay or

494
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 1: Apple whatever the landscaping company is that he works for yeah,

495
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: because they're TikTok and Instagram famous, like they obviously have

496
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: a following because they make fun videos while they're at work.

497
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:15,639
Speaker 1: And Puma, he's just so cute.

498
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 2: I swear to you, if I see him, I will

499
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 2: be like Puma and I'm like what And Ambery knows

500
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 2: Puma too.

501
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 1: So cool.

502
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 2: This is something that came up in my therapy session

503
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 2: the other day, and then I saw shrink Chicks post

504
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 2: about knowing if you can trust yourself, like if you're

505
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 2: feeling like you can't, or maybe you once could and

506
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,959
Speaker 2: you feel like you've lost trust in yourself. They shared

507
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 2: a long list of small ways you can build that

508
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:51,120
Speaker 2: trust back, but I pulled five of my favorite from

509
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 2: the list and then put my own little twist on

510
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 2: them after something that came up in therapy, because my

511
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 2: therapist was challenging me with something I could do to

512
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 2: support myself a little bit in that moment, Like what's

513
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,959
Speaker 2: one little thing you can do to support yourself? So

514
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,719
Speaker 2: that might be, for example, like going on a walk,

515
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,479
Speaker 2: like can you get up if I'm feeling in a

516
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 2: certain way. She was also celebrating and acknowledging that my

517
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 2: window of not my window of tolerance, but my window

518
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: of let's say I go off the rails and do

519
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 2: a behavior that like isn't in alignment with who I

520
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: want to be now, but it's like, oh, I thought

521
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 2: I evolved from that, right, Like why am I having

522
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 2: this thought? Or why did I have that behavior? Or

523
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 2: why did I do that? Or why did I snap

524
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 2: or what you know, like why was that my reaction

525
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 2: or why did I react and not take time to respond?

526
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: You know?

527
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: But I recover more quickly, and so she said that

528
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 2: my window of recovery is getting smaller, which is great.

529
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Speaker 2: She's like, that's what we want in therapy, Like we

530
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 2: want you to have that awareness and then you come

531
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 2: back to self.

532
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: Because we're going to mess up more quickly.

533
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 2: Right. She was like, have grace. You're human, doesn't mean

534
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna always okay. Now that you've decided this is

535
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 2: who you are and how you're going to be that,

536
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 2: you just that's the path you stay on. And I

537
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 2: told her that I had a moment, but I self

538
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 2: corrected faster than like ever before, and she was like, oh,

539
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 2: let's celebrate that because your window of recovery is becoming

540
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 2: more narrow, which is what we want because some days

541
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 2: sometimes like who knows, you may not even be aware

542
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 2: of how you acted or what you did for like

543
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 2: a week or a month, or you may stay in

544
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 2: it because you did it. You might be like, oh well,

545
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 2: and you may stay in that behavior for or that

546
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 2: slump or whatever you want to call it, for a week,

547
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 2: a month, or however long when if you want a

548
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 2: course correct anyway, So we were celebrating that, and then

549
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 2: I was just like, well, now I feel like I've

550
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 2: lost a little bit of trust in myself, and how

551
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 2: do I know I can take care of myself. She's like, well,

552
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 2: that's one example, but she's like, what are some little

553
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 2: things you can do for yourself that will support you

554
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: in those moments if you're having some of those thoughts,

555
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 2: since she was like going outside, getting fresh air, practicing whimsy,

556
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 2: like when we've wanted to be more playful. Do I

557
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,479
Speaker 2: need to take a nap? Do I need to eat something?

558
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: Do I need to drink something water? Probably not like

559
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 2: drinking something else. So then it reminded me of something

560
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 2: that the shrink chicks put up, and it's pretty much,

561
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 2: if you're not sure you can trust yourself anymore, these

562
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 2: are some ways that you can, and that was one

563
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 2: of them. To ask yourself what would feel just a

564
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 2: little more supportive right now? Just small shifts like that

565
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 2: are more than you think. What would be one for you?

566
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:35,719
Speaker 2: If like you were feeling off, like, what something you

567
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 2: know you could go do for yourself that might feel

568
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 2: supportive to you in the moment.

