WEBVTT - When 40 Seemed Old... (S3 E8 "The Big Time") 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:04.880 Hi, I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know are 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:10.280 you a Charlotte? And welcome back everyone? Are you a Charlotte? 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:13.920 This is part two with our wonderful producer Easton. We 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:18.759 are breaking down season three, episode eight of the best season. 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.040 I think, yes, I might change my mind when we 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:23.720 watch more, but you know, I think that's it. Anyway, 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:25.000 here we are welcome back. 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:28.120 I was just talking to Evy, who works on this show, 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:33.440 about there was a there was an article that said 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:35.919 I'm having a boyfriend is embarrassed? 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:37.240 Always a big deal man? 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:40.080 Yeah, and you know we're talking about like what do 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:43.880 you what do you need a man for? Especially as 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:47.440 a man, I will lead the march of that, you know, 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:50.920 other than like reaching things on a high shelf. But 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:53.200 but yeah, at this point when the episode is happening, 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:56.320 I mean, like it it's so funny because I think 0:00:56.320 --> 0:00:58.680 that was that may have been the last episode we 0:00:58.960 --> 0:01:03.280 talked about together, was one where Miranda's terry designer gets married, 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:05.840 and we were I was thinking about that too, because 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.520 I was Another that also surprised me, is like thinking 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:13.600 about Miranda wanting to get married. Everybody wanted it, uh 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:14.720 at that point. 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:16.720 Well, I think felt like you were supposed to do 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:20.680 it right, felt pressured, and I mean I think some 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:22.679 of that is still there, but I also think that 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:28.039 the generations all have their own vibe about it, you know. 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:31.080 So now we have like this very big generational gap 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:35.160 right between like z X what are what are they. 0:01:35.080 --> 0:01:39.400 Called, uh, millennials, millennials. 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:43.680 That's what I'm sorry, sorry, sorry, you know, there's there's 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:47.000 very distinct things now going on, which I also don't 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:48.600 feel like used to be true, right, Like you were 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:51.360 supposed to want what the people ahead of you had. Yes, 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:53.320 you know what I mean. Now that's not that's like 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.520 a free for all, right, which I think is as 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:58.120 it should be exactly. But I also think some of 0:01:58.120 --> 0:02:01.360 that is is because of economic issuing, like many different 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:04.280 things are impacting that, right, yes, but I also think 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:09.440 that it's nice that there's more choice. It's nice that 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:14.000 you can pick your own lane and be there. But 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:16.240 like you know, when when Mary Beth came on and 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.839 she said that her friends were criticizing her for one 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:22.720 thing a boyfriend that made me laugh so hard, dude, 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:26.480 like you're crazy, but she's of the group of boyfriends 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:30.000 are embarrassing, right, which I also really like, for me, 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:35.440 I find the whole movement of this to be really 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:38.280 empowering and great, and I think part of that is 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:42.000 because of the social media element, because there was a 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:45.800 time when, you know, Instagram official was like this whole thing, 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:49.440 like if you weren't posting, you know, like you and 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:53.320 the cute you know, significant other or whatever. I don't know, 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:56.960 I think that whole thing is just like what awful 0:02:57.240 --> 0:03:00.760 because I also feel like it's added pressure and also 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:05.000 everyone makes it look amazing and obviously relationships are complicated, 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:08.040 but you can't really put complicated on Instagram. Yeah, you know, 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:11.000 so then it just looks super shiny and beautiful and 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:14.760 you're in some beautiful location and everything's beautiful, and you know, 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:17.960 it looks just so wonderful and then like you know, 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:21.760 there they'll show flowers like oh you give me flowers 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:25.040 and you're just like, oh god. But anyway, So that's 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:28.680 what I love about Chante Joseph's article Our Boyfriend's embarrassing 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:31.280 question mark, And I think maybe is there now and 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:32.880 there are boyfriends now embarrassing? 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:35.760 Is having a boy is having a boyfriend embarrassing now? 