569
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: The first thing that I came to mind was take

570
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 1: a shower. But you can't always do that, I know, so.

571
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 2: Do not underestimate washing your hair too.

572
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, today was a hair wash day. I felt really good.

573
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: But when I can't do that, well, I can't go

574
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: cause I like that reset. I'll do like an ice

575
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: roller that feels like soothing, you know, or I mean

576
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: drinking a cold glass of water. Yeah, something that feels like, yeah,

577
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 1: soothing and good to you.

578
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 2: One of the examples from Shrink Chicks was stop rushing

579
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 2: yourself back to fine, because sometimes we want to. Even

580
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 2: though I was celebrating that, I course corrected more quickly.

581
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 2: I probably need to give myself space because sometimes that

582
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 2: might not always be the case. Or if I'm in

583
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 2: a rut or grieving something like, oh I need to

584
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 2: feel better by this point. You don't need to necessarily

585
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 2: rush that we need to trust that we're going at

586
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 2: the pace that is good for us. Another thing was

587
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 2: paying attention to what your body is telling you, Like

588
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 2: if you're tired, hungry, tents, all of those things are

589
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 2: signals your body's communicating something to you. So start listening

590
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: and paying attention and then acting on it and be like, oh, yeah,

591
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 2: I ate and I felt better, so I can trust myself.

592
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 2: Or I drink water, I felt better.

593
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 1: I took a nap and then I felt better like that, So.

594
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 2: For my naps, can't go too long. I don't I'm

595
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 2: not a big napper anyways, but if I nap, If

596
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 2: I do nap and it's too long of a nap,

597
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 2: then it's a problem. But there's like a sweet spot

598
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 2: for me. It's gotta be less than thirty minutes. Why

599
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 2: how long are your naps?

600
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: Well, that's a cat nap. This is also not really

601
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 1: fair because I just went through tremester one of pregnancy

602
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: and I was taking like two hour naps every day.

603
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: That is not normal for me. So I don't know.

604
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 1: I think a good nap is like forty five minutes

605
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: to an hour. Really yeah, interesting, By the time if

606
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: at thirty minutes, like I've just fallen asleep in them.

607
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 2: Back up, listen, don't ask me. I'm not really that

608
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 2: big of an napper. Give yourself permission to change your

609
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 2: mind is another thing, because changing your mind is evolving.

610
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 2: That's wisdom. Don't beat yourself up for it. You're allowed

611
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: to change your mind.

612
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: I feel like that's something that gets people twisted in

613
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: trusting themselves when they're like, well, I now believe this,

614
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 1: or I now know this, or I now would do this,

615
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: and so then they're like, how do I even know

616
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: that's right because I used to think this. That's not fair.

617
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: It's like you said, it's natural to evolve, and as

618
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: we gain more wisdom, we allow ourselves to change our minds.

619
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: That should build more trust, knowing that I'm flexible when

620
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: I gain more information, versus I can't trust myself because

621
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: I once thought this thing.

622
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 2: I feel like online isn't necessarily making it easy for

623
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 2: some people to change their mind. Like if someone opens

624
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 2: up and is sharing like, oh I was wrong about this.

625
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 2: There's so many comments and these are trolls, so you

626
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 2: should not listen to them anyways, but it's hard to

627
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 2: ignore when someone's like trying to publicly say hey, I

628
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 2: know da da da da, but now I'm thinking da

629
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 2: da da da da, instead of being like, oh cool,

630
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 2: like way to evolve and do some critical thinking and whatever,

631
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 2: instead of saying, well, you were part of this problem

632
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 2: to begin with, soh yeah, now you know it's like, wait,

633
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 2: that's not very good.

634
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 1: Celebrate welcoming to it's it's all yeah, it's like is

635
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: that our job to hold them accountable for those things?

636
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 2: Or yeah no, and then it's so then it's difficult

637
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:14,719
Speaker 2: for them to be like, oh, well, I guess I'm

638
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 2: not allowed to change my mind, which you are. Give

639
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 2: yourself permission to change your mind. And then the final

640
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 2: thing is follow through on one small thing you promised

641
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 2: yourself each day. So this doesn't have to be anything crazy.

642
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: It can be something manageable, you know, Like I mentioned water.

643
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 2: It could be like, okay, I want to drink six

644
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 2: cups of water today. Follow through on that for yourself,

645
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 2: and then you'd be like, okay, I can trust myself.

646
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 2: Or I want to go to bed tonight at nine

647
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: thirty pm. We'll get in bed at nine to twenty,

648
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 2: so that you're you know, yeah, do little things to

649
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: show yourself.

650
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: You mean what you say. Yeah, I think what happens

651
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: a lot of times when people want to make a

652
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: change is they want to make all the changes at

653
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: once because you're motivated. But that's not possible. So then

654
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: that backfires because you're not going to do all of

655
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: that stuff, and so then it's like, well, never change

656
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: versus like you're saying. If I start with, like this week,

657
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 1: I'm going to go to bed at nine pm three times,

658
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: Like you can do that, but you can't go to

659
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: bed at nine pm every night, drink seventeen glasses of water,

660
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: cook all your meals at home, make sure that your

661
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: gas has car your car has gas in it before

662
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: it's time to leave to go somewhere, do all your laundry.

663
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: Like you can't do all of that stuff. This that

664
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: if you're going to change it at once, it's going

665
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 1: to gobody calming that. Yeah.

666
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 2: Have I told you my gas thing that I'm doing

667
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 2: my little reward? Yes, I feel like I talked about it,

668
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: but now I can't remember what it wants.

669
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: You would love it?

670
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:47,719
Speaker 4: What is it?

671
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: You don't remember? Try to guess.

672
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: Okay, I give myself picture me at a gas station.

673
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 2: If you're getting myself a treat.

674
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: If you fill up your gas before you get three

675
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: quarters a quarter a quarter, then you can get a

676
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: diet coke. Yes, okay, yeah, I did it. You did

677
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: it from from the fountain.

678
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 2: No, I just get a bottle or bottle or can.

679
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: The bottle is the worst kind of diet.

680
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 2: I don't know that I trust the ice at the fountain.

681
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: Huh. But that's I've never been worried about that.

682
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 2: I mean, but I mean I'll go to a restaurant

683
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 2: and get it from the same thing.

684
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe not the health code standards, they'd be different,

685
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: well not standards, but I bet that like Chick fil

686
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: A has a higher health code score than your local

687
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: Xon the gas station.

688
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, but I just go in and

689
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 2: get Yeah, either a tall boy can or the screwtop.

690
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: I like the screwtop because that'll last.

691
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 2: Me a few days because I can put the lid

692
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 2: back on and you don't keep it in my fridge.

693
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: But you don't go home and pour it into a

694
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: cup with ice. No, I'll just take a few SIPs

695
00:33:58,640 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 1: in the car.

696
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 2: It's I get I get your It's not the same

697
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 2: fountain thrown through all the way fountain, diet coke, can,

698
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 2: diet coke, then bottle.

699
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're right. If you have a can, you

700
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 1: have to drink it all then.

701
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 2: Right, you can't if you've got the bottle. So anyway,

702
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 2: that's if.

703
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: You are trying to mess with your reward, that's really great.

704
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 2: Second, if you struggle with getting gas, because I am

705
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 2: a get gas when my car says refuel immediately. So

706
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 2: my car goes you know empty or like close to

707
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 2: getting empty, and then it'll send me a message on

708
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 2: the dashboard that says please refuel, and then it will

709
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 2: go refuel immediately. And that's normally when I get gas.

710
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 2: But as of the last six months or so, I

711
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 2: have been going and if I get there and I

712
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 2: still have a quarter of tank left, I get my

713
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 2: diet coke treat.

714
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: Have you ever ran out of gas on the road? Yes, recently. No.

715
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: Was this a teenage thing? Yes, okay, that's appropriate, but.

716
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 2: I mean I've been close, yeah, and it's not. People

717
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 2: always love to send messages because when I'm like, oh,

718
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 2: I'm on it, please refuel, I'm like, oh, Instagram, like,

719
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:07,280
Speaker 2: I don't know why that's.

720
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: Something daredevil at me. I'm so edgy I don't know.

721
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 2: That's why that's one of my most viral videos ever

722
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 2: has to do with the guest tank.