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:37.960 Which feels like something we would have been a super 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:40.200 tight zoom in on Carrie's computer and watch your. 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:44.840 Type is having a boyfriend now? Embarrassing? Question mark? That 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:48.640 is such a Carrie Bradshat question. I love it so much. 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:51.720 But I have seen Shane on my Instagram and she 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:55.280 has gotten a lot of angry, angry texts as well. 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.080 So there's the people who love it, like myself, who 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:02.480 find the whole message very empowering and like a valid 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:06.800 question because some of these boyfriends are frankly embarrassing. You 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:07.520 know what I'm saying. 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:11.280 I would argue the majority of them, I would be 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:12.800 what I have witnessed out there. 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:17.160 I mean, yeah, I'm not really you know so much 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:19.240 in the mix or whatever, but like, from what I 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:23.919 see sometimes I'm like, you do feel like it's a 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:25.080 waste of a woman's time. 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:29.240 Yes, yeah, it benefits the man so much more in 0:04:29.320 --> 0:04:33.920 every possible way. The only we got too much on this, 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:35.880 But like I've talked to my wife about this story, 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:39.240 and like we have had an honest conversation, and I 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:43.120 firmly believe that the only thing, the only advantage that 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:46.320 I serve her is that it is easier to do 0:04:46.400 --> 0:04:49.280 certain things if it comes from a man, because that's 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:50.200 how society is. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:51.440 So fucked up. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.000 It's so so fucked up. 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:56.680 It was still so crazy when we're planning. 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:58.240 Our wedding, we're playing our wedding, we're trying to get 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:01.800 this dumb red curtain, and our wedding planner and my 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:04.800 wife were emailing the guy who ran the venue. Now 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:08.040 response at all, I copy and pasted and sent the 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:10.039 exact same email go back to me right away. And 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.080 that was the first time I had ever really seen that, 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:16.640 seen it like happen. And I was like, this happens 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:21.240 every day all around me, and it's so sad. And 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.039 that is the you know, I truly think that's the 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:25.320 only but but you know, that's the only thing that 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:30.360 I really bring to this is that like, oh, we 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:32.440 have we have a great relationship, we get along really well, 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:34.320 we love each other's company and stuff like that. But 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.599 but like I I will be the first to say, 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:39.680 we we own our home. Because my wife put it, 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:41.480 like found it and put it in a little word together. 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:45.159 She pushed me to like get a better job. There's like, oh, 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:47.840 I think that's a common story for a lot of 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:51.560 these men get dragged kicking and screaming into adulthood by 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:54.679 these strong, powerful women that are gracing us with their presence. 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:56.960 I agree. I think that's true. I mean, I mean 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:59.640 I feel and I feel bad a little bit saying it, 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:01.800 because I mean I like Ben, you know, and I 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:03.480 like my friend's husbands and all that. Do you know 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:05.920 what I'm saying? And I will say I want to 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.400 say this. I think it's important to say. I think 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:13.480 that I have a really good girlfriend. We've been friends 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:15.920 since we were twenties, in our twenties, like a long time. 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:19.760 And I was there when she went on her first 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:23.320 date with her husband. It was adorable and very cute. 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:26.080 I tell their daughters the story now and they laugh 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:33.200 really hard. And he luckily proposed. He'd been living with 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:38.040 her in her house right, and they had a bit 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.440 of a kind of one of those almost breakups before 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.080 the proposal, which happens. I don't know if you've witnessed 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.400 this with your friends or yourself or whatever, Like there's 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:50.120 like a crux, like a crisis kind of thing that happens, yeah, 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:53.560 when people are debating maybe taking the next step. And 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:56.120 he was acting really wacky and she came to me 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:57.520 and she said, I just I don't want to say 0:06:57.520 --> 0:06:59.120 their names because I feel bad telling the story, but 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:01.760 I'm not gonna say it. This she came to me 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:03.200 and she's like, I don't know what's going on with him. 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.159 He's just acting so strange, and you know, he said 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:07.960 maybe he should, you know, like you know, see other people. 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:10.480 I was like, what this is in our twenties, right, 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.960 And I said, you know, I mean I think late twenties. 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.960 I said, is he insane? You should tell him to 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.360 get out, like he can get out if that is 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.400 what he wants. He needs to get his things and 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:23.920 move out of your house because right now he is 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:27.200 living the life and he needs to either like commit 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:31.440 to the life or get the fuck out, right. So 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:36.080 she told him that I said this, and I mean 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:37.760 it was very rare for me at the time, like 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:39.440 cause and I did really love him and I did 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.080 think they were a great couple. But I was mad 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.960 right on her behalf, and so she told him this, 0:07:44.560 --> 0:07:46.000 and he was mad at me for a little while, 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:48.560 but he did propose, thank God in heaven. Now, what 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:51.640 I want to say about them is that they have 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:54.080 the most amazing relationship. And I mean I've known them 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:57.640 forever now, right, and she has gone through cancer. Wow, 0:07:57.800 --> 0:08:01.560 and she's fine now knocking the wood, but he literally 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:03.480 got her through it. Like it makes me want to cry. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.440 So you know, I don't think you should ever feel 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:09.200 like you're not contributing, right because you're in it together. 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:11.680 You know, you're in life together, and that's the beautiful thing. 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:14.840 That's the beautiful thing, right. So, yes, we live in 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:18.800 a sexist, patriarchal world that is messed up, and it's 0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:21.560 amazing that you see that, right, But I think, like 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:24.400 what each person brings to the relationship is so much 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:26.640 more than that, so so much more than that, you 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:29.080 know what I mean, when it's a good relationship and 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:32.120 people are committed to working on it, which I think 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:35.440 is also key, you know, Lena and I talked about 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:37.760 that too. I mean, like not everybody would say, like 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:40.360 are you working on your spirituality? Are you working on 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:42.560 your commitment? Are you working? Are you in therapy? Are 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:45.840 you is there some way that you're getting better? You know? 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:48.800 And when you're together in a relationship and doing that, 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:52.360 that's amazing, yes, yes, and worth it. Yeah, you know 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:55.120 what I'm saying, worth it Even though what we're talking 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.520 about is, like I think the way that they're talking 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:01.480 about that it doesn't benefit the women is economically, yes, right, 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:06.760 because economically, especially when you become a mother, like your 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:09.640 economics get like totally wrecked, you know what I mean, 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:13.480 like your job, you know, ascendance or whatever you want 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:15.960 to call it. Like everything. Hannah is doing it all. 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:18.120 But I mean it's not easy, you know what I'm saying, 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:20.440 It's not easy right for the women because that's how 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:22.880 the system is set up exactly, which is messed up 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:25.240 and you know, hopefully. I mean that's why I find 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:29.160 articles like Shane's article so so wonderful because like it's 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:32.880 kind of like peeling back the layers, right and saying like, 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:35.680 let's say even in your twenties and thirties, you know, 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:37.679 because it wasn't Mary Beth talking about I don't know 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:38.920 if she talked about it when she was here, but 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:41.280 like there's a whole thing about men who wanted to 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:46.880 buy leather jackets and when needing help from the girlfriend 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:50.200 because they couldn't decide, and like some girl friend of 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:53.040 hers had gone and like there was like seventeen leather 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:55.199 jackets that she had to look at her, do you 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:58.120 know what I mean? Like just stupid, stupid shit, do 0:09:58.160 --> 0:09:59.560 you know what I mean. I don't know how else 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:03.400 to put it, but you are kind of exhausted by 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.840 that at a certain point. And like for me, and 0:10:06.040 --> 0:10:07.840 this is probably really bad that I'm gonna say this, 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:09.560 but I'm gonna say it anyway. I got to a 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:12.920 place in life where I thought, you know what, I'm 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:16.760 just gonna raise some children because I'm dire of putting 0:10:16.760 --> 0:10:18.600 all the energy and the men, because the men are 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.400 just gonna go, and then what are you left with? 