723
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: I think it has over eleven million views. Well that's

724
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 1: like kind of rage bait. Don't you think why when

725
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 1: you post a picture and you're like have negative that

726
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 1: gets people riled up?

727
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 2: Well? I did like a video where I did like

728
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 2: I married my video up with another girl's video from TikTok.

729
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 2: I can't remember her name, but I gave her credit

730
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 2: in the video. It wasn't like just like oh, but

731
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 2: I pulled her video like she says. She said in

732
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 2: her video, do you know why I keep my gas

733
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 2: tank on e? And she's like, because if anybody gets

734
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 2: in my car and you know, puts a gun in

735
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 2: my head and is like just drive, She's like, where

736
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 2: am I gonna drive besides the gas station so that

737
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 2: I can get out of my car and run, you know.

738
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 2: And so I did a little like stitch video with

739
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 2: her where I was like, anytime I'm nearing empty, I

740
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 2: think of this woman. And then I played her clip

741
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: because it's like, do I really want to get gas?

742
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 2: Because what if I get taken? And then I'm like, well, sorry,

743
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 2: we're going to need to go to the gas station.

744
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: Having gas in your car essentially could end your life exactly.

745
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 2: They could get they could drive all the way to

746
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,720
Speaker 2: the country rural parts.

747
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: Yes, and then you're really then you're in the middle

748
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: of nowhere.

749
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 2: I think about that a lot when I'm in the land,

750
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 2: like if I'm somewhere, like if i'm ever well, if

751
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 2: I'm driving where there's lots of land, or looking at

752
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 2: homes that have lots of land. To die here, No,

753
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 2: I don't think I could die. I think are there

754
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 2: bodies there?

755
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: We wouldn't know.

756
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 2: And then you know, I don't know if this is

757
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 2: on your algorithm, but a lot of bunker stuff is

758
00:36:49,920 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 2: showing up on my algorithm. I don't know if this

759
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 2: is on your algorithm, but a lot of bunker stuff

760
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 2: is showing up on my algorithm. Of people who built underground.

761
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: Bunkers, we very different.

762
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 2: And I strongly believe anybody that is building an underground

763
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 2: bunker needs a background check. Why because now you're telling

764
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 2: me you have this very discreete oh container under in

765
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 2: your backyard that has like this hidden trap door you

766
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 2: could hide with all these living amenities where they could

767
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: totally live like life down there, like you could be

768
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 2: hiding somebody.

769
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: That's fair. I was thinking, I need to find a

770
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: friend that has a bunker just in case. Yeah, same,

771
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: I don't know anybody. I also are the people that

772
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 1: are doing bunkers are they kind of trying to keep

773
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: that on the deal because.

774
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,479
Speaker 2: If they need them, some aren't because I mean, but if.

775
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: They need it, they don't want people to know because

776
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 1: they don't want them all up in their.

777
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 2: Showing up, Like, hey, I know you have a bunker.

778
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like one more mouth to feed more

779
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: person just in the cot mm hmm.

780
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:03,399
Speaker 2: Yeah.

781
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: I don't have this on my algorithm though.

782
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 2: Really is it?

783
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: I wonder is it because you're watching Paradise?

784
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 2: I got intrigued because this one bunker guy popped up

785
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 2: my feed.

786
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: Who's built them?

787
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 2: For all the billionaires like Zuckerberg and everybody else?

788
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 1: Okay, that brings up a whole other I don't know

789
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: why I got so.

790
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 2: You had a visceral reaction, Yes for you, sweating cat,

791
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 2: just how my palms.

792
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: Are getting Ah wait, bit for some reason, billionaire and

793
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: bunker freaks me out because they already get away with

794
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: so much stuff because they have billions of dollars. Yeah,

795
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: that I'm like, they don't get to have a bunker

796
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: because they could be doing If somebody's going to do

797
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: something with a bunker, I feel like it's going to

798
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: be that. That's very judgmental, and I acknowledge that and

799
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 1: I will work on that. And that is how I

800
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: feel right now.

801
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if this is true or not,

802
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 2: because again it was just in my algorithm, but there

803
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 2: apparently is some secret Paradise esque type bunker situation that

804
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 2: all the wealthy people have. I'm not talking about Zuckerberg.