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:25.960 Like nothing, I'm just gonna raise some actual children. Like 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:29.040 That's where I got to. I don't know, So I 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:31.800 just relate to all of it, you know what I mean. Yeah, 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:36.120 it's hard. It's hard. It's hard to it's hard to navigate, 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:38.960 you know. And so let's talk about Stephen Miranda because 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:42.920 this is a perfect feed into that Ki man. I mean, like, 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:45.760 I love Steve. As I've said a few times now, 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:49.800 I really had no idea how incredible Steve Eigenberg. I'm sorry, 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:51.800 David Eigenmercy. Now I have them and this is the 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:55.320 same person David Eigenberg was because at the time I 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:58.760 was never around them, really and I kind of felt, 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:02.160 so I'm lot of like a frustration that I think 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:06.280 Miranda felt like I often took on the whatever the 0:11:06.360 --> 0:11:10.079 characters were feeling, vibe or whatever as my own personal self, 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:12.439 so like I was like, oh God, she's still with him, 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:14.760 you know. I don't know, I don't know if I 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:17.600 really thought that thought, but I did think like, wow, 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.160 they're really they've got a lot of Steve in here. 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:21.960 But when I watch him back, he's just so so 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:24.599 incredibly good, Like even in hard scenes, like they're in 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:26.720 a restaurant they're eating. I think this is when you 0:11:26.760 --> 0:11:28.840 first see them in the in the show, right, Yes, 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:30.679 they're eating and there's a baby there at the table 0:11:30.720 --> 0:11:34.560 next to him. Miranda is like, you know, yeah, this 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:38.720 is what they invited babysitters for. You know. She really 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:41.480 makes me laugh, I tell you. And Steve's like, oh no, 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.960 he's so cute, you know, and he's like all kooy 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.080 and whatever. And then he spills soup down his shirt 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.080 and she's like, you're a mess, and I'm like, this 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:54.520 is just so good because he really is so believable, 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.200 you know what I'm saying, Like he's so open and 0:11:57.280 --> 0:12:00.520 honest and adorable. But then just one second later, he 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:03.440 goes too far and he's annoying, you know what I'm saying, 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:04.440 like he's a kid, you know. 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:06.720 Definitely at the same. 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:08.680 Time that he's saying we should have a baby, and 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:11.520 she's like, oh, you're you're insane. And then she's like, 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:13.840 oh god, you're not, You're you actually mean it. And 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:18.600 I'm like, oh, Miranda, Miranda, things are coming, things are coming. 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:23.080 But I think it's I just really I feel for 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:26.839 him because I feel like there are times in your 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:29.120 life where you're just like, I want, I want to 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:31.040 I want to do the next thing, and this is 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:33.000 what the next thing is. And then if the person 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:34.920 that you're with doesn't want to do that next thing, 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:38.400 it's so hard and then you have to decide am 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:40.400 I going to leave because they don't want what I want? 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:43.440 And this is pretty fundamental difference at that point. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.880 This is definitely a fundamental difference. But she's not wrong. 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:51.560 But then things things happen. But you know what, I 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:53.880 don't really remember exactly how it goes down either. I'm 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:56.880 really curious. See I remember some of it, but I 0:12:56.880 --> 0:13:09.360 don't remember all of it. So we see them at 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:11.520 the soup At the soup but that they're they're sitting 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:15.040 having like like oodun or something. Yes, and she's like 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:20.040 the baby and he's like it's adorable. And then she's all, 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:22.400 you know, mad, and and and then she gets at 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:25.040 wait wait, wait does she she thinks it's crazy. Of course, 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:26.920 they've only been living together two months, which is also 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:29.360 really funny because it seems like it's I don't know, 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:33.080 it seems like a while. It does in our showtime lace, right. 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:34.760 But only two months not long. 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:38.439 It's not long at all. Slow yourself down, man, I mean, 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.480 but he is so interesting because I kind of get 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.520 his point right, Like he's just kind of like a 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:46.080 go with the flow, like let's make it work, you know, 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:50.400 I don't know, I get it. So then she's working 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:53.480 and Steve is watching Scooby Doo. And the really funny 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:56.000 part is I'm like, he is so annoying, and then 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:57.440 she walks up and he's like, no, it's a really 0:13:57.480 --> 0:14:00.920 good one where the ghost I'm like, I remember that one. 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:05.520 So now I gotta point this out, Kelly. The Steve says, 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:07.520 this is the one where they found the ghosts and 0:14:07.559 --> 0:14:10.000 the salt mine. No, it is not Steve what he 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:13.240 is watching The episode is called the I wrote this 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:17.959 down the Jeeper Jeepers. It's the Creeper, which is about 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:22.200 it's a it takes place in a bank. There's no ghosts. 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:23.440 We messed up. 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:23.920 See. 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:26.040 This is the kind of thing that the Instagram would 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:28.400 be all all in a for about if we made 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:29.560 this in twenty twenty five. 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:32.240 So I brought this up. I'm a big scowy do fan. 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:33.560 My wife and I watching this show. 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:38.560 This is so perfect. Is rewatching with me right now? 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:41.400 And your wife? Watch it together? Yes? 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:44.720 Yes, watch this together, having a great time. I pause 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.440 it and I'm like, I don't think this is the 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:49.600 right episode. I look it up. My suspicions are confirmed, 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:53.840 and Alison says, I think that was intentional. I don't 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:57.400 think Steve is trying to say, oh, no, I'm watching. 0:14:57.760 --> 0:14:59.680 He wasn't gonna say IM was watching this specific episode. 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:02.560 He was goofing around saying, oh, I'm watching someone with 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:05.040 the ghost, because that's kind of like a generic Scooby. 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:05.920 Doo oh I did. 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:09.400 He's a ghost of AsSalt mine and like Jesus kind 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:11.840 of being like I'm watching cartoons, you know, much like 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.320 a baby Wood, which we will hopefully have in the 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:15.160 house soon. 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:18.640 So she gave him the credit that he's kind of 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:24.840 intentionally doing this. Yes, you're thinking, Allison. 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:26.920 They just pulled a random Scooby Doo episode and didn't check. 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:30.560 So, I mean, I think that might have happened. I 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:32.800 love that she's giving us more credit than that. I 0:15:32.840 --> 0:15:35.520 don't know for sure because I never noticed that because 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:37.960 the only Scooby Doo that I really remember is the ghost. 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:38.440 Yeah. 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:42.720 JURY mean, but that's really interesting. I mean, it does. 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:46.080 It does make you wonder because he does seem the 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:49.120 thing about Steve, you know, there's like a kind of 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:52.560 a passive aggressive way that he gets what he wants, right, 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:55.200 which is the annoying part, like what is about to happen, 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:58.800 which I still just can't even believe. Right, But I mean, 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:02.200 obviously I support what he wants because I want dogs always, 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:04.600 but like the way that he gets this dog. Oh 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:06.400 my god, I didn't remember this, and every time I 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:08.320 watch it, I've not watched it twice, and I'm just like, 0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:13.920 this is bad. Miranda. So they have the fight about 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:17.560 Scooby Doo, and then Miranda's at work the next day 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:19.560 and she is definitely mean Mommy, Oh no, wait is 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:23.120 she a workers she walking with Carrie. Oh yeah, no, no, 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:25.480 she hasn't watch when she walks with Carrie. It is 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:28.240 the cutest thing in the world. Carrie's got that massive 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:30.800 flower on. We're in the full on flower era, yes, 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:33.000 and they are hooked and hooked arms and they're walking 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:34.760 on the street and those are real people. Like it's 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:37.560 a real person version of the walking down the street. 0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:38.160 It's so good. 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:40.280 So I loved I watched that scene twice. 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:41.920 I love it. It's really good. And the two of 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:44.160 them walking and talking at anytime is great. 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:44.800 Yeah. 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:46.840 No, she tells Carrie that they're not in a good place, 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:49.920 but she seems kind of okay about it in this scene, right, 0:16:49.960 --> 0:16:51.840 like she's like, you know, and he's so crazy that 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:53.640 he thinks a baby's going to fix it. And she 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:55.960 says Carrie says like, well, where are you too? You know, 0:16:56.000 --> 0:16:58.280 like Carrie's just being funny, like make he wear jokes 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:00.280 and stuff. And then Miranda says, you know, I am 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.440 getting older and I only have like a thousand eggs left, 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:04.600 and Carrie's like, yes, we just killed three hundred of 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:06.360 them with the drinks we just had or whatever. It's 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:09.680 all very interesting. I'm like, Okay, guys, we're joking about this. 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:12.000 This is super fascinating. But I guess we're going to 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:14.160 just joke about this for like a couple more seasons. 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:18.160 I think, like it's interesting. I was kind of unaware 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:21.720 in a way. You know, it's interesting. It's interesting, But 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:24.680 I mean, I know there's storyline that I remember coming 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:26.800 up with Miranda because of her one Ovary and me 0:17:27.000 --> 0:17:29.200 and Bah. There's going to be a lot more coming. 0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:32.080 But I find it so interesting how they lay the seeds, 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:36.639 like they're very smart about it. I like it. So 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:38.879 they walk and talk, it's adorable. Sir Jessca has a 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:43.600 massive fluorescent fusial flower. It's really cute. Then Miranda's at work, 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:46.040 she's literally in the meeting of like the middle of 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:48.359 like writing a brief. Steve calls her and it's like 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:51.040 meet me at seventy eighth or fifty eighth and seventh 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:54.840 or whatever. I mean, honestly, like who calls someone at 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:57.439 a job and says that, Like that's so crazy, but whatever, 0:17:57.520 --> 0:18:00.920 she does it. I'm like, Miranda deserves craw it. Well, 0:18:00.920 --> 0:18:03.199 where are they there? At a pet store? And he's like, 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:08.360 can we please have a puppy. He's like so crazy, 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:10.480 and she's like, who's going to take care of it? 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:14.000 I mean it is literally apparent to child conversation, but 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:16.560 it's still a cute puppy. And he goes it's like 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:19.160 a starter, you know, to see if we can do it, 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:22.120 and he's like, it'll make everything better, and I mean 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:24.800 she's like, you know, she knows in her gut that 0:18:24.880 --> 0:18:27.280 this is not a good idea, but she does it. 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:31.320 And you know what do we see next the middle 0:18:31.320 --> 0:18:33.720 of the night and that puppy's crying and Miranda says, no, 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:36.959 what she is obviously not a dog person. Steve like, 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:40.879 it's also that kind of thing where you're like, obviously 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:43.520 we're watching and they're in it, but like, can't he 0:18:43.760 --> 0:18:48.000 see that she's not this right? It's interesting. 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:53.879 Yeah, it's a I understand his thinking of like let's 0:18:54.680 --> 0:18:57.000 let's ease ourselves into the baby pool with the dog, 0:18:57.040 --> 0:18:58.480 but like, but she's. 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:01.480 She's not a zero interest. She's like not even like 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:04.639 it's like a tiny She's not like maybe later, you know, 0:19:04.720 --> 0:19:09.160 she's like no, so he's like a dog a puppy 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:12.120 and you know, oh yeah, yeah, but then that meat 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:14.399 makes her in the middle of the night. Oh what 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:16.880 I really love. So she bends over and she tries 0:19:16.920 --> 0:19:18.680 to give the puppy this like old fashioned alarm clock. 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:21.240 She's obviously still clueless about dogs, right, and then and 0:19:21.280 --> 0:19:24.480 then she turns and she takes both hands and shakes himself. 0:19:24.480 --> 0:19:29.959 Are it really made me laugh? I think it's like 0:19:30.119 --> 0:19:34.560 you feel you feel her frustration watching it. And he 0:19:34.600 --> 0:19:38.960 gets up and he's like, what you know, Yeah, since 0:19:39.000 --> 0:19:40.879 we know David's not coming on, I can do my 0:19:41.000 --> 0:19:47.720 bad avitation. So then she basically just gets up and 0:19:47.760 --> 0:19:49.720 breaks up with him in the middle of the night. 0:19:49.800 --> 0:19:51.520 And I felt really bad for him. But I felt 0:19:51.520 --> 0:19:55.440 really bad for him because she is obviously really sad 0:19:55.440 --> 0:19:57.800