805
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 2: I'm talking about just maybe not billionaires, but maybe they're

806
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 2: multi multi millionaires and there's this community of where they

807
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 2: will know but as should they need to. They bought

808
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: in and it exists somewhere in America. Yeah, like a

809
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 2: prestigious club that you can get into hold your slot.

810
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 2: I mean, ronal, what a racket be Like, Oh yeah,

811
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 2: to all these people with money, you just act like

812
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 2: you have this Like.

813
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 4: I don't.

814
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 2: Let's hope so because they're whyse with their money? Obviously,

815
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 2: most people that wealthy don't just have the wealth because

816
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 2: they're well, unless buying bunkers sight unseen.

817
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 1: Unless they've just been gifted that money through you know, inheritance. Yeah,

818
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 1: which they could still be wise with their money. But okay,

819
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: is that on your algorithm that you're seeing that because

820
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 1: I didn't. I've never heard this, Okay, Yeah.

821
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 2: That's why I'm true. Also Switzerland, I believe I talked

822
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 2: about this on the Bobby Bone Show. I think they

823
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 2: have a shelter for everyone in their population.

824
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 1: Well how big is your population?

825
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know exactly, but still to have something

826
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 2: and then some and they have extra space, but it's required,

827
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:30,360
Speaker 2: like they have somewhere safe for everybody to go shelter

828
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:35,240
Speaker 2: bunker types underground yeah or in the Yeah, in the ground,

829
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 2: under the.

830
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: Ground, it's the difference. No, in the ground, not underground.

831
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: So here it is.

832
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 2: Switzerland has a vast network of nuclear hardened shelters and

833
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 2: bunkers capable of housing its entire population of over nine

834
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 2: million people.

835
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 1: What's the population of United States?

836
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 2: Way more than that. Shenon's going to look it up.

837
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: Should we move to Switzerland?

838
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm thinking maybe we should, just cause they seem happy neutral. Yeah,

839
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: they're like it's what they're them for being neutral and positive.

840
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 2: I mean they have a plus sign on their flat.

841
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: What what's the cuisine of Switzerland? That would be a

842
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:16,919
Speaker 1: we have in the US.

843
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 2: We have three hundred and forty two million.

844
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a little different, so yeah, crazy, Okay, So

845
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: I'll I would consider Switzerland, but I don't like, I

846
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: don't think like I want to go on vacation there

847
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: to try their food because what is their food? Well,

848
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: we're gonna look that up. Okay, what is it like? Well,

849
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 1: Shannon's looking up a Swiss cuisine? Cuisine?

850
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 2: Do they have Swiss cheese?

851
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: Like Swiss cheese? But I do? Is that a pretzel?

852
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: I know that's like a German thing, But is that

853
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: just like a soft pretzel?

854
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 2: Yeah?

855
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: Or like a leaner schnitzel. You just wanted to say

856
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: that I did.

857
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Well Shannon already found it, so we'll do

858
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 2: the other thing in a second. But popular Swiss cuisine

859
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 2: is by hearty Alpine influenced dishes featuring generous amounts of cheese, potatoes,

860
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 2: and bread.

861
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: Okay, I can do that, Yeah, I can do it.

862
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 1: I'll move, let's go. I had two more bunkers.

863
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 2: We're going population nine million plus two more? Oh wait

864
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: and cat and you're having a baby, so I have.

865
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: To bring my husband. Yeah, I can't take the baby.

866
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: That's kidnapping. If you take it away from the father.

867
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 2: Well he can come too.

868
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 1: Yeah.

869
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 2: Is speaking of other ways of being? I came across

870
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 2: four Victorian inspired phase phrases for dealing with men, and

871
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 2: these just made me laugh. Okay, did you watch Bridgerton? No?

872
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 2: You know, I love Gilded Age and I didn't.

873
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: Watch any of those like Olden Days shows. And I

874
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: don't know why. Part of it is I have a

875
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:48,840
Speaker 1: hard time understanding what they're saying.

876
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 2: Really well, I'm speaking ill because it's not really You're done,

877
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 2: That is not what I mean. I just feel like,

878
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 2: really because it's not like it's some crazy accent that's

879
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 2: like or you could just put the subtitles one like

880
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 2: what the Help.

881
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 1: I never have tried. I just remember watching the what

882
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: was it The Crown? The Crown, and that was hard

883
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: to follow for me. Right, You're like, yeah.

884
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is just formal Okay, speaking Victorian, you

885
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: know proper. So if your man is talking to you

886
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 2: in a condescending way, this is what you can say

887
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 2: to him. You appear most committed to the sound of

888
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 2: your own voice.

889
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: Isn't that cute? Yeah, I'll say that to past, but

890
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: you just say it with it you like an English accent.

891
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:45,760
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's like proper.

892
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

893
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 2: But okay, you appear most committed to the sound of

894
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 2: your own voice.

895
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:53,280
Speaker 1: You know what I've been looking up because I'm watching

896
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 1: a show that is we have to have the subtitle song.

897
00:43:56,880 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 1: It's broad Church. It's in England, I'm pretty sure. And

898
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: you can't like some of the some of the words,

899
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: we don't have that word like, they're just they the

900
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: way they say things are, It's just everything is either

901
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:14,359
Speaker 1: cuter or sweeter or like meaner. Like maybe because it's

902
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: not my language, but I'm envious of it.

903
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,359
Speaker 2: Do you know the happiest language this is just from

904
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 2: the Dome. Don't quote me because maybe research has changed.

905
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 2: I guess yeah.

906
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 1: Australian.

907
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 2: No, No, that's English, Spanish, Ah, it's like the happiest,

908
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:28,919
Speaker 2: like you.

909
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 1: Know, yeah, And the angriest I feel like would be

910
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: German yeah, or Russian.

911
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 2: Freaks me out, maybe because those places are both freaky.

912
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: I wonder I feel like German the way they have

913
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,439
Speaker 1: to talk, they have to be so like direct. Yeah,

914
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 1: the words you have to say them so like.

915
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay. When your man is defensive, your fragility

916
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 2: is most revealing.

917
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that might make him more defensive.

918
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 2: When he won't apologize, accountability appears beyond your current capacity.

919
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:08,919
Speaker 2: Now I feel like it turned into a Southern Bell.

920
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 2: Accountability appears to be beyond your current capacity.

921
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 1: You're good that.

922
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 2: Who was the girl from White Lotus? What would she say?

923
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 2: What would she say?

924
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: I love talking to I never even watched that, but

925
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: I knew that. And there's another thing she would say?

926
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: Was the named Parker Posy. I think that's the actress.

927
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: Oh that's not her name in the show.

928
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 2: I think it's her real name. And she was fabulous

929
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: as that character. Sounam me the final one when you're

930
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: done dealing with his Oh wait, hold on, I have

931
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: another one for when he won't apologize. Sorry, there's two options.

932
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:48,240
Speaker 2: This conversation has reached its natural demise.

933
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 1: That sounds like a robot. This conversation has reached its

934
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: natural demise. I've start of lost my victory self implowed.

935
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 2: I sort of lost my Victorian era when I mixed

936
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 2: with Southern Bell. This conversation has reached its natural demise. Okay,

937
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 2: when you're done dealing with his bs. I have two

938
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 2: options for you. I take my leave of this foolishness.

939
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 2: You may continue alone.

940
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: That's a good one. You may you may continue and

941
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: that still sounds to me like a robot. You may

942
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: continue alone. Goodbye, You may continue alone.

943
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 2: Mandarin, Chinese, German, Arabic, Russian, and Korean are frequently cited

944
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 2: as sounding the most aggressive when they really they could

945
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 2: be saying something so sweet and nice, but it just

946
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: sounds a little more.

947
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 1: I like listening to people.

948
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 2: Spanish, Yeah, yeah, they have more like sas caliente riba.

949
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 2: I wish I had really paid more attention in Spanish.

950
00:46:56,040 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: Spanish was ranked number one, followed by Portuguese, English, Indonesia

951
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 2: and French. Oh if I could speak French. I've never

952
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 2: even been to Paris, but I want to go there

953
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:09,800
Speaker 2: and have a croissant.

954
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 1: I feel like French is not my favorite language. It

955
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 1: feels yeah. Italian, I feel like it was very very pretty.

956
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,479
Speaker 2: Give me some Italian because I can't, like, I.

957
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 1: Can't go that's it.

958
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:37,320
Speaker 6: Pam balonese, pasta prima vera, oh madn okay okay, okay,

959
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 6: But yeah, I don't.

960
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: Know, like I can't say a sentence. I know a

961
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: couple of words, and I know a curse word, and

962
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: that's about it. You can say a curse word, which

963
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: one well, I don't know if it's an actual Well,

964
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: now I'm blanking on it. It's something my grandma always says.

965
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 1: I don't know that it's it's what I don't Never

966
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: heard that vava culo, but I don't know if it

967
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: was like a sla. My grandma also taught me this word,

968
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: and now I can't remember what it was, but it

969
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 1: meant you look It's something you'd say if you look

970
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: like a mess. And the translation is you look like

971
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,919
Speaker 1: a cat sprayed across the wall, splattered on the wall,

972
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: A cat splattered on the wall. That was like the

973
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 1: English translation. But it meant like you look like a mess.

974
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: But I can't I don't. That's not helpful because I

975
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 1: don't remember what it is.

976
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:23,280
Speaker 5: Sorry.

977
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 2: I remember when I went to Africa, if they wanted

978
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 2: to compliment your outfit, they would say you.

979
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:31,720
Speaker 1: Looked smart, ooh thank you smart. Smart.

980
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 2: That means I get think.

981
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 1: Was that that was a word or they thought that

982
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: smart man.

983
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 2: That's how they said, like, oh beautiful, it was smart

984
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 2: or like you look nice, smart, but I don't know

985
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 2: that wasn't what did they speak in Kenya?

986
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,440
Speaker 1: It's like, do you want to know a fun fact

987
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: about Italian that I learned when we went I think

988
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: it was two and.

989
00:48:52,719 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 2: That's duh, duh tangible. So I don't know that my

990
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 2: brain is working this episode, so I'm sorry.

991
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 1: That's okay, that makes it better.

992
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 2: It's priceless.

993
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: So when Italian, you learn Italian. Just because you learn

994
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: Italian doesn't mean you can go to Italy and speak

995
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:18,319
Speaker 1: Italian everywhere, because every single like little city or like

996
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 1: suburb or whatever has a different die dialect. And so

997
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: when we were in Cortona, we went and did this

998
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 1: cooking class and we were talking to the people that

999
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,359
Speaker 1: live there and she was like, if you go one

1000
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 1: town over, I might I have. That's why Italians talk

1001
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: with their hands so much, because the word that I

1002
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: might use for road might be a different word that

1003
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 1: they use for road. So we talk with our hands

1004
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,759
Speaker 1: to explain things so we can understand each other. So

1005
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: learning Italian in high school or if you take an

1006
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: Italian class doesn't mean that you're going to be understood

1007
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 1: in certain areas or that you'll understand right certain areas.

1008
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: And I thought that was so interesting because English is here.

1009
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 1: It's just English. I mean there might be like slang words, but.

1010
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 2: I mean we would say like pop coke soda pop.

1011
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we would all understand that, like highway road free.

1012
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 2: Some people say freeway.

1013
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: But we understand what that. If somebody were to come

1014
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: and say freeway, we would understand what that.

1015
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:14,359
Speaker 4: Matt.

1016
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I also talked with my hands a lot.

1017
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,240
Speaker 1: Are you talking? Well, maybe it's just part.

1018
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 2: Of my No. I believe I'm Irish, which didn't end

1019
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 2: up on a friendly or a aggressive list.

1020
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: The language, Well, don't don't Irish people speak English Ireland?

1021
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: I think they speak English. I mean I could be wrong.

1022
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 2: But that their their accent is very different.

1023
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: Yes, oh oh oh, can you do an Irish accent?

1024
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 2: I just did?

1025
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:48,959
Speaker 1: I did?

1026
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 2: I said Ireland Ireland from they.

1027
00:50:54,760 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 1: Say like day and bar the perk or the gurden

1028
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: the garden instead of I've watched a video trying to

1029
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:09,359
Speaker 1: learn the accent of Irish because I feel like that's

1030
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 1: such a fun accent that in Australian, but it's so hard,

1031
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:15,320
Speaker 1: and it was something about like instead of a ar

1032
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 1: it's like e er so that they say, would you

1033
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: like to go to the perk or the gurden?

1034
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, the of the gurden? Okay, well, but yes, be

1035
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 2: talking like this. I don't know if I'm bither at

1036
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 2: this because my sister and I did it so much

1037
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 2: growing up when we would say, oh, sister, I don't know,

1038
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 2: do you know where father is?

1039
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 1: Like, we talked like this all the Time's natural.

1040
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 2: We'd like, go order our food in public this way.

1041
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 1: People were like, uh, somebody calls some help, right, I

1042
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,439
Speaker 1: thought of the curse word, so.

1043
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 2: Well, if it's in another language, it's fine.

1044
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: It's fun goal, which means I think the F word.

1045
00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:52,360
Speaker 2: Hmm.

1046
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 1: So my grandma could say that, and it's not like

1047
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 1: she was cussing because I didn't know what I met. Right,

1048
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 1: The more you know, I could be wrong though, so

1049
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: fact check me or don't or just let me live.

1050
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 1: Just in the live your life, speak how you want,

1051
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: do your thing?

1052
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,720
Speaker 2: Okay, well, good, perk of the gurden.

1053
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: Try to say something else. With the Irish accent. It's

1054
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 1: very to say do you want.

1055
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 2: Lucky?

1056
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 5: Erm?

1057
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 1: Wait, what is it the slogan they're after my They're

1058
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 1: after me lucky terms there after me lucky terms.

1059
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I guess that's all I got to say.

1060
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: Do you want to go to lunch? Do you want lunch?

1061
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:37,399
Speaker 1: All I have in my head is do you want

1062
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,919
Speaker 1: to go at the lunch? And now now I sound

1063
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: like Dracula. Think about do you want to go at

1064
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: the lunch? Think about how hard it is for actors.

1065
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 2: I don't know how they do it. How did they

1066
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 2: do It's like a gift. Yeah, obviously one we don't have,

1067
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 2: like people that can sing or dance. Like impressions are

1068
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 2: some people are so good impressions. I mean, yeah, it's crazy.

1069
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 2: Like sometimes my algorithm will get on impressions of people

1070
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 2: just impersonating different people. There's this one girl that does

1071
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: a Claar Danes impression that is just so spot on.

1072
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: That's such a random impression too.

1073
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 2: Like the other day I thought it literally was Claire

1074
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 2: Danes and then I was like, oh no, no, this

1075
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:20,799
Speaker 2: is that girl that impersonates her.

1076
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1077
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 2: And then this one guy was doing Obama but it

1078
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 2: was like a white guy, so you knew it wasn't

1079
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 2: Obama obviously, but it was perfect.

1080
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: Wow, you almost could pass as him if.

1081
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 2: My eyes were closed, right, But even his facial expressions,

1082
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 2: look in the pauses like it wasn't just the words,

1083
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 2: it was like the pause and the like it was

1084
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,800
Speaker 2: everything was perfect.

1085
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 1: And like Eddie on.

1086
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 2: The Bobby Bone Show, he can do really good impressions

1087
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 2: of like Luke Bryan.

1088
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,439
Speaker 1: Isn't that just like contracts though?

1089
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: No, he really sounds like Luke and then it's not

1090
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 2: just like oh Brian, like he really sounds like him,

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Speaker 2: and then or like Disney characters and stuff like he

1092
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Speaker 2: can like goofy people can sound like those characters. It's crazy.

1093
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Speaker 2: I don't have that gift. Trying to figure out my gift.

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Speaker 1: Honest. I was gonna say that could be something you

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Speaker 1: learn and like improv.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know. I think it's like it's again,

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Speaker 2: I couldn't learn how to sing it improv.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you might learn how to do impressions. I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think the only one I have is Russian Russian ceister.

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Speaker 1: That's like mediocre at best. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well there you go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's fun. Okay. Well, we hope wherever you are

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Speaker 1: that you have the day you need to have. Bye